Clearing Something Up About Me and Joe

[@debbiefriend5593]

You don't have to tell all, you don't owe any one anything.

[@slash2487]

It's nobody's business about your personal relationship with Joe. Just wanna see you happy and content. Been watching a lot of your quilt videos. Love em.😊

[@LG-gv6sq]

Share what you feel comfortable sharing. People who watch your videos do NOT have an absolute right to expect to be told all the details of your entire life. If you’re happy, that’s wonderful! Share if you want, but feel free to edit out anything you want. Enjoy your life.

[@lauriewilt2622]

Exactly 💯

[@Heathers_Handbags]

Turn off your comments again. I loved you because you are completely honest and I love you for that. And I loved that you never made these video or had to. You owe us nothing!!! Your videos stand on their own. This is not a soap opera. This is your life. You owe us nothing.

[@jean-jn3nq]

Feel exactly the same. Darlene is such a loyal person and only wish her all the best life has to offer.

[@imadandy8145]

“Honey, I don’t know how to crochet.” OMG! I woke my husband up when I burst out laughing at that one! 🤣 Joe is a keeper! What a sweetheart. On a serious note, fuck anyone who insinuated you were lying! I don’t think there’s a more open, honest person on KZbin! You are entitled to have a private life. Maybe they should try it. You deserve so much happiness, Darlene! You’ll never know how much you’ve helped me deal with my own “Momrrhoid” issues…. I wish the very best for you both.

[@byTjo]

Feel exactly the same. ❤

[@annaturner2828]

Omg people need to get a life. You and Joe do whatever you want!! I didn't think anything of the picture. SMH

[@KImBurk1207]

People need to shut the hell up. Your business is yours. If you want to share, fine. If not, fine. Wish the best for you always!!

[@cathihill4683]

You just be you. As long as you’re happy it’s no one else’s business.

[@DebR57]

Darlene, I have watched you for years and I think your a very honest and open person. Your a grown women and it's your life, do what makes YOU happy!

[@froglord2848]

I love how honest and real Darlene is, it’s so refreshing

[@rosemarie6545]

Hi Darlene, I’ve been away from YT, missed several of your videos. I watched you faithfully before you moved to be near Derrick, what a great son he is. I know the hard life you had to put up with. You continue to be you, you’re very talented in so many aspects.

[@marywagner5088]

I hear you, Darlene. I am cheering for you from afar. Life is so complicated, and yet, you are gracious to share some of yours with people who will never come face to face with you. So much of who you are and what you have been through resonates with me. I am grateful that you are "here".

[@brendafrye5875]

Dear Darlene. Thank you for sharing tonight. Im very happy for you and as a 74 year old who had been alone for a while, I understand your joys and your fears. You are doing great and i appreciate you snd your channel. Thank you for being you.

[@jennadixonmomentumrealestate]

When we find a person who can help us heal, it's a gift. It's certainly not linear or clear or neat. Life is weedy, it's great to have someone capable of walking through it with you. ❤

[@darlene.michaud]

I love this!!! I try to remind myself that even our healing will not be perfect. At times I feel like our efforts are a major step back but then we always end up a bit stronger and more aware after taking that step.

[@jennadixonmomentumrealestate]

@darlene.michaud my husband saved me and I saved him, at times I didn't think we would make it, but the healing continues...30 years in and sometimes we still struggle with our demons. Never stop working.

[@chandraisley8389]

I agree with most of the comments here Darlene. You owe no one nothing. You be you and get and try to stay at a happy place people that judge you have a problem with themselves but project that to you so that don't have to look at themselves. As has been said you are loved by many for being so open and honest and putting yourself out there the way you do and you encourage us to be more open and honest with ourselves. Thank you!!❤❤

[@christinehoback5247]

No one could fake that amount of grief. Give him some yarn and a hook to teach him to crochet. Lol that was funny. You deserve to be happy. Your journey is just beginning. Cherish every minute.

[@shirleypreston8743]

As soon as I saw Joe taking a nap with Rocket 🎉 I smiled. So you have differences, that doesn’t mean there is a probable! Don’t make it be a problem. My husband & I were married almost 60 years when he passed away. We had differences everyday. We still loved each other. Don’t let anyone take your joy away. So happy for you “three” 😊

[@laurieashley7461]

Grab every minute of happiness you can, you deserve it! I love anything you want to share and the rest is no one’s freaking business!!!

[@linda-jean]

You are an inspiration Darlene. Your respect for Joe’s privacy and feelings and your introspection. People really need to leave you live your life and keep their opinions to themselves. You deserve happiness, Joe obviously has brought happiness into your life.

[@jeanchittum1677]

A very heartfelt talk....you are very honest....your business, is your business....I understand , glad you found Joe!

[@audreynims4940]

I suspected your broken heart was on the mend. I tend to take what I like and leave the rest, especially on social media, and don't understand people who just can't. Thanks for sharing the personal parts of your life that you care to share, and thank just as much for having the respect to not share what you don't feel you don't want to put out here. That shows your integrity. I wish you both continued happiness and personal growth, together or not.

[@DeborahBurton.]

I enjoy your chats. Your sincerity and honesty feels like a visit with a close friend. I look forward to your video posts everyday.

[@sharonnagy7038]

Darlene, I've been following you forever and have learnt many things from you, thank you! Just want to lightly touch on this -- as for you and Joe, you guys do what works for you both and ta-hell with all the rest! Don't beat yourself up! Everything always works out in the end! Have a great day!

[@mantistoboggan2676]

I really love everything on your ‘growing up..’ channel and appreciate how real you are. I also relate to any of your alcohol stories because I’m a recovered alcoholic as well, 6 yrs. Praying for Joe’s diabetes.

[@margotnorris5563]

I admire your wisdom in handling you tube and your relationship with Joe. You have set some healthy boundaries. What you have with Joe is what most women want… to be adored by their man and him WANTING and LIKING to spend time with you! I’m so very happy for you and you don’t owe anyone an explanation! Thank you for sharing!

[@jenniferriddle3795]

People who judge and say hateful things have a problem. You are so great and loved by so many of us ❤❤❤! 🎉😊🎉

[@gillianwalker6971]

I'm so sorry that you feel you have to explain everything. I love that you share things with us. Good luck to you and Joe in your lives x

[@beverlymccracken4953]

Hey Darlene...when I initially saw the title of your video I thought..."Oh, brother!!! No matter what you say or do people are going to bash you! You are kind and loving! Enough said!

[@mollivier7688]

You share whatever you want or don't want to...I've watched your vids for many years and enjoy your personality If people get pissed then that is their problem. Hugs, MO

[@kychick93]

That story about Joe not being able to crochet is literally the cutest thing I’ve heard in a long time! So sweet 🥹 is he interested in learning? If so he has the best teacher!

[@darlene.michaud]

He probably would like to learn because he has asked me to teach him to sew. He's just curious as to how a sewing machine works. I might put him to work! lol

[@juneblasingame7009]

I love your authenticity and openness! I respect that you put boundaries in place to protect those you care for. You’ve overcome so much! I hope you and Joe are happy! I love seeing you smile! I’m sorry for all the assumptions from others. It’s really no one’s business but yours! Best wishes on everything!

[@Lynn88.]

Darlene you have great videos and who cares what anyone think or say. Its so nice to see you happy.😊

[@missmary9950]

I'm so sorry that some people feel the need to send u nasty comments. I think ur awesome 💖

[@jillthomas366]

Hi Darlene, I am so happy to see you feeling filled with love again. I could see how broken you were in the video you took down and I’m glad you took the time you needed. You having Rocket all along was obvious to me that you still had Joe in your life; that’s his baby. I’m super happy for you! 🥰

[@lindacovey4845]

I never had a thought you had lied. I was only happy for you that you got Joe back. I look forward to your chats. You are like the friend you don’t have to invite over just turn on the tv and there you are! Plus hustle free. Lol. Thanks for being you.

[@sharonvantroyen9686]

Share what you want and ignore everyone on social media who expects more info and explanations from you, Darlene. Nobody is entitled to force themselves into your experiences. I am 69, have childhood trauma, and even though my life is amazing, I can still be triggered, and revert to that hurt, confused, and scared child. Still a work in progress. Lol! However, I now refuse to allow strangers effect me with their ignorant judgements. Your video’s have helped me see that, and I thank you for being a mentor… even though you don’t realize it. Please, don’t beat yourself up when someone or something triggers you. Again, thank you for being you, and being here. Best wishes!

[@elainemckenzie5420]

Hi Darlene I'm happy for you. I'm 72 and you have given me some wonderful tips and advice. I have been watching you for a few years now. All thru your moving and downsizing It's nobodys business what you and Joe do. Just be happy.

[@debbipacker4215]

Its your business and none of ours! I dont know how you can stand people.. Its your life. Live it how you decide.

[@diedre58]

I'm so happy for you, Joe, and Rocket!

[@rosejm3405]

Omg! I am so happy for you and Joe! What the two of you have sounds so wonderful. And when you said what he said about crocheting oh my goodness that was so sweet. And also about margarine I thought the same thing you thought. Oh no not margarine lol. I love butter too and it’s so good for us. It’s not easy to find love when you are 50”s 60”s and I am 70. So glad you are so happy. Thank you for sharing.

[@sherrygizen976]

I love that you share what you do with us. That doesn’t mean that we’re entitled to expect or to know more than you’re comfortable letting us know about. Keep moving along on your path and I’ll continue to share your joys and challenges as you see fit to share.

[@debra5483]

I watch you Darlene because I like you as a person. You make me smile and you are a wonderful person. What you share is a gift to us. Thank you.

[@carolynrockafellow417]

Yeah for you Darlene. You owe us nothing…you are absolutely entitled to tell what you want to tell. You have included us in your life and I feel that you have been very open and honest and I appreciate you for that. I have learned so many things from you and for that I am grateful. ❤

[@KathyLent]

I've been following your journey for a long time and just want to say, I appreciate what you do share. It's helped me a lot. It makes me happy to see you being happy with Joe and Rocket and your family. I wish you all the best going forward.

[@donnabruyere6793]

You are loved here, Darlene! And I totally understand you after following you for many years. Life is short. Enjoy it!

[@pamelajune6680]

Thank you for being so vulnerable with us, very brave and very lovable! Please be gentle on yourself, you are like many of us.....a work in progress. Keep enjoying yourself; do your life the way it works for you and have fun!

[@peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380]

Nurse here that worked 35 years in Alcohol and Drug Rehab...part of my job was leading the AA ,Al-Anon and CODA meetings on the units. I learned the 12 Steps and Traditions can be applied to anyone and their life. At age 70 I continue to read Melody Beattie books and follow the Steps for a Peaceful life. May you find Peace in your life.

[@sewinghomegoodsmarymichaud8632]

I love the snippets of Joe making you laugh 😂

[@1013tenthirteen]

You inspired me to sew again! I love your outlook on sewing and made me seee that there are so many ways to get a project done and the mistakes won’t matter. You go girl ! You do you in whatever way that looks to you!

[@trixier6505]

God bless you. Your strength is evident.

[@shirleylindsay5586]

Darlene, i never thought that video was fake. I truly felt your heartache. I watched that video crying with you. Im very happy you and Joe are still friends. I love you and rocket, and however Joe is in your life, as long as youre happy, im happy for you.

[@ginawhittaker2585]

I don’t know why people care so much, they should just worry about themselves.

[@froglord2848]

I relate a lot to the sudden freedom, and joy - and then realising you still don’t have those tools in place to deal with when things do get bad again. It brings me hope to know other people experience similar and I appreciate you sharing your experience with us! You’re doing great Darlene and I hope this year brings you all kinds of happiness

[@peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380]

Through Al-Anon and CODA I figured out who I am, learned to create my boundaries for all areas of my life and learned how to stick to them while not being concerned how others feel ...which Iam NOT responsible for. Since I have been practicing these concepts, it is amazing how FREE I feel in my Spirit.

[@PamelaWright-z9p]

You are so interesting to watch. Very honest. I enjoy hearing about Joe and Rocket . They are both so handsome. You are such a joy in my life.

[@katemc1103]

Balance is everything and I respect greatly how you live your life and the things you do and don’t share! All love 💖

[@mcrow9599]

Darlene, it was obvious that you and Joe got back together after that little bump in the road. It was in your eyes, happy eyes, and how you and Rocket were so close in your recent videos. You go girl! 😊

[@kimberlyberry3492]

"My special words!" 😂

[@debjh]

I am so happy to witness the light in your face as you talked…I have watched for a long time, and don’t comment often (Because of you, I own the very same sewing machine you do, a 1957 Singer Slat o matic which I love) and i really felt the need to say…keep it up! You are the realest content here, and I appreciate you! (And Blue Eyes, and Rocket) 😊

[@jojoFranklin]

Vulnerability, authenticity and kindness. … rare and precious qualities … sounds like you both have all three. You don’t need to explain or justify anything. Just enjoy.

[@Morganroadknits]

Darlene, I can relate to you in so many ways and I thank you for your your honesty. I had a rough life with my Mom and I’m 65 and she is still very scary to me (she’s 90). So many things she says and does take me right back to my little self and how scared I was. You have helped me in so many ways and for that, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@annamoreau457]

I’m impressed how you have evolved and work things out. I enjoy that you talk things out.

[@joanne8237]

I love listening and learning from you Darlene. Don’t let the haters get under your skin. You have a right to a PRIVATE LIFE! So very happy for you! ❤

[@montereymindfulness8752]

I’m feeling so much support for you and also so much protection of you and your privacy. I wish you and your love ones a peaceful weekend.

[@susanharvey1203]

I’m happy for you Darlene. I totally understand wanting someone in your life who wants to do things with just you. I’m 75 , married/ divorced twice, dated off/on and I’ve never had that. You go girl!

[@sallyh1426]

I think it's wonderful that you and Joe are together and that you two make each other happy! That is what it's all about.

[@jenncook7811]

I don’t know why people think they should have an opinion on things! If you’re happy then we should be too!

[@Whole180withAliyah]

I admire you so much for your courage, honesty, humility & warm, loving heart, Darlene. And I truly admire both you & Joe for facing your fears & insecurities & working through them because the friendship & love you share is so worth the risk of vulnerability. And I also have a feeling that Joe will eventually reward you with that white hair you want, too. 😘💖

[@debk3135]

Darlene, all relationships have their up and downs and every one whose being honest knows this. You do you and find your happiness. I'm happy for you and love your videos. Come on people back off. ❤

[@angel2228pb]

I totally understand, u guys have the right to privacy. No explanation needed. No matter ur circumstances with u & Joe together or not, it's ur private lives, if u share with us great & if u don't well either way, respect & best regards to u both🙂💕👍

[@saleenahaffenden8292]

Also Darlene,,, a very wise woman told me once that "other peoples opinion of me is none of my business" and I live by that now!

[@sleeplessinscandia6452]

Margarine”’” eeeeek you’ve brought back memories. I remember the bags of white greasy goo that us kids used to fight over to see who got to mix the yellow dye into it to make it look like butter……😂😂😂

[@ChrisAdams-n3j]

Anybody that knows you, knows you dont bullshit anyone , ever. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You have helped me... beyond anyone has. You have made me see things, i need to do. To work on.

[@patwilson782]

Honestly,this is no one’s business but yours and Joes! I enjoy watching your videos. You seem so much happier than you did when you were in Maine.

[@janefox3188]

Happy for you, Joe and Rocket. Live your life and enjoy it. No matter how it turns out I will be there with you on You tube.

[@eff237]

Darlene , you do you , as someone who has watched you for a long time I just want to say from the bottom of my heart I love seeing you happy long may it continue life is too short And as for the low life’s out there that have nothing nice to say pity them and block them Xxxxx

[@andanotherthing...]

I hope I'm not the only one who just thought, "That's nice to see Joe there. She'll tell us more when she's ready. " I guess we all have issues. But let's try to be kind and not force our opinions on others. I'm so happy to hear your story of healing, Darlene! ❤

[@jenihansen7201]

Darlene, you seem so happy and content. I am so proud for you.

[@saleenahaffenden8292]

Darlene,, i took the photo of Joe and Rocket, exactly how you apparently meant for it to come across! I saw it and thought you were back together and you were giving us a hint/clue! I was curious but knew that when you were ready you would tell us/or not! As for still having Rocket, I just thought that either Joe was somewhere that he couldnt have Rocket yet and you were still babysitting or you were just very attached to Rocket and you and Joe were working that out. Either way I knew that this is your private life,, none of my business what so ever and I would never dream of questioning you.! People are awful and judgemental. I am here to wish you both all the very best of happiness, because you have both been through alot and I want you to be happy! Its a simple as that for me! Yes,, you sure have helped me immensely over the years. I have laughed and cried with you and you NEVER fail to make me smile! I am one subscriber that you will never lose and I consider you my freind! x Saleena in Australia

[@taniateaticket7394]

Best of luck with your journey. You have earned a new life. I had a mother similar to yours, but thankfully, she passed at 58, and it leaves a scar. I am hopeful I, too, can eventually have a happy life.

[@dawnbritt870]

Gosh Darlene, I’m so very very happy for you and Joe. I was so sad for you both when I thought you were broken up for ever. Everyone deserves happiness in their lives if they can find it. It looks like you and Joe have found it and I’m so happy for you both. Life’s a struggle, it’s wonderful when you have someone to enjoy it with.

[@bookerk4388]

I'm glad you're happy Darlene. It's wonderful and you certainly do not and should not share anything that that you don't want to. I've watched you for years and I appreciate you just the way you are.

[@patriciaratchford2826]

I’m so sorry people get pissed at you. I think it’s horrible. People are crazy! You should not have to explain your personal life to anyone. I love whatever you do or say. Give Rocket big hugs!

[@TopazLucille]

Bravo Darlene!! You are so incredibly good for all of us by staying true to yourself and not baring your soul and feeling you have to give chapter and verse to your youtube audience. I continue to enjoy all aspects of your journey, crafty and personal relationship-wise. Thanks for being you.!

[@frandagostino98]

Hi it’s me again. I commented too soon before. After watching to the end I want to thank Joe for helping you to realize your worth and that you are lovable. I’m glad you both are willing to work on it. Go with the flow. I for one will be here!

[@susanbundy3490]

No worries, people are just nosy. Do what you need.

[@blacksquirrel4133]

Great video! I can relate to you so much. Other people can have their opinions but it's your life to live not theirs. Nothing better than spending time with the man you love and the dog you love. ❤❤❤

[@sharon3108]

You deserve happiness … with whoever or however it comes. Piss on those who judge and get nasty. You don’t owe anyone anything, least of all explanations to ppl you haven’t met. I have enjoyed your growing up crazy channel and all the personal experiences plus the hundreds of hours of quilting, crochet and crafting to the grocery store runs, car vlogs and everything from Maine, including skylar cutting your hair. It’s all been quite a ride with you from Maine to Mississippi. Share what you like and the rest is yours, and yours alone. Thank you for all the inspiration over the years and look forward to more. I wish you all the love and happiness you always deserved Darlene ❤

[@debbieomi]

F those people! I know I'm a good reader of people, even through a phone screen, and I've always read you as a good person. It's so wonderful to know this good person has found another good person and is having a good life. All the best to you and Blue Eyes (and of course, Rocket).

[@staciebarndweller774]

Be happy Darlene. You deserve happiness. We all do. I still enjoy your videos after all these years.

[@breemurders781]

To me personally, you are great. I enjoy your words, I enjoy your crafting. I am sad to hear people being negative or offended by what you put out to share with others. That’s brave of you to do this, I couldn’t imagine sharing the way you do. I hope that the rude and mean comments stop coming your way. Have a wonderful evening.

[@donnaclutter9082]

Even in our 60’s we have triggers and baggage and you recognize it. You do you. Glad you and Joe are still on your journey 💛

[@rebeccamorris7671]

Your amazing ! I understood totally . My Dad is a Brittle Diabetic and it's a challenge. He is 91 and We have the Libre II it's a game changer. And he lives with Me.

[@nitahearn4204]

Just do what you want to do and what’s right for you.what other people think is irrelavent ,it’s your life.I have been following you for a long time and watched you and found how you are enjoying life since your mother passed.

[@KW3908]

DON'T DEFEND YOUR LIFE. You have the right to a personal life without explanations. Be you, be happy.

[@lindagonzales8770]

Darlene your are a wonderful person who passionly loves to sew. i watch your videos and have learned so much. the hell with evrybody else whose butting into your life. keep sewing be happy

[@debrachauvin7683]

You made me laugh tonight! It's nobody business about what is going on in your life. What you share is your about your life is up to you. I'm sorry that some people goaded you into opening up more that you really want to. I cannot wait to see what you have planned for the second Crochet Block. Have a great weekend!😇😇😇

[@annking8538]

Darlene its nothing to do with anyone else, you don't need to explain. Your a very genuine person and wear your heart on your sleeve. You deserve happiness.

[@gabyschussler5284]

So glad to hear that you, Joe and Rocket are still one team and having fun ❤ Nothing else matters ❤

[@carolmorgan6842]

Your personal life is just that personal! I love your content….i like you being you.🩷🩷

[@MyLivingJournal]

Im so happy for you , for Joe, & so happy for Rocket So glad you do what you want to do & dont care what others think. Most of us are just grateful for what you share with us.

[@momsell8801]

So glad you moved you had such a blessing waiting for you what a wonderful deserved surprise 🥰❤

[@susanforget8133]

Darlene, you are such a respectful person. people can be cruel. Shame on them.

[@karenavey2183]

What you have expressed is extremely profound.

[@sandythornton5156]

Happy for you Darlene, nobody business what you do or share! When you were talking about butter on bread 😋 made my think of fresh bread and butter 😋 but sometimes it’s butter with bread 😋😋 yummy.

[@debbieomi]

lol I have said before that bread is just the way butter gets in my mouth, or coffee is how my flavored creamers get into me, too. 😅