Crossing Point

[@Satiiisfaction]

"You got me. Is that all you wanted? Did you not want to keep me?" Fucked me up

[@suvihong2598]

Sylvia Mendoza Facts

[@traceynatalli3376]

Sylvia Mendoza honestly

[@kuyaboyred]

Sylvia Mendoza how about my video? I'm going through some shit exactly how this video is too. Everything got me fucked up

[@xWabbli]

Sylvia Mendoza Omg that made me cry

[@Daniel-ld7xs]

:(

[@ac1273]

"You got me. Is that all you wanted? Did you not wanna keep me?" THE FEEEELS

[@chrisleegitfilms]

ahhh same

[@Izzy-ov2bp]

yes! this made me cry!!!

[@amandajdo]

THAT LINE WAS EVERYTHING.

[@safalyashrestha]

that line made my heart skip a beat. :'(

[@AnimationAirlines]

asphalt 8

[@meowledies]

This hits too close to home. My fear every time a guy shows an interest. Every time I give in and fall in, he falls right out.

[@rochelle1199]

So relatable

[@Apezz19]

well in my opinion, maybe u played hard to get for too long, the guy lost their energy chasing u rather embracing u..even if when they got u, make it interesting for them..guys love challenges, just say it mess with their ego..they got u, after some time, make them chase again n reward them..i say this because thats how i feel a girl should be when with a guy..if not, eventually the guy just fades off..i was in a relationship for 6-7 years, she made it interesting for me, then she stop doing it, i slowly stop loving her..its in the human needs, certainty and uncertainty

[@BillYang74]

sadly most guys who have the skills and charm to penetrate that protective wall of yours are ones who are really good at it. And one does not become good at anything without lots of practice.

[@mattb7450]

HEY YO you're not doing it right ...

[@supriyaverma3364]

We are all in the same boat girl!!!

[@thekv3]

Good choice of pen. Makes the right amount of scratchy noises while giving a solid ink distribution.

[@Supitsjonnyboy2580]

Kevin V Respect.

[@AusyJo]

Kevin V the sounds were likely added in editing though, right?

[@mazamerid8207]

Kevin V i'm glad I wasn't the only one who noticed.

[@user-si3dm2ux7w]

yes MUJI pens man are the best

[@sawsan7K]

good observation

[@junengu608]

only wong fu would be able to romanticize graphs

[@sophial7261]

xDD

[@LLLadySSS]

Seriously

[@SunSunSunn]

Or you know, the entire field of social psychology also does that.

[@blackcat-mp7kh]

Most of them are asain 😂

[@Habboon1234]

"Why did i let myself fall. Why did i let my walls down." "So i build walls higher. To protect myself from ppl wanted to make me believe again." im cryin

[@sophial7261]

Too cliche for me to cry

[@TheNamesDitto]

trump be watching this

[@chariskuok1931]

EXCUSE ME DID YOU JUST CUT TO CREDITS BEFORE HE COULD DRAW THE DAMN LINE

[@brandontiev7663]

Charis Kuok I literally freaked. what kind of human would leave such a cliff hanger

[@alfombraful]

Charis Kuok only WFP can leave such a beautiful cliffhanger

[@CreatorzOwn]

They included him tilting the pen just before they cut to black to let you know what he chose. You can tell that he was going to follow the upward line by the way he pivoted his wrist clockwise for more leverage drawing in that direction. At first, I was confused, because I had thought that they flipped the view to be from his angle because of how short the line on the right side of the frame was, but the pen is pointed toward the camera. I could be wrong, obviously, but because of that, I strongly believe we got a happy ending. =)

[@MrJimmyG12]

XD SAME

[@nemirlasworld]

YES THEY DID !!! ARGGGG

[@molly2846]

Just because the sparks are gone doesn't mean you're not in love, eventually all relationships pass those first exciting stages. Love is more than a feeling, it's a bond, and it doesn't mean that passion is gone forever, it just means that your relationship will go through phases, and mold itself over time. You can't expect to feel those butterflies forever because you'll only disappoint yourself.

[@advut27]

but you can't indifferent to the things you were interested in before? was those just an effort to win someone over? my friend if that's what love is we all are doing it wrong. it don't have to have butterflies but effort matters. Even if the sparks long gone. Effort makes the hard road easy when two people want to work it out.

[@LemonadeSugar]

Molly Katherine I agree completely. After many years of dating someone you get comfortable and sparks might not always be there when you see each other. But putting effort and willingness to continue to do things together is very important. You gotta make sure you show affection and love to one another no matter how long the relationship is. Which means to give quality time to one another even when you have a busy schedule.

[@molly2846]

LemonadeSugar That's fair, but it seemed for a minute she was gonna break up with him or something and I was confused as to why. It seemed drastic

[@mmmmmMuffinz]

wow, couldn't have said it better myself!

[@Momoko458]

Molly Katherine I don't think what she cared about was the sparks and the beginning phase of the relationship specifically, but more of the investment and interest in each other. If your partner dismisses you or doesn't show affection or interest anymore, you'll feel discouraged and like things are going downhill, and might replicate the same behavior. I don't think it's the same as losing spark

[@hrushankkaveti8577]

man this channel is way underappreciated, their work is honestly the besy on the platform.

[@SiaarZH]

I think this channel is at "just the right place and time". The more mainstream they go, the more their content will suffer. Once you're forced to push content on a schedule, the harder it is to stay deeply creative and emotionally relevant. There are so many channels I un-subbed from because they would start including webcasts, live-streams, and just unedited real-life content where they simply eat pizza or go to the mall.

[@neetapatel8993]

1000%

[@emilyanderson4248]

"You got me, is that all you wanted?"

[@DerWonMusics]

Emily Anderson sad facts

[@GuavaJuice]

Oh my goodness! Dia's voice and dialogue gave me the feels so good!

[@guapatea601]

Guava Juice aha

[@lildino8346]

Guava Juice ikr and omg guava juice

[@tantranthanh2938]

-q

[@debbiefullard8977]

I MISS U

[@sanjithkotaru4463]

*Hi Roi!*

[@arandomchannel6912]

Is everybody gonna ignore the fact that she didn't label the x or y-axis, or even gave the graph a title?

[@jayj.manalo2271]

It's all about the basics.

[@ArtsySinger]

That was bothering me too, and I don’t even like math.

[@VenusAD]

ngl, I needed this silly comment after the end of this video.

[@ladyB6]

Yoh that's a love graph you don't need axis that mush

[@jonathankwak1345]

Along with the increasing slope thats... increasing.... a lot.... yet no signs of development to counteract loools

[@Promoting_Masculinity]

After watching this video, I took a step back and reflected how much Wong Fu has influenced my behaviour and how I treat my missus. Wong Fu's serious and comedic videos on relationship really hit home to me. I realised how romantic/corny I can be towards my missus and I feel like watching all of Wong Fu videos after all these years has shaped me in a way. This video reminds me not to drop the line on my girl. Not take her love for granted and always appreciate her. Thanks Phil and Wes. Thank you for all your stories and videos you put out here on the internet. You guys have made some impact on my life. Making me tear up(sometimes!), making me reflect on my life, etc. I really appreciate your work. Keep it up!

[@Lily.valkyrie]

+

[@JuanBanda23]

InitialDei same!

[@kathrnbelmont]

+++++++

[@Whoisthiseee2]

I was actually thinking the same thing the other day! I dont have a Gf but how i treat girls, i feel as Wongfu has influenced me in such ways. I love it :)

[@iceinvein]

Thank Phil for all those feels XD

[@fairytale_events_sydney]

One of the best things I love about Wong Fu is the minute details - the shots of their hands, eyes, feet. Lingering, falling, the hesitation - these are all things through which our bodies communicate what is going on within us. The second thing, is the natural acting and the extremely natural state of the actors in terms of make up, speaking etc. I feel like I am literally watching a friend of mine's life story here. It is really nice to see because not everyone looks like friggin contoured or a model 24/7. People are people, and we fall in love with them.

[@cactusspark1724]

Hell yeah

[@lovemecom3832]

Sometimes in every relationship there comes a time that your partner loses his/her attention for you. But always remember your happiness doesn't depend on that person you need to love yourself more.

[@jenalyntalkchat6383]

Such a nice comment !

[@ronnaloulosacker5075]

yeah! love yourself more than you love him..

[@christabellelysander4392]

That's deep.

[@bensonq]

Should have just got her that Ice Cream...

[@marcovibal_]

bensonq +1 ikr

[@WhatchuWon]

I strongly believe in the love language of Ice cream.

[@moniquevergara3437]

bensonq yea you're right. #icecreamsavesrelationships

[@kristiantoade8104]

Hahaha true ..

[@kennychen324]

Damn Wong Fu, why you gotta be tugging at my heartstrings like that? Bittersweet videos like this made me feel some type of way. Nevertheless, amazing job!

[@alenzdelacuesta3682]

"I don't really know how to explain it" Talks for an entire 7 minutes explaining how she feels. WongFu Productions you've made another masterpiece that's truly resonated with how my relationship might be going right now. Thank you for opening up my mind and letting me see this from a perspective that wasn't my own.

[@Tofushoots]

The "honeymoon phase" of every relationship ends sooner or later, and THAT'S when you get into the REAL stuff. Relationships don't stay new and exciting forever.

[@littlebubbles2751]

VeganMachine things will get better. *Experience speaks*

[@pictorific2331]

VeganMachine I wish they could!

[@sarahhamdan5470]

And that is when you see truly how much you care about that person and vice versa, if you continue putting in effort, that is true love that is more valuable than the "honey moon phase"!

[@MichaelMariscal]

I have a common practice that has always kind of worked and is one of the reasons I believe my relationship has been successful. Everyone grows and changes through out the years. So I try to make it a priority to get to learn my partner all over again. You have to date and get to know this new person your person is growing into, and the reverse. If you keep that in mind it tends to make the entire thing exciting and new. Learn about new interests , old interests. Have them teach you their hobbies etc. seems obvious but we all tend to get caught up with the whirlwind of life we tend to lose sight of it all.

[@beepboop7748]

Unfortunate but u're right

[@EveryOtherIsInUse]

I actually liked the ending -because whether he went up or down doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things - had he gone up, it would make some people swoon, while getting some criticism from others, down and then many would comment saying that it was a sad ending, or maybe a truthful one. It is just a story, while brilliantly written, it is only a story - what we make of it is ours, and the ending is also ours, with all the ups and downs, disagreements, connections made and lost. But it makes us think, or discuss, and that is a value in itself. And I do know there are people who would say it is true, it is life, because they went through something similar and yet completely different because of their personal experiences, and they would want certainty, but there is rarely any, or at least not always.

[@pwangs]

bravo Thank you!

[@rabiaash1647]

EveryOtherIsInUse This is so true. 😘👏👏

[@MeredithMao]

this is so wonderfully written!

[@byMarriGrace]

EveryOtherIsInUse this is the comment id bet my whole bank account to.

[@jeevanhops]

i thght it the same way first. But, what if he had drawn a line parallel to x axis ?? :P :P

[@Adam-tq6ej]

I freaking loved how it captured the emotions so beautifully, the chase he made, the aloof facade she gave. How her experience has brought her to the point of not diving head-first into something new, as tempting as it might be. How the show portrayed the fact that she was clearly into him but she suppressed her emotions-and finally, when it happened, that defining moment. Coupled with such a good soundtrack and cinematography, I was entranced with the story. And, realistically, I love how this showed such a real life situation and such a real life answer to it. If your relationship is facing issues, talk about it, no passive-aggressive or subtweets or subtly throwing shade. Be real. What got me was when she said, "You got me. Is that all you wanted? Did you not wanna keep me?" as it perfectly shows how interest gets lost the moment "The Chase" is over; that and at the end when I realised she's basically saying, "this is how we started, this was how we were, and this is what's happening now, so make your choice". Using the graph just made it so much more interesting and easy to understand. That cliffhanger ending was such a good way to end it, as frustrating as it was. Kudos Wongfu, I am in tears :')

[@EdYouTs]

I love your response to this beautiful short movie. I wish I could write one like this. My grammar sucks :(

[@Butterantics]

*draws line directly down* "im out"

[@s-mabdurrazak]

How it happened in real life: "Which way are you going?" "Honestly babe, I tuned out as soon as you said, 'I want to tell you a story'"

[@wongfupro]

lol, savage.

[@versatile3373]

What a save!

[@bharathbhat]

muzzammil9 😂😂😂😂😂

[@dragonxtcz]

Made me fkn LOL

[@airpls2822]

" I lost it at 'graphs"

[@fiannaton]

As someone who's been watching Wong Fu since I was little, they've had such a huge effect on my life growing up, especially as an Asian American without many Asian influences on KZbin and the media. They deserve so many more subscribers than they have! This was such an inspirational video so thank you, Wong Fu, for making my day again x

[@thewadeeffect]

Fianna Ton Truth.

[@Slumpio]

Fianna Ton true

[@timefliesaway999]

What we learned from this film: The one, who falls in love quickly, you can compare that to crushes, will get over you easier. Crushes don’t last long and so isn’t their love. You will fall quickly, but when you get down, you’re either get on together, or your life’s will part. The one who fell quicker than you, who had their walls down from the beginning, probably hadn’t much to loose but their lives will continue so. They will get used to you, take you for granted, until someone new sparks their eye and the cycle begins again. The other one, who needs time falling in love, will also need more time letting someone go. They had their walls up, when meeting someone, they had their walls up on the first date. But as they get to know each other, they slowly put their wall down, brick by brick. But during that time, the other one (who crushed on you) slowly distant themselves from you, even unconscious. And when you put it all down, ready to jump into the cold water and do everything that people in a relationship do, the other one already experienced that and you’re left alone. You’ll build your wall up again, higher, and the whole cycle will begin again.

[@salvadorian_1640]

Exactly what I needed to hear Well see/read

[@SwIsH97r]

"You got me, but did you want to keep me?" My heaaart OMG 😭😭💔

[@Janessa020]

I really like her. She's a great actress.

[@tuyenmustbetom1]

a year later and WE STILL DON'T KNOW WHERE THE LINE GOES

[@melanienaivalunikalou4752]

😂😂😂 true mahn

[@dudulim8358]

mine's two.

[@Chelicoxib]

LMAO

[@joyce-ux1bp]

The cliffhanger I can't

[@mimioang3890]

Joyce Lian I need to know

[@dylanzlyang]

Well obviously we gotta hope for the happy ever after. But realistically, who breaks up with someone by drawing a line down? Like after that, they would just awkwardly sit there.

[@emilysanchez387]

Joyce Lian OMG I need to know please Wong Fu have another video about them in the future

[@avrillovevk2695]

Dylan Yang I'm pretty sure right before they cut the scene I saw the pen move slightly down.

[@kurimmy1188]

Joyce Lian me too

[@charm9392]

Plot twist: he's cosine and she's sine. His emotional investment will continue to decrease, but only temporarily, and she'll always be following the same pattern as him, just pi/2 love cycles behind.

[@josephndabu957]

charm9392 thank god I took trig this year so ik what that means lol

[@kaidishi9422]

Why cos is always falling?

[@SuHAibLOL]

cosine isn't always falling. The derivative of cosine is negative sine. Sine alternates from negative to positive. This would mean that cosine will sometimes be rising, and sometimes be falling.

[@mattb7450]

That was deep

[@BurtonBao]

LIKE x2030

[@kevc7942]

A beautifully crafted short film; good acting by Dia Frampton. And the ending...I get the "point." After a while we lose sight of ourselves and start taking each other for granted. The lesson: value your love and value your partner. Another excellent video.

[@megamanexe4]

The guy's a really good listener. #justsaying

[@wongfupro]

well with Dia's voice, it's easy to listen, hehe

[@PakBaluch]

The content of her speech is extraordinarily articulate and compelling as well. I wish every single person in a relationship was as effective a communicator. This is the kind of short movie that stays with you forever and you think back upon it during relevant times in your own life. Thank you for filming this incredibly amazing short movie with great actors.

[@mattb7450]

He's not the only good listener ;)

[@AB-nv7fk]

y = mx + feels

[@wongfupro]

this comment wins. bravo. Like any perfect equation.. simple, but complete. bravo.

[@jagathv5384]

Wong Fu Productions pin it! 😅

[@jrod908]

Its also called an intersection btw :D

[@christophert5271]

-------Actually it would be y = feelsx + startingfeels because the feels controls the slope and the starting feels defines what the graph started at-------- but don't mind me, I'm a cow.

[@Najiki]

U da best

[@paleleaf]

well, if this isn't exactly how my relationship just ended. thumbs up for capturing things so accurately.

[@riswimmingpool]

this could be a commercial for muji...i love those pens!

[@asthakaul]

Haha was just gonna comment that, I'm glad someone else is as obsessed with muji as me!

[@poeticjustless5897]

The best part about this video, relationship wise, is it shows communication. I know she waited a while to express her crossing paths feelings and regardless of if he went up or down at the end, they communicated their real feelings. A lot of relationships turn away or avoid these types of talks but any healthy relationship is built around trust, honesty and communication. Anyways, this was another amazing video!

[@samjoll90]

I think I am in love with *PHIL'S MIND* cough cough (and the rest of him)

[@delperez2565]

Whoever he ends up with is one lucky person.

[@mannelshah]

same here!!

[@username-fo2ov]

samantha jones May we all PHEEL Phil's PHILosophy.

[@hideyopuppers1356]

ok but all i can think about is how she didn't write the labels on the graph arggg

[@MGblank]

Sophia Wright same xD

[@chococrazd]

Sophia Wright the units....where are the units?! And THE TITLE 😱

[@procrasTINAtionpanda]

Sophia Wright I wanted some color in there

[@strawberreli]

Sophia Wright OMG same

[@aintthisright]

I wanted her to use a really thick marker.

[@btsc.17]

Wongfu back at it again with the feels 😭

[@donjustinn]

Literally me in my last relationship, but in this short I'm the girl. From the point where we crossed, I went up and she went down and we ended things. No cheating, no abuse, just her love phased out as I was still invested. She became too busy for me and could no longer make time. I was going to propose to her June of 2018. It's been 7 weeks since the breakup, but I guess everything happens for a reason...

[@DatKidRobert]

dontalks hey bro i hope you’re doing better it’s been a couple months and i hope you’re happy playing overwatch and fortnite

[@RPAY100]

The reason is you haven't met the suitable one

[@sophial7261]

Well if you guys broke up just because she was too busy for you, it was probably not a very stable relationship anyways.

[@tanchristhoper3832]

I feel you bro... i had a 10 years relationship. I also going to propose her early next year. My chart was like a lake. High low and high again. Her chart was like mountain. Low high and low again. In the end she cut our 10 years of relationship. Its painful, but i also believe everything happened for a reason.

[@anonymous-404]

Christhoper Cristian 10 years 😳 !! Sorry for you bro !

[@milkychan1]

I normally *never* comment on youtube videos, but this particular video struck an emotion that resonated strongly with me and perhaps others. My goodness. Never have I felt that this feeling that I've felt before could be articulated as clearly as this short has depicted; of gradual change in emotional capacity between two people. Sad to say, I've done what the girl has done before, but never really noticed. I slowly kept building walls that were taller and taller, after each failed relationship, to prevent myself from falling. There came a person who was just like the boyfriend in this video. Charming, intelligent, and genuine. This person even pointed out that he felt as if I had a wall up during the first few months of dating. I didn't feel like I did, but repeated conditioning of experiencing regret through failed relationships causes one to automatically have walls up by default. So to me, having walls up 24/7 was as automatic as breathing, so I never noticed. I let my walls fall for this person. He was the first person in a while to make me feel a certain way I haven't felt before. Then as the girlfriend pointed out, the emotional investment from the other decreased as my trajectory increased. This is what I explicitly remember feeling and felt as though we were at a point where things would deteriorate. Things continued to fall, and we tried working things out, but it just wasn't ever the same. We did end up breaking up though, which put me through some shitty days, but hey, that's reality sometimes.

[@TI2OY]

You should watch Strangers, Again if you haven't already!

[@Cristbw]

??????????????

[@Mohamed-ev8ij]

A. C. Dayuuuum for u being the "I don't want to comment" person that u are, ur comments are soooo fuuucking looooong

[@milkychan1]

@ Troy Never knew Wong Fu was ahead of their time even back in 2011. The tolerating phase hit me the hardest. Great video though. Thanks for the suggestion :). @ HAMOOD It was just compelling :). I did try to condense my thoughts, but in the end, it still came out rather long, hah.

[@FrankBell]

hahahahahahaha

[@multifandomarmyandexo-l2871]

Wong Fu......this is so good!!!! It depicts a common theme in relationships. Although it is common, you presented it in a unique and new way, through a different perspective that takes the situation deeper and more meaningful. Professionals at there best, keep up the good work Wong Fu.

[@nicejob6632]

I remember seeing this video when I needed it the most during my high school puppy love. I’m in college now and it never fails to be there for me when I need it. This video holds a special place in my heart, forever and always. I’m glad I’m not alone with this experience

[@straysheep5312]

If you are in a relationship and the "interest" diminishes, then you shouldn't be in a relationship at all. "There is a difference between interest and commitment. When you are interested in something, you do it only when it's convenient. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results." *Kenneth H. Blanchard*

[@TheRaphaPower]

no the infatuation will eventually diminish. People take that as love. But it's easy to be infatuated. True love comes in when you invest each and every day into your significant other. Even when you don't feel like it and even when it's hard. True love is being there for them despite anything and that happens when you invest your time into them. Just because the infatuation diminished doesn't mean something amazing can't grow. It's a choice we all have to make.

[@bensonq]

Man that overhead shot though.

[@doTHEuncleSAM]

bensonq man, you though ;)

[@NikhilKanamarla]

Agreed!

[@khhthuiting]

bensonq did you take a shot to take that shot😂?

[@69SpringWater]

2/10 graph - no title - no labeled axis - no scale - no R^2 value

[@cactusspark1724]

And unit

[@marlc24]

Tears after tears. My heart aches for all of those experiencing this kind of heartache.

[@cchuiyen]

"doesn't matter to me." "I want it to matter to you."

[@cees7607]

Muji Pens are the best

[@NormalGadgetLab]

I didn't notice but yes!!!

[@عمارتيسير-ب7م]

SQa zda

[@evelynf1364]

Wow, this was so well-written, acted out and filmed. Wong Fu acing it again :)

[@favoritenumber4]

Legit drew that graph to my ex before. Most relatable video I've ever watched.

[@wongfupro]

seriously? wow, did it look similar??

[@joshmdmd]

If you drew the lines, you're admitting you never had as much invested in the other person. The other person's been waiting for you to commit 0-100 but you never got there. Don't be so guarded.

[@SuperUngidGaming]

Well, they did say ex. You could say that it crossed a looong time ago.

[@favoritenumber4]

Some people take time :) But I agree, had I been able to open up faster maybe it would've worked, or maybe if he'd been more understanding to my situation. Either way, it ended well!

[@massun5835]

I come back here again and again. It’s 2023, and I cry every time.

[@blazingfish5573]

I really enjoyed that cliff hanger, it was good because it took the story away from the characters showing that they weren't the important part, but the moral was.

[@ricardogalvan7029]

This video was a banger, great portrayal of different perspectives! I bet a lot will relate to this.

[@steevsuos1196]

Relationships is handwork...everyday. Married 15 yrs here with the same girl. I see her every day the way I saw her the first day...

[@kassey9475]

Wow...

[@yamadaHSJ]

loved the cliffhanger! as much as I wanted him to draw the line up, sometimes you just have to be honest and leave the relationship now before you hurt the other person even more... 😞

[@ablinkan8818]

and why did you assume he draw down.

[@yamadaHSJ]

I'm not assuming. I didn't mean to make it sound that way, either way we have to accept it is all i'm trying to say. :/

[@sheydak4483]

In a way I feel like the feelings that start at the top are always bound to fall.

[@mansigupta5665]

I always rewatch these few short films and fall in love with love all over again.

[@0onarcissisto0]

I look forward to the day I meet a woman who can express herself this eloquently and with such self-respect. Someone who can fight for our relationship by reminding me of what we've invested, what we mean to each other, without coming off as argumentative or confrontational. I have yet to meet her but when I do, I hope our lines do cross...but stay parallel from that moment onward.

[@cassiebanks]

The only place you're going to find that is through someone that watches Wong Fu videos. LOL! I don't think it's as easy as "staying" invested in a relationship. A relationship is where you go to balance out all the hard work you put into your career/job. If your first inclination isn't to spend time with your significant other to enjoy some chill time or to celebrate your accomplishments, what you need to make the long haul isn't there. Just my opinion.

[@kaessey]

I think that's why @0onarcissisto0 want their lines cross but STAY :)

[@charlieshin9868]

0onarcissisto0 get in line

[@0onarcissisto0]

Carrie Zhang I get your point but I value balance more than anything. It could be the opposite where she starts out more invested in me. In the end, I'd rather have things pretty equal. But that's just my opinion.

[@cassiebanks]

+Name - I don't deny that yes, sometimes you just need a few hours by yourself or a night out with the girls, but I was reacting more to the visual of the video. In this relationship, the guy has pretty much fallen into his tech and the purpose of the graph she's drawing is showing him the increase in the instances he's choosing tech over human interaction. A lot of couples were brought up to think dating is the place where you sell your wares instead of really getting to know whether someone can meet your needs. I know really needy people who need social interaction all the time and I know people like me who are more home/family types who value just spending time together. The message of the video to me was to be bold enough to realize that even though you've put a year into a relationship, actions speak louder than words. It's like watching body language to tell if someone is lying. They may think they are being honest, but intent speaks volumes that lip service could never cover. You can tell if someone cherishes you or if you're just there because they can't stand being alone.

[@violetray96]

Is a point where relationship starts to get comfortable with each other. You don't expect the lovely, romantic feelings last forever but you just enjoy each other presence without saying anything sweet or romantic.

[@famousamos]

Can't hold all these feels.

[@lisahuynh4798]

Honestly I feel like this happens with a lot of friendships too and it makes me really sad.

[@DerWonMusics]

Lisa Huynh So true. Feeling both scenarios atm

[@nk4uj]

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS EVERY SINCE SNAPCHAT

[@RichardLaiRTL]

Gaonukou *ever

[@dster7413]

I feel like this is my relationship And i hate the feeling of losing her But i dont know how long i can keep going on like this Not feeling loved by the one i love

[@sophial7261]

You want to know how long you can keep going like this? if you're that dependent on other people to be happy, nvm

[@victoralvarado5767]

Well you’re screwed

[@khawlchingngaihte9744]

Phil writes most of the romanitic shorts and yet he's single, I'm sensing something.

[@missjennpark]

Ahhh I don't think he's single... sad ;(

[@khawlchingngaihte9744]

missjennpark really? tell me more

[@anotherdanielle2918]

tbh i feel like Phil has been in a relationship but he just doesn't let on... lol

[@missjennpark]

anotherDanielle I confess I did some intense IG stalking....only to confirm Phil isn't single lol

[@khawlchingngaihte9744]

missjennpark oh myy

[@adrianv8285]

Came for feels, left with cliffhanger. Feelsbadman

[@thisismyname8621]

Looks to me like he went down

[@iSkates21]

Adrian Vo the line went up, the first scene is present day and the entire story is a flashback

[@MeDaK2ZAKON]

No,the first scene is one month into their relationship.. The entire story is told after several months,or even years..

[@lea9977]

I remember coming across WongFu years ago when I was dating my first love on and off for 3 years. A lot of their shorts hit home on what I felt, or what I feared would happen, and I would try to get him to watch it to understand how I felt. Naturally we parted ways, and it has been years now, but these shorts, whether they're newly made or from a few years ago, bring back memories of when we both were together, and I wanted so badly for him to not drift away.

[@DerWonMusics]

E S It's sad but true. You can't force it tho. Sucks and now more relatable as ever 😩

[@lea9977]

DerWonMusics It is no hard feelings. Learned many great lessons and now am married with our first child.

[@Marc_Takahashi]

I don't know why, but this feels like the Wong Fu videos I grew up with, the reason why I watch them. It's crazy to see how much Wong Fu has grown and, in essence, how much I've grown. Thank you Wong Fu for creating what you create.

[@teefahlah]

tears roll down my face. THIS IS TOO REAL MY HEART CAN'T HANDLE IT

[@Rosumisorimu]

I find more value in Wong Fu shorts than in 99% of Hollywood movies I've ever watched. I do not mean to insult any movie studio/industry, I am just expressing my honest opinion. Brilliant short!

[@heartandseoull2352]

Love isn't always a feeling... love is a choice we have to make every day. Love is the intentional act of putting the one we love before anything else... even when the first passions subside.

[@AyanamiRei5kyu]

so i guess this does happen to a lot of relationships not just me... maybe i was immature but when i got together with my first boyfriend it was exactly like this and i just couldn't cope with the fact that his emotional investment was so high in the beginning and just dropped somewhere along the way... i felt neglected and unfair that he showed me so much love and affection and i put down my defensive walls and doubts and made me love him but then his interest just seemed to fade... he said he loved me the same or even more and maybe that was true but i just felt the opposite... it's difficult to balance out each other's investment but if a relationship is meant to last i'm sure it's just another obstacle you will overcome

[@DerWonMusics]

AyanamiRei5kyu Just broke up yesterday and this feels so real. Just the other way around. It is how it is right

[@korntrtl]

Been watching WongFu videos since they were being uploaded on some other site before KZbin existed. It's been almost a decade I think. And still I find myself putting these videos in my watch later for weeks or months at a time. They hit so hard and ring so true they feel like those inevitable conversations in a relationship you avoid even though you know everything will be better if you just bite the bullet and talk it out. I always feel more enlightened after watching these videos and yet still find myself scared to watch them immediately because of the impact it will have on my life. Thank you for constantly creating top quality content that withstands the test of time. Thank you for creating a dialogue.

[@wongfupro]

Thank you for sticking with us for so long. Sorry we create such anxiety in your life! haha. Hopefully the comedy sketches even things out. Hope to have you for another decade!

[@rachaellair8471]

That ending though 😭😆

[@arinaayub1570]

This is what i miss! From the title I knew its a philip wang project!

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

Damn, it hit me. Can't help my tears. :'( I could really relate to the girl so much because I've been in that situation too. And unfortunately even until now, I still don't find the answers to that questions.

[@teelyt5637]

WONG FU!!!! Thank you for such another beautiful story!!! I was part of the skype conversations with Phil and it is so good to see the ideas and stories we shared come to life, The line "Did you not want to keep me" totally got me😢..... some much feeeels. I wonder what way the graph went....and I wonder what made his line go down... usually when emotions change that way it could be external factors like work or just the person in question going through some internal conflict, I find a relationship can be better saved when people talk through the tough situations as they laughed through the good times. Also sometimes we do need to work things out ourselves to keep our relationships healthy, but whilst we do that, we can at least let the person we're doing life with know that it is nothing to do with them, we just need some time to figure things out so we can be a better version of ourselves.

[@lizamarie6092]

I expected that ending but was still shocked. I GOT TO KNOW!!

[@p.9667]

I don't know how but Wong Fu has always managed to release a short with the exact things I'm feeling in the exact moment I need it. They have this power to say things that I can't or don't know how to say and have such a soft and calm way of saying things. I honestly can't watch a short without tearing up because their work touched my heart so much. Thank you, Wong Fu.

[@trash4055]

That pen works really well

[@acertainlustforlife]

sweetishbts It's from Muji!!!!

[@leonzhang8675]

Wongfu needs to keep on making more of these vids. LIKE PLEASE THE FEELS ARE SO REAL

[@vibotx]

I watch this like 20 time already, and still watching, it was so well done.

[@gochujong]

Of course. Another amazingly touching film by Philip Wang! A beautiful, yet simple concept and perfectly executed!

[@pullingakatherine]

WOAH. ROMANTIC/SERIOUS WONGFU OUT OF NO WHERE! I'm still recovering from the BGA song and you guys drop this bomb on me. Beautifully written and stunningly shot as always. Certainly made it to the top of my favourite WongFu lists for sure.

[@pwangs]

Wong Fu always keeping you on your toes ;P

[@moonlightphantomplays76]

When 10 minute KZbin videos are better love stories than Twilight..........

[@roye6961]

twilight isnt a love story

[@monicaelias]

plot twist: he stabs her with the pen

[@yueqing666]

Monica Ellis I love these two comments

[@WorldoftheNebulous]

Hahaha! I was just eating during that scene and said to myself as he picked up the pen "and then he stabs her with it." Oops.

[@kkkevv224]

a pineapple pen?

[@Cody425]

Kevin Vu pineapple

[@iamtekkengod4644]

Monica Ellis lmao!!

[@serenachan4762]

this literally is my life right now... thank you wongfu for letting me see things differently

[@nurazira3331]

The script is soooo good and relatable. It made me feel as though I’m watching my own failed relationship 😭 It transported me back in time.

[@bradebronson8835]

The pen ran out of ink.

[@debbiefullard8977]

AMAZING ENDING

[@LLLadySSS]

It's a muji pen. There was still ink so no lmao

[@jermiony]

THIS IS PERFECT. THE SCRIPT IS PERFECT! HOW CAN YOU ASSESS AND DESCRIBE LIFE AND EMOTION IN SUCH A PERFECT WAY?

[@Stufwgbkuvsqfvuivdwg]

1:18 Him-"Whatever you want. Doesn't matter to me" Her-"I want it to matter to you" GURL no. When he says that it means that he doesn't want his preference to influence what you want (in case they conflict). That's why he says "Whatever you want" before saying "It doesn't matter to me". It doesn't mean that he doesn't care about the party or you in general. In fact it means that he cares about you and your mental wellbeing, that's why he's being considerate. Besides that, this is an amazing film really. This demonstrates a real problem that really happens in relationships. What a gem.

[@efrainsaucedo3134]

S that could be the case, the manner in which he said it was quite cold though.

[@ZimmyTatro]

after the crossing point, they're moving forward as a single line together :) because at that stage of the relationship, we should communicate as one and have a thinking like one.

[@annavu4096]

This has been the most relatable video to me that Wong fu has ever made!!! OMMGGGGG

[@lancecaparasvideos]

It’s been about two years since this video came out. It’s one of the videos I haven’t watched and the first time I’m watching it is after one of my first hard breakups. This hits home so badly rn because I’m the girl in this situation. Props to Wong Fu for all they do!

[@19misshappiness]

Crying a lot watching this video. Thank you Wong Fu for creating such a beautiful way to explained exactly what I'm feeling right now about my relationship. I'm literally at that crossing point right now and not sure where my boyfriend's heading with this situation and I bet he didn't know what I've been feeling all the way through :( Sending him this video in hope he will draw the same line with mine. Thank you Wong Fu once again, for all your beautiful videos, beautiful people, and heartfelt stories.

[@Aldocaldo123]

Violet Dahlia look up strangers again from them that might be a good one for you

[@19misshappiness]

Thank you for the kind suggestion, already watched it before, but now I'm going to re-watch it again :')

[@aRchLee7]

Violet Dahlia if you're in a mature relationship, instead of focusing of where the line he'll draw, you need to understand that at the crossing point, a couple should TALK as it must be not comfortable to one party (mostly the girl's). By TALKING, you don't confront to him that you want that butterflies in your stomach kind of relationship but you confront your insecurity due to his attitude lately. people change and grow to a mature relationship where working overtime focusing on career is the new sign of love instead of those night time love texts. the attitude towards each other might change but the level of love is something you need to question. Women tend to measure the level of love by the attitude towards them but is that the right measurement? Try to coordinate your mind and heart together to feel his attitude cos heart solely could be easilly fooled.

[@codyfan4070]

Love is an action. Not an emotion

[@dtheman2012]

Beautiful. This is one of the best shorts the channel has made. Good Job.

[@xosunshineoxsunshine436]

Phenomenal premise and great acting . This happens quite often a lot of relationships and have never seen it explained and the idea to show it with a chart and just the lines of the script and what was said and how it was explained very well was great❤😊

[@Ricecrackerz]

DID YOU GUYS SEE THE END, IT LOOKED LIKE THE GUY WENT DOWN!!

[@RatioVII]

it looks to me like he going straight forward together

[@toniamark]

I saw that too. I hope it would go straight but I saw *that* motion

[@minilme]

You're right!! It went down!!

[@lizziechin2162]

Ultimate cliff hang

[@JqiOng]

the line went up! cuz in the beginning the guy clearly was still with her 1 month AFTER her birthday!

[@haip01]

Idk why, but i'm expecting the comedy version of this from David So

[@kieren024]

Hai Pham YES PLEASE! (how to tag David So?)

[@nutellalatte7522]

Hai Pham tweet him and dm David this idea, omg😂😂😂

[@papermelon]

This is literally the most beautiful short film I have ever seen.

[@TrickorTriett]

Man this made me tear up because this is what happened between my ex and I. I chased after her for a little over 5 years throughout high school and the start of college. It took me that long to win her over, and she went from ignoring all my messages to face-timing me every night. For me, I went the opposite way and started to become more distant. I didn't realize how much I truly cared until we broke up, but I'm happy to say that I at least realized what was going on and am now able to turn things back around. We reached a crossing point, but that doesn't mean we can't change how the lines continue on:)

[@GabrielaCenturionNeumann]

So are you changing how the lines go?

[@TrickorTriett]

For now, I'm trying to but only time will tell whether or not they actually change

[@GabrielaCenturionNeumann]

TrickorTriett Well, I wish you both the best whatever the outcome may be... I wish you both true love and the happiness that comes with it, whether it is with each other or not.

[@DragonRider520]

TrickorTriett you chased her for 5 years?? How long as she your girlfriend for?

[@yumeshinoroi2731]

What was the reason why you went the opposite way?