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@Oges9854 жыл бұрын
You only visit Philippines you didn’t stay long like 2 years pls do your research well don’t put my people in a dangerous zone I stayed in the Philippines for years before I left if you are black skin???? They take away your dignity make you look like something is wrong with you , if you walk on the street look there faces and see how they will cover there nose and hold there bags you don’t even know what you were saying right?? I have a daughter in the Philippines so I know what’s up with them they have lots of drama thinking they like you he’ll know they only respond to your passport as US citizen and that is just for people that knows you there I nearly married my gf there that time thank God I met one African guy told me hey they are after your passport not you and he explain things to me and I said ok I will check it out it was exactly what he told me I was like oh hell no I run out within one week I found out don’t even tell black people to stay there but they can visit for vacation that is ok for like one week and get out and one thing I learned was they are crazy about white men so so crazy is like jackpot to them they are so proud to capture white men they call them big fish in the sea
@michaelb.34384 жыл бұрын
@@Oges985 African American men have been loving Filipino women for over 100 years
@michaelb.34384 жыл бұрын
The reference to 1899 The Philippine War - A Conflict of Conscience for African Americans There's a very special relationship between African American men and Filipino who have been loving Filipino women for over 100 years and also the relationship between African American and Filipino people goes back over 100 years but the pale face didn't want you to know that but that the true. "I FEEL SORRY FOR THESE PEOPLE”: AFRICAN AMERICAN SOLDIERS IN THE PHILIPPINE-AMERICAN WAR, 1899-1902 relationship goes back to the Philippine-American war THE 19TH-CENTURY AFRICAN-AMERICAN SOLDIER WHO FOUGHT FOR FILIPINO LIBERATION Angry at the Treatment of Blacks in the US, in 1899 David Fagan Deserted His Regiment and Became a Household Name Back HomeIn 1899, during a campaign on the island of Luzon to entrap the Filipino revolutionary president Emilio Aguinaldo, a 21-year-old buffalo soldier named David Fagen deserted from the American army. He wasn’t homesick. Young Fagen decided to join the Filipino revolutionaries and quickly took up arms against his former countrymen. In time, he became a guerrilla leader of such renown that his Filipino fighters called him “General Fagen.”Fagen enjoyed a good time. He was a master of stud poker, having regularly relieved his fellow soldiers of several hundred dollars on payday. He was fond of carousals, played the guitar, and lived in the camp with his Filipino wife. He was “often amusing” and voluble, supremely confident, and a natural leader. Fagen even inspired mystery, and controversy, in matters of death. With a reward on his head, he retreated to the desolate Pacific coast. In December 1901, a Filipino hunting party brought in a moldering head and Fagen’s effects, claiming they had killed the renegade. The army announced Fagen’s death and hundreds of newspapers covered the story. Only the English-language Manila American made a mockery of the Army’s account of Fagen’s killing, but that story went unreported in America and was entirely overlooked until I recently discovered it. In the end, Fagen was not a central military player in the war; the region where he fought was of secondary importance in terms of the larger struggle. But he is important as an African-American who took up arms against a country racist to the core and bent on empire at the expense of dark-skinned people. As a revolutionary officer and later as a bandit leader, Fagen confounded the American whites. He not only challenged their supremacist assumptions; he also mocked them, defiant in the face of the noose and the burning stake. Take care and God bless
@realmercy4 жыл бұрын
I visited the Philippines 3 times for about 1-2 months. The locals were wonderful I also met several who are African American like me and they were married to Filipinas. I look forward to visiting there again after the pandemic. Ms Perry thank you for this video, you did a good job!
@michaelb.34384 жыл бұрын
Nice video keep it coming greatly appreciate it take care and God bless
@truGEMini014 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of the Green Book that Black Americans consulted back in the day to travel safely throughout the US. And yet here we are... still needing a list. Thank you!!
@am.b56883 жыл бұрын
She doesnt mean you cant travel to other countries! Even the US department has a list like this! The African American community should travel a lot to Africa. White Americans travel to Africa more than African Americans!! Just get your English teaching certificate or degree from somewhere and move to Hargeysa! You will be treated like a queen!
@ronronberry3 жыл бұрын
You’re missing the point. It’s great to be a Black American overseas in most countries. She’s listing the ones where she’s had a great experience. I’ve visited countries on 6 continents and very much agree with her experiences. I’d add Colombia and Peru to the list. Great places for Afro Americans to visit. Love Mexico too.
@antnam44063 жыл бұрын
You guys need to travel more! We Nigerians travel everywhere across the world, the world is our oyster. You guys need to stop being afraid and open your eyes.
@am.b56883 жыл бұрын
@@antnam4406 I would advice Nigerians to stay Nigeria more, at least for a while, until the reputation is .......... restored!
@sacmom33 жыл бұрын
We need a new Green Book.
@Tootisepop4 жыл бұрын
The fact we need to search up countries that we can feel safe in is sad
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
It is. Racial trauma and PTSD are real.
@mysticalrose14144 жыл бұрын
Its true. I don't know what has happened to this world.
@vellabella14 жыл бұрын
Black people are careful and skeptical for good reason. But I always say, no country has mistreated AA or Black people like they have and continue to do in the US. Your nationality plays a big and important part.. I urge Black people to travel, I genuinely feel more welcomed, less judged, more desired and more safe travelling outside the US.
@analyticalmindset4 жыл бұрын
@@vellabella1 now that's true . Even in Switzerland they were curious about me , not like the judgemental eyes you get in some parts of America
@cindys29954 жыл бұрын
Chile, um still looking for a safe place to raise black boys in AMERICA.....VERY SAD!!!!!
@abdulsharif65414 жыл бұрын
1. Belize 1. Mexico (Business Opportunities) 4. South Africa (Durban) 5. Costa Rica 6. Philippines
@rosey3123 жыл бұрын
Costa Rica is comfortable to black people because it has a lot of them specifically from Jamaica. Many are also land owners some who are being moved out by Americans and Europeans looking to take advantage of them.
@Shin8bi3 жыл бұрын
Haiti.
@xulupopo92883 жыл бұрын
Certainly not Durban; the Zulus are generally the most Afrophobic of all Indigenous South Africans while the Indians are one of the most racist among the non-indigenous Saffers
@litoc.47073 жыл бұрын
Durban???
@Shin8bi3 жыл бұрын
@Gerard Freeman Show evidence if they do so what? How does it effect a hateful sun dodger like you? Hmm, exactly..
@RejoiceToday2 жыл бұрын
Thailand is absolutely phenomenal! Stayed there for two weeks and visited different locations. I never felt as it I didn’t belong, they’re genuinely kind and friendly people. Some may stare because they’ve never seen POC in the flesh lol
@SewerKid13 жыл бұрын
I'm from México, and I'm truly happy to know that you felt welcomed and respected in my country! I hope that you continue to enjoy your visits :) I'm smiling.
@INTUITIVENORSK23032 жыл бұрын
God bless Mexico & it's beautiful, welcoming & happy citizens. I love & respect you all. Take care.
@LisaSoulLevelHealing Жыл бұрын
Love your country ❤
@sararichardson7375 ай бұрын
I live in Mexico and the Mexicans rock.
@jamesjackson8521 Жыл бұрын
I'm really happy to hear that. A black woman was treated with respect and without incident outside of the United States.
@momentinhistory333 Жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard at the end when you mentioned people yelling “Obama” and saying that was in 2015 and that’s over. Your face! 😂🤣😂
@teebee33093 жыл бұрын
“When I was 40 years old” I feel like I’m being trolled by nature, you look like your 25!!! Black really don’t crack
@StephaniePerry3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tee!! 💗
@Genus25253 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry Well-spoken, possessing a special elegance, and personable, as well. Examples for all nationalities to follow.
@AAde-or3qz3 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry of course your Tinder was popping! Hellooo!! You fine af🤣
@lloydl11613 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing, that’s why I kept watching her video after video and yes, I did learn some thing but being ex-military and at age 20 I was running the streets of Paris and frequently popped into France on the weekend from Karlsruhe Germany I totally get what Stephanie is saying. I remember skiing in St. Moritz, Switzerland and I truly thought I was the only black person in the hold country, and yes if your American in some counties you’re treated very well especially if your military. Any way back to St. Moritz I came down for breakfast and in the dinning area every move I made I was being watched by all the Europeans but you get use to it especially when I hit the slopes. So, Steph I get what you’re saying and you’re a beautiful black woman.
@lloydl11613 жыл бұрын
I remember skiing in St. Moritz, Switzerland and I truly thought I was the only black person in the hold country, and yes if your American in some counties you’re treated very well especially if your military. Any way back to St. Moritz I came down for breakfast and in the dinning area every move I made I was being watched by all the Europeans but you get use to it especially when I hit the slopes. So, Steph I get what you’re saying and you’re a beautiful black woman.
@errolanthonysmith66093 жыл бұрын
Hi Stephanie, excellent vlog. I travel to Portugal three time a year. ‘I have also travel around the world’. But I must admit, Portugal 🇵🇹 is my second home. The people are absolutely brilliant and the food is out of this world. I speak a little Portuguese so people assume I’m from Portugal. I’m a black Londoner🇬🇧 Due to COVID-19, I wasn’t able to travel. However, if all goes well I’ll be back in the Algarve during the summer of 2021.
@tajbell40863 жыл бұрын
Portugal is my favorite place in the world! My husband is also Portuguese we lived in Porto for six months before moving to the United States. I lived in Ireland for ten years and my husband and I would travel to Portugal twice a year for two months at a time. It's the one place where I was not even aware of my ethnicity. Can't wait to move back! Beautiful country and beautiful people! Hope you are able to move there as well.
@mabeaute89633 жыл бұрын
Where in Portugal would you recommend... can you give choices please thnx.🙏🏽🌺
@proverbalizer3 жыл бұрын
the interesting / ironic thing is the Portuguese were the first Europeans to start the slave trade and colonization, and they were the last to give up (I think Brazil was the last country in the west to end slavery) and Angola and Mozambique were some of the last African colonies to gain (so called) independence
@evapeace23853 жыл бұрын
@@proverbalizer Ahh ...Yes the negativity we’ve all been waiting for! 😂😂😂
@earrth9113 жыл бұрын
@@proverbalizer In Mozambique and Angola, we won the war.
@galves86883 жыл бұрын
@@proverbalizer, pure ignorance.. seeks to study Islamic slavery that began in the 7th century. "Tidiane N'Diaye Seven centuries before the European slave trade, which could not have had the scale it had without the participation of Arab and African slavers, the Arabs ravaged Sub-Saharan Africa for thirteen centuries without interruption."
@sacmom3 Жыл бұрын
I’ve had enough. The US is killing me, mentally. I’ll be visiting Playa Negra to check out Costa Rica this summer. It’s time to go.
@beatricei.gardiner133 жыл бұрын
I've stayed in Mexico for almost a year but I've also travelled to many other countries. I tell you I've not found a people more friendly than the people of Mexico. I love the people, the food, the mountains, the culture, the weather, Art and art galleries and the zocalos. I love everything about Mexico. Travel there and you won't regret it.
@eLLBdotmusic3 жыл бұрын
Wow. I'm so surprise.
@zoeelauren46493 жыл бұрын
Beatrice.... I feel the same way.
@humanity91583 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!think I should shift to Mexico...wow!!!
@BFore-rr6ze3 жыл бұрын
Specifically what areas in Mexico? I've heard too many bad stories about cartels to be traveling there alone.
@martinrangelflores17503 жыл бұрын
@@BFore-rr6ze Avoid towns bordering the United States and some areas of Sinaloa, Michoacan and Guerrero.
@Jay-hr3rh3 жыл бұрын
I'm a black Caribbean / American man who travels for fun and intrigue. My sense of safety is in my head. The only place I've felt unwelcomed is in "the land of the free". 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
@zyx74783 жыл бұрын
It’s their loss, you’re probably an awesome person Bigotry blinds people
@Shin8bi3 жыл бұрын
Try England, black men... Not much better..
@AAde-or3qz3 жыл бұрын
Damn. How ironic.
@AAde-or3qz3 жыл бұрын
@@Shin8bi nah let's be real now. England is one of the best countries for black men. Trust me I live here.
@Shin8bi3 жыл бұрын
@@AAde-or3qz I've lived here for 30 plus years. I've had a lot of fuckery here, I also resent them for what they did...
@callieford22283 жыл бұрын
I love the concept of taking a "gap year" when you're grown! Older adults need a gap year to reset, recalibrate, and rejuvenate 😄❤.
@vhoy78993 жыл бұрын
South Africa is really great. I enjoyed both Johannesburg and Capetown. When I went it was extremely cold... beautiful place
@iordanmentore4 жыл бұрын
Watching this in the middle of COVID 19 and 1,000% inspired to plan a gap year as soon as safely possible . Thank you !
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
Keep up the planning Iordan! That's music to my ears! 💗
@moonafarms16214 жыл бұрын
Lol per CDC, COVID has over a 99% recovery rate.....
@krampushatesyou1814 жыл бұрын
@@moonafarms1621 99% recovery rate doesn't take away from the hundreds of thousands of people who have died or affected for the long term
@Addi_Teacha5094 жыл бұрын
Covid is a hoax, put the tv down
@lucindajenkins86932 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry What about Panama?
@rodrigot75284 жыл бұрын
I am glad you had a good experience in Mexico. Please come back!
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
I'm working on it. 😃
@jenniferazor98144 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry hey. You got Instagram?
@mavisfiagbe47064 жыл бұрын
Are you from Mexico?
@redred-tr6ne3 жыл бұрын
I love Mexico also was there in December, but if your not careful you pay tip/comida twice.
@katemorgan46903 жыл бұрын
Mexico has always been quite friendly. We should really get Latin America “going” on the fair trade textiles
@chrishardnett34305 жыл бұрын
1. You are Gorgeous! 2. Thank you for sharing this video, I'm always looking for new places to visit and this is extremely helpful.
@StephaniePerry5 жыл бұрын
1. Thank you! 💁🏿♀️ 2. I'm glad the video was helpful. Happy travels!
@forevergoddessqueen44045 жыл бұрын
Isn't she!
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
@@forevergoddessqueen4404 😘 😘
@tyronevincent13686 ай бұрын
I love your blog. Expat Native Mississippi moved to Amsterdam 23 years ago now recently retired bought retirement home in the Azorean islands. The portugese in the islands are extremely accepting to POC. I have wonderful neighbors.
@raqk32904 жыл бұрын
As a service member, I agree on the Philippines being super welcoming. I've visited all over Asia and felt the most welcomed there.
@chefcassandra5 жыл бұрын
Omg!! I didn’t know Mexico was your number 1... thank you so much for these videos
@marizwyrd8814 жыл бұрын
This is the second time I’ve heard a good things about black women’s experience in Vietnam. Queen, you’ve got me thinking 🤔
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
Vietnam is wonderful Kayla. I love it I love it! 10/10. Would recommend.
@famgod5034 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry thanks I need this hopefully things work I can stop my business overseas will see
@masonridgewell80634 жыл бұрын
Wow same thing her. I also know a black woman who had only good words about Vietnam. I willd definitely visit that country.
@jenniferazor98144 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry would love to visit then
@jenniferazor98144 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry how did u become a full time traveler?
@rdc51824 жыл бұрын
Wonderful video. No prolonged speeches and fluff. I was shocked that Mexico was number one on your list. I worked for a while on the Arizona Mexican border hospital and it was a mix bag related to folks acceptance of people of color. I retired here in the Philippines and agree with your assessment. Thank you for sharing your wealth of knowledge and experiences. Respectfully
@sheilaarmistead78883 жыл бұрын
I agree, very surprised that Mexico was number 1 on your list. There is still a substantial drug/gang problem going on down there. I would be careful. In the United States, African Americans have certainly had issues with Hispanics. We view each other as competitors; there are cultural, language differences; and racial and negative stereotypes on both ends continue.
@icycaribe Жыл бұрын
This comment is all the more salient given that 4 blacks were attacked in Mexico several days ago with two being killed outright. I used to travel back in theb90s. It was very sketchy on the border then but after 300 bodies were found in Matamoros, I stopped going. Yeah. It supposedly only happens in some areas. But I am not trying to be there at all.
@tinkerst.george44233 жыл бұрын
I went to Sweden a couple of years ago and it was great. The first person we met (customs) was a black man. There are black people in Sweden as well. We had Swedish people automatically speak Swedish to us because they assumed we were just from there. Most places outside of the U.S. are great!!!
@francoisbessing2 жыл бұрын
Unfotunate but true.
@sugarcookiecube2 жыл бұрын
I had a fantastic experience in Norway! The people and the food were great. I met black people who were born and raised in Norway. Black people are everywhere in the world. I have met black people who lived in China, Finland, and Greenland, not just tourist on extended visa's but actually lived in these countries.
@liamsohal2 жыл бұрын
"There are black people in Sweden as well." This can't seriously have been a major revelation?
@shanicejones83322 жыл бұрын
I'll be moving there can we exchange Instagram?
@editafola90202 жыл бұрын
Did not know this was a big surprise. I'm black, born and raised in Stockholm, Sweden. It really depends where in Sweden you are. In Stockholm there are lots of black people and other minorities as well. In the south and up north, there are far less. Swedes are known for being very introverted but they are not judgmental towards foreigners. Lots of black people in Norway too, a little less in Denmark and Finland.
@mysticalrose14144 жыл бұрын
I loved how you made this video based on your actual experience. I want to travel solo but I worry about discrimination. I'm glad I found your channel.
@aurorarene99093 жыл бұрын
It's best to travel solo. The bigger the crowd of americans you're in, the more of a target you become. I always travel solo and as long as you take an interest in their culture and language, they will melt like butter to befriend you. It's also easier to make friends when you're traveling solo because some don't want to approach a group.
@hapkijo97134 жыл бұрын
I agree Mexico is my favorite, easy to get to great food and culture.
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
It’s the total package! 💗
@prettybrwneyez77574 жыл бұрын
I LOVEEE MEXICO 🇲🇽
@victoriassharing11964 жыл бұрын
I'm moving there I'm Mexican but my daughters mother in law is black and looking for a better place to go I'm trying to convince her to come with me
@spurgeonwrightjr.31154 жыл бұрын
Wouldn't go there???
@officialnicholas14 жыл бұрын
MX is the best
@nmarie69714 жыл бұрын
I agree! Mexico was amazing. I spent Tim’s on Mexico City and the People were so nice and took great care of me. I will definitely go back over and over again.
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear it! I think Mexico is the total package. 💗
@GeeLight3 жыл бұрын
I'm from Canada & have travelled abroad & had amazing experiences in Mexico!!! I was able to learn how to surf, which was on my bucket list. I'll never forget riding my 1st wave. Definitely will return when things simmer down with the pandemic.
@merriem243 жыл бұрын
Wow. You women are so daring. Good for you!
@GeeLight3 жыл бұрын
@@merriem24 You could do the same! If I didn't just go on my own, I wouldn't have made a friend at the hotel, who ended up being a surfer & instructor, & he took me offsite to learn how to surf. This wasn't planned, but I put myself in a place where the universe/Spirit could allow for me to experience this opportunity. This wasn't a planned event. Have to the UK etc., & so can you as well. When you have an open mind, & are kind people of other cultures will treat you well.
@ramonaservice13352 жыл бұрын
That's a good thing.
@chelseabernabe76264 жыл бұрын
I am Pilipino and I am from Philippines. Thanks. You give Philippines in your list. ❤️
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
I love the Philippines so much! 🇵🇭
@mela60464 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry run around the block B4 & AFTER U EAT THERE...lol.....soo many different kinds of foods there...
@steviepigford19123 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️👍💯😁
@HaseoXth3 жыл бұрын
I'm black British, but when you're black in the UK you're low key second class human. I do know my privilege, so I don't mean to come across the wrong way or ungrateful. But I've had so many bad experiences here particularly within the healthcare system. And Pilipino people particularly, at least every single one I have been blessed to interact with, have been the best and most hospitable people I've ever met, who've made a lot of services here great. We as a society don't deserve you.
@boychodurendes7523 жыл бұрын
Internet in Philippines is slow and expensive that is true.
@hannamakela69893 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I have not been to the other countries on the list, but I can speak for Portugal, having made brief visits to Lisbon for work years ago. It is such a beautiful place in all the meanings of the word and the people are the best. :)
@tekeyaradford6642 Жыл бұрын
your video was amazing. you're a beautiful person I hope to travel to Zambia next year to help build homes god bless you all
@hanginthere008 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed. For planning...thank you so much ❤
@geminilife30143 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting Philippines on your list and your great comments about its hospitality and beautiful islands
@Colorbrush212 жыл бұрын
I have been following travel blogs by Black women for over ten years. I found out years ago to stay away from countries like India, Russia and almost every eastern European country. The ladies who had those blogs had different experiences in the same countries. Overall they liked London, Paris, Rome but advised caution traveling to Greece and small country towns in Italy and France. I like your update because I didn't realize how welcoming Mexico and Vietnam was. Thank you for this blog!!
@katzwhite59623 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I want to do when my daughter leaves home. I want to travel for a year or two. I never got to do the gap year in my twenties. Hope to do it in my late 50's 👍🏿Thanks for this.
@emmanueltafirenyika36133 жыл бұрын
Portugal makes the top of my list, especially the paradise island of Madeira. Beautiful place, lovely people I really felt at home there. I am an African from Zimbabwe now living in the UK.
@loshramy7483 жыл бұрын
Is UK not racist?
@richardsaikong11382 жыл бұрын
Lisbon here i come...
@miche21292 жыл бұрын
Interesting. I am happy that you had a good experience. I have heard its beautiful. One of the few people I knew from Madeira bragged to my workplace that the Portuguese "civilized" Africans. That won't prevent me from going there, but their education system might need some work.
@liamsohal2 жыл бұрын
@@loshramy748 Our politicians and media have spent the last 50 years telling us we are. Most people don't agree.
@2msvalkyrie5292 жыл бұрын
Mixed race marriages are common. in UK. Only groups who are against them are Indians and Pakistanis. Also black males who can't stand the idea of a black woman having a white partner ? Hope this helps ??
@Tommyakbar-f7k Жыл бұрын
I love the Philippines i even went to mountain areas met the aeta tribal people
@shope70302 жыл бұрын
You are just so beautiful Ms. Perry!!!
@willrobinson75784 жыл бұрын
It's like the "Green Book" for international travel.
@stephencarter7443 жыл бұрын
So what you're saying is, that an inferior Hollywood film is the filter from which you view the world. Take your mind back.
@stephencarter7443 жыл бұрын
Take your mind back from Hollywood script writers.
@willrobinson75783 жыл бұрын
@@stephencarter744 I'm sorry, from what planet are you transmitting?
@stephencarter7443 жыл бұрын
@@willrobinson7578 I'm from 'Planet self-confident human being'. I'm from the planet of men who THINK as opposed to the planet of men who are programmed to be scared.
@willrobinson75783 жыл бұрын
@@stephencarter744 so you weren't aware that the Green Book was a real thing?
@JasWashington264 жыл бұрын
I went to SE Asia with my school last year and I didn’t care for southern Vietnam. Saigon was nice but crossing the street gave me anxiety. I felt like a spectacle in small towns. I did notice that my white classmates were getting charged higher rates than I was lol
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
Crossing the street in Saigon is a RISK! I definitely stood out too, but people were mostly kind to me. 💗
@blackirishrose40403 жыл бұрын
A lot like what real estate agents do to black people charges more than what the houses are worth
@jamdawgutube3 жыл бұрын
They are racist! Don't go there!
@ifechimichael60063 жыл бұрын
@@jamdawgutube most of the world is racist. It is what it is.
@alliwishis26523 жыл бұрын
@@ifechimichael6006 not really it's more complicated than that.
@bert31633 жыл бұрын
LOL...1.5 years later, we also need a list of where we can feel comfortable in the US!
@drea25253 жыл бұрын
Now that's hilarious and true at the same time
@carlottawalker63973 жыл бұрын
No where
@NBnNC3 жыл бұрын
# Facts
@stanspb7633 жыл бұрын
I am American and hate returning to the US because it has become a very divided, angry, and stressful place. Anywhere in the world is less so. I have been in 91 countries and never feel the tension and verge of violence I feel when returning to the US. I stopped going back 9 years ago. In no country is does one have to be so wary of the police. I live in St Petersburg Russia and the openness and low-stress environment is easy to fall in love with. When Russians see blacks they assume they are intelligent because for years the only blacks they saw were University students who came from Africa for the advanced education available for free and the locals have a positive view of blacks. I never realized how divided the US was by race until I moved away 21 years ago and noticed the reaction of Russians or South Americans or whoever when seeing someone of a different race. Nothing, no reaction but in the US when a white person greats or sees a black, their posture changes and most telling, their pupils dilate. Maybe you noticed it all your lives but it was surprising to discover that only in seeing people in other societies where there was no physical reaction. Maybe that is not the case in Russia because it was always a multicultural land mass 11 times zones across and made up of 182 cultures. The races and religions mix freely and seeing mixed couples is more common than not.
@mamisa76263 жыл бұрын
@@stanspb763 the place black can feel safe is Africa
@clantis3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to hear that you had a good time in my country, South Africa. I enjoyed this video, very informative. Thank you.
@lrrussellrussell82273 жыл бұрын
I’m asking ... would a woman be safe there flying sole/alone in your country
@MUEE_KMT3 жыл бұрын
Your question suggests that every woman in South Africa has been a victim of some form of violence.🤔🤔🤔.
@makteko3 жыл бұрын
@@lrrussellrussell8227 I think it would be best to know or communicate someone from South Africa before coming. There are a lot of safe area in SA but there are also unsafe areas, so its best to have the necessary knowledge first. Places like Cape Town should be very safe if you travel alone as a women, but get information about any city you want to visit before coming.
@makteko3 жыл бұрын
@@lrrussellrussell8227 Also check out *_The Real South Africa_* , they have the necessary information regarding South Africa, they are Americans who live in South Africa.
@shayscott74982 жыл бұрын
@@lrrussellrussell8227 I travelled from the US to south Africa and it was fantastic, but expensive because I was travelling alone and had to absorb all the expenses. I arranged for a car to pick me up at the airport. I arranged for tours through the concierge. It was well worth it though. The Apartheid Musuem as well as Nelson Mandela's home (now a museum) were my favorite. Lots of very creative young people. Soweto was also a highlight and I wish I had stayed there because they had very good bed and breakfast and a happening night life. Go outside your comfort zone and try it. I also travelled in the Middle East alone, Jordan, Baharain, Qatar, UAE and it was fantastic. I was glad to get home though because it was alot going from hotel to hotel.
@MoonLightOnWater13 жыл бұрын
My three week trip through South Africa in 2016 was AMAZING!! I loved it and would return in a heartbeat.
@makteko3 жыл бұрын
Wow, really glad you loved SA 🥰
@MoonLightOnWater13 жыл бұрын
@@makteko Yes, I cannot wait to return. Just spectacular!
@thatotau74784 жыл бұрын
I agree its a bit sad we need lists like this. But we soldier on...with our beautiful melanin. You're so beautiful. Greetings, from South Africa.
@sararichardson7374 ай бұрын
@@thatotau7478 we don’t need we think we do. This is Black American trauma. The world is your oyster too. Some people will hate you some people will love you most will tolerate but the best accept you. It’s down to you and the people you meet along the way. Leave your internalised racism where you picked it up from and get travelling.
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc134 жыл бұрын
Went to Portugal in the military, loved it.
@asandaakponor52153 жыл бұрын
Thank you for mentioning my beautiful country South Africa 🇿🇦
@reggiepittman6056 Жыл бұрын
Go to Ghana! A great, historic place!
@mali62482 жыл бұрын
I agree about Mexico. I am black Canadian. Worked in Mexico over the last 5 years. Also many other countries. No comparison! Thanks!
@jolly77284 жыл бұрын
You exude such friendliness, intelligence, and charm. And what a captivating smile. Those qualities will open many doors for you.
@Metal_Face_Doom4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this! My work has kept me mostly traveling to the UK and Germany. I've been too fearful of going to Italy and Spain just due to the bs I'm always seeing during football (soccer) matches. Portugal was on my list for a while but now you've really got me thinking about the place again!!! 🙏🏾
@timisaac81214 жыл бұрын
Mexico!!!!!! Hehehe! How great! So thrilled you chose Mexico! From number 6, I was like "Mexico"- but you save for number 1!! I live in North Baja. My Black friends visit & have a wonderful time and marvel at the equality and interest that everyone shows of travelers. Best wishes in your future travels!
@havedrill12 жыл бұрын
I agree with you about Mexico. I also loved Aruba. I was surprised by the number of black Arubans. And how many African Americans who come there often.
@TempeSoldier123 Жыл бұрын
Good info. Would love to see an update from the sista.
@ngonigriffith14913 жыл бұрын
I had a really good experience in England, Ireland, and France. The people were very friendly in Ireland and made me feel very welcomed.
@eileenwatt82833 жыл бұрын
Irish has the best sense of humor. I didn't have to spell or repeat my surname in Scotland. Every town, museum has a monument dedicated to my surname namesake. I didn't get the question "What is your name" me "Watt" They "miss what is your name" me "Yes my name is Watt" This can go on forever in the USA. I don't get that in Scotland. I just say my last name once.
@sarahfemi98623 жыл бұрын
UK ,Ireland France are very racist and segregated whites hate Black's and don't want nothing to do with Black's .
@ngonigriffith14913 жыл бұрын
@@sarahfemi9862 I didn't have that experience. This was when I visited in the 1990s. Maybe things have changed since then.
@sarahfemi98623 жыл бұрын
@@ngonigriffith1491 Things have changed in the UK as many voted to leave the EU Brexit and race hate crime risen in the UK as well as people are racially segregated in areas of neighbours lots of white flight and ghetto areas and tension .
@ngonigriffith14913 жыл бұрын
@@sarahfemi9862 I am sorry to hear that. Hopefully things will improve. 🙏
@tmill21763 жыл бұрын
So happy you posted this video. My friends and I would like to travel and this helps a lot. I live in Toronto, Canada and was telling my friend that I can drive up next to a police car and they would not even look at me. They are just going about their business and not trying to pull (black) people over randomly. I can't imagine the daily stress of living in the USA. My son's father told him he is not allowed to leave Canada to go to the USA unless he is changing planes in the airport. It is sad that a list like this exists...Thank you for the video.
@islandgirl33303 жыл бұрын
Yes. I am a Canadian/Trinidadian. I have been to Mexico. Both on the weat side and stayed in Bucerias and went to Puerto Vallarta, etc., and in the east, Puerto Morellos and travelled up to Cancun and down to Tulum Visited the ruins and some of the tourist places. I was always treated with much respect where I stayed. I found the Mexican men very friendly altgough I am a mature woman. Always nice to talk to. People never acted as if I did not belong and I was always the only black person around. Will stay in Puerto Morellos again as I am familiar with the place and felt safe renting an apartment. Getting transportation by the Ado bus was easy.
@towaritch3 жыл бұрын
Have you Heard of Puerto Escondido ?
@payambagheri88542 жыл бұрын
Stephanie , you should visit Iran .... You will love it .
@StephaniePerry2 жыл бұрын
I've seen the most beautiful photos of Iran. Maybe one day I'll get there. 💗
@josesalgado20643 жыл бұрын
Thank you for mention Portugal 🇵🇹as friendly country. My favourite country everywhere I been is Ghana 🇬🇭, beautiful and amazing friendly people.
@AntonsClass2 жыл бұрын
Love that you made a list of your own! Namibia is another fantastic country for Black travelers. Located in southern Africa, it is beautiful and the people say, "welcome home, brother." Loved the vibe there A LOT as a Black expat.
@brotherskeeper22532 жыл бұрын
You're beautiful. Thank you for this video
@Alexandra-1553 жыл бұрын
Glad to here Portugal made you feel just like any other one of us ! ❤️🇵🇹
@MoneyGist4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for acknowledging the privilege that comes from your accent. And thanks for the warning about the Internet speed in the Philippines! 👍🏽
@annabarr13044 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same! I live in Paris and the experiences of my American friends is so different from that of my African friends, even franco-phones!
@jigmanx3 жыл бұрын
That accent can get her killed in SE. Nigeria.
@jigmanx3 жыл бұрын
Akata!
@ndeledorothy38583 жыл бұрын
Why 🤔
@jeanettesdaughter2 жыл бұрын
i went off plan once in mexico and had a fbulous time. treated so nicely. away from the touristy beaches and part y scenes in cancun. climbed chichem itza on the yucatan peninsula. i love mexico. going back. i couldeasily live there. exhausted with american racism truly!
@usinebob2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video
@Minoritynomad5 жыл бұрын
I'm just going to appreciate the fact you said your Tinder was popping out here. lol. I would easily put all of these countries on my list as well. Great video and insight.
@StephaniePerry5 жыл бұрын
Thank so much, Erik! 💗
@angstvision71084 жыл бұрын
I think you'll be fine wherever you go because your energy is good.
@angstvision71083 жыл бұрын
@Donald Boris not yet. You?
@omglabel Жыл бұрын
Tolarance and Welcome , we very diffrent things
@royakolo64103 жыл бұрын
Most African countries like my country, Kenya 🇰🇪 are always welcoming to African Americans after all Africa is the original homeland, right?
@rontelfer66783 жыл бұрын
Africa is everyones' original homeland.
@littleone80553 жыл бұрын
@@rontelfer6678 Here we go.
@SharonHW3 жыл бұрын
@@littleone8055 Lol
@AAde-or3qz3 жыл бұрын
Africa don't count as far as this list goes. That's home 🤣
@NBnNC3 жыл бұрын
Cape Verde was very friendly 👌🏾
@domingosantos12923 жыл бұрын
Excellent video 📹 God bless everyone 🙏
@travisstigers74582 жыл бұрын
Love to hear your story on your travel experience good , bad and funny . Love to hear about dating in other countries . Did you date while visiting other countries
@olsito54223 жыл бұрын
As a Mexican im glad you loved it! Visit us again, there are also afro communities in the state of Guerrero if you want to visit
@whoisthearenee5 жыл бұрын
“But that was 2015 so...” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Your facial expression is a whole mood after you say that! 😂😂😂
@StephaniePerry5 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@sophiajoy94853 жыл бұрын
RIGHT! 🤣🤣
@fundamentos34393 жыл бұрын
Thank you for picking out Mexico as your top country for visiting. Esta es tu casa , y encantado de tenerte entre nosotros. Un fuerte abrazo. Come back anytime.
@chimebanyi78853 жыл бұрын
Hola... I love Mexico. Can you send me an invitation?
@fundamentos34393 жыл бұрын
@@chimebanyi7885 Our doors are always open.
@chimebanyi78853 жыл бұрын
@@fundamentos3439 Gracias amigo. Please how can I write or chat you privately?
@ianworley81693 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed your video, even though I'm neither Black, American or a woman. Nonetheless, interesting to see where the friendly, welcoming places are. Best of all, loved your last comment about Obama in 2015. The whole World misses him terribly, but at least the last 4 years are over now. Your expression spoke volumes and really made me smile. And, I live in Portugal and you're so right. A wonderful, gentle, friendly place.
@robertscott5373 жыл бұрын
Very interesting topic and great list of unassuming countries that mostly mind their own business. Loved it when,surprisingly,Mexico came out on top and I'm a pinkish Anglo-Irish! I,too, house sat in Mexico a few years ago, in Ajijic on Lake Chapala and loved it. Very calm and accepting. No hassles. Great weather too. It wasn't quite as nice when I returned recently. But that was mostly due to the expats, not Mexico. Nice video.
@charlesworth56033 жыл бұрын
South Africa is amazing, the people I met were so kind and hospitable
@makteko3 жыл бұрын
I am glad you loved SA
@kc300584 жыл бұрын
I loved Costa Rica so much it's my #1 spot for relocation. Thank you for your insight. I'm a new subscriber!
@Bajarockstar4 жыл бұрын
Im Mexican, I love Costa Rica, but is a very expensive country than others, México have 32 state with cultural diversity, in Guerrero state there are AfroMexicans also one of our Independence héroes Vicente Guerrero was AfroMexican.
@oscardrouge85074 жыл бұрын
@@Bajarockstar no te olvides de Veracruz cerca de Xalapa tenemos pueblos afrodescendientes y carnavales que celebran tradiciones africacanas como el carnaval de.coyolillo búscalo en KZbin, te va a encantar saber más de él
@nikkigbsd3 жыл бұрын
Pura vida mae
@drweche31533 жыл бұрын
First time to hear such a title. I used to travel a lot in the Far East as a black man, and experienced some great places like Thailand, Singapore & Malaysia, but had terrible experiences in China & Hong Kong!!
@joannlawery42582 жыл бұрын
Same here for Malaysia and Singapore. Had a great time in both even though the ladies kept asking where are my husband and children?
@LaLa-qb2ps3 жыл бұрын
Your KZbin videos is a treasure. Please put videos of you in the countries - the good, the bad and the ugly.
@mskhumalo51182 жыл бұрын
So proud you mentioning South Africa 🇿🇦 , thanks for the share
@drea25253 жыл бұрын
South Aftica was amazing. We traveled to Joburg and had an amazing time! Have not been to Cape but look forward to going back.
@makteko3 жыл бұрын
Yes please come to Cape Town, you will enjoy it. We are entering the Summer Season soon.
@gabrielfloreso45524 жыл бұрын
We appreciate to have Costa Rica in your list! you will be always welcomed here! greetings
@rocketraccoon78474 жыл бұрын
Adding South Africa and Mexico in my list as a dark-skinned Indian traveller.
@user-gu6vf3je1d3 жыл бұрын
That really is the whole point. Black is a misnomer and it’s really insulting that we even use it. Dark skinned people of any ethnicity or Nationality will have their own experience.
@stemuganwa16263 жыл бұрын
I feel like you'd totally be comfortable in those countries, esp SA.
@makteko3 жыл бұрын
Yes, you will blend in in South Africa.
@passionatebliss45912 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this. I decided on my birthday to leave the country every year for the rest of my life that I’m physically able. This helps.
@LionelRiley3 жыл бұрын
I've visited Vietnam twice. Once to Hanoi and the other to Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon). I loved both cities and I would love to live there. I lived in SE Asia for 9 years (Thailand, Malaysia). I, now live in beautiful Valencia, Spain and I love it. Perhaps you will visit there one day. Another country I would recommend to you is Singapore. It is one of the most beautiful and modern city/state I have ever seen. I visited there 5 times. It is very expensive to live unless you get a job teaching English there.
@MaDol867n3 жыл бұрын
Belize... Belize, it’s in Central America, just two hours from Houston, it’s an English speaking and Spanish speaking country, former colonial of Great Britain, our history is of free Garifuna Africans and it’s a mixture of people of many cultures and we are welcoming to all people... pure paradise, look it you 💕💕
@fahadfaraj64743 жыл бұрын
I'm from Tanzania East Africa I heard a lot about Belize and its beauty
@winsomeg11243 жыл бұрын
Heard good things abt Tanzania, I want to viist. Never been to any country in Africa.
@steviepigford19123 жыл бұрын
LMFAO 😁❤️...
@fahadfaraj64743 жыл бұрын
@@winsomeg1124 all I can tell you Africa is big continent and each country has its unique sense of beauty
@tinafox12293 жыл бұрын
I love Belize!
@dmcarden4 жыл бұрын
Been to Mexico a few times..yep, didn't have any issues. Also same with Portugal.. would like to see Vietnam and Phillipines
@StephaniePerry4 жыл бұрын
I hope you get a chance soon! Thanks for watching. 💗
@dmcarden4 жыл бұрын
@@StephaniePerry Me too.. oh.. and I subscribed! Love your content and delivery
@valenciawhitehead95895 жыл бұрын
I want to hear the negative stories too!
@valenciawhitehead95895 жыл бұрын
Love your videos, by the way!
@StephaniePerry5 жыл бұрын
Coming right up, Valencia! 😁
@StephaniePerry5 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much! 💗 Are you planning a trip right now?
@miguelnava39114 жыл бұрын
If you go hunting for negative stories you will comes back full of it! "Positive thoughts will create and bring positive things and happiness " life is good just learn how to live it! Just saying!
@valenciawhitehead95893 жыл бұрын
@@Michael-bf1dt Hi Michael, how are you? We experienced Covid in July 2020 and I was hospitalized for three days but thank God I am much better! Greetings from South Carolina😃
@candacenash68782 жыл бұрын
I am so happy you said Mexico as number one. I am going there next week and am nervous but your video put me at ease.
@metadelic63383 жыл бұрын
Philippines I Agree 100% Helpful information. Thank you!
@TheSunGoethDown4 жыл бұрын
I lived in the Philippines for 2 years and loved it like a second home. I also felt welcome Spain.
@xo_babymo3 жыл бұрын
Japan is pretty amazing too. I stayed in Chikugo for 6 weeks and I went everywhere alone, never felt in danger. the only weird thing is some students wanted to take a picture with me because they'd "never seen a black person in Japan before" LOL they especially love you if you speak Japanese, it shows that you are interested in the culture and immersion. You'll always get a few people that stare especially in the rural areas (my favorite) because they've only seen us on TV mostly (what I was told when I inquired)
@shayscott74982 жыл бұрын
That was my experience in China. Gave me a taste of what celebrities go through. The people stopped me so many times that the tour guide said I was holding up the tour and I had to stay next to him so he could finish the tour on time.
@MrPurge112 жыл бұрын
Japan and China ?!?! If you are black? You must be joking, not places to go at all. However the host of the video is correct for most countries on this list, a special shout out to Sweden as well.
@robertstewart90714 жыл бұрын
Thank you I love the Philippines. The people are friendly and helpful. My in-laws are wonderful people.
@ermawatts64103 жыл бұрын
WOW! Reading some of these comments, especially the dialogues; Stephanie I will just view and like your content.
@r0tting_invain2 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of the Philippines 🇵🇭 I'm very happy you love it there! Thank you for putting us in your list! I love your channel!
@4rroby3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. I loved Mexico also. I want to visit Africa one day. Costa Rica is next on my list, post pandemic. Thanks
@StephaniePerry3 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thanks for watching. 💗
@elariamiranda43343 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that South Africa 🇿🇦 is on the list! 😌
@StephaniePerry3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely Elaria! I LOVE South Africa. 🇿🇦
@mzansiZA33 жыл бұрын
❤️
@makteko3 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰
@robintrehaeven68002 жыл бұрын
Me too. I watched her worst places video first hoping that SA wouldn't feature there. And it didn't of course. I'm a South African ex-pat and am always thrilled to hear of Americans who take the trouble to make the long journey to SA and soak up some of the friendliness that makes SA so unique besides of course the animals and beauty of the country.
@islander6693 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with Mexico,i felt so at home there,mountain area's remind me of Jamaica.
@StephaniePerry3 жыл бұрын
Yes! 💗
@Michael-bf1dt3 жыл бұрын
Hi Elaine how are you. Greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪 to USA 🇺🇸. Hope you’re safe from Covid. It’s good video. Wish you a lovely day 🌹😊👍🙏 Michael