"Cooking With Kya" Is The Most Hated Woman Online Right Now

“Cooking with Kya” is a new cooking show by a woman named Kya who dresses and dances provocatively while cooking meals and threatening to “steal your man.” It’s going massively viral on TikTok, with men drooling and women calling her a pick me. Let’s talk about it.
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[@Zorak9595]

"The people you claim to hate will be paying their bills with your anger" That is such a great line. I absolutely love it.

[@yvonnepalmquist8676]

This has always been a thing. In my younger days it was called, "laughing all the way to the bank."

[@AndrewAce.]

How can I start an anger farm? Does Monsanto carry anger seeds? Can I buy them?

[@forsythejones2130]

"Hayturz make me famouzz!". Girl-brains think this because it's false.

[@AhlaamOmar-u3w]

Reminds me of KSI music video it got so hated it reached one of the 10 top music hits this year😂

[@CanalTremocos]

This was Friedrich Nietzsche's business model and 200 years later, every philosopher and every edgelord still quote him.

[@TryinBin8889]

I've never heard of cooking with Kya because I don't have TikTok, so the one thing I learned from this video is that I'm so blessed to not use that app because then I don't have to see such dumb and pointless drama like this. It's not that deep. She dances, cooks, makes inflammatory remarks. Some people really are just too chronically online if they take any of this to heart. EDIT: Like genuinely to all you people out there with TikTok. I'm a 22 girl/woman and have never been more at peace. Deal with what's in reality, you have no idea how much the rage baiting online impacts your mentality and ability to deal with things you dislike

[@Hippie_Chick_11]

Me too! I hope we can just get rid of that Chinese garbage (Tik-Tok) I don't have it, don't miss it, and am thankful I don't. Can't believe I even sat down to write this comment

[@ckosturik]

Nailed it! Isn't lack of social media such a great thing? I know I absolutely love it👍

[@mariacadavidgaviria2066]

so true!

[@mightyshield1444]

Same. All I have is KZbin.

[@crosales8184]

My 13 year old daughter was telling me about her but I haven't seen her content.

[@aerjatheancient3602]

She aint tryin take yo man... she TAKIN YO MONEY!!! 👑

[@leonelveliz9076]

Makes sense why they’d get mad

[@Kizzy-pu4he]

ABSOLUTELY! And she isn't naked or with her legs open. So she looks sexy and men watch her and their mouths water over her and the food. Ladies (even you more portly ones) can do something that will turn on your man. Physical appearance is one thing, but love and respect go a long way to warming a man's heart.

[@beatnik6806]

And we are insecure? 😂

[@kevinrod14]

Her phrase is catchy af!

[@molal68]

Exactly. She's literally adopted this persona as a way to earn money and build a following. Quite frankly, the food looks bloody good. As to the 'provocative' clothing...take it for what it is: a way to build her brand. You can see way more on a beach in several European countries. The girl is working, hopefully earning a decent wage. And some points of 'feminism' seem to have been lost. One facet was a woman's choice; and that includes being traditional, boss or whatever. It's an individuals decision. No one else's.

[@Shimeih]

Oh but OF girls making $43 million a year is ok?😂😂😂

[@seanwilson8168]

💯

[@horizonika]

Any hustle is "ok" especially since its "legal". Is it morally ok? Idk what is even morally ok anymore in this era lol

[@LittleDarling-qw4gc]

@@horizonikatruth.

[@TheProtagonist37]

It's okay until men are happy, then suddenly it's wrong

[@Axralliiq]

Men are the one who pays for it and they’re also the ones who judges?

[@sky7004]

She's only doing the 'stay at home' version of Hooters.. 🤣🤣

[@divineanddifferent]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@erinobrien8793]

😅😅😅

[@Caareenkm6726]

Weak men fall for it all the time .

[@Kopi-Bryant]

True that’s what most female tiktokers do anyways😂😂😂

[@ARSC24]

Bruh... lol

[@KDan-x1l]

If a man is so easy to take, let him go ladies! Kya isnt your problem!😂

[@koolsmoothfan]

ikr, lol, why stress over someone who does not respect you sad

[@KDan-x1l]

@@koolsmoothfanKya is a troll!😂 The only thing I notice is women can’t hold the proper person accountable and the men are contradicting the statement of “wanting modest women and not one shaking her butt online” yet will drool over Kya who is shaking her butt!!! 😂

[@thatweirdonextdoor8969]

Well said! I dumped a cheater real quick! I don't play that game!!

[@WeWokeTheGiants]

Yeah, but what does that say about the woman if her man is so easily taken by someone else? If someone rather be with someone else, instead of you. Then you're the problem. Step up your game.

[@KDan-x1l]

@@thatweirdonextdoor8969you’ll never catch me fighting for a man that don’t want to kept 😂

[@raebeesknees]

One of my students sang this. When I looked at him he explained how she was a motivational speaker who gives speeches while she cooks and I should look her up. Dead face and believable!!!! I fell for it 😂

[@milliegoins]

Where's the lie?

[@Caareenkm6726]

@@milliegoins🙄

[@Osprey850]

I'm shocked that this student of yours is a "he"... shocked! 🤣

[@BryceShamwow]

You should look up Matt Foley, motivational speaker, for more laughs!

[@StillAwesome21]

​@@Caareenkm6726 Have some humor 😅

[@animariecrossing2699]

That is exactly true, I had no idea who she was until she started trending on my timeline (facebook) so I went to tiktok to see why she was getting so much hate. I honestly fell in love with her! She has such great energy, her jingle is very catchy and cute, and I think she's smart asf building a mostly male audience by simply cooking and dancing. That's kinda genius. I'm rooting for her, and come on now she don't want your man! lol

[@AFreeThinkingDawg09]

She’s only doing what women were doing for centuries to attract a suitable mate that would provide for their soon to be family. How this gets viewed as wrong says a lot about today’s society and the women we have today. We can only deny nature for so long before things go really bad. We are at the beginning phases of this now

[@kayla0321]

how is she gonna steal everyone’s man? lol people act crazy. obviously she’s kidding 😂

[@dehjhunaeday5743]

They just wanna fight

[@macbaeboi]

@@dehjhunaeday5743 they wanna fight cuz they jealous and insecure

[@AP-ji8qu]

Dude there's nothing to be jealous of🤣🤣 be fr ​@@macbaeboi

[@Prynne-iu1uv]

It's a tasteless ghetto sense of humor

[@Prynne-iu1uv]

​@macbaeboi nobody is jealous of the street personality

[@dfw6558]

They hate on you if you’re a trad wife, a pretty woman, or just existing You can’t win 🙁

[@Aloysius_OHare]

Being a woman is hard. Men won’t understand what that means, which is okay because they have their own worries.

[@lucylee4366]

Exactly and Kya wasn't even forcing that narrative on anybody, she was just simply saying if you know you got a husband who's going to be busting their ass off Cooking him and yourself some food to eat at the dinner table and just chill out at the end of the day is not a bad thing at all It's not masculine or feminine...It's a skill that everybody needs it's our fault for making it a thing. But even if we wasn't...There's worse things out there😂

[@lucylee4366]

He works to pay the bills, and you clean and cook...It's a balance, you want to hear another crazy part. sometimes it can even be switched up😱😱😱

[@scrapbabys]

LITERALLY.

[@gabrielegagliardi3956]

My grandma was a tradwife, she raised 4 children but didn't twerked weariing a bra on camera. The tradwife trend is a conservative wet drream of something that never happened in reality. Tradwife were very modest and family oriented women, no time to heavy makeup, no time to cook 8 hours per day and other bs. It was a very reclusive lifestyle where family was the focal point of existence, not being watched by cubical carls and mr. Bug sandwich on the internet.

[@TanJiro-st6lm]

Dude. I really love the way you articulate yourself. Open minded, sees it from more than one angles, shows facts. And many more. Shows a variety of topics. Haha you speak on your opinion too.

[@AeridisArt]

"I couldn't care less what she wears or what she looks like. It all depends on what she cooks like." - Chien-Po, Disney's Mulan (1998)

[@lisal2556]

🤣

[@aprilb1273]

Lol love that movie ❤

[@YellowLittleDucky]

Beef!! Pork! Chicken! Mmm!😋

[@Aloysius_OHare]

Women: “Uh, how 'bout a girl who's got a brain. Who always speaks her mind?” Weak women: “NAH”

[@madgirl617]

My favorite Disney movie😍😌

[@str1pped.gh0st]

8:10 honestly I agree with this to a degree. The first time my girlfriend ever made me lunch for work, I stopped before eating and realized “She actually made me food even though she didn’t have to.” That means so much to me that the gesture was even done

[@debra2700]

My husband came home to dinner on the table for forty years and when I couldn't cook because I got cancer and went through grueling treatments, he took over all the chores including cooking. We've been married fifty years this year.

[@str1pped.gh0st]

@ aww that’s so sweet 🥹. Congrats to both of you

[@yamitekudaSTOPplease]

All three of you are sweet for appreciating each other ❤️

[@HH-xj8nh]

@@debra2700❤🙏

[@ToastaKlay11]

I appreciate you for acknowledging their appreciation

[@michaellazor5667]

She just found a gimmick and people are eating it up.

[@georgecameron4754]

Eating it up. I see what you did there. 😂

[@KBeth35]

Women are hating but they should take notes. Maybe not the twerking but even that is kinda funny. She has lots of confidence and I love that!!

[@Caareenkm6726]

@@KBeth35many women are not hating.. many love her.. just men are so dumb they fall for it!

[@thomasmacon7782]

😊

[@thespadestable]

But they are not eating her cooking. If a person has lived long enough, they've eaten a person's cooking that looked nice, but had their stomachs tore up for days.

[@devindbass6711]

Awesome show, thank you! Such intelligent commentary. I really appreciate you.

[@docsavage7969]

So to be clear...she made a list of what guys want and created content to it. Home cooked food, desirable of woman, hot girl outfits to attract a man

[@KDan-x1l]

@@docsavage7969 and shaking butt online…..?

[@PeterCottontail-ys5qy]

Right! I’m a female and I ain’t mad at her..we all gotta eat

[@docsavage7969]

If I was in good shape, I could make a hot guy cleaning house video

[@DC-gh6dy]

Yep. She's did her homework. Men thinking she's "traditional" because she cooks is incredibly stupid though lol

[@S_W1]

She’s getting shamed as a “pick me” because she’s willing to listen and give a man what he wants??? These women out here is ass backwards man…

[@angeldesigns1385]

Well she’s definitely not part of the 4B movement 😂

[@dnbsoldier7259]

More like the 34C movement 😆

[@Nicky-s3u]

😂😂😂

[@cassieinspire3940]

@@dnbsoldier7259 🤣🤣

[@user-wi6cz4hh5b]

No need to shave her hair!

[@lilBowlAsoup]

@@dnbsoldier725934C bahaha😂

[@BigMikeRuinedBrokebackBarack]

So theyre mad at a girl for cooking and dressing provocatively because men like it, but these are also the same ones defending Onlyfans🎯😂got it. Really logical🤡

[@angeldesigns1385]

You’re hitting the nail on the head. I’d say another issue they have, is that she is genuine and doing something completely different. This is actually pretty brilliant.

[@Someone-kg8qf]

Confused hypocrites.

[@KDan-x1l]

@@Someone-kg8qf it’s also hypocritical how these men have energy for these OF girls but praise Kya who is literally shaking butt. She just can cook…..

[@DC-gh6dy]

​@@angeldesigns1385doing something different? Now ratchet behavior is good because it comes with a recipe 😂

[@MeganLanahm]

hit that spot on love .. lol

[@thelastime51]

Thanks a lot! Now I got that "Cooking with Kai-e-yah" jingle stuck in my damn head!

[@joelwillems4081]

She has more syllables in pronouncing her name than letters.

[@brandywood1054]

I'm going to be roasting my turkey to that jingle.😂

[@amandamartin7020]

We’re all goin be singing cooking with Kai yah all night. It got stuck in my head while I was cooking the other day and my husband starting laughing when I asked him if he knew who it was.

[@Chahta09]

Got me bouncing on my way to the kitchen 😂

[@SansoHumar]

I was told once you can pronounce your name anyway you like in America. So ill accept it.

[@YaelOrel]

My man is an awesome cook and I love the little gestures when he plates the food beautifully. I can't cook to save my life, but he gets other gestures from me (25 years of marriage to prove you don't need to cook to keep your relationships).

[@mayacormier5644]

the only thing that bothers me about her is the fact that she's touching her seasonings with a raw chicken hand...

[@BlurMoore-f3q]

😂😂😂

[@ang3432]

Yessss!!! What's the purpose of the gloves if you're going to touch everything with them after touching raw chicken

[@meady50]

so glad someone else noticed. she cookin with 🎶 _Sal_ _mon_ _el_ _la_ 🎶

[@jesssss352]

Maybe she washed them ??

[@instrinsiclove]

What is in this woman’s shirt?!?! 10:24

[@mariahgina1224]

I'm not mad at her. The clothes and dancing is too much but the rest is fine. It's clearly a joke "going to steal your man" she doesn't know your man. Relax.

[@hopegrowstoday]

Cute clothes and dancing are all part of the magic. That’s how you know the food is good.

[@romello4913]

💯💯💯💯

[@MonsterTaming420]

I have heard some men actually try to make their girls to dance for them when they're cooking, definitely not good men so the girls are fine without them, but holy shit if my love told me I need dance after spending so much time over a hot stove I would be so pissed 😂 I'm so lucky he is always super grateful

[@Caareenkm6726]

No one can steal anyone.. unless they just walk out because they want to.

[@grizzlygrizzle]

@@MonsterTaming420 -- What you said links to what the tattooed guy was saying about not caring if it's just microwaved food-- It's the gesture. A caring gesture. Men work hard for their earnings, and they share them with their women, yet a lot of women today take it for granted that they are entitled to taking whatever they can get from a guy, without being giving themselves.

[@frostpeterson724]

Martha Stewart needs to up her game 😂

[@ashleyschwartz9550]

🎶🎶Cookin with Martha cookin with Martha🎶🎶

[@Onlythenarrowroad]

Martha already got Snoop.

[@tinab6295]

Watch Martha have her on her show.

[@Mirror_of_the_Soul00]

Martha was in bed with snoop. Kya is way behind

[@S_W1]

@@Onlythenarrowroadman, pin this comment.

[@WaaDoku]

If girls dancing in skimpy outfits means they are a pick me then 99% of girls using TikTok are pick me girls.

[@sapphirie]

BuT tHoSe LaDiEs dO iT fOr EmPoWeRmEnT. So It'S dIfFeReNt! Please insert SpongeBob meme here... I'm being sarcastic if that needs to be said. 😂

[@ocheonuh6788]

Let's be honest, most outfits in modern day are kinda "pick me".... Or at the very least "notice me".

[@sincityinfinity6255]

Instagram too

[@WaaDoku]

@@ocheonuh6788 That's not true. You can choose what you wear, you don't have to imitate some US celebrity who wears no bras, extremely tight fitting clothes or sheer everything. Fashion should always be about self expression and not about going along with what everyone else or some famous person is doing. That's my opinion at least.

[@ocheonuh6788]

@@WaaDoku I'm not sure where the argument is here. You and I are asserting 2 different things that are both true

[@princessarah4220]

What has become of our generation, I remember back in the day people just cooked.

[@KDan-x1l]

@@princessarah4220 the problem is women who will not hold their man accountable! They want to get at this other girl who literally is trolling them 😂

[@darealliljable]

Elitism

[@Reezy12333]

@@KDan-x1lwhat tf does a man need to be accountable for?

[@ggangpae4520]

​@@KDan-x1laccountability goes both ways

[@opheliadays5803]

This part…your comment is legit goated and I was looking for it. Like haven’t yall ever lived alone on a small check before? Trust me you’ll learn to cook lol

[@EstherBizhanov]

If a wig and baked potato can steal your man he was never yours🤭 I’m dead at these replies 💀got me thinking a wig and a baked potato could possibly rule the world🤭🩷thanks everybody

[@kaitydenisee]

You sound mad to. I seen a lot more food then a baked potato 🤣 she's still a lot prettier then your profile pic

[@kanyinojo83]

A wig and baked potato! 😭😭😭

[@suzannesorrell1305]

girl...wig and baked potato...im freaking screaminnnngggg 😂

[@JazzyFro]

A wig and a baked potato 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@rdrpro69]

Umm did u see that steak tho? I told my girl gtfo

[@JamesTerry.]

I started laughing when Amala was singing "cooking with Kya!" 😅

[@JohnDoe-kg6gy]

She's envious... I bet Amala doesn't know how to cook and the other girl is prettier than her.

[@jessicasnider5541]

Tbh, I have it stuck in my head now lol

[@JamesTerry.]

@jessicasnider5541 It definitely is catchy lol

[@jessicasnider5541]

@JamesTerry. especially when amala says is lol

[@JohnathanAnderson-z7e]

I started singing it too and my girlfriend literally woke up from her sleep and tried to hit me ...I dodged her and kept singing it and I'm probably making it my ringtone

[@inmylife2002]

I love that you posted this and can laugh about it.

[@Kat-vz4in]

I hate that when you like doing "trad wife" stuff, the "feminists" get so mad that youre doing it. I went to culinary school with the idea that it would be a career. I figured out that i liked cooking for my friends and family but not as a job, so i switched to engineering. Its so funny when people say that im "setting women back" by caring for my man and taking care of the house and i then tell them that im an engineer...the awkward stutters as they realize that being empowered doesnt mean i cant be a caring partner or like home-making. Funny how women arent a monolith like the girl-bosses would have you believe.

[@redlover5088]

Ahhh! Love it!!!

[@Rivracost3]

dancing in your underwear on the internet isn't really trad wife stuff though

[@kani9284]

the issue with trad wifery is not being the homemaker and cooking and taking care of kids while the man works outside, it's solely the fact that many of these women have absolutely nothing once the man leaves them. That is the issue.

[@WokelandDefector]

@@kani9284If you choose your man wisely - one who respects you and treats you well - and you respect him and treat him well, you don’t need to worry about him leaving you.

[@amyah9932]

That’s not traditional, that’s love!

[@SquidRaven]

"not the islamic endorsement" had me ROLLING 😂😂😂

[@Papa_Smurf_711]

I was on my neck!! 😂😂😂

[@ahlamalhussani6365]

did she throw a shade? I didn't get it.

[@Papa_Smurf_711]

@ she was saying that they endorse Kya, that’s all. No shade at all.

[@SquidRaven]

@@Papa_Smurf_711 I don't know what that style of humor is called. The gen Z sarcasm, absolutely hilarious to me. My daughter does it all the time and it's embarrassing how much I laugh 😂

[@Papa_Smurf_711]

@@SquidRaven my daughter does the same thing! The child is a comedy genius. 🤣

[@luwildy]

That dude is so right! The dude who said it’s the gesture not the food itself. It’s not male validation, it’s being willing to be someone’s partner! I’m a terrible cook but I work park time and my husband works full time so I do it!! He works overtime every single week he built us a great life from nothing. So I make him meals. Sometimes they’re terrible but he doesn’t care he cares that we as team get shit done and that I do my part so he knows he worked overtime for someone who would work hard for him. I’m terrible at cleaning too but even if the house has fallen to complete chaos he knows I’ll take care of it and I don’t bother him about it. Everyone’s team looks different but you both have to do your share.

[@BlurMoore-f3q]

👍 damn no cap you right

[@heatherperry475]

That's exactly right..

[@kenik2023]

That my dear is called "Successful" You are a blessing to each othet❤

[@fluffybaroqueomnimedia4485]

Now YOU are hashtag relationship goals 😅.

[@KBeth35]

Yall are couple goals for real ppl. Wishing y'all nothing but success!

[@ShariffTucker]

When you busted out laughing at 10:48, I died laughing 😂

[@endahg8157]

She doesn't steal anyone's man. Remember, it takes two to tango. Even if their men are attracted to Kya, it doesn't mean Kya wants them.

[@jmase19]

Obviously. I think you’re missing the point. She’s stealing their hearts n dreams and that’s good enough

[@ViolosD2I]

Also she obviously can't do it personally. But she is a symbol for every woman who COULD steal your man by being nice to him, if you are the kind of woman who just treats him like he is lucky to be there.

[@boogermaiden]

True! And if he can be stolen, then he's a problem

[@7ai932]

@@boogermaiden😂😂😂😂 sorry soy boy don’t simp in the comments 😂😂😂 she doesn’t want to take any man lol Man up bro we like the energy Kya gives hope your wife does the same thing.

[@Goldenskies__]

100% right

[@lordzeroilp4582]

From this video alone, Kya clearly knows everything that shes doing. And i find it funny the same crowd of women athst attack her are the same exact kind that would also defend girls doing OnlyFans. 😂 The people hating on this woman sound incredibly depressed.

[@jamesrobertson7100]

AbsoDAMNlutely!! She can do without the twerking, though!!

[@strawberryynoodlesauce]

This is so true. OF girls are also doing gross things way worse than Kya for “men’s fantasy” lmao

[@mrx.megamind]

‼️‼️

[@CanDeeMarie]

I'm traditional but she's not so it's the same thing only she's doing a bit less so hypocrite yes but so are males pretending this is attractive 😂

[@JellyPickle679]

i personally dont like either, appealing to the male fantasy is great because men like it, but then no individual dude is going to want you in the future, and after youve sexualized yourslf on the internet youre not gonna have so much luck finding work either

[@MisterMikeTexas]

A partner who can be stoled is not a partner you need. Food for thought.

[@Aloysius_OHare]

Stolen* 😊

[@BryceShamwow]

And the food she cooks is food for eating.

[@aquabot]

A partner that can be stolen might be a partner you didn't take enough care of.

[@idfkidc]

Kya cooked up that plate

[@SunshinePaige]

Stolen*

[@Okran3301]

You’re so unbiased, I love it just straight facts👍great video

[@renee1253]

She's cute and cooks some fantastic looking food. Good for her!

[@travelmom3031]

My thoughts as well! Such a cutie and she is having fun cooking good meals!

[@meatoszeto2732]

Cooking with Kya isn't commiting any serious wrongdoing.

[@morrigankasa570]

Those meals use too much salt & seasoning!

[@daisybun..]

@@morrigankasa570some people don’t like bland food

[@morrigankasa570]

@daisybun.. There is a big difference between "Bland" & "Over-Seasoned", these meals are in the "Over-Seasoned" group. I do a lot of home-cooking & baking. You want to taste the actual food item, complemented or enhanced by the seasoning.

[@mynameisray]

Cooking with Kya..... Shits gonna be stuck in my head all night.. Thanks Amala....

[@sjm9876]

lol right same here

[@DreSttarr-yi7lz]

Better name than amala Hate ing with amala Hate ing with amala 🎶

[@vrowed7422]

​@@DreSttarr-yi7lzamala wasn't hating tho

[@AmadeAmaya]

I wonder how feminists would explain the difference between OF girls being supported and Kya not.

[@christal4117]

what does that even mean? Should women flaunt over ANY women just because of her gender? Feminism is about equal rights and opportunities, and I don't see anyone trying to take rights from Kya.... love how whatever happens, some manosphere tween will randomly say "feminism" lmfao

[@alkahinat4558]

@@AmadeAmaya do you see women on OF demeaning other women for male attention? Let me know.

[@AP-ji8qu]

I wonder how men would explain their yapping about of and insta models and 304s all these years but now support a 304.

[@AP-ji8qu]

I wonder how dudes would explain supporting kya but not of girls.

[@saymyname2417]

​@@AP-ji8qu- OF girls don't promise to cook for them... 😂

[@Roan.bot.]

As if men didn’t already watch cooking shows. Gordon Ramsay is hilarious.

[@Peacekeepa317]

Chopped is the shiznit

[@azuropixie5703]

Uncle Roger too

[@StillAwesome21]

"THAT'S WHY IT'S NONSTICK"

[@bigman9731]

I love Gordon Ramsey but Uncle Roger isn’t remotely funny his demographic is 6 year olds

[@azuropixie5703]

@bigman9731 bet you're not a fan of the big bang theory either

[@daisyspiritfashion]

I love how you think ;) its nice to hear someone with no jealousy in their voice.

[@CamirrasKitchen]

When i first saw cooking with Kya videos I couldn't understand why it was so controversal lol. women wear revealing clothing online all the time and she is pairing it with cooking. the steal your man comment is clearly a joke. ppl so sensitive these days. I made a short with a joke about how the recipe was gonna make other women think you can steal you man and the women got so pissed lol. I was shocked like yall really triggered by this lil joke? I should have leaned into it and did more

[@gello010]

yeah i agree with all of this. even if shes wearing “revealing outfits” and stuff, at least her food actually look good

[@manor-studios]

😂 idk why the shock, women get triggered easy AF. I stay away

[@dylanchua3579]

right it’s giving insecure like why r u so mad over a girl being giddy online it’s not that deep 😭 this generation is so depressing man

[@bishop7534]

She's taking all the views away from them with her cooking. But deep down, they man bc she's have 2 things men want, looking good and cooking good food.

[@Cyrax915Tx]

Great description, love your tone and voice.

[@markaym3735]

Shes adorable... people are so weird and miserable. She knoes exactly what shes doing.

[@GabrielGoods]

She’s annoying.. the few seconds of hearing her is annoying..

[@jahnj2523]

She mid bruh tf

[@LouieOcean.]

@@jahnj2523if she’s mid I’d love to see how your girlfriend looks

[@jahnj2523]

@@LouieOcean. My girl woodnt even look ur way bruh tf goofy

[@LouieOcean.]

@@jahnj2523 you probably don’t even have one you goofy

[@jdachamp365]

I stand with Kya “GET IN THAT KITCHEN” 😂😂😂

[@brandonf6174]

The milkshakes do, in fact, bring the boys to the yard

[@MrSaeedted]

Do you guys think she would be getting heat if she was doing this exact thing on OF?

[@ab-gail]

Nope!

[@Someone-kg8qf]

Absolutely not.

[@KBeth35]

Definitely not. I was thinking about that too!

[@Wrdz288]

Y not?? Cooking naked or in ur bra n panties or lingerie or w.e other style u can thk of don't change the fact that ur still exploiting the platform w sexual material it wasn't technically meant 4 🤷🏽🤷🏽

[@mollygrace3068]

Not from the women, but the men would suddenly hate her.

[@dianef108]

I recently subscribed to your channel. You are funny and very well spoken! And, may I say, you are a beautiful young LADY!! I enjoy your content!

[@Sobergirl_]

REAL women aren’t going to be threatened by her at all. Real women already know how to cook and fill their man. Feminists might hate on her.

[@magnificenthonky]

Yes, indeed.

[@redlover5088]

Well said.

[@yasmin24-u2p]

Exactly, my thoughts 💭. I know how to throw it down in the kitchen, so it didn’t offend me at all.

[@jdachamp365]

❤

[@Tusk_Tact]

So the majority, got it

[@BiggBoned]

I love this. She found a niche, and she's making things happen. The food looks good, too. Also, it's good advice for anyone to learn how to cook, so I appreciate that she's encouraging that.

[@PrettyGirlDiscernment]

Excatly! They didn't have a problem with city girls and don't cook don't clean cardiB tho

[@rozzyw8895]

Same. I'm not about this. There are meal prep KZbin channels where the buff dude preps n cooks shirtless 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@amandamartin7020]

Her food looks amazing.

[@saymyname2417]

I find her silly and the food looks super fat. But I get why guys like both of that 😂 . I don't get why people react so harshly towards her. Maybe this is a case of sheer jealousy. Or Kya is putting the finger in a deep wound many women won't even acknowledge exists...

[@MadamElle-3773]

Right what's wrong with what she's doing

[@greeneyesdante]

I am 60 years old (with all my business heading south) and if I looked like her right now, I would sing me a little jingle too! 😉

[@infinitefluffybunny]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Cleangirlbeauty]

Shes on point the fem charm and lightheartedness def appeals to men . My hubby just told me this a few days ago

[@MadisonWestfield]

My man tells me ALL THE TIME how much he loves when I cook for him, that I make our house a home and goes crazy when i get dressed up and enhance my feminine features. It makes me so happy ❤

[@trapmuzik6708]

we like that

[@laurajomcnaughton853]

It's weird! My mum cooked for us all as kids and our house always smelled like food/baking but come on y u all need to dress up and enhance feminine features?? Ur man just being a perv. My mum just worn normal clothes lol

[@forwardmoving8252]

LOL your dude is a doormat and you're happy he lets you freeload off of him in exchange for simple love and affection. What does "make our house a home" even mean? 😂😂 Get real. You have life on easy mode.

[@mikemincey5998]

@@trapmuzik6708 U ain't lyin!

[@jokerpilled2535]

That’s all a man really wants

[@HoosierHayday]

10:51 wtf was going on under her shirt?

[@carlosperdomo9466]

Hiding her heavies

[@TheRealMeekaa]

Breastfeeding

[@lehliladevandria5712]

Baby feeding thats why it kept moving.

[@t2daBz]

Came to ask this. Thought it was a baby, but where's it's body? It looks like a ball or an octopus

[@TimelesssSpacess-jw9xf]

Yess, that ish was scaring me!! 🥴😶

[@valerierose19]

In my childhood, i had Rachel Ray. In my adulthood, we have Kiya

[@ggangpae4520]

Rachel ray don't shake her ass for views or attention

[@richardlovelace8134]

Life is good. 😊

[@kenik2023]

...and Rachel was easy on the eyes....❤

[@nexuslite]

I forgot about Rachel Ray, I use to watch that all the time.

[@LordAfrocious]

She's still hot. Haha

[@gardyjure118]

Great video and perspective. Great explanation of what cooking with Kya is. Kya is capitalizing off the feminist movement and doing the complete opposite.

[@JerodC8778]

Men don't hate cooking shows. I actually love cooking channels and cooking. She isn't cooking anything special. Women just hate any other women getting attention from men. They all act as if they love each other but anyone with clue can see they hate each other.

[@angeldesigns1385]

No doubt. I’m a guy and I’ve gotten very involved in cooking here in the last year or so.

[@TheFrostyApe]

I don't know of a single man that hates cooking shows

[@KrazyVoodoo]

@@JerodC8778 people dont like her because she makes your phone screen smell like rotten tuna lmao

[@Ilive_420]

Women and men aren't a monolith lol. Don't know why people have trouble understanding such a simple fact. There are men who hate or love cooking. And there is a difference between getting attention for simply being pretty or acting degenerate. I am lesbian and hate when women act like this, it's obnoxious. Same way f--kboys doing thirst traps on tiktok are cringe.

[@サリエリ-q5g]

@@Ilive_420 idk why some people like you don't understand that when people say men/women do X they usually don't mean ALL men/women...

[@darko6115]

Its important to note all the stuff she says about “taking your man” is intentionally for marketing as she said herself. She knew it would trigger the girls and trigger them views so she pretty smart to me 😂

[@ghostsnailll]

I think the “taking your man” part is gross and unnecessary but having fun with cooking and looking hot and feeling yourself, you do you girl!

[@Reezy12333]

@@ghostsnailllit’s reverse psychology. She’s trying to trick insecure self centered women to cook.

[@darko6115]

@@ghostsnailll thats literally the point, its ragebait to get views and clearly its worked in her favour. Don’t hate the player, hate the game

[@DavidKen878]

​@@ghostsnailllHow is that gross?

[@no.1spidey-fan182]

​@@ghostsnailll its a TAGLINE/CATCH PHRASE. Idk how you people take that LITERALLY😭

[@nannibeni3286]

This is hysterical! Someone asked my husband once why he’s still married and happy after 42 years and he said”every night when I go home there’s always something delicious for dinner “ lol ❤she’s spot on!!

[@user-oz5xb9ed3w]

he set a very low bar. yikes.

[@dareo25]

...happy man and marriage ...simple things to enjoy ...🥘 💛

[@cmclv9592]

You're proud that THIS is what he loves about you? Yikes.

[@LeekedBeats]

@@user-oz5xb9ed3w obviously that’s probably not the only thing, but most men don’t even get a hot meal when they come home regularly. Go figure.

[@LeekedBeats]

@@cmclv9592 yes because he has a wife that cares about him.

[@tonyochola7893]

Great content, and she actually says she's trying to motivate other women to cook for their men and their families. Good job Kya! ❤

[@crazysnake1096]

Amala needs to do a “reasoning with Amala!“ meme. Seriously one of the best KZbin creators out there.

[@Ilive_420]

💜💜💜

[@richardlovelace8134]

Yeah, she's great. 👍🏾

[@Athener-w5s]

Everyone at my school sings this song every five minutes 😭 Edit: thank you for all the likes 💗💗

[@TheAmalaEkpunobi]

Noooo 😭😭😭

[@Athener-w5s]

@@TheAmalaEkpunobi All my friends sing it. I can’t tell you how many times I hear this a day.

[@lolriyumii]

Bruh same, like stfu.

[@potg2]

shows you the stupidity of your school...

[@KDan-x1l]

Yet many of these kids are illiterate

[@jengen1288]

Thanks!

[@AshaMaat]

Simplicity and consistency👌🏾

[@isaiahthomas4444]

Women hated CookingWithKya so much she got a TV deal with VH1😂😂 Congrats to her

[@GHOSTBX718]

Did she really???

[@isaiahthomas4444]

@GHOSTBX718 Yea. I saw the trailer for it

[@GHOSTBX718]

@isaiahthomas4444 good for her !

[@cusezone315]

Lmfao 😂 who cares though.. only thing she's doing is promoting diabetes 🤢🤮

[@Mirror_of_the_Soul00]

I HATE that Pick Me is a pejorative. What woman wants to be rejected???? Women are crashing out in their cars and crying because they have yet to be picked for marriage

[@S_W1]

The “Skip Me” women are the only ones using the “Pick Me” pejorative.

[@WildZephyr]

Good point.

[@MonkeGeorge]

Those kinds of women want to be pursued without putting in any sort of effort because they think their mere presence is a gift beyond worth, they don't like how "pick me" girls make them look lazy and entitled by comparison. Obviously there is a point where pick me behavior becomes a redflag, but they've made the label meaningless in it's over-use as they always do with their buzzwords.

[@ethicscannie5716]

@@MonkeGeorge And you know what these women are like because?

[@Doink1234]

Facts

[@mykacanterbury1409]

HEAR ME OUT I agree with 100% of what you said, but I feel like there is a major point that people keep missing in discussions like this. We have come to view relationships as way more transactional than they actually are. Yes men want a woman who will cook for them and women want a man who will provide and protect, but both men and women want a partner that will show kindness, that will show thoughtfulness, that will put the other person above themselves. Humans are relational beings. The reason that men don’t want “ boss babes” is because of the attitude that comes along with that which is condescending and entitled. This is so much more about people treating each other with respect than gender roles. No man wants a woman that’s gonna talk down to them and expect them to be their servants. No woman wants a man who’s gonna forget about her or have an entitled attitude. WE ALL JUST WANT KINDNESS AND RESPECT. And I wasn’t cooking for her man is thoughtful and an active service just like a man taking out the trash, working extra hours for a little bit more money for vacation or shoveling the snow off. The driveway is thoughtful and an act of service. Men and women definitely express their love and thoughtfulness in different ways because they have different strength and abilities, but it all comes down to being treated with respect and feeling like your partner treasures you. These girls need to learn that sitting on a man’s lap and showing him your titties is something that any girl with titties can do. You have to show your man that you can make him feel better than anyone else can in his heart, mind and soul. Also think it has to be said that feminist nowadays have become the EMBODIMENT of toxic masculinity that they claim to see in everyone else.😂 and this new brand of delusional is about to get boring.

[@kermitthefrog2311]

Well said 💯

[@tsukinoyousei]

Respect is essential in all aspects of life, especially in relationships. It's important to recognize that a relationship is like being in a boat that requires two people to row together, at the same speed and in the same direction, to move forward effectively. Unfortunately, people today often make things more complicated than they need to be.

[@moonfey720]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@anniel3305]

I could not agree with you more - very well said and so very true

[@DreSttarr-yi7lz]

Didn't read a fg word but hear me out. 😂😂 Moron! It's yt not speakers corner..

[@gabe-2100]

Just hearing about her not actually watching her I thought she was forsure a 304 but watching you break it down I kinda like her lol she might save women altogether lol she's the hero men need!

[@nightal13]

Honestly everything shes made looks super good! Makes me want to try the recipes! I've been in a slump making the same thing over and over.

[@MrKentHimself]

So many men have been in a relationship were the woman hates sex, hates being domestic, etc... Kya has found the male fantasy, a woman who wants to be sexy and domestic. And the feminist are triggered.

[@rjmurphyo0]

One of the first questions I ask a woman is if she can cook. I found one now that when I go help to clean up the pots and pans, I feel like I'm not wanted. I feel like I won on this

[@CanDeeMarie]

yeah you better stop insulting actual traditional women because this isn't it so you are not traditional and fake af

[@CanDeeMarie]

​@@rjmurphyo0I hope she's not working either

[@karla31092]

Absolutely 💯

[@sana.4.a]

sex has nothing to do with it. She’s just dancing and wearing short clothes

[@alexrompen805]

I respect the hustle, she KNOWS she is good looking and she KNOWS she can cook and combined the 2 to make a giant pile of money... that's actually pretty smart.

[@EhinomeOkojie]

Not good looking in any way.

[@dreamsmadereal815]

Dope video glad there are still educators like you in the world

[@doctor-jw]

Hold on. LET. HER. *COOK.*

[@sjm9876]

😂😂

[@Captain_FIipper]

cookingwithkya cookingwithkya cookingwithkya COOKINGWITHKYA COOKINGWITHKYA COOKINGWITHKYA

[@bc_life2374]

You win the internet on this one.

[@bananaduck567]

She‘s cooking the whole kitchen with all these crazy feminists 😂

[@g.w.7893]

😆

[@stayflyking]

She responded with a simple message and all the women are still mad. All I see is a massive insecurity that can be easily fixed.

[@Caareenkm6726]

All the women? Maybe some black ones as she’s a threat to their easily enticed men. 😂

[@chronoking9904]

@@Caareenkm6726 If they are enticed that easily it shows how little they offer their men in the first place. 😂😂

[@AP-ji8qu]

@@chronoking9904 as little as kya offers

[@AP-ji8qu]

@@stayflyking where are all the women mad? Also weren't they supposed to be mad at 304s?

[@Athina-kv1de]

@@stayflyking Aren't all the dudes supposed to be mad at 304s?

[@mgf7_]

The way she’s touching the raw chicken then picking up the spice bottles is STRESSING ME. The cross contamination. 😭

[@DC-gh6dy]

I know 😬

[@KrazyVoodoo]

And men simp for her 😂🤣

[@snestah]

THANK YOU. The gloves don't make it okay, they make it worse.

[@Ghiaccio-x1j]

🎶 e.coli with Kya, e.coli with Kya

[@KrazyVoodoo]

@@Ghiaccio-x1j ong 😂😂

[@mattcrotwell6375]

I just wanted to see some gf’s mad over kya but hey you are so incredibly smart and perfectly articulated in your videos. You can tell that the level of preparation put into a video is unmatched from commentary creators.(don’t want to label you as that because you’re obviously much more than that) the way you illustrate your thoughts with your words actually helped me learn so much from a video about cooking with kya😂

[@kennethwers]

Kya has a message behind the dancing. Cook for your Man for a happy life.

[@dapperfan44]

Happy spouse, happy house!

[@thespadestable]

The Message: Look like a 304 and guys will come running to check you out. Her visual can be found in any Section 8 Housing Project and Trailer Park, USA. Bubba....I've made my rounds in both over the decades....And the final outcome always ended the same; got my belly fed, fed her kitty, did it a few times, realized they were not worth nothing more than what we had going on, and moved it on after my turn was done. Her kind doesn't land husbands, just men for the moment. Even the dudes fresh out of prison know her kind are just non state sanctioned halfway houses until it's time to move on to the next woman.

[@c4pt4in111]

I make twice the money my husband does. Let him cook.

[@samuraijosh1595]

@@c4pt4in111 do you share it with him?

[@melindaroop1346]

​@@c4pt4in111Yep! A lot of men want to do the bare minimum and be mediocre while expecting their woman to make all of their meals while also working. I cook for my husband because he makes the money but if that got reversed, he can cook for himself lol.

[@MrBuns-yi2hk]

"Get in that kitchen!" Had me rolling. XD

[@kenik2023]

GIT IN THAT KITCHIN N RATTLE 'M POTS N PANS!!! GIT N THAT KITCHIN' CUZ AHM A HUNGRY MAN!!! - Jesse Stone '54

[@KawaiiKandikidPLURR]

10:30 what is moving under her shirt!

[@Skyesoceaneyes]

Seriously. I couldn't even listen. Is she breastfeeding? That still doesn't seem right.

[@kenny242capron9]

I thinks its her hand, or a baby

[@jessicajeanfrancois9429]

It's midnight and i just screamed at this comment. This is why i came and it was the first thing i saw 😂😂😂

[@Lieynah]

It looks like she's got a knee under her shirt.

[@truecrimefan1433]

It’s a baby 😅 if u look at her shoulder it’s a baby sling lol 😂

[@gljcnh]

I really love when we havevthe same opinion about an issue!!!! 😂😂 awesome job!!

[@noelvoss6744]

I don't entirely agree with the provocative stuff, but as a 47 year old woman, I can tell you time and again that a lot of decent guys just want a girl who respects them and is more traditional. I've watched them pick conservative woman more often.

[@Ohmygodb]

MEN LIKE ANYTHING.

[@ysf-d9i]

I don't think any guy would actively pick a modern feminist woman over a conservative modest one. Guys with no standards or morals might still go for the woke feminist, but that's just because they have no standards or loyalty and just want some momentary short term pleasure.

[@Turnkey196]

What’s ironic to me is that the masses will demonize this woman but then idolize Sabrina carpenter. It’s the hypocrisy for me

[@MyName-h7q]

The plan is to make women hate men so they can have them for themselves. It's grooming on a large scale.

[@DemonicRemption]

@Turnkey196 Idolize who?

[@SansoHumar]

Who???

[@resstar-d6m]

What did she do?

[@ShaiLai]

Sabrina gets lots of hate, stop making this a race war

[@Jake-b1i4y]

Love ya Kya!!!! What's the issue, she's not hurting anyone, good for her! Only the brilliant women that know how to talk to men really understand how that dynamic works. The women that don't want to do that, of course hate Kya!!! God bless people like Kya!!!

[@KiwiNibbles]

Never heard of her... as a chef, her food looks really good. Great colors and would be great comfort food.

[@ViCT0RiA6]

how is this even worthy to be a think piece? who gaf

[@roxannerosa2708]

I'm old.. lol.. and I watch your videos all the time. This one had me laughing out loud all by myself. I think Kaya (sorry if I misspelled that) is hilarious and adorable.. lol. And honestly she's just tapping in to what we've always known but for some reason are choosing to deny. Good for her! I hope she rides this wave until the wheels fall off! 😂😂😂

[@punksoab]

The chicken cordon bleu is what sold me

[@silencenewberry]

You got me saying, "Cooking wit Kya!" all friggin' day long.

[@terseanhorton475]

I ❤ kya ngl she had me bricked when I watched her 1st video

[@quelleym4265]

@@terseanhorton475 what does bricked mean? 👀

[@Roccofan]

5:57 I’ll never forget the line from the last Equalizer movie where the waitress places a plate in front of Denzel Washington and asks him, “Who cooks for you at home?” That is the greatest pick up line from a wife to a potential husband you’ll ever hear.

[@bishop7534]

Facts!

[@ThePickleBoss]

Great video! New subscriber here! Never heard of "Cooking w/Kya" until someone on my friends' list posted a "hate" post about her mac-n-cheese. That's wild. And now, I'm going to go find and subscribe to "Cooking w/Kya." Imagine that.

[@kidfrid5498]

She seems like she has a fun personality and she's funny. IDK why so many women are getting mad about it. Then again I actually cook for my husband, because I love cooking. Kya, do your thing girl!!

[@lyssgoddess]

Because it’s weird to go online and say ur gonna “steal” strangers men 😂

[@bigman9731]

I love your Nana PFP : )

[@alkahinat4558]

@@lyssgoddess so many women are so desperate to not be viewed as insecure and jealous by hateful men they don’t even know or care about, that they pretend saying ‘I’ll take ya man’ is in any way friendly or cute 🤣 It’s sad to see women accepting disrespect from other women. Get a backbone ladies!

[@britterthecritter4531]

I love cooking too but I don’t make it a personality trait. Idk I don’t necessarily hate her but I do find that type of curated content super cringe and pick-me. Congrats, ur a woman cooking… you and millions of others. To say you’ll take someone’s man for something so basic is just odd 😭

[@kidfrid5498]

@@lyssgoddess Yeah it might be weird, however it's also a joke. If you find her to be an actual threat to your relationship then you have a relationship problem. Not a Kya problem.

[@matthewblumenthal804]

I am so glad that I'm an older, married man. Don't have to pay any attention to this silliness. I love the fact that Amala shows it to me so that I'm not totally out of the loop, but I would never want to be in that loop.

[@miguelcunanan9855]

"So I'm not totally out of the loop, but I would never want to be in that loop" I feel the same. Amala is so effective/efficient in providing the information that reflects what you said.

[@MaryL05]

Thanks Amala. I can always count on you for a sane prospective. I love it here. ❤

[@KefeAman]

“No im not doing that” 🎵 Yea you better🎵

[@thedeekabides]

I’m having seared salmon, spinach with a mozzarella cream sauce, and some salad. Is she gonna steal me from me? Let him cook!

[@dirt5547]

The food looks really good.

[@MonkeGeorge]

These people hating on Kya but will support that one UK OF-girl who's trying to set a record for how many men she can take in a day. Even more ironic is that girl was actively asking her female followers to send their husands and boyfriends her way so she could meet her next goal of 1000 men. She's literally taking peoples men in a line, but Kya sparks more outrage?

[@machetey]

Thx for pointing it out.

[@DC-gh6dy]

The OF girls made international news and people talked way more about her. Let's not pretend this chick is getting "more hate" 😂

[@keycartier9100]

Is anyone actually supporting that girl tho? Everyone I have talked to about it is disgusted, not intrigued. I'm equally concerned for women and men in these days

[@no.1spidey-fan182]

​@@DC-gh6dy They were literally trying to make her story sympathetic cause she cried some crocodile tears💀. And she didnt get hated into having her accounts BANNED off the internet

[@InfamousMFD478]

This is EXACTLY the hypocrisy I’m addressing about these females. Tearing down a young girl that’s COOKING in her own crib vs a female that already did 100 men in a 14 hr period, and now going for 1000. They oughta shut the hell up, and just be miserable. Selective outrage at its finest….

[@dajanayaskew2740]

I love her videos. She's just having fun and creating great content

[@civildiscourse7626]

I remember the saying “take care of your woman or another man will”… well it seems that’s been reversed and the sisterhood HATES it 😂

[@Hippie_Chick_11]

Honestly, I've heard that statement going both ways!

[@TheCheeseTouch71]

Does that statement means cheating or does it mean they will break up and another man will take care of her?

[@jimmycarpenter6612]

Sadly can be either lol​@@TheCheeseTouch71

[@civildiscourse7626]

@@TheCheeseTouch71 if she’s from Miami the former, if she’s from a small conservative town the latter lol

[@Caareenkm6726]

It still exists.. but now it’s a REAL man will take your woman!

[@seancarter3075]

I thoroughly enjoy your videos and your takeaways from the social aspect. Thank you 🙏

[@dredgewalker]

If you're worried about your man being taken away with just cooking then you wither don't cook or an awful cook. Also if a man cheats on you then he's not worth a damn. Cheaters have no value as a relationship partner.

[@shellamonterrosa]

To get to a man’s heart you need to go through his stomach first… 100% true! Even for us ladies, hahaha, but seriously, we need to got back to basics. People don’t know how to cook anymore (bring back home ed) and food brings people together (imagine when its delicious with your love one). My husband not only thanks me for dinner and leftovers but credits my cooking for his good health (the effort of making it nutritious). I may not agree with Kya’s presentation but her message hits the nail. And if you “don’t have time to cook”, then maybe one needs to check their priorities. 😊

[@TheSilentWhistles13]

The fact that so few people my age are culinarily proficient, legit makes me worry about the survival skills of my generation to a certain extent.