Dealing with a Woman's Ghosts

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[@luthergwilliams3436]

I once dated a woman with whom I shared some of my passions. One day when I was sharing, she resisted, saying, “You know you can’t make me a mini-you!” What I didn’t realize was that she was already a mini-version of some guy.

[@andryckfranco3801]

Whoa.

[@assaa5069]

Men put out. Women receive what the men put out. Women always submit to something.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@KtotheG]

During my simp days back in high school, and up to maybe my first semester of college, I used to try to save women like this... I was president of the Captains, lol... I figured all they needed was love, attention and somebody who truly listens to them... man, I was wrong... I got tired of being used and abused, so I gave it up... it's very taxing and consuming being a simp, especially when you're a dedicated one.

[@RomWills]

I feel sorry for those types of brothas. They give so much to not be appreciated.

[@hermesalonso3968]

We all been there, then you change & dog em

[@shawnhazel8208]

Bro Rom - I am dating this women in her late 30s and I have to say she has taken me on a roller coaster with her emotional state - after a while, I started to study her and remove my emotions from the relationship - it was very shocking to see the different men inside of her that she dated, verbally she admitted to have a few sex partners, but over time I could see the ghosts reveal themselves - especially the older men she dated - one day she would look like a young women than other days she would dress and look like a older woman - really freaked me out - I thought I was crazy until you revealed some hidden code - thanks a million....

[@RomWills]

Brotha it's deep. With practice you can look at a woman and tell the type of men she has been with.

[@banderas2000]

thats crazy. but it's true. you can see it in their eyes. how they act one day to the next like you said. damn

[@mrScififan2]

You're dealing with the ghost of "Chad ", "Tyrone", "Miguel" and the captain of the basketball team.

[@RomWills]

LOL! Truth!

[@hermesalonso3968]

😀😁😂🤣 you r too funny!

[@SubwayFan83]

It's funny how women walk around screaming they don't like being disrespected, but subconsciously they live for being called out their name or beat the hell up. That's why they go and carry those masculine traits and put that kind of negativity on other people. Ever notice that?

[@RomWills]

Oh yeah. Much of it can be traced to their imprints and subsequent ghosts.

[@SubwayFan83]

Rom Wills yup exactly. I stay far away when a women behave a certain way. I know what's gonna happen next. Gotta get out while I have the chance.

[@saw2d]

this is part of why it's hard for good black men to find black women who aren't damaged beyond repair despite the amount of women outnumbering them in population. good video.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@mr.hajijohnson318]

When I hear a woman mention that she was in a abusive relationship and/or has kids by multiple men, I'm out! She could be a 92 octane or higher, damaged is damaged!

[@kelvinrice7872]

Excellent Video as always! That's why I mentioned before when it comes to meeting women, get to know them and find out what they're really about. Ask them questions about their past relationships without getting too personal because you'll know exactly what you're dealing with. Most women you meet is going to have some kind of history or baggage with men whether good or bad once they're a certain age, you just can't be afraid to ask worrying about her feelings, if she's going to get upset for what you're asking her and I've been guilty of that myself. The reason why is because men get so caught up into her body and features, so they forget about wanting to ask her those questions, they be like hell with that, I'll find that out later and when you do find out afterwards, shit can get real ugly. I've experienced it myself. Find out in the beginning or otherwise, you'll get caught up in her baggage, it can be easier said than done at times especially if you're stuck on her physicality, vice versa for a women, that's how a lot of things get overlooked and certain questions don't get asked for that reason. Sum it all up, it's definitely best to ask certain questions in the beginning, forget her feelings, you can't always worry about that as a man because women don't have a problem asking men certain questions so we as men should feel the same way about them.

[@RomWills]

Well said. Both men and women need to ask questions.

[@banderas2000]

@@tracer073 true. the tone of your voice must be NON JUDGEMENTAL. the tone goes such a long way . how you speak. women will open right up. i even throw in a "guilty" experience to see how she reacts. once i asked a girl " where is the craziest place you had sex?" i first told her my expiernce. and since women want to connect she came out and said " i had sex in a car" the best way is to ask indirectly till she tells on herself. i tried the being direct " how man dudes have you slept with?" but that is a loaded question. try the detour route disguised as connection

[@Jmxd21]

Did you say 30? I know plenty of women who are 21 with about 30 bodies lol. A couple of them are recently married. I guess their spouses doesn't know about all of those past sex partners..............yet lol

[@RomWills]

They'll find out.

[@mr.Noshadow]

30 is pretty low from what I've learned from women who are honest, at least as honest as I believed them to be. 21 years of age, she's been with closer to 70 men. They don't count the weak experiences they've had.

[@princeqadash7316]

This Is Deep But This Is Why I’m Very Picky On Who I Put My Energy In Because I’m Aware Of These Things Because I Know A Man Puts Out His Spirit Energy An A Woman Takes In The Mans Spirit Energy Just By Being Aware Of Human Nature & Biology And It’s Deep Because I Have Seen Woman Start Acting Like The Man She’s With & Another Key Saying That People Miss Is When People Say ( Yall Are Starting To Look Alike). There’s A Deeper Reason Behind That Saying.

[@redaquarian8665]

Ahh, the spiritual dynamics of the sexual relay-tionship. Not a lesson for those full of stubbornness and pride. Excellent piece Professor Willis.

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@lairdericwells4075]

It simply doesn't pay to deal with any woman who has EVER been with a "Mr. Goodbar" prototype. There is NO SUCH THING as a female who was a relationship "victim". They don't have demons, they ARE the demons. Just as treacherous, most often worse, than their alleged aggressors. Outstanding video!!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@hermesalonso3968]

Demons huh 😂🤣 am glad you said it & not me🤣I love em but they r a hands full😃

[@BGSIBMOR]

Can't give up all the game ...LMAO. Field Master Rom spittin' game

[@dudewat212]

BGS IBMOR .... field master ? ...

[@BGSIBMOR]

dudewat212 Rommel was the German Field master in WWII. He was called the "Desert Fox". Kicked ass throughout North Africa

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

BGS IBMOR Let the Game be Told! Need it for the Cultural shift or at least a few men living better lives.

[@dudewat212]

BGS IBMOR ... Oh, I see now. Thanks for the insight, man & explanation.

[@RomWills]

BGS IBMOR, You know I still keep some things for a select few.

[@isaiahb.7956]

It is currently 2021, and this video is still very underrated. More people especially black women need understand the “ghosts” concept that manifests after sex. It may help shift our current dating circumstance. Brilliant video Rom.

[@justfrank7070]

DEEEEPPP... Never thought of it like that... But that's why I'm still single cause most women I've met have a bad history on the types of men they've dealt with 💯💯💯

[@RomWills]

Those ghosts get in the way.

[@sagetscippio8878]

This is very much true. If you pay attention you can see that last man's imprint on her, driver body language and mannerisms to her choice of words and little actions she takes... thenbwirhbyoure with one long enough you'll be able to see yours actually rub off on her!👏🏾💯

[@toteknowledge]

Thats why I value you more than any of these dudes that speak on relationships. Because you dont go too hard on these women & as I always say, look at things objectively for progression & growth. Said this in prior video to, a lot of brothers putting their resentment out as gospel & not giving the unadulterated fair picture, because the lens they're viewing it from is clutter with their own misery.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@user-bp2eg3tb9n]

🎯🎯 And vice versa with the women (who are similar to what you've described).

[@banderas2000]

true

[@anwardunbar3491]

Rom this was great. I've dealt with this a lot. The woman I was serious about in graduate school was recently divorced and it was hell. I didn't know enough to break it off. I was about 28 and it was my first serious adult relationship. Her "Ghost" actually rolled up on us one day at her apartment complex. Interestingly my mother didn't tell me to get to GET OUT!!!!!!! Neither did my Pops. I just hung in there and tried to wait it out. I was fortunate to be able to finish my doctorate but it could've easily gone the other way. Your boys are lucky to have a father like you Rom.

[@RomWills]

I remember of that everyday.

[@hermesalonso3968]

I hear you LOUD & clear & happy 4 U that I least you got your degree kudos to you mine's went the other way & it scars you 4 life & after this you r cautious and don't want to be in that predicament again

[@flexwashington638]

A crazy female that obsessed over and stalked me revealed to me that her father was deceased. Looking back im sure she had multiple ghosts. She was hell to deal with, I could not believe the persistence.

[@RomWills]

She saw something in you that she believed would heal her. Many women are that way. If many humbled themselves there are quite a few brothas who would engage them.

[@flexwashington638]

Rom Wills agreed, I would have probably kept dealing with her if she wasnt like she was

[@riza4086]

Same thing her father passed away. She also stalked me on social media in a weird way. Very nice girl but definitely did not act like a women when I needed her to.

[@Hostile-Adept]

Some Christians calls it a "lust spirit."

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@rmac8012]

TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have told a couple of women this. I said to them "stop listening to those voices in your head, I'm not THEM!!!!!!" They told me the men they dealt with prior to me and they be holding to them ghost with a Kung-Fu Grip. Either you stay and fight those ten dudes in her head or you just run for your life because that's her comfort zone. They will never admit to their preference of navigating through the raging rapids of a river instead of sailing on a peaceful sea.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@johneta7665]

I got with my girl wen she was 30. I realize now that she had 15 years of fuckin before we met. In hindsight, It caused her sexual dysfunction and has effects our relationship to this very day. Sadly, I gave her a decade and now I want out because I cannot get past her sexual past. Call it Immature but i have punished myself far too long because I didn't know any better.

[@RomWills]

It makes a difference.

[@KtotheG]

This is why certain men only deal with virgins. The thing is, though, in America, virgins who are of legal age of consent, are extremely hard to find, lol.

[@corsicanlulu]

lots of men dont appreciate virgins and they are shamed nowadays! so what do u think happens because of that?

[@KtotheG]

corsican lulu Boys don't appreciate virgins... I know I didn't when I was younger and always horny... they're frustrating, because you just want to smash... but the older you get, the more you appreciate them.

[@banderas2000]

stay in there. iam only dealing with virgins for something serious. she has no etachment to any other man. no ex you have to compete with. no "soul tie". she will give the man 100% of her. it decreases 30% with each new guy

[@doncalypso]

How much Holy Water, garlic juice, and silver nitrate does it take to exorcise the Ghosts of Penis Past?

[@The_Equalizer23]

For black women? Shit, somebody call John Constantine!

[@liquidocelot2129]

Rom Wills shit might need doctor strange the exorcist and harry potters ass lmfaooo smfh

[@michaelallen3999]

+salchih Wow...it sounds crazy....but thats real shit bro!!!

[@michaelallen3999]

+liquid ocelot LMAO....REAL SHIT!

[@michaelallen3999]

+Rom Wills WOW!!!

[@desmooth7284]

Makes perfect sense to me. I've experienced women with sketchy sex pasts time and time again. I've seen some that go to extreme lengths to hide that past too. EXTREME!

[@RomWills]

Some will do as say. Even to the point of moving far away from their homes.

[@roystongibbs7189]

Need to learn more about this. Thank you.

[@jamalehoward7622]

Your videos are opening up my thinking on women! Thought I knew a lot, realize I still have a lot more to learn about them! Thanks Rom!

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

Good one, just be Aware of what you are dealing with. Live Powerful, Live Aware.

[@RomWills]

Be aware at all times.

[@mankoorb]

truer words have never been spoken sir! subscribed!

[@RomWills]

Welcome aboard.

[@alexday1329]

I’m new to ur channel and I just turned 19 and man thanks for putting in all this work to come out with these videos . My dad teaches me about a lot of bullshit to look out for in the world especially with black girls and how a lot got baggage from left over essence from other guys being in them but I’ve never heard it explained like this before . To get to the point I’m a young dude who hasn’t had any sort of experiences with a girl on any sort of relationship lvl before so I thought it would be smart to trying to learn about all the pit falls and paths to death that so many brother fall victim to for lack info so I want to get into ur hardcore lessons and stuff so I can have an arsenal of knowledge at my disposal anytime I need to use it .

[@user-bp2eg3tb9n]

Take notes young brotha! Learn this shit NOW. I...AM...TELLING...YOU. You won't regret it. Stay focused man.

[@tstyles9690]

SOUL TI€S v/s STRONG HOLDS. THIS IS SO TRU£. W€ WERE TAUGHT THIS IN CHURCH, THE SPIRIT WORLD IS R€AL👍👍👍👍

[@RomWills]

A problem is that we don't talk about how spirit and spiritual beliefs affect relationships.

[@diannedavid9698]

This topic is provocative; l feel the need to comment but at the same time I feel I must ponder on a couple of important issues raised and underlined. All I am saying is "Perhaps..." Thank you, Thank you!! May the God of wisdom continue to be present with you and linger longer with you.

[@mrScififan2]

Hey Rom! This is my third time commenting on this video. I'm NOT stalking, lol! Your videos are so rich with wisdom that I often revisit them. Just like one would reread a classic book or rewatch a well-done movie.... I recently rewatched "A Different World ", a show from my youth. Dwayne and Whitley were the main characters. Through out the early years the writers kept the sexual tension going between them. "Will they or won't they?" . They got together, they broke up etc.. . Eventually Whitley met Byron Douglas...her perfect man: rich, erudite, handsome and a successful and rising politician. ... In the season 5(?) finale, Whitley and Byron got to the altar, all of their friends and family were there.....but Whitley left him at the altar for Dwayne. At the time, everyone, including me were happy for her and Dwayne...we treated the one hour finale as a cullmination of a great love story, ... But watching it after seeing this video, I realize how Fucked up" her action was! Dwayne WAS HER GHOST! ! Dwayne was "dick" that she could never forget! She even said that " knowing him had changed her for the better" (she took in his energy!) And what about Byron, he didn't deserve the humiliation they visited upon him! Imagine how HE felt! I could imagine a scenario where he goes MGTOW and "never trusts a bitch"!.... Dwayne and Whitley were "fucked up " people! Thanks a lot, you ruined a great show! Lol!

[@ljljlj9263]

I AGREE, AND ENJOYED THIS VIDEO ROM!! I AM A FIRM BELIEVER OF THE IMPRINT.. AND DETOX.

[@RomWills]

Thank you sis.

[@ljljlj9263]

Rom Wills YOU ARE VERY WELCOME 🤗

[@latoyathornton1871]

Soul ties demons and spirits go both ways

[@D.Anderson]

This is good bro. Respect!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@prestigousone]

we are not her therapist

[@RomWills]

True.

[@mikeprat1]

top of the a.m. rom! morning motivation💯

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@wepersonallyexperience1272]

Wow...its crazy that I come across this topic. Ive illuded to the "ghost" of men woman carry within them. Ive faught against it so much but recently realized its not my battle. This video held so much confirmation for me.

[@sidneysaxton9620]

Brother Wills with another classic! Keep'em coming bro. REAL LIFE!

[@RomWills]

Thank you brotha.

[@sidneysaxton9620]

Allready!

[@sidneysaxton9620]

Rom Wills Brother Wills, I'm not to computer savvy, & don't have any equipment, other than phone. Can you answer a couple of questions for me?

[@sidneysaxton9620]

Rom Wills My channel is being delayed do to these small issues I have. I'm starting from ground zero, I've got a lot to learn, any info will be greatly appreciated.

[@RomWills]

Hit me up at www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html

[@rudebwoy1974]

This is deep, thanks for the video.

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

We men can have sex multiple times and still choose the right woman. Before you want something serious as a man you need have multiple conversations with here. Professor Rom is right about the ex part you as new men need to demand of her that she rid of everything about her ex.

[@RomWills]

There are too many consequences for men if they don't ask the right question.

[@tpatt513]

Soul ties. DEEP.

[@DonnnationTV]

This really touches on spiritual warfare

[@jaygunns]

Another reason to avoid marriage! Thanks for the info, Rom.

[@sterlingshelton7940]

jaygunns There's nothing wrong with marriage, marriage is a good thing. Read Proverbs 18:22

[@jdominian9504]

Hey brother really enjoy your channel and content. And I'm very familiar with what you a talking about.

[@RomWills]

That's what's up.

[@MarcoJah]

Rom keep going deeper.

[@RomWills]

I am.

[@kutzaudiolive979]

But yet women are in constant denial of their issues......😒 hmm

[@RomWills]

Lack of accountability.

[@jvproductions7425]

See Uncle Rom I know how true these things are that you talking. Bout in this video ..man it can be stressful!! this is kinda why i slowed down hollerin at most these women an I'm tryna somewhat be patient ..till a more decent one comes along !!.

[@IamKarryanne]

Everything makes so much sense..wow. and it's like I already knew all of this, just beig reminded.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@xavierfranz5148]

I salute you General Rom!

[@Happy-Me.]

I believe that although she may have an imprint that came from being with beta male simps. When she then meets and is imprinted by the one Alpha. That will really mess with her head. She will be the Alpha widow and will look for what she found in the Alpha in others where it won't be found. Sadly, the poor guy who follows the Alpha is going to be in a world of hurt!

[@collegesmakesyouconsumers]

classic video...Rom, if the "game" is perception based is that what reflects back to us based on our learned/ instinctual behaviors..or is this matrix out here more objective in nature with numbers and labels attached to what get reflected? or both? im sure I have some of my answers in my question but im in my 20s still & as you being an older gentlemen (OG) I value your opinion if this is too much id like to contact you on another platform of yours thanks brotha

[@RomWills]

Hit my up on one of other platforms. This could go deep.

[@collegesmakesyouconsumers]

Rom Wills Ok, will do

[@durrelljackson1824]

Yeah, I'm very empathatic. We sometimes put other people's needs ahead of own.

[@jermainepalk1832]

Damn this sounding like a Rom Wills deep thought video.

[@durrelljackson1824]

Sorry, to clarify my father's mother died as a little boy. So he wasn't shown love and kinda unloving but driven & highly successful. This is what shows up at my door (life) everytime.

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

Righteous Two Thumbs up!

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@chadsr3455]

Thank you

[@deejaygary191]

man ROM I wish I could hit you up and meet with you on some REAL MAN ish. you got game that hits Everytime. my situation is so cold right now just trying to find away out. social media.. you tube what ever is not what I want to hear. need to hear that real ism from the man himself so I would never talk to much on here. but just need some real game from a solid OG

[@RomWills]

Hit me up at www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html

[@OldHats]

fuk yea..just 2 seconds of looking you can tell what type of person your dealing with

[@RomWills]

Pretty much.

[@inkkroom]

this is going to good ... pause for popcorn

[@durrelljackson1824]

Rom check this out I hollered at you b4. I had kinda figured this out on my own. As a young lady I sumised that I attracted motherless men. Either their moms died, or they're grandma raised them or their moms was on drugs. Crazy thing because my Dad's died as a boy. It's so crazy. Basically, I attract Daddy subconsciously as well as all his unattractive qualities.

[@RomWills]

You must have a nurturing energy.

[@MrRobertotim]

In Christianity it's called spiritual husbands, which most women battling against, God made women periods to cleanse their blood and reniew them၊ every cycle of a month.

[@hannah60000]

Periods aren’t about “cleansing blood”. It’s about replenishing the lining of the uterus so that a baby could be made successfully in the following cycle. Women don’t loose all their blood in a menstruation cycle - only the uterus’ lining and the unfertilised egg.

[@banderas2000]

@@hannah60000 copy and paste is easy. there is more to it then you know.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

Man those alpha women in tight black leather jackets and red lipstick smelling of cigarettes. I like them but I know they re bad for me! 😅 when talking to them I can actually FEEL the men she hangs with give her drama. Rom you're the truth!

[@RomWills]

Correct. Women are always a reflection of the men they deal with.

[@christrucker4882]

Deep stuff

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@TheImplerazure]

Truth!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@tyron84]

Damn that was rich, puts a lot in perspective for me.

[@RomWills]

THank you.

[@keythjones9588]

Very deep Rom. How can I join your private group?

[@RomWills]

Go to the Connectpal site in the description box.

[@BurninVinyl]

yeah they have a different sense of what is "checking her". Means also different game.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@towlie5600]

When you dealing with his ghost and his kid lol

[@phatchick820]

Damn...so true

[@cardiganflynn4905]

Rom how do you manage to read people so well? Is it thru books, advice or just personal experience?Alot of us brothers wanna know this so we can train ourselves to be more conscious in or decisions and dealings with not just women but PEOPLE in general. Any advice?

[@RomWills]

Listen to this video, kzbin.info/www/bejne/kHazpmOGq99pfLc. It was a survival mechanism. I read books to confirm I'm not crazy in my perceptions. Only way to really develop it is to really pay attention to people. I watch people and their actions. After awhile you notice definite patterns.

[@cardiganflynn4905]

Rom Wills Thanks Rom!

[@Health_Is_Wealth_Media]

This is too deep.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@truebrewjones108]

Rom Wills, I'm currently dating a good woman who's only 26 years old, I'm 32. We've talked about out sexual past and she has stated that she's only been with about 6 guys sexually. For the most part I believe her but iss there anyway that I can tell if she is telling the truth???

[@RomWills]

Not really. Just in your mind be prepared to find that number going up as she gets more comfortable with you. Right now just enjoy her company. Pay attention how she reponds to other men when you are around though. That will give you an idea about her actual number. As a rule add 5 to whatever number she gives you. That way you're not shocked when it goes up.

[@Alchemygem]

great video makes you re think alot of shit a womans body is insane

[@RomWills]

True.

[@80antonc]

Damn this vid was deep

[@jabezhinton7879]

Does the 1st guy a woman had sex with will his imprint on her be the strongest out of the other 2 guys that come after him? Knowing she was emotionally attached to this guy

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Rom yes my brother a lot times when I'm talking to someone that's not on that level of the game it's hard for them to comprehend because that big butt and smile external features looks good internal severely damaged beautiful young lady's you have to have very serious conversation with them because their trying to get saved from the unfortunate experiences anyway It's sad we can't save them all because we are out numbered but the ones you come in contact with try to pick the less damaged one and that's very slim Pickens.

[@RomWills]

Yeah I always say focus on quality.

[@IndigoWisdom1]

❤️

[@RomWills]

You know the deeper spiritual implications of this.

[@IndigoWisdom1]

Rom Wills Mmm! Thanks for Seeing/knowing me. Yes and on Many levels!!!! 😍✨

[@IndigoWisdom1]

Rom Wills Keep speaking at this level of multi-dimensionality! Its perfect because it applies at every level and people can benefit & use this info no matter what level of metaphysics or energy they comprehend. ❤️❤️❤️

[@RomWills]

Danielle Lovelight Says I have to hit them softly.

[@IndigoWisdom1]

Rom Wills - Yes indeed.

[@RodelerYoute]

Rom, so are you suggesting that it's best to be with a virgin ?

[@RodelerYoute]

After listening to this video I've become super vigilant about these ghost and I see them pop up every where man

[@RomWills]

Just be mindful of the ghost.

[@banderas2000]

Rodeler Youte virgins are the best. she has no other soul tie. no man to compete with. she will give 100% of herself to you

[@KennyMansa]

I'd like to hear your perspective on polygamy.

[@RomWills]

I have an interesting perspective on it. Not against per se. I just wouldn't to see a situation where only select men get the women.

[@xavierfranz5148]

Put you book on audible. You have too much knowledge not to.

[@RomWills]

I'll get there.