Why I Stopped Collecting Crystals (honest advice you should hear)

[@CourtneyVioletta]

Sometimes we just need a little break to re-center ourselves and reevaluate why we are doing certain things 😌

[@missfroghophophop6953]

The way I explain it to people is candles, crystals, Tarot, ... ect are like calculators. They are tools. You don't throw a calculator on a math equation and say why isn't the equation solved ?!?! you still have to do things in the right order, plug everything in , and then write the answer down.

[@darealmistaa8406]

@@missfroghophophop6953 thank you I was thinking the same thing like they not suppose to solve shii you suppose to it’s suppose to jus help or assist that’s prob why it’s called metaphysical cus u still gotta go thru the ego

[@Star-po6gq]

Its all deception and a distraction from the real truth of Jesus and God.

[@missfroghophophop6953]

@@Star-po6gq to each their own .I'm happy for you that you have found your path and truth. But please don't judge and belittle other peoples truth and path. best wishes.

[@JenniferGraceMartinez]

@@missfroghophophop6953 I don't believe that S Aquarius belittled anyone. He or she literally just gave his/her own truth... They said nothing mean, cruel, judgemental, or belittling. Live in peace, my friend.

[@BeanSoop69]

I just like shiny rock

[@waawaawiimote2779]

same homie

[@CourtneyVioletta]

Same 🤪

[@waawaawiimote2779]

@@CourtneyVioletta people enjoy pretty things without contributing to a consumerist society, don't make fun of other people's interests just because you thought a rock would solve all your problems

[@CourtneyVioletta]

@@waawaawiimote2779 In what world am I making fun of anyone? This video isn't for people who collect them for their beauty, though that is a big reason people collect them, and I reason I did in the end as well. It's for people who are looking for quick fix.

[@waawaawiimote2779]

@@CourtneyVioletta I assumed sarcasm in your previous reply because of the emoji, my bad if that wasn't the case

[@Mirandaleia8463]

People are willing to cling on to anything that offers some hope. I think crystals are beautiful and can help create a pretty and peaceful environment just as much as any home decor can and that's good enough for me.

[@latoshastanfield5523]

Yes

[@CourtneyVioletta]

Yes definitely! I love them as decor too, I have them in every room in my house, I just feel sad that I went overboard and have so many in boxes being wasted 🥺

[@lctarotandoracle881]

Nope, some people know that even with crystals you still have to put some work in. It's manifestation not magic...

[@hulubulu280]

Crystals can in no way promote a "peaceful environment" they are mined by children, the money supports ongoing war in the areas and leaves the nature drained and poluted. This is some white privileged white washed idea of what spirituality is, it is literally the exact opposite.

[@andyf.1349]

@@lctarotandoracle881 iiikikikik the

[@ShieldmaidenSway]

This ties into my issue with the whole "manifest it" era that's going on right now. I was raised a witch. And part of manifesting is working on it to get the thing. Not wishing or imagining it and then waiting for it to happen. You need to focus in on yourself. (Meditate and use the time to think to find out what you need to do. What steps you need to take) crystals are tools in the practice. And not a fashion item or a "gotta catch them all" kinda collectables. Witchcraft us literally about working with nature. You can attain everything you need with your own inner power and inner energy. You don't NEED anything. They're tools that help and assist, if you want to use them. It doesn't make you any less of a witch, or spiritual person if you don't have all the crystals or all the tools. I literally give away all my information for free because there is no course for being a witch. You don't need to be in a coven to be a witch. Being a witch or spiritual doesn't and shouldn't cost money.

[@CourtneyVioletta]

100%! Perfectly said! I had felt the same way about manifesting and LOA, there is so much hype about and I kept hearing that if it's not "working", I don't believe hard enough or I'm doing it wrong. Eventually, I realized a lot of it is about control and sometimes we just have to loosen our grip on things and see where we are naturally led! "Gotta catch them all" -yes!! Like trust me, I wanted to do that and live in a house filled with magical items and crystals everywhere, but in the end, that's not what all of this is about. 💗

[@devinozmon11]

I think they can totally be collectibles, fashionable and spiritual items. (Not disagreeing with the main point) but stones and crystals have been used for all three forever

[@hairproducts7637]

Great Advice Truth 👏👏👏

[@ablurida]

This answered a lot of my questions already haha

[@ShieldmaidenSway]

@@devinozmon11 when things become over used and misused and "fashionable" they become commodities and then we run into the era we have now with over-mining, fakes, low paid workers and really harsh conditions for them too. It's a consumerism issue now as much as it is access for spiritual practice.

[@sistercharlatan]

I have my crystals on display amongst my plants collection and I believe the benefit i get from them is just appreciating how beautiful what nature gives us and world around us can be

[@marcomontano9454]

Crystals definitely carry energy

[@viduraherath4008]

No... they really dont, at least not in the magic mumbo jumbo idea that you think. Any form of matter will of course have an electromagnetic field as it is an abundance of mass, However the whole crystal healing crap is a lie. Its all just market scammers running off of a placebo effect to take your money@@marcomontano9454

[@psyteo3130]

@@marcomontano9454 placebo is real.

[@annekary6190]

Yes! Crystals must be cleansed and recharged and this reminds me I need that to. ❤ but I come perfectly madefor the job without tools in my hands. Just tools in my heart ❤ best wishes

[@viduraherath4008]

Crystals do not hold an electric charge in the way you are talking about. There is no 'recharging' and 'cleansing' unless you mean you are running it in a water based electrolyser to try clean it in some way even though it only makes hydrogen.@@annekary6190

[@michaelm8510]

You don’t have to go to such extremes when it comes to this. If you like crystals and believe they’ll benefit you then just start with a few. You don’t have to take it to the extreme of getting rid of all your spiritual stuff. Everything in moderation :)

[@voidremoved]

Crystals are fine, but any tarot crap has to go. Everything in moderation is b.s. tho. People need Jesus and they need as much Jesus as they can. To the extreme. So open your hearts and be filled.

[@lalalalalalayay]

like i dont know any crystal backstory stuff i just heard theyre spiritual 😭 plus theyre shiny n pretty lol

[@avacadotoast5492]

​@@voidremoved Cernunnos is pretty cool tho 😍

[@lovrboi]

don’t worry- if you feel they connect you to God and they bring you a sense of peace, then continue! it’s all personal preference; do what feels right to you. you can use them for whatever benefits you would like. don’t feel guilty for appreciating the beauty of nature you know; everyone's spiritual journeys are unique

[@make_the_world_better_place]

Well said

[@ariellegarcia1145]

i collect them, but i don’t meditate to them, nor believe they will do something for me. I just love the way they look.

[@timmcspillywhop1234]

That’s exactly why they don’t do anything for you. Crystals hold a frequency. Working with a certain crystal can raise your frequency to that of said crystal. It’s metaphysics. If you collect but don’t attune to each one, you’re doing yourself a huge disservice.

[@danny8284]

@@timmcspillywhop1234 nobody cares shut up

[@Talioooo]

SAMEE

[@solita1313]

@@danny8284 why are you here if you don't care lmao

[@ctrlaltcreate3827]

@@timmcspillywhop1234 this is complete nonsense. “Vibrational frequency” is something that can be quantified and measured. There has been no such discovery identified with crystals

[@the_fae_witch1509]

Unfortunately this is a side effect from youtube tying into addictive consumerism. The same thing happened with makeup, candles, perfumes and so on. Then so many became completely overwhelmed and purged their collections. This is an addiction fueled by widespread consumerism and the pressure to buy, compete and own. Its an instant gratification directly followed up with wanting more. There wasn't any actual real intention or positive intention to collect these. Just an addiction that has hit every genre on youtube. And that's the truth.

[@genji7536]

Sounds similar to my addiction collecting japanese gacha to draw characters that i wanted to own, your wallet cries more in the long run and you realize its not worth it anymore collecting all the items its the same as hoarding

[@Orxy]

@@genji7536 Evertale is one of the reason im depressed

[@baani2439]

That’s what I’m scared of, I just started crystals and I really want them all but ik that I won’t be able to handle them all

[@the_fae_witch1509]

@@baani2439 don't be scared, it's okay to want to open yourself to the power and magic of the crystals. Just pace yourself, give yourself time to enjoy each one individually. Listen to your crystals, work with them daily. If you are in it to just collect them, set yourself a budget and never buy impulsively online; give yourself a few days to decide. If your in person with a crystal, holding it, resonating with it and it feels right, absolutely buy it. I buy mine from metaphysical stores so that I can handle them and get a good feeling from them. I let myself know that I'll only be picking up one or a few if they are really small. I wait a couple weeks to a month before I go back out to repeat the process. Youll be okay ❤

[@theladynextdoor313]

This is absolutely the truth! We must let go of the toxic habits and other issues YT brings. The whole idea of influencing in this way in itself is not positive. We have probably all fallen victim to this, I know I did, especially with the cosmetic stuff years ago. So glad I woke up and went in a much better direction and let go of the materialistic mindset.

[@juanba1717]

I love Chemistry and started first by collecting chemical elements, but now I also like collecting minerals, specifically crystals. I am not doing it because of beliefs, but because of love for chemistry and beauty of nature

[@JesusChrist-Gives-Eternal-Life]

Same here. I LOVE the natural beauty of crystals. They are incredibly beautiful pieces of nature. God bless.

[@ngjunruireagancchms4556]

same here

[@subliminalhotellyn_tbhc6036]

@@JesusChrist-Gives-Eternal-Life yes I collect crystals because it’s part of the earth and I love nature. I always have loved nature. And I’m a Christian

[@JesusChrist-Gives-Eternal-Life]

@@subliminalhotellyn_tbhc6036 Yes same here. God made them. So they are beautiful.

[@trala8911]

@JesusChrist-Gives-Eternal-Life So long as you follow the same logic for things like blowflies, maggots, cow turds and malaria, that’s cool. God made them. So they are beautiful.

[@chy8697]

Crystals are addictive. The beauty of them draws you in. I love that you included, “don’t judge yourself.” I judge myself hard when I find something I love & buy more and more of it. I love crystals for the beauty of the Earth, the knowledge & it’s a guide to help you find you.

[@angieminoa2851]

There's a difference between being a hoarder and appreciating the beauty and healing energy a crystal can give you.

[@SatumainenOlento]

I am eyeing my crystals now..."Eh, horder you say..." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (They come to me. I am living in an area where they are found from nature, hence the accumulation of all that beauty).

[@bartoszk966]

Healing?

[@blobofconsciousness]

​@@bartoszk966yes. I wouldn't have believed it if I hadn experienced it myself.

[@teshuvahwon]

Yep, I wear them daily. Love is the focus. And if you haven’t figured it out yet, we are all on the same team so stop the judgment.

[@Plemp.]

it´s not about the crystal, it is about your mindset.

[@thehealingautumnsage]

Shadow work is a very, VERY IMPORTANT part of spiritual development!!! Many people aren't aware of the dark side of spiritual growth. They just assume it's all sunshine and peace and yoga...it's SO MUCH MORE than just those things. Those are just tools for the journey.

[@rebellejacobs777]

Exactly

[@TracyD2]

Ahhh the never ending shadow work 🥺

[@thebullwhisperer916]

Why they say yoga invites demons.

[@russtyshacklefordjr.4429]

@@thebullwhisperer916 And it is actually true. If you want to know more about that, just look into the Yoga poses and what they represent. Also, this guy Steven Bancarz who was a 'new age guru' talks about this a lot, though he's not the only one.

[@catarinaf3261]

@@russtyshacklefordjr.4429 The guy who is quoted as saying "no man is interested in marrying a woman who is a feminist"? Please. He also says Barbie promotes Satanism and that you should burn your Harry Potter books...

[@lyssanc]

I heavily believe in energy, and I feel like different things have different energy. I’ve been collecting rocks my whole life. I cleanse them will sage and let them vibe. They’re like little friends.

[@SimpleJackPC]

Got a lot of growing up to do

[@000Blue]

@@SimpleJackPC No they don't lmao. Believing in energy has nothing to do with a persons maturity level. The person (sorry I don't know their pronouns) in this video stated that crystals won't fix all your problems,however they did say that they do believe in crystals and that they did work for them. There is a difference between putting all your hope in crystals because for some reason you can't fix your problems by yourself, and between believing in energy or having them to help or giude you. Also, I'm not trying to assume anything, but if you think that a person needs to grow up simply because of one or a certain belief that they have,then you might have a limiting belief which needs to change. A person is entitled to having their own views and beliefs (unless morally wrong)

[@TheHeidzmeister]

You go girl!!! 😍🥰

[@AeveryW]

@@SimpleJackPC You mean YOU have to grow up bc you clearly can't respect people passions.

[@la6136]

@JayJay You guys literally believe in rocks having the power to change energy. Even if a rock does vibrate at a high energy do you really want to give that much power to a rock?? If you really thinks that makes sense I don't know what to tell you.

[@bizarrelovetriangle]

This is so true. Ngl, tiktok trends were what first introduced me to crystals (kinda embarrassing lmao). I became obsessed and purchased them as a form of comfort - not because I needed them, but because the sense of ownership relieved my stress temporarily. I do believe in crystals, but I don’t think we should have such high expectations and act as if carrying them in your pocket will make your life better. Crystals are supposed to improve your mindset and motivate you, they are not magic spells that’ll all of a sudden improve your life. I think when I realized that, it actually became much easier for me to work with crystals

[@miaa1762]

Tiktok introduced me to crystals as well, but instead of buying them, I had some put away from year's ago that i purchased on a school field trip. But I had the same experience as you 100%.

[@CourtneyVioletta]

100% agree! It’s like the law of attraction. You can’t just say you want something to come to you magically without lifting a finger. You have to take action towards it. Crystals can highlight certain things for you, but nothing will change unless you take action!

[@valentinasarria3436]

wow ty for this

[@K8_te]

I think you are the only one who had high expectations when carrying them in your pocket would make your life better. I know many people who have taken spirituality seriously and has appreciated and respected it from the beginning of there spiritual journey and not one has ever thought or ever did think carrying crystals in your pocket would make life better. Also there’s your problem right there, the fact you have started buying crystals and anything like that is because how it’s “the trend” right now and how you came across this stuff on social media. That right there is the number one problem, when people only start looking into spiritual things like crystals or anything along those lines that has to do with that type of spiritual work then you absolutely in no way respect or appreciate anything to do with spiritual work and that’s why you compulsive buy and become almost obsessive with buying anything to do with the spiritual work. Which is another reason why you thought carrying crystals in your pocket would make life better and if you actually respected and appreciated spiritual work right from the beginning and really educated yourself on the subject then you would have never in a million years thought that. When you learn to appreciate and respect Mother Nature and the beauty she gave us to help us on these spiritual journeys then you will actually see the beauty in what spiritual work can do to really help one in life until then, no nothing about spiritual work will help you in life because you clearly don’t appreciate or respect it enough to actually educate yourself and know how to actually use these spiritual things as one of the ways to help you in life and the proper way to use them.

[@bizarrelovetriangle]

@@K8_te bro?? Chill fr why are you assuming I don’t respect spirituality. You cannot expect someone who got into spirituality recently to know how everything works. I’ve obviously self reflected and improved my mindset, thanks for the essay and time you spent tho

[@magicalmadness143]

A reiki healer told me that crystals are just tools and the real change comes within us, I’m buying my last subscription box of crystals this month and realizing so much, no items will make this end it comes from me and me alone. This video literally was calling to me and I’m glad I watched 👏🏻🖤

[@CourtneyVioletta]

I used to LOVE subscription boxes, and I can see their benefit sometimes because if you're just starting out you can receive some tools that will be helpful to you in the long run. But it started to make me feel "off" realizing someone was profiting off of me wanting to develop my spirituality, and sending me things they thought I needed. Accumulating more and more things that were useless to me every month. It feel so much more in alignment to decide for yourself , sparingly💗

[@magicalmadness143]

@@CourtneyVioletta i love getting surprise crystals but its becoming an addiction unfortunately I'm just someone who really benefits from their energy and gets ahead of themselves lol but yeah that's so true it feels good to actually take control of these things because your right they just profit of you the whole time

[@2009jadeorchid]

Maybe it's a focus thing , something to focus on

[@meghanelizabeth6710]

This is such a beautiful message. Crystals are a supplement to real inner work. Therapy, self acceptance, exercise, meditation, and learning to love yourself

[@5spec]

No they aren't. Shiny rock look pretty. That's all there is to is. If you think they heal people and can replace real healing there is something wrong with you

[@voidremoved]

@@5spec That is ignorant. Think about food, types of food. Effects that food can have on people... Good or bad effects. Food can even be poison. Rocks can be food. Rocks are diverse and have properties. So you are wrong. That said, crystals are good for nothing in the end. Only Jesus matters. Jesus can and will replace everything. Only Jesus can make you free. Free from all. So store your treasures in Heaven.

[@mariharrik5987]

@@voidremoved no not only Jesus matters stop being dogmatic

[@choux7746]

You hoarded crystals for the wrong reasons and to have them, not because a crystal resonated with you while idealizing other KZbinrs. That was the problem. Indeed, you don't need anything if you want to connect to your spirituality, a simple meditation can do that, but these things are just tools to help or guide you or remind you and is not something you solely rely on. I don't have many crystals myself, but I will still keep them as part of Fengshui, which I believe in. So really just be aware of yourself.

[@Alusnovalotus]

I’ve done the same. I came to understand that crystals are a tool to help with the power of the mind as a channel for whatever it is you’re manifesting. Just like a witch’s comment in here, I think she went for them because they were a fad. When that dad served it’s purpose, she found the tool useless and (it sounds) like she’s whining about it and blaming the fad. I love my crystals because their vibrational energy speaks to me and they make my space feel safe. I stopped at a 1:36 because I just had enough. I wish her the best in life but she shouldn’t blame the tool for her not knowing how to use it.

[@coktale]

Yes

[@yashveenbharaj]

I WANT YOU TO SEE THIS COMMENT and anyone who can answer me please do! Today I bought Amethyst and it's so beautiful, I was so happy until my friend told me that she read somewhere that you should only buy gemstone according to you birth month or it may have opposite/negative reaction. Now, I only bought a rock which I can place in my living room, I didn't buy any pendents or rings which I'd wear everyday. And I am July born, I read on internet that Amethyst is for February people. Do I need to regret that I bought it? Should I give it to someone else or is it okay for me to have it and it will only spread positivity and what it is meant for, nothing else.

[@SkyeFaerie0811]

@@yashveenbharaj nothing bad will happen to you, i have an amethyst and my stone is peridot and no negativity has come into my life from it

[@weirdoneontheblock]

@@yashveenbharaj With being a witch that uses particular stones in my practice... I'm really trying to not judge your friend. All I'll say is I have NEVER heard about you needing to only have stones that correlate to your birth month. Personally, it sounds like bs to me that your friend heard somewhere in a small part of social media. First rule with using gemstones: don't believe everything you hear and NO they do not cure cancer. Blessed be.

[@tennesseewarminster8591]

Materialism truly can be soul-sucking, even if you're buying spiritual items. Thanks for sharing your experience 💙

[@franmeis9612]

^^^ Precisely. I've seen a lot of people on tiktok saying that having expensive spiritual items are the "most powerful ways to do magick" and it's sad how many people feed into that nonsense because if I can find a broken seashell at the beach and a couple of animal teeth along with a few small bones out in the woods and Do several different Magick manifestations with those found Things to create the positivity I so seek to manifest into my own or another's reality; or to enhance an already created "thought broadcast" that I had been focused on for a few months and have been working toward with others, and it works for me (AND Them) just as well as it would/does for those who feel the Need to pay 80$ for 1 small thumb sized crystal to do one spell and then let the crystal or stone just sit somewhere on a shelf, never to be utilized again... then, yeah.... I'll definitely steer clear of metaphysical shops that offer a quick fix for one $80 enhancement stone and go out in my own yard and collect flower petals, sticks, interesting rocks and bones and call myself fortunate enough to have discovered that Nature's gifts contain that most powerful essence of magick and, as part of Nature herself, i am but a divining rod with which to manifest the magick that dwells within and all around me already.

[@pharaohsmagician8329]

@@franmeis9612 well said! If Materialism means collecting lots of shiny rocks and items regardless of cost then I love materialism. My most valuable, spiritual ring cost like $12 I think? But it makes me incredibly happy and I feel the nature of magic inside of it, and I've worked hard to attune it stronger. All of these things, rich and rare or common and affordable, are items of the universe and full of magic and spirit. The cost matters not, and I agree that avoiding that type of cost equals value materialism is something we should not allow to poison our hearts. However I do think SOME rare stones can equate more "magic power" however you even measure that. Price and money is just an unavoidable part of the human equation, I do believe some expensive stones have more power purely because of their expensive nature, but that's gotta be like very very rare maybe only 1% of all the stones and crystals and all that can be valuable because of their "hard to acquire" nature which is what I believe the high cost allows us to feel, like we have earned something expensive and rare and therefore valuable. It's a big mistake to let that way of thinking have any more than 1% of your time though!! But I can not deny its nature completly. Even if it's true, I don't care! I like what nature and even manmade jewels are- parts of the universe! That's what I find value and beauty in

[@mariharrik5987]

@@pharaohsmagician8329 no that's not materialism means it means buying things that offer no value just because you have money

[@danielhinman4530]

I agree 100% but crystals can help but not literally solve the whole problem

[@Alusnovalotus]

Then you FINALLY get the point of the crystal. She sounds like she blames the tool for her not knowing how to use it properly.

[@CourtneyVioletta]

@@Alusnovalotus the entire video is exactly what Daniel is saying 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@XRP212]

I agree and disagree, some rare crystals just resolve and clear the whole damn issue or problem which i unintentionally created in the first place.

[@ksawerykaminski2606]

thank you for understanding that crystals help you in life and go through things and awaken, but not solve the problems without your efforts and wills ;)

[@-daniel-2010]

@@XRP212 I know this is late but do you have any example?

[@NyxSingh]

If You like your rocks, keep getting them. Just don't lose they way. I buy them because i like them and only the ones that helps in the things i need help with, like amathyst for depression. It's not gonna take depression away but it gives You a little hope that makes You feel good and helps, Even if its just a little. I'm happy to know that you notice this and You find your way again💕

[@tshidibenjamin4879]

I used to do this too, buying crystals and tarot cards and really asking a card every day. But now after leaving this behind behind, I realise that I was just exploring and being called to my spiritual awakening. Now I know that I am enough as I am. No mistakes nothing wrong done. Just know when it is time to let go and move on to your next experience in your growth. Thank you

[@AlexanderThegreat-g4y]

How get rid of stones

[@lexi-cc5ub]

tip for everyone: while collecting crystals does have its benefits, a big part of spirituality is taking that step towards your goals

[@jessicay.7924]

@_ov.nuggetz_ _ that's okay, spirituality which crystals are apart of comes from hinduism and parts of Africa. it doesn't go against religion in general. you should look into how Hindi's use crystals and you might like that more:)

[@Alusnovalotus]

@_ov.nuggetz_ _ how and why would it break it? Most Hindu gods I’ve seen wear crowns and jewelry DRIPPING with diamonds, rubies and any other gem you can find! What an odd question….. 🤔

[@randomness8819]

Stop false belief in intimate objects.

[@Alusnovalotus]

@@randomness8819 then, by your logic, people need to stop putting on make up. Those minerals won’t make you look pretty, it just makes them another clown at the circus. 👋🏽 🤡

[@Deenique16]

Same thing with manifestations

[@aquariuser6406]

"Attachment leads to suffering" - Buddha Btw your hair is GORGEOUS ☺It looks like Rapunzel's hair 💜

[@CourtneyVioletta]

It's so true! and thank you so much 💗🥺

[@xovaleriaff]

I only have a tarot deck and a few crystals, yet I completely related to this, because now that all this spiritual awakening has become kind of a trend, it's easy to get carried away and forget the important things

[@სალომეგუგავა]

Important thing is thoughts , habits , INTERNAL searching and not SO MUCH external guidance (like Christals , crosses , icons , external stuff).

[@SalafiScientist]

Tarot cards are associated with demons of the unseen, I would strongly advise you stay away from them. There are no good ghosts, souls or good demons, it's all one type of demon that deceives you.

[@starlight3054]

Spirituality isn't a trend. The "coaches" and "spiritual leaders" are, most prey on vulnerable people and twist the ancient traditions and teachings to big enough lies, most in the beginning of their self awareness latch onto it. Its dangerous because they're spreadng misinformation.

[@stereo..typess]

@@starlight3054 100% agree.

[@lifewithzinnah]

Facts.

[@carolc9253]

Actually I used to collect lots crystals like you, not for any symptoms within myself but for its metaphysical properties of trying to get to spiritual enlightenment. Through my journey I have found a few crystals actually helps quite a bit. They are the followings: moldavite (high frequency and HELPS oneself with inner transformation ), phenakite (love this high frequency crystal that not only uplift ones spirit, HELPS with ones frequency & inner transformation), amethyst & moonstone (really good with calming oneself, especially during sleep), and selenite plate (the real type , not the ones you see people put candle in, this type helps with so many different chakra), and kyanite (it totally help balancing all the different chakras and also calms as well). Hope this helps, trying to curb materialism that's "inspirited" by our society culture thru not just limit our behavior but truly find what you need and also your passion so we can utilize our $$ for the greater good (like donation and volunteer our time and energy and help people fish instead give them fishes). We are all great beings and have gods spark within us (we can achieve so many greatness if we find our great passion for the greater good). Much peace & blessings to all😘😇🙇

[@clay8502]

but everyone who’s watching this and now doubting their beliefs, just keep in mind this is **her** own experience!! this can relate to you lots or can’t at all, and either or anything in between is perfectly okay and valid. don’t judge yourself or overthink your life choices/interests just by hearing someone else’s story. blessed be you all!

[@brightbite]

A lot of times the "stuff" we need comes to us for free. I found a heart shape rock literally embedded in my sock after a walk through the woods. It could not have come to me at better time in my life! Let the "treasures"- be they material or immaterial- find YOU! =)

[@CourtneyVioletta]

I agree!! Every time I go hiking I come home with a baggy full of treasures 😂 It feels so special!

[@brightbite]

@@CourtneyVioletta Just make sure you always leave a little gift behind- some energy healing for the land, a song, a few crackers for the birds, you get the picture. ;)

[@michelleaw1325]

Agreed

[@officert5147]

@@brightbite heck yeah :)

[@betinabinah1825]

I absolutely love this comment!!

[@li5759]

I completely agree!!! for me, crystals act as sort of a placebo effect. I believe that we all have really powerful energy inside of ourselves and crystals/candles/tarot cards/meditation etc are all just ways for us to help realize and focus that energy. for example, if I carry a piece of black tourmaline on me, I will act in ways that protect myself because I believe the stone has that property. if I carry rose quartz, I will act and make decisions in ways that will bring me love and self love. I love the idea of crystals as reminders that can help us boost our energy!! you are so so so right about our own intentions and energy being bigger than the objects we trust to ‘help’ us

[@jeremyfontanet7338]

You summed it up all perfectly for me. This is by far the best answer and perspective that resonates the most with me. Thank you.

[@alonewolftravels]

yess but meditation isn’t a tool, it definitely helps because it puts you in a state of being :))

[@hippiegypsygirl]

Yes, they do have their own frequency and vibration too. Possibly able to attract what we can’t control.

[@Lee-xw7gf]

Me too!

[@ThatMega]

So clear....Thank you, Thank you, Thank you...........

[@fiona9100]

I can relate so hard. I also work at a metaphysical shop. I’ve been working there for over three years and the amount of people that come in everyday asking for stones that help with anxiety, depression, cancer etc. And I just don’t know what to tell them. And if I say “many people use aquamarine to help calm extreme emotions” and then they spend hundreds of dollars on aquamarine, it makes me feel scammy. It’s getting hard to do my job but to also tell people that a $300 piece of aquamarine will not make their anxiety disappear.

[@MMm-el7kt]

No offense but that is scammy. That shop is selling the wrong crystals for the wrong things. Aquamarine is a spiritual stone for spiritual guidance. So definitely wouldn’t want to give that to someone with anxiety. Research is always key with crystals. Sucks that that shop is selling crystals wrong. They’re definitely in it for the trend and money and that sucks. I feel like it always leads to crystals getting a bad reputation. When there are crystal shops out there that are actually helpful and aren’t trynna just sell something expensive. I’ve been to a shop that had crystals that ranged from $1 to $500 and the. Owner was always telling people they don’t need a big fancy expensive crystal. That a tiny piece would work just as well. It was nice; I once saw them explain to someone that they didn’t need a $300 jade pyramid to become wealthy. They needed to believe in themselves. That person left without buying a crystal and the owner was completely fine with that and happy and they said it’s because they know they helped them spiritually. So there’s definitely great shops out there. If you love working with crystals and helping people; I hope you find a great shop to work in that actually is about handling crystals right. 💚

[@hairproducts7637]

Truth.comments

[@CampingforCool41]

I think it’s especially sad if people think crystals will make their cancer go away. I know desperate people are willing to try anything, I just hope they aren’t doing that instead of getting actual medical treatment.

[@Bubblies005]

I’ve collected crystals since 4 years old. I started learning about crystal healing a bit in high school/college when I was severely depressed. I ended up using crystals as a tool in my mental health toolbelt along with therapy and psychiatric help. I think they are great for grounding for PTSD and help a lot with fidgeting. It’s mostly placebo but damn it’s a beautiful placebo. I think everything in balance with financial boundaries is important.

[@rocks1012]

It makes me frustrated that you’re encouraging this message honestly. It really should be about everything in moderation. You could start on an antidepressant and yeah, taking more than your doctor prescribed you is bad, but so is stopping if you’re receiving positive results. For me and others, while I don’t believe 100% in crystals and tarot cards, I like the symbolism it means to me. It gives me a passion when I already lack passion because of my depression. In my mind, whatever works to help with your mental health as long as it’s in moderation, and isn’t harmful to others or yourself, then why discourage it? Some people NEED that type of hope. Some people are already in therapy and are on medications and meditate, but still need that sense of passion and symbolism that crystals and tarot cards and herbs bring to them. Calling crystals an “addiction” is like saying people who like, idk, cartoons and watch them to feel better are “addicted”, or people who read to calm down are “addicted”. Hobbies, and putting meaning to something even if it’s just a glorified rock, isn’t hurting anyone (but possibly your wallet if you aren’t diligent). But again, everything in moderation. Not everyone has it off as easy.

[@saremuncey5047]

i work in a metaphysical shop and i understand the uncomfortability of helping those that needed professional help. i had a retired war vet come in and say this was his last result in fighting cancer and was wanting to drop hundreds of dollars on HUGE crystals he googled that are supposed to help with cancer….i felt so terrible 😞

[@doiyakss]

Good for you. But you see, different strokes for different folks. You have to take a break. You have a bigger issue to resolve. But for me, I love my crystals. I have been with my crystals when I was 24 yrs old. Now I am 51 years old but still with my beloved crystals.

[@rinakhan4202]

Love crystals too . I started collecting them when I started working at 21 now I am 46. And I have pretty collection of bracelet which can mix and m arch with my dresses.

[@earthylovemedicine3587]

Thank you for not making this about crystals/stones being bad! We are all on our own path, figuring out our own stuff! Whatever it takes to help in opening up to ones own truth. I know that everything I need is inside of me, but I have been drawn to crystals at this time. Who knows, maybe I am drawn to them to learn an important lesson. On my path to true self awareness, I have realized that we all need the space to figure out our own way. Crystals are a symbol of spiritual guidance/ protection, sometimes we need "a thing" to help us open our minds to our own limitlessness divinity.

[@mfalvey165]

I commend you for figuring this out so young. Everything we need is literally within. We have to do the work. Spiritual materialism will not change our lives.

[@Deathswife]

I recently started buying crystals. I have so many however I started for spiritual reason and still am. Now I have a bigger goal. I have so many and it’s from these tiktok crystal scoops they gets me excited. But because I have so many I’m trying to share them. I had my friend choose what calls to him and he choose what he felt called to him and that makes me happy. However I am taking a long break from buying and taking a course now that I feel I have what I need. This video is the awareness I needed to see.

[@mariehuang7469]

This is so wise and so helpful. I'm at the very beginning of my crystal journey but also trying to release my grip on material possessions in other parts of my life. I can see how collecting crystals can become just another form of materialism if you aren't being intentional with your selections. Thank you so much for making this!

[@chrono8233]

Material possessions is not bad. Attachment is bad. If these crystals become a crutch for you then they will lower yourself in the long run. If you can learn to enjoy them without being attached to them then you will raise yourself. Just say to yourself "if these crystals have the ability to enhance my life then so be it" And then give it no more thought and enjoy wearing them without thinking too much about it. But if you are constantly obsessing over them and thinking about "What they should be doing" then you are creating an attachment. Which will bring you into a lower state of being.

[@tammyjackson1026]

Namaste 💚💚 Miss Marie Huang7469 You Know It wtill Be A Much Wise Thing That To Just Do It In Moderation

[@-MaryPoppins-]

I just love rocks 😩😂 a great deal of my crystals are just quartz I find on my hikes. You don’t NEED anything!!! If you feel drawn to something, center yourself, find out why, and THEN decide. I truly hope you’ve found peace and happiness hun❤️

[@CourtneyVioletta]

I love rocks too lol 😂 Honestly finding them on hikes is WAY more fun in my opinion! Feels like a little gift from nature 🥰 and thank you!

[@-MaryPoppins-]

@@CourtneyVioletta yes! For sure way more fun! I currently have all my crystals thrown around the room because my toddler is learning colors and happily throws them while calling their colors out 😩😂 so happy I found your videos hun!!!

[@elementalraven27]

My ex husband complained about the heavy back packs on those hikes…. 🦋

[@-MaryPoppins-]

@@elementalraven27 my ex husband as well despite me being 5’ 90 lbs, him 6’4 210lb, both of us being marines, AND I broke both femurs in the marine corps so my legs give out randomly and obviously hurt like hell. Thank god you got away from that literal dingleberry hun!!! Hope nothing but happiness is following you!

[@elementalraven27]

@@-MaryPoppins- “Pip-Pip” Mrs. Poppins! We live and learn, And Overcome… Or Improvise and Adapt.. Lol it’s all insane anyway.. Or is it the same? LMAO 🤣 You know what I mean, I know you do!!! 💜♠️ Do I dare ask how you broke your legs like that? Sounds horrible! I have unstable blood pressure that drops so I do get the passing out part as well.. Maybe we needed boulders and less rocks? Lol

[@katie1266]

This was really helpful to hear. I can sometimes have an obsessive or addictive personality where I can get ~really~ into things for a time and then forget about them. I got into crystals a couple weeks ago and already have at least 20. I was googling and searching on KZbin "essentials" for spirituality and the law of attraction. But you are right that these items are not really essential. I think the true magic comes from within and I'm trying to balance that fact with also collecting crystals and believing in their properties, but not going overboard. I'm so glad to have found your channel, and am loving this spiritual content! Keep it up! :)

[@CourtneyVioletta]

You guys in the comments are saying it way better than I did! lol Yes yes yes, I definitely relate! I have an addictive personality too, so at least now you can learn from my mistakes and just be aware as you learn more and grow on this journey, not to go overboard 😉💗

[@cookiecrumbs302]

i have this too, all i can think about is what i’m currently obsessed with and i want to collect as many things as possible. then i just forget too

[@jeffreyk9743]

I have to admit after reading the title of this video I was a bit sceptical but before I formed a quit opinion I watched all the way to the end There's a lot of wisdom in what you shared . Just a few days ago I went to a local metaphysical shop and bought 3 gemstone bracelets Black Obsidian, Rose quarts & Trigers eye . Now I did walking not knowing what I was looking for I was specifically looking for black obsidian for it's magickal properties as a aid to help I realize and understand that crystals and gemstones are not alone the be all and end all I realize that I have my part I see and use crystals and gemstones as tools I don't look to them to fix my problems they are tools to aid me so great wisdom you shared Thank you

[@franmeis9612]

I create my own items and when I collect a thing, it isn't purchased at a store - it's found out in nature; immersing myself in nature, surrounded by trees, at the beach - near rivers and lakes, or beaches, etc... I stopped buying expensive crystals and stones, cards, etc and began creating my own; now I don't even really need to do that but I still create art regularly; that I do for For me... as it's severely therapeutic and allows me some way of expressing my thoughts and feelings in positive ways. And then, I share my work as gifts to friends and family.

[@hc1897]

Thanks for the video! I feel the same! I collected two boxfuls of crystals. Then one day I realised that buying more and more of them (beautiful as they are) is just a kind of tripping out on the activity of crystal shopping. So I stopped pretty much overnight and made an intention to cultivate meaningful relationships with EACH of the crystals that have come to me. So much more satisfying! Love from Hong Kong.

[@sierraharo4453]

When you explained how "buying spirituality" to become "the best" comes from the ego, it really hit me and made so much sense and I needed to hear it. Thank you for this advice.

[@25Tyla]

This resonates with me. I have been on a spiritual path since my very low mental dip in high school and discovering astrology and crystals gave me a whirl of excitement. I immediately stopped to think that this might all be spiritual marketing and getting us vulnerable souls to spend thousands on things we don't necessarily need. I only recently confirmed my idea that everything we need to heal is already within us - thanks to magic mushies, hehe! Crystals are nice to have, though! Adds to the ambience of creating that energy to tap into the spiritual realm.

[@T.J]

You are very correct about people looking for a quick fix and being dependant on external things, but then if we see crystals as a form of vibe changing tool then I'd rather use a crystal like an amethyst or a moldavite rather than to take an antidepressant or an anxiolytic drug. Crystals are like a piece of music, each piece of music has its own frequency and can bring your vibe up or down. I see them as frequency tools that can help change the vibe of a place. Ultimately though we should strive for not being dependant on anything outside of ourselves. The less dependency on material things, the more free we are indeed.

[@gummybearmonster01]

I'm definitely trying to utilize my crystals as guides. There is so much I've learned about myself without the help of crystals. I've been through the best and worst of it and I can say that my journey of getting to know myself has been nothing but wonderful, amazing and beautiful. If anything, my crystals help me paint a clearer picture when I'm weary. Most of the time, they reconfirm what I already know.

[@isabaggins]

I'm curious about the environmental impact of this massive trend of owning crystals :(( I love crystals and I've had some from a young age but I try not to buy them now because I can't stop thinking about those tiktoks of people sitting in gigantic amethyst couches and bathtubs and just owning hundreds of crystals because it's trendy. I do believe and treasure their magic and beauty, I just wish it wasn't a trend because I can imagine so many crystals being ignored a couple months after being bought and I don't think it's worth exploiting mother earth for that. :((( I deeply dislike materialistic trends because they promote a lot of consumerism when the actual principle we should keep in mind is if we're going to use what we buy and if it's going to make us happy in the long term.

[@K8_te]

ABSOLUTELY TRUE! I completely agree with you and feel the same way. It’s seriously a shame how so many don’t respect them and only buy because “it’s the trend” how sad that is, seriously.

[@manifestgameon]

You can balance and stop hoarding lots and lots of them and just buy if you really feel attracted to them. That way you also use them and not hoard. Honestly I just have the 7 tumbled stones and 2 crystals that's it. The problem starts when we hoard them just for the sake of it and not to use or anything. Just another view point ✨

[@harmonychantel3096]

To be fair, they have been selling those bathtubs and stuff for years! Far longer than this trend of collecting crystals for “spiritual use.”

[@lilotaku3801]

Stop worrying about what other people are into

[@P1SCESNEXTDOOR224]

I feel like this is why it’s important to give yourself time off media , and it depends on the person for ppl watching DONT feel discouraged to get crystals it depends on who u are . As long as u remember that it’s ur path and u can do whatever u don’t have to spend all of ur money on these things .

[@ht9252]

“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.” - Buddha

[@adrianamagana4218]

I couldn’t agree more. It all becomes an addiction! I spent over 14k on crystals, oracle cards, spiritual courses, readings, Akashic record readings and certification courses, reiki energy healing certification, astrology courses, shamanic healing courses, guided meditations blah blah blah… 2 years later I ended broke with no savings, depressed, still unhappy and I’m still not psychic or a magical healer.

[@thetemplelaboratory]

True growth is less about having crystals or not and more about how we treat other people. Hint: If you're juging anybody you're acting from ego. You're not better than anybody else, nobody is.

[@someundeadtalent2016]

I just love crystals. I like collecting them as a hobby AND using their properties when I feel it really does do help. Also their chemistry is so fascinating to me!

[@kaymar663]

Yesss. Same here, I study all of them and have written journals from actual good sources about the chemistry and structure of these precious stones and gems of the world. THIS IS MOTHER NATURE BABY!

[@fulinelite3163]

I started as a person who was chest deep into mineralogy and geology. I found them beautiful and such a wonder. Every mineral and crystal was formed in a certain way and in very specific conditions in very specific areas. I found them something to behold. I didn't start working with them until 2018. I started very young, collecting rocks and crystals. Even without the metaphysical stuff, I thought they were all so magical, through the eyes of a child. I went into a spiritual path because it was something I felt drawn to to find truth, wisdom, and clarity through the Great Divine (aka Spirit, God, or Source). Tarot and other divination tools are used to do that amd connect with Source, but we can get lost. The path is always open, but trust in the Great Divine to ask them for guidance when you're lost. When we become lost, we lose the purpose and our truth in why we followed this path. We must continually ask ourselves why because we evolve and if we cannot find our reason, we will simply lose the path we were on. It's not a bad idea to take a break or to reevaluate your purpose. Good luck on your journey.

[@CourtneyVioletta]

This is beautifully said! Your story is very similar to mine as well, I was always in awe of crystals and minerals (I basically lived at the Hall of Minerals at the Natural History Museum in NYC), it always blew my mind how each one was so unique and as you said, made under such specific conditions. Kind of like humans 🥺 Thank you for sharing!

[@lctarotandoracle881]

You do all realise that the power of manifestation and harnessing the energies that come from these gemstones isn't a fix-all and won't just give you everything you want right? Or are most of the people here the type that wants the gems to do all the work instead of having to do all the work instead of themselves? It didn't work for you because you didn't understand what it is the crystals help with, you still have to do the work they just help you channel the right energy when you do it...

[@WitchyWoman777]

Thank you well said !!!

[@Miguel-ve1lh]

LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK 🗣🔮

[@janetclaireSays]

Crystals help me to focus on meditation, an intention, self healing or even just a thought. I don't think they're magic, but I do think that everything is energy and that their energy can be felt. Some people feel it more than others but it's there either way. Other items can help us to focus too and as long as it helps, who cares why it helps?

[@JammingJournal]

I’m so grateful I came across this video. I’m just starting to collect and hoard metaphysical objects, and it made me realize that the overhauling craze can apply to any obsession. This video really helped me take a step back and reconsider my choices. I’ve been mesmerized by the natural beauty of crystals, and it’s amazing how we have such beautiful things on Earth. I could honestly spend hours just staring at a crystal-if you know what I mean!

[@juliasousa6299]

I really want to buy a crystal to carry in my pocket. Even though I have a boyfriend, caring family, and some friends, I still feel lonely and disconnected, so I thought it could keep me company. I have a plushie at home that serves me some company, but I would like to have a crystal too, as it is easy to carry around and some are very beautiful, and I often feel deeply connected either to innanimate objects or nature, like they are my friends. This video was very helpful in understanding the mindset though. Thank you!

[@lucijatrslic372]

Do it! I have a few crystals and they're really fun and amazing, I sometimes carry them around with me

[@emilynewhouse6956]

did you buy a crystal? Im very curious to know if you did and which one you bought/were drawn to?

[@juliasousa6299]

@@emilynewhouse6956 actually bought some citrine and ambar yesterday! im a leo and ive been needing some clarity and positivity in my life , so I went with those :)

[@evaroditis4409]

I love how you addressed this. I am just now starting my spiritual journey. I started my collection because my good friend had gifted the crystals to me and handed me saying "this could help you and your journey." Whenever I go to a shop I look around and only buy what is calling to me and I try to do my research beforehand

[@northernlights430]

Love that you're addressing spiritual materialism as its so important and often bypassed!

[@emilyl4839]

Just wanted to say thank you for making this video. I went through a similar period of my life and I’ve set many boundaries for myself. Now when I go into a shop I don’t even look until I’m called to an item. It’s rare that I buy more tools bc there are so many ways to connect without materialistic stuff. I agree 100%

[@Learntarott]

Me to.

[@VivaCohen]

I feel like we all have these real energies inside ourselves and things like crystals can help us access that part of ourselves more easily or even "on call" (the same way calming music and meditation or a certain scent can help us access them). And then we can use and direct those energies to make CHOICES that can benefit us or help us work toward solving our problems etc. And with so many crystals (or whatever your tool of choice is), it's easy to find the exact energy you need to focus on. So I think they're just tools for spiritual growth. The same way a hammer is a tool. It can help you build a house, but it's not going to build it for you and you'll have to put a lot of work in. You're so right about the need to balance the ego and the soul.

[@madigansprecher1358]

I've loved crystals since I was little, and when I'm obsessed with something I tend to go all out, and I needed to hear this, I bought crystals I wanted instead of ones I felt drawn to, this was very helpful, thank you

[@butternutpancake]

I just began on my little path of tarot decks and crystals lately, and despite many comments stating that your situation differs from theirs, I really appreciate your video. I used to hoard anything beauty related like crazy, and only these years have I began minimizing my makeup collection down to what I actually use. And I think seeing your situation gave me such a good reminder, for me to be careful not to take anything astrology related overly dependent on, because the hoarding mentality doesn’t just happen for beauty. I think it is easy for everyone to project worries and hopes completely on spiritual things, we’re all human after-all. So I’ll be careful not to be overly dependent, and this video definitely gave me a new perspective. Thank you so much! And I hope that everyone gets to use tarot decks and crystals just for fun, or for a little personal growth.

[@kellinisking5257]

new crystal lover here! tysm for this! whenever trying a new thing, i try to dig deep and see what my true intentions are. this video helped me see that i don't want/believe that crystals will magically change my life overnight. however, i do like the balance, peace, and confidence theyve helped me seek.

[@RONCPER]

It’s supposed to be an aid in addition to self work. Crystals produce energy and can help promote all different types of energy around you. When folks stop in my store, one of the first things I tell them is that crystals will not help solve all of their problems and work needs to be done. There’s no need to stop using crystals, you just have to value the additional work that comes along with them. Meditation, shifting the way the mind thinks in particular situations. Your pineal gland in your brain is made of crystals, activated by neurons, neurons that absorb the information around you, such as when you’re in stressful situations. When we shift the way we think, and handle these situations better, everything changes, including the body.

[@paperstorycraft]

It’s so refreshing to hear someone talking about consumerism and how we are taught/trained. Also nice to hear that it is okay to get caught in that loop. Thank you. I’ve been dealing with a lot and I’m trying to buy my happiness but I know it’s not working.

[@pagandeva2000]

I needed to hear this. Years ago, I used to pile up on metaphysical stuff, especially tarot cards. I have over 100 decks. Spent a lot on crystals. Like you, I wanted the quick fix. As I matured I found that I had what I needed. I still read and teach tarot, but it didn’t consume me. Suddenly, a few days ago, I started looking at Amazon and found so many interesting decks, more unique ones and suddenly spent close to $200! Seeing this video was the warning to stop it. I will use them I will enjoy them, but I don’t need to go overboard! And I plan to do shadow work for healing and understanding. Thank you for this!

[@ANON_YMOUS1111]

I think you can only relate to this video if you are already a lover of shopping, like it fills a void. If you are basically starting out as a minimalist, you aren't going to resonate with this message.

[@RainbowEmpathogen]

Thanks for this, Courtney! I have issues with materialism / spending problems even before I got into crystals/ spirituality again. And I can sense that I am getting addicted to buying crystals when it wouldn’t really serve me to have however much I have. I love going to metaphysical shops but I think you’re right about setting boundaries and asking yourself “will I use this?” I have a bad habit of thinking oh I just want to support the art or the intentions made but the thing with buying things excessively is that it does not give satisfaction and I personally get in this oh I have this what can I get next--and the clutter can be overwhelming. I’m going to have to re-evaluate my boundaries because they are definitely very poor when it comes to materialism.

[@Ariiiiadnayyyy]

I am extremely glad I found your channel. Exactly what I’m going through rn. The universe has been giving me several beautiful signs and tools that I need to turn my life around and it doesn’t surprise me I stumble upon your channel. Thank you so much I’ve been watched your videos and I’m honestly so thankful.

[@CourtneyVioletta]

I’m so glad you’re here! 💖

[@Enavaniss]

Rockhound/mineral collector here. I love natural artwork. Some stones and crystals are a testament to the beauty of this world. I have met so many people who do not know ANY bit of geology and have no clue as to how these crystals were formed or made up of...but somehow they know all about its "healing properties".

[@gottacatcheevee]

Crystals in conjunction with self work and self healing Is the key. Filling the void is not.

[@lilianainez024]

i think it’s also important to note that nothing in the metaphysical realm will be beneficial without proper education. i know people believe spirituality has no rules but that isn’t entirely true. both practicer & those seeking healing have to truly understand what using things like crystals or tarot means. we all must remember that spirituality is not just an aesthetic or a band aid for your problems, there are tools we use to heal in our own ways. but if you have a tool & do not care to use it & just wait for it to fix whatever itself obviously nothing will get done.

[@imfloridano5448]

My crystals all interact with my environment. They all vibrate differently because of the mineral content. I use them to absorb many strange energies that are generated by my neighbors. Crystals are physical so they are not programmed to do anythang. Learn their composition and crystal lattice. We as humans have many things we can do when we focus and train to understand YOU. Can you fly, walk on water, use telekinesis, or many other abilities, is it possible and should the secrets be revealed to those who may corrupt them?

[@inarudel-valle3579]

Thank goodness I do not believe on metaphysical but truly love nature. I do collect crystals not for what it may do but the fact that they are made from nature and I feel connected to earth; knowing you have a piece of history in your hands is mind blowing to me. To me my collection is like trophies. I show them with pride. It is true that at time I get lost in wanting one of everything and at times it gets overwhelming. With that said I have spaces myself in buying them. I don’t feel I need to buy them to feel better, I collect them because it gives me the opportunity to talk to other people about them and to feel part of that. I may be weird, idk, but I’m happy I have a collection that I feel proud of. At the end, if I decide not to continue, I will donate them to a museum. I have made so many friend just talking about them, in fact it becomes a community in which I feel part of. I spend time watching them and just looking at them. I understand your point. I just disagree that collecting stones is some sort of inner problem reflecting into buying. I do love my collection and feel proud about it. They have also helped me relieve stress from work and life. Just spending hours looking at them and just appreciating them is, to me, a way of self therapy. Me time. Some people paint, others sing, I collect rocks and crystals. I agree that people should get real help. As a nurse I understand that. I also understand that if it makes you happy and you are not hurting others as well as not becoming a problem then go for it.

[@CourtneyVioletta]

I completely agree actually! If I didn’t believe in the metaphysical side or spiritual aspect of crystals, I definitely would collect them for their beauty. At the Natural History Museum I would spend hours in the crystal and gem hall and just marvel at how beautiful they are! I always felt that I was holding a piece of history as well! There is one called Isua Stone that is one of the oldest ones on earth and I always feel that it holds the memory of earth’s formative years! But, when you tie in the metaphysical and spiritual, and start collecting them with those ties, it CAN highly a deeper issue. Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💗

[@aditiprajaapati]

But honey , life isn't about finding yourself , it's about creating yourself 🍵

[@deborahassingboe2345]

Wrong. Life is about finding Jesus Christ. The day you find him, you find yourself too.

[@09freshmoney]

Amen

[@karenstewart3516]

That is true but these crystals have and give off energy. Why are you watching this if you don’t find it an additional way to help find yourself.

[@blueclarity]

Lol, sounds like a line from a good movie.

[@tiffanyshell7547]

@@deborahassingboe2345 what about atheists? Or people who don’t believe in Christ? Genuine question by the way, not trying to start a fight

[@916nene]

She’s so right about the problem thing, I used to work at an botanical and the owner told me to self them as much as I can cuz they just come with problems, and yes I sold them so many crystals, herbs and candles too when I knew that wasn’t gonna help them at all. Next week they came back saying they feel better and they want more I was like “dude no that’s not helping you at all” but that was my job and I quit I just know crystals and all that is a lie and it’s all in your head

[@game_4_growth]

The Placebo Effect

[@SatumainenOlento]

Everything helps. It is about rising vibrations. Depression is partially very low vibration and not being connected to anything (to yourself, other people, nature and reality). What ever makes people feel better helps. But I understand your point about being addicted to buying hope of happiness in physical form. Everybody does that all the time, because of consumarism (or how you spell it). It does not help at all that you are addicted to buying the cure instead of working on yourself.

[@sarahmartinez5742]

I like using crystals to set an intention to them, having them with me to remind me of the emotional growth I want to accomplish, I don’t hope for them to do all the work, I use them as a reminder and a pretty colored company that give me calm feelings ^^

[@nuraabuzaynah9557]

Crystals are only an aid... they’re nice I love them I have so many. But I know and understand they can’t solve everything

[@fallingapart]

3:18 what store was that, they were obviously a little messed up. Almost every metaphysical shop I’ve seen online or in person is always like, “do not supplement our items for medical treatment, therapy, or getting out of dangerous situations”. Lol

[@Rose-be4ou]

I collect cards because it's simple a hobby to collect them, I read only about 4 decks and other methods of divination are fun too like bones, charms, and bibliomancy. Crystals I treat the same way but to create a peaceful environment. Spirituality is between yourself and whatever higher power you believe in. All my materials are for focus, hobby, and for the love of reading (books).

[@melissamalak506]

I 100% respect you for making this video, your transparency and putting this content out there. This is a message that I think a lot of people need to hear. I stopped buying cards and crystals a couple years ago to just turn inward more. They say everything we need is within us. I used this time to connect with myself more and not rely on the external as much. While they serve a purpose, they should not be taking the place of anything.

[@beachtrash1852]

Very well put Courtney! I believe in a meta physical benefit from crystals and minerals, but this can not be achieved by simply shopping. I collect crystals and minerals from the earth, literally,, I go to sometimes remote places and dig them from the ground. I have specimens that I have had since I was a kid, they remind me of a trip I took a long time ago with someone, or alone. I remember my childhood and different times. I feel a connection. For me being busy finding these places to collect my specimens keeps me one step ahead of depression, anxiety etc. It's a very personal thing, either you get it or you don't. I have kids now and have tried to share this love of crystals and minerals and they don't get it, yet.

[@vintagevirgo]

I agree, and disagree in some aspects. depending on your intention when going into collecting stones will depend on your perspective of this as well. crystal collecting is all about intention guys. I have a box of stones from my grandma from years ago. thats how I started really collecting. so if perhaps you go into collecting with the mindset of looking for the biggest coolest stones it isn't really worth it. however if you go into collecting by your natal and birth chart, and really getting stones that incorporate with your daily life and healing, for example I have a virgo sun, which I sometimes get worrisome so the fluorite crystal varieties are essential for my healing and clarity. this is why I look for fluorite stones, etc. and so on and so fourth. so don't get wrapped up in the "trend" of collecting, and trying to outdo others, do it for yourself. you will see the difference. I personally have several stones, and have never really bought them to show off or anything. I barely even let them out when I have company. they are sacred in my eyes and truly a blessing to have. I am grateful for the earths stones. ^___^

[@dannygonsalez27]

blackmaid well said,so first she shows off her crystals to make video's for views then suddenly its nothing more than a habit to collect. suddenly crystals are nothing more than materialism.suddenly shes not a card reader. i learn als from youtube videos but sometines these youtubers do everything for views and comments.believe me after a few months she will make a video about some crystal thats the best for everything and everybody will praise her for the best video ever.

[@vintagevirgo]

@@dannygonsalez27 Exactly right. She's just a young girl, so we can not fault her. she isn't as educated on the history of stones, their powers etc. she probably hasn't even done shadow work, and she probably is not connected to source energy, etc. so we can take anything she says with a grain of salt, as someone very experienced. (my opinion). however to the youth and young community she will def get views, but us elders, we already know what's up.

[@annikablackmer2724]

This makes me sad. As someone who focuses on energy work daily and barely owns any ‘props’...in my opinion materialism has seeped into spirituality. Like focus on breathe work :) Crystals etc. should just be an add on that’s it! Per usual we are convinced we need materials to get us where we need to be and this definitely isn’t the case. Best wishes!

[@ibizaxxx5221]

It's seems more of a shopping addiction and then going into a minimalist lifestyle

[@acsentu8]

Your message can apply to anything purchaseable (is that a word)...makeup, clothes, etc..Good video

[@susanwatson4836]

I can so relate to what you are talking about. I would say that from 2006-2018 I was into the Wiccan way of life. I too owned numerous crystals, tarot cards, oracle cards, candles of all shapes, colors and sizes. In 2018 I joined a coven and it turned out to be a disaster emotionally. I stopped cold, packed up my 90+ books and everything else and said that's it. The problem was me- I didn't realize until a year ago that I have been suffering from extreme perfectionism caused by a lot of childhood trauma. I have been healing through therapy and for the first time in 5 years I pulled out my favorite tarot card deck and did a fun reading and enjoyed it on a totally different level. The point is, and I agree with you, I feel like you need to be in alignment with yourself before anything metaphysical will be able to assist you in your journey- it won't solve your problems.

[@KARIS1961]

I thought I would thumbs down this video. You’re spot on. I’ve been on a crystal buying binge for a couple of months. They’re beautiful and create a lovely peaceful space. Im setting a boundary now. Enough is enough. Thank you for posting this! 💕

[@ericaterrones16]

Yes!!!!!!! This was amazing! You hit the nail on the head! My journey got skewered to the side by buying instead of working! I loooove crystals and their magic BUT the work required is more needed;) glad others understand this and shared it with all of us;)

[@CourtneyVioletta]

Yes yes! I believe crystals will lead us (or at least show us) to where the work needs to be done

[@sweetooth87]

Wow, you got me on spiritual materialism. Yess, we don’t need anything to boast our ability aside from our own will. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@VikesTrendingDown]

Crystals do in fact give off energy, as all things do. It is important to not over-indulge as well. I also did just stop watching so much tarot. Everything in moderation and you'll be good. Keep your internal energy positive and loving and it will reflect externally. 🙏🏾💜🤙🏾

[@kxlot79]

What a balanced perspective!💖 Loved this video! Thanks for sharing! For me, it’s a “to each his own, be honest about what feels good.” Many people would admit their shopping leaves them feeling empty, no matter what kind of shopping that is.

[@teashxo2512]

This is soo relatable I buy a lot of books I can’t even push myself to read And just spent $200+ on tarot and Oracle decks and I rarely practice like I used to and rarely drape myself down in crystals mine are in a pouch too I needed this message 😍

[@charissconsul]

Love this. While we have different experiences on these tools, I think it’s very important to separate consumerism and spirituality. With the tiktok trends we see, we need to be careful not to be fully dependent on material things (and thinking that ‘stuff’ can make us permanently healed & happy). I think spirituality is finding contentment with what you already have. Focusing on yourself, finding valuable teachings than focusing on material things. I personally ask these questions before buying any crystals or stuff that might help you too: - is this out of an impulse or well thought decision? - will this really add value to your life? - do you need it RIGHT NOW? - do you have a budget for this? - is this long term happiness or short term? - does this align with your values and beliefs? This way, I can realign my thoughts before buying anything. You don’t always have to be in trend. Remember, everything you have you have WITHIN. 💗

[@abhirajjoshi]

You have explained it perfectly. 🙌🏻

[@KrysLynne82]

Wow great video and perspective. I stopped reading tarot because I had an intense dream that God told me to stop. Pretty much what you're saying. God wants me to directly communicate with him instead of using cards to give me answers. I don't need to buy anything to have a deep relationship with the Divine.

[@blee127]

Your energy has to be pure! You have to vibrate in high vibrations while practicing any spiritual practices. You can’t be in low vibrations. No depression No hate, No negativity tied to your craft. You have to cleanse them also keep cleaning crystals around. It’s all the energy and intentions behind your craft

[@DN-fs2kb]

I dont believe in crystals having healing properties or anything, i really just like cool rocks. Although, I struggle with daily anxieties and fears so i think maybe keeping a beaded bracelet on me could help remind me to ground myself. Its not about the rocks, its about what you do with them and what it means to you. For example, tigers eye is tied to feelings of courage. The rock itself doesnt give you courage but looking at it and knowing its purpose might make it easier to set goals, because you will always have that reminder. Its kinda like tying a red string to your finger to remember something. It doesnt help your memory, but it helps as a visual reminder of what you need to do. So for me, rocks are fascinating and i want to learn more about them. nature can make some pretty cool stuff, anyone can collect rocks it doesnt need to be spiritual.

[@saraisslaying2656]

WOAH, this is one of my favorite hot takes in the spiritual community, thank you for posting this 🥰

[@nominae]

I do not believe the stone would do anything at all. For me crystal is just a representation of a value. Used as a remainder. For example, amethyst remind me to be calm and stop panicking over things that should not be. It's like a grounding item. And also a connection to the past, I mean most natural crystal take million years to form.