Dear Late Bloomers...

[@Psych2go]

Are you a late bloomer? Do you feel "behind" your peers in terms of success or experiences? Think of this video as a reminder to yourself that where you are in life is enough. Life isn't a race, and it certainly isn't a competition. Are you being too hard on yourself because you haven't "bloomed" yet?

[@ElecSpark100]

Yus

[@anon-binarycoffeecup7837]

Psych2Go yuppppppppppp! Definitely.

[@dilynnolivera5451]

I am sadly when it comes to dating it doesn't help im bi in a homophobic place

[@pengin9056]

Well I don't have any social media...

[@nianidiallo8137]

Im a late bloomer but idc bc i still can Become wht i want until im pushing up daises I might be a seed and not a flower yet but my heart is already a flower though i dont look like it. I believe that i van achieve anything

[@daveharrenburg7670]

"Turn off your phone" Well, I'm watching on a phone, so....

[@onepiece24101995]

Same

[@ilmeridionaleitalian]

Do not disturb is an option

[@Kyle-ok8vp]

They should of turned off the comments on the video too cause I'm watching while reading the comments 😂

[@daveharrenburg7670]

@@Kyle-ok8vp Lol I always do that

[@planetary-rendez-vous]

@@Kyle-ok8vp well that's what they mean, you're not focused. Being in an unfocused state of mind is useless in the long term, because you don't train your focus.

[@StarWolfKing]

I am 23 years old. I still live with my parents, am a virgin, single, didn't go to collage and don't have my divers license. Yet despite all these things, I have a loving family, a good social life, a thriving job from a soon to be billion dollar aerospace industry who wants me to become a corporate consultant. Point of this story is there is no social norm. The term norm only implies what most aspire to be like, not what you are or will become.

[@wdbofc003]

Wow I'm so happy for you. 😎 I'm almost 23 single virgin girl who lives with parents but I want to get a job to seek Independence. I've completed college this year looking forward to my future. I'm not sad that I'm a late bloomer because often late bloomers achieve more than the rest because they know how to be patient. 😊

[@anastasiadefrance1358]

Totally hahaahhaah! I’ll be rooting for you two

[@БутерБрод-ы8ш]

Do you need a drivers license? Are you from the US BTW? They have the most cars and affect badly the environment. Don't be like those selfish people. Use public transportation.

[@kerri5825]

Did you post a similar comment under s video before? Because the deja vu has me spinning lol

[@sephoran3257]

I’m very curious 🤔 Where do you work? And also, that’s fantastic!

[@RoyalKingA73]

I feel like I'll never bloom. I'm 30. Still a virgin. I never kissed anyone, I never went to college or kept a good job. Just working dead end jobs and being left out and ignored.

[@dacee7943]

RoyalKingA73 jeez

[@adam49ner]

Try branching out and starting new hobbies or looking for new interests. As you do that you're bound to meet new people. Sometimes all you need to do is get out of your comfort zone

[@carabevanart]

Find what gives you joy. A trade skill? Working with your hands? Arts? Animal care? Etc etc. You're not alone. I'm also a 30 yr old virgin with no kisses or college to my name. I preoccupied myself with art instead XD

[@thenightprincess1730]

@Josh Colon I'm 23 too haven't finished college, I feel like I don't have friends, I'm depressed crying every night then I went to therapist and turn out I got anxiety disorder 😭

[@p0rcelain_b0nes86]

find a hobby something that brings you joy

[@MrAdik861]

I'm definitely a late bloomer. 32 years old, never had a girlfriend in my life, living with parents, working only part-time... For much time after graduating university I was unemployed and had psychological issues with searching for a job... But hey! Now I know were I came from (emotionally disfunctional family, being bullied at school), so I told myself: I need to give myself a second chance in life. I went again to university, and now I also teach :) I also went to another college which belongs to my Church (I was raised a Catholic, but I became a Protestant), with a possible goal of working for the Church. So my appeal to all the late bloomers: if you struggle with your "unsuccessful" life, give yourself a second chance :) Choose your path wisely!

[@plumella]

oof then awww

[@ziboyang2056]

good for you man! keep doing what makes you happy!

[@rogelioaguas2322]

You comment made me feel better and think more wisely. I'm in a situation similar to yours and I have been struggling with the idea of failing in life. I also was bullied in school and suffered from severe depression and social anxiety, I think I must be kinder with myself by giving myself a second chance and pursue my real dream.

[@rougearcana2444]

I was kind of having a rough day, and this made me feel a lot better! I tend to worry a lot, especially about failing and the future. I'm also kind of a late bloomer in most social experiences (I didn't get my first friends until fifth grade and I've never been asked out on a date) so this gave me solace about all the worries in the world. So thank you for making this charming video. (P.S. I love the handwriting, it's so elegant).

[@SevensMarkedSeven]

RougeArcana ikr thats me!

[@bublikstudioproductions9686]

I can Relate Lol.

[@cosmicgerbil5773]

At 28 I was driving ubers and living at my parent's place. By complete chance I drove someone who referred me to her employer for a writing position. I decided to interview and got it, they liked me a bunch and kept promoting me at a crazy fast speed. In one year I was an account executive doing a job most people get MBA's to do. Now I'm 31 and have my first house (granted I don't live there, just rent it), I make excellent money and am happier than I've been for a long time.

[@Unkown-asf]

How does it feel will u explain

[@Darius-y1e]

​​@@Unkown-asfhe feels great and you will too 😊

[@kurraburrito7084]

I dont know why being virgin is a bad thing. Whether you're a virgin or not, whether you've been kissed or not, it doesn't matter. What matters is you. Just do things that make you a better person and make your life a good story. You might miss the train or bus but does that matter when you've got wings to fly?

[@BrianVelez]

“Forget about.... (in-depth, detailed, heart crushing, bone crippling description.)”

[@cabinsys]

Thank you so much. I'm a late bloomer in many things and low self esteem has made it worse for me. I've actually felt like nobody understood me, and I sometimes still do. But this video has opened up my mind and made me think, "Is it really bad to not be ahead or right on time?" This video helped me understand that I'm perfect the way I am, and I thank you for that.

[@toxicmale2264]

You might be introverted. Also, look up stoicism.

[@planetary-rendez-vous]

We follow our own paths.

[@janej.bokingkito3359]

Remember: The ones who bloom late are the most beautiful ones. There's no meaning to a flower if it doesn't bloom but when it does, it will be beautiful.

[@rea8585]

I used to always look like a kid compared to my peers and had to show an ID even after being 24. It was annoying then, now I kinda miss it sometimes 😊

[@autumnmay-pl2hr]

I can relate alot. I'm short af....:/

[@Namaride]

I have to show my ID often. They complain i have to show my ID anyway when im below 25 because they cant see when im 18 or higher.. that all before they read and realize im 30.

[@Epic_Pingu]

@@autumnmay-pl2hr same... i'm 27 years old and 1.50m (4'11") and some people think i'm 15 at first glance. :/

[@Psych2go]

Youth is precious

[@velin.8501]

Yeah I look little as well and some peopke made fun of that but you know what I like how I look and when they are older I will look younger ;)

[@lucas_e_munoz]

This video came at the perfect time for me. I’m currently pushing on 23 living with my parents and working in a part-time job out of pure necessity to cover for my studies. I have to admit that I never been in a relationship before. It was hard to keep that secret in a small college where everyone was “expected” to get engaged and married following college, especially in my social circle. I was even made fun of just for that alone. After dealing with unrequited love in the latter half of my time in college, I just fell into a downward spiral mentally. I ended up checking out of social media and actual social life. It was not to long ago before I ended up in psychiatric care to aid my Asperger’s, MDD, and anxiety. Late bloomers was a topic that my therapist went over with me recently and that resonated with me today. On the bright side, I finished my first semester in my MBA and started playing in a professional jazz band playing shows within this month. Bottom line is that life is not determined by social norms of success or petty competition. It’s no doubt that life is hard as it is. The best thing we can do is count our blessings and work to be the best versions of ourselves. Once again, thank you Psych2Go for all the help this year.

[@Psych2go]

I am sorry you went through this. We are glad it helped you.

[@hanyolo120]

I'm definitely a late bloomer never kissed a girl, never been in a relationship, virgin, dont have a car, don't know what I want to do with my life, still live with my parents, and I hate being myself, I've just gotten use to disappointing myself and my family, i try to put on a face everyday and distract myself, but it just get so hard sometimes because I realize I can't do anything right and I'm very useless and I breakdown and cry sometimes. But this video makes puts my mind at ease, got to realize I'm not the only one. 23 years old

[@justsharing7268]

Follow your dreams and do you

[@Deni-uy3ew]

No, you’re not the only one 😇

[@justcaroa9465]

It could be worse, I mean, you could be homeless

[@Zoe-oc1fe]

I just read my comment and cringed. But am leaving and hoping for the best. Sorry for the spelling and grammar mistakes.

[@hanyolo120]

@@Zoe-oc1fe thank you for your comment I read the whole thing I feel like someone actually cares which Is all I want, make sure you and your family keep fighting to.

[@Achillez098]

I'm a 23 year old guy, and I haven't kissed or dated anyone yet. Thank you, I needed this

[@WLOfails]

Same! In 4 months. My culture also frowns upon dating before career, but I was also born in the US, so my interests are conflicted with my culture. And if I go against my culture, I will lose the respect of my family...

[@militantpacifist4087]

I’m 28 and I haven’t kissed or dated anyone because it’s just a waste of my time, my money and my energy. I still watch cartoons and do some things kids do, like have plushies and have action figures; and I’m not afraid of saying this, even in public, because I’m not a normie.

[@RCmies]

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I'm the same. However, as a person who absolutely needs to have that someone in their life, it's really devastating not being able to do that, and for such a long time I've been wanting it.

[@pinkypanicker4858]

@@militantpacifist4087 hi and have a same hobby and 23 and can we go for a date???

[@tigerx36]

@@militantpacifist4087 30 in a few months over here, so I know the feeling. Never kissed a girl or dated. I watch stuff like cartoons and anime. Even play games that not many would. I never considered myself normal to be honest

[@ReigningQueenVisi7286]

I'm a late bloomer! I'm still unable to graduate from college and i have never been in a relationship (I'm in my 20s). I have long accepted my situation but it can't be helped that i would be jealous of others who have achieved those things. Also, u cant take your time if money is involved. My parents have been struggling financially to pay the college tuition fees. And they don't earn that much money to provide for us too. So they want me to finish college to help provide for our family. My parents want me to graduate sooner, so as annoying as it is, they keep telling me "Hey, X got a job already" "Hey, Y has recently graduated" And to add they keep pressuring me to stop taking my time because we don't know if we will run out of money. So yeah, i wish i had the luxury to take my time...

[@wristsniper0552]

Stop comparing you to others! Follow your own path

[@LuckyCharm1504]

😍😍😍 You guys are changing lives with your videos! Thanks!!

[@LittleLulubee]

What if you’re a never bloomer? 😭

[@rosequartzfandom3578]

Keep working and prepare yourself, someday you will thank yourself for never giving up...

[@Cassiepaya39]

Yeah that's a nice thought, but what about the depression and loneliness one feels when they've never bloomed? I have yet to bloom and I'm 34 years old...

[@MxPotato84]

Welcome to the NEET life.

[@rubies200]

@@Cassiepaya39 I guess that depends on your definition of "blooming"!

[@user-vn7ce5ig1z]

Did you watch the video? The only deadline is the _dead_ -line, as in death. Unless you have already died (in which case you have more important things to be doing like telling the world what the afterlife is like), then you aren't a _never_ -bloomer, you're a haven't-bloomed-yet-er.

[@zariyahhall2921]

This is much needed since everyone is making me feel like a loser since i haven't done what most 18years are doing right after high school. This video makes feel a little better about myself.

[@Psych2go]

You are a winner! We are rooting for you!

[@amziedragon6619]

You don't have to be like everyone else! I haven't even been on a date/done anything romantic ever and i am at uni, still at home and without an actual job (though i work volunterily on occasions) but i am happy being me and i am lucky to have my life, just because your experience is different does not make it less valuable :)

[@romanw8632]

I'm right there to, just don't care about it, it really is that easy, if I can do it, you can too

[@A_Bowl_Cut]

I feel you

[@shittymcrvids3119]

Same here. I'm turning 18 in 4 days and never dated or kissed anyone. I'm still childish in many regards and I don't know what I want to do with my future. Am taking a year off right now figuring things out, but it's hard.

[@cwgodzilla]

As a fellow late bloomer, I can attest to how much this rings true. While I did waste a lot of time, I also took time to discover myself and my own path, and am the happier for it.

[@Hulloder]

I am an extremely late bloomer in terms of relationships. I didn't have a relationship or sex until I was 29. It was a good relationship that lasted for a year, but it ended when we were about to move in together when I suddenly realized I wasn't ready for that and backed out. I had doubts about the future of the relationship and was afraid to sign a lease. She decided there was no reason to be together in light of this, so she broke up with me. It's been four months since the breakup. It still hurts. I have often felt like she didn't understand me or my feelings, and didn't want to work through this struggle to make the relationship work again. As time passes I'm starting to realize that the way it ended had more to do with her own problems than mine (she put pressure on me to move in with her to get her away from a toxic relationship with her mother, with whom she was living). I am slowly learning to appreciate my instincts and that I made the right decision by not moving in with her. I have talked to many people and have gotten a new therapist since the breakup and they all say I didn't do anything wrong and was just being honest with myself. I am slowly learning to love myself more about where I am in life and not compare myself to other people. It's a challenge, but I'm making progress. My recovery from the breakup has hardly been linear. As this video reflects, few satisfying things in life rarely are.

[@Hulloder]

Another thing she did that was very weird and invalidating was she called my actions "disrespectful," as though expressing these doubts at the last minute was disrespectful of her time and feelings and as though I didn't know how to communicate. I did communicate, my timing just wasn't the best because my feelings didn't make themselves apparent until we were applying for a house.

[@SaRah-vr2mn]

Now I feel better. :) I'm 31, a virgin (I'm saving myself for someone special), never had a serious relationship (and I don't think that I even need one), never traveled to see the rest of the world (but I'm already saving most of my earned money for it) etc. And I always thought I'm late with everything in life while everyone around me already has achieved the things I seem to miss out. But now, after seeing this video I don't feel so pressured anymore. Such a relief! ❤ So, when the time comes, certain things will happen, and I don't have to force anything. Maybe the best things in life are happening when we least expect them to happen. 😀

[@Psych2go]

:)

[@swampfire247346]

I'm 21, still living with my parents with no job and no drivers license. I've stopped telling people I don't have a license because I'm instantly judged, especially by 15/16 year olds who already have them. As if its completely unacceptable to not have a license. -_-*

[@theburgersystem126]

I don’t have one either so I feel the same anxiety. Doesn’t help that I have a fear of driving. Btw. Who gets their license at 15? Isn’t 16 the earliest age you can get one in most states?

[@laurieschaefer]

I dont have one. Lol I'm a very good at driving, I've made so many sacrifices for others that's the only reason I don't have a car. And now I can take the bus anywhere I want! That's a skill. People hate on me for it and have little assumptions about me oh she's poor oh she's weird oh she's lame. Whatever. They are not you at the end of the day and don't have your circumstances or your burdens. So keep your head up. Don't give up 😊 just keep fighting 💪

[@annakochneva4458]

Thanks for this video. I'm a late bloomer too. At 28 trying to start a new career, having many worries and doubts about it in my head. Reading comments I realize that feeling "late" may come at any age. Here are people from 18 to 30+. This proves how much common social standards press and push us making feel horrible.

[@MrYFM2]

Thank you very much for this video! It really helped me understand the bigger picture and embrace my situation. I'm a 21 year old guy who's only 5 foot 2 and barely 100 pounds, so insecurity is very frequent with me. People even have a hard time taking me seriously because of how I looks, behave, and the decisions I've made in my life. Thank you very much for this message Psych2Go! I greatly appreciate it! 😊

[@Psych2go]

You are not the only one going through this. We have your back!

[@emperorlelouch5696]

Thank you for this. If I'm being honest, this whole "Late bloomer" thing is something that has really made me realize that my biggest insecurities where the ones that if I just acknowledged earlier in life I would have been able to improve better back then. Either way, thank you for this and I hope you have a great day.

[@emmettng2286]

I'm a late bloomer mostly driven by circumstance. I want to embrace the better things life has to offer, however... The adults in my life seem to think that the linear progression in life is the only way to live. It's also very rigid since you absolutely cannot let some things come naturally, you have to wait until the right time.

[@user-vn7ce5ig1z]

That's because people over 30 grew up in a very different world where the classic progression shown in the video was the norm. Things are different now and not every adult recognizes that.

[@xblade149]

Same

[@emmettng2286]

- I understand that, their(the adults that I know) goals were revolved around building a better life and escaping poverty. There's just a lot of complications I'm trying to work through.

[@TJmusic24]

Right with you here

[@miloot_]

I've needed this- thank you. Thank you for all of your videos, they help a lot

[@artiscrutial]

Fnafiplier same here 🤗

[@Psych2go]

We are glad to hear this :) Thank you!

[@LyciantYT]

This video has probably saved my life.

[@Psych2go]

We are happy to hear. You life is precious

[@sikkuntche349]

Lyciant Gaming you ok?

[@RamiroEloy1997]

The best time to start is NOW. You will be hungry, you will be thirsty, you will be tired, but you will be living.

[@ImORtalRAin718]

I came to this video because I'm in my late 20s and have been feeling behind due to struggles in my life. However, I somehow feel worse because so many of the "late bloomers" in these comments are teens or people in their early 20s...I understand everything is relative but there's a problem in our society when teenagers are saying they are late bloomers...I feel like things just go too fast and now everyone believes they should have it all together by the time they're 18. It's as if these goal posts society has set up for us are becoming younger and younger and that's quite concerning.

[@caster863]

I'm an 18 year old senior in high school, and still haven't had a job and haven't got my driver's license while a bunch of people my age and 1 year younger got one. My mom threatens that I will join the military if she keeps on fully supporting me in 19, which I don't blame her because even I hate it when she has to fully support me.

[@datdeerdude5139]

I almost cried... this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!

[@letsparchmentitupyo7566]

tell me why I clicked on this notif faster than any others

[@Weirdo-gj7lj]

lets parchment it up yo mabey cuz your meme profial looks good😂

[@kimifw58]

Because you care more about being *FIRST* than anyone else?

[@Psych2go]

Maybe because the video speaks to your heart :P

[@YaBoiDREX]

I’m 22 and basically a grown manchild. Didn’t start my college career until winter of 2022, and I’m still a sophomore. Spent my early adult life at a community college. I have never had a job. Barely went out to party with friends and became a total recluse. I had a girlfriend during that time but I was so immature, cowardly, and stupid. I didn’t fully understand how much work a relationship was. We broke up last September. I’m in college right now but I really just want the full college experience but I’m too old for it now. Everyone my age is already about to graduate and move on with there lives. I still think like a child and I’m not sure how to think like an adult. My social skills also suck but they’re getting slightly better. It’s just taking so damn long for me to get my life where I want it.

[@peterw3525]

I've been coping with being "behind" by trying to work my ass off. It's something to dedicate my time to, but sometimes I don't even know what I'm working towards. My social life is limited to like 2 close friends and I haven't dated in 6 months. This video made me realize maybe I don't have to race to get to the life dream I have. Maybe I don't have to get into my dream school and get a degree. Maybe I'll set up in a park and paint people for a living. Maybe I'll start a clothing line. IDFK. So thanks for the video.

[@AzariahMarinaStarcaster]

As someone who will be turning 25 in November and has never had a job or finished college, this video makes me feel a little better about myself. I still feel like I'm stuck, though, mostly for the fact that I feel zero motivation to do much for myself in the way of finding work or going to college. The thought of either of those things makes me feel both miserable and stressed, but I also know if I want to move to Scotland to be with my boyfriend, it'd be unfair of me to expect he'll do everything to bring us together and not do anything myself to help make it happen. That, unfortunately, doesn't change the fact that I still don't know exactly what I want to do. I have some ideas of where my strengths and passions are, but my motivation to actually go after them has been shot for several years now.

[@raveeshtewary2505]

@Prophetic Prose Hey! Is all ok now?

[@jillian2414]

@@raveeshtewary2505 it’s so sweet of you to check on them 🫶🏻

[@nonkululekotembo1652]

Update?

[@manngottes2168]

I feel this is what's happening to me. 18 years old, no job, no skills, and no friends. It all just really sucks, can anyone else relate to my predicament?

[@geniag2368]

Der Metzgermeister me lol

[@shittymcrvids3119]

Eyyyy

[@hebs5479]

17 but I'm almost there :(

[@Lee-Hayoung]

Thank you. Watching this, I'm not alone in this situation. I had a conflict and inner-pressured myself that I needed to catch up at my stage.

[@KimieMekamiko]

Thank you so much for this video❤️ It's what makes my heart feel much better after a long time. I am 28 now and I do not have a boy friend and the one I dedicate myself to isn't really reachable on a normal way. A year ago I made my degree as a Master of Science in biologie, but didn't got a Job until now and work in a Supermarket in full time to finance my life. I always wanted to be a musician but feel like it would be too late and this is demotivating as hell. And everyone Puts me under pressure because they want to see me as a career woman. It feels really good to be remembered that it's okay to be late with everything and go my own way. Maybe that's why.... I love Haruki Murakamis works, too♥️

[@godzilla964]

I’m 30 and now finally living in an apartment with 3 roommates while going to college.

[@mangoawayjk]

Thank you so much. I really needed this. I'm turning 20 in 2 months (which isn't that old tbh) but I'm already freaking out because I feel like all my friends and people my age are thriving and living their lives meanwhile I have to go through my second gap year before college because of many reasons. (I know that college isn't for everyone but it's something I really want but can't do at the moment) I feel like I'm behind in life, but really, I just need to stop comparing myself to other people.

[@WhirledPublishing]

I'm a late bloomer - I was blooming from my earliest memories, blooming throughout my childhood and teens, blooming as a young lady and blooming even more as a mature woman ... I'm continuing to bloom ... The quality of my work is better than ever ... I'm happy with who I am as a human being and I love my work ... My heart overflows with gorgeous emotions, my mind overflows with gorgeous thoughts, my mind and body and soul sing with gorgeous songs ... I'm a late bloomer because I'm blooming now more than ever. I'm single ... never divorced and never widowed.

[@RoyalDelux]

Leaving this here for memories. Picking up an Accordion at age 32. Spent most of my life preparing for debates that go in circles, for all of time. Wasted so much time arguing finer points of things people cared little for....time for a change. Use my passion and energy to make harmonies and a pleasant environment. Not about being right in the moment but creating moments that help people feel right. Wish me luck. See me soon. Reading some of these comments, idk what your situation is but it's never too late to start. Be the change in your life don't wait for things to happen to you.

[@sarathna8456]

Thank you for this wonderful message. I am 31 and has failed many times at many things. But I realized who am I and what I want to create in my life. I still believe in myself and now I have raised my level in terms of focus, discipline ,courage and taking consistent action. Thank you again for this amazing inspiring video.

[@gabriellemccarey4306]

25 years old, never dated or been in a relationship, and also have trouble making friends.Thank you for making this video 💙

[@carabevanart]

I'm a 30 yr old late bloomer, and have been "behind" on many things in my life. I haven't dated or kissed. Despite getting all A's in high school, the thought of college when I was 18 was too much. I never went and pursued a career in art instead. It took me until I was 28 to become socially able to handle the demands of friendship and travel and thoughts of college (won't be going, but I still think about it.) Sometimes I feel like I'm slow (also still living with parents) but I'm a late bloomer. My clock runs differently than others. I'm glad I followed my passion for art instead of throwing myself into things I wasn't ready for. Now I can look forward to all the things I haven't done yet with interest and not fear.

[@dekuisdope3844]

Me: *sees title* Me: better watch this right now Like if you can relate

[@Weirdo-gj7lj]

TeaUniverse that's me XD

[@kimifw58]

I watch videos. Like if you can relate.

[@emmafrostnr.1fan662]

*breathing Like if you can relate

[@TheNocturna001]

I can relate to the video because when I open my Facebook all I see posted from my friends are pictures of them getting promoted, buying cars, going to vacations.... having fun. And I’m always thinking how can they make it possible so fast? I’ve been struggling for years now - first having the shittiest job ever, living with my parents etc. For 2 years now I’ve been living with my bf and we already have one unsuccessful businesses behind our backs. Now we started a new business but still we don’t have enough money and I keep wondering about those people on my FB... they seem so happy, but how can they get money so fast, I know they just have regular jobs but... it makes me sad sometimes... we had sleepless nights and no-one there to support us. But we are still fighting to get where we want to be. I wish you all to have courage to pursue your dreams and goals because it’s definitely not easy.

[@MaiONerds]

Man japanese writers are really amazing in any topics, you know.

[@penciltamaraart]

Your video comes just when I need it. Thanks so much.

[@DisastrousGoth]

Honestly I'm in my 2nd year of highschool (well 3rd year for me because where I live you go to highschool straight after primary school) and unlike everyone around me I'm not at all certain of what I wanna do in the future, I've always thought that this was a bad thing but this video has really lifted my spirits and made me stop worrying about it and take things at the pace that I want to take them!

[@princedior9154]

Enjoy your years in highschool, im in my 2nd year of college now and i wished i had just lived in the moment instead of being desperate to get old. Live in the moment, learn about yourself and everything will fall in place in due time.

[@DisastrousGoth]

@@princedior9154 don't worry I'm making sure to do that! I don't really wanna grow up anyway XD

[@maia23zade98]

This video has a great message. I think society has put so much pressure on young people especially to have their entire lives figured out, but at this stage in our development, there are so many opportunities and possibilities for change that it doesn't make sense to trap ourselves in a particular path from the get-go when we have no idea what will come to us later on. It's so much more valuable - I think - to be open to the possibilities and to be flexible in the face of change instead of sculpting your life for one path that will become obsolete or get completely destroyed if one little detail doesn't go as planned.

[@JuguitodeUwU555]

I think those who presume of "success" in "achieving" things like a stable job, marriage or kids are just stupid people who do what everyone expects from them. They are doing everything to fit in society instead of what they really want and that is just sad. In their eyes I'm a late bloomer, but in my eyes they are premature grey people. I'm really happy to be who I am and to have the life I live. I'm grateful of have a family that cares about me, to have food, a house, water, electricty, internet, a bed, a room, a hot shower, my cats, my friends, MYSELF.

[@lucidsky2767]

Y'all ain't missing out things will eventually happen don't rush anything at all trust.

[@juliekrol]

I seriously can’t watch this…people in their 20’s calling themselves late bloomers…it’s depressing for anyone over 35 who is told by society/media that they are old

[@randywa]

Wow, that’s really deep. Thanks for making this video. A lot of people(including me) need this.

[@ClearwaterUK]

I don't know whether this sounds wrong or not, but seeing all the stuff in the comment section makes me sort of relieved that I'm not the only one who feels the same way. I'm currently 19, having moved out of my parents house a few months ago to start studying at uni, but I've pretty much realized at this point in time that the course I'm currently studying isn't the one I thought it would be, but the staff there are really nice and are helping me to get reorientated towards a course that's much better suited for me, and while I still enjoyed my time there, I really felt like that I had screwed up big time because I hadn't made sure the course was for me, and that'd I'm pretty much half a semester behind everyone else whom I've met here. I'm a really shy and introverted person IRL, and I have a lot of trouble connecting with people or trying to find stuff to talk about; I very much just hang around on the edge, wanting to be able to communicate and open up more. I'm single and have yet to be in a relationship, but I can't help but feel envious to want to be whenever I see all my friends, both IRL and online, in healthy and loving relationships with their SO. I want to be wanted, if that makes sense. I also like to make digital art and play video games in competitions and tournaments, and while i enjoy it, I have this constant overarcing fear of 'not being good enough' or 'not being the best' or 'not being good as this person' and so on. The reason for this is because while I do these things because I enjoy them and want to go somewhere with them, I also feel like that I need to be noticed and approved of, so I can know for myself that what I'm doing is good and I should keep it up... I feel like I need to be noticed in a good way, if that makes sense, but seeing everyone around me do that first makes me feel rotten because I feel like I'm going too slow or I'm not up to the required standards or something. I know it's not a race, but I just feel that way, and I can't seem to put my finger on what's causing me to feel like this. Anyways, that concludes my little rant. This sounds wierd, but seeing everyone in the kind of same position that I am gives me some peace of mind that I'm not the only one, and that there are others just like me. You're all wonderful in your own ways. You all keep being you.

[@monote14]

Dude dont worry you have a long life ahead of you. You are barely 19 with many great experiences ahead of you. Most college students change their carrier courses after discovering that it wasnt meant for them. I have many graduates who are working in totally different fields, trade jobs and such even though they possess a bachelors. I am one of them, i got my bachelors and after trying jobs related to that field i changed my mind. Now , I am leaning towards the medical field. I am 26, huge debt and still living with parents but let me tell you, as long as you preserve and work on yourself all things will fall into place . After graduating i had no idea on what to do with my degree but like i said, focus on yourself and then all the things you want will come into place. Explore the world and just dont give a fuck. Girls and guys love that confidence. Try things out , you don't lose anything at tying things out. If you fail, then learn from it. Trust me you are in a good place my friend:). Sorry for the long paragraph lol

[@Psych2go]

You are not alone. Sometimes life is full of ups and downs, full of surprises. But that's okay. We learn from it :) Keep it up

[@user-pj4rg5ol8w]

Omg I'm about to turn 19 this month of December and you've just described everything i felt since I turned 18, it felt so awful because you think that time is so short and our youth is running out and you feel like everyone is up on their own game and already building their own legacy even at their early age while we're still here trying to figure out what we're really good at and being stuck and thinking we're not as good as them, we're not that special or talented like them, honestly it seems childish to anyone to look it that way but I really can't just help it and it also frustrates me so much.

[@vasilisdouklias6992]

I am currently 18 years old and i am on my last year of high school. At the start of 2018 I was at my lowest moment. From january through may i was in a constant state of sadness,i could feel the darkness surrounding me. I dont exactly remember how i managed to escape that dark place,but i guess it was a combination of the help of my great friends,my decision to abandon all social media and watching youtube videos such as this. Now,at the end of 2018,i feel what i can only descibe as true happiness. I never got into a relationship or did anything romantic like i belived i needed during my dark times,but that is ok. The one thing i never fully overcame was what this video describes. My friends all have had some romantic experiances,while i have a grand total of zero. And i always thought that i had to catch up. Only recently and moreso today did i realise how stupid my thought process was. Right now i want to forge my own destiny,my own path,i feel like i want to explore the whole world. And it feels trully peacefull. It took me a year,but i got the hapiness i wanted. Well that is quite the ramble and i should be studying. If you read all of that and made it to the end,i would like to thank you for taking the time to read this. And i shall apologise in advance for any mistakes,english isnt my first language and i cant be bothered to check this gigantic paragraph of mine.

[@XZXZ-s1d]

Thank you for this. I don't know if I'm a late bloomer as I'm still 17 but I felt as if my life crumbled a bit when O-level results came and I didn't get enough grades to immediately get enrolled into a school while my friends did. I got so sad and was lost. I was scared that I was wasting my life away. Yet, this whole year of break gave me the opportunity to grow as a human being. I did what I've dreamt on doing, learnt a new langauge, challenged myself, got new friends and even went on stage to perform my very own work. All in all, even though this year was rocky, I'm thankful and glad. So to those who are feeling bad about not being able to start something immediately like others are, don't worry. Live in the present and just do your best now. It's not the end of the world. We fall and fall, and the only option is to stand up again and go on. So cheer up. I am rooting for you. It'll all make sense in the end. Once again, thank you for this video! All the best to us late bloomers!💕

[@princedior9154]

thank you for this. I wish you all the best✨

[@XZXZ-s1d]

@@princedior9154 no need to thank me, just wanted to give a strand of hope. Thank you☺☺☺

[@XZXZ-s1d]

@UCT1IZlW7UU0noT_6RRW67tg I wish that was so, but I may start University when I'm 20 or 23 :") thats why I get a bit worried at times because I'm using way too much time. yet, I can't dwell on it too much. At least I'm doing something, right? :)

[@burytherose]

I needed this, I was highly stressed and overwhelmed with how my life was turning out THANK YOU!

[@Origami_River]

As a late Boomer I'm 23 just started school at the beginning of this year working on becoming a Social Worker! But yes. I do fell behind. But I'll move on.

[@niels1t1if]

Hol' up. I am also doing this and just turned 22. Are you me but 1 year older or something?

[@Origami_River]

@@niels1t1if damn, how time flys by. I'm two years in and only have about 1 and a half before I finished with school. Currently just turned 25. Lol

[@ws7009]

@@Origami_River how did everything turn out? I also will be starting uni at 23.

[@Origami_River]

@@ws7009 I have one year left until I finish man. I’ve been struggling to get into a good program. But after volunteering and taking more classes. I start the program this summer. I refuse to give up after all this time. 27 now. All my other aspects of life have moved forward. I think it’s more about finishing school then anything else at this point. Never give up!

[@idonotcar]

@@Origami_River Hope all is well :)

[@pastelpomeranian7550]

Dear Late Bloomers, Sometimes you feel left out, Sometimes you feel different, But don't worry, your time will come.

[@mhtrq8943]

I’m a 21 year old social late bloomer. It has been affecting me for a while now. I never drink,smoke, party or been in a relationship and I’m starting college again. Throughout high school I isolated myself, due to my own personal issues. I really want to go back in time and be that rebellious teenager i never got to be. And as time moves forward, the less time I have to experience those things.

[@p.r.9982]

"Late bloomer" in the States is "way too fast" in most othrr countries. People don't leave their house until their 30s in Italy or China, after marriage. There are 30+ year old virgin males in muslim countries due to religion. I find this message weird. Having your first bf in your early twenties is not being "late" outside of North America and a few western European countries. On a global scale it's normal to even early :/

[@openingshift7070]

Isn’t the average age of losing your virginity around 16 years old in the UK?

[@p.r.9982]

@@openingshift7070 Don't know but probably. It's western Europe.

[@helingunes955]

@@openingshift7070 she meant countries that are located closer to russia i think. More like eastern europe? Or middle eastern countries etc

[@RebelWvlf]

Very often I'm considering myself as "black sheep" among my friends, because they have long, healthy relationships (perhaps lost their virginity, but are too shy to speak it), and are living in their apartments, having jobs. While I as 26yrs old never had a chance to have a date with anybody, still virgin, still living with parents and without job, still dreaming to have my own breathing space. I often also have a thought that my friends (earned them some years after school) consider me as trash human being because of being way too inexperienced in relationships and having only Nice Guys(tm) in my experience. And so I needed this video. I suddenly don't feel alone in this comment section. Thank you.

[@Taylor-mb5nn]

This video hit me on a personal level. I thought I had my life planned out, I was in school studying medicine and I had dreams of opening my own clinic. Even though I had these ambitions and dreams, an amazing family and friends, I felt like something was lacking from my life, although I didn't know what. Then my dad died suddenly, one of those instances where he went to work and never came home. After grieving for months and slowly getting back up on my feet, I realized what was missing from my life: happiness. My dad's death was a wake up call, reminding me that life is short and that if I want something I need to go out and get it. I decided that my happiness was more important than the social norms, so I left the medical field and began studying sociology instead. I've never been happier and although my dad can't be here to watch me finally thrive, I know he'll always have my back.

[@Kartoffelkamm]

Sometimes I couldn´t sleep because I kept thinking about how I should´ve done certain things by now, which I simply couldn´t do because I´m behind in terms of emotional development. I didn´t have many emotions until I was 10-12 years old, so I never learned to properly express these emotions. I got confused, people expected me to know the answer to my problem, and I got stressed because of this. I had massive anger issues, as well as anxiety that my anger issues would hurt the people I love. For about 5-7 years, I felt a lot like the Hulk. A brilliant man with a rampaging and uncontrollable beast inside, just waiting to tear down everything I´ve worked on and setting me back to square one. This fear only made my anger issues more difficult to handle, and every time I had a breakdown, people started blaming me for something I had no control over, so the time between these breakdowns got shorter and shorter because people kept expecting me to blow up, and treated me miserable because of it. About 3 years ago, I started psychologically analyzing the characters in my fantasy novels and my fanfictions, and I finally realized something about myself. This interest in psychology was born from various KZbin channels, such as this one, and I´m incredibly grateful for everything you do. Mental illnesses are really fascinating, especially for me as an author, but they also got me interested in psychology, and I hope that more people can learn as much from this channel as I have. I learned about myself that I hate taking the blame for things. This goes so far that I avoid situations where I tell others what to do, because if they mess up, they might blame me for giving poor instructions. And this shows in how my characters are designed, and what roles they play in their respective story. Here are a few: - Stealth (My Little Pony OC): He grew up in an orphanage, and his name is actually just a nickname. He got it because he was so good at sneaking that he would sometimes even fade out of the field of view of the ones he was talking to. He worked as master thief for a while, spent a voluntary year in prison to plan his revenge after being betrayed by his adopted family, and now works as secret agent for the ruler of the land. Well, until recently. His soul merged with an ageless demonic entity and he went insane for two-ish years, until he and the entity struck a mutually beneficial deal. He then escaped from Limbo, from which there is supposed to be no escaping, and continued his work to serve the magic that keeps the land alive. - Zak (Pokémon OC): A Zoroark who hates humans ever since he found out they use the life force of Pokémon to power all their devices. He has a secret agenda to launch mankind back into the medieval ages, or at least make them stop using Pokémon life force for their own gain, and he uses his powerful illusions to pull it off. Well, his illusions, his stealth skills, his connections and groups of wild Pokémon, whom he can easily sway because he knows how they think. He even pitches mankind against itself at some point. - Sirena Blue (RWBY OC): The queen of an entire under water kingdom called Soraklia. This may seem to not fit the established pattern of spies, secret agents and other covertly operating people, until you realize that she´s the sole ruler and highest possible authority in her society. If she gives an order, it´s a good idea. She also is a masterful strategist, and was even able to predict and control global events with only a month´s worth of planning. Sure, she made one small mistake, but that only proves how good she is. In three years, everything, on a global scale, went according to a plan she came up with in little under a month. Sure, she gets blamed for what´s happening even when it´s not her fault, but that´s just because the one person who does blame her for stuff is one of only 6 people who knows that these things could potentially be her fault. You can´t trace anything back to her. If she wants to ruin a company so she could buy it, she would have the company do something so terrible that they have to sell to someone, then the new owner falls ill, his son takes over, he goes through a rushed marriage and divorce, signs the wrong papers, the woman gets the company, the man sues her for making him sign the wrong papers, the man´s lawyer gets the company because the man keeps signing the wrong papers, and the lawyer sells it to Sirena for a huge profit. Each step would take at least 2 years to complete, and by the end of it all, you can´t even prove that Sirena was the reason the new owner fell ill, because his surveillance cameras have already deleted every trace of the footage of that day. Yeah, if Sirena left any indicator that his accident wasn´t an accident, one could have figured it out, but he was in a coma, and all signs pointed at a fall down the stairs with no outside influence, so why bother? But yeah, it was a bit until I realized why I made my OCs in a way that they can rarely be blamed for their actions. But once I figured that out, I got a lot better, and I guess I have you to thank for that. Well, you know around how many corners I think of a lazy day (just look at Sirena´s planning again), so you´re definitely partially responsible for my success. Thanks. :)

[@SpottedAkuma]

Thanks for this video! I'm a late bloomer myself and mostly, I'm at peace with it. For me, the really dificult think is how society views us. Sure, there are people out there who don't think less of you for being a late bloomer and I value these people a lot because they understand that it's not about when you do it, but knowing when you're ready. But the people who critize you for taking your time are just too much to bare sometimes. I hope, everyone reading this don't meet these kind of people too often and do what you need to do when you're ready for it!

[@sartouhou8349]

I'm not a bloomer. I'd describe myself more as a *DOOMER*

[@Idontknowho.]

Thank you so much for this video. I really needed to hear everything you mentioned 🤗

[@gracie9658]

This video is very comforting. I am a late bloomer myself, and I feel like a failure because up until the end of highschool I didn't have any problems navigating the system. But once I left and turned 18, everything crumbled. I am not ready to be an adult or get a job, and it's a source of a lot of stress for me. I dropped university and took a gap year inhope to find what I trully wanted to do, but it's been almost a year now and I still have no ideas. I am so isolated that I feel like I'll never move on.

[@ozziedood]

"Forget about the pictures of the boy (girl) you've always had a crush on making silly faces with his (her) new girlfriend (boyfriend)." That one hit really close.

[@NaviNeku24]

Y’know, I thought I had my whole high school career laid out with all of my classes and everything. Suddenly, after 4 years of thinking that I would be a music major, I realized that it wasn’t meant to be and my plans just went down the drain. I thought I was way behind of everyone else, who I thought had their career choices in mind and are writing out college applications. But maybe I’ll find my career path in due time and try to embrace what I have for now in order to figure out my future. So far, I have no idea what my passion is, but if I embrace the present and keep looking I’ll find it. ...As long as my stupid depression gets out of the way. 😐

[@michaelmorales7760]

Sorry for the essay, but your comment resonated deeply with me. I know you posted this two years ago, and I hope that you are in a better place. I had a similar experience. At one point, music was becoming the source of anxiety and grief (kind of like a bad relationship), and I felt like my whole world was crumbling. It hurt so much, especially considering how I used to credit music for pretty much saving my life and was my only motivation. After studying for 5 years, then dropping out and feeling like a failure, I wandered for 4 years, wallowing in depression and not really sure what to do with my life. I thought music was the only thing I was good at and I was useless at anything else. I'd hit rock bottom, and I just got tired of doing nothing about it. It didn't do anything for me other than just constantly loop how sad I was. I started doing other things that interested me, did some soul searching and re-evaluated what mattered most to me. Being alive, loving the arts, being fascinated by nature and history, standing up for social justice and people. I'm 27 starting from scratch and am working towards getting a degree in Sociology and Chicano Studies, and while I'm still not sure what exactly I'm going to do, I'm loving the journey. I hope that you find what you're looking for, but most importantly, that you work towards your happiness that you deserve.

[@akiranator5643]

You see, this is why I am subscribed. These videos help me out alot. Thank you so much psych2go!

[@Dave-qj1vx]

Had a communications career for over a decade but got out of it due to over competition, cut throat and too much unnecessary stress. Was presented an opportunity to work with adults with developmental disabilities. Just got promoted to House Manager after working here for year. New environment, change and better opportunity!

[@user-rs5xy2en2d]

Needed this, thank you so much.

[@Gamingwithdes23]

I really appreciate this video. I’m 26, and I still live with my parents. I have my associates degree and they want me to get my bachelors so I’m working on that for them so I can just be out of their hair. Although I want the freedom and I want the significant other who would appreciate me for me, I do comprehend that as a man I’d have to have my own place and car in order to be seen as a suitable dating prospect

[@Gamingwithdes23]

@Sadia Sharmeen yea I’m working on that

[@alexcoon9730]

“We don’t start fully living until something shakes us up inside and we drop everything we thought we knew to go after what we finally understand” That comment in a nutshell sums up what I’ve been going through for this past little while, I lost a job I gained through collage and I felt like my life had ended. But then I went to church and they encourage us to get started on our relationship with God, and that’s precisely what I did I’m writing this comment age 22. Ive made the choice to reject passivity and stop trying to please people but to please my creator and to live each day to the fullest. I’m planning to write a journal and write poetry to have a healthy outlet for my troubles and to better get a grip on who I am as a person. I still get anxiety on how “late” I’m having these feelings but the video also stated youth is about making mistakes and finding out what you like and don’t like There’s many new things starting in my life and while I can beat myself up about all the time that has past, I remember Quality beats Quantity, not every amazing experience or skill has to be sustained over many years but if it has had a profound and enjoyable experience in a short amount of time then it was an amazing experience

[@fightme7321]

NOTIFICATION SQUAD WHERE YA AT 👏👏 This is such a touching topic that needs to be discussed thank you 🙏

[@Weirdo-gj7lj]

FiGhT Me here!!

[@yukondeighton8075]

I quit following my dreams at 23. I'm now 29 and I realize... wow I have a lot of life left (possibly, of course). Do I want to accept defeat and just live out my days working for minimum wage in a Bakery? or do i want to DO what i love? It's truly not about "making it big" at this point. It's about spending my time on what i love as much as i can. I had this epiphany that living your dream does not require you to "make it", living your dream is literally something you can do NOW, TODAY. Embrace the grind. Embrace the work before you make it, and embrace the fact you might never make it. I know what it's like to quit.... you still have to wake up the next day. Another way to put it is this: It is scary to truly go for it and put yourself out there. But accepting that you aren't even going to try and therefore definitely won't make it SHOULD be 1000x scarier. Anyways, I'm just sharing this because im inspired. Choose to live your dream NOW. LETS GOOOOOO!!!!

[@MrsAwwsum]

And, what if you are 48 and just now finding out what you want to be when you grow up? Is that a late bloomer, too? I did everything society told me to do (without social media). Things did not work out, at all. Now I am back in school and in an entry level job. At 48. While I love what I am in school for, and have started the job path toward that, I feel so far behind. I did teach my kids to find something to do, not necessarily a career, and not necessarily degree related, but I still worry I have not done enough to guide them.

[@schmolywar]

47. Feel the same.

[@luizacollins2991]

You are not alone, I am 49 and thinking of starting on a new career path. My late Dad always said if you are still alive there is always hope 😊

[@change9065]

I'm 31 with 3 kids, there mother treats me like I'm worthless, I grew up in a single parent house hold, my mind wonders alot, I was homeless, lost many jobs, I dropped out of highschool in the 11 grade, I wasted my 20s, but I'm not worried cause I know for a fact that manifestation is real and have billion dollar ideas so all I have too do is engage in consistent action, by studying daily, working very hard and practicing on my craft. All my late bloomers out there cheer up, fight your bad habits, deep down within your soul you know what you have too do, just do it and never quit, be strong my fellow spiritual beings and there is nothing too worry about cause the afterlife is a place were everything imaginable is possible, it's either you stay in the spiritual realm or return to earth as your choice of animal or as a human too keep making a positive impact, peace and love, into infinity and beyond.

[@musfiqurkashem8614]

I feel like life is like running on a hamster wheel.

[@Psych2go]

Would you mind elaborating? :)

[@musfiqurkashem8614]

@@Psych2go Sure! When going through the motions of life and having a 9 to 5 job it feels like everyday you are stuck in the same routine and getting nowhere. But I have been learning that I don't have to feel stuck or feel like I'm trapped in the same cycle. I have control and can make a change.

[@etherealgirl394]

THANK YOU FOR THIS. I got my first kiss at 19, and ever since I hadn't date anyone. I'm 22 now, and I hate to feel the pressure on finding a boyfriend, and sometimes I even pressure myself to do so out of nowhere... or by comparing my non existent love life to others'. But that only hurts me and as this great video says, life surprises you and we will bloom, no matter if it's now or when we are thirty... It's very hard but I'm trying to embrace the fact that I'm a 22 year old virgin who lives with her parents and is seeking for an oportunity to become a profesional writer someday and who doesn't have a driver license yet. And that's fine. Fellow late bloomers, love yourselves, we are not broken, we are not late.

[@newheightscomics2059]

33 years here. Going to university next year to study creative writing. My career choice is to be a professor/lecturer in the same subject. Also, I wish to become a published author. I have always wanted to become the latter since childhood. I decided on the former this year. Thanks a bunch for this video!

[@tnedeadlyo3083]

I'm 25 and honestly my life has just started , I always felt like I was late at getting things but didn't know why and now I know it's the best feeling ever. 25 is the age where you're prefrontal cortex is fully developed also.

[@vangothengirl]

I was born 2 weeks late. I've also been the slowest in my class no matter what grade I was in. I felt stupid because I'm not as fast as others. It may seem lame, but I'm 25 and I'm still living with my mom and going back to college. I've been going for about 4 years now. I'm stuck between moving on my own or having her still live with me. I'm just glad I'm not the only one whose a late bloomer and that there are many others out there

[@ivanafloyde2948]

Save up to move out and you will be glad you did independence is great and if you start saving now you could probably live near by enough to visit her a few times a week. Just make sure its a completely separate building and it teaches you how to live on a low budget while saving up for your goals

[@vangothengirl]

Ivana Floyde I am saving up actually. I'll be moving to another city and I will have a studio apartment

[@vangothengirl]

GD Sparky_01 I think you will be just fine. Its better to take things slow and do it the right way the first time than doing the same thing too fast and have to redo it

[@justanothertypicallyatypic4596]

Im gonna be 22 this summer. These comments are what I need in my life. XD I feel less alone now. Never been on a date, had a real bf, kissed, still virgin, still live at home, never got a car or license. Although I have gotten my permit but no longer have that. There was a very short time period I went to college however I failed out of it. For my age I never really was taught basic life skills or I was taught much later in life or I would just attempt to figure things out on my own. Mostly my circumstances in life were super unfavorable towards me becoming independent. It has made me super depressed knowing my parents must rely on me for money yet I would always feel like I couldn't get my own life started. But what's worse is feeling like people would think im selfish for saying that. I am perfectly fine helping out my parents financially. It can be hard not to compare myself to others. I have very strong insecurity fears regarding how my life should be at my age. Those are very personal and I dont think I could ever even share them. I'm too scared to share them even with a specialist. I'm too embarrassed unless I hear someone else talk about them first so that way I know im not the only one. But now I am finally getting an opportunity in my life to gain true independence. So I'm super hyped and thankful for that at least. But kinda wished it happened a bit sooner. But tell myself I shouldn't think that way. I should just be glad it's happening at all.

[@literallyasuka2996]

I'm a late bloomer in puberty, and I'm a seventeen year old male. Due to not having a deep voice and not having huge, tall masculine features, there's a rumor going on in my highschool where people are saying that I'm transgender. This generation is actually screwed up beyond belief. Nobody can tell what a boy or girl is anymore. I know that's not the type of late bloomer this video is talking about, I just needed to vent real quickly.

[@KFC0717]

Dude... I am so sorry... that has to suck so much and tbh with you I am a late bloomer as well.

[@leo__gris]

This is so true, even though it's so hard to let the negative feelings go. I think society puts so much pressure on individuals regarding life goals, that even knowing it's ok to be "late" it's easy to feel like you're malfunctioning. We all should start freeing ourselves from other people's expectations in order to achieve true self-love and happiness.

[@SoulDenSystem]

as a 15 year old ftm transgender, this helped me a lot. i'm constantly terrified of "what's next" and what I'm doing and how my future looks as bright as a secret room in an attic, but maybe one day the light will flicker on.. i just hope that one day is soon

[@rubyrootless7324]

Hey, I wish you the best, take care pal.

[@Psych2go]

I'm sorry you are going through this. It must be hard. I wish you all the best. There is always light at the end of the tunnel. Have faith :)

[@OmegaFalcon]

i needed this today.

[@JackthePumpkincat]

Remember the kids who made fun of you for being a late bloomer. You have more time to change yourself than these meanies.

[@raynefyrestarfall6979]

I've always felt behind on a lot of things. In fact, the term late bloomer used to instantly anger me and made me feel awful. Like there was something wrong with me. But I realized there was nothing wrong with me. I wasn't the one who was living so fast I couldn't enjoy the ride. And I stopped and said "I'll get to it on MY time" I'm 26 and have no piercings, never dyed my hair, never been outside the United states, never travelled much of anywhere outside my home state with a handful of exceptions... I still want to, but now I'm not in a rush. And I feel a lot more free for it.

[@MiaCarter7]

I recently started "dating". No one has ever truly wanted me until now. Now that there is a prospect, I have a hard time believing him. No one has ever really wanted me so why would someone want me now? Ya know? Being a late bloomer is more mentally damaging than folks could imagine.

[@demetriusarmstrong5154]

Facts smh I'm 21 n only had 1 girlfriend in my entire life n I'm joining the marine corps (currently a poolee waiting to ship out to bootcamp) to change my life around n compete in boxing and become champion n do mma training but if I tell most ppl I barely got experience with women they probably wont believe me because I look better physically than what I did 2 yrs ago

[@MiaCarter7]

@@demetriusarmstrong5154 honestly I think what you’re doing is a great idea. You’re bettering yourself in the meantime so that when the times does come again, you’ll be a better you and probably meet a better girl for you.

[@darkalpha50]

Started blooming at 25, 26 now and Im dating after a long time of being too insecure in myself to try, sometimes the thing that blocks you is you, gotta improve as a person first

[@DuranMedine]

I consider myself a late-bloomer, because I'm a single man and a virgin who's been single since 2009. Being single for 12 years, the last I had a girlfriend was when I was 16 in high school. I'm always working all the time at my job or doing side jobs, never had any time to go to bar, clubs, or on a date to be honest. I'm mainly doing my side job sometimes based on my hobby to keep me busy in many ways.

[@EspiritoDeDafne]

Thank you I'm 20, still live with my mother. I'm single, I only had a relationship that didn't go well and we barely kissed. There's been months and I still can get over that person. I'm going to college, but my heart isn't on it. My dream is to be a writer, but my mother doesn't agree and expects me to choose a more stable career. Plus, I'm trying to write my first book (with the though that, if I can do that before finishing college, I won't feel the duty of finding another kjog that I don't want and that will take away my time to write). Plus, I don't feel confident in my writing skills, but I believe that getting to finish my first book will help on that too.

[@evelyndossantos708]

never had the first job and never went on a date.. 😭 i feel like trash.

[@luizacollins2991]

I am and have always been a late bloomer, I only started dating in my 20's and got married at 35. It's okay everyone must live life at their own pace and everyone's life experience is different and unique!