Deal Breaker: Her Boyfriend Doesn't Last Long

[@getoverhere4639]

She probably already cheated on him with the ex, she just want to hear someone say that shes not wrong for doing it

[@shizzyorleone09]

FACTS!!!

[@TheZettaze]

This

[@ladennayoung2939]

Mmmmm I'm sure you are right.

[@christopherstruble8856]

He's back in the picture.. and the bedroom

[@damianwhindleton2218]

Tru

[@DavidEGreeneJr]

Basically: "Steve I want to validate my reason for sleeping with my ex"

[@thewhizkid3937]

DavidEGreeneJr essentially...

[@Saint-Christopher]

Yes. He cums to fast and I'm sleeping with my Ex. (What's wrong with him)🤢🤮

[@jfranco_official]

best comment! you hit it spot on!

[@desiremakungu2964]

I think Steve got that, maybe that's why he was avoiding her question and making too Manny jokes

[@Amereedom]

Notice how she keeps comparing him to her Ex. Then she says her Ex is back in the picture... and she's confused... translation - she smashing him

[@TheWilDOn31]

Yep, she is bc that's how frustrated she is that this silly boy can't make an effort to make her feel good too..

[@demasmoha]

@@TheWilDOn31 love is not all about sex my sister. Furthermore it's not appropriate for her to humiliate her boyfriend like that on TV

[@ab_lane]

TheWiLdOne Daniela To the streets.

[@ezekiel8660]

@V.Bwhat men are you talking about

[@TheWilDOn31]

@Ayanokoji the same way yours did? Where's this hate coming from? Is it wrong for women to want some effort from men?

[@ashleybraxton4355]

I wonder what happens when these guys find out their business is all on the TV

[@behumble88]

Ashley Braxton they wont be happy i tell you

[@rmslh]

Ashley Braxton it's gonna be a bad reaction :/

[@iCrowLink]

That's exactly what I was thinking. I mean if the dude is cheating on you, I say hell yeah you can shame him on tv. But this guy can't really help himself, this issue ain't his fault, and now he probably not only lost his girl but all his friends and everyone that knows him will know that he's a quick draw, that's fked up.

[@derekwhite1870]

How many of these guys actually watch his show? Good chance they may not see it.

[@iCrowLink]

That doesn't mean it's alright to do it though. xD Don't get me wrong I'm not implying you meant that makes it okay, I'm just saying 'cause I'm sure that's how people are going to take it.

[@r.skoblicki3556]

I would never expose someone I was dating like that on national television. Am I the only one whose absolutely disgusted? If he’s a good guy why humiliate him like that? All their friends and family will see this. Not cool!

[@demasmoha]

Exactly I wish all women could be like you angel

[@Phantom6lack]

R. Skoblicki she ended his career, how terrible.

[@Shushkin]

He probably has no backbone. Did you hear how she started to describe her relationship? '' He buys me things ''

[@edsonlapomarede6318]

They call him the flash

[@Shushkin]

@empire state71 What an excuse to humiliate your boyfriend on national tv.

[@aysenuri2419]

"Swedish fish" "Third leg" "Loses it's juice in two seconds" ...who speaks like that

[@yerout7168]

What an odd woman. Glad i don't have a woman like that

[@aysenuri2419]

@@yerout7168 amen..

[@yerout7168]

This woman just shows you what the world is nowadays. She embarrasses her current man on freaking tv.

[@joaosampaio7393]

The kinda girl that embarrasses her boyfriend in front of the whole country

[@yerout7168]

Why can't people just keep their business private? Wtf

[@bellgomez5634]

Rule number one Never talk about your intimacy Especially on tv..

[@where_oh_where_is_blue]

what's #2?

[@bibibibi2680]

👍👍👍

[@kazcaz6111]

It's just mindset issues nothing else here. Focus adjustment is the key when having intimacy .

[@bibibibi2680]

@@where_oh_where_is_blue It's one golden rule and enough

[@kosonaike]

Yes i would not be the same with her after she put my biz on TV. It is entertainment though

[@devinquinn6022]

Her man should leave her the fact she’s still talking to her ex in a relationship means she is already thinking about cheating

[@blackpeoplespeaks]

Of course he doesn't know

[@nk47100]

Talking to an ex alone doesn’t mean that - you could simply be friends with an ex or have an occasional catch up by text or whatever. That is not the same as this current situation.

[@nn-nu8hf]

she was already smashing her ex when this episode aired. She just wanted the validation from Steve Harvey that she was the victim and made the right decision doing what she did.

[@gawdlike4075]

@@nk47100 you’re so naive

[@nk47100]

@@gawdlike4075 okay I’ll make sure my old married self gets the memo about my naïveté 😂

[@DHFlip18]

The first 3 times and my wife and tried to go at it, I couldn't even get it up. Barely a wiggle. As a 21yr old, I was terrified; to say I was embarrassed is an understatement. I didn't even feel like a man. She was ashamed and confused thinking I wasn't attracted to her... she was a hot 20yr old with a nice tight body, I raced bikes. Fortunately, she was smart, caring and patient enough to do some research and found out the medication I was taking at the time had that as a side effect. We waited 8 weeks to finish the meds and another 2 weeks to have it cleared from my system. Once all traces of it were gone, I ROCKED her freaking world. Our son turned 14 last week.

[@VINOCHILEZI]

I love this story.

[@ronjunior]

Downhill... YOU GO, BOY!!! And may I say you have a wonderful, patient wife who truly loves you.

[@DHFlip18]

@@ronjunior Thank you Ronald, if only more women were so understanding and patient.

[@TheFeather_99]

May i ask u what was the medication you were taking?

[@DHFlip18]

@@TheFeather_99 One was Prilosec and I forget the other

[@GenuineMtech]

Whether or not this is staged, this is a prime example of a low quality woman.

[@3bdz880]

This is a prime problem for every man to learn control The long draw

[@ahmadbrkam4350]

Also high maintenance

[@jolenesimon6123]

@bruh one minute man

[@laurence7246]

3bd z .....

[@jkumadapharaoh8514]

Marshorror haha. Exactly it’s funny how men are always described as in what they can do for the woman. How they can entertain them.

[@fafiyebijones]

2 things, 1. he is probably new to sex and 2. she said my ex lasted longer which means she is spending more time with the ex. SHE IS THE DEAL BREAKER

[@ohsweetnikki]

+Conall16 exactly, she's just thinking about their past experiences, people compare their current spouse to exes all the time, anyone who says they don't is a liar

[@MHWM2014]

Yessss!!

[@Black_Hart134]

She's so damn wrong, just work with the man get him comfortable. Women complain about everything, "all men want is sex", "he doesn't last long".

[@KeepoKreepo]

Nicole_theDreamer Probably only a woman thing really

[@SSDavyS]

i agree with you Michael ray stevenson, my first exp experience i lasted around 15-20 seconds wen time pass by and i had the chanse to practise it lasts longer and longer, its probably new to the guy, if hi's girlfriend aint understanding towards this probelem then its the womans fault, not the man.

[@vanilla_bean496]

She obviously doesn’t love him enough to try to work with him and if “Now my ex is back” that’s just a pitiful excuse for validation

[@wizzard9058]

No ex comes back into the picture... You bring em BACK INTO THE PICTURE!

[@MegaDjbeen]

Well Shiiieeet this right here man. They always be saying like «my ex hit me up jadajada», but they the ones responding and letting em back in. The girl in this video really aint all that, she nasty tbh

[@FOH45]

yeah, good guy did everything and she smashing the ex, and later same reason for break up gon repeat itself again and she's gon be asking God why ? praying that lord i need a good one

[@sdnewsom4985]

U R soooooo right tho'! Oh My God yo'!

[@delucacalvaho1261]

She allowed him back

[@soficharmed]

He should leaveeeee her!

[@LaStrangerM]

He's not a deal breaker. She is.

[@summerlyric6071]

Mei W For real. smh.

[@jabirpk6591]

She reveal the truth but this is not the time

[@Caribbeana]

So she must settle for less? You sound like a men pleaser !

[@armaghanmongol500]

Yes you are right ,

[@DeAngelo77]

Riky Marru Thank you. As an American, finding a non-slut is almost impossible over here.

[@ladywillow2961]

He's going to be so freaking embarrassed when he sees this.

[@livelife1529]

Then what!! Either he will be depressed or he will take actions and visit a doctor to fix it , which is we hope for him

[@blackpeoplespeaks]

Beat her azz

[@indiaxlovee]

Dave Israel fragile ego lol

[@harleyjameson1939]

@@blackpeoplespeaks That's too easy. This dude's coming back for some ice cold revenge in 10 years, watch.

[@yana212]

@@blackpeoplespeaks Lol

[@filaptv]

If you're this way, you deserve no one.

[@kimspenda]

very true

[@ohsweetnikki]

What do you mean?

[@SBBBurney]

+Nicole_theDreamer She the deal breaker, not him

[@quincyn2369]

she can easily try to help him but women have no patience when it comes to teaching a man how to please her

[@ohsweetnikki]

+quincy nortey it's not a matter of him not knowing how to please her, he doesn't last long enough and there's not much you can do about that. I've been there before and it is EXTREMELY frustrating, I just thankful that my fiancé and I don't have that issue.. It's her right to consider leaving him if she isn't happy, it's better than cheating on him

[@RH-tv9hk]

"I'm in a great relationship, he buys me things"

[@laurenhahn890]

R H rightttttt

[@crystalmorrison1616]

Except for the dead hood

[@TheWilDOn31]

He buys me things to make up for frustrating me 😉🙄🙄

[@oolliooiiahdjkllmxkl]

🤣⚰🤣⚰🤣⚰

[@mad_gaming_2754]

He need to buy u a new brain

[@LordByron013]

"He takes me out. You know, buys me things..." *Eyes roll*

[@Nehesi]

Most Women want a perfect guy: rich, tall, good looking, in shape, with a libido like a 20 year old that's also gonna love em like their Father loved them (if they had a Father) and somehow magically have enough time to not only be rich, but to be idle rich so he can lay with them all day long. Her Ex probably didn't have enough money for her. . . or was unfaithful, so she left him, tried to trade up, got with a guy willing to buy her things. . . and is now regretting her decision (or looking for an excuse to blame her current BF for the breakup she wants to cause).

[@lildubuoy]

Wow, I must say I'm shocked by the comments! In a good way! I honestly thought you'd all just jump on the poor fella but y'all came to his defense! Especially the women! Good on you all!!!!!

[@finalarbitrator4551]

Well....I guess the real world is not as bad as the television/politically correct world....

[@ilovevivi7201]

I was pleasantly suprised as well.

[@blackpeoplespeaks]

Exactly

[@indigobeauty1]

Intimate life should be Respected. It would be different if she asked the question in General, instead of referring to her BF.

[@tahjjj1488]

Of course we came to his defense. He sounds like an amazing guy. If she wants to go back to her ex (and he’s an EX for a reason), she should just leave. Don’t put this man’s business on national television. That is classless.

[@akumaisreal2090]

1. This girls is all kinds of wrong for putting this dude on blast like that on TV. Yeah no names were said, but anyone who knows who she is knows who she's going out with, and the news will just spread like wildfire. 2. My suggestion would have been to try to actually solve the problem first. Find out if it's something medically wrong that can be treated/fixed, see if he's having a mental block or something. Maybe find some alternatives or try new things, get some viagra, have him use his hands/mouth more. 3. Then again, she's considering getting back with her Ex purely based on the fact that he lasts longer in bed, so sex is more important to her than a relationship anyway.

[@angramainyu267]

SHE should never consider getting a boyfriend or marrying someone.. Just find a one night stand....

[@Bibirallie]

I'm A woman and i completely agree with you. age must be a factor in this she'll soon realize that men are not merely sex machines

[@MrNunchakulee]

This.

[@MZKISSESGETITRITE03]

He's 25?! ohhh lorddd heck no he better bring something more than two minutes hell ten would be good

[@octygirl]

this girl hasn't had any sex in a long time. she's bound to make some bad decisions cause of it. the guy does not care to do anything about it, otherwise he would try. he's obviously not trying and she is obviously not experienced enough to know what to do

[@Tsitak420]

I would not appreciate my girlfriend putting me on blast for this, she’s low for considering getting back with the ex over this. She doesn’t deserve him.

[@XxChocomintsxX]

i lost respect for her the moment she said "he buys me things" that shouldnt even be listed cuz it is NOT a must in a relationship.. she came off as a self centred materialistic shallow girl... and to make it worse you dump a guy who is kind to you and treats u well cuz he comes too fast and you wanna go back to your ex cuz he lasts longer?! you are looking for fun flings that will last u a little while.. but for the long run "real relationships" u will fail.. BADLY

[@Sholnufff]

XxChocomintsxX Bingo!!!

[@ramblingmillennial1560]

Yall would tell a guy to leave a girl if she wouldn't give him head or not have enough sex with them but when the guy is bad at sex she's shallow and is a terrible person. I do not understand. I do not agree with her going back to her ex BUT she deserves to be happy and have a fulfilling sex life. And YALL KNOW that if you weren't satisfied with sex, it would cause a problem! So stop being hypocrites.

[@ramblingmillennial1560]

@Jordan Powell But not everything is fixable i fear. Of course we don't know how long this had been going on. And we don't know if she has spoken to him about it or not. We also don't know if he's just selfish or not. So i agree with you that both people should work on it, but there is still only just so much you can do in certain situations.

[@canniedsouza9366]

It's lust not a relationship

[@jarlsigurdstorvann9885]

lol dude. she was expressing how good the man was, if you are gonna find faults in simple details like that. then all communication becomes pointless. because 50% of all communication is details. and she didn give any must of what made her happy in a relationship. besides sex that was. so thinking she is a gold digger simply because he buys her stuff... that is narrow minded.

[@rosaazul88]

smh so wrong I bet she hasn't even talked to him about it but coming on here putting him out there like that damn shame!

[@3037795]

Agreed

[@rosaazul88]

+david p it made me so mad!!! She cant say penis or dick but can put HIS business out there like that?! And it has happened to men before idk how long they've been together but it's happened and gone away

[@streamx2]

You seem to ave brains and beauty. As a man i am not angry that she has needs and wants to be satisfied, what angers me is that she asked that question on national TV. Imagine if it was the other way round and the guy was on this program saying is it a deal breaker if she can't have kids? How would people react then?

[@streamx2]

This man does not have erectile dysfunction which is what some people on here are commenting on but premature ejaculation. Both come about as a result of stress, anxiety, depression and even physical health issues. A real woman would talk to him, its the 21st century, if you can broadcast it to the world, i am sure you can go and see a doctor with him or even alone asking for advise. Going back to the depression and anxiety, how do you develop those? Obviously when you can feel that your partner is not satisfied, that you are not good enough for her, instead of your mind being on the act it is occupied thinking what she is thinking or wishing?, is she wishing she was with her ex? She is making his problem bigger and worse.

[@iCrowLink]

This exactly. I don't even blame her for wanting to leave him, sex may not be the most important thing in a relationship but it is still important and everyone has needs, if they are not being met and the other person simply can't (or won't) try to fix that, then it might be time to move on. But to go on TV and announce his problem to the world is the most fked up thing she could've done in that situation. Not only did he probably lose his girl, but all of her AND his friends and family will have most likely seen this and know about his problem, I can't even imagine what he went through after this aired.

[@HOPE.TheresNoPlaceLikeHomeClub]

Is it me or does anyone else wish Todd Chrisley had answered this question?

[@chrisphillips1697]

HOPE, LLC Helping Others Progress Economically Todd Chrisley is a hoot, luv that guy! He is so funny!

[@Mr.X245]

I didn't think of it, but that's a good idea

[@shoutrite91]

Great relationship, takes you out, buys you things, makes time, but can't last in the bedroom. Your ex comes along and now you're confused. Imagine the flack a guy would catch if he came on and said my girl is great, cooks, cleans, sexy, but she's bad in bed. Now my ex is back in the picture and I'm confused. Yeah, didn't think so. #DoubleStandards

[@sarahbarr429]

shoutrite91 not really. Everyone in the comments is giving her flack and she deserves it lol

[@parrotshootist3004]

@@sarahbarr429 Do you think that talk show host would have been like that with a man saying those things? Do you think the audience would have been like that?

[@janoke1098]

STRAIGHT FACTS RIGHT THUR

[@cindyd4333]

@@parrotshootist3004 well the talk show is a god-fearing asshat, that's why

[@coldcut4751]

shoutrite91 not everything is gender war, she getting heated in the comments for this ignorant question

[@jenyccemontanez]

it is more a deal breaker that you over here embarrassing him! I he should leave her!

[@ianbroerman3337]

What is wrong with her teeth? She needs to brush more often

[@icetray2727]

Ian Broerman she needs to use baking soda as well to whiten them

[@lencholeta2454]

Maybe that's the issue here. Hes like "I cant handle them teeth, let me do this as quick as possible!"

[@boomdelted]

Her teeth are deal breakers, imagine that trying to get near ur Swedish fish

[@GodsAssassin]

@@candi1904 and she don’t hold the standard to whether a man lasting long is a deal breaker. Stop being a intellectual hypocrite and be fair in your judgement.

[@karmil690]

God, what a horrible woman.exposing her man like that

[@jarlsigurdstorvann9885]

its not about exposing him. in a relationship its about what can build both people up. if she is not satisfied in that relationship i can understand her confusion of wether or not she should move on.

[@jarlsigurdstorvann9885]

i wouldn mind my future gf going on tv to get help on something that was bothering her. what i would mind is her considering leaving me over it. and its about sex lol. some men last long. some men dont, and if some men doesent last long there are ways and things one can do to get better in bed. he could be wanking off alot more to last longer, i think there is medicle measures that could be taken to last longer. i hear certain food types can help you in getting more desire for sex. and if he cant satisfy her with her man dingo for very long, maybe he could satisfy her with his tounge. they could have tons of foreplay before he actually starts penetrating. there are alot of things one can do to have sex. i find it seriuosly tragic considering to leave a man that is finnished in a couple of seconds when he is good in evrything else according to herself. many woman want that and never get it. so wanna throw that away... i find to be a bigger deal then her talking about some private stuff on national tv. because by all means. its a private matter, but i think that man is far from being alone in finnishing his business in seconds. so its nothing to be ashamed about. i think it should be talked about and teached about, so people can get better ideas on how to handle sex and what they can do diffrently/better to satisfy eachother. wouldn you agree?

[@hypershadic2014]

If he is truly that bad, exposing him is not the problem it's his inexplicable timing of exjaculating. Man, 2 seconds, I think that's a world record on premature ejaculation.

[@jarlsigurdstorvann9885]

he is not bad at all. not even close to it. according to this woman he has evry quality a woman would enjoy to have in their life with sex or not. but when she talks about the sex, people feel for him and feel like this should be more of a private matter. that is what is happening

[@hypershadic2014]

jarl Sigurd Storvann right he isn't bad, and it should be kept in private. However it still stands that that's a little concerning. That might be a medical issue.

[@blankman4012]

I'm 31 and suffer from premature ejaculation. It's a painful situation! A relationship shouldn't be about the sex but over time it creates a void in the partnership. I've tried creams, exercises, talked to my doctor and got no results. Whoever this guy is I wish him well because I understand his frustrations.

[@attorneyreid7]

If medical science doesn't work then try deliverance. Your problem could be spiritual. Maybe someone put and hexed on you, just saying.

[@blankman4012]

@@attorneyreid7 I'll pray on it

[@ellen9925]

They have wonderful science for this condition now

[@m3xic4n91]

Just beat your meat 1-2 hours before sex and/ or get tipsy before sex to numb it up. Worked for me when i first started sex. Work on your breathing during sex. Slow pased breaths. Good lucky my firend.

[@rayvee2837]

@@m3xic4n91 trueee but still the first orgasm is always better than the second one

[@ddfeb27]

Oof if I was with her and knew she was even slightly thinking about her ex. I’d leave her faster then that man busts .

[@musicsweet2833]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

[@danesstang9307]

Don't worry. He'll find someone hotter than you.

[@jaideepdahiya186]

And get to 1 second?

[@tyshaachar6504]

@@jaideepdahiya186 😂😂half that.

[@youtubeguy4539]

Danes Stang yeah, you would think she would be humble based on her looks. Unfortunately women don’t think like that. No matter what they look like they think they deserve the best

[@xxxxxx9781]

@GRODT Gang how can any man treat any girl the best ? What is the best ? Like if you ask your significant other for example how would you like to he treated? She replies the best. Are you gonna be like oKAy! DEaL! What is her perception of that? Some it might be treated like a queen and some it's just knowing you can trust that person. Some ..its not getting beaten and abused every night. Get out of your own head and stop thinking so narrow. You are honestly emberassing me being a human and considered the same species. The ugly af comment really got me. It's like you are 5. your brain is thinking wow this meanie butthead persons looks must be hideous because of his thoughts? I bet you take your social media away and realize how ugly you are when you dont get likes to reconfirm how pretty you think you are

[@HoodSwami]

I mean fr look at those goddamn teeth🤮🤮

[@MissNonna]

Your ex was your ex for a reason 👌🏼

[@Princeofluv1]

A. Facts

[@ida91581890]

And the reason is, he didn't want her ugly. Self-centered ass

[@laurence7246]

Elisabeth Williamsen that’s a fact

[@yerout7168]

Why do women like their exes so much? Why would you end it in the first place?

[@jaynehogue2459]

She's using that as an excuse to get back with her ex.

[@mywoodencubes]

She is mean and cruel for putting this out on an international platform

[@sundayesisio6280]

mywoodencubes wats there to hide. The man needs help please. What’s seconds???? This’s how so many people hide problems and allow their partner to suffer wat is not supposed. Let him do the needful

[@gapedandamazed6988]

@@sundayesisio6280 you drunk? Wtf did you just say?

[@montekmohapatra1318]

@@sundayesisio6280 Ohhh okay.... If I have gonorrhea m going for a daily show then not a doctors office. Thanks for opening my third eye my man.

[@ChastityBTheEntrepreneur]

I didn't find this to be funny at all..making a mockery out of someone else's situation..and then the girl had the nerve to bring her ex into the situation..sounds like infidelity on her part..if they went as far as being in the bedroom she should be able to talk about it with him and not to strangers and national television.

[@kuron2443]

Chastity B. The Entrepreneur i like the way you think

[@greatestwithin3700]

Chastity B. The Entrepreneur I only liked the big feller part

[@streetsiswatching9660]

Female nature. Nothing new here

[@Demifan39]

I was going to type something you summed it up well.

[@arrow5726]

I think it was only funny because of how awkward she is about it, and how they kept playing around, avoiding saying certain words. The whole thing was more of a tease of HER discomfort to just say it straight out. It wasn't at all a mockery of him. I do, however, disagree with Steve. I don't think it should be over just because of something so lustful as sex

[@LallanAlexHockstetter]

If Steve Harvey was a real man, he would have called the girl out for clearly cheating on the boyfriend and he would have told the ladies in the crowd to stop laughing.

[@geremymason5936]

Steve throws men under the bus all the time on this show. He tells women what they want to hear to keep his core audience tuning in.

[@LallanAlexHockstetter]

Geremy Mason I’ve noticed that too, it’s pretty sad and pathetic on his part. He should honestly have his man card revoked if you ask me

[@saidderradj991]

Yeeees meen it's not fair they lafing at him and he Knox that it's a problem for the guy he should told her to help him and stund with him if she loves him and Steve he has a bed ego he loves just himself

[@Nehesi]

Steve could do it without throwing Men or her under the bus, but he chooses not to because pandering to Women makes him money.

[@badama80]

Just leave him do not embarrass him on TV

[@New_JAM]

THIS IS ALL MENS' NIGHTMARE!!!

[@derekallen7245]

It’s not a nightmare if it’s not a problem 😉😂😂I’m jk but I couldn’t resist haha

[@ivonned32]

Guys should educate themselves about the many ways you all can be the masters of your body instead of the other way around. 😉✌🏽🙏

[@garythornbury9793]

@angel spike she may not pass the sniff test and the guy doesnt want to have it in a smelly pit of hell for long and he may need to make sure the room is darker.

[@mamamack1024]

Sad...whwn ppl tell their private business

[@gailhuddleston6707]

She gives other women a bad name

[@Curiousnessify]

IMAGINE the outrage if a guy said his girlfriends boobs were too small and wanted to break up with her

[@wezichirwa5398]

Not the same thing

[@aurora9426]

Ikr

[@ohlalamuah5832]

Can't compare one with the other. A woman need to be penetrated with her man's sexual organ to feel sexually satisfied and also have the emotional conection that makes her fall in love with him all over again. My bf has ed, I thought i was gonna be able to handle it because i love him,months later here I am thinking on moving on because not having quality sex is very stressful to me.

[@adimfavourmaris4578]

The equal will be a woman having a loose dry vagina. All hell gon break loose on the guy if he said that 😂😂😂

[@ashlynnicolehuber9379]

Oh la la Muah don’t feel bad for thinking about leaving, if you can already feel that it’s not going to work out then the longer you’re with him is just more time you’re wasting when you can both find someone else better for you..

[@AM-xe4iq]

I’ve dealt with this before in a past relationship for years but the thing is she really needs to be talking to him and not talking about him on national TV. In my situation it never got better because he was unwilling to address it and thought that it was just a normal thing when it wasn’t. But as uncomfortable as it was, I went to him about it. I did not go to anyone else about the issue especially not publicly.

[@innabalykina308]

I really don't get all these people with embarrassing personal problems going on the Steve Harvey show. Steve is just a comedian and he doesn't give good advice, just mostly uses the people's problems for jokes ! With a problem like that, I would talk to my man privately as there are many techniques to slow down.

[@annisawu5277]

Imagine being the bf of the girl saying “he doesn’t last long” on national tv. so humiliating

[@mackenzie98]

I mostly love watching these just for the looks Steve gives. And I love when he cracks himself up! 🤣

[@dallasthomas7431]

If you have to go on national tv for relationship advice.... YOU SHOULDNT DATE

[@greengroundslawncare]

100% correct

[@malc-u9m]

Lmao too true

[@jamesroper4952]

The way Steve cracks up is so hilarious. Had me dying the whole time after that.

[@sasmelkev]

he can take supplements. help him you selfish woman

[@acacius9903]

Thank you. I was thinking the same thing. The man is 25. They can help him at the hospital. Give him some drugs to help him relax. I don't know. She shouldn't be looking back instead. Tha heck is wrong with her.

[@leorhules1043]

exactly, God damn it!!!

[@shalomudensi]

leo Rhule's gimmie ur I'd wanna b friends with u ; u think normal

[@heribertofernandez6101]

Saniel Myst she can't help that guy. Lmfao

[@felisianokalamafoni1309]

leo Rhule's 🤷‍♀️😂😂😂😂

[@mitsukuyomi]

Way to put your man on blast and embarrass him around everyone that knows you two. This is way too shallow for me. Sex is important, sure. But it's definitely not everything. In the end, what it's for is for making babies. If you truly love your significant other, you would be able to see past their "shortcomings" and be by their side as you work around it and find solutions that work together. The guy takes her out, makes time for her, obviously makes her a priority from what she says. But I say he's wasting his time with her if she's putting a small and private (no pun intended) matter on blast and judging their relationship with it.

[@yasminmohamed9461]

Nommers I agree with you! Well said my friend 💕

[@Amereedom]

"Get Over Here 1 month ago She probably already cheated on him with the ex, she just want to hear someone say that shes not wrong for doing it"

[@natedoesfortnite4975]

Appreciate the women here standing up for men like that. We always get humiliated on tv and shame on Steve for telling this woman to find someone else.

[@KitKat-wi5tf]

For the guys sake, she needs to find someone else. She's obviously not happy with her relationship with the man. The poor guy does not deserve to be with a woman who does not want him. (The way she put his privacy on TV like that disgusts me.)

[@callanc3925]

@@KitKat-wi5tf Nah, for the guys sake she needs to break up with him, and then find someone else. Never tell a woman to only find someone else because then they gonna do that while still in a relationship.

[@cynthiaquezada6982]

lmao, my boyfriend tries to last in bed and I find it a complement when I see him struggling not to finish early. If anything I ride him harder to make him struggle even more. He sometimes has to force me to stop or flip me over. so he has control. I think both parties need to be on the same page regarding this. Sometimes he finishes early, and that's okay I don't get mad about it, instead I let him sleep and I cuddle with him. Sometimes we last way too long and I'm sore, but I'm overly pleased and thankful to him. I think so long as you both are giving people it'll work out. It's definitely not a deal breaker to be with someone who struggles not to finish early. It's important to be giving in the bedroom and play with each other to get the other person there. This girl is a deal breaker if she's considering returning to her ex just because the sex was "better".

[@peakhelliw1509]

You are a rare specimen

[@ericmatterson9905]

This dumb girl will get sick of the ex or the ex will get sick of her.

[@chrisphillips1697]

Cynthia Quezada Very well said, what u said is really true! Sometimes the guy is really attracted 2 his women & has a hard time with control, but it’s also what that guy does in other ways that make the difference!! Very well said tho!

[@shaunthesheep2325]

This should be top comment. 👌. But yea. If y'all dudes having this problem ejaculating early. Change up position in the moment it happens. So u get those 10sec of time to breath. But agreed 😂👌

[@trickyzenmom]

@@peakhelliw1509 Not really rare, my guy. She's just actually in love! The chick on this show...clearly not! 🤣

[@yehboi6646]

Can you imagine being in a relationship with a woman that makes you finish so fast because you’re that infatuated with her and she pays you back by going on tv, using personal lingo, so no doubt, and gives out details from the bedroom?

[@callanc3925]

And then goes on to talk about how her ex is better and she kinda wants to get back with him. I imagine the dude getting home from a long day at work, turning on the steve harvey show for a laugh and then crying himself to sleep.

[@tirrelljones3348]

That poor guy. You’re literally sleeping with your ex while dating your current boyfriend. She’s the deal breaker.

[@jeffjones2586]

Having had this condition myself what was an instant 'cure' was my girlfriend cupping my face in her hands and saying, "Baby, slow down, ok?" It was gentle, heartfelt, loving and kind. Afterwards, I was in complete control of myself. It was a trust bond formed that I treasure to this day. Have never experienced any issues again in my life. We only lasted 4 months, but I'll always be thankful for her instinctive gentleness in that moment. But, I agree to make this a subject in a public forum is despicable. They have mutual friends and to expose him like this is incredibly cruel.

[@andreahylton7330]

Just seeing this, girl you are not cool , exposing a person like that, your day will come, crazy people in this world

[@pennyacejo7231]

Steve Harvey: quickdraw up in here..chhhhhk powwww! 🤣🤣🤣 LMAO

[@queenp3087]

1. I wouldnt say this on TV 2.why you thinking/or bringing up the ex 3.its a deal breaker 🤷‍♀️

[@lexiepickles9153]

I dont think it's a deal breaker more 4 play, toys, etc. could solve this problem. especially if he's a good guy.

[@Ms19741979]

you took the words right out of my mouth

[@torisefford989]

..but remember women are not looking for the good guy..

[@rod253]

Are you sure? Easy said then done

[@oliviamonkey]

@@kurtdiesel5769 hello, do you realize how famous you name is ? "Rudolf Diesel" invented the modern diesel engines. he was murdered on a boat ride to England, have a nice day

[@kurtdiesel5769]

@@oliviamonkey lol my real name isn't diesel...but thanks. Have a wonderful day too

[@Samuel-I]

Take the pressure off for him, lady. Then KEEP him excited and the 2nd round is all for you.

[@JSmusiqalthinka]

As a guy who's "quick drawn" before and who actually does care about mutual satisfaction, I can say that when that does happen, it's really embarrassing. Having that be a dealbreaker on top of that would make me feel rather unworthy. I'm sorry but that's just how I feel

[@Travelingwithmeblog]

You are worthy

[@DrAdnan]

I feel like the premature ejaculation problem should be handled with a physician in private.

[@1234happysmile]

Hahaha I love that we have similar tastes in KZbin channels! 😆

[@peterlane1391]

Quick Draw? Yeah, that dude won't be there when she gets back.

[@cfreemful]

Do you really love this guy or did you just need some TV time? Now, all the world knows your issues, especially his family and friends. Because this issue could have been solved privately and respectfully. As always, think before you speak. Saves you a lot of drama in the long run.

[@wilsonnjiraini6308]

I support your comment God bless you

[@TheHAMR1111]

Women complain that men see them as only a sexual object. And she thinks that That's a deal breaker with a caring, respectful guy. That's really hypocritical

[@emmanuel4989]

ILUVBMW325xi I don't think you understood this comment

[@gregorybolton6599]

I couldn't of said it better high five right there

[@veronikam4901]

Incel detected. What is real love? Staying in sexless marriage/relationship and pretend you don't have needs and urges??

[@cherylbranche1532]

Oh. “Discretion is the better part of valor.” applied to women too.

[@sundayesisio6280]

Cheryl Branche Not even one normal being will want to accept seconds for a whole life time. He needs to do the needful

[@cherylbranche1532]

@@sundayesisio6280 No. Discretion IS the better part of valor.

[@gz9975]

Cool. So men should dump their girlfriends who have medical conditions which make them have their periods more often?

[@rocknrollch1ck]

of course, lol

[@HeyYouPMme]

+Greg Gammago uhm, yes.

[@yeseniarivera1956]

That would be too many mood swings for any man to handle lol😂😂

[@jeffreybenedick1522]

+Greg Gammago Right! Crazy world

[@Ajaxlancer]

+Greg Gammago How dare you say that! Misogyny! Sexism! Earthworms! rararara tumblr. Something something ashamed of yourself

[@jacquelinef7174]

"Swedish fish?" I never heard that term before

[@laurenhahn890]

Cause she made dat up lol

[@nn-nu8hf]

@@laurenhahn890 trying to be cute and like too shy to talk about this, but she's literally the one choosing to bring this up.

[@judyinniss4814]

2022… 7 years ago and still a great way to spend sometime with Steve … gotta love Steve 😀

[@ColdJoeGaming]

I wonder what if a dude said my girlfriend is dry down there ? Shame on him right ?

[@CorvusOfMellori]

There are lots of things you can do to work this out. I am surprised Steve said it was a deal-breaker. She probably doesn't deserve him anyways. It doesn't sound like she is that interested in him to begin with. If this was a man saying the same things about a woman, people would say he is an asshole.

[@JGallis]

CorvusOfMellori facts

[@theegoated5221]

💯

[@khadija018]

She is a mean girl

[@darkknight901]

CorvusOfMellori further proof that maybe Steve shouldn’t be a dating expert

[@kazuto1905]

It is a deal breaker the ex is back in the picture. She is not happy. She is not responsible for his shortcomings. She needs to be honest that is all and let the cards lay where they should. She ain't his mama.

[@mandem010]

This is how you know what a relationship is REALLY about! Just with a particular person at a particular time!

[@derepa06]

Why would she talk about this on television? I mean wherever she and her boyfriend live he's gonna be the laughing stock of the town now. Not only is his stroke-game apparently awful, but on top of that his girlfriend admitted she's thinking about cheating on him with her ex-boyfriend. I mean damn. She could have contacted him at home about this. Or even seek one of those love doctors. She put his business out there, embarrassed him, thinking about cheating on him, and is apparently breaking up with him because of that one thing. If this dude did something crazy after this I wouldn't even be surprised.

[@sharonkimble4097]

ৈ।

[@sophiadent2610]

I feel bad for the poor guy he can get help .....she don’t love him ...

[@septicalfrogs]

Because she’s already made her mind up.

[@boyandcatmum]

Instead of belittling help them

[@KingArtexerxes]

Men can be ready again in about 10 minutes. The second time lasts much longer.

[@crystalmorrison1616]

Most can't continue

[@chrisphillips1697]

Crystal Morrison Ur right, some can’t, but those ones that can, look out cause u gone be like a new born baby deer 🦌 when u get done & get up 2 try & walk! U will most likely be so spent that ur legs will be like 2 limp noodles!

[@KingArtexerxes]

Chris Phillips We’re talking about someone who finishes before he hardly even gets started. Not likely to be spent after the first time. Just needs a few minutes to recharge. Even if he doesn’t finish the 2nd time, at least the 2 enjoyed it more.

[@chrisphillips1697]

King Artaxerxes I knew what y’all meant, & I wasn’t talkin about being spent after the 1st round! I get ur point tho! But in reality if u get ur girl right, she gonna get u right! If she gets u right 1st by gettin u off, then u can use that time 2 recupe by gettin her right, then u can go that 2nd round after you’ve recuperated! Most guys usually last longer in the 2nd round if they can go a 2nd round! Not tryin 2 hate on ur comment just tryin 2 express my views on it like we all are! U do have a good valid point no doubt! As well as I think I do!

[@straightshootah7550]

I had this issue when I was young. The problem was psychological, and with muscle memory from when I was tossing the salad. It took me years to fix it and cost me a relationship. I feel for this guy, that's a tough problem to have, the bright side is that this girl is total trash so nothing really lost.

[@user-ce9ci1qi5f]

Hi. Congratulations on such a wonderful accomplishment. As a young man myself I have this problem and I am interested in knowing more about your journey in overcoming this situation.

[@Jacaishim]

Going on the show and exposing your man is a deal breaker??

[@chasepotter2376]

Dr.Ahmed Hassan and basically admitting she’s cheating

[@JuneMarnet]

She is already cheating and she don't like or respect who she's with. Very sad.

[@nathatkd]

Man, that was hard, it was something that could be fixed with love and support

[@streamx2]

Its not stupid to have needs and want a man that can satisfy your needs. What is stupid, immature, ugly and disgusting is to come on national tv and share something very personal. People wouldn't even do that to their enemies.

[@latinadavis3691]

True that I agree

[@OzzyBlazeGaming]

I swear Steve Harvey opening his mouth to laugh should be a meme 3:10

[@Elvisnotpresley97]

Mohamed Osman maybe a gif

[@ChandlerMuriBing]

Yes definitely a gif 😂

[@denisaziz4110]

Those big fake teeth!

[@Shewas-kathybates]

It was

[@keithnyagaka4293]

It is lmao

[@treasure_adventures]

Quick Draw🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Steve is crazy

[@xOzzyFan115x]

It really shouldnt be a deal breaker....she doesnt love him if shes worried about strictly sex running the relationship. Enjoy getting crushed by your ex again lol

[@sgracem2863]

xOzzyFan115x lol if you never came during sex you’d probably leave too

[@Karaamjeet]

@@sgracem2863 most girls can't cum during penetration lmao. Wtf are you talking about. Men and women work differently. That's why there's foreplay and toys.

[@Karaamjeet]

@@AnnSisuLiv it's statistically scientifically proven that most women cannot orgasm from penetration.

[@traditionalprimitivearcher3561]

Ex came back into the picture? The fact that she was entertaining the thought of getting back with him makes this girl a dealbreaker.

[@tanime_man6535]

I just love how he laughs at his own joke😂😂😂

[@Ajthegreat4747]

Since when has sex become the deciding factor in a relationship if that's all she cares about she never loved him or cared about him if I could talk to the guy I'd tell him not to waste his time he will find someone who doesn't give a damn how long he can last or not.

[@wilsonnjiraini6308]

Wow this is a great advice God bless you so much words of wisdom

[@knowthyself2892]

No, its not a deal breaker that he cannot last long, it just means he needs to put a sock on it every time they have sex or she needs to be on birth control (or both) if they are both not ready to be parents. She obviously doesn't see this as a serious relationship so no need to have any unwanted pregnancies. She just needs to put him back in mood in about a half hour; My husband is somewhat of a "quick drawer" but the second {and third :-) } time around he last much longer, he tires me out lol. Or he can just see a doctor; it may be health related.

[@ta_nimal2023]

Exactly!!!!!! Well said. Some of ladies do have common sense! Don't waste your time fellas! 😉

[@truebut3243]

Finally a woman who understands there are rounds when it comes to sex 👏

[@janetkeen8280]

Steve you never fail to entertain. Thank you.

[@Seamorehoffman789]

dude you got a tongue and you got you got hands if you haven't found a way to please yo woman with at least 2 of those 3 you dont get enough as they say practice makes perfect xD

[@johncenafan396]

exactly! Steve shoulda thought of that instead of telling her to find someone else

[@ohsweetnikki]

+cosmicsuperstar Steve is a grown man that has a wife and understands that getting head or using your hands is not enough.. Women need penetration and the connection that comes with it. As a woman, I don't blame her at all, I even talked to my fiancé about this video and he agreed, bad sex can absolutely be a deal breaker

[@bigfuq21]

Gloria White

[@candlecane]

Nicole_theDreamer Agreed! He has no business dating anyone until he fixes that problem. It's irresponsible. He's lucky she's even dating him at all.

[@gbone1812]

J Q irresponsible lmao you act like this man can control it. It's completely mental.

[@kazlee6253]

lol "third leg" lol " juice"

[@icetray2727]

I had the same health issue he had. Round 1 is just a warmup to me. Rounds 2&3 is where everything happens.

[@janebaker4912]

I understand why this is frustrating. Cos you feel like he's selfish and not taking steps to fix it. It's selfish if she's always left unsatisfied

[@harmanjotkaur3451]

bloodhunter josh so girls who want pleasure are hoes?? Dude what? But sex is important to guys and that’s not a problem?

[@Crillin112]

It's all strategy. If he can't cut the mustard, he can always lick the jar. He's clearly a late round fighter. Get the bald-headed champ to round 3 or 4 where it has more resistance.

[@MXRGP96]

Crillin112 lmaoo tru

[@ta_nimal2023]

AMEN. The solution is so obvious I wonder that he might be better off with someone good, giving and game. Steve's response is gross. Not all ladys are like this! SMH.

[@LarryOteyza]

Hilarious how steve got scared by the “deal-breaker” stamp popping out outta nowhere🤣🤣🤣

[@Kongolox]

well that just wrong! if he's a good guy, am sure there is some techniques or meds to help out.. but dumping him for being "too quick" thats just wrong!

[@aminakhmadi9193]

It's like if guy would say, that his girlfriend lasts too long, and she is sexually rigid, that that would be a deal breaker. So everything is relative. By the way, she's just looking for excuse to cheat on him. That's all.

[@sinister247]

Facts, she just wants an excuse and someone to validate it so she can go cheat on him with her ex and not feel all the way guilty about it.

[@kimberlyselby4918]

You don't go on tv and humiliate the man like that, just talk to him about it.

[@bobwinters6459]

Shallow....she ain't all that anyway. Maybe he just wants to get it over with and go to sleep!

[@metalhottie44]

i mean i dont think she should break up with him if she loves him and he treats her right, its a common problem so their are alot of things you can do to help your man last longer from numbing creams, to exercises and rings, if you love someone youre in it for the good and the bad and it can be fun trying to find something that works for the both of you ;)

[@dalaysia5863]

I mean he could be quick bc he’s just very attracted to you. And if you’re even considering going back to your ex just bc he lasted longer in bed you gotta reconsider your values

[@dorothycrowell2867]

Hugs to u for being thr only girl on this thread thst didnt insult her

[@1Skordon]

well that boyfriend (seems like he will be exboyfriend soon) is gonna get scarred for life. Lose his love and the sole reason for that is that he comes too fast. He will most likely lose fait in love and never dare to fall in love again because he believe that no girl will never love him because of his problem. Most likely he will think they will all act the same way. Well at least Steve and the audience got some laugh out of this..

[@JGallis]

1Skordon she don't know that.. This didn't help the problem at all it actually makes it worse SMH what little confidence he had is gone completely

[@79lanc]

1Skordon... keep going, finish the story.. and he will give up on women and turn to men yada yada. Like most weak males do, turn against nature.

[@Ravenex2]

So she wants to establish her relationship on the grounds of "who lasts longer"? She'll never have a relationship built on love and substance.

[@balthazar8269]

Lol the excitement in the crowd.. ladies enjoy these talks

[@dimpleeyes]

BF....Okkkkaaaayyy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂