Dealing With Jealousy

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@introvertforlife898
@introvertforlife898 5 жыл бұрын
Jealousy makes me feel a similar feeling to heartbreak. That sharp fluttery pain I feel in my heart. It makes me ANGRY and depressed.
@lawlietlawliet
@lawlietlawliet 5 жыл бұрын
I got depression because of Jealousy. It’s so painful it takes your soul away.
@lawlietlawliet
@lawlietlawliet 5 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard that you even think about making the most evil choices that comes to your own favor. Which is painful 💔
@mayflower6951
@mayflower6951 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’ve been trying to find people who also had a pain that you can actually feel in your heart when they get jealous or something
@lawlietlawliet
@lawlietlawliet 5 жыл бұрын
@Juho Mäkinen you made it so simple and understandable. Yes this is exactly how I felt. We all wish we had the advice when we needed it most though.. I learned to accept that part of myself. That I do get jealous. And it's completely ok and part of human nature. Doesn't at all make you a bad person. You don't know how much of what you said resonates with me deeply. Makes me feel like I'm not the only one with this nature (I'd rather call it nature than problem).
@myaccount0307
@myaccount0307 5 жыл бұрын
Me 2 I have been very jealous of pretty,famous,loved ppl lately and it hurts
@l.w908
@l.w908 4 жыл бұрын
it's not "I hate that they're more successful than me" it's more like "why can't this be me"
@luciaalegria752
@luciaalegria752 4 жыл бұрын
exactly me. My bff just got a new haircut and for the longest tome I’ve begged my parents for short hair and she just got it. Worst part is that it looks absolutely gorgeous on her.
@luciaalegria752
@luciaalegria752 4 жыл бұрын
I feel guilty that I’m jealous at my own best friend..
@KaikaiDokeshii
@KaikaiDokeshii 4 жыл бұрын
Same! I saw a really good editor and her animations were so smooth and she got really nice comments (well, I get nice comments too but what im jealous of is her talent) I'm like "WHY CAN'T I JUST BE JUST LIKE HER?" I'm really sad and angry about it T^T and there might be an issue with me but idk
@prameelapraveen5538
@prameelapraveen5538 4 жыл бұрын
Actually that envy not jealousy
@nexus0129
@nexus0129 4 жыл бұрын
yeah exactly
@chazzat3113
@chazzat3113 2 жыл бұрын
Jealousy is a horrible feeling, a perfect mix of anger, anxiety and heartbreak, even in minor situations its really uncomfortable
@2africas527
@2africas527 2 жыл бұрын
Dude my jealousy over my friends not spending every second is driving me insane I had to go outside and beat the hell out of my punching bag to let my anger out
@Ghost.Bird.
@Ghost.Bird. Жыл бұрын
@@2africas527that happens with me it’s our crave for attention. I want attention from the people I like but then I don’t get it I get mad and I forget that my friend has other friends
@Gamergirlplaysroblox
@Gamergirlplaysroblox Жыл бұрын
I get jealous on my discord server but I don’t tell anyone because I don’t want to hurt them, Mostly because their talents..I keep my emotions suppressed so I don’t hurt anyone with my jealousy…it’s a horrible feeling of anger, anxiety, and loneliness and heartbreak
@MS-ns4ki
@MS-ns4ki Жыл бұрын
I get jealous when I see that life is hard on me and easier on others and I’m in survival mode and miss average doesn’t know what that feels like but we make an active choice to make me feel like shit .
@muhyadindahir3188
@muhyadindahir3188 5 ай бұрын
@@MS-ns4kiwow very related to this
@anx46
@anx46 4 жыл бұрын
the thing is: i get jealous so easily its just toxic at this point, im scared to tell my loved ones about it because i dont want to spread toxicity and dont want them to get hurt/not want to hang out with me because of me overreacting
@말곹이
@말곹이 3 жыл бұрын
Same. I just like to keep it to myself and cry in my room. It's been going on lately but not consistently. I cry whenever I ge jealous
@Wonderful_rr
@Wonderful_rr 3 жыл бұрын
@@말곹이 relatable dude.
@lalitharajaram9655
@lalitharajaram9655 3 жыл бұрын
wtf same...
@reen.xox_
@reen.xox_ 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate :(
@PabloWJobs-ez6qj
@PabloWJobs-ez6qj 3 жыл бұрын
Same :(((
@LauraLegends
@LauraLegends 4 жыл бұрын
Step 4: Cry
@anushkaroy6666
@anushkaroy6666 4 жыл бұрын
exactly
@serajalhorani838
@serajalhorani838 4 жыл бұрын
Why? Jeez
@elizack_8189
@elizack_8189 4 жыл бұрын
@@serajalhorani838 to let it go
@SandwichForEverybody
@SandwichForEverybody 4 жыл бұрын
Step 5: angry
@tannies_70613
@tannies_70613 4 жыл бұрын
ikr
@Yoyo18247
@Yoyo18247 8 жыл бұрын
I don't get jealous, just really freaking depressed.
@mikeyb617
@mikeyb617 8 жыл бұрын
I do too.
@candiberri772
@candiberri772 8 жыл бұрын
same
@troglogear1474
@troglogear1474 8 жыл бұрын
its because you concentrate guilty on yourself, stop with it ..think that you have a variety of people to comunicate ,and that you have the skills to comunicate with other people and to have other friends ,so suddenly the people you value the most are not the only ones in your life ..and you don't feel so attached ..but the real deal is to work on yourself , instead of being addicted to your friends and romantica interrest ,be addicted to your own inner game , because that way you will not get the fear of being alone ..its dificult as shit ,but its possible to you.
@honeydaisy2832
@honeydaisy2832 7 жыл бұрын
same
@icommon32
@icommon32 7 жыл бұрын
Germozex omfg yes
@Maxxtendo
@Maxxtendo 5 жыл бұрын
When my friends become better than me at something I love, I tend to hate myself. Is that jealousy.
@eclpism
@eclpism 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed.
@lychee4031
@lychee4031 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss... And that's me Its sad
@jpx8793
@jpx8793 4 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you mean. Feels pretty horrible, doesn't it. We all have it to a certain degree. That's just nature.
@pinkbowb
@pinkbowb 4 жыл бұрын
Sane
@Advire-kx6gr
@Advire-kx6gr 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@luciaalegria752
@luciaalegria752 4 жыл бұрын
Take a deep breath. It will all be okay. Jealousy is a temporary feeling. Everyone experiences it and it’s normal. You are absolutely perfect and amazing just the way you are. I’m jealous right now as I’m typing this, but I’m learning to control my emotions better. You can do it I believe in you
@odessawales
@odessawales 3 жыл бұрын
But my jealously is so adnormal it causes me to manipulate others with no empathy. My jealously is sooo adnormal and its intense and unstable until it fades away I'm here with false hope and all manic
@yokaiking5853
@yokaiking5853 3 жыл бұрын
tq for this
@ronpalaca1450
@ronpalaca1450 3 жыл бұрын
Thank uu
@sebastiangarcia2860
@sebastiangarcia2860 2 жыл бұрын
my bestfriend is better than me, she has alotta friends
@kindle14
@kindle14 2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much.. im working and learning to process my feelings rn and this makes me smile
@dozyghoul
@dozyghoul 8 жыл бұрын
To all the people in the comments, you're going to find people prettier than you, smarter than you, more athletic than you, more talented etc. but there's no need to get jealous. Stop looking at other people and start looking at yourself and trying to live your life to your desire rather than trying to bring it up to par with someone else's. Sincerely, Fish Whisperer
@luddan9498
@luddan9498 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for writing this.
@creativehaya9057
@creativehaya9057 8 жыл бұрын
This made me happy
@cloroxbleach9961
@cloroxbleach9961 8 жыл бұрын
this comment made my day ☺
@DaniDemitri
@DaniDemitri 8 жыл бұрын
This made me really happy. Thanks🙂
@summerweaver4283
@summerweaver4283 8 жыл бұрын
you are so right I would always get jeliouse because I would see my friend with some one else and she hasn't talked to me in a while but your right I need to focus on me
@mayaidlr
@mayaidlr 10 жыл бұрын
I deal with jealousy everyday.
@odie8182
@odie8182 10 жыл бұрын
Feel ya
@mayaidlr
@mayaidlr 10 жыл бұрын
:/
@heyyyyy1111
@heyyyyy1111 10 жыл бұрын
Yea me too its ridiculous I deal with it walking down the street everywhere I go, I'm in really good shape and I'm a handsome guy so I've been told. I dealt with it in high school, college at my job. I often keep to myself because people show me their true jealous colors. People get most upset when I show that I'm interested in someone romantically, they try to cock block, its irritating.
@dankie8617
@dankie8617 7 жыл бұрын
feel ya ohh boi
@Abi-gt8iw
@Abi-gt8iw 6 жыл бұрын
Maya De la Rosa same idk what to do
@rdthegamer2479
@rdthegamer2479 8 жыл бұрын
The jealousy of seeing ur crush with someone else like ur bestfriend... Fkin hate when that happens
@romena916
@romena916 8 жыл бұрын
RD The Gamer Same :(
@spoiltcorpse
@spoiltcorpse 8 жыл бұрын
RD The Gamer that's what I'm going through right now.. :( lol only reason I saw this video. I'm so jealous.
@kawaiislimesx3904
@kawaiislimesx3904 8 жыл бұрын
RD The Gamer I have a crush but he's dating this girl. I tried being her friend and she's a total jerk me and my crush are close and really good friends we even hug sometimes but I feel like it's just a "sibling thing"
@KatierooAJ
@KatierooAJ 8 жыл бұрын
RD The Gamer same 😭
@XJDesigns1
@XJDesigns1 7 жыл бұрын
My crush is at a party and taking selfies with another guy. Im helpless
@elizack_8189
@elizack_8189 4 жыл бұрын
When someone compares u to others, that's where u start comparing urself to others... That's how my jealousy comes in
@puglover6113
@puglover6113 3 жыл бұрын
Sameeee- People told me that this girl is better than me, smarter I was usually the smartest in my class but now I feel like the dumbest after this girl came to my class 😭 And that girl is PRETTTYY
@niquaiesha9233
@niquaiesha9233 3 жыл бұрын
@@puglover6113 Do you still feel that way? How did you get over it?
@atomsandhormones
@atomsandhormones 2 жыл бұрын
@@puglover6113 wait i am in the exact situation what did you do?
@florakettle
@florakettle Жыл бұрын
REAL
@gykg3202
@gykg3202 Жыл бұрын
Soo true! My Mom was yelling at me and my siblings a lot saying “others kids are so much better”
@emilijaknezevic7419
@emilijaknezevic7419 6 жыл бұрын
i’m jealous of other people’s successes, especially the ones of my friends .. this honestly makes me hate myself even more edit: hey everyone (: thanks for all the likes and replies looking back at this comment i honestly can't say that much has changed. i know that sounds kinda depressing, but it's the truth. also, when i posted this comment I wasn't being completely honest. yes, i was struggling with intense jealousy and envy, but it wasn't because of other people's success, it was because i hated every part of myself. I thought i was ugly and i hated my personality. i was just embarrassed to admit that those were the things that were causing my jealousy. like many of u said in the replies as well as other comments, jealousy makes u feel crazy. you get possessed by intrusive thoughts and stuck in a dark place. i still obsess over certain situations. for example if i like someone, i have to find out if they're talking to someone or if they have a crush. and if i don't know, that'll become the only thing on my mind. I'm still very insecure and far from loving myself, but I'd like to think I'm on the road to self-acceptance. i used to justify my jealousy by thinking 'well I don't have jealous outbursts where i hurt someone's feelings'. i used to think that not acting on that jealousy and just holding it in was fine. I thought that that's just who i am and I'm unable to change that. but it's not true that you're not hurting anyone. you're hurting yourself. stop hurting your own feelings. you deserve to be happy and love and be loved. my best piece of advice for now would be to at least distract yourself. fill up your day so that u don't have time to think about these irrational things your brain comes up with. that's all (: if anyone wants to be friends lmk, and once again thanks for the replies
@cabe2074
@cabe2074 4 жыл бұрын
literally what i'm feeling rn
@talachiragwandi9122
@talachiragwandi9122 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@gentayt3921
@gentayt3921 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah its suck too have that feeling😿
@openarmsministry2529
@openarmsministry2529 4 жыл бұрын
It helps to know other people have the same problem.. my jealousy starts to sting me when i see my friends being needed for things, and are very reliable to others. I hate the feeling
@Maxxtendo
@Maxxtendo 4 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@KaeAlienuwu
@KaeAlienuwu 5 жыл бұрын
When I'm jealous, I just cry, then remember that moment of jealousy, then cry again. Is there something wrong with me?? Edit: its been a year since i commented this but im ok now and hopefully those who reply to my comment is too, have a good day.
@cassiecarmona3211
@cassiecarmona3211 5 жыл бұрын
Gagong Anon there is nothing wrong with you . You just need to heal, and that’s ok 💙
@dharnasahu2506
@dharnasahu2506 5 жыл бұрын
Same here, you're not alone, it's just that u need a break
@losersclub3693
@losersclub3693 5 жыл бұрын
i do that too.
@asteriime979
@asteriime979 5 жыл бұрын
Gagong Anon I just felt jealous of my best friend and I cry all the time cause I know it’s wrong to feel jealous of her :(
@rynn405
@rynn405 5 жыл бұрын
No, I do the exact same thing. You’re not alone :
@fghgfnvfghghyjgghj7793
@fghgfnvfghghyjgghj7793 8 жыл бұрын
I know that I'm jealous. But admitting it and being honest doesn't help. I'm still really jealous, and I can't help it. 😒
@bungeeegummm564
@bungeeegummm564 5 жыл бұрын
This is me too!
@tylerdouangmala1054
@tylerdouangmala1054 5 жыл бұрын
Me too :( and I lost my relationship because of it
@stevendalloesingh1214
@stevendalloesingh1214 5 жыл бұрын
@@tylerdouangmala1054 same here..
@smsjsj479
@smsjsj479 5 жыл бұрын
Fghgfnvfgh Ghyjgghj yes and if you admit it they’ll say your dramatic then you have a mental breakdown
@Februaaryy
@Februaaryy 5 жыл бұрын
sameeee rnnnn
@m.m357
@m.m357 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to see that i'm not alone with this problem. Thank you for the comments guys! You really make me to believe in hope in this situation!
@bconni2
@bconni2 2 жыл бұрын
everyone has dealt with it at some point in their lives. the trick is to not let it consume you. just like all the dark emotions. understand they'll always be there lurking, but you're in control.
@m.m357
@m.m357 2 жыл бұрын
@@bconni2 thank you❤️
@floopysandwhich9569
@floopysandwhich9569 5 жыл бұрын
I get jealous when my loved one is hanging out with someone else but me and I just feel like there doing some behind my back even tho I know they wouldn’t ;(
@MissBritneystorm
@MissBritneystorm 4 жыл бұрын
I am exactly the same! I wish there was a way to stop feeling like this 😭
@pvinixje6852
@pvinixje6852 4 жыл бұрын
Same, I hate seeing my crush with other girls. I'm jealous of those girls, they have something I want. (He hangs with one female friend)
@Vatan-
@Vatan- 4 жыл бұрын
I knooow right it feels like they are cheating on mee. I feel like my friend has to tell me if he is going to meet with others. When i found out meeting on instagram stories i feel c h e a t e d 😒
@Pikabycolorz
@Pikabycolorz 4 жыл бұрын
I find out that I feel that way, because I think of that person as myself: Because I'm capable of doing something, they are too... it's such a terrible thought, since you project your features into someone else (like a mirror); even though you know they are different from you. It sucks to say you love someone and then not trusting them. Be careful, you might end up being the one cheating and hurting other people :(
@potatopleasure2453
@potatopleasure2453 4 жыл бұрын
Cuz she issss
@arachishoyo0110
@arachishoyo0110 4 жыл бұрын
Everytime I'm jealous, I just smile and pretend like there's nothing wrong but when I'm already alone, I'll overthink everything and then starts to cry about it.
@mrcoolsenpai5791
@mrcoolsenpai5791 4 жыл бұрын
Itsumi Chan omg, I can feel that... but don’t need to cry
@reizen_mewz
@reizen_mewz 3 жыл бұрын
Actually..It's healthy if you cry. I myself felt this way..You get too overwhelmed by your own thoughts to the point you just breakdown again
@rothschilds_puppet
@rothschilds_puppet 2 жыл бұрын
It's good for you, holding your cry is bad for your health, I'm jealous of you, you have a place to cry where the people can't see you cry, but I always hold my cry, I don't have a place to cry
@susanae1410
@susanae1410 2 жыл бұрын
exactly i act like nothing is wrong and everything is fine but i break down so bad
@bluemoon3726
@bluemoon3726 2 жыл бұрын
I act genuine happy when I around my cousin but when Im alone I break down and just Blamed myself and cursed myself in my mind "why ur not smart like her ""why she always so rounded by many freinds "" why's she's more beautiful"and I blamed myself over over again
@musabo9893
@musabo9893 4 жыл бұрын
When I'm jealous, I just get depressed and cry.
@lihclore
@lihclore 4 жыл бұрын
i only get jealous over girls. thank god. but now i’m talking to one and i really like her but it just hurts knowing she drinks so much and i have no idea wtf she’s doing there. it hurts
@tannies_70613
@tannies_70613 4 жыл бұрын
me too
@Experilandscape
@Experilandscape 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@dhann_i8
@dhann_i8 3 жыл бұрын
Idk man, it sounds pretty gay but i've always get jealous whenever my friend are having fun with his other friends.
@naimatajvir9325
@naimatajvir9325 3 жыл бұрын
I jealous when i see my beloved cousin laughing and having great time with someone.
@agatasoltys5255
@agatasoltys5255 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I just get so jealous of this one specific person. They have everything I want like good style, good friends, good personality, and I always feel like I'm comparing myself to them. I feel like no matter what I do they're always going to be better and always have more original and creative ideas than me. And I know that they arent perfect and that they have problems as well, but for some reason no matter how hard i try I still want to be like that person. I know that I'm the problem here, and that I just cant be that person. I can't become somebody else no matter how much I try. But I still feel bad about everything I do. I dont want to feel like I'm copying them but for some reason I still feel like I do even for small things like having the same style, or liking the same band. I just want to feel like my own person and stop trying to be someone else. I'm the problem here not them. I hate myself and cant figure out who I am and that's the problem.
@norapeace6526
@norapeace6526 3 жыл бұрын
It will come in time. Don’t worry about it
@idc5583
@idc5583 3 жыл бұрын
I have the same problem.The worst thing is that the person I compare myself with is someone I dont really like and someone that despises me.
@sunsetdreams4921
@sunsetdreams4921 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the exact same way honestly lol. Do you ever feel like you copy the way their life went or is going? Like for me, the person I'm jealous of (a celebrity) sang in restaurants and stuff like that at 14 years old. I'm currently 14. I feel as if I gotta sing publicly now. I think very similarly to her. I've just learned that I can make my own creative ideas the same way she does. If in any way you can, maybe put a twist on her style. Or take tips on how she's nice. Stuff like that, you can still take inspiration from someone and not be a carbon copy of them. It's almost impossible to not be like someone we look up to.
@bloop211
@bloop211 3 жыл бұрын
i feel u
@trickrunner4842
@trickrunner4842 3 жыл бұрын
we must rejoice for them because they created the karma (actions) to get where they are though hard work and peseverance. When we are happy for them and accept karma and the way things works on a deep leveland stop thinking about ourselves only then will good things happen to us. WANT TO BE HAPPY FOR SELF= GOOD THINGS FOR OTHERS HAPPY FOR OTHERS= GOOD THINGS FOR SELF
@yuan1630
@yuan1630 4 жыл бұрын
I get jealous when my girlfriend looks like she’s having a better time with others than with me. When she’s laughing more and seems happier. This guy that just gets me mad is always there with her when I’m not and they’re always talking and she’s always smiling and laughing with him and I hate that I’m jealous because I know they are just friends. I know it. But I can’t shake the feeling. I hate it. Jealousy is a disease and I need help :(.
@katsukibakugou4727
@katsukibakugou4727 4 жыл бұрын
Remind yourself that the relationship isn’t forever and try not to claim something that is for everyone. Dealing with jealous ppl is a pain so don’t put her through that, even if it hurts you u have to know that it’s her life and she can laugh and talk to whoever end of conversation.
@yuan1630
@yuan1630 4 жыл бұрын
Lilstar 2x thanks for that :). Thankfully that was a while ago and I’ve changed for the better. No longer jealous.
@taylor9996
@taylor9996 4 жыл бұрын
@@yuan1630 how did you change?
@yuan1630
@yuan1630 4 жыл бұрын
Taylor Santiago well, I realized that whatever is meant to come to me will eventually come. So there’s really no need to be jealous because when you always remember your worth, you know what you deserve will come. Also, jealousy is human so you have to accept that but you can’t let it become too much. You know?
@taylor9996
@taylor9996 4 жыл бұрын
@@yuan1630 That's true, speaking facts. I feel like i've just got to accept all that then ill be better off. Thank you for the advice, it was very helpful. Much love
@icatchacoldeasily9027
@icatchacoldeasily9027 10 жыл бұрын
"We know you don't like horror movies so we didn't think to invite you" I hate it when people say that. You could at least ask them if they'd like to go.
@bisanghoul3632
@bisanghoul3632 7 жыл бұрын
It's Tetris they made this up Simply They didn't invite you cause they don't want u to come
@AM-gm5jg
@AM-gm5jg 6 жыл бұрын
Same here , damn how I hate them when they do this
@PixelGamer05HD
@PixelGamer05HD 6 жыл бұрын
I would probably just go there to be with my friends and not looking antisocial. In the aftermath I would not have any fun because of the activity we engaged in. So in the end it is better not to invite someone because they can be scared to not agree on the invitation.
@bee119
@bee119 6 жыл бұрын
I think I have just had my own strategy now: Step1: Write down what makes you jealous (just like the video has mentioned) Step2: Think about that and try to figure it out how you can change it ( because I think people get jealous about what they don't have) Example: if you jealous about other people are having more money and friends than you. Let's think about your problem . You can try to study harder to have a better job and challenge yourself talking with strangers. Step3: You must realise that people have their own life and their own experiences. They cannot have your experience and you cannot see what their lives are going through. Your experience is unique ! Be positive!
@aryapradipta3106
@aryapradipta3106 6 жыл бұрын
Wow....such inspiration man😀😀😀
@chiqui1006
@chiqui1006 5 жыл бұрын
This is way better I think.
@sadmad4886
@sadmad4886 4 жыл бұрын
What if you can’t change it
@MrGame8706
@MrGame8706 4 жыл бұрын
I know this was posted two years ago, but you should also think about things you have that most people don't. Don't go bragging about those things, but just acknowledge, appreciate and focus on them rather than foccusing on the things you don't have.
@purpleviolet6384
@purpleviolet6384 4 жыл бұрын
Last step help me a lot.. thanks
@mazu_kaze
@mazu_kaze 3 жыл бұрын
what makes me jealous the most - People being photogenic - Being smart than me - Has better progress in their life - Being popular and loved by others Life's not fair for me
@x.ettanya.x694
@x.ettanya.x694 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@SRose-vp6ew
@SRose-vp6ew Жыл бұрын
If you’re a Christian (meaning actual Christ follower) are you willing to verbally denounce (as you seem you are) that and ask Jesus to heal that part of your life and fill those places up with the Holy Spirit so you instead “rejoice with those who rejoice” and take the healing that Jesus has for you as you repent of the times you didn’t rejoice for others but instead broke the 10th commandment of covetousness and and even excepted the devils lies that are not even the truth? Pray this prayer out-loud.- Father God we are to pray, “ deliver us from evil,” I don’t want to be jealous anymore, I don’t want to believe Satan‘s lies that overwhelm my thoughts, I renounce all the things I’ve listed that caused me to be jealous, believe lies, and anything more that I don’t even realize, I know you love me, provide for me, and like a breath from my mouth I release the pain at the foot of the cross I want this heavy burden off of me and you promise you do that so I thank you that it is done in according to John 14 as I ask in Jesus‘ name that jealousy is no longer on me or in me and it is gone by the perfect healing blood of Jesus Christ. As we read in Isaiah 53, “by his stripes we are healed.” In place of that jealousy father God I pray that you fill me with the fruit of joy for others as long as I live surrender to you God through Jesus the savior, help me to rejoice with those who rejoice, help me to still be able to mourn with those who mourn and bring them your comfort, not just mine, you have a good plan for me and you bless the humble who seek you according to Jeremiah 29:11-13, help me have a spirit of empathy and I reject and tell the spirit of jealousy to go according to John 14 authority in Jesus name, by faith, that it is out of me. Release your truth of your love for me over my life. I thank you for the healing you had for me all along. Amen (Amen means, let it be so, let it be so). It’s always OK to pray for the will of God over your life, you can know how to do this by praying Scripture God is not a genie where you use your words for charismatic witchcraft trying to get the world to work out the way you want it to, God‘s ways are higher than our ways, but there’s nothing wrong with praying against the spirit of jealousy and praying for the Holy Spirit to take over in those areas of your life by putting on the fruits of the spirit after you put off the schemes of the Devil who is real but not as powerful as what Christ did for us by sacrificing himself on the cross so we don’t have to live in sins defeat. I actually wrote a statement above explaining this more with scripture quotes. Typically people call the spirit of jealousy, the reptilian spirit of leviathan, and Leviathan must leave you in Jesus‘ name,
@mattmussett-ho3ht
@mattmussett-ho3ht Жыл бұрын
💯❤
@himmick5438
@himmick5438 Жыл бұрын
For me it’s seeing others have love from their mom and dad, their siblings, or having a boy friend and girl friend in general. I feel so unloved and unwanted sometimes every time I see some one hugging or kissing I get so sad and angry I just walk away and get far away from all of them.
@TH3B4CK0FMYM1ND
@TH3B4CK0FMYM1ND Жыл бұрын
Omg same
@nerdomatic2489
@nerdomatic2489 5 жыл бұрын
My life has been screwed up with this disease "jealousy" so much that the internet and home is the only place where I consider myself safe.
@naziya1557
@naziya1557 4 жыл бұрын
I'm here for the same reason. Its as if its consuming every part of my life
@kate03-
@kate03- 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@maru93-c1x
@maru93-c1x 4 жыл бұрын
The internet and my house makes me jealous *NOWHERE IS SAFE LADS*
@Maria-ms5em
@Maria-ms5em 4 жыл бұрын
dude literally same idk what to do
@KaikaiDokeshii
@KaikaiDokeshii 4 жыл бұрын
The internet is making me feel really jealous but for some reason I wanna stick with it
@TheOswald42
@TheOswald42 10 жыл бұрын
I'm jealous of Bill Gates, and I don't know if I can talk to him about this
@abhi8202
@abhi8202 7 жыл бұрын
Me too
@palihiba
@palihiba 7 жыл бұрын
IKR! Like what if its a celebrity [BTW I'm a girl]
@RainyMika
@RainyMika 6 жыл бұрын
Talked it out yet?
@mersi3055
@mersi3055 6 жыл бұрын
Oswald Rayleigh ughhh same 😩
@yomiteodoro
@yomiteodoro 6 жыл бұрын
lol
@faerielights5748
@faerielights5748 5 жыл бұрын
I get the most jealous when my “friends” leave me out of late night group calls, hangouts, group chats, etc, and then continuously talk about it when they know I don’t know the context.
@alinaelenacalin8264
@alinaelenacalin8264 4 жыл бұрын
faerielights that is just toxic and you have all right to feel like that...
@NoName-be8vp
@NoName-be8vp 4 жыл бұрын
Leave that group. They aren’t your friends. I’ve went through the exact same thing. I seen you wrote this 7 months ago, how did everything turn out
@stardropboy
@stardropboy 4 жыл бұрын
this happens to me and I have no idea what to do.
@28ksofiixx64
@28ksofiixx64 4 жыл бұрын
Same they r just fake like when im there they dont rlly have fun and without me they seem to have fun they r just talking behind my back always ang being fake
4 жыл бұрын
That's just direspectful tho
@aaliyahmangonon
@aaliyahmangonon 2 жыл бұрын
Jealousy is hurts me so much more than a break up.
@aafkgirl91
@aafkgirl91 2 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@aaliyahmangonon
@aaliyahmangonon 2 жыл бұрын
@@aafkgirl91 i'm okay now
@mayhudson
@mayhudson 10 жыл бұрын
Jealously is...Mike Wazowski?
@davidsims6996
@davidsims6996 7 жыл бұрын
mayhudson MiKEwAZOWski
@saumymaxwell4611
@saumymaxwell4611 6 жыл бұрын
Startcadian Mike wazaoski on diet.
@sketchalater4656
@sketchalater4656 6 жыл бұрын
This made me laugh out loud! XD
@benjaminpakingan6500
@benjaminpakingan6500 7 ай бұрын
It actually makes sense because Mike actually envy Sully because he's more scarier than him
@Kaleidalee
@Kaleidalee 9 жыл бұрын
I'm jealous of everybody who's ever managed to find someone to be in a relationship with. I've never had that privilege.
@GoldieMethrans
@GoldieMethrans 9 жыл бұрын
Kaleidalee Then know you e not alone, as I`m in the exactly same waters as you.
@tommyguntommy9816
@tommyguntommy9816 9 жыл бұрын
I know I'm kinda late but...I have to disagree. Having a relationship is not a privilege. I myself have never been involved in one either however it's not like you're born into having relationships often. I don't know your life so I won't judge your social abilities but if it gnaws on you too much that you're not in a relationship, TRY AND GET INTO ONE. You'll probably be a lot happier in the end. And if not you'll have learned stuff about yourself. :D
@Kaleidalee
@Kaleidalee 9 жыл бұрын
Lacrosse Baller Believe me, I've tried. Some people are just better at making friends and being liked/loved by others.
@icommon32
@icommon32 7 жыл бұрын
Kalleidoscape samee
@BriannaGibbsLovatictaylorcyrus
@BriannaGibbsLovatictaylorcyrus 7 жыл бұрын
Kalleidoscape same dude same
@annyaw6233
@annyaw6233 5 жыл бұрын
I’m really jealous of my friends because of how outgoing and funny they are. I’m really insecure in how unfunny and uninteresting I am to other people . So when my friends talk to outgoing and funny people I think maybe they’ll realize I’m not that great and end up not being my friends anymore
@kimtonsing1067
@kimtonsing1067 4 жыл бұрын
Same here...
@louzybug_1413
@louzybug_1413 4 жыл бұрын
that my problemmmmm toooooooooooooooooo my freind is funny intresting cool nice and even kinda rich and wanna know what I am.... boring af and I hate my life.
@ad5601
@ad5601 3 жыл бұрын
@@louzybug_1413 same....😭 Iam crying iam so boring nobody likes me
@ad5601
@ad5601 3 жыл бұрын
@@louzybug_1413 same....😭 Iam crying iam so boring nobody likes me
@ad5601
@ad5601 3 жыл бұрын
@@louzybug_1413 same....😭 Iam crying iam so boring nobody likes me
@Inkymilk
@Inkymilk 3 жыл бұрын
Reading the comments and watching this video really helped me finally open my eyes. I have seriously bad jealousy which mixes in with my really bad anxiety. I'm always jealous of other people's intelligence, beauty, accomplishments, talents, etc. I also have a boyfriend and every time he mentions a girl's name, I get that jealous feeling. But I read a few comments saying how they shouldn't let that jealousy feeling consume you and to see the bigger picture. This video as well helped me control the jealousy feeling too. I hope I get even better soon for I am still struggling every now and then.
@goofbalt
@goofbalt 6 жыл бұрын
I'm jealous of my boyfriend's ex. I don't even know her, it's just the things I saw on her facebook. She seems to be better than me in literally everything. Appearance, intelligence, social circles, achievements, etc. And I feel like he loved her much more than he loves me. I can't just go ahead and talk to her about it, she's a stranger to me
@adskjfhslkfhsd
@adskjfhslkfhsd 4 жыл бұрын
Bunny Lass I feel you
@lindajoy668
@lindajoy668 4 жыл бұрын
So I'm not the only one 😅 😭 don't worry you are great and awesome idk if that helps but ye
@cateatinrat78
@cateatinrat78 4 жыл бұрын
You knew her through social media? People only put the good stuff there, you don't know the hard part of her life. Move on :)
@FannyPolany
@FannyPolany 4 жыл бұрын
she's now his EX for a reason. They. Didn't. Work. Out. It's you and him now, instead of drowning into the idea of the PAST, just show your love more and more. Build your FUTURE with him, because you are THE ONE who able to do that. Hope it helps
@deafgod6675
@deafgod6675 4 жыл бұрын
Damn i can relate
@anapaulapedro7025
@anapaulapedro7025 8 жыл бұрын
Plus, the person always makes it worst by showing off >:(
@anapaulapedro7025
@anapaulapedro7025 8 жыл бұрын
Farhan Ahmad Sure
@anapaulapedro7025
@anapaulapedro7025 8 жыл бұрын
Farhan Ahmad I know. Sometimes I do it myself. But the people I know do it ALL the time
@anapaulapedro7025
@anapaulapedro7025 8 жыл бұрын
Farhan Ahmad Yup, but I stop right away and say spmething nice. While others just keep on saying and saying and saying and showing off until I loose my patience D:
@odeparfoom8127
@odeparfoom8127 8 жыл бұрын
ikr
@anapaulapedro7025
@anapaulapedro7025 8 жыл бұрын
O De Parfoom It makes me so angry
@kubasniak
@kubasniak 8 жыл бұрын
There is no satisfying answer or solution to feeling jealous or envious. You can only scientifically understand it because it is irrational feeling. You know that other are better, prettier, more talented and smarter than you. You know that others make more money and have more comfortable life than you. You know that others are experiencing more interesting lives than you. Yet, you still feel that because they have it and you don't. It gets even worse when you try to experience same things as them and you fail at it. It can make you depressed and feeling worthless and hopeless. You know that feeling is not productive and overall not good for you. It makes you feel worse than others. Even when you choose to not think about it, you still don't get that satisfaction that everything is alright. You wish you had it like others, had that money, fame, talents, interests. It is unquestionable and it is a challenging problem and I don't see any solution for it. Even when you find something that interests you more, you find some hobby there will be others in the same field that are better than you so it will make you still jealous and envious. I can't see any fix to it. If you have please explain it scientifically, what happens in brain, what are real solutions that can make you get rid of that feeling. Is it even possible? Doesn't it make us human to be jealous/envious?
@tranquilrainyrooajpw3686
@tranquilrainyrooajpw3686 8 жыл бұрын
I kinda agree. I go to this Middle School, but some rich people and my best friend goes to a nicer school. I have seen a few pictures of the school, and it looks nice. I am kinda jealous my best friend made a new best friend and it makes me feel bad.
@cloudqbabe2842
@cloudqbabe2842 8 жыл бұрын
I know exactly how you feel
@dankie8617
@dankie8617 7 жыл бұрын
I felt hopeless before I were envious/jealous wut ever, or is that because my selfesteem is so low? I dont really knoww
@youngarchivest9092
@youngarchivest9092 6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree. A cruel world we live in, this problem seems unsolvable because it is human nature, which we cannot get rid of.
@egosilence6197
@egosilence6197 5 жыл бұрын
Jealousy is rooted in egotism. When humanity learns to stop focusing in themselves and live for one another, this issue will end. Life has been trying to repel us from selfishness this entire time. That is why we suffer.
@troto7735
@troto7735 4 жыл бұрын
When I get jealous I don’t take it out on others, I take things out on myself.
@stupidsoul
@stupidsoul 3 жыл бұрын
So fucking relatable, even go so far to punish yourself for it
@말곹이
@말곹이 3 жыл бұрын
@@stupidsoul same here. I would cry alone in my room.
@dnbdiva2227
@dnbdiva2227 Жыл бұрын
I hate the people who take it out on others..
@coolbreeze5683
@coolbreeze5683 8 ай бұрын
My ex cheated on me and when I talked to him about it, he accused me of being jealous. When I left him because of it, he got upset that I would end the relationship over MY jealousy. Yeah, that wasn't really a "me" problem 😂
@Anso_
@Anso_ 4 ай бұрын
@@coolbreeze5683Wth is wrong with him? Feeling betrayed (as you should) is different from jealousy
@susiegonzalez1776
@susiegonzalez1776 7 жыл бұрын
Jealousy is a sickness .
@saik6788
@saik6788 6 жыл бұрын
It's a human emotion..
@brethebrat
@brethebrat 6 жыл бұрын
it’s life
@saipat9118
@saipat9118 6 жыл бұрын
RedGaming Studio no it’s not they are just exaggerating
@gmln9ne
@gmln9ne 6 жыл бұрын
@@saik6788 yes it is, but we have choices of how we deal with it. Once I feel a drop of jealousy I choose to focus on other things that I have that others don't. And if you have nothing, create something. But acting like a child because another has something you don't is unacceptable.... And the "behavior" jealous people display is the disease!
@winter7057
@winter7057 6 жыл бұрын
Mhm.
@TheGreatCalsby
@TheGreatCalsby 4 жыл бұрын
It's great to see so many comments admitting their jealousy. Some of us here have taken an important step to dealing with jealousy just by watching and understanding this video. It's okay to feel jealous. It's obviously not ideal, but we have to deal with it. And even if you don't solve your jealousy, you're already trying to understand it, and that counts for a lot. It sucks that the best answer is the hardest one: finding a way to say it out loud. I'm not sure I can, but I sincerely hope everyone here can find the courage to do so.
@IronToDiamond
@IronToDiamond 6 жыл бұрын
Jealousy is literally controlling and ruining my life. Thank you, I’m working on making this better now
@Kimeikus
@Kimeikus 3 жыл бұрын
*“When I’m jealous, I get a mixed feeling of sadness and anger.”* Whenever I’m about to get sad, I become angry. Whenever I’m about to become angry, I become sad again.
@sydunnies
@sydunnies 6 жыл бұрын
I’m just a little jealous that my best friend started hanging out with other people. Most of the time she has to sit with someone else at lunch, and when we do sit together, most likely there is another person she will talk to and I’m left out. I never speak about it, because I always say, “If they are happy, then I should be happy.” But now I know that sometimes you have to think about your happiness. If your friend tells you to “stop liking him,” (which she told me politely a week again or so.) Just..just, it’s hard. Everyone has felt jealous one time in their life.
@strawberryspikes
@strawberryspikes 4 жыл бұрын
dude you just perfectly described my life, my best friend is super popular and I’m just here like .-.
@sydunnies
@sydunnies 4 жыл бұрын
@@strawberryspikes | I hope it gets better for you! The problem was fixed (since it was a year ago lol) and I met new people who are amazing. I hope for the best for you!
@keithjustine647
@keithjustine647 4 жыл бұрын
@@strawberryspikes same :/ its more painful to see youre best friend left you in silence while he is talking other people i stop befriending him now tho i only find friends to support,talk and make jokes together
@dragonofparadise
@dragonofparadise 11 жыл бұрын
I use to be jealous and I mean really jealous of this one girl. Because she was super rich and ignorant and I was super poor and trying to just survive day to day. Since then we became enemies but I learned a important lesson that is instead of being jealous learn how to play the game. By being smart, wise and cunning instead of jealous and fearful you can also attain wealth and even surpass anyone you might of been jealous of.
@SanbaiSan
@SanbaiSan 11 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. You totally get it! ;)
@angelxsiren0
@angelxsiren0 8 жыл бұрын
I get jealous when I hear my friends have been hanging out without me. I think I've more narrowed down whats made me so insecure over the years, and my best guess so far is I have had so many friends that ditch me, I get scared my current group of friends is going to split up, one of them streams and the ones I go to, it always makes me super jealous when she talks about hanging out with this other group, it makes the one we're in together feel super irrelevant, and that it's only a matter of time before I just become another person who watches a stream to her.
@rollingirll
@rollingirll 5 жыл бұрын
coolbluebird21 Same :(
@merel3603
@merel3603 5 жыл бұрын
Okay are you me?? I know it's been three years but I'm going through the EXACT same thing!! Three years later but still.
@last3122
@last3122 5 жыл бұрын
I’m always left one when my friends are talking to each other
@moonwalker1423
@moonwalker1423 4 жыл бұрын
U worte this 3 years ago How are things today @coolbluebird21
@eclpism
@eclpism 4 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@imurhope5433
@imurhope5433 4 жыл бұрын
I get jealous WAY too easily. My best friend could literally just open the door for somebody else and not me and I would be jealous. This is why I have fights with my best friend. I feel like a horrible friend after I fight with my friend because I was jealous. Jealousy is a pain. It gets in the way of your relationships
@ShouttoJesusChrist
@ShouttoJesusChrist 3 жыл бұрын
You just think they are being inconsiderate of you. Ask why you believe that. Also pray to Jesus Christ for forgiveness of your sins and the sins of others in your closet or room. Please make sure to close the door and cover your hair. Afterwards you take off the hair covering.
@inazuma2332
@inazuma2332 3 жыл бұрын
I feel u, I had small incidents where they literally only typed faster than me and i was jealous of that
@chaeremika
@chaeremika 2 жыл бұрын
same man I'm so clingy it's annoying
@Ch50304
@Ch50304 2 жыл бұрын
@@inazuma2332 yes, I get that..
@Maayan2007
@Maayan2007 2 жыл бұрын
@@ShouttoJesusChrist I don't believe in Jesus
@zaleahabullard2564
@zaleahabullard2564 8 жыл бұрын
i dont get jealous i get hurt annoyed and i just brag cocky eh i guess that describes jealous
@nostalgia6068
@nostalgia6068 5 жыл бұрын
Relatable!
@enyalynn1496
@enyalynn1496 8 жыл бұрын
I got jealous because someone got their food before me.... I think throwing a fork at them wasn't smart... I should've thrown the knife ;/
@superninginayt9510
@superninginayt9510 8 жыл бұрын
xD
@aikomaliako5412
@aikomaliako5412 8 жыл бұрын
XD
@mrpumperknuckles1631
@mrpumperknuckles1631 8 жыл бұрын
Lol
@elizablackwood3735
@elizablackwood3735 8 жыл бұрын
Haha. 😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏
@theporkyfellows476
@theporkyfellows476 8 жыл бұрын
Lol
@andreaxx9735
@andreaxx9735 8 жыл бұрын
lol it helps when I argue with them in my head I feel beter
@dimasarya5475
@dimasarya5475 8 жыл бұрын
agree
@winterswargt7119
@winterswargt7119 8 жыл бұрын
AGREE
@peachy__368
@peachy__368 8 жыл бұрын
Ohh thank god im not the only one !!!!! FRENS
@odeparfoom8127
@odeparfoom8127 8 жыл бұрын
that's my life
@eduardomunoz3685
@eduardomunoz3685 8 жыл бұрын
true
@jakstarzin
@jakstarzin 3 жыл бұрын
My therapist said writing affirmations about yourself and what you love about yourself helps a lot, and yes I agree
@ariellebutinspanish_1803
@ariellebutinspanish_1803 6 жыл бұрын
I’m jealous at someone I barely know because my mom talks so highly of them and expects me to be exactly the same as this person she’s talked to twice 😓
@fujinbarb8957
@fujinbarb8957 5 жыл бұрын
Im jealous to another student in school i am always compared to him but hes better and more sociable
@afreenahmed369
@afreenahmed369 5 жыл бұрын
That's really irritating man I feel you 😣
@jfveb
@jfveb 4 жыл бұрын
Wow we do be living the same life out here
@MarsCalamars666
@MarsCalamars666 4 жыл бұрын
But she shouldn't compare you with others...
@maru93-c1x
@maru93-c1x 4 жыл бұрын
Same, I'm too afraid to answer her back. When I do, she shuts me up and tells me not to answer her back.
@3erusa
@3erusa 4 жыл бұрын
*i get jealous when i see a younger artist that is already doing better than me*
@sunsetdreams4921
@sunsetdreams4921 3 жыл бұрын
SAME except in music form. I'm currently 14 and want to become a music artist when I grow up. I see so many kids singing so well already while I barely gave interest in music less than a year ago. It makes me feel a little disappointed in myself, as if there's a certain age I was supposed to start singing. I haven't even told my parents yet. So yes I very much feel you. But just remember that you still have so many years to improve just like they have! Everyone has different paces in life, some faster and some slower. Us slow pokes just gotta try harder sometimes lol. You got this ok? At least one person believes in you!
@leht1617
@leht1617 3 жыл бұрын
@@sunsetdreams4921 you seem wise my friend, can i ask some advice? i know all feelings are valid but somehow i feel really jealous of my best friend, knowing that she's super smart and is still improving... she's like perfect and i was just,,, disappointed to why can't i be like her, i know it's bad to be jealous, and i know that im just a human with feelings i just don't know what to do anymore, she's very sweet and kind but sometimes i just feel underestimated around her :(
@mastermindstraw1640
@mastermindstraw1640 3 жыл бұрын
@@leht1617 Since they haven’t answered yet, I’ll answer. I understand that you’re in a tricky situation and that must be very hard. Of course it isn’t good to be jealous but remember that avoiding that feeling will probably make it worse. I know it’s hard but try to accept those feelings, don’t push them away and don’t think that you shouldn’t or aren’t allowed to feel this way. I have a friend that I was jealous of because it felt like she was better in every way and there was nothing that I could do about it. Something that helped for me was getting a hobby that I really enjoyed. It made me feel like I was good at something. Well maybe you already have one, I don’t know you. Try to identify if it is a feeling or a thought, is your friend is super smart and perfect or do you feel like she is? I doubt she is perfect in every way. If she is better than you at something it’s okay to just accept that, during your whole life you are gonna meet people who are super smart or very good at other things and that’s okay. Try to focus on yourself a little more and compare yourself to others a little less. Be proud of the things you do in your life, even if it’s just small things. I think that might be the reason getting a new hobby helped me. Even if I’m not the best and there are people half my age who are ten times better then me, It made me something to be proud of. I slowly became more accepting of the fact the my friend was smarter than me and better at other things too and instead I became more happy for her. So I guess what I’m trying to say is: Get a hobby, something to be proud of Accept that your friend is better than you in some ways, that’s just life Compare yourself a little less to others Accept your feelings And also, work on your self confidence, I know that’s easier said than done but there are probably lots of KZbin videos that can help you with it (This comment is mostly based of of my experiences so if you feel like this doesn’t help you at all that’s okay, everyone is different and I am not a professional)
@leht1617
@leht1617 3 жыл бұрын
@@mastermindstraw1640 awww, i am really thankful that you replied, i appreciate your efforts, and i understood them, i kind of healed in the long term, and finally accepted it, it was hard at first, but i overcome them, and finally did my best which i was proud of you're right, I'll just continue to focus on myself and do my best , because if i did my very best, I won't be bothered by other's successes, because im proud of myself and im enough, im my own self that i love
@mastermindstraw1640
@mastermindstraw1640 3 жыл бұрын
@@leht1617 ❤️
@okok-uk1le
@okok-uk1le 5 жыл бұрын
I’m jealous of one of my friends. She’s so pretty and everyone likes her: she’s not popular what so ever but she has lots of friends and no one hates her. Any tips about how I can stop being jealous of her?
@alexahines5941
@alexahines5941 5 жыл бұрын
I used to have this problem expect her for what she is good at, but never compare yourself to her or others. Try focusing on how you are unique and special
@moonwalker1423
@moonwalker1423 4 жыл бұрын
How are u doing
@jpx8793
@jpx8793 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, Ms. Hines. Amen. It is so easy to give in to jealousy, and/or comparing ourselves against others. We all feel jealousy to varying degrees. But avoid this we must. (The easiest choice is not always the best one.) Get help if one has to; one doesn't have to do it alone. One should never compare oneself to any individual other than oneself. Because each and every last person is in a different set of circumstances from each and every other last person. The road called life is a journey, not a competition, contest, or race. Again, we all deal with this green demon. Lord knows I have, and still struggle with it.
@anuanu9719
@anuanu9719 4 жыл бұрын
Only thing we should understand is that each human being is unique. Start loving the uniqueness of you.win the hearts of people by improving yourself. Understand that it is impossible to make everyone love us. When you are progressing you will definitely have haters in the list. Take it positively .and concentrate on improving yourself mentally and physically .start doing regular exercise and keep your body fit .follow your passion. Have good haircut. Don't give up studies. If you are already working also study whatever you like by part time. Remember people not only like good looking people but also the ones who is hardworking, artistic, or it could be any kind of self improvement. So don't wait. Just through your self for your improvement. I bet there will be people who die to become friends with you if you do this. Gradually you will earn respect and love.
@niyareaction1685
@niyareaction1685 4 жыл бұрын
Call on God
@dragonlord1538
@dragonlord1538 2 жыл бұрын
jealousy makes me feel sick. like i feel like im gonna throw up and i get loads of chills. it sucks ass. especially with a best friend whos better than me in everything.
@alma8508
@alma8508 8 жыл бұрын
Seems like everybody is writing about their jealousies, so I'm doing this too... I GET JEALOUS A LOT OF TIMES. I'm probably just made out of jealousy. But when I'm jealous, no one can ever sense it. I might be dying from jealousy but I have this really insistence in me to not show it. that's why it always feels worse than it should. First of all, I'm jealous of that one girl in my class, she's not my BFF but we are very very very close. I love her so much, yet her existence in my life just bothers me to death. To make it short, SHE'S AMAZING. she's very pretty, in a handsome way...you get me? but that's not what I'm jealous of. It's because she attracts a lot of girls in my school. Like my female teacher once told her "you're very handsome I'm almost in love with you" And my classmates always tell her how "sexy" she is to them. And how she would be gorgeous in both genders, and how they'd surely want to marry her if they didn't find suitable boys. I'm jealous because I want to easily attract people too. She's incredibly smart, she's very good at mathematics. If anyone needed help she would always be the first they would proceed to. I'm smart but not as her. She's very creative, when we are in a whole-class project, my classmates naturally choose her to bring the ideas, and she always succeeds and we usually win the competition because of her idea. She knows how to draw, whistle, hack, she's good in computer programming and editing. how to play basketball and tennis, very good with money and business. She's tall, which makes her more attractive. In case of any incidents she's the first one we'd get her opinion/suggestions. If the whole class wants to go to a specific place but only she doesn't we'd immediately cancel it. Her birthday parties are always the biggest. Yet she's still humble and down to earth, and that's exactly what makes me jealous. She has very beautiful eyes....her smile is too perfect. My younger sisters love her so much, maybe even more than me. SHE HAS A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR I REPEAT A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR! she speaks in a cool tone too. Her laugh is cute. She has a nice body. People LOVE to hug her and play with her hair. yeah....I guess that's it. The thing is...I kinda possess some of her abilities too, it's just that I'm not approachable as her. maybe because I'm really short and skinny....and ugly.....ugly hair as well. I CRAVE FOR ATTENTION. Imagine someone who CRAVES attention but DOESN'T GET ANY. that's why I'm jealous of her. I want to be as loved and as perfect as she is. But I really don't think that's happening. Well, at least I wrote it all down...I feel like I've gotten everything out of my heart.
@alma8508
@alma8508 8 жыл бұрын
she's also a great gamer...
@simplyniamh4656
@simplyniamh4656 8 жыл бұрын
I have a friend just like this and it is really tough. Honestly just remember you are your own person, not everyone is like her and just be yourself and fine people who like you for you and not because your perfect at everything xx
@lanap292
@lanap292 8 жыл бұрын
I can imagine how bad that feeling might be. but I just want you to remember one thing. even though she might look PERFECT in everything she does, she might have insecurities and scared of what others think about her as well as you do. and just because of everyone think she is perfect, she thinks she always needs to prove it to people so they dont turn their back to her. and so they dont say "you used to be good at that" or "what happened to you". if you get what I mean:)
@Happyroflcopter
@Happyroflcopter 8 жыл бұрын
I know this is kinda late but don't be so hard on yourself. you sound like a great person! Just jealous and I know that feeling definitely. And remember popularity doesn't really matter in the long run and school is just a small part of your life. Hope this helps out a bit! :)
@leemarie2327
@leemarie2327 8 жыл бұрын
Ok here's my jealousy. It's quite stupid actually. It's about Pokemon Sun and Moon.... Ok so as most people know, Pokemon Sun and Moon just came out. I was so exited to get it because I have enough money to buy it. My friend texted me this morning and told me that she had gotten Pokemon Moon. I asked her if it was only for 3Ds because I knew she had one. She said that it was only for 3Ds. That's when I got mad. I have a DSi (I know it's old don't judge it's what I have). All my other friends have a 3Ds and probably are able to buy the game. What's worse is that I can't even enjoy the Pokemon games. Pokemon Go doesn't work on my phone so I have to play on my dad's phone, but my dad is always at work and I have school for most of the day. My DS is old, I don't know where it is, and I don't have the right one to play the games. So I'm stuck playing online games like DelugeRPG. I know I'm making a big deal over a game and you guys might think it stupid but it's the jealousy I have
@sirodeathyo4034
@sirodeathyo4034 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I needed it. My friend is visiting Japan and Japan is my dream spot. It was my dream for most of my life. I am getting super jealous because I don’t like the feeling of my friend for filling my dream. Also, when she gets back, she is going to be talking about it all the time. That makes me more jealous. This helps, but I am still feeling jealous. And, I know, I am great for what I have.
@azwell45
@azwell45 4 жыл бұрын
hey omg i've been through the same. Japan is one of my dream countries and my bestie was there a few years ago but um try to turn it into good for you. my friend brought me gifts and i still use them. one of them is a cute pink piggy pencilcase
@KayraR1221
@KayraR1221 3 жыл бұрын
Omg my boyfriend and his best friend are going to Japan together in the summer and im so jealous they've been on like 3 or 4 trips together since we've been dating and we haven't had one yet, especially because it will be my bfs first time on a plane and it's a moment i wish I could see
@siriushauserVT
@siriushauserVT 3 жыл бұрын
I know it's a little late to bring this up, but I wish I'd seen this video and others like it a lot sooner. Went through a very similar situation when my best friend went to Japan, and not only did I not keep that jealousy under control, it went nuclear in the worst way possible, and I very nearly lost his friendship in the process. Three others stopped talking to me entirely, and only regained two of those friends over time. Ultimately, the two of us did end up going to Japan together, but it felt awkward at times because of what went down beforehand, and I lost him to illness last year. I implore anyone reading - PLEASE do not repeat this mistake. Don't let it get to you. Your time will come, far sooner than you think.
@ssolace13
@ssolace13 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I feel like my friends are fulfilling all my dreams and I'm just here watching while no one cares abt me. It hurts so much
@RavenLarai
@RavenLarai 5 жыл бұрын
I get jealous over celebs when they have something really successful going on it how they were just randomly picked out of everyone to be successful. It just affects me way too much and I can barely think
@anonnymuss5355
@anonnymuss5355 4 жыл бұрын
Saame I wish I was successful
@moonie2770
@moonie2770 4 жыл бұрын
Same, some of them just getting successful of what others do u know...wish I had such any of one opportunity to improve myself.
@kavi8556
@kavi8556 4 жыл бұрын
YES I know! I wanna get rid of it like getting jealous over random ppl I want to escape so bad.
@ShouttoJesusChrist
@ShouttoJesusChrist 3 жыл бұрын
The dude that sing the song " look mama I made it " was rape and put on drugs. Sia is a person who over drinks because she is a party girl and can't say no. Brittany spears is stuck in a conservative relationship with her parents. That means as a adult she can't even make basic decisions for herself. You can. You more then likely was not rape and don't have a drinking problem. Do you know most celebrates die young from drugs over use. It's not all great as it look on tv. Remember your life is probably better then theirs. In many many ways. Try to count it
@architagoswami4355
@architagoswami4355 3 жыл бұрын
The jealousy you get when people all around you are finding love. The jealousy you feel when you see someone amazing in nearly every way. The jealousy you feel when you see someone achieving every luxury in life and you're still in a stage of uncertainty, etc. All this makes me feel bad because I want every girl to motivate other girls. And here I am feeling jealous which makes me feel like "I don't practice what I preach". I know I don't let my thoughts of jealousy effect my actions but the thought in itself kills me everyday. It makes me feel like "I am toxic", when on the other hand I hate toxicity and toxic people. I feel like a hypocrite, and guess what, I hate hypocrite people. Am I making sense? How do you deal with it? Like, how? I try my best to not let my jealous thoughts effect my actions, but now I am too tired of all this. Because I have to paste a fake smile across my face and supress my jealous feelings, and I know it's for the good, but now it feels exhausting. Mostly, I ignore the things that makes me jealous ; I start maintaining a distance. But how long can I ignore stuffs? I cannot ignore everything. Ugh!!!
@vanessita4138
@vanessita4138 Жыл бұрын
Everything you said is spot on. I feel you. Is it really Jealousy though? Example. I have sisters who are financially responsible and seemingly "better" but I feel so frustrated because no matter how much they have or how good at "saving" they are, they still find a way to complain, compete and copy the neighbors and my self. Trying to outshine every one and always being miserable and spiteful towards others. I find that I don't feel jealousy it's more of a frustration when their low self esteem and self worth that is concealed and showered with "sweaty try hard", "look at me!" energy 😄 next time you think you feel jealousy really get down to the root of it until you find the "why?" and remind yourself you're not a failure. Compete with yourself. Do things for yourself, not for praise of others and only you're own. Then you'll notice you won't feel jealous or anything of that nature. There's a time and spotlight for everyone and everyone is worthy. Usually the ones who don't care much about it have it longer. Best wishes for you.
@galaxy_chan9961
@galaxy_chan9961 4 жыл бұрын
Well, I'm usually known as the "art kid" in class. I always draw and draw like crazy! I never really showed anyone my drawings tho because I know they suck. Buuuuuuttt, one day, we we're doing an art presentation and this one perfect girl who rarely even draws showed her drawings to the whole class. Her drawings are amazing!! They are super duper good. It's like, she's been drawing her whole life and is a professional. I used to be jealous at her because she can do everything perfectly but now that I know that she can draw better than me when drawing is my only talent, I kinda lost it and had a mental breakdown inside of my room. It kinda just hurts and I am indeed jealous...
@말곹이
@말곹이 3 жыл бұрын
Awww don't feel sad. Strive it if it's your passion! For me, I gave up arts bc I gave in to my jealousy. Imagine how much I would improve this day if I keep on practicing. I hope this is a lesson for you as well. Never stop! Fighting!
@xxm4716
@xxm4716 2 жыл бұрын
@@말곹이 You make it sounds so easy...
@leviistooshort707
@leviistooshort707 6 жыл бұрын
honestly i hate it if my friends know i'm jealous of them. It's selfish, but i hate that they'll think they're better and that someone is jealous because we all can't lie that we'd feel slightly happy when someone is jealous
@starxsxros4238
@starxsxros4238 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry. 🥺
@alysedianecan
@alysedianecan 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not happy at all when ppl are jealous of me. It’s hurts me. I wish they weren’t
@last3122
@last3122 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I’m depressed But I’m jealous of when new girls are prettier than me
@snugglebuggles
@snugglebuggles 4 жыл бұрын
Very very relatable at this very moment in my life 🤧😕
@KaikaiDokeshii
@KaikaiDokeshii 4 жыл бұрын
I'm jealous when a famous KZbinr calls out an underrated person like I never get noticed, and they're so much better better than me and I just rage so much and cry, I'm not self-diagnosing but I think I have an issue with me
@enchantee5819
@enchantee5819 4 жыл бұрын
Whenever my mom is comparing me with someone , I feel so many emotions at once like jealousy,bitterness, envy, insecurity and sadness
@Ch50304
@Ch50304 2 жыл бұрын
yes my mom did that too.
@emmuh6263
@emmuh6263 4 жыл бұрын
I get so jealous and sad when I watch everyone call my friends pretty, and they are pretty, I just get so insecure because I never get any compliments.
@x.ettanya.x694
@x.ettanya.x694 2 жыл бұрын
Omg same.....it just feels like I'm the goblin of their circle ☹️
@jullinara2976
@jullinara2976 5 жыл бұрын
My jealousy is so bad I get mad and sad when my boyfriend says any girl name... I know it's bad and I know I have issues but :(
@besotted2u
@besotted2u 4 жыл бұрын
hello honey! i came to this video for the exact same reason. i am jealous just as you are and just as everyone else has been. being jealous is something that we all experience, whether it is dramatic or not. being reassured feels nice in the moment but if those around you constantly have to do it they will get tired. as the video says, take into mind how you feel, and how the other person/people feel. you have to remember that your boyfriend picked you over these girls. he wanted you because you are unique. you do not have to be like those other girls to be “beautiful” or “better” and you shouldn’t focus so hard on the jealousy that you ruin what you have. i know it just as well as you do when it comes to comparing yourself and feeling jealous, and when you realize that you are amazing and your boyfriend loves you more than those other girls, you will feel much happier. i am always here to talk if you need. i hope you feel better, i know it’s been 4 months since you commented this but i hope this helps! ❤️ lots of love ♡
@jullinara2976
@jullinara2976 4 жыл бұрын
@@besotted2u thank you so much❤ we broke up a bit over a month ago... turns out I felt the jealousy cause he would talk to others with more excitement than he does with me. When I confronted him he said I'm always overreacting that's why I felt like I had issues. When we broke up I came back to him crying and he admitted that he was being dry to me on purpose cause the way I acted annoyed him and he wanted to hurt me. I cried a lot and my heart is broken till this day. We've been together for 2 years and he was my first boyfriend and love....now I'm trying to get over it but he keeps texting as if nothing happened but if I show any slight interest he ignores me again. So now we're talking and I have to suck it up and act uninterested so he keeps talking to me. I cant bring myself to block him I just cant
@besotted2u
@besotted2u 4 жыл бұрын
jullinar Chalamet i understand completely. the same thing happened to me a while back. you need to come to terms with your worth! i know you wanna keep him in your life but having him talk to you or having him in your life is just too raw right now. try to give it some time before you talk again. maybe instead of blocking him tell him how you feel about him messaging you? tell him you are hurting and you need time? if he’s anyone you should be talking to he will understand. always remember your worth baby! you are 100% worth it and so beautiful you are irreplaceable and a kind soul. i promise you will heal and you are not what you feel. what you feel is not what you are made of. you will get better, i promise!
@azwell45
@azwell45 4 жыл бұрын
@@jullinara2976 hey im so sorry to hear that. how are you feeling nowadays? blocking someone after 2 years of being intimate might be a bad idea. but if he is still making you sad and especially doing it in purpose.. maybe slowly cut the communication. you can talk to me btw! i can give you my insta if you'd like
@thenukeanims
@thenukeanims 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah but that rhymes Bad, mad *sad*
@Pegacorn1210
@Pegacorn1210 10 жыл бұрын
That green eyed monster is SOOOO CUUUUTE!!
@dalinahuynh5010
@dalinahuynh5010 10 жыл бұрын
IKR!
@RallyRushh
@RallyRushh 4 жыл бұрын
As an artist, jealousy and insecurity are feelings I face daily especially since you see so much talent online. The most bothersome part for me is how I'm jealous of my friends for being more talented than I am. I still work my ass off to get better but they're already getting brand deals and article features... I still support them of course and I'm happy for them but I just hate how I feel jealous ughh :
@rakshanrao5023
@rakshanrao5023 3 жыл бұрын
Aww Ya I can relate
@plantton6119
@plantton6119 Жыл бұрын
Can relate ):
@nomnom2458
@nomnom2458 Жыл бұрын
All relatable, im sure those friends feel the same too, the feeling of having someone having or being better at soething you desire, especially if they’re ur friend, is the worst
@TheLostPage
@TheLostPage 9 жыл бұрын
There's this one girl that I can't help but be jealous of. She let me see her grades, and all throughout the year she had made 100s and one or two 99s and 98s. She has a lot of friends, her artistic skills are way above my own, she's super pretty, and she's crazy smart. She's at the top when it comes to her cello playing abilities and I feel like she's superior to me on so many levels. The only things I /think/ I have above her is my writing ability and overall maturity. I'm not that pretty, my grades are lower than hers, and I'm as introverted as one can get. She seems too perfect in my book, like one of those Mary Sue characters, and I can't help but feel a pang of jealousy whenever I'm around her, though I never express my true feelings about it.
@Bigbangrdbst
@Bigbangrdbst 9 жыл бұрын
I was jealous A girl like that in my school Same thing My sister told me that there is someone who is jealous of you for going to school
@MorganWeazy44
@MorganWeazy44 9 жыл бұрын
You must be real insecure bout yourself then if you take time out your day to be jealous of someone
@TheLostPage
@TheLostPage 9 жыл бұрын
Morgan Weazy Yeah, I acknowledge that I am insecure about myself. But it's not like I think about how much smarter she is than me every time we make eye contact. It's just when she unintentionally reminds me, whether it's showing off her quiz grade, her drawings, or stories of when she won an award for _____, that I'm just not as good as she is.
@MorganWeazy44
@MorganWeazy44 9 жыл бұрын
Who cares there's always someone out there better than you but it shouldn't matter just do you ull b fine trust me
@TheLostPage
@TheLostPage 9 жыл бұрын
Eduardo Martins Wow, that was actually really helpful. Thanks!
@frap7021
@frap7021 4 жыл бұрын
It’s like a monster eating me up inside taking away happy memories an filling them with lies an deception towards me it makes me sad an angry close to the feeling of heart break an I can’t handle it that’s why I don’t get into a relationship, actually I’m in one with a great girl who I trust over the moon but jealousy gets me when she mentions a guy an I get petty, I feel like she’s gonna get tired of me an my jealous ness now matter how much we love eachother
@dammmnnnkaytreezy__9914
@dammmnnnkaytreezy__9914 4 жыл бұрын
Well if you love her work on yourself before it’s too late . Take time to yourself and don’t be so jealous. I hope you did because you commented this a long time ago.
@frap7021
@frap7021 4 жыл бұрын
@@dammmnnnkaytreezy__9914 yea no man we ended recently my first love I’m healing but yk we don’t talk to eachother bunch of shit happened and I still love her but she don’t I kinda wished you didn’t reply to this I didn’t want to see this cus it was when times where better, I had forgot I wrote this it hurts to see
@salyoutube7023
@salyoutube7023 3 жыл бұрын
@@frap7021 fuck her do you bruh go explore the world get bulky do something I was in yo I lace before and I’m be honest it was a living nightmare for me I wanted to kill anyone that the girl I loved mentioned but eventually I broke down and had to let go shit was crazy so if you seeing this do yo thang
@cherryliang5117
@cherryliang5117 8 жыл бұрын
I don't think telling people is a good idea all the time. For example, many of my friends are getting married and having babies. They found someone they love. Should I just go up to them and say"hey, I saw your post about how happy your married life is and I'm jealous", especially our relationship is actually great? If I say something there will be a knob in our relationship.
@youngarchivest9092
@youngarchivest9092 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@laurenconnelly1882
@laurenconnelly1882 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I just sit and cry :)
@kindle14
@kindle14 2 жыл бұрын
my bestfriend in 6th grade alr have this huge glowup.. and i felt this.. we're not close anymore and i think it's why im feeling this. she's so pretty and more wealthy than i am rn.. and in convincing myself that everyone has a different pace and it's ok to go slower. watching these helps me to calm and make me not to feel bad
@moon-ws5zz
@moon-ws5zz 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah everyone have different journey. So be YOURSELF and Move on with ur LIFE. ✨️
@kindle14
@kindle14 2 жыл бұрын
@@moon-ws5zz i came back here bc i sadly still have it. i dont want to bring her down or something but honestly if she got ugly more than i am. ill have a satisfactiom feeling. and ik it's not normal that's why im educating myself again bc ik i need to again. i literally dont know what to do at these situations. she's so pretty rn more than months ago. these making me so indecisive to work my ass off to be more prettier than her and lessen my insecurities. i feel like i should leave instagram and focus on myself, read more self help books, and more. writing these made me feel better aa
@UhuhNomeansno
@UhuhNomeansno Жыл бұрын
@@kindle14yes detach and try to evolve work towards getting some goals maybe a nice house and to dress nice look for things that you want to achieve too and work on it you’ll shine too girlie
@kaitlynmoses2139
@kaitlynmoses2139 9 жыл бұрын
omg 😂😂😂😂 at the beginning when she thru the trophy at that girl😂
@almatapia4533
@almatapia4533 9 жыл бұрын
Savage!
@การันต์จันทนา
@การันต์จันทนา 9 жыл бұрын
@การันต์จันทนา
@การันต์จันทนา 9 жыл бұрын
@jouddarri6684
@jouddarri6684 8 жыл бұрын
That's what I would honestly do 😂😂😂
@cesaralcaraz819
@cesaralcaraz819 3 жыл бұрын
I feel extremely envious of my best friend to the point that everytime I think of her, I can’t help but feel angry and sad towards myself. She seems to have more and better skills, potential, and accomplishes than me. I can’t help but feel more down about myself because of it.
@francismausley7239
@francismausley7239 4 жыл бұрын
Too often, it's used in a negative manner... "Jealousy eats the body and anger burns the liver. Refrain from these two as you would avoid a lion." ~ Baha'u'llah, Baha'i Faith
@LactoseIntollerance
@LactoseIntollerance Жыл бұрын
I’ve liked a guy for 5 years and my friends made ONE joke about him being with another girl (who he isn’t with and is just friends with) and it made my blood run cold. Was wild. I wasnt expecting it, im not a very jealous person, and it genuinely caught me off guard
@fightforlove999
@fightforlove999 11 жыл бұрын
I'm to busy working on my own garden to realize if anyone else's garden is better..
@sportsmed1013
@sportsmed1013 7 жыл бұрын
fuckoff 12 year old
@beverlycheung
@beverlycheung 7 жыл бұрын
SportsMed 101 what the heck did she say was wrong
@fqqno4886
@fqqno4886 7 жыл бұрын
Nice saying
@AsmaaPurity
@AsmaaPurity 6 жыл бұрын
Fightfor Love ao truuuuue when i started focusing on my life finding my purpose i am really yo busy looking at anyone else and i am really happy
@andresvillanueva5421
@andresvillanueva5421 6 жыл бұрын
Now this is what you call "GOALS".
@TaylorWilmes
@TaylorWilmes 9 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend went to a birthday party that had drinking (but with her best friend, her other "friend" the birthday girl, and with a guy that messes around a lot) she played drinking games with them and the parents (of the birthday girl). Now yes, I trusted her and I love her with all my heart, but that didn't stop me from being jealous and fearing that, the boy might try to make a move on her. I kept constant contact with her, and so, nothing happened. The reason I was jealous may of been because I experienced an identical situation with a girl who cheated on me, I over reacted, but didn't say anything about it When it was all over, I had nothing to worry about and it reinforced the trust and this, strengthened my relation ship with her.
@elizabethwilliams2721
@elizabethwilliams2721 9 жыл бұрын
Why didn't I discover this video before I fell out with my best friend ?!
@Vaanspinz
@Vaanspinz 8 жыл бұрын
i qonder why ahe didnt fall for you too
@Kayla-ll4yo
@Kayla-ll4yo 8 жыл бұрын
Ikr??lol
@Rosielu-c5g
@Rosielu-c5g 8 жыл бұрын
How do u fall out of a friend?
@mrpumperknuckles1631
@mrpumperknuckles1631 8 жыл бұрын
+Stella Actis you crawl inside your friend using them to stay warm while in the the winter. You than fall out of their body leaving you numb in the cold
@xfuzzyyyy
@xfuzzyyyy 8 жыл бұрын
+Stella Actis Falling out with a friend is when you argue with them...
@jebcity
@jebcity Жыл бұрын
To be honest it’s so difficult to not be jealous it always feel like a sharp knife that plunges itself everytime she talk to another person.
@cristina-8327
@cristina-8327 2 жыл бұрын
I don't even want to tell people I'm jealous, I absolutely hate being vulnerable
@Wonderful_rr
@Wonderful_rr 3 жыл бұрын
man,after looking at these comments and the vid, I can very relate. I get jealous when my close friends hangout with there own friends. I get a fix of fear,anxiety,anger,and so much more. My mindset is fucked up. It's been for several months. It's slowly bringing me down as a person. I get to emotional on these kind of topics but by not say it. I hate myself for what I've became and eventually it's going to make me loose everyone I cared and loved. I'm so paranoid about it.
@patmentoring6391
@patmentoring6391 8 жыл бұрын
I dont get jelous i Just feel sad
@Cspgirl
@Cspgirl 6 жыл бұрын
Reckless same
@Chloe-tz3kw
@Chloe-tz3kw 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@sweetsoul3169
@sweetsoul3169 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@richasaxena6636
@richasaxena6636 5 жыл бұрын
Same here...Jealousy shows how immature a person is.... Nobody has a perfect life... We all have problems, it's just that some people deal with the problems in a better way,that's why others assume that they are very happy and content with their life.
@mustasheolll2020
@mustasheolll2020 5 жыл бұрын
PatMentoring I get both
@sayantikarouth8081
@sayantikarouth8081 3 жыл бұрын
I feel jealousy when I see other people hanging out with their friends, hugging each other, enjoying, calling each other names which the ones in close relation usually do...... Because I never ever had anyone like that.... I tend to hate myself for being jealous at others' happiness but I can't help the sharp pain in my chest at times
@BoostGlitch357
@BoostGlitch357 3 жыл бұрын
Dw I'm the same
@cinnamorollteaparty
@cinnamorollteaparty 9 ай бұрын
OMG same... It hurts so much seeing the people you wanna be friends with are having more fun with others :
@chopshoprob7173
@chopshoprob7173 4 жыл бұрын
Don't waste your time on jealousy Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind The race is long and in the end, it's only with yourself
@katsukibakugou4727
@katsukibakugou4727 4 жыл бұрын
When I get jealous I keep it to myself and I remind myself that “this relationship ain’t forever so I shouldn’t even bother to get jealous”
@motbydelig_3169
@motbydelig_3169 3 жыл бұрын
Dude thanks this was actually helpful and i dont know why
@ariadnaferre6446
@ariadnaferre6446 3 жыл бұрын
I can't deal with that thought and actually that only makes me sadder than I was at first
@chuumyatsandi
@chuumyatsandi Жыл бұрын
That thought straight introduced you to the next level called envy. It’s not only that you want to have what they have but you also don’t want them to have what they have for the ridiculous reason that you want to possess it alone. Welcome to the other side of the tunnel.
@hummusloverfr
@hummusloverfr 3 жыл бұрын
It's always like this for me : 1. I have something like a hobby I like and I think I am especially good at 2. I find someone who is better than me at that thing even though they don't do it since a long time 3. I get angry, cry and start to hate that thing ALWAYS it's ruining my life
@carriesausser6773
@carriesausser6773 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be psychotically jealous, way back when I hated myself. It takes time, but the more self esteem you build , the less jealousy you will feel. What used to be a big green monster is now an occasional faint whisper.
@afreenahmed369
@afreenahmed369 5 жыл бұрын
I actually overcome jealously and when I feel like it I always remind myself that no one is more important to me than me and myself 😀🤘
@colorlessoz
@colorlessoz 8 жыл бұрын
I'll speak on the other person's point of view for this, because I've been a victim of a friend who was constantly jealous. I couldn't let her meet my other friends or even best friends that I've known since I was a baby without her going off in a dramatic storm and I had to go and console her that she is still my friend and at other times I would leave her be because I was starting to get tired of her crap of always doing this. I had to move away and honestly that was the best thing, because after crying and feeling sorry that I had to go and leave her, I found out, she never truly was my friend to begin with. I tried writing letters, email, ( she didn't have facebook) she stopped texting me, I tried calling her for her birthday and she hung up as soon as I said her name. Two years later I come back and she'd stopped coming to the church where we'd hang out at. I saw her just a month ago, she's got a new person she's latched herself onto, and I feel sorry for the person she's " friends" with. But still she affected me. To this day, I'm scared to tell my best friend about someone else I made friends with at school ( college whatever) without feeling like they'll be mad. it left a big scar and I had even considered not trying to make any more friends because of this one person because I felt like everyone would be like her. but I've found that it's not. And, I'm happy I was wrong. :)
@bintangkiara9829
@bintangkiara9829 8 жыл бұрын
"Shakespeare calls it, the green eyed monster." Oh you mean Septic Eye Sam?
@samplaysgames43
@samplaysgames43 8 жыл бұрын
kiattylaks my name is sam.
@SaraOLN
@SaraOLN 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, yes 😊💚!
@gringobingo471
@gringobingo471 5 жыл бұрын
Mike wazowski
@a-m-e-l-y-a2837
@a-m-e-l-y-a2837 3 жыл бұрын
Jealousy makes me feel sad and angry I hate it I hate being jealous-it sucks Like if I have a friend,and I introduced them to my other friend,they hang out with eachothe without me,it makes me somehow feel betrayed If they met without me having to introduce them,then that's another different story!♡
@liamangrynexter
@liamangrynexter 2 жыл бұрын
Me: REVENGE AND VIOLENCE
@dragongrrl3
@dragongrrl3 10 жыл бұрын
The one thing I say about getting over envy is to focus on your own achievements instead of those that are others. Even if you can't, turn negative energy into a positive motivator and use it as fuel to improve yourself and your abilities.
@samanthasponder1280
@samanthasponder1280 4 жыл бұрын
The cure to jealousy is gratitude. And it took a long time to realize this.I had a real hard time with jealousy and comparing myself to others. When I dig deep to find out why it’s so triggering, I realized that I was always being compared to others as a child! My mother was the stereotypical “Why can’t you be like Susie Q from down the street!”..... Calling all parents here: Please do not compare your children and make them feel less then. Comparison breeds jealousy issues once your children become grown adults. Comparing your children is not going to make them do what you want. Comparing your children is an act of violation against the self! It is also the thief of joy.
@ohok1158
@ohok1158 3 жыл бұрын
im pretty much jealous about everything my cousin has. i mean look at her, shes so popular, and prettier, shes so nice, literaly all my cousins adore her, yet im just sitting at the other side of the room hoping this would be over. shes what makes me insecure about my body, my skin, my face, my personality, and the clothes i wear lol :D
@krotsin
@krotsin 3 жыл бұрын
I remember when I turned 13 years old, I started seeing jealousy in other people. I feel like it is time when I learnt that feeling from others because there was no such feelings before. Today if I ever feel jealous, I try to eliminate things or people from my life who trigger that feeling in me.
@charlottee1121
@charlottee1121 10 жыл бұрын
I admit that I am jealous of a girl in my school because she is rich, popular, skinny, pretty and perfect. I realized that I'm insecure of myself. I am going to resolve this by focusing on ME. Not her. I know i'm not perfect, but i bet she messes up too sometimes.
@lizzbern6660
@lizzbern6660 9 жыл бұрын
Listen sister. Even the best of us trip in our heels. What im saying is, it's literally impossible to be perfect. And by the way, bravo on not letting her get to you!
@axelate17
@axelate17 6 жыл бұрын
I watched this a couple of years ago when a friend I had would always be better than me in school...even when I tried so hard, she would be able to guess and get everything right...i did all of these steps. Including the "communicate" step....and....she now hates me and we haven't talk in 3 years
@sleepyaugust2182
@sleepyaugust2182 5 жыл бұрын
I wish it was that easy... Every time my friend spends time with someone else and leaves me out i get scared and feel like she likes them more than me... I know that sounds dumb but I cant help it. I also feel like no one trusts me if they wont tell me something, lie to me even a little or ignore me even by accident. It doesnt help that I really like her it makes me even more jealous. Im gonna try this but i doubt it will totally fix it.
@whatiwriteafterthisismainl7133
@whatiwriteafterthisismainl7133 4 жыл бұрын
How did it go? Im actually experiencing the same thing right now, thing is, both of my best friends are "doing it" in a sense. In my country, you are assigned to a designated class, and u will stay in that class for 3 years. I had the time of my life with my best friends for those 3 years but last year they switched us all up, ive got 2 best friends and all three of us were put into seperate classes. One of my best friends found "new friends" and she started hanging out with us less and when she does she would always talk about her "other friends", she wouldnt even walk home with us anymore. I once saw her walking out the gates of my school with her new best friend i guess and the girl had her shoulder around my friend and it just made me really jealous and heartbroken because she never let me do that, she said she didnt like touching other people. That was months ago anyways, and now since my country has been in lockdown for months, she hasnt talked to them as much as she isnt very vlose with them, but she has another close friend from junior high, and theyve been friends for 3 years before i met her, and one day my friend just randomly told me "i dont know why i dont say i love u to u but i say it to my other friend" *i love love so i like saying i love u to the people i love* and that, once again, broke my heart. Now to that other "best friend" i have, she was a bit of a loner in her class, so whenever i had a free period or just any ime i would sneak into her class and we eould have a lot of fun. She too has friends from junior high who shes known for 3 years before i met her and theyve gotten a lot closer since we havent been in school for a while. A couple weeks back they started meeting at my friends house VERY often, like almost once a week sort of thing, and they would take pictures and have a lot of fun n id just feel left out, looking at their pictures through a screen. And my friend often mentions *in my opinion, intentionally* that she would be going to her house or her friend would come to her house. Me and my friend initially planned a sleepover but the covid cases started to rise in my country and im sort of a person who cares a lot about this and doesnt want people to suffer so i suggested id stay home and we postpone and my "friend" started calling me a coward and we should be fine, i just didnt want to risk it so i said no. But yeah, theyve just been hanging out a lot lately and everytime she tells me shes going to her friends house or vise versa id just get really sad and find an excuse to end the conversation. She would have all these talks with her friend, like whats been going on with her parents with the divorce and all that and she would tell her friends details about it that i wouldnt even know until the subjects just suddenly comes up. Theyve been talking about college and how both of them want to be doctors and stuff, and i- i dont know, i just feel a bit left out. The three of us havent been talking a lot lately, just a little sometimes. There was this thing a couple days ago, just a competition where u send some sort of link to your friends nad u get a prize. I wanted to send this link to my 2 "best friends" but i hesitated, all i could think about was "are they even my best friends anymore?" Anyways, im sorry for ranting, i just really needed some place to let all of it out, im feeling very emotionally drained, weve had so many good memories but i feel like im hanging onto something that cant be fixed... Any advice??
@TerraLuna2001
@TerraLuna2001 2 жыл бұрын
jealousy is the worst feeling of all it causing other feelings to get mixed together and that painful
@VoidDweller86
@VoidDweller86 Жыл бұрын
The Sheer Enigmas of Jealousy and Envy Can Cut Very Deep, Me Speaking For Myself. I am 36 years old by the way, Black American male.
@TerraLuna2001
@TerraLuna2001 Жыл бұрын
@@VoidDweller86 I'm one of those who have a hard time identify ones feelings for myslef but I can also change very quickly I have felt jealousy but I'm not a jealous person.
@tatothyblues2995
@tatothyblues2995 2 жыл бұрын
I intended to search this because I'm having a serious family jealousy.... I need this thank you
@devilxxvs5514
@devilxxvs5514 5 жыл бұрын
When I start getting jealousy, I start getting depress. I know, at some point, that I will get stuck for being jealous in my whole goddamn life, until when I am probably in college, I will soon understand that jealousy isn’t the answer.
@ratatata6611
@ratatata6611 2 жыл бұрын
Searched a video to explain why am I jealous of my friends when they got internships while I don't and reading the comment section seeing that other people all around the world are also facing the same inner demon the "green eyed monster" is relieving. I sometimes am thankful for the Internet
@apricot662
@apricot662 9 ай бұрын
I have a terrible problem where I don’t like it when my friends hang out with other people and focus more on them than me
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