Coping with burnout....and a HUGE thank you

[@iceman857]

“I’m just a regular bloke” - and that, Mr Messner, is exactly why I follow you. Your authenticity and fun-loving nature is truly differentiated in the world of content creators.

[@philiphaines2821]

Basics are the best. I really like your basic video, Paul.

[@gingerNinja688]

Why dont you try camping somewhere else apart from the blinkin lake district and go somewhere more exciting with better weather (anywhere in Europe). brilliant videos but its getting boring and tedious seeing the same scenery every single time

[@BG-rf1mx]

@@gingerNinja688 if you get 'bored' looking at the beauty of the lake district and the peak district then this is probably not the channel for you.

[@gingerNinja688]

@@BG-rf1mx its beautiful, BUT EVERY VIDEO>??????

[@newukshooter2932]

@@gingerNinja688 you have the option of not clicking on them, there are other channels out there.

[@maltnmetal4085]

After my wife passed away just before covid and my mum during covid , it was your videos Paul and also Abbie Barnes videos , what got me out of depression and got me to buy camping and walking gear , i spent my days off work camping and walking around the uk . Just have some Paul time with Jo and Reg try and clear your mind . Tbh the basic videos are the best ones , sometimes people make them to complicated . Look after your self Paul .

[@BulldogBadger]

Fully agree the back to basics approach is a winner, we watch Pauls vids to see him and his camps and what gear he has, it doesn’t have to be fancy! Also congrats on using the outdoors to help you it really is a great help, I call it a factory reset for my brain🍻

[@judylloyd7901]

During* Covid 🙂👍

[@maltnmetal4085]

@@judylloyd7901 lol ty auto type

[@CalmingAnxiety]

This has made my day Paul. Thank you for being so open and honest. Back to basics because that's what we all subd for.

[@gingerNinja688]

Why dont you try camping somewhere else apart from the blinkin lake district and go somewhere more exciting with better weather (anywhere in Europe). brilliant videos but its getting boring and tedious seeing the same scenery every single time

[@thomasmusso1147]

@@gingerNinja688 Paul should do what is good for him. If you're bored .. Simple really.

[@kola100]

Hi Paul, I am a cancer mentor- interesting parallels with what your experiencing, the big conflict comes from doing what you want, the things that make you happy, vs the things you feel you should be doing for the family at the expense of personal happiness- it’s a difficult call. Eventually you find a path between - Don’t give up on something that makes you happy - life is long and at times hard - without joy in it - Took me 3 years to get back on track . You rock bro, 👍

[@edwardkenny2356]

Paul, as a 4 year clean recovering alcoholic, some of the things we learn is, take just one day at a time, don't over-complicate things and probably most important, set boundaries for you, for your own well being. So it appears that, that is what you're doing. Good for you and good for us as we still get to enjoy and learn from your videos. Thank you brother, continue to take good care.

[@benfallon8318]

I've been out of work due to my mental health and barely leave the house, you've inspired me to get out more often recently. Would love to aim for wild camping one day. Thank you paul

[@Globetrotter-1]

You only have yourself to blame. Just step out that door and enjoy the wilds. Nobody can do that except yourself. Mental health doesn't exist...only health does. Life is far too short to exist on endless excuses of "one day" or "what if". Just do it...and you'll be happy 🙂

[@judylloyd7901]

@@Globetrotter-1 Yeah, spoken like someone who isn't dealing with the issues Ben is dealing with!! "Be kind, everyone you meet is fighting a battle!"

[@AR9ify]

Man up... "barely leave the house". Are you locked with chains? Or, do you struggle to get out physically? If it just your head, then come on.. 🤷‍♂️

[@InvestWithoutBeingRippedOff]

Perhaps two of the finest videos KZbin has been privileged enough to carry. Yes we feel the same. We definitely need examples like yours. This is true influence. I thank you.

[@Monkeyseemonkey79]

I agree! They are very powerful videos. As men we too often fail to communicate honestly like Paul has.

[@gingerNinja688]

Why dont you try camping somewhere else apart from the blinkin lake district and go somewhere more exciting with better weather (anywhere in Europe). brilliant videos but its getting boring and tedious seeing the same scenery every single time

[@judylloyd7901]

@@gingerNinja688 🥺🥺🥺

[@Wheres_wanda_wandering]

Thank you for the update. I’m definitely not in your demographic as a 52 year old woman however I’ve camped all my life. I love everything from tents to massive motorhomes. Your channel is great as I get to see the tops of hills which because of arthritis I now can’t reach. Your content is a perfect mix of gear, walks, camps and food. I also enjoyed the van build. It looks like you are making some changes to help you enjoy things more. Take care Gill

[@gingerNinja688]

Why dont you try camping somewhere else apart from the blinkin lake district and go somewhere more exciting with better weather (anywhere in Europe). brilliant videos but its getting boring and tedious seeing the same scenery every single time

[@judylloyd7901]

@@gingerNinja688 If that's what you want, what's stopping you? Go for it!

[@jamesallen3181]

Great to see you happy again. Why not go back and look at your first videos. That's what your fans love. I certainly do. I just want to watch a local lad, a similar age to me, doing the things I love to do.

[@chriswellstead776]

The simple video format! Just what both you and us your loyal followers need. Great work Paul.

[@carleverett7539]

If I'm being honest Paul, I preferred your older content and lots of other youtubers content that wasnt overly 'produced'. You still make really good videos, i'll still continue to watch and I've learnt lots from your gear reviews. But over the last two years over covid its been apparent that people are trying to make 'movie' quality experiences in their content. When you watch some youtube videos that are clearly not about the adventure, its about how many camera angles they can get in walking the same 100m, it makes me lose my interest. I've started to get into bushcraft, as I work in a school and currently training to be a forest school leader, and have just started to watch people like Greencraft, Hidden Valley Bushcraft and RobEvans, great content, and great knowledgeable presenters. I originally started to watch your videos to learn about wild/normal camping and loved your down to earth, personal and passionate approach to it, as it was about the adventure. You make the content you enjoy making Paul, its how you started, and how people fell in love with watching your channel.

[@Monkeyseemonkey79]

I know exactly what you mean! These people's camping trips turn into a movie shoot and it sucks the pure joy out of it. Paul is such a great talker - it's so calming and satisfying to listen to him - that he doesn't need all that fluff. I just what to hear his thoughts and see what he's been up to. He doesn't need the bling and hype.

[@davidhazzard606]

Firstly, great to see you back. SEcondly, Id agree with Carl. Keep it simple. I havent been camping yet, but ur my expert I look to - I will go camping and need Paul Messner to look after me with kit advise - Im not watching anyone else cos you are so genuine with your videos!!

[@gingerNinja688]

Why dont you try camping somewhere else apart from the blinkin lake district and go somewhere more exciting with better weather (anywhere in Europe). brilliant videos but its getting boring and tedious seeing the same scenery every single time

[@gaylinlyons6534]

Paul I have been enjoying your videos for a few years. I was a Girl Guide growing up and camping is a big part of that but it was nothing like what you do. I knew nothing about stealth camping before I started going along on your adventures (via your videos). I thought it was all amazing. When, a few times you were out, you would say “I have to be up and packed up early, got to be at the school…” I thought to myself ‘Wow! He is going out on a one night sleepover and has to be at school to start his regular job’, I was, frankly, amazed that you would spend an evening up in the hills, with tent and all the accoutrements needed for stealth camping, and then be off in the morning to get to your workplace. I not only learned what stealth camping is, You taught me a lot about what is needed for stealth camping, tents, cookware, why you prefer a quilt rather than a sleeping bag, the food you prepare for yourself, and the places you hike to and set your tent up at. It was all new to me and I drank it all in. I am a woman in love with stealth camping though I have never done any, and it is not likely I would be able to. I turned 65 years old a few weeks ago. I work 12 hour shifts as a security guard, 5 days in a row with five days off. I don’t have a lot of energy for hiking and camping any more. I live in a small town in Ontario, Canada. I do love getting out with my camera. Photography got me through chemotherapy treatments and radiation treatments a few years ago. And I was introduced to James Popsys through your videos. I follow him and Thomas Heaton, and now I also follow the chap in New Zealand, Tony and his dog Bruce (AB Camping), and a chap in the USA, Luke (The Outdoor Gear Review). I follow these guys because of your videos. You caught my interest Paul and it has grown. I spend hours with all of you folks online, for me it is a stress free way to get down and relax. Not to mention the education I am getting. I love watching, and seeing where you hike to, and the vistas you share. I have friends in Portland (the Royal Manor and Isle of) I have not been there, but my friend Sylvia has sent me many photos of the island and various walking trails along its coastline, and it is indeed beautiful. And now I see another part of Britain that is just as beautiful and breathtaking because you go out and take us all with you. Do what you need to do, Paul. And do it the way you want to do it. Never let anyone tell you “it has to be done this way”. In your forties and you have found the truth of it. You and Jo, have many years of adventuring ahead of you. Simple is very good and I believe you are on the right track. You will always have us checking in to see where you’ve been and what you have to share. Cheers, Gaylin

[@barnesandrewc711]

🙏 Good genuine,uplifting we all feel it I am 50 this yr. Sharing this has poignantly reminded of the need for community and friendship. Study's show we live longer and healthier on average, sharing our burdens and truimphs.

[@oschibaby3471]

Hi Paul, glad to see you got your sense of humour back! I have also suffered from burnout and I found that one of the symptoms was that I lost my sense of lightheartedness and sense of humour. That affects everyone around you, especially your partner and children. Amazing how much truth is contained in the sayings we learn in our youth: All work and no play make Jack a dull boy ...

[@yoeddie2538]

Yes, 55 and sick of working for someone else but not having courage to take control and do my own thing. Envious of you managing to make the great decision to pursue a career in something that also brings so much happiness (and still in your youth!). Good luck.

[@jasonbarrett4646]

Hi Mez Just finished watching this after watching your previous vid. Mate. I am delighted to see you talked about it and are in a better place (you had me worried there for a minute, Man). I'm currently battling cancer and, if it's taught me one thing (as a 50 year bloke), it's that it's good to talk. Don't worry though, I'll beat it and how to see you out on the Fells soon. I've watched you for a couple of years and it's clear that whilst the great reviews are very informative, the biggest draw to your channel is you. Your personality and honesty makes your channel eminently watchable. You should absolutely run your channel on your terms only! it's your thing and you know best. Period! Looking forward to watching many more 'mez vids' (as is my son, who says you're the best one). Love, peace and camping bro, Jay

[@LindyP]

I have been watching your channel for a while now. I don’t wild camp but your videos reminded me of my love for walking in hills and Dales and my dream of owning a camper-van. I’m a single Mum, my son is grown and has his own life and interests. I felt lost as I didn’t have anything for me. So I bought the camper-van last year and my love for the outdoors and exploring our wonderful countryside has been rekindled. I love your gear reviews and the camping trips and I will keep watching. Your spark will return, be kind to yourself.

[@TomCrellin1]

So beautiful to see that weight has been lifted. Congratulations, Paul 🙌

[@kristiconner7360]

Thank you ! Your video made me feel okay about my burnout at work and I started remembering why I chose my profession. I wish you and your family the very best in life . 🙏

[@TheLDunn1]

Just watched the “I’ve ruined my dream job” & then immediately watched this one. I wasn’t sure where to leave my comments, but you struck a cord. Guilty as charged here, 54 year old, worked hard when in education, got the job at the global company which I’ve been working for for over 30 years, & struggling with recent directions my department has been going in over past couple of years, teenage kids who don’t want to know mum & dad so much, house & mortgage & all that…have I ticked all your boxes yet ;-) Ive been following your channel for around a year I guess, I’ve never gone wild camping, but it appeals, I enjoy photography so the idea of catching good light over a stunning landscape at dusk and dawn chimes with wild camping. But my location (south coast), full time job, family life etc doesn’t leave much free time to do ‘me’ stuff. Your videos have helped me hugely. I aspire to go wild camping to help further my photography. Over the past year I’ve been slowly getting some kit sorted your videos have been great research. I am there now, and anticipate some trips to places like the Lake & Peak districts in the coming months, but I will be that ‘all the gear, no idea’ person. Just keep on doing what you have done, why change a winning formula? It’s the combo of the trips and the observations about the gear you have used during the trips that work. PS if you ever want to do a video on a newbie to wild camping….or want a closer look at a Tarptent Stratospire Li (my choice of tent after many months of research), then feel free to make contact, happy to help in anyway I can.

[@wartington1]

Hi Paul. I'm 70 and just getting into camping etc. We're blest with our climate here in Oz, but, you along with several other regulars I follow have been the inspiration to get off my arse and get out and about and smell the roses!!! Thank you and keep up the great videos. ( please more of Jo and Reggie when available ) cheers.

[@anthonyfinnerty4129]

Back to basics sounds like a great idea. Watching you enjoy what you're doing, relaxed either alone or with friends, just content in the moment is what got you this far in the first place. Coming home after a hard day and watching one of your videos, was like slipping into a warm bath. Nothing fancy, just simple escapism watching someone just enjoy what he's doing. Admire the honesty Paul, may even admire those cheeky Rab tents you're teasing again too! Best wishes to you and yours!

[@simhamilton1762]

Hi Paul & Jo - your openness is a brave thing. Today many of us have a second career. Nobody tells you from going to a comfortable, but frustrated, place to the bottom in your own business, but something you love is hard to do. Having gone through something similar, Paul the people around you are your best strength - they can only help you if they know. Now they do, they will understand and support you at the right time. I only advice I can give you in a short message

[@holmesaway]

Great to see you smiling again. Looking forward to seeing you back out and enjoying camping again! 👌🏻

[@goprocaz4019]

Paul everyone loves your videos, your a down to earth humble chap with no aires and graces. We are your loyal fans,subscribers call us what you want we will always be here for you, your calming voice on camera is so soothing and makes your videos so calming and relaxing, and such a joy to watch.Paul don’t put to much pressure on yourself, we all get it and understand and will support you in any way .👍

[@michaelkennedy4346]

People are drawn to genuine blokes like yourself. It’s not always about learning something from an expert.

[@grahamscothern4319]

Happy Fathers Day Paul. Think what you said makes total sense back to basics Glad you are feeling better in yourself. Atb Graham

[@StansOutdoorAdventures]

I'm very similar Paul, just turned 50, kids flown the nest, you start to think what now !. I've always loved the hills too. I'd say just plan trips that excite you and give you that buzz again. Then plan a video around that instead of the whole thing consuming & planning you. Take back control and do what excites you. Good luck with everything. Me and my lad are up the peaks often. Might bump into ypu one day 👍

[@izaac1312]

Hope you stick at it, I know chasing your dreams can be hard, but we’re all here to support you buddy 😁👍

[@m46273]

Now, quit squishin and put out Content.

[@gingerNinja688]

Why dont you try camping somewhere else apart from the blinkin lake district and go somewhere more exciting with better weather (anywhere in Europe). brilliant videos but its getting boring and tedious seeing the same scenery every single time

[@judylloyd7901]

@@gingerNinja688 You keep re-posting the same comment over and over again. I'm getting bored with reading it. Why don't you try saying something positive? It would be a nice change 🤪🤪🤪

[@mountainmantararua8824]

Hello Paul from NZ, I have been tramping (hiking) the mountains for over 50 years and it is the mountains that have kept me sane. When I am out there for a few days I realize that all I have in the world is what's on my back. At home there is a double garage full of stuff that I haven't seen for years, there are boxes of stuff and cupboards of stuff that have been collected over life's journey, but for that moment in time, in the mountains, it doesn't exist. An old fellow told me when I was 16 " As you go through life, keep your bags packed lightly" I have only come to understand what he meant. He wasn't just talking about possessions but about taking on to much mentally . So now in my retirement years I am still walking the mountains and enjoying live. Keep walking the hills it wards off stress and every thing that goes with it and remember; 'to keep your bags packed lightly'. Cheers ATB from NZ. A kindred spirit.

[@pricehedgehog4759]

Mate what a great concept ! Love it fro south east London !

[@cypokfil1789]

Thank you for your videos Paul! You inspired me to go out for wild camping and this helps me a lot, thank you again Paul!

[@PaulMessner]

Thanks so much for this mate. Jo and I really appreciate your support.

[@ianrunningforpudding4915]

Thanks for having the guts to share so publicly, you could help so many other people in a similar situation. 👍🏻

[@derekjeter2387]

Hey bro this is Derek again, it looks like people given you good advice on burn out. I loved backpacking and camping when i was young and in the Boy Scouts. Then i joined the US Army and did so much training in the woods for 20 years that I never wanted to go camping again. After i retired from the Army, it took about 2 year's before i got the urge to go backpacking and camping and i love it again but i can't look at it like i was in the Army, i basically had to divorce the Army from my mind and absolutely love backpacking again, and have to take a break from it once in a while in which i could not do in the Army. Just take a break from it once in a while. It looks like you have got it figured out and i will keep watching your videos when you do them. You are very enjoyable to watch because you are common folk like me. And by the way, congratulations on your marriage. Your wife has a very good personality and she has a good sense of humor.

[@iaincox3780]

Your videos have inspired me to invest in some basic kit and get out camping and exploring. I was a Commercial Manager in a big construction company. Jacked it in, downsized at 52 now work 2-3 days a week with old folk on minimum wage and haven't looked back. As was once said to me ...you need to take the time to smell the roses! Keep it going Paul👍

[@raymondporter2094]

Best wishes from North Yorkshire. "I had my fingers in so many pies, I forgot what pie tasted like!" Wonderful line! You sound much more upbeat in this video than in the one before where you came clean about how you were feeling. Getting it out is the start of recovery and I am very confident you will be fine in the long run. Lots of people you have never met, nor will meet, wish you well.

[@kurtmoxley2491]

Hi Paul. Just seen this video and the previous one together. One thing that struck me is your phrase 'it's okay to not be okay' - so true. We all go through this stuff at times (plural) in our lives. Some days are amazing and then some days we crash. We do, and will do, both. Nothing stays the same forever, things always change. You mentioned the use of social media and how you look for feedback from others from it. So glad you've dropped it all, as I did a couple of years ago. I also dropped the day job to follow my hobby. I created some wonderful stuff but I was left feeling unfulfilled as well. So time to make changes. I know that your videos are good - I think most people would agree with that. I enjoy watching your productions and your advice. Thank you for all that you do. My advice is trust what you know yourself about you and what Jo tells you too. Do stuff that makes you happy. Be around happy honest folks and ditch the others. Don't stop rambling, don't stop camping. The outdoors is there for you to have.

[@bobfor4868]

It's great to see this video after your last one. Messner time is important time. When I was first getting into rock climbing (about a million years ago!) the advice was always: "Remember to breathe". Advice that I think is transferable to other situations. Just be yourself Mr. Messner, that's why we watch!

[@gingerNinja688]

Why dont you try camping somewhere else apart from the blinkin lake district and go somewhere more exciting with better weather (anywhere in Europe). brilliant videos but its getting boring and tedious seeing the same scenery every single time

[@judylloyd7901]

@@gingerNinja688 Why don't you try saying something positive?

[@davidrawlings3460]

Love all the videos and you enthusiasm for what you do. I don't comment on them as I watch you on my tv so can't comment from that. I love the outdoors i am into motorcycle camping currently but have been camping in tents ever since i was born. I am 51 and missed 2 years plus covid since i was born. Your program helps me with my metal health and helps me to get out there on my motorbike camping in the great outdoors. The fact I have to pack small i get loads of ideas from the backpacking small side of your videos Please keep up the good work and video's coming.. Take care Paul Dave

[@christopherphillips7450]

All the best, Paul. Hope you feel better soon and enjoy getting out there again. I defintitely apreciate the effort you put in to make these videos as well as trying to give us the real stuff, not biased or geared to sell sponsored products. You also push people to get out and take advantage of the fantastic outdoors that is just...outside the door. I've never met you and living in Japan probably won't get to bump into you on a mountain but I'm sure I can speak for many in that you are an inspiration for how you live, how you react to life, the beauty, the struggles too (perhaps more importantly) and as a person, as a human being, you are the kind of freind we all wish we had more of. I have followed you since you started your channel and seen how tihngs have changed and I wlecome you slowing down and taking a few steps back. If you aren't happy then it doesn't work. Huge thank you for showing us whats out there and passing on some great advice and just caring, really. Thank you.

[@billerator]

Thanks for sharing. It helps us and you. When it comes to life, mountains and challenge the best advice I can give is up and at them!

[@CalmingAnxiety]

and... I'll just repeat my comment from your previous video. I am bike and camping from 18th till 22nd July around the Lake District, Snowdon, where ever I end up. Happy to spend an evening around a fire talking mindfulness and meditation. How it saved my life and now hundreds of thousands of others via my podcast.

[@woduk]

Been experiencing burnout myself, partly my fault for not taking time off and letting my job get the better of me . Always thought of others before myself. Best wishes Paul on coming through it

[@ReallyWildAdventures]

After watching your videos I have tried my own journey into wild camping and trying to make videos. You have inspired me keep up the good work.

[@railwaystationmaster]

So glad to watch this follow up video and see a much more relaxed yet still focused man , by gently applying the brakes you could have potentially avoided a burn out , and the serious health effects that implies . It's too easy for us viewers to click watch and forget ,instead of realising there is a human being behind the camera ,you have brought that home to me and countless others , it just makes watching you even more special going forward , best wishes Paul.

[@TheBeechwoods]

People watch your channel for you, you are so easy to watch, easy to get along with, easy to understand.. keep being you. Thats all that matters to me... ❤️

[@hartley383]

Im not a youtuber but my gut feeling is that your proposed way forward is the right way to go. You grew this great channel doing it your way so why change. I think it’s such a shame it took its toll on you as it did when I for one watch your films as a way of escaping and relaxing. You’ve also inspired me to do a bit of camping and I’ve found it very good for my head. It’s good to see you feeling better and I sincerely hope it continues.

[@DanFox]

It's been incredibly moving to see you go through this and it's something I've been closer to being able to relate to lately with my channel. I appreciate you sharing and appreciate how "regular bloke" you are. I'm rooting for ya, man!

[@Wild.cat.adventures]

Yay so good to hear from you Paul, we were all worried for you! I think going back to basics is a good idea, get back in touch with what ignited your passion in the beginning. I know what it's like in terms of the pressure, expectations, the thing you love consumes you, becomes a job etc (this is from my earlier days DJing) I hope we can catch up at some point, I think there are many wise words to be said by us both and I hope that I can give back to someone who has inspired me so much (I work in mental health btw so Im not a bad sounding board 😉) Jo - thank you for looking after our main man, also here for you too chick if you ever fancy a chat xx

[@gingerNinja688]

Why dont you try camping somewhere else apart from the blinkin lake district and go somewhere more exciting with better weather (anywhere in Europe). brilliant videos but its getting boring and tedious seeing the same scenery every single time

[@judylloyd7901]

@@gingerNinja688 Change your recording -- getting fed up with your same comment all the time!

[@supernoodles908]

I've burnt myself out doing architecture and studying. It's good to recognise when you're not okay. That way you can do things to address the issues. Much love

[@Harry-Giles]

You and your channel and contributions are very much appreciated Paul. Hope you find the right balance as you have a wonderful talent at doing this.

[@elanapeterson3665]

Most of us started watching you BECAUSE you were doing what you loved,, and we could tell that you were speaking from your heart about your love of the outdoors and your love of camping!! Then all the analytical crap and media algorithms and content makers opinions and influences got in the way, and blinded you to why you really put yourself out there. I LOVE watching you because of how you actually TALK to us about how you feel, even when you're trap0ed in a tent with gale force winds whipping at your tent, with the sky pouring buckets of rain on you! You are so "matter-of-fact" in your tone, and you just come across as a regular "bloke" just having a calm conversation about what you love to do, and NOT like a professor instructing his students! Please, please, please continue to do what you LOVE to do, and don't worry about all the other crap! I look forward to your posts, and I enjoy your normal, calm voice as you describe the scenery, or your gear, or how you fix an amazing meal while lying in your tent on one elbow, sautéing up steak and asparagus and potatoes and coffee. I don't usually comment on the "Tube of You" channels, but you are worth sending my thoughts to, and I hope you come to realize just how many people like me really love watching you do you! Best wishes!

[@paulkent9169]

Thanks Paul, I’ve enjoyed your videos over the years, watching you speak out about your feelings was one of the best. It’s one thing talking tents and camping but helping other people struggling with life’s problems whilst you go through it is for me the mark of a special person. Keep talking, look after the family and treat yourself well, you deserve it.

[@jamesreimers1588]

Paul, Do what you love. It may look very different from what it looks like now. Your ability to connect with people, especially on video, is a rare talent. Being able to talk about burnout is exceptional in itself. We tune in because of who you are. We are connected. You go, man.

[@wil1029]

Well done Paul...just watched your last video and obviously this one and can't give you enough kudos for opening up and speaking out when things don't seem right ...Am seeing many having the same problem that you have raised but not many saying so...sometimes things need to be reset so glad you are doing this...Many see your channel as one of the top so take your time and you'll get it back to loving what you do best ....keep well

[@anthonymcdonald8444]

To see that smile again Paul is so fantastic to see. Well done for getting back in front of the camera. Your courage and honesty is what makes you brilliant.

[@phillean]

Good the see that you are improving, from Phil a 70 year old subscriber in Australia. Loved your camping in the wind video from February.

[@markturner2144]

Thanks Paul. Keeping it simple, keeping it real sound good to me. I love your down to earth calm honesty about life and camping.

[@stephaniespiers2696]

Big hugs and love to you. I reached out today for help with my distressed state. I hope it helps. Well done and best wishes to you.

[@sophiewinkler7549]

I didn’t comment on your last video but I want to say thank you for your bravery in posting it. By being open and communicating about how you are doing it makes it possible for other people who are having a hard time to reach out for help. I hope you got something out of it. But at the same time, you also did a fantastic thing for others who are feeling alone and isolated and need help. Thank you for being a role model. I also hope that you are getting help or are feeling lighter by getting things off your chest.

[@SlothyVlogs]

I’m going through similar, I’m not full time yet but my channel is growing and with that comes pressure! I’ve got to feel telling myself this is a hobby and not a job, I didn’t if hard to switch off and I’m always thinking about KZbin, I enjoy it but it’s slowly taking over all my spare time so when I’m not at work I’m thinking or making a KZbin videos. These videos really helped me Paul, Thank you 😊

[@danielcollins1841]

Glad all is okay mate, great location to do the video. Can't wait to see your next KZbin, especially going back to basics, where it all started with me tuning into your channel.

[@octopusman9969]

it's your personality what draws me to your channel, a genuine bloke just talking about camping,just be yourself and you won't go far wrong.

[@jockspice]

Glad you are sticking with it, you are one of the reasons I and a mate dusted off our tents and started camping again. Always look forward to your vids.

[@francobonamici7856]

What a relief I thought you might give it all away, I'm in my 60's and have the same passion for bushwalking and camping. You always come across as a genuine and honest person which also gives you credibility. Don't push yourself, if it takes a month or two to produce a vlog so be it. I follow a couple of vlogers (mostly poms) and they are cutting back as well to maintain their sanity. Looking forward to your next vlog in a month or two (no pressure).

[@scoscar]

Hey Paul, as I said in the comments to your last video..... A couple of vids a month on your wild camping will inspire so many people and hopefully get you the views you need. For me my favourite videos you make are the simple walk, camp and cook a steak with the amazing scenery! It doesn't get better than that! All the best to you and the family!

[@ontheadventuretrails-scotl9389]

Nice one mate. I’m 50 in two weeks and have had some strange stuff floating around in my head this last year or so. Had a bit of a wobble earlier in the year but I’m fortunate enough to have MrO ! I’m normally as deep as the ocean when it comes to feelings but you’re 100% correct. Letting it out rather than allowing it to brew is the way ahead. All the best. 😊

[@alistairthow1384]

David the big 0s don't matter a jot, I've passed the next one and couldn't be happier, Everyone has wee wobbles for certain the last few years have wobbled the world not just ourselves. I used to think I was over the hill health wise but I know I'm still on the ascent in many ways. Certainly enjoying Paul's and yours and Mrs O's adventures.

[@ontheadventuretrails-scotl9389]

@@alistairthow1384 Hi Buddy, Appreciate your message and your continual support on our channel and instagram. It’s only a number eh! 😊🙏 Keep safe.. D&L

[@joules531]

I subscribe to quite a few "camping" channels, Paul, but your no nonsense style makes your channel my favourite. Looking forward to more of your videos.

[@joepublic573]

good advice paul - keep smiling; keep enjoying yourself; be happy - you are appreciated - probably by more people than you care to think about.

[@denwoodturning5814]

well I'm 78 and I love your camping adventure's so please take care and keep your chin up

[@chrisdraper845]

Really happy you have managed to reframe things and turn it around. Whatever you’re doing, you must always realise you need time to yourself to decompress and make sure whatever you’re doing lines up with you and your core beliefs. Once you start pressuring yourself into being something you’re not, things will inevitably go wrong. It’s not until something like this happens that you realise you need to look after yourself and focus on what’s really important to you. A lot of us have experienced something similar one way or another. It was thanks to your channel and a couple of others that really got me back into nature and to start wild camping. So you have my eternal gratitude for that. It’s something that greatly benefits my every day life and being happy. Keep it simple and what you enjoy. The rest will follow. Looking forward to your future content, however you want to do it. Cheers.

[@Monkeyseemonkey79]

Thanks for the update and for your honesty mate. Good luck to you and I hope you find your happiness.

[@henrywakely5460]

I hope you feel better doing what you love. Incredibly brave to talk about how your feeling.

[@samtalbot-cross2621]

One thing that might be a great way for you to almost fall in love with camping again is to explore the things that made you love it in the first place. A series where you recreate your favourite or first camping memories would not only be a brilliant watch, but also a great way for you to relax and just enjoy camping.

[@Kattyroo]

Yay! Back to basics! Can't wait to watch your mix of adventures and kit reviews. So glad you are feeling better. 😁🌱

[@cassetoi09]

I watch the videos because I like Paul's style and natural approach. He could be talking about pretty much anything and I would watch.

[@rabadabadoo491]

nothing wrong with being on the ropes for a bit, great to see you back out there swinging.

[@Sonofdonald2024]

Glad to hear you are on the mend. Was in go outdoors the other day and had a smile saw a couple wandering among the stoves playing one of your video's about the jetboil :) it's never too late to get an mg sports car. My dad's in his 70s and just got an mg midget and then an mgb

[@leerobertson2728]

Bang on Paul! I put my tuppence up on the last video as it really struck a chord and I really just wanted you to know know you are not alone. But I think you have found your way back to the path and from your comments on your video that’s not a surprise. Talking thing though, sharing your experience, is the way forward. Well done champ!

[@DevonCarpFishing]

Top man…love your videos. I’m a little older than you (52) but I know exactly where you’re coming from. Be happy and thanks again for your channel!

[@CalmingAnxiety]

Thanks

[@PaulMessner]

Thanks so much for this mate. Jo and I really appreciate your support.

[@paulbarber2558]

So glad to see you feeling a little better. Admitting you have a problem is the first step. I know last year suffered with anxiety, which led to depression. Good luck and keep talking to your family

[@desmondbroad1305]

good man .realise what you have and make it work for you 👍

[@joekearney2748]

Big respect Paul. I am recovering (mentally and physically) from a recent Triple Bypass surgery and your videos have really helped shape a sense of what may be possible in the future and give me something to tangible look forward to. Great stuff and remember go at your own pace and enjoy the journey!

[@mercedesclkful]

I have followed your channel and will continue to do❤. Your simplicity has inspired me and my son to go out and wild camp. Many hugs from Sweden.

[@wildernessinwilderness8032]

As a 23 year old guy whose just seen you for the first time on your previous video.. I just want to say Thank-you. I 100% relate to everything you said. I had a large gaming channel at 19 and went through the same burnout as you. People truly underestimate the work, and it most definitely becomes your life. Constantly in your head like you said. It turned me off to using social media since (besides YT), and I ended up becoming a remote software engineer.. which has been fantastic. But I really hope you continue on. I made garbage content that didn't make much of a difference.. but you inspire people with your genuine kind attitude. Something you don't get a-lot of nowadays on youtube. Anyways, thanks so much for these videos. You got a new sub.

[@RubbishGimpy]

I'd be happy just watching you walk about that landscape, filming with a go pro and phone. From a viewer perspective almost every youtuber I follow has apologised for not making their camping or walking video 'this week'. Personally I like the change. I get bored watching the same thing. A week of 'a BBQ' in the garden or an audit of you camping equipment will be just as entertaining to me as a 2 day mountain trek.

[@davidrobinson5180]

Beautiful. Your countryside is so beautiful from these mountains.

[@steveevans9991]

You have a great presence Paul. I think peole would watch you cutting your grass. Perhaps the channel can be focussed on sharing life's little ups and downs, just like the hills you climb ;) Keep doing what you love. I'm in my late 50's and I gave up a well-paid job, bought a touring bike and cycled to Athens. Life changing. I'm so much better for the experience. Perhaps I should have videoed it, BUT I watched others which inspired me. You do the same. :p

[@jackyteague6509]

So good to see you smiling again Paul! Love your videos as they are so natural, just like a friend popping round!

[@SashaTIML]

Appreciated the candidness of your last video so much. Thank you, and glad to see you back. Keep it sustainable and most importantly, enjoyable.

[@mdevine08]

Well done, Paul..similar feelings myself at present..getting out, camping and discussion is paramount. Best wishes to you and your family

[@42zx]

Paul, on my 2nd date with my GF we went up kinder scout via jacob's ladder and down through Edale last summer, as we were walking back to the car we walked past you (presumably) on the way to the Old Nag's Head and exchanged a greeting as you could tell I recognized you. She has ever since found it amusing how star struck I was by this random bloke walking to the pub. I told her that was the guy that made me want to come here in the first place. All the best my man

[@mrd4721]

Your honesty and emotional rawness in your recent video was extremely touching. Your videos have really motivated me to get wild camping gear and get out there and to hike and camp. You have highlighted the pitfalls of how social media consumes you to constantly present the utopian position. You're doing the right thing, going back to basics and doing what is right for you. Your content inspires many of us. You're liked and followed by so many for being a normal guy sharing his passion for the outdoors. That is something we can all relate to and do Thank you Paul Messner 😊👍🏻

[@johnfernley5553]

Hiya Paul, you are an inspiration to thousands pal. You are the main reason I got into wildcamping and for that I thank-you. A huge well done for your honesty in your last video you seem like a really down to earth and genuine guy, a big shout out to Jo aswell you make a cracking team and love watching you two together. All the best for the future and do things at your pace, take care pal and keep your chins up.

[@MrBorisbbarnstable]

Great to see you on the way forwards again Paul! Like loads of your followers, I just love the fact that you are a genuine bloke, and I trust what you say. If I want camping gear, I just look to you - you've tried and tested it, and I trust you. Your not like so many others where I have to ask "do they really believe what they are saying?" So many "experts" out there, but so refreshing to watch a real expert, and a man with a true passion, sharing his adventures in an honest and open way.

[@neilt7191]

Good to see you out Paul . We naturally all come to a crossroads in our lives , it sounds like you've decided which way you're going to go ~ The direction in which you feel happiest and most contented . I wish you well . For what it's worth ~ i chose the same direction when I came to my crossroads , and I've never looked back .

[@alanguile8945]

Good to see you are feeling a bit better and more in control. KZbin has always looked to easily be a treadmill if you let it. Good idea to keep with one channel, its variety helps to keep it interesting (see all the different types of Atomic Shrimp videos!). Loved your van construction ones, sawing away on the pavement😂. With such a good family you will recover!

[@ronrammelle4735]

👍🏻 we need this from time to time for a shelf check…. Peaks and troughs, seems like a fitting phrase 😂👍🏻

[@robertgullickson8758]

Honest and open. Good man. Being the best is an unfulfilling ideal. There’s a big difference between being the best that you can be vs being the best there is. Doing YOUR best brings satisfaction and fulfillment. Enjoy what you do Paul. Not only will your audience be pleased but more importantly you can be happy in recognizing YOUR best. 👍🏻

[@glenhallworth2966]

I am burnt out as well with 40 years in the construction/ military but can’t stop working yet I do get out on the peaks most days dose help to clear the head

[@shanegreen2583]

100% agree on do what makes you happy. What your follows happy is seeing you happy and enjoying yourself Paul🤗