Dating a SINGLE MOTHERS in the Philippines.

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

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[@charlespowell5847]

I met my wife in Cebu. She was a single mom with one child. We got married and have just celebrated our 35th anniversary. Luckiest man alive 😊

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Congratulations 🎉🎊🥳🥂

[@keastland]

Wait… I thought I was the luckiest man alive!!! I guess those of us who found an amazing Filipina can all call ourselves that. 👍🏼

[@Foreigner_2024]

@@keastland I am that man as well.

[@alvahthompson7203]

Im dating a single mother in the Philippines and she is amazingly kind and more mature than her similarly aged women.

[@brianscovern68]

Love the "We the People" shirt Gary. It really comes down to what a man wants. If you don't want to date a single mom, then just don't. That simple.

[@Foreigner_2024]

No doubt!! So many negative people out there!

[@queuemaster]

I’m sorry for the comments I made, they were mean and unhelpful. My apologies to everyone.

[@animationdad1788]

so nice to see someone apologize. thank you for this. so many would never do this. makes you a very good person. well all do and say things we regret sometimes.

[@KoryOssman]

Alaskan salmon live and swim against the tide. Reason why they are worlds favourite best tasty 'n expensive denizen of the sea.... Having a personal honest opinion, opposing those of the common mainstream others, is no cause to be apologetic for. Having said that and after reading Ur retort. From a fellow life traveler to another.... Your message is hearfully accepted and very much appreciated !!! @ " Under the heaven... We are all brothers. " 👍😇👍

[@brainiac8060]

Twisted souls hide behind a keyboard. Ignore the trolls.

[@Geoduck.]

Well said Brainiac.

[@voicevoice2053]

That very true for many. Many sad twisted folks out there displaying their hate. They get an ego boost.

[@salvadorsepulveda6415]

As a son of a single mother, I have more respect for my stepfather than my biological father for stepping up and raising me by example. My mom and dad worked in the educational field and was loved by hundreds. Some of those students considered them mom and dad as they came from broken homes.

[@tomspecht4733]

Amen.

[@edsteward7717]

Not just Filipinas. There's single moms everywhere. If someone wants to step up & be a dad, good for him! If not, ok. Why pick on anyone for their choice?

[@vandinroth]

some of those comments by the internet trolls are.....just massively toxic! It's ok to NOT want to raise someone else's kids. It's NOT an easy thing. But you don't have to be toxic about it.

[@erod3649]

You guys don't need to explain yourselves to anyone. You guys are great

[@EdSlywczak]

I agree w you Gary As the old saying goes if you can’t say something nice. Don’t say anything at all I really enjoy all of your and Leah’s videos

[@BruceCinader]

Great topic, I was amused and had to laugh at the words chosen to beat around the bush, to avoid saying some words. Ha ha

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

😂✌️

[@philmcleod111]

A man that takes on the responsibility for another mans children is a honest and caring man.

[@Mrtickleberries]

Conversly a man that chooses not to take on another man's child is not any lesser for it, better a man not take on a serious commitment he doesn't believe can see out than mess the mother and child about. Sometimes, it takes just as big a man to know when not to start something he knows he won't do well.

[@RobertEskew]

I paused your vlog at 15:36 just to say this: I admire both of you. I think this is the first video of yours that I've watched. I admire a man who accepts responsibility for a single Filipina's child or children if he decides to make a life with that Filipina. The viewer comments I've heard so far in this vlog sadden me. Leah (is that your name, young lady?) isn't "used" anymore than all of us in life, with or without children, are "used." And, yes, we've all made poor life choices (I know I have!), regardless of the reason. Now, let me return to the vlog. And because I admire you both, I'll subscribe to your channel and eagerly follow your channel. I hope you read this comment. We're not all judgmental. We're not all hateful.

[@villagefarang]

Let me start by saying I am married to a Thai 20 years younger than me and we have been together for 27 years. First and only marriage for both of us and we chose not to have kids. You are correct that most women will want kids as that is what is expected but it is possible to cultivate and an amazing active life where kids aren't necessarily a good fit.

[@livelife645]

I have been dating a 33 year old single mum for 12 months she has 11 year old boy. I chose to date a single mum as she was more grounded and level headed, down to earth in relation to what she wants in a relationship.

[@Foreigner_2024]

I set out to find a single mother when I began searching. I am happily married to my beautiful Filipina and couldn't be happier!

[@knarlisrocks]

I like that you bring out the hate comments and really debunk the fears and assumptions that others push on the internet about single mothers.

[@bernardheight6871]

It's sad that some people take their valuable time to waste hating on someone whom they know nothing about or their situation. They don't know how they are in a single parent situation. Single parents deserve happiness and love just like anyone else. We all need to be careful and choose wisely in our relationships and not let preconceived notions keep you from your very own happiness ❤❤

[@andyknolls8735]

being realistic is being hateful? It is not sun shine and rainbows and it not always "more fun in the Philippines". Again, the old shame game. I hope you know where you can shove your shame.

[@joemelo1372]

Listening to the comments that these men have made and I used that word very Loosely when I say men. That is incredibly pathetic these men act like they're absolutely perfect and they never made any mistakes. These are the type of people that the only way they can feel good about themselves is by trying to make other people feel bad. None of us perfect I have a beautiful 19 year old daughter that biologically is not mine but I have been there since she was 6 months old blood doesn't make you family and makes you related Love Is What Makes You family

[@NicolasLampkin-qr4rx]

I know a philipina with 5 children same dad. If I was looking for a wife I would marry her. She's 38 and keeps herself well. A truly wonderful person. Also the kids like me.

[@homebasebelgium359]

I think you both dealt with this topic very well. It is true that sex education is lacking in the Philippines, but also Filipinos are not open to it. When I was still married to my Filipina ex-wife, I had "the talk" with some children in their puberty. I talked to them about taking pills and using condoms, they said yes and then went out and had unprotected sex which resulted in a baby. Sex education, like any other form of education, only works when they are willing to follow through on what you taught them.

[@steveperyer4850]

Hello Leah and Gary. You are a great couple. I think like you, that a man that finds a great lady that has a child already, yes you find that she made a mistake at a very young life, and in the Philippines they young man usually runs. As an American who is Catholic, i have seen this even here, growing up in the 60s and 70's. Even with sex education in my country, things still happen, but not as much as over there. Yes the Catholic Culture in the Philippines has much to do with that and i don't blame the girl for the mistake. It saddens me that people are so narrow minded to have the attitude they do. This is part ofcwhy society today is so bad in the world. Thank you for the candid responses to people that thinknthey are perfect 😊

[@MabuhayMoments]

People should do what they want, but some of them should keep there comments for themselves.😊

[@paddy696]

Thanks

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Many Thanks!

[@keastland]

I was raised by an amazing single mom. My Filipina girlfriend is a single mom and she’s the most amazing woman I’ve ever known. I’m 54, she’s 45. I personally wouldn’t want to date a younger woman and not only does it not bother me that she has kids… her boys are awesome! For me, not only is that NOT a deterrent, I’m happy to have two amazing boys that I can hopefully help become even better men.

[@goatman3828]

I thought this was going to be about Gary's age gap video. So, Gary is spot on. At my age I have no desire for diapers and teething. Doesn't mean I dislike having kids, though. Also, I think a lot of negative views are based on American single mothers, and how (obligatory 'not all') the women act and treat any possible male partner. And to be fair, I would have to agree with their assessment HERE. I am not in the Philippines. So voicing an extreme opinion would be based on ignorance. The culture is different. The values are different. But I see nothing wrong with helping a child reach his/her potential. IF the woman is able to balance between the child and the man. It is not a topic I would die on my sword over, but that is how I see it. The child did nothing to deserve an absent father. That said, every situation is different. And if someone says they would never raise another man's child, ok. That is absolutely fine with me too. And I can understand why. But don't dump on someone else just because they see the world slightly different. On a side note Gary, I've mentioned this before. You gotta keep Leah from wearing makeup in her videos. She is causing a rise in divorce over here. You are encouraging men to flock to the passport office. Back on topic, if a man is able to deal with raising someone else's DNA, how is that a bad thing? Breaking a family out of the poverty cycle should be a point of pride. And that child is a reflection on the women. You can get a good understanding of a gal by how she is with her kid(s). Much quicker than if she was childless. Just don't get too involved with the kid until you are sure you want to be involved with the kid. They can latch on to someone quickly, and it isn't fare to them to be here today and gone tomorrow.

[@George-ux6zz]

I know 1 single woman with no kids in the Philippines, and shes over 30. The Filipina Pea.

[@Billy_B_Goat]

True, but she expressed she would like children.

[@valharris9346]

Many thanks for this video!

[@Bozzzzzz007]

Haters, they dont really hate, they're commenting while drunk, or they're jealous, or they're smoked off their feet, or they're consumed within their own upbringing beliefs. I would like to remind you all that, we've all got our things to do, be you, do for you, and if you don't like what others do then, good, Don't need to tell the world about it, but try to find love else you'll have a miserable existence... We all have things we like and dislike. There's nothing wrong with a single mom, nothing wrong with age differences, nothing wrong with anything if it's not wrong for you. Leah, your head is very grounded and I would have been honoured to have dated you and shared a balot...

[@jbl8829]

Usually they are inadequates.

[@pa4765]

Judging others is a nagging flaw that everyone experiences daily. It complicates the matter that some of our "judgments" are opinions that guide us through life. I believe that judging others unfairly are signs that evil is nipping at our heels. It reminds us that we have to constantly maintain and repair our Relationship with God. We know that we are all sinners and fall short of the Glory of God and Jesus Christ is our Savior. I'm only pointing out the obvious Truth. God Bless you.

[@philipzoeyemma]

Don't worry about what others think. It's your life. I'm married to a Filipina for 9 years with a 7 yr daughter. I have a channel PhilsGoldenYears. I delete hateful comments.

[@firstjohn3123]

I look at it this way. All kids deserve a good father. Some people love kids & some don't. But those men who are older, but still want to have that extra bit of family in their lives (or at least don't mind it), that's a blessing to the Filapina, her kids, and the guy as well. The opportunity to positively impact lives is a gift. Responsibility is something a real man picks up and takes on, like a job or a work that needs done. He takes it seriously and puts himself into the task. If another man lays down the shovel, but another picks it up to finish...the satisfaction goes to the one who did the work. Work & responsibility are a real man's pride.

[@scotthummer1319]

Love the shirt Gary. If you love the woman you must love the child also. Agree none of us is perfect. God is the God of forgiveness, grace, and second chances. Thank you for sharing Leah and Gary God Bless

[@themacker894]

I won't be able to watch this until later, though I'm looking forward to learning more about the dark side of YT. You see a new YT channel open up, then the videos slow, and finally just stop. Having neighbors IRL is hard enough, and I can just imagine what it's like opening your lives up to the crazy on the Internet. My wife and I enjoy the channel and learning about Asia. Edit: Great video. Comments very well answered.

[@jean-pascalesparceil9008]

I agree with Gary, some men over 50 want children, marrying a single mom or adopting, their choice. Also why put all the blame on the girl who become pregnant when the education and sense of responsability of the boy are lacking. By the way, are there no "shotgun marriages" in the Philippines? Or rather "bolo mariages". Filipinas beware, it happens in the West that sexual predators set up relationships with single mothers (often junkies) to have access to children.

[@xyza-zw5km]

Thats true , there are several cases in the Philipiines where foreigners having a relationship with Single Moms and end up molesting the step daugher. Single Moms be careful. Predators are everywhere.

[@Ryan-wi3ry]

I agree with Gary. Men who are willing to step in and fill the void of a parent in a child’s life are valuable much more valuable than the obese gentleman who made that comment.

[@fenderbend3r]

Leah, you are so funny. Lol, Love it! ❤ i wonder how someday the haters will be judged someday. Acting like they are sinless and pure. No one in this world is perfect. We are all sinful. We can even think bad and we already commit sin by just doing that. So stop the bad comments because there is so much love to give in this world.

[@Mochit67]

I love you Both. Pretty family. Leah is Hilarious.

[@pa4765]

I did adopt & raise another man's child and found that DNA is very powerful for boys who will inherit many of the characteristics and personality traits of the father. Some traits are negative and difficult to alter. The biggest hurdle concerning male children is that the woman has to genuinely allow the man to lead as a servant leader like Jesus Christ. Some women will place the child ahead of the parents and even God. God is #1. Parents are #2. Children are #3. Extended family are #4 This is Biblical but not recognized by some filipinas. I believe it can work if the Man and women follow the Holy Bible and commune with God. God Bless you.

[@ozyruss6090]

Your a good man Gary, some of those comments show the ugly side of life. But your logical comments are up lifting. Stay true to your believes

[@JMCIII1957]

I look specifically for a single mom with one child. And I was lucky enough to find exactly what I wanted. She's mature, grounded, and settled, and absolutely the most beautiful person I've ever known. I have three grown children already, and now I'm lucky enough to have an early teen stepson that I can help my girl raise. I don't have much to do, and she's done a fabulous job raising him already. I go into it not expecting to become the boys father (unless that's what she/he wants), but to be a role model for him to see how a woman should be loved and treated. And I don't hold my girls past against her. We all have a past, she does, I do. As someone once wrote: we all come with baggage. We can spend the rest of our lives tripping over them, or unpack them together.

[@rolandmueller7218]

I am a 61 year old Dad with two kids dating a 40 year old widow with 3 kids. Dating a single mom with only one kid is easy peasy.

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Thank you for watching and sharing your experiences! 🙂

[@CanadaPhilippinesAdventures]

Hi Leah & Gary - great video! Honestly it's SAD that people act like this. I wouldn't allow it to bother either one of you - just Smile! Enjoy Life! Have a great day! from Dumaguete 😀

[@Undre99]

There's nothing wrong with single moms. Everyone has a past and has made mistakes. Filipina single mother s are just as great as filipina with no kid's

[@TheRgordon16]

Consequences….is the word I think you were looking for.

[@mrbHanoi]

Lovely couple Only love here, no hate. Wonderful parents.

[@davidkw8728]

Great information video, Gary and Leah, thank you 👍

[@keastland]

Gary @ 13:30… THANK YOU! What about the children that don’t have a father? I grew up without a father, so I know how it feels. If I can help my girlfriend’s children feel loved and appreciated and even replace a little of the loss they feel every day… it will be the honor of a lifetime!

[@JohnP-xh2yr]

I’m with a beautiful Filipina and she has two older boys who are out on their own and an 8 year old here at our home. I have no problem helping raise her children when needed. This is another reason I won’t have a KZbin channel because of the hateful comments. There’s enough hate in this world and I don’t need to see negative comments about my life decisions to be here in the Philippines. Let’s just pray for a better life for everyone 🙏🏼❤️

[@Patdandou55]

Watching your videos it's the best way to fall asleep for the night.

[@MrBenking321]

@queuemaster you are a good man for apologizing. The world needs more men like you.

[@deanbryant3612]

The Children did ask for Dead Beat sperm donors to leave them. I respect and appreciate people who do marry single moms. Cuz it enhances the children's life, and You get to be with the Woman that You Love. Today is Friday November the 22nd and this is the first day of come across your KZbin website. I like it. Kudos to you young man. I respect you more for doing what you're doing for this lady's children. I'm also a single dad who I help raise two other women's children. For me, my biological children and my stepchildren are all the same. They're my children!

[@shawn2380]

0:28 A Negative comment does not equate to Hate comment. Having said that some of those comments are hateful.

[@fl6stringer]

It's all a personal journey and choice. Good on you for addressing some of these less thoughtful comments. Honestly, I imagine these guys who are saying such things, they likely come from the very western culture that you escaped. It's apples and... poop.

[@neilmartin4187]

Normally I wouldn’t seek a single mom, but I chatted with one with two kids and she was the most genuine person I chatted with. She met someone else and was very happy for her.

[@nomadpack4050]

I agree with what you both said, we all have free will to make our own choices and no need to degrade or disrespect with judgemental opinions. Some men or women can't even ever have kids. Maybe a guy can't but wants to and is willing to date single parent, same with a woman if she can't have kids and a guy has a kid to raise alone 🥺

[@jigenprime6613]

To each their own.. Enjoy life!..✌🏾

[@stevenrobberts3238]

One thing the people giving you hate is not taking into consideration, is that single mothers in the Philippines are completely different than single mothers in the west. Different and better attitudes and morales are a big difference. Filipina single mothers make better wives than western single mothers. Not just in the Philippines, it goes for most non western countries. I stopped dating western women in 1997, saw what they were becoming back then. Married my traditional Russian wife in 2000. I have 2 step sons that I am very proud of. For me, I wanted kids but can't have them.

[@KoryOssman]

@DavidB... > on Ur 1st comment > Agreed fully 2nd comment > Agreed about it as her choice... and left all alnone with it's long term consequences. 3rd comment > Again agreed. Real men do that, for sure... No matter if the child is his or any others!..

[@George-ux6zz]

Goodnight guys, take care and God bless you 🙏

[@briankeith9584]

Regarding Filipinas using expats as a retirement plan, I don't see anything wrong with a woman seeking the security that comes with being married in general and being married to an expat specifically. Filipinas, I imagine, are no different than Western women in that way. Security is something that a man offers a part of being married.

[@stevenrobberts3238]

The haters have gone a little to deep into the red pill.

[@MrBenking321]

I really like the new intro that you created.

[@Geoduck.]

An older Expat could do very well with a single mother Filipina often that is the perfect match. Any woman especially a single mother is looking for support and that is not always a bad thing. Some Expats do like children and would welcome a woman with a child into their life. I know I would in that case. Most guys understand its extremely important to not get into a serious relationship with a single mother Filipina unless they are willing to commit to the relationship. The child MUST come first.

[@fbfullbattleandfbbattlerat2390]

Amen! Just shows the of stupidity that exists inthe world. Leah what happened with the father of Bless is tragic! But thank god you have Gary. Someone that Loves you and Bless with all of his heart. You have a Beautiful Family together. Mutual and pure Love for eachother. Your Family is Blessed! Don’t listen to the haters! Haters are just lonely sick people! Much Love!

[@imblessed56]

Thank God opinions don't matter. Your relationship was meant to be ❤

[@sharhune2735]

Ignore the haters. When I got married the second time, she was surprised that I had no reservations about her two daughters. I told her that I had a son from my first marriage and it would be unfair to hold that against her. We've been married 37 tears now and I have no regrets. I know in the Philippines, you have to be careful, as divorce isn't legal yet and adultery can land you in prison. Always ask for proof of no marriage before taking the plunge. Take care.

[@philippinefamilylifewithle2673]

Thank you for watching and sharing your experiences 🙂

[@stianskuland1762]

I met my wife in Manila. She was a single mom with a daughter , she's amazing. We are just waiting for family reunification :)

[@davidbraxton6600]

TO LEAH AND GARY, THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO, AS PEOPLE SEEM TO LOVE POSTING NEGATIVE COMMENTS. THIS IS PERHAPS THE DARK SIDE OF SOCIETY. THESE PHILIPPINE WOMEN DON'T CHOOSE TO BE SINGLE MOTHERS, THE FATHER'S ARE NOT STANDING UP! A REAL MAN HAS THE COMPASSION TO RAISE A CHILD! ❤

[@robertclaus1102]

I haven’t dated since my wife passed from cancer. However, I think perhaps if I did, I would view a woman with a child as more mature, stable and settled down. As far as raising another man’s child, what better way of being a good man in God’s eyes than to be a father to a fatherless child. God bless Sir.

[@Tony-m4h]

You need to block that nasty guy. Those guys are really shallow minded, it’s says a lot about their character, any good women in their right minds wouldn’t want anything to do with those guys.

[@abkeener81]

I’m Andrew. I personally wouldn’t mind dating a single mother. It comes down to preference. You have yours. And I have mine. Neither of us is wrong. Though I frankly agree with Gary. And couldn’t have put it better. Also … my Momma and Dad didn’t like talking to me about sex. I’m not sure what my brother’s experience was.

[@kristallmenschkristallwolf1969]

14 Minute i see this exactly the same the REAL Father is the ONE who cares

[@timsmith4951]

I'm gonna point out some differences. Single mothers in the Philippines (more than likely) the father left the mother. Single mothers here in the west (more than likely) the mother left the father. Reasons fathers leave single mothers in the Philippines (both Filipinos and Foreigners) can via from being widowed, lazy, or she's crazy, and anything in-between. I don't know what the statistics are in the Philippines. But here in the United States, 70% or higher of people who were raised in a single mother's home have been or are currently in prison.

[@chipchap2007]

love is love, dont let the past interfere with a relationship, I know it can be hard, but you all should stop punish people for their past mistakes or choices. If you love somebody you will accept whatever there is and go with it.

[@archerfromthewoods]

US has the highest percentage of single mothers on the planet. Everything is slanted in the US towards the woman. Marriage, divorce and having kids are viable economic solutions for women in the US. One difference in the Philippines is that the laws seem to be tilted towards the men, and so Filipinos have little motivation to marry or support their children. Being married for 20 years and then being discarded at 51 years old, I would have a hard time finding another wife without children here, and I have a daughter myself, so why would I be against dating or marrying a single mom in the Philippines? My goal is to have a complete family with a dedicated and loyal wife, where my daughter can witness what a functional, loving marriage and family looks like, before she leaves the house. A single mother filipina can do that, and the love of her children will become arrows in my quiver as I age. Thanks for making this video, and all your others. God bless the Filipinas.

[@rorybellamy2533]

Gary and Leah can be very happy and proud of being honorable in marriage. and a very nice healthy family . We like you Leah and Gary ! all the best in your future .

[@careysretirementjourney]

Having dated many women in the Philippines, the general consensus is that the best women to date if you’re looking for a relationship are definitely those who have already had children. Of course, there are many foreigners who will only date very young Filipino Women because they know that is likely the only opportunity to not have children because nearly 100% of women 25 years and older have children here. Just like you often hear the comment in North America. The best ones are married, similarly in the Philippines the best ones have had a serious relationship in the past, and have children. If you’re an armchair critic sitting in your basement somewhere outside Philippines, it’s easy to criticize but in reality taking on children here in the Philippines can be a joy. And of course, the woman you love is part of this amazing package

[@paulk8444]

I was raised by a Single Mom so i know the struggles, and I am dating a widow who lost her husband at a young age. You should choose base on compatibility as there are so many Beautiful Filipinas I could fall in lust every day but falling in Love is a completely different story. And I wasn't sure but made a point to be open-minded as it gives you more choices as why would you want to pass on the Best person because of that is shrinking your options down allot asI wanted the highest quality woman with a good family that checks off all the boxes on my list. I am not perfect and neither will she be; so pick your best and be your best. Also Filipina single mom are much sweeter as Leah is as sweet in person as on the video; as Gary did get a Prize and she doesn't think that way and that's one of the reason she is so good.

[@christopherwatkins9729]

To keep it Simple... "Judge not others, lest Ye be judged"... The peoples making negative comments should ALL look in a mirror and examine their reflections... ????

[@George-ux6zz]

I was a single dad. Yes I raised my son by myself. I enjoyed raising my son.

[@brandonkimbrough3445]

The last comment was mine lol.

[@Perma97]

I'm 27 years old and I agree you guy's view on it completely. However, there still are certain behaviors that I won't accept from a single mother. I know that not all of them act like ass hats though. And that's why I would be willing to take care of a single mother.

[@donwutzlakesideadventures]

People treating you bad with help you grow and be a better person! That's my thought but not an excuse for the nasty comments. Wish the best for you and your family!

[@sgtusa90]

SINGLE MOMS & KIDS , In PH Are a WORLD DIFFERENT from the ONES In the USA !!!!!!! I Would ( DO ) DATE, PINAY Single Moms ( 2 kids or LESS ) With Litlle Issues !!!!!! BOTH Women & Kids Are FAR BETTER Behave ( MORE QUALITIES ) then, YOU Could EVER Find In AMERICA !!!!!

[@animationdad1788]

there are good and bad people everywhere. not all Filipinos are bad but it seems like we only hear about the bad. i found one i believe is good. we have been talking every day for 2 years now. will be heading to see her in 6 days. she is so beautiful just like you wife. i can't wait to see her in person .

[@DR-pw2rh]

Watching the show for a long time, I see Leah, growing up. She was lucky to marry an older man. She had a young daughter, made a teen choice to get preg. Leah was a young mom, that was an empty sponge. She learned so much and is doing so much. She was a very lucky teen, to find Gary.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

If you really WANT more kids, and not just accepting that responsibility to be with the woman, then maybe it can work out. The more kids you add to the mix, the more expensive it will be (hint: it will be a LOT more expensive than you probably thought it would be). On the other hand, why not have your own, if you really do want more? If retired, you even get a sizable SS supplement. Some dangers and potential hassles are: she may still be married, so you need a copy of her CENOMAR, and the deadbeat father might return at any time to make your life more difficult. While in love we don't think about these things. This is not meant to be a 'hate' comment, only a caution.

[@DouglasLash]

Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Difficult situation for single mothers.

[@pandemicoftheunvaccinated5367]

Happy to say, my comment didn't make the nasty list.

[@JohnS-zq8ks]

piss on the haters. they're largely intellectual midgets. most simply project their own failures onto others. social media is a wonderful thing, but one downside is the public voice given to lunatics

[@danielhammer1737]

You guys are great. Don't waist time on these jerks. They are just fat unhappy living at home with mom morons. They are unhappy with there life and want to spread the hate and pain. Hurt people hurt people. I'm moving to the phillapenes soon and if I meet the right woman. I don't think a child would scare me away. You guys just keep loving each other and enjoy your life. Really stop waisting your time on these people. much love and enjoy the gift of each other!

[@Billy_B_Goat]

The Society openly stigmatizes young men buying condoms and the Catholic Church forbids it. Every women is looking for a financially secure mate. If you don't want to date a single mom then don't. It's that simple. HOWEVER, there a some Smoking Hot Filipina single moms soooo.... I'm open to the idea of dating a single mom, it all depends on who I meet. Best to you both. Peace and Love, B Goat

[@muggins9389]

Those people making those hateful, and ignorant comments are just trolls, looking to cause a reaction. Pay no attention to them.

[@diohernandez66]

Hey Gary, is that a Sean Paul Reyes shirt you are wearing from LIA? That's a cool shirt!!!

[@ronprince1478]

Thanks Leah Gary. People are so judgmental they can’t see anything from another’s perspective. With the rise of feminism there are been a rise of the male equivalent with this alpha male approach. If the connection is there and the kid/s except you, what’s the problem?

[@jbl8829]

Most of these guys demanding a single Filipina 'without' child/ren but do not want children of their own are complete fools and delusional. Another good video explaining to the naive foreigners with no experience of women, or the world, the reality.

[@ptardy1]

Some, in the case of the young lady I'm dating, lost her sons father , so don't be so hasty to judge the circumstance. These single moms have a lot to give and offer , and their child deserves a home with parents who love them, whether it be by blood or not. It take real heart to accept and love another child as your own.

[@lbmreports]

Perspective: the comments can be categorized into two categories, secular category and a moral category. Most comments were from the secular self preservation perspective. That's just how they feel. The moral perspective feels a great man is one who sees the value in a single mother context while a secular man will despite such a context.