I only cancel, if I’m sick with a cold, flu etc. In that event, I always send flowers or box of wine with a card to apologise for cancelling.
@Kasiah_5 жыл бұрын
Joyce Galugbo how civilized
@missawsomechick5 жыл бұрын
That is an awesome idea, thank you!
@chantellea99385 жыл бұрын
Good idea.
@Vlogawan4 жыл бұрын
I like your idea! Anna missed to mention what to do if you cancel.
@janelcornejo85974 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the awesome idea love ❤️
@rkaya41555 жыл бұрын
Please do more Etiquette-Videos especially one about Etiquette when eating
@maggiekelley93895 жыл бұрын
Ro An Tracy Hensel has great etiquette videos as well!
@itsmeGeorgina5 жыл бұрын
@_ Three tines, dessert fork... 😎
@carmensmith24575 жыл бұрын
There are many KZbin videos on etiquette. It's also a good idea to purchase a few books on etiquette as well. It's a lot of info out there.
@Adornbeautify4 жыл бұрын
Please. I cant help my snacking and sucking when I eat
@deannaishmael47494 жыл бұрын
I’m the late one ☝️ and you’re right people say to me I knew you would be late . Not good I’ll work on that in the future .
@renaissance93335 жыл бұрын
before i watch the whole video can i just say that the color scheme of this video is just divine!
@peaceonearth86935 жыл бұрын
I agree that the color scheme is really nice. I'm just surprised that the lamp shade appears to be at an off angle.
@oliviabella71085 жыл бұрын
agreed!
@pauline46944 жыл бұрын
Totally agree!!💯
@msprecious34983 жыл бұрын
My moms favourite colour is blue :)
@nadiabulzacchelli42905 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of myself for following most of these. I'm 25 and find people's lack of etiquette barbaric 😂 and seriously I am not high class, it's just basic manners to be honest with you.
@Nitti4n4 жыл бұрын
Same here. Basic manner. And im 25
@glitterkitty19794 жыл бұрын
100% agree 👍 It's just good basic manners
@magnolia86834 жыл бұрын
Haha same here :).....when i saw this video, i was a bit worried that I might be doing things that were rude unknowingly. But, I'm pleased it just reinstated things that i'm already aware of and practicing. The core of this video is just to be polite, considerate, and look presentable.
@msprecious34983 жыл бұрын
Sound classy to me :) 💝
@hilaryc32033 жыл бұрын
I find today's society challenging. My mother was the dinner party queen, and having grown up being taught etiquette, interacting with young people today is not something I enjoy. The greeting "Hey", is like fingernails on a blackboard.
@unicorn_bread5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for discussing bringing a gift. I’ve known my boyfriend’s parents nearly 4 years, and they’re a wealthy family who want for nothing. They just finished building their newest home and even though I’m very close to them, I still brought some amazing wine, and also goods from their favorite bakery. Small things like this make a HUGE difference. Her other son and his new girlfriend brought nothing. The son MAYBE able to get away with that, but his girlfriend should have known better than to enter the home empty handed. Especially since it was her first time coming over. The mother took me aside after lunch to thank me again for the gifts, and hinted how upset she was that her son and his new girlfriend came with nothing. She reiterated again how much she loved me lol. You don’t have to bring the moon and the stars with you. But you need to show that you appreciate being invited over and welcomed into someone else’s home. It makes ALL the difference.
@miriamo.86315 жыл бұрын
Yeah totally agree with, the smallest of things go a long way.
@blessall88565 жыл бұрын
Excellent example and beautifully stated.👍
@redevous5 жыл бұрын
So true :)
@yourlehrness4 жыл бұрын
That's because you have taste and manners
@TH-eb5ro3 жыл бұрын
I would not judge the girlfriend as the other son likely had a role in the situation. I say this from how my husband dealt with things with his parents. He was taught such things but he did such things to test his parents early in our relationship. It is the role of the son to assure the girlfriend is properly introduced to his family and this dynamic continues into marital life.
@kathrynlouiseberman79195 жыл бұрын
Anna, this is exactly how I, and many of us Ladies in The South, were raised. I hate that graciousness is being lost in favor of constant self gratification. I used to love to host events and parties, I was good at it, it gave people a reason to come together and have fun. But over the years it lost it's pleasure for me as people broke every rule (not RSVPing and backing out at the last minute were the worst offenses). I rarely ever host events now. I would offer one more piece of guest advice. If you are going to an event at someone's home, and you see the host having to attend a lot to the business of the party, even if they have staff to execute the party, always ask, and mean it, "How can I help?" (In my experience, those are 4 words that that can take you very far in any society.) Most of the time the host will refuse your help, after all, you are their guest, but you will leave your host with the knowledge that you are someone who is giving, instead of just being there to consume.
@dorothygrantham43704 жыл бұрын
@Kathryn B.... I was just 'fixing' to reply with how I am from Alabama....and manners our bred into us from early childhood on.... So thank you for already mentioning GRITS (Girls Raised In The South)
@nicolegonzalez7428 Жыл бұрын
I'm in the same situation. I used to enjoy hosting but bad manners turned me off. Example of what not to do as a guest: tell your older children in front of your host (me) that they don't have to eat the food since they are already making faces and whining that they don't like what's been prepared. Wow! I had no words! They haven't been invited back to my home since.
@gina.angelli5 жыл бұрын
I am finding myself suffocated by people with bad etiquette. Being left to wait in the street for 40 minutes, birthday party invitation one day ahead leaving me with no time to pick a proper present, or my partner insisting we should NOT bring a bottle of wine to a party. I am feeling run down because this is day to day battle already, people just can't behave these days. Just the other day I received a present and this girl asked if she can borrow it straight away!!!!! I really need to upgrade my social circle
@katrobinson41375 жыл бұрын
Upgraaaaade!
@lima_285 жыл бұрын
Dont know why reading your comment makes me laugh.But yes upgrade.But start being the change you want to see.Start doing them yourself,and very soon or later they would take notice of your elegant attitude,which will definetly inspire some.I started trading my bad habits for elegance,and it has not been unnoticed.All thanks to Anna.
@cjenkins65875 жыл бұрын
I wish you the best on upgrading yourself and your social circle. You definitely will be rewarded!!!!!
@garnetsword5 жыл бұрын
You can share this video on your social media, friends&family, and maybe start a discussion. Get most of your circle on the same page! Not everyone likes wine, but maybe there are other things they wish people would think about prior coming to the event. Even those who usually say "don't need anything " always need something. It could be that they are not comfortable voicing it openly. Another tip: host a party at your home and you will understand what's missing very quickly. It may take a few times or so.... Once you do it yourself, you are more aware of what to do/to bring etc when being invited.
@blessall88565 жыл бұрын
I can relate to you 100%! I went over to my sister's place at the beginning of June 2019 and brought 2 bottles of good wine for her and her husband to enjoy. On the morning of June 8, it was my sister's B-Day and I texted her a B-Day card and my own greeting. She never acknowledged my card, etc. A week later, she sent me a "Hi" text. I responded to that text a week later!! She is my biological sister but I think she is VERY RUDE AND AN IMMATURE GAME-PLAYER, and I don't deserve her rudeness!! So, I am going to have to discard her from my social circle and/or altogether avoid her. This is not the first time she is soooo rude and arrogant and I am not sure what her point is! Her husband can be very rude and nasty also.
@SevenAnomone2245 жыл бұрын
oh I hate it when people arrive late. I used to invite a friend for morning coffee and she would show up 45minutes late for a 30 minute coffee break, then stay for over 2 hours letting her kids run around my house like mad (for info I am a mum too). It is just so rude. And yet - when I eventually said something about it she was so upset that I was being rude for not understanding that she has a busy life. She doesn't get invited to my house anymore. :)
@debby51954 жыл бұрын
There are people who are unaware of time because they don't have time boundaries. And for those friends I am very selective when I will answer their call or invite them over. I still appreciate their friendship. But have to control when I am willing to give that sort of engagement can happen.
@debby51954 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your comment on this issue. I have had issues with people not receiving my boundaries very well. I deal with them all differently depending on different situations.
@janelawson43944 жыл бұрын
Nadeen Sivic 👍🏻
@Artbug4 жыл бұрын
I just had an evening party and one of my guests showed up two hours late and brought her two very rowdy young children. I didnt think I had explicitly state that this cocktail party wasnt for kids. Needless to say, shes not invited next time.
@briana143334 жыл бұрын
Good! That's so rude. She should let you know she'll be late and ask if it's ok with you to still come or if you two should reschedule.
@linhduong08095 жыл бұрын
You teach exactly how I was taught growing up. Especially the part about never arriving to a party hungry. She always fed me before going to any event since I was small. Some people would laugh at it saying it is too extreme, but it makes sense to me.
@rushdialrashed96275 жыл бұрын
Thuy Linh Duong that’s what I always tell my daughter. Always.
@garnetsword5 жыл бұрын
I don't even leave home if i am hungry. Unless it's out of necessity and obvious reason to get food. I can't think straight or make decisions when my head is cloudy!
@InnaVitamina7775 жыл бұрын
@@garnetsword very true.. And wise
@helengreen67245 жыл бұрын
Same before going out to dinner with your date.....especially first time date.
@daughterofthemosthigh34175 жыл бұрын
I thought that was just cultural growing up but nice to know it's just etiquette period.
@robinsonstegard5384 жыл бұрын
I was raised in a financially challenged middle class family. I am blessed that my mother taught me how to behave when invited to a social event. Thank you for teaching.
@daughterofyah62095 жыл бұрын
I always learn alot of these things from my mom because they we were a black lower class family my mom made it a point to make sure we had manners when over other family members and friends homes. Nice to know that mom has some class 😁
@sarahusman61235 жыл бұрын
Same senario! Hi5
@redevous5 жыл бұрын
Yes girl! Don’t you love it?
@GlamorGrowthTravelwithMica5 жыл бұрын
I watch her channel with my younger sister. I want her to pick up on these habits and mannerisms.
@truthprevail56675 жыл бұрын
Kanika Haggins Yes! We should appreciate the other generation. They’re a lot wiser & classy than we are. Social media & Tv is misleading our generation.
@truthprevail56675 жыл бұрын
Michelle Antoinette Gal me too. My sister is watching with me. 🤗
@Ride-sq6xg5 жыл бұрын
I love your channel Anna. I am not looking for a man I am here because of society, fashion, manners videos, I want to be a classy lady in my every day life. Thank you!
@lilianonuoha85605 жыл бұрын
Me too 🙏🙏🙏
@TheresaMarieVisagie5 жыл бұрын
Me three..not necessarily to date a high calibre man. But just to be a classy lady.
@dawnhowcroft60515 жыл бұрын
Ride 2018 I am in agreement with this completely. I just want to be a better person for today’s society as elegance has disappeared.
@sheenab19275 жыл бұрын
Same. I want to be more confident and put together.
@alejandragarza26703 жыл бұрын
Mee to
@marie90885 жыл бұрын
This blue background is incredibly flattering, perfect summer tones!
@myownlittleworld92165 жыл бұрын
Etiquette rules when you are a guest. 1. Always RSVP. 2. Don't go with a plus one...before asking. 3. Never go empty handed. 4.Respect the dress code. 5. Eat something before going. 6. Be on time. 7. No phones. 8. Don't start a fight. 9. Leave on time.
@AbbeyStorm5 жыл бұрын
@@stephaniesnitily1734 what she really said in the video is "no drama". Lots of people gossip at parties!
@alexandravillers1435 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Snitily A couple can start arguing in a classy party with classy people ;)
@lehonyy24285 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@rya_xo5 жыл бұрын
You just saved me 16 minutes. Thanks!
@gaudycouturist48565 жыл бұрын
@@alexandravillers143 ... true.. people are people... LIFE happens to the best
@MariniteLG5 жыл бұрын
As a young child my parents always told me that if I make a commitment I cannot cancel it for something that sounds more fun. A commitment is a commitment.
@MariniteLG5 жыл бұрын
Also, leave early for an event or lunch, etc. and give yourself time to get the event.
@chrissyandjoey282 жыл бұрын
You have good parents ♥️♥️♥️
@yas34505 жыл бұрын
I wish I had my own little Anna on my shoulder telling me what to do at all times haha life would be so much easier!
@grettalemabouchou67795 жыл бұрын
Remember...class does not equate money. I have known wealthy people who were beasts. Manners darlings.
@niadiamond3894 жыл бұрын
The “eat something before” should definitely be a rule. I’ve had bad experiences before. Thanks Anna
@estheradao5 жыл бұрын
I’m not an upper echelon person but where I’m from we always bring something to the hosts it’s just traditional culture and I’m glad I’ve learned this from my childhood
@linhduong08095 жыл бұрын
Most of what she says can apply to any class in society. It is just general good manners, dont you think?
@peaceonearth86935 жыл бұрын
It's probably more important to bring something to people whom don't keep a staff, than to a host or hostess who has delegated most things. It's not a box to leave unchecked though.
@estheradao5 жыл бұрын
Thuy Linh Duong yes my mama always bring cake or traditional dish everywhere we’ve been invited is just normal etiquette for me I’ll surely do the same.
@estheradao5 жыл бұрын
Thuy Linh Duong Yeah it would be nice if everyone applied her advices about etiquette
@santamaria90945 жыл бұрын
You look breathtaking in white! So excited for this video
@bonniehicks59505 жыл бұрын
Well done!Most rules are obvious, but I appreciate the reminder!
@bonniehicks59505 жыл бұрын
Well done!Most rules are obvious, but I appreciate the reminder! Thank you.
@smurph49595 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with everything you said 🌼 I'd also add for people not to complain about the food, beverages or venue ... it's so uncomfortable if somebody is whispering negative comments to you, it's not pleasant to be associated with the critic! That's my pet peeve, people being unappreciative. Thank you for sharing 🌼🌸🌼
@zomgseriosuly5 жыл бұрын
YESSSSSS! AGREED!!
@hephzibahmakhetha43715 жыл бұрын
Very true!
@VictoriaMorrisa4 жыл бұрын
I hate gossipers
@ilovesunsets4 жыл бұрын
Everyone in our circle used to always comment on how the food was StRangE only because it was something new they have never tasted before, or how they can make it better and tastier than we did. All they get now is cheap crackers and balloney and they love it. To each their own.
@briana143334 жыл бұрын
OMG, I agree! They are like children!
@urbanfxshion5 жыл бұрын
I can’t get enough of this set up!!!
@itsmeGeorgina5 жыл бұрын
This was known as excellent advice for women hundreds of years ago, it is mentioned in "Gone with the Wind" A lady is supposed to look ready for conversation at any time, and not be too occupied with chewing
@raiseyourworld53244 жыл бұрын
:-D I was bought up with these manners, so timeless advice xx
@garinasantos29864 жыл бұрын
This advice is very current
@twinklenailsit5 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch your videos I feel more gulity about judging you and your channel negatively upfront without even making an effort to explore your content. You've got a lot to teach all of us🙌
@twinklenailsit5 жыл бұрын
@@AnnaBeyOfficial I felt ashamed that I was so judgemental. Is it just me or are woman nurtured and brought up in such a way to be competitive against each other? And i am only 19, better try to nip this bad habit in the bud.
@maggiea.22725 жыл бұрын
Twinkle Agarwal omg girl, if I was 19 and found Anna and other like her I would make the most out of my life. There s no shame in anything that makes us happy and let me tell you there a no happiness either to struggle everyday and hoping one day you will “make it”. Don’t work hard, work smart ☺️
@twinklenailsit5 жыл бұрын
@@maggiea.2272 Thank you for the advice 😇
@karaa75954 жыл бұрын
@@twinklenailsit their advice is total garbage. Hard work is a part of life. It builds character. Then you can truly appreciate your accomplishments because you earned them. Hard work is very satisfying to the soul. This souless lady is preparing society to be taken over by European elite socialist totalitarians. And btw her advice will not stop the inevitable and unfortunate things in life from happening. You could do everything she says and still suffer a huge loss be it the death of a spouse, a house burned down, declining health. You just never know. So don't burn your bridges with people who genuinely care about you just because according to Ana they are "average folk". You may need those people one day if you're down and out. The rich people who became your friends based on your net worth most likely won't be.
@twinklenailsit4 жыл бұрын
Hey @@karaa7595 ! I am going to have to agree and disagree with you on this. Some of her advice is ...umm.. controversial, to put it gently, but I've gotten some great styling tips from her. And i definitely don't believe in burning bridges with average people. And a big believer in hard-work. Not all of her advice is garbage though. I try to learn from everyone and only take away things that I know would help me and that agree with my own conscience and ethics😇 No hate💖
@kandiemakeup5 жыл бұрын
Yes Anna! Thank you for addressing people cancelling last minute bc they are "tired" or do not feel like attending. This is one of my biggest pet peeves and cannot understand why people think this is acceptable behavior this day and age. It's terrible! I make myself attend events if I have said I would, even if I'm not necessarily feeling like it, because I would never want to do that to someone.
@wendysuephillips5 жыл бұрын
I'm a retired educator of almost 30 years. Everything you taught in this video should be a required course for every teenager and most milligrams. Well done!
@eyralinetv5 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos you have posted. Well said and I will definitely be showing my students this one. A point I would like to add (which for me is an art which has been lost over time) is for one to send a handwritten thank you note to your host even if you have said goodbye to them after an event. It a really nice touch and bonus if this is a networking event your host could keep you in mind for future opportunities. 💗
@samanthaclark5 жыл бұрын
I love that idea. Leveling up my friendship and business circles so will definitely use this for events in the future. Thank you.
@shoh15415 жыл бұрын
Eyraline TV absolutely agree.
@heatherwilliamson92325 жыл бұрын
Eyraline TV I agree. Definitely above and beyond and very thoughtful.
@harleydd5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I was taught this as a child.
@michelleperry8524 жыл бұрын
Yes a thank you after every event! Some do it even after funeral etc. Everyone has their own opinion on this. Personally I think a grieving 👪 has enough going on. A family friend can do it if done in this case!
@AsmaYAli5 жыл бұрын
Anna, you’re the epitome of class. Your man is one lucky guy!
@foxiiroxii49255 жыл бұрын
Asma Y. Ali is she married?
@nataliegian5 жыл бұрын
@@foxiiroxii4925 Ana has a partner ☺
@shoshanadvora89324 жыл бұрын
This is one of Anna,s best videos! I always bring my host or hostess something ( wine, a cake ) but if my guest doesn't bring anything, I'm OK with that. I also try hard to be on time, but in some countries you have to be flexible about this. In some countries, like Japan and Germany, punctuality is super important. In other countries, well, just accept if you say the dinner starts at 7pm, people will arrive at 7:30. Anna is right that you should leave on time. Let me add something: don,t arrive too early! It,s stressful for me when a guest arrives 90 early and I have to entertain her while prepping for he party.
@angelicsparkles5 жыл бұрын
The first point is really about integrity & a lot of these points are plain common sense; thankfully we have you to remind us & work on those areas that we may feel lacking 💜🎉
@arabianbusinessconcepts92865 жыл бұрын
I really admire the way you speak. What does it take to master your voice and eloquence? Hiring a speech therapist, acting classes or just practice? Would be great to see a video on this topic!
@redcolerealty92455 жыл бұрын
True...the way she speaks, slowly and calmly...... Lovely...... . I speak so fast I feel like a tramp
@kristenk7085 жыл бұрын
@@redcolerealty9245 omg me too, I speak way too fast, but i am saving time :D cant find myself speaking slow for some reason..
@redcolerealty92455 жыл бұрын
@@kristenk708 that's exactly it. I am saving time and trying to get my point across
@nisha9160Sac5 жыл бұрын
Just practice. Even if it's just to yourself in a mirror. I remember Anna saying she used to have a potty mouth, but corrected it. So, practice ladies ❤
@sidehustlewithgloria5 жыл бұрын
I find myself talking fast due to having family members or just people around me talking over me or just toone off when I speak. I don't want to bore people.
@sandramartin91062 жыл бұрын
Certainly my number one complaint about inviting people over. I once got a reply to a dinner invitation for the whole family - "I'm pretty sure we'll make it", or "we'll be there unless...........". She ended up calling the day before to cancel because another family member decided to come visit them. I was highly offended. Now, when I issue a casual invitation, I give them parameters like - "Let me know by Wednesday, etc."
@juliawest77522 жыл бұрын
Anna, you are hilarious. I finally found someone who teaches like I used to when I was a public school teacher; your vocabulary, the way you model proper behavior/and improper behavior, your detailed examples, and your patient, non-shaming way. I never talked down or above my students, and I was always honest. Thank you
@Saljarba875 жыл бұрын
I think my mom raised me really well. I already apply 90% of these tips. Thanks to Anna, I'm 100% aware of all the dos and don'ts. Thanks beautiful lady
@mulliganstew724 жыл бұрын
Also never take what you bring with you when you leave, ie: any leftover food you brought or unfinished bottles of wine or alcohol. I cringe when I see people do that!
@cestlamaude64654 жыл бұрын
Seen this countless of times
@MandyGood4 жыл бұрын
My grandmother does this
@amandahhhanne3 жыл бұрын
THIS!! I cringe. I can't imagine a third of a bottle of wine being more important and valuable than your dignity, respect, and class. And this is probably a 'me' problem, but I always remember and think of them differently. I try to be gracious, but geez, there is a line.
@celesteinman563 жыл бұрын
If it's family and they tell you too that's ok.
@alejandragarza26703 жыл бұрын
Very good advice.
@reeses34665 жыл бұрын
I'm 15 and I learned so much just from this one video lol
@MandyGood4 жыл бұрын
I’m 30 and never knew this stuff
@rchayomuno90775 жыл бұрын
You have done a wonderful job emphasizing the dont's and the whys. I wish more people would watch and apply. I did not come from a good upbringing but I did know my manners and my pre-career environment prepared me well. Some of what you have stated I made sure I did or did not do but never knew why. I have been invited to some major events and was embarrassed that the person who added me as a plus 1 did so without asking. An later discovered that her mannerisms were also not appropriate. As time went on I was invited to attend more events and noticed that my colleague was excluded from attending any further events. She even became upset that I was being requested. As I grow my team of ladies I will definitely share your channel!!! Thank you for being so eloquently poised. It is rare to find this in today's society.
@MrKuzPi5 жыл бұрын
The food advice is actually really good. I find it so hard to focus on anything or anyone when I'm hungry..
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect5 жыл бұрын
"Don't arrive bloated" 😂😂😂 Very true! My mom always taught us to eat before we go to an event.
@fip625 жыл бұрын
These points are common courtesy, such a shame that there is even a need for this video. I cancelled my own birthday party due to lack of RSVPs, I had no idea how many guests to expect and was so disappointed at the lack of good manners and respect.
@avonnemejia78615 жыл бұрын
fip62 for my wedding so many people brought plus 1’s or didn’t rsvp and showed up or RSVP’d and didn’t show up. It was insane and that lack of courtesy costs me over $2k in additional fees for no shows via cashiers check the day of my wedding. LIVID
@ProductiveChi5 жыл бұрын
@@avonnemejia7861 I can so relate. At least you know who to keep at arm's length from here on in. It really is frustrating for the host and disgustingly rude for your guests to treat an important and expensive day like your wedding, so frivolously. No class at all.
@karaa75954 жыл бұрын
It's weird for an adult to throw themselves a birthday party. Just saying.
@inspiredby6244 жыл бұрын
@@karaa7595 How so? I think any occasion can be a good reason to celebrate :)
@cindy8464 жыл бұрын
@@karaa7595 I think it's completely normal. Why not?
@maktian27595 жыл бұрын
I agree with all of the points. People nowadays have become too casual and forgot the benefits brought by maintaining etiquette and how it's a way to maintain and improve relationships
@elizabethlyons17334 жыл бұрын
Love this. These are rules that should be known by everyone. Let's bring manners back.
@thegillmachine5 жыл бұрын
Love this setup! The blue wall conveys a very calming, serene sort of theme.
@debracannonrndsn25645 жыл бұрын
Great review of what used to be common knowledge.
@weltenbummlerin6325 жыл бұрын
Of course you greet the host and say good bye to them! Are there any people not doing this? I am not a superformal woman but this seems really basic to me. If you mention it, you'll have your reasons for sure. Love you Ana! Please keep on doing your special videos, can't get enough of them.
@floweryvegas16353 жыл бұрын
Just watched this video. This is how I was raised and I’m still a little shocked when people my age don’t know these things or do these things. It’s comforting to know that I am not alone and my efforts are appreciated
@slimee30175 жыл бұрын
These are the things that nobody tells us but expects us to know. Thank a lot... I really admire your lessons 💖
@Mimitavilla935 жыл бұрын
Can you do a dress code video please? Dress codes for any kind of events
@mariaignacialeonor5 жыл бұрын
A video about Networking will be awesome too! (I know there a lots of videos about it in other channels already, but I would like one from yours)
@rushdialrashed96275 жыл бұрын
In Arabic , we say : be a light guest! ❤️
@samanthaclark5 жыл бұрын
Ooh that's a beautiful way to put it!
@rushdialrashed96275 жыл бұрын
SAMANTHA CLARK ❤️🙏
@MN-nj5xb5 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏻
@FlorenceFire3 жыл бұрын
A light guest as in „come hungry”?
@dinulhaqq3 жыл бұрын
@@FlorenceFire no, it means be an easy guest. With other words: a guest with manners :)
@lth70235 жыл бұрын
Ana, Thank You for mentioning the Dramas that are created at Parties & Events on any of the RH of....! The things you mentioned are the very reasons I DON'T watch those shows! (We do not have TVs anymore for that & other reasons!) But speaking of Guest Manners....one of the things that I really think is Rude of the Host, is when you're invited to visit or go to a party at someones Home & you arrive to find there are TVs Blasting away in nearly every room and it's impossible to carry on a conversation with anyone without shouting at them!! If the party is a "Watching Sports Games or Special Movies on TV" that's one thing, but just having TVs blaring away is just plain an Awful Lack of Manners! Don't you agree?
@rileyscott58273 жыл бұрын
I agree! There are some guests, typically the husband, who turns the tv on as soon as they enter our home then insist on my coming over to where they are and getting them set up to watch their game and giving them all the wifi. Meanwhile, everyone else has to stand around and wait! And they are visibly agitated at every second that they're not watching the game. It made me wonder, why are they even here?
@lth70233 жыл бұрын
@@rileyscott5827 I have a brother-in-law like that! It's made it impossible to have ANY Social Interaction with him at all! Between he & my sister (for different reasons) we haven't seen or talked to them for a few years! My loving husband & I decided after much prayer & quite a few tears, that we needed to cut out the "Toxic Relationships" from our lives! We're much the better for refusing to be caught up in the Drama & becoming victims of THEIR Emotional Instability!
@incinc90683 жыл бұрын
I was definitely that person that showed up a bit late very often some years back. It wasn't a deliberate plan to do that, it just happened... but at the end of the day, it was sending a message that my time is more valuable than theirs and I will go on my own schedule instead of showing people respect. I didn't really mean to do that, but that's almost certainly what it was doing. For the last few years, I have always maintained punctuality or send someone a message in enough time if there is some issue that is preventing you from being punctual or within the expected time frame. This shows much more respect and makes me a more valued guest because I am showing that I value *them*. I wasn't raised with all the correct etiquette training, but I was definitely raised with "never show up empty-handed" - it was something my mother said many times, even though she was raised in a very financially modest home. So I'm glad it's something that has stuck with me, however, I do know there are certainly gaps in my knowledge or things I might be doing subconsciously that aren't the best.
@NY_LA5 жыл бұрын
As I evolve in my life, I find myself leaning more and more on your videos. Thank you for helping me grow ❤️
@anglmus5 жыл бұрын
I think an etiquette series of some sort would be lovely 😊
@nalefanua17035 жыл бұрын
I love watching your etiquette videos; I just enjoy learning how to act respectfully and classy. Even though I grew up with parents that taught me a lot about manners and many ‘old way things’ have been drilled into my head, It’s just great that people like yourself, are teaching these important things to people, because not everyone has the same upbringing and these things you teach, can really help people to succeed in many areas of their life; professional, social, personal. So thank you once again for doing what you’re doing, and I send very much love and support your way. ♥️ (Even though your target market is women, I am a male, and I fully support your ‘movement’, if you will. There isn’t enough people teaching what you’re teaching in this generation (at least perhaps publicly), and I’m glad you’re doing you).
@varvarahatzoglou12195 жыл бұрын
Probably one of your best videos! Loved it! Congratulations! I wish all people knew and followed these rules.
@TheNicoliyah5 жыл бұрын
varvara hatzoglou Agreed! Especially the one about late people! Great tip to eat beforehand, never thought about that🤔🤔🤔
@varvarahatzoglou12195 жыл бұрын
@@TheNicoliyah me, either!!! 🌷
@shellyswt5 жыл бұрын
Pet peeve: People who are habitually late! I know a few people like this. It’s always a given & I’ve learned to count on it every time. It seems to be some kind of control issue or attention getting mechanism. So disrespectful & annoying!
@irenekay79344 жыл бұрын
A female friend of mine does this. She is always 30 to 40 mins late and it is really disrespectful and controlling as you said
@sweettagada224 жыл бұрын
I tend to be late because I dont always manage my Time right, and I hate it. Dont think There is always a bad intention beside
@cindy8464 жыл бұрын
@@sweettagada22 Yes, exactly. Sometimes it's simply a lack of time management skills... 😥
@VictoriaMorrisa4 жыл бұрын
I hate that, too. How is it about control?
@aansell59984 жыл бұрын
My parents have a saying. “Being early is being on time, being on time is being late, and being late mean 20 push-ups.” They were both in the military
@NewVision20242 жыл бұрын
ANNA Bey you are excellent in your little tips we normally skip.. thanks so much. grace and elegance are the best qualities of women
@juliaberg56265 жыл бұрын
Could you make a video about etiquette for the host?😊
@virginiacreager43313 жыл бұрын
Yes please ! Like how far in advance do you need to send invites ? Can you let guests help who offer ? What can you accept when guests ask what they should bring? How to respond to last minute cancellations? How to deal with a dramatic guest ? What if all of your family and friends have bad manners but they are loving people -can you educate without seeming rude yourself ? So many questions! Any answers much appreciated 🙏🙏
@mariah4714 жыл бұрын
I'm a time person, I grew up believing " To be early, is to be before time, to be on time is to be late and to be late is to be left behind."
@glitterkitty19794 жыл бұрын
Finally a video from you where I can actually say I do all that! I'm so chuffed that I can call myself a classy guest! Love all your videos, always great content, xxx
@piabertrand51464 жыл бұрын
I Live in France and I’m not part of the high society (yet! Eheh) and I can say that me, my family and my circle of friends, being considered « normally educated » we do all of these!! Those are simple rules and manners that we were taught since little :)
@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx5 жыл бұрын
Please Anna! Can you make a video on what kind of conversations to have in a social event! We need that!
@nickeym3415 жыл бұрын
ELIZABETH TORRES yes to that
@dolsiemercado31405 жыл бұрын
Yes, Real Housewives series, ha, ha, ha. The producers tell them to do that for ratings. You are right it is inappropriate to steal the shine from the host.
@tracyfan95404 жыл бұрын
Subscribed, after this one. I would add that to send a card or a text saying thank you to the host after the party is another important manner
@theresaross71852 жыл бұрын
I grew up with proper manners. Years and years of negative influence has had its impact. Your tutorials are helping polish my manners, style, out look,and confidence. I am very thankful! Now I'm able to present myself in a more dignified manner. People are more respectful and attentive. GOD BLESS
@sandramartin91062 жыл бұрын
My new method to handle a friend who was always bringing extra food to our afternoon luncheons (which we rotate at each others' home), is to email the times, menu, with the statement that extra food will not be unnecessary unless you have a specific dietary need that you alone will need, or unless you check with me ahead of time!
@NewVision20242 жыл бұрын
time management is very true. we should be very careful and dress in time. we keep people waiting for the program or dinner .
@shamiquafileen79065 жыл бұрын
In your last video you mentioned that Ibiza is a destination of the affluent and Jeremy Fragrance here on KZbin mentioned he is flying there right now, so you were so right. Great content Anna. Btw I'm not even looking for an affluent man because I am already married, but I just love your channel and I watch each of your videos.
@celia87095 жыл бұрын
Shamiqua Fileen in Spain we see Ibiza as the place where everyone goes to party and do drugs. Not sure how it’s perceived out there.
@shamiquafileen79065 жыл бұрын
@@celia8709 oh boy! I didn't know that. Thanks for the information, but I was just saying it was mentioned as a destination of the affluent and it clearly is.
@teedollxx5 жыл бұрын
@@celia8709 I think all European countries would think that. I live in the Netherlands and oh boy, the people that go to Ibiza a often young people, (most are rich) but at at the same time absolutely cheap. Ugh, I can't stand the people that go to Ibiza lol.
@NovemberRain0075 жыл бұрын
My husband is from Barcelona and the Spaniards don't really have that perception. It's a party place where casual sex, drug use and debauchery are commonplace.
@Scarletandgray18705 жыл бұрын
I’m in my late 40’s, Ibiza holds 0 interest for me
@omshanti4005 жыл бұрын
Etiquette is so important, it makes life so pleasant whether in good society or not. It makes so much sense. Thank you for sharing
@rahelkaaya54035 жыл бұрын
Talking too much and too loudly when invited somewhere is something i cant tolerate at all. Thanks Anna for these great tips
@bart73093 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video. Never show up empty handed. Bring a gift for the host but only wine, flowers or chocolate. Never bring food ( dessert) always ask your host can I bring something. If the answer is no. Respect that. A good host put a lot of thought, energy and planning into this evening. One but not more then two days after the dinner/event thank your host. Send a card or call.
@MihaDuV5 жыл бұрын
So many women aren't ever tought these things, thank you for sharing and being a role model.
@roamleylynnallstead87193 жыл бұрын
Ms. Bey, you are a lovely person. I am so grateful for your KZbin Videos. My Life has taken a huge change and these videos help me fit in. I am more prepared to navigate new situations that I was never introduced to in my old life.
@nikolealice89275 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Anna, for helping me on becoming "the best version of myself" 💛 loving you content and way you teach 🙏🏽
@nickeym3415 жыл бұрын
Nikole Alice Hi! Do you follow other ladies like Anna on KZbin? I’d appreciate the suggestions ❤️
@reighngold5 жыл бұрын
I was initially very put off by your channel but the more you talk, the more I agree with you and am learning a few things I didn't know.
@pia93435 жыл бұрын
I stand corrected! I have done the disappearance act after searching for the host/hostess for a while to no avail or they are engaged in a conversation for a long period of time with other guests and I did not want to interrupt. That will not happen again.
@mulliganstew724 жыл бұрын
Pia Maheras Same here. I do love an Irish goodbye!! But have to make the effort to move out of my comfort zone to say goodbye to the hosts & everyone.
@rushdialrashed96275 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Please, would u do more videos on “Etiquette”? Pretty please.
@allyhvis60465 жыл бұрын
Great that you'll be making other etiquette videos!! :) Looking forward to them
@chieir5 жыл бұрын
Agree on everything except for not finishing the course.. I've been taught that food shouldn't be wasted and that eating everything is sign of appreciation for the work and effort put in it
@Anastasia_Neva5 жыл бұрын
Happy to know that I made it 90% right last time when I was a guest of very lovely people 🌞
@sopitaaragon65395 жыл бұрын
Could you please curate a reading list?
@catalinaloeung73274 жыл бұрын
very appreciative of videos regarding etiquette! my parents were never really around so i have to learn most of these things myself so i appreciate this.
@karenscookingkorner2 жыл бұрын
You’re the best Anna!!! Your suggestions are changing my life. It really works :)
@babycakes85145 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video but in my (Nigerian) tribe, don't even dare eat before going to an intimate family event (ie close family or friends) They centre events around food and make plenty of delicacies by hand, so if you turn up too full to eat the food they spent ages cooking for you, they would feel you are being snobbish and pretentious haha
@Glowingportal5 жыл бұрын
Same in most Indian parties, it revolves around food
@joyfulhelpmeet5 жыл бұрын
Same for Ukrainian (my family) and newfoundlanders ( my husbands)
@alethiaeden5 жыл бұрын
I’d rather eat with you and your family than a fancy American/European meal!
@lilimuthemba31385 жыл бұрын
Same in Kenya, if you visit and don't eat "satisfactorily" it can cause offence
@karaa75954 жыл бұрын
This lady is clueless about anything cultural. Even her dress code would offend certain cultures. Anything with an ounce of life and color in it, she is against. She's like a drone.
@julanre31603 жыл бұрын
Anna, you are very pleasant to listen to and the way you present is always done with such grace.
@angelicsparkles5 жыл бұрын
Look forward to the August announcement! 🎉💜
@gaginajulie3 жыл бұрын
You are inspiring me to be the best version of myself every time my dear Elegant Anna Bey ☺️😉
@island6615 жыл бұрын
Great video! I wish more people knew this kind of etiquette.
@juliekostas73224 жыл бұрын
You're providing such a wonderful education. I work in Protocol within the Diplomatic community but I'm self-taught. I grew up with important basic manners but not etiquette. It's so important to embrace true etiquette that's pertinent to your environment/situation. I'm happy to see I knew much of what you discussed but discovered some great reminders. I've started to become a product of my out of work casual environment but seeing your videos reminded me of how good of feels to follow the elegant path no matter what. 🌹
@jiul49075 жыл бұрын
Your outfit is so beautiful. That lace is gorgeous
@renferal52903 жыл бұрын
Good common sense this is and a very helpful video for someone like me whos parents never taught any of this stuff. I'm an old lady now but I don't think it is too late for me to learn :)
@sofija_theresa5 жыл бұрын
Such a high quality video!! Your content has progressed so much over the time i have been watching you. Thank you for guiding me into the high society and being the big sister i never had. It's an essential part of growing up to be raised with elegance and correct manners. - Your younger subscriber
@Serendipitytani3 жыл бұрын
This is fabulous advice. I'm going to make sure my grand-children (grown) will see this
@wandashouse15 жыл бұрын
THANKS SO much! I am learning a lot with your tutorials you are a great teacher!
@eleanordavies98152 жыл бұрын
One hundred percent agree with the time management advice. I cannot understand people who are rude enough to ignore the time as if it is of no importance. So disrespectful!
@francoiseofficial18614 жыл бұрын
I remember when I've been invited to a private party (music industry, high level guests) and I showed up alone. I've been asked who I was with and I just said:"As far as I understood, the invitation was just for me". My host had a 458934 teeth smile. I just acted normally for me
@oumaimael53685 жыл бұрын
You are such a wonderful mentor ❤️
@nelisamanyisa13514 жыл бұрын
I'm 19 and honestly, everything you talk about has been a, ah ha moment, after ah ha moment! I cant stop sharing your videos with my friends! Thank you so much for this content, I highly appreciate it! Much love to you my dear elegant guru. :-)
@ElenaSemanova4 жыл бұрын
Oh my, I really need to do some work on myself. Thank you, Anna, for being unapologetically honest.