dating as a 12 year old

this story shaped my entire high school dating career 💀
Me
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Melinda
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[@Sua_sponte_is_weak]

People that try to humiliate others are the worst. Those "mean girls" usually grow up to be "mean women".

[@sayuri653]

You mean the ones who are gold diggers or have sugar daddy’s or something...

[@Sua_sponte_is_weak]

@@sayuri653 maybe, or the ones that still gossip when they are in their 30s, 40s, etc. They thrive off of feeling important, when in fact no one likes them. Literally a line from the movie Mean Girls- "you think everyone is obsessed with you, when everyone actually HATES you".

[@Sunflowertea_10]

Aka Karen’s and gold diggers

[@lilnotmaster6094]

@@Sua_sponte_is_weak K so true story. I was in an orginization called the C.A.P sorta like AFJROTC, but different cuz it was Nation wide. You had squadrons which were in different towns, or cities,(for example austin composite squadron) Wings which were different states, (For example texas wing) regions (which were mixed of different states like southeast region) And national which was the Hq of the country.. SO liked a girl and she pretended to like me, but she told her friends that I was creepy, and saying innapropriat things to her, then her frie d's told other people that I did the same thing when I didnt.. the Orginizations General inspector was trying to get info on me, so to protect our family reputation, my parents took me out

[@Sua_sponte_is_weak]

@@lilnotmaster6094 I'm so sorry this happened to you. There are some people that literally have an evil heart. I hope you're doing well now.

[@my-chemical-romance]

A guy I liked told everyone I stalked him because I got moved to one of his classes to aid a special needs kid, I lost all interest in him.

[@marijachokuzovska3932]

As you should!

[@mystic_topaz6783]

I'm glad you did.Pretty bold move on his part to assume the world revolves around him.

[@maggiedebeagle2071]

That is so stupid like he as no evidence

[@KAITHEINVADER56]

Seems like he has a big ego

[@megarayquaza9054]

Hate these kinds of people who automatically label others as a stalker just because they like you

[@lizc3289]

Or when a guy u barely know existed decides he likes u and tells everyone that "you're dating" then word gets to your strict Asian parents.

[@lilnotmaster6094]

Rip

[@magicmanhs7718]

I liked a girl that i barely knew and didnt even know her name until my friends told me 😀

[@onebraincellarmy6972]

Welp. Time to start digging your grave.

[@clairoo3142]

@@magicmanhs7718 your confusing liking them and finding them attractive

[@stickpersonperson1995]

I feel so bad for my used to be crush this year

[@chelsealivikho521]

My parents goes " u may not date anybody until u find a work ". This is the reason I'm still single after born to this world

[@liagamer4265]

Not bad advice ngl, for a serious relationship you kinda need a source of money but if its just a teenage relationship then yall both broke so lol

[@waxooh780]

no no no for some people u need income to have a relationship with unconditional love for some people like girls the income comes to u

[@Error-lw1go]

Until u find a *work?* w h a t

[@mushi3255]

@@liagamer4265 its not bad advice but a big con imo is that even if you have finanical sources and all you wont have relationship experience if you ever wanna get legit during your lifetime

[@PlushChie]

Maybe you should learn some 1st grade grammar first bud

[@El_Louise]

This is so fu- I mean rocked up

[@Ow2dragon]

Oh shi- I mean shingle mc pringles you nearly said fu-

[@PEAQGHHEJHAJHDAJHSDA]

@@Ow2dragon oh. My. Rock. What did you just say?

[@charliesrandomvideos9784]

What the heckity heck is going on this conversation is a weird as- uh a smooth rock conversation

[@chloekronebusch3193]

true

[@My_pet_kitten_looks_like_arat]

YEAH ROCKED UP PHEW

[@_sails_2568]

“This is an unfortunately true story” facts right there bro. Swag.😎

[@defnotyourfavcaptain]

I wanna meet that girl and give her a lecture. 😂

[@imhungryyt177]

Yea and that’s definitely a rude way to say you don’t like someone but the way he did it was kinda dumb too but yeah I guess cause he was in middle school

[@NameName-yj7lp]

Made my blood boil, as it hurts everyone. The guy, the friends around him, but mostly importantly strangers. When someone will get a stalker they will think it’s fake because of a case like this.

[@LuvhAva]

To the good old days.

[@RatchelRach]

@@LuvhAva when our mama sang us to sleep but now we're stressed out

[@LuvhAva]

@@RatchelRach wish we could turn back time. To the good old days

[@Bee-kg3iq]

The fact that the beginning is what's going on in my life right now made me crack up

[@ZangeloTheFallen752]

I don’t think that about me. At all!

[@wellwhoknows9567]

aww nooo. you good bro?

[@giannaromano8413]

lol rip 12 year old alex

[@Yumiko05]

Haha my friend when she had just moved here at the beginningof the school year, I hardly knew her yet, and this guy(hes creepy, according to the guys in his grade told me that it was scary how obsessed the guy was with me the year before) and he told my friend that he liked her, of course she turned him down, but she came to us and complained about it, and I told her about the year before when I moved there, and I just started talking about my relationship (which I don't have anymore) around him just for him to get the hint I'm not into him and I'm taken( its actually how I came out to a lot of my friends because I was dating a girl), and later she was talking about how he wouldn't leave her alone, and I was like "hey your a little fruity(I kinda forget what her sexuality is since she usually refers to herself as fruity), and I'm Pansexual, let's just pretend we're dating each other, so he leaves us alone" however we didn't have to resort to that, because she got into a relationship, and now I just have to pray he doesn't find out I'm single haha, and a guy that I had a little crush on moved away, and I didn't even get his number, I was friends with him too 😭

[@mariushuisman7087]

my dyslexia just levelled up reading this comment

[@theguytheman417]

I didn’t understand a single sentence in this

[@vasconcelos7356]

I had a stroke reading this

[@rainykid9155]

I don’t get this :|

[@Yumiko05]

@@rainykid9155 basically i moved here and some random guy i barely knew was trying to hit on me, according to people in his grade he was obsessed with me, and when my friend moved here, she hadn't even talked to the guy and he asked her out like 3 days after she was there, but now we're both single, so now we both gotta watch our backs, now he's asking about another one of my friends, so I told her to watch out

[@Baf416]

I have a girl like that at my school. 3 people like her, she rejects them and tells the entire class and everyone she knows that the people she rejected were stalkers, even though they haven't even looked at her once after she rejected them. The bad thing is that she use to assume I liked her and told people I was weird and that I stalked her, which I didn't. I'd literally just look at the clock and she assumed I was staring at her since I wasn't doing my work.

[@Saphire0686]

Lol shes a pick me

[@Sipsipsippinonlambtears]

This happened to one of my friends in a similar way. My friend is gay and she liked this one girl in her class. The girl found out and then proceeded to accuse my friend of harassing her. The girl and her friends gossiped about her. They're still doing it to this day. I can't really help since we're not in the same school, but I have persuaded her to at least tell a teacher about it because not doing anything about this can lead to more problems. Nobody else in class knows about the accusations but the crush's friends, but what if they end up telling everyone? What if the false accusation ends up following my friend around all through high school and ruin her reputation?

[@terryt8358]

This isn’t a therapist, talk abt it with the school not us

[@30pposumsinatrenchcoat86]

@@terryt8358 And why don't you not say anything because it's their coice to post that story,not yours

[@HellooImCris111]

@JENNY🦋 and u not dare to this?

[@rantingsfromateenagerspers499]

@@terryt8358 this isn’t a book club, if you don’t want to read it just scroll

[@rayofdarkness4913]

My parents: No dating! No boys, no nothing until marriage! Me: **doesn't date or ever plan to marry** My parents: >:0

[@JoeMama-dv9ev]

Exactly then they’re all up in your business about when you’re gonna get married and have their grandchildren

[@tireddtye]

I liked a guy for years, he ended up spreading rumors that I was a stalker in 4th or 5th grade. Practically everyone knew that I was bullied before, during, and after this time, the bullying only increased.

[@CoffeeBeaversEditz]

Damn well time to beat their ass 😀😃

[@emmiehetheyit6403]

Me who is 12½: Dat gurl was crazy-

[@alexgriswold]

i'll look them up!

[@JonathanWickonson]

I’ve only ever had a crush on one girl in my school. Her name is Autumn and she’s new this year. (Btw I’m in 6th grade.)

[@karolis1397]

You should tell her

[@maleigha.isabelle6562]

you should tell her! i’m new at my school too and i like this guy and i wish he would ask me out so go for it!

[@karolis1397]

@@maleigha.isabelle6562 tell that guy if you like him, why waste time and if he doesn't like you back just move on and don't waste your time

[@maleigha.isabelle6562]

@@karolis1397 thanks but idk how to tell him lol

[@kavozok]

the kids bad as hell in 6th grade 💀try to find out her personality before she ruin your reputation

[@johnsimpsen5]

I love it when girls think they’re so entitled to do crap like this...

[@miaaaaa3470]

Elaborate

[@eliontheinternet3298]

Chill man, anybody can be a liar, much as it sucks

[@hellothere9833]

@@eliontheinternet3298 nah it’s girls because of this new stupid society

[@miaaaaa3470]

@@hellothere9833 or men in this new stupid society pointing fingers and dominating if this was on a… or if a women did…. I’f a man did this.. shut up already! Dude if a man dose it all the comments are funny if a women dose it she is criticized for doing it and compared to man. Stop complaining then flooding females inboxes callin fake bs out.

[@excitableanon2514]

Yeah. One girl who did this one thing one time now means the majority of all girls should be generalized as being entitled for definitely doing this to people. Checks out.

[@wyvern5903]

There were a few girls I liked in school. They were nice to me at first, but when I said I liked em it all changed. They started spreading rumors about me, told everyone that I was a stalker, that I harassed them, etc... Once some of their guy friends beat the cr*p outta me for supposedly caller her a bit*h. I was never particularly sociable, so I didn't have many friends to back me up with any of it. My only defense was being as publicly separated from everyone else as possible. Wich, of course, only made me seem all the more of a weirdo. My one and only friend I was forced away from when another guy threatened me, told me never to hang out with him. Fun times... Not married, but I have hope. And all those girls ended up as methheads so I'm not all that tore up about it.

[@Late_Spring-M]

Bruh omg some guy in my class thinks I like him so bad if I look at him 1 or 2 time he will tell his friends something like "oMg bRuh ShEs StArEiNg aT mE" and says "OmG sHes SuCh A sTalKeR" and I don't even like him he's also annoying and also how he even know I look at him if he doesn't stop looking at me like

[@maxverstappenfan79]

F for you

[@elephorofonius]

f

[@Acelyn_11]

f

[@saltedwounds]

Lmao id hate that so much. Gl and Rip

[@Saphire0686]

Im rlly srry fry

[@brucegardner9274]

Then you adopted 137k kids and this is rocked up like holy canoly holly fu- rock

[@CosmicStarmin]

Holy Pringle mc shingles lingles mingles you said two words of frick

[@CosmicStarmin]

@JEÑÑY 🅥 I know you are a bot but go away

[@davidanddragons5339]

I had this happen to me and she made up rocks about me going to her house without asking for her address, and I had to explain to all my friends that she made that up. Haven't seen her in a few months. Best words of advice I have for any guy or girl for that matter. Don't be alone with someone of the opposite gender so no one will accuse you of something you didn't do. Always be respectful to others and respect people's boundaries, if you typically are very respectful of them when someone lies about you people will be suspicious of them because that's not what you would do

[@RetroEgg2]

The definition of stalking is when a person follows you and spys on you.

[@emilybruner2571]

I remember whenever I liked someone I could NEVER tell my friends because they would instantly tell them, and they never liked me anyway. 😬

[@rain_josephbyrne]

I hate people who humiliate other people for no reason

[@rebishroom]

My parents: No boys over, and no boyfriend until you're at least 17! Me: Gets girlfriend* My parents :0 Edit: girlfriend was before 17 lol Still didn't break the rule technically

[@porkisthebestmeat8955]

Is this a true story? If it is then that's kind of funny

[@zahirazp]

👁️👄👁️

[@rebishroom]

@@porkisthebestmeat8955 it is lmao

[@m_b_a9567]

"You- You beat the system"

[@soapcon]

my family used to have a rule of no boys at sleepovers but then i transitioned and the rule was just scrapped👁

[@rip_trollge]

“hey.. i have a crush on u.” “STALKER!”

[@x.x.x.a.n.n.a.b.e.l.x.x.x1302]

The music in the background was in my grandmother’s funeral 3 weeks ago 😭😭😭

[@Barbiecia2014]

the background music saying “stay away” made the whole thing better

[@lou090]

Read the caption - “ dating a 12 year old. “ 😭

[@erebusreal671]

"ah yes let me accuse a 12 year old boy of stalking me"

[@iwishthatiwasjustacloud6105]

I find it extremely hard to believe that years later someone would accuse you of stalking completely unprovoked lol

[@drewhowai3009]

No yeah… it honestly seems like some sort of “damage control” if that girl were to come forward with her story now that hes “famous” (I’ve never heard of this guy before) because it threatens his career.

[@ducky5277]

It was for the next couple of years not after a couple years

[@drewhowai3009]

@@ducky5277 the point still stands

[@mysingingmonstersfan1023]

Johnny Depp got accused of much worse so

[@drewhowai3009]

@@mysingingmonstersfan1023 and? I hate Johnny depp too, and his wife

[@the_original_jan]

"And that my kids, is a story of how I met your mother"😂

[@alcapone8069]

I really liked this girl. I was 13 a freshman in highschool and under 5 feet tall. But regardless we talked everyday and I asked her to the spring fling. I thought we had a good time but after that she gave me the cold shoulder and never talked to me. Turns out she wanted me to fight for her, but I was just a stupid anxious idiot. Didn’t find out until two years later when she wanted to be friends again, really ruined my confidence for years.

[@BlazeByte_13]

“Unfortunately”💀

[@oxidiser]

This is why guys don’t ask girls out

[@gummy1993]

BACKGROUND SLAPS IM SO HAPPY!!

[@hewants.addie1]

haha this use to be me but i wasn’t allowed to date 😂 but i didn’t want them to know sometimes i did

[@Beanomaasim]

Bruh that *"Unfortunately"* at the end had me thinking

[@spotifylife5100]

I swear to god. Are you me but as a guy? This literally is what happen to me step by step. Lol

[@therewasnothingleft289]

THIS US LITERALLY HAPPENING TO ME THIS GURL IS TELLING EVRYONE IN A “sTaLkEr”

[@therewasnothingleft289]

Im*

[@hel2727]

oh so that's what jordan peterson meant when he talked about toxic femininity and how women destroy reputations instead of fighting physically like men often do if they have a problem.

[@sergsergesrgergseg]

men are privileged BTW

[@CoffeeBeaversEditz]

So r women

[@derekstephenfinn4717]

I can agree one girl called me a stalker MY LIFE IS PAIN TO THIS DAY 9 YEARS LATER

[@Peggy-b3l]

MAN YALL ROCKING ROCK SO ROCKING MUCH F-ROOOOOOCKS

[@magik210]

This is such a ROCKS story

[@kendalllabrache4227]

sheeeeeesh sorry dad

[@Tea23145]

Sail away sail away sail awayyyyyyyy

[@misaki-san5607]

This sounds like the story of Ishigami from Kaguya-sama Love is War- SPOILERS: Bruh rip ishigami he was also presented as a stalker because of defending the one who was nice to her- but then she had the audacity to still have a grudge, my mans Ishigami is tru manz (Ty kaicho for recruiting Ishigami)

[@CoolyCools]

Im tired boss.

[@Skater-ow4uh]

“This is unfortunately a true story “ My life 💀😂

[@moonieland]

One time a kid in high school said I was stalking him because he thought I liked him... turns out, I strongly disliked him and I had no choice but to sit next to him in English. Don't be rude kids or else someone like me will come along and sock you in the mouth for being absolutely horrendous.

[@jasonsoliven6405]

Just shows how powerful words can be

[@Burty_YT]

"These shorts make my day💕"

[@yoshimi1074]

Good for you

[@seandscorpion]

Bot

[@Sean942]

I hate it when the friend says she likes you back, it's so embarrassing!

[@SpartanBrix]

yeah tbh the worst part about having a crush is the fear that it will somehow get out or they will connect some dots, then proceed to ruin your reputation for the rest of school.

[@xoxo_16]

hey i’ve been watching your videos for a super long time and i’m autistic and it’s hard for me to comprehend all the talking so i would love it so much if you could turn on captions for the whole video

[@randomperson2151]

this guy i’ve told my friends is a stalker… actually kinda is… he literally told me he liked me OVER DISCORD 💀then told me only his MOM AND DAD knew 😭😭😭 then described how he would blush under his mask when people asked if we were dating… he was extremely creepy too and there’s a lot to the story too, but before he was creepy, i liked him too. so i told him that. THEN HE WAS SOOO CREEPY … i literally told him he was freaking me out and he didn’t stop. then i told him i didn’t like him anymore in a very nice way. then he desperately wanted to be friends, but we weren’t friends before he stalked me, and i said you can’t just magically be friends with someone, you have to make a friendship. he took that very personally… he still stares at me all the time and it’s extremely uncomfortable 😃

[@prestonthebeston]

“Do you want to hear my love life in elementary school” “Do you want to hear about it again”

[@jjasb3ar]

If my crush called me a stalker, I would call them a rat, or take the opposite route and straight up stare at them as if I was a stalker

[@anica7438]

same experience but my own "bsf" instigated the rumors and made me confess all my crushes in public and now everyone in my class thinks im a boy attention seeker or something- i left that class as soon as next year rolled around but I learned my lesson to never share my crushes to anyone ever again-

[@BreeziClipsfn]

This happened to me, my crush’s over protective best friend told everyone I stalked her when I was just walking with her, this pisses me off so much to this day and my old crush’s best friend still hates me

[@EAsports462]

The stalker part is happening to me 😭

[@osfatointeresantes]

AWESOME VIDEO KEEP UP THE INCREDIBLE WORK

[@KurtsOutdoors-nIrth]

Girl called me a stalker and all of her friends believed her

[@edencornatzer4123]

Wish it was still that simple

[@MrTubaPlayr]

For real. Now she calls me a stalker.. and we are in the same class.

[@Andy_srs]

Kids back on the days.. being so confident. I’m 11 and already almost died

[@rebekahbunny5738]

Ok but why is this exactly how everyone did it when I was in elementary school

[@NicTouchedGrassGD]

Nah, I just told her when I first knew I liked her, at the time she didn't like me back, but after a few months of constant facetiming and texting almost all the time, she confessed her feelings and now we have been dating for like 2 months lol

[@teartrapz2897]

Never once met a girl that didnt victimized themself with lies or lie about other stuff for drama after a breakup or even just someone having feelings for you

[@krei-ations]

“He said he was twelve >:0”

[@MelodyToonie]

Why did i misread the title as... "dating a 12 year old" 💀

[@AmbrynX]

Bro…. I hate people who say things like that. There is currently a girl who I was friends with, that I never even had any romantic experiences with, that told all of my friends I assaulted her last week. I have been friends with them for 5+ years and we have only been friends with her for -1 year, and they all trusted her over me. I now have 0 friends and I haven’t been able to come back to school since. I feel absolutely shocked and betrayed and I have thrown up multiple times thinking about it. If anyone is dealing with an experience similar to this I wish the absolute best for you.

[@Va_len_ti_no]

bro that sucks im sorry you went through that like just because you liked her and she didn’t like you back she didn’t have to spread rumors about you being a stalker 🙄🤚

[@oceanstar70]

Happened to me twice, and I went to a very small school so pretty much ruined my entire social circle for most of high-school.

[@angelehatdog3923]

The background music😭😭😭😭

[@whodis...3267]

Dude you had it easy… the kids at my school sprayed holy water on me…

[@TestroYT]

Same This is literally my life story lmao, except the marrying part, not there yet

[@NotZombie9]

"The worst she could say is no"

[@bleach7123]

I can sadly relate to the stalker part…

[@minecraftonbudget1767]

“This is not a mistake” “This is a ✨Master PIECE✨”

[@DanoDev]

that girl is rocked up

[@bigbi9050]

A former best friend of mine told the guy i really liked i was a stalker (He lives like fuckin 40 minutes away from me AND I CANT DRIVE) manipulated him to stop talking to me. She also told him i was an alcoholic so, truly a thrilling experience. I mean i still like the guy but, he just doesnt know shes a manipulator

[@Doubledash124]

My ex told my entire school that I stalked her after I broke up with her then she kept telling people that I still like her even tho I didn’t

[@aaronymous9]

Legit my brother got called a stalker all throughout high school because he liked a girl and got rejected in middle school.

[@danielE-vh7kn]

Man sounds like he told this story as his 12 yr old self

[@lanab4629]

These shots never fail to entertain me 💕

[@jazmin1525]

The first picture has the exact same root beer I'm drinking rn

[@mannatsharma7222]

Your parents finding out be like WHAT THE ROCK

[@Deangelodavis446]

Plot twist: his wife is the girl who didnt like him back

[@gachasky_7731]

Tbh this happened to me last year but he liked me back and told everyone I was a stalker cuz I found his house on accident 😭

[@the-silent-gamer2134]

All that would happen to me would be my friends laughing at me

[@skyleranimated9302]

Ouch dude, my entire 5th grade crush man. Like damn straight to the heart

[@FS.C]

Whenever someone try’s to start a rumor about me suspiciously their locker gets filled up with water

[@willinghamstudios797]

Rooccckkk! That one girl was kind of being a rock.

[@slivastardreamerz]

primary school love life be like:

[@Mangoman-re8vv]

This is how it should be

[@0creature0]

Sidestep the issue: never tell anyone you like them. Worked for me

[@h3r3tic66]

Bruh I’m in the same situation, my friend used to call me a stalker even though every day she would be “hey when can I come to your house”, “wanna hang out?”, etc. which confused me when she called me a deranged stalker

[@LittleMissLogic01]

I used to have this friend who had a very toxic boyfriend but couldn't see how awful he was. I told her many times that he was bad but she never listened. One day, she got made at me always talking shit about her boyfriend and asked me why (she told her boyfriend everything I said to her, he denied it, and cried in her lap) I would say such awful things. I told her that he was just manipulating her because he knows he got caught and that I care about her because she was my friend. She then, spread rumors about me having a crush on her and I was trying to break her and her boyfriend up so I could date her. We stopped being friends after that.

[@gabysworld_hampternpuppys3766]

i try to avoid humiliating people (im 12) or being rude to others to impress a guy.

[@ShenCobra]

Bruh this happened to me and suddenly a bunch of mutuals all hated me, and I’m still stuck like this