Dating A Bisexual

[@emman5758]

I'm a bi woman married to a man, and I get the feeling that people think that once you're married, you've "chosen." Nope. I have found the love of my life, but I'm still bi. Thanks for covering this topic!

[@saxophoniusm9850]

Emma N yeah, exactly you chose a person, not a gender.

[@paniclover4138]

Emma N i feel this! People are still surprised when I bring it up. Just cause my marriage is hetero doesn’t mean I am. 💖

[@imtheawkbird]

Exactly! My parter is a man, and When I came out, so many people were like “but why come out as bi if your with a man?”.

[@abigailbent7403]

Yeah, its as if people think dating or marrying someone means you've "chosen that gender". And in other news, all single people are asexuals.

[@alexfromtheheart]

Emma N I'm in the exact same situation!! They just don't get it 😫

[@Gabby1992]

Guy told me: "I just don't think bisexuality exists." I said: "Cool. I'm still bi though."

[@flo4223]

Gabby1992 hahaha, this is the best thing I've read all week! You sure put him in his place!

[@livr1044]

Iconic

[@JuGGtimus1]

Gabby1992 cool story

[@MountainStare]

Gabby1992 That has happened to me too!

[@SidV101]

Gabby1992 nice 👍

[@BW004]

I'm bi and I'm just trying to get bi

[@flo4223]

Ben Wong my guilty pleasure is puns, and being bi as well, your comment made my day 😂😂😂 thank you, my friend!

[@rob.goblin19]

ME

[@kylersaurus42]

Thank you for this!!

[@patildamay8425]

If this doesn’t describe me I’m not sure what does

[@captainwatercress]

Same

[@pixelateddragon.]

"They possess the one thing that I myself will never have . . . Male Privilege"

[@Feraloidies]

I was trying to think of smartass answers and only came up with facial hair... and the realised that I, a woman, totally have facial hair, lol

[@michaelwescott8064]

More like a dick

[@keysersoze4322]

That's the joke Michael you thick fuck. You ruin it by saying it explicitly.

[@saikogrrl]

Lol yes, I was a bit oh no and then Hannah pulled out "male privilege" and it was hilariously brilliant. XD

[@deemoore97]

I so thought she would say a penis and I laughed 😂

[@Sea_witch_]

Being bisexual is freakin hard man! You get judged obv but also it's hard finding a partner, most lesbian girls i know in my country think we're cheaters :/ and straight guys that are a bit close minded think we're crazy chicks or weird dudes that don't know what they want, but also some partners want us to have a threesome which offends me tbh. Being single now makes me feel better about my sexuality and focus on other stuff. And being 100% honest about what I want and my bisexuality has indeed reinforced it :) some girls choose to be bicurious just for the fear of later on having a same sex partner or being judged, but You gotta be honest with yourself and take time alone to figure out what You want.

[@StarMintaka]

Annelie Se. Can I ask where do you live? I live in Russia, haha. I'm bi and very few people know about it. I've never dated a girl, so I haven't experienced discrimination. I'm scared about getting in a relationship with a girl

[@Sea_witch_]

StarMintaka Hi :') I currently live in Bolivia (South America), it's not difficult dating a girl, once you find the connexion with someone, it starts of pretty natural honestly (if she's bi as well), the issue I've had before is maintaining the relationship flowing naturally, avoiding social prejudice and stuff... but I've never been with a lesbian girl so I wouldn't know what it's like with them. Very few people know about my sexuality too, I try not to over expose any big aspect of my life honestly

[@happycat7256]

Pansexual and bisexual are the harder to handle because the so many people (including people in the lgbt+ community) that want you to just choose a side and will constantly ask if your now gay/straight based on who your dating

[@peaches9808]

I'm bisexual! I knew this for years! I was with my guy for 11 years. And I left him once I found out he had cheating on me. So I left him for a girl that was 12 years younger than me. I loved her for 8 years. She was my girl, I loved her with all my heart. Come to find out she was in a another girl's life for 2 years, broke my heart! It took me 3 years to get over her. Guess what! My man took me back. I'm more happier now than ever! Even doe I'm bisexual! I rather be with the man I have! Girls are to hard to deal with! Some just don't care who they hurt! That why they never find true love! Just say. My experience. Love you! And your videos. Oh and your cat! You sexy thing!l!l!l😗😍😁

[@alehhanndra]

Annelie Se. It's so ironic that people on the lgtbfjdksk circle want to be accepted by society but they don't accept or reject bisexuals -.-

[@andrewbaier6085]

IM A PROUD BISEXUAL BOY

[@kjlott99]

Same 👌👌

[@D3ViiANT]

Right on

[@Zilsnommut]

All the love, my dude! Stay proud. 💛💛

[@colinp.6017]

HEY ME TOO! *high fives*

[@chillpanda6849]

SAME

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS! Love from - *a bisexual who has had a few lesbians express these feelings to her & who finds it impossible to meet lesbians willing to date seriously* xxx

[@juliakirkpatrick9624]

You and I both girl, you and I both

[@rachele6303]

Literally typed out almost this exact message and then saw yours. Yep.

[@IchWerdSehen]

Just date other bisexual girls. That would be the best for every one.

[@zoeleclercq3700]

I would totally date you

[@greensteve9307]

Melanie!! I love you!!! (in a fan way)

[@yousraahmedd]

I'm bisexual and it's great to find people who actually understand it...which is really rare in my case

[@WallySketch]

I am an hetero man dating a bi girl. Sometimes people ask what 'make her' bi if she is dating a man. "Isn't she just trying to be special, pretending she is bi", this kind of stuff. I tend to respond, that she was bi long before knowing me and it's not my overwhelming masculinity (ironic) that's going to 'make her straight' =) I think some people take sexual orientation for a temporary state...

[@juliet6200]

WallySketch People like you are the kind of people who give me hope for the world

[@JelatoTube]

Y’all still together ?

[@WallySketch]

@@JelatoTube Yes, it will be our 10 years anniversary in 3 (officially 4) days

[@purplecarrotstirfry]

As a gay girl, I relate to your past experience of feeling insecure and weary about dating a bisexual woman, and it's certainly been a process for me to unpack my biphobia. Thank you for opening up about your experience, because it makes me realize that I'm not alone in this process of self-reflection and growth! 💓And yess, love to all the bi-bbys out there. You all rule!

[@hannahc659]

It sucks how deeply set our biphobia and bi erasure is :/ I also felt that way about my first girlfriend, who was bisexual. (Though she didn't do the bi community any favors because she cheated on me multiple times, and I found out nearly a year after we broke up about that) Saltiness aside, the lgbt community has really got to work on bi representation and getting rid of all the negative connotations of the term bisexual

[@abbeyv4148]

yeah, I experienced the biphobia firsthand from my ex-girlfriend. It's odd that I usually feel more self-conscious when I'm with other "women", but she was only crazy paranoid about me with guys.

[@buzzyladsonly9932]

I am bi but relating to what hanna said about being more hurt if she was to be cheated on with a man rather than with a womman seems odd to me. If I was a lesbian and my bi girlfriend was a cheater I think I'd be more hurt if it was with another womman... my logic being that it's possible she was confused or experimenting or just found out that men satisfy her more which would still hurt but would make sense and there wouldn't be anything I could do about it because I'm not a man. however if it was with a woman then we would be biologically the same and to me it would feel more like she was cheating on my personality, like the main difference between me and the other women would be my thoughts and feelings and values rather than the physical aspects ... which I would find much more painful than a simple gender preference. obviously anyone who cheats is a shallow, selfish person and it sucks that bi people have a stigma around them where people seem to think that it's more likely for them to cheat which simply isn't true, but it's good that people know about this and are correcting this false presumption 😊

[@yajairabenavides375]

May i ask how did you got rid of those insecurities??

[@sheamoore7214]

As a bi person who came out in the midst of a relationship with an opposite sex partner and gets a TON of stupid questions... Thank you for this. Seriously.

[@justwendy6401]

I feel ya here. I came out to my HUSBAND last year. Lol! He's pretty much forced me back into the closet tho because "nobody needs to know" and "it's unnecessary".

[@sheamoore7214]

Just Wendy I'm so sorry that happened! My fiance is fine about that, but is paranoid about every friendship I have with a girl. We're working on it. Hopefully it's something you and your husband can work on as well! ❤️

[@conallthewolf5109]

Ay, as a bisexual, thanks for the representation!!!

[@conallthewolf5109]

Also, does this mean I hug myself? Or does someone hug me? 🤔

[@Harto]

Thank YOU for living life exactly as you are!

[@SammyLazarus]

Hannah is such a great role model for the LGBTQ+ community! THANK YOU!

[@ZoeAlleyne]

when I saw the name of this video I froze in fear. I see a title like this and I don't know if it's going to contain some Ariella-esque interviews with lesbians who say the worst stereotypes about bisexuals as if they are true. I still receive intra community hate. when SCOTUS made marriage equality I was berated and told not to celebrate because "today isn't your day" and that bisexuals do nothing for the cause and then just ride on any of the advantages that are won. Like we have nothing to do with it and were just benefit from it. From before I was even out to myself I was fighting for marriage equality, I was the "overly enthusiastic ally" that showed up to pride parade volunteer groups to just help out and was just so happy to help and then I was no longer able to be in the closet anymore. but the 20 YEARS I was in the closet was to do with the negativity about bisexuals and it causes so much damage to my life. I don't expect everyone to understand, it's ok not to understand. I don't understand people who are only attracted to a SINGLE gender. It's ok not to relate, but don't hate.

[@moltenkitty7157]

ZoeAlleyne aww i'm so sorry that happened/has happened to you :( i seriously dislike how the LGBTQ+ community does that to bi individuals, like guys come on the B is in there for a reason..

[@ZoeAlleyne]

Molten Kitty thank you kitty 🐱 ❤

[@selfdestructivebarbie8644]

I'm bisexual too and I denied it to myself and everyone else for 10 years before I finally came to terms with who and what I am. I agree that even though we are the B in LGBTQ, I am always kinda written off or disregarded by gays and lesbians as if I'm not really a part of the community. I simply love based on personality, not gender. I can love a man or a woman and am sexually attracted to both. And I'm often shamed for it. I understand where you're coming from, and you aren't alone!

[@ZoeAlleyne]

Selfdestructivebarbie it's good in a way to not be alone, but I look forward to a future where we don't feel like this.

[@moltenkitty7157]

ZoeAlleyne you're welcome zoe 😊❤❤❤

[@kjlott99]

As a bisexual male who has only dated (1) women thank you!! I discovered I was Bi about a year ago and just recently had my first crush on another male. I'm not out yet but I really do love these videos!!

[@abbeyv4148]

You go Kyle! I love that you discovered your sexuality and are so self-validating. I drove myself crazy for the longest time thinking that I could only claim a label once I'd "fulfilled" the definition. But love is not a to-do list of genders to check off. So ygg takin your time! *claps*

[@fitzdilllore22]

I feel honored to have my sexuality to be the theme of a Hannah Hart video. Thanks Hannah! Anyone else bi?

[@Inked1986]

Finally a video about this!!! I am bisexual and my fiancée is gay and I always get tons of questions about it. Thank you Hannah for talking about this!!

[@starfishey2]

As someone who is bisexual one thing that drives me crazy to hear is "well if you like both just go for the opposite gender to fit the societal norms." It drives me crazy, that's not how I approach getting in a relationship with someone. My sister told me "Unless you're going to be in a committed relationship with a girl you shouldn't tell [our traditional] parents." It came from a place of love, but just seemed like an "issue" the family shouldn't have to deal with unless I end up with a girl. I just went through a breakup with my girlfriend a couple weeks ago and ended up telling my mom. She was very understanding about it all, but one of the things she told me that kind of irked me was because I didn't have a lot of experience dating I still needed to go out there and figure out what I wanted. I hate that my sexuality, which I am sure of, is constantly being questioned which in turn makes me question and feel wrong about something I know is right.

[@moltenkitty7157]

Starfishey i'm so sorry 💕 so frustrating how people, especially family, act like that. just know even if you still get insecure and question yourself at times because of other people, at the end of the day it's something you *know* is right and your soul never lies 💕

[@sophiem399]

i relate to all the feelings you just described :(

[@BROKENsk8board]

My wife is Bisexual. She's been in relationships on both sides. She just happens to love me, why? Only she knows. I have a had those same thoughts before of what happens if she loves women more? I quickly learned to just talk to her about them. She prefers not to label herself either. She's just Crisy...

[@GeesSpot]

I don't like labels at all but for the sake of the comment I "categorise" as a bi sexual. I'm currently in a long term hetero relationship which honestly made it easier for me to hide my sexuality because i was so scared to come out. I had a girlfriend in high school (in my 20's now) and hid it for the short months we were together, we broke up because she was out and proud and i wasn't. Now, i'm out and less insecure. I just think, no matter what sexuality you are, you really need to take time for yourself to work on your insecurities and accept that you are who you are and no ones opinion really matters. I know it's hard when it comes to parents but honestly, not every LGBTQ+ trailblazer you meet had it easy coming out to their family, in fact I think they're trailblazers because despite their adversities they were strong. and you are too. :)

[@sonastysorude]

The only label I will ever have is Hartosexual

[@Harto]

**eyeshine**

[@destinymcconnell8491]

Same doe!

[@gitadine]

Same same same!

[@TheElyonBrown]

Taylor E Same here!

[@renmager6483]

This was very helpful because im bisexual (more into girls than guys) but i thought you might have the opinion that," its not real," or,"they arent gay enough" or "not straight enough" so thanks for not being like that and genuinely being a great person 💖

[@hannahc659]

Alex Mager you're not a percent of a gay person, you're a whole entire bisexual and you're 100% real and valid ❤️

[@lexinelson1805]

Hannah is a beacon of positivity don't worry, keep being your beautiful self

[@renmager6483]

Hannah Mary thank you 💖

[@renmager6483]

Lexi Nelson thank you 💖

[@StephieBugs]

same here! I'm Bi too more into girls too but that doesn't mean I don't think guys are cool there really amazing too! and I'm happy this vid exists because it has all problems I'm feeling

[@gramps2matt]

Thank you for mentioning guys are Bi too. Bisexual woman are far more accepted than Bisexual men. I think we are questioned most about just going through a phase and needing to decide one (STR8) over the other (gay). And you are correct being wrapped in the arms of a strong man can be exhilarating while intimacy with a woman also has its positives. The fact I have experienced both and find both to be awesome is who I am so don't judge me. Acknowledge us Bi guys and let us be who we are.

[@DHArynDiazR]

gramps2matt Very true. Yes, a female bisexual are often viewed as desirable and sexually adventurous while men often receive extremely negative reactions from straight women - like it's emasculating somehow. It doesn't play out in nearly the same way.

[@moltenkitty7157]

gramps2matt you go dude ❤

[@emilieagin6573]

gramps2matt I agree that bi women are more excepted but I wish you guys were too. I have friends who have said they would never kiss a man who has kissed other men and I try to explain that it's not a bad thing but they don't understand unfortunately

[@StephieBugs]

your accepted by this person :D

[@gorilla-grip-pussy-support7976]

I agreed with your comment until you decided to make it a competition. Bisexual women’s abuse rates are sky high. We are not “accepted” we are fetishised.

[@lydiaseifarth8473]

So I go to a private Christian school and yesterday I came out as bi to all my friends and I'm honestly so happy,, they were so kind and just accepting about it and I started crying I was so relieved and happy

[@etlatroffical2275]

ghost king you need to realize you can't change fucking chromosomes. You are a boy or a girl, not both, or not changing.

[@sabrinaouenzar5339]

You go friend !! Happy for you 💕

[@dreamgirlfriendevil]

Et Latr Offical *cough* um... regardless of the inaccurate and transphobic stuff you just said, this comment is talking about sexuality, not gender. I don't want to start shit with you, but please educate yourself on the issues at hand before saying stuff like that. Congratulations ghost king, that was so brave of you and I'm glad it went so well ❤

[@piperpuppy2402]

Idk why you would've thought they wouldn't accept you. I think most (maybe 80%) of Christians would accept you (I'm Christian and I would and I don't even know you).

[@Feraloidies]

that's awesome!! I am so happy for you, both for coming out, which is so so hard, and I'm happy all your friends are awesome!

[@bribeatriz]

Hey, I’m bi! I may only be a small teenager but I feel very comfortable in my sexuality and I’m proud that I can feel somewhat safe in my own skin. I’ve come a long way and I just wanted to say thank you for helping me on my on-going journey of finding myself and loving who I am, love you Hannah 💓💜💙

[@bribeatriz]

also sorry if this makes no sense I’m a bit sleepy

[@ghoststache]

I myself am a bisexual male dating a bisexual female. I used to think I was straight but she pretty much always knew she was at least somewhat into girls. As time has gone on, we've both gravitated more and more toward being attracted to our own sexes, but we're still dating and very much in love 3 years later. So while we're both bi and almost across the board more attracted to our own sexes than we are to the other's, we know that the relationship is between us and not anyone else.

[@hellawicked6184]

GhostStache So your straight

[@JoyaTurqueza]

Super Sand not really

[@gijaysorez7747]

Super Sand they like to refer it as a straight relationship but he is bi. Like how Shane Dawson ( OG youtuber if you dont know) is in a gay relationship right now, but he is also bi.

[@hellawicked6184]

Gijay Sorez Just being straight with added steps

[@jl9554]

GhostStache I honestly need to know if you're in an open relationship? Or did you both cheat? Because that comment about both gravitated to your own sex seems suspect.

[@8imsocute]

Ayy to all the bisexuals who are currently reading this comment thank you for being you here's a hug * hugs you *

[@drewjestis8310]

Rawr

[@8imsocute]

Drew Jestis XD (I'm cringing so hard)

[@drewjestis8310]

Hahahaha, your welcome 😂

[@DarKnightOfficial]

* secretly pulls knife out of pocket * * accepts hug * * stabs in back * * runs away *

[@8imsocute]

DarKnight * calls 911 * * is taken to hospital and recovers * * gets interviewed by police * * gives detailed information of what you look like * * you get arrested *

[@GloriousBirds]

So I'm a bisexual (or pansexual or queer honestly I don't even know) woman and I'm dating a bisexual man rn. A lot of the time I feel weird being out in the gay parts of town with him because I'm afraid that I don't seem gay enough. My hair is literally dyed the colors of the bisexual pride flag but I don't feel gay enough??? I've been called "bicurious" by a straight dude and "queer-lite" by someone from the LGBT+ community, and sometimes being bisexual feels like you don't fit in anywhere, so thanks for making this video! It was a great starting point for people who might not know about us!

[@DOfreakNUT]

Callie Fleckner yess, exactly! i'm bi, dating a bi guy, too, and i've found myself dressing 'more gay' when i'm out and about with him

[@yuanshui3788]

Hi. Are u interested in threesome dating, the www.couplelookingforwoman.com give bisexuals a platform to enjoy threesome dating.

[@lourdesmontes9701]

Add me to the list that relates. I'm also bi and date a bi male. It used to be a bigger problem I thought about a lot. I didn't my family because they're Catholic. Most of my friends dated people of the same sex. I felt disappointed because even though I was in a relationship with a guy, it gets dismissed as a oh no honey, you're straight. I then explain my attraction to both male and females and I get blamed as an individual who seems not happy with my relationship and wants to experiment with women. On top of that, my queer friends felt offended because I was ignoring the queer community, as if I hated people who didn't identify with a gender. It was chaos with what I labeled myself. And it would be a lie if I didn't believe in labels because that denies what makes me, well me, such as Mexican American. At the end of the day, I'm just a happy bi that acknowledges the struggles and feel relieved that we at least have a those who understand.

[@lourdesmontes9701]

And no, I'm not looking to be in a threesome or poly relationship just because I identify as bi. Silly people. (: I'm as loyal to my partner as is any other committed couple.

[@emilinebee6280]

External validation is elusive and pointless. One of the great things about not fitting in is that you are forced to learn that earlier in life. Once you do, you will have found the secret to happiness.

[@wormonastring4516]

Im a bi chick who gets a lot of hate for being me, which is dumb. now, im just going to send them this link and a hug meme! *hugs all the bisexuals out there*

[@noelmoore9666]

Papaya the Raging Bisexual hugggs

[@patildamay8425]

Hugs back!!!

[@lourdesmontes9701]

Hugs back atcha!

[@legoshi3280]

Hugs back!

[@StephieBugs]

huggies!

[@F00D1ES]

I was a little scared this would feel like an Arielle video but no, so respectful and well thought out! Also I can't tell you how much I appreciated discussing how most "problems" associating with dating bi/pan people actually come mostly from insecurities monosexual folks are holding unchecked within themselves. And yes!! My primary partner (I'm also polyamorous so I get ALL the greed comments you could dream up haha) often feels like they need to explain or defend me for reasons you'd never even think of if someone in the picture wasn't bi/pan. I seriously wish more people within this queer community on youtube would approach this topic with as much care, effort and insight as you have here. Thank you from the bottom of my pink blue and purple heart, Hannah. You absolutely brightened my bi awareness week ^_^

[@Feraloidies]

oh, you so greeeeedy (/sarcasm!) You expressed this really well

[@F00D1ES]

I actually snorted when I read that haha :P Thank you, that's so darn lovely of you

[@farahval.7824]

I don't think I have ever clicked on a KZbin video this fast before

[@brittlynn4]

As I bisexual woman I really appreciate hearing you say that it's brave to identify on the spectrum of sexuality. In an age on near-constant bi-erasure I love being able to look to others in the LGBTQIA+ community and see some validation. Do you have any thoughts about the argument of bisexuality being too supportive of the binary gender system? I'd love to hear a conversation between you and a bisexual or pansexual or nonbinary person on that!

[@Harto]

It is! You are so brave! Thank you for existing! (Also re: gender binary... I gotta think on that!)

[@raindappleleafdapple4036]

Brittany Robb I personally am a Pansexual woman and totally agree with everything you say I think Hannah posting this video really brought up the spirits of some people

[@purplecarrotstirfry]

Brittany Robb My bisexual best friend told me that it's her opinion that bisexuality does not reinforce the gender binary because the bi- in bisexual refers to 1. Same gender and 2. Other genders. Which I thought was interesting!

[@ktm3636]

im personally pan and questioning my gender identity and i feel as if most bi people would date people not in the gender spectrum but then obviously theres some that wouldnt. i dont know i guess me being pan is willing to date whoever but more importantly dating people for their hearts and brains. ( WOW KATIE WHAT R U SAYING )

[@ashleyberry6005]

Sterling Richards that's such an interesting way of seeing it!

[@Babybell-]

Thank you so much for talking about this. I'm a bisexual who is in a relationship with a wonderful woman. She's really understanding about how difficult it can be, and helps defend me when people question my sexuality. Having that support helps more than anything. People's assumptions and misunderstandings can be really hurtful. Bisexual and pansexuals face this problem all the time. I get accused of "straight passing", or get told I'm just experimenting constantly. It's really draining trying to defend myself all the time. Having such an amazing partner is really what helps the most. So if you're dating a bi or pan individual, please be understanding and help them deal with all the negativity and hate that can come their way.

[@amsterzb9329]

Thank you so much, Hannah. This doesn't get talked about enough. It is so super hurtful to be hanging out with your friends and someone makes a bi joke or talks about a negative experience with a former bi partner, and all of a sudden you feel marginalized and less-than. I appreciate your clarity and that you come from a place of compassion.

[@Sarah-Sunshine95]

Thank you for this video. I vary between calling myself bisexual, queer and pansexual, but I'm learning that doesn't matter. A lot of these questions really hurt me/us and bi-erasure is a real thing. Thank you for educating people on this topic, it makes me happy. After all, no matter what my label, I'm just an awkward person trying to find love in this world like everyone else!

[@Feraloidies]

I like the term crooked, lol. I'm not quite straight :)

[@88crumm]

There was a minute of blank screen time you could have filled with CHARLES CUTENESS!!!!

[@abbeyv4148]

FO REAL!!!! Can we have just a Charles Compilation vid pls???

[@rprunty088]

As a bi person I think you did a good job here. My other piece of advice would be to listen to your partner. And make sure you use terms to describe their sexuality that they themselves would use. Also just venting, the worst part of being bi is people sexualize you like crazy. It's not applicable to me personally (I am monogamous as heck and casual sex makes me anxious) and I wish people wouldn't automatically assume otherwise about me based on a label that I don't even really like.

[@zo_mi_di]

Rachel Prunty the amount of times I've been asked why I don't just choose a side...jfc. Or when I come out to someone and they ask if I just have threesomes all the time...that's actually happened to me like 5 times

[@rprunty088]

Zoe D Same though.

[@brynnmorris3432]

I'm a confused person... I thought I was bi then I haven't looked at man in any other way than just being a friend. I think I'm a lesbian but I don't want to say that I am if I'm not sure... I'm just a really confused person. ♥️ have a nice day♥️

[@subsonicdeathmonkey]

Brynn Morris just follow your heart and try to forget about the labels.

[@brynnmorris3432]

subsonicdeathmonkey thanks

[@TinyToyBlicky]

Sometimes you don't need a label. You be who you are...dream big..find love..be happy. The world needs more of that

[@LeanneFrenkel]

As someone who is 25 and pretty much in the same boat, I say, try not to worry about it! It takes a lot of unnecessary time and energy trying to figure out what your label is. I find it easiest personally to identify as queer because it's an easy umbrella term that could mean a number of things. But there's really not a lot of good in sitting up all night analyzing your every thought. I just try and stay open to all possibilities, and if I continue to just be attracted to and date women that's fine, and if I find a man that I am attracted to there's nothing wrong with that either! No need to tie myself down with a label or put myself in a box when I know there's possibilities all around me and wonderful human beings of every kind. Ps- Ignore the rude and ignorant person above me. There's no place for that here. I reported their comment so maybe it will eventually just go away. haha

[@brynnmorris3432]

Deep Throat you see, you can't decide. But thanks for the advice!

[@user-nh2pk6cg6k]

Hannah your timing!!! I just came out to one of my best friends in the whole world this week. She was way more supportive than I ever anticipated. It’s difficult to admit it to everyone but I’m getting there. This video was so liberating so thank you for giving me a source for my anxiety about being bi! You’re an inspiration and thank you for letting the world know we’re all human and being bi doesn’t mean you’re “being greedy” (as many of my friends have said before)

[@jessyes718]

As a bisexual woman who have mostly dated men, I find that men are also super insecure about if I cheat on them with a woman.

[@madimusic21]

I'm pansexual if I ever have to label myself but all that really matters to me is my beautiful girlfriend. ❤️

[@taylorlien569]

Less than a year ago I really started realizing that the way I'd always kinda of felt about girls and women was more than just friendship, and at first I thought I was bisexual. But then after thinking about it and contemplating it for a long time, I realized that on a daily basis I didn't really feel sexually attracted to people on the street. Since I grew up in a Christian environment this was a good thing, but as all my friends started becoming much more experienced and sexually active, I felt broken and like something was wrong with me. Then after exploring for a long time, I decided that I identify as demisexual, and biromantic. I've yet to date a girl, but I've meet a lot of great ones, and honestly that's something I'd really like to experience in the future. Thank you for making this video, love you Hannah!

[@teighan2051]

Taylor Lien oh my gosh this sounds exactly like me

[@taylorlien569]

t rac glad to be relatable I suppose

[@smolanpaman6474]

when I clicked on this I was scared to watch this bc I thought you were gonna say a lot of mean things but I'm so glad to hear you love and respect bisexuals, I am a loud and proud bisexual and I'm sp happy and extremely grateful that you made this video, thank you.

[@bethanywilkerson5015]

I'm bi so I told myself these things I exsist I am visible And I matter 😁😏❤❤

[@WeirdSmellyMan]

REVEL_REBEL I agree with all but the last one. Why do you matter?

[@adakathleen9662]

Jeremy Staples because they’re a human. That’s like asking if air is necessary I survive.

[@Menosaverus]

@@adakathleen9662 Nothing matters. The universe owes not. And we do not owe it. Rights, morals and the good and bad right or wrong do not exist. We are just simply here. We can know when,how but we shall never know why. We just have to accept.

[@l-3832]

Napoléon Bonaparte Tf? Jesus Christ dude, do you take pride in giving people an existential crisis XD?

[@devinmarie36]

I'm bisexual. I love my bf and he understands that being bisexual won't change how I feel for him! 💜

[@hannahc659]

Hashtagdev36 I'm happy for you two! It's great to find people who are open to the community and understanding of their identities

[@breannamarieish]

You are very lucky! "Coming out" I guess to my husband was not a pleasant experience, but over the years he has grown to accept it & realize I only have eyes for him.

[@devinmarie36]

Ethan helm why you so angry?

[@somswelvaakniet]

As someone who 100% identifies as a huge gay lesbian, I never understood bisexuality. I was one of the people who were like, "just pick one already!". But then, one of my best friends at the time came out as bi. I've had quite heated discussions on this subject with her lots of times, but she finally managed to explain to me what bisexuality really means. This day I feel the same way as you, Hannah! Bisexuals are so, so brave for standing up for something that's widely considered vague or non-existing. We keep learning, isn't that great?!! :D

[@flo4223]

Rebecca Wieringa my best friend is gay so when I told him I was bi, he called it a 'phase', and it really upset me because I knew what I was. Now, after similar conversations you had with your friend, he totally gets it and is my rock whenever people are not so understanding 😊 I'm so glad I can talk to such open-minded people in the comments, you've given me hope that other people might one day understand what it means to be bi 🏳️‍🌈

[@somswelvaakniet]

Angel Flo Ahh, great stuff! That's why I keep commenting on videos, there's always someone who feels the same way! Keep on doing you! :)

[@31waterbaby]

Rebecca Wieringa I am a bi woman and have been with my current female partner for 18 years. I am passionately in love with her and have no desire to be with anyone else. But that doesn't change the fact that I'm bi. I have slept with men and been in love with men. And even though even if I wasn't with my partner I'd probably never date another man. But I have in the past so to me that means I am bi.

[@melkidrizzly7390]

Rebecca Wieringa Are you still a Kinsey 6? Exclusively homosexual Or are you sexually fluid?

[@Feraloidies]

It seems weird to me that people wouldn't get it.

[@bellalipa2376]

I'm not even sure of my own sexuality, I just like who I like tbh.

[@janeycgilmore]

Girl that ok! You don’t need to give yourself a label or place yourself in a box. Don’t feel pressured to label yourself just bc it’s easier for other ppl👍👍

[@cillabean7653]

I'm going through the same thing xD

[@allyj2858]

Bella Lipa me too

[@imjustakid724]

That's the best way to be!

[@whatshesaysgoes7981]

Labels are for food 🤗

[@TanyaJohnson1988]

Yay happy bi-sexy week, my dudes!

[@Harto]

Bi-sexy? All flexy! **insert buff arm emoji**

[@vincef7487]

+MyHarto 💪🏾

[@ratsoftheplague]

Hannah, thank you so much for this honest video. and thank you for showing that you had your own prejudices before you could learn and grow to overcome them. as a bisexual, hearing the support from a prominent figure of the community means a lot. keep being awesome, your kindness is, i think, a role model for everyone!

[@rachel7a]

My fiance refuses to accept I'm bi he claims I'm straight because I'm with him. He also feels since I've never had sex with a female I'm not, which I've tried to explain I didn't have sex with every guy I had a relationship with. I don't feel sex is what determines your sexuality in a relationship because I've had more meaningful and emotionally connected relationships with females than most guys I dated.

[@jmart1393]

Rachel Griffith your fiancé needs to dump your confused ass

[@rachel7a]

J Mizzy I'm not confused I love him, but have loved women in the past. That doesn't mean I'm not attracted to both men and women just simply that I chose him as the one to have a future with. I'm not confused at all I know what I'm attracted to when it comes to both genders.

[@jmart1393]

Rachel Griffith but your female attraction is irrelevant so why even have the conversation. At the end of the day, if you want kids and a normal family you choose a male partner. Simple.

[@rachel7a]

J Mizzy that wasn't really ever in my plans for life marriage and kids weren't ever a for sure thing and you can still have those things with a female as well

[@jmart1393]

Rachel Griffith right. You’re a liberal weirdo. I’m not surprised.

[@christina8143]

Where is all my bi pals!?!?#BiWeek

[@crunchmunch7524]

Christina here! My parent don't accept me but im still proud!

[@ericpierre53]

Yay! Friends!

[@DeadTrash]

Right here!

[@sabinamurman8968]

Here! 😄💖

[@ericpierre53]

Proud is the best thing you can ever be. So what if your parents don't understand. You love yourself, and that's the most important.

[@taylorbeasley3887]

Hannah, I have been Bisexual for years but just recently started to realize I am actually gay. I am 21 years old and I've been with the same guy for almost 6 years. And this past month has been one of the hardest months of my life. Between actually coming to terms with being gay, to wondering how the hell ill tell anyone and how will my now husband take it. And within this month, I was forced out by him. He wanted answers and kept pressuring me. It all came out at once. And since then I haven't been very much okay. I started to see a therapist, and I am just slowly losing myself. But since starting therapy, I have noticed myself becoming more and more okay. I am in the process of coming out officially, as well as getting a divorce. Wow. That actually hurts to say. But anyways that is my story i guess

[@snaileymac7965]

You're still so young and now you have many years to figure out what you want or who you want independently! You are so strong! I couldn't imagine going through such a painful experience, but recently I see couples around me that were together for 2-5 years suddenly start to break up (most of us are around 25) And while it may be devastating at first (as when a heart breaks, it don't break even), I eventually see them blossom into the person they were meant to be. Wish you luck!

[@katculbertson2444]

I love you, and your whole story & how you feel is completely valid! You probably already know that, but I think it's sometimes a nice thing to hear. Good luck, it'll get better

[@RudiSka]

Oh the feeels! 3 years ago I left my husband (together for over 8 years all together) for a multitude of reasons but his main question was "do you think you're gay?" and I just cried and cried. I've always been attracted to women and had a few intense encounters but never dated. I went to therapy but never talked about my sexuality, got into a relationship with another guy (who is great and we're still together) and after a year of being together I was like "I need you to know that I'm bisexual and I feel like I kind of hinted that to you when we started dating but I don't know if you really picked up on it and it's okay if that changes everything for you" but he was a decent person and was like "that's okay, as long as it doesn't change the boundaries of our relationship". Great work on going to therapy and don't close the door on that because honestly more than 3 years after my break up I still struggle with parts of it and should still be seeing someone about it. Also A+ job on acting on your situation, it's so hard to leave relationships that you're not happy in when it's not obvious to the outside world that you're not happy.

[@blondebouncingferret]

I'm a bi woman who has been in a relationship with a man for 13 years. We're married and have a kid but hey guess what? Still bi! 💗💜💙

[@ronnie1950]

Light RED FIRE Um, no... She's still bi... She still feels attraction to women, and I don't think you can really tell us God's in tears if you're not dead, or you're not God so....

[@aldogallegos3209]

Light RED FIRE so are you one of those crazy people who believe the world is ending tommorow September 22nd 2017, cause supposedly Christian's (Catholics) estimate that that's the date the world is gonna end.

[@blondebouncingferret]

If God can love everyone, why can't I? Tell your nonsense to someone who cares what you think 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@lite0221]

Dawn Warren God bless your soul. At least you have a proper family - you're still following the rules in the eyes of a conservative. (:

[@Ipernova]

^ gr8 b8 m8 2bad I can't reciproc8

[@andreadalziell6281]

I really love this video. I'm currently dating a woman for the first time and so many people (aka my family) have been questioning me about my sexuality now. They say it's a phase, ask if I still like men, am I bisexual, etc. And the truth is.... I don't know. Your comment "labels are for other people" really stuck out to me because that's what I've been trying to explain to them. I don't need a label to tell me that my girlfriend makes me super happy. Also, I now understand how she may be feeling as the first woman I've ever dated. I know she feels possibly threatened by male attention I may get, but I do my best to assure her that I only want to be with her. I'm truly the happiest I've ever been, and it's been such an amazing journey.

[@lydiajomua8022]

Thank you Hannah. You're an amazing person. I've never heard that I was brave for being Bi. Ive always heard the bad side and that I was just being selfish. This means so much. ❤️ we love you!

[@oliviagroft561]

also love the bi positivity! 💖💜💙

[@yuanshui3788]

So, would you want bisexual dating online, the www.bisexualchatting.com give you a chance to chat with hot bisexuals.

[@lydiarose9922]

My girlfriend is actually bisexual and it only bothered me at first to think about her experiences with men because I was worried about pleasing her.... in a bedroom sorta way. But then she told me that the guys she'd been with were really bad at that stuff and helped me realize that kind of thing took practice in the first place and being in a relationship is a learning and growing experience, not a set in stone type of thing where two people are exactly who they're going to be for the rest of their lives. She's actually been amazing about helping me with some gender and sexuality issues of my own and honestly i think bi people are awesome. They're the only ones who are ok enough in their sexuality to admit to liking both men and women and let people question them. I think that's pretty awesome

[@31waterbaby]

Lydia Rose very body could try and hold themselves up to their partners exes if any gender. It doesn't matter. My partner sends me to the moon and back but she's not the best I've had. But she's pretty damn incredible. And all that matters is I am happy with her and with us as we are. Certain things are off the table with her sexually but it's not a deal breaker. I had my fun and glad I got to experience some things. But not having every sexual thing I want is okay. I still get plenty of what I enjoy. And what I get in return can't even compare to giving those things up. It's not a big deal. No one gets everything they want and that's fine. Once you stop chasing that perfect ideal you can settle down and be happy with someone who has more of what you want even if it's not everything.

[@ronantowell9529]

I'm bi, not out yet (not for lack of support just...? Idk I just haven't) ✌🏻

[@destinymcconnell8491]

Ronan Towell same doe!

[@karetrieslife]

I'm out to basically everyone but my parents. It sucks but do what you gotta do to stay in a safe environment!!

[@taylorbritt499]

Hey thats chill! You do what you feel alright with. Come out when you're ready. Some people don't come out till later in adulthood. It's a process for sure.

[@dbopper8791]

That's perfectly all right! Coming out is a difficult thing to do, but half the battle is over once you've figured out how you identify. I wish you the best of luck in the future coming out!

[@ronantowell9529]

D Bopper thank you so much!!

[@katmcake]

both i and my cis-male partner identify on the bi-spectrum (i identify as bi, he id's as pan) and TBH it's really really wonderful to date someone who can relate to my specific experiences AND has a super great butt. it's easily the healthiest relationship i've ever been in. what's weird is the passing judgement i can feel from LGBTQIA spaces - sometimes, queer spaces aren't welcoming because we ~pass~ as a straight couple. this feels counter-intuitive bc i feel the most important value in queer spaces should be uplifting one another and ensuring we enter into relationships which are healthy and beneficial. thus, fellow bisexual folks in 'straight' relationship: your sexuality is VALID, you're gay no matter WHO you date, and ~passing~ as straight is totally fake and made up and everyone else is just trapped by their own notions of what "gay" and "straight" is supposed to look like! BEING BI AND DATING NICE PEOPLE IS HELLA COOL

[@emilylaidley6088]

Needed this. I've only ever dated one person and we're planning on getting married. I figured out that the way I look at and think about girls is not the way straight women look at girls after I was already dating a man. I identify as bisexual because I'm attracted to attractive people regardless of gender, but I'm in a "straight" relationship and probably always will be. I feel awkward showing up with him to LGBTQIA+ spaces because I feel judged and like others think we're intruding. All of this to say..... thank you for sharing these feelings, validating them, and reassuring all of us in this situation that we do belong and we are valid. Thank you.

[@amasterofone]

This is so on point. We've already made the point that you can't reliably tell someone's sexuality from their appearance. Why would you assume someone's sexuality based on the assumed gender of their SO? Obviously that doesn't change anything about their sexuality and yet it seems to significantly.

[@DOfreakNUT]

katherine m yes, thank you so much :D i'm in the exact same boat

[@eliasapollo4131]

If someone really loves you they won't cheat, no matter if they're gay, straight or bi

[@MickyAvStickyHands]

Only (mostly) true for women. Trigger warning.

[@shimango]

+MickyAvStickyHands gratz on having the biggest generalization I have seen all day

[@underduckduckling5424]

Kin Laison huh what

[@BrookeBaubles]

I cheated on someone I loved. Some people just have issues (not to say that justifies it).

[@sortathesame8701]

I wish this were true, but it isn't. Far too often opportunity knocks and when it does, even those in the most loving of relationships opens the door and lets it in.

[@yesiamthatwierd]

As a bisexual female I would just like to point out that this video was amazing to watch. I've always felt super weird knowing that people question my sexuality in the sense that they think that it is less valid, and I happen to be dating a trans person, so people have now told me I am pan, but I identify as bi, so that's a thing. My point here is that the person that I am dating and I are both in interesting positions on the spectrum, and as Hannah said, I think everyone is. I personally think whatever term a person chooses to use for how they feel they fall on the spectrum is appropriate despite how another person may define the others sexuality. So thank you Hannah for this video it was really amazing to watch and I really needed it. There's so much hate in the world, and the more love there is the better🌈❤️

[@highfivehangten]

I like to think of my definition of bisexuality meaning "attraction to my own gender and other genders". That's how I make the "bi" part work for me, because it's not just men and women for me either

[@conjured_cow]

My boyfriend & I are both bisexual ( we always joke that together we make a whole straight person & a whole gay person lol ) but people always ask the typical: "well, you guys are in a straight relationship, so aren't you straight?" @_@

[@jl9554]

Shiolet Music The fact that people can't comprehend two bisexuals of the oppposite sex are dating each is mind boggling!

[@annesaul4948]

Im married to a man... (who is supportive but also confused by my bisexuality... thats so great that you both can completely understand that part of each other!) but thats my biggest fear if I "come out" that ill never hear the end of it. I have no desire to go public, the people who matter know. And when I thought i was straight i didnt need to tell anyone so I think its all good for me. :D

[@colourmycosplay]

Shiolet Music honestly my boyfriend and I say the same. We make an equally straight and gay couple

[@MultiKswift]

Maybe you could say no because you aren't in a straight relationship because neither of you are straight. I just usually use same sex or opposite/different sex.

[@absdiary_]

This is so random but your smile reminds me of someone I love who passed away and it just makes me so happy to remember their smile

[@StephieBugs]

I'm so sorry to hear that..

[@Its.brandi.with.an.i]

THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS!!! As a bi woman dating a lesbian we have had these conversations of insecurity and how it stems from the patriarchy. And just how if you're a bi man or woman it is always assumed you're going to pick the man option. It's not fair but having allies from all along the spectrum is valuable. So thank you for talking about your truth and experiences.

[@bri_4099]

I was listening to Hamilton but this is more important

[@Jynx090986]

I'm dating a girl for the first time in my life and it had been the best experience! I think i have found my soul mate

[@Arctic047]

Hannah, just a friendly heads-up that the music goes on for a full minute behind a black screen after the video actually ends! (4:00 - 5:08) Love your vids and thanks for sticking up for us people who identify as bisexual! =)

[@maxgorman8618]

Julia Herbold I don't really mind cause it's totally groovy and I just like doing a little seat dance while listening to it, but valid point!

[@Arctic047]

True, doe. I dance every time! \\^_^ ^_^//

[@ambermac510]

It made reading the comment section more fun for me!! 😁😁

[@iLikePotato3s]

I'm pretty sure she knows lol. Probably to get more ad revenue? Idk

[@immaundacova999]

I've noticed this with other channels too, like Shannon's and Amy's and Alexis'. Maybe it's a KZbin thing? Dunno, but I agree with the other poster, nice to groove to in your chair or bed.

[@rp2772]

i'm honestly so happy you made this video, really appreciate it. i remember a video of you and some other youtubers from YEARS ago and you said something like "i only want them to kiss me" in reference to people who were bisexual and it really got me down. honestly, this video is of such different opinion and is positive about bisexual people - its so refreshing to see someone change their opinion about bisexual people!! and shows that even in our own community there's so much more we have to learn about each other!

[@kennedytaylor4732]

I love you so much, Hannah. I appreciate and needed this so much as a bisexual woman who has struggled with all of the stuff you talked about. You're so amazing and I can't even put into words how much of a positive impact you've had on me.

[@coversbyhannah826]

Me, a christian: "none of this is scripture...." *starts imagining the LGBTQ+ bible written by Hannah Hart*

[@abby1924]

covers by hannah Hannah hart and miles

[@dbopper8791]

sorry, Elijah Daniel already wrote that! lol!

[@abbeyv4148]

PLEASE LET IT BE SO!!!!!! Buffering part II: the queer testament

[@glassygamer5116]

i want a copy

[@abbyr4007]

covers by hannah you mean Elijah Daniels

[@stefaknee12pp]

Great topic! I had the same views when I was in my early 20's, but I think it was more about my insecurities 🤷‍♀️. To all the bisexuals happy awareness week! 💜💙✌️

[@gaferbalerk]

I'm a bi guy, and I will admit I've never really had a problem with people questioning me or anything, but it has come up as a point of contention between myself and the girls I date. They tend to have the same problem you did with being uncomfortable and insecure. I plan on showing this video to any or all people I date in the future, thank you. :)

[@shyguyrocks1]

gaferbalerk Only girls?

[@ohcecily]

As a bi woman, I love this and love that you were willing to admit that you used to have those insecurities. It can really hurt being bi and having people assume you're going to cheat or "pick the other team" or whatever - but it's also human to have insecurities and fears. As always, communication and understanding saves the day, and I love that you always try to open these dialogues. You're doing good

[@kellyconnelly1429]

Thank you, Hannah Hart. As an open bisexual for the last 15 years, I have encountered every question, judgement and ambivalence known to a bisexual. I don't think I can even call it 'Bi-phobia' because I'm not hated for my sexuality, but I am often shrugged off. Only a handful of people throughout my life have believed and taken it at face value. It hurts. At 29 years of age now, my mother finally realized it wasn't an "attention seeking phase". Why is it so hard to accept loving BOTH sexes? Why must it be one or the other? Thank you for opening the dialogue on the topic. Love your channel and appreciate more than words how much more pride and confidence you have instilled in me and other's, simply by being and sharing yourself.

[@EllaEllona123654]

I remember talking to this guyfriend one time about me not knowing if I really am bisexual. He was like 'well have you ever had sex with a woman' and i was like nopeee, so he nods and proudly declares that I can't be bisexual then... Never talked to him again after that. I mean whaaat. Thats just stupid man. What about all the virgins? Are they asexual then?! Stupid. People talking about sexuality like they know shit... No you don't

[@31waterbaby]

EllaEllona123654 I know what you mean. Nobody ever asks straight people whether or not they know if they're straight if they've never had sex. So what. You don't get to choose your sexuality until you've sampled everything?

[@Dellennickolis95]

EllaEllona123654 Why would that be a reason to unfriend him, he didn't sound bigoted at all just ill-informed.

[@kelseywhite6114]

Hey peeps I'm bisexual

[@rtd056]

Another honest and caring video. 💕

[@Harto]

Congrats!!

[@kelseywhite6114]

Lol thanks

[@destinymcconnell8491]

Same doe!

[@audearthling]

Growing up I constantly heard "bi people are just desperate for attention from anyone they can get" and I believed them and this caused me to suppress a part of me and ignore it my whole life, literally tell myself I didn't really feel or think what I was thinking" 🤦🏻‍♀️ like what? Im 24 and only last year did I finally accept that there is nothing wrong with me for being attracted to both men and women nor did it mean I just wanted attention it simply means I think girls are sexy and cool and guys are also sexy and cool and it's the people themselves that make the difference. I'm still not out because I have that deep rooted fear of people assuming they know me or making judgements like "well she must be desperate for attention" 🙄 I'm also not thrilled about the idea of constantly defending my sexuality to the world. Only a couple very close friends know and that's enough for me for now.

[@moltenkitty7157]

Audra Nicole aww i'm so sorry

[@Dermatillomaniac]

Love you and the positivity you spread, Hannah! Thank you for being so supportive and encouraging for people who might not have anyone else telling them this (or just need a reminder!)

[@ohnowwa]

I love this to it's core!! This is a great example of loving people for who they are. Love is LOVE!!

[@natalyakobiatchi5963]

I'm bi, and my girlfriend is pan, but I'm not out to hardly anyone else and it just kinda sucks because my friends are varying levels homophobic, but they're more than just homophobic so I don't want to just leave them. Im really conflicted right now

[@katculbertson2444]

Natalya Kobiatchi It's ok, you come out when you're ready! And you don't have to give up your friends unless the opinions they hold are having an unhealthy impact on you & their presence in your life is doing more harm than good. Hopefully, someday you (or someone else--it's not your responsibility) will enlighten them. Good luck figuring out a tough situation, love from another bisexual

[@jamie-lynnbaxter8963]

I'm dating a guy who is bi, and I can't help but think it's me against the rest of the world. I'm an average looking girl. I'm already self conscious and worried about him being more attracted to another girl who might be prettier and/or skinnier than me. But now I also worry about him finding a guy that is better than me... I try to just focus on us, but these thoughts always pop into my head, and I don't know what to do

[@flo4223]

FortheloveofArt 2016 listen, if he really loves you, he'll be loyal to you no matter what. His sexuality has NOTHING to do with it. People say bi people are more likely to cheat on their partners, which is utter rubbish because any decent character (no matter what their sexuality) will not cheat on someone they love. Please try and have some peace of mind, you sound like you care for him very much, and I'm sure that's reciprocated :)

[@Ylluria]

Woowoo! Bi and proud! Thanks for this video, Hannah! And way to go, being secure enough to not only date a bi person, but to love and respect them as they are & help use your platform to educate folks- in your usual awesome Harto way! ^_^ Thanks lovely! ♥♥

[@josiesomething8430]

This spoke to my tiny bi heart. Thanks, Hannah. Being bisexual myself, I get asked questions all the time that are not in the...nice spectrum. I always end those conversations with, "just let me live bro, please". I like that more people are open about it but those fears you listed are something that occur when someone dates a bisexual person (sometimes). I loved your advice. Focusing on the relationship you have with them is the only thing that should matter. I am here for you, I gave you my heart entirely, it is right there for you as is my love. And that's the end of it. xo

[@alixlong6676]

Thanks for this. Slowly but surely seeing more people in the community show up for bisexual people makes me feel validated and so happy!

[@bthatsit3716]

I love you Hannah, your so great Also fun fact brendon Urie is bisexual

[@rei.lan25]

B That's it I didn't know beebo was bi

[@bthatsit3716]

Phanic! At The Pentatonix Disco or Reilly Beebo is one of my favorite bi people

[@rei.lan25]

B That's it that's nice!

[@panicerin]

his famous quote, "woah woah woah. I am not gay, but I will suck a dick"

[@lilygleason9804]

B That's it actually he used the term "barsexual". He says he doesn't like to label himself. He said. "If you're a dude and I think you're hot than I think you're hot." Now that could mean bisexual, but he really doesn't like to label it. He said "I like people. Period."

[@AmplifiedYeesh]

Hey! I'm homosexual and biromantic, which had me extremely confused for a long time. But now that I understand the difference, I want to apologise to the bi community for having used bisexuality as a stepping stone to being gay, because I know it can be hurtful and further the sterotype, making bi men's life more difficult.

[@MCDexX]

Bi, out, and proud cisguy here. I must admit, I saw the title of this video and cringed a little, thinking, "Shit... What'll I do if Hannah's biphobic? That'd ruin my fucking' day..." BUT YOU'RE NOT AND THAT'S AWESOME! Hope you can make it to VidCon Australia 2018 - it was incomplete without you this year. :P

[@amasterofone]

Hannah, thank you so much for making this video. Having to defend your sexuality to everyone out there is fucking exhausting. Thank you for being one less person. You rock.

[@loveisbakedbri]

Thanks, Hannah! You are wonderful, and you and your girlfriend are adorable! It's my first comment, but I'm a longtime fan and just want to take the opportunity to say your work -- from your community-service-peppered tour to your collection of essays and weekly videos -- means alot to me. Thanks for getting through your hard times to keep sharing with us! YOU ROCK!!!!!

[@Fangenstein]

I'm a bisexual male dating a gay male, and one thing I would bring attention to this week is to stop calling relationships like ours a "gay relationship". We are a same-sex couple, not a gay couple, because one of the two parties (myself) is not gay.

[@ashleykrueger7106]

THIS!!!

[@moltenkitty7157]

xblahblah192x agreed!! we should stop calling a hetero woman with a bi male a 'straight' relationship too for just those reasons x

[@Dellennickolis95]

Eh it's a gay relationship, I honestly don't see the problem, gay relationships refer to the gender of both the participants, not the sexuality of the people in question. Same sex just means gay or homosexual with different wording

[@owen4890]

I thought bisexuals were part of the gay community. Why is this guy getting offended for his relationship being considered gay? Technically it is if hes dating a guy or am i wrong?

[@lauriexxoo]

"....male privilege" I HAVE LITERALLY STOPPED THE VIDEO AND AM HAVING A MOMENT BECAUSE OF HOW MUCH THAT ONE TINY LITTLE MOMENT SPEAKS DAMN FLIPPING VOLUMES!

[@TheMeh2011]

An ex girlfriend of mine was paranoid I was going to fall for her brother. Sad for her to be that insecure.

[@KateriMarie99]

This is a great human right here! Thanks for sticking up for us in the Bi community Hannah!

[@gymblondie]

Yessssss Hannah! I agree. We are all definitely on a spectrum. No one is 100 percent one way or another, in all aspects of life. I would “label” myself as a straight cis-woman. But I think women are amazing and beautiful and all of those things. For me, I actually don’t have a lot of female friends because I get along more and have more in common with men. Im definitely 100 percent willing to admit my curiosity in being with the same gender but more than likely in my lifetime won’t. ( at least relationship wise, but you can never for sure know your future. ) But I’ve been saying to people for years that I believe there is a spectrum and I definitely do not fall on the completely straight side!!! Love your videos, love you! You’re amazing:)

[@rwbycookies]

So I'm gay, and me and my girlfriend, who is bisexual, have been dating for two years now. It is really awesome to date a woman who likes both genders. We talk about how cute some girls are, and sometimes, she will express that she thinks a certain male celebrity is cute too. While I don't like men, I still respect her opinions on males and she respects my opinions on females

[@moltenkitty7157]

RWBY Cookies aww 💕

[@iwokeupinnyc]

Wish I had KZbin growing up. Thank you Hannah. We need you. ❤️💛💚💙💜

[@tinytealeaves]

While I feel like "homoflexible" more appropriately labels me, my husband and I are both bisexual. IOt is a hilarious dynamic that often confuses our friends and family, and I wouldn't change a damn thing!

[@Violetclowns]

Jena Reed lmao

[@midnight8ten]

Love this!! Thanks for being so real and honest! I’m not bisexual, but I have really dear friends that are. I am constantly defending against “male privilege” and people that constantly judge others in order to put them down. I can see where the labels simultaneously give definition but give grounds to judge. I’m still dealing with heading into the “wrong” locker room and being judged by the cut of my hair and how muscular I look. I’m still really insecure about being told I’m in the wrong place.

[@ItsTorple]

This video was awesome, Hannah. Thank you for doing this. My last girlfriend wasn't confident in her sexuality and I think that made me feel like I had to prove that what we had was real to others. It wasn't until I started dating my current girlfriend who is also bi that I realized that that wasn't all of it. When I was first telling my dad about my girlfriend, he started getting defensive about her sexuality because he was bitter that my ex wouldn't come out or be honest about our relationship (it's a long story, but his opinion was valid for reasons - I understood his concern). But when I was trying to reassure him and explain the difference between the two situations, I caught myself saying "no, she's like ACTUALLY bisexual." And I still can't stress how much of a wake up call that was for me. I was unintentionally totally invalidating and belittling both of their experiences. Thankfully my dad is the kind of guy who was open when I brought that topic back up to correct myself. It's something that has become a big pet peeve of mine now, but I'm not sure that wanting people's experiences to be respected and validated is really a pet peeve. Anyway, I'm rambling now but I just wanted to say thank you. 💙

[@grouch314]

Frankly, I'd rather my girlfriend leave me for a woman than another man. I think it's because another guy would be a direct comparison whereas a woman wouldn't. There's lots of things that women have that I don't but another guy I would constantly be comparing myself to them and asking 'what do they have that I don't?'

[@WeirdSmellyMan]

grouch314 nussing.

[@DOfreakNUT]

grouch314 yeah, same. i've heard a lot of lesbians say it, so maybe it's some sort of 'betraying the queer community' and going 'back to men' issue