Black Women Reject the Men Who Want Them the Most

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Rom Wills

Rom Wills

7 жыл бұрын

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@erictbrown1
@erictbrown1 7 жыл бұрын
Which is why I don't have a problem of dating outside of my race and don't care if people have a problem with it.
@millionshadesofdarkness2165
@millionshadesofdarkness2165 7 жыл бұрын
+Kirigakure Jones i have BW come at me all the time and trust me you not missing out on shit. nothing but a pile of baggage and drama, most at least. i have had a few decent BW come to me but they almost ALWAYs had kids, which for me is an instant cut off.
@kingtutsirai9356
@kingtutsirai9356 7 жыл бұрын
oh trust me they do.
@millionshadesofdarkness2165
@millionshadesofdarkness2165 7 жыл бұрын
***** every woman (all races) ive been with had lesbian tendencies, especially the ones that claim a "woman cant do nothin' for me."
@jameleason8200
@jameleason8200 6 жыл бұрын
Eric Brown why should they it's your prerogative
@MegaPsycho84
@MegaPsycho84 6 жыл бұрын
Preach. If they don’t like it? Then keep doing it. Let the salt burn em in the eyes.
@omoowobhd
@omoowobhd 6 жыл бұрын
This is on point, some of these females want to be ENTERTAINED! I remember hearing this bs from females yrs. ago about a lack of spark or chemistry & they wind up being dissatisfied & blaming somebody else for it instead of taking responsibility for their choices. Overall, black men are valiant & supportive & tolerant of situations where women are seriously intolerant. I mean GOOD MEN ONLY.
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@alvinhollingeriii2562
@alvinhollingeriii2562 7 жыл бұрын
I think that the men who Relentlessly go to help out woman that don't respect them are asking for trouble and at some level have some deep rooted issues. You Can't be in a position of Respecting yourself if you allow people in your immediate environment to keep Disrespecting You. Your Life is Bigger than that.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@alvinhollingeriii2562
@alvinhollingeriii2562 7 жыл бұрын
The Environment does not allow women to really look at themselves deep enough to make a change to be more cooperative. The incentive is off. So in general the men have to learn how to value and take care of themselves and find the women that will cooperate with them. Could be a black woman or a woman of a different culture. If you are messing with a woman that only respects dysfunctional men, let them go leave them alone, change yourself and your environment for the better.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Bruh the comments you drop are worthy of a book. Great insights.
@js9849
@js9849 7 жыл бұрын
Exactly cooperation is key.
@MrAmbassador11
@MrAmbassador11 5 жыл бұрын
For some reason, dysfunctional men are held in high esteem. Maybe it comes down to compatibility. Dysfunctional women like dysfunctional men. If you are not aiming for something in life, how can you relate to someone who is?
@carolborela407
@carolborela407 5 жыл бұрын
When a righteous man find a wife the "Proverb 31 woman" , he find a good thing these kinds of people finding each other , don't have any problems staying with each other. The Society is preoccupied with looks and clout instead of righteousness.Great video Rom Wills.
@terencethomas7891
@terencethomas7891 2 жыл бұрын
I had to learn the hardway that, the nicer you treat a woman the less she will respect you , in most cases black women want black men who are edgy and charming, and other women got to want him
@JayWizzielTV
@JayWizzielTV 6 жыл бұрын
Great video. From my experience, the more attention that you show MOST(not all) black women, the more they ignore you. These are even the women who are physically attracted to certain black men. As a man, you have to put some forth effort to make any type of relationship work. However, it's supposed to be a two way street. The moment that you start showing MOST bw a decent amount of attention is when they stop putting forth any type of effort. I'm not saying that I"m completely closed off to dating black women as a whole, but I'm no longer putting up with their bullshit just to be with them. There's always decent women of other races checking for me, so it may be a sign that I"m more accepted by them than sistas.
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Go where you are celebrated.
@JayWizzielTV
@JayWizzielTV 6 жыл бұрын
yes sir!
@Plemonoo
@Plemonoo 2 жыл бұрын
Bro you have to date who likes you and stop forcing yourself through hell
@meezy3188
@meezy3188 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao facts
@Illuminated7
@Illuminated7 7 жыл бұрын
I can boil it down to a woman's relationship with her father. if she has daddy issues, run, run as fast as you can. because her daddy issues will become your issues.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Now that's real talk right there. That's a whole video I need to do.
@Illuminated7
@Illuminated7 7 жыл бұрын
I will not say "every" because I do like to speak in absolute terms. if the woman does not have a positive imagine of daddy then her ability to have a healthy relationship with a man is severely compromised.
@Illuminated7
@Illuminated7 7 жыл бұрын
it requires a reprogramming for our community that teaches that black men and women have devine relationship and that anything else goes against nature. so yes it can change if we change the narrative.
@jeremiahgiles3593
@jeremiahgiles3593 7 жыл бұрын
+Diamone Fowler girls need a father figure in their lives just as much as young boys/men. The idea of how you treat the opposite sex in a relationship starts with your parents. if a woman never saw her mother BUILD something and maintain it together with her father, she's likely going to have no direction as to how to treat a man.
@jeremiahgiles3593
@jeremiahgiles3593 7 жыл бұрын
+Diamone Fowler girls need a father figure in their lives just as much as young boys/men. The idea of how you treat the opposite sex in a relationship starts with your parents. if a woman never saw her mother BUILD something and maintain it together with her father, she's likely going to have no direction as to how to treat a man.
@yomiaramills
@yomiaramills 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with you on shared values. I believe that is why I am still single. This is the most important form of compatibility to me. Not looks, wealth, car driven, social status...etc. At this point in my life if our core values are not aligned, then we are not meant to be, I don't care how good the sex is.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
You are very wise. I'm the same way. I've passed on some very beautiful women because our values didn't align.
@OshayDukeJackson
@OshayDukeJackson 7 жыл бұрын
Pastor I hear you preaching
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I had to go there Rev. Dr. O.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
bigkev9539 *Slow Clapping*
@michaelhill2834
@michaelhill2834 7 жыл бұрын
bigkev9539 beautiful statement
@marriogandy9517
@marriogandy9517 6 жыл бұрын
A long time ago my ex wife texts me this;" we love the ones who hurt us, we hurt the one who love us. We want the ones who rejected us and rejected the one's that want us. That changed my view all a lot.
@meezy3188
@meezy3188 2 жыл бұрын
🔥💯
@christopherjameswright9614
@christopherjameswright9614 Жыл бұрын
How did she become your ex wife 🧐🧐🧐
@quavariussmith7377
@quavariussmith7377 4 жыл бұрын
They talk about no good men 😂😂😂 good men are everywhere the problem is they just don’t want one
@quavariussmith7377
@quavariussmith7377 4 жыл бұрын
They just don’t want a good man especially a black one and imma a black man myself
@Plemonoo
@Plemonoo 2 жыл бұрын
Well stop paying them attention
@prettybrown6201
@prettybrown6201 5 жыл бұрын
Safety and comfort is a good place to start. I tell my daughter to run not walk in the opposite direction when a man give you butterflies.......he ain't the one baby!
@cheekslord1222
@cheekslord1222 Жыл бұрын
I think it’s just women in general that reject when you show high interest. A women has to be more interested then the man the results are much better between the 2.
@karimbennett5651
@karimbennett5651 7 жыл бұрын
They're holding out for a hero. They're looking for a man who's a God. They won't settle for a regular, generic dude. Most of all, they want a man who is unavailable and doesn't want them.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
They do want superman.
@MoveInSilence23
@MoveInSilence23 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like an old Bonnie Tyler song
@toreyburse1324
@toreyburse1324 7 жыл бұрын
They make excuses for the brotha's that add value and exceptions for the ones that don't. They've never seen character in a man demonostrated . The closest so many of them got to a daddy was whoever their mama was sleeping with, so they never learn to appreciate the value character brings to an environment . As you pointed out, for every woman that gets dogged out, she knew 2 or 3 brotha's that would have respected her. You wouldn't turn down a $100 bill for a $5. So why turn down $100 brotha for A $5 brotha? Because despite the education and the accolade, she's a $5 woman. Handicap drivers look for handicap parking spaces. Hoes, see value in pimps, drug addicts see value in drug dealers. You can't see value thats beyond your own . Great video.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Very well stated.
@ymarley1180
@ymarley1180 2 жыл бұрын
Well said 👌
@insuchaway
@insuchaway 7 жыл бұрын
Attention is a helluva drug for many women. They respond to attention like a flower responds to sunlight. I have gotten chose before because I ignored her, due to me thinking she'd never dig me. Shit blew my young mind. I will always, always ignore them. Not even for reverse-psychology purposes; I just value my time more as I age. I'm at the point where I'd rather sublimate/pay one to leave to avoid the fuckery.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I feel you.
@ivandunn1334
@ivandunn1334 6 жыл бұрын
Wildwood Same here.
@MISTERO70
@MISTERO70 7 жыл бұрын
See that's why I be on my success now more than ever ain't truly worth trying to please these women.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's the way to be. Live your purpose.
@kylemajor5855
@kylemajor5855 5 жыл бұрын
I experienced this recently I met this woman she has a child whoa 13 and she 36 I met her months prior then seen her at a city festival. I got the number we vibed for a while( I thought) after the night was over she said we can meet when we are free. Long story short she never txt me back when trying to get know a little more she did not have the respect and decency to reject me and be mature tell me she is not interested it's okay ladies we know we can't make every shot we take. Just be honest it makes it easier for and the person who is interested
@mistakook1616
@mistakook1616 Жыл бұрын
yeah either they fake like they are interested in you when they are really not. Or they are genuinely interested in you and lose interest in you quickly for what ever reason or no reason at all.
@mackenzieanderson1386
@mackenzieanderson1386 7 жыл бұрын
now my comments on that is, I'm living my life as good guy; I'm showing women the person I'm really are and they​ still rejecting me!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Many women are wack. Even other women will say this.
@busyrand
@busyrand 4 жыл бұрын
Great lesson about the spark being anxiety. I'd have never discovered that on my own.
@TheImplerazure
@TheImplerazure 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about this.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@ratesforless
@ratesforless 7 жыл бұрын
Love this video. I'll be dropping a line or two on this soon...
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@detorreonpla3424
@detorreonpla3424 7 жыл бұрын
A woman is looking for traits in a man that signify that he has value and he knows his value. Whether those traits are good or bad morally, a lot of times doesn't matter.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@orlandeuce6567
@orlandeuce6567 7 жыл бұрын
YOU AIN'T NEVER LIED BRO #preach
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@thatguyfromthe6eh649
@thatguyfromthe6eh649 7 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for this classic, one of the best videos I have watched because I know how true it is. The biggest insult to me is they say Black Men ain't shit, there are no good Black Men, BWGTOW. It's mind boggling 💯✊
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@justinlumpkin1929
@justinlumpkin1929 7 жыл бұрын
women in general want what they can't have. It's a sad obvious truth that I've witnessed too many times. Some would rather chase after a guy already in a relationship versus the single guy friend who is willing and waiting and it's always some superficial reason for them not dating that particular man. Where as men standards in women are really basic, women standards in men is astronomical no wonder they can't find a good man, they're trying to find Superman.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Sad but true. I've addressed this issue in several videos.
@huberthedringtn8431
@huberthedringtn8431 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills
@Rclinnov
@Rclinnov 7 жыл бұрын
Good analysis, much appreciated.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@Rclinnov
@Rclinnov 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills Not a prob, Obsidian and Oshay sent me.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Ron Brown They are some powerful brothas.
@malloylouanna6027
@malloylouanna6027 6 жыл бұрын
This is for Rom Wills, I loved your commentary on the subject of black men and women. I really thin you may have something there. You may have given us all something to think about, really. Thank You,
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@KhemistryIBMOR
@KhemistryIBMOR 7 жыл бұрын
That "Umph" right? lol...sounds familiar.
@jtw6281
@jtw6281 2 жыл бұрын
Hilarious yet facts. Especially "all of them got somebody or body's checking for them"
@CaliforniaTribalChief
@CaliforniaTribalChief 7 жыл бұрын
You was sounding like a gangsta at the 19:00 - 19:30 mark Rom. Some Tony Montana type shit. LOL.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Just being raw.
@doreengartrell5428
@doreengartrell5428 6 жыл бұрын
This is so true. Hate to admit it but I have passed up several men like this. I don't have kids and I am not fat. Only dated guys that had a spark in my heart. That last one I dated no spark and the only relationship I regret. I'm fitting this category so well. I would like to think if I wanted marriage it would be different but probably not. You be telling the true true. Make me sick!😥
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
I have to be real.
@pauloskidane2819
@pauloskidane2819 4 жыл бұрын
Damn u don’t get sistas to agree often
@mistakook1616
@mistakook1616 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to be so blunt but I have no sympathy for you. we all have regrets you made your bed so you lay in it.
@lionheart3540
@lionheart3540 7 жыл бұрын
LIFE offers a woman two choices. She's not committed to either. One man she understands LOVES her unconditionally, but SPIRITUAL SACRIFICE is all he has to offer. 2nd man has the POWER and POTENTIAL to show her all the glory of the world. Which man will woman choose???? (SACRIFICE or VANITY)
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Yes that is the choice. Many choose short term pleasure and experience long term pain.
@sagetscippio8878
@sagetscippio8878 6 жыл бұрын
Good video!!
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@doncalypso
@doncalypso 7 жыл бұрын
Excellent video, Darth Romulus!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I keep telling you I'm Grey.
@doncalypso
@doncalypso 7 жыл бұрын
Heh heh heh
@MISTERO70
@MISTERO70 7 жыл бұрын
me too it's only the force/balance
@qineonmorame
@qineonmorame 7 жыл бұрын
There's some truth in this here. Profound.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@lamarjackson5653
@lamarjackson5653 7 жыл бұрын
if your black then you know that the bad boys get all the top girls.i was on a date once and after me being a perfect gentlemen opening the car door and restaurant and movie doors for what i thought at the time was the finest young black female I've ever had.after weeks going out i just ask where our relationship was going because she always was acting cold then she flat out told me she was waiting for this guy to get out of jail.i had a good job for my age at the time a car my own place and money in the bank and to find out she looked at me as nothing and the guy in jail is everything shock me to my core.i don't think black men just wake up wanting other race's of women but if stuff like this keeping happening to you then what would you do.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Though Bad Boys get their share of top women their are other men who get the top women including pretty boys and status men. men who are not in those categories need to look elsewhere for companionship.
@jaimesmith2266
@jaimesmith2266 4 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry to hear that man she isn't worthy of your time at all fuck her she wants a aint shit jailbird let her have him thats her lost certainly not yours.
@darrenhawkins9040
@darrenhawkins9040 7 жыл бұрын
What's up Rom, Respect the reject because some times their not ready for your caliber depending on her character yours could be to high or vise versa she don't want to be unappreciated we use female's as stepping stone too your not going to go without until you get what you really want,welcome to the two step party I hope you have some sharp moves with class.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@mrmoe110
@mrmoe110 7 жыл бұрын
black men learn to "settle" EARLY. We learn to like who likes us. some black women never learn this
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Correct.
@Robert-gw4st
@Robert-gw4st 5 жыл бұрын
It's true...try this...tell her you like her..then ignore her...it works every time...l myself have been doing this trick for 43 years.. Ignore the one's you like...but becarefull...pick and choose...then you have to many ...that you can't handle... Thanks Rom...from Dallas..one has never failed me..l have only used two time..in my life...here it goes...l don't talk to women I'm attracted too...and leave it a that...never fails...but use it wisely....
@jamesharris30096
@jamesharris30096 5 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest, most hurtful truth that exist in the black community.
@mrjonathanjackson89
@mrjonathanjackson89 6 жыл бұрын
its funny cause black women always reject me saying they have a boyfriend but in my head I be thinking he aint gone marry yo ass though. straight statistics. then she becomes a baby mamma and wants a " good man" to raise her kids smh
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Don't worry about the ones that reject you. You might have dogged a bullet or two.
@stuartperry8141
@stuartperry8141 4 жыл бұрын
I have been underemployed since the Great Recession, I have used my age, my race and where I lived as excuses for lack of success. I come to the point that I need to improve something about my inner self to find contentment no matter where my career path takes me.
@busyrand
@busyrand 4 жыл бұрын
Same Bro... Very wise of you to arrive at this conclusion and face it head on.
@StrangelyCrafting
@StrangelyCrafting 19 күн бұрын
Brother that is truly depression. Hope you've gotten out of it.
@IntrovertRockstar
@IntrovertRockstar 10 күн бұрын
This video is still relevant
@jackmanslightpepper
@jackmanslightpepper 7 жыл бұрын
Emotional stimulation, sir. They don't feel that, you're dead in the water.
@motivation-hd7mw
@motivation-hd7mw 5 жыл бұрын
Actually Its more rich black woman who are dating outside their race then rich black men.
@jackcage1964
@jackcage1964 3 жыл бұрын
Really! Got evidence
@wearethefuture21
@wearethefuture21 7 жыл бұрын
You and I have a similar experience with women. I see it and felt it the same way you do.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I thought maybe I was wrong growing up. Thanks for letting me know that others see the same things.
@kdbrown63ify
@kdbrown63ify 6 жыл бұрын
When you see a spark, you pour some water on that shit 😂
@jackmanslightpepper
@jackmanslightpepper 7 жыл бұрын
Black women dream about being princesses from birth to death. Because of this, they keep holding out for that prince who will make them feel that spark.
@vanaphill2454
@vanaphill2454 5 жыл бұрын
and the Prince isn't coming, he's dead.
@jdominian9504
@jdominian9504 5 жыл бұрын
My dear brother I'm smh right along with you on this?
@dionwest7880
@dionwest7880 Жыл бұрын
This popped up on my timeline and it’s ironic
@joefromdc
@joefromdc 7 жыл бұрын
preach slow clap
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Bruh.
@musicfan-zh3zu
@musicfan-zh3zu 5 жыл бұрын
Jada Pinkett put it best you shouldn't settle for candles if you want fireworks. Sometimes once a man gets you he thinks the work is done and he stops working for you. We like to feel cherished and special. Keep it fun. Don't let the spark go out just because we've found each other. Lets keep each other by not letting things get stale. When things get stale or a man seems to not even be trying it makes you wonder if they've lost interest. It makes us want to walk away If we don't know where we stand.
@abanfrancis6400
@abanfrancis6400 3 жыл бұрын
Why do y'all have to always be entertained? Y'all really are like children. Jesus.
@themarathoncontinues4211
@themarathoncontinues4211 Жыл бұрын
This aged terribly. Taking advice from Jada 😂😂😂
@milliondollarblueprint5068
@milliondollarblueprint5068 7 жыл бұрын
common sense but facts! great video
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@abrown812224
@abrown812224 7 жыл бұрын
preach
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@assaa5069
@assaa5069 7 жыл бұрын
Yep
@PamelaTaylor
@PamelaTaylor 7 жыл бұрын
CRAZY PEOPLE THROW AWAY THING WHICH IS THE UPMOST GOOD FOR THEM
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
True.
@brightful5
@brightful5 6 жыл бұрын
Date women over seas and keep them their
@redaquarian8665
@redaquarian8665 7 жыл бұрын
True.
@robbiebouldwin8954
@robbiebouldwin8954 7 жыл бұрын
ok I've been married for 2 years with a black women and still is and I saw goodness in her and she see that in me and that's called true love but you have to be careful because sometimes it don't work out for those bw who think that they can control men but little that they know that most men such as me don't like that. black women if you want a black men then stop trying to be fake and be real to your man for he will treat you like a queen but you have to give him something to respect you about.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Now that's the testimony we need to hear. I always said the Black couples that are making it work need to have their voices heard.
@HelpMe-kj2kh
@HelpMe-kj2kh 7 жыл бұрын
Why my girlfriend keep bashing her ex on social media? I mean they haven't been talking for almost a year now because I've been with her? What does that mean?
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
She still wants him on some level.
@HelpMe-kj2kh
@HelpMe-kj2kh 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills i knew it, thanks man
@MoveInSilence23
@MoveInSilence23 5 жыл бұрын
1. She still wants him 2. She doesn't want him to move on 3. She doesn't want anyone else having him 4. She's an idiot
@vaushawnbrown2110
@vaushawnbrown2110 5 жыл бұрын
Hows the update, u still with her?
@stuartperry8141
@stuartperry8141 4 жыл бұрын
He went on to say that because I was tall I was more attractive to these women. What really was bothering him was no girls at the time was paying him any mind. I often do this myself in my life
@therealflamelit
@therealflamelit 7 жыл бұрын
any thoughts on Southern Moms?grandmas who tell their kids/grandkids not to date outside the race?
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
It was their culture and the times.
@valarieford8417
@valarieford8417 5 жыл бұрын
If I have the right man I wouldn't reject him but you must have some attraction to him and have things in common
@thenonchalantblackidiotsav5316
@thenonchalantblackidiotsav5316 7 жыл бұрын
The title says it all
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@SteveSmith-kd9if
@SteveSmith-kd9if 7 жыл бұрын
Lol, they don't have that spark!
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
That's what they say.
@offrecord9802
@offrecord9802 3 жыл бұрын
I think sexual attraction has a lot to do with this.
@RomWills
@RomWills 3 жыл бұрын
Shhhhh!
@anthonybuckley7346
@anthonybuckley7346 6 жыл бұрын
Sparks are just lust let just keep it 100!
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@MrPlaymakers11
@MrPlaymakers11 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with Joe
@larrybradley3809
@larrybradley3809 5 ай бұрын
It depends on what type of person imprinted on her because she will be receptive to similar men. Some of these women got the low class man they wanted and got burned. Now they hold a grudge against men for their experience. You said some women need to feel that spark. I think that spark can be something as simple as jealousy. If a woman sees a man that she wants giving his time and energy to one of her friends it may trigger her to make a move? Then again some women are just trifling and just enjoy creating chaos lol I have to give all the credit to Master Rom for laying down all this knowledge.
@socaluv64
@socaluv64 7 жыл бұрын
Yes, the " Disney Love " is only fantasy. One minute you'll be crazy in love, then the next, you can't stand one another. Yet, if the love is solid, you get past all the bs ideas of what perfect love should be. Get somebody just as crazy as your ass and be free lol.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
LOL! I had a friend who sat in on a marriage counseling session. After listening to the couple he thought they should just work it out because nobody else would put up with their stuff.
@socaluv64
@socaluv64 7 жыл бұрын
Rom Wills , lol, exactly! Best to get in where you fit in with relationships I know I'm work in some ways, but I feel like I'm a catch. I believe more men and women need to allow their worth to outweigh those fixable flaws . Good video 👍👍👍
@therealflamelit
@therealflamelit 7 жыл бұрын
hell I asked my own wife that..Who else is crazy enough to tolerate you and your family for this long?
@user-im8ht1wl3u
@user-im8ht1wl3u 3 жыл бұрын
Gospel
@g.v.fitmason1326
@g.v.fitmason1326 7 жыл бұрын
I thought it was me😂😂😂
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
This is very common. I'm just saying it out loud.
@BrooklynMoor
@BrooklynMoor 7 жыл бұрын
They Used 2 have a term in NBA called "Ice water flowin in your Veins" to describe a cold hearted shot maker in the clutch dont hear it any more but Rom sounds like that one.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@tonyphills6075
@tonyphills6075 2 жыл бұрын
Without even seeing the video I'm saying this is true so many of my friends be going all overboard for these women and I don't know what for because they treat them like dirt. Then the woman chases after dudes that got 500 girls already or somebody that's married I just don't get this world that's why I just get in where I fit in and keep it moving but you'll never catch me spoiling no girl going broke unless she's madly in love with me
@rmemphis3154
@rmemphis3154 6 жыл бұрын
And black women wonder why we reject them smh
@salsaqueen4911
@salsaqueen4911 6 жыл бұрын
This is crazy there's a guy that is head over heels for me just one problem we work at the same job. Now i know you don't get your honey were you make your money, but let me add this to the equation. I work 2 jobs this particular one I've been at 17 yrs and is a p/t job I can count how many successful relationships have come out of this job 3. I would roll the dice but fear is what keeps me still, yet what if ???
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
You have to do a risk assessment. Is this man worth more than your job.
@mechpara4104
@mechpara4104 6 жыл бұрын
Yes. Friend zone people can still sleep with the woman.
@bjmartin6684
@bjmartin6684 7 жыл бұрын
First of all, I live in the real world. Where are the black men in the homes. Secondly, "you can't expect what you are not bringing in to the table" and you can't expect someone to do something for you, when you're not willing to do it for yourself. This applies to men and women and in any aspect of life. Men and women have to much pride to lead by example. There are a lot of black women who are handling their business. Going to school, working and taking care of their children alone. Black women are holding up the black community and have been for so long. Some black men want to do whatever they want to do and still have the woman waiting with open arms and dismiss your transgressions. Black women want to loved and appreciated as well.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
According to an official study conducted by the Center for Disease Control, a Government agency Black Fathers are the MOST involved fathers in America - www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr071.pdf. So your first point is DEBUNKED. You did NOT address the issue of Black women IGNORING the Black men who are doing good works out here. Address that issue.
@princecharming8125
@princecharming8125 7 жыл бұрын
this video name is the main reason why i never dated nor received my first kiss and lived as a asexual during my 26 years i been alive. If i ever get a woman she will know im a untouched blank slate. Women think i just want sex is bull shit. I spent 26 years untouched and counting, i have no hesitation to make her wait until merrage. True story
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
More Black woman need to acknowledge the "rejection of Black men" issue.
@memphismanne9264
@memphismanne9264 7 жыл бұрын
Great video. Honestly, I'm almost done on waiting for the maturity of black women to evolve. They seem to be doing just fine without a decent brother. No hate, we just can't relate.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
I understand.
@ramelhagins6698
@ramelhagins6698 2 жыл бұрын
Wow friend zone but still get the 🐈.
@ferget9111
@ferget9111 7 жыл бұрын
its as crazy as fuck that all i could say.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Seen.
@deebeautiful84
@deebeautiful84 7 жыл бұрын
Women like men with some umph, the same way you like a "phat ass" women like a certain kind of man. Im not to into the suave ladies man because he has his pick of the litter, I dated someone like that in my early 20's, he loved black women, all of em, way too much.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Fair enough.
@310bound
@310bound 5 жыл бұрын
Well, unless he's white
@stuartperry8141
@stuartperry8141 4 жыл бұрын
I hate when someone speaks in generalities about anyone. Back in the nineties I lived in Atlanta. A friend of mine was speaking about how stuck up so many sisters were. This was during time that we would see many women in the streets after work shopping. He said that no girls would say hello to him we he spoke to them out at the mall ,downtown, etc. I said that was funny I did not have that problem most women I made eye contact with spoke to me. Then and now.
@cyrusjohn1265
@cyrusjohn1265 5 жыл бұрын
indian pakistani womans also like this
@giveme10feet
@giveme10feet 6 жыл бұрын
"spark" or "drama"? I think drama...but LL Cool J sd it best " women dont want a man that another woman doesnt want"! Damn. But even if they are evenly "yoked" they should give each other some amount of "spark" at least 2x a wk!
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@vinnybruce2874
@vinnybruce2874 4 жыл бұрын
I am the most not selective mostly one black women than whites and other race.
@jubeetobbe5025
@jubeetobbe5025 7 жыл бұрын
Ok if there was no spark than what's wrong with that???????????
@thomasmartin-rx2uu
@thomasmartin-rx2uu 7 жыл бұрын
What's wrong with that is usually he's not tall enough or cute enough or built enough.all superficial.
@jaimesmith2266
@jaimesmith2266 4 жыл бұрын
thomas martin Thats the biggest problem its all about looks and not about the guys personality dating is impossible now days
@bobrew461
@bobrew461 5 жыл бұрын
what about the non-working sistaz that turn their noses up at hard working bros? worth a video?
@RomWills
@RomWills 5 жыл бұрын
I ignore low class women like that.
@barackthecomposer6642
@barackthecomposer6642 2 жыл бұрын
👢bootcamp No better classroom📚 No better school🏫 than being rejected by a feminist FOOL.
@joefromdc
@joefromdc 7 жыл бұрын
Rom, if that is the case, why are so many woman caught up in fairyland. what about reality can black woman not face
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
As men we enable it. Other commentators talked about Thirsty Men. As a group we have bag practice of telling women what they want to hear in order to get the panties. Some women don't really to hear the truth. Many have their head stuck in the sand.
@wonderfullymademedia
@wonderfullymademedia 4 жыл бұрын
Spark. A lot of y’all are just boring and lack social skills. You wouldn’t pursue someone that was boring so why expect a woman to want that?
@MsJoyce31202
@MsJoyce31202 5 жыл бұрын
Yall stop believing these statics. Somebody does one study that doesn't involve us and we take it as truth. Even with several studies, it may not be true in our life at all.
@corsicanlulu
@corsicanlulu 7 жыл бұрын
assortive mating. people need to humble themselves and get who they can get and be happy w/ that. only an angelina jolie can get a brad pitt u know? unattractive people need to stay in their lane instead of aspiring for whats impossible
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
So what do you think about women who insist on engaging in hypergamy?
@js9849
@js9849 7 жыл бұрын
corsican lulu but looks are always debatable & subjective not every woman finds brad pit attractive & personally Angelina is not my type you never know how a woman views you or herself the same chick you said was a 10 could be a 5 to me & a 7 to herself
@Jxo901
@Jxo901 6 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@barackthecomposer6642
@barackthecomposer6642 2 жыл бұрын
Lord, Help me to never lose a good erection over a Stinkin narcissistic rejection. Amen 🙏🏿
@MarcoJah
@MarcoJah 6 жыл бұрын
Rom I’m starting think you crazy. Do you stay up just always doing shit.
@RomWills
@RomWills 6 жыл бұрын
I just post real early.
@valarieford8417
@valarieford8417 5 жыл бұрын
I have a man who likes me he wants me he works has kids he had kids late in life he is almost 60 drinks to much when he picked me up from Newark New Jersey train. station he beer in his breath I should not have got in the car we drive to East Orange New Jersey he almost hits a car speeding I had to ask God to protect us I found liquor in the glove compartment drinks all weekend in the morning Hennsey he wants to get closer never I'm not desperate I don't date alcoholics sometimes men like you but they have a lot if mess in there lives financial problems baby mamma drama in there fifties living in there mother's house
@RomWills
@RomWills 5 жыл бұрын
You don't need to deal with that sis.
@bjmartin6684
@bjmartin6684 7 жыл бұрын
I agree with Wisdom Speaks. Black men stop getting on UT complaining about black women. What are black men doing to better their communities? You're always talking about black women don't know ow their roles, do you know your roles as men. Black men you must lead from the front and lead by example. You want to talk about black women not wanting to submit, black men have to submit as well. GOD, man, then woman. Until black men do what they are called to do as men, the problem will continue. Black women need to know their roles as well. We have to come together as a people. We need to wake up black people. Read Deuteronomy, Chapter 28. It will help open our eyes to why we struggling as a people.
@RomWills
@RomWills 7 жыл бұрын
Many Black men are doing things in the community. The problem is that too many Black women ignore them and act like they don't exist. Listen to what the men are actually saying on youtube. The problem is that too many women would rather focus on the no good men instead of the good ones actually doing something. If you are living in the real world you see this for yourself.
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