Dan Fogelberg - Leader of the Band (from Live: Greetings from the West)

[@fredjarmuz1808]

If you loved your dad like I did, how can you not cry when hearing this song?

[@Milehighsheppard]

Absolutely, this is my story with my father who passed during covid in Australia while I was stuck State side😢😢

[@MichaelOsterhaus]

Even though I never got to know my father, I just recently got to know my grandfather through his nephew, it's as though I got to know where I come from through him

[@jacescum1]

Brings tears to my eyes

[@cwinsten1]

Because the song is boring bullshit.

[@miked7304]

My Dad passed away 7 years ago and I totally relate to this song.

[@Yamg-n8f]

Who's still watching and listenig to this wonderful song it's 08/25/2024 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭RIP mr. Fogelberg

[@auntbarky]

I am!

[@northsongs]

Yep. Still watching DF. One of the best ever!

[@AudioFileZ]

yes!

[@emme6447]

I am still 9/22/24

[@ellencassidy7899]

me! on my playlist!

[@donnabergeson5340]

My 2 older brothers were privileged to be in Dan's father's band in the sixties in Pekin, IL. I had accepted a challenge to change from playing a clarinet to playing a bassoon. I was privileged to have private lessons from Mr. Fogelberg. He not only taught me to play the bassoon, but he put a love of music in my soul. Hearing this song brings back memories of the man who helped me to believe I could play that instrument.

[@barbarawillemain3706]

WOW!!

[@cwatkins634]

What a treasure ❤

[@taram4675]

❤😊

[@petergregory8194]

Amazing! God Bless

[@JeffMon2323]

What a great memorie!

[@jlandon6028]

Why isn't this man in The Hall Of Fame? He's the greatest singer, songwriter, musician I've ever heard in my life and I'm 67 years old.

[@joshuamitchell5481]

I agree. The new music has no soul

[@ricklong3260]

You said it...politics? Why?

[@Shadow_bru]

@@joshuamitchell5481no soul, or melody. Now it’s just shit ass rapping with drum beats. No pitches, no emotion, just bland dog crap

[@asahel980]

@@joshuamitchell5481 there are some good ones, but yes most are just bad, and I believe its on purpose.

[@gib59er56]

That is a very big thing to be. Best ever?? No friggin way.

[@kristygervais111]

I grew up listening to this song. Being 53 now it brings a new meaning & back so many great memories! What a great song & tribute to a father!

[@dapperdan251]

As the saying goes “I hear without listening”. I am 72 years old and I’ve heard this song played for years. Not until now have I finally really listened to the true meaning behind this song. It touches me so deeply. My father was not a musician, but was a leader in his own right. He was a well respected gentleman who spoke no ill of other people. He treated all people fairly. All of his business dealings were honest. He taught me the meaning of an honest days work and to always be a man of your word. He passed when I was a young man. I regret I never told him how much I appreciated the direction he gave me growing up.

[@allensherrill850]

My father was a ww2 hero. I could never imagine living up to his legacy, but I’m trying my best

[@susanmcavoy9213]

@@allensherrill850 That's all any of us can do.

[@bubbybearist]

I feel the same way

[@warrenjohn]

Same here Mr. Dan. Same.

[@JoanH-g7t]

What a beautiful tribute to your father!

[@therighttune]

RIP Dan, died at 56.. so early

[@anothymason8063]

Much too young. His music is tremendous

[@Booklook111]

🌹

[@mariannekopec6982]

MURDERED ❤​@@anothymason8063

[@Stevie-hn7mp]

So sad . Very handsome and so talented. 😢😢😢

[@JoyceBaker-ni2kf]

I get choked up every time I hear this song. My father was a carpenter but always wanted to learn to fly planes. He "gave up" his piloting ambitions to support our family with his carpentry skills and work ethic. He was a very moral man and I still strive to "imitate" him that way. I, at times, long to have one last conversation with him... he would be 107 this coming year if he were still with us. He will always be the "hero" in my life and I will always have tears when I hear this song.

[@margaretsmith1465]

Same for my father, he was a singer, offered contracts on west coast during his service in San Diego, in WW2, but came home to save the family farm. He’s been gone 22 yrs now, but I miss him every single day, strive to be as good as he was, and long for the conversations with him. We have tapes of him singing songs that we all still listen to. My brother sings them to his children, passing them down, along with the stories of their grandpapa they never met. So, life goes on, as it must, and should. ❤

[@JillBurwell-z7o]

My dad was a carpenter and a pilot. I used to brag that my daddy took me up playing in the clouds.

[@MrDbrizzle]

To call Dan a songwriter is to call Shakespeare an author. Dan was a poet with a unique way of speaking directly to a person’s soul.

[@robertzimmerman7596]

Yep

[@chrisolagrim3597]

Fucking amazing. Brings me to tears .

[@williamschlemmer5282]

Shakespeare wasn't an author, you ever read the true bio on him, all those plays and poems was written by another

[@karenbenson1665]

True

[@johnhopkins4983]

So correct what a TRUE TALENT 👍

[@toddbob55]

Nobody writes songs like these anymore, 1980's was a great time.

[@paozuniga8505]

true story bro.

[@sherrilee3790]

So true! Songs told stories at one time...

[@MrSpacejase]

Todd bob I do.

[@frankgonzales2158]

Todd bob damn right,, our era,,,🐺

[@limomangeno]

Thank God,they don't....these are enough...go do a dub....

[@SteveLowe65]

25 years ago my dad passed. In five days, I will have outlived him. 'papa, I don't think I said I love you near enough....'

[@veronikafreeman]

My father was a soldier (Marine), a cabinet maker (journeyman in Germany), and self-taught accordion and organ player, had a great music collection that I was fascinated with since I literally was born. He passed last Monday... this was the father/daughter dance song I chose in 2001... tonight this lyric resonates with me even more.

[@danjohnson5561]

This song means so much to me because it brings me back in time . I lost my Dad 7 years ago and it reminds me of our special times we had shared. God rest his loving soul and know you are missed then you will ever know.

[@practicekindness]

My father died 32 1/2 years ago--half my lifetime ago--& I still miss him so much. And this song still means so much thinking about Dad.

[@XXAbbott]

I remember when my dad turned 59 a few years ago, it was just a few days after his birthday, and he said “I am exactly how old my dad was to the day when he died” kinda shocked me, but my dad was much older than I am when his father was 59, I guess it’s easier to lose a parent when you’re 37 than 21, (I was 21 then).

[@do9138]

@@practicekindness Yeah, my Dad died 37 years ago. He had this ratty cheap old chair. I've carted it across the country three times. It's too broken down to support anyone, but it has a place of honor in my living room and always will. When I look at it, I see him. Daddy never left his little girl. He looks at me every day from his chair and says, "You know what the right thing to do is." I do what would make Daddy proud because "my life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man."

[@maryjowilkinson8139]

I'm 65 years old and this is one of my all-time favorite songs. The love, tenderness and respect Dan has for his father is heard throughout this song.

[@r.a.contrerasma8578]

"His blood runs through my instruments and his song is in my soul." What words!

[@thomashayes8901]

You were a lucky man Dan Fogelberg to have nothing left unsaid between father and son. May you both rest in peace.

[@jackilynpyzocha662]

I think of Charles Glanville, formerly "the Leader Of The Band" Monson, MA

[@chrisolagrim3597]

Lyrics like that resonate with me big time

[@roberthall573]

"Thunderous velvet hand"

[@brendamagee6411]

What an amazing string of words, but I get it, I really do. My father was a Linotype for the Staten Island Advance, I am a published author, when I write/type my stories, I sing this song because..."his blood runs through my instruments and his song is in my soul." I f eel very close to him.

[@PatrickBMusic-sf2hu]

No doubt One of the most beautiful songs Ever written.

[@mikestewart5194]

Heard it on the radio the day my Daddy died. I also heard "in the living years" the same day. And no "I wasn't there that morning when my Father past away!" Talk about tears.

[@mikestewart5194]

@Big Steve Thank you my brother.

[@godhere6459]

boo wooo

[@panneetantinukul5658]

Now he and his father were in heaven together.

[@coldwinter5710]

NO DOUBT! 👍🎶

[@juliesipes8007]

My father was a music teacher. He passed-away last year from Covid. 1/19/1937-11/9/2020. This is for you, Dad. ❤️

[@bivinsblinc6503]

Hi

[@ricklong3260]

Last time I had my prostate checked. ... It was a bit concerning when I noticed the dr. Had a hand on each of my shoulders...😮

[@BKNY1322]

RIP to your dad

[@dianenichols5977]

so sorry, 😥 Covid sucks

[@ronaldlee6565]

I was lucky enough to have the leader of the band as my high school band director at Pekin Community HS, graduating in 1975. He is probably the only reason I graduated & kept me focused enough to stay in school. He talked about Dan all the time & he was just starting to get famous. Dan would come to our band concerts several times a year. I was lucky enough to hang out with him a few times in our drum room before the concerts. He loved jammin' on the vibraphone!! If we only had cell phone video back then. There's not a day goes by that I don't think about Larry Fogelberg. He was the biggest influence in my life besides my own mom & dad.

[@jeffhale7640]

I'm from Illinois, too, by the way.

[@donconry7894]

Ronald Lee well said thanks for sharing people touch our lives in amazing ways

[@BeckVMH]

Very cool. Sometimes the dots just line up. Good for you and thanks for illustrating his dad’s legacy.

[@revengee4807]

Thank you so much for sharing your story!

[@krisgreenwood5173]

You are a lucky guy

[@ramonromero-xb6yb]

His dad is long gone..... so Dan himself....... but this music will outlive most of us as long as the internet is around. And this is Dan's legacy as well as his dad to those who love this song.

[@willjenkins3529]

HE'S IN A BETTER PLACE. GOD GOTTA HIM. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR ❤❤😢

[@salmansedic6431]

I'm 17 years old and my dad passed away when I was 9. I really love this song, it reminds me of him. We used to sang this song. He left me early but the memories he gave to me was priceless. ❤️

[@mikecuttle5686]

Good for you to let this great song speak to you. This song was playing when my mom passed away in hospice care. My dad was an imposing figure in our family but mom was the leader of the band. I hope you can find strength in the words that great poets and songwriters give us all.

[@kentbrown6313]

@@mikecuttle5686 Mike I know how you feel. My dad has been gone for 48 years. I'm 67 now but I still miss him so much.

[@brucehenson2904]

SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS….MEMORIES….

[@arlenedavidson5406]

I am sorry you lost your dad at such a young age. I was lucky to have mine for 40 yrs.

[@chrisolagrim3597]

My old man topped himself when I was eleven so I can absolutely relate to you mate. Memories now are as vivid as 25 years ago when he passed

[@guitarguru.3572]

I’m not a huge folk rock fan, but the most amazing songwriters ever came from that scene. James Taylor, Harry Chapin, Jim Croce, Dan Fogelberg, the list goes on. They all just know how to speak to the heart.

[@kimberlyboggs8154]

Dont forget Gordan Lightfoot. All from the seventies. My childhood.

[@guitarguru.3572]

@@kimberlyboggs8154 absolutely, as well as Cat Stevens, Simon & Garfunkel, Bob Dylan, the list goes on.

[@MrOrujam]

@@guitarguru.3572, hey!! And Don McClean.

[@kuyakentv2333]

And John Denver

[@bobcasella2777]

i have to agree with you i can't tell you how many times these artists help save my life

[@rogm8577]

My dad wasnt a musician, but a Marine in WWII. He was a hero to his comrades then and a hero to me in an entirely different way later. The day he died, this was the first song I heard. The quiet power of the words and the music is the way I saw my Dad. Its been more than 39 years and my heart still aches. Love and miss you terribly Dad.

[@AdariousMistdancer]

It just isn't something that ever goes away.

[@manuelasuncion2942]

This physical body dies but the eternal soul never dies. That is how God the Father Almighty created us. If we die imperfect in this life we get another chance. The soul reincarnates taking another body form next lifetime. Do nobody really dies the soul of your parents, friends, your other relatives, your own soul, moves on to another journey. Some reincarnates to take another physical body but facing the same karma he failed to resolve in the past life.

[@BuddyLee23]

Leader of the…platoon? 🫡

[@susanperkins5796]

This also describes my Dad, a WWII Marine and hero, who died in his sleep at age 56, many years ago. Still hurts my heart

[@wickedout2010]

My dad is now in his 90s and his time is limited on this earth. I love him with my entire heart! ❤️ He’s the best dad I could have ever had in my life. We lost mom in 2019. They were married for 67 years. I love you Dad! I love you Mom and miss you so much. My life hasn’t been perfect by any means. I’ve lost so much faith and hope over the last 20 years or so. I’m sorry I never reached the stars ⭐️ like you dreamed of me. Thank you for always being there for me. Rest easy Mom! I love you and miss you! ❤️🙏🏼

[@doalaboo7090]

Perfectly said. Wish ida said it first.

[@MrCraigo8]

Beautifully said, you did the best you could under the circumstances through your life, just like all of us, that you were a decent human and showed kindness at times is an absolute pass...

[@Vicky-fn2ru]

Wow I'm at lost for words

[@Wishbringer7]

A uniquely beautiful and emotional song. Dan Fogelberg was one of the under-appreciated greats. When you can sit before an audience with nothing but guitar in hand, that's true talent. He didn't try to be a superstar; he was one of the few modern troubadours.

[@raellertson1]

I memorized every song he sang. I taught the lyrics to my students. They loved him and his songs. They were poetry set to music.

[@markdrake2715]

One of a kind...

[@valcox637]

I saw him on an acoustic tour and along with his guitar, he played his piano! It was amazing!!! I saw him in Grand Rapids Michigan!

[@susiehawkins8692]

Even though he was not as famous as some of the other artists, he was one of the best!❤

[@kickass4890]

Jim Croce, Harry Chapin same way

[@purplecherry9364]

Four days from last comment: A week ago I had been feeling suicidal, I just felt like I was ready to go, like I couldn't connect to anything anymore. Then I discovered you, Dan Fogelberg and your music, it made me feel something again and started to feel happy even if just a little. You're gone now but I think you may have just saved my life, so thank you.

[@LisaCSCO]

@Hammerschlägen M you do not know that person to judge what they are going thru. You are an asshole.

[@akala-bluesaville9866]

Purple Cherry god bless you. I know how you feel 😢 remember you are glorious 👼 💕 😇

[@purplecherry9364]

@Hammerschlägen M I didn't write that to make anyone feel sorry for me. I wrote that as a thank you to Dan since I have no way to thank him personally for what his music did for me so I wrote here. I couldn't fathom the amount of energy you have to attack people you don't know. You must have a lot of time in your hands.

[@kyleray9633]

@Hammerschlägen M Hi. Try it.

[@jeadie2273]

To those out there who are "the haters", all I can say is...how dare you? I personally have never been suicidal or in a place where I felt despair, however....I work in healthcare and see it every day with many of my patients. Those of us who are in a good place will never understand what someone might be going through, whether it's temporary or long term mental illness. People need compassion...something far missing in today's society. If music is the connection that brings people together or at the very least, uplifts ones spirits to get them out of a funk, then so be it. Most decent musicians make music for that very reason. "Haters" have no place in my world and should keep their pathetic opinions to themselves.....but this is just one health professionals opinion.

[@eugeniodgv]

I feel sorry for any singer songwriter who dares to compare himself with Dan Fogelberg. It is him in a category all to himself. All others are way behind him. Lots of great music out there but there never was nor will there ever be one like him. Truly, comparatively speaking, Dec 16th 2007 was the day the music died

[@lhernana2j]

A time when music actually meant something. I miss those days.

[@Osiris74]

Seems to me, you may not be listening to right contemporary music if you are not coming across meaningful tunes in the present... it's out there...

[@TokenChineseGuy]

Music still means a lot of things.

[@PBandJTime]

lhernana2j I think that our opinions about music, trends to be generational. Everybody loves the music of the decade or 2, that they grew up in. A song that has a lot of meaning, to you, May not impress your kids, so much. Likewise, many songs that your children find deep meaning in, will not hold the same effect over you.

[@maria458]

lhernana2j I miss those days, also.

[@patrickjoy9551]

If this song was new today it would be a hit all over again.

[@lesliegould9429]

I miss this man every day ... nobody writes and sings the way Dan Did.

[@tonyahrrold8273]

I really miss Dan. alot

[@romaynecarlin1249]

its one of those things where you remember where you were when you heard the news... i'll always miss dan, john denver and glenn frey everyday, forever.

[@jojobarcelon9266]

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[@davidmoore1517]

Hello dear,how are you doing?

[@michie43able]

I miss him all the time too.

[@FolkCountryHeartTunes278]

A uniquely beautiful and emotional song. Dan Fogelberg was one of the under-appreciated greats. When you can sit before an audience with nothing but guitar in hand, that's true talent. He didn't try to be a superstar; he was one of the few modern troubadours.

[@2303stella]

What Dan had said here is so beautiful. So sad that he's not here with us, but maybe Dan and his father play music together in heaven.

[@anneoboyle426]

You know they are!right now, and always...and forever.

[@sharonsterling1058]

Loved this man and his music! Gone too soon.. Dan you will live on in your music and hope you and your Dad are playing music in heaven!❤

[@bobpowell7002]

where is 'heaven' exactly ??

[@70sstreetracergal61]

When angels sing, we now know who is leading the band!❤️

[@chuchugiin8390]

Or maybe they've been reincarnated as friends or they still father and son

[@teenastetic3681]

I love it when children pay tribute to their parents

[@MariaSantana-ul5wd]

@@redneckcoder Sometimes it takes a child to break painful generational cycles. Yet, we have a Father in Heaven. Psalm 68:5

[@SonorousMusic]

Dan was a true master of the music.. the lyric.. and the song. Imagine your child growing up and writing a song like this for you. Thank you and RIP Dan.

[@nancyboyd6273]

Beautifully said ❤️

[@billiedonas6135]

So beautiful

[@giflorjuan4677]

Old songs are much meaningful than the songs these days.

[@neptunemike]

lyrics makers nowadays are afraid of being literal and of sounding “mushy” but that’s what made the old songs so endearing

[@lindyprimo9025]

@@neptunemike LONG haired hippies all singing the SAME KIND LOVE songs with SOUL LITERALLY "kind" songs THAT ALL of us believed in and wanted so MUCH to JUST be HAPPY! And TRY an STOP THE wars, LOVE one ANOTHER.. I JUST pray we can all try and get along before we all HATE so much we all suffer the consequences A WORLD so full of hate! We must all choose now 😉✌😷

[@killemall311]

The problem with music now a days is how to get laid

[@sophiadolor4775]

yes

[@logon235]

Every generation has their gems. We are just going through some of the trash music. No doubt, there were horrible music in the 80's and they are long forgotten. There will be music now that will be appreciated in the future as we now appreciate the past. We can only grow.

[@chriscareertech1]

Dan Fogelberg was gift to all of us. I miss him, his music touched my life.

[@steveathans9975]

Yes... so beautifully crafted. The harmonies on "Run for the Roses" is also.

[@tripwires2]

This song reminds me of my dad he passed seven and a half years ago missing you dad

[@sistermarykathleenroth5060]

Amen! The best poet/musician ever!

[@miahcg7404]

Amen

[@jackieross5476]

You are so spot on. He and Cat Stevens, two male vocalist that influenced me when I was young in the 70s so very very much.🥰🥰

[@mikeshappy1]

My Dad was my Hero this song touches my heart and soul it makes me think that all I am I owe to him as a man that worked hard all of his life and never shook his responsibilities as a provider and a Dad .I LOVE YOU DAD.

[@donwilcox728]

Music like this is such a gift, a priceless treasure. It takes talent and a lot of guts to open your soul like this. It's a shame that we have to go back decades in order to experience something like this.

[@Nananator2009]

That's when you know that you're a legend among mortals - when, with nothing but your guitar, voice and lyrics, you can keep an audience in silent rapture. RIP, good sir. They don't make em like you anymore.

[@robertjones4200]

So true

[@paanne1013]

I saw him in concert and was just blown away by his solo performance. He was truly amazing.

[@GuttersMN]

My dad is starting to fade. He has no musical gift, but I have similar feelings about the values and priorities he instilled in me. Many of which I did not appreciate until I was much older. Love you, dad!

[@willjenkins3529]

AMEN. PLZ DON'T BLINK. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏 ❤❤😂

[@DonutGRD]

They don’t make ‘‘em like that anymore

[@lariler2]

My father died 22 yrs ago. I was in a store and this song was playing. I had to leave leave the store , I was breaking down. When ever I am feeling sad about my father, I play this song....But I have to listen in private.

[@ChrisElison-d6c]

I wished I Had a Father that i loved that much.

[@atty4349]

If they don't play this at my funeral, I'm not coming.

[@sherimeyers2495]

Lol good one.!!!

[@timbracht2450]

Lol

[@cameronwhalley2161]

😂😂

[@jmbb5533]

Terrific

[@orlandosurima]

Well,tell them in advance.LOL😂😂😂

[@damiancazares7994]

Happy Heavenly 73rd Birthday Dan Fogelberg August 13 1951 - December 16 2007

[@johndelvisco4528]

Im 57. Ive listened to Dan Fogelberg virtually all my life since a young boy in the late 70s. Heard this song maybe 1000 times over the years but today,,,,it has meaning. You listen to a song and hear it so much the voice of the song almost becomes an instrument itself so it also becomes background. You know its there, you know you like it, you know you've heard it before but its just a song,,,,until it's not. Tonight i have sat here and LISTENED to these words. Story of a man and son, passion for a life one couldn't have only for him to give life to a son for his passion. Wow, its my father and me. At 50yrs old, i lost both of my parents. They gave me a chance at life, my father taught me everything he knew but in the end I didnt really know HIM. I look back now on everything, my triumphs, failures and rising above everything the way he taught me how to do it. I've been sitting here crying my eyes out because this song is my Father. For all you out there who still have your Fathers, call him, say hello, say I love you, say thank you or just look at him and give him a hug without saying a word and dont worry,,,he will know. Do it for me because i cant do it anymore. I didn't do it enough. My Father was the leader of my heart. Dont wait until its too late to do something. So many things im sorry for that i just never had the last chance to say im sorry. Let this song inspire you.

I Loved my dad so, so much that he taught me to become the man I am today. A serial killer. Love you pops.

[@robertcombs55]

My Dad has been gone for 30 years...this brought him back for a few precious moments...

[@RobinVanier]

❤❤❤ I'll miss my dad forever

[@jimstrowe1880]

He had the foresight to honor his father while he could. Dynamite

[@gailhenderson7645]

never forgotten Dan, never

[@chaunezkalk9822]

My Dad passed in 1998. H3 was a simple man, little education, but served America. Yep, he was a soldier under General, George Patton. A soldier by day; their, head cook as he knew how to scratch cook. Yep! I was very grateful that his American Legions provided him with pallbearers, and a military gun salute. Yep!.

[@flawdanative3223]

Yep! 🫡

[@44beebe]

Today I discovered Dan Fogelberg and this song. Brings tears to my eyes. Beautiful song.

[@sharonfoster7674]

❤️

[@biancachristine7860]

So good

[@markcarboon7008]

I cannot listen to it either without crying.

[@tomcooley3778]

Welcome!

[@steventipton954]

I'm currently losing my father. This song hits different. Wow. Beautiful.

[@jimchumley7907]

So sorry Tipton I'll pray for your comfort. I lost my father in June of 1991. Think of him almost every day. We were very close.

[@michie43able]

I'm so sorry Steven. I know the feeling.

[@steventipton954]

​@Jim Chumley . He passed Sept 24. I appreciate your kind comment.

[@steventipton954]

​@@michie43able. Thank u very much.

[@rebecajohnston1135]

I sang this song to my dad as he was dying, changing the lyrics up slightly to fit his life. He already had his eyes shut and was on oxygen and medication to keep his blood pressure up but I know he heard me because a tear ran down his cheek. Cherish those moments with your dad. 🙏

[@foghornd1059]

Nobody understand me better than you dad. not even my wife, brother and sister. When you look at me, you knew what I am thinking and going through. You read me like an open book. And talk to me when no one is around. I was tearing when I text these messages. I miss you so much dad

[@amboymcknow7574]

Your words deeply touched me and I feel my tears going fall as am reading the lines.

[@foghornd1059]

@@amboymcknow7574 it's been 10 years since his passing. i still think of him. not because i am unable to let go of him. because he is the one i can talk with an open heart and gave me valuable advice while my wife and sibling are only interested in money. he would approach me and ask me directly and say, want to talk? recently, i have visit him in the temple where his remain are kept. Seeing only his photograph on his urn. my tears keeps flowing down, unable to talk.

[@christaylor2529]

@@foghornd1059 hugs wish I had that kind of father relationship. Your so blessed to have had that.

[@JLKeener77]

One of the most beautiful songs ever written and performed. Unbelievable.

[@1leelex]

Just so heartfelt from Dan.....Beautiful..

[@julstaqueban]

An only child alone and wild, a cabinet maker's son His hands were meant for different work And his heart was known to none He left his home and went his lone and solitary way And he gave to me a gift I know I never can repay A quiet man of music denied a simpler fate He tried to be a soldier once, but his music wouldn't wait He earned his love through discipline, a thundering velvet hand His gentle means of sculpting souls took me years to understand The leader of the band is tired and his eyes are growing old But his blood runs through my instrument and his song is in my soul My life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man I'm just a living legacy to the leader of the band My brother's lives were different for they heard another call One went to Chicago and the other to St Paul And I'm in Colorado when I'm not in some hotel Living out this life I've chose and come to know so well I thank you for the music and your stories of the road I thank you for the freedom when it came my time to go I thank you for the kindness and the times when you got tough And papa, I don't think I said I love you near enough The leader of the band is tired and his eyes are growing old But his blood runs through my instrument and his song is in my soul My life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man I'm just a living legacy to the leader of the band I am a living legacy to the leader of the band

[@roxannerose2828]

I am great full and privileged to have heard a great musician 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😢🥰

[@vicabalos7368]

Gooze bump. Its a legacy to hav good father

[@search4truth616]

You are a good son Dan Fogelberg. May your father rest in peace.

[@mikeandrews9551]

There’s a piece of our own ‘leader of the band’ in all of us.

[@WenAx-d7d]

How wonderful to remember your father 💋❤️🙏🏻 how proud he must have been ❤️

[@daveenyart]

I'm a retired band teacher. I can't even begin to say what this song means to me.

[@jimbrewster9352]

Dave Enyart ... thank you for the years of inspiring young minds with the beauty and joy of music... each student is "just a living legacy to the leader of... the band............✌👏

[@daveenyart]

@@jimbrewster9352 I am humbled by your kind words Jim. Yep...I feel pretty good about my career....it was always about the kids.

[@Swampfox69]

There will be a special place in heaven for you my friend. My High School band teacher was the most influential person in my life aside from my parents. Even though I'm 35 years removed from that experience the things he taught are still with me and I'm still honored to have him in my life albeit through social media. Thank you for your service.

[@daveenyart]

@@Swampfox69 Thank you Gary. My former students are exceptionally important to me. If not for Facebook I would not be aware of their triumphs, challenges, family tragedies.... weddings....all that stuff. I didn't intend to be a commercial for FB...but I'm grateful to keep in touch with the kids.

[@juntagasa4102]

This will depends what your emotions how you appreciate this song it depends

[@albertcruise1414]

My Father died when I was 8. I'm 60 now. This song has always had a special place in my heart and always will. Thank you Mr. Fogelberg.

[@KenGombold1104]

I grew to enjoy this wonderful song, my dad was not the leader of a band but was a great leader, supported 4 kids as well as having a great wife beside him, he was a great father and dad, he has been gone now for 11 years and is missed by so many people for the things he has done and for the people that has ever got to know him...

[@PaulinesFavourites]

Lost my Dad March 8th, 2012. For me this song is him. Thankyou❤️🙏😪

[@josephdeprince1132]

I missed my Dad. Our story together is different.. MY DAD was a Mechanical engineer. When my dad passed away, I cried everyday for 2 months. I'm 65 years old now. I'm a Mechanical engineer too--because of him.

[@willjenkins3529]

He's in a better place. GOD GOTTA HIM. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏 ❤❤❤

[@jacquessowhat3680]

I lost my dad four years ago. He was absolutely nothing like his father. I wished he was.

[@bdamia]

BRAVO... Nothing better than expressing how much you love your parents while they are still here...

[@angelabrock2224]

My Paw Paw (SSGT Fred B. Cagle) passed at 64 (11/5/81). He led our family with kindness, music & his love of Jesus. He taught me so much....I wish I could tell my Paw Paw how much I love him. I learned this song on my French Horn...."it wasn't near enough".

[@willjenkins3529]

AMEN. GOD GOTTA HIM. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR 😢😢❤❤❤

[@achriscilley3965]

Funny how the tables turn, watching my mom die slowly through hospices help touched me deeply, l was blessed to have her, dads turn came next, watching a strong man become child like l now know was God's way of helping him pass on into the arms of our Savior. There is no other place l would have wanted to be watching them pass was a lesson they taught me while being my parents they were both my leaders of the band. One of the most precious gifts l have ever had the honor of opening.

[@alexis.monterreal2321]

My father passed away in 2007. I sang part of this song to him minutes after he died in the hospital. I cry whenever I listen to this. Dan Folgeberg himself died later that year.

[@krishnamariesarsalijo480]

Millenial crying here, its just so emotional and deep im the heart.

[@chrisahearn1735]

Glean

[@vanislefan]

Me too..

[@carolburke5591]

there's nothing left unsaid when he passed away.

[@sbmj87]

carol Burke, that statement is as beautiful as the song itself.

[@libertyann439]

One can not ask for more in his life....🌈

[@lorengeronimo6708]

Music lover of 80's Folk , rock and country music❤❤

[@clifforddeintje5438]

MAN!!! Does he sound great live!! No auto tune or lip syncing.... just pure unadulterated talent. There is nothing close to the greatness of this being recorded today.

[@jeanniemainzer8551]

I've been to over 75 concerts. Many of them I've forgotten. But I will never forget watching Dan work his magic with just his piano and guitar at Century II in Wichita, Kansas in the early 80's. He was riveting and the audience was completely captivated. He is missed terribly, but his music lives on.

[@FROGMEDIC]

Miss you so much Dad! RIP

[@joekingman4654]

Dan Fogelberg is a lyrical genius. Thank you for sharing with us!

[@ingridkivi3024]

Good singer Songs that we understand not like rap songs That you can't understand

[@atreyuprincipalh4043]

My Dad he was a musician and singer ,he passed away this Morning I played this Song to him... thank You Dan ,Where Ever in Heaven You and My Dad Are.

[@detroittankcity4587]

Can you imagine anything more profound for a father than hearing this tribute song to you, written by your son?

[@tamikillion6115]

I thank you for your kindness and the times when you got tough, papa I don't think I said I love you near enough. I will always think of my pops when I hear Dan. I was lucky to grow up near Dans home town of Peoria IL. Oddly my pops met him on a couple of occasions as he dated one of Dans cousins. I lost dad more than 10 years ago. I thank him and dan for the soundtrack of my life. I will hold them both dear to me forever. My pops was the leader of the band and I miss him so much. RIP Steve Morton love you pops and my heart is always with you

[@cubsnation7363]

Tami Killion wow tht sad

[@tamikillion6115]

Oddly I find myself back here in Feb of 2018. I had totally forgot about this post on here. Wow how life changes. I still miss my pops more than ever. I have now met the love of my life who happens to be one of the most talented musicians I have ever met. I'm sure my dad would approve. RIP Dad Robert Steven Morton Leader of the Band

[@barbaramccroy8663]

Tami Killion I love your blog. It made cry. Sweet. I totally get it.!😘🦆

[@lisachan1213]

I love his music and songs ! ❤👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@victorsvideos27]

Tami, I grew up near Peoria also. In Pekin, and Dan’s father was our Band Leader at Edison Junior High School. The Band itself used to march by moms house ever so often in full gear and sounding awesome. Great memories. My grandmother was Eliza Ann Morton, and noticed, you are a Morton. Mine are from Tennessee, And we are all cousins you know. R.I.P. STEVE MORTON-Leader of The Band

[@jhnpizz]

An only child alone and wild, a cabinet maker's son His hands were meant for different work And his heart was known to none He left his home and went his lone and solitary way And he gave to me a gift I know I never can repay A quiet man of music denied a simpler fate He tried to be a soldier once, but his music wouldn't wait He earned his love through discipline, a thundering velvet hand His gentle means of sculpting souls took me years to understand The leader of the band is tired and his eyes are growing old But his blood runs through my instrument and his song is in my soul My life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man I'm just a living legacy to the leader of the band My brother's lives were different for they heard another call One went to Chicago and the other to St Paul And I'm in Colorado when I'm not in some hotel Living out this life I've chose and come to know so well I thank you for the music and your stories of the road I thank you for the freedom when it came my time to go I thank you for the kindness and the times when you got tough And papa, I don't think I said I love you near enough The leader of the band is tired and his eyes are growing old But his blood runs through my instrument and his song is in my soul My life has been a poor attempt to imitate the man I'm just a living legacy to the leader of the band I am a living legacy to the leader of the band

[@anothymason8063]

I did see Dan in Tampa in the late 80's Sundome at USF. Show was fantastic! His interaction and stories made it so special.

[@ur8up2jabberwocky79]

My father was also the leader of the band, he had a thundering velvet hand to guide me through life and shape me into what I am!

[@urgdaddy]

My Dad passed about about 10 years ago. Was Merchant Marine WWII. Finished high school at 21 because he joined months after Pearl Harbor at 16. I came to understand him later in life. Never spoke of his life growing up. Angered me but made peace with it. As I am now about his age we can be good friends.

[@TK-zf7sx]

This song and "The Living Years" from Mike + The Mechanics are two of the greatest tribute songs to fathers.

[@JY-vb3pf]

I can't help but choke up whenever I sing this song.

[@butterflygraceful34]

same i cry every time. Moreso now since my dad has passed

[@dianarfeltner8653]

Me to

[@deniseperry6663]

For you Grandpa 💕

[@jwsf941]

Thinking of someone in my life who died in September 2020 who I wish I could dedicate this to. He treated me like a son when I was 11-14 years old in the early 1980s. He was 73 years old. Medical procedure went wrong

[@kcmerced9512]

It's difficult to believe that he could sing that piece without weeping tears of joy... it must've taken great fortitude and practice. I couldn't sing it without crying...

[@griffin2706]

This song wrecks me every time I listen to it, because it describes what I never had. But I made up my mind when I was 8 or 9 that I when I became a dad, I was going to be there for my kids. For a reason I didn't understand until we were empty-nesters, both times my wife was pregnant, I really, really, really wanted a boy. God gave me the desire of my heart both times, and my sons are now adults. What I didn't realize until my sons were out on their own was the reason I so strongly wanted boys: I wanted to put an end to a line of bad fathering in my lineage. I could raise a girl to be a good person and good mom - but I couldn't raise a girl to be a good father - I had to have sons. And now I have eight grandkids, who have great dads. • Thank you, Jesus, from the bottom of my heart, for giving me sons.

[@JanWhorton]

I love my Father the same way! He was so proud of my career as a Nurse. I got his caring D.N.A. Always will, and I’ll see Daddy in Heaven one day! 😂❤😊

[@FolkRockLibrary-rs3tx]

This song is not only a work of music, but also a great work of art. From the profound lyrics to the catchy melody, it is a perfect expression of creativity and talent. Every time I listen, I feel a part of life, a delicate emotion that no other song can bring.

[@ronaldking2619]

At 61 years old, I grew up with music. Mainly R&B and Jazz. At a young age, I heard this song and since then it has been one of my favorites. You don't hear this type of passion and love in today's music. This amazing man should have topped all of the charts including R&B, Country, and any other category! What an absolute legend and one of the reasons America leads the world when it comes to music!

[@willjenkins3529]

AMEN. COLOR DOESN'T KNOW MUSIC. GOD JUST LOVES US ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕

[@robertlevinson9188]

My dad died in 1962, on my older brother’s birthday, I was 17, his loss still tortures me daily. His picture is on my night table. He never goes away because I Will never let that happen. Also, Jesus is the leader of the world’s band.

[@K-OnTheCase]

I’m here a week later... I heard this song on my way home from work this evening. I’ve heard it many times before, and loved it. Somehow this time, it meant something different and profound. I lost my father a year and a half ago. Since that time, I’m so often reminded of the life lessons he tried to impart on a willful headstrong daughter. We miss communicated, missed thoughts, and I sometimes wondered how well I ever really knew him, or he, me? My father had always loved cars, muscle cars, sports cars, pretty much anything with beautiful lines and some ponies under the hood. He later developed a love of Datsun Z cars. We owned several as I was growing up. So it’s no small wonder that my fist car would be my mother’s old Z. He taught me how to gap spark plugs, change the oil and much more on my moms old Z... That car saw more trips back and forth from college than I can count. My z always found her way home, and me safely with it. So began my love affair with Z cars. I’ve owned 6, and in 2005 he found a z car that was in original shape from its original owner. “Lizzy” became my 7th Z and a father daughter project. In the last year of her restoration, he became ill. Later we learned he had stage 4 cancer. We lost him in 6 short months and sadly he didn’t get to see our Lizzy completed. This year I was finally ready to debut our girl at a regional car show. To my shock she won her division, at our second show she managed a repeat performance, and this weekend we are preparing for the last show of the year. Driving home in all the hustle and bustle of our busy lives, work, family, preparations for the upcoming show, I had a quiet moment in my car, and this song came on. Suddenly it took on a very different meaning. I ached to hear my dads voice, to know that somewhere he’s smiling at our little father daughter project. To know that even though we missed thoughts, had difficulties talking to each other, the one thing that we could share was this love of z cars. His passion became mine. I so wish, he could have, just once, been there to nod and smile as this little father daughter project became everything we mutually hoped for. I am a better person because of my dad, a better mom, and more. He did that. I just hope somewhere, somewhere, he knows, just how very much I loved him. How very proud I am that he was my dad. Hearing this song again reminded me of the beautiful and mostly unspoken ways our parents sacrifice in order to be good parents . How they quietly mold us into better people, and how often as children we don’t recognize this until we are parents ourselves. We are their testimony to a life well lived and well loved. Thank you Dad for reminding me of all these things and more. For reminding a little girl who struggled to relate to her father, how he found a language we could both understand. All for the love of a z car. I miss you daddy. ❤️ send me down a kiss and a wish for luck, as your girls, Lizzy the Z, and your little girl hope to make you proud this weekend. I Love you Daddy, so, so much💕 K

[@jerrythompson5967]

Kira, loved your story very touching. My daughter and I we're so close until she reached the age of 13 and became boy crazy. After that it was like she didn't have time for me or really want me in her life. It wasn't until she got married and had two kids that I noticed something different about her and how she wanted to spend time with me again. It made me so happy to feel the love from her again but the sad part is she now lives 1200 miles away and I only get to see her a couple times a year.

[@Themanwhocameback2]

He understands. And no need to worry, he knows everything you feel.

[@fredwoods3558]

I am sorry that you lost your Dad. I clung to my Dad all I could in his last years. It is a portion of your life that is a permanent closure and imprint on your heart when he is gone. Maybe it is meant to be this way to keep a flicker going of him with you...

[@matthewscoaches7342]

Lovley story,as you said yourself your parents did their very best for you and in a quiet way,I can relate to that because my father was a quiet gent while I was a touch wayward in my late teens and early twenties,we were both lucky to have dad's like that,don't worry kira he's smiling down on you everyday.

[@mikejoymagno]

This story put tears in my eyes...Thanks for sharing!

[@hoytbehm1363]

When he says Papa I tear up. It inspired Heath and Oak in The Sun just might fail by Behm. It's been a song I think of with my father. We're both carpenters. I miss him sometimes when he's far off and I think of Dan and his song. Beautiful.

[@rayharris943]

well at 74 years old... when i hear this song i remember how we all looked up to a parent or a grandparent or friend looking for some guidance and listening to this is so pure in how we find out who we are and what we stand for

[@scottrasmussen6465]

Where did the time and values go

[@scottrasmussen6465]

I'm 66.I stood for the pledge in school.I sang for the Country at sporting events WHEN THEY USED TO PLAY IT.I VOTED.MAJORITY RULED.RULE OF LAW PREVAILED.ELECTION OVER.WAS OVER.WAIT UNTIL NEXT TIME.YOU SAID WHAT YOU THOUGHT..NOT WHAT SOMEONES OPIONION OR REACTION WOULD BE.RICHARD PRYOR WAS A FRIEND OF MINE.HE WOULD CALL ME EVERY NAME THETE WAS.I SOULD DO THE SAME.HE WAS BLACK.IWAS WHITE.I TOOK HIM TO SOME REAL HILLBILLY PLACES AS I DID WITH HIM.NEVER PROBLEMS AS PEOPLE KNEW HE ME WHATEVER WERE GOOD AS NEITHER WOULD BE THERE.BUT..WE WERE ALL. AMERICANS.MY TOWN IS HOME OF CAT TRACTOR AS HIS.BLUE COLLAR HIGH BROW MEDICAL.500000 PEOPLE IN AREA.NEVER REALLY PROBLEMS LIKE NOW.WE HAD THICK SKIN.I TOLD HIM HE WAS BLACKER THSN A WELL FIGGERS ASS.HE PISSED HIMSELF LAUGHING.HE TOOK ME TO A BAR SHOOTING DICE.HE TOLD THE BROTHERS NEVER MIND HIM.HE FORGOT HIS T ANNING LOTION.TOO BAD.I LONG FOR MY COUNTRY.GIVE IT TO PUTIN TO TRY AND GET THIS SHITHOLE RIGHT.SHAME.

[@jesseburleson432]

Dan Fogelberg=Fuckin legend.

[@ruin_666]

Jesse Burleson yep. chills to the bone

[@tatatass8382]

yeah such a great artist. R.I.P dan T_T

[@cyrilzosa6706]

My father in his old age discovered he had stage 3 prostate. I was his only kid near him. I was broke no work no money, my brother's though far away, send help and I took charge of physical things. I miss him so much. The first 2 years, i couldn't stay away from his tomb. Staying there and crying. I still miss him so much. I really miss him.

[@kentsellner7117]

The BEST musician and songwriter of all time! He never gets the credit he deserves. God rest his soul!

[@steeden54]

Tears well up. Memories flow. My leader of the band has been gone 29 years. This song is for all of us. Beautiful.

[@caesarvalentin6332]

For my Father

[@iluvdaguitar]

I wish I could relate. My father was an alcoholic who never wanted much to do with his 8 kids. He never taught me anything. I had to learn on my own. He wasn't physically or even verbally abusive, he just didn't want us around, and he made it clear. In spite of that I still love him and hold no resentments. RIP dad! ❤

[@timtapscott8737]

That’s sad. I’m on the other end. Got my almost 17 yr old gf pregnant. I would Have never ever left. Married her and got her thru college in 7 yrs and 2 kids. 11 yrs in and soon as we buy our nice big house she files for divorce. My son hasn’t spoken to me in 17 yrs now. Me and my daughter speak or text daily. Things weren’t perfect but I never left and worked to provide for them all. Now he’s a nuclear engineer married to a MD. Yet he has no forgiveness in his heart. Good Christian kid. But he speaks to no one on either side of the family expect my daughter who for the longest time denied he had. Odd kid. Smart as a whip. Never drank no drugs never cussed. But has a huge emptiness somewhere in his body. I have 2 grandkids I’ve yet to meet. When they are 18 they will know me. It hurts. I know you do too. My dad just passed. Miss him.

[@seanmartin1212]

This song hits the most painful parts of my soul every time I hear it. I cannot listen to it without tears. I definitely cannot sing it with my throat constricted by the efforts to control the sobs. My father passed away when I was 16 and this song was released just a few years later. Dan taught me about the chances I missed with my father. I love this song and I greatly admire the poet-artist who created it. And I realize what great man Mr. Fogelberg must have been to inspire this in his son.