Creating Financial Boundaries with Family | Your Money vs Your Family |

[@kg7836]

Thank you for this session. Sensitive but very important conversation. Thank you.

[@LeisurelyLorrie]

Great session.

[@denisenoles3159]

I hope they all look out for you now and when you get older. If my older sister made that sacrifice for me, I would make sure she is set financially!

[@IYKYKT]

Usually it is not the case 😢

[@barbaraburns8014]

Thank you for this topic because I grappled with this for a long time.

[@kg7836]

Finishing the live "in the future". I was wowed and completely understand Sam's feelings after hearing the back-of-envelope expenses of $250,000 and what impact that had on Sam/Sam's childrens' quality of life and the emotional quality of Sam's life having to relocate to a city she really didn't like to care for siblings. I thought initially thay these were 7-18 yr olds. Nooo this is college kids. Maybe year one for freshman and for one..maybe two cousins/siblinghs...but 5 for 4 yesrs each feels like a massive massive ask. WOOOOOOW. Boundaries Early Is powerful take away. Thank you.

[@AmethystBorn24]

All this and more! And let people talk is a word! 👏👏👏

[@AdaliaAborisade]

🙌🏾

[@sage-in742]

All of the information resonated! This was a necessary 👏🏾 informative discussion 🎉

[@AdaliaAborisade]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@BingingInPeace-ev3bp]

This was such a refreshing conversation in so so many ways! I own two homes as part of my retirement strategy and I love it but I understand it’s not for everyone. The part that got me was having financial and emotional boundaries with our loved ones. I’ve watched too many broke and broken down black women struggling in their 60s and 70s. I do not want that to be me. My mother luckily was able to get subsidized housing, however, her social security check is not enough so nearly everything else about her life falls on me. It’s exhausting to support and fill the gap for another adult. We need to have more conversations with other black women who think it’s ok to bring kids into the world that they cannot financially support because often that child becomes their retirement plan and that is debilitating. There are so many things that I have not been able to do because, I’ve financially helped other people. I definitely could have been retired by now if I hadn’t made those decisions. I’m good and done and I really don’t care anymore. I’ve seen other black women friends and one black man take on burdens that are not theirs and the result is stress and adverse health conditions. Never again.

[@onthego_jojo]

Adalia!!! You are like Christ! Always on time and this conversation is no different. In this moment, so close to the holiday season, we have to have set better boundaries. ❤❤❤ thank you!

[@AdaliaAborisade]

So true!

[@Refreshing_Words]

Thank you for this conversation. I’m watching the replay.

[@discoveringhealthandfinanc8328]

Hey Adalia! This information is so amazing! Thank you so much😊... also, it sounds like the mic has a short and there's a lot of static and the sound goes in and out. I've noticed it the last few videos. Thanks again for getting all this information out!

[@Tripleexel]

You cant build wealth through communism sadly.