Dear Ex-Best Friend

HEY WHAT'S UP IT'S JAIDEN!! THANKS FOR CLICKING IN
Life isn't easy without your best friend by your side you but trust me, it gets easier. The longer you learn to live without them, the stronger you truly are. This video has given me closure to my past and i am forever grateful for this friendship and have learnt that friendship isn't something you take for granted. So if you're reading this far down, tell someone you love and appreciate them! That's all anybody really wants/needs. & If your close to me and are reading this, I LOVE YOU & am lucky to have someone like you in my life.
I was inspired to make this letter by the original writer below! I put my own spin on the script to make it more personal to my experience and heart. I Hope you like it: )
Read the original letter "Dear Ex-Best Friend", captivatingly written by Creedence Johnston, here: www.theodysseyonline.com/open...
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[@aydasulecioleal1404]

I JUST CRY WITH THIS VIDEO . I AM LOSING MY BEST FRIENDS AND IT IS HORRIBLE.

[@JaidenJulia]

I am sorry to hear that:( it's the worst I can relate but it gets better, hang in there:)

[@aydasulecioleal1404]

Thanks .. i talk with her like 2 hours ago in my dance class becuse after i watch this video i start thinking that if we do not talk this would be worst so i talk to her and i show her this video . And we both start crying because it is literally what we have been trough . After we talk and we say all the things we need it to say ; we are better maybe not completely best friends again but we promise that we will fight for our relationship.

[@Leah-qj4kp]

Ayda Sulecio Leal its happened to me. i still fucking get upset over her. but she tries to ignore the fact it was her fault

[@embellini]

Same and It's very upsetting

[@kellycollins7647]

I am too, I have found writing slam poetry helps. It might sound dumb but it works. My first best friend decided to leave in another state with her boyfriend than here with me and her parents. The other best friend just stopped talking to me and makes excuses to not hangout. She kinda replaced me with someone from school.

[@mew2285]

I cried. I lost my BESTFRIEND! beacause she wasn't there for me, when i needed her.

[@Kaseytheturtlexoxo]

Creepy lic same

[@lexitalasek3822]

suska vkeegi I wasn’t there for mine and I regret it soo much I would take anything and everything back just to get her back

[@star_fell]

suska vkeegi me to

[@victorialoving0572]

Lexi Talasek same I genuinely wish I could’ve been but it was hard are life’s weren’t aligning with each other anymore

[@emmahopkins2004]

SAME

[@yankabethancourt7008]

i’m losing everyone and i feel completely alone...it’s messing me up

[@annazhi4863]

Yanka Bethancourt I know how that feels and it sucks. Dm me @its.anna_z if you need someone to talk to.

[@schitila]

Yanka Bethancourt aww. Wanna be friends? I always try to be there for people :)

[@keylyrics8634]

Dw I’ve been there before, it’ll get better it’s a lesson learned to have thicker skin just continue to be yourself and attract real friends

[@teastarfilms6521]

I am too it’s ok

[@relatablestuff8635]

Tbh same

[@flossytoofly9658]

Too many Friendships ended like this..

[@cowsisters6497]

True...

[@guy9424]

lol I have loads of ex best friends because everyone ends up hating me lol

[@fuckmeharderdaddy8575]

xd xd relatable

[@thisisold-2323]

xd xd yeah lol 😂

[@jdashlovela]

xd xd omg I so get it. I had a bestie and she ditched me for someone else and I ran into her parents today it was odd than another one became catty and jealous. Girls are strange and make things competition

[@mchloe0716]

Awww same here ❤

[@lailakindy737]

Me tooooooo

[@themalarkey1413]

If I had a chance to show this video to my ex-best-friend I would definitely do it. But she blocked me on every social media after she hurted me really bad for literally no reason. I still hope she has a beautiful time... Until karma comes back

[@callanwessels4743]

damn this is so true tho photos memories mouths apart best thing that ever happened messaging all the time just... damn. well done

[@holliedarst2010]

This is me and my bestfriend im homeschool and shes at a regular school i losted her😭

[@kayleygrace8533]

Hollie Darst sorry about you bff

[@lizzrha7999]

It's been 5 months since I talked to my best friend and I really miss her she wasn't just my friend she more like a sister to me but people change

[@lunnamoon5955]

chim chimv same my freinds tuner nd into my worst bully

[@ayla3111]

manpreet kk same

[@papermiint6056]

ify '))

[@brooklynnfomby9407]

Me too I miss her

[@sams.8049]

I get it, my best friend(of 6 years) who was basically my sister randomly stopped talking to me and I have no idea why. I haven’t seen or talked to her in 3 years. You just have to trust that god took her out of your life for a reason

[@sheybergmann3131]

I miss my best friend more then any thing and every time I hear call someone else her best friend it tears me up in side or wean I look at her laughing and I remember what it use to be lots of times I set in bed look at pictures and videos they make me so happy then I just start crying because I remember that's friend and I don't have her anymore whenever anything happens I just want to run to her and tell her everything but I remember I can't I miss her more then anything

[@Leah-qj4kp]

u literally read my mind

[@datgirlnai8216]

Shey Bergmann for real tho

[@sofiau4996]

Im so sorry😭

[@ktaehyunjin]

Shey Bergmann I can relate sis :( my “bestfriend” replaced me with another girl that tried breaking us apart and she got what she wanted.

[@6ngelyn]

This comment made me cry..

[@BethAlicexoxo]

This hits me deeply

[@charitym.329]

Duckie_xo sAme.

[@lavalampbabe8540]

Does anyone ever hear a good song or happy song in their mind playing to the memories of you and your ex-best-friend and then start crying because you miss them? Me...

[@Sara-bz2cy]

My bff replaces me with someone else .. So i decided to put a limit .. I would never talk to her again .. I only wanna give her a lesson even though we "were " friends for 6 years .. Well she replaces me with someone else who has been with her for a few months .. Its sad but what should I do ? 💔

[@krissy9104]

Yu Ri Ta You should talk to her and tell her how you really feel.Tjats what I did and my and my best friend are good now 💖

[@Sara-bz2cy]

Kristina Thomas I will try .. 😊 .., thx for the advice 💛 .

[@krissy9104]

Yu Ri Ta Np I'm glad I could help 😊💞

[@jdashlovela]

Yu Ri Ta omg me to girl

[@Leah-qj4kp]

Yu Ri Ta i lost my best friend i was friends with for 9 years now and she tezted me yesterday and we r still fighting

[@sis-2010]

I cried in this video because my best friend holds grudges. We got into a big argument and I said sorry and brought her a gift and she said that it meant nothing to her. The hug I gave her was nothing to her. I found out today that she said that to her other friends. I can't let go but she won't hold on so I'm forced to let go of our friendship.

[@gymnasticsedits3569]

That happened to me in tears I LOVED HER 😭😭🙄

[@julioleal4402]

A few weeks ago i noticed that my best friend betrayed me...It really sucks because im lonely at school and i have no one to cheer me up...

[@themalarkey1413]

Julio Leal don't be sad. It will get better eventually. You'll find new friends. Just go on with your life and make it incredible :) I believe in you 💓

[@embellini]

The Malarkey This made my day because I am going through some things with friends. Thanks

[@jaelove6759]

Julio Leal you got this! I don't have many friends and I just decided I'm gonna be my own best friend! No matter what everything gonna be okay! You will meet someone who got your back!

[@beccax8863]

I was there, it gets better xxx

[@mayaszczepanek865]

Julio Leal me too

[@Idk-fy6tj]

I know how you feel. I lost my friend. I cry. I lost her to a move.

[@rhiannagrande1737]

I SHIP RUMBELLE same. I hate it so so so much

[@sreevamsi0969]

{Lexa Griffin} I lost my bff too I feel like I'm alone no one is there for me...

[@MikaylaMinecraftproductions]

{Lexa Griffin} ;-;

[@MikaylaMinecraftproductions]

I lost my friend over a stupid argument i miss her so much

[@alyssaf2745]

I lost mine over nothing. They were twins so I had two but then they started hanging out with the popular people and dating. One is still nice but doesn't hang with me. The other is a totally new person! 😰

[@jodiematter9213]

I was best friends with this girl for 13 years and I even lived with her for about 6 months. Then we went to separate high schools and now she has a new best friend. I miss her so much and I don't want our friendship to end but we never see each other. She is basically a new person now, she has a boyfriend and a new best friend. I hate it

[@destinyryan5298]

I gave up my best friend a year ago. I miss her so so much. I messed it up. I felt like she was too good for me. And like we were drifting apart and I got scared and I didn’t know what to do. Over the summer we talked about anything and everything and then when September came she stopped talking to me. Maybe she’s ashamed maybe not. Guess I’ll never know. But, I’m sorry.

[@faithhowlter2328]

I lost mine a month ago. We were bestfriends for 8 years and we broke up on my graduation day.

[@kurtikurtev1279]

toxicdnp my best friend since like 3 years ago kinda broke up with me like a week ago but we ended up talking for an hour and therefore she said I think we are fine now. I havent talked to her since then and i am confused and sad, but honestly i think that maybe it is for the best of both of us. I dont really know. I fucking hate replacing people and im sick of friendships that last for 3 years.

[@Karen-yn7px]

god I can't stop crying even with Dan and Phil on your prfp, how could they keep such a strong friendship ive lost my 4 year spsnd of my best friend and she doesn't care

[@lexitalasek3822]

faith howlter same😩😭

[@Sophia-gn5sh]

My best friend ran away from me Randomly and started sitting with a new group of friends. And we just grew further away. I used to be able to tell her everything, but she stopped caring, she changed. She used to be so kind, but she turned into someone who only cared for herself. Everyone tells me to just let it go, make new friends, and i have. But I can’t just drop a friendship where she was my best friend for nine years. Like if you can relate ❤️

[@marie-leelevesque2104]

You've said all the things I wanted to say to my """best friend""" but never had courage to do it properly. Thank you for this video because it inspired me. 💕

[@sabinakrpata7155]

Marie's journey * I know I’m late but you can just send the link to her and she will watch this video

[@fkoff6301]

Sabina Krpata :) Yep Yep.

[@annalisebutler3958]

I literally can't believe my eyes and how true this video is. I lost my best friend about a month ago. We have known each other for 2 years, like how you mentioned. we walk past each other in the hallways at school. the day that our friendship ended was a blur and I don't know how it happened. she is making up lies about me and telling other people them. I know I should never go back to a person like this, but at some points, I feel as though I'm missing my other half. I miss when we would go over to each other's houses at the most random times, and say and do the most random of things. I look back at the pictures and videos and good times we made together. I miss those. I made a 9 part video for her birthday about a month ago. it is coming up soon, and I deleted them from my camera roll sense we are no longer friends. I was going to post them on instageam for her birthday. it killed me. as mean, evil, and as selfish as she has turned, I will never forget my best friend. I want to send her this video, but I feel as though if I do, that will just give her the attention she wants and she will know that I need her. I don't know what to do.

[@fkoff6301]

Annalise B ... Get that again, but in someone else, better :)

[@namirahc5918]

I lost her today and knew her for about 1 and a half years and she told me everything but other girls in our group don’t rlly like me anymore and I think one of them pressured her because she is scared of her

[@Emily-pr1bo]

I hate those fake friends but we will find an amazing friend one day

[@gracesalamee]

I hope so!

[@sagittarius-gurl1543]

Watching this really makes it sink in who I lost...💔

[@deadendia]

I recently lost who I thought was my best friend, till she backstabbed me. We were friends for a good 4 - 5 years. I hear songs and think of our memories, and cant help myself besides hiding the tears from everyone. Once in a while I'll even wear our old best friend necklace and hide it under my shirt. Any tips to get over this? And this video is truly amazing, and hit a spot that made me start balling my eyes. Thank you.

[@abiwhale6346]

The same exact thing happened to me, I would just get better friends.

[@davinarodrigues2397]

Jay feather ik how u feel.... time heals everything

[@caycay77]

Jayfeather * I’m in the exact same boat and I can’t find anything to help except knowing it takes time.

[@chillvibes_2235]

1)don't think about the person who betrayed you 2)no mater how tempting it is don't talk to that person 3) avoid that person as much as possible hopefully this helps good luck

[@savannahmoon7533]

It sucks to be best friends with someone for 7 years and then notice since you had to move you fell apart You unconnected you didn’t talk as much I’d been replaced by the one person I thought I’d never lose and it hurts

[@diorrennie4549]

I miss my ex best friends so much, I’ve known them for 7 years now and they just blame this whole thing on me when they where the ones who ditched me yet I still want to be friends with them they where so amazing

[@kiki.0_o]

OMG I RELATE SOOOOO MUCH. WHO ELSE???? This is literally me and exactly the same story I have omg!!!!

[@chasityspears1223]

I had a child hood bestfriend, we were bestfriends since 1st grade, but once i moved to a different school it changed, i didn't though i loved her. We were so close, I told her we were always gonna be their for each other... But as years go by, we grew apart, she got a boyfriend, new friends, friends that bullied me, and here we are.... Im down a cliff while she's having fun. And she's a 12th grader..... Im 11th.... But anyways

[@theveryfirstnighttv]

This is the most sweetest kindness thing ever

[@mentallyillsal]

Thanks cause you described my feelings and my thoughts so perfectly ❤️

[@sams.8049]

This video made me cry! I’m sorry you lost your best friend, I get it. My best friend(of 6 years) all of a sudden stopped talking to me and I haven’t talked to her for the last 3 years. Hope that doesn’t happen for you guys and you end up friends again.

[@mblvideos4497]

I miss her so much and I litterly am balling my eyes out

[@lilanonymous5225]

Wow this is honestly one of the most relatable things I’ve ever watched I relate to everything she said it kills me to know others have been through this shit cause ain’t no one deserve that pain, I miss her like crazy but I can’t even make eye contact with her and I hate it

[@sarahismail6850]

This killed me inside and bring a lot of tears to my eyes. Lossing a best friend is the worst and so underrated.

[@kyliekravich2454]

I’m crying so hard right now. 2 years ago I lost my bestfriend of 5 years. I see the old Facebook photos and smile, I would do anything to go back. She made me happy

[@elsiemaiis]

this girl took the words out my mouth

[@linneaniemi8732]

i watched 15 seconds and started crying

[@leakuchar5605]

I feel you thats just what my situation's like every single word u say!

[@ameliaebw5171]

This hits home so much for me, for about 6 or 7 years I had a best friend until someone started spreading rumours about me and everyone began to hate me. That was one of the worst times in my life, I would be all alone all the time and I still miss her now 4 years later but I am thankful for everything she has taught me, it is painful to see that my ex best friend and the person who spread rumours are now best friends, I see them around school and it hurt but I am thankful for the lessons I have learned from both of them.

[@aurorabeach6470]

The end of a 4 year best friendship is literally the saddest. Every time something happens my first thought is to still tell her, but then I remember she wouldn't care. It hurts. I want to start up that friendship but it wouldn't be the same

[@LH-vt1di]

My best friend of 9 years left me and said nasty things behind my back I miss her but things will never be the same

[@QueenChastity]

This was therapeutic for Me. Thanks.

[@loralarson1261]

this makes me cry every time. this year my best friend and I just sort of drifted apart. We’ve been best friends since 4th grade. It really sucks. I see her in the halls, at lunch, and even in a class but it doesn’t matter. I hate that I know everything about her, and she knows everything about me, but we act like we don’t when we see each other. I hate seeing people being closer to her than I ever was, and it tears me apart. We always said we would be there for each other no matter what, but I don’t know what happened. I miss her so much.

[@shannonboggie3752]

I just lost my best friend and this made me think of her, I had no idea that this video would make me cry

[@memesaredeadbutimnot3458]

I have alot of ex friends but this one reminded me of one and I'm crying so relatable

[@priscillagarciagarcia4034]

I lost my best friends but it brought me closer to this guy named Marcus and we have been honed so will and having fun and being best of friends I hope we never end up like my ex bestie...

[@amyanderson1736]

I can relate so much, I'm crying.

[@Krys579]

Hitting me in the feels 😢

[@graciebailey4495]

Felt this, me and my best friend were each other's everything for 10 years so since we were 4 and it all ended over an argument because she wasn't there when I needed her most

[@briannadartez3742]

This is so true😢💔

[@thomasherd2384]

I’m losing my friend right now and now I’m in tears

[@sharonpatole3640]

I 've recently lose my best friend which actually sucks this video made me cry....

[@alexinwonderland5782]

This kind of hits close to home because I feel like I’m losing me best friend and once I lose her I know everyone else will leave me too.

[@layla_gamez_34]

This is my life. This explains me

[@blushfaerie]

Realized my bestfriend was some sick narcissist who loved controlling the friend group and told us things that never added up.. always lied, sought attention by using negative tactics. I felt like our friendship was a lie.

[@tjhalfhill5068]

This just hit different

[@brittanikinney6716]

I miss my friends 💔😢

[@cornelialindblom3957]

I just recently lost my two other halves and i miss them more then anything so this video hit home for me :(

[@_unfeared]

So true

[@Manda-is6ru]

This, for me, applies to my ex boyfriend who was my best friend, and today would’ve been our 2 year anniversary. Ever since we broke up, him and I haven’t spoken for any other reason that to say Happy Birthday to each other. He was the type of best friend who knew how I was feeling by a slight difference in my smile. I still see him a lot but we just ignore each other and it really sucks: the thought of having thinking that you’re best friend is no longer interested to start a conversation with you. He and I were bffs for years before we started dating, and we helped each other through so much. Sucks to know it’s over.

[@charleyxox4416]

This video makes me cry it’s been a year since I fell out with my old best friend 😪💔

[@ardennemcfarlane7023]

I feel this so much.My friend that was my best friend(even though we had our own best friends)left me.And it hurts so much.Cause,she was my go to person.We always said to eachother it's an UNBREAKABLE BOND.She left me for nothing.And I'm still recovering from it.I wish we just communicated more.I miss you my ex-bestfriend.

[@c.sunshine4009]

Damn it's nice to know other people can relate to me

[@MariaGoncalves-so1lc]

I don’t think you can loose a best friend. You can’t. You just can’t! You know, when you grow old and your talking to your kids and you remember how hard you and your best friend laughed to death, when she cheered you up, when she hugged you and said it was gonna be okay. Those moments will never go away, even if you move on you find another best friend you’ll always have those memories stuck in your past forever. And deep inside you’ll always love her. And if you don’t feel that way it bc she wasn’t REALLY your best friend.

[@heavenleenewsome5349]

I am loosing my bestie and I’m crying with this true video

[@Avamackenzie3]

I have a best friend right now and I can just slowly seeing her become best friends with someone else

[@nicolekadel7872]

I just lost my best friend yesterday I cannot believe we were bestfriends for 8 years😟but I hope she is more happy without me😢

[@tanyaadams57]

I miss my best friend She was my everything and this video is exactly how I feel I wish she was here with me today like u said it is hard to not have your other half I just wish I had my bestie back life is so hard without her😭💔🤞

[@vickycooper1870]

this made me cry

[@lindstheteacher1611]

Had a bff and she ignored me. Now, we are bitter enemies. I can't say thank you, I can only say thank you for making me stronger.

[@amerynpeters429]

this resonates so much

[@cinnamondreams]

This got me to cry. Childhood best friend of 7 years replaced me and downgraded me to an acquaintance. She's done other things such as lying and telling me and some other girls that cards were stupid knowing I had given her cards. I miss her but I've accepted that she doesn't feel the same.

[@vickycooper1870]

i feel this

[@tayliatessman1012]

I’m sending this to my ex best friend. This honestly explains me and him so much sometimes I wish we were still friends bu I can’t bring myself to doing that

[@kendall1037]

i started talking to this one girl more than my best friend, i finally was happy and felt a real happy friendship. she started saying i replaced her. it sucked but i had to do what was best for myself :(

[@martinemaryhernandez729]

My Best Friend and I will be Celebrating 7 yrs 121519 so excited I couldn’t imagine life without him of coarse HE also happens to be My Loving Husband LOVE OF MY LIFE💍🔐👣🧠💞💫

[@zahraclark4002]

This made me cry 😭

[@khadijal4822]

its been 3 years since i last talked to mine and it still breaks my heart every single day and i miss them so much :(

[@Mercirosee]

So relatable 😭😭

[@vividnightmares1448]

I relate to this so hard

[@hiihopeyourehavingawonderf7668]

I cut off my best friend this year. She hurt me so much. I realized that our friendship wasn’t healthy. I had to do it for myself. It was so hard. I thought i was so selfish. I had to lean on two people and now they’re the closest people to me. They told me that I had to do this for myself. So I listened. It was hard. But I did it and I’m moving on.

[@secretsimplicity5015]

I’m crying... I don’t have enough friends for a birthday party. Without my best friends that I lost this year.

[@coletteartsz3966]

I cried here

[@kaisasinivuori808]

Why can’t I just stop crying over her

[@dianasbananas1755]

Remember we're not friends we're not enimies we are strangers with memories

[@yankabethancourt7008]

this made me cry yo

[@jessieambriz6605]

Oml this made me cry so bad I miss my best friend😭😭❤❤❤❤

[@ssaarrraaaa]

This goes to my 1st grade bff...its been 7 years.i miss you,,I love you.💞💓💘

[@marianatablon5360]

I swear this hit me hard I stoped talking to my ex BFF 1 year but I still miss then no matter what I thought we would bff forever but it all changed and I still here there name and turn around to see them but their gone and seeing them with someone else calling them Their best friend still hurts inside

[@zachmrskillz8453]

You made me cry because I remember my best friend after she dumm me after 3 year and broke my heart when it was my birthday 😞

[@ameliewilson8317]

I relate.

[@youtubeaccount1856]

this hit me hard 💔

[@mrkrabs7106]

I miss my best friend so much... It would have been a year in January. We were best friends from the middle of grade 6 to the beginning of grade 7. We became friends with another girl who we have been friends with in the past who just only wanted drama. But we gave a her a second chance. Next thing you know miss drama messes things up between us. Now it's just them. I miss the memories I've had with my best friend.

[@Nika-xv7py]

This would be exactly what I would tell her if I'd get the chance to talk to her one last time. And I really mean every single word. Because it fits so damn perfectly to how things used to be between us and how things are now.

[@chanellemaritz2062]

Me and my ex best friend were friends for 11 years. I miss her soooo much. It feels like I’m empty. I miss the memories, the photos, the laughs, I miss everything 😭😭 I LOST MY BEST FRIEND😭

[@davi1234558]

I’m almost crying

[@blueberryreaddescforinfo7297]

I lost a friend a few weeks ago and I can’t tell if it was the right thing,I want to send this to her but I may make my own.Wish me luck

[@manavisharma7508]

I can just totally relate this! But it's better to let go cause it's unhealthy and had even almost led me into depression....

[@jflower7312]

Crying this is me I need a hug

[@hjyt4502]

It was so hard to watch this video until the end I was crying too mich 😭