Dating in NYC

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[@carter181]

bro, you need help. your last four videos are you complaining and being extremely negative. brighten up man.

[@TheBryanJun]

I have a feeling people won't watch a video called "NYC Subway Rocks" hahahaha

[@20891]

How is he negative. You are the one giving off negative vibes by saying he needs help . Maybe you need help ,not him, he’s just expressing himself and there’s nothing negative about it. Why don’t YOU brighten up and learn to be a little more intelligent because you sound pretty pathetic to me

[@jyoung5256]

Don’t worry bro, we got you. Always available to kiss the homies goodnight 🥰

[@TheBryanJun]

Hahahahahhahahahaahah

[@Timbaland150]

🤣🤣

[@ni12907]

Gay affff

[@mofizzle1051]

Nah man you don’t need to resort to swiping. Go for the approach that’s most natural to you, the right person will come. At the same time, you can still have your career and hobbies that further yourself you just need to set that expectation from the start. You’ll be okay man! Really appreciate your videos keep it up!

[@TheBryanJun]

Yeah i cant do apps

[@elk00laid]

I feel ya bro. Dating nowadays is mad brutal. Especially as a more reserved and introverted person myself meeting neew people in general is hard.

[@TheBryanJun]

u got this!

[@carloburger3828]

Mr.Jun, I thought this was very insightful and transparent. I think your a stud, keep killin the game man

[@TheBryanJun]

Thank you good sir

[@PersianEnigma]

It’s gotten to the point where dating in general has become impossible my dude

[@TheBryanJun]

Haahhahaha its def case by case also ive seen plenty of people date

[@Sam-be4yy]

If you’re christian, that’s probably the reason why. Not to offend u for being christian, but if you are pretty devout, then your view/expectations on relationships r prob higher than someone who isn’t. Good luck my g

[@TheBryanJun]

Very true

[@wrenchguy2937]

It's hard in nyc but it's also the best opportunity to try new things in nyc which helps. Esp for introverts. Concerts, outdoor evevent/markets. You have your different avenues.

[@redheadedcutie7691]

NYC is difficult but it can be a lot of fun. You just moved to New York after a global pandemic. Give it time. Your are only 24 and you are handsome. ( I am not trying to be weird). Try to find meet up groups and social groups. Those are all over NYC, Queens, Brooklyn and Hoboken. They hold a lot of events at restaurants and house parties. That might be on hold until the Covid is completely over. Be patient. I am telling you things that I wish I could tell my younger self. I feel bad that a lot of 20 somethings were robed of their adventure due to the pandemic, but you are still young. In fact you will still be very young when you are in your 30s. I hope this helps. Cheer up buddy. Things will get better.

[@Ari_diwan]

Will still be young in the '30s? 👀😃 that gives me hope thanks

[@TheBryanJun]

Ye truly 1st world problems too tbh

[@Melissa.Simmons]

Thanks for this comment forgot all about this app.

[@mahdidi96]

Dude, when I went to LA it felt so much easier to meet girls, and honestly make friends in general. In NYC I feel like people are very cold and unsociable. Or maybe I'm just more myself over there. Give LA a visit the vibes are very different!

[@TheBryanJun]

hm i'd say many would agree

[@DivestedChristian]

It's easy if you are willing to lower your standards and settle for anyone but who wants that. Celibacy is better than a bad relationship or meeting the crazed people on these apps. Despite the threats of dying alone, being single is very peaceful and I can always adopt.

[@TheBryanJun]

I'm too young and attractive to lower standards jk

[@DivestedChristian]

@@TheBryanJun It's true, you're not ugly☺️.

[@nishallall781]

a lot of guys rely on dating apps where the ratio of men to women is 10-1. they dont know how to put themselves out there and build a conversation or relationship with a women outside the internet. I used to be on of those guys, but ill never feel sorry for them. its sink or swim. either learn to put yourself in uncomfortable situations or die mad over women who dont know you exist. Its not women, its you.

[@TheBryanJun]

Good thing I'm unbelievably social and eloquent

[@youshe9121]

So where should we be trolling then? Bars and clubs?

[@KidWonder101]

You're not a bad looking guy, you should be able to get women in nyc. Do you dress well? Wear cologne? Approach? At your age, I wouldn't recommend getting into a serious relationship. I'm 25 and work in private equity, I'd be much further in my career if I didn't have a girlfriend.

[@TheBryanJun]

Hahahahaah point proven!

[@HardCoreCAGaming]

Can you explain why you say you’d be much farther in your career if you didn’t have a girlfriend?

[@Essays4College]

Most professional women in big cities like NYC are so focused on their careers that they're not thinking about dating seriously, getting married, settling down, etc.

[@asdfghjkldfghjhgcgyuigfyui9792]

women hate guys who aren’t white and tall. I’m ethnic and it’s over for me too

[@bongaisimba]

I think you should start a podcast taking us into the world of dating in big cities such as NYC, with friends as guests. You speak clearly and have interesting experiences and perspectives too!

[@TheBryanJun]

This would be super fun I'm on it

[@bongaisimba]

@@TheBryanJun Oh yeah and let me know when you drop that 🔥!

[@TheModernAlchemix]

I think it would be interesting to actually have a similar group of people like you to go out in NYC (not to solely hookup but meeting ppl) I’m actually looking for something like that as the scene seems superficial

[@seanmichael6579]

Damn dude you're on that early morning grind. Are you always up before the sunrise? Uploaded before 9am NYC time. Could you do a video on what your out-of-work day is like? I'm about to enter white collar life and am curious what a young dude like you does outside of the office.

[@TheBryanJun]

KZbin has a schedule upload feature LOL great video idea

[@philliphochman1654]

I’ve actually met a couple girls at the gym, fit and like minded people

[@TheBryanJun]

Nice!

[@SG-rq6sw]

Oh man Bryan - this is so relatable. As a 24 year old in Mumbai, I have been thinking exactly the same over the past few months.

[@TheBryanJun]

Overthinking is the name of the game

[@Vix72121]

I feel like it’s tough if you’re in a major city, I had the same. Be bold in person rather than apps and don’t think too far ahead about people moving away etc. that’s years down the line get to actually know someone you think is valuable and see where you go from there

[@TheBryanJun]

Yeah i cant do apps

[@bacool]

That’s wild because I know several people who do over 100k per Month take home and some far over that even with a family and kids. Seems like NYC has a lot of people who are in the matrix and think they have to work like mad to make only 6 figs per annum which lets be real is lower middle class in NYC. If you don’t believe you can have it all you can’t. It’s a matter of belief systems that create your reality.

[@TheBryanJun]

yeah a lot of it is about expectations/priorities

[@TheChariot99]

Dating is harder if you're a reserved person in nyc

[@TheBryanJun]

good thing I'm not

[@hyun6926]

bryan you need to go to latin america, if you're into that. you would be shocked at the options for us Korean dudes. dating in America is a trap anyway. all these flashy girls who have absolutely no substance. but it is hard. after all most of us live and work here and only have so many vacation days a year. good luck man, youll find a good one!

[@TheBryanJun]

LOL love Latin America, not for those reasons though will be in the DR in July spreading Jesus!

[@TatsuM]

Had this issue as well. It’s all having a high standard, just get to know someone and don’t judge too quick!

[@TheBryanJun]

Truth

[@Jay-ef2ii]

Date in Canada. You can find love there!

[@TheBryanJun]

already found love haha

[@syleradelgado2260]

I feel exactly the same way! I’m glad that someone is speaking up about this

[@TheBryanJun]

Nothing but the truth on this channel

[@rez3762]

Would you recommend having kids in the city? Midtown specifically

[@TheBryanJun]

hell no

[@bedroomtalks]

Chin up brother

[@TheBryanJun]

I'm trying!!

[@Yooching]

Wait you're only 24?

[@TheBryanJun]

Yeet kobe year!

[@gon7155]

Looks and timing. The better looking you are the less timing matters.

[@TheBryanJun]

I guess timing doesn't matter for me at all

[@crimsontim]

Incoming 2022 Playa Bryan confirmed

[@TheBryanJun]

Nah I'm too pure

[@МатијаМилетић-п1ц]

Bryan, if you give me a way to dm you privately, i could give you a piece of advice. Not going to drop that here because it is not politically correct...

[@TheBryanJun]

Instagram! No need to be pc

[@anmbiosnik3694]

I’m an average woman, 6-7-8 depending on someone’s preferences . Was at peak in NYC at around age 23-24 but still had a hard time actually securing LTR. I’ve dated up and down , and both times I was passed up for a solid 10+ woman . Both times she was a full package with money , mostly looks and some cool talent like ballet dancing or making 40k likes off some spin off pigeon videos. Shampoo commercial hair . You get it. I hated the constant feeling of hump and dump because of the choices. HOWEVER, Nyc has improved my own fashion and lifestyle, for me a 6 figure job and ability to gain multiple interests( yoga , tennis, upping social game) my take on it, take whatever the city teaches you and leave lol bc even if you’re Britney Spears there is always someone hotter and better in NYC!

[@TheBryanJun]

nyc is a fascinating place for dating

[@Dhruvpatel-lc7hc]

Don’t worry mate, everyone has their own time period in life, you’ll definitely find someone soon, don’t lose on hope 😊😊😊😊

[@TheBryanJun]

LOL i feel like my intent with this video has been conveyed wrong - I personally have no concerns was just stating what the environment feels like

[@letsdofinance]

Surprised you didn’t mention race as a possible factor (Asian guy). Also, what’s your height?

[@TheBryanJun]

The only race I think about is the rat race and my license says 6 feet

[@ni12907]

Get a military hair cut

[@TheBryanJun]

debating

[@HighlightJunky]

You're only 24? Haven't you been working post-grad for a while?

[@TheBryanJun]

Yup! 3 years out from college

[@yougetaspear7799]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@njv1234]

To me, you look a little skinny. Work out, and get a shorter hairstyle. Because you are naturally a “soft” male, you should have a more tough look. Soft on soft doesn’t work for the ladies brother. But if you’re jacked, it balances it out. I wish you the best!

[@TheBryanJun]

:(

[@Exoticneurotic]

Rude as hell haha this is very untrue

[@ni12907]

Soft on soft 😂😂😂 softy boy 😅😅

[@rsspartanz]

real

[@TheBryanJun]

Fax no printer

[@cindyyang4231]

aww you r funny and sad but hope u have a good day :)

[@TheBryanJun]

hhahahahahahaa im happier than i look

[@zedrockiby]

Read the Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi kid. I'm begging you to listen, trust me on this one. It will save you a lifetime of struggle and heart-ache.

[@TheBryanJun]

Will order it now!

[@zedrockiby]

@@TheBryanJun Some of it will perhaps be difficult to take initially, but just stay open to the ideas. Check out Rollo's youtube channel too, @The Rational Male, that will at least put a face to the writing!

[@angel-peralta]

Read the rational male. Dating is a skill, it needs practice and it can atrophy. Best of luck Bryan.

[@TheBryanJun]

Good read!!

[@getonwithit.2847]

Brian your 24 man, my best advice is go and travel as much you can. Girls will come and go but your time will never return.

[@TheBryanJun]

trueeeeee

[@CoachCee]

I'm a NYC dating coach and I'll teach you how to go out on dates and meet girls here IN PERSON.

[@TheBryanJun]

Hhahahahahahahahahah im okay

[@CoachCee]

@@TheBryanJun Ok, enjoy your singledom.

[@20891]

@@CoachCee I think you are moronic, maybe you should find a way to make a better honest living instead of preying on people

[@samiwasti8400]

I bet he gets more girls than you.

[@koreannomad9131]

People are shallow these days.

[@TheBryanJun]

I think people have always been shallow it's just more accepted and somewhat praised now

[@joeltnt908]

Bro I'm telling you don't fall into the Trap of saying that apps are above your standards. Beggars can't be choosers especially if you haven't dated anybody in the past 3 years. I used to think like you and long behold I found my wife in badoo.

[@TheBryanJun]

Hahahah im too romantic to set criteria on who i want to like and respond to "sushi is my personality"

[@joeltnt908]

@@TheBryanJun Yes and that's the challenge something that you will need to learn to overcome. Trust me they are a lot of girls trying to play the online game and there are good people behind those stupid profiles. They asked their friends for advice and that's what you see. The Bio saying that Sushi is their personality, but if you learn how to weed those out you'll find good people behind them.

[@latitudeselongitudes1932]

Women in big cities like New York are unfriendly and impersonal, hard to meet them in a positive, meaningful way

[@yo-cn1cw]

Be patient bro dead ass doe time takes min. Let it come , YOU DONT WANT TO LIVE IN A HASA DHS HRA DSS HIV AIDS SHELTER SYSTEM of ABUSED AND NEGLECT JUST SAYING, take it slow stay healthy,

[@HughAnthonyEdward]

Just be white

[@TheBryanJun]

Hahahahahahaha