Counselling for Depression

Professor Robert Elliot of the University of Strathclyde discusses EFT and the counselling for depression model, working with depression as a form of ‘stuckness’.
This video is part of 'Understanding Emotion-Focused Therapy with Robert Elliott' which can be purchased from www.cpcab.co.uk/shop/item/understanding-emotion-focused-therapy-video

[@milesaway09]

I was diagnosed with major And severe depression , within 5 years of my mental and emotion problem it's hard to communicate and give your trust to some people , I have a lot of Painful experience , I was raped , my father got fired because of his damn agency , I was betrayed and laugh of by my old friends of what happen to me , I was helpless my mom carenderia was our only hope to survive in one day but her place was Taken off from her by her own Son eldest son which is my half brother , I have a job and yet I was sicked and got fired , my gay brother has a job but he dont want to help us he is willing to help his boyfriend , until this time we got to this point that we don't have food to serve on our table , we don't have money to pay our bills , we don't have everything 💔

[@creativitywithkashish2503]

I am really sorry to here that , I hope you and your family is okay now

[@flabbyhoy]

Thank you for this video! Im working with my first client presenting with depression today, this was helpful as a reminder of the EFT perspective on depression!

[@moriarty.exe.4872]

9:08 finally someone knows where the favor of anti depressants and anti psychotic medicines are coming from

[@rossanapettersen]

Excellent description of depression! Wow!!!

[@muhammadsthi5786]

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[@suvtropics]

Excellent, thanks sir. I am a victim of depression myself.

[@raktimsurajthebanker2449]

mail me if you need help

[@winterchan7680]

same

[@gardeniawang]

i think the unresolved unjust deployment is what got me stuck. As long as I'm unemployed I'll stay depressed. It's a self realizing endless loop. How do I thrust out of it? I HAVE exhausted all my strength, I resent anyone who kicks me when I am down, what their intentions are does not count.

[@ajmosutra7667]

wow... really good - constructing stuckness - THATS a CHOICE! Thanks!

[@leslieoconnor1902]

I Really Enjoy Counselling

[@leslieoconnor1902]

I Need To Go To Church ⛪As Well As Counselling

[@AppleTY2015]

❤ it’s not a conscious choice. It’s sits beneath the surface, in the stories we tell ourselves without being present enough to hear it.

[@blessedbeyond5722]

Am stuck loving someone who will never love me which am aware of and I want to move on so badly.

[@salimeh7298]

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[@sandradennis8452]

Blessed Beyond...Me too😢

[@chief1redwolf909]

I will keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on him 📖 Jesus said 👟❤️📖📖📖✝️💯🙂 taste and see that the lord is good!!!!!!!

[@beetee873]

Your relationship should make you feel safe, loved and happy... Even a friendship that gets you tensed, scared and anxious... Step Out !!!

[@theuglybeing4673]

Blessed Beyond you’re not stuck you just choose to

[@romeoatpeace4426]

Brilliant information ..Somebody who cannot come to terms with his mother's death , can you gimme some suggestions that may help initially..

[@TATCHIE28]

Excellent information about depression! Thank you!

[@renticat]

While my parents both have counseling degree yet they don't know to dealt with their own kid in depression, they even don't believe it. Funny Ironic.

[@irinaahnland5946]

Tifany, it is very strange. How do your parents help others then?

[@rambojoe2323]

I think thats more sad than funny.. That sounds difficult to go through though. Who do you go to for support?

[@graciecanil8482]

Very to sad to know, they being "professionals" you can't rely on them.

[@ToThoseWhoVanished]

Just how useless degrees are.

[@suzannecousineau4472]

It may be that they feel guilty. Counsellors work with people they are not emotionally connected to for a reason.

[@sayisrar]

Thanks for sharing your experience Sir... :)

[@peopleplacesandperspective5564]

Good explanation, thank you.

[@paulanthony83]

This Is very informative, if your new to CFD

[@ToThoseWhoVanished]

The best lecture on depression. Please could you answer: why we construct our depression? The voice talking to us beating us up originates from where exactly?

[@mazklassa9338]

I don't know. But if I could have a go at answering, if I may, then I think the self-persecution must come from some subconscious awareness of having done something wrong some time in the past, which was detrimental to one's progress in life, but it's an awareness that is out of context, announcing itself yet we can't figure out it's correlation to our present state or situation. I think it's this struggle to properly resolve or figure out the correlation; and so it's depression because a person is put down by themselves from a source of pain of the past in the present.

[@ToThoseWhoVanished]

@@mazklassa9338 past life mistakes and guilt, is that what you referring to?

[@mazklassa9338]

@@ToThoseWhoVanished yes, past mistakes in life.

[@ToThoseWhoVanished]

@@mazklassa9338 i have seen less than 10yr olds depressed. No past mistakes nor past guilt in present life of 10yrs old n yet they feel awful. Depression has a link to past life whether we accept it or not. The guilt and sadness and the thrist to escape, even the depressed r unable to explain.

[@AppleTY2015]

❤ depression literally means to push down. Many children are pushed down, unheard, unseen, dismissed, neglected etc, hence why we can see 10yo with depression. We carry all of that into our adult lives and often it’s too much to carry. As a child, so much of the abuse we turn on ourselves and form the narrative “I’m bad”. Then as adults we find “proof” of this everywhere, especially in relationships. We need to update this narrative and provide ourselves with the gentleness and soothing we always deserved.

[@scottmottram4607]

Really good video ……thankyou

[@ekvikalp9691]

I don't want to live anymore.... I m completely broken.... Worthless, hopeless, .... Pls help me

[@etravindranath1]

Please meet psychiatrist, they will help you

[@shwetapatkar5097]

Good talk.

[@DearTherapist]

Awesome model of depression

[@jolaadejumaynah3596]

I wish I had someone to talk to 😒😥

[@catherineeva6012]

jolaade jumaynah How are you doing?

[@poojagangare9081]

I don't know sir.....I'm very depressed .......I don't know what to do....I don't even want to face my classmates.....my academic is not so good ..... I'm daily humiliated by some people....I have internet to know the thing but I can't ....I'm confused and I don't have confidence ....sir pls help me plz

[@alexcameron_]

I suffered the same for many years through college and university, I was bullied in my job and had to leave. The only thing that made it better was knowing that it will not always be that way, I confided in a friend and talked alot of ways to make myself stronger, I joined a bookclub even though I was painfully shy and I joined the gym which made me physically stronger and I think mentally stronger too. Please talk to someone. X

[@irinaahnland5946]

@@alexcameron_ Bless you Alex!

[@irinaahnland5946]

Dear Alex, is it possible if we can talk outside of KZbin? I have been currently working for a self-help book-project how to overcome obstacles and realise dreams. Your personal experience might help other who are struggling with similar issues every day. Please let me know if you would like to participate in my project. Best wishes, Irina

[@TATCHIE28]

You’ve got a new subscriber!

[@stephanieyork3079]

Excellent stuff

[@puritymbugua5850]

Thank you for the insight

[@MotivationalHemayt]

Good Sir

[@reg8297]

So stuck from the ripple effects of childhood abuse u shoulf realise if a person goes thru hole life of effevts of abuse and thry lose every thing that's of value to them over having been abused its totally nornal to feel depressed about such an overwhelming amount of trauma events to have to feel overwhrmed about noone does it to themselves

[@joelm3371]

Thx for helping me I am very sad and gloomy cause I get bullied

[@heather-vs9qe]

I am broken because of this racism in her family it's damaging and needs to be addressed and dismantled

[@jolaadejumaynah3596]

I don't know what to do anymore

[@rosesnow2013]

jolaade jumaynah are you ok? There is support out there, depending on where you live

[@jolaadejumaynah3596]

@@rosesnow2013 Nigeria

[@rosesnow2013]

Ah ok I know there is limited resources in Nigeria, I’m sorry you are struggling. Here is a link to a mental health organisation in Nigeria- www.mentallyaware.org/about/

[@Amaya_Sade]

jolaade jumaynah me either

[@najwaismail8801]

ALLAH Almighty GOD is always listening because He created you all, return to Him as Believers, He will rescue you all from the whispers of satans that want you depressed.

[@nicholasopuba9017]

Thanks for sharing

[@lindasmith2266]

honestly i love me i was only in the past reacting to someone harrassing me really badly. abs

[@giticaravan7196]

Thank you

[@rohithchellam07rohithchell24]

Can anyone give me a personal counseling plz.. Thanks in advance...

[@sriyasinghal07]

Contact @perself-mind care

[@ashwanikapoor6744]

I am in a depression like sexual depression. All the time sexual pictures grow in front of my mind .please suggest what should I do ?

[@najwaismail8801]

Seek refuge in ALLAH Almighty 1 from Satans the cursed. GOD will help you don't ever doubt that, reach out to Him

[@josefadul550]

Did not mention depression as discussed here:

[@Sendi.__]

To every one reading this, you are perfect . Everything that happen has a good reason and you will figure out soon why did all this happen. Everything happened for your own good. Trust yourself. Have hope.

[@manisharandive1815]

CAN I SAY TO MEET THEIR SIR PLZ I NEED TO U

[@Tendertroll1]

I am fine until I read the news

[@ancabostinariu6550]

Excelent

[@baconlatte]

Maybe the best thing for depression... stop looking to experts and others for answers.

[@lucyjanesmith2801]

So what is the answer ?

[@screamypot8566]

@@lucyjanesmith2801 Internal journey, and setting the intention to practice the ability to gather and remember internal answers.

[@rambojoe2323]

Some therapists can help you do exactly that.. I recommend person centered therapy for this purpose.👌

[@yasserbarotoc2298]

I need help

[@puppy6039]

I'm depressed

[@rambojoe2323]

Hey there depressed, Im dad joke.. In all seriousness though, wanna talk about?

[@puppy6039]

@@rambojoe2323 tell

[@lokjmiky6389]

hello I do drugs and I'm losing every thing can u help me

[@catherineeva6012]

Lokj Miky how are you doing now?

[@jessapineda9774]

Lokj Miky do u have a job maybe go slow 5o stop so no more drugs and go to smoking or something and make your way down

[@episodesbygeethu9770]

I lost old me..