Cousin Marriages.. Love or Arranged.. Husband Checking Out Other Women?? (Chai Talk Ep 7)

In today's episode Wajeeh and Mama Jee answered questions / gave advice on various topics asked by viewers and some of them got really interesting 👀
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[@hajrahmukhtar2574]

You should bring Aymen too and ask her pov as a daughter what she goes through because I feel like all the things that you guys are unpacking mostly point towards sons. As a daughter, I think things are different and difficult, and it would be great to have that therapy session too.

[@sanashaikh4066]

Yeah i agree. Bring Aiman

[@bAkhtO16]

yessssss

[@zeldamiaz9858]

yesss bring aymen

[@evilangels61]

I agree but for some reason I think she might be too afraid to say her truth in front of her mother..

[@muskanzahrabaloch1874]

I think it's official that we never WANT YOU TO DISCONTINUE THESE TALKS.

[@areeshahhassan5662]

An episode(s) with Ayman would be so nice, she seems so quite usually id like to see her thoughts and opinions on things

[@sanaserco21]

I think your mum is balanced. You can't deny that she's desi but also adopted the modern thought process. She may come across as over powering, HOWEVER the fact thay you can openly talk about your feelings and views is a huge step in the right direction. Kudos to her!! Mash'aa'Allah

[@Shaazeeya]

Wajeeh, I am a mom of grown up kids and I totally agree with you that your mom is typical a desi mother. Your mom should understand that she can’t do the same as how her parents raised her.

[@hemasingh2077]

Totally agree with you😅

[@TheBlushingGiraffe]

Not ‘you are done, like popcorn you will be pop pop popping’ 😭😂 love this podcast, you guys bring such a refreshing take as a mother son duo and it’s so awesome to be able to relate to so many aspects haha. I shared the ‘why Asian parents don’t let us go out’ episode with my own mum and she put it on the family group chat 🤣 Thankyou for your hard work and for showing up! During dark times it’s been great to find some light relief through these episodes ❤

[@emaanajaz4152]

I got married and moved to Australia to a small country town with not many desis. This podcast makes me feels at home. Thank you so much for these beautiful discussions. Always praying for you all💖

[@zoraroa]

The weekend just got a little better after this drop! Sending love to Mama Jee and the whole fam! I've never related more to anything in my life than I do to these podcasts. 😭

[@shayanperez4728]

I love this podcast to the extreme. It’s like my inner child is getting healed with these talks, thank you mamaji and wajeeh

[@hibamohammed3226]

so glad to see another episode! keep going!!👏🏼

[@Zainab-nw4cl]

I really look forward to these episodes every week! Thank you for creating these videos they are fun to watch and give insightful views of considering other perspective, that I might have not considered before. :)

[@rkk77]

Another cool chaitalk Wajeeh, really enjoyed...

[@adnaanahmed6161]

Absolutely love these podcasts. So relatable wajeeh. Smashin it bro keep it up!

[@sheharbano6452]

Loved this episode too and the advice from mama jee is really helping. Keep these coming 💖💯

[@rijahashmi5308]

Bruv this is what weekend nights are for, for meee 👏🏽👏🏽 And yesss, keep Palestine in your prayers guys! 🤲🏽

[@Riyaaaa2023]

Love you mamajee! and I love all the episodes of chai talk! 💓

[@atza9270]

Mama Jee the Queen is back. Please pass my regards to her. Love her lots. Being a mum I can relate to her. Love from London ❤

[@nupurkalele7964]

This podcast is something else all together. Started a ritual of watching this with my mom.

[@Saaaaruhhhh786]

This was a better podcast! And the one with Ahmed! Great talks

[@jaweriafahim168]

Absolutely brilliant Wajerh and Mama jee . Mama jee is numero uno. A question for mama jee : As her I am a mother in UK with no family , I suffer with anxiety and depression has she ever experienced it or people around her and how they dealt with it .

[@b.1347]

7:16 Denzel Washington Said: „A Mother is the first love of his son and the son is the last love of a mother“ I love this

[@baharagha3947]

love these podcasts 💗

[@1445hijri]

Another amazing episode from the best podcast in the world. Thank you for keeping us entertained Wajeeh and Mama Jee. And lastly, we desperately need Chai Talk merch asap, I’m gonna me your first customer Insha’Allah. ❤🤲🏻

[@i_k_d3815]

love the podcasts!

[@mimi99270]

MAMA JEE is an amazing mother! Wajeeh is very very lucky MashAllah! Mama Jee if I ever get a chance to meet you I know I'll end up crying. I would love to meet you and Wajeeh! I love how mama jee understand that's important to give space to her children. You guys are so so kind! ❤

[@muhammadmahmood8633]

I love watching your podcast I just had tea and wind down and watched my favourite people on KZbin may Allah bless u always

[@mahnoorfaisal8206]

Fav mom-son duo

[@harmansingh-vb7qb]

Wajeeh please upload more ! This podcast is too good

[@astoldbyanam]

i loved when you guys started singing heart throb at the end hahahahaha love your bond with mama jee !

[@sadiaquddus434]

Great podcasts!!

[@samkev5246]

Your mother speaks with concise words of wisdom..

[@munawarasaiyara3069]

Mamaji is just a loving and protective desi mama who loves her bacchas dearly! And you were also super adorable and sweet this time Wajeeh, handled mamaji perfectly! It was a good one. :)

[@Seyeraaa]

This is so interesting to watch. I am a regular watcher and I have noticed something. I grew up in the west (Europe) although my parents are quite like mama jee and I am more open minded, after I had my child I am more thinking like mama jee and my parents. It makes a lot more sense now. I know I can’t control my child and I will never do that but the time we live in right now I can’t do anything but worry all the time about him and his future. So I just wanted to say.. mama jee you do you❤

[@fkhan8907]

Missing your pranks with mama jee and papa jee😂😂😂😂

[@fatimashah4962]

Mashallah a wonderful pod cast .. lots of love from London ❤❤❤❤

[@afram4477]

Love every single episode. Please wajee do not stop. This is public service

[@iqrashakoor6152]

I live in US for my education and I always complained about my parents but after watching their videos, Idk why but I started loving my parents more, I miss them so much and every time I see Wajeeh has mama jee, I feel how lucky he is. I never write such long paragraphs but your videos made me do that damn

[@girlwithcurls3938]

Such a beautiful podcast... absolutely loved it. My mom is exactly same as your mom.

[@Fiona-jw2de]

Would like to hear your sister being interviewed ( if she is willing of course). Im interested to hear mamajees inside on raising a daughter/ son…

[@saliha5638]

Lovee this podcast, too funny😭 🫶🏻, keep goingg (: 🇵🇸🇵🇸 Again, please keep making dua for Palestine, and Afghanistan, and anyone else who is suffering right now 🫶🏻 insha’allah peace will come soon

[@ridakhalid1932]

I BE RUNNING TO THESE PODCASTS FRRRR

[@RaeSA1]

Auntie ji is just adorable and so balanced in her views. I love so much how she ended the episode with duas for all 🙏🏼❤️

[@Aram-wj2yk]

Love the last question the most! And the joke 😂😂

[@ayeshahoorain1038]

I love mama gee ...bcz I dnt have mom I really miss her watching her chai talk gives me feeling of a mom I wish I could become her daughter ...

[@raihanaasrar3421]

I really enjoy your talks, love from Canada

[@Abdullah-bt5xz]

Wajeeh. You can hide from us. But you are DEFINITELY going through something. I can see it in your eyes. Whatever is it. I hope it gets better

[@I-Khan75]

Loved that both Mom, Son duo love IK❤and such a funny Latifa at the end…🤣

[@angieluna2415]

The only podcast that I watch completely

[@ln393]

Thank u Wajeeh to mention Afghanistan and Palestine

[@edakara6627]

All the topics covered in Chai talks episodes are so interesting and sometimes we can’t discuss about them with our parents because they’re not open minded. Also, I have to say it’s so hard to find a guy like Wajeeh so well raised and well-mannered. If my husband ain’t like Wajeeh, I don’t want him 😂

[@raccoon55-pu3ns]

It is an arranged marriage where you meet someone through family or friends and you have a say in it. Forced marriage is when you don’t have a say in it and love marriage is when you find one on your own and fall in love and don’t care abt your parents or anyone’s opinion.

[@hemasingh2077]

Being human first ❤

[@GREENMOUNTAIN277]

Please bring Ayman,Wajee and all your kids are good Masallah,mama jee baji,you are so blessed to have so farma badaar kids,and papa jee his so simple an d his himself,love all your podcasts,it makes me so happy

[@IcaanI]

u know what it is our parents have seen the harsh realities of the world be it outsiders or our very own loved ones everyone stabs us at one point in life so our parents only try and protect us but they don't understand we r the generation who understand through practice but love ur chai talk

[@hitmanbagot7992]

I hope you make one in which theres just a Lil bit segment of Urdu Convo That would be so fun

[@anetakanthasamy7268]

Love this podcast. One questions for the podcast would you even consider marrying outside the race and religion?

[@zainabsafi9857]

I’ve been waitinggggg

[@rabiahrahman57]

Loved the Imran Khan talk.

[@nazmazza786uk]

Hi, congratulations on doing these pod cases. I listened to them regularly. However, no disrespect I have to break your hour slots into 20-minute slots as I have to have therapy at end of each slots lol😂. It gets too much for me.😂. Keep up the good work.

[@raccoon55-pu3ns]

In arranged marriage you have a say in if you want to Marry or not. Mama G is taking abt forced marriage.

[@arnolddibi5560]

Mama Jee! The one and only ^^.

[@sairathim7528]

My weekend got a lil better. Loving the relationship between you and mama G. Your admirer from India ❤

[@kins6809]

Ayeman needs to be on in next !

[@Traumatised311]

Plzz put time stamp I was looking for topic Love from India 🎉💗💙

[@sanaahmady7739]

“This is so bad” mama jeee “run awayyyy” 👁️👄👁️

[@fatimazafar75]

I am waiting for wajheeh when he married and act like his mama jee to his kids Inn sha Allah I am with mama jee she did absolutely right how she raised you guys. Because you are in West and its too hard to raised kids as mom because everyone said (ki tabiyat kiti ay teri maa nyy) it's soo hard ....lots of prayer for you guys May Allah bless you and your family happy and healthy life

[@zainabsaeed3508]

I love you guys sooo much ❤

[@Ninja-ix6lr]

I agree with Wajeeh on the issue of marrying your cousin. First cousins are like brother and sister and should be respected as such. In the olden days people married cousins to either to keep the wealth within the families or to secure a good stable home as the families knew each other. Not to judge, but it is not a good decision to marry your cousin for medical reasons.

[@khantravels3661]

Love mama jee ❤❤❤

[@atza9270]

The joke at the end just killed me 😂😂😂😂

[@husssain140]

We want to see papa g talk about his life how he left Pakistan came to America my family are also from jhelum

[@mmughal5707]

Love you mama jee ❤❤❤

[@raccoon55-pu3ns]

They might not compliment you in from of you but they praise you all lot in front of others.

[@S4FX]

Marrying to cousins in the past would've worked, but i also saw families break up once the marriage broke, i believe its better not to marry to relatives, if it doesn't work out it can impact on generations to come especially where kids are involved. Marrying from a totally different culture etc has its ups/downs too but if marriage doesn't work out atleast it won't effect the rest of the family. Plus with relatives we have very high expectations that they will be happy, thats not the case, you see the real faces of relatives after marriage 😔 ofcourse not everyone is the same but most are like that.

[@1B1000S]

What does that break up look like? “Sorry I can’t be your babe, but I’ll still be your bhaiya” 😂

[@marinanajib5391]

I really just want to thank you and Mama jee for bringing these topics up especially about a mum being over protective my mum has learned a few things from this ❤️

[@hayasiddiqui9307]

the Imran Khan part >>>>>

[@nazmazza786uk]

I am in my late 40s and have no kids. I have been married twice My mum is in her 70s and feels I shouldn't get married again, that is her mindset. I personally think it's too late now as I am too old to have kids now. I have 2 brothers and a sister they are all happily married with children. I still live with my parents. I go to work and stay at home. People I think are my friends they are not, therefore, not got any social circle to enjoy. Mama jee, what do you think?

[@S4FX]

Most white ppl start their lives in their 40's you should try to look for a good spouse and get married, don't let your age stop you. Keep praying and use this time to also get closer to Allah swt....Ask Allah swt to grant you what's best for your Deen and dunya. May Allah swt bless you sister and keep you content in life Ameen 🤲❤️

[@nazmazza786uk]

@@S4FX thanks for the advice 🙏

[@uzibro8300]

Marry a divorcee.. so many out there..

[@nazmazza786uk]

@uzibro8300 great advice - they are fussy these days

[@nargiskheri7890]

Thanks adding Afghanistan

[@shaistaali9802]

Imran can has an oxford/Cambridge education and thats why he was so eloquent

[@sheemaiqbal1169]

Wajheed please listen to ur mom she is good Masha’ALLAH

[@monahalma5639]

Well....I mean...aside from cousins being like your siblings...it's important to remember how close familial genetics affects reproduction...let's not overlook the large amount of people affected by various types of illnesses in our south asia countries, that many people are born with due to people marrying close cousins...

[@shahdab3483]

Wajeeh bro improve the lighting at your side its too dim

[@rkk77]

Salaaaam❤

[@humamalik5281]

Mama ji twano milna hay pur kese I am from Rawalpindi too😂❤

[@rebelicious8]

Never seen someone so changed with glassess to even recognize😅

[@shai674]

Come on Wajeeh, even now Imran Khan is ageing like fine wine! 😂

[@nazmazza786uk]

My mum is very blunt compared to my dad. My mum still gives me daggers she is in her 70s. She tells me to shut up before I opened my mouth. I can't even discuss this with her, I say something he goes on deaf ears. I have given up.

[@Riveramazons]

Please don’t encourage cousin marriages. In Islam it’s allowed but disliked. It causes a lot of health problems.

[@evilangels61]

Mama Jee give your son a chance to talk and express himself..you try to talk over him like only what you say is important...it is like she craves attention...Your son is a grown man with his own thoughts and to live his life to make himself happy..You have your life with your husband so concentrate on that relationship and let your son live his life....Do this for him Mama Jee

[@sanabegum4951]

Aslamoalkm bagy ap ka Soho beta acha he

[@humamalik5281]

Mama ji that’s what Imran khan do he never afraid of losing he said harta woh hay Jo haar manta hay

[@zehnihameed6371]

Islam recommends you get married outside the family wajeeh is right

[@sidra7406]

Bring Aymen on the show!!!!!!

[@aleenaasif4712]

omg u look like fahad mustafa

[@zk21nr]

Wajeeh get papa g on the pod cast it well be good

[@moonlightea]

@24:00 i completely disagree with this, 😆 There's so many real-life stories, and I've even witnessed it with my own eyes, where blood families become worse enemies than outsiders. This all comes down to a person's niyat and how consciously they live their life.

[@mrpumbu9871]

I thought Mama ji's words when they were stepping out of the house were that I love you no matter what 😂😂😂. And Wajeeh, sorry man to tell you this but unfortunately or fortunately, eventually you will start acting like your parents in the future 😅😅😅

[@saiyrrnsparrow7795]

wajeeh going through a girl problem for sure

[@rocky-yx8wr]

For sure 🤣

[@1B1000S]

I’m sorry, at the 20:50 mark did she just say that her brother’s wife is the daughter of her phuppo (dad’s sister)AND mamu (mom’s brother)? Ie: double first cousin marriage? That’s literally akin to marrying your half sibling 💀

[@truth5454]

I absolutely loved your guys conversation Mama jee is so much. And btw…sorry but if current Pakistani generation doesn’t know who Imran khan is then shame on you guys, he represents Pakistan in every way