STORYTIME | DATING A MARINE (GONE HORRIBLY WRONG!)

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Dakota Cross

Dakota Cross

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@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YALL SO MUCH!!! my birthday is Sunday and my greatest gift is all of you xoxo
@erickitchell9501
@erickitchell9501 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought my comments got read by the youtuber themselves lol. And to see you react and your replies is so awesome. Very sweet of you to take time out of your busy day to respond to me/us all of us in the comments. So, I just wanted to take the time to say Thank You! Much appreciated!
@jazzyj4765
@jazzyj4765 3 жыл бұрын
Dating military men is hard and the majority of the time it doesn't work out. Sounds like he was just using you. In relationships there are times you will feel like you're not getting enough. Doesn't mean it's going to end, but it's just what happens. You want 50/50 in a relationship, but most times it's 80/20 or 60/40. I hope you find a loving, caring, and good man. You definitely deserve it.
@haileybad
@haileybad 3 жыл бұрын
Pisces sister 💖♓️
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
@@haileybad YASSSS GIRL!! were the best, when is your birthday?!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
@@erickitchell9501 Omg of course!!! you all mean the absolute world to me I wouldn't be where im out without you guys and I truly enjoy engaging with all of you so much !!!!❤️
@yaraarbuckle4215
@yaraarbuckle4215 3 жыл бұрын
Yikes. I dated a Marine before and it was the worst thing ever. He was incredibly abusive in every way possible. He blamed it on PTSD, all the while giving me PTSD.
@gigig2345
@gigig2345 2 жыл бұрын
Omg, yes dated a Marine that gave me PTSD. Constant mind games and emotional abuse.
@niemasaunders7669
@niemasaunders7669 6 ай бұрын
@@GOTHICMAMBA35I been with my fiance who’s a Marine he’s a sergeant and he’s the best. He been to Afghanistan and he’s super calm don’t have PTSD. I just found her channel.
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 3 жыл бұрын
I was engaged to a former marine back in the late 1970s, yea I. Much older. Anyway I called off the wedding 4 DAYS before and my parents wanted to kill me. I did not care. One of the smartest things I’ve ever done. A long story made very short.
@Interesting.Factor
@Interesting.Factor 3 жыл бұрын
I love this little story..maybe you could make a story time!!!!!!!!!!
@maggieregan4865
@maggieregan4865 3 жыл бұрын
Girrrrrl!! I dated a marine at 19 and then moved to North Carolina to live with him during his last year in active duty. I ended up pregnant and we got married and HOLY COW I could star in a lifetime movie about my life! He destroyed me. I am typing this before hearing your whole story too. I’m so sorry but I get it. PTSD is awful and they do not get the help/support they deserve
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you :( make sure you tell your story One day girl. Release it and be free ! And girl yes I do agree they don’t get the help they deserve it’s so sad :(
@teapoodle3977
@teapoodle3977 3 жыл бұрын
I’m typing this before being close to hearing the end of this video as well. That could have very well been me but I managed to get out of the relationship. Saying you were destroyed could not define it better for myself. I’m so sorry you went through that; I know exactly how you feel.
@bernadettejones7597
@bernadettejones7597 2 жыл бұрын
@@DakotaaCross This type of behavior sounds like FULL BLOWN NARCISSISM. YT HG Tudor what makes a Narcissist. They Love Bomb you, then devalue you, love bomb again, devalue you again, gas light, silent treatments and Repeat all over again and again and again. Very sick people. Girls can be Narcissists too, but anyway, I wish you the Best my Beautiful sister!!!!
@ElizabethSotiria
@ElizabethSotiria 3 жыл бұрын
“People reveal themselves a lot later..” 📠 😭 if that ain’t the truth idk what is
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Girl facts !!!!
@MelatCucullu
@MelatCucullu 3 жыл бұрын
it needs to be a merch boo
@leoandcleo8778
@leoandcleo8778 3 жыл бұрын
@@MelatCucullu ikr
@chelse5847
@chelse5847 3 жыл бұрын
any man talking about marriage early, 95% of the time is the red flag 😫😫
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I agree !!!
@Amber-xt7me
@Amber-xt7me 3 жыл бұрын
This guy was talking babies early with me .😳 I'm thinking bro we ligit just started talking for 2/3 months he wasn't happy when I said I wasn't thinking about kids ( he mentioned we make cute kids together 🤦‍♀️)
@layloo5244
@layloo5244 3 жыл бұрын
Marines always tryna get married hella early
@basskitten7325
@basskitten7325 3 жыл бұрын
Seems to be a common theme with military guys
@teacupglitterinfested1525
@teacupglitterinfested1525 3 жыл бұрын
@@layloo5244 it’s cause they want their girl to get all their shit when they die and not their parents
@lisagerson7735
@lisagerson7735 3 жыл бұрын
Omg you are so beautiful, I see nothing wrong with your nose! Some people are unbelievable
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
It really is so sad how people can be im so glad my channel has so many positive supporters to drown out the negativity. Thank you babe your support means a lot 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@AlanaByTheShore
@AlanaByTheShore 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 👍👍👍
@theonlyy1
@theonlyy1 3 жыл бұрын
Fr her nose is so cute!!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
@@theonlyy1 thank you so much my love 🥰🥰❤️🥺🙏🏼
@sarahwales6276
@sarahwales6276 3 жыл бұрын
@@theonlyy1 Yes, it is!
@lisettepagan1343
@lisettepagan1343 3 жыл бұрын
As a female Marine who’s currently active duty I can tell you girl THAT TYPE is the norm🤡 I’ve seen it ALL. Some of the Marines I work with have been married 3, 4 times. And in this environment it’s not even weird. Lmao
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Omg for real?! That’s insane !!!! And girl thank you for serving our country I’m soooo appreciative of you 🥰❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
@kbanghart
@kbanghart 3 жыл бұрын
3 or 4 x, that's crazy!! I can't imagine the headache, not just the relationship stuff but also financial and having to move, whatever.
@sgd8871
@sgd8871 3 жыл бұрын
You think it’s because marines tend to be more psychopathic and used people like objects so partners either have to shut up and take it or get discarded? Every marine I’ve ever known seems like they’d be a nightmare to be with.
@tranquility9325
@tranquility9325 3 жыл бұрын
He's a narcissist. Love bombed you in the beginning. Once it was over he eventually hoovered you back in. Ptsd is the least of his issues. I have met a few marines, and none of them are normal. You need to draw some serious boundaries. Don't allow someone to continue to suck/hoover you in all the time on a whim. He should have been blocked a long time ago.
@MessIn2Message
@MessIn2Message 2 жыл бұрын
Nailed it!
@renaliane1
@renaliane1 3 жыл бұрын
I was just dating a marine vet the past few weeks and we just stopped talking last week! I haven’t even gotten 5 minutes into the video yet but I just wanna say I’m so glad I got out of it now rather than later because I found myself ignoring so many red flags because I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt with ptsd and everything but noooo ignoring red flags in the beginning is terrible and I needs stop doing it🙈
@isabelmiller-martin2848
@isabelmiller-martin2848 3 жыл бұрын
I’m just reading this comment and watching the video like oooooppp lemme avoid these marine dudes😩😂
@callinforsnno
@callinforsnno 3 жыл бұрын
Actual perfect timing. Needed this for this 45 minute drive🙌🏽😂💕
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Girlll that’s how I feel when you upload I’m Like yes I have something to watch while I get ready !😂😂🥰
@deem.4527
@deem.4527 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, hi! I love your videos :) 💜
@urmother7089
@urmother7089 3 жыл бұрын
HIII SAMANTHA! Glad to see you here 😝
@elygarcia2855
@elygarcia2855 3 жыл бұрын
Is someone commented on your nose maybe they know you personally with a fake account because on camera you can not see anything wrong with it
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
that's exactly what I think because I always seem to get only like 1-2 negative comments and dislikes! so strange
@dreeeambaby
@dreeeambaby 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking this too
@xcherryjonesx
@xcherryjonesx 3 жыл бұрын
I scrolled through the comments before finishing the video (habit of mine) and I noticed some were talking about her nose, looked at the video and being halfway thru the video already I never noticed anything at all about her nose
@goudagrishhdoe8925
@goudagrishhdoe8925 2 жыл бұрын
Deadass couldn’t see anything wrong with her nose until she mentioned it and still struggled to see it despite having better than average eye sight.
@natanyaparsons8491
@natanyaparsons8491 3 жыл бұрын
I felt alone even though I lived with my ex for 6 years. We were basically just roommates. No romance or romantic connection whatsoever. I was so much happier when I finally left.
@rachelreii5952
@rachelreii5952 3 жыл бұрын
Never ever dating a off duty military dude ever again. He would go into PTSD flashbacks and lash out at me. Long story short, I escaped and im finally home with family. ❤🙏🏼 I respect what they did for our country but my last time.
@Tanzloranz
@Tanzloranz 3 жыл бұрын
That nose highlight is sending me all the positivity vibes.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I love you !!!
@michellegeryath1072
@michellegeryath1072 3 жыл бұрын
I went on a date with a marine in January and he ghosted me 😂😂 maybe I dodged a bullet
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
girl yes you did !!! take it as a blessing 😂😂
@sofianuri9354
@sofianuri9354 3 жыл бұрын
Same here! OMG. Adopted, hispanic, wanted to study psychology.. freaking Crazy!
@sueshe5953
@sueshe5953 3 жыл бұрын
Ya did
@kbanghart
@kbanghart 3 жыл бұрын
@@sofianuri9354 LOL it's funny cuz the things you describe don't exactly sound strange.
@teacupglitterinfested1525
@teacupglitterinfested1525 3 жыл бұрын
My dad was a marine and my mom is still married to him. That kind of relationship is hard because there’s so much you can’t control with the man. You’re not a bad person for not being to put up with it cause it’s hard. In fact for it to be hard, is why you have this video for me to find you. So congratulations
@Di_777
@Di_777 3 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for saying this but I think the guy was either lying about his PTSD or using it as an excuse to be an asshole. It gave me bad vibes
@Iceloversunitee
@Iceloversunitee 3 жыл бұрын
Girllllll! Literally had a very similar experience with this guy in the army. He used to say stuff like that too! Then out of no where things just started getting weird. At this point soon as a guy mentions anything about the military, just abort mission
@hjtres7261
@hjtres7261 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like typical Dbag Marine activity. That's not PTSD, that's asshole. That push/pull bull. I hope you find somebody so much better. You're gorgeous 💜
@deloracomfort8960
@deloracomfort8960 3 жыл бұрын
JUST FOUND YOU AND NEVER EVEN NOTICED YOUR NOSE
@bernadettejones7597
@bernadettejones7597 2 жыл бұрын
Dakota, he is a Narcissist. They are very sick and twisted individuals who Bond you to them by causing you Trauma. Thank God you got FREE. Wishing you all the Best.
@jullz1000
@jullz1000 3 жыл бұрын
Guys love to see how far you'll let them go. He was definitely playing mind games with you. He knew he had you. He wanted you to keep begging him. Lesson learned girly i hope u find someone who will appreciate u:)
@tatejones6896
@tatejones6896 3 жыл бұрын
I’m confused. Your nose is literally perfect.
@kyliewilson2911
@kyliewilson2911 3 жыл бұрын
Omg this is like literally why do men do this? It's all games, they do the whole push and pull thing because they want to keep us addicted. Hot and cold, sweet and mean. It's all scientifically proven to keep us hooked. It's so degrading and devaluing. He sounds like a complete narcissist. You're so beautiful, you and your daughter deserve so much better.
@aaroniahevans3265
@aaroniahevans3265 3 жыл бұрын
they only do what you allow them to, what shes most likely leaving out is every time they "got back together" 9 times outta 10 they screwed, so in his pea brain she was just a easy hook up but in her mind she thought it was true love...like someone else said on here she was EXTREMELY to available and forgiving for things that were unforgivable. Hell when he first started ignoring her in class had that been me I wouldve returned that same energy x10 i literally wouldve looked right threw him like he was a ghost dude!when guys wanna be fuckboys you have to make it known IMMEADIATLY that you will not tolerate that shit and MEAN IT!
@vivimr1
@vivimr1 3 жыл бұрын
You explained this story so well and you are so beautiful btw!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much my lovely ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🙏🏼
@AI-ch3if
@AI-ch3if 3 жыл бұрын
People with PTSD do things like wake up screaming from a nightmare or jumping for cover when they hear popping noises. Your ex sounds more like a case of narcissistic personality disorder than anything else. What you described were the classic love-bombing and discard phases on rapid cycle. I'm glad you cut him off completely -- best thing you could have done for yourself. The thing he said to you after the break up, btw, was not a "Sagittarius trait;" it was him knowing that acting indifferently when you were clearly attached to him would be the thing that hurt you most. BTW, astrology has failed scientific testing again and again... and again. I would not look to it for any kind of guidance, especially if you are Christian, because it is of occult origin.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree I think he was using it in order to just make me feel bad and go back everything the best thing I ever did was break away !!
@loveleighladey7945
@loveleighladey7945 3 жыл бұрын
Not all PTSD present the same symptoms
@boop79
@boop79 Жыл бұрын
Nailed it!
@EsmeRomelia
@EsmeRomelia 5 ай бұрын
That’s not how ptsd just shows yk lol it’s different for everyone
@isabelmiller-martin2848
@isabelmiller-martin2848 3 жыл бұрын
You’re so precious and I love how straightforward but also like how NOT rude you are 💕 WE LOVE IT❤️
@thegallery219
@thegallery219 3 жыл бұрын
Your daughter popping in with a quick commercial break! Too cute😂🤣😂
@Siannmelissa
@Siannmelissa 3 жыл бұрын
I did 10 years in the military, 4 of which was active duty in the Marines. I absolutely REFUSE to even entertain a male marine; working with them and being around them everyday taught me that they just ain’t it 😅🥴
@Siannmelissa
@Siannmelissa 7 ай бұрын
@@ChrisTurner-xj9wi Man go troll somewhere else. You don’t fkn know me. So stfu biatch.
@Siannmelissa
@Siannmelissa 7 ай бұрын
@@ChrisTurner-xj9wi I highly doubt you’re not a little B…I…T….C….H 🙃
@Jerricaaaw
@Jerricaaaw 3 жыл бұрын
sounds like my ex at the end, telling me he loves me and wants to marry me and literally i saw his snap one day and girls were sending him naked pics and he was sending them back 🙄
@skyshae3224
@skyshae3224 3 жыл бұрын
I dated a marine he was crazy he tried to kill me. He was very controlling and manipulative my relationship was toxic and I didn’t deserve any of that. before all that even happened I tried to make the relationship work and I lost myself trying to fix a man 🤦🏾‍♀️ I’ll never do it again I had to go to a therapist I dealt with ptsd and feeling like I wasn’t good enough it was a terrible time for me but now I’m 21 and I know better and I have grown so much. And I have found myself again and have gotten closer to God and I can finally say I’m happy 😊 I thought I was the only one who dated a crazy marine guy I’m happy that people are sharing their stories and now I don’t feel so alone. Thanks for sharing your story.
@Kkatss
@Kkatss 2 жыл бұрын
Your story sounds similar to mine(especially the mental abuse or not feeling like you're enough)I hope you're doing well.
@GFAprodite
@GFAprodite 3 жыл бұрын
It Seemed Like He Didn't Think You Guys Were In A Relationship.
@MamaLid
@MamaLid 3 жыл бұрын
I came across your first story time and always love to see when you post!! Eeeek! HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY!!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you babe !!!! Your support means a lot to me !!🥰🥰🥰🥰
@MamaLid
@MamaLid 3 жыл бұрын
Of course!! ❤️🤗
@geewizlana
@geewizlana 3 жыл бұрын
I grew up and live between two bases at the east coast of NC. Never dated any though, more so because what i witness is fast pregnancies, fast marriages just so they can get off of base in a provided home, and then it goes to 💩 when they deploy. I was a dancer for a few years and they love them some girls (maybe because they've been deprived from that on base? Idk). Due to the constant boy energy, i find them to be douchebags. We also have an island where a lot of navy and army are sent to after their 30s, and those aren't so bad. Seems like a calmer military career versus being in the Marines. And most Marines clock out after serving their first 4 years to become police officers... which i kinda have an issue with. If a military person has been deployed and seen the worst, they should be tested for PTSD before being handed a new career in law enforcement.
@corn2560
@corn2560 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like “Jose” was doing things to deliberately hurt you. Anyone that does the things he did to you such as the snap chat etc. was directed at you to see it and get a reaction out of you. He knew what he was doing, he was trying to be a psychologist major ...so he KNEW what he was doing
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Yes ! His lack of caring really revealed that about him. He showed himself and His true colors eventually !
@aminabesmilin4691
@aminabesmilin4691 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like someone that I know. 😳
@SusieSue242
@SusieSue242 3 жыл бұрын
Omg your nose is so beautiful, I can’t see anything wrong with it.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much my love 🥰🥰❤️🙏🏼
@asifmuniruniverse7732
@asifmuniruniverse7732 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not hendsom only simple person
@belindabriones6468
@belindabriones6468 3 жыл бұрын
You're better off. You'll find true love someday.😊
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I agree !!❤️
@t.rivera836
@t.rivera836 3 жыл бұрын
Came across your channel by chance because I’m pregnant and can’t sleep 😂 Oooh honey- I’ve dated two military men. The first one was a raging, verbally abusive alcoholic and the second one was so terrible that I ended up in a domestic violence shelter. I appreciate what they do for the country and acknowledge their struggles, but no thanks 😶
@Colombianminx
@Colombianminx Жыл бұрын
SAME!!!! 😮😂😂😂
@Kai-uj5go
@Kai-uj5go 3 жыл бұрын
Guys like that love the chase and it sounds like you were "too available" for him. Sounds like ending it was for the best you like constant contact and that obviously wasn't for him. Hope you are in a happy and healthy place now.
@WendyAG
@WendyAG 3 жыл бұрын
I'm just a minute in, first time in this channel, just wanted to say I LOVEEEED the way you adressed the comments about your nose. Idk what people are thinking when pointing out something about someone else's body.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much my love !! I just want to set the example of standing up for yourself and not letting others get you down ! I’ll never understand it either I really appreciate your support love 🥰
@rv3022
@rv3022 3 жыл бұрын
Girl, don't you understand: he ghosted you! Don't put this experience to your heart...let him go to search for his luck. I am sure there are other men out there who would love to be in a relationship with you.
@je.suis.prisci
@je.suis.prisci 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of military men/women are toxic. Coming from a former military spouse. On another note, the fact that folks are so focused on your nose is ridiculous. You're beautiful 😍
@jessl8021
@jessl8021 3 жыл бұрын
Once you said he was a sag I was no longer surprised 😂
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOO right ?!😂❤️❤️❤️
@starrjohnson1327
@starrjohnson1327 3 жыл бұрын
Sagittarius guys always bring on the charm then the psycho comes out😑
@savpal1757
@savpal1757 3 жыл бұрын
@@starrjohnson1327 they the manipulators and narcs
@lazydamsel
@lazydamsel 2 жыл бұрын
Omg is this applicable to females too?
@barbaraenriquez9975
@barbaraenriquez9975 3 жыл бұрын
I was bullied as well for having a broken nose. Broke it when I was young. It builds character. Hoping u don't get headaches like I do. Your an exotic beauty! :) love the video
@XXSAZILLAYT
@XXSAZILLAYT 3 жыл бұрын
Kinda addicted to your story time lol keep em comin you're an inspiration
@senaahpanashe
@senaahpanashe 3 жыл бұрын
Ahh a Sagittarius at its finest 🤣 I’m sorry girl
@mayramaciel3928
@mayramaciel3928 3 жыл бұрын
I knew it was gonna be bad as soon as I heard “JoSe”
@MelatCucullu
@MelatCucullu 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhh my gosh, this was sooo triggering for me😌 , just broke up with my bf over this exact kind of behavior.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry babe my Inbox is always open if you need to vent ! You’re strong you got this ❤️
@celestinaxx8611
@celestinaxx8611 3 жыл бұрын
Your beautiful love , the success always comes with negative people wanting that for themselves
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you babe ❤️❤️ Some People have nothing to better to do it’s so sad!! Thank you for the kind words love
@kayyyven7104
@kayyyven7104 3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend of 3 years is going into the marines, should I be concerned 😭
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
No babe just because I had a bad experience doesn’t mean you will ! Just use your intuition and you’ll be ok🥰❤️
@GFAprodite
@GFAprodite 3 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@nflrolexking
@nflrolexking 3 жыл бұрын
Wow thats fucked up! "Ive been through heartbreak and this is not it." Great job you got out of that relationship👏
@Emmkay0715
@Emmkay0715 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve slowly been watching all your story times and seriously feel like we’d be best friends if we knew each other in real life. You’re the kind of girl that everyone needs to be friends with and have on their team against anything life throws at them 💜 just had to say that!
@cheyenneparnell3161
@cheyenneparnell3161 3 жыл бұрын
US Navy Wife here lol yep that’s a military man for you girl this shit isn’t for everyone! I’m so glad I met my husband before he enlisted lol
@mariahJanae2424
@mariahJanae2424 3 жыл бұрын
I wanted to mention I once dated 2 Guys in the Army and it was a bad experience for me as well. The first one literally had kids in different places of the world I knew nothing about. When he came back from South Korea where he was stationed at the time he even had another girlfriend in my hometown that I didn’t know about. My first time knowing she even exists is when he came back home and she was posting him .... it was crazy! The second one Appeared to really like me and that quickly changed because months down the line he was trying to get me to change my body. He kept telling me I should diet and he would like me more if I loose weight 🙄
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Omgggg girl I’m SO sorry this happened to you ugh some men can be so damn sketchy !!!! You’re an absolute angel and so beautiful no man should ever try to tell you anything about your body he was just projecting his insecurities onto you! I’m so happy you walked away and didn’t settle ❤️❤️❤️
@natnel617
@natnel617 3 ай бұрын
Omg how rude rude rude!
@Eccleciastes3.11
@Eccleciastes3.11 Жыл бұрын
I feel like you were directly telling me your story! Thank you for sharing! ❤😂
@justmeashley7923
@justmeashley7923 3 жыл бұрын
Dude was a major D bag! So glad ya didn’t end up with him. Thank goodness! Thank god for unanswered prayers! We ask for these people to be ours and the lord says nahhhh sis he ain’t the one hah. Onto bigger and better. All. The. Way. Around!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Girl yes ! I swear god and the universe always look out for me and allow me to see things that are dead give aways to leave !! He never truly cared about me and it was so obvious after I left I’m so happy I made that choice because who knows where I’d be now if I didn’t. Thank you for your support babe 🥰❤️
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 3 жыл бұрын
Remember always to GUARD YOUR HEART.
@danielastoica2110
@danielastoica2110 3 жыл бұрын
What year and where was he deployed? I was engaged to a marine and when he got out we met and 4 years later he was killed in a car accident but before we met he was in Afghanistan in 2006 into 2007
@De_Nasty
@De_Nasty 3 жыл бұрын
Him hurting doesn’t give him the right to hurt you. He still should’ve talked to you about that instead of just ghosting you
@beatsdontstop305
@beatsdontstop305 3 жыл бұрын
This video was recommended to me today. And I am enjoying this storytime. Sagittarius men omg are very nonchalant about breakups. I just went through it last week. It's crazy.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
It’s insane it’s as if it’s nothing to them !!! And I’m so happy you are enjoying it my love thank you so much for the support 😩❤️🥰
@cassandrav4358
@cassandrav4358 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! My ex is a marine, too. They're monsters!
@cristalcruzzin1756
@cristalcruzzin1756 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been on and off with my bf for 3-4 years he’s a marine. I’ve never had any other issue with him other than communication. Bcuz he’s a marine he leaves all the time and It’s hard. Now I reflect that I was also a bit crazy. But lucky we’ve always had a great relationship despite the downs
@shainashovlowsky7618
@shainashovlowsky7618 3 жыл бұрын
Omg THOSE MARINES THO 🥴😂 Your story times are my fave 🙌🏼
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I loveeee you 😭❤️
@MariaDVicuna
@MariaDVicuna 3 жыл бұрын
You’re story times are so entertaining 🙌🏼 looking forward to more!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Awwww you’re the sweetest thank you babe !!! I can’t wait to keep creating them for you guys !❤️🥰
@asifmuniruniverse7732
@asifmuniruniverse7732 3 жыл бұрын
Please leave me don't use bad words for me do you means that I'm playing drama every day here
@billybob2452
@billybob2452 3 жыл бұрын
@@DakotaaCross I have a stoey of a "supposed alienated father" later i found out I was not his only victim theres several us! His own daughtwrs were taken away by the courts in 2013! Id love to share my story, because it doesent matter hes 45 and is looking gor a sugar momma, he tried everything to get into my finaces and trust!
@KrisyKreme
@KrisyKreme 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry you went through that sis 😪 time-wasters are the worst
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
They absolutely are girl ! I learned so much tho so I don’t make these mistakes again and thank you so much babe ❤️❤️❤️
@shirleyjackson3749
@shirleyjackson3749 3 жыл бұрын
Girl I think it’s so funny how my birthday is 2.27.91 and my 8 yr old daughter is named Aubrey. Nice to finally meet you twinnn 🥰
@ladyjaye7235
@ladyjaye7235 3 жыл бұрын
He just kept you around. Just for the fun of it.
@LydiaVacs
@LydiaVacs 3 жыл бұрын
Who on earth has time to sit there and comment on someone else’s nose!? If that’s the biggest problem in their life, I envy their problems 😂 love these story times!
@ladykelshan99
@ladykelshan99 3 жыл бұрын
That marine was soooo not worth your time..and I am so sorry that you went thru all of that! It's what I like to usually call a "Life Lesson". I dated a man going into the Army when I was 19 (I am now 59,but I don't act like it or look like it to so many people)! My ex I dumped when I was intelligent buy then tried to get back into my life because I was in huge denial that once an abuser, always an abuser. I never lived with him but,I went looking for him online amd found him,I wrote to him and he called me.I finally realized that he was too too strange for me to love. He had some major problems including being hit with an RPG. He hasn't been the same from that day forward...and well,we'll, found a wonderful MA. Aka knight in shining armor just for me.He is an airforce veteran...and he and I are still married after 15 years! I hope you find a remarkable intelligent and fun,loving, caring understand and communicative person to be in your life and in your daughter's life too!! I am going to wish amd hope that you will find the love of your life soon!!
@Cece-wx8cy
@Cece-wx8cy 3 жыл бұрын
🚶🏽‍♀️😀Me grabbing my wine and snacks before the video starts
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
LMAOO this is why I love you 😂🥰
@jessicasibrian5922
@jessicasibrian5922 3 жыл бұрын
You have easily become one of my top 3 story time tellers! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰
@adrialee8149
@adrialee8149 3 жыл бұрын
Girl try khan academy!!! Its a website. It the only reason i placed into the math class i did in college and passed. It goes through and teaches you step by step. It can also help your daughter it has all levels !
@Mrs.Nurse_Fancy
@Mrs.Nurse_Fancy 2 жыл бұрын
is it weird that they try to have you on a schedule. or know your schedule so well they take up any and all space to isolate you to only them?
@Corgicakes28
@Corgicakes28 2 жыл бұрын
People are so weird I didn’t even notice you’re nose like at all! You’re beautiful!!!
@emmizeno7243
@emmizeno7243 3 жыл бұрын
you,nikki glamour,heyparis, and alexis jada should made collab story times together!💞
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
OMG that would be a dream come true 🥺 my favorite you tubers literally !!!❣️
@lenorahummell1580
@lenorahummell1580 3 жыл бұрын
I have dated a Marine and this is them to a T. 😂 Same excuses with the PTSD, which I have as well. Except I actually caught him cheating on me. Then gave him a second chance and caught him cheating again, cause you know his PTSD was triggered and that's why he cheated on me. It was ridiculous, and yes I got played, but a lesson learned Even down to the pictures of other women, exact story almost. 😂
@Sweet_love93
@Sweet_love93 3 жыл бұрын
sounds like a narcissist to me those red flags were pleading with you sis!
@palomamendoza08
@palomamendoza08 3 жыл бұрын
I should probably be squeezing in a workout but storytimeeeeee soundsss soooo much better 😂 😩
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you and this energy 😂❤️!!!! Much love to you babe 🥰❤️🙏🏼
@36yearsat1
@36yearsat1 3 жыл бұрын
I love your laugh 💗🥺 you’re also a really good story teller the whole time I felt like i was getting the tea from a friend lol I was invested
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you soooo much my love 🥺😩 that was my Whole goal with this channel was to create a space where we can all feel like a family and laugh together. Thank you for the support babe 🥺❤️🥺
@lovefckz5716
@lovefckz5716 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t notice your nose at all until u pointed it out and then still it’s hard to really see and notice. People are weird, usually people like that aren’t goal oriented and envy people that have personality and drive in life! U know what it is. I’m sorry love. You’re beautiful!
@w1ldsvlog72
@w1ldsvlog72 3 жыл бұрын
Girl! I just came across your video. Same thing happened to be but I let this go on for 6 years smh now I have relationship PTSD and to him it’s like I never even existed. Thank you for posting this, makes me feel not so alone.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Omg you are So sweet 🥺 this is why I made my channel telling my Stories to make people feel understood and heard ! I’m so sorry this happened to you but you are absolutely Beautiful and amazing don’t let anyone ever make you feel otherwise ❤️
@teapoodle3977
@teapoodle3977 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry; I went through something similar and the recovery process has been rough. Don’t hesitate to reach out if you want to talk.
@MSRLR
@MSRLR 2 жыл бұрын
I worked retail 8 years. Military guys always demand free stuff.
@erickitchell9501
@erickitchell9501 3 жыл бұрын
Dakota your a beautiful women inside and out .... Don't let them try to get you down. They are insecure about themselves if they are trying to bully other people. Just keyboard warriors who live at home with mommy and daddy still.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
I agree!! I think some people just live in negativity and I refuse to stoop to their level. thank you so much for your kind words my love 🥰🥰
@erickitchell9501
@erickitchell9501 3 жыл бұрын
@@DakotaaCross Thank you so much! You have one of the most attractive qualities in a women that I have ever seen and it's just the way you display and show your strength and confidence that you have inside. You can see how strong of a women and mom that you are and it just says a lot about the good kind heart that you have and the women you are and that's so attractive. I don't know what it is, just the energy you put off and how happy you are is very nice and motivating. Keep up the good work! keep your head up and have a blessed day!
@erickitchell9501
@erickitchell9501 3 жыл бұрын
How could I forget, Happy Early Birthday! Hope you have an amazing day! You deserve only the best!
@pamg7414
@pamg7414 3 жыл бұрын
First, you are gorgeous. And i feel that you let yourself that someone treated you that way. You deserve more in life.
@jhoniquebaez7229
@jhoniquebaez7229 2 жыл бұрын
i’ve only ever dated Marines! never again!
@prescillagarland7126
@prescillagarland7126 3 жыл бұрын
I haven’t even watched this video yet and I’m absolutely appalled to hear that pathetic people are taking the time and energy to attempt to make you feel bad about yourself. I’m so glad that you’re resilient but I just wanted to say that I think your nose is genuinely PERFECT and you are a beautiful person, in and out. Okay, time to make my tea and get cosy 😄☕️
@melaniecamberra8293
@melaniecamberra8293 3 жыл бұрын
Happy early birthday!! Girl I'm seriously curious as to how you still believe in mankind after all those toxic male energy . anyway I love your videos !! and you gorgeous no matter what the haters say . I hope you have a blessed life ahead :)
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Girl me too !! Lmao it gets worse with each story time trust me 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ I have learned so much tho so now I’m very picky and selective of who gets my Time and energy so ill stay single Until the right one comes and thank you so much babe sending you sooooo much love xoxo 🥰❤️
@Judetth
@Judetth 3 жыл бұрын
People just don't change even if they say they would... that's it. They just need to put their shit together before trying dating someone
@apbxny216
@apbxny216 3 жыл бұрын
Lady, have you ever seen the movie "Dangerous Liasones"? Please see this movie. This guy is playing you like a sport.
@crimson3sky
@crimson3sky 3 жыл бұрын
It sounds pretty similar like this situationship I was in with this guy who was in the army. I broke up with him after a few months because he'd say and do things with a completely nonchalant attitude that were just not it for me, not caring about my feelings one bit it was like he was completely tone deaf when it came to how his actions affected me, I was in a tough period of my life then as well and it felt like he was one of the things that heightened my stress and anxiety levels even more. I tried to do the friend thing and I realized in about 1 week that being this man's friend did not benefit me in any way, it only benefited him. He was ok no problems already fucking other people, he just wanted the emotional benefits I provided because I've been a very understanding person with him. I sent him a message, told him what I had to say and just fell off the map for him. He tried to contact me a month later to complain about his new breakup. This man had the time to be in a whole other relationship and break up in less than a month after we cut contact, complaining about how he's hurt and basically kind of blaming it on the other person and I was thinking like bro, I wonder why it didn't work. Never again. I'm getting anxiety just thinking about that situation.
@ivastewart7106
@ivastewart7106 3 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY, AND DON'T EVER LET NOBODY TELL YOU YOUR NOT. POPE IVA. 🕊🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕊
@AngelicCryz222
@AngelicCryz222 5 ай бұрын
Listening to you.. you're my people lol chill not fancy.. love it!
@rochellethundercloud346
@rochellethundercloud346 2 жыл бұрын
I'm married to a marine. Daughter of one. Sister of 9. Yes. I'm a marine brat. Some are pure trash.
@amber-ql7fq
@amber-ql7fq 3 жыл бұрын
It seems like he was salty you didn’t beg for him to go back to you the first time he broke up w/ You . So he got back with you hoping to finally get a negative reaction from you Some Men are sick
@gwen08g
@gwen08g 3 жыл бұрын
Omgosh! That is so mean! You are absolutely beautiful. I would love to see the people that said that about you! Ugh! New subscriber!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much my love !!!🥰❤️
@Kat_X085
@Kat_X085 3 жыл бұрын
Why does that Sagittarius sound like a Aquarius? 👀
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao he very well could have an Aquarius moon or rising 😂❤️
@Strawberriezrule13
@Strawberriezrule13 3 жыл бұрын
nooo we don't claim him 💀💀💀
@Kat_X085
@Kat_X085 3 жыл бұрын
@@DakotaaCross 😂
@Kat_X085
@Kat_X085 3 жыл бұрын
@@Strawberriezrule13 yesss. Lol
@Talkinsports91
@Talkinsports91 3 жыл бұрын
Great way to kick off the weekend. Storytime.
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!!! have an amazing weekend love 🥰
@l0stM3rmaid
@l0stM3rmaid 3 жыл бұрын
youre becoming one of my fave youtubers!! i love watching your videos. HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY BTW ♓💕💕🥳 also don't listen to the internet haters, you are gorgeous girl!!
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Omg thank you so much !!🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️ This was the sweetest Comment ever it, it pushed me To keep moving forward and creating content and thank you babe !!! The big 27 lolll! I hope you have an amazing weekend my love 🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️🙏🏼
@thenarcsbride1819
@thenarcsbride1819 3 жыл бұрын
This channel will 100% blow up very soon! Love these storytimes, keep up the good work girl ☺️💚
@DakotaaCross
@DakotaaCross 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ugh this comment really just made my day love 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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