Dating A Shorter Guy? | Merle & Aria Q&A

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Merle O'Neal

Merle O'Neal

Күн бұрын

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@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Hey everyone!! Aria and I are on the road right now, living out of an RV for 2 weeks - next Monday I will be releasing a vlog video of our trip/ tour of the RV. Send me all your RV/ road trip questions and we’ll answer them by next week 🤗
@1sakina
@1sakina 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@kathrinejoysorongon7476
@kathrinejoysorongon7476 4 жыл бұрын
Enjoy,
@cnbishop13
@cnbishop13 4 жыл бұрын
Is it weird to have to use the bathroom in an RV? (I have never been in an RV before and have always wondered this)
@elizabethadams8503
@elizabethadams8503 4 жыл бұрын
Were there any music choices that made the other cringe? Or any songs that the other person put on that you LOVED? 💕💕
@carlymusgrave2761
@carlymusgrave2761 4 жыл бұрын
I hope you guys have so much fun! I loved my first road trip with my person, we aspire to do an RV trip like that one day! My question is: who changes the tire if you guys get a flat in the middle of nowhere or are you both stranded and now living out of an immobilized "tiny house"? Fingers crossed this doesn't happen, but if it does the content would be rad 😂 Cheers from Canada! Carly
@boredoreos
@boredoreos 4 жыл бұрын
I'm an Asian guy who is 6'0". People kept telling me I'm lucky because I'm tall and have my choice of shorter girls. I ended up in a relationship with a girl who's 6'1".
@eyeyamjstn628
@eyeyamjstn628 4 жыл бұрын
5’11 here and I was with a 4’11 for a period XD
@gowriyaamini
@gowriyaamini 4 жыл бұрын
Life works in a mysterious way XD
@up2richie447
@up2richie447 4 жыл бұрын
make those nba players my dude
@sriroshini1199
@sriroshini1199 4 жыл бұрын
what r the odds lmao
@bellefeu4933
@bellefeu4933 4 жыл бұрын
lucky bastard
@wondounnnagalani2625
@wondounnnagalani2625 4 жыл бұрын
She's vegan, he's not She's taller than him They're diff. Races... And here they are, having a bomb relationship.. Honestly, if that's not true love then idk what is
@katesampasa5423
@katesampasa5423 4 жыл бұрын
Well said❤
@DevSingh-lb3zv
@DevSingh-lb3zv 4 жыл бұрын
Don't believe what u see in on camera many CeLeab couples r so different behind the scenes
@wondounnnagalani2625
@wondounnnagalani2625 4 жыл бұрын
@@DevSingh-lb3zv I know lol.
@mathewdavis2427
@mathewdavis2427 4 жыл бұрын
Not sure how you can be with someone who chooses to support animal abuse
@breonawarren1507
@breonawarren1507 4 жыл бұрын
Dev Singh Agreed but they aren’t exactly famous so I feel like they don’t have any gain from faking it. I mean this in the nicest way possible, they aren’t special. I mean that in the sense that there are hella people in relationships where they are complete opposites & it works out. I feel like in America this is seen as special but in other countries they are regular
@Aria.Inthavong
@Aria.Inthavong 4 жыл бұрын
MERLE AND I ARE IN AN RV RIGHT NOW AND I UNLOADED THE SEWAGE TANK ONTO MY HANDS OOPS
@itscharbell
@itscharbell 4 жыл бұрын
Aria Inthavong just give Merle some caresses before washing your hands
@ILikeBirds
@ILikeBirds 4 жыл бұрын
I Like Birds
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
C AH LMFAO HE’D BE SLEEPING OUTSIDE
@user-vc5rp7nf8f
@user-vc5rp7nf8f 4 жыл бұрын
nice
@cnbishop13
@cnbishop13 4 жыл бұрын
Oh noooo
@lakeishameriez2061
@lakeishameriez2061 4 жыл бұрын
I remember watching those videos where Aria had to taste test everything you veganized and I remember thinking "this guy is gonna like everything she makes just cuz he likes her" lol
@asdfxw5752
@asdfxw5752 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@tedlovejesus
@tedlovejesus 4 жыл бұрын
TRUTH
@marcelinefang
@marcelinefang 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 6'5" so dating shorter people is pretty much a given for me ❤ I really like your recipes btw!!
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Marina Swanson thank you, queen!! We learn to OWN THE HEIGHT
@fivefiveshortguy
@fivefiveshortguy 4 жыл бұрын
That's awesome! Appreciate you for being so open minded and accepting : )
@kamallb4650
@kamallb4650 4 жыл бұрын
😱😱
@ayoube.1578
@ayoube.1578 4 жыл бұрын
@@fivefiveshortguy She has to, otherwise her dating pool with only consist of towers and skyscrapers.
@grim3016
@grim3016 4 жыл бұрын
@Marina Swanson you're clearly not 6'5 , why lie about that
@phophimuribwathoho8078
@phophimuribwathoho8078 4 жыл бұрын
"cheekbones that could cut bread" I died⚰️⚰️ LMAO!
@Ghost-sz7uo
@Ghost-sz7uo 4 жыл бұрын
aria is my hero. us asian guys can make GREAT hubby material, ya know.
@kalashsharma4344
@kalashsharma4344 4 жыл бұрын
Plz tell this to Asian girls
@jlee222ballin
@jlee222ballin 4 жыл бұрын
@@kalashsharma4344 I believe at the end of the day it just boils down to being comfortable in your own skin and being confident! : )
@petrificustotalus9307
@petrificustotalus9307 4 жыл бұрын
We know
@freeiphone11pro71
@freeiphone11pro71 4 жыл бұрын
Karjoi1911
@kalashsharma4344
@kalashsharma4344 4 жыл бұрын
@@silversnow3186 may it be Asian American African European they shouldn't be judged . If u really wanna judge them judge them as a person not where they come from dont believe in stereotypes and don't judge their whole homeland on the basis of just 1 person Judge them as a person
@MrShivBoom
@MrShivBoom 4 жыл бұрын
It never even occurred to me that they were "interracial" 😂 heh. I love these people.
@Imanirose313
@Imanirose313 4 жыл бұрын
@Rodrigo Santos Valeriano What country are you from? if you don't mind my asking :)
@trinityd406
@trinityd406 4 жыл бұрын
Cris FO true, i’m half brazilian and half american and really we don’t see race just people: some do have a little hostility towards americans but that’s a nationality and overall the majority of brazilians don’t care since we r so mixed already
@mariaeduardaleite4932
@mariaeduardaleite4932 4 жыл бұрын
I was just about to go study, but I mean...you guys are way more fun
@musicjunk1000
@musicjunk1000 4 жыл бұрын
me as well
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Hehehehe good luck on whatever you’re studying for!
@carolineyalda625
@carolineyalda625 4 жыл бұрын
I am proud how Merle is doing everything in one go. 1. Dating a person with a different ethnicity background 2. Dating someone that is not from Massachusetts 3. Dating someone shorter. There needs to be more Merle in this world. Thank Merle and Aria for being so wholesome and positive.
@swik5951
@swik5951 4 жыл бұрын
My partner is shorter. to me it’s just a fact, no other feelings attached to it like a lot of people do. nothing more than a thing on the surface it affects nothing in the relationship
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Syhem WIK straight wisdom
@fivefiveshortguy
@fivefiveshortguy 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Syhem love your comment and the positivity. As a short guy myself, that's music to my ears. I would love to collab with you and interview you as a guest on my channel. Let me know if you are interested!
@BurnPhoenix135
@BurnPhoenix135 4 жыл бұрын
always been exposed to toxic relationships that my friends have been in, this is a breath of fresh air. y'all are modelling what a healthy relationship looks like :) thank you
@fivefiveshortguy
@fivefiveshortguy 4 жыл бұрын
I've been following Merle and Aria for a while now and I always felt a sense of joy that it seemed the two did not care about the fact that Merle was taller than Aria. I'm really glad that they were able to address the "height topic" in this video and it felt very empowering! Being a short guy myself, I used to be insecure about my own height. Especially when it came to dating because of the judgement and negativity that came along with being short in our society. However, it took a lot of persistence, life lessons, and experiences to become the confident short guy that I am today. I actually just started a KZbin Channel to empower other short guys to become confident too. It would be great if I could get feedback from all of you guys and girls on topics you'd like to see more of! At the end of the day, I just hope we can all love ourselves and each other no matter what we look like. Thank you Merle and Aria for all the positivity - I appreciate you guys!
@Wra8h
@Wra8h 4 жыл бұрын
This is interesting. I subbed. I like the topics so far.
@fivefiveshortguy
@fivefiveshortguy 4 жыл бұрын
@@Wra8h Thank u very much I appreciate it! I'll keep the content going. Let me know if there is anything specific you'd like to see more of!
@fivefiveshortguy
@fivefiveshortguy 4 жыл бұрын
@@NYJanus That's great to hear and thanks so much!
@notsoanonymous5786
@notsoanonymous5786 4 жыл бұрын
Aria is the Disney Princess in the relationship omg I can't- 😂😂😂
@SamElle
@SamElle 4 жыл бұрын
OOOO I LIKE THESE Q&AS!!!! Please do more of these! I wasn't able to submit my question this time around :(
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Sam Elle we will definitely do more!!!!!
@duds1922
@duds1922 4 жыл бұрын
Them talking about being short at 5'8" while I'm 5'4" is...saddening
@ixm2unvrz
@ixm2unvrz 4 жыл бұрын
5'3" here. Depressing sometimes
@janco333
@janco333 4 жыл бұрын
84% of women in the US are shorter than 5'8", so yes, 5'8" is not short
@michaelcorleone7297
@michaelcorleone7297 4 жыл бұрын
@@ixm2unvrz 5'2".. depressing most of the times
@LuthandoDlomo
@LuthandoDlomo 4 жыл бұрын
Youre not alone brother!!
@DavidTheCastle
@DavidTheCastle 4 жыл бұрын
5’6” :/
@tessbea4883
@tessbea4883 4 жыл бұрын
Next video I want to how well Aria's cheeks can cut bread.
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
TessTaylor LOLLL
@kizarumelon2477
@kizarumelon2477 4 жыл бұрын
lmao
@joebriscomb3826
@joebriscomb3826 4 жыл бұрын
Love the glasses Merle 😍🔥
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Joe Briscomb THANK YOU!!
@yeshaa6379
@yeshaa6379 4 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when goofy friends become a couple and I’m here for it ❤️
@tae-youngnam1587
@tae-youngnam1587 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are a legit goofy, awesome, weird, fun and genuine romantic comedy happening before our eyes.
@mickcameron821
@mickcameron821 4 жыл бұрын
His comment about her being someone that created a safe space for him and them, bruh. I'm adding that to my laundry list. Definite must have!
@sierram376
@sierram376 4 жыл бұрын
With regards to the "who's the dom and who's the sub" question, I've observed that in some videos or social media posts Aria is the dom and in some others Merle is. You both let each other be the dom of the other sometimes and that's a sign of a healthy relationship.
@sumisculinaryjournal
@sumisculinaryjournal 4 жыл бұрын
I just love merle's glasses. Can't take my eyes off.❤️
@beautyrush2323
@beautyrush2323 4 жыл бұрын
Please do an art apartment tour! I’m so curious about the pieces in the background 😁
@JacksonWalter735
@JacksonWalter735 4 жыл бұрын
Aria is my inspiration. I love the confidence he exudes. It also makes me happy to see you guys being happy. I'm 6'1 but my wife is 6'3". I'm really self conscious about that even though it's nothing we both could have controlled and it gets worse whenever my wife wear heels. At the end of the day though I love my wife and she loves me and that's all that should matter. I still can't help but still feel self conscious though. It makes me glad to see you guys so happy.
@briananovakovic6790
@briananovakovic6790 4 жыл бұрын
Pompan 20 or maybe she just wanted to feel feminine and wear heels? 😂
@jbcushey
@jbcushey 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are so lucky that you haven't experienced discrimination for being a wf/am couple. The amount of flak I've gotten from friends and strangers alike is unreal. It's not bad since I moved to NYC but in Ohio and Connecticut it was disgusting. You guys are so cute, I love the Q&As.
@danielg9174
@danielg9174 3 жыл бұрын
You're taller than your partner?
@jbcushey
@jbcushey 3 жыл бұрын
@@danielg9174 I was taller than my last partner - we were together for about a year! My current partner is just a tad taller than I.
@zihongezrali6053
@zihongezrali6053 2 жыл бұрын
discrimination? I thought they'd be cheering. wf/am relationships aren't the most common
@espia3658
@espia3658 Жыл бұрын
@@zihongezrali6053 as someone who is Latina and having an Asian husband, I have received so many comments on why I “chose” him. It’s like they don’t take our relationship seriously? Non Asian females w/ Asian males is not common, especially when the woman isn’t white. So maybe the discrimination other POC have with Asian men might be worse than if it is a white female. This usually stems from western beliefs that Asian men are not “desirable”, stemming from xenophobia. Asian women with non Asian men is more common because Asian women were seen as exotic and a fetish for men (especially since a lot of women were used as comfort women during past war). Regardless, at the end of the day none of it matters if our relationship is healthy, it’s just so bothersome when people around you don’t take you seriously.
@allisonreilly1952
@allisonreilly1952 4 жыл бұрын
You two really are adorable together!!!
@Sophie-kz2vd
@Sophie-kz2vd 4 жыл бұрын
@0:57 Aria: Saw a picture of Merle thought she’s very attractive * Proceeds to show a pic of Merle smiling and holding a pointy bread knife * 😂
@g.paub01
@g.paub01 3 жыл бұрын
She still looks very attractive lol
@hellomynameisjen
@hellomynameisjen 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are so cute together!! Also both hilarious with your answers 😂
@navyajohari3484
@navyajohari3484 4 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD. YOU GUYS ARE THE FREAKINGGG CUTEST! THE SECOND I SAW THE NOTIFICATION, I CLICKED SOO FAST😂❤️
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Navya Johari aww thank you 🥰
@nono25ization
@nono25ization 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for being so real, and I appreciate that you are putting the thought into being that way!!
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
arielfootage the only way to be 🥰 thanks for the love
@drpri1836
@drpri1836 Жыл бұрын
My husband is 1 inch shorter than me, sometimes people say that me wearing heels in front of my husband is weird, but we very much love each other.
@ScottGarrand16
@ScottGarrand16 4 жыл бұрын
I have been watching the two of you for a while and I enjoy your content. I will say that in this video Aria seems much more calm and subdued. I like it. It's nice to see that he has a serious side too, though I also enjoy his sense of humor. :)
@jopipalo813
@jopipalo813 4 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh im really glad to see another "tall girl, short boy" couple ☺️ also ily both so much!!!! 💘💘💘
@laurenl.3735
@laurenl.3735 4 жыл бұрын
Wow you guys are so open and vulnerable to the public just to help and be yourselves that’s so amazing how beautiful
@sboaten1
@sboaten1 4 жыл бұрын
Guess what? I’m not eating meat anymore because of your videos! (Mostly meatless lol)
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Sylvia B HELL YES SYLVIA I LOVE TO HEAR IT 💚💚💚 every bit counts
@savannahcanfield7134
@savannahcanfield7134 4 жыл бұрын
Merle O'Neal SAME
@thatmexicanteacher1227
@thatmexicanteacher1227 4 жыл бұрын
My husband is also a tad bit shorter but I love him and we have amazing chemistry🥰 height doesn’t matter to me😊
@christineedwards9486
@christineedwards9486 3 жыл бұрын
Merle is beautiful. The eyebrows combined with the scrunchies remind me of "Saved by the bell" in the best way. They are such a cute couple.
@PromisedJubilee
@PromisedJubilee 2 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard at the love-hate answers, thanks for sharing 😂
@alwmwo9286
@alwmwo9286 2 жыл бұрын
am short men i love tall girl and i love big women 🌷❤
@antoniobellosillo5335
@antoniobellosillo5335 4 жыл бұрын
My gf is 5”8 I am barely 5”4 lol but it never bothered neither of us. Although we have known each other most of our college years and were room mates/friends
@vb2099
@vb2099 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'6" and this gives me hope 😅
@fivefiveshortguy
@fivefiveshortguy 4 жыл бұрын
That's dope man! I make videos to empower short guys and instill confidence. I would love to interview you for my channel if you're down for it!
@FlavumSignum
@FlavumSignum 4 жыл бұрын
Funny! My wife and I are the same racial combo as you two. I've never received *any* comments about us being interracial. My wife on the other hand got uninvited comments back when we first started dating like "Oh, I can never do that!", "what about his penis?", the best one was "has he ever taken you to his village?" That last one made her mad as hell lol, whereas I was laughing like "the village of Syracuse, NY?" She chose to change her surname after we got married, but I'm adopted so I have a "white" last name. People always say to her "oh, you chose to keep your maiden name, that's nice!" lol
@tabbymoggy2325
@tabbymoggy2325 3 жыл бұрын
They’re mirroring each other by their gesture; smile, facial expressions, laughs ☺️
@LauraLuuu
@LauraLuuu 4 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else notice that they hissed when they were talking about not having to hide their craziness? 5:28-5:31
@andrewboungnavong301
@andrewboungnavong301 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being a good role model Aria, you and Timothy Changtharasu mean so much for me as fellow South East Asian role models. Appreciate y’all
@smilingtree5557
@smilingtree5557 3 жыл бұрын
I‘vet been following for a long time now! I love how you both stay so genuine, I hope you never lose that despite being in the public eye! Thank you for answering the questions!
@MaoGenesiss
@MaoGenesiss 3 жыл бұрын
Aria keep showing Merle how much u love her everyday. You two guys are da best!
@sydneysalm2103
@sydneysalm2103 3 жыл бұрын
I'm also a white girl dating a shorter Asian guy and it bothered me at first but now I like it and prefer it. My only hope is that he can be confident someday.
@mathildem6714
@mathildem6714 4 жыл бұрын
Quick question: Why don’t you make the video a bit longer, when videoes that are over 10 min earn more money than those under?
@anyag.8484
@anyag.8484 4 жыл бұрын
I am 5 inches taller than my sweetheart of 3 years and he is also older. I have never felt like any less of a women. Its about the guys security in himself as an equal partner, not a “man”
@23vmm
@23vmm 4 жыл бұрын
It's nice to see your relationship and that you share it. It's the new normal for your generation. If I want to watch it, I will. If I don't, I won't. Easy peasy. But now, I'm grateful for Merlia!
@Didi38
@Didi38 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I clicked because I knew this was going to be funny, and it was. Lol. Love these two. 😂😂🥰🥰
@elyyepez
@elyyepez 4 жыл бұрын
Omg, I was hoping he'd scream BLESS YOU at the end lol I mean, no one sneezed but you know... hahaha
@menreikichan8291
@menreikichan8291 3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend and I are exactly same height😂 both 5'6" and we look like chopsticks when we walk together lmao😆😆
@Madiitetr
@Madiitetr 3 жыл бұрын
This is funny
@mayeramirez9878
@mayeramirez9878 3 жыл бұрын
This made me laugh. Hahahah
@azariah15
@azariah15 3 жыл бұрын
Menreiki Chan: I'm surprised you don't care about his short stature.
@KayNovember26
@KayNovember26 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'2 and my fiance is 5'4. We are both blonde with blue/ green eyes. We make a cute couple! When we were working in the Middle East, the locals would ask if we were brother and sister. (We originate from different countries). That was funny!
@azariah15
@azariah15 3 жыл бұрын
Menreiki Chan: I would have no issues being with someone my height or taller, with or without heels. But male short stature seems to be a curse.
@heythereimlonely5161
@heythereimlonely5161 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a young woman myself and I find short guys super hot. Keep your heads up
@funkymonk5344
@funkymonk5344 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 ok
@zeguenful
@zeguenful 4 жыл бұрын
Why interracial relationship a such a subject in the US? I really don't understand...you are supposed to live in the best and most advanced country in the world, right?
@happywings15
@happywings15 3 жыл бұрын
Tbh Americans seem to be the most closed minded if it’s not endorsed by a celebrity
@smudge8882
@smudge8882 3 жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised. While a majority of people are accepting, 20% of the country doesn't approve of interracial relationships and those people tend to make it difficult for interracial couples. I don't feel comfortable having my partner meet certain family members for this reason.
@xeyepatchh6429
@xeyepatchh6429 3 жыл бұрын
The best country in the world, sure 😂
@Maialeen
@Maialeen 3 жыл бұрын
What? No. Literally no one thinks it's the best or most advanced country except Americans. And it's not even all of them. Just the deluded ones.
@Andrew-eg7fy
@Andrew-eg7fy 4 жыл бұрын
Aria has the confidence of a dude that's 6ft, while I'm 6ft and have the confidence of a dude that 5'2.
@Amor_fati.Memento_Mori
@Amor_fati.Memento_Mori 4 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to hear that. I am 5'4 and I have the confidence of a 5'4 guy, whatever that means.
@joeduru7582
@joeduru7582 4 жыл бұрын
What does that even mean I'm 6'2 with confidence of 6'2.. There's no set standard for confidence dependant on height
@averysg7789
@averysg7789 4 жыл бұрын
aw, I’m sorry dude, that sucks. I’m a 5’3 girl with the confidence of a 4 foot guy lol... fun for both of us
@anubhabseth3494
@anubhabseth3494 4 жыл бұрын
So sasuke what are u doing here??
@AbhishekSingh-wk5id
@AbhishekSingh-wk5id 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are stupid af if you think height brings confidence.
@lizx7419
@lizx7419 4 жыл бұрын
Aria rivals Ned in the love of spouse expression it’s cute
@intentionalliving5932
@intentionalliving5932 2 жыл бұрын
you are both so sweet. im happy that im able to get a glimpse into your relationship!
@eideardpeschak7546
@eideardpeschak7546 3 жыл бұрын
You guys make a beautiful couple. Be careful with the "moving in together" part: being to close or too far apart can break a relationship in the long run. Keep it balanced, because most people who live together under the same roof, lose the feeling of longing for each other and that changes how they feel about their partner; they don't see them as being special anymore.
@AriannaColetto
@AriannaColetto 4 жыл бұрын
Asians are the most gentleman boyfriends out there (I date one so I'm biased) jaajja
@lilianagomez7031
@lilianagomez7031 4 жыл бұрын
No, you’re right, actually.
@loluthought2953
@loluthought2953 3 жыл бұрын
I like my white boy lol
@ramyap.2874
@ramyap.2874 3 жыл бұрын
They maybe when dating but marriage is a whole other problem as Asian culture puts emphasis on spoiling boys and not having them do enough domestic chores. Woman are still reprimanded if they don’t cook well, etc. (I am Asian)
@ggandbb1702
@ggandbb1702 4 жыл бұрын
Awww you guys remind me of my husband and I! Im a few inches taller than him too! Weve been together 11 years :) he has never had any issues with our height difference. I worried in the beginning about being tall but its so normal for us now! Xx
@CherryGryffon
@CherryGryffon 3 жыл бұрын
I always love questions like the end, about moving in together. I met my husband at a Waffle House while I was living in a van in the parking lot of it. I spent 16-20 hours of every day sitting in a corner booth, my only source of food being scraps or mess-ups, and the bathroom sink was my 'shower'. My husband came in, a regular, and we hit it off. 1.5 weeks later, we started dating. 1 week after that my circumstances worsened and he offered his spare futon for me to crash on "for a week". When I couldn't find anyone to watch my cats, he said "Bring them too, I love cats! I have one of my own!" We've now been together 10 years this year, and married for 5. His two teenage children took to me immediately, despite my relatively young age (21 at the start) and my husband and I have been living together full time as a partnership, couple, and best friends since then, despite a 17 year age gap. Our first grandchild was born this Spring, and honestly... We've never fought, we see most things eye to eye, and the few we don't, we usually turn into informal debates just to see how the other side sees things. If we can come to a middle ground view, we do. If we can't, we table it until later when we both have more evidence and go again. It's one of the most intellectually fulfilling relationships I have ever had, as well as physically and spiritually, and it's rare that anyone believes or understands that we met, dated, and moved in with each other in the timespan of LESS than a month. Hell, at the time we met, my mom thought he was my sugar daddy and pulled me aside saying the equivalent of 'You go girl, live that life to the FULLEST'... And my dad thought he was a cracked out meth head desperate to get laid. (Don't worry. Now, he often calls us just to talk to my husband, not his POOR LITTLE ONLY CHILD APPLE OF HIS EYE PRECIOUS DAUGHTER, ME. XD) I'm, of course, not saying everyone should... or even COULD... Move in together as quickly as we did. But, I do think it's important to know that every couple is going to work differently. Hell, some couples work best when they NEVER move in together. As long as you know yourself, and your partner, and you prioritize the connection between the two, I don't think living together means all that much ultimately. :D
@mehendighosh2899
@mehendighosh2899 4 жыл бұрын
You inspired me to go Vegan :) I am about to complete one month and I am NEVER looking back!❤️
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Mehendi Ghosh OMG yessssss 💚✨🙏🏻😂 good for you, enjoy the ride and don’t feel bad if you slip up here and there!
@DragonBonder
@DragonBonder 4 жыл бұрын
Now every time I hear the word "world", I just get triggered to scream the whole sentence... Even at night
@luxietourmaline3123
@luxietourmaline3123 4 жыл бұрын
Aria’s such a liar ! Lol it was so obvious that he was crushing on her in the videos they did before .😂 you make such a cute couple though ! 🥰❤️✨
@BElle-Ballentine
@BElle-Ballentine 4 жыл бұрын
You two are so cute together... Be safe on your RV Trip ♥
@farruhnabiev8899
@farruhnabiev8899 4 жыл бұрын
MERLE WHATS THAT SHIRT!? It’s so CUTE
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Farruh Nabiev it’s March from the podcast Welcome To Nightvale
@adwinter6690
@adwinter6690 4 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite couple of all time! And I don't even care about relationships and romance.
@angeyoshi7407
@angeyoshi7407 4 жыл бұрын
This video called me single in twenty thousand different languages. I love this relationship
@HCL2024
@HCL2024 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for sharing yourselves with us! Would love to watch Merle teach Aria cook something ^_^
@JK-sc9gi
@JK-sc9gi 4 жыл бұрын
awesome vid!! hope you two stay safe during these times! god bless!
@windsorus
@windsorus 4 жыл бұрын
"I spiced up her life like Sriracha sauce...." wow!
@reejuti
@reejuti 4 жыл бұрын
Both of you have such positive energy on your own n when you are together that positivity becomes 2 folds n the energy explodes 💛🧡. Love you both.. Love how happy you guy make each other. I seen both of you in videos before dating each other n they were gloomy. Like the smiles didn't reach the eyes.. God bless you.. May this happiness n love and positivity never fall apart.. May your love for each other grow each day. Now Merle honey don't snap at him dear.
@ghostofthefuture
@ghostofthefuture 4 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to watch some COOKING videos a week ago and somehow I've gotten caught up in this long-form romance narrative! Stop making me care about romance, KZbin! I know it's early in the relationship but I hope we get to see a video of you both in ten years where you've still got this sweet, supportive rapport and chemistry. I want to believe in a love that doesn't tarnish.
@4evahazeleyez
@4evahazeleyez 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 5’9 and my husband is 5’8... we’ve been married 13 years today and together 19 years! Height means nothing!
@ajaxsf
@ajaxsf 3 жыл бұрын
I'm Asian and I used to date a beautiful girl who was 2 inches taller than me. It was a beautiful relationship and we're still great friends. I'm 6'3" btw. She was a D1 volleyball player .
@arpitasamant9379
@arpitasamant9379 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'4" and my boyfriend is a little over 5'2", we still look real hot together. He's one of the smartest people I know, and we have the best conversations together Height doesn't matter, how you carry yourself does. Confidence and getting your shit together are the hottest things in my opinion.
@emmakilburg9221
@emmakilburg9221 4 жыл бұрын
I really wanted you to smush bread into Arias face when you said the thing about his cheekbones😂
@HieuChiLe
@HieuChiLe 3 жыл бұрын
It is awesome to see a taller girl with a shorter guy. When I was young I also had tall girls that liked me, but I was to insecure of my own masculinity that I declined there affection. They were wonderful people too. I am Asian and they were/are White.
@Seetiyan
@Seetiyan 3 жыл бұрын
Some guys care about their woman's height, but more often they don't. I've dated shorter and taller - and my current lady is 2.5 inches taller than me. Whatever, s'all good. Her proportions are far more important.
@CassidyNP
@CassidyNP 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are adorable! RV Question- Hows the food situation with limited space? Any tips on how to handle it? :)
@CLB30ROX
@CLB30ROX 4 жыл бұрын
Y'all are too adorable for words. Jesus Christ 😍😍
@airecsy
@airecsy 4 жыл бұрын
My first time seeing any work from these two but he had my ear when he said Lao. I didn't know there's any of us in media.
@honeyhannijung
@honeyhannijung 4 жыл бұрын
I love you guys but I LOVE MERLE'S NIGHTVALE SHIRT A LIIIIIITTLE MORE 😂💖
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
Hanni Matugas "We understand so much, but the sky behind those lights-- mostly void, partially stars-- that sky reminds us we don't understand even more."
@will3710
@will3710 4 жыл бұрын
You two are the most awesome couple I've seen on the webs eva! So inspirational! Not to my credit though, I haven't seen them all --- but I've seen lots!
@amrit02
@amrit02 4 жыл бұрын
Some of these questions are ridiculous. ! Aria is such a hottie and Asians make one of the best hubby materials ever *no shade no stereotype intended *
@sheevathediva27
@sheevathediva27 4 жыл бұрын
I mean, you are living together at the moment so do you think it'll be weird living apart again? I lived with my partner and his fam over quarantine and now we're facing more long-distance and I am nooot a fan!
@tiffanytran2554
@tiffanytran2554 4 жыл бұрын
This is the exact video I needed to see lol. I really like a guy, but he’s shorter than me. I know height shouldn’t matter. It’ll just take some time getting used to :)
@catherine2729
@catherine2729 4 жыл бұрын
My bf goes into lalaland sometimes as well. I thought I was the only one 😭😂
@alicemiriah
@alicemiriah 4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is 2 inches taller than me but it feels like we’re the same height sometimes due to shoes. I used to be shallow and think that because I’m 5’8, I need a man who was 6’ or taller. So not true. All that matters is what’s inside.. and a cute face lol I love this video! Y’all are adorable
@blessingashanti7039
@blessingashanti7039 4 жыл бұрын
SAME! And my boyfriend is white too.
@alicemiriah
@alicemiriah 4 жыл бұрын
Blessing Ashanti same!!!!! lol what’s crazy is his dad is 6’2 but his mom is 5’2 lol
@xemmyQ
@xemmyQ 3 жыл бұрын
i saw the chemistry from y'all's first video. i'm so glad y'all make each other happy.
@mercygirl317
@mercygirl317 4 жыл бұрын
Aria said they have all the time in the world but i disagree. Ive learned how things can be taken in the blink of an eye. Lifes too short,dont take anything for granted and when you find love like you guys have dont let it go. Love you guys. 💕 Always wishing you the best.
@van3ssa.f
@van3ssa.f 4 жыл бұрын
I love your relationship, I would've taken Aria in a heartbeat if you didn't :D You're both so nice, I wish you all the best for your future!
@katherine-to2xy
@katherine-to2xy 4 жыл бұрын
i flipping love you guys so much
@MerleONeal
@MerleONeal 4 жыл бұрын
katherine49 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@TheMurshid7
@TheMurshid7 4 жыл бұрын
Man that's the energy I'm looking for. No qualms about having to meet societal expectations. Just girl meets boy, complimentary energies unifying, chemistry is there, connection check, lets get to know each other and see where this goes vibe. Who cares about trivial shiz like the guy should always be taller than the girl trash. Why not just support the bond between two people instead of judging them right. This right here gives me hope.
@tanushajain6898
@tanushajain6898 4 жыл бұрын
I am currently 13 rn and a happy vegetarian but you convinced me to try to switch to completely vegan but ended up lasting only a month as I absolutely adore dairy products but ended up by being partially vegan by incorporating a majority of plant based in my diet and I am feeling great so thank you for helping me understand my body😁
@rashel135
@rashel135 3 жыл бұрын
I like both of you since the beginning.. I love to see you grow together guys ❤️❤️✨
@bilalalfares5843
@bilalalfares5843 4 жыл бұрын
I rarely bother to comment on videos but u guys seem like genuine amazing people!
@gladysr01
@gladysr01 4 жыл бұрын
I love when Aria says “I spiced up her life.... like a sriracha sauce... srirachaaa🔥” 🤣
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