Dating after 50: 7 Steps to Find Your Forever Man

[@barbarawinslow6895]

I'm 57, attractive, good career. I'm enjoying being single. I look at a relationship at this point as a lot of work that I don't want to take on.

[@SanctifiedLady]

I don’t think they care about a career… they say it all the time. Sometimes the career is the problem.

[@barbarawinslow6895]

@@SanctifiedLady If a career is a problem for a man, then he has issues. Most likely a fragile ego.

[@robedinwhite]

Then why are you wasting your time watching this?

[@barbarawinslow6895]

@@robedinwhite I watched it to help me fall asleep 😆

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

Not bragging but I pride myself how intentional I was in my 40s so at 51 I feel 30 health wise with a 65 year old bank account...my health is perfect I went healthy vegan and exercise 5 days a week, I got out of total debt including paying off my home in 2021.. my daughter is 24 and have a decent job since she graduate college last year She is healthy and traveling the world and I did so much inner work through spiritual and mental counseling SO I have to be picky with men to court because I have done so much work to be at this place at 51.. so I will not be anyone’s nurse or purse because at this point in my life I’m so happy healthy and at peace I don’t want anyone’s health or financial problems

[@brendah4773]

Not only jaded but at a certain age, you just know better. I have zero interest in going to a bar and meeting a man.

[@NgG-g2n]

100%

[@jblank1862]

😂

[@saradenn7447]

The Bar isn’t the only place to meet a man.

[@brendah4773]

@@saradenn7447 options are limited. I have my church home. Bible study groups. My job? If I’m lucky, I’ll run into a Godly man. The gym? Uh, nope.

[@robedinwhite]

I’m out there EVERY DAY OF THE WEEK: golfing, church, boating, the beach…the “ volume” you talk about just isn’t there for someone 61… most are either married or Gross and Weird. And I’m pretty vivacious and outgoing and fairly attractive.

[@SanctifiedLady]

I’m glad I found this channel 🎉

[@SanctifiedLady]

I’m shy and I really have to commit to finding and doing a few things a week and make a routine. My first effort will be at the church. Bible study and I have two churches. I don’t trust where society is going these days. I go to the gym like a nun all covered and no eye contact 😅

[@erinsaunders898]

So glad you've added step 6 about exclusivity! I wish I would have known that when I started dating after my divorce.

[@NgG-g2n]

I would have thought Adam was a club guy...thriving in the noise and crowd

[@tarawarren8573]

Great advice!! Thank you 😊

[@coramachado7064]

I find this very interesting topic It scares the living out of me thinking of finding love or having a relationship , but I like to find someone but I don’t how and where to find the right one

[@honeyyork1337]

You forgot to include Financial health. I’ve met some really nice men, but I got to tell you their idea Financial health is horrific. I don’t want to support them as we get older because they weren’t smart enough to be careful early on. I have a similar thought when it comes to health because if they didn’t take care of themselves now, I have to take care of them. Those of us who have thought about the possibilities that we matches live get older don’t want someone to care for? We want someone to grow old with.

[@NgG-g2n]

Adam you look handsomer...what cosmetic procedure have you done to your face?

[@BobSimmons-y6i]

Am a single guy just got back from a fun trip to Hawaii alone. Playing golf this morning again. If a lady comes very cool if not so be it. Am 80

[@codingiscreativity]

I like people like you. Do you like to meet strangers?

[@LinusWilson]

Ok slowing things down does not work if the dude is high value. He will be bringing in new prospects and be annoyed by your delays and rules. He’ll cut bait. U gotta give him reasons to give another date.

[@Nubianette]

What’s up with the pickleball references? 😆 Beer pub, metal shows, and traveling!

[@lpsglitterpaws8536]

Pickle ball was the way that my husband met and left me for a younger woman

[@danicaharley6273]

​@@lpsglitterpaws8536 what is pick a ball ? Is it some type of sport or activity?

[@dianeatpeace337]

​@@danicaharley6273Pickleball is a racquet&ball game like tennis or badminton but on a smaller scale. It's the fastest growing sport in America.

[@mariabraun792]

Guys the amount of commercials is too much, I had to change it

[@saradenn7447]

You can skip them after 5 seconds

[@Tracker5111]

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[@honeyyork1337]

But if you are an intelligent, confident woman who is confident enough to approach a man….why be someone you’re not? I think the right man will love you for who you are, not the mask you show the world because eventually you’re taking it off. If he’s not confident in himself, you’re bad match to begin with. Sorry this is a subject close to my heart. I will not conform to what someone else wants. I’m not a Stepford Wife.

[@georgesontag2192]

As women age they get more picky, not less. They think they are a prize and expecr to get a doctor or a lawyer. They think, if i cant get the top guy, i will stay single.

[@SanctifiedLady]

That’s odd. I wouldn’t stereotype, it’s a wide variety of both men and women. Not all 50yo men want a 20-30yo woman Not all men think 50yo women are aged out. Good ppl in general are rare

[@LinusWilson]

I think most women 50+ have not thought through if they actually want a relationship. They default to that goal, but having kids is not possible. Most single women this age like living on their own on their own terms. With those two things, do u really want an exclusive relationship? If u do still want a relationship, realize you must go down in male quality to get a relationship v casual dating.

[@demivydE]

Yes, I went down... In age.

[@barbarawinslow6895]

I'm 57 and have a gorgeous 45 year old lover. Get out of the stone age. Many older women these days are well off, still attractive, and don't want a full time relationship. We're too busy.

[@fishstickbio594]

As a woman , you have to be literally crazy to date after that age 😂

[@mariamadam-noor140]

😂😂