Dan + Shay - How Not To (Official Music Video)

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Pierson Fodé as Noah ( / piersonfode )
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Music video by Dan And Shay. ©2018 Warner Music Nashville LLC.

[@KiwiKirsty1983]

370 days sober and everyday is worth it. My relationship with Jesus is EVERYTHING.

[@rustyleann7257]

I truly hope you are doing well!

[@elizabethnapier2288]

I love how the phrase "How not to think about you when it's late at night and quiet" not only refers to their feelings towards each other but also the addiction towards alcohol. It created a powerful message

[@elizabethnapier2288]

DanAndShay

[@TONYSANGELXOXOX]

I TOTALLY agree with you Elizabeth!! It's good to know someone else can see it the way I do.

[@elizabethnapier2288]

Naomi I thought I was the only one!

[@unaisiqesanalagi7945]

Elizabeth Napier .

[@mollystringer6273]

I didn't catch that, but now that you mention it, I see it.

[@lorettaposey458]

Those who are fighting to get sober just remember that you do have people that love you and will be your side through it. Sending love and prayers

[@juliaschultz2453]

Country songs really hit different when you’re heartbroken

[@peaches44]

Hahaha yes! I usually refuse to listen to country music, however, this heartbreak feels better listening to country 😅

[@jamiewilliams209]

It does💕💕

[@haleym3725]

Yes!

[@Ty3506_Videography3]

Facts

[@unicornlove2599]

Yup......

[@melissawillison505]

thank u . both for this song.. my mom, bless her. she's been sober for 17 years. She is gone now. been one year.

[@DanAndShay]

Sorry for your loss Melissa. Xo.

[@melissawillison505]

DanAndShay , oh my. wow.. im talking to u both. Ty Gid Bless u both. for this song. there's alot if people out there fighting their battle. beautiful song

[@melissawillison505]

Thank u

[@TONYSANGELXOXOX]

I am SO sorry for your loss Melissa. May your Mom rest in peace and may you find comfort knowing that her struggle and pain is gone. Take care and God bless!!

[@melissawillison505]

Ty, Naomi

[@Er1n2011]

I'm so glad there's still country artist that aren't afraid to make real music and be bold. Something that can touch someone and help them instead of going to bars and parties. Love this song and these artists!

[@katherinez9654]

I am a recovering alcoholic. I’ve been sober for over 2 years. What a gut wrenching video. So true to the life and path that we choose. I finally decided to change what the outcome of my life was going to be. I wanted something different from what my grandparents, my father and my uncles lives were and ended on. I decided to take control and ask for help from my loving Heavenly Father.

[@becauseIrock]

Congratulations!! Isn't it amazing the difference that God can make?? So proud of you! ❤

[@ldale6304]

Wish I could stop thinking of you. Quit sleeping at night because of the quietness. Song is amazing.

[@robsretroreviews5598]

Sometimes it takes two broken souls to come together to build a wonderful life :)

[@l.christinejones8164]

Rob Heckman true! w God's guidance it can be done

[@pamelamason4334]

You would think so me and my ex lost our precious 22 year old son in a fatal car accident and it brought us back together after 20 years of divorce but he treated me so horrible so now I'm alone with nothing. But I still have God

[@candidaberweger5722]

@@l.christinejones8164 Amen.

[@candidaberweger5722]

@@pamelamason4334 I'm so very sorry, God will always be with you to love and comfort you. Sending you a hug and saying a prayer for you wherever you are in this world ❤

[@lcjones0519]

True but it can also be a disaster

[@howellcori5]

I got 46 days clean and this hit home. I have been listening to it over and over while crying. lol

[@sammieakridge1446]

Cori Howell: Congratulations!!

[@brittneyqueen175]

Cori Howell good job!! It'll be okay

[@tameraoliver4498]

Cori Howell I'm four days clean and that's hard as hell for me. I can't tell you how proud I am of you. I hope I can make it that long. Addiction is a hard thing and it hits everyone in some way.

[@pitbullgirl2434]

Hey you don’t know me, but I believe in you. :)

[@rolandolopez7540]

I believe in you. You can. 😊

[@andreahurt2933]

I can not express enough how much i feel from this. Im crying like a baby and watching this on repeat. Its all over now but i could go back and put the bottle down i would. I love this so much. It hurts but its healing at the same time.

[@jasonfrye8790]

I hear you! This is real! I loved it as well. I hope this finds you doing well.

[@Victoriaxx08]

This was honestly the best music video Ive ever seen. I never would have thought to incorporate alcoholism into this song, but now I see how well it fits. The taking scenes also fit in so well with the music. Seriously such a good video!

[@matthewrinderle1846]

The best music video you have ever seen really, its was good but not great

[@MrNicknavarro7]

@@matthewrinderle1846 to you it wasn’t “great” but to someone else it just might be, so suck a dick.

[@jadejewell9296]

I absolutely loved it. I love how you incorporated the song into the alcoholism issue. What a beautiful video. I think this will be an absolute hit and will win a lot of awards! Love you guys!!

[@DanAndShay]

Thanks Jade! Proud of it. Ptracy created another masterpiece. Xo.

[@jadejewell9296]

DanAndShay he always ALWAYS does. Much love!

[@xteraatkins176]

DanAndShay yall are amazing keep going

[@khairulsorder3343]

+Xtera Atkins j

[@DanAndShay]

Hey friends! Be here to chat in a sec. Gotta post the video on Instagram! Hope y'all are digging it so far!

[@destineebrookins4938]

DanAndShay of course we are so amazing like seriously in love with this love you guys thank you❤️😍😩

[@aggiemal]

DanAndShay this video is so good!!! I'm so proud of you boys!!!💛

[@elizabethnapier2288]

DanAndShay Im in love with the message it sends!!

[@alexmalloy4484]

DanAndShay You guys are amazing

[@daniellehelms5088]

DanAndShay of course we're diggin it!😍 it is amazing!

[@hiphoprevival.4604]

I love when it makes my soul tingle. Chest hurts. Knowing how much I lost. How much I've grown and the hating myself I broke free from.

[@jessicamarie7564]

This song & video is for sure an inspiration. I am almost 2 months into my sobriety & have never felt better. The good Lord even has me in church again. So amazing. I am super excited to get that one year cake 🎂 ❤!! 🎉 We got this!!

[@17hockeychicka]

2 years ago I fell in love with an alcoholic and took on his lifestyle of alcoholism 3 days ago he cheated on me 3 days ago I left him and flew home 8 hours away 3 days ago I took a pledge of sobriety 3 days ago was the first time I heard this song it's been 3 days since my last drink and I can definitely say I'm proud of myself and this really hits deep...

[@gracelynjames2999]

sengler17 How are you doing now?

[@kelliea7451]

How are you doing?

[@kelliea7451]

I left my addict boyfriend a week ago. A week ago I found this video. Its been rough.

[@alexandranicole8157]

You are now doing what is best for you! You'll find love again; this time for the better! That takes so much courage. I truly wish you all the best

[@Bobcats292]

😭😭😭❤️

[@briellesmith9477]

I can relate so much to this video. My dad is 7 years sober tomorrow.

[@DanAndShay]

Congrats to him! Xo.

[@KayBee95]

Congrats :) best of luck in the future

[@bradc5916]

congrats, 6 years and my dad is still battling to be sober. It's a hard thing to watch it take control of someone the way it does. How much harder is it for them....Keep on fighting the battle everyone.

[@williamjames6823]

Your dad is a CHAMPION !!!!!!! :D

[@juantorres-in3lh]

God bless you

[@margaretallie5115]

This is such a powerful song. A lot of people can relate to it and it sends a message which I love in a song.

[@jamiebox1843]

I love this video

[@robertmakin833]

Yes

[@thomashughey7709]

4 years ago and this video is still sending chills down my spine

[@paigehuggins1808]

Same

[@JohnG500]

If this video doesn't win a ton of awards or at least get nominated for a ton this year and/or next, that'll be a shame. Fantastic job to all involved especially Katie, her on screen love interest, and to D&S!

[@ericeaker7894]

I've been sober now for 2 week's and this video is such an inspiration! I've always have loved this song! please make a video for lately!!! Best song ever.. Thank you so, so much DAN + Shay! 💖💯💖💯

[@StarBaby207]

Eric Eaker I applaud ur sobriety. one day at a time sometimes one moment at a time. May you find peace my friend in your sobriety. God bless.

[@ashleythompson8250]

i have 6/1/2 months sober and never felt better congrats dude its so worth it

[@jakialaskar9954]

Eric Eaker dry

[@jerushafitzgerald4440]

Eric Eaker congrats on your 1 yr sobriety!!!!!

[@irenelaureles4168]

Eric I'm sure it's been a year for you now always remember two steps forward keep up the good work

[@kimberlyjones7623]

Beautiful song that one who truly falls inlove who only understand ❤️

[@scottsimoneaux1008]

3 days. I’ve been listening to this song and finally had the courage!

[@sammieakridge1446]

Yall please pray for my mom. Currently I don't live with her but my brother does. She's not healthy right now. Her and my Step dad is always arguing and my mom turns to alcohol. Just please pray for her to get healthy. God bless you all!!

[@somserkhan6244]

sammie akridge

[@lilfiya619]

I hope your mom is okay

[@valw7422]

I'm praying for you friend! God has a plan for your life. Don't let family distract you from it. Lean on Christ and ask Him for His will to be done in your life. He loves you so much!

[@donetajful]

🙏

[@michaelhixson9798]

Sammie Akridge may God shine on you! You deserve all the happiness in the world. I hope that all your dreams come true! God Bless!!!!

[@TONYSANGELXOXOX]

Watching this and concentrating on the lyrics brought back some VERY painful memories. If you've lost someone you love due to complications of alcoholism, this will affect you like it did me... In 1975 the first love of my life and I split up after being together for four years, then thirty one years later we reconnected. Throughout that time he ended up in Utah and I in Pennsylvania. We both moved back to Montana in 2006 where we were originally from and started a new relationship picking up where we left off. With all the time that had passed, we never stopped thinking about each other nor did our love die. With that reconnection I knew he drank, but not as heavily as what he did. I adjusted to his addiction/disease and loved him for who "he" was. It was a difficult walk to follow and yes I'll be honest, there were times I felt I needed to walk away. The love I had for him was SO strong that I just couldn't and wasn't going to do it!! Thank God there was no violence whatsoever like this video shows...it was the pain of watching him slowly destroy and kill himself knowing there was nothing I could do that hurt so deeply. The demon ( which he called alcohol) controlled him he couldn't control it. I walked every painful step of the way with him doing what I could to help fight that Demon...We were together for two and a half years, married for one year and six days when he left me. His heart could no longer withstand the damage alcohol was doing to it and passed from a massive heart attack. God took him home to Heaven on March 31, 2009 freeing him from the pain and agony he was in. As for me...I'm doing the best I can to live without him and taking one day at a time as it comes to me.

[@shelkyshark9266]

That is a very powerful story. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know what it's like to want to help someone that doesn't want help. That feeling of helplessness... I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

[@edsabellez.ferdinand736]

Awwww

[@Brookse69]

One of the best Dan + Shay music video's I've seen by far. Not only did I love how the music video doesn't shine away about Alcoholism and the addiction of alcohol but also it shows that if you have someone in your life that is positive influence and truly cares about your well being. You can accomplish and survive anything that life throws at you.

[@ericluko1595]

This song makes me cry, every time this song is being played I start to choke on tears. This song is an inspiration to me. I’m not gonna drink when I’m an adult, thank you Dan + Shay! 👍 ❤️

[@mgr9308]

so not what I was expecting but SOOOO GOOD!

[@DanAndShay]

Tried to push the envelope!

[@mgr9308]

YOU DID THIS SO WELL IM JUST IN LOVE WITH IT!!!!! Sorry for fangirling again... I just I love you guys and this was so well done

[@TheChristinefaith]

DanAndShay I cry almost Every time I hear the how not to and from the ground up I love u guys and my aunt at her wedding danced at this song and I cried I love all of ur songs they are amazing like u

[@PattrikWinchester]

it was your hungry puss that clicked when you saw the thumbnail aint it

[@rts4097]

The beginning reminded me of The Fault In Our Stars where they sit in the heart of jesus.

[@dalfinosandoval4836]

Rt 7 haha right

[@sbdd4493]

Rt 7 with the guy and testicular cancer and depression is a side affect of dying

[@soccerlife8912]

The “literal” heart of Jesus.

[@ommarfaruk5707]

Rt 7 www.moneycontrol.com/news/business/stocks/stocks-in-the-news-yes-bank-glenmark-adani-green-bank-of-baroda-ulfex-avenue-supermarts-2986741.html Stocks in the news: Yes Bank, Glenmark, Adani Green, Bank of Baroda, Ulfex, Avenue Supermarts

[@theborderpatrol4958]

Shit up cringe

[@brinhoneycutt6535]

Shout out to every one going through something that it feels like no one understands.

[@ashleythompson8250]

i love this song and its meaning behind it i have 6 in a half months clean and never felt better unfortunately my husband didn't make it i miss him so much it hurts but i am giving him his voice and standing strong. thank you dan and shay i love this song!!!!!

[@LouisianaCityboi]

Whoever Noah is....he's gorgeous. Good God...

[@aliyahsalomon48]

LAdwv7495 Actor Pierson Fodé

[@heatheragee3425]

Hes pretty good looking...

[@miera899]

@@aliyahsalomon48 Thank youuuuu hehehehehe

[@ryankelly8077]

A sad, yet insightful perspective on apart of the reality and struggles that individuals and families go through with this disease

[@delaneypavlik1453]

I was in love with the song for a while. I found this video and now I'm more obsessed with the song, obsessed with the video, and obsessed with Pierson Fodé

[@theborderpatrol4958]

Did anybody ask?

[@youngboyfriendzxzq6435]

#LYRICS: I can honestly understand why it's over I can go through the motions of walking away I can give you the key and take my things back I can find plenty things to fill my days But I don't know how not to think about you When it's late at night and quiet And I know that I ought to be the one who is strong and just moves on But I probably turn down your road, knock knock on your door Fall back in your arms, wake up in the morning Hating myself for the way that I can't help the way I still want you I just don't know how not to, how not to, how not to [x2] You're like second nature baby, you're just like breathin' A melody that you hear and you can't forget The time goes by and I still need you Yeah, you were at the heartbreak of no regret But I don't know how not to think about you When it's late at night and quiet And I know that I ought to be the one who is strong and just moves on But I probably turn down your road, knock knock on your door Fall back in your arms, wake up in the morning Hating myself for the way that I can't help the way I still want you I just don't know how not to, how not to, how not to [x2] I don't know how not to think about you When it's late at night and quiet But I know that I ought to be the one who's strong and just moves on But I probably turn down your road, knock knock on your door, Fall back in your arms, wake up in the morning, Hating myself for the way that I can't help the way I still want you I just don't know how not to, how not to, how not to [x2]

[@donnabowen2570]

heart still wants to listen again

[@deanne9575]

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[@Brian-vk6tz]

Thanks

[@jacquelinewalker7947]

❤

[@freyadetonnancour3415]

This is great. Thank you

[@taylorwilson5551]

Freya de Tonnancour sober saturday night is about sobriety, too!!!

[@vinodpeiris8212]

:)

[@Mushroom321-]

yes!, isn't it a miracle. 😲

[@gialynagustin4222]

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[@gialynagustin4222]

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[@lnicole5318]

This song is so raw for me. Been sober for 9 months and have lost the man I love because of the addiction. This song signifies not only the addiction but losing the love of my life.

[@tanieljones2536]

Definitely a struggle for so many people who all have burden's of Pain! I pray for Us all to have strength and the power of God! This is a nation under stressful day's, each day is a blessing granted and forgiveness of each other's selfishness can bring us threw the same toughest time's

[@joaquinbodine1013]

I lost the woman I loved over four years ago and haven’t been able to go one day without missing her. I don’t even know if I can find anyone else I’m so heartbroken still. I miss her so much.

[@spashleyormalex]

KATIIIIIE

[@JohnG500]

spashleyormalex great actress and great singer. She's amazing in this video.

[@kristyraybuck]

spashleyormalex ahh what is she in? I can't think for the life of me what she's in!

[@MichelleParnellxD]

She was in that tv series Faking it.

[@cheyennefrost646]

who is it? I recognized her

[@kng4760]

spashleyormalex omg sanvers tho

[@danielleconnors3031]

I can't even. That video was amazing and its perfect for the song. I love it so much!

[@DanAndShay]

Thanks Danielle! Proud of it!

[@lilacastro282]

Never have I ever wanted to comment on a video before. I love this song and have not watched the video until now and let me tell you I couldn't finish it. I have been drinking since I was 13 . Helped a lot with depression PTSD anxiety. Just to cope with life. To forget the things I had burned in my brain. I was living like this for so long. I'm 26 now sober since February 4th, 2017. Not Long but it's a struggle a process but fighting everyday with temptation.. I'll never listen to this song the same but totally for a good reason. For now on this is reminding me of how strong we all are and WE can overcome this terrible disease of alcoholism or any addiction. Praying for all💚💚 xoxo

[@tylerschoepf41]

This song hits me on another level. How do I not think about you? It's been the only thing there for me when I'm in need. The only thing that dulls the pain. I'm sure everyone goes through hard times. Will power test us all. How strong are you? How beat down are you? How weak are you? Who's there for you? No matter what you control the out come. Just remember someone loves you matter what. Strive to be the person you want to be. Love yourself. Always remember the choices is yours. Love is a powerful tool.

[@elizabethsullivan5217]

I love how this video is so beautiful and has a powerful meaning behind it. In this day and age it's hard to find a good video with meaning behind it. Y'all did a great job! I love the song so much!

[@kimberlyfoulk1029]

this gave me so many chills. the way drugs and alcohol have consumed so many people's lives is very heartbreaking. this shows things can work out.

[@josecordova4044]

I stopped drinking 1 year and 2 months. When I was an acholoic I was drinking my problems away. My broken marriage, fired from my 10 years working for target and being alone. I asked God for help and forgiveness. Just to stop drinking and start a new life and help me find my true love.

[@katuwalley1091]

Getting sober from heavy drug use for 10 years hardest thing I've ever done

[@felicianaquinn6130]

Katu Walley but you did it ♥️

[@rubi_angel7553]

I couldn't even concentrate on you guys singing the story was just amazing! I loved it! such a great video!

[@breannadugan4964]

Not just alcohol .... This hurts 😞

[@SteveReynolds1204]

I had a friend of mine turn me on to this song tonight, touched my heart so deeply. She stayed with me thru 2 years of my alcoholism and is still around to see me have 6 months sober, may God Bless you richly for your work on this Heartfelt song Dan + Shay (y)

[@jessicagriffin5502]

Thank you for creating a video of what alcoholism can really look like, and how it can look like if you quit. The video depicts what has happened in my 40 years...and although I didn't use AA...quitting has shifted my entire mindset, relationships with the people I love, allowed strength to push away those who were unhealthy, and start taking accountablity for the words and actions that left me spinning in circles. Sobriety is a beautiful thing.

[@emilyanncowart4166]

By far my fave Dan + Shay song. This video only adds to my love for it. Well done guys!

[@warnematt]

Thats powerful, and shes a good actress

[@brittneyqueen175]

Matt's Garage - TakeiT she's probably used to it looks like she been threw alot

[@harichandselokar232]

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[@oluwakemimichaels3385]

There's always a great story to their songs and I always replay to get the story right xx

[@deannastevens1217]

BEAUTIFUL!

[@danielt93]

This is your best music video yet guys. *Dan+Shay, you've done it again*

[@prvcteur]

officially my favourite music video😻😻 it has aesthetic, simplicity, amazing actors, amazing song and an amazing director!

[@drumzguyz]

To my brother, Dan....I love you man 💜🤘

[@JasmineHighBlogs]

When they walked in the door together I lost it and started bawling my eyes out

[@gabbyzapolnik1788]

This was really touching and I absolutely loved it!

[@DanAndShay]

Thanks for watching Gabby!

[@94nolo]

chills chills chills

[@denytomotomo471]

lucky guy M

[@tremainedouglas288]

It took me just now to realize that this video was uploaded on my 19th birthday six years ago. But regardless, I still love this song back then and now.

[@traciplontz6655]

I love this song! Can’t stop listening to it, it makes me tear up because I live with a alcoholic & he has no clue what his alcoholism is doing to me or our kids. You guys nailed this song!

[@allisonjustice678]

Peirson is so awesome ♡

[@roxy60971]

This video touches so close to home. I myself am an alcoholic. I watch this video a lot and can relate. Have not yet had the same strength to seek help as so many of you have. God bless you.

[@judygray6113]

Recovering alcoholic here lost my mom and first time sober on mothers day its hard

[@sweetheart1805]

I’m 3years sober from being a alcoholic i started young and I’m 28yrs old now and I’m living my best life working on me. I pray everyone who suffers addiction gets through it you are all loved😘

[@kaylaboettcher6726]

Just when I didn't think I could love you guys more, you make this. My father has struggled with his alcoholism my entire life, as i write this he has relapsed. I pray that he finds a relationship like the one you depicted here. Truly beautiful video, moved me to tears.

[@alissaholm2369]

Literally this is my life atm... just got over liver failure to. Kidneys, jaundice, yellow eyes and finger nails. Swollen legs and hands !! Pancreatitis to! I was 23! I’m only 24 now... still not where I need to be but man this hits home

[@amygarrett224]

As a recovering addict, I can so relate to this song! Thank you Dan+Shay💞

[@HayleyAlexis]

I am on a Dan & Shay binge. I have never watched the videos before. I love them!

[@catherine7835]

I fell in love at 20, the kind you see in movies where it's just *boom* when he enters the room and you're in love before you even know what happened. He was an alcoholic and a narcissist, he still plays mind games and can be evil. Tbh he really put me through it and I had 7 years of the best and worst times. I was heartbroken when I took our babies and left... I spent years crying over him and 5 years later he came back! With all the promises and the best intentions, and I had another year on the rollercoaster before it burnt down in flames again! It took time to heal and it took time to see it for what it is. Now I watch videos like this or see toxic relationships and I honesty feel sick. I pray that anyone struggling like this finds peace. 5 years since our final breakup... he's with someone (a fellow alcoholic) they are both trying to come off the drink/ 'cut down'... but he's a little bit more present and calls and sees our children more regularly. I'm nearly 2 years into a happy, healthy relationship with a guy I met 3 years ago. I don't take anything for granted, just enjoy what you have right now as much as you can. Love works both ways and you can't fight someones addiction or disease for them. Alcoholism will destroy you both if you're the only one fighting it and the addict can't. I wish any of you in this situation the best of luck and you are in my thoughts and prayers

[@paxtongerhart6863]

The video is an awesome story of how things can change so much with just one person entering or leaving your life

[@jf5297]

This song, paired with great cinematography, tells such a symbolic story about love and addiction.

[@michellecervenka4614]

Yeah

[@justeelvain7137]

I have been a fan of Dan and Shay since so many years ago,but imagine this is when I see this so powerful song and I really really needed it! Thank you So much Dan and Shay

[@rjheidt]

So many relationships ruined by alcohol addiction. Excellent song and powerful message / video !

[@raff6810]

This is one of the best video song of 2017. 😍

[@highcontent1766]

I'm 13 I've dealt with an alcoholic mother and a father who tried his hardest to keep me away from it. They often fought when I was younger and I had never seen the official video for this song but the fight scenes always make me remember all those fights my parents would have over her drinking.

[@elenabillot3948]

wow this is true for me..thank u..u guys are great!!

[@amarie6065]

my uncle passed away in Sept '16. he was an alcoholic for the majority of his life. although. i know hes no longer suffering, its still painful knowing he isnt here anymore. i absolutely love the message of this song.

[@audramuth4147]

Oh my Lord there isn’t one song of theirs that I just don’t fall in love with !! 😍😍

[@m.j.h5102]

“I don’t know how not to think about you when it’s late at night and crying” wow that hits hard

[@carothename6616]

This song makes me cry. This was and has been my life for so long. I’m getting sober now. Maybe one day I’ll meet the love of my life until then I am loving myself first ❤

[@carterellicavolli8162]

These voices with the consistent songwriting blended with a powerful band!

[@laurenbello]

It's been 3 years since we broke up and I'm still healing

[@NareshKumar-zl8pu]

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[@augusttalks4875]

It’s ok, you will get over that guy one day, I don’t know your situation but I know you’re going to be ok

[@lukec58397]

This is one of those music videos that will bring tears in your eyes no matter what

[@southsidesweeper4471]

wow i never knew how powerful this was. knew the song but didn't know the vid.. BRAVO!!!

[@janenikki4405]

Wow this is amazing! ♥ So much depth!

[@loveguru606]

Jane Nikki r%%%+t

[@majesticmoons75]

This song is amazing!! You guys out done yourself with this one! I absolutely love it❤❤❤❤

[@whitelighttrainwreck3021]

I wonder If the "what if's" ever go away? Its been over 13 years,and they are still live and well.

[@babyblue9993]

💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙LOVED THIS

[@MemoBosqueVEVO]

This is their best music video since 19 You + Me

[@NJSportsGirl2]

Oh I cannot believe I never watched this before. This might be one of my favorite music videos 💙💝

[@blackwolf3414]

Awesome video and my Moon Panther is the reason I am here. I can't stop thinking about Her !!!👍🏼👍🏼😉💝💞💌💟💗💖💘❤💓💕💘💘💝🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠😘😘😘😘😘

[@gabrielfarias3257]

2020's quarantine. Best music from them ever.

[@dustinatwood4448]

This is my most favorite video ever from Dan and Shay! The video itself is like medication and reality to me. The Lyrics are so true, when you want someone so bad, that any and every vice is searched to ease a pain, that is always still there at the end of the day. It gives hope for a better future.Thank you guys for this video, song, and for hope!

[@KimandMatt1]

It isn't always easy but it's definitely worth quitting. Been there, done that!

[@coachjohnodea490]

Thank you Dan and Shay, just stumbled on this great song. Loved it and started listening to more of your music. Must have meant to be. Almost 26 years sober and had lots of people believe in me when I couldn't. It's a gift, like your music.

[@jayr5178]

Just freaking love these guys I swear. All their songs make me cry

[@esmeraldagems9487]

Yeah this definitely hits home probably too hard. Especially the parts where the guys are fist fighting. The physical stuff (not just with men hitting their women but also goes with siblings and parents, in laws) is soo true. You don't have to be an alcoholic yourself for this song to hit your nerves, just live with them as well.