Costa Rica Culture Shock 🇨🇷 | 8 Surprises for Black Women Expats

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[@alexaesquivel7651]

I am Costa Rican and I am very pleased to have people like yourself come to Costa Rica. You are respectful to our land and culture and I soo appreciate that. I love that you are encouraging African American women to move here :) Pura Vida

[@jaxthewolf4572]

African American woman here and I plan on moving to Costa Rica. The people seem very friendly and love the sound of it.

[@tax905972]

Sounds like most who immigrate there, are single and have no intention of creating a family.

[@franiefran3598]

I'm in the process of getting my passport now. I'm considering moving out of the US by 2025 I'm just researching now. I keep seeing Costa Rica as being a great country.Ill be coming to visit soon. The US isn't where it's at anymore it isn't safe

[@YasukeNakamoto]

@@franiefran3598I’m a black man who is 27. I am considering moving there with my dogs. It is the only place I have researched where people don’t hate us for existing.

[@octaviusedwards3792]

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[@chesteruriah234]

I'm Costa Rican and I loved the way that you explain everything about our country, I feel excited to see brothers and sisters came to our country. You're welcome Sis !

[@classyjewel]

What are some popular places that are good to visit? I’m planning a trip there too!

[@lachotacr73]

​@@classyjewel1) south caribbean Is a afrocaribbean town in Limón Costa Rica. 2) la fortuna: las termalitas hot spring water, El chollin, el salto, la fortuna waterfall 3) Río celeste 4) Conchal beach, nozara beach 5) herradura beach, Jaco beach 6) Manuel Antonio. The country offers more adventures, but those are what we Costa Ricans visit the most because of their low cost, they also eat at local restaurants called sodas, greetings, pura vida

[@sammuelsammuel123]

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[@lenah5513]

Thanks for this, Stephanie. I also enjoyed the culture shock of how Costa Ricans respond to gracias / thank you. In many Spanish speaking countries, a common response to 'gracias' is 'de nada,' which literally translates to 'it's nothing.' In Costa Rica, the reply I heard most often was 'con mucho gusto,' which translates to 'with much pleasure'. Like 'pura vida,' it made me feel like I was part of the community, someone who is genuinely welcome and worthy of care.

[@StephaniePerry]

Yes! I love that too!! Costa Ricans have been so warm to me. I'm glad you enjoyed it here. 💗

[@Stop_The_BS_]

You’re really complaining about “de nada”? You’re probably American and see the negative in everything even when its meant to be nice

[@becca475]

Jajajaja, yeah, when I do a favour to someone, I feel like I have to say 'Con mucho gusto'. If not, the deed is not done, and there was no favor.

[@lenah5513]

@@Stop_The_BS_ I don't mean any disrespect to 'de nada'. It is the response I've heard and used most often. I was pointing out a difference that surprised me pleasantly in CR. And yes, I am a US American who seeks to appreciate difference whether I'm traveling or at home. Peace to you.

[@ltp1459]

Stephanie I too enjoy the information you provided. I do want to move but at the same time wonder about work , but with everything you just explained; I am even serious about it. Thank you so much, keep posting. I will for sure keep look for more info.

[@Catwithlipstick]

As a woman from Costa Rica, I'm so happy to see the interest in our beautiful country. Welcome US black women 🙏🏻❤️

[@georgeviales7705]

As a Tico (Costarican), Bienvenida! It is nice listening to people talk about my country, good or bad (criticism is always welcome in order to improve). I'm glad you've had a nice time here and I hope it continues that way. Pura Vida!

[@vernitagundy3930]

In Manuel Antonio for 11yrs. Put everything in the fridge! Spices, flour , sugar (ants love ya suga!) Also,plastic bins to store other things too. Pura Vida is everything!! ❤ Being a black woman in Costa Rica is pretty easy and their is no stress. They normally think we are from the Caribbean side until we speak and then they know, "Gringa"! I tell people to also pay in colones to make your life easier. $$ do come in handy but I normally have colones. Not all people are bilingual once you are out of SJ or the touristy areas and the expat communities. I tell all please be respectful to speak Spanish ,we are visitors in their country. Medismart is a good private health insurance to sign up with and it's a part of Hospital Metropolitano. Pura Vida!

[@TehOvermind]

Hello! Tico here :) Just a tiny but important clarification: Medismart is good, yes, but it is *not* insurance. It basically is a subscription service that gives you access and discounts to certain things, but you shoud not rely on it like you do on insurance. Hope this is useful!

[@vernitagundy3930]

@@TehOvermind thanks

[@PhoenixBeI]

As a Latin American, THANK YOU for saying that people shouldn't behave by colonizers and that they have to learn the local language. Because that's exactly what the Spanish did to us. You touched a nerve, in a good way. Thank you again for recognizing and acknowledging the oppression endured by the people in whose land you now live. ❤

[@JanHam]

This was EXACTLY the feeling I had during my visit to Costa Rica. Absolutely LOVE Costa Rica

[@fixer1140]

Thank you for your kind words. Pura vida ✌🏻😎

[@emerichagens8756]

I am a Black American male, this is cool I appreciate your insight, information and experiences. Hope you don’t mind me viewing your content, it gives me a feeling of confidence as I contemplating traveling abroad in Black skin Than You! I will be sure to share this with the Black women in my life👌🏿

[@BeeChance]

Please keep in mind that Costa Rica is VERY expensive, loud (good luck sleeping in on the weekends), and you will find all kinds of creatures in the house (even poisonous creatures). It may be a dog-friendly country; BUT, the constant barking is annoying and some dogs can be aggressive. Costa Rica is safe-ish, but there IS crime there. Also, the lack of addresses is frustrating. I had problems explaining to drivers how to get me to the Airbnb because it did not have an address. I did NOT enjoy my time there.

[@joshs6333]

Lol. Black people and their exclusion of all other races is appalling and racist, very common, though. Im sure you are a black "king"

[@carlosruizmora3111]

Hi Stephanie, this is Carlos from Costa Rica. I feel very honoured when listening to your cultural shocks. There is another one I came to learn thanks to a white american guy who felt very happy when he saw that at work *WE ALL* sit together to have lunch... no matter what is the color of your skin. I feel proud of that. Of course, Costa Rica is not a perfect place, we still have criminality and women are still struggling to reach equality, but we are a society who wants to do things right for everyone. I feel pretty confident to say that any black person will be welcome to live and grow with us.

[@dews3340]

Very LATE seeing the post. We go to the gym 6 days a week for spinning class, lifting weights, pilates, dance classes,too. Thankfully I left America in 1999 for Central America. I stayed a year and remarried! No short men for me. I have full health insurance coverage and dental FOR Free. Last month I got 2 crowns for FREE, 0 co pay. All of my prescriptions are FREE, as well. We eat clean foods No pork! ....................Speaking Frenchie Russian and Spanish, age 70, married to a tall handsome husband from central America, got my residency in 1999! Boom and boom

[@janeenharrison1953]

this resonates with me, thank you for sharing this!! good food and health insurance is a priority for me.

[@sharicebryant8149]

I’m so happy i found this channel. I’ve been contemplating becoming an expat for two years now. Recently my best friend passed away and he traveled a lot. He loved Costa Rica and encouraged me to travel more and move where I’d be safe and have a better life. I’m looking at Portugal and also Costa Rica but i may really consider Costa Rica! 🇨🇷 thank you for this video. ❤️

[@rleandro315]

As a Costa Rican I'm always grateful for other people's take on my country. Sure, there's always things we can improve as a country but it's nice to see that we still have a nice place to live. And yes, we do say Pura Vida on multiple contexts to convey different stuff. Finally, you forgot to mention the word "Mae", used as "dude, pal" haha

[@StephaniePerry]

I don't think I've heard "Mae" yet. I need to get out of the house more. 😆

[@ceruleansuit]

@@StephaniePerry Well it's usually more common among men, we don't usually hear women saying it (except teenage girls lol) so it makes sense that you've not been called that yet, it's very informal term and some people find it disrespectful :D

[@ladyl4147]

And everyone says, Buenas in the streets passing by. (Black woman - U.S. born and raised but a descendant of Afro-Carribeans in C.R.)

[@manuelakuchta7093]

We adopted from Costa Rica last year and really loved that they celebrated Day of the Child. The hotel staff greeted our child with "Happy Children's Day!" They also receive a little gift. My son asked me, why don't they celebrate the Day of the Child in the United States?😐

[@larabraver]

Nigeria also has a big Children's day every May.

[@larabraver]

How was your adoption experience? Did you have to become a resident?

[@manuelakuchta7093]

@@larabraver We live in the States, we only had to stay in Costa Rica for 6 weeks during the adoption process. We just happened to be there during The Day of the Child.

[@monicasalasviquez673]

Oh that's true! I remember back in school our professors would give us candy or buy us ice cream on Children's Day. Even now that i'm in college a professor gave us chocolates that day and several told us 'happy children's day'. (I'm Costa Rican).

[@khadijahwashington168]

This sounds fantastic

[@Babyglitter00]

Hello❤️ As a Costarican I am so glad you feel safe as a black woman, I thank you so much for moving, learning about our culture and not moving as a colonizer. Hope you have a great time here. Pura vida! 🇨🇷

[@ics1572]

I loved this video. Some of the people from the US that come here expect OUR country to be like the USA. And they get disappointed or mad at that. You were really respectful, and I hope you love our country and feel at home. Thanks for this really nice video

[@CierraJohnson-bh4mc]

As an American I don't get it, it shouldn't come as a surprise that things will be different in another country.

[@jenegipson2468]

Hi Stephanie!!! Your makeup is lovely.

[@StephaniePerry]

aww Thanks so much Jené! 💗

[@tinahmarie763]

Hi Stephanie, I am a Retired Disabled Veteran, is there Healthcare for us? What is the rent?

[@rrojasvictor]

siempre que vengas con buenas acciones, buenas costumbres y humildad Costa Rica será tu país también, bienvenidos todos los que vengan a aportar algo a la comunidad, no nos importa tu color o procedencia, religión o política ... Pura Vida✌

[@nballesterob]

@@meaversand and why not bring money? What do you think we use to life? Like we trade bananas?

[@bjyzip2252]

@@meaversand why are u pressed? if u dont like it, dont come back.

[@bjyzip2252]

@@meaversand you are putting a highlight on something that we dont have control over like some people polluting and things being expensive but hey, you have control over choosing to go somewhere else :) or focusing on things that are very great about our country.

[@bjyzip2252]

@meaversand if you dont like the way we are raised and feel uncomfortable by things like that, there are soooo many countries you can choose from that will please your needs :) what makes you so entitled and rude about it? were you raised like that? you are disrespectful and your opinion was just thrown bc you can't accept the fact that we have a country that's beautiful and inviting, it has a some flaws but we are working everyday as a community to be better. there are campaigns dedicated to pick up litter by volunteers who just want to see our country be better and la Municipilidad they work very hard so our streets can be clean and nice. Don't be acting all high and mighty. As someone who lives here, yes we make many mistakes but don't underestimate the people that are trying very hard to make a change and be better.

[@bjyzip2252]

@@meaversand You can say that it's expensive because it is, but don't be saying that our country is dirty and our people weren't raised right. Because, what gives you the right?

[@RobertoSalasCR]

Stephanie we love to have respectful and beautiful people like you here in CR. Pura Vida ❤.

[@StephaniePerry]

Pura Vida. 💗

[@kernalbert4939]

@@StephaniePerry Hella important to mention. If you are leaving the United States, DON"T bring the United States with you!

[@kristinab1078]

Jeanne Calmest is the oldest documented woman...ever. You may have seen someone who was very old, but it's highly unlikely they were older than Jeanne.

[@rochellek5327]

Yes please give us content on your dental journey. I am in the DMV , visited Illinois, Texas and Georgia. Each of these areas had the World Cup available in the malls, sports bars/grills and/or ethnic markets. All realized that men shopping with their families wanted to keep up with the games.👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@StephaniePerry]

Oh, who knew? I'm surprised. I know restaurants and bars show it because they'll make money. But I'm surprised it was in the malls. I'll do a dentist video! Thanks for watching Rochelle. 💗

[@stevenhopster9974]

I’d like to hear about your dental journey. Thanks in advance.

[@d.andreasotoobando5146]

As a Costa Rican I want to thank you for this video, I'm so glad you have had a nice experience here! I hope you always feel safe and happy 💓And of course PURA VIDA! 🦥

[@LauraNavarro1977]

Hi! I don't know how I find this video but honestly you make me cry! I am in the other side, I am a Costa Rican struggling with cultural shock in USA. The point #1 about food, is basically because Costa Rica is in the Caribbean, were there is more humidity and other ways of life, remember that the environment allows more varieties of plants to grow, more animals and MORE insect, and microorganism and fungus. FYI: In USA (in Seattle, WA) it doesn't matter if I leave all my chocolates out of the fridge but in CR all candies will be covered in ants or cockroaches if those are left outside the fridge. Point #2 this is the one that made me cry... because I can't stand the Seattle freeze anymore, after 10 years I will be always treated as the immigrant that has no good reasons to live in USA and people are always avoiding eye contact because they think it cost an Arm and a Leg just to say Hello. In fact, in here what it really cost an arm, a leg, one of your kidneys and even selling your soul to the Devil is Health Insurance or any medical treatment; OH BOY!! let's not get there... I am not going to comment on the other points but I will add another important point: In Costa Rica the words "Negro" "Negrito" "Negra" or "Negrita" are NOT derogatory, in CR those words are full of love, my aunt call me negra and I automatically know that she loves me, it is like saying "My Darling", "Honey" or "Sweetie". For me was really sad to discover all the negative connotations in USA, and it's difficult to change that meaning when you grew up thinking about something positive and now as an adult I have to change it to negative; like there isn't enough negativity in this world. If you ever hear the Cuban singer Celia Cruz singing "La Negra tiene tumbao", that song is to empower black woman to be confident and enjoy life.

[@federicobolanos379]

Laura makes a wonderful contribution here when she clarifies the use of "negra" or "negrita" (used for people with darker than usual complexion or even tanned complexion and not necessarily for afro-caribbean descendants), but also "machita" (usually used fo people with blonde hair, very fair-coloured skin or blue/green eyes), "chinito" (used for people with eyes that are more slanted that the common population and not necessarily asian descendants), etc. As Laura says the use of these words in our culture transmit endearment and are not at all derogatory. My wife calls me "gordito" even though I am not gordito, and in fact, there is a huge amount of love in the tone that she uses when she calls me that. So if you a ever called one of these words in a pleasant tone of voice, please know that no one is trying to be insulting; as a matter of fact it is exactly the opposite, they are trying to be polite and make you feel welcomed. And if you feel uncomfortable, which you have every right to feel as it may be shocking for you, I recommend that you smile and offer the person your name, so that they may call you by your name in future encounters. This will be interpreted as you opening up to them and you will have gained a friend for life. All the best.

[@fixer1140]

Yep, this is so true. My mom used to call my brother "mi negrito" as a cute nick name for him, is not a derogatory word at all. Remember, we will try to make you feel as part of the family and the community. Tuanis!

[@David.O.M.]

Que pena ver esa cara de la moneda. Gracias por tu comentario me llega bastante y me identifico 100%

[@icycaribe]

Thank you. I agree on the terms Negrita, etc. I really hope people from the USA don't bring the race issues here.

[@indianaleal]

True! They call me negra in my family as well

[@carloscerdas1111]

As a Costa Rican I always feel very uncomfortable in another country, of course in the US, I have never seen a Militar and my first time was in a US airport, and now with this video I can feel very proud of our country and also I want to make a video of culture shock as a Costa Rican in what ever place jeje, you are very welcome and don't forget to visit Limón and all the Caribbean towns of our country, we appreciate a lot this places. Blessings

[@rachelmickel7634]

Stephanie, you look radiant! Thank you for sharing your experiences. ❤

[@johndear1592]

Was going to say the same thing on her page but didn't want to sound like a creepy online guy. She's glowing!

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks Rachel! And you're welcome. 💗

[@StephaniePerry]

@@johndear1592 I love compliments! 🤗

[@livefromtheground7274]

Costa Rica had been on my mind forever . . . I went for a week at the end of October, stayed at a beach resort. Came back with awesome skin, and so relaxed it was noticable and still is nearly a month later. I am planning to go back and stay in San Jose area. The folks are awesome, welcoming and real. I travelled alone and did not feel unsafe. I met several families and a group of New Yorkers at my resort who did the same tours as me and they were awesome. The folks at Liberia's airport were the happiest folks I ever met. The RAIN and steam were akin to an everyday sauna and I loved it on my skin. SO much to say . . . thanks for all you do Stephanie!!

[@nelaazv7478]

As a Costa Rican I am glad you felt good here, you are always welcome. But if you want my advise, don't waste time in San Jose. There is nothing there for a tourist, Costa Rica is about the nature. Go anywhere but San Jose.

[@lindairvine993]

Thanks for the information u have given me some good ideas on my next move

[@annabellak4033]

Stephanie is always the voice i need when i am falling behind on this journey, depression fights you in every step. Encouragement to do what you need to do is nice, especially when you give it often and need some move forward words for yourself. . I have to get busy and get my coins together, get travelers insurance and find that place my daughter and i can be. its just time to travel.

[@MzAmazon7]

Thank you for sharing this! I’ve been researching different countries where the transition won’t be to difficult.

[@SunnyDe_]

I felt this!

[@pansyrosereality]

You will have all you desire. Hang in there friend.

[@PI1901]

Absolutely! @Annabella K. Just do it.

[@StephaniePerry]

A change of environment really can feed your soul. I hope you get someplace on your calendar soon. 💗

[@normabrown1589]

Hi Stephanie, I lost my mom in October. I have been wanting to move abroad for years, now I may be able to. You are so encouraging. I think now it’s my time.

[@StephaniePerry]

It's your time Norma. My condolences to you. I hope you're making some progress toward your move abroad dream. 💗

[@barsikac5098]

Norma, Please be very careful. Do a lot of research before you make this decision that you will not be able to change. Do not sell your property in USA before you move to Costa Rica. It is 3rd world country and people are poor. They call Americans gringos. Prostitution is legal. Crime is high, it is not safe to be there for American tourists.

[@barsikac5098]

You will never get American level dental care in Costa Rica.

[@jenb.1889]

@@barsikac5098 can you explain further?

[@barsikac5098]

@@jenb.1889 I had two implants done in " the best dental clinic" in Escazy across the big hospital, even ex - rays were done in that "American level" hospital. They didn't not do the bone graft the way it must be done. I have to redo everything in USA. No money you will get back from. Costa Rica. I wish I would never done it in Costa Rica and I would not have all these problems. I say "Thank you, God!" that I got out from Costa Rica. I am glad it works for you.

[@naturhealer2289]

I just got back from Costa Rica. Your 💯 right on your surprises. Costa Rica made me realize most of the fruits, veggies and foods that I don’t like in the US I absolutely loved in Costa Rica. Which made me realized how much of our foods are overly processed. I will most differently be visiting again. Who knows I made become a permanent resident in the future. Enjoy your stay and Pura Vida 👋🏾

[@becca475]

I really aprecciate you mentioning how important it is to learn the language in making the difference between moving in as colonizer. Spanish, in this case, I feel very honoured to hear you say you've been learning Spanish. In my case, it really angers me when tourists or foreigners dont even make the effort. So, I wanted to say Muchas gracias! That's not to say, you can't take your time with it! Spanish and English are different languages after all, and learning an entire language from scratch is a challenge by itself.

[@ericabest3560]

I do too. Not to mention, its such a beautiful language

[@angelamckenzie3286]

I am Panamanian living in Costa for 30 years and I just love my Costa Rica this country has given me so much, So good that as a black woman just has me you fell good here . Welcome.

[@mimo2489]

I just got back from Jaco, Costa Rica this week, and this video popped up! I loved Costa Rica. I’m Honduran and speak Spanish so it was a really easy space to be in for us. Everyone was so kind! Me and my cousins want to get Pura Vida tatted! We learned it is a very real thing for them and a way of life. I just started following you and I am loving this nomad lifestyle. I’ve lived in New York my whole life, but I think my calling is to be more worldly. I want to be a part of this lifestyle instead! Please keep us posted on the dental visit. Very interested to see how that is over there! Good luck 🍀

[@shirlebryant9427]

Yes, speaking Spanish is important

[@StephaniePerry]

I'm glad you loved Costa Rica! I haven't been to Jaco yet. Maybe soon. And yes, I'll share my dentist experience next year. Thanks for watching. 💗

[@Aeryaunne137]

Stephanie got me planning on relocating to Costa Rica within a year!🌎

[@Hamidmahdi]

Pura Vida. Costa Rica was my first home away from the States. I may have missed it but did you mention how most addresses are generic phrases like, "the building with the black gates" or "the house next to the house with the goose?" That definitely through me for a loop when I lived there.

[@monicasalasviquez673]

That's a joke by itself, here in CR. We know we give awful adresses but we're just used to it and make fun of it.

[@veronicaoguilve9707]

Lol! I am Costa Rican and this is so real! We also say 100 mts north from xxxx and those 100 may actually be 300 meters hahahahah

[@danamoore3920]

Stephanie, Costa Rica is on my list of retirement destinations and your trip there has confirmed that it’s the right place for me. I’ll be visiting in 2023 just to make sure. You look radiant by the way!

[@Itsfridei]

Please take it out, we don’t want y’all to keep on colonizing our land and pushing us towards worst living conditions, for you all might be a paradise to live here, while make it hell for us. If you have the smallest amount of respect for us, just stay in the US

[@ordon3858]

African American Mom here who has travelled the world with her daughters including CR, Dubai, Maui 2 times. Honolulu, Tokyo, Kyoto, Singapore and many more. We were always welcomed but Dubai had mostly tourist that were from Europe and spoke their own language so that was a bummer. Dubai is still a must do. We’ve been to most of the Caribbean islands. Paris, Rome, Venice and So many ahhh moments. Many of the Caribbean Islands. Next big trip is taking my Mom to Africa.

[@IamAhShah]

Thank you for sharing these resources Teacher Stephanie! You werking those afro Puffs luv!

[@StephaniePerry]

You're very welcome! And thank you. 🤗 🤗

[@DrMargoLomaxD]

Just started living in CR 2 - 4 months at a time. I think it will be my winter home which is dry season there. Amo Costa Rica en Español. I love Costa Rica from day one in December 2019. Been going back & forth ever since. I have been to e.v.e.r.y area. Love, love, love. Thanks for the video. Maybe I'll see you around for some Cacique or Chilliguarro 🥰

[@georgecastanedo198]

I just wanted to clarify a a few things. I'm a Costarican and one of the few that left Costa Rica. lol I've been in the United States since 1995. Safety. Even though it's one of the safest countries in latinamerica. It's still unsafe in certain things or areas. 1} Avoid walking alone at night in the city or lonely streets. I've been robbed and my phone and wallet were stolen a couple of times but yes I was walking once like at midnight from some night club. I didn't find any taxis back then there was no Uber so I decided to walk for a few blocks and got robbed and another day it was during the day really early in the morning I stayed at a hotel in a really bad area of San Jose and I also got robbed ( The Taxi driver took me to a bad hotel and since I don't know many areas of Costa Rica he took me to a bad area and I wasn't aware. Other than that as long as you don't do this or walk around with your camera and sketchy places then you are fine. 2) It's easy to blend in if you are White or Black because aside from the typical hispanic looking person a lot of Costa Ricans are white and many are black so it's easy to blend it. If you don't act like a tourist, let's say you just have a Tshirt and jeans and don't walk around with some suitcase or obvious traveling bags then nobody is really gonna know that you are a tourist unless you open your mouth. :) 3) Don't stay in San Jose. if you plan to stay a few days in the city before you go to the beaches and jungles. stay in places like Santa Ana, Escazu, or even Heredia or Atenas. note: what I mean with don't stay in San Jose is that don't stay in the middle of downtown San Jose. is really not nice at night, but stay in the surrounding areas just like 10, 15 minutes away, they are cities near San Jose but no in the middle of it. you know for example if you are in Los Angeles but you prefer to stay in Beverly HIlls or Pasadena or if you are in Miami but you prefer to stay in West Palm Beach, just an example sorrounding cities but not in the middle of San Jose. 4) everything else is just what she said but again it is safe in certain tings but more unsafe in others like pickpocketing in the city if you are too obvious and don't be flashy. that's what I was trying to say early. don't be flashing your stuff or walking alone in lonely places.

[@susanafernandez4164]

Now days San Jose downtown is not bad . In fact La California and Barrio Escalante are great places for food and fun in San Jose . Maybe you are unupdated.

[@yannikamaya]

As a tico I enjoyed your perspective. The dual currency is really just from 20 bucks or less. (Outside of the tourist areas) people are really sacred to get burned with a fake 50 or 100. As for the language you're completely correct. I have friends who've been here for over 2 decades and can barely say hola and and have no problems getting around. Even if you don't have healthcare or insurance the hospitals will still attend you. Compared to other places we're a lil spendy but it's a place you wanna be at

[@dianeelliott134]

Acabo de visitar Costa Rica en April por mi primera vez. Me encanté Costa Rica, la gente, los costumbres y la comida. Si Dios quiere, visitaré cada año. Pura vida!

[@nikkijackson4419]

I studied abroad in Costa Rica back in the 90s. I currently live abroad in Japan for the past 6yrs and have traveled quite a bit. I still tell everyone that when I retire if I could live if anywhere outside the US it will be Costa Rica. Beautiful country, beautiful people, and the food is so fresh and good. My only downside I experienced along with the rest of my women's study group was the Tico bravado. The men would do the kissing cat call sound EVERY where we went. Most men never went further than that but one of my classmates did get gropped walking by herself by a guy riding on the back of a moped. For the most part I felt very safe as a single women in her 20s back then. My favorite area by far was the Caribbean coast with the black sand beaches. 🇨🇷

[@meliherrera6646]

That’s so sad 😢 I must tell you that two years ago they passed a law that prohibits street harassment to punish this type of behavior.

[@normaburgess9671]

Greetings! Did you take a women's studies' class from Syracuse with a black female professor??

[@workingtwiceashard]

That hairstyle is super cute!

[@SlothCR]

Stephanie mentions things that most tourists don't realize because same reason: they come to Costa Rica as tourists for a very limited time. That been said here are some "tico takes" on Stephanie's points: 1. Real Food > Ticos are raised in a very family-driven environment where every activity is around the meal in a very warm and welcoming setup. Meals are thought, prepared and cooked not microwaved or rushed. 2. Pura Vida > Out motto is applied to EVERYTHING: greetings, instead of thank you, as approvals, etc. Once you understand the way how it is used, you become a local. 3. No military > Abolition happened after a civil war. There are police "special teams" who are somewhat heavily armed but they are not out and about, they are used only in specific (very limited) occasions. 4. Dual currency > Costa Rica is so highly visited by tourists and dollar being used worldwide, it becomes almost a must for businesses to accept dollars. 5. Bilingual > American culture, due to proximity, is very rooted in Costarican culture. However, because of our educational level, foreign industrial investment creates the need to be multilingual (not only english but other languages as well) 6. Health care > We get deducted a percentage on our salary where every worker contributes to the health of the rest. So, its a right and we pay for it, but it's not as outrageous as in US. 7. Kid & pet friendly > Why not? Why having a pet or a kid should be a reason to be sorry about? It's part of my take on real food, we are very family driven society. 8. Soccer crazy > Football, come on! I can compare it with american football craziness and following. We do have our own problems and areas of opportunity, same as other countries. Once you know how to handle yourself around any city in Costa Rica, you can basically go anywhere and be welcomed as well.

[@bbarnett7667]

I worked there doing IT in the early 2000s and fell in love. The people were cool and the food and weather was awesome. I was usually there in the winter months in the US so I immediately fell in love. This was before the Cali realtors ruined real estate prices. Still on the top of my list of places to retire. Pure Life!

[@Shawndrea]

I am so very appreciative of this clear & candid information.

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks so much for watching! 💗

[@andersmedina2628]

Hi Steph, I’m an immigrant too (in my case from a LatAm country) and I totally agree with your comments, Costa Rica 🇨🇷 is a very nice place to move and live!! Pura Vida!!

[@crisispsychic]

The Contant about Costa Rica is beautiful and I could see you glowing while you’re there. Look beautiful and gorgeous.

[@mynewyork165]

The sheer fact that you can find bagels in Latin America is amazing.

[@Giselle-gx3iz]

Ugh, I really needed this video. I’m definitely gonna check out Costa Rica. Currently living in Spain but it’s too far and I miss my family but I refuse to live back in the US. Thanks Stephanie 💜 also, would love your dental experience video

[@mrsmoore4937]

Hi... I've been in Barcelona 3 years. It's been mostly cool for me. Moving on to a different part of the world later this month. Wishing you all the best. Just keep looking, you got this.

[@Giselle-gx3iz]

@@mrsmoore4937 Aw, thanks for this message. Wishing you all the best as well! Good luck on your new journey ✨🥳🥂✨

[@PI1901]

I am planning my travel for 2023. First up is Lisbon! I am now looking into Costa Rica because of you. I have a friend who talked about Costa Rica for years and inspired me to visit. Unfortunately, she got diagnosed with MS, retired early so doesn't have the discretionary income to travel. So I'll be going solo..

[@pansyrosereality]

I suppose to go in 2019 with two cousins but they backed out. So I’ll most likely go solo or with my son some day. Cost Rico is on the top of my bucket list. Let me know when you go . I’d live to see it❤

[@StephaniePerry]

Sorry to hear about your friend. But Costa Rica and Portugal are both good choices for solo travel. Enjoy!

[@Lookingtobounce]

Living as a resident of Portugal, but love hearing about Costa Rica! Love black women becoming digital nomads...loving it for my life and love seeing others do the same!

[@rhondak_ManorMiravalles]

I am neither a black woman or new to Costa Rica. But I love this video and can confirm from experience (in the US and Costa Rica) that you are spot on. Petty things that have been different for us: away from San José, I haven’t seen dual currency. We just keep a small amount of colones on hand. Outside of tourist hotspots, people are not typically bilingual. There’s a good translator app that helps us while we are learning Spanish. Other than those small things that are only because we have settled in different areas, your reporting on the culture and situation here is gospel. I, too, try to encourage disgruntled North Americans and Europeans to consider moving here. It’s not for everyone, but if folks are not determined to import a high maintenance lifestyle and choose instead to adopt the pura vida way, it’s a great option. I just posted a video about the cost of living here, targeted specifically toward the average, non-wealthy expat. It’s all about the priorities and expectations people have when they come here.

[@mariaabundantliving6965]

Always enjoy hearing your insights. Your hair and makeup are fantastic. That style is adorable on you!

[@adrianam.7679]

You have convinced me to schedule vacation to check it out myself. The kid and dog friendly on top of affordable healthcare were great indicators, but when you mentioned football, you had me.

[@stephaniepinkard1443]

Thank you Stephanie, for sharing your experience with us in Costa Rica and other places you've traveled, it's really opened my eyes to moving abroad.

[@StephaniePerry]

You're welcome! Thanks for watching. 💗

[@valencia81750]

How much are apartment to rent in nice areas? How much are homes there?

[@themysticalmisfit]

BEYOND GRATEFUL FOR ALL OF THIS INFORMATION! I've been planning to volunteer in Costa Rica next year and this just sold me on becoming a resident!

[@pansyrosereality]

If you don’t mind me asking? Is there a particular organization your volunteering through and what are the duties required?

[@StephaniePerry]

I have the same question as Pansy Rose. Who are you planning to volunteer through?

[@geebee8908]

I also am interested in the volunteer organization.

[@winnieb1352]

Thank you Stephanie you always share the goodies

[@StephaniePerry]

You're very welcome Winnie B!! 💗

[@SpiritSoulSense]

Costa Rica sounds fabulous! I’m ready to visit

[@vhanna7351]

Stephanie, I stumbled into one of your many videos over a year ago. Your details, positive energy, willingness to help others and excellent way articulating your content is a blessing. Thank you for your hard work!❤

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks for you kind words! And thank you so much for watching a being part of the community. 💗

[@MaricruzMonteroM]

Hi Stephanie, I am a Costa Rican and you are more than welcome, hope you love it here. And thank you, this videos help Costa Rican understand they live on a privileged place. If you are looking for a middle point between being near to the city but surrounded by nature you can look up Ciudad Colón, lots of foreigns live here and it's a very beautiful town.

[@peace4all928]

Hello Ms. Lovely. Thanks for sharing such great info.Much appreciated

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks so much for watching! 💗

[@chocolatecityhoney]

Thank you Stephanie! I needed to see this video. I lost track of the goal which is get tf out of America. I trust your judgement and your recruitment video is working ❤

[@indigodolphin687]

Stephanie you are a breath of fresh air. This couldn't have come at a better time! Thank you for doing the work-- that helps us

[@ursulabrenes3649]

Welcome to Costa Rica. Here we are all same color., same dreams. We all share same place. Pura vida!

[@DC-pk7hl]

Hi Stephanie! Thank you so much for making this channel. You are a shining ray of light. I love your content! I lived in South Korea as an ex-pat English teacher. I kept thinking this isn't quite what I'm searching for, I know there's more. I want to travel and have more free time. I'm tired , burnt out, frustarted, and sick of working to make other ( mostly white people) rich. As a Black woman, I don't feel safe in the US. I felt a lot safer in South Korea,; and they're still technically at war with North Korea.! I was living (my third tour of teaching) Korea when George Floyd was murdered in Minneapolis my hometown. I'm so happy I found you and your channel. ^^ I started (slowly) workiing on the steps to get me out of here. I would love to hear about your experience visiting the dentist in Costa Rica. Be well and take care,

[@StephaniePerry]

DC, I'm glad you're working on finding a new home that you love even more than South Korea. Minneapolis doesn't deserve you. 💗

[@connieperry9019]

Pura Vida. A Blessing

[@latishajonesconcepcion9974]

Thank you for this video. Love your hair

[@eyne1703]

I love Costa Rica! I studied abroad there, lived with my host family. Pura Vida!!! I am still friends with the friend I met there 22 years ago.

[@2kreative1]

Giiirl.... You make me SO excited!!! I've been dreaming of Costa Rica for years. I can't WAIT!!

[@BrainyBajanBeauty]

Resonated with pretty much everything you said in this video. I went to Costa Rica on a solo trip this past October for my birthday and I absolutely LOVED it. Seriously considering living there as well.

[@khaliahbanks1629]

I want to go solo as well for my birthday next week. I waited late but can you suggest places to stay?

[@BPe-ie9je]

Can you do cost of living video ?please

[@StephaniePerry]

Good idea! Will do. 💗

[@mom2suns857]

Yes please do!!

[@jessicajames2237]

Living in Costa Rica is expensive. Period

[@masberrycreek782]

While the puravida thing is nice how she explained it, as a Costa Rican I can tell you the best way to interpret it is as “great” or like “yup”

[@laurenfernandez7189]

Super helpful - Thank you, Stephanie! I love your straightforward observation/ facts style of presenting.

[@noneofyourbusiness1303]

I been researching CR , and they just elected a black woman as president 😱😝😁😆….I’m so ready to move there…thank for your videos it has helped me in my decision

[@carbebcarbeb8335]

Vice president.that was years ago.

[@Eagle031265]

Stephanie, thanks for your feedback for those that might be interested to come to my country, respecting the way we're. We hope we can share our " Pura Vida" with most of you. Cheers from Costa Rica

[@lsc130]

Thanks sis for this information. I plan on visiting this summer.

[@ericabest3560]

You are answering ALLLL of my questions! #6 is BIG!! Thank you!!

[@sweetkingjazzybaptiste]

I'm so glad I ran across your video I'm heavily considering moving to Costa Rica and your video really helped a lot. Thank you so much 💗

[@d.edison3399]

I've been to Costa Rica a few times, and it doesn't disappoint! It's just a fantastic place, the people are awesome, and I felt safe!

[@Komakiri.]

as a costarican this video opened my eyes a bit more, i dont usually think much of USA but watching this video made me think of things i see as usual even granted and how for others those things are a blessing and something they want im glad you are happy on here, yall are totally welcome! and i do also think that when we say Pura vida it IS welcome, it is a way to say that you are one of us!

[@tatjm7454]

Hi, welcome to Costa Rica. As costarrican citizen we appreciate the people that come down and explore and get in touch with the local culture. I hope you spend a nice time over here ☺️ Pura Vida

[@22221mm]

Question: Do you experience loneliness or homesickness? If so, how do you navigate it? Thanks

[@pansyrosereality]

That’s an awesome question ❤

[@StephaniePerry]

I don't get lonely of homesick much. Even as a kid, that wasn't really my thing. But video chats are good and sometimes people come to visit me. Plus, if I need some in-person time with somebody, I can reach out to people in local Facebook groups to meet up with someone.

[@fdoctor79]

"Safe, Happy, Comfortable, and Welcomed!" Believing this is the RIGHT fit for you, Stephanie. God's speed and continued success with your endeavors! Tfs

[@StephaniePerry]

Thank you so much fdoctor. 💗

[@marilauraperaltanavarro1744]

Pura Vida Stephanie! I enjoyed your video very much! As a tica I feel proud of the points you mentioned on your video, I hope we can continue improving as a country and as human beings! Welcome! 🇨🇷🖤

[@gertieparis]

Hello Thank you for these information you share with us. I love watching your contents. You are very articulate and easy to understand. One of my fave things about you is that you speak REALNESS. I like that rawness from you. Thank you again! 🌻🌻🌻

[@TheBronzeQueen]

I love to hear it. Now I need to make travel plans to Costa Rica. Sidebar, your hair is soooooo cute!! 🖤

[@delysebrown1169]

They did put up a big screen in the Moore Square in downtown Raleigh, NC for folks to watch the World Cup.

[@helena9351]

I love all of your practical friendly advice. I’m just back to my home in the U.S. from my first visit to Costa Rica and can’t stop thinking about moving there. I feel the same about all the positive things you say about the country and the people. I’ll be looking at your how to work remotely videos!

[@SheisEileenLang]

I visited costa rica for 1 month and it was the best. I loved it and I will definitely go back

[@mysticalmisfit1332]

Hi Stephanie!🙋🏽‍♀️ Don’t you look cute!☺️ “I respond like a 2 or 3 year old because that’s the level of Spanish I know.” 🤣🤣🤣 That would be me too!

[@StephaniePerry]

Thank you!! 🤗

[@mysticalmisfit1332]

@@StephaniePerry You’re welcome 🤗

[@SunnyDe_]

Oh my gosh! Love the hair and makeup!

[@tammytammylicius]

Super nice hearing people coming to my country feeling welcome and safe! Pura Vida

[@rebecca5238]

Thank you Stephanie! I have had Costa Rica in my spirit for several years now. I feel led there for some reason! Pura Vida is for me!! 💕

[@alocintsruh]

This sounds amazing Stephanie! I am going to a wellness retreat there next month and this is what I needed to hear. I am used to living around the world but this would be my husband's first trip ever abroad. I really want him to experience an amazing trip so we can consider leaving the US at some point.

[@scrdakarbrown5712]

Thanks for sharing. Please do a video on your dentist experience.

[@StephaniePerry]

Will do! 💗

[@monaspeaks7812]

I just found you on KZbin! I just came back from Costa Rica and I loved it! I will be watching all your videos now. I’m too late but hopefully you documented your dental appointment 😊

[@divinity26]

I just got back home today from visiting Costa Rica & I absolutely loved it. I look forward to returning in the summer to scout out more areas before I relocate.

[@auntietray7206]

Hey Stephanie great info!!!

[@StephaniePerry]

Hey Auntie Tray! 👋🏾 Thanks for watching!

[@kristal1044]

Soy de Costa Rica y me alegra mucho que interpretaras el "Pura vida" de esa manera. Que dicha que te lo pasaste bien

[@djbis]

Enjoyed your video as a Tico living in Delaware and used to working in Wilmington for many years. Keep up the Costa Rica content! Gracias!

[@claireobenson6327]

Just stumbled upon this. I really like the fact that you go straight to the point.