A Better Understanding of How Women See Men

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[@wesleycristman3278]

Tripping over a woman who isn't feeling you is wasted time you can apply to one who is....and often way sexier and pleasant to be around

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@patrickstewart9937]

wesley cristman have done this before. But I am moving forward now

[@dennisrobinson8008]

Tripping over that women whose not feeling you kills your vibe.

[@wesleycristman3278]

@@princedollar7373 ?

[@The_Equalizer23]

I'm friendly but I don't play! EVERYTHING is earned! Now, I make it crystal clear that I'm not into fun-clubbing, not a therapist, and I'm not their handyman. A woman is strictly family, business partner/source, or sexual companion/girlfriend.

[@RomWills]

That's how you have to be.

[@devohnmitchell]

thats real talk.. I'm remember that

[@youngboi24]

GOT TO FOCUS ON THE WOMEN THAT WANT YOU

[@RomWills]

Exactly.

[@youngboi24]

FUCK EM LOL

[@bobrew461]

Yeah, but suppose you don't like 'em??

[@dennisrobinson8008]

@@bobrew461 well those are you true choices

[@christrucker4882]

For some reason I feel your channel is the What balances out the others . You give Us info from different points . You're not bitter or Simpish but rather balanced 👍

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@spacelyman9482]

Trucker Chris yea I agree

[@Health_Is_Wealth_Media]

Auto Chris This is true, I'm on a marathon right now. Binge watching.

[@johnnycage8327]

I never put energy on women who don't make eye contact with me at all. Those girls i get eye contact with they almost always try to approach me. NEVER chase women by any means and treat them like queen "my shit don't stink", they'll treat you as crap and see you as less worth. A lesson my beloved arabian mom/grandmother told me while growing up. Saved me alot of trouble. Good video as always bro!

[@RomWills]

Those old school mothers made sure their sons and grandsons knew the game. The women in my family were the same way.

[@shaun787max]

I don't chase em I replace em

[@RomWills]

That's the way to be.

[@Useyno]

Shaun Max And if I'm undressing them I'm caressing them.

[@has892]

If it’s one thing I’ve learned about women is not to go by what they say, but what they do.

[@brandonwombacher2559]

Always

[@InflatedEgo92]

I don't particularly fall into one category some women rotate me around from boyfriend material to buddy and vice versa. I have noticed that women check me, but once they get to know me my standings with them changes.

[@RomWills]

That's how it works. Where a man stands depends on the woman.

[@WhipLashOG]

Entertainment, companionship & Exclusivity is boyfriend qualities. Rom is breaking down game

[@Malik_Hoff]

My home girl was telling me about men in her life. She def was saying she's gonna marry this one dude for pragmatic Reasons.. "I need to get married and have Kids, Sozzy". Social programming is funny. Have you "NEEDING" Wants lmao.

[@RomWills]

It's crazy.

[@moonguy30]

You go real deep on this, Uncle Rom! I love it! It’s very helpful! Peace and blessings!! P.S. Hope you’re recovering well!!

[@joefromdc]

Alan Roger Curry just made the best comment on this topic today. BGS page

[@90210Skye]

Can you post a link or name of his page?

[@D.Anderson]

As usual bro! top notch material!

[@RomWills]

Thanks Bro.

[@kelvinrice7872]

Excellent Video!!!!!! This is not real talk! This is serious talk! This is what men need to learn and understand when it comes to women and how they see you. Everyone is not going to be appealing to everybody, that goes for anybody whether it's a man or a women. I learned that years ago. No matter how attractive you are, how much you are told that too by people, I'm talking about both genders. You can be fine as wine, everyone is not going to see you that way. That all boils down to preference, don't think because you're attractive,that you're going to always get chosen over other people who's less attractive than you or period, it just happens like that at times, some genders are always attracted to pure beauty, again, this go for both genders. Some women, even extremely beautiful ones are not attracted to super attractive men or vice versa some very attractive men are not attracted to very pretty women, both attractive genders may be attracted to someone who's average looking or fat. I've seen it!!!!! Some women are straight lesbians and don't even like men period and you have very attractive men who are straight gay and don't like women period. I realized this years ago and came to that conclusion like my uncle told me back in grade school that you're not going to look good to everybody and my grandmother told me that every girl you like is not going to like you regardless of how handsome you are so move on, I've experienced it. I learned to deal with the women who chooses me like you said Rom, I had some pretty ones choose and notice me, you'll save yourself a lot of hassle and keep from stressing yourself over being too upset because of how women sees you. At the end of the day, it's like chess and card games, you don't know how the game is going to turn out or the kind of hand you're going to get dealt, but you play it to your advantage like I mentioned before about the five attributes of life, master those and continue to work on you and the rest will take care of itself and you'll definitely get your fair share of women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

*Slow Clap* This is the game in a nutshell.

[@kelvinrice7872]

Thanks! Another thing too I wanted to mention also that I forgot because I say so much and really get deep, is that the flipside to that is that a women who you may not of appealed to in the beginning can all of sudden become attracted to you. I had a very attractive girl who I never thought would see me that way ended up liking me a lot, not saying that we were enemies, we were cool, I've also had some who never said anything to me, never looked my way that ended up liking me strong! Things like this do happen!!!

[@D.Anderson]

Kelvin Rice I agree a ex and myself was the same way we was cool. Then one day one a bus trip to NY she came over to my seat sat next to me and a week later we was all in.

[@kelvinrice7872]

Yeah! It's true bro!

[@Health_Is_Wealth_Media]

Kelvin Rice I call that peeling back the layers. If you are with someone long enough. Somebody is going to catch feelings if not both.

[@lyeffmuhammad]

Great video brotha Rom! Your analysis and observation is absolutely correct. Keep handing out that knowledge. Every man, especially the Black man needs this kind of knowledge! Peace my brotha.

[@RomWills]

Peace to you brotha.

[@letroid360]

Great video as usual uncle rom. I agree women definitely see a man based on the way he sees himself. I a man sees himself as a simp, she will treat him that way, if a man sees himself as a king, she will treat him that way. But, it's great how you broke down that most women don't marry because they're in love with him, but sometimes it's because he can provide security. Thanks a lot uncle rom. Keep the videos coming!

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@kianudagoat57]

The gems are in the archive

[@wepersonallyexperience1272]

Ive listened to quite a few of your videos today. Thank ypu for sharing your knowledge and insight. Really put some things in perspective for me. Sn: I had a friend lable me her "therapist" and tried to claim me as her best friend. I had to nope out, told her I didnt want that responsibility. I dont mind being a friend but Ive no intrest in carrying ALL her baggage. We had a good working relationship but even though I wasnt trying to get with her, during one of our sessions she decided to tell me she thought I was a great listening and really cool guy but wasnt attracted me sexual but would only have sex with me if I paid her...this during a conversation were she was venting about her BD and how good her nana was. I never even made a move and got shot down hard lol

[@wepersonallyexperience1272]

@@frankystrings lol it be like that

[@americahealth]

Powerful words Rom. How does one begin to work on understanding their sub concious so they can be concious to what the real issues are? I watch your main channel religiously, you tell me exactly what I need to different, but conciously I can't apply it. I feel like the illustration you discussed of the person who has the knowledge but still dependant on government support. I realize it my subconscious, but how do I begin to change? Thanks

[@RomWills]

Check out my new channel, kzbin.info/door/YIJ-QYgNr2-Ws9Kxjio2QA. The main focus is dealing with the subconscious.

[@BP-lu9th]

this guy needs more subscribers! He is correct! good job

[@RomWills]

Thank you. The subs are growing though. I want Wolves and not Sheep.

[@326ka8]

2:14 to 2:20 is the truth.i once had a very visably pregnant black women come at me on some lets date type shit.i rejected that chick.i figured she got pregnant by some loser dude she knew who not take care of her and their kids and she viewed me as the provider type.

[@RomWills]

LOL! I've had that happen to me too. The woman actually said that I would make a good father.

[@326ka8]

that shit is crazy.

[@326ka8]

real talk.

[@inpursuitofexcellence750]

Classic drop Unc.💯

[@KB-tn1dj]

Rom..you are so right...so basically women judge men harsher and on the number rating scale more than men do. I say harsher because men only rate those women in looks and sex appeal only. But the women rate men in a range from Financial, Masculinity, Boldness, Daring, Caring, Sexuality to down right character traits and personality...Now that is a wide swatch of traits... So like you said...a Calvin Klein model can look like a beta or a creep to some women and Flava Flave can look like a Denzel to some woman at some point in her life or ovulation cycle...hence brothas always have to spit game and holler...Her cycle may make you look like Denzel to her on the 8th time you try to holler... The trick here is that that same woman will want a Denzel at some stage of her life and find Flava Flave attractive at some other point. Same woman....so as a man you simply have to be the best you at every stage and step if your life. While you are going through that process...all women will also have their criteria changing beyond their control and you will at some point fall in her criteria along the way. I guess what men really struggle with is the knowledge that this same woman no matter how well meaning you are or were and what you have accomplished for yourself, she will at some point disregard you and treat you like trash. That really strikes at a man's ego...so here we are battling self images that are directly dependent on our sex appeal to women..lol... So are these men seeking validation from women? Maybe and maybe not...either way its not a crime to seek some kind of validation...its partly human nature...PLus the high you get from women validating you is so intoxicating that it makes all the difference....also the sistas themselves usually never use their brain to control and strong arm their natural cycle of male selection...so at every stage of their life they seem to be on some sort of stupid auto pilot when finding men attractive meaning...they might mistreat a Denzel at some point and call him a creep or a beta male and choose a Tyrese...only to find Denzel attractive when some other female hangs with him and then that first female complains that there are no good black men....this whole bashing of brothas has been a lie. Sistas need to figure out how to disrupt that STUPID AUTO PILOT they are on and figure out how to interact with brothas in more decent ways...I am thinking they will end up in better relationships long term and over all. I guess the catch here is that sistas can't discuss men amongst themselves because their friends will sabotage their efforts..They need a older caring lady they can trust to help them discuss men issues and selection criteria.

[@RomWills]

You see the game better than most men. Ultimately a man has to be his best self which in turn will draw the right women to him.

[@KB-tn1dj]

Wow... a compliment from the great Ron Wills...whaaaat? Preciate it bro.

[@spacelyman9482]

K B lol. it's an honor to get a compliment from him right?! truth!

[@RomWills]

***** Thank you.

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

BRAVO!

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@jholliday3]

Solid video

[@C.Douglas777]

SOLID ON THIS 1!!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@agent008chico]

Brother! Yep, that's how women usuallly viewed me; and frankly speaking they still do when they first meet me. At a point in my life that made me feel honorable however, it becomes very lonely. So I quit talking to women who want to treat me as their brother. Then I become invisible.

[@RomWills]

It doesn't have to be that way fam.

[@agent008chico]

Hey don't get me wrong. I'm not down because of it. I do have a wife and she is an awesome lady. I should've referred to my comments in the past tense. I'm writing about women who would be worthy of partnership; the independent and responsible ones! I do get lots of offers from women and till this day. They are the married ones unhappy with their husbands or that have no respect for them; the single mother who have no ambitions to overcome and make something of themselves and are desperate for someone to rescue them. But you know, even when I was single my ethics didn't allow me to let any of those into my life. I'm just down because my wife's health is in a severe decline and I fear the worse. It has been a short lived marriage. Just had to vent some. Forgive me for mis-informing.

[@Bronxguyanese]

Good podcast Rom. Like I said before. As a man, you need to know what type of women you attract. Aswell as why certain women are not attracted to me. For example, I know plenty of hood women are not into me. I have to be thankful because women like what I mentioned will cause problems, and pain for a good man like me. Also i learned is to take what you get and work with it. Example, I had a woman who liked me, but I did not like her because I did not find her attractive. Shame on me. I could have improved on her, or made other women jealous that I'm with a woman like her and jump from their to another woman. I regret not being with that unattractive woman because she was a mean freaky Latina. Some women are attracted to certain guys. If a certain woman is not into you, don't take it to heart and move on. Because at the end of the day, these women are doing you a favor, saving you time, misery and other nuances that goes with incompatible relationships. Women also look at short term and long term mating. Right now im getting alot of older women because I'm mature, but I want a family someday, so I have to find a way to improve on getting a younger woman. That means improving my looks.

[@RomWills]

You expressed a lot hard earned wisdom. Men waste too much time trying to impress women who do not want them. The best thing any man can do is figure out which women are truly attracted to him and go from there.

[@FGAlele]

Benjamin Gibson I Agree with Most of your Comment Brotha except for the Jumping from the Unattractive Woman to a More Attractive Woman part. You Dodged a HUGE Bullet by NOT Dealing with that Freaky Latina that was Unattractive. What If You had Gotten caught Up with that Woman or Had Gotten Her Pregnant. Then You would have Been STUCK with Her. Too many Men ESP Black Men go for a Woman just because She's throwing the Pussy at them but outside of One Thrash & Dash Situation the Man might not want anything to do with that Woman. As Men ESP Black Men we need to be going after the BEST of the Woman that ARE Checking for Us. 'Just Because you are being chosen doesn't mean you HAVE to Choose Back.'- Rom Wills

[@Bronxguyanese]

FGAlele you see the unattractive woman had a value system that I admired. Also her father was still in her life. I like that too. Plenty of women in urban areas of NYC don't have father's in their lives which can cause dysfunction in relationships due to daddy issues.

[@spacelyman9482]

FGAlele this is a true comment bro bm gotta be careful on the kind of women they date cause some of them can cause a lot of issues

[@EMGETF168]

you sound like a creepy dog. oo yeah because one women wasn't as attractive but she was a good person and I regret not using her for sex. ooo one day I want to start a family but I want a younger female. not a women my own age. smh

[@gargomel21]

good morning. I've watched 95% of all the videos that you've posted, and I'm wondering if I could email you two topics/ stories that I want you to elaborate on.

[@RomWills]

Hit me up at www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html

[@Bronxguyanese]

Rom Wills. Thier is a book called mates. I just read it's a good read. It also talks about women see men on a conscious and subconscious level. And yes physical and sexual attraction matter to woman because she wants to procreate. My aunt told me I need to get braces. She is right. Braces will improve my chances with women. Things like this will make women turn the other way. Also little off things like twitching, stuttering or a stammer will make women look the other way.

[@RomWills]

Correct. I'll check out that book.

[@obiigwe2904]

Who’s the author?

[@MackeyDeez]

I rather to be put in the neutral Zone or the Phantom Zone just long as it's not the friends Zone. I usually shut them down with a quickness whenever a chick starts divulging her sexual escapades with me.

[@RomWills]

It depends how you handle it. When women tell me stuff I still get the panties. I wouldn't recommend that for most men though.

[@g1grace]

Yep! Rom is 103% right on this one.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@Original.D]

I've been watching how women move from young. For all the categories women have men, they should have no problem with a polyamous relationship. And for all the women big on the bible, they need 2 reread or actually read the bible. Because many parts in that book mentioned the men had wives!

[@brionbraziel7968]

Lazer...

[@lsporter88]

Wisdom.

[@RomWills]

Thank you Bro. Leslie.

[@ronibeziako]

So... "focus on your game" essentially? lol... i don't get a lot of women but the ones I do get, i find attractive.....

[@LifeEntity]

Ron Ibeziako the" most interesting man in the world"

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@brandoncarr2306]

ON THAT NUMBER 1 VERY TRUE THEY TRY TO FORCE A MAN'S HAND THE KEY IS TO FLIP THE SCRIPT ON THEM STICK TO YOUR GUNS. WOMEN TRY TO PLAY THAT ROLE. MUCH LOVE FROM MEMPHIS ROM

[@RomWills]

That's brotha.

[@shanelowe9257]

In my observation, if someone is attractive but is broke and doesn't own anything you should stay away so they can work on themselves or they will beg for what they need from you. Some people generally are attracted to people they feel is less than bc their easier to impress.

[@RomWills]

That's a good perspective.

[@BP-lu9th]

lmao maintenance man 😂

[@jamanu223]

Relativity...

[@anwardunbar3491]

WOW. Most women don't marry for the love.........

[@RomWills]

Very few do.

[@devohnmitchell]

that's to cold cause my homie just got Married

[@warrickjames7527]

Damn...

[@willwithin7]

💯

[@larrylovejr82]

Very good topic, My question is can a women change the way she sees you?

[@RomWills]

It happens.

[@sagetscippio8878]

💯💯👏🏾

[@devohnmitchell]

hmm some women it's okay to be their brother because that's how you learn game from women. These particular women I wouldn't want to be the husband or boyfriend knowing the low down dirty stuff that they do LOL.

[@rharden66]

👍👍

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@BosomofAbraham]

The truth is disgusting!

[@brandonwombacher2559]

Always Is

[@Stratton218]

11:49

[@lochofmceo]

I'll admit.I'm more of a slow burn for women.My appeal is more in when they find out how I think than animalistic sex appeal.

[@RomWills]

They probably still checking for the sex appeal though. After that they want to connect emotionally.

[@lochofmceo]

Rom Wills true

[@robotpanda77]

I appreciate you not lecturing. So many of these types of videos on here I feel like I am being talked down to when I am trying to just better myself.

[@MrOrlandodh12]

it all about negotiation if you ask me

[@RomWills]

I agree with you. When I'm dealing a woman I tell my friends I'm in negotiations.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Most of the times women see me as Alpha male but there will be a few that find my weird lol Hey i'm crazy!

[@RomWills]

That's how it is. Men need to focus only on the ones seeing them as Alpha.

[@spacelyman9482]

Sniper 11 N.D. that's true different females will see you in different kinds of ways

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Idd...but you are the same person...women don't understand that.

[@spacelyman9482]

Sniper 11 N.D. to be honest bro I learned you can't please everybody . just do you wherever you go and even females who weren't into you before will start to be into you after they've known you for a while

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Just do you that's right brother.

[@joefromdc]

thanks for the insight Uncle Rom (Are u still on the east coast or west) when u are not sexual attractive to a woman u hv to wrk twice as hard to get out of anyone of the lower lvls. depending on were a woman is mentally we also determine ur lvl. the game is rigged

[@RomWills]

I'm on the East Coast outside of Baltimore. A man has to just find the women who find him attractive.

[@joefromdc]

Rom Wills when u hv some free time can i recommend a meetup. it would be cool to buy u a drink and i know some other brothers in the area might come out. halfway point is bmore

[@RomWills]

We can do that. I'll have more free time in the spring.

[@joefromdc]

Rom Wills cool, let ur fans know

[@frederickhoward5598]

As a cash cow and fool😉

[@CHRISTIAN_ROCK]

🧠✍️

[@MrOrlandodh12]

in school i use to see how ugly chicks started becoming appealing to guys that seen them every year consistently when we seen them long enough so thats another thing to.

[@RomWills]

LOL! It can be that way sometimes.

[@emancipationliberation9105]

Cabin fever. Just like on the job. The more you see a chick the better she starts looking. That's why it's always good to get out and see other women if you work around alot of women.

[@justinjackson7090]

Is it better to be seen as husband or D ? don't we need both ?

[@RomWills]

Ideally a man should be both which is what I teach.

[@bobrew461]

emergency dick!break glass... :-0