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@erictbrown17 жыл бұрын
Which is why I don't have a problem of dating outside of my race and don't care if people have a problem with it.
@millionshadesofdarkness21657 жыл бұрын
+Kirigakure Jones i have BW come at me all the time and trust me you not missing out on shit. nothing but a pile of baggage and drama, most at least. i have had a few decent BW come to me but they almost ALWAYs had kids, which for me is an instant cut off.
@kingtutsirai93567 жыл бұрын
oh trust me they do.
@millionshadesofdarkness21657 жыл бұрын
***** every woman (all races) ive been with had lesbian tendencies, especially the ones that claim a "woman cant do nothin' for me."
@jameleason82006 жыл бұрын
Eric Brown why should they it's your prerogative
@MegaPsycho846 жыл бұрын
Preach. If they don’t like it? Then keep doing it. Let the salt burn em in the eyes.
@omoowobhd6 жыл бұрын
This is on point, some of these females want to be ENTERTAINED! I remember hearing this bs from females yrs. ago about a lack of spark or chemistry & they wind up being dissatisfied & blaming somebody else for it instead of taking responsibility for their choices. Overall, black men are valiant & supportive & tolerant of situations where women are seriously intolerant. I mean GOOD MEN ONLY.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@alvinhollingeriii25627 жыл бұрын
I think that the men who Relentlessly go to help out woman that don't respect them are asking for trouble and at some level have some deep rooted issues. You Can't be in a position of Respecting yourself if you allow people in your immediate environment to keep Disrespecting You. Your Life is Bigger than that.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@alvinhollingeriii25627 жыл бұрын
The Environment does not allow women to really look at themselves deep enough to make a change to be more cooperative. The incentive is off. So in general the men have to learn how to value and take care of themselves and find the women that will cooperate with them. Could be a black woman or a woman of a different culture. If you are messing with a woman that only respects dysfunctional men, let them go leave them alone, change yourself and your environment for the better.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Bruh the comments you drop are worthy of a book. Great insights.
@js98497 жыл бұрын
Exactly cooperation is key.
@MrAmbassador115 жыл бұрын
For some reason, dysfunctional men are held in high esteem. Maybe it comes down to compatibility. Dysfunctional women like dysfunctional men. If you are not aiming for something in life, how can you relate to someone who is?
@carolborela4075 жыл бұрын
When a righteous man find a wife the "Proverb 31 woman" , he find a good thing these kinds of people finding each other , don't have any problems staying with each other. The Society is preoccupied with looks and clout instead of righteousness.Great video Rom Wills.
@terencethomas78912 жыл бұрын
I had to learn the hardway that, the nicer you treat a woman the less she will respect you , in most cases black women want black men who are edgy and charming, and other women got to want him
@JayWizzielTV6 жыл бұрын
Great video. From my experience, the more attention that you show MOST(not all) black women, the more they ignore you. These are even the women who are physically attracted to certain black men. As a man, you have to put some forth effort to make any type of relationship work. However, it's supposed to be a two way street. The moment that you start showing MOST bw a decent amount of attention is when they stop putting forth any type of effort. I'm not saying that I"m completely closed off to dating black women as a whole, but I'm no longer putting up with their bullshit just to be with them. There's always decent women of other races checking for me, so it may be a sign that I"m more accepted by them than sistas.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Go where you are celebrated.
@JayWizzielTV6 жыл бұрын
yes sir!
@Plemonoo2 жыл бұрын
Bro you have to date who likes you and stop forcing yourself through hell
@meezy31882 жыл бұрын
Lmao facts
@Illuminated77 жыл бұрын
I can boil it down to a woman's relationship with her father. if she has daddy issues, run, run as fast as you can. because her daddy issues will become your issues.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Now that's real talk right there. That's a whole video I need to do.
@Illuminated77 жыл бұрын
I will not say "every" because I do like to speak in absolute terms. if the woman does not have a positive imagine of daddy then her ability to have a healthy relationship with a man is severely compromised.
@Illuminated77 жыл бұрын
it requires a reprogramming for our community that teaches that black men and women have devine relationship and that anything else goes against nature. so yes it can change if we change the narrative.
@jeremiahgiles35937 жыл бұрын
+Diamone Fowler girls need a father figure in their lives just as much as young boys/men. The idea of how you treat the opposite sex in a relationship starts with your parents. if a woman never saw her mother BUILD something and maintain it together with her father, she's likely going to have no direction as to how to treat a man.
@jeremiahgiles35937 жыл бұрын
+Diamone Fowler girls need a father figure in their lives just as much as young boys/men. The idea of how you treat the opposite sex in a relationship starts with your parents. if a woman never saw her mother BUILD something and maintain it together with her father, she's likely going to have no direction as to how to treat a man.
@yomiaramills7 жыл бұрын
I agree with you on shared values. I believe that is why I am still single. This is the most important form of compatibility to me. Not looks, wealth, car driven, social status...etc. At this point in my life if our core values are not aligned, then we are not meant to be, I don't care how good the sex is.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
You are very wise. I'm the same way. I've passed on some very beautiful women because our values didn't align.
@OshayDukeJackson7 жыл бұрын
Pastor I hear you preaching
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
I had to go there Rev. Dr. O.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
bigkev9539 *Slow Clapping*
@michaelhill28347 жыл бұрын
bigkev9539 beautiful statement
@marriogandy95176 жыл бұрын
A long time ago my ex wife texts me this;" we love the ones who hurt us, we hurt the one who love us. We want the ones who rejected us and rejected the one's that want us. That changed my view all a lot.
@meezy31882 жыл бұрын
🔥💯
@christopherjameswright9614 Жыл бұрын
How did she become your ex wife 🧐🧐🧐
@quavariussmith73774 жыл бұрын
They talk about no good men 😂😂😂 good men are everywhere the problem is they just don’t want one
@quavariussmith73774 жыл бұрын
They just don’t want a good man especially a black one and imma a black man myself
@Plemonoo2 жыл бұрын
Well stop paying them attention
@prettybrown62015 жыл бұрын
Safety and comfort is a good place to start. I tell my daughter to run not walk in the opposite direction when a man give you butterflies.......he ain't the one baby!
@cheekslord1222 Жыл бұрын
I think it’s just women in general that reject when you show high interest. A women has to be more interested then the man the results are much better between the 2.
@karimbennett56517 жыл бұрын
They're holding out for a hero. They're looking for a man who's a God. They won't settle for a regular, generic dude. Most of all, they want a man who is unavailable and doesn't want them.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
They do want superman.
@MoveInSilence235 жыл бұрын
Sounds like an old Bonnie Tyler song
@toreyburse13247 жыл бұрын
They make excuses for the brotha's that add value and exceptions for the ones that don't. They've never seen character in a man demonostrated . The closest so many of them got to a daddy was whoever their mama was sleeping with, so they never learn to appreciate the value character brings to an environment . As you pointed out, for every woman that gets dogged out, she knew 2 or 3 brotha's that would have respected her. You wouldn't turn down a $100 bill for a $5. So why turn down $100 brotha for A $5 brotha? Because despite the education and the accolade, she's a $5 woman. Handicap drivers look for handicap parking spaces. Hoes, see value in pimps, drug addicts see value in drug dealers. You can't see value thats beyond your own . Great video.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Very well stated.
@ymarley11802 жыл бұрын
Well said 👌
@insuchaway7 жыл бұрын
Attention is a helluva drug for many women. They respond to attention like a flower responds to sunlight. I have gotten chose before because I ignored her, due to me thinking she'd never dig me. Shit blew my young mind. I will always, always ignore them. Not even for reverse-psychology purposes; I just value my time more as I age. I'm at the point where I'd rather sublimate/pay one to leave to avoid the fuckery.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
I feel you.
@ivandunn13346 жыл бұрын
Wildwood Same here.
@MISTERO707 жыл бұрын
See that's why I be on my success now more than ever ain't truly worth trying to please these women.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
That's the way to be. Live your purpose.
@kylemajor58555 жыл бұрын
I experienced this recently I met this woman she has a child whoa 13 and she 36 I met her months prior then seen her at a city festival. I got the number we vibed for a while( I thought) after the night was over she said we can meet when we are free. Long story short she never txt me back when trying to get know a little more she did not have the respect and decency to reject me and be mature tell me she is not interested it's okay ladies we know we can't make every shot we take. Just be honest it makes it easier for and the person who is interested
@mistakook1616 Жыл бұрын
yeah either they fake like they are interested in you when they are really not. Or they are genuinely interested in you and lose interest in you quickly for what ever reason or no reason at all.
@mackenzieanderson13867 жыл бұрын
now my comments on that is, I'm living my life as good guy; I'm showing women the person I'm really are and they still rejecting me!
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Many women are wack. Even other women will say this.
@busyrand4 жыл бұрын
Great lesson about the spark being anxiety. I'd have never discovered that on my own.
@TheImplerazure7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@ratesforless7 жыл бұрын
Love this video. I'll be dropping a line or two on this soon...
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@detorreonpla34247 жыл бұрын
A woman is looking for traits in a man that signify that he has value and he knows his value. Whether those traits are good or bad morally, a lot of times doesn't matter.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@orlandeuce65677 жыл бұрын
YOU AIN'T NEVER LIED BRO #preach
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@thatguyfromthe6eh6497 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for this classic, one of the best videos I have watched because I know how true it is. The biggest insult to me is they say Black Men ain't shit, there are no good Black Men, BWGTOW. It's mind boggling 💯✊
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@justinlumpkin19297 жыл бұрын
women in general want what they can't have. It's a sad obvious truth that I've witnessed too many times. Some would rather chase after a guy already in a relationship versus the single guy friend who is willing and waiting and it's always some superficial reason for them not dating that particular man. Where as men standards in women are really basic, women standards in men is astronomical no wonder they can't find a good man, they're trying to find Superman.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Sad but true. I've addressed this issue in several videos.
@huberthedringtn84317 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills
@Rclinnov7 жыл бұрын
Good analysis, much appreciated.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Rclinnov7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills Not a prob, Obsidian and Oshay sent me.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Ron Brown They are some powerful brothas.
@malloylouanna60276 жыл бұрын
This is for Rom Wills, I loved your commentary on the subject of black men and women. I really thin you may have something there. You may have given us all something to think about, really. Thank You,
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@KhemistryIBMOR7 жыл бұрын
That "Umph" right? lol...sounds familiar.
@jtw62812 жыл бұрын
Hilarious yet facts. Especially "all of them got somebody or body's checking for them"
@CaliforniaTribalChief7 жыл бұрын
You was sounding like a gangsta at the 19:00 - 19:30 mark Rom. Some Tony Montana type shit. LOL.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Just being raw.
@doreengartrell54286 жыл бұрын
This is so true. Hate to admit it but I have passed up several men like this. I don't have kids and I am not fat. Only dated guys that had a spark in my heart. That last one I dated no spark and the only relationship I regret. I'm fitting this category so well. I would like to think if I wanted marriage it would be different but probably not. You be telling the true true. Make me sick!😥
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
I have to be real.
@pauloskidane28194 жыл бұрын
Damn u don’t get sistas to agree often
@mistakook1616 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to be so blunt but I have no sympathy for you. we all have regrets you made your bed so you lay in it.
@lionheart35407 жыл бұрын
LIFE offers a woman two choices. She's not committed to either. One man she understands LOVES her unconditionally, but SPIRITUAL SACRIFICE is all he has to offer. 2nd man has the POWER and POTENTIAL to show her all the glory of the world. Which man will woman choose???? (SACRIFICE or VANITY)
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Yes that is the choice. Many choose short term pleasure and experience long term pain.
@sagetscippio88786 жыл бұрын
Good video!!
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@doncalypso7 жыл бұрын
Excellent video, Darth Romulus!
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
I keep telling you I'm Grey.
@doncalypso7 жыл бұрын
Heh heh heh
@MISTERO707 жыл бұрын
me too it's only the force/balance
@qineonmorame7 жыл бұрын
There's some truth in this here. Profound.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@lamarjackson56537 жыл бұрын
if your black then you know that the bad boys get all the top girls.i was on a date once and after me being a perfect gentlemen opening the car door and restaurant and movie doors for what i thought at the time was the finest young black female I've ever had.after weeks going out i just ask where our relationship was going because she always was acting cold then she flat out told me she was waiting for this guy to get out of jail.i had a good job for my age at the time a car my own place and money in the bank and to find out she looked at me as nothing and the guy in jail is everything shock me to my core.i don't think black men just wake up wanting other race's of women but if stuff like this keeping happening to you then what would you do.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Though Bad Boys get their share of top women their are other men who get the top women including pretty boys and status men. men who are not in those categories need to look elsewhere for companionship.
@jaimesmith22664 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry to hear that man she isn't worthy of your time at all fuck her she wants a aint shit jailbird let her have him thats her lost certainly not yours.
@darrenhawkins90407 жыл бұрын
What's up Rom, Respect the reject because some times their not ready for your caliber depending on her character yours could be to high or vise versa she don't want to be unappreciated we use female's as stepping stone too your not going to go without until you get what you really want,welcome to the two step party I hope you have some sharp moves with class.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@mrmoe1107 жыл бұрын
black men learn to "settle" EARLY. We learn to like who likes us. some black women never learn this
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@Robert-gw4st5 жыл бұрын
It's true...try this...tell her you like her..then ignore her...it works every time...l myself have been doing this trick for 43 years.. Ignore the one's you like...but becarefull...pick and choose...then you have to many ...that you can't handle... Thanks Rom...from Dallas..one has never failed me..l have only used two time..in my life...here it goes...l don't talk to women I'm attracted too...and leave it a that...never fails...but use it wisely....
@jamesharris300965 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest, most hurtful truth that exist in the black community.
@mrjonathanjackson896 жыл бұрын
its funny cause black women always reject me saying they have a boyfriend but in my head I be thinking he aint gone marry yo ass though. straight statistics. then she becomes a baby mamma and wants a " good man" to raise her kids smh
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Don't worry about the ones that reject you. You might have dogged a bullet or two.
@stuartperry81414 жыл бұрын
I have been underemployed since the Great Recession, I have used my age, my race and where I lived as excuses for lack of success. I come to the point that I need to improve something about my inner self to find contentment no matter where my career path takes me.
@busyrand4 жыл бұрын
Same Bro... Very wise of you to arrive at this conclusion and face it head on.
@StrangelyCrafting19 күн бұрын
Brother that is truly depression. Hope you've gotten out of it.
@IntrovertRockstar10 күн бұрын
This video is still relevant
@jackmanslightpepper7 жыл бұрын
Emotional stimulation, sir. They don't feel that, you're dead in the water.
@motivation-hd7mw5 жыл бұрын
Actually Its more rich black woman who are dating outside their race then rich black men.
@jackcage19643 жыл бұрын
Really! Got evidence
@wearethefuture217 жыл бұрын
You and I have a similar experience with women. I see it and felt it the same way you do.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I thought maybe I was wrong growing up. Thanks for letting me know that others see the same things.
@kdbrown63ify6 жыл бұрын
When you see a spark, you pour some water on that shit 😂
@jackmanslightpepper7 жыл бұрын
Black women dream about being princesses from birth to death. Because of this, they keep holding out for that prince who will make them feel that spark.
@vanaphill24545 жыл бұрын
and the Prince isn't coming, he's dead.
@jdominian95045 жыл бұрын
My dear brother I'm smh right along with you on this?
@dionwest7880 Жыл бұрын
This popped up on my timeline and it’s ironic
@joefromdc7 жыл бұрын
preach slow clap
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Bruh.
@musicfan-zh3zu5 жыл бұрын
Jada Pinkett put it best you shouldn't settle for candles if you want fireworks. Sometimes once a man gets you he thinks the work is done and he stops working for you. We like to feel cherished and special. Keep it fun. Don't let the spark go out just because we've found each other. Lets keep each other by not letting things get stale. When things get stale or a man seems to not even be trying it makes you wonder if they've lost interest. It makes us want to walk away If we don't know where we stand.
@abanfrancis64003 жыл бұрын
Why do y'all have to always be entertained? Y'all really are like children. Jesus.
@themarathoncontinues4211 Жыл бұрын
This aged terribly. Taking advice from Jada 😂😂😂
@milliondollarblueprint50687 жыл бұрын
common sense but facts! great video
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@abrown8122247 жыл бұрын
preach
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@assaa50697 жыл бұрын
Yep
@PamelaTaylor7 жыл бұрын
CRAZY PEOPLE THROW AWAY THING WHICH IS THE UPMOST GOOD FOR THEM
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
True.
@brightful56 жыл бұрын
Date women over seas and keep them their
@redaquarian86657 жыл бұрын
True.
@robbiebouldwin89547 жыл бұрын
ok I've been married for 2 years with a black women and still is and I saw goodness in her and she see that in me and that's called true love but you have to be careful because sometimes it don't work out for those bw who think that they can control men but little that they know that most men such as me don't like that. black women if you want a black men then stop trying to be fake and be real to your man for he will treat you like a queen but you have to give him something to respect you about.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Now that's the testimony we need to hear. I always said the Black couples that are making it work need to have their voices heard.
@HelpMe-kj2kh7 жыл бұрын
Why my girlfriend keep bashing her ex on social media? I mean they haven't been talking for almost a year now because I've been with her? What does that mean?
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
She still wants him on some level.
@HelpMe-kj2kh7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills i knew it, thanks man
@MoveInSilence235 жыл бұрын
1. She still wants him 2. She doesn't want him to move on 3. She doesn't want anyone else having him 4. She's an idiot
@vaushawnbrown21105 жыл бұрын
Hows the update, u still with her?
@stuartperry81414 жыл бұрын
He went on to say that because I was tall I was more attractive to these women. What really was bothering him was no girls at the time was paying him any mind. I often do this myself in my life
@therealflamelit7 жыл бұрын
any thoughts on Southern Moms?grandmas who tell their kids/grandkids not to date outside the race?
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
It was their culture and the times.
@valarieford84175 жыл бұрын
If I have the right man I wouldn't reject him but you must have some attraction to him and have things in common
@thenonchalantblackidiotsav53167 жыл бұрын
The title says it all
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@SteveSmith-kd9if7 жыл бұрын
Lol, they don't have that spark!
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
That's what they say.
@offrecord98023 жыл бұрын
I think sexual attraction has a lot to do with this.
@RomWills3 жыл бұрын
Shhhhh!
@anthonybuckley73466 жыл бұрын
Sparks are just lust let just keep it 100!
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@MrPlaymakers117 жыл бұрын
I agree with Joe
@larrybradley38095 ай бұрын
It depends on what type of person imprinted on her because she will be receptive to similar men. Some of these women got the low class man they wanted and got burned. Now they hold a grudge against men for their experience. You said some women need to feel that spark. I think that spark can be something as simple as jealousy. If a woman sees a man that she wants giving his time and energy to one of her friends it may trigger her to make a move? Then again some women are just trifling and just enjoy creating chaos lol I have to give all the credit to Master Rom for laying down all this knowledge.
@socaluv647 жыл бұрын
Yes, the " Disney Love " is only fantasy. One minute you'll be crazy in love, then the next, you can't stand one another. Yet, if the love is solid, you get past all the bs ideas of what perfect love should be. Get somebody just as crazy as your ass and be free lol.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
LOL! I had a friend who sat in on a marriage counseling session. After listening to the couple he thought they should just work it out because nobody else would put up with their stuff.
@socaluv647 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills , lol, exactly! Best to get in where you fit in with relationships I know I'm work in some ways, but I feel like I'm a catch. I believe more men and women need to allow their worth to outweigh those fixable flaws . Good video 👍👍👍
@therealflamelit7 жыл бұрын
hell I asked my own wife that..Who else is crazy enough to tolerate you and your family for this long?
@user-im8ht1wl3u3 жыл бұрын
Gospel
@g.v.fitmason13267 жыл бұрын
I thought it was me😂😂😂
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
This is very common. I'm just saying it out loud.
@BrooklynMoor7 жыл бұрын
They Used 2 have a term in NBA called "Ice water flowin in your Veins" to describe a cold hearted shot maker in the clutch dont hear it any more but Rom sounds like that one.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@tonyphills60752 жыл бұрын
Without even seeing the video I'm saying this is true so many of my friends be going all overboard for these women and I don't know what for because they treat them like dirt. Then the woman chases after dudes that got 500 girls already or somebody that's married I just don't get this world that's why I just get in where I fit in and keep it moving but you'll never catch me spoiling no girl going broke unless she's madly in love with me
@rmemphis31546 жыл бұрын
And black women wonder why we reject them smh
@salsaqueen49116 жыл бұрын
This is crazy there's a guy that is head over heels for me just one problem we work at the same job. Now i know you don't get your honey were you make your money, but let me add this to the equation. I work 2 jobs this particular one I've been at 17 yrs and is a p/t job I can count how many successful relationships have come out of this job 3. I would roll the dice but fear is what keeps me still, yet what if ???
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
You have to do a risk assessment. Is this man worth more than your job.
@mechpara41046 жыл бұрын
Yes. Friend zone people can still sleep with the woman.
@bjmartin66847 жыл бұрын
First of all, I live in the real world. Where are the black men in the homes. Secondly, "you can't expect what you are not bringing in to the table" and you can't expect someone to do something for you, when you're not willing to do it for yourself. This applies to men and women and in any aspect of life. Men and women have to much pride to lead by example. There are a lot of black women who are handling their business. Going to school, working and taking care of their children alone. Black women are holding up the black community and have been for so long. Some black men want to do whatever they want to do and still have the woman waiting with open arms and dismiss your transgressions. Black women want to loved and appreciated as well.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
According to an official study conducted by the Center for Disease Control, a Government agency Black Fathers are the MOST involved fathers in America - www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr071.pdf. So your first point is DEBUNKED. You did NOT address the issue of Black women IGNORING the Black men who are doing good works out here. Address that issue.
@princecharming81257 жыл бұрын
this video name is the main reason why i never dated nor received my first kiss and lived as a asexual during my 26 years i been alive. If i ever get a woman she will know im a untouched blank slate. Women think i just want sex is bull shit. I spent 26 years untouched and counting, i have no hesitation to make her wait until merrage. True story
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
More Black woman need to acknowledge the "rejection of Black men" issue.
@memphismanne92647 жыл бұрын
Great video. Honestly, I'm almost done on waiting for the maturity of black women to evolve. They seem to be doing just fine without a decent brother. No hate, we just can't relate.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
I understand.
@ramelhagins66982 жыл бұрын
Wow friend zone but still get the 🐈.
@ferget91117 жыл бұрын
its as crazy as fuck that all i could say.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Seen.
@deebeautiful847 жыл бұрын
Women like men with some umph, the same way you like a "phat ass" women like a certain kind of man. Im not to into the suave ladies man because he has his pick of the litter, I dated someone like that in my early 20's, he loved black women, all of em, way too much.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Fair enough.
@310bound5 жыл бұрын
Well, unless he's white
@stuartperry81414 жыл бұрын
I hate when someone speaks in generalities about anyone. Back in the nineties I lived in Atlanta. A friend of mine was speaking about how stuck up so many sisters were. This was during time that we would see many women in the streets after work shopping. He said that no girls would say hello to him we he spoke to them out at the mall ,downtown, etc. I said that was funny I did not have that problem most women I made eye contact with spoke to me. Then and now.
@cyrusjohn12655 жыл бұрын
indian pakistani womans also like this
@giveme10feet6 жыл бұрын
"spark" or "drama"? I think drama...but LL Cool J sd it best " women dont want a man that another woman doesnt want"! Damn. But even if they are evenly "yoked" they should give each other some amount of "spark" at least 2x a wk!
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@vinnybruce28744 жыл бұрын
I am the most not selective mostly one black women than whites and other race.
@jubeetobbe50257 жыл бұрын
Ok if there was no spark than what's wrong with that???????????
@thomasmartin-rx2uu7 жыл бұрын
What's wrong with that is usually he's not tall enough or cute enough or built enough.all superficial.
@jaimesmith22664 жыл бұрын
thomas martin Thats the biggest problem its all about looks and not about the guys personality dating is impossible now days
@bobrew4615 жыл бұрын
what about the non-working sistaz that turn their noses up at hard working bros? worth a video?
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
I ignore low class women like that.
@barackthecomposer66422 жыл бұрын
👢bootcamp No better classroom📚 No better school🏫 than being rejected by a feminist FOOL.
@joefromdc7 жыл бұрын
Rom, if that is the case, why are so many woman caught up in fairyland. what about reality can black woman not face
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
As men we enable it. Other commentators talked about Thirsty Men. As a group we have bag practice of telling women what they want to hear in order to get the panties. Some women don't really to hear the truth. Many have their head stuck in the sand.
@wonderfullymademedia4 жыл бұрын
Spark. A lot of y’all are just boring and lack social skills. You wouldn’t pursue someone that was boring so why expect a woman to want that?
@MsJoyce312025 жыл бұрын
Yall stop believing these statics. Somebody does one study that doesn't involve us and we take it as truth. Even with several studies, it may not be true in our life at all.
@corsicanlulu7 жыл бұрын
assortive mating. people need to humble themselves and get who they can get and be happy w/ that. only an angelina jolie can get a brad pitt u know? unattractive people need to stay in their lane instead of aspiring for whats impossible
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
So what do you think about women who insist on engaging in hypergamy?
@js98497 жыл бұрын
corsican lulu but looks are always debatable & subjective not every woman finds brad pit attractive & personally Angelina is not my type you never know how a woman views you or herself the same chick you said was a 10 could be a 5 to me & a 7 to herself
@Jxo9016 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@barackthecomposer66422 жыл бұрын
Lord, Help me to never lose a good erection over a Stinkin narcissistic rejection. Amen 🙏🏿
@MarcoJah6 жыл бұрын
Rom I’m starting think you crazy. Do you stay up just always doing shit.
@RomWills6 жыл бұрын
I just post real early.
@valarieford84175 жыл бұрын
I have a man who likes me he wants me he works has kids he had kids late in life he is almost 60 drinks to much when he picked me up from Newark New Jersey train. station he beer in his breath I should not have got in the car we drive to East Orange New Jersey he almost hits a car speeding I had to ask God to protect us I found liquor in the glove compartment drinks all weekend in the morning Hennsey he wants to get closer never I'm not desperate I don't date alcoholics sometimes men like you but they have a lot if mess in there lives financial problems baby mamma drama in there fifties living in there mother's house
@RomWills5 жыл бұрын
You don't need to deal with that sis.
@bjmartin66847 жыл бұрын
I agree with Wisdom Speaks. Black men stop getting on UT complaining about black women. What are black men doing to better their communities? You're always talking about black women don't know ow their roles, do you know your roles as men. Black men you must lead from the front and lead by example. You want to talk about black women not wanting to submit, black men have to submit as well. GOD, man, then woman. Until black men do what they are called to do as men, the problem will continue. Black women need to know their roles as well. We have to come together as a people. We need to wake up black people. Read Deuteronomy, Chapter 28. It will help open our eyes to why we struggling as a people.
@RomWills7 жыл бұрын
Many Black men are doing things in the community. The problem is that too many Black women ignore them and act like they don't exist. Listen to what the men are actually saying on youtube. The problem is that too many women would rather focus on the no good men instead of the good ones actually doing something. If you are living in the real world you see this for yourself.