Dealing with STRESS - Mom of 10

[@tinastephens-johnson3546]

The Lord sent u with this video as an answer to my prayers.

[@audreywy1743]

Another way to think about having to hire outside help, you're helping them and their family by hiring them. Double win

[@tamykah478]

Perfect and this is what we do.

[@Yesica1993]

This is so true. I've been out of full time/permanent work for literally years now. (I won't say how many, it's too embarrassing.) The way I've made it the past few years has been through various friends hiring me to help with housework and child care. You are right, it's been a double win. It's not only helped me financially, but the true blessing for me has been becoming a part of these children's young lives. I am single (NOT by choice) and have no kids. I adore all of these kids as though they were my own.

[@amyrivers9381]

@@Yesica1993 I feel like we have a similar life experience. I always wanted many children and a healthy strong Christian family. I was a nanny for years while I studied at University. In 2000 I was engaged to be married but the man was abusing me, physically, mentally and sexually. I never wanted to give my heart to any man again so I'm 41 and single. I was a primary school teacher and a foster Mum. Nine years ago when I was 32 my doctors gave me two years to live (I've been sick since I was a child but the complications that came from having all but 1 metre of my intestine removed were extensive). So I had to stop working and fostering which was soul destroying. My Nephew had just been born in New Zealand where we are from but they moved back to England when he was 9 months old. The thought of never seeing my precious nephew again was heart wrenching. It made be force feed myself and learn how to cope with excessive pain etc. I hope that you find an amazing man who wants children with you and you get to fulfill your dreams. Always remember how amazing you are. God bless you and Merry Christmas. XOXOX

[@pre-kthrough1stgradelearni875]

Yes, and it's most likely a write-off.

[@pamayers8681]

Sarah, you are compelling because you are so heartfelt and authentic. Our Tribe of Many is a bright spot in my day.❤️

[@katiegonzales2221]

Pam Ayers she is so real and down to earth. I love it.

[@gingerfreel9643]

I’m single and childless but found your comments to be helpful in my own life. 👍

[@phyllischaput2757]

Excellent video. I know you edit out the chaos ,BUT..I see the training of children, the kindnesses, and with a family of 12, your house is fantastic. I too am a Christian, how can we not be? We all glean wisdom nuggets from you. This KZbin of yours is a phenominal ministry ❤, honestly. I am old , kids, grown, but get so much from you. You really hit on something here.

[@Karmacalifornia67]

Phyllis Chaput ditto... xo

[@amyrivers9381]

I don't know how non Christians cope with life. I'm terminally ill and God has been by myside every step of the way. As much as my health allows I look for situations where I can help someone. It is a way for me to try to serve our Lord. Xx

[@maryenright4930]

I’m a Christian too. Such a blessing. Widow mother of adult kids grandmother. Live with my daughter and kids. Stressed but you helped me so much. I’m not going to camp in stress no more. Love hearing your real not fake pretend to perfect life. We need to see real life. Love you and love how you speak with the love of God....

[@bethleffelman3807]

I am a 60 year old mom of zero, although my husband has 2 adult children and a 5 year old grandson. Going through my adult years watching my siblings have kids, I had to realize we needed to accept as many children as God would give us, even if that meant none. That said, I find you a wonderful encouragement, and I watch for your videos. In a previous comment on an earlier video, I committed to praying for you and your family and your church, every day. I am a born again Christian for about 45 years, and I have a personal ministry of prayer for homeschool children. I have about 80 on my list including all 10 of yours. I wanted to encourage you today. I live a life of trying to be content in whatsoever state I am in. That helps me with my stress. God bless you!

[@OurTribeofMany]

Thanks for the prayers....what an awesome ministry!

[@chicsss]

😗😙😘

[@pievedi]

Sarah - My life is so so different from yours. My 3 kids are grown and at 73, my life is mostly behind me. I watch Our Tribe of Many because of what I learn from you and Solo about navigating through this life with faith and love -- lessons for all of us regardless of background. Your Dealing With Stress post today affected me more than any of your many previous posts -- and I've loved them all! Do more of these kind of talks, Sarah. It was a sermon without being a sermon. You preached without being preachy. Your message was heartfelt and riveting. YOU were riveting. Thank you.

[@texasoutlook60]

Well said and I second the suggestion of you, Sarah, doing more of this kind of video! Blessings ~Sidney

[@heatherbennett349]

Amen!

[@carolinejohn4537]

Totally agree. It was heartfelt and inspired.

[@OurTribeofMany]

Thanks for the encouragement.....and for watching!

[@christygrooten6381]

I watch the KZbinr you mention and I get soooo much more from you Sarah! Every Vlogger offers something different and we resonate with different people. I have been so incredibly blessed just finding you and your awesome family! So thankyou for just being you x

[@bd7852]

Christy Grooten Agreed! I’m not a fan of that KZbinr, but Sarah’s channel is my absolute favorite.

[@deboraholler2211]

Yes I totally agree with you. Sarah gives far more. I just love her

[@kimcole271]

Me too

[@erikalouwrens3992]

I have watched the KZbinr you mention and, truly you are in a league of your own, Sarah. You are real, your husband is real, your children are real and there is no comparison between you. To live in a world of white and denim and murmurs with lots of beans and chia seeds is just not realistic. Give me Our Tribe of Many any day of the week, month or year!! God bless xxx

[@Yesica1993]

I just watched a news story about a couple with a little boy. Both of them are facing terminal cancer at the same time. I cannot even imagine such a thing. Really puts much of our "stress" in perspective, doesn't it?

[@pipertarin68]

Hi, I had a Stroke 3 years ago. I am so Blessed to be Alive! The 1st thing " I did" after, The Doctor told me about My Stroke. I immediately Thanked The Lord♥️😘 for saving My Life & giving me more time (2) was to " NOT get Mad at People or Situations " as I previously would have & remember " It's NOT Life threatening or having Someone you love seriously ill!" I'm Praying for Couple who, are terminal ♥️My Mom had a really rare Cancer, in (1971) She has been "Cancer Free" (49) yrs. Blessings and Merry Christmas, Piper

[@OurTribeofMany]

Yesica1993 so much! That is unimaginable.

[@Yesica1993]

@@pipertarin68 I am thankful for God's grace on your life and your mother's life as well!

[@pipertarin68]

@@Yesica1993 Thank you! The Lord, has been Amazing to me My whole Life! I was a 2lb 4oz Preemie born@32 Weeks in 1968 they didn't expect me to Live, especially after, I got down to 1lb 14oz's they told My Mom, to prepare herself! She said " The Lord, WILL save My Daughter, I have Faith!" Blessings and Thank you for the well wishes and Merry Christmas, Piper

[@teedracohen6062]

I used to watch that other family, but then I found your family. Girl, you are great. I prefer your family because yall are more down to earth and realistic. I have 2 kids and they are stressful, so having 10 kids has got to be out of this world. If you don't yell every now and then you might lose your mind. 😲😲😤😤😤😨😨. Stay as you are and you and Solo keep up the great work👍👍👍👏👏👏👏

[@joetedi6220]

teedra cohen Same here... I used to watch that other family, and got sick of it real fast.... they seem so odd and seem to do and say stuff just for more attention. Go Sarah! Your family is the bomb. ❤️

[@annieportier3584]

God gives us what we need when we need it. I am 74 dealing with a 96 yo mother in a memory care facility that fell and broke her femur in Oct who is now dealing with significant bedsores. I am with her everyday helping feed her but my own duties are not getting done at home which is stressing me. I am going to hire someone to come clean my home b/c I'm too tired at the end of the day to do it myself. My energy now is with my mom who is in hospice. Thank-you Sarah for giving me a solution to peace! This vlog was AMAZING! and I can still stay in my lane!!! Yay!!

[@Yesica1993]

I hope you're able to get the help that you need. I was recently dealing with my own mother in a rehab facility. It's exhausting going back & forth, as well as the emotional aspect.

[@bettywilder3739]

Bless you, Annie. You're a good daughter! ❤

[@OurTribeofMany]

Sounds like such a difficult season for you....but you won't have any regrets!

[@jillh7403]

Stay strong. ❤

[@RepentAndBelieve1437]

Aww I'm so sorry for what you and your mom are going through 💛🧡💜 may the LORD Bless you.

[@cjr.6908]

This is 1 wise woman right here folks! Thank you Sarah!❤️❤️

[@josiee4657]

It takes courage to open up like you did! God bless you and your family!

[@texasoutlook60]

Sarah, reading the comments below I see how many people of all different situations, from all ages you have touched! At 63 y/o, I too have resonated with your message. I'm dealing with health issues and I'm needing help with my house work. Thank you for you and Solo's example! Blessings ~Sidney

[@barbaragrayarmendariz9056]

Why do people give them a thumbs down , nobody ask you to watch , they do a great job with these children and nothing they do reflects on you

[@breannamaurer3909]

Barbara Gray Armendariz it may be kids by accident. my toddler has done that before. :) i’m hoping that’s all it is. how could somebody thumbs down these videos?! :)

[@n2creativity-ccladee640]

Great post! I agree that after three kids, it is like herding with love! Knowing our own stress points is important as is knowing how to deal. Faith definitely gives me the ability to deal with stress!

[@Chels444]

Just had my second daughter 12-12 and this has helped me so much. Knowing it’s ok to ask for help, that it’s hard for you too, and that praying and trusting in the lord and not camping in stress are all amazing points. ❤️ thankful for you!

[@denisescull4227]

Camping in stress. That phrase is so helpful and a good reminder. Remembering to reevaluate the way I am living my life is an area I struggle with. Sarah, you really have some good suggestions and I appreciate that you remind us that we are all different and our needs are different. Thanks for sharing!

[@OurTribeofMany]

Thanks for watching!

[@djterry1218]

I am now older and retired but I love watching your family. When I was younger I was a total wreck always stressed but I stressed myself because I was a perfectionist. There are multitudes of personalities in this world and I don’t know why I thought everything had to be just so. Now that I’m older I guess I’m wiser

[@MamaWolf-oc2ct]

You go girl!!! I’m 51 4’11 and full of boredom now. I raised 3 biological children and 3 of there friends that I fed and never went back to there own home. They are all grown now some with families of there own. I lived the chaos!! Like you I function really well with the busyness of life and have much patients. I now feel stressed because I don’t have the feeling of usefulness in my life. Raising, sharing life and loving children is what my calling has been my whole life. I was raised in a foster home as a young teenager after my mother died, didn’t know my father. So now I feel the calling to become a foster to adopt parent and my 22 yr old son wants to do it with me. Some say I’m crazy, but I truly feel that God is talking to me to do it. There are so many children in need of a loving family to grow into happy people. Watching your channel shows a great model for me to learn from in my journey to building a new large family. Thank you for sharing. Much love and respect. From far Northern California Kerry Jane

[@judyjudys2082]

God is so good , His mercies are new everyday , I can’t even imagine life without Him . I had to learn it is in God’s time and not ours ! Thank you for sharing your thoughts Sarah , you are human but I see you as a good Christian woman , a fabulous mother and wife you have such a good heart . Merry Christmas to you and Solo and your precious family ! ❤️🎄❤️

[@emilymikelsons8887]

Thank you Sarah. God gives us what we need exactly when we need it- I couldn't make it out of the house today and so missed church BUT was blessed and encouraged by the virtual fellowship of your video! I liked the way you described "camping in a place of stress", it's a helpful picture and a good reminder that God offers to lead us instead in green pastures and quiet waters and to stay with us through the valleys. I hope you're all having a lovely Christmas week xx

[@audreykuczka4081]

While you spoke very generally about stress I am pretty sure that almost every single person who watched this video took something and it hit home for them. That is completely the case for me in multiple areas being a full time working mom of 1 with another one on the way in 7 weeks. I am very stressed about my husband being gone so much for his job (police officer working nights) but I know this is a temporary stress. We will work through this. I am blessed with his support and a great marriage that I think I really can take that for granted of what we do have. While I am overwhelmed after I get home from work taking care of our children and home by myself I am grateful I have these problems. I am so grateful I have a home to clean and a beautiful, crazy, healthy toddler to care for that occasionally drives me nuts LOL. Thank you Sarah. These words are what my heart needed. Thank you for not putting this off any longer, it was exactly what I needed.

[@rebekahdavis8203]

You have really blessed me this morning. Thank you so much for this video. My family is grown, an I’m 71 but I have a husband with Alzheimer’s , you have encouraged me greatly. May God bless an keep you an your beautiful family. Love watching your show. Merry Christmas an a happy New year.

[@christinagarrett4769]

I never comment (I’m a lurker lol) but I had to take a moment to thank you for this video! I have been stuck in what feels like a season of stress and your message was exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for the honesty and encouragement!

[@teresarobinson1219]

Absolutely Sarah. I can relate to so much you have talked about. I have been always an over achiever since I can remember. Then I started working, raising my children, taking care of my home, husband, teaching Sunday school, youth leader, 4H leader, my mom and dad's home. I just couldn't sleep. I was exhausted, I prayed Lord what is going on, my life is like the energized bunny. Everyone kept saying girl you need to slow down. Working only for a couple months full time, I became injured at work, I was devastated, my entire life came to a halt. I have been totally disabled for 16 years, I have been sooo stressed and depressed. After 27 years of marriage my husband left saying he wasn't happy, that he was leaving. It was like what now Lord. He says he will not give you more than you can bare. My divorce dragged on for almost 3 years, the family was in turmoil, I had no idea how to make it on my own with a very limited income. The one thing I can say, prayer, God's telephone line, faith, and unconditional love. I don't have much, but what I do have is priceless. God's amazing Grace and mercy. I have no idea how anyone lives without Him. Thank you for letting the Lord use you, your husband, and family. Watching and waiting for my ticket on that gospel ship to my forever home. Prayers and Love

[@lynseyk6555]

Amen to all you said! I am a mother of 8. We homeschool and do all the things. I've learned over the years that life is not an emergency and we need to enter into the season that we are in. Often and I'll speak for myself we long for a different season but embracing the season and ALL that it pertains is truly freeing. I love that you seek the Lord for wisdom. I do the same and he has faithfully guided me through even the smallest of trials and snags. He cares about the laundry, the schooling, the house work and your relationship with your spouse! God bless and thanks for sharing!

[@OurTribeofMany]

So good....."life is not an emergency", great statement!

[@aliciawilliams2503]

I felt guilty getting a cleaner as someone single without kids. But I work very long hours and felt my whole weekend was spent doing washing and cleaning. Getting a cleaner once a fortnight to do my bathrooms and floors it costs me so little less than 2 hours of the cleaners time and allows me to spend time decompressing from my week. I wish I had done it sooner!

[@jillygirl2024]

You need to do what works for you

[@nylalee4809]

Looove you and your family! Families like y'alls are what would make America great again! Your faith and patience make me strive for that in my life! Thank you!

[@annecaunce]

I love your honesty Sarah and the things you said really resonated with me. I'm single and the sole carer for my sick daughter. I'm about to lose my hospital job because of all the time off I've had to look after her and I'm worried sick about losing our home, but I pray every night for help and I believe it will come in time. Thank you.

[@larson511]

What state are you in? Can you sit down and explain to your employer that you are only one parent to your child so it's not in your control to be two places at once if shes sick?

[@lindaharris1993]

Wow Sarah I really needed to hear this today💕. While l am retired and my family is grown and married I havent slowed down too much. I've been considering cutting back on some volunteer activities but feel stressed and guilty for doing so. Your message has given me some encouragement and peace of mind. You are such a blessing to me and I'm sure to many others🙏.

[@desiraebryan6258]

This video came at such a crucial time for me. I am a stay at home mom of one (relatively difficult) 8 month old baby boy. I live many hours away from my family and my husband works in the oil field for 20 days of the month. I’ve struggled a lot since having my son with being alone so much. But just yesterday I decided enough was enough. I have to stop being a complainer and instead realize my blessings in this season. Thanks for this wonderful message.

[@alyssadehaan3260]

One of my favorite videos to date. You, dear momma, are the real deal. As a fellow believer, I’m so encouraged by your light in this world. Your practical parenting advice is also spot on. ❤️

[@eelinsoh2597]

I love how grounded and calm you are. I am a Mum of 3 very active & argumentative boys. Listening to you makes me feel that life is going to be alright.

[@betsyconley8133]

Thanks for all that encouragement Sarah! I could relate to almost everything you said! I have 9 children and feel like its all I can do to keep my head above water, and I dont even homeschool! My biggest takeaway from your video is that" God doesnt want us to camp in stress." I need to remind myself of that and ask God to show me what to do differently. You said everything so well and in a way that I dont feel guilty just encouraged!

[@bizimanaemmanuel1467]

Thank you so much for sharing Sarah! I have three kids and we live on the mission field. Recently the Lord has put it on my heart that we are supposed to have one more child and while I love my children dearly, I feel overwhelmed and sometimes wonder if I will be able to handle it. Thanks for the encouragement. I trust God and believe that He will give me the patience and strength as I need it. Love you guys.

[@betsykirkman8665]

Amen!You hit it right on the nose. Comparing your life to others, or( keeping up with Jones )will drive you nuts. My new years resolution is stress will not rent a space in my brain. Also, asking for help from family members and friends is so helpful. There are good people out here that want to help others.

[@cheriboo2]

You are such a blessing to me. A real “friend” in my head 😊

[@terrimiller1868]

Thank you for sharing this! I needed this message. I am a mama of 5 kiddos (7,6,4,2, and almost a year) and I have felt like I am drowning most days. Your encouragement is a blessing!

[@loripark6391]

Sometimes I think you make videos just for me😉 and they are so helpful! I feel you on the stress management. We had a baby boy 11/2/19 who ended up needing heart surgery at 10 days old on our oldest daughters 9th birthday. Woowee did that throw me off! Now he may be discharged while still having a feeding tube, yikes! Even with all of that I mostly worry about my 2 year old sharing me. The thing that gets me through is just knowing that this storm too shall pass.... then comes the rainbow🌈

[@OurTribeofMany]

Sounds like you are doing great with everything! On day at a time:)

[@juliajones2283]

I hope you got the outfit I sent for Seth. 😀 Your channel helps me a lot I find you very calming Sarah, your voice and general demeanour you are like a friend chatting to me which if I’m stressed calms me. I love you and Solo and your family, I’m so grateful I found you and can follow you all. I do watch the other family you mention but not all their vlogs. I find yourselves my no 1. Merry Christmas and Happy and healthy 2020 from the UK. Xx

[@OurTribeofMany]

Julia, we got them and they are sooo nice! Your thank you note is on its way. ☺️❤️. But THANK YOU!!!

[@carolinejohn4537]

@@metadisorrento8376 out of interest , why are you answering for Sarah?

[@lynnatleisure9032]

You are Awesome, You are Very Intelligent, You are an Inspiration, You are a Blessing! Merry Christmas to you and Your Family- We Love You All!

[@sharonadams2858]

What you just shared was Genuine, Realistic and Transparent. That's what make us love & admire you that much more. This is what REAL MINISTRY looks like. Thank you for the BOLDNESS and honesty that you bring to the table. Don't stop being you Sarah!💮💢💮

[@claudiaantonio1022]

Your the best in every thing you do you are who you are and has become and you impacted so amazingly and still continue to do so your great and the best

[@2mammaR]

"Comparison is the thief of joy." So true!

[@millseez6200]

Thank you for this encouraging video today. Mom of 4 and guilty of thinking “how does she do it?” But would agree with adjusting with each child. I feel overwhelmed all the time but need to remind myself that I’m doing a good job and each stressful situation is only a season and the reward is worth the trial. God grows us with each thing we go through. I feel proud that so far I have gotten through them all and taken something away from each “end of the world” situation we have been in. Much love to your tribe 😘

[@susannehiller6077]

Thanks for being so honest and uplifting. My oldest son is 8 years old now and we just found out that I am pregnant with #6 unexpectedly. I feel so overwhelmed it makes me cry... Watching your videos lights up my day! Sending love and prayers for a Merry Christmas!

[@helelnmasterson5188]

I so needed this today! You are my gift. I appreciate you. Thank you.

[@JamerrillStewart]

Well done, Sarah ❤❤❤

[@Brittbritt15]

Sooooo much wisdom! Thank you. I NEEDED this message today. We are in a season of stress so this really hit home. Thank you for putting it in perspective for me. God bless you!

[@belindanalleypapercrafting7427]

Sarah thank you for this vlog on stress. I’m 10 months into a disease that will in the end cause me to go blind and it’s been a lot to deal with and ever with faith I feel overwhelmed sometimes and I have just had to take a step back and lean into God and remember God will carry me through this too. So thank you for the encouragement and Christmas Blessings to you and the family. Hugs!

[@sjbrueck]

The Lord bless you and strengthen you..He has promised to make you stand and you will as you lean on Him..

[@sophiemorrison9820]

sarah, you've probably helped untold numbers of people with your advice today. keep up your strength. merry christmas to the whole family.

[@shannonburks6338]

That’s the best way I’ve heard it described...We’ve adjusted one by one. Love this. You’re real.

[@brendatimmerman7111]

I cleaned houses for 22 years. When the time came for myself to need one I didn't t hesitate. What a blessing it is to have someone take over a give you the brake you need at this time of your life.

[@txforever3107]

Goodness this is such a good word! Thank you so much. I sat and cried from stress twice today and I’m not much of a crier. You’re right. If it is causing to long term stress, something has to change.

[@sophiandethiu2721]

You are an incredibly calm mother.... Love you. Great encouragement.

[@ArispeLand]

I felt like going from 1 to 2 and then 2 to 3 was the hardest. After that it's just the more the merrier lol. Now we are expecting #6 . Yes ! Do not camp in a place of stress ! Amen! 🙌

[@OurTribeofMany]

Congratulations on #6!

[@miss.bubbles]

I am a mother of 2 young children. A 3 year old and 10 month old. I have found a lot of comfort from your videos. You and your family are just so real and positive. I'm not religious, but seeing your faith inspires me to relax more and try to just trust in myself and my ability as a mother. P.S. I used to watch the videos of that other youtuber, but I had to stop. Everything just seemed so picture perfect, and I would compare myself to her as well.

[@Mlawson3171]

You are such a blessing to me. I pray that God's grace and His mercy continue to fill your life and the lives of your family members with peace and joy.

[@katiegonzales2221]

My husband wants me to hire help for cleaning as well. He hates seeing me so stressed. I think it’s a pride thing for me. I have always done everything by myself and I don’t like asking for help. This has made me realize it’s okay to get help. The whole analogy of working outside of the home and working inside helped me to see this. Thankyou so much ❤️👍🏼

[@amandadeinhardt6388]

Girl, you are speaking LIFE! Thank you for your wisdom and transparency!

[@kathleendarfler1635]

I get such joy from watching your videos. Our lives are such opposites, yet I identify you in manny ways. I'm an atheist with only one child. I'm also in my 70's and am disabled so much that I spend most of my life in a hospital bed. When I see you holding Seth my arms ache to hold a child. When I watch your grocery shopping I laugh over my own stressful shopping...clicking on an item to get it delivered to my door. Holding Seth is so important right now -- whether by you, Solo or one of the older kids.

[@wjwoods7]

Sarah...you are such a blessing. This was awesome. Its the Joy of the Lord that gives you your strength. I'm sure this was a blessing to many.🥰

[@maikevanbeem2261]

Perfect way to spend the Sunday!! 🥰 Hopeful no stress around Christmas😍

[@maikevanbeem2261]

We decided on a cleaning help last year (its only us 3 and 4 dogs.. so basically still a family of 7 hahahah!) but it’s changed so much for us as well!

[@pixiepetal-jennie2038]

As a viewer of many family vlogs, I take a little from each of them that resonates with my own life. You are the most natural down to earth mum I watch. I am a mother of 2 adult children still living at home. The mess created in the house (a farming family) stresses me and i need to do something about it. Time for action, not complaining! Hopefully the stress will leave. Keep being you x

[@nenemarie3138]

I can’t express how much I appreciated every piece of this video. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.

[@brandib5961]

I have watched this video so many times I lost count. Lol. It helps me on stressful days, normal days, even hours of the day that I'm just overwhelmed. I had 2 sets of twins in 2 years and very quickly after that became a single parent. Often I feel like even at now 8&5 years old I'm still stuck in survival mode. Listening to this video helps me take a deep breath and move forward with my day. Thank you so very much

[@shanekahowellmivida9812]

Mother of one! Thank you so much for this video!! Bountiful blessings to you and your family! 💕💕

[@wendycraig3653]

I needed to see this video today. So glad it came up in my feed. Thank you for the encouraging words. It is easy to forget that everyone is going through something.

[@miajoyce11]

Your vlogs have great ideas & I’m sure are a support to many. Thank you for encouraging moms everywhere to recognize & deal with stress.

[@taraschmidheini4674]

It's been such a big blessing these last few weeks, with all your videos, especially needed the encouragement and joy! Thank you for being there for us!!! ⭕❌

[@donyadoolin2270]

God bless you Sarah. You are so blessed. Thank you for sharing your stress and not hiding it. You are so real. Love you . Stress out and cry and scream. And then do what you do. Turn it over to God.

[@sjbrueck]

I'm thankful for this video..I thought a lot about what you said last night in a difficult situation that arises often.. I like the way you said "the Lord doesn't want us to camp in certain situations" in other words we are to roll our cares on Him.. but sometimes the situation does not allow for very many escapes.. except to escape to the Lord.. sometimes all that is required to not camp in some situations is to be forgiving.. forgiveness releases one from many stressful situations and prevents bitterness.. God gives grace for every day and we only need to look for His mercies..everyday.. Love and blessings sister! Merry Christmas

[@gloriapeel6887]

God has send you and Solo with much wisdom for me. I am 72 years old and not able to do a lot like I used to do when I was young. I had 8 children and they are all grown and my husband passed 14 years ago. I live in my home with my son , his wife and there two children. Getting used to children again is rough. I love them and they are great children. I am praying for my life to calm down a little . I do lots of things at my church and find being with like mind people is a blessing. I gained wisdom from Solo’s message on being joyful and now your message on being peaceful. You ministry on your Channel is amazing and I know that the Holy Spirit is guiding and directing your footsteps. May God continue to bless all of you! Merry Christmas ! And may the new year bring new blessings in your family.

[@sarahsharrard4783]

Thank you so much for this video! I watch your channel all the time. I am a newlywed, and my dream for my life is to be a stay at home mom, that is what my mother did and it meant so much to me. I first started watching your channel for advice on raising children, but I found that the advice you give applies to so many more areas of my life. I really do thank you for your words of wisdom and I really appreciate how you put God at the center of it all!

[@Petro48]

"Comparison is the thief of joy" Thank you for that. How did you know I needed to hear that? Wonderful video. All I could think of while watching was how wonderful it would be to have you as a friend.

[@danamama6766]

Gosh Sarah thank you. Stay in your own lane. Beautiful. Your are a wonderful Preacher, I wish I could visit your Church. Hugs and Merry Christmas to your all.

[@juliemedlin601]

You are such an inspiration and God had you make this video for many to see because I felt like he was talking to me through you. The peacefulness in your voice and the authenticity was what I needed. I absolutely adore your family and thank you.

[@ashleylockwood4255]

Very encouraging. Thank you Sara! I still find that my older kids start to misbehave when they are needing more Individual attention too. Comparison is a thief- it took me a long time to stop comparing and am still learning to just stay in my own lane because this is what God has called me to do NOT what someone else is doing.

[@zoe0abundant]

Sarah, thank you so much for this video. I am not in a place of stress right now but I have definitely taken encouragement from your videos when I have been. I think a lot of times we as mom's have a martyr attitude where we feel we just have to put up with the stress in our lives rather than see what we can change or how we can change our perspective. Thanks for your ministry here on KZbin. Love from Kansas City.

[@OurTribeofMany]

Thanks for watching!

[@corina4india]

I have discovered your channel as a recommendation after watching the other family. I just love how God uses you to give encouragement and advice without trying too hard. Obviously all you tubers edit their content, but yours keeps it real still. I really enjoy your videos and tried to implement some things in our situation. Love from the always green Northern Ireland. ❤️

[@thenestingplace13]

I watch that other channel sometimes too. I knew exactly who you were talking about. They are very structured! I really liked this video. Something I’ve been praying about

[@words_by_ljj]

This was a good reminder to take note of the things that cause the most stress! As someone almost done with my phd, my stress is all grad school and job hunting and dissertation, but its helpful to check in on the most stressful and work at adjusting or changing my approach. I tend to camp in ths stress, and need to be reminded to check in. I'm also glad you talked through the struggle of asking for help, I often am reluctant to ask but it can be what is needed to help the stress!

[@words_by_ljj]

Also I forget some stressors are just temporary!

[@sharobes8065]

Thank you Sarah for keeping it real. We all have our own stresses in life but I feel in no matter what season we are in we can relate. The housekeeper is one of the best things we ever did in our home. I encouraged my daughter who is a newly wed to get one as well. She agrees that it’s one of the best investment into her married life. One less stress in this busy society. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

[@jaime230]

Sarah, Thank you for sharing all that you did in this video. Love how you speak in a calm and down to earth manner. Your channel is such a blessing to so many of us! As a homeschooling mama of 4 and pregnant with the 5th, I’m constantly so encouraged and also humored (when you and Solo make funny videos) by your approach and family. Blessings from Colorado!

[@i2cred]

Sata I want to thank you for this video. When you said “I don’t think the Lord wants me to camp in a place of stress” I felt that. I am going through and very emotional season. Divorce and losing my 3 beautiful step children I have loved and raised as my own for several years. I learned from your video that I should pray differently. Instead of asking God for so much strength and comfort I think I need to ask for direction. I appreciate your candid and real approach!! I would love to see a bible study series from you and Solo....not to add to your chaos. I know your hands are full!! I just think we could learn so much from you. Big hugs to you on your bad days!

[@OurTribeofMany]

Thanks for sharing that! I prayed for you today. ❤️

[@i2cred]

Our Tribe of Many thank you. Sorry for the typo in your name. I promise I can spell Sarah 😂

[@sknight4d]

My mama used you say... this too shall pass! I try to practice that and trust that my God will see me through... God bless you sweetie.

[@caroldeaton619]

Good morning the mother of my favorite family.

[@lindseybraithwaite4349]

This video and your channel are SUCH blessings! This is exactly what I needed to hear and I will be saving it to refer back to when I feel overwhelmed and defeated.

[@kpoolove1965]

I love your attitude. As mothers we tend to beat ourselves up and constantly compare ourselves and our lives to others. God has a way of showing us the lesson if we just wait on Him and know that He will NEVER put more on us than we can handle. Each test is custom made for us and to bring glory to God. Much love from Indiana 😊

[@ohiograndma8655]

This was an excellent video, thank you. Funny thing is when you talked about the “other mom” I knew exactly who you were talking about so it was no surprise to me it was her, but love watching you both!! Thanks for all your hard work.

[@lisahubbard5935]

Thank you Sarah. You must have been given this message for many of us who needed to hear your perspective. I treasure your wisdom and I’m older than you. Sending my love and prayers for a very Merry Christmas! 🎄🙏

[@lizlovee4377]

I absolutely adore you. I will continue to work through my stress with a little bit more of a thankful attitude. I DO NOT DO WELL UNDER PRESSURE. I get extremely overwhelmed, but I will start this new year in a new perspective and pray that I succeed.

[@98wndycty]

Awesome video... Comparison is the thief of joy....That statement speaks volumes, my friend and I watched this and she became so emotional, because I was just speaking to her about this exact same thing. She constantly compares her situation to others and gets so discouraged because of it. I know her hearing this from someone else will help start focusing on her own situations.

[@PaullaWells]

I've been following you for quite awhile now. I think before last Christmas or there abouts. Time diffuses for me anymore. LOL You have always been such a sweet, honest and thoughtful creator. I enjoy the moments I get to be part of your family and your lives. You have been in my prayers for this season of adjustment your are experiencing. The first bit after the addition is stressful and like you said it can go on for up to year. But, it does eventually level out and it levels out little by little over times which helps a lot. You are super sweet to think about sharing this side of your life for others to be inspired. It is clear to me that this was led by the Father. Thank you for your thoughtfulness!

[@OurTribeofMany]

Thanks for that comment, Paulla!

[@PaullaWells]

@@OurTribeofMany - You're so welcome!

[@Amy-yq2oi]

Well, first thing you are so beautiful and your hair looks cute like you have it....you may cut out some of the "more stressful" moments, but you can tell that you and Solo has everything together just by the dynamics of your children....I love everything you had to say...as a Christian myself I pray and ask for guidance and like you sometimes I had to wait for an answer and as I'm waiting on an answer that tought me patience....I love how real and honest you are....I've said it before and I will say it again since I started watching your channel you, Solo, and all the children have helped me in so many ways and for that I'm grateful....thank you ......Big hugs, loves, and prayers!!!!!

[@kameshnigovender8807]

Really enjoyed listening to you, u raised some valuable points. So encouraging 🙂

[@joytoyouandme4593]

Thanks Sarah - Even though I have no children at home, I could glean some tips from you. You’re correct that the Lord doesn’t want us to live in a stressful spirit 24/7, although some stress can be healthy. It brings us to a place of stretching and growth, teaching us to take a step back and reevaluate what is causing it- Blessings for your day!

[@OurTribeofMany]

So true!

[@amberlebaron986]

I love the way you said it. You’re praying for something. You wait. But the second you hear about it you know it’s meant for you. I’ve been dealing with a personal situation for the past year and I didn’t know what to do. Prayed and waited and the second I found the solution peace came over me completely.

[@lindas4004]

Sarah, You are beautiful inside and out. If any person takes ANY umbrage from anything you have said in this vlog, it's their loss, you show total humility and understanding and you're only giving your experienced advice as asked. God bless you and your family x