CUT THEM COLD - DO NOT EXPLAIN YOURSELF

[@YouTubeOverrated]

Some people don't understand that sitting in your own house alone in peace, eating snacks and minding your business is just priceless

[@PatrickBatticeKN]

I know right. 😅

[@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l]

Heaven on Earth.

[@nightowl6811]

100% correct, age 51 in excellent health condition, my only son now 21 doing his thing, I'm glad I never wanted to get married, I've had a great life. Single by choice cuz all modern day women ain't worth 1 penny or my time. So many couples going through domestic violence at the moment. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thedoghouse8900]

Exactly what I’m doing right now I’m my bb beige balenciaga pants. About to do some push-ups and pull-ups to build my upper body frame so I can look like Kazuya or king in tekken while wearing my balenciagas with my black diesel tshirt tucked . I refuse to look like every other average male. And working on a high level management certification .

[@marktiltins8845]

Bliss

[@Stoicambition93]

A lot of people don’t deserve an explanation, continue to become the best version of yourself.

[@RandyBaker87]

Terry, you are spot on. When you're around messy toxic people, leave their asses behind and preserve your peace and mental health

[@nathan8418]

"Don't let people use you as their emotional tampon." Well said

[@onononmememe6514]

That was definitely most of my ex's 😂

[@ZE308AC]

Send that energy back 10 fold

[@MeatSuit-1926]

It’s true I’m being emotionally manipulated right now as we speak these goofs really and truly are persistent and all for the wrong reasons there’s persistence in doing good by walking away from all forms of corruption/evil and then theirs persistence involving corruption and evil!

[@MrHDProd]

Don’t trust people. Your best friend can switch up on you 💯💯

[@mo4meh]

happen to me i knew bro from grade k all the way up to graduation and he blocked me on everything but i was always told there loss cause i’m a great guy

[@reginapatten2973]

Be your own best friend

[@Steve-q3b1s]

You are so correct! I thought that I was close with this coworker for 10 years once I left got another job I remained in contact but they never reached out.. We were close so I thought never again will I make a friend at work again..

[@lasseharbitz9506]

Better to be alone than hanging around with people who pull you down. No guilt. Better to be free and lonely.

[@Smartbeautifulawesome]

I don’t even think people are lonely…some of these people are out partying being wacky

[@kisigma1011]

@@Smartbeautifulawesome dont forget setting ppl up for death spell & curses they got to do the devil bidden while having fun, i hate these ppl

[@dopescorpio]

Alone but not lonely...

[@a1pha_star]

If you're friends with a real one, protect them and keep them close! So many fake people these days...

[@speedy_rider4759]

Unless their part of the problem.

[@k1ndr3dspirits]

@@speedy_rider4759 A real one by definition would not be a problem. They’re the kind of people you ride or die with.

[@mo4meh]

@@k1ndr3dspiritsmom & lil bro 🤝🏼

[@Steve-q3b1s]

You are so right I honestly don’t think a true friend exists

[@mike45blue]

Took a car crash for me to realize that, surrounded by fakes, gas lighting me. I thought I was the problem for so long, turns out I saw the love in the end. This summer is a new me.

[@mo4meh]

stay up king 🙏🏼

[@SuperReasonabledoubt]

It's a social world filled with landmines...don't move towards others too quick...

[@Roseberrylove]

My path and purpose is to be a good mother and wife. Woman.

[@escherichiacoli7069]

Thank you for understanding ❤

[@iCockaine]

@@escherichiacoli7069 yet you can't, you have social media

[@moonwvlf6919]

This has been my biggest weakness my entire life ... I feel bad for people and want to help ... They don't care about you ... They don't care about themselves ... Learn to treat them accordingly

[@mo4meh]

if they can’t help themself they can’t help others so i stop putting that love into the ones that struggle because i never get love in return

[@ceez3317]

As soon as I get a hint of toxic/narcissistic traits I cut ties with that person immediately doesn’t matter who it is

[@hesthe_KING]

You’re actually a narc for discarding based on feeling. What if it’s just what your own projections and assumptions and isn’t based in truth.

[@mo4meh]

@@hesthe_KINGbecause you will know the feeling if it’s happen to you and jesus will tell you

[@hesthe_KING]

@@mo4meh that’s what a narc would say.

[@mo4meh]

@@hesthe_KING i’ll pray for you man someone or something has shifted your train of thought and not for the better 🙏🏼🫶🏼

[@MrXbox36022]

I know i do. They start moving funny, playing games, I stop what I'm doing and walk away

[@mo4meh]

best decision now they will take them games elsewhere

[@Ghost960RedBull]

Peoples are wrong about what they think of others and miss judging a lot

[@mo4meh]

they do more assuming then questioning that’s why there’s more hate in the judgment then anything

[@Redgloves87]

People's eyes are not opened.. Only the true light changes that.⛪

[@DaisyRoseAzalee]

Agreed Agreed Agreed. Whatever you say can and will be used against you

[@tennbones]

You figured it out about 30 years before me lol. At 53 I damn well figured it out finally though! Single and love it.

[@mo4meh]

i’m 19 so i’ll make up for it for you my man 🫶🏼

[@johnmoran7996]

Well said.just walk away!

[@fightingwarrior5893]

Yup and when you’re a real one and you go around them. You get those mean mugs and looks because you wake them up to reality and they realize how delusional they really are.

[@mo4meh]

man i had some people i called “friends” begin to hate me just cause i got up and got a job

[@Uknown291]

bro is like a brother from another mother he just giving out tough love

[@mo4meh]

tough love is what turn boys into Men and we need more of that in today’s society spec young men like me where i never had a father in my life

[@booberryjackson]

scary world we live in it gets harder everyday but only for the good i live alone

[@terenceboris851]

Terry is the Buddha.

[@garycummings6709]

Like Narcissists become police officers!

[@hr3800]

Cluster B police Hunts the gifted ones..

[@dominusbalial835]

Yeah that's actually the exact type of job a Narcissistic person would be attracted too, one where they have power and authority above that of a normal person. Which they probably just think they inherently deserve because they're themselves. Which makes them highly motivated to actually accomplish that choice. Psychopaths and Narcissists also co-operate with one another and work together with one another extremely well. The psychopaths are actually living in reality too they're just goal orientated and will plow over you to get too it.

[@datdapgotskip]

Complete horror show. A family worst nightmare. Correct they want position of power. Definitely in the 9to5. Its a pandemic.

[@Smartbeautifulawesome]

That’s not it. Police officers are a noble and good job. I realized that after working at a non profit the crime is so bad out here

[@garycummings6709]

@@Smartbeautifulawesome 😂🤧🤣😂😭 they are the most evil people we have on earth! Educate yourself in the occult. Only the gullible believe the police are good. Only a chosen one will understand this. Best wishes 🙏

[@dominusbalial835]

it's crazy that people would rather dedicate resources towards trying to prevent you from becoming a better person instead of investing energy into themselves to make themselves better so they can get to your level without harming you lol. They just want to hurt people honestly they don't want to make themselves better they want to make other people feel worse.

[@mo4meh]

and that’s just sad because this worlds amazing idk why u don’t wanna see other people achieve there goals & dreams but instead they wanna tear u down to there lvl if not lower

[@marciaaaron6044]

Im 24 and I consider myself ahead of most people like I just went to the supermarket and most people be like staring to strangers , old man trying to be funny for stranger, and me I just spoke directly to the butcher to get the meat. Like I don’t be fucking around and I’m young, but some old people be acting like clowns in places that aren’t party with your friends they be giving a lot of energy to strangers that’s bad mindset . Like eye contact is already draining even animals know this but some humans be staring talking bs cause they can’t just act by themselves like a strong individual.

[@timothyhight9588]

Where did you go to school? Your grammar is pretty bad.

[@marciaaaron6044]

@@timothyhight9588 brazil I speak Portuguese

[@timothyhight9588]

@@marciaaaron6044 that explains alot.

[@mikepiccolo32]

​@@timothyhight9588Would you consider taking Lizzo out to the Taco Bell?

[@mo4meh]

human contact isn’t bad sometimes tho but i do very little contact when i’m out but my grandpa is one them older people but that’s just cause he knows he don’t have much time left so there isn’t any reason he needs to be serious anymore he’s just relaxing and goofin till the after life because he’s just a great guy that will sometimes talk someone and completely make there day 🫶🏼

[@dominusbalial835]

Everyday partially because of your content I feel better and better with myself as a human being.

[@xzettxhabenx3389]

The problem with the fun is that it distracts you and almost completely removes you from your reality. You need to face reality and make excellent decisions from there in order for you to grow and see positive change in your life. Clearly, especially with social media, people are so distracted and then when shet hits the fan and they realize they have been ignoring their crises this entire time- they have no skills, network or confidence to even tackle them. This is where the miserable haters come from: people who didn‘t want to ackowledge reality and face their life‘s challenges head-on and instead live a life of pleasure only to turn around and see it did nothing good for them.

[@therandomhamster0076]

I’m 22 and literally have no friends remaining. Got away from all of them and have made 4 years of progress in 7 months. Life is radio silent and 100% peaceful.

[@AntoneMika]

Wow man, it’s like you got just the video for me each day

[@NolimitIzzo]

All true chosen ones are connected…. Trippy huh?

[@mo4meh]

the lord what’s you to hear these videos so you don’t lose hope 🫶🏼

[@mo4meh]

@@NolimitIzzoreal know real 🤝🏼 i think it’s pretty cool more then trippy lol 🫶🏼

[@AntoneMika]

@@NolimitIzzo fucking is dude, same wavelength shit

[@Wayne-e5p]

The juice is changing people rapidly

[@Bizkitlove]

great vid,great topic,wise sentiment,i'm there,have been for ages,cleansed so many out of my life,but there always a new narc lurking around every corner,gotta stay alert at all times.get's easier over time once you don't respond to fools even though they never stop trying tp bait you.

[@TheLectureRoom]

there are people who like to entertain themselves at other people’s expense…

[@Atkreality]

Thanks for sharing. I grew up being able to sense people’s energy but I didn’t understand it until I recently learned I’ve been surrounded by very toxic people who’ve caused me mental health issues and low self confidence!!

[@Mystiphy11]

Thank you so much for your service to humanity.

[@px9068]

Yep, Karpman Drama Triangle. Self-proclaimed victimhood, learned helplessness.

[@OJCHIMPSON]

This video is sent from the Heavens.

[@kaptainwarp]

I went through this at max setting last December

[@mo4meh]

and now your leveling up in life 🫶🏼

[@CrackheadEnergy420]

I learned this the hard way. Wish I had realised this sooner.

[@johnjennings9693]

I knew it as well but unfortunately I ignored my intuition,at a cost, thanks for the video,

[@Madosatoshist]

Haters are your biggest fans. They watch you, they're always there for you, talk about you 24/7 !

[@suzystone244]

Hi Terry. Just getting ready for a 9 day housesitting for my friends. They are going to a family reunion in Wyoming. I get to play with three little dogs. I'm HAPPY as ..... yup. Total peace.❤

[@jamestitman1857]

It's extremely frustrating when a person puts in years worth of effort into growth. And then falls back into old bad habits I almost said fuck it because I hate working so hard to almost get nowhere

[@Breggo1]

I think trauma dumping is fine. The problem, like complaining, is that most people are not working towards fixing those issues and end up just creating negativity together. Its always good to have people to share things with. Its also important to move forward as a solid team if possible.

[@mo4meh]

facts who wants to stay in one spot or move backwards i and many others want to stay moving forward with that tunnel vision on there goals & dreams

[@karenq.9571]

Right on! Excellent advice!

[@qwanathomas735]

They are doing to you, what someone else is doing to them, they allow it, it's up to you to not allow it. Just let them go under, save yourself the grief and walk away.

[@mo4meh]

which is sad because i never snooped to my past relationships lvl i just left the wrath to god because that’s what the bible says 🫶🏼

[@NsaneATL]

im an addict and honestly… i wouldnt stay around me too long… explains why my family and friends got ghost on me

[@PansAdversaries]

The guy isn't right about everything but he gets to the main point and means well. I've been an addict on many things as well, but I always tell the truth, I don't mess with people, I'm real, I never give up and fight for everything. Everyone has a different life and being addicted doesn't mean you aren't strong. Many important people in life have had addictions. Sometimes you don't even want to be addicted to things and are unaware of it but it happens. Or sometimes you have such harsh conditions that you do it. I doubt he'd call the people in the military back in the day who got addicted to drugs to cope. I do think though, these "narcs" who are addicted plus being narcs is even worse. They're more irritable on top of being sneaky and lying, manipulating, harassing. Keep going strong lad.

[@Trump2024asw]

You've admitted to it that's half the fight. I've been sober more than a year it gets easier.

[@escherichiacoli7069]

Remember bro, you are just one decision away from a completely different life... Your choice. Choose wisely ❤

[@WildWhiskersOutdoors]

The fact that you admit this is proof that you're on your way to bettering yourself. Get sober, bro. You owe it to yourself to improve your quality of life. You 100% CAN do it. Stay honest with yourself. 🤜🤛

[@nathan8418]

You're honest with yourself and can see the picture for what it is. You're ready to quit the BS.

[@jemz4555]

You're spot on, good on you for figuring this out at a young age 👏

[@caco.ent_]

I did exactly as the title describes & trust me guys you will feel so much better pressing the block button Edit: nevermind 2 days later after doing it i slowly started feeling more & more shit. Please give closure if you knew eachother somewhat well. I unblocked her to do it & immediately blocked again so now i can sleep with a clear conscious

[@mo4meh]

even if u just go cold without blocking them they will block you because they can’t feed off you anymore because you where feeding there dopamine of them bumming off you and you where draining yourself even being around them 🫶🏼

[@dopescorpio]

Some people cant be alone because their own mind is their worst enemy. They need the constant distraction that other people bring.

[@rubyruby7573]

Yep Terrorist Groups Love These People

[@adam.hollobon]

The king speaks the truth, yet again

[@charlesblerzbo1616]

This is 100% spot on.

[@justinromang9113]

TRUTH_ _love_ *wisdom ; guidance ; strength ; shield* _LOVE_ truth

[@gracerules2008]

I understand your point about not getting close to addicts who don't want to change. You can be civil with them if you run into them at a public event but you just won't invite them into your personal space.

[@carlurbananimals]

I've been cut off so many times but I don't mind that I disregard most people anyway, it's when they always come back to me to check that it gets annoying

[@ronaldjeremysiciliano9804]

I'm Strong 😎💪💯 Kayne West - Stronger

[@mikegee8345]

terryjoeljunior, you speak truth sir

[@lonnierashid6812]

Sometimes surgery is necessary!

[@kjbirdwatcher]

Joel! I wanted this video from you and I cold-cut earlier this week. 😁 WoooOoo ✂️ now I feel like i cut the velvet rope back into my own world. No more trying to build up these people, sharing great advice with them, so they can tell me about mundane bs, all their problems, over and over and the goals they never intend to reach! I’m done! They don’t listen. Class dismissed.

[@mo4meh]

agreed i love what you said here 🙏🏼🫶🏼

[@kennethhall9202]

I need peace In my life

[@didymos2200]

Throw out the carbage! 🔥

[@sylviamjames]

God bless n Jesus 🕊️❤️🕊️

[@sylviamjames]

Man, stay close to God Almighty! Never mind what people say, your family members only God can see what’s happening. He really is the only one that knows the heart. So really, there is only so much. You can endure. God took the bad away from me cigarettes, drink bad thoughts about people that do not appreciate me. So now I can forgive them freely n whole heartily. So yes, no one needs to explain unless, the Lord brings it together. God bless, everyone going through whatever it is…. ♥️🙏

[@maryfowler7507]

Amen amen and again I say amen 🙏🏼. I was held back a long time by toxic people it ruined my entire life. But no no no more I have cut them off just recently I feel so so so much better. And yes it is because I didn’t want to be alone but I learned I’d rather be alone. Yessss the narcs suck everything. My brother is a narc my father. Some of my exes were.

[@emeryjones8050]

So wise

[@Titan79_G]

Its almost you talk about my situation right now, I normally lock in into Solo Isolation from whole world, I am drained....

[@JennifersJourney-pp9me]

Terry u r so right thanks for your words of wisdom I appreciate you 😊

[@TheGoddessOracle.]

Thank you for this💜

[@KINGNIPSEY33]

Have seen you in a minute bro💯🎯🔥 Good job

[@Mystiphy11]

This may be your best video man much love ❤

[@marlonelias]

He’s good looking!.!.

[@StarlightChakraz]

Get those scissors ✂️ 😮

[@jmobrawler]

Thanks!

[@Hunter2847]

You have to make them understand……what you do is lay out the scenario and make them give you reasons why you would continue down that path. You ask the questions…..they can never answer. I tell them I’ll be here when they’re ready

[@jujukimOG7933]

Agreed and thank u !

[@maryfowler7507]

Love your shirt terry you look great. Love you terry as well lol 😆

[@Jane93meow]

What you’re describing is a shift in consciousness spiritually speaking. Once you’re on the path to soul evolution, you become exponentially more sensitive to energy which I think you are obviously a lot more sensitive to energy than most people. Perhaps this explains why so many people are fine staying in bad energy toxic situations. But once you level up in consciousness and spiritually expand, it’s impossible to ever feel normal around people again who are no longer at that level nor care to be. Too many people can’t be alone, but it’s far worse being around energy vampires.

[@jyudat4433]

Mai guy 👊

[@Mystiphy11]

The funny thing is the person effecting you the most is yourself.

[@shaneclinger5888]

Also, you don't want to explain yourself to these kinds of people because it allows a dialogue where they can manipulate, Word salad, Project and blame shift you more.

[@mo4meh]

yes they think the door for them is still open in your life when in reality the only thing open is the window slightly now and they either have to walk away or crawl in that window but things won’t be the same either way 🫶🏼

[@koraho8924]

keep it up bro

[@DreIngram-g8k]

GD MORNING

[@onononmememe6514]

It's crazy in my home town here in Australia. While I am focusing on a relationship with God and becoming the best version of myself, I really don't fit in with the crowd because most are into heavy drinking, vaping, smoking, drug use, obsessed with getting tattoos and piercings and this town has now got four brothels and, it's just toxic worldly lifestyles all around this town. I'm grateful that there are some good churches I go to and the select few friends I allow to stay in my life are Godly people only.

[@iramak4195]

I agree but sometimes it depends like its a avoidant ofc like avoidants are messed up they ignire you leave and once they are ignored they come back its situation based like the girl (ex) girl i was gettig over her and messed me up and then after a weeek of doing better she callled me to be friends its crazy work. like rn im trying the most adn she not and its just falling apart so im just taking a step back cause i already invested my amount she has to do hers. (sorry i didnt put commas).

[@Joe-br4ww]

💯

[@naomi-o2c]

I work in the 1% matrix I have to worry about what others think and I can't just cut off everyone.

[@milkshakeplease4696]

Pride, as the saints have often taught, is the illusion of self-sufficiency, the belief that one is the originator of one's own existence, abilities, and worth, independent of God's grace and providence. It is the turning away from the source of our being and our sustenance, leading us to believe that we are like gods unto ourselves. This delusion, as alluring as it may seem, distances us from the true wellspring of life and joy, which is found only in God.

[@gokhancevik6648]

Hello my brother, how are you... Greetings...

[@mo4meh]

amazing wbu brotha man

[@justinromang9113]

............ --lEVAL ------- devolutE | evolutE

[@djnquire]

Good video bro!

[@abdulc5726]

Alot of people are just looking to take your energy

[@williamgrahamify]

Your so bad ass let's all tribe up live on land love

[@kennethhall9202]

I went no contact yesterday third time in 3 months I’m on a roll not putting up with it any more bye bye 😮

[@Postermaestro]

most of u guys just checking out instead of working towards high value. point going straight over your heads. digging deep and grinding is not the same as sitting alone in your corner pretending you're winning.

[@Charlieboyfragrance]

This is every guy who goes through child support , nobody cares that your life was just ripped from you, your kids and money for 18 yrs , you let everything go....if your a grown man you really don't need friends..

[@LaLa888-i4u]

🔥❤️‍🔥🔥

[@Smartbeautifulawesome]

I’m not fat and I’m sorry I would not date papi chulo mulo…insanity. I wish them well. Yes everyone is toxic in their own way and hope everyone finds a person that fits them. They should never stalk someone at a job that’s so embarrassing

[@justinromang9113]

nICE - sHIRt

[@mo4meh]

i did fw the T also 🤣🫶🏼

[@justinromang9113]

Angelo Kelly - The Drugs Don't Work

[@justinromang9113]

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[@mo4meh]

no you should know what your soul needs over your fleshy body 🙏🏼🫶🏼

[@dominusbalial835]

I really have to eat better personally. both eating more and eating more healthily, it's actually getting a little bit economically unaffordable to eat healthy in my area of canada. Some of the poor processed food has just horrible shit in it but it's also packed full of 1800 calories for 8 dollars with 100% of your daily iron intake. Man it's insane how cheap that processed shit is and how expensive just a avocado or a fucking potato or carrot is. Avocados are my favourite plant to eat too.

[@mo4meh]

yes fast food places wants u to buy the cheap unhealthy burger but not the expensive salad it’s satans way of saying fall for my tricks. and money is always tight anymore with most people but what’s great we where blessed with arms & legs to get up and hustle for that penny everyday 🙏🏼🫶🏼

[@Matt-un8gi]

You know things for men are pretty bad when guys that look like Chad are blowing the whistle

[@watcher5729]

Its like people suudenly show who tbey sre after a while snd dissappoint. Lack is big nowdays envy jeslousy then backstabbing.