Day in the life of a transgender woman : shopping trip

[@christophero1969]

A very nice and calming video. And WOW(!) did that guy sprint to open the door for you.

[@lauriskervac5509]

Your sweet voice and calm attitude calm me down with every video. Your message is clear and is also mine (as I said before), I hope we're working for a better world. I see you as a " strong character in a box of kindness " . Wish you the best, big hug from France ! 😊

[@stacy8729]

So sorry to hear about your family member, i know how tough it is to lose someone so close and i'm glad to see you back and looking as beautiful as ever... It is also pretty bleak around my house lately with my wife having breast cancer, she is my rock and is totally on board with my dressing and supports me 100 %, just feeling scared right now, lost my dad to cancer and can't lose some one so close to me, haven't been up to dressing for a few months since i heard the news, thank you for the encouragement and can't wait for your next video, take care...❤❤❤❤

[@Sarahshopalot]

Sorry for your loss Paola. Lovely to see you out again. Shopping is so therapeutic for us girls. You look wonderful 💋

[@biancadeltarot]

I love it when you bring us shopping with ya! Thank you💜 Sorry for your loss, hon🙏

[@Jodi28]

So very sorry for your loss Paola . Condolences to you and your family . It's never easy losing a family member . Thank you so much for taking us shopping again . I LOVE going shopping with you . Mind you I love going shopping in general ( don't we all :) ) . Going with you is always fun though and thankyou for your wise words and down to earth perspective at the end there . x

[@darkredlips778]

Sorry for your loss. Love this look, love your makeup, great eyeshadow and false eyelashes but especially your red lipstick and matching nail polish

[@gregwillis7767]

Rather than say "one shot at life", i would say " you have to live your own life, because no one else can live it for you". I completely changed my life over 30 yrs ago. Friends/ location/ career/ mindset.. I was on a bad road, and was told I'd be dead in 5 yrs. All that is required is Faith. Totally agree with " be kind to all people". Good talk though. Thank you Paola.

[@freedomformen2548]

I see the sadness in your eyes . Hope you feel better soon . Thankyou for the warm words ♥️💋

[@jon106]

Very sorry for your loss. Great to see you out and about again. And very nicely stated in the last couple of minutes of this video.

[@nicoled31]

So sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you're doing better and back on your platform. Btw, I just started my HRT last week and I swear I feel a difference already. Though I've got a long way to go before I'm passable. You are an inspiration my dear. Thank you for being here.

[@ronaldcarson2170]

Lisa Carson I take Houma patches

[@BR1967FE]

really sorry to hear about your loss, happened to me last year, very hard, always good to see you, love ya, take care 🙂

[@traciloren]

Sorry to hear of your loss, sadly know the feeling well. Take care of yourself beautiful and enjoy life xxx

[@joannrogers4770]

LOVE your outfit and booties!! Thanks for taking us along for the shopping trip!! LOVE IT!! XOXO

[@basillee6051]

Sorry for your loss. Thank you for being you ! I enjoy and love the contents of your videos everytime you post. You never ever fail to bring out the positive. Keep up the videos......We ( your fans ) love you and wish you the best as you go through your journey !!!!! Stay safe my friend.......

[@frankcastillojr6575]

Just wanted to say that don't feel down and out while you're going through your transformation. Other than you have gone through this, you'll be happier once all is done and done. You are a beautiful woman don't despair keep going and don't look back. I look forward to your next video wishing I was young enough to transform, you are my inspiration and to many others as well.

[@deeblack9393]

So sorry for your loss Chelsea Jean! Glad that you have a good outlook and I agree 100% that there is NO room for the negativity in this world! I was out in my own neighborhood recently and a boy that lives two houses from me was making some comments about me loudly on the streets and I had to set him straight. I told him in very clear language that if he didn't change his attitude one of these days he is going to say the wrong thing to someone that won't care about his age and they will beat the crap out of him if they don't kill him. I hope he takes what I said to heart and changes. As for clothes I am so jealous of your size! I have to shop for plus sizes due to weight and height and for shoes I wear a 12 wide for women's it is difficult to find pretty things to wear in the lager sizes and when I do they are so much more expensive!

[@lorenakademar5267]

Thanks for sharing!! It's great that you are getting better after your lost!

[@briansesztak86]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss . You have my deepest sympathy . Another great video . I enjoy them so much . You are right when you say there is so much hate in this world . I treat everyone the same . We are all in this together . I admire you so much for living your true authentic self .

[@DakotaTigger2]

I'm sorry for your loss Chelsea. Lost my dad right before Christmas. It takes time. You look really nice today.

[@rachelmartinez7076]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My Prayers go out to you and your family.

[@brucer7494]

We all grieve in our own way, take care Paola stay safe.💕

[@scottblanchfield2028]

I am getting ready to go through transposing I know I will feel more happy with my self and you have helped me a lot in making my transion division thank you for your help.

[@dougross7198]

So sorry for your loss. You look absolutely gorgeous.

[@Angie-ww4ub]

Sorry for your loss. I love all your videos as you speak the truth. We are all just people why can't we all get along.

[@scottkew6278]

I am sorry for your loss. If you can decide to break away from your sadness...it is good that you can. But only you can tell when the time is right. I have lost 4 loved ones in 4 weeks..but I am pulling for your happiness...I love your good energy! Have a fun one for me.

[@DJ_Bonebraker]

My deepest condolences for your loss. I lost my mom 4 years ago, and it still hurts. Also, I totally feel you about needing to get out of the house & out of a funk. I took a trip to visit a famous cave about 2 and half hours from my house yesterday to get out of the house & do something. Also, love your outfit. I could totally see myself wearing a jumper dress like that (if I can ever find one for a reasonable price).

[@leerobinson3786]

My sympathy on your loss, glad you're starting to get out. Thank you for all you do for us all.

[@deangammey374]

As always, wonderful message and inspiring video. I love who you are.

[@njlauren]

Sorry to hear about your loss, I know only too well about those kind of losses, my mom died 2 months before my son was born and she was so looking forward to seeing him Glad you got out,we all have different ways of grieving and the time it takes differs. One thing to keep in mind is that you are grieving in the middle of literally changing your life, your emotions are already churned up, the HRT has its impact too, so be good to yourself and acknowledge it is okay to grieve and have feelings. I think the best line I can thing of came from Plato's Apologia,quoting Socrates ( I read the entirety at my mom's graveside service) " to a good person, no harm can come in life or in death". It sounds silly, bc bad things happen to good ppl, but he meant in the end that we should realize the good ppl left behind something greater, that our loving them reflected that, and that will go with them into eternity. Take care of yourself, be safe, you are a class act,Chelsea.

[@hpscan]

So sorry for your loss. Sad when we lose family and close friends. Glad you were able to get out today and do some retail therapy!!

[@sheilalynn3615]

Hi Chelsea, as I go through my transition I have noticed my taste in clothes has changed. I don't feel the need to overly express myself. I still have days when dressing in a cute outfit helps to lessen my dysphoria, but I'm also happy in jeans and a pretty top too. Short skirts are off my radar, never worn really short things anyway. Have you noticed this too. Stay beautiful girl. Peace, Sheila.

[@theblueexorcist8731]

You really don't have to feel the need to make a video if you don't want, you take your time I believe everyone will understand if you take time for yourself to reboot and everything else, thanks slot for the vids you make 😊

[@april3039]

Wow you are an incredible woman. Just remember all the wonderful times. Love April 💋

[@AudreyAhmay]

You and your family have my sincerest condolences Paola. Hang in there-

[@nigelmulvee994]

Sorry to hear about your loss, yes Paola be happy your looking perfect, lots of love xxx

[@thetoybox4333]

You are a Beautiful woman inside and out! Sending lots of Love your way! ❤❤❤

[@bookworm5433]

I've had a lot of loss in my life recently. To many funerals, my mother's to name just one. But I will share this thought with you. When I was sitting here being sad one day I thought (Wow, when I die I will have so many people who love and care about me to greet me when I reach the other side. How can I fear death now?). Though I must wait, I will see them again. I do miss them all and shead many tears, but they who we have lost live on through us and will be waiting for us when we come home.

[@rayoliver760]

I absolutely love that gingham plaid jumper outfit you wore to go out shopping with!

[@ericborgen7311]

Glad you are doing better sorry for your loss thank you for sharing my dad has cancer and was told that it can't be cured all the doctors can do is just prolong his life but I see that he is going down hill fast nice day love the dress and you should get them both but if you don't like it for some reason then get what you like your wife is a very wonderful lady I love it when a woman has a very beautiful heart and soul and she's supportive of you what a incredibly wonderful woman thank you for your videos

[@cherrylove3656]

Great to see you back my thoughts and blessings go out to you losing someone you love I also wear a mask when I'm in public

[@jimmywhite4322]

Love this video I’m sorry for your loss stay safe and take care your a wonderful person

[@joelglangneckerjr9459]

Our Prayers 🙏 🙏 🙏

[@johnnj3858]

We are not your responsibility, your personal life is! Sending prayers your way.🙏

[@michelelovetta8803]

I am sorry for your loss. I lost my mom and my sister last year so i know what you're going through

[@yogibaer2160]

Very sorry to hear. I was devastated for a while when my mom passed,

[@merlinsk1]

Happy to see you out and shopping 🛍 yes good shopping therapy 🤗🤗🤗😇

[@brucejohnson3922]

Prayers for you and your family

[@britpoppansy]

LOL I love how that boy RAN to open that door for you.

[@78mharie]

I understand your loss ! Having lost a daughter a few years ago !! By the way you are a sweet looking girl now ! ! ! ! !

[@City67Girl]

Your makeup is so beautiful as usual. The red lips and nails are so nice. For me, I love wearing red lipstick and having my nails done red too. It's so girly and classy

[@dennischute5297]

Very up lifting. Your blog is very informative. Thanks.

[@darkredlips778]

Love your makeup. What brand/shade is your lipstick

[@jeffrodenberger5936]

Sorry about your loss, will keep following you

[@claudealbouze8172]

Paola you are a very sweet woman. I'm also a woman on private moments and I love it. You help me progressing and I appreciate. Hugs Stéphanie

[@davidallen6333]

Sorry to hear of your loss of a family ! Nothing wrong with wearing a mask , it tells others you care , to be safe from Covid 19 !

[@barriehull7076]

Sorry for your loss, focus on the good times in the past.

[@Paula-ec3hv]

I really like your plaid jumper. If I only had the courage to go out in mine, I might feel happier.

[@jennjelly]

Chelsea i am sorry to hear about your loved one. I have had the hardest few years here so i know your feelings .God bless

[@bobbiduzan4936]

I am so sorry for your loss

[@majiccdtv]

im so sorry darling to hear of the close lost .. but happy you are better.. We all need to help us all be happy and live happy! I love you and miss you. One day soon lets meet up and go shopping together! kisses , be safe hunny!

[@geoffjoffy]

You're a very elegant lady in looks, manner, and speech.

[@jwenting]

to be able to shop for clothes in normal stores... Maybe at some point again I'll not be supersized and limited to the very few stores for oversized people or (my go to) etsy and get stuff either tailor made or gamble on the large size specialists there.

[@alexastone12]

Allow me to live vicariously through you.

[@richardpasquale5930]

Very sorry for your loss it was nice that you got out and do what us girls do best Shop

[@frankcastillojr6575]

Very rude of me not to say that I am very sorry for your loss and understand the feeling when it comes to losing someone near and dear to you.

[@keithkoenig5320]

I wish for nothing but happiness, love, and good health for you.

[@alexisdeville3605]

Sorry for your loss, there are so many people with your name on Facebook! How do find your page?

[@johntowers5767]

You are so amazing

[@notsure1405]

DDs should sponsor this channel... Anyone else agree?

[@paulgrala4455]

Cute outfit! Sorry for your loss. 😞

[@darrenlogue9654]

Hello there beautiful sorry to hear about your loss but but he or she is in a good place now looking down and guiding you the way you are beautiful and have an awesome day

[@karlerobinson6464]

So sorry for your loss

[@frankcastillojr6575]

I so much want to be able to communicate with you on Facebook, but I haven't been able to find you. I'm sorry that I may being too intrusive, but you are an inspiration to individuals such as me.

[@dm9078]

Sorry for your loss!

[@cassandralesh8536]

I haven't seen one of your videos in a few years. I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I think the last video I saw you were questioning whether you might be transgender. All the time you said you just liked to crossdress I thought you were so cute and look so much like a woman. Even more than some transitioned women do

[@clarencemarsh6077]

Ready for spring?

[@clarencemarsh6077]

The wig is beautiful

[@Simply_agirl]

I’m a trans girl too!

[@akemap4]

you look wonderful, Chelsea. I would like to know if you will update us in your side channel about your transition status. It's been a while since the last update video.

[@Rickfordg]

Hi Paola, Sorry for your loss. Glad to see you doing much better now. Here's a question: Who or what happened that creates us? Let's just say it was mother nature and not God. Then it's entire possible that Mother Nature has screwed up in your and many other cases. That's not hard to stand to reason. Look at other physical human and other lower forms defects. What your doing is fixing a nature defect. You go GIRL.!

[@brandamooney2254]

Sorry for your loss

[@tobyolson8469]

just wante to say i love and support you girl..... !!!

[@beechamberlain8287]

You don’t need a mask, you look beautiful 🥰❤️💕

[@jimmygarcia8213]

Sorry to hear abt our family member it sad to lose some one please take care of our self I note how pretty u are and cute to

[@googleuser6312]

❤️

[@kentieber7309]

beautiful video, my job wears me down so bad and the long hours only allow me to dress femme for bed. this was so reassuring and pleasant. thank you

[@Nate-Da-Gr8]

I know things aren't easy for many but I lost some people but hey some of ur friends n admire are here love u n like u n accept u for u always. Wish I could message you on FB but can't find u. :(

[@charlessanders1342]

The plaid dress and black tights are are a great look. 👍👍

[@jeffreygaddie]

So very beautiful.

[@jeanmelchior8412]

You are absolutely wonderful! We really should know that you were not born a woman! What about today? I admire and envy you (a little). (S) One of your sisters from Belgium.

[@carlocaroni]

you're a beautiful woman(woman:transgender or whatever you're a woman to me)and,more than this,a beautiful person.

[@johnbaldwin3034]

Have you ever thought about a makeup tips video and how to apply it right

[@southernpride1861]

I know how you feel I really do I lost two family members a week apart from each other natural for toll on me my dad passed first and then his brother passed right after so keep your head up

[@southernpride1861]

I messed up on that I have lost two family members not even a week apart from each other and in 2021 ivy have to go to 15 funerals in one year and this year I have already lost two friends and 5 days apart so I had went through a lot these past few years and I would like to talk to you like in a personal way where nobody can read what you're talking about it has to do with the things that you're doing during the girl time I'm not going to bully you or nothing like that I'm not going unlock my spread anything that we talked about and I don't know how to personal misses you cuz I'm on my phone and I don't have to do that on that

[@monkas934]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@itsalanaxoxo360]

I've been transitioning for about 4 years and I've lost my family

[@dreamdoll2982]

DON'T DIE WITH YOUR DEAD. Did you know that when you cry for your dead, you cry for you and not them? You cry because you “lost them”, because you don’t HAVE THEM by your side. You think it all ends in death. And you think they are NOT anymore. So if your dead no more, where are they?. Yes they have left, or they are now somewhere else, is that place better than this?. Yes, definitely that place is better than this; so Why do you suffer for their departure?. When you have finished accepting that they are no longer "NOT here", but they are still in another place even better than this, for there where they are no longer sick, or suffering. Then you'll stop mourning them and you'll get them back in memory so they keep accompanying you with the joy of all that you've lived. If you truly loved them LOVE them AGAIN and this time with greater strength, with greater purity, with greater delivery. Today, there will be no more reproach of any kind. Only LOVE, will be the essence between you, between us, between them. I respect your pain, and the way you express it. I know you cry and you will cry without comfort. But .. Today I say to you: Don't die with your dead. Remember we are only seeing one side of the coin (death). We are not looking the other way; we are not seeing the wonderful place of light where they stand. What if we start seeing “death” as a Second Birth? Second Birth we ALL will go through. Don't die with your dead, honor them by living your life as they would have wanted you to. , let them transcend. And you keep living. 🙏💚🕉

[@yogibaer2160]

Agreed w feeling safe very nice

[@kathymcbride2425]

thanks for the shopping trip have a nice day x

[@tonyaparker8563]

love your videos ,,,,, shopping is always good therapy ,,,,, kisses