CORBYN & MICHAEL on Forgiving and Forgetting. 'Sorry’s Never Enough.'| GET REAL S3 Ep. #34

[@ashleybchoi]

sorry not sorry for this episode guys... 🤭

[@jasminebranch3007]

Blue check check check in the comments😀

[@kaveeta5]

We need part 2 of this episode😅😅

[@sakuraarc2206]

were u triggered here? 😅

[@luro2122]

@ashleybchoi Im with you in this one. If someone doesn't know why they need to apologize they don't know what upset or hurt me. So, they have a high probability of hurting me again. I can't trust that.

[@bishoo-vv9ce]

So fun man we need part 2222

[@LaughCryKLife]

This episode desperately needed a Harry situation to clarify how everyone says sorry.

[@priscillas4722]

Yess! Could you imagine Harry’s perspective? 🥰 and for some reason I feel like Junny would get along well with Corbyn too! 💛

[@almariaghern1876]

I love when the guest are friends with the hosts because it does feels like they literally Get Real. We always get so much tea and learn a lot more of their personalities 😂

[@tins_melo]

Peniel and Michael watching Corbyn and Ashley arguing about " Sorry"😂🤣🤣

[@ronnami]

😅

[@hannapaulineschwarz]

Do you know what the Instagram accounts are from the guests

[@AstarionWifey]

They really SINGING the intro now 😂😂😂 and Harry is MISSING IT

[@serene818]

THE INTRO OMGGGG. and im so happy to see 28lab artists as guests again i feel like it’s been a while! love having corbyn back as welllll

[@ComedyGlor]

I'm with Ashley on the not apologising when you don't think you've done anything wrong. If you've listened to your partner and see where they're coming from but still disagree, then you can agree to disagree. There's no need to throw empty, meaningless apologies

[@iamichelle]

42:21 haha they both crossed their legs at the same time like they’re judging him

[@yoongyus]

ASHLEY'S ENERGY THIS EP IS UNHINGED AND I LOVE IT

[@beauell1115]

Cory should have his own segment where he’d chat with guest in regards to music and the creative process. Dive Studio, please make it happen.

[@SouthSurrey604]

I think so, buddy

[@chelseamarie9773]

Corbyn has a very nice speaking voice.

[@bigbug39]

corbynnnnnnn it’s always such a blessing to hear him talk

[@kimmielulu2293]

I always love when 28Laboratory is on the set! They have grown so much since they’ve created this group and i love seeing where they go next. Thanks for bringing these fantastic guys again! And everyone stream Corbyn’s album OSS!!! 💛🧡❤️

[@evee1946]

I think Peniel has lots of healthy life skills. Great podcast!

[@NurulAini-eu4rk]

Can we have part 2 about "sorry" ? This episode really interesting...I want part 2.

[@matojulianelaine8223]

Uppp

[@camilacatalan6932]

Please!!!!!

[@purplequokka]

we'll have another episode with them but i think a different topic

[@chimchim3753]

I feel frustrated with the 'sorry' discussion but also very hilarious. Im more of a Corbyn, its hard to deal with an Ashley but at the end of the day I aspire to be a Peniel. 😂 I love this episode the rawness of the discussion is literally 'Get Real' ✨

[@HazalElise]

1:32 Peniel's "Are you a..robot?" hahahaha Corbyn and Michael seem so done in the beginning:'D also Ashley looking as gorgeous as ever

[@vgtmi3549]

The tension in this episode is on another level omg, even I felt awkward

[@marumerong]

You can totally tell they are friends. I feel like they put mics and cameras in a group of friends just talking and I loooove that vibe 💖 Excited to hear about the overseas plans for the 28lab guys ✨💖

[@43385489]

Corbyn calling out Penelope and Ash about their argument 5 mins in ahahahahahah

[@nhm2121]

Penelope????

[@43385489]

@@nhm2121 Haha yes on the 1st season they called Peniel Penelope and BM as Big Matilda lol

[@mymille22]

I love the combo of friends, because the conversation gets so natural and they tease eachother like true friends does😊

[@superlyobsessed]

49:30 Michael's wisdom coming through, I feel like this was a nice piece into his mindset and 100% agree

[@j-lee143]

I love when Corbyn is on Get Real!! ❤🎉

[@nickysanthi6772]

Peniel singing is something you only hear for couple of seconds on their last concert, not I can get it here and replay it as much as I can

[@ModnaRibe]

for someone who hates confrontation this episode is almost overwhelming to watch. but i feel like it gives me more perspective on how different personalities handle tense situatuons. so thank you for getting real on such a sensitive subject 🥲 personally tho, i agree that saying sorry helps to cool down the air and it makes what you say feel less like an attack towards the other person, usually i just say sorry that the situation got heated, or for upsetting them, then explain where i came from (without saying "but", i learned from experience🙏, apparently some feels it makes the sorry sound less sincere). When it's really bad and it seems like time is needed to reach any conclusion, i think it's best to explicitly set a time to comeback to the issue, personally when someone says they needs time, sometimes it makes me anxious bcs i feel like they're trying to brush me off and never talk about it again... wow i didn't expect to rant this much..🤣🤣

[@19x97x_M]

Yaay micheal and cory are here, i love when a friend is here it’s more fun🤩 i wish they’d do more interviews i wanna see them talk more

[@Maya-ke9bf]

I want a follow up to see how this is resolved since Ashley had time to think about it 😋 Seriously can we have them back in the show more often, I appreciate them being open about their perspectives and it makes for a more engaging conversation

[@isra_arsi]

Peniel has been showing us his acting skills these days and am LOVING IT !

[@purplequokka]

oh my gosh i just watched 40 mins of corbyn talking about why he's sorry. lmao the thing is ashley just wanna tell guys like him "there are other phrases you can use to diffuse the tension and 'im sorry' isnt it." 😂 and corbyn, the answer to the million-dollar question of "what are you sorry about," in the context of you being correct or having no mistake made, is "sorry that it *lead to an argument"* you can follow it by a "now let's talk about what made you upset/feel that way." SOOO MUCH BETTER THAN AN "OKAY IM SORRY BUT" i cant be the only one who got drained in this episode 😅

[@ainaptrc8330]

I wish to have conversations like this again with my friends. It’s been too long thank goodness these podcasts fills that spot ♥️

[@pnlsprkls]

Junny we miss you and your drumrolls

[@bsp158]

Haven't stopped listening to "Sorry's Never Enough"! I'm so happy you brought 28 back!

[@yacobeinauan9533]

A lot of people don’t master apologizing for making someone feel a certain type of way. Even tho its not your intention. Its nice to apologize and say “Hey i’m sorry if i made you feel this way but it wasn’t my intention.” That is the mature thing to do. People take too much offense when it comes to apologizing and they’re like “Oh what are u saying? Thats its my fault that you feel this way?” While it litteraly is. But that isn’t necessarily a bad thing because we are all humanbeings and it happens anyways no matter how hard you work on yourself People can’t control the way we feel. We are humanbeings, not robots. If you know it wasn’t your intention there’s no need to get so offended about you having to apologize. Its just apologizing for the way you made them feel, regardless of the intention you had with making them feel like that. Don’t be a child and just apologize because at the end of the day everyone is entitled to their feelings. Remember that phrase.

[@beeteees6535]

Corbyn was hilarious in this episode. The watch and sorry comments had me in stitches.

[@zoyanasiriqbal]

I was going to die on the Corbyn is hilarious bridge but now i think Michael is funnier. The “I forgive but I don’t forGET” was hilarious. Corbyn dug a hole with the meaningless apologies and Michael thinks he doesn’t hold grudges while holding them 😂😂😂

[@anasanchez690]

The way he looked and pointed at the camera too 💀

[@prince_2710]

ashley looked so cute with her hair!!!

[@liana8824]

I love "Cold"& "burn" lyricaly they are are amazing and yes his voice does show his emotions and I love it. I also do love his latest one "sorry's never enough" ... I can't wait to be able to get his EP. Can't wait for more Corbyn& Alex future activities ❤️ wish you all the best always!

[@therealsirenayasmin]

I understand where Corbyn is coming from. Saying I’m sorry first as a way to show the person that you’re already putting your pride aside and to bring the energy levels down & essentially, you are sorry for upsetting the person or offending the person even if you don’t necessarily know how you did so exactly at that exact moment. With the follow up conversation, you can dive deeper into the details and if another apology is necessary with the specifics then it can be done too.

[@randomcommenter3713]

Was such a fun episode

[@nessrineboukhari0167]

Amazing episode I actually loved their discussions it's incredibly important for friends to talk deeply and try to understand each other ! I really love corbyin and Michael they're amazing and I missed them soooooo much ! I hope they come again on the show!!❤

[@hobet]

I miss these guys soooo much!!! Welcome back Michael & Corbyn 😍😍😍

[@rouu__]

I absolutely LOVED this episode!! It was so much fun to hear their different perspectives, I had to pause a few times to think about what I'd do in those situations too.

[@mai-hani7014]

This is really an interesting topic. I had fun listening to this episode in spotify podcast and watched in KZbin

[@K_Attack]

Finally I missed this show😍😍🥰🥰😘corbyn I missed him too❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@quirkyaesthetics]

I really need them back again when Junny is back!!! Would really like to see songwriters interact about their inspo, creative process, etc. as it's always so thought provoking

[@CRCReacts]

As far as conversations go best episode so far guys keep up the great show

[@kimisilvera1703]

Thank you for bringing Mike and corbyn on again ❤❤❤ Everyone roasting Mike tho 😂😂😂 I love this episode seeing the 4 of them together. 28lab and 28crew Let's Get it!! 😄😄

[@rochelleagacid2412]

Easily one of my faves this season. Love when they get so comfortable haha and start arguing with friends.

[@f.2548]

BM and Harry would have ate Ashley up on this episode the way she was on cob 😂😂

[@bleust]

peniel's little "ever", just imitating what michael said was so cute haha

[@dnldlii]

dudeeeee would have been good if we have a part 2 for this 😂😂❤

[@jr.8836]

I missed them on the show!! why is there a limit time for the Episode plz make it longer we can listen to them 2 hours straight!!

[@alyssabloomfield5654]

I’m sorry when I hurt someone’s feelings. Humility is important in a relationship.

[@alexandrarysankova1557]

YEEEEES 28Laboratory is back. 🎉❤️ love these guys 😭💕

[@desmeisme]

5:02 my favorite k drama right now is actually a BL. It’s Called the 8th sense. Omg you guys should have the main characters on an episode of get real! More and more Korean Bl’s are coming out and this is SOOOOO INCREDIBLY GOOOOOD so far. I mean talk about the power in chemistry. 🏳️‍🌈🇰🇷

[@desmeisme]

@The Eight Kid แปด my mental health has gone through a lot through out the years. But there is light at the other side of the tunnel. Depression is strong but in time you learn through out a tough road that so are you. Depression is not forever, it feels like it since you can be stuck in it for years, but I swear It’ll get better. It’s like a caterpillar waiting to bloom into a butterfly. Eventually through time you shed it and find the real freedom is excepting what you can not change, and find the courage to change the things you can. That’s why I have hopes for a good ending in the 8th sense. I think Ji hyun will be a huge help in jae wons healing. Even though the most recent episode he pushes him away it’s clear he’s still trying to wrap his emotions around everything. He wants to be careful but idk, another week of waiting for more sorry I’m trying to type this before work so I’m going fast and I hope this made sense

[@purplequokka]

for some reason, i think cory and junny can be good friends 😂 like they match well, don't they?

[@Aaishax99]

Omfg Corbyn’s back my prayer have been answered 🔥🔥🔥

[@leahrox12]

ashley grilling corbyn I’m crying 🤣🤣🤣

[@Michelle45634]

w need a part 2 cuz they were not able to complete their convo

[@shiarienza8543]

that was an interesting topic! wish we could have more of it!

[@alysia8380]

Keep this intro forever! 😂😂 I cannot get over the last one with pH1 🤣

[@diannetapalla1645]

It was great listening to these folks talking sh*t. we need more of these (probably to feel less lonely)

[@LotsOfLove4Music]

ashley’s outfit and hair are so cute!!!!

[@armelody6558]

One of best get real eps 😂😂😂 chaotic energy, I get where Cory is coming from cuz am more like that when saying sorry

[@funnylizzie87]

Love it when they are all together

[@dreambabi]

Love Corbyn's new song- sorry's Never enough

[@moongurl8540]

I relate to Corbyn being the only Android user so much, I am the same in my friend group xD

[@Sthemingway]

Burn and Cold are a great pair. Corbyn's pre-emptive apologies aren't insincere, but they may be used as placeholders and transitions in an effort to dissipate the tension in the air. There's nothing inherently wrong with that impulse (which also explains why some people crack jokes when a conversation becomes too serious), but saying "I'm sorry" that often will erode its meaning. Eventually, when you do something that is unequivocally or arguably hurtful, "I'm sorry" may not come across as convincing anymore.

[@janicebolosan119]

Ashley wants to be acknowledged! Like own up to your mistakes!

[@francheskahum]

Pls let this be the official introductions from now lol it’s too funny. I love it

[@anisuresh6145]

super episode.. my cheeks are now painful..uncontrolled laughed .. even i have same personality as them, in fact i will forgive them but personally wont forget it.. cause it will become uncomfortable situation to talk about it again...

[@daisym8552]

Corbyn’s such a mood😂

[@moongurl8540]

I just woke Up and see Corbyn on the thumbnail YAAAAS🎉

[@17khbin]

Another chaotic episode of S3! Real life friends met up, and it became a chill hangout instead. 😂😂😂

[@mels9570]

My life will be chill with Peniel man. I don't like any drama dude. Life is so chaotic already so I don't need more drama with someone who'll be with me for the rest of my life. Let's have a healthy relationship. There will always be turbulence but, let's not dramatize it.

[@eveeve6344]

Corbyn would make a great host tbh hes real chatty asks questions funny, natural rizz lol

[@mumuvincai5107]

Yaaaayyy!!!was waiting for 28lab...🤩 thanks Dive studio Get real💓 i am a android user too🙋🏻‍♀️ love Samsung, always💜😘

[@moonlove4u]

Corbyn stole my heart

[@sammygurl637]

I'm on ur side Corbyn.. I Love Mario.. im actually going to watch it tonite 🔥😊

[@crazy4kayz]

I really liked this episode. Feels like the good old times from season 1 😊. More deep talks please!!

[@samara_lee]

The side tracking in this video is funny 😂😂😂

[@coryhong]

THIS IS WHAT I WAS WAITING FOR 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@kayshelton888]

Good conversation! Wish you could continue it into another podcast. Thank y'all!

[@snoozleblob]

Bruh, I can FEEL Corbyn's frustration trying to explain the saying "I'm sorry" first. I think what he was trying to say was that saying sorry in those situations first isn't admitting fault to the situation or admitting that you had a role somewhere to cause it. It's more an expression of "yo, it seems like I've hurt your feelings somehow", admitting to unknowingly causing hurt but then wanting to explore why in the followup conversation. Or more generally it's like saying "How did we end up on the opposite side? I may not know what hill it is exactly that we are standing on opposing sides of, but it is here undeniably and I want to be on the same side. So let's talk it out cause, my bad for not picking up on this sooner, whatever this issue ends up being". It's kind of like saying "I'm sorry to hear that" when someone mentions a loved one passing away. You aren't apologising for the loved one's death; you didn't cause it and you had no role in it. But the underlying message is "I did not intend to bring up a topic that may be causing you pain and I apologise for that. I didn't want to and don't want to bring you down." You are apologising and acknowledging that you have negatively impacted their mood and expressing that that was the reverse of what you wanted. Saying sorry first helps open up the necessary followup conversation because touchy subjects requires at least one person (ideally both) to be okay with being vulnerable. Why? Cause being vulnerable here means having to be honest about how you may have directly or indirectly contributed to the situation, being mature and willing to own up to your responsibility in the relationship (friendship or romantic), and owning up to not being perfect and willing to take on other's criticisms or at least being open to hearing a different interpretation of something. As I get older, I find that last part to being particularly important. At the end, you don't have to agree but you should at least understand what the other person's stance is, and that more often than not maybe the problem was in the delivery of the message (tone of voice, method of communication, language, intention, assumed knowledge, ...). It's not just about what you're communicating but how.

[@tins_melo]

41:20 the EDM of How how how how how 😹

[@vanillalatte5227]

I can't keep laughing cuz I relate to Ashley's POV. Like "LET'S CHILL?!" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@gracemendoza2110]

I want them too altogether with PH1

[@jessica_18]

Ashley my Scorpio sister 🫡 I feel you, girl

[@alyssabloomfield5654]

The men all agreed because the way are men. I related to Ashley’s point of view. 😂❤

[@ComedyGlor]

The one sitting next to Ashley reminds me of Astros Jinjin!

[@hellotitii5]

Omg I kinda see it

[@sisimariab]

CORRY MIKEY yaahhhhhhhhahahaaaaa WELCOME BACK guys we missed 28lab moments

[@pnlsprkls]

The first ten seconds already making me laugh 😂

[@butter_free__8]

ayoo this ep is freaking funn!!!

[@hamnakhalid9151]

I mean look at Peniel 's expression... 😂 He looks like he stuck in a wrong room 😂

[@katsugi7]

About the “sorry” thing. In my opinion, I think saying sorry without knowing the reason lowers the value of the “sorry”/apology. Talking things out with each other can lead to a true apology, but apologizing right away without knowing may feel no feel sincere to the other person. Maybe an option could be explaining why you are saying sorry. For example, in the beginning of an argument you can say “I’m sorry for the miscommunication and I see that you are hurt. I would like for to solve this together etc.” Then while you’re both talking you can understand why or why not an apology is needed :)

[@nocry6560]

We definitely need a part 2

[@buffysalvatore1524]

Omg wait no way You guys did the opening 😂💚💚💚

[@sammygurl637]

I get what they are saying with the sorry but it may be just me but I took the "sorry's never enough" in a different way lol My example is: when someone does something wrong (i.e. cheat, lies, doesn't come thru) and all they do is say Sorry with no actions to change.. then SORRY'S never enough

[@sunshine4778]

I missed Corby so much!!!!!

[@cesc00]

누군지 몰라서 안보다가 봤는데 재밌네.. 코빈 이분 목소리 개좋다