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@jamiegrl
@jamiegrl 3 жыл бұрын
cried though the WHOLE vlog man.. love that yawl are so real and using your platform to speak the truth and help others get through things..
@christinequiram2013
@christinequiram2013 3 жыл бұрын
Cried right along with you. I remember 17 years ago like it was yesterday, when our son went off to college. God bless both of you.
@jbyrd4728
@jbyrd4728 3 жыл бұрын
Thirty years ago, my first born went to Rice in Houston, Texas. We lived in the Netherlands, I bawled for the first 30 minutes or so after setting her up and dropping her off!! It was the most difficult thing for her and myself. Set up for her to call us each Sunday evening. It was cheaper for her to call us. Loved when she flew home to us during Christmas and for the summer!!
@lisamoody212
@lisamoody212 3 жыл бұрын
I wish every child in this world had parents like Daniel and DeJay. I never had children but I did have a baby brother seven years younger than me and until I became a teenager (then he became annoying) he was my baby. I carried him everywhere. I took care of him while my mother worked. When he joined the Army and left for boot camp, I bawled like a baby. I love these heart to heart chats from your channel. It’s life and I’m grateful you allow all of us to follow your life’s journey! ❤️
@katree2002
@katree2002 3 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know the name of the movie they said was their favorite. I rewound three times and still couldn't understand what he said. If anyone knows could you please let me know
@lisamoody212
@lisamoody212 3 жыл бұрын
@@katree2002 it Remember the Titans.
@sonniawelsh3771
@sonniawelsh3771 3 жыл бұрын
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@sonniawelsh3771
@sonniawelsh3771 3 жыл бұрын
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@beckysmith2678
@beckysmith2678 3 жыл бұрын
My daughter and son-in-law will be like you DeeJay on Monday Aug 16th. They have cried and sent two boys to "first day of school", they are now in 4th and 6th grade so now there's no crying. But their little girl will be heading to kindergarten on Monday so river of tears will be flowing. You all have done well with the kids so have faith and trust in them. What a SUPERIOR man Daniel is for adopting Weston, my mom was adopted and I was so close to my mom and grandparents. Miss them all and cry at times still.
@tammymccroskey5464
@tammymccroskey5464 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a great school. Proud for him! My heart goes out to you both. Prayers for your family.
@zaviahopethomas-woundedsou9848
@zaviahopethomas-woundedsou9848 3 жыл бұрын
It is a tough time when they fly the coop. My son moved out on his own at the age of 19, he is 25 now and doing well. He stopped cooking for years other than the microwave when a month on his own the oven caught on fire! It made him afraid of the stove. He is taking a cooking class this fall and overcoming his fear. You poured into his heart well he will do great!
@teresamariner4238
@teresamariner4238 3 жыл бұрын
Best wishes to your son in his cooking class. I'm 75 and I've set things on fire a time or two. Guess it comes with the territory. I'm sure he will figure it all out. My Mom taught us all to cook basic things. My sister excelled at breads, pastries , and elegant meals. I can make basic food and pies, but not as good at breads n rolls. Fudge, cookies and sweets? It's another talent God gave me. I don't eat them any more but gift them and contribute them to church bake sales.
@audreyabdo7719
@audreyabdo7719 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, time flies by. Weston has facial hair. I’m feeling what she’s feeling. Weston is the firstborn. No matter how old they get though they will always be our babies. Now Mom and Dad, he’s going to need care packages, he’s going to start missing mom and Dads food, he’s gonna ask for help with laundry and they will need pocket money sometimes. I’m angry with mine right now and I’m playing hard to get and I’m suffering although I’m giving him the silent treatment. I will give in and call him. We have these tiny beings come into our lives and they grow on you and you just love them and then mine graduated college and he’s still my baby. He works in the college and doing good but I miss him although he’s in the next state over in Rhode Island. Put yourselves in the arms of Jesus and everything is going to be all right.
@jennifermassie7227
@jennifermassie7227 3 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain!! I'm going through the same thing with my 23 year old son. Sometimes we need to do the tough love thing!!❤🇨🇦❤🇨🇦❤
@beccagee5905
@beccagee5905 3 жыл бұрын
@@jennifermassie7227 My only son joined the Army when he was 18. After his first tour of duty was over, he joined the Air Force. He is now retired after 20+ years from the military, and has begun his second career. I was a single mom, and never wanted my son to grow up to be a momma's boy. So I supported his choices despite understanding that things would be different. I'm proud of my son, I'm glad I let him go to become a man. What I instilled in him never left him, and we are very close. I would drop EVERYTHING to aid him, as would he to help me, but he has his own life to live. I willingly give that to him because I want him to be happy and the best for him. I'll never forget his first Christmas away from home in a foreign country. The feeling for the first time of Christmas being different and emptier, then he emailed me on Christmas Eve asking step by step how I cook the turkey. I knew then he at times would still need me, and he felt confident asking me for help when he ever needed to. I think it's so hard for mothers because our children need us so much growing up, and then when they are adults it's hard to transition to not helping them along ever step of the way. They can not learn to make that transition themselves unless we let them take over that process of becoming young women and men. In the end we can offer our advise, but have to let them make their own choices even if we think they are not the right or best choice, because it's their path not ours.
@jennifermassie7227
@jennifermassie7227 3 жыл бұрын
@@beccagee5905 I couldn't agree more!! Please thank your son for his service!!❤🇨🇦❤🇨🇦❤
@beccagee5905
@beccagee5905 3 жыл бұрын
@@jennifermassie7227 I will 🥰
@pabllam8017
@pabllam8017 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are what keep me sane while I am raising a great grandson who is now 12. I am 71 and have helped many kids in my lifetime but this is the hardest. Keep going.
@reginalove5567
@reginalove5567 3 жыл бұрын
What!!! You mean to tell me that you guys didn't get volume 2 of the advanced Parenting Manual? 😉 BJ, you and Daniel and now entering a whirl wind of change. Can you just imagine the REAL feelings that your family are feeling. Everybody has some sense of uncertainty, a sense of loss, plus everyone now has to feel as though they have to step- up now with all these changes. Point blank, time waits for no man. I know that you have a feeling of loss, but you guys have raised a boy into a man. It's a hard thing to cut the string, and let God. Stay blessed. Job well done parents.
@ashleigh6152
@ashleigh6152 3 жыл бұрын
I can't help but to watch Daniel looking at DeeJay with such love and attentiveness. You guys a truly the "all around American family!" I just love your relationship, and your relationships with each of your children! Best wishes Weston, sending love and blessings to you all! 🤍❤🖤❤🤍
@phyllispitts6656
@phyllispitts6656 3 жыл бұрын
You’re right, this is a good loving family! And even while picking, you can see the love between this couple. Dear God, please continue to bless this family. Place a protective barrier around Weston. And continue to strengthen the love between DeeJay and Daniel. In Jesus Name Amen
@kateskrmetta2022
@kateskrmetta2022 3 жыл бұрын
Amen !
@tawniafreeman3818
@tawniafreeman3818 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@tawniafreeman3818
@tawniafreeman3818 3 жыл бұрын
I agree 💯
@luvapril9483
@luvapril9483 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely noticed that too.
@klsetzer1967
@klsetzer1967 3 жыл бұрын
I feel for y’all! I sent my son to the army when he was 17. I cried then everyday when right out of boot camp he was deployed to Afghanistan. Care packages are great nd fun to make .
@doglover136_
@doglover136_ 3 жыл бұрын
i have some friends in the marines and ones on a deployment for a few months and he was my mentor in jrotc and i miss him and the only way i can talk to him is through the xbox app
@lindasegraves4670
@lindasegraves4670 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think I could have handled my son going off to Afghanistan especially that young. God Bless You!
@yarnaffairpodcast5902
@yarnaffairpodcast5902 2 жыл бұрын
Hello from Texas 75" You're so right friends are people you go to school and church with. God has a plan for all of you all. But as I watch you all you are the best parents ever. I know how you feel about your son. I raised my son by myself until he was four years old. But when my son got married and move to Arkansas and I cried because we were so close. But your children grow up they have to fly out our nest. We pray for God to keep them safe. You are a mom who will miss him. Even when he comes and then we move on but you are a strong family. God is good. Love Nana 75'
@susanroesler11
@susanroesler11 3 жыл бұрын
You have done well raising your kids. Weston will do awesome. I know exactly how you are feeling, I went through that with my son even though he was only two hours away and came home every weekend. When you talked about the shoes, it's a nice pat on the back for you that you taught him well. When my son told me about how his roommates and him and some neighbors figured out a plan for meals during the week I was so impressed. You are right we have to have faith in God that he will protect them and that we have done our part at teaching them life skills. Take care Momma Bear, your cub will be good. ❤️🙏
@jd.prestage
@jd.prestage 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel you need to continue to wear your, "I love my hot wife." Well, cause she is. Such a beautiful heart. Such a strong soul. She's a keeper. The kids will benefit, YOU'VE benefited with her. What a blessed family!
@lisaadams8974
@lisaadams8974 3 жыл бұрын
I watch your videos but I’m a quiet one. I have to say watching your video today even though it was from 2 weeks ago has touched me in such a way. I got Covid and ended up with long Covid. Haven’t been able to work since Feb. I’ve worked for the Govt for 20 yrs and now the Agency wants to let me go for taking so much sick time. I got sick during a pandemic, so not sure what to say. DJ, Your faith has just reminded me to put ALL my faith in Jesus. I don’t think I forgot that but you did remind me to have the faith. I have to thank you for that. 💜💜
@MamaBear6967
@MamaBear6967 3 жыл бұрын
When we moved our oldest to college I cried the entire 2 1/2 hour drive home. I thought it was so hard. Now he is married, has 2 sons and lives 15 hours from us. Talk about hard, I cry every time. But there is nothing wrong with that. It just means that we love them a lot and will miss them. Daniel, I love the way you look at DeeJay. There is so much love in your eyes. It is wonderful. Don’t ever stop. This is something someone shared with me, you might have already heard it but there is a lot of truth to it. Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles, it takes away today’s peace.
@deborahsterling-lee5048
@deborahsterling-lee5048 3 жыл бұрын
Good Luck to Weston on your new endeavors. Mom you'll be fine, he'll be home for visits and holidays. You and Daniel are the best parents that I watch. Love to you and your family ❤️❤️
@soniaboyko2703
@soniaboyko2703 3 жыл бұрын
It’s always nice to see a family, so full of love! It’s hard to let him go but you’ve taught him well! 🙏❤️
@srattler112
@srattler112 3 жыл бұрын
Mr Daniel you are always rambling,but we all love ever min of it. Really love you guys your family is such a blessing and inspiration to me as well as others I'm sure! God Bless!
@Anna-tz5ur
@Anna-tz5ur 3 жыл бұрын
I am there with you. When my daughter left for college she was only 30-40 minutes away and it was very very hard on me. I definitely had empty nest syndrome. I now have 20 chickens to talk to and take care of. I promise it does get easer. Much love to you both.
@zoelynngonzalez5971
@zoelynngonzalez5971 3 жыл бұрын
Y’all are amazing people and amazing parents! Your faith and life is an inspiration! God bless you!
@1963RonTKiser
@1963RonTKiser 3 жыл бұрын
Daniel, I had to pause this to start this message. You are an honorable man to adopt him. Truly a man of God. I took my son and daughter off to college, Son was first and ripped my heart out. The daughter was much easier. I stayed outside and let mom and daughter deal with the issues. The daughter and I have close times and we chose not to get close when she went off. So many of us have dealt with it. The first time leaving them there, you pray they go with how you raised them. I was lucky that both had Lacrosse Scholarships to play and the teams kept them busy. Mom and I had a very hard time dealing with it the first few months of them gone then it was fine. It's a very tough time to turning them loose in the world, they adjust and we do also. God Bless my friend.
@z28pawpaw
@z28pawpaw 3 жыл бұрын
gosh, yall were so honest about yalls life, me and my wife love yall and hope all your dreams come true
@PaffordHomestead
@PaffordHomestead 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to Weston and poor y'all on cutting them strings, Yes my wife didn't want to be on KZbin but not she out talks me 🤣❤️
@Monkchip
@Monkchip 3 жыл бұрын
What a compliment to you both to bring your emotions to the table for discussion. I appreciate your honesty during trying times. Life events can be difficult, too. God bless the Arms Family. Westin will build a future and go on to be a fine man because of the two of you and your examples.
@virginiamurrell1409
@virginiamurrell1409 3 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing mom, I went thru the same thing last year, I have a grand daughter she lost her mom at the age of 10, I still have her but she’s going to college she started last year, we lost her papaw 3 yrs ago, it’s really hard now she’s ready for her sophomore year and goes back the 20 I still cry too Prayers for you all, God Bless you
@attackerjfjfjhghgh
@attackerjfjfjhghgh 3 жыл бұрын
Father said whenever two or more are gathered in HIS name He is present. He also said whatsoever things we ask in Jesus' name He would do. Therefore Father we asked you surround Weston with your angels in Jesus' name. Lastly mom, when things get hectic all your love and nurturing will kick in when he needs it most.
@JP-bv7bf
@JP-bv7bf 2 жыл бұрын
I totally get this, in a one month time period all three of my kids either moved out of home or town. It was really hard on me, not like my husband that said ya, time alone, Typical man. We were so happy when my son wanted to go to Bible school and it really helped him, as a bonus he found an amazing wife. So true that God knows what our future holds and He is always there waiting for us to need Him and ask for help. God has really help my family through some really tough times and bring healing to my family. God bless you all. 🇨🇦
@donnamoore8644
@donnamoore8644 3 жыл бұрын
I cried along with DJ, it reminded me of when my son went off to college 10 years ago. He never came back home after college and its still hard being that empty nester. Im happy he got a great job and is doing very well for himself. Its still very hard to let them fly. Praying for your comfort and peace of mind. God has this!
@jjhorine
@jjhorine 3 жыл бұрын
Fully understand. 2 of our grandchildren stayed with us while they went to college. I cried off and on for 4 days when they left. Our own 3 children went to college in our area.
@kevinashby3784
@kevinashby3784 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t look at it as one leaves but look at it as the new adventures you as parents and family get to watch your son go through. You’ll be surprised how much fun all of you will have watching him play ball and learn new things and find new friends at college. Speaking from experience.
@christinedawson918
@christinedawson918 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a great Grandma and I teared up at the intro and the tears flowed all through the video. Tears of empathy and remembrance. God bless you all
@bryanphilbeck7863
@bryanphilbeck7863 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for this video. May God keep you and bless you in the all that you do .
@karenturner7983
@karenturner7983 3 жыл бұрын
I am praying for you all. I've been through it. It's hard, but we know God will keep him.
@susanohata3629
@susanohata3629 3 жыл бұрын
When I dropped my son/daughter off at preschool I was the one who cried & was upset so I know what your going thru. They are gone, but not from our hearts, they will always be our babies, love them always.
@colletteboland2984
@colletteboland2984 3 жыл бұрын
Hour, away, that, great,moms, still, worry, because, we love our children, and they grow up, so fast ❤, dads too, thanks to your,beautiful, wife Daniel, she, has a beautiful, heart of gold, with the amazing love for you. X
@debbiebender5551
@debbiebender5551 3 жыл бұрын
You did an excellent job from what I've seen. You two are great parents.
@RidgeLife
@RidgeLife 3 жыл бұрын
We have one going off to Mississippi State next week (2.5hr away). Lots of up/down emotions. Excited for them though! Prayers for Weston as well!!!
@bonnieisabelle3641
@bonnieisabelle3641 3 жыл бұрын
Been there, done that. My son went into the Air Force right out of high school and went to Texas (we live in New Hampshire) for basics. After basics and AIT he went to Japan. It is much harder on the moms than it is the dads. The very next year, my daughter left for college. She was not quite as far away as her brother, she was only 30 minutes away, but my babies were gone. It’s okay Deejay, very normal. You made a good point. Don’t worry about things you cannot control
@taylorrogde2911
@taylorrogde2911 3 жыл бұрын
Awww 💔 making me cry over here! I have a 4 and a 2 year old but i know everyone says it goes fast so i know when that day comes im gonna be a mess 🤣 Im new to you guys ! Found you through dustys channel ❤❤
@suehinze1566
@suehinze1566 3 жыл бұрын
My youngest daughter went to a 4 yr collage about an hour from home. It was so bittersweet, from her getting that accepted letter, to shopping for all the stuff and packing it up, then moving day. My youngest was the hardest out of 4 kids. I cried and was so sad on the trip home. I was very proud of her and happy for her but ot hurt my heart to know my baby was grown. But that afternoon, here she comes back home to get clothes she forgot. So that made me feel better to know that she would be coming back and forth and wasn't that far away. But now they're all gone and I still have empty nesters and it sure is weird, a different life really, without them home everyday and the fighting and craziness that 3 girls and 1 boy would do. And I can tell parents out there that no matter how much fighting and arguing and hair pulling and bullying, youll miss all that. But hang in there. It gets better most days and honestly, my kids are doing awesome in their careers and life in general compared to how I was at their age. Lol
@aureliagonzales3173
@aureliagonzales3173 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the strength you have in god it has helped me deal with life .
@Finds_WorthKeeping
@Finds_WorthKeeping 3 жыл бұрын
All of our babies are sunshine ☀️. Love that!!, sounds as a logo for a shirt
@liammaxsmama
@liammaxsmama 3 жыл бұрын
When our oldest left for Basic Training for the Navy, I cried. I’m a vet and I had shipped out for AF Basic 17 years earlier 8 days after he turned 2. He’s doing great. You’ll get better and so will he.
@pamsprague4454
@pamsprague4454 3 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for you guys, we became debt free in 2019 and it's been amazing. And the word of God does say you're the head and not the tail you're above and not beneath and you're the lender and not the borrower.
@emilypeterson1393
@emilypeterson1393 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this! I have a baby boy who is 3 months old today and I know he will soon be 18 and moving away. Im just gonna sit here a little longer today and hold him a little tighter!
@jenhalliburton6251
@jenhalliburton6251 3 жыл бұрын
Hugs and healing prayers. You are doing great.
@gloriarivera8915
@gloriarivera8915 3 жыл бұрын
You guys have done a super job with him don’t worry because he’s in gods hands now he will remember everything you’ve taught him and he will think about what you’ve taught him a lot he’s a very smart young manGod loves him and will show him the way to go the plus is that he’s in a Baptist church school I pray for you all and I will continue praying for your whole family God bless him and you guys also
@cyndegruver6520
@cyndegruver6520 3 жыл бұрын
Change is hard but it is part of growing .I was just like DJ as I thought I was ready for my oldest to go to college in another state but I wasn't,But my daughter did just fine as she was ready and ended up with her masters and is a Senior V.P. now.I kinda lost myself for probably the first year she was gone.Love the song of the Mother's. So fitting!!!!
@pamrichards3847
@pamrichards3847 3 жыл бұрын
It's a hard part of growing up to let them go. It gets easier but not right away. I cried every time the left. We love our children dearly and deeply. The thing I can say now is with God's guidance we raised great people that love the Lord. Two preachers serving the Lord and a daughter that loves the Lord as well. Nine grandkids that are being raised to love God. God is so good.
@sherynturipa7727
@sherynturipa7727 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💕💕💕 your vids,Everytime you cry,I cry but feel so much better after,I thought I would be an empty nester when our baby moved out,but no,the grand children started coming along and when they grew up,two of them were having a few problems and of course their grandpa and I told them in,we thought for a short time until they sorted themselves out,with a lot of help from us,but no,we had one for I'd say 3years and the other for closer to 5years,looking back now hubby and I are glad we were there to help because one has given us 3 lovely great grand babies and the other has found a lovely partner and has a really gud work ethic.Just knowing we are here to help all our grandies,and there is 13 of them,makes my heart bulge,and then the tears flow,full of pride and happiness.Sorry to go on,but we all go through this,and sometimes it's good to share on whichever platform you choose.I would 💕 to be able to wrap my arms around you both and give big as huggles,but that would be a bit hard as I live in NewZealand,so I'll just send 💕 and blessings to you both.
@cameroncooper9501
@cameroncooper9501 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You for sharing your pains with us, it helps me not focus on me so much.
@shieldzee1
@shieldzee1 3 жыл бұрын
Big Hug DJ time to let your little duckling fly 🥰🥰🥰🥰 give time he will grow up and give him time and next GEN of the family and you just forget about it as it be new chapter and new fun will start.
@lynngonzalez2370
@lynngonzalez2370 3 жыл бұрын
This is the hardest part letting go. This is what you were meant to do. Raise them ,and let them go. God Bless .
@barbaraharrold5361
@barbaraharrold5361 3 жыл бұрын
It gets easier as time goes on I promise:) my son went to CBU ( California Baptist University ). it was over 10 hours away. It was so hard when we drove away I was crying all the way home. Thank goodness for cell phones:) you’ll cherish the time when he comes home:) Things are going to change when he comes home because he’ll change into a young man. It’s all going to change and they are going to be amazing:) sending you a soft hug.
@rebeccareed6824
@rebeccareed6824 2 жыл бұрын
I love seeing Daniel looking at DJ with such love. DJ I like the ideas you were talking about. An insulated cup would be good.
@tinaguy6524
@tinaguy6524 3 жыл бұрын
I remember each of my children starting their lives on their own. It is what they’re supposed to do. We should be happy for them but yet are sad they’re not our little babies any more!!!
@bethteer1509
@bethteer1509 3 жыл бұрын
Empty Nest syndrome has started.. It's hardest on Moms since they carried the child inside for 9 months & usually spent the most time at home with them unless they had*have jobs that keep them away for 8++ hours a day. My heart aches for you, yet I know it will be a good thing for all of you to go thru. How far is the school from home? Will he come home for holidaze or weekends? I spent a year in the Blue Ridge mountains at Crossnore Academy in 8th grade. I have to say initially, I resented my family for sending me there, yet after a few days*weeks I loved it!! Even tried to find a way to work my way thru last 3 1/2 years of school when I found our I was being sent to WA state. As you said, Yahusha will be watching over all of you thru this life event & EVERYthing will be great!! Hugs 🤗💕
@cjinsa
@cjinsa 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Daniel. We are leaving Thursday to take our youngest to college in Kansas from Texas to play baseball. 10 hours away.. Mom is having a hard time.. Sent her link to watch this video. Much appreciated.
@sherrymartin2017
@sherrymartin2017 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are awesome parents . 😀💜💙💜💙💜💙
@girlinthecurl93
@girlinthecurl93 3 жыл бұрын
Oh momma I know how hard this is I stood in my daughters room and cried like a baby it gets better oxox
@waytoson
@waytoson 3 жыл бұрын
DJ I feel your pain..its hard... Big hugs and many prayers.
@Slyredfox75
@Slyredfox75 3 жыл бұрын
I have been watching you guys for years and didn’t know Weston wasn’t your biological son, but it only makes me respect you even more Daniel, you are such a good Christian man! Hats off to you, and Dj you made me cry 😢, I have a 17 year old that will graduate this year and this made me sad, but you seem to be taking it pretty good, love the faith and glory you both have in Jesus! Congratulations to you all
@mccathernfamilyprojectsandadv.
@mccathernfamilyprojectsandadv. 3 жыл бұрын
Didn't know Weston wasn't Daniels actual son but man Daniel your great glad you adopted him that's awsome
@pamruzek5181
@pamruzek5181 2 жыл бұрын
I know the feeling!! It’s very hard!! Very hard!!! 😢❤️
@susansailors1716
@susansailors1716 3 жыл бұрын
I remember when my daughters started college. It's tough when your babies fly off for the first time.
@debbieledoux877
@debbieledoux877 3 жыл бұрын
You are great parents. He will do 👍
@HellavaLive
@HellavaLive 3 жыл бұрын
Mom its going to be ok. Hugs to you !!
@maryloulerma1246
@maryloulerma1246 3 жыл бұрын
Good job mom and Dad bless your son you will be ok mom 🌸
@wesleymobley1393
@wesleymobley1393 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking and sharing about your faith. That is where your peace lies when times get tough, in Jesus.
@stacyadamsjr891
@stacyadamsjr891 3 жыл бұрын
Man what a awesome family!
@wendybohm8646
@wendybohm8646 3 жыл бұрын
I cried all the way home after dropping each of my daughters off at college. You are not alone and you are right to put it in God's hands. All the emotions you are feeling are ok and normal. We learn to adjust to every phase we go through in life. Keep leaning on each other!
@jayneer7047
@jayneer7047 3 жыл бұрын
OMG Daniel my youngest daughter used to watch the Land Before Time! Darn! That means I am old! Thanks Daniel lol
@philipedwards8762
@philipedwards8762 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing.
@samanthadudley6412
@samanthadudley6412 3 жыл бұрын
My oldest is 12 and my youngest is 4 and we tell them once they are done with high school then they are on their own, it ain't that we are kicking them out, it is they need to learn how to do things on their own and make their own lives. Plus we don't want our kids to still be living with us when they are in the thirtys like my brother who is 25 and still lives at home with my mom and he doesn't even have a job and he doesn't plan on leaving anytime.
@maryrinehart2346
@maryrinehart2346 3 жыл бұрын
The summer after my son graduated from high school I dropped him off at his Marine Corp recruiting office to go to boot camp. I didn’t see him until his graduation over four months later. I think moms have a harder time with sons leaving and dads have a harder time with daughters.
@joyday9020
@joyday9020 3 жыл бұрын
That marine is right Daniel, when kids are in their teens you think who is this kid.😊❤
@buechemimi5821
@buechemimi5821 2 жыл бұрын
The joke about move closer in the beginning is like foreseeing the future? He did move closer! After getting out of collage he got a place close by her! Hahaha God is so good!
@carolinepetersen1452
@carolinepetersen1452 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! College and basketball! God opens so many doors.
@davidray3558
@davidray3558 3 жыл бұрын
Quicker than you can imagine, the two of you will be grey haired and wondering when the kids will stop by for a visit. AND bring those little babies to spend the night. Then you get to spoil them rotten and give them back a day or two later, it's awesome!
@lindawall6504
@lindawall6504 3 жыл бұрын
The thing I have found in traveling your journey before you is that as much as we butted heads during their teenage years and into their early 20's, now, we are better "friends" than we ever were. Like you, I had to leave them in God's hands . I hoped what I had taught them was enough and it was. My boys grew into fine men. Yours, I have NO doubt will too.
@darlenehildebrand7039
@darlenehildebrand7039 3 жыл бұрын
I think Dad needs to talk ) We love you)
@theresagrosscup1968
@theresagrosscup1968 3 жыл бұрын
Best of luck Weston. Deejay it’s okay to cry when you do. There are many that will say to stop. There is a huge difference especially men. You had Weston 9 months than Daniel. Chin up chick pray on it and make sure that you hear from him weekly
@debbiebender5551
@debbiebender5551 3 жыл бұрын
Love you!!
@mattllovato1993
@mattllovato1993 3 жыл бұрын
We need a catch and cook!
@jesse-roseartufel3441
@jesse-roseartufel3441 3 жыл бұрын
Oh I can't imagine having to let my babies out into the world, I worry every day about that and I have years yet lol. With a 13 and 7 yr old. But still I think your doing amazing, I would be a mess and don't know if I could controll my self not to call all the time. Lol
@ireneturner2944
@ireneturner2944 3 жыл бұрын
DJAY,,,,, BE PROUD ☺!!!!! Love 💘you girl !! Be Strong 💪!!!!!@@!@
@jackiemcculloch8623
@jackiemcculloch8623 Жыл бұрын
thankful for the Baptist College
@cwade1672
@cwade1672 3 жыл бұрын
What an amazing adventure
@stephenward5681
@stephenward5681 3 жыл бұрын
The faith in The Lord will always get you through these difficult times. Weston will do great, because he was raised in Christian home. Just give them all your support and love. Love your channel.
@hellohuman2701
@hellohuman2701 3 жыл бұрын
My molly will be 16 next month… I’m working at handling that all by it’s self! Any tips on how to get through that?! Lol
@catherinebritton5976
@catherinebritton5976 3 жыл бұрын
We saved a baby robin and named him Petree!
@patriciabrown3326
@patriciabrown3326 3 жыл бұрын
Blankets for football season outdoors
@SaraMcLean2401
@SaraMcLean2401 3 жыл бұрын
My son started daycare today. He is 3, and he was fine but i cried my face off lol
@MimiMcWil
@MimiMcWil 3 жыл бұрын
Are y'all close enough to go to his games?
@colleenscottcarmello5103
@colleenscottcarmello5103 3 жыл бұрын
Well, back then, college didn't cost what it cost today so a kid didn't leave college with hundreds of thousands of dollars of in debt that needs paid once diploma is in hand. If I am correct college was free.
@BittyBooBrown
@BittyBooBrown 3 жыл бұрын
I have 7 kids only one left here at home. S He is 14 now so I have 4 years to go with her. It was hard on me with the other six. The last one leaving will kill me lol. I told my kids I am your parent not your friend once your grown I can be your friend. If your mad it me it means I am doing my job. I also told them when you have kids you will be coming to me and say mom you were right and so far all of them have lol. Or they ask Mom how come you didn't kill me lol.
@Floridagirl407
@Floridagirl407 3 жыл бұрын
Some beanies would be really cool
@judyfrey2975
@judyfrey2975 3 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you ' all again.What happened to Bear ? Please respond back to Me, Judy Frey 🙂👍👍
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