What Makes Divorce Justifiable? | Little Lessons with David Servant

[@deboraduplessis896]

My husband never cheated, but he nearly killed me in front of my children. I believe that is reason enough to leave.

[@sammislethe4698]

I would say yes on that.

[@casseophealejarde-khaizen]

My husband is divorcing me because he says we do not have anything in common. This happened when I got sanctified by the LORD and has walked in the narrow path. It seems he wanted the old sinful woman who hated GOD and loved sin. Thank you Jesus for setting me free from sin and I now live a godly life by Your grace and for Your glory. ❤️

[@christopherjordan6237]

‭‭I Corinthians‬ ‭7:39 “A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.”

[@sharamclennan8538]

The people that only quote these scriptures as if to judge others have quite simply never experienced abuse in a marriage context

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@sharamclennan8538 I'm sorry if you have experienced that, but I am more interested in you getting to heaven. Did Jesus list you could divorce for abuse? Did he say you could remarry too? No He did not. In cases like this we are to fast and pray for our enemies and loved ones and intercede for them like Moses and Jesus did Father forgive them. The only reason you wouldn't like this message message is if you didn't really love your husband and the marriage was about you and your happiness when the devil has taken your husband captive to do his will as the Bible says and also we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, authorities and rulers in high places. It is not your husband, but spirits taken him over and he is on his way to hell, you are his one flesh and needs you, you have spiritual authority over him.

[@monikagrace8074]

@@christopherjordan6237 so true . Amen please intercede

[@philipbuckley759]

@@sharamclennan8538 abuse is not an excuse, for divorce and remarriage.....one can divorce, but must remain single or reconcille...those are the only options...

[@christopherjordan6237]

Matthew 19:10 The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” -This is how serious marriage is! They recognized it by their answer! They were shocked there is no way out a covenant!!! Except death.

[@D426-y2q]

No way out??? Why don’t you look directly above Matthew 19:10 at Matthew 19:9. You can’t just pluck random verses and use them to fit your agenda, argument, etc.

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@D426-y2q Why don’t you stop and re read what Jesus said then look up Harvard MD and theologian and MIT grad Dr Finny Kuruvilla on marriage divorce and remarriage.

[@philipbuckley759]

@@D426-y2q the exception is fornication, and an example is given...Joseph and Mary.....sex, out of the marriage bond, is adultery...a different term...

[@danawaldrop4930]

@@philipbuckley759 You confuse the word adultery with the word fornication. They are not the same words.

[@danawaldrop4930]

Paul was not Jesus. Nor is Paul God. Nor was Paul Moses. Nor was Paul charged with writing the Ten Commandments. Paul was speaking to the Corinthians regarding the times they were living in at that moment. Correct? Yes. Paul was explaining that during those times it would be much easier to ONLY be responsible for ones self - not ones self plus a spouse. Do not twist words. There is a verse about doing that and it's very clear! God is a loving God and life happens. To pretend otherwise is a spell brought on by the enemy to put people into bondage.

[@aganethah6933]

My ex never technically cheated or beat me but he used me for all of his vile sexual desires, which by the way preachers/counselor told him as long as you agree as a couple then anything goes!, except I was manipulated, coerced and guilt tripped into. But of course no one sees this! I left because I felt that he had stripped me of every morals I held and finally got to the point where I felt I was going to hell anyway so if me divorcing is worse than that then so be it. The idea of you can't leave unless he cheats or beats you, kept me in a mentally and sexually abusive relationship for years and drove me to near insanity.

[@mshuggabug2]

Mark 10 vs 11 and 12 says everything.

[@earnestlycontendingforthef5332]

People today just do not like what Christ and St. Paul taught for true and faithful brethren & sisters, as it forbids them divorcing & remarrying in the lifetime of their spouse. That is why Christ has well warned "Many are called, few are chosen". 13 “You can enter God’s Kingdom only through the narrow gate. The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide for the many who choose that way.14 But the gateway to life is very narrow and the road is difficult, and only a few ever find it." Matthew 7:13-14 (NLT)

[@jacklang363]

Adultery and/or abuse.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Luke‬ ‭16:18‬ ‭ “Jesus said: Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Greek present continuous tense or state of being)

[@YwnkJ]

This is not the full scripture the full one says ,” let a man put away his wife LESS formication and marries another woman he commits adultery”.

[@danawaldrop4930]

Put away means separation. If you are separated then you must get a divorce because if you don't then you're committing adultery. The meaning of adultery is hijacked by bondage preachers. The meaning is pretty clear - it's when a married person sleeps with someone they are not married to. If you are remarried and you're sleeping with only your spouse, that is not adultery. Not unless you're a better than thou baptist preacher who is trained by the enemy to create bondage that keeps people out of church due to wrongly being labeled with that wicked word.

[@danawaldrop4930]

Whosoever separates from his wife and marries another commits adultery. That law is still true today - no? Apoluo and apostasion are not the same words and they do not have the same meaning. One means divorce. The other means separate. No other verses that use the two words "put away" mean divorce now do they? No - they mean to separate from.

[@Zaberdutton]

What if your spouse is a narcissist and from all the changes you have to make to yourself to keep peace is changing you into somebody you know God would not approve of?

[@gordonsmom3861]

Run away as fast as you can safely do. This guy also has a video on this very topic. It is very good. God bless you.

[@gardenjoy5223]

A person with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a devil in disguise. Your spouse has lied to you from the start. Shown a charming side, which is no real part of that person. Only for you to find out, what your spouse really is like, after you got stuck to him/her. Then making your life a living hell and making sure you are incapable of serving God in any way. Not for a single moment does it come to my mind, that God would want you to be abused for a lifetime. God is very angry with your spouse for abusing you like this. Hopefully there are no children yet, for they are also very damaged by a person with NPD. I believe you have every right to bring yourself (and kids?) into safety and file for divorce.

[@jenaya_laila2442]

Divorce as fast as possible...God and Jesus love us and do not want us to be under the spell of a devil..

[@jenaya_laila2442]

@@gardenjoy5223 I am just in the process of getting out of a really abusive, narcissistic relationship and I have also come to the conclusion that these people are demonised...have a demon inside of them...I have been in his stronghold for over 20 years! It was like living in hell....I am praying for my soul's recovery....Thank you for bringing this to light..

[@JF32304]

So many people marry the wrong person. I'm sorry you're going through that and I personally would file paperwork and not turn back. Say bye.

[@melonyanderson6847]

My husband is having an affair and is divorcing me we have a covenant marriage and I'm fighting for my marriage in prayer

[@bonniemoerdyk9809]

First Corinthians 7:15-16 But if the unbeliever leaves, let it be so.The brother or the sister is not bound in such a circumstance. God has called us to live in peace. How do you know wife, whether you will save your husband? Or, how do you know husband, whether you will save your wife? Melony, I am sorry for what you are going through, but consider that God MAY be allowing this for a reason, especially if your husband is a narcissist. Continue praying and drawing close to the Lord, but realize some well meaning Christians might give you bad advice. Some might say you can NEVER leave a spouse NO MATTER WHAT. But is that what Jesus is teaching? For example, do you think the Lord would want you to stay with a child rapist for instance? Christians are told to stay away from such evil. We are also told to Stay Away from Anyone who CALLS THEMSELVES a believer and yet lives like an unbeliever ... First Corinthians 5. Hope this helps you...am praying for you!

[@gordonsmom3861]

@@bonniemoerdyk9809 well said my friend. I totally agree with you.

[@philipbuckley759]

@@bonniemoerdyk9809 you have the wrong term....it is not enslaved, or not under bondage, not akin to bound....

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

Please don't fight for someone who doesn't want you. It is not worth it. Just move on.

[@crystalcole888]

People not wanting to be together anymore. That's it. No other justification needed.

[@womanatthewell9603]

Is this a black and white issue? What about the spouse who sins against his wife with porn and narcissistic personality traits of coercive control, manipulation, gaslighting, etc. If porn is considered adultery most of the church has grounds for divorce. The church hardly speaks on this topic and so those engaged in this lifestyle habit skip about life unchallenged. How does one stay united with a narc who is engaged in this and the resulting loveless marriage? The psychological damage done to the other spouse is horrific. The church can’t put the institution of marriage above the sanity of the individuals in the marriage. 2Tim 3 has the answer.

[@philipbuckley759]

divorce....maybe....remarriage....no.....after all the vow was....for better, or worse....

[@josephsuberu1346]

If there is no forgiveness, every spouse can be accused of unfaithfulness for merely admiring or crushing on another person....

[@philipbuckley759]

true...

[@lisacrockett9364]

It So basic as you say. Take it back to the beginning. “ a man leaves his father and mother”. My narcissistic husband never left his parents. He used them to continue the family narcissistic abuse towards me and our children. He isolated me and then the family patterns continued. “They shall become one flesh”. In a narcissistic relationship there is only one person considered; the narcissist. The narcissist loves to borrow power from religious foundations and twist the truth of Gods Holy Word to fit the narcissistic agenda. Sound like anyone you have heard of? Who lurks around and looks for new supply so that he can ruin their lives, by stealing, killing, destroying? Sounding familiar? That was my 25 year situationship. I prayed. I counselled. I tried to love. It nearly destroyed me until I was just about broken and then God supernaturally gave me a vision. That was confirmation that I was not to remain in that abusive relationship. I have a year of good counselling behind me and 4 years out of the presence of the narc. Divorce is very painful when divorcing a narc. They have to win at all costs and they make you pay for not continuing to give them good supply. Unless you understand narcissism this won’t make sense. God has delivered me out of this terrible treatment and has restored my faith and beginning to restore my internal resources that the narc tried to destroy. There is no surviving this horrific abuse. The only answer is to leave.

[@martyortiz3762]

I agree! I’ve been with him 30yrs and just now divorcing. I’m not torn only in the sense my children are in pain.

[@calabriagirl4202]

Pffft..... any form of abuse.. mental, physical..

[@dixiehurley3599]

Now I tell you something , the Bible also says that if a man looks at another woman other than his wife with lust in his heart desire for her in his heart he’s guilty of adultery has already committed it with her in his heart . Now take just for example my first husband four years into our marriage asked me for my permission to go out and have himself an affair with anyone he would so choose to . I had not had any affair , had not lied to him or anyone had not stolen from anyone ever at any time did not smoke drink do drugs swear I was totally true to him having given him no justifiable reason at all to ever even ask me this . He also left me moved in an lived with another woman for two years then kicked me and our children out of our home leaving all of us homeless and took back our home for himself an the other woman then filed for divorce from me and married her . Then later on top of that lost that home and asked me to co-sign a loan for him to get another home with the other woman . Which would be their home not mine . And I did sign not for him or her but for the sake of my own innocent children so they would have a place where they could go an stay with an visit with their father so hey could know an have a relationship with their father . And yet I was labeled the adulteress an I had not committed adultery . I had also found a letter in my husbands bedroom drawer from a friend he went to the police academy with stating all kinds of Filthy things about yet another woman they had both been with in school in that academy while we were married , an things they had done with her an talking filth about her body etc . He’d kept that letter saved it in his drawer which he knew I would clean out an I would then see that letter and be destroyed by it . He did that to me on purpose knowing it would devastate me emotionally an destroy me . But I was the adulteress ? Well I love God an I do not blame God or Jesus never have never will . But I do not believe men are justified with no fault in this just because they are men and that I am totally at fault just because I’m a woman ! Can you really say this was justified really ? If you can you’re very sick .

[@gardenjoy5223]

No, you are not the adulteress. Your former husband is the adulterer. Which means he had no right whatsoever to divorce you, but you had every right to divorce him. I'm very sorry for all that has happened to you and out of what I read, I get the impression you have been fed false theology, which gives men more rights then women. I do hope you flee from such a horrid church too, setting you up for abuse. May God bless you and provide a safe place for you to heal you of the abuse, done to you.

[@suziqw139]

@@gardenjoy5223 You really want your children to be deceived that this man is a good Father when he treats his own wife this way? You and the children were useful for a while, to give him some sort of cover for his evil heart. Now that you know exactly what he is, forgive him (foolish man) and let go...let God deal with him.

[@gardenjoy5223]

@@suziqw139 Suzi, it seems you answered to me, where you wanted to answer to Dixie. In this way, she won't even notice you answered her. And it most certainly is not up to you to think Dixie just ought to forgive him like that. Did he repent? No. You might want to look up Mr. Servants resent little lessons on that subject.

[@suziqw139]

@@gardenjoy5223You bring up an important point. Father forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing....GRACE. Forgive as the Lord Forgave you? What do you think.

[@gardenjoy5223]

@@suziqw139 God forgives those, who ask for it. Sinners still are going to hell, no matter the grace of God, if they don't repent of their sins and ask for forgiveness. You might find the forgiveness-series by Mr. Servant very informing.

[@yashkataria3140]

What if the husband or the wife is emotionally/physically abusive or violent or threat to their spouse? I didn't find any teaching about it in the Bible. This question has been bugging me since a while. Please Can you help me with this David?

[@corneliusmotsisi8952]

Hi Yash. Start by reading the post by MaryJ to first understand those scriptures about what God instructions are. There are no other conditions outside what MaryJ has highlighted. Any challenge experienced in marriage by the believing partner should be petitioned to God through supplication and prayer about the abusive partner. God still works miracles and with Him nothing is impossible.I am blessed

[@godschild6391]

Yash Mary is confused don't read her posts. People like her want to keep people in bondage. It's of the devil. You try to talk to your spouse about getting help and if they refuse to work with you or repent then you don't have to live like that.

[@PastorTrippAWordToLiveBy]

A person who does such things is not a believer, being violent to your spouse is not the will of God, people who say they are Christian but don't do the will of God, lie, and are lying to themselves,James 1:22, these people have a form of GODLINESS but deny God in their actions Titus 1:16, and in this case, a person would be married to an unbeliever, 1 Corinthians 7:13-16, because a believer does the will of God

[@christopherjordan6237]

Yash Kataria The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Yash Kataria Abuse in Marriage people say there are gray areas what about abuse well the bible DOES talk about it! Why have we never seen this or our pastors talked about it? 1 Peter 2:18 Slaves, in reverent fear of God SUBMIT yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are HARSH. 19 For it is commendable if someone bears up under the PAIN OF UNJUST SUFFERING because they are conscious of God. 20 But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. 21 TO THIS YOU WERE CALLED, BECAUSE CHIST SUFFERED FOR YOU, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 22 “He committed no sin,
 and no deceit was found in his mouth.”[e] 23 When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 24 “He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.” 25 For “you were like sheep going astray,”[f] but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls. 1 Peter 3 New International Version (NIV) 3 WIVES, IN THE SAME WAY submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear. 7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. 1 Peter 4:Living for God 4 Therefore, since Christ suffered in his body, arm yourselves also with the same attitude, because whoever suffers in the body is done with sin. God said you can separate but MUST REMAIN SINGLE OF BE RECONCILED!!

[@MaryOKC]

Jesus said, "except for fornication (meaning sexual immorality, and idolatry!)" ...otherwise the man and/or the woman commit adultery if they remarry; and if they marry another, and obviously they divorce again, then come back together in marriage to the same person, it is an abomination (Deutronomy 24:1-4). Paul is not saying if you are loosed from a wife it's not a sin to marry...to"marry" or to "remarry" (1Cor 7:28) ...Paul would be contracting Jesus if he implie ... 'if you are loosed from a wife it's not a sin to marry.' ... what then is the difference of the Pharisees, out of lust for the flesh, to allow remarriage and label it Mosaic Law? The only way to be "loosed" is fornication or death. Even if an unbeliever leaves and the believer is no longer bound to that unbeliever "legally", but the believer is bound to God "spiritually" and unless "fornication or death" the believer otherwise if remarried would commit adultery. We can split hairs and talk about "spiritual death" and "physical death" and who is "dead" in the eyes of God too. Because their are some who will say the unbeliever leaving is "spiritually dead" in Gods eyes so this releases the believer to remarry because death has now occurred. Yikes! It is better to remain unmarried than gamble the blink of an eye in time (compared to an eternity separated from God) committing adultery if a believer remarries after being divorced for other than fornication and death.

[@edithl348]

I know that's right maryj

[@corneliusmotsisi8952]

You are spot on sister. This is the gospel truth.Nothing more or less. Often people distort scripture for their personal fulfilment. What you have cited is God's law on divorce and remarriage👏

[@kingsleyknoxlar]

You probably have a pretty good point somewhere in here, and yet structural this paragraph is a 'train-wreck'.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Maryj The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Maryj Abuse in Marriage people say there are gray areas what about abuse well the bible DOES talk about it! Why have we never seen this or our pastors talked about it? 1 Peter 2:18 Slaves, in reverent fear of God SUBMIT yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are HARSH. 19 For it is commendable if someone bears up under the PAIN OF UNJUST SUFFERING because they are conscious of God. 20 But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. 21 TO THIS YOU WERE CALLED, BECAUSE CHIST SUFFERED FOR YOU, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 22 “He committed no sin,
 and no deceit was found in his mouth.”[e] 23 When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 24 “He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.” 25 For “you were like sheep going astray,”[f] but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls. 1 Peter 3 New International Version (NIV) 3 WIVES, IN THE SAME WAY submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear. 7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. 1 Peter 4:Living for God 4 Therefore, since Christ suffered in his body, arm yourselves also with the same attitude, because whoever suffers in the body is done with sin. God said you can separate but MUST REMAIN SINGLE OF BE RECONCILED!!

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

I have mentioned and if you need more about then I can share few other references

[@lisaharper7185]

I’m confused so do I need to stay if my husband is narcissistic. We decided we will separated but if we divorce does that mean I need to remain single? I’m confused @davidservant

[@bonniemoerdyk9809]

Lisa, I am so sorry you are going through that! I saw that this bible teacher has a few videos on Narcissism.

[@jenaya_laila2442]

a narcissist is a devil in disguise...leave....that is what God wants you to do...a marriage is defined as both respecting and loving each other..if your husband never did this, then it was never a real marriage and he is the one who broke the marriage...Your husband lied to you from the beginning of the marriage...that is also breaking Gods law...was it ever a real marriage then? What's the difference between cheating by adultery or abusing, using and lying..Both are tools of the devil...and that is what Jesus and God want to save you from...

[@MyLifeAsRaphael]

Please do not stay in an abusive marriage. People with a disorder personality can destroy your life. Protect your well being.

[@markedward2682]

Romans 7 2 is pretty clear. The wife must not leave the husband but remain with him as long as he lives.

[@danawaldrop4930]

It sure is! If you are married then you are bound by the laws of marriage until you die. But if you're divorced then you are not married are you? That verse speaks nothing of being divorced or remarriage. Divorce is not under our control sometimes and God is not expecting you to control your spouse. It's life. It happens. Pretending that it doesn't is called "cognitive dissonance" which is a demonic spell.

[@corneliusmotsisi8952]

Amen brother

[@markedward2682]

@@danawaldrop4930 Researched KJV Bible for origin of Divorce; Moses; created by man NOT God; Moses told the Isrealites they could divorce but God didn't. According to Luke 16:18 the Lord didn't even acknowledge divorce; the innocent wife still is not a candidate for another man. Also, the origin of No Fault Divorce is marxism.

[@JP-ej8wz]

I thought that a covenant can only be broken by death. A lot of people consider marriage a contract, but it is really a covenant.

[@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198]

Marriage is a covenant. But most marriages especially in the Western Societies are contracts.Contracts can be broken. It was never a covenant. A covenant does not include cheating, physical abuse, financial abuse etc.

[@danawaldrop4930]

Perhaps we should consider the times we're living in compared to the ancient times when covenants had meaning and were held by only believers. Just a thought.

[@corneliusmotsisi8952]

Amen JP

[@mrprosperity1]

why does Bible say not to marry a divorced person otherwise it is adultery ? or a wife who divorces to remain single or reconcilr. no mention of remarriage

[@ObeyJesusOurLord]

mrprosperity1 Lord, please answer this person's questions & give them enlightenment. In Jesus Name I pray.

[@jayb4340]

The divorced person is the same person is the first part on the sentence, she's not being put away for the cause of fornication.

[@timsadventures1954]

The bible also says if your eye or hand causes you to sin cut it off. For those that just read the words without context the outcome would be blind, amputees that are still sinners. Now read your verses with context understanding the old and new testaments are in harmony.

[@christopherjordan6237]

mrprosperity1 Amen!! The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@timsadventures1954]

@@christopherjordan6237 How is there adultery without fornication and immorality? Deuteronomy 24 proves divorce and remarriage do not only end the marriage but forbids the return to their first spouse . Jesus said to look upon someone with lust is adultery. Jesus never stated if the person looking with lust was married and or single, it was simply adultery. There is no adultery without an action ie, look with lust, fornication, lustful thoughts. Jesus exposed the true morality of the laws God gave Moses. Please reference the scriptures where Jesus or any of his disciples told those remarried to divorce.

[@pappap1702]

Today Pastors try to justify divorce for many other reasons and try to use various Scripture to prove it. Nobody wants to speak the truth or fall out of favor with congregants.

[@philipbuckley759]

some do....it is the same, everywhere.....our work, is to learn, and to share....

[@corneliusmotsisi8952]

True Pappap. And they will account for misleading their members

[@nomadicrecovery1586]

What if you committed the adulterous? Nervous breakdown. Crazy loss of mind and self Later recover. Repent. Now divorced and wife is still friend. But does this mean alone til I’m dead? This seems absurd But I’d like your opinion David

[@sammislethe4698]

Can you get back together? Otherwise just follow GOd and be content.

[@goodbonezz1289]

It’s not absurd. There are consequences to our actions. I’m in the same boat as you. I finally realized. My life is so much better. It’s a huge weight off my back. The truth sets you free.

[@DouglasNicholson-ff6ep]

Be FULLY & KEENLY aware of Proverbs 30:23 KJV... Concerning an "odious" woman. Meaning she "incites her husband to hatred" and then turns around and says he's abusive. Make dad burn sure you personally ONE ON ONE, in person, get his side of the story before you side with the subordinate against her Superior. She may be in rebellion to him and under witchcraft. She may draw you into her witchcrafts...... .....ESPEEEEEECIALLY if she's attractive.

[@dixiehurley3599]

My point is exactly this , women very very often get blamed for every single thing that went wrong an any life they could possibly ever have destroyed . An yet men think that’s not a sin an that’s ok even when the woman did nothing at all that she was accused of .

[@omegatafkal]

Divorce is NEVER OK. Remarriage is only OK if your spouse died

[@christopherjordan6237]

Simply LW97. UTTP Amennn!!! Jesus said in the present continuous tense or state of being it is adultery or you are an adulterer in the Greek text. The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@MegaSantosgarcia]

Nothing

[@christopherjordan6237]

Romans 7 By law a married woman is Bound to her husband As Long As He Is Alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him. 3 So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, She IS Called an Adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man

[@simonedishelle6720]

Do you realize we are not under the law anymore right?

[@1969CampEvans]

How many times was King David married ? He was commanded not to have multiple wives....yet God loved him....God made that clear.....

[@RandyRoth-mo3lz]

You are confused on what Jesus stated concerning divorce... Please do not attempt to make Jesus into a liar, and elevating yourself as truth. The rules are NOT the same from the man and the woman as you state or suppose. ALL Scripture concerning marriage specifically denotes the segregated rules for the man and the woman. The man by law was required to marry his brother's widow upon his death... regardless of how many wives he already had.... see Matt. 22. A woman was given no such liberty to have more than one husband while her husband (or ex) still lives. To suggest that the rules are the same for both genders only breeds confusion as so many false teachers attempt to twist Matt. 5:32 and the like.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Randy Roth Amen!! The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@djdj-qx3hb]

Gino Jennings on KZbin listen

[@christopherjordan6237]

dj458 dj458 Amen Gino is the truth!!! The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@djdj-qx3hb]

Notta

[@christopherjordan6237]

dj458 dj458 The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@edithfox1295]

It's because a man had to bring his own children and work for his own children not another man's children

[@danawaldrop4930]

The words "put away" are found numerous times in the Bible. Somehow those two words mean separation in every verse, except the verses about marriage/remarriage. In Matthew, the words apoluo and apostasion are mingled and anyone with half a brain would question a sentence such as: Anyone who divorces divorces. That makes no sense. But to say that anyone who separates should get a divorce before going off to marry a new spouse. THAT would make perfect sense! But get a divorce and get a divorce? That's basically what bondage preachers want us to believe (Matthew 5:31). They seem to forget that the word separation even exists. If you read the verses that are not about divorce or marriage then the two words "put away" mean to separate. Funny how the devil uses subtle devises to control people. It's no wonder why good people turn away from God when their marriage doesn't work out. God does not want us alone. He states in Genesis that man should not be alone. But baptist preachers are under a spell that they REFUSE to open their minds to. Churches could have every pew filled every Sunday if not for this deception - or as I've labeled it - BONDAGE!

[@PastorTrippAWordToLiveBy]

Yes, Divorce and Adultery can be forgiven.

[@corneliusmotsisi8952]

Entirely agree that God can forgive any sin if we genuinely repent

[@christopherjordan6237]

Ask Pastor Tripp / Holiness is the way The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Not true Jesus said it is present continuous tense or state of being an adulterer in the Greek text! It is a convent that can only be broken by death. You said til death do you part did you not?

[@philipbuckley759]

what does it mean to be....forgiven....that you can do, what the Bible forbids.....divorce and remarriage....or to remain in a remarriage....that the Bible calls adultery....

[@macnottsuk]

Hi David quick comment. Recently found your channel. I am a beliver of many years but finding a lot of miss-teaching on scripture these days. So need to encourage you. Your teaching is spot and the way you expound scripture is excerlant. Pls keep up God's good work. BTW if you haven't done one yet (not seen all you previous vids yet) I would be interested in your teaching on universalism, anialisum and the tradition view. God bless you in His name.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Mac Notts Jesus said in the present continuous tense or state of being it is adultery or you are an adulterer in the Greek text. The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@djdj-qx3hb]

No divorce no remarriage period

[@goodbonezz1289]

Matthew 5:32 Jesus says the only reason a man may put away his wife is for fornication. The Way I see that, and it looks pretty obvious is, if the wife is found to not be a virgin when they are married. Then, he may divorce her. I note that the specific word fornication was used. Not adultery or lasciviousness or anything else.

[@Terrijennipher]

This so called prophet told me that God wanted me to divorce my husband because he wasnt meant to be my husband in the first place and so apparently im to be married to another and have 3 kids. Then tried to justify it by saying that God did anoint my first marriage or ordain it

[@sammislethe4698]

This was a false prophet.

[@djdj-qx3hb]

You guarentee who are you?

[@christopherjordan6237]

dj458 dj458 Steve Nicholson Jesus said in the present continuous tense or state of being it is adultery or you are an adulterer in the Greek text. The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@chrissybagwell769]

God and Jesus Christ’s written true Holy Bible Old and New Testament Scriptures Book verses. Matthew 19:9 “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery, and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.” Matthew 5:27 “But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”

[@joinahmukanangana2993]

So you are saying its good to stay with a narcissists , you will be unequally yoked

[@gailrosenberg48]

Emotional abuse leaves unseen scars and destroys lives. Physical abuse: yes you can leave. It's a terrible situation in the church and so little is understood. Suicide is a sin and many emotionally abused people become suicidal when they are bound to an abuser by a broken covenant. Wake up church!!!!!

[@goodgracious6364]

@@gailrosenberg48 Exactly--It's downright crazy to expect anyone to stay married to a lying, cheating, manipulative, verbally abusive, disappearing, thieving, gaslighting, unsafe, unstable person that calls you foul names, sabotage your relationships and employment, prevents you from sleeping, scares/molests your kids, is sexually deviant, untrustworthy, disloyal, immoral and who is generally bent on controlling you and taking away your sanity. The church and it's unrealistic marriage ideologies MUST wake up, take off its rose-colored glasses and get real! Staying married to a malignant narcissist, psychopath, sociopath or any other Cluster B is totally insane (in and of itself)!

[@angieholt736]

This man is talking out of both sides of his mouth. Watch his 3 videos on narcissism. 🤔

[@gardenjoy5223]

@@goodgracious6364 You've explained that real well!

[@stevenicholson2026]

So every1 in the world who is remarried is going to hell? Really bs! Remarriage is NOT the mark of the beast.its forgivable.how are christians that are remarried still serving god filled with the holy ghost.speaking in tongues if they r living in sin.thats wrong.its because they serve a god who forgives sin.stop judging remarried couples find something else to whine about.jesus died for our sins.if u dont believe god forgives adultry thats ur problem ill pray 4 u.god bless

[@godschild6391]

Hey Damion it says we are forgiven and only judged by what we knew at the time. That Jesus doesn't remember our past transgressions and makes us new. The Bible is not the infallible word of God remember. Read revelation, and he had a name that nobody knew written on his thigh and His name was, the word of God. The Bible is a history book, a reference to learn yes. But Jesus gave his HS to have a personal relationship and counsel & deal with each person separately by their needs & destiny. Is David in hell? NO He committed adultery then had the man murdered and repented but still afterwards married Bathsheba. He was not considered to have been living in sin and that was said to be his only sin. Taking another man's wife. These guys really don't get it and don't understand scripture. If you truly pray and ask God He would tell you, but you have to truly be open and ask for truth no matter what it is. That's what I did because I was confused by everyone arguing over doctrine, which Jesus said do not argue over doctrine, traditions, or genealogies it's vain but hey people don't listen to that. So anyway I asked God sincerely and said I just want to know either way so I don't do wrong, that's all I care about and He revealed what I said to you earlier among other things. Everything depends on our heart. You can make mistakes, just do it Gods way now that u know better.

[@godschild6391]

So NO Damion everyone who is remarried is NOT going to hell. It's not unforgivable and many of the chosen in the bible would be there if it were!

[@ObeyJesusOurLord]

Amen, Steve!

[@djdj-qx3hb]

Repent then you are forgiven

[@christopherjordan6237]

Steve Nicholson The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Abuse in Marriage people say there are gray areas what about abuse well the bible DOES talk about it! Why have we never seen this or our pastors talked about it? 1 Peter 2:18 Slaves, in reverent fear of God SUBMIT yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are HARSH. 19 For it is commendable if someone bears up under the PAIN OF UNJUST SUFFERING because they are conscious of God. 20 But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. 21 TO THIS YOU WERE CALLED, BECAUSE CHIST SUFFERED FOR YOU, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 22 “He committed no sin,
 and no deceit was found in his mouth.”[e] 23 When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 24 “He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.” 25 For “you were like sheep going astray,”[f] but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls. 1 Peter 3 New International Version (NIV) 3 WIVES, IN THE SAME WAY submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear. 7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. 1 Peter 4:Living for God 4 Therefore, since Christ suffered in his body, arm yourselves also with the same attitude, because whoever suffers in the body is done with sin. God said you can separate but MUST REMAIN SINGLE OF BE RECONCILED!!

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@creativechristiancontent God says you can separate (for your safety) or be reconciled. So that also means on your part about husband love your wives that if a wife doesn't do her part of the message that you did not quote and respect her husband then a husband can divorce her right? Or no? Are you just cherry picking? Jesus's message was violent. Take up your cross and follow me. Love your enemies bless them! uke 13:24 Jesus said Strive(contend, fight, spare no effort!) to enter in at the strait gate: for many, I say unto you, will seek to enter in, and shall not be able. Luke 6:46 “Why do you call me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do what I say? 1 John 2:4 Whoever says “I know him” but does not keep his commandments is a liar, and the truth is not in him. Luke 9:62 But Jesus told him, “Anyone who puts a hand to the plow and then looks back is not fit for the Kingdom of God.” “Remember Lots wife!” Jesus said Unless you eat my flesh and drink my blood you will never have eternal life. Many disciples left. He looked at the 12 disciples and said what’s up, you want to leave too? They said where would we go Lord? You have the word of life. Jesus said that’s right because I picked you from the beginning. John 6:52-70 Luke 14:25-34 28 “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? 29 For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, 30 saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’ 31 “Or suppose a king is about to go to war against another king. Won’t he first sit down and consider whether he is able with ten thousand men to oppose the one coming against him with twenty thousand? 32 If he is not able, he will send a delegation while the other is still a long way off and will ask for terms of peace. 33 In the same way, those of you who do not give up everything you have cannot be my disciples. Luke 14:26 “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple. (Jesus Great Commission “Go make disciples of every nation” Not confessing christians. ) 1 Corinthians 9:27 But I keep control of my body, and bring it into subjection, lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway. (Paul worried about being CASTAWAY!!)

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@creativechristiancontent When did I say abuse was ok? God says separate or be reconciled. Two options bound for life until death do you part as in the vows before God. 1 Corinthians 7:10 10 To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she Must Remain Unmarried OR else Be Reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. Romans 7:1 By law a married woman is Bound to her husband As Long As He Is Alive, but if her husband dies, she is released from the law that binds her to him. 3 So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, She IS Called an Adulteress. But if her husband dies, she is released from that law and is not an adulteress if she marries another man Luke‬ ‭16:18‬ ‭ “Jesus said: Whosoever/anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Greek present continuous tense or state of being)

[@623makjess]

@@creativechristiancontent amen 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@623makjess]

@@christopherjordan6237 you need to study narcissist personality disorder. There are people the Bible says you shouldn’t even eat with. Narcissists are perfect liars and these people cannot and will not change. You say so because you haven’t met one yet and It’s a hellish life everyday for the victims. Reconcile will just go back to the cycle, only true repentance may be the hope. However most abusers’ wake up call is when they lose everything and lose everyone. sad. Please do not encourage anyone to stay in an abusive relationships as many times it will lead to worse outcome than divorce. Many victims suicide when they don’t see a way out.

[@kingsleyknoxlar]

I think that when someones heart is harden (and they just don't their partner anymore), any reason is a good reason for them to want a divorce. Both 'fornication' and 'adultery' are bad but they mean different things. Modern Bibles have changed these words from the the KJV, thus changing the meaning of certain scriptures. KJV Only!

[@christopherjordan6237]

Kingsley Knoxlar The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Kingsley Knoxlar Abuse in Marriage people say there are gray areas what about abuse well the bible DOES talk about it! Why have we never seen this or our pastors talked about it? 1 Peter 2:18 Slaves, in reverent fear of God SUBMIT yourselves to your masters, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are HARSH. 19 For it is commendable if someone bears up under the PAIN OF UNJUST SUFFERING because they are conscious of God. 20 But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. 21 TO THIS YOU WERE CALLED, BECAUSE CHIST SUFFERED FOR YOU, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. 22 “He committed no sin,
 and no deceit was found in his mouth.”[e] 23 When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 24 “He himself bore our sins” in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.” 25 For “you were like sheep going astray,”[f] but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls. 1 Peter 3 New International Version (NIV) 3 WIVES, IN THE SAME WAY submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2 when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 5 For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves. They submitted themselves to their own husbands, 6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear. 7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. 1 Peter 4:Living for God 4 Therefore, since Christ suffered in his body, arm yourselves also with the same attitude, because whoever suffers in the body is done with sin. God said you can separate but MUST REMAIN SINGLE OF BE RECONCILED!!

[@jakimweaver8581]

He said except it b 4 fornication ,and two married people cannot commit fornication that is for people who are engaged to be married if one of the persons cheat b4 the actual ceremony then it's ok to separate

[@christopherjordan6237]

Nothing it’s not just a sin that breaks a COVENANT it is only death.

[@are-you-awake-yet]

You my dear is what keeps people in abusive, , adultery ridden marriages and you should not judge. Do think of others and what they are going through.

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@are-you-awake-yet Unfortunately It’s not my Words but Gods who we will be judged by. God does not give that to us as an excuse to divorce. We have to add that to Gods Word which we know what they say about that. Marriage is a Holy COVENANT not a contract and God makes the marriage laws. We are to love the way Jesus loves us through abuse and being spit on and nailed to a cross. He does say you can separate for safety but not divorce. We are supposed to pray and fast and believe God in faith that he will change their hearts and open their eyes because it is not them we are fighting against but the demons inside them they have come into legal agreements with through sin and sin passed down from the mother and father as the Bible says. First sign of a Christian… you can cast out demons…Bible.

[@philipbuckley759]

this presentation, contains no teaching....at all...

[@mikeberry750]

With all due respect...YOU ARE WRONG..SO WRONG!!! Your position that if extra-marital sex occurs, it is acceptable to divorce is very socially acceptable, however I defy you to back this with scripture. Your "opinions" will be of no value when standing before Christ. Granted, many people espouse the same "opinion", but again they are also wrong. Let's start honoring our Christ by following his directives without injecting our politically or socially correct "opinions. It's time to get serious with our Christianity. We already have plenty of so-called Christian's following their own version of a watered down christianity. Again, with all due respect.

[@christopherjordan6237]

Mike Berry Amen!! The exception for divorce is FORNICATION(Porneia) Not Adultery(Mocheia) which are used in the same sentence showing they are different Words. KJV!! Always compare to this. The exception is only in Matthew and not in Mark and Luke. Why? Because Matthew was written primarily for Jews understanding. Why because all gentiles were known to have sex before marriage(fornication), while Jewish women if had to provide proof they were virgins in that on the couple would hang the bed sheet out the house to show the blood covenant made by the rupture of the woman's hyum and if not she could be stoned to death if the father of the bride could not provide proof by bedsheet blood she was a virgin. How else do we know this? Only in Matthew do they use the kingdom of Heaven and Mark and Luke they use the Kingdom of heaven, Why? Because The Jews even to this day even in the news papers wont even say the name of God the revere His name that much and in the paper they will not even spell His name they will spell it G-d. Nothing but death can break a marriage covenant sin only transgresses it. God has one wife we have to have one wife. Jesus words are clear on marriage and remarriage. Remain single or be reconciled. Bound for life. Watch David Pawson Cambridge & Durham scholar, and Dr. Joseph Pawson and read Dr Leslie McFalls paper on it.

[@James-qr4sd]

Wow!! You really should watch your delivery of words. They make you sound very judgmental. Just saying.

[@djdj-qx3hb]

God speaks no careless word what so ever. Go to Christian principles restored on you tube.

[@jakimweaver8581]

You are wrong divorce is never the case unless one of the spouses dies then and only then is it ok to remarry

[@christopherjordan6237]

You are twisting scriptures!!

[@josephsuberu1346]

I don't agree.. Everything he said is spot on

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@josephsuberu1346 Spot on what? Not the Word of God. Luke‬ ‭16:18‬ ‭ “Jesus said: Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.”

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@josephsuberu1346 1 Corinthians 7:10 10 To the married I give this command (not I, but the LORD): A wife must not separate from her husband. 11 But if she does, she MUST REMAIN UNMARRIED OR else BE RECONCILED to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife. ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:39 “A wife is bound by law AS LONG AS HER HUSBAND LIVES; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.” Romans 7:1 1 Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth? 2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. 3 So then if, WHILE HER HUSBAND LIVITH, SHE BE MARRIED TO ANOTHER MAN, SHE SHALL BE CALLED AN ADULTERESS: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man Luke‬ ‭16:18‬ ‭ “Jesus said: Whosoever/anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman committith adultery, and the man who marries a divorced woman committith adultery.” (Greek present continuous tense or state of being) Mark 10:11-12 11 And he said to them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marrith another committith adultery against her, 12 and if she divorces her husband and marrith another, she committith adultery.” Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in HONOR (reverence) among ALL, and let the marriage bed be UNDEFILED, for GOD WILL JUDGE the sexually immoral and adulterous!!! 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do NOT be DECEIVED!!!!!!! Neither fornicators, nor ADULTERERS, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.” John 14:23 Jesus replied, "Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. Whoever does not love Me does not keep My words. John 15:6 Anyone who does not remain in me is thrown away like a useless branch and withers. Such branches are gathered into a pile to be burned.

[@christopherjordan6237]

FALSE TEACHER!!!!

[@timsadventures1954]

Christopher Jordan By all means share with everyone your undeniable qualifications that gives you the right to make statements. Let me guess you are a self appointed KZbin prophet. Wait everyone I have seen all the KZbin videos and now I'm qualified. Why don't you take your show to a battered womans shelter and see how that all works out.

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@timsadventures1954 DID YOU NOT SEE MY REFERENCES?? ARE YOU BLIND? I gave a list TWO TIMES already!!!! Cambridge scholars. Wow.. And you don't even know the Bible talks about abuse not being a way out. So then it gives the scripture if you are REMAIN SINGLE OR BE RECONCILED.

[@timsadventures1954]

@@christopherjordan6237 I gave you scripture that states you need to amputate body parts and yet you have not. Why have you not shared your undeniable qualifications with everyone dr. Greek professor, self appointed KZbin prophet counselor. Did you take your little show to the battered womans shelter? The verses you have provided are taken out of context and if you are going to do that then start removing your body parts. Just so you know not everyone agrees with your references or their doctrine. So stand on your own two feet and answer the question I have asked over and over.

[@christopherjordan6237]

@@timsadventures1954 What the heck are you talking about the greek is not from me but Cambridge scholar can you read!!??? I never said I was a prophet. Wow you are just something else.Take my body parts? What the heck are you talking about????? You are delusional man. I gave you the scriptures 5 times. Just give up you haven't provided me with any scriptures or told "US" lol your qualifications... so ...

[@timsadventures1954]

@@christopherjordan6237 Matt 5 29-30 which I have pointed out to you multiple times. Apparently you have not understood the cambridge scholar either. It is apparent you need help reading so don't let your pride stand in the way. Now go back and read the replies and you will find your precious answers. I want to thank you for your help in showing your lack of any scriptural knowledge and that no one should listen to your uncontrolled rantings. Have a great day and just go away. Did the man from cambridge make you a qualified counselor too. Talk about delusional!!!!!!