Couple in Court after "Ugly" Divorce! | Part 1

[@stratfordbaby]

That's right. The children AT THAT AGE have a right to know what's going on. She's 18! The others are even older. They have the right to be informed.

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

Dad's right in my opinion!! She can get a job and leave this man alone!!

[@harryrob8221]

She seems bitter towards him

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

@@harryrob8221 because thy are earning around 100 000 a year, and this is about 20 years ago, wow big salary

[@marissathomas9327]

If she don’t leave that man alone ! I understand that she gave him money for his debt but at this point , this is to much 😩

[@deborahasher176]

So far, the mother is horrible

[@jamesr1703]

@1:07 The mother is fuming with anger.

[@armani-s8o]

I recently experienced a challenging split. It has been really difficult since my five-year relationship ended a few months ago. My ex-boyfriend is still very much in my heart, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. Nothing has worked in my attempts to get him back, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. I realize it may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and think about him constantly.

[@cynthiabanks-x7q]

I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.

[@armani-s8o]

How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@cynthiabanks-x7q]

His name is Father Obah Eze and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

[@armani-s8o]

Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked father obah eze up, and I'm genuinely impressed.

[@Maziko_Lee]

UH-HUH IS NOT AN ANSWER.

[@changecomesfromwithin7377]

I have to say, I just can't relax as well with these older episodes. There's really something quite calming about ending a day with Judy screaming at some people.

[@zkarebear]

It’s true!!! There is something comforting about her telling people off 😆

[@forthesakeofhaiti676]

The love the fact that dad used the money for child support to paid the daughter college, it's not guarantee the mom wouldn't used the money for herself and the daughter would had got herself in debt aka student loans. Well done dad

[@shellyalstead9159]

He seems like a very nice man

[@Aaaykaay]

Unlike the losers out there today

[@AaronOBryan60]

Love and hate are sooo close…But, Hate only effects us

[@Rachel-ti8rd]

Deep

[@nicouekuete8842]

I don't understand ... why can't he ask his daughter to move in with him???

[@brittanysmith5233]

I think it was the fact that it was basically involving her in things. Asking her to move in so he didn't have to worry about his child support increasing

[@Chris-d4n5c]

Good father nasty wife. Shes mad hes with someone else.

[@trekgirl65]

And the defendant and the plaintiff using the kids in the middle of the money wars. Sad, when 2 are grown and one is in college.

[@HJRO]

The father seems like a decent fellow, and the mother seems very vindictive. Just my opinion, but I think she is angry that he has moved on with his life, so she's trying to screw him over.

[@JYBeliever]

Is that costco brand Jake gyllenhaal?!?!

[@isaidwhatisaid2750]

More like Temu

[@cassandrasaigo4648]

This was my first thought

[@TheAray6]

Kirkland

[@brt5273]

It would be different if the daughter was still a child, but I don't see what the problem is with the dad asking his adult daughter, who's college he's paying for, to come live with him so that he can avoid having the amount of his child support payments nearly doubled. Seems unnecessary to try and make out like the dad is up to something. If the mother is making so much less, then it's a great solution for her too.

[@taniawilliams3427]

He looks a bit like Jake Gyllenhaal.

[@YoshiBugatti]

Fake Gyllenhaal

[@kallen868]

I don't see it.

[@MorganC.]

Noooo...

[@judithzoppelt9385]

Immediately thought the same thing

[@RhondaCady]

I see a resemblance

[@skeldare]

He looks like a cross between Steve Carell and Jake Gyllenhaal. And maybe a little Bradley Cooper.

[@50sRockChick]

Nice looking man.

[@chitown1098]

The mother should be forced by the courts to pay child support. The JJ double standard-mother/ex-wife gets away with not supporting her daughter and JJ does not get on her case like she does with EVERY father. REGARDLESS of the gender of the parent, if a child lives with the other parent, in this case her father, then the mom should be FORCED to pay child support. The court should do full investigation into mom’s finances and come up with support order.

[@zw2210]

JJ is an ecumenical abuser. She always says that both parents should be responsible for their children. Equal right to see and support.

[@croach2194]

Asking your daughter to move in with you so that you do not have to pay child support is poor paprenting.

[@OwOudoge]

So is nearly doubling the child support even though none of the kids live with her lol

[@orionb5217]

I guess you didn’t hear that she wanted to double child support when the child wasn’t even living with her

[@croach2194]

@@orionb5217 Amazing isn't it?

[@lightandsymbols1111]

I support her and applaud her for refusing to be mistreated. Appalling that they use the word threatened so many times when talking about her standing her ground.

[@MorganC.]

What year was this?

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

long ago, must be early 2000s

[@Rob_Leet]

Late 90’s. Around 1996

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

@@Rob_Leet ok true

[@BgotIt5100]

Aaron Rodgers

[@CarrieRay]

I’m in the minority here, but the father seems the nasty one.

[@YARA-z212]

MHM

[@jeffreyclinard2002]

Seems to me that if the plaintiff decided $1100 a month was proper child support, the defendant should have filed in family court for her to pay it once he obtained custody of the child. She'll probably get that tax refund, but the defendant might tell his kids to ask mom for support because after the judgment, she has the money for it and he doesn't.

[@haydencooper_]

Plaintiff reminds me of the mother from 7th Heaven.

[@trekgirl65]

Plaintiff is the ex- wife, Defendant is the ex-husband.

[@haydencooper_]

@trekgirl65 oops, edited! I meant plaintiff 😄

[@Tinsrox]

Comments here are wild. His ex-wife has been gouged HIS Tax bill for taxes he DIDN’T pay. That’s what this is about. He thinks because he chose to pay for his of age daughters education it means she should eat HIS tax bill? Everyone needs to stop crying about unfair child support and recognise what this is actually about. He knows that he doesn’t have to pay for his 18 y o son because he’s of age but she HAS to help pay for their daughter? I do think parents should help if they can with higher ed, but if she can’t and he can, it isn’t up to him to just insist she covers some because he does. She has a job btw, she WORKS for the unemployment office. She can’t afford to help her kid with college. He can. She can’t afford to pay HIS tax bill. Why is this even a question??

[@GlennCarver]

Hey Eric Clapton ……….

[@MichaelWalsh-qn3ef]

Sad really,seem a nice couple.

[@horsetuna]

Random question for the US people: How does making a parent pay more money for support than they can afford work? If the parent cant afford 200 dollars a month for example, they go to jail no? I'm not defending deadbeats of course who CAN but I've seen a few claim 'I cant even afford rent much less 50/month' so I'm curious about the few legit cases where the parent isnt able to afford the support.

[@YoshiBugatti]

Don’t have a family that you CANNOT hold together spiritually, emotionally, and last but not least financially. That’s how it works. That goes for all “genders” and both sexes.

[@QueenScorpioSews]

There's a formula based on their income, # of children to support and #of households those children are in. So if she wanted more money, they had to prove how much they make.

[@horsetuna]

@QueenScorpioSews thank you. So as Judy has said in other cases: If it's legitimately too much, go back to court with your wages and such I wonder if local cost of living goes into that. Like if say, they live in New York where rent is stupid high?

[@QueenScorpioSews]

@@horsetuna it is usually based on locality rather than federally. So each state would have their own formula, usually. Idk if the cost of living is used, but I do know most places has a cap on how much a person can owe on child support based on those formulas. That's why some people can owe a fortune, or say, $5/month depending on how much they make and how many kids they owe to.

[@horsetuna]

@QueenScorpioSews so people who complain are either: needing to return to court to get it re calculated or... Not wanting to pay fairly.

[@magicicle]

Defendant is a handsome scruffy daddy

[@trekgirl65]

He is not handsome.

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

@@trekgirl65

[@JohnDoe-xm9ql]

Don't get married Don't get a divorce Don't do drugs... Don't Don't Don't

[@purplelove3666]

Don't have s.e.x Don't have a girlfriend/ boyfriend Stay celibate Don't waste anyone's time when your plan is not marriage

[@AnastasiaRomanov-w9x]

Good. Here’s another one. DONT REPRODUCE!

[@Kennybooy9]

Poor mom. She has Zacharies disease.

[@DIDYOUSEETHAT172]

The courts are overly generous in awarding a parent who stayed at home while the other worked, or giving spousal support. That should be abolished. Ridiculous. Child support yes. Gouging one person into not being able to support themselves by giving away their income is ridiculous. You part ways then support yourself don't live off anyone else. "Diot kid quits school, child support ends.

[@jimmorrison9656]

Marriage is a bad deal for men.

[@katherineduke3232]

Even worse for women

[@broeheemed32]

@@katherineduke3232 BS. "He abused me!!! I'm afraid!!!!" and off to prison he goes to give her enough time to sell his house and clean him out.

[@jimmorrison9656]

@@katherineduke3232 Please.....

[@purplelove3666]

Then stay single and celibate

[@lookatyou5809]

​@BlueIvysAssistant That's completely false. Married men live longer and single child free women are happier.

[@brucemcinerney685]

GOD hates divorce,

[@WillieAdams-et8zg]

But one can get a Scriptural divorce according to Matthew 19:9

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

@@WillieAdams-et8zg but not allowed to get remarried, only the person who didnt commit adultery , is allowed to,

[@Palmstreet-u7x]

but if you are married to a syco you cannot stay married, i held out for 23 years until i just could not anymore,

[@edmer68]

No, just you.

[@purplelove3666]

God doesn't like oppression and a toxic marriage