Dating Malaysian Women as a Foreigner - My Experience🇲🇾

How is it to date Malaysian girls? In this video, I share my experience with dating Malaysian women. I lived in West and East Malaysia for more than three years.
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[@sushantnegi2652]

Actually, very good and true advice, I'm from north India in Himachal Tibet border side... And was single from a Delhi girl, knew her 5 years my ex... Was playing online games and all and in my server lots of Asians from my experience rural girls from Vietnam, Thai and Phillipines they have been nice..but to my suprised i had never thought that i will find my future wife in Malaysia like never in my wildest dreams.... So true they're very simple traditional and greatful and very beautiful too...my girl is from eastern Malaysia too... ,Sabah area she's Chinese and Christan girl so is her mom.. i was suprised how even her mom is like open minded for her to be with me in different country only thing she cared was i can look after her and provide good quality life... it's been 3 years now...i still can't believe i found not just a loyal wife but I'm her first relationship and everything and just randomly meet on a online game..🤯 crazy... Man Chinese Malaysian or Christian Malaysian girls are so underrated... Indian girls can be great wife especially in my state of himachal , but man she is just the best relationship i have had in ever.. only thing is her periods mood swings other than that man.. she's happy with everything.

[@MinimalistNomad]

What a great story! Seems like you hit the jackpot, even with a Chinese Malay! Congrats. Wish you guys luck 👍. And for the mood swings during her period: well, I guess it is not any different with Indian girls, isn't it...😉

[@sushantnegi2652]

😂 so true, about the mood swings. Yes you're right i really got lucky or blessed however I look at it... wasn't easy tho had to travel manage long distance relationship and dealing with her mom Muslim side of family is still my most annoying part for me... Either way even in 2024 i would say a traditional old-school a little conservative woman is still the best ones to go for then God knows what's going on it feminist woke kind of girls...one thing be careful with the muslims over their, always remember they're totally different in person and totally different when they're together in the group...

[@oldsweatynerd4216]

What video game was this!??!?

[@sushantnegi2652]

Punishing grey raven

[@naveentm9460]

Thats nice bro👌congrats. Where do you live now? Malaysia or india ?

[@saucytina2220]

I enjoyed watching your videos thank you. I am a Muslim Malay Malaysian from Johor and happily married to a European man for over fifty years and live in Europe.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Great! Thanks for your comment and all the best for you and your husband👍

[@NuranSallahi]

You are no muslim. Muslim women do not marry nonmuslims. Your nikkah is invalid and you are a zaina doing zina.

[@NuranSallahi]

You’re no muslim. It is strictly forbidden in islam for women to marry nonbeIievers

[@saucytina2220]

@@MinimalistNomad 🙏 Many thanks. Same to you too 👍

[@saucytina2220]

​@@NuranSallahi Oh please, a good Muslim normally doesn't judge others. My husband is also a Muslim. 🙏

[@simonkendall4824]

Hmmm this is really interesting i had never considered Malaysia but this definitely peaked my interest - Awesome video mate

[@shoukonishimiya9931]

@@simonkendall4824 we indonesia women are also great too.

[@aaaab6481]

​@@shoukonishimiya9931 What's the difference between Indonesian and Malaysian women.

[@ahappyguy7695]

There is a large Malay population in Thailand. Hence the reason I am watching this video. I have had multiple malay thai women who have been very interested in me however, I just did not have them on my Radar. Now that I see that this is a trend I am going to begin to be open because I have seen some really kind and beautiful Malay Thai women showing high interest but I just did not seize the opportunity which looking back I wish I had. Great Video and Thanks!

[@MinimalistNomad]

You're welcome and Good Luck with the women!👍

[@kamrulz659]

Haha, as a msian i would like to inform the foreigner whether east or west msia people are the same in thinking.they are very proud of their country.very different with girls frm other asean countries.they are well educated n dont need upgraded.n to yr surprise they are more conservative😂

[@bigglyguy8429]

It's one of the things I like about living in Malaysia, the pride in the country. Yes there are issues and problems but it's cute and refreshing, after living in the UK.

[@yooneunhyesarang9245]

Great to hear the positive views from you. I guess you should visit Kelantan & Terengganu to find the most pretty Malay girls.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks👍

[@kimmie5861]

You hv to convert to Islam if u want to marry Muslim girls. No close proximity with Muslim women, otherwise you'll be forced to marry them.

[@hanifmadber]

Hi"

[@FaridmokhtarMokhtar]

Really

[@FaridmokhtarMokhtar]

Really

[@kimphilley621]

Thank you. Great advice and helpful.

[@MinimalistNomad]

You're welcome!👍

[@muhsyakir]

I am Malay Muslim man from Peninsula, and I worked before in Penang (northern peninsular), Kota Kinabalu (Sabah, Borneo) and Miri (Sarawak,Borneo). Dating in Malaysia, are so different even compared to its neighboring country like Thailand, Philippines, Indonesia. Generally, most Malaysian are conservative when it comes to relationship between man and woman, where people only date with the intention of getting married, so people seldom date if there is no possibility of marriage. However, I would say that people in Borneo, they are generally more liberal as the Muslim are minority in Borneo, so the culture affect the whole community making even Muslims can be more liberal, compared to Peninsular are complete opposite. Sex before marriage are kind of Taboo (happened but hidden). Sex worker are prohibited through out the country, exception applies (underground, behind close door). For foreign Man, if you are looking for "Dating Only" partner, it is better chance in Borneo. However, if you are looking for marriage, I would say that it is almost equal chances, provided your are willing to kind of assimilate with the locals. For foreign Lady, it is the same anyhow anywhere...Dating Only or Marriage, Borneo or Peninsula, it is the same chances to find local man. It all solely depend on the man themselves whether they are looking to marry or to date only, regardless of their race or religion or location. Local man are less restricted and often held responsible for their action, contrary to local girl are more protected and taken care of, by the society. In Malaysia, poverty level are very low, and the population even though not rich, but are not desperate for money. It is the economic condition as well as cultural norms and religious belief, most Malaysian prioritize family/relationship. dignity, culture, health, over wealth. So the conclusion is, Malaysia is mostly for those seeking for a more family oriented, conservative, laid back and simple life style. Exception applies, but are less spread and less common. For more open-minded, wild and party lifestyle, Philippines are the best option. Indonesia and Thailand are a little bit of mix, and depend on the location, even within the same city, it can be different vibe from one another.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for your comment. Very well explained!👍

[@robertcatalano8482]

Another great informative video. Thank you.

[@tsmoe]

Time is a key point. But location is also important. Thanks for the insight. Keep it up.

[@healthnwellnessdoc]

Great content, thanks for being so candid. Planning to come visit in a week! Meeting up with a couple friends in KL to start but I’ll eventually make my way to Borneo.. you saved me a lot of time with your insights so thank you! Are you still located in Malaysia?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks and appreciated 👍 I am not in Malaysia now. Enjoy your time there and feel free to contact me at any time in case you need extra information.

[@bigglyguy8429]

I'm here, happily married to my Malaysian sweetie for 20 years now :) Gimme a wave when you arrive

[@nathanbutcher7720]

Had some fun experiences with a "Christian" Malay girl from Sarawak. Wow, I think East Malaysia Borneo is seriously underrated for meeting girls like that who are just up for it. My experience with Chinese Malays/Indos is pretty much the same though - mostly disappointing. They're only really interested in being with their own race and they don't really seem to respond emotionally. I got the feeling that they need to be pushed into things aggressively which is really not my thing. And yes, I got the feeling that the Muslim Malays are far more hostile than their equivalent in Indonesia.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing your experience and views👍

[@curiouscat5229]

It feels great when you guys are put in your place....

[@nathanbutcher7720]

@@curiouscat5229 ... because that never happens to you, right?

[@curiouscat5229]

@@nathanbutcher7720 we don't put ourselves for failure. But mainly because we don't worship lust like you.

[@nathanbutcher7720]

@@curiouscat5229 Of course, ... but when you are with someone who makes you feel that special way, like you've known and trusted this person for a long time, then of course you're going to feel that click with them and go into a state of lust. When you recognize that you're about to feel all those things, then you won't be able to help yourself because it will feel like destiny. Now with me, in my experience, that's just how it feels. Now I'm not sure how you begin to visualize all of that, ...but it you give it a try, ...then I'm sure you'll understand.

[@BrianDawsonLM10]

Another very informative video thanks

[@ixora81]

East Malaysia women's are beautiful & their culture are amazing. My opinion most Malaysian girl either Malay Muslim, Indian Malaysian or Chinese Malaysian, Borneo girl these women's are looking for relationship with commitment not just relationship . Am an Aboriginal Malaysian called " Orang Asli ( Semai) not many foreigner know about us. Since am working in KL, Malaysia. I see many foreigner think all girl's Muslim , well am not Muslim. To dates foreigner is hard because I think they prefer Chinese girl and this guy's are not family oriented and just looking for fun. Just my opinion though. I can see many foreigner dates or married Borneo girls, Chinese in Peninsulas.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for commenting.👍 Most foreigners most likely prefer Chinese girls because they are non Muslims. But I personally find the Malay and indigenous races from Borneo even more attractive than the Chinese. True, not many foreigners know about Orang Asli.

[@ixora81]

@@MinimalistNomad it's true, and yeah because not many foreigner want to convert to be a Muslim unless they are..which is few. Most Orang Asli or Borneo people's , we prefer to be Christian either be an Atheist. Oh well, everyone has it's own preferences tho. What's most important is get a healthy relationship with happy simple life.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@ixora81 Agree with you!

[@Alikhantanoli-yf6mo]

I'm going to Malaysia next week😊

[@MinimalistNomad]

Enjoy your trip!

[@usinebob]

Great video…how would you rate Filipino girls over Malay girls? Thanks

[@MinimalistNomad]

Both speak English well. Malays (Malays, Chinese and Indians) have jobs and a better work ethic. Both are pretty, cute and marriage material. It depends on what you are looking for. Even for me it is hard to say because you have these kind of women and then you have the other kind of women (and so many in between). But bottomline for me: I probably would still go for a Filipina

[@billlloyd9755]

Thank you for all the information

[@MinimalistNomad]

You're welcome.👍

[@CimmerianIron]

Absolutely love your videos. So informative. My question is two-fold: do you find Indian girls attractive and have you ever dated an Indian girl while living in SE Asia?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Yes, I do find them attractive, let's say a certain type. Again, India is such a diverse place with many different ethnicities and tribes. For a very short while I dated an Indian-Indonesian girl. Yes, believe it or not, there is a tiny minority of Indonesian folks with Indian Heritage in Medan for example (North Sumatera).

[@CimmerianIron]

@@MinimalistNomad thank you 🙏🏼

[@bigglyguy8429]

Are you kidding? Indian women are very beautiful

[@UniVerse-to4mq]

I once went for a Christmas party in France and all my 5 French friends had Indian wives from different countries. The wives were surprised and felt awkward too I guess. This women were smart and all of them had high level jobs. Most French want independent and smart women whom they can have conversations and debates with.

[@koufax174]

I will go to Eastern Malaysia now. I like how Malaysians have passport similar to US. I like how Eastern Malaysian women traditional, educated, beautiful and age gaps are common. Any other suggestions where to target for funding younger partner? Thank you

[@MinimalistNomad]

You can find younger women all over Southeast Asia, no worries.

[@KYFHOme]

I recently requested this video, thank you for making it. 😊 Minimalist Nomad- I can tell by your presentation style you value being precise and clear so I offer you some feedback. Your subscribers usually instantly know when you intend plural versus singular human female, it is only a minor distraction. I will happily continue to mentally correct this in my head as long as necessary. But as a possible aid for you, the plural form of woman is different, and a little tricky even for native English speakers, because the spelling does not match the pronunciation. Something which may help you keep it straight is the singular "woman" has the singular form of male ("..man") embedded in the word, while the plural "women" has the plural male ("..men") in the word. I hope this helps you make sense of this oddity of the English language. Thank you again and please keep making your informative videos.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Yeah, 😂, still struggling with this singular/plural woman(en) thing. I actually noticed it myself again when editing the video - but too late 🤷😂. Thanks for your tips.

[@endrisk1513]

​@MinimalistNomad hi I am subscribed on your channel I like your content please can u advise me what south east country is best to find virgin girlfriend I am 32 years old european muslim I am not look for wife but girlfriend material

[@roissaad6788]

Hello Romeo, Its your time now. My time is over. I've pulled the handbrake cause my memoir is full😂 All the best😂

[@MinimalistNomad]

Why don't you try a 'Come Back'??

[@boykaunlimitted4514]

This is a very helpful video. Thank you! What would you recommend is the best approach to date a Malayan girl? Simply go to the mall and ask for a phone number or would this approach not be appreciated? Thanks again for the great video!

[@MinimalistNomad]

No, that approach most likely will not work (Exceptions prove the rule). Malaysians are conservative especially in public. I never hit on any girl in public, simply because I didn't need to because I found all my dates/girlfriends at the hotels I worked for at the time. They were my colleagues and team mates. I was employed in Malaysia full time for several years. Better go to the Philippines if you want the fast track.

[@boykaunlimitted4514]

@@MinimalistNomad ah I see. That’s really helpful. I will be going as an employee (office job) to Malaysia. What would you recommend if I cannot find any suitable women at my office?

[@samfromvalleycenter4848]

Every time I see the twin petrona Towers, it's reminded me of Angkor Wat in Cambodia.

[@Alberta_Wolf]

Ive spent alot of time watching KZbin videos on the Philippines and the women there seem quite uneducated for the most part. Also very lacking in personality. Im going to start looking more closely at Malaysia.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Meet Filipinas in person to get your own experience first, that's what I suggest.

[@arulraj3076]

Everywhere the same and it is how you lead the girls well !

[@hanimishak9362]

I love that you r enjoying malaysia. Would you love someone because of religion. If you choose a muslim we dont date. We r scared if you date muslim you might touch the person, u might kiss her , u might have sex with her . Which religion doesnt allow. So muslim wont date. If they r practicing muslim they wont date. But if they do they need to be accompany by another person.N muslim r majority malay race. Love someone who has the love for the religion.

[@SitiWahyuni-nl9bz]

Hi dear.now a day's young people don't really care about religion.about our Muslim, islam law is.i have friends of mine her son staying together with his Vietnamese girl.they parents seem happy to.i don't know how to describe it

[@Amejoharee]

Malaysian women are not desperate to marry foreigners as a way to get better living. Compared to Philippines or Indonesia, job opportunities are easier.

[@Rempah_Suri]

Not true sir, many muslim malay girls in peninsular too much in love with white men we're also a woman 😅, maybe we're a bit shy and thinking wether the white men can acccept us the muslim or not, that's why, me myself still looking ❤😂

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks for sharing.👍 So, good news for the guys.😂🙌

[@Rempah_Suri]

@@MinimalistNomad lol 😂

[@shoukonishimiya9931]

we indonesia women are also just as great as Malaysia women

[@MinimalistNomad]

Agree.👍 kzbin.info/www/bejne/nnOxf6udZrmirck

[@shoukonishimiya9931]

@@MinimalistNomad I already saw this video remember and I commented on it?

[@keangwooichoo6138]

As non muslim, try not to get involve with a Muslim woman. Complicated. Others are OK.

[@李珊-f2r]

Arab women like chinese men.

[@Idaleasofia24]

I’m Muslim Malay. My hunny is white American. No complication so far. We get along very well. It’s depend!

[@kennethkuehnle9872]

​@@Idaleasofia24G-d really?I thought y'all hated Americans?...

[@Idaleasofia24]

@@kennethkuehnle9872 ….I love everyone! especially American!

[@kennethkuehnle9872]

Wow... that's a relief!...Well,I have this bad image of "Malays"...I really do! I mean with Chinese and Indian Malaysians I've always at ease with but not with Malays!!!

[@francosilvestri123]

Can you please tell us more about relationship with your ex-girlfriend (why you two broke up?)

[@MinimalistNomad]

Eventually we both didn't match. That is what one figures out after spending time together.

[@curiouscat5229]

@@MinimalistNomad You got what you wanted and threw her out

[@Phan-Xu]

Which woman is better in your opinion? Vietnamese or Malaysian?

[@MinimalistNomad]

Well, better in terms of what? Better in bed? Better in looks? Better in character? Such a general question is difficult to answer in a specific way. My general answer is this: Vietnamese and Malaysian women are both Asian. Asian means these women are way more feminine, traditional and gorgeous. It really depends on the individual person and what she brings to the table though. Does it match your needs? Long story short: it's even difficult for me to pick one right now but at this point I guess I'd pick the Malaysian one.

[@notXfromBFDI]

If u white man and muslim, maybe the chance to marry malay girl is bigger.... If the girl is muslim and really understand what life is, they wont simply play around with any man, coz we live for hereafter, this world is just a test, and we do understand, marriage and death is in God' s faith... So,just do our task..

[@kinanti2291]

Malaysian women proud of their good English speaking but in Indonesia it is hoped the foreigners can speak Indonesia language... so that many foreigners can speak in Indonesia language.

[@jeromecaesar]

I want a Chinese Malaysian, which state/city has the most Chinese people?

[@MinimalistNomad]

KL (Kuala Lumpur), Ipoh, Kota Kinabalu (East Malaysia, Sabah). But you find them actually anywhere in MY.

[@TravAlligator]

KL, Penang and Malacca have the highest concentration of Malaysian Chinese community.

[@jeromecaesar]

@@TravAlligator tlThank you for your advice.

[@michaelkessler3487]

Oh, please. Out of 40+ girls in the Philippines, I haven't met a single girl who can speak decent English. I'm still waiting for the first one.

[@muhammadyaseen13002]

Great help

[@MinimalistNomad]

Thanks👍

[@metaphy]

Nice. Why did you break up ?

[@MinimalistNomad]

At the end we did not really match...

[@Mountian-Zen]

👍👍

[@askarsepoi]

Typically almost all Malaysians girls same in mentality but according to their respective religions values. So, those interested serious relation with them, must understood their religion value first. But, if talking about one night stand, i believe its not Malaysians cultures in general..

[@MinimalistNomad]

@rodolphegilles Great people!🇲🇾👍

[@michelleb8702]

Bro ,just put all msian women back 50 years!!😅… hhaaha . Not 100% as how he put it ya. He is only speaking based on his experience with a borneo girl. Borneo has always had an island feel to it,the people are just beautiful in feature and nature. Sadly,Most are taken advantage at times because of their innocence. East msia is not so same 😂It’s is very different from state to state but pretty modern in kl and Selangor.It’s very hard to box it. Both women from each side has their own unique way with their choices , needs,demure and education and exposure levels. I would say that it’s probably based on the kind of group or crowd you’re having out with.

[@MalikAhmad79133]

This video is helpful. I'm hoping to find a Malay Muslim woman.

[@notXfromBFDI]

Do the istikharah... Make du'a, inshaallah, there's an answer

[@bungaialoevera]

8:16 What the heck is "Chinese-Malay" girl??? 13:15 I never heard of refugees in Sabah from Timor Leste. South Philippines, yes. The many people from Indonesia and Philippines that you encounter in Sabah,,, some of them are illegal immigrants (PTI) and also the product of the much hated and infamous "Project IC".

[@MinimalistNomad]

1. A Chinese-Malay is a Malaysian citizen with Chinese descent. 2. Obviously my ex-girlfriend's dad made it from Timur Leste into Sabah, probably a rare case. 3. I know about the immigration issues in Sabah very well. I lived in Kota Kinabalu for three years. Some of my employees were immigrants...

[@valerietan2850]

​@MinimalistNomad In Malaysia, we refer to Malaysian citizens of Chinese or Indian descent as Malaysian Chinese or Malaysian Indian. Emphasise on the 'sian'. Malay is a race by itself so one cannot be two races at once (unless u are of mixed race, then u can say he/she is mixed Chinese/ Malay or mixed Indian/Chinese, emphasize on 'mixed'. But when describing the ethnicity of a citizen in Malaysia, it's Malaysian Chinese, Malaysian Indian, Malays as it is.

[@MinimalistNomad]

@valerietan2850 Thanks for clarifying 👍 This is what I call a constructive comment with a common sense approach that actually provides value and knowledge.

[@draganserdar8140]

You are Romeo,😂

[@antikhia2737]

Dating is illicit in Islam.Read book of "Wanita Wajib Berpurdah" for explanation

[@rsm5627]

Was your girlfriend disappointed that you broke up with her? Or she wanted to break up too? I guess most feminine traditional girls aim for marriage and you seem to have broken up with a lot of traditional girls.

[@MinimalistNomad]

She broke up with me...

[@aymancoolkhan]

Which city or state that I can find good practice Muslim Malaysian women and they like to date foreigner?

[@MinimalistNomad]

You can find them anywhere in Malaysia. But these Muslim women, if they want to date foreigners at all, prefer Muslim foreigners then.

[@aymancoolkhan]

@@MinimalistNomad yeah I am Muslim guy, I just interested to date simple traditional Malaysian Muslim women. As I live in Subang Jaya. So that's why I asked which city or state that there is higher chance I can good simple traditional Malaysian women. U can type if u know any specific city or place. Thanks

[@MinimalistNomad]

@aymancoolkhan If you are in Subang Jaya already, then you are in the right spot mate. Or perhaps try East Malaysia (Sarawak and Sabah, Kota Kinabalu). But any place in Malaysia will do it because conservative Muslim women are everywhere.

[@aymancoolkhan]

@@MinimalistNomad I am surprised with ur reply that I am in right spot. Glad to hear that. Thanks for the info. Hopefully I hope I meet my future wife here in Malaysia. Malaysia is pretty cool country, just I felt overwhelmed by so many types of culture background and also different ethnicity people lives here. Making me more anxious hahaha

[@MinimalistNomad]

@aymancoolkhan I lived in Malaysia for over three years. It is one of my favorite places because of its multiculturalism. Hope you enjoy it too!

[@anonymous0883]

Malaysian women always working in making money business, clerk,beautician..

[@DrChrisWilliamz]

👋🏿👋🏿

[@Rempah_Suri]

Yes

[@Yumi-eq1hi]

What chinese malay?? Chinese is chineses unless they are from mixed parents.

[@wismail68]

Dia maksudkan adalah macam nyonya melaka lah ...

[@Molloy1951]

I’m sorry to hear you haven’t learned the difference between “woman” and “women”.

[@ButteredPecan17]

english isnt his first language you dweeb

[@antikhia2737]

Dating is illicit in Islam

[@dessaint5341]

@Minimalist Seems to me you are looking for a housekeeper with benefits. What kind of communication and conversation are you going to have with a simple girl? After all, if you are looking for long term and want to be fully satisfied, the emotional, intellectual and physical have to present, at least for me. But you are a minimalist and are not concerned about having fully relatable partner.

[@MinimalistNomad]

Another specialist here who tries to be an amateur psychologist. Were you on something when you watched the video? You clearly and totally missed the point of this video!!

[@dessaint5341]

@@MinimalistNomad You mousey looking dork. You are clearly out of your league if you want to talk Asian women with me. I pity the woman who would spend time with your arrogant ass. Pathetic!

[@AustinSydney-s4v]

Ok, No Slutz! # umm Im uh Pass! ( Im drawn to RULE BREAKERs)

[@fraaam]

Eklig.