THIS Is Why Men & Women Are Single... (TOXIC!) | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I react to some TikToks (mainly about dating) and try to give a healthier, more balanced perspective.
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[@hagberry6477]

I don't know why people prefer to play mind games when it comes to relationships. If you like / don't like someone, just be direct about it!

[@kc270352]

people love manipulation

[@CourtneyRyan]

Totally agree

[@ghostflame9211]

If only it were that easy

[@hagberry6477]

@@ghostflame9211 For me, it is easy. My current bf approached me reluctantly, but I liked him, so I told him. Nine months in and we're still crazy for each other. I won't trade him for anything.

[@andoverb1307]

Thank you I wish more people were like you.

[@graymatters7584]

When I was much younger, I dated a rich gal from Mexico City. She lost interest in me at some point, and she told me why. She said I needed to play games better. She said I should call her every day for a few days, then deliberately NOT call one day to make her wonder - keep her off-balance. I mourned the loss of that relationship for about 30 minutes, but never heeded her advice. It never seemed like a recipe for finding the right girl for me. I am what I am. Eventually, I found the one who appreciated what I am. We've been together 36 years.

[@Kevin09210]

Typical latina woman 🤣

[@brendantjeerdsma492]

Amen brother! Glad you found the right woman for you

[@velvet123]

That’s sad - that’s a girl not a woman. Keep it moving. A men being consistent is a good green flag.

[@rodneyc3202]

These women.... they don’t want peace 😂😂😂

[@gbd-oq1rz]

Those women hate themselves and they want that hate from other. They like any attention bad or good. Yes that’s is a adult female but an immature soul on the inside

[@tayloryork8185]

"Play stupid games, win stupid prizes." I love that so much.

[@masterofdisaster492]

She's talking to Chad/Tyrone .. the other 80% of the guys will be labeled a creep

[@matthattermatador4595]

Any woman that uses the word creep is immediately and irrevocably dead to me. If it came down to saving Ted Bundy or the woman who called me the creep; I’m saving Ted Bundy… every time.

[@vikingshark2634]

This is just her asking that validation from all men continue, without having to do any actual work to reject everyone except Chad.

[@acb723]

Who hurt you guys ?!!! SERIOUSLY. The whole " chad & tyrone" thing is sooo fucking stupid 🤣🤣😂😂.

[@FPSIreland2]

@@matthattermatador4595and you still don’t realise why women think you’re a creep? You’re a lost cause mate

[@alancook9102]

"We should not be outsourcing our happiness." Excellent. Your one liners are so on the point. Sharp thinking., "You are what you do." Another great one. That's your trade mark."

[@hrobky]

"Play stupid games, win stupid prizes", love it!

[@SinsOfScience]

This video was the first time I ever came across the phrase, "We should not be outsourcing our happiness." Thank you for that.

[@thefox47545]

I've had women ask me out. Unfortunately I wasn't interested in any of them. BUT, I still gave them a date because I admired their ambition and to see if maybe "sparks would fly". Unfortunately again, no second date for any of them, just not interested, no sparks. But it was still REALLY NICE to be asked out.

[@machupikachu1085]

I've done the same. It does feel nice to be approached. Women get this kind of attention 1000% more than us as well. Must be nice lol

[@coopclauson]

I've definitely been approached by women in the past, going back to high school. It almost never happens "cold," it's usually a matter of being in an existing milieu with them, like a class, or a work environment. And generally what they do is just start talking to you about things and make it very obvious that they're interested, they don't ask you out directly or anything.

[@Cantetinza17]

I do. I'm just someone that values my time and I just want to get the answer or move on. I'm short and thick, so I know that there is a 40% chance depending on who they are, or think they are, or if they are alone, or with their friends that they'll accept.

[@Trizzer89]

"a lot of girls are into guys that they know are not good for them" And this is exactly why guys "treat em mean". Because it works better than anything else

[@NANA-su5ql]

Nah that quote says way more about the person using it than actual women’s opinions. And there’s also a big divide between fantasy and reality in what someone wants romantically.

[@Mark.remarking]

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes? That's fantastic Courtney. it actually made me laugh out loud

[@rjames7380]

If your interested in an relationship. Take a step back and simply observe from the sidelines for awhile. Put yourself in the 'friend zone' and you're going to quietly and quickly see how they treat the people around there world. Won't be long to realize if you want to step up your game or if you dodged a bullet. If marriage is for life yet divorce exists at such a high ratio... Then playing the long game may be of high benefit to those in the sport

[@antonboludo8886]

1:47 - I have seen it a few times, and it has happened to me a couple of times, but overall this is still very rare. Women are the flowers and men are the bees. As they say in French "L' homme propose, la femme dispose.'', which means that the man usually makes the first move and then the woman either accepts or refuses.

[@malakbrood667]

Exactly. This is very unusual. In spanish would be: El hombre propone y la mujer dispone. That chick on the first video is delusional.

[@antonboludo8886]

@@malakbrood667 Yes, she is.

[@eduardocaro381]

Hi Courtney! My respect to you. Wish there was more healthy people like you on this planet. Great videos. Hope this helps shine some light to persons with these toxic mindsets. Thank you and congrats to your channel👍🏻👍🏻

[@totallypluggedin]

Great advice Courtney, you’ve got a really effective way of sweetly and thoughtfully giving wisdom that I think is good for men and women!

[@opiealvin]

I bet Courtney gets told that she is wise beyond her years alot. I get told that alot too. People always say to me, "Are you sure you're only 31 because you say stuff that old people say." I just laugh it off. Because advice you get from older folks is generally far more sound than the stuff you hear young people spewing.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Lol I totally relate to this! 🙌🏼

[@kwong4579_]

31 is old.

[@kaiung7542]

@@kwong4579_ Yeah I'm 30 and I'm old

[@AmazianLinsation82]

@@kwong4579_ try 39, i look 30 but gets screened out on all dating apps due to age criterion.

[@kaiung7542]

@@AmazianLinsation82 You're old af

[@lfvonarx]

Where can I find kind and gentle women like yourself? I really appreciate your perspective and genuine advice. Keep it going.

[@qjtvaddict]

Talk to them all do not get serious till she proves herself

[@komandorbentus2731]

"Women are approaching more than before" Me as a male: What? That would be beautiful, if it would be true. 9:40 - that was... so weak, strange, out of blue, empty, trashy and...pathetic? I don't, that was weird. I can't even think like that. I would never realize something like that.

[@bunnyboo6295]

There was a time when girls didn't do it at all there may not be alot of ladies making the first move but it dose happen sometimes. I know my grandma would have never called a boy girls were told not to ask cause boys were raised to be polite and you would be forcing yourself on them

[@patrickstogsdill74]

Omg that dude is so right that win and lose mindset does make me more anxious

[@DaedLizrad]

The idea behind "tricking" guys into dates is probably because of the minority of guys the majority of women pursue, online dating has it at 90% chasing 10% but I doubt there isn't something similar happening in the meatspace of normal life and even if it's as low as 60 chasing the top 40 it'll lead to that kind of behavior.

[@yvesgysel9834]

Last month, my Girlfriend had her period and she was so sick, so I had to go to the supermarket to buy her sanitary napkins. When I was at the aisle and I looked at all this different brands, heavy bleading, tampons..., I realized this was way over my head. So I approached the cashier and ( some Women/Men behind me, waiting at the chechout) I said "This is my first time....., that I buy sanitary napkins, can someone pls help me out?"( A bit too loud, because all the ladies overheard me). Everbody laughed big time and all Women were offering me to help out. Very nice of them.

[@good_to_be_gold8]

I do them like N’sync when I feel she’s playing mind games BYE BYE BYE 😂

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼

[@tbiking8099]

Courtney you are so smart listening to you helps me makes sense of past relationships and how to get better at new ones and your the most beautiful girl on youtube.

[@joaquinrivera3741]

Be yourself. Be genuine. Be honest. Be nice. Don't be desperate Don't be needy. Don't misrepresent. Don't force it.

[@skepticknowledge8457]

Oddly most of my dating with women have been started by them. I dated a woman I met looking far an apartment. I have been approached by many women on the Transit system. I even had a girl creep me out. She chased me through a subway train, then sat opposite me and stared at me smiling. I can honestly say without knowing, I was treating them like most men get treated. I have heard the words "what? I'm not good enough for you" after a friendly conversation.

[@arthurmorgan9575]

Anyone else remember that episode from drake and Josh, when Josh would go up to girls, give them a compliment and walk away? Seeing that first video reminded me of that lol

[@schroederluck7984]

SAME HAHAHA worked wonders for Josh 😂

[@christophewells3918]

That one dude (ConfidentChris) was talking about interactions and conversation before a relationship has been established though. I get what he is saying through an experience I had recently being friend and to my thoughts being seeked by a woman on Facebook that I thought was attractive and interesting. After about a week of us talking back and forth, she went really cold on me for about 4 days and I mentioned that I wanted to continue to get to know her and wondered if that point had passed. She replied later that day with a very big attitude saying that apparently I was pressuring her to drop what she was doing to get to know me. I was quite appalled and taken aback by that accusation and just apologized and stopped talking to her. I felt it was quite a shame that she thought I came off like that, but It did show me her true colors in a sense. I don't like being thought of in that ways, so I won't pursue someone who feels that's me.

[@gusdk13138]

In the talking stage, him telling me that it bothered him that i didn’t reply made me like him more because he came across as a very communicative person. I appreciated that he communicated how he felt so i can say that advice is wrong sometimes :) right people with appreciate your honesty

[@jfknf8982]

i once asked a guy out and he was so nice, we dated for a couple weeks and then he said we were not compatible. he was the most gentlemen guy ive ever dated.

[@VideoCesar07]

The cheater's mindset never ceases to puzzle me. Specifically the ones who knowingly get involved with someone they know is married or already dating someone, they feel so proud of themselves when they leave their SO for them. This is such a toxic and disfunctional relationship at the very beginning. Two people who obviously cannot be trusted to be faithful yet they think the other one will be faithful to them? Gives me a migraine thinking about the twisted moral compass and psyche needed to see that as acceptable.

[@seymorepencilart]

This was one of your best Tiktok react videos. I like that you had some men telling people not to put up with, or engage in, manipulative behavior/tactics.

[@NitsuaEsahc]

There are women that get turned on over arguments. I hate that.

[@petersmith520]

U and Casey Zander are my older siblings that I've never met but needed 😂

[@luketimewalker]

NAH, you're a credit to humankind. I was realizing yesterday you're only 25-30. That's fucking impressive wisdom there.

[@dnastyness5811]

9:40, this is another example of women being confused by feminism, thinking that they are men, and that male dating strategies work for them

[@mokrulgobline9403]

"Play stupid games, win stupid prizes" best quote I've heard!

[@skinnygumbo9555]

Some people generate an "anxious attachment style" in others who might not otherwise be that way by their hot and cold behavior. Being able to tell people to walk away is a different thing from being able to do it yourself. There's an emotional detachment when it is not happening to you that doesn't exist when it is you. You would not drive your car with your eyes closed, taking instruction from passengers and bystanders. You can't live your life that way either. Pay attention to what the perrson does but be the driver.

[@testosteronemastery]

Direct approach sucks these days. Spark up conversations with more people in general and you’ll get comfortable sparking up conversations with girls organically. Literally just talk to more people and you’ll get good at talking to girls, even if they’re hot.

[@dannywallace4905]

Eye contact works. Clothes don't hide sloppy bodies

[@FinalB055]

With the 1st tik-tok I think the kind of women that will come pursue might not be the one looking for a relationship, but to hook up.

[@memyselfi3520]

Just know that the people putting videos out about you obviously know you’re good at what you do…otherwise they wouldn’t be trying to make you look bad.

[@therabidpancake1]

I find that most women don't want you to talk to them every day . I guess that it comes off as needy .

[@eQuariuz]

Welcome to Red Pill knowledge 101 - Introductory to young male/female dynamics.

[@therabidpancake1]

@@eQuariuz I have been in the red pill game for a while now .

[@igorvrucina1724]

actually, the first advice is very good, because that is a good strategy if you are her type. if you do that and she follows you that means you are her type, but if she does not look for you then you are not her type and it is smart not to waste too much time on her in the first place

[@Hugh_Hunt]

"Just talk to them, like they are a normal person" ::Gut reaction:: 'But they are not, that is why we are all here Courtney' BAHAHAHAHA This is what I am coming to grips with, I am bad at conversation because I am treating the conversation as a path to an end, not just a conversation... with someone I find attractive or interesting.

[@machupikachu1085]

Sounds like you've isolated the problem, so now you just gotta put the solution into practice. Cheers!

[@illusionmofo]

That first tiktok girl just took that advice from Drake and Josh...that ONE episode where Josh was single...until he learned that advice from his mom...

[@dusanslavnic4727]

The problem with talking to a girl like I would talk to just any random stranger is that I don't engage in conversations with people in public settings if that is not my reason for being there, and a lot of people probably suffer from this same issue in a way

[@0oohnegative]

The first video- he could say the simple statement and the. hand her his number and walk away. She can always send a text later if she wants.

[@Cantetinza17]

1. I get what she is getting at, but if you walk away, I'm just gonna be like, "Well that was nice", and continue what I'm doing. I would rather you give a compliment and ask if you can sit down next to me or if you can have a seat at my table. One guy gave me a compliment at a Halloween party, he complimented me and said, "I don't know what your relationship status is, but if you're single here's my number, I'd like to take you out and get to know you". I called that night and we went out to dinner and we were in a relationship for almost three years. 2. I agree if I like you I'll approach first. 3. If someone isn't paying attention to me then I'll chill out on them especially if we aren't a couple yet. I'm not gonna waste my words on that. If I'm available next time they want to hang out then cool I'll hang out with them, but if we are a couple I'm gonna let them know in a loving way. 4. That's Toxic and childish. What is the point? 5. I agree if this person you are dating hasn't taken you out on a date it's time to let it go or just say, "Why haven't we gone out on a date"? Hell even cooking me dinner is a date for me. 6. There are just some people out there that like jerks (know to leave those people alone). 7. Agreed. 8. Always remember, "How you get them is how you'll lose them". If he cheated on his wife with you, what makes you think the same won't happen to you?

[@flpmlks5181]

the more I watch videos like this, the more I realize that I was a total simp, beta. it is annoying to realize this. but perhaps it is better to finally find out that climbing a mountain means going uphill, not the oposite way :D

[@Matt-tt4cu]

Don't worry bro. The fact you realized that about yourself (assuming it's true) is the first step towards success. Get red-pilled, don't put women on pedestals, and build YOUR life. You wont regret it.

[@ethanadams2013]

Same here, and I am 63 years old and just learning it. Oh how my life would have been different if this kind of knowledge had been around when I was a young man. So at least be grateful you are learning it early (I assume you are young).

[@gaymagician]

Thank you so much big sis for another great video!!!! I always leave your videos feeling inspired, motivated, and educated. In this insane world its so easy to fall in the mindset that you’re crazy and you need to do/say certain things in order to achieve in an end results. You clear not only those toxic advice but humanize my emotions. Defog my brain. And paint clarity in this ever fuzzy world!

[@gaymagician]

Big sis lil sis* since you’re 25 and I’m 30 🤣

[@Roozy_Persepolis]

This was a great video. 👍 please do more of these. It's sometimes hard for us to understand what is going on with that girl,but you're explaining everything very well

[@Trizzer89]

LOLOL @ #4. No guy pays that much attention to detail and even if he did notice, it would be rationalized away a million different ways

[@wanfazali2518]

OUR LOVE IS TRUE LOVE .. WITH SOUL....

[@RexAlfieLee]

You're correcting someone for his ghosting advice but the decision about getting together may already have been said. Ghosting is really more than a day of silence rather than connection. If someone leaves 24 hrs between, unless they've lost their phone or hr it's stolen or something really serious has happened then they're ghosting you. It's up to them to fix it if it's serious or phone is lost.

[@breatheliveandthrive7404]

I don't have Tiktok but just a question: Why do many girls and women face the mirror when doing videos on tiktok instead of just flipping the front camera on their phones?

[@fwwaller]

8:35 if you start a relationship you should make it clear from the start that you expect consistent communication if that's the reaction you're going to get from not being texted back.

[@plescar]

Damn Courtney, who is your inspiration for your mindset, we need more women like you?

[@dennissvensson6051]

Me in line and in coffee shops: just enjoying to have some alone time..

[@MonsterMass3d]

I don't think people realize that Courtney is doing everyone a service by calling out all these girls passing on toxicity as legitimate advice. For whatever reason, Tiktok has an algorithm that heavily pushes content, but it unfortunately pushes really bad/false information as well. I've never seen so much incorrect information about finance, fitness, and love/dating advice that comes up on my FYP

[@Westcoastrocksduh]

Tiktok pushes bad content because most of tiktok is bad content

[@IamjustBruh]

I’m with you Dude. I never had a tiktok nor want one.

[@Bullet-Tooth-Tony-]

@@IamjustBruh Ikr its cringy as fuck 27 and never will use it

[@novadjsau]

I love Emily King tik tok channel. She is spot on every time with men.... Refreshing to hear women like her and you Courtney that just get it 😊

[@McGup]

I think you misunderstood who the "make the first move" guy was talking about that you said was great advice. He was saying that it's the women who should start using that mindset.

[@StillLoadingRPMs]

I have to disagree with the very first one. I regularly get approached by women a lot. I'd only say it's because I'm confident in myself and I don't go looking for the next chick. I just take my glances and chill do me and believe it or not I still get amazed when women make the first move. I can only speak for myself though.

[@JosueExplores]

New studio Courtney? I smell a new podcast coming

[@Dp-dx3zu]

Relationships initiated by women tend to be a lot more successful than the other way around, women should take advantage of that

[@machupikachu1085]

Agreed. That's because she actually wants you. You're not her 'Silver Medal."

[@AnAZPatriot]

I think the reason why the VAST majority of women won't approach a man is for the very reason why a lot of guys have anxiety about approaching a woman....fear of rejection. Men take rejection all day long. If a man wants to get anywhere in the world, he has to take risks and put himself out there. Now picture a woman getting rejected. End of story.

[@hdog6371]

Don’t be defensive be unapologetically you you’re great be confident in that x

[@ardentdfender4116]

I swear to high heavens, I have no damn understanding of Tick Tok or even why it exist. Thus I don’t ever get these Ticky Ticky videos. Nor did that last video with that girl crashing make any sense to me. I must be getting old.

[@Bullet-Tooth-Tony-]

Im 27 and never used tik tok ever just full of people stroking their own egos

[@brentc78]

In my 40'S thinking a Woman around this age are done playing games and rather be honest and communicate their attention. Nope!

[@fondelmaddick5085]

❤️Excellent presentation, as usual. Perhaps have more videos of ladies saying how they like to be approached, and what is, or isn't, a date? ❤️

[@Tomuchtiredtotalk]

I just love and laugh when you said “ wish could give that girl a hug “ I like her content And I enjoyed yours very much 🙏🏻

[@cortezrange5950]

Because I'll tell you the reason why Most guys don't talk to another person in a public space And if a guy chooses to speak to another person it's a different manner of how a guy approach a conversation with another guy then he speaking with a woman

[@rogerramjet6429]

4:24 yes. Great advice. " Talk to women, "like" they're a normal human. 🤣🤣🤣

[@machupikachu1085]

gotta love similes! :D

[@dket2571]

So true, all of it, so true

[@rafaelbaere1707]

The question you must always ask yourself when weird things happen on a date is: do I want to date this kind of person? More often than not the answer will be no. Now it is on you to do something about it.

[@John.Doe-OG]

Relationships can be like Poker. (care of Kenny Rogers) You got to know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em, no when to walk away and no when to run. (sometimes run is *RUN* !!!!

[@cortezrange5950]

I don't think most men are trying to put a woman on a pedestal Instead I believe most men are scared about the reactions that a woman could have with him While she's in a conversation with him or he is in a situation with her Because nowadays When a woman could talk about a man badly to tear into his reputation to make other people believe the same way that she does about him most people don't question her details in her stories about him So ladies tell me that I'm telling a lie in my comments that I left

[@deleteexistence6175]

This chick doesn't message me for like a week and usually I'd delete someone who does that but she just went through a bereavement.

[@alfafalk]

Here in Sweden there's nothing strange for women to make the first move. I can't understand what the fuzz is all about.

[@DoktorJeep]

Men are single for damned good reasons and way beyond what slores on tik tok say

[@machupikachu1085]

In Canada they're called Slotz or Slitches. Gotta love portmanteaus. Thanks Mr. Carroll! :D

[@ramonantoniodejuanbennett6239]

If I want to play games, I'll just fire up the SNES or Sega Dreamcast. Any girl who wants to play games, I have a second controller. Oh wait, she's not talking about those type of games. In that case, chicks want to play games I just walk away. The only way to win is not play at all.

[@JP-wg4ny]

I'm just wondering why you mentioned Justin Bieber. I know it was for example but still, why him? Is he an ideal man in womens eyes?

[@kevinkarbonik2928]

World's shortest Fairy Tale: Once upon a time a Guy asked a girl " will you marry me?" The girl said "No!" And the Guy lived happily ever after and rode motorcycles and went fishing and hunting and played Golf a lot and drank beer and scotch and had money in the bank, kept his beloved sportscar, went out late with friends, kept in trim and went to the gym and left the toilet seat up and farted whenever he wanted.....THE END

[@chanceyeomans4115]

So glad I’m watching you in my 20s. Learning so much 🔥💪🏻

[@eQuariuz]

Rollo Tomassi will be of far more value to you as a man. This channel is nice to watch though.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

@@eQuariuz Rollo is a clown. Far too many contradictions and hypocrisy from all the 'relationship and dating gurus'. Check out the debunking videos. Choose wisely.

[@t.k.8406]

You can find my sympathy between shit and syphilis! Subscribed, thank you Courtney!

[@JonRoy_ZA]

Basically, men be men. Men should not play games, but he confident and direct. Men need to remember that they have the power, and that they should use it towards good aims, and not taking advantage of lots of women. In the end, women are not looking for one night stands, no matter what they say, they are looking for a leader to take control and provide a good life for them and their children. Biology and a billion years of evolution can't be changed by 60 years of feminisn; nor should it. Men, the world is yours. Take care of it.

[@explorechanel813]

I feel this video is good for teenagers ! and I believe and I hope people over 25 years old they should be no better

[@TheSigmaInAverage]

WHATS WORSE THAN A very unnactrive person on the outside AND unattractive on the inside? Glad you asked! It's a person who's very unattractive on the inside AND REALLY ATTRACTIVE ON THE OUTSIDE. Enjoy your new mantra

[@cortezrange5950]

When I'm having a conversation with another guy I can be myself to express my own opinion without a man looking at me in a weird way Towards any topic that I can discuss with that man But when it comes to me speaking to a woman Then I will say hell no! Especially when it comes to the double standards that females have towards a man that a woman could be in a conversation with Also I'm not denying that as men especially me being one myself we don't have double standards when it comes to us speaking to a woman

[@TwilightWolf032]

That was just a girl saying "come give me attention and compliments and then leave me alone!"

[@itsNXCK]

preach courtney!

[@Nah-ah]

There was only 2 people who gave common sense advice. A lot of game playing these days.. I feel for the singles who looking to date/dating. Great content as usual, Courtney 😊

[@melvinjuliano1440]

Great content,very true and good advice,keep up the good work.

[@joelnorris5836]

I'm starting to really like this girls advice. Now that I'm not on a bunch of gear, I'm starting to have some actual human emotions and some of these videos help .

[@BruceJC75]

I must say, being unattractive makes things so easy. I just talk to people with a smile and a friendly greeting, and there’s no pressure, cause there’s no chance they might be attracted to me lol.

[@machupikachu1085]

That's the spirit! ;)

[@Ishthemane4]

That is not a good mindset to have. "Being a terrible salesmen helps because I'll never sell anything"

[@edgeg400]

DEPENDS on if it was Brad Pitt or Steve Buscemi who complimented the female.

[@wanfazali2518]

OUR TIME LINE WAS FRM 10MTH FWD FRM YRS TIME...

[@07wrxtr1]

01:49 - "more than ever before"

[@etrax7007]

Wow... women are waking up!! There is hope for our civilization!

[@JB-pb9xv]

Ah TikTok, is TikTok itself not just a pool of toxicity.

[@travis6694]

It’s almost like who can manipulate the best to win control these days.

[@agentm83]

Basically, a lot of relationships out there seem to be based on manipulation - it sucks.

[@Rick_Cleland]

@@agentm83 😔😔😔

[@Rick_Cleland_II]

​@@Rick_Cleland Stop whining!!

[@END-THE-FED]

Yes it’s true, many relationships are toxic these days. MANY!

Twas always thus, and always thus shall be.

[@HanzoMishima]

I'm not going to lie. Giving a genuine compliment with a random question while passing has worked a lot for me. The woman doesn't necessarily come find you, but it does make them more receptive because you are showing genuine interest in a natural way without coming across thirsty, overbearing, or awkward.

[@salmarnir92]

That’s good advice

[@andrebaxter4023]

Same here man. It's all about being genuine and also having good sensory acuity. I'll stick around and talk to her and shoot my shot if she's showing interest. If she looks uninterested, then I'll kindly cut the conversation and walk away.

[@dimex3362]

Thats the morgan freeman game. Basically give them a compliment and show your interest… then keep it moving. Lots of women will become more receptive to a direct advance after having laid that foundation. In other words, they may make eye contact further down the line and show you choosing signals/interest. Of course, some wont. And morgan freeman basically said you just kick back and see which women take the bait and start showing interest. Donr worry about the ones that dont. He basically called it a cheat code.

[@andoverb1307]

I do not believe approaching a random woman you do not know is a good idea, it almost never works. Women need social proof and they are biologically afraid of stranger men. A woman has to know the man first, so no this is not going to work ever, besides that's manipulation technique, and quite honestly running away from the rejection so nothing manly about it. I say chase excellence men, don't ask random women out its a waste of your energy.

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@@andoverb1307 Alot of the men who watch Courtney are simps.