Dating, Courtship, and Marriage - Paul Washer

[@BenT800]

I'm glad as a 15 year old boy I'm learning this things, so much that i know has been perverted and i don't have a good father figure in my life and its men like this that show me my error and lead me on the right path

[@Yeriiiiiiiii]

That’s amazing to see you’re realizing this at 15 dude. I’m 19yrs as of now and as of recent I’ve finally got my conviction to follow the word of God to be corrected to live a righteous life. I hope you continue. It’s a hard path but a very worthwhile one! God bless you bro!

[@aaronlockwood3407]

I lost my father at 15 and I am an example of what not to do without having a father figure. Focus on your heavenly father and be grateful to God for every good thing in your life.

[@KristinSchmidt-ke1kt]

That’s awesome! I’m 12, and I’m loving his sermons..,they help a lot! I have a desire,to follow God also! Praying for all of you!

[@celuiquipeut6527]

God is protecting you. So glad you are grateful. PLS listen to him and the scriptures and you will be ok in life.

[@BenT800]

@@KristinSchmidt-ke1kt 12??? Yo that's cool

[@BecamePneuma]

Single, never married no kids, age. 37. Holding out for Gods plan for me. Single to my last breath or married, doesn’t change my walk. Christ comes first.

[@soullessmeatpuppet7840]

I just turned 50 and I'm still holding out, brother.

[@issacx2659]

@@soullessmeatpuppet7840 Marriage is common grace of God, even to unbelievers God gave them marriage because it's common, even to Hitler, God gave him marriage. But what's wrong with us ? By the way, I'm 41.

[@soullessmeatpuppet7840]

@issacx2659 bro, I've been asking myself that every day. Granted, I spent 47 of my years seeking the pleasures of the flesh, and I got what I sought because the devil FREELY gives us what we desire...God doesnt.

[@MrJoemccloskey]

Not my place to say and maybe you already are but if this is the push to put yourself out there I hope you do

[@JoshAlicea1229]

There is a certain call to singleness too. But if God put a desire in your heart to be married, it is His will.

[@monkaZETTA]

Paul has been one of the most faithful preachers I have ever come across. He doesn't care about his reputation and about the attitudes of men, but only cares about validation from God.

[@thetruthyes]

Reputation is important. But thats what makes him so special, he cares about what God says and not people.

[@aaronlockwood3407]

Same. I listen to a few others, but this guy helps me so much. I realize and apply to my life not being worldly, but this man helps me know how to live in this world but not be of this world.

[@simplegodlylivinghomestead]

Absolutely 🙌🏼🙏💯👏🏽 I completely and Wholeheartedly agree 💯 Brother Paul Washer is an amazing man, preacher and an amazingly genuine example of a true Godly man 🤍⚓ I have only had the privilege and honor of meeting one other Brother like him, and that amazing Brother In CHRIST is Brother David Carrico @undergroundchurch [FOJC Radio]. If Ya'll love Brother Paul, Ya'll Will Absolutely love Brother David ♥

[@ChriseyApple]

This guy's name is Paul? I thought you meant the apostle Paul who also cared about doing God's work and not men's opinions- Corinthians

[@MahlomphoSiile]

I was listening to one of his sermons yesterday for the first time.. and I loved that he was talking about holiness.. and that message touched my life.. and early in the morning today I just typed his name on utube and I saw this message I just clicked on and I found wow.. this men of God is a jewel of the kingdom... it's pleasing to know that in America there are people who are willing to go further with God regardless of what society says.. I'm in Lesotho in Africa.. but his teachings makes me know that there's no salvation of Africa or American, but as long as we follow one God the same God..we must look alike.. you are a blessing and the way you love your wife it's amazing.God bless you we might not meet in this world but we will surely meet in heaven.. surely

[@Shockscribe]

Indeed.

[@tastopmotionproductions2391]

Amen

[@TheBibleNerd334]

This is without a doubt the most convicting sermon I have ever listened to. I am most definitely going to be reforming my life to serve Christ better, even if He is not calling me into marriage.

[@marinachoban2607]

Amen 🙏 God bless you Paul has a way of putting the fear of God in ya 🥰 🙌

[@prophetess.carmen.777]

❤

[@lisahall1989]

Thank you for answering God's calling to do the right thing. ❤

[@DarlaBaltazar]

That point about working parents, hiring someone to raise their children, enrolling them in preschool and big schools, then after school doing sports and extra-curriculars, and after all that going to home to what really is a condo of people who don't know each other... man now I understand what's going on with me and my family. Talk about the narrow path. May God give us eyes to see, and hearts willing to walk in full obedience to Him! Thank you for such a powerful and bold message. It pushes me to seek God's will even more in every aspect of life.

[@jesusistheanswer6003]

I'm watching this not because I want a relationship, but because I want to know what a Godly relationship is supposed to look like.

[@gabrielsonowal8040]

That's the same with me brethren because I was in a very bad relation where I committed all sins and God somehow saved me and I believe he forgave me .And I don't want to do the same mistake again.Never

[@Berily123]

Mee too..

[@stellarmusic3495]

Beautiful put

[@karinhutchinson885]

It's the same for me 😂

[@humbleservantofMostHighGod]

Wow, Amen🎉

[@Danmajor555]

Man… still to this day truth from a faithful, biblical preacher. Thank you Lord God Almighty!

[@gladsonjoseph8247]

This sermon is a Gem. Praise be to Lord Jesus.

[@psalmeron100]

I thank God for the life of Paul Washer, his humility is fond and brings me closer to God 🙏

[@dale25c]

Man. What a powerful word. Don't think fear has struck me more after listening to this word. This is not whishy washy faith, Paul hit the nail on the head, we cannot enter into a relationship when we have so much more to grow in the Lord

[@viewer9621]

I am so glad i am seeing this video i have been away from the true Gospel . Thank you God for sending me your servant paul in bringing me back to the right track . Praise the lord . Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@EzenwaSuccess-wu9pe]

Just lk he said I was expecting to hear this were the mistakes ah made while dating 😄. But no he led my heart back to Christ and still spoke on dating .The church is really changing for the world rather than the world for the church 😔. May God help me to be different ,Amen .

[@ramzilla873]

Thank you Lord for raising up preachers who speak biblical truth! Amen. I pray I seek first God's kingdom and His righteousness, live as such, and in His time He bless me with a wife.

[@dorothyrobbins3797]

Thank you so much for living a life worthy of a wife

[@clarestaaa]

Hi Paul, thank you for your sermon. I am a Seventh-day Adventist, and I can say most of your sermons are bible based :) thank you for teaching and sharing.

[@HristiyanRusev]

"I've never lamented one sacrifice or one thing I've had to give up in serving Him, I have lamented many times when I've kept me for myself"🔥

[@siyandlovu12]

This wonderful sermon from Brother Paul continues to bless me. 🙏

[@georgianatiller4442]

I am romanian and I have to say that you are 💯 correct!

[@willimitus]

This has shown how far ive gone in the right direction, and also how far I have yet to go. Getting closer to God and Jesus is a slow going relationship sometimes, but just like anything, it takes one day at a time.

[@patrickbujingo3040]

Am watching this after 12years but l have been really blessed thanks so much God bless you

[@francoisebowen]

Message still applicable in 2023.

[@andrewjni]

Indeed, and God's word will continue to be applicable until the end of time

[@sebbefalt]

Applicable for eternity*​@@andrewjni

[@BJLoversforGod]

I am so blessed to have come across this video. Thank you, Father! 🙏🙌🙏💞

[@PurposeDriven4U]

🛑12 yrs on, the msg still stands firm in God's eyes because it's biblical. Where are the men who are Christlike?

[@PurposeDriven4U]

🛑Merry those who u contemp esp colored folks

[@joelroy9221]

There is no terms or conditions. Marry whom the Holy Spirit put in your heart

[@kylebyron8637]

I’m such a bad husband and father. I have failed so badly, and will have much to answer to God for…

[@melaniedileo5232]

You can always turn something around thru repentance and changed actions. Praying for your family.

[@christianlucero32]

It’s never to late redeem yourself God will forgive you and Guide you it starts now brother

[@cocoino2307]

As long as you are breathing you can change my brother 🙏

[@mesharuu8331]

I just came across him today and he made me cry. This is exactly what I have been looking for

[@adoramy2013]

What an excellent sermon. Thank you for uploading

[@stellavigil5217]

This sermon is so awesome! 🍃🌹🍃

[@KristinSchmidt-ke1kt]

Amen 🙏

[@zfjames]

God took away an opportunity to marry a Christ-following woman and I find here the cause was me and my determination to live for myself pulling me away from my responsibility.

[@segunmola1]

I can relate...very much.

[@marisrissa]

Christ is the God of redemption. He will bring you a woman who fears and loves the Lord! I will pray for you🙏🩷

[@JulieSevelson-nb9nj]

This is fascinating. I never heard the term " recreational dating " before. At my age now, I don't care about that stuff anymore. I'm glad that I don't have those pressures that younger people are under. Basically,I don't like anything American anyway, so I find this very interesting, lol.

[@cuteleenahmi4165]

Amen Pastor Paul. This message reminds me of when I first came to the US and was invited to this water splash thing and OH my how I looked different among everyone. I didn't dare to wear these ridiculous swim suits like, No..anyways, there I went in this big t-shirt and long pants and that's ok with me. I was comfortable and I know it was right to do..People were staring at me like I'm an idiot..lol..to them But not under God's eyes..Thank you Pastor. Truth be told..❤ Well, the main reason i am listening to this is to find an answer to my question and I got it with regards to dating and being a Christian. Thank you

[@aaron_trice]

Amazing talk brother Paul much respect to you and your ministry. I am a new born again follower of Christ. Thankyou for these words of wisdom

[@al.g9534]

i wish there was a place for people serious about God to find a spouse...i thought church would be a good place but like he said many churches are lost....so frustrated even the Christian dating app same lost people and people who arent even Christian its a joke....

[@Grac3AndP3ac3]

I know exactly how you feel. But keep your head up and pray to God about it, and if it's his will, he will bring you both together, if not just know that his will is good and better for us then our wills will ever be :) I hope you have a blessed day

[@itsuzoma.5756]

Realy understand and resonate in my spirit with your definition of what biblical love to a wife is. However, just been struggling with the thought of does the definition you gave mean God has prepared a wife for you that you will lay down your life for, or you can decided to marry any saved woman and choose to lay down your life for her? I guess my question is does God pick your spouse or He wants you to pick your spouse but treat her as He wills?

[@thando_tlng]

This man in 2011 saw the filth in the American church😢😭 powerful words sir❤In 2011 I was in grade 1 now I am in vasity. This word is soo relevant 😭❤️

[@KristinSchmidt-ke1kt]

Love this sermon! It’s awesome!❤

[@psalmeron100]

I’m happy you said that your wife is from Peru 🇵🇪 ❤

[@calebcrilow7505]

I want to know more. I want 4 hours of this. Wheres the notes?

[@jonmundambo6381]

2024 im still here

[@ladanosbourn9774]

Please pray for me my wife tells me she wants a divorce and I don't want to spend my life with anyone else but her

[@Lunae-o8t]

Praying for you 💙

[@andrewdescant4996]

I’m praying for you brother!

[@lisahall1989]

Please pray for my sons, nephew & grandsons. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lrngMath_com]

Guide us Oh Lord

[@lisahall1989]

His word said it, let's do it. Yes, that is exactly right. ❤

[@amanjamwal7528]

Godly man.

[@sgtlynxUSMC8983]

A wife is to “be in subjection” to her husband and have a “meek and quiet spirit.” She is to follow Sarah’s example, who obeyed her husband and called him “lord.” This does not paint a “partnership of equals” but rather a leader and follower, a master and servant relationship. She is to be ruled by her husband.

[@ElisabethWood-vo9uo]

Does anyone know what book Pastor Paul washer is referencing when he’s talking about logic?

[@loadtochrist]

Can you make an english script just like your other sermon video? Because i really want to share this video with my friends, but they can't get the message without subtitles😂 if you simply make the English one with the help of google Translation, we can understand the words what brother paul is preaching in this video(btw im from south korea!)

[@Berily123]

GOD WILL MAKE A WAY

[@marisrissa]

That’s so awesome! I hope they make a translation for you and your friend 🙏😄🩷

[@georgemejia4179]

Go into the setting of the video.. Hit caption.. Then Auto-translate.. Then you can pick from like 20 different languages it can be translated to!! 🙌🏽 I recently discovered this because I was trying to figure out how I can do the same thing! God bless! And now go share all them videos! Just tell them how to translate it.

[@YahsonGarza]

Please fix the audio at the last part of this, i couldnt hear the last part

[@jamesyamamoto1301]

A pre requisite for every home group to rule out man made salvation

[@Dubeproduce]

2024 the truth remains

[@klol7231]

Thank you Mr. Washer for a great video. Just one question, how can you marry young and not have a steady income according to the word of God?

[@navarrouk3487]

45:48 the same is true for women too and it is also biblical!

[@rebecaalvarez]

Wowww!

[@ericrojas9621]

If you can’t say amen, say ouch. -Voddie Baucham

[@karinacorrea2860]

Amazing. God bless you and your family. May God guide you and bless you with wisdown to teach God words always in Jesus name we pray amen

[@pamelastetor8803]

powerful

[@sashapositivemind]

Amen !!! 🙏🙏

[@alysonparker2207]

Woah he’s preaching good!

[@Jfootball852]

Thank you God for your only begotten son Christ Jesus; I believe He was sent from God to walk amongst men in human form but God in the flesh and he died for all sins and He was risen on the third day and ascended into Heaven to be at the Right hand of the Father, Amen.

[@samuelmontero8229]

Thank you.

[@RyanArgue]

So good!

[@ray.whitby]

Thank you so much

[@Moe-bb3bm]

Your right paul washer

[@angloaust1575]

Marriage is honourable in all No set rules Whatever works out for the best Love will find a way!

[@uriahedwards]

“By the providence of God, my number one ministry is to love a woman.” Glory to God.

[@4l4ns4nyi]

Amen 🙏

[@donnagerber2911]

What does Paul think of old testament polygamy?

[@jimmyharsho4603]

Amen!!!

[@thehuguenot5615]

1:03:37 that was once me and it sucked

[@jasonhinkle4083]

Me too. However, no longer. Thank God for His grace!

[@IzzyNucksify]

Where's session two?

[@angelawilliams9859]

I disagree on 1 point not 60 years ago. That's in the 60s. Not 70 years that in the 50s. It was more like from the 1930 .it's close to a hundred years ago there were beach cops that would measure and inspect your outfit to be sure it covered everything and was long enough if it wasn't you were fined even arrested. But his pont about the way we dress since the 40s is inappropriate.

[@kosiekoos9408]

You sir sacrifice the man at the altar of the woman whom you clearly worship

[@AvaSpencer-xv2su]

Amen 🙏 true words

[@anjalisartistry870]

It depends for different people. Seek the best out of both worlds.

[@WasLostButNowAmFound]

It depends on whether one is a Christian or not; no such thing as best of both worlds.

[@vaughnlonganecker986]

Paul Washer is teaching biblical relationships and marriage, except when he puts marriage before the gospel. Nowhere in scripture does God call us to marriage being the primary mission. The Great commission is not a charge to marriage, it is to the gospel. Marriage is a great commitment and responsibility and we are to give our all to it, but it is not even a close second to our responsibility to the gospel.

[@bctokyo1265]

If you don't love your wifi how can you say that you are a son of God and share the gospel? If you don't have you family in order, how can you teach that the lord is your God, testimony is important the fruit is important because is the answer of the change that the Gospel make in the people The change Christ make in the people.

[@dannykennedy4473]

This is the hierarchy: 1. Your god 2. Family 3. Church / Ministry

[@mungiesilvers5544]

That's not what he said. He said it's his first ministry. Which makes sense because he made a holy commitment to his wife. He wakes up next to this holy commitment and goes to sleep next to her. The church is Christs bride. Christs first ministry.

[@yaeldelatorre6190]

Brother, Jesus him self said “love your wife like God loved the church” basically die for her. Yes God comes first, but your wife is before anything else other than God

[@bellewilson3874]

❤

[@elmethra1525]

What was the title of this book on Logic???

[@williamcastilla1963]

56:00

[@ameliamorton1686]

Amen

[@grace_0313]

🙏🏼❤️

[@rjdavis7503]

Have you bought in, to American Christianity?

[@VitoCorleone8]

Oh wow

[@JustinTewid]

The problem is ....l.we different ......😅l

[@yt-gh8yr]

39:00...>

[@mnymgmt2299]

45:18

[@Alessia_Valter353]

17:03 53:17

[@thatomofolo452]

🤔

[@clevisnfor6241]

🇨🇲🇨🇲🇨🇲

[@anastasiaburr3959]

PLEASE, BROTHER PAUL, DO NOT CALL THOSE EVANGELICALS! RATHER CALL THEM APOSTATES OR EVANGELICALS BY NAME ONLY!

[@gemillopez5797]

Wives are VIRGINS and VIRGINS ARE WIVES. There are exceptions Widows the wife of ONE HUSBAND.

[@simplegodlylivinghomestead]

Hands down, he is absolutely one of the MOST amazingly and extraordinary Pastors and men of GOD I've ever seen or witnessed! 🙌🏼🙏💯👏🏽 I completely and Wholeheartedly agree with most of these comments, and more importantly, with the teachings and lessons of Brother Paul Washer. 💯 Brother Paul Washer is an amazing man, preacher and an amazingly genuine example of a true Godly man 🤍⚓ I have only had the privilege and honor of meeting one other Brother like him, and that amazing Brother In CHRIST is Brother David Carrico @undergroundchurch [FOJC Radio]. If Ya'll love Brother Paul, Ya'll Will Absolutely love Brother David ♥ Love Always and GOD Bless Ya'll 💕 🙏🏼, Sister Stephanie 💛

[@Skyer803]

12:13 love this

[@SiervodCristo]

Amen 🙏