Dating and Marriage in Southeast Asia

In this video Dating and Marriage in Southeast Asia, I'll teach you the In’s and Out’s, Do’s and Don'ts, real-life examples, cultural impediments, rewards, and other features of dating and marrying Southeast Asians. This is a serious video on a serious topic where I’ll show you important features that you should know if you are interested in dating or marrying a Southeast Asian spouse.
‪@CarterOnConflict‬

[@shanghaiyancey]

Some excellent advice and insights in your video based on my experiences in Thailand. I hope some men will follow up on it. 1979 was my first of many visits in 1979 and now married and living there. I have seen so many obvious mistakes by foreign men (and Thai woman) in both dating and marriage. Obvious signs in a Thai woman, (obvious to me at least) that a foreign man should not marry her, but he has no idea. Also the reverse, obvious signs in a foreign man that indicate he would be a bad choice for a husband that no Thai woman should ignore. But I know many relationships that have lasted decades.

[@CarterOnConflict]

Great points you make and as you say, lots of good stories here and lots of bad. I appreciate you watching and commenting. It’s good to have someone experienced in this area to provide good feedback in this area.

[@user-dz3et8lj4o]

Hello Dr Paul, Today I attended the CEC General Meeting. I was fascinated by the abbreviated brief you presented. Since my first adventure in S.E. Asia in 1975 (as a private citizen who did not serve) I have always been interested in the evolution of the Thai/Lao/Viet/Kampuchea inter

[@donaldplagge9675]

I was introduced to my wife by friends who knew both of us. We hit it off very good, not a big age difference, and a years experience in Thailand during the war was a big help with the customs, and what to expect. I have intelligent and caring Thai in-laws. There is 5 Thai restaurants in our city of 130,000 population, and that helps my wife to have Thai friends here in the US, and not get as homesick as I have heard is common with others. I am retired, so we spend at least two months of every year in Amazing Thailand, I have a friend about to retire and will move there in a couple of years, he loves that country also, with his Thai born wife.

[@CarterOnConflict]

Donald, I like to hear the success stories. You made good choices. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@brucetutton7897]

Some great insights here. Found your channel while learning about the Plain of Jars. Thanks for the high quality uploads.

[@CarterOnConflict]

Well Bruce thank you so much. I have everything from moonshining to war. Thanks for watching my videos and I hope you find others you enjoy.

[@worthymartin4008]

respect to your compassionate heart, good sir

[@CarterOnConflict]

lol. Thank you sir.

[@answerman9933]

Your first point is probably the best one. Changing locations or situations does not fundamentally change who you are.

[@CarterOnConflict]

Thank you for watching and commenting. Please share the video to others who might find it interesting - or need it :-) thank you again.

[@user-dz3et8lj4o]

Hello Dr. Paul I attended the CEC General Meeting today in Chiang Mai. I was fascinated by your abbreviated brief. Since my first adventure in S.E. Asia in 1975 (as a private citizen who did not serve), I have been interested in the Thai/Viet/Lao/Kampuchea dynamic and how that has impacted the evolution of the region from the early dynasties to today. I hope someday I can attend one of your 50-minute presentations on the same subject. Per your invitation at today’s meeting, I am contacting you to request the 2 pdf publications that you presented on PowerPoint: “Boundary Concepts And Practices in Southeast Asia” and “Boundary & Territory Briefing.” If I’m not mistaken, you also mentioned that, if requested, you would send all that you have that can be shared related to your brief today. Yes, I would like you to do so. Would you be doing so via the CEC or privately? If privately, what do you suggest is the best way to give you my contact info, as I would never do so in a public forum such as this KZbin communique.

[@CarterOnConflict]

Thank you so much for attending, and your note - I’m glad you enjoyed it and please call me Paul. Email me at [e-mail]. I’ll email you those two PDFs plus the Martin Stuart-Fox pdf on the French in Laos. I hope you find some videos on here that you enjoy and next time we meet please introduce yourself. Thank you again.

[@guttormurthorfinnsson8758]

interesting

[@kingofthecatnap5780]

Thank you, very interesting.

[@CarterOnConflict]

Thank you, I am glad you liked it, and I appreciate your note.

[@georgemcmillan3360]

nice

[@CarterOnConflict]

Ha, good to hear from you George!!