Immigrant parents treat kids like adults and adults like little kids, it's one hell of an experience
@blazenfate10 ай бұрын
Perfect. And i'm glad my parents did (regardless of how painful it was) and i wouldn't change that experience for anything.
@katnob10 ай бұрын
Yes, yes yes!! This has to be one of the most accurate ways to explain it 👏
@UnstableYT-u7k10 ай бұрын
David would be the Korean dad that every Korean kid wished they had.
@mb_24910 ай бұрын
As a Haitian-American my parents do everything you said David 😂. The "Can't be wrong", dismissing your feelings despite you having every reason to be upset, oh boy I could go on and on 😂
@schamiir10 ай бұрын
I'm Haitian-American and I had the exact same thoughts! Koreans must be our asian counterparts! 😂😂
@Dinofrogg10 ай бұрын
I only learnt this lesson early last year with my parents aswell. No matter how wrong they are, in their head theyre right and even when they "admit" they are wrong, they have a reason for doing what they did and because I'm mad and angry, im now the one in the wrong or is more wrong than the wrong they did. Til this day they still do the same wrong thing but i don't bother anymore, not worth the hassle. I used to see it as giving up but now, it is what it is and move on.
@Data_Man10 ай бұрын
How come they don’t have Korean shows ( that I know of) that show this kind of family dynamic. The stories they tell are interesting and funny. These two are great story tellers. David’s tolerance of people’s BS is hillarious because I have the same tolerance
@DavidSoComedy10 ай бұрын
They don’t have it cause they don’t want it :( I have gone to so many meetings about my story and experience but it’s not what they want. Asian Hollywood is the same as white Hollywood at times all gatekeepers with the same boring stories and narratives.
@Data_Man10 ай бұрын
@@DavidSoComedy your day will come and we will all be watching the reenactment of the Sactown Christmas Dog Piss scene on streaming or the big screen. Keep grinding 🙏
@Feilong410 ай бұрын
Damn, I found the stories from you and Ed super relatable to that of my own. Last year was definitely my lowest point with myself and my mom. I felt that she was always busting my balls and straight up verbally abusing me, so we would always get into fights. I had built up that immediate self-defense you mentioned whenever she tries to talk to me, to the point where I get instant headaches whenever I heard her voice. I mean, when her go-to thing is to nag or blame me for something first thing every single morning when I literally just woke up, I grow tired. I felt that she was never emotionally available for me, especially when she would just turn it around and somehow make it about her lmao. Maybe it's too much to ask that of an immigrant parent who came from a war-torn country with a broken and dysfunctional family but damn LOL. Maybe it's because we just can't accept the other person for who they are, and it all seems too far gone when we've already sat in each other's venom for too long. Either way, I found the podcast enlightening and also helpful. Many times, I feel like damn, am I the only one who feels and experiences this?
@drewmirage10 ай бұрын
Your parents are hilarious. 😂❤
@yctakahashi669310 ай бұрын
My mother will never admit she's wrong. Then, she says it's a "translation" problem. And yes, she pulls my husband aside to explain how I misunderstood her.
@hecallsmeeB10 ай бұрын
david, i love your podcasts. i could listen to you every single day lol. also, all the stories about your parents feels relatable 😂
@vagrantastronaut10 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed the family stories from both of y'all. Glad you both are doing the work to heal and not perpetuate the behaviour you were modelled growing up.
@zeehighness273310 ай бұрын
My parents make no sense either. You call coming home a “vacation?” 😂🎉
@jasonlee029010 ай бұрын
My dude! Preach that Korean kimchi slap drama shit all day boy! I cannot express enough how much our generation had to go through growing up while watching our parents develop or deteriorate while getting older. I try to give as much respect to my elders as MUCH as possible, but they must understand that we're all grown up and the current system of how our relationships work between them has either changed and its coming back to bite them on their ass. There are moments where I always think back on all those fights we would have and it can't be right that to them I'm always fucking up or always being in the position being wrong all the damn time. There is still a huge problem and a great gap between how our world is constantly changing, especially among the Asian community. And that gap is either getting wider or some of us lucky enough to get some resolution and some peace of mind. My Korean ass has 5 emos on my mom's side of the family. And currently since I'm the only pure eldest Korean boy, that toxic drama is just getting too much! Idk if we'll be able to resolve everything, but that change has already started with me. They need to do their part too to better understand one another and not this constant one sided relationship that might push us over the edge one day. The struggle is real, and I always feel like I'm fighting these battles all alone. All I want is just for everybody to have some GODDAMN self awareness and broader persepctives. Is that too hard to ask for?
@mudbuddha12310 ай бұрын
dude your so right! my parents are the same, they are wrong but wont admit it and wont change, but they are the best parents ever hahaha
@moon_shoes10 ай бұрын
I really would love for you guys to talk about the Katt Williams interview
@amieelxo477810 ай бұрын
You need to bring your mom on your podcast!!! lol
@nataliele429410 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting, David!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
@vdubb415910 ай бұрын
This was a hilarious episode 😂
@dkfjso3 ай бұрын
Ed is the best guest ever!!!😆
@nhandang510510 ай бұрын
I visited one of Kina's concerts here in Germany, so good
@RonomanRpper10 ай бұрын
This was a fire episode I love you and Ed together. Also side note, on one of your previous podcasts you mentioned the plane crash where people crashed in the mountains and had to eat their dead friends. There is a movie about it that just came out on Netflix, interesting timing when you mentioned it😅
@NeonKue10 ай бұрын
Trust me, it’s not just a Korean thing. I’m Hmong and my parents are exactly the same yet they’re more Americanized which confuses me all the time. It’s mentally draining but we just gotta tolerate it by default. It’s either that or be like white kids running away from home and disowning each other.
@HH_Julius9 ай бұрын
Yup about time to get your mom on the podcast, David! Really would to relive my childhood years with more stories from your past 😅
@YGLuv2NE110 ай бұрын
Somehow...whenever my family gets together for any holiday...there's ALWAYS a fight 😅
@Kllaaa10 ай бұрын
Nah what killed me on the Dave Chappell special was getting into his wife’s phone, and making his “Asian face”😭 then she got into his phone by squeezing her nose 💀
@Alex-ql9gw10 ай бұрын
I was in the same situation with Ed. I use to not accept my mothers money to hurt her, but once I got my own family I now accept her money lol.
@zeehighness273310 ай бұрын
Yoooooo Davidsoooo!!! 🎉
@iamso189010 ай бұрын
Your mom saying what to do with your (mortal) life would be the best clip on social media 😂
@DamnAwesome10 ай бұрын
Awesome episode! Thank god David had a case on his laptop.
@Masssshysteria9 ай бұрын
As someone who lives with a insufferable dog this video makes my blood boil. Good bless you David lol
@Baka_desu010 ай бұрын
14:30 I had to turn down my volume here just to check over my shoulder 😂
@vakar977910 ай бұрын
david your dad deffinetly made the dog pee on your laptop and later gave it a treat for being a good dog
@username-fo2ov10 ай бұрын
Fr, probably for tryna be petty lol
@thrivemindfully10110 ай бұрын
I always watch the whole video when Ed is on ❤
@sana-ik8ts10 ай бұрын
DAVID!!!!! i just tried an iced salted honey latte + a plain croissant from car croissant bakery that you suggested in a different video and it was so fucking good !! one of the best coffees ive had and i was pleasantly surprised at how good the plain croissant was omg thank you 🥐
@juandeloera992410 ай бұрын
Thanks for the episode David! I was actually just in Mexico for the first time in 24 years visiting my home town. It was amazing, people are so friendly! Everything is in walking distance and the food tastes way better (I normally live in minnesota). It's called calvillo!
@BobRoberts250410 ай бұрын
I like how Bengali and Korean are similar phonetically when calling (in the case of Bengali) abba (dad) and amma (mum).
@jozebarrera582810 ай бұрын
I laughed sooo fucking hard 😂 and learned so much today 🥹
@CuongChanster10 ай бұрын
The PTSD from our parents are real 😅
@Fairamee10 ай бұрын
This makes me miss my parents. They both passed in 2020 and 2021 💔
@sowanderlost10 ай бұрын
Im so waiting on David views on Katt Williams interview 😭
@Amanda-m3d1p10 ай бұрын
Not just korean men... Singaporean Chinese men too. I wish I had an older brother like David to put my Chinese dad in his place
@Xeqcme10 ай бұрын
My dad also doesn't admit to fault and changes the subject to talk about how he's right or blames someone else.
@19Elicar10 ай бұрын
great video
@simplename8010 ай бұрын
my mom and I have the same native language and we communicate in that language, but she's still an Asian parent so if she misunderstands what I say, I'm the one who apologizes 😅
@frank23hovu10 ай бұрын
Can y’all talk about the Netflix show My brothers Sun. Dude it’s such a great show!
@YungAntoine10 ай бұрын
I feel like all asian parents have to be right about whatever it is, and can never be wrong.
@changstaboy10 ай бұрын
“Three months ago, the room flooded” “Ok Noah…?” 😂 P.S can you give your opinion on kat Williams, specifically talking about his interview with Shannon sharpe?
@keanuwick456510 ай бұрын
DAvud I loove youuuuuuu
@UshiSound10 ай бұрын
5:34 brb
@pgoyal00710 ай бұрын
Say our parents stayed in their home countries at our age, with no plans to move abroad or anything, would they have similar “attitudes” as us now? Or is it cause of the American influence? Or are we more conditioned to question why things are they way they are?
@navseal34510 ай бұрын
💀🤣
@Chococat_Ariana10 ай бұрын
Here 😊
@FlaneganB10 ай бұрын
Same-same.....
@yanyant-q1l10 ай бұрын
some people are very loyal. if my wife leaves me then ill find a new one. i dont believe in the one soul mate in my life
@OhGeeGanksta10 ай бұрын
I don't mind offensive jokes... but you gotta be funny. You can say it, but there are consequences, especially when it's not funny.
@emoemi94810 ай бұрын
i really loved dave chappelle growing up and his early netflix specials were really great. but the trans jokes for three specials in a row is getting old and hacky. it's not even that he's looking for laughs, he's looking for applause by people who will agree with him on "haha aren't trans people weird and icky? okay, laugh!!" and looking for applause instead of laughs is a bad route to take.
@hosakuwanderer239910 ай бұрын
I would agree, it is hacky at this point. And even the points he made about why the person they were talking about killed themselves seemed to be not truthful. People have looked into when she killed herself, she wasnt getting dragged on for weeks on twitter. we have her twitter records.
@KevinYin-n8p10 ай бұрын
It's so baffling that David's Dad has such a difficult time relating to David but can be a pastor. Aren't Pastors really sympathetic people? The way David described him sounds like he has a teenager level of emotional competence.
@KevinYin-n8p10 ай бұрын
If the immigrant parent still reads up and/or observe modern society tend to not have any of the general immigrant parent tendencies. The problem might be that some immigrant just stop evolving as a person.