Creativity HEALS the Soul ~ Loneliness

I'm all alone this week, no James and I'm lonely. Such a big contrast to recent last week's video and tbh, I'm sad and lonely. Thanks especially this week for keeping me company. Don't forget to let me know your book recommendations in the comments too for a future video. Try to keep your lights shining bright & your teacups full! BIGGEST Softest Hugs, Wendy. Xx
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[@theunexpectedgypsy]

*Don't forget to let me know your book recommendations in the comments too for a future video. Thank you! xx*

[@wvugrad81]

Craft a Life You Love by Amy Tangerine

[@tracyguillemette6255]

I saw you already have Clarissa Pinkola Estes "Women Who Run with Wolves" she is fantastic - have a few books on tape of hers as well "Warming the Stone Child", "Mother Night", "The Dangerous Old Woman" and "The Power of the Crone" all very healing and validating

[@Wildflowerafternoons]

I got a very large book from the library. Old Masters. It went way back in time and told about each one and gave a lot of information that I didn’t know about them. It was an interesting read. Also a book on Matisse. That was eye opening too. Now I will look for the War of Art. I loved this chatting video. Inhale, exhale. Thank you for sharing with us. ❤ And now the Pinkola Estes ones. They sound interesting.

[@_jo-jo_]

@@Wildflowerafternoons women who run with wolves had been on my tbr for a while and when Wendy mentioned it I went to Amazon and its in their black Friday sale but even better they have some second hand ones that are in good condition that work out a couple of pounds cheaper, if you're interested.

[@Wildflowerafternoons]

@@_jo-jo_ thank you!

[@Blick_Art]

People who don't make art often don't know that most of us are, at any given time, facing a series of deadlines. Catching up the small life-maintenance tasks like cleaning and tidying up the living space gives such a feeling of balance, like spinning plates on the ends of sticks! Thanks for the reminder to breathe- we needed that!

[@EnnyFromNL]

I absolutely love the book “Life Is Better When You Draw It” by Koosje Koene. It’s a brand new book and it talks about making art as a daily practice, I’ve been so inspired by it! I absolutely love it and recommend it for beginners and experienced artists alike 😊 I was wondering, Wendy, if you ever considered writing a book, either instructional (like drawing fairies) or inspirational, as you always have so much wisdom to share with your followers every week ❤️😘😘😘

[@1verysteveperry]

Wonderful idea. An art book for wellbeing, journalling, guidance/instructional., wisdom, hygge, etc.

[@prairiecherie5743]

After I started studying Buddhism I became aware I go through most of my day holding my breath or shallow breathing. I put a Mindfulness Bell app on my phone to remind me to breathe in and breathe out. It has made a profound difference in being aware of the tension in my body. Love your videos. Excited for the fairy bags. ❤️

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

so true, and if we remember to breathe properly it is a gamechanger,... x maybe i need an app too!!!

[@sayusayme7729]

Thank you

[@catharinapaulif]

Excellent advice!

[@janeadlington7150]

The Artist's Way.... this book has got me out of dark moments on several occasions.

[@sammythehamster9093]

Great book. I first discovered through the library before I brought my own copy. I find mornings pages helpful and going on Artist 's dates.

[@aimeemorgado8715]

I revisit The Artist’s Way every few years. I learn something new and make wonderful discoveries each time. Morning pages changed my life.

[@collenemeeks5212]

I always love watching your videos. I thank you a million times for your calming words and presence . Have a blessed week.

[@suev4143]

Thank for for the reminder to do the things which nurture us. I am rewatching this video, and this message is one I needed to hear right now. Extreme fatigue is so debilitating, and can make it difficult to focus on what we need to reenergize properly. It is so joyous to have a hot drink and sit with you for a bit. I find it soothing and comforting to just curl up with an art friend, one of my "tribe". You are a valued addition to my life (and one of the most inspiring people on YT). Much love and light.

[@alexandraalmeida3661]

Two things called my attention in your video today. The fact that you said that it’s ok to feel sad when someone we love is not with us (you were referring to your daughter, I believe), because that means we love them. And that called my attention because we’re supposed to be happy all the time, when sadness is part of life. And the second thing is that you mentioned doing those small chores (that sometimes are so boring) sooner so that we don’t get home to a untidy space, which is even worse. I think that’s a wonderful piece of advice. I do that too, it saves me many hours and much unpleasant moments, because making the bed or doing the washing up when it’s needed is so rewarding afterwards when we need time to ourselves. Regarding books, all related to abstract art inspire me. Thanks for keeping me company. See you soon. Lots of love 💙❤️🖤💚💛💗♥️💜🧡

[@ehpeachylove]

The balance between inhale and exhale caught my attention. Wendy, many times I have to tell myself mentally to breath in deeply and exhale slowly as I notice I find myself breathing too shallow. You are a very special lady who has helped me many times with all you positive reinforcement in my lowest days and my up days too. There are times you touch on topics that have brewed in my mind but had no one to voice what I’m feeling and to let me know all will be okay or it’s okay to feel what I’m experiencing at the time. Loneliness comes to all of us, it’s all on how we handle those feelings. I’ve found that sometimes a good, long soak, then crawl into bed with a favorite show and fall asleep works for me. Or, taking my dog for a walk, cooking a good and healthy meal, or getting lost in a journal page. I live alone so the loneliest time can be at night but that doesn’t happen as often these days. While I do keep up with current events I restrict the time watching news as it’s so depressing most of the time. I too, make an effort to keep my kitchen in proper order and most times make my bed everyday. Something about putting a good face in the day when that simple thing is done each morning. Mundane duties need to be done just so things do not get out of control. I just told my youngest grands that daily duties need to be done with a happy heart even though they are not something we all like to do. Have a beautiful week my dear friend. James will be home soon and a small time away always makes the coming together that much better. You are so right when you tell us not everything in social media is what it seems, people tend to forget that… each relationship has its ups and downs. You are a lucky lady as he a lucky man. Love between to people is such a beautiful thing. I just saw and older couple walking toward the grocery store the other afternoon and he was being so attentive to his lady and making sure she was walking safely next to him and holding hands. It made me tear up and wished I had someone like that too. 74 now and alone most of my years. Love come and gone but blessed anyway. Peace and love my sweet friend.

[@janillingsworth7478]

Hi Mags, I am 74 as well and my great love left in 1997 after 7 years so I really do relate to the many years living alone. I really disliked it at first but now I wouldnt have it any other way. Much love.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

dearest soul Mags, your coments and sharings are heard and appreciated thank you x softest hugs for your day xxxx let's continue to breathe together x

[@ehpeachylove]

@@theunexpectedgypsy thank you sweet fairy girl. Love you loads 😘

[@ehpeachylove]

@@janillingsworth7478 I too am at peace being alone. Thankfully I do have my son and his beautiful family to visit and spend time with but when everything gets too overwhelming I can come home. Also, my son is pretty intuitive and knows when it’s time to take the fam and go home when they visit my home. I am truly blessed. 😘

[@cynthiapate9138]

In Misfitland, we are never alone. I love this idea!!! In Misfitland, creativity defines us with joy.

[@judithfarr]

Hi Wendy, I feel lonely sometimes too and I have to remind myself I am my own best friend. Like you mentioned, making the bed and tidying up are things I do for myself because I know it’ll make me happy later. It’s lovely to hear someone else feels the way I do too. You are so special and I adore what you share with us. ❤

[@pinkagave4774]

My favourite book so far: Art & Fear (Observations on the perils and rewards of artmaking) by David Bayles & Ted Orland. My favourite quote from that book: "Adams was right: to require perfection is to invite paralysis. The pattern is predictable: as you see error in what you have done, you steer your work toward what you imagine you can do perfectly. You cling ever more tightly to what you already know you can do - away from risk and exploration, and possibly further from the work of your heart." Thank you to you and your channel - very inspirational and entertaining!

[@sweetdistin]

Brilliant book, a long time fave.

[@fleckolight]

That is a great quote - thank you for sharing!

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

*Okay, I'mr reading 2 of our recommendations right now! Simultaneously! Hahha! and Thankyou!! xxx*

[@YellowCase2024]

Thank you for mentioning that you miss your little girl. My son moved out yesterday & I am having a rough day. ❤

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

oooch , yes, I feel you xxx soft hugs Amy x

[@marie-helenelemonnier3365]

Comme je vous comprends Amy ! C'est un moment si difficile !... plein de bisous 😚 😚 😚 😚 😚

[@bethcollier3789]

Ahh I feel so blessed to have access to your company. Listening to your words of inspiration tops-up my own batteries and gives me the energy to keep my own studio tidy, orderly and comfortable, and then continue creating after time pausing from life. A book I devoured with delight was "Steal like an Artist" by Austin Kleon. It was recommended at a time when I really needed the advice for hurdling self-doubt and resetting my goals. Thank you, Wendy, and also to James. 💖❤💚

[@peterleprevost2154]

I, too, love “Steal Like an Artist”. I did not pick up my love of art from childhood again til I hit 60 and it has been the best gifts I ever gave myself. Best wishes to you. Susan

[@judymuller9564]

the Artists Way by Julia Cameron is one book I have read for many years and return to over and over

[@evestree]

"Loneliness" - Ive found a remedy for her. Ive been intentionally setting time to sit with the one inside who feels lonely. I ask her how old she is. I ask her if she'd like some company. We usually color together. I bring out coloring books that make her excited. I sit and enjoy her love of colors. We play for hours. Loneliness dissipates and after months of practicing this...I can honestly say my "Loneliness" has dramatically reduced. This is an inner child technique and Ive been reading a lot of Bethany Webster to help me access the inner child and learning so much! Sending big hugs to your inner little! xOOO love from hawaii

[@jillychandler]

I feel I can see a blue aura around you Wendy, which is so true to how you are. Such an inspiring, lovely, caring person. Thank your for sharing all your thoughts, and your artistic process. I am now 66 years young, and think I may have Asperger's syndrome, which would explain a lot about my life in the past, and how it is now. I have always felt I was different, but I did not want to be like everyone else at the same time! xxx

[@cindyurban150]

I believe the Pandemic has made so many of us lonely, and frightened. It helps to know the most important fact..we are not alone,others share the same feelings and thoughts,it's how we reach out to others that is so important, and Wendy, you are doing a splendid job of reaching out to us. You offer advice, and comfort...even when your feeling lonely without James being there. Thank You ! Happiness, Cindy

[@jenniferkesler1832]

Wendy, how about workingwith a potter and making some fairy mugs? I would love one.xx

[@dawnothen3361]

Since I had a stroke are you a go I have trouble with my right hand as it was a right sided/very mild but I have found Facebook to be very helpful Ying magic by Sarah Robinson how to be still on the first two chapters could be you talking from the book everything you are saying is near enough what is in this book so far I find being still and holding a pose stretching my right side helps the muscle get stronger to hold my paintbrushes so I would definitely recommend this to anyone who’s had a mild stroke it really does help and I love your channel so many things you do is so much like me❤

[@AbbeysArtPrints]

I agree, we’ve all been seriously affected by this pandemic and it nasty restrictions.

[@pennyvdl]

I miss your videos when there’s a gap. They are so refreshing and wholesome! I always round off my weekend with your weekly video , it’s a little treat I give myself every Sunday night when Isnuggle into bed. Thank-you for sharing your life and work with us! Oh, and I think taking a magnesium supplement can be life changing! It solves so many niggles! I have chronically low blood pressure and it helps with that - although it can help with high blood pressure too.(It helps regulate how your body processes sodium). It helps with sleep and muscle aches, pains, and cramps, and even helps keep your gut doing what it should.

[@donnamass9576]

I love what you’ve done to your studio. It’s quite pleasing to my eyes and feels so calming (from where I sit). You’ve sent me some great inspiration and space in my mind to gently move into my own ‘creativity’. You’re a blessing! Thank you.

[@annainbudapest1261]

started reading Kate Norton books and some Agatha christie. I take homeopathic magnesium once in a while cant have the regular stuff (allergic) I find if I watch too much tv, news or even youtube videos before bed I don't sleep well at all. No period now for 2 years so in menopause now. Hot flashes still come so I must avoid all alcohol too much chocolate etc. I am trying to keep a balance.

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

you're doing so great. Well done Anne, x

[@teresab4563]

I love your KZbin channel. I see you start a fairy and put it up for awhile. My view of it is, ok I gave birth to this fairy child and I wonder who she will grow up to be. You see her in the studio over and over until in the back of your mind you see who she’s turned into and finish her❤️ don’t you love the creativity of what we bring into the world.

[@musicalemily5464]

I am a little bit shy to share the one book that gives me inspiration, motivation, good thoughts, and In the end, sends me into that world of creative energy. It is not a “typical” book for artists or creators, and it is not a motivational book or self improvement book, although, for me, it does all of those things. When I look through it, get into the character’s mind, and go through the adventures that await, I feel rejuvenated, energized, and know that I must get that wonderful energy out, by creating, through music mostly, singing, as I am learning to have my voice heard, literally as well as figuratively, but also through painting. The book is called, The Hundred-Year-Old-Man Who Climbed Out the Window and Disappeared. It truly absorbs into my soul, and makes the creativity flow. I am not sure others would agree with me, and, I was hesitant (scared) to share, but, I wanted to be brave, and let you and others in on this precious gem.

[@pennyvdl]

Oooh, now I going to look for that one! Thanks for the recommendation!

[@musicalemily5464]

@@pennyvdl Oh! I am so happy! You will absolutely LOVE it! It is feel good all the way! It made me want to change the way I live, and do things more happily

[@Wildflowerafternoons]

That sound like something i would like to read. I’m going to look for it. Thanks for sharing.

[@musicalemily5464]

@@Wildflowerafternoons It is my pleasure. I am so pleased that you may read this. If you do, I would love to know what you think. Again, it is not a book that most people would describe as something that would induce creativity. It is a fictional novel, not at all an educational or philosophical book, but something about it, after reading it, makes me want to compose or create art. Other people may know this book and say, “what in the world is she talking about?” Haha! But, to me, it is a gem, and it puts me in a delightful mood, which, in turn, makes me create. Please enjoy every minute of it, and, if it is not for you, no worries.😃

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

that sounds like it's worth checking out, thanks for being brave to share xxxxxx now everyone can find it too!!!! xxxxx

[@Kassandra-z5t]

I loved this video. Thank you...Wendy. Here are some of the books I would like to know more about: 1500 Color Mixing Recipes, The Secret Life of Things, and Living By Water...

[@elizabethcameron6045]

I have also received so much from reading Autobiography Of A Yogi. He takes you there, to be sure! Susan Cain's 2 books Quiet and Bittersweet are wonderful. Also, Women Who Run With The Wolves...well, I see you just put that book on the video!! Ha! Love it!

[@grizeldaxxx4568]

Oh yes "The Autobiography of a Yogi " is fascinating x

[@jenniferbaker19]

Thank you dear Wendy for sharing your thoughts and inspiration for creating much love from Adelaide South Australia

[@jenniferbaker19]

Forgot to mention a book - The Temple of My Familiar by Alice Walker got me through a very difficult time in my life

[@Kdmud]

Just wanted to say how beautiful you have made your studio space! It’s been a joy to watch your progress and process! So, peaceful and cozy and lovely ❤

[@dmcdaniel2009]

Thank you, Wendy for sharing wisdom (and fairies) with all of us and for being YOU. LOVE IT ! =: )

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

awww thank you too for keeping me company xxx

[@catharinapaulif]

Almost midnight and I sit alone in my kitchen trying to pull myself together... and fortunately I remembered this channel, I got back and the Artist talking to me in the video reminded me to start with small things one after another to deliver myself safely and peacefully from the kitchen to bed xxx thank you! Time to sleep and have some dreams for me now :)

[@tannaorr4133]

Your videos are always so inspiring, hopeful and honest Wendy. Enjoy every single one.

[@merryfergie]

I appreciate you Wendy for your comforting, gentle style

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

thank you cat xxxxxxxx I appreciate you too x

[@_jo-jo_]

You are the second person I know who has recommended The Women who run with the Wolves and its been on my TBR list for a long time, but it was so expensive it's had to stay there. Anyway I just went and had a look and not only was it in the black Friday sale at a better price than usual but, not only that, they also had some second hand ones that worked out just a few pounds cheaper than the sale price. It was obviously meant to be. So I treated myself 😊 Thank you Wendy. I hope you have a wonderful week, sending virtual hugs 💜

[@theunexpectedgypsy]

happy reading JO! Glad you got your book!!! xxx

[@janewalster5613]

Although not a "how to" art book, I love, love, love "The Land of Stone Flowers: A Fairy Guide to the Mythical Human Being" by Sveta Dorosheva where she documents how fairies view humans. The book includes lots of her beautiful and creative artwork. I was so inspired by her work, I took a class with her, through Domestika, about drawing fairytale art. Really challenging and inspiring! (Thank you Wendy for your inspiration as well!)

[@AngelaLochCross]

I 100% feel this about just discovering things now that I'm 50 (just had my 50th birthday last week!) that I feel like should have been taught, told, or somehow figured out by now. Even though I think these things would have helped me immensely when I was younger, I wonder if I would have treasured the learning of them like I do now. It's really rather nice to still be learning things that are so simple and basic. Life sometimes beats us over the head with the hard lessons when we're younger, so it's nice to be getting to this stage where we're able to learn these gentle lessons with grace. We're not only more aware of self-care, but of realizing that little things like making the bed or tidying an area are self-care for our future selves. What a gift! 💝 As far as book recommendations, this one is not so much about creativity as it is about art advocacy: Why Our Schools Need the Arts. While intended for educators and people in the education system, I found it an incredibly inspiring and motivating book for artists that counters all of the nonsense catchphrases we're programmed with about art not being "a real job" or "starving artists" or what have you. This approaches the subject with studies, statistics, and science that prove that art is beneficial to human development, mental health, and society as a whole. HIGHLY recommend for anyone struggling with an inner voice that is not their own (or an external one) telling them that art isn't a worth their time. Very good for helping anyone wanting to verbalize to others in defense of their craft or just a reminder to one's self that they are on the right path.

[@alkhemiegypt]

James' idea to position the desk at an angle to the window was really inspired. It transforms the space in the room. :) I read "Autobiography of a Yogi" in the late 80s when my yoga teacher recommended it. It was one the first "spiritual" books I read. It's a classic. At the moment I'm re-reading "Big Magic" by Elizabeth Gilbert (of Eat, Pray, Love" Fame). It's all about the creative process and I find it really inspiring, especially if I get stuck. :)

[@judyhoomalamalama]

I miss my sons who r far away from me . We do keep in touch but I cry sometimes 😢. They grew up so fast . I’m proud of both of them . Glad u mentioned missing your daughter it helps .

[@Joanne217]

Chekhov..The lady and the Little Dog and other Stories. Sunset Song..Lewis Grassit Gibbon Leonard Cohen Poems Bukowski Poems WB Yeats Park by the River...Barney Farmer Anything from Steinbeck...

[@CherylWilsonArt]

Book that is great: Adjacent The Adjacent Possible: Guidebook & Stories Of Artistic Transformation by Nancy Hillis

[@jillychandler]

I buy wonderful second hand books from World of books, they are really good I have found. xxx

[@maries8643]

Me too Jilly

[@sharb7320]

I love your Wendy Wisdom 🙂- Regarding book recommendations, I have been reading a lot of Clarissa Pinkola Estes. One of her most famous works is Women Who Run with Wolves which I read many years ago and recently revisited. I have since discovered she has written so many other wonderful things and I am enjoying her immensely. Currently listening to The Late Bloomer on Audible but most if not all of her wonderful work is also in print.

[@michellepaino9650]

“Anam Cara. Spiritual Wisdom from the Celtic World “ by John O’Donohue … hope you find this book

[@wvugrad81]

So glad i have you in my (virtual) life. You are a joy!

[@karmonbrown5107]

Please paint an oracle deck

[@LisaWfromTexas]

My inspo books for journaling: GIFT FROM THE SEA (Anne Morrow Lindbergh), PRAYERS OF HONORING VOICE (Pixie Lighthorse), FLOWERS ON THE MOON ( Billy Chapata), THE PAINTED ART JOURNAL (Jeanne Oliver).

[@glendaroberts8463]

Wendy, loved video.....and I can understand your missing James. You are such an inspiration. ❤❤❤

[@irenegarcia7356]

There are different Magnesium products. How many mgs do u recommend 🤔 & what type. Thks Wendy. I'm sleepless 😪 depressed 😔. Insomniac. My cup runneth over..

[@hadassahrose8295]

So funny, I was writting Book recommendation~ "WOMEN WHO RUN WITH THE WOLVES" by Clarissa Pinkola Estes, PhD ~ and then you showed it! Lol. Another book is "FOCUS~ Use the Power of Targeted Thinking to Get More Done" by Jurgen Wolff. I also like "ILLUSIONS, The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah" by Richard Bach ( who wrote Jonathan Livingston Seagull). So many books I love! I also collect old art instruction books from the 1920's - 1960's.

[@sherelynwhite4130]

What a truly lovely video Wendy! You touched on so many things that are on my heart right now as well. Inhale- exhale-balance...love it! Perfect right now as so many around me including myself seem to be on the hunt to find more balance in our lives.💎⚖💎 I love your studio... it's absolutely adorable and functional and romantic.💞 That hydrangea plant with the dark pink flowers and that other beautiful flowering creature in the middle of the window are so stunning together, so beautiful with you silhouetted in front. Love your little dancers/angels that you're working on! I too for the past couple of months have been craving Sweetness in my life and decided to make some journals with a lot of children's books with sweet words and images throughout. I'm of an older generation...just wonderingif any of your followersread as a child The Wind in the Willows series? And just yesterday I finished painting a series of little Mermaid babies. I posted them on my IG account under my name sheree.white. I think craving sweetness is another way of balancing out what we've all been through these past couple of years and what the earth and the peoples of the Earth right now are going through that seems so harsh and cruel.🥺 it's hard not to know what's going on and even on an energetic level most of us artists are HSP's sensing and feeling the world around us without ever reading an article or seeing a reel on social media. On to the subject of feeling lonely. I've lived alone for decades now and can tell you so many advantages to this way of life and just the same there are just as many disadvantages I could speak of. 😕 With all of this understanding I can honestly say that I am often terribly lonely. Especially now that I'm older and do not extend myself out there as much as I did when I was younger. Hold tight to each other...you and James...you have such a gift in each other! 💞👫 Oh, and I was so happy to hear that you are reading The Autobiography of a Yogi! 💫Paramhansa Yogananda has been in my life since before I was born as my mother and father used to go to the temple in Encinitas California when they were young to listen to him speak. Our house was filled with his words and beautiful melodic books of positive affirmations. I love Autobiography of a Yogi...such a dynamic story of deep love and devotion and the mystery, and granduor of life. I think it was one of the first lengthy books I read as a young person 55 some odd years ago. This book first introduced me to the adage that is so popular now.."We are spiritual beings having a human experience." I think it's time to go back and reread it. Thank you for the nudge 🙂😘 Sending much Aloha across the many miles🌈🌺🙋‍♀️

[@sagepremoe1565]

Love that you are sharing books which is definitely a favorite topic of mine. Some inspirational books I love are: "Braiding Sweetgrass", by Robin Wall Kinmerer, "Reviving Ophelia", by Mary Pipher, "Living a Life of Awareness", by Don Miguel Ruiz Jr, "The Four Agreements", by Don Miguel Ruiz, author Lorna Lanvik (fiction), "Power vs Force" by David R Hawkins, and "The Presence Process" by Michael Brown. I too loved "Women Running With Wolves." It's an all time favorite. If you are including fiction books I have quite a list of favorites -- "Breathing Lessons" by Ann Tyler and "Pigs in Heaven" by Barbara Kingsolver are just two among many.

[@deirdreclark2128]

Books: All on The Board Inspirational Quotes From The TFL Underground Duo. 2020 edition. A wonderful book of quotes (poems) a wonderfully rainbow coloured book. One of the quotes is "It is OK not to be Ok". You would love this book. Carrington by Gretchen Holbrook Gerzina, the life of the artist Dora Carrrington. Fascinating. Beatrix Potter by Judy Taylor, her life and the book is full of illustrations. Magic. really enjoyed your video, so thanks. I love your honestly.

[@grizeldaxxx4568]

Hi Wendy , I adore our Tribe of Misfits heehee, also have a book called Simple Abundance ...I read She calls House Work HOUSE CARE instead BAM! Life change! I am like You and will light incense, turn of lights and music and dance about as I take Care of Our Home ...makes it more fun and also I can SEE the difference of the light x!! Thanks You so much for sharing Your LIGHT with us all here in Our Magical World xxxx I absolutely adores the Autobiography of a Yogi too! xx I love Your Paper Doll Fairies so sweet ! BREATHING>>>IN>>>AND OUT is so good heehee x There are a couple of times when we shallow breathe ...when stressed AND EXCITED!!!! James is so lovely ...You both deserve each other so much !!! xxxx My Darling and I love each other , but always used to get stressed out when We were getting reading to go to a Steampunk gathering or other Fancy dress event....now I make sure He has enough time in front of the Mirror as I do especially if We are putting on make up hahahaha

[@deerhaven3350]

Hi Wendy...to answer your question with regard to the book that inspires me to continue creating my watercolor art and designing my knit hats is, "World of Poetry Anthology", 1991, John Campbell, editor & publisher. There are hundreds of unknown, but eloquent poets featured in that book....something for everyone.

[@danawagner9026]

Books I am inspired by: anything by SARK, Julia Camerons The Artists Way, and books on whatever art form I am focused on at the moment.

[@winterlark3986]

Thank you for your calming videos and for being an artist. Books that speak softly to my soul, that inspire me to be a better human and to be creative include Thich Nhat Hanh’s book, No Mud, No Lotus; Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer; Expressive Drawing by Steven Aimone and Watercolor is for Everyone by Katerina Ewing.

[@kimriddell6157]

Thanks for the videos. I'm wondering where you purchase your black jumper worn in videos?

[@myenchantedjournals]

I think you’re right-if we have a staycation we still do stuff, the family turn up, we go shopping etc Definitely need a vacation, even if it’s only an hour away, you do stop then and read, walk, sleep in etc

[@michemman]

Dear Wendy, This is the third watch of this, I think I wanted to revisit this video to ponder on it some more. Is James back yet? lol I think you might like the book, "Unicorns of Kilimanjaro." A large, old book full of photos of white unicorns with pretty trailing flowers over their horn in the green ranges and jungle. I am enjoying the spirit animal cards that you recommended. Funny how cards get picked out over and over. I just let the deck sit in my hand, and where the natural split is, I take this lower card. I have enjoyed thinking about times to slow down and times to speed up. I like the 8 card spread, and I find them in the same way. In bed now, after a day out we had a nice pub lunch, I'm getting better. It has been nearly 5 weeks in bed, give or take two or three days. It was tiredness, fatigue, chest infection, ear infection, and endometriosis, with peri-menopause. What a mix! I suppose my body is just needing the rest. Venturing out, hopefully to build up to walking again, will look forward to doing some art. Wrote over 50,000 words on my novel, while crook! So that was a great distraction. I convert hours into words too, so doing 8-10 hour days on it. It is for November, for NANOWRIMO, novel writing month. Laptop in the bed office as you call it. I need to get my November and December back, to get back to my art again, I don't feel like doing Christmas. I still feel like I haven't caught up things from March and September. I said to mum, Patrick and my best friend, I want to be a grinch. Paint myself green, not do a thing for anyone else, very unlike me...perhaps it is just the tiredness talking. I can' t help others if I have no cup with to fill. You say to give from the saucer, but the cup is empty, and the saucer isn't around! Listening to our bodies, being intune with a small action, and then the feeling, as you say, cleaning one little area. I tend to feel all the floods etc the bonkers now bit of the world, as you call it. It is taking a while, I'm not worried. Perhaps it is a C19 hanging around thing too that I had months back? My usual fatigue is often just at the end of a week, say the last 3 days... Thanks for letting me know about inhaling and exhaling, will try and find the book about it. Want to work on my Spring works, from September. Branches with flowers, against the sky. Lavender, jarosite opaque sky, serpentine genuine leaves, burnt umber branches, almond blossoms, buff titanium, and serpentine, A3, with taped edge to make it a square. I have drawn it up months ago! Love to you both, In kindred spirit, Eliza Australia 23rd of November 2022 7:59pm bed office.

[@kaytiej8311]

Just this week I watched a TEDxMileHigh by KC Davis who spoke about basic care tasks as helping your own mental health, showing compassion to yourself by managing one small task.

[@theresazhong8876]

I recommend " The Mind of God- Neuroscience, Faith, And A Search For The Soul " by Dr. Jay Lombard- I recommend this book to you because I notice you bring up those themes often in your KZbin Videos. It will be a refreshing look into another aspect of what you talk about. Sincerely, Theresa Zhong

[@nikhta100]

Hello Wendy. If you want to sleep better and live better check out Dr. Joe Dispenza and his meditations, especially the Blessing of the energy centers (chakras). They do work miracles. Much love from Greece 💖

[@amyreads99]

Lovely video! I recently found you when googling art journals. I am new to the practice and am really loving it! For book recommendations, I'm a huge reader and suppose all of the books could count as inspiration.😀 I just finished Louise Erdrich's "The Sentence" -- she owns a bookstore in Minneapolis. The novel is set in the bookstore, and Louise pops up as a character. So good! I also love to read collections of letters and journals, particularly by writers who came of age before television and social media. Their day-to-day lives are do different from mine! My top three are Virginia Woolf, Sylvia Plath, and Elizabeth Bishop. All three write so beautifully about their ordinary lives worries, etc. Rather like vloggers of their era. 😃

[@Marti_Lay]

Love reading poetry, Mary Oliver's poetry, has inspired lots of bird and nature painting.

[@marielandry1805]

🎉😊🎉😂 happy new year to you and James!!!! And Wendy for your question about who inspires us … I must say that you’ve been inspiring me a lot lately… surprisingly in every videos on your channel ( I’ve been watching them for two days lol) anyway… every time I ask my angels for a sign that I’m on the right track… and every time you come up with the “signs” lol … so y’a you inspire me to be who I really am ( it’s about time I’m 60 yo lol) I’m a fibre artist and it’s alright to be one 🎊 🎉 thank you for sharing dear Wendy !!!!

[@deborahclatworthy3885]

Magnesium supplements have really helped me with anxiety. Many of us are magnesium deficient. It truly makes a BIG difference for me.

[@MyrajoL.heart.withART]

I totally understand loneliness. Eventually it becomes the norm. I have learned to breathe. Thanks for sharing your space

[@melindastclair]

I discovered this artist recently. Her video was about slow painting. Caro Arevalo - kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5nai6GbbdGIrLM Plus, you should see the amazing painting she was working on! (on the easel in the background - she shows it more in another video)

[@mariah3814]

Greetings from Santiago - Chile. Your videos are so interested and beautiful. Thanks for shearing so much. Did you have any health matter? I see you talking about menopause so sadly. You have a wonderful talent, go ahead. 🤗

[@joannahart1604]

Beautiful as always Wendy. I’ve got some magnesium but forget to take everyday/week also Epsom salts is great if you have a bath or even a good 10 minute foot 🦶 foot soak dose wonders plus great for house/garden plants 🪴 🌱 If my older little dog Doddles isn’t feeling great she has a 5 min soak then she’s running around again in no time xX Much love 💕 ✌️🌍

[@adrianamaclennan7832]

I never feel completely totally alone because I have Jesus and Holy Spirit with me all the time but I definitely experience periods of deep grief and sometimes feel no one cares. My issue is I have I learned HOW TO DRAW from underuse. Abhhh!

[@trillianlocke1088]

Hi Wendy, Trills here in New Zealand, wet at the moment. I am alone at the moment with my other half on a road trip. I am making the most of the solitude and quiet, but still miss him of course. I am way past menopause but I still take magnesium at nights for a good sleep. I recently bought a recommended book called The Artists Way by Julia Cameron. And am finding it very interesting and inspiring. The morning pages mind dump most helpful. Always inspired by your videos. Blessings and love Trills.xx

[@Hugohaumichtot]

I normally am a silent follower - but today I need to share with you my favorite book series for inspiration! :) "Geschichten aus dem Fabelwald" - It's a german book series, and I'm not quite sure if there is an english version. But that doesn't matter. It's the pictures anyway! It's about fairies and animals and gnomes and all that magical stuff. - I also don't have insta or any other social media, so I can not send you any pictures. There are some on Google. But maybe another follower sees this and has the books! Anyway, while I'm at it: I really find your videos quite relaxing and inspiring, so thank you so much!

[@wendiesworkshopweb]

Hi Wendy, Wendy from the Netherlands, thank you for your video, us Wendy's we'll make it on our own! Greetings.

[@sammythehamster9093]

Artist's way by Julia Cameron it helped me reclaim my creative self. I'm currently working through the Creatrix she who makes by Lucy H. Pearce this too is helping me to reclaim my rights as artist/creator. I feel that constantly persuaded not to do artist by family and especially parents. I was told Art is niche but when I go on Pinterest and KZbin there are lots of artists like you Wendy who made living from my art but why can't I. I'm having sleep issues maybe caused by coming out of medication. Never take antidepressants they really wreck motivation for creativity. Hard to be creative if household is noisy and not getting enough sleep. I don't mean to rant. I'm feeling tired and highly emotional right now.

[@annharper8342]

Thank you for your videos. I feel a kindred personality thing.. personal question.. are you an Infj or infp ? I am infj. 😀

[@ladyofwildrose]

I love your videos, your art, your authenticity and your words of wisdom, Louse L Hays book, 'You Can Heal Your Own Life', changed my life at the age of 32 and I have not looked back. As a writer, many authors have influenced me. One quote that has greatly impacted me and that I share often; We do not BECOME healers. We are. We do not become healers. We came as healers. We are. Some of us are still catching up to what we are. We do not become storytellers. We came as carriers of the stories. We and our ancestors actually lived. We are. Some of us are still catching up to what we are. We do not become artists. We came as artists. We are. Some of us are still catching up to what we are. We do not become writers, dancers, musicians, helpers, peacemakers. We came as such. We are. Some of us are still catching up to what we are. We do not learn to love in this sense. We came as Love. We are Love. Some of us are still catching up to who we truly are. Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes 'Women Who Run With the Wolves'

[@liekmacgillavry277]

When I was alone I just loved to work at night with the silence surrounding me🥰 About books; I love Asian art books Japanese ; as a studend I found a set of “ bibles” of japanese stencil art; just was too expensive for me; still think about them😢 Art nouveau picture books also love them

[@peacedujour]

I absolutely love that concept of Misfit. I am definitely a Misfit! Thank you for your channel. You do remind me so much of myself even though I'm not an "artist" the same as you are. I have a goat farm and I sew, mostly patchwork quilts. Love you!

[@elsagrace3893]

Have you tried Hormone Replacement Therapy? It’s not normal to live the second half of life without our hormones. Humans have only very recently survived past 50 years. You will develop osteoporosis if you do not replace estradiol.

[@ivanahanus5101]

Hi Wendy. thank you for this video. I look forward to each and every video from you. I hear you when you miss your loved ones. Both my daughters are overseas in England with their families and I live in South Africa, so it's a long haul to visit them and very expensive so I don't get to see them as often as I would like to. Also the few friends that I have, have emigrated overseas to be with their children. You gave me hope to get back to being creative and I am learning to get back to it everyday.

[@TheRosaryGarden]

I must say I am really enjoying a bit of your Wendy Wisdom, it is quite healing! I feel for you with the loneliness and I can totally relate to it. I wonder if it is more difficult for you because maybe you got used (for a time) to being so close with James on a daily basis in the van, and now that you only see him at weekends it must feel like quite a contrast. I used to work as a beautician before the pandemic but in the pandemic my business went bust. As you can image , as a beautician I spent most of my days chatting! And now that I don’t have that in my life anymore I have really felt a sense of loss. I don’t feel I want to go back to being a beautician because I do feel that phase of my life is completed really, but the aloneness of life afterwards can feel quite a contrast to life before. Sending you big hugs and watching your videos feels like a cup of tea and a chat with a friend ☕️🍰💕 xxxx

[@katherinemcallister6859]

I recently finished Creatrix by Lucy H. Pearce, which was excellent.

[@brain1fluff]

Sometimes I feel like I live inside my head a lot, so the every day things sometimes get neglected. To get around this I've created a tracking system, because similar to you some things feel like a waste of time, or i just don't think about it, or they're just not in the forefront of my mind, but doing them makes me FEEL better and makes me more focused on the tasks that I love doing. I include things like drinking a litre of water, meditating for 10 min... they're just little prompts because I tend not to remember these things, even though they're important to me. As I complete them, I tick them off like a to do list.

[@labcat647]

I’ve frequently heard you talk over the last year about how you were struggling and needed more breaks and rest. I wonder if you are simply overcommitted with the need to create original art, maintain sketchbooks, tend to Patreon commitments, do weekly videos that have very thoughtful dialogue, maintain a shop, and all the other things you do. I know all of these fulfill you creatively, but it does seem like a lot for one person. I’m amazed with all you do.

[@lookthephoenix]

“There is such a place as fairyland - but only children can find the way to it. And they do not know that it is fairyland until they have grown so old that they forget the way. One bitter day, when they seek it and cannot find it, they realize what they have lost; and that is the tragedy of life. On that day the gates of Eden are shut behind them and the age of gold is over. Henceforth they must dwell in the common light of common day. Only a few, who remain children at heart, can ever find that fair, lost path again; and blessed are they above mortals. They, and only they, can bring us tidings from that dear country where we once sojourned and from which we must evermore be exiles. The world calls them its singers and poets and artists and story-tellers; but they are just people who have never forgotten the way to fairyland.” ~ L.M. Montgomery

[@ilovepainting58rosa84]

You said you had trouble with drawing hands but they looking mighty good in painting of woman’s face in middle of video!

[@paulinawaas9204]

My dear I wonder if you are selling your journals? I would love to buy one! Great points you brought in this video and that relates to many of us... very thoughtful 👏

[@ArtySubu]

Always so calming Wendy, love it.

[@jenniferkesler1832]

Such a sweet lady! I am not a doctor ,but i wonder if your vitamin D levels are low? Low vit d can causes tiredness. Might want to get it checked by your doctor and do some research.

[@janinafisher101]

I had to stop the video right at the beginning to say how much a lot of little girls would totally LOVE your paper dolls! I think you really ought to be selling those if you aren't already!!!

[@juliemonroe105]

I am really enjoying your video's Wendy. I am getting lots of tips to help get things in better balance

[@ishabellanamthrak1015]

Thankyou for being you. I am as well a bit "odd and artsy". You are simply a delight to be with.

[@lotusflowerpassion]

A book I so Love is Called To Hear The Angels sing an Odyssey of Co creations with the Devic Kingdom . I am sure you would love this book is amazing . Thanks for sharing with us I look forward to your Videos every Sunday and a little sad when you do not make it but totally understand as we need to keep our cup full first most so we can share . Taking care of oneself is so important as if we are not ok then we certainly can not give out our best to anyone else . love to you and James and yes James is a treasure ,so Happy that you have him in your life you are a blessing to each other.

[@softsoundart7460]

Magnesium helps me sleep, too. I also noticed that I can't tolerate caffeine as well. I used to be able to drink a large coffee late in the day and sleep like a baby. These days I have to switch to decaf after lunch. It's strange how drastically the body changes.

[@karenarden3266]

It’s Never Too Late to Begin Again by Julia Cameron

[@ericasantos1842]

Have you ever considered drawing fairies with different body sizes??

[@sumozmom]

I love your channel and your voice is so sweet and soothing ! thank you for some peace! xoxoxo from Sarasota fl