DEBATE: Is Online Dating bad for us? If you aren't hot, dont bother.

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Aba N Preach

Aba N Preach

Күн бұрын

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@flyingsnake3737
@flyingsnake3737 4 жыл бұрын
Im gonna keep it real. Im a woman that likes men and they could be an 11 in looks but if his dick is small i wont even bother. You might ask what my preferred size is and ill say anything over 8. That means the guy could be a 5 or 6 on looks but with the big D it takes them to a 10. Plus points if he really knows how to work it. Obviously personality is also counted. And i dont discriminate that much on height. Im 5'4. If he is a 5'7 or 5'8 which is pretty average, im fine with it too. Call me superficial but whatever Lol. And, all races welcome hahahaha!!!!
@bruhmomento1319
@bruhmomento1319 4 жыл бұрын
They pinned this shit so people clown yo ass 💀
@darkhighwayman1757
@darkhighwayman1757 4 жыл бұрын
Good way to end up alone. Dudes with 8+ inches of wang is pretty low, now add in regional, age and other things that might make it tougher. Good luck
@CaveMaan1
@CaveMaan1 4 жыл бұрын
This has to be bait lmao
@officialconch
@officialconch 4 жыл бұрын
Wow
@Onibyron
@Onibyron 4 жыл бұрын
Every man can have 8 inches. They just need dick sleeves that are realistic. You thought I was gonna say Millionaire, huh.
@2shayyyyy
@2shayyyyy 4 жыл бұрын
As a man, I found online dating is a great place to practice your monologue skills
@tobiasljunggren7001
@tobiasljunggren7001 4 жыл бұрын
Hahah! 😆
@zee1027
@zee1027 4 жыл бұрын
underrated comment. kudos, sir.
@InVinoVeratas
@InVinoVeratas 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it’s great talking to yourself.
@captainclutch3818
@captainclutch3818 4 жыл бұрын
I hate that this is true
@VanessaSaintil
@VanessaSaintil 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@latt.qcd9221
@latt.qcd9221 4 жыл бұрын
Removing racial options from an app like that isn't going to change people's preferences; it's just going to make the app less convenient to use.
@vinsokukan1879
@vinsokukan1879 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@lore00star
@lore00star 4 жыл бұрын
Yea it's stupid
@jenniferjuliana10
@jenniferjuliana10 4 жыл бұрын
I've never saw an app with racial preferences option. Badoo and Hinge don't have it and they are doing great without it.
@alext3480
@alext3480 4 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferjuliana10 exactly i wasn't aware that they had this
@vinsokukan1879
@vinsokukan1879 4 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferjuliana10 those apps are for data miners, bots, & scammers. Thus they don't have to racial preferences,because they(the site) PREFERS EVERYONE. All these apps have fake profiles with real people behind them.Sometimes women didn't know they were talking to "a picture of a hot guy" that was a bot.Why didn't they know? Well, you have to keep the users engaged somehow. User engagement is key to increasing the metric for ad dollars. This technique has been around forever. Women fall for it too.
@mysticalsprings1998
@mysticalsprings1998 4 жыл бұрын
My awkward online dating story, was chatting with a guy for two weeks, thought it was going great, ran into him at the gas station, neither of us knew where we knew each other from and we're talking, then his wife walked up..... And at that moment we realized where we knew each other from.... I'm out!!!
@liabw05
@liabw05 4 жыл бұрын
Ooof 🤦🏾‍♀️
@PortraitofAsha
@PortraitofAsha 4 жыл бұрын
😂
@berightback99
@berightback99 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that y'all nvr met, tells à lot.
@SmoothOpe_
@SmoothOpe_ 4 жыл бұрын
@@berightback99 they were only talking for 2 weeks. How quickly do you meet people after speaking with them online?
@inhle1688
@inhle1688 4 жыл бұрын
@@SmoothOpe_ some ppl do it straight away like 3 days or next available weekend
4 жыл бұрын
Online dating for women is like shopping Online dating for men is like a job interview
@buck8ab
@buck8ab 3 жыл бұрын
Man, that’s really good. Never heard it like that before👌
@Roninonymous
@Roninonymous 4 жыл бұрын
“Sometimes your type is the reason why you’re alone” Man this dude is preachi-......🤔😮🤯
@shooklizard9039
@shooklizard9039 4 жыл бұрын
Me😭😫
@Roninonymous
@Roninonymous 4 жыл бұрын
Hector Silva 💀⚰️🤣
@sirapple589
@sirapple589 4 жыл бұрын
Does that mean that Aba is the Dancing Queen?
@Isaac-ci5wy
@Isaac-ci5wy 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t see the lie..
@AbdulMedBanguraJr
@AbdulMedBanguraJr 4 жыл бұрын
the emoji's got me dying LMAO
@neroarchangel
@neroarchangel 4 жыл бұрын
"Some of you will stay lonely forever" being alone doesn't make a person lonely. You can be lonely in a room with 50 people and you could be all by yourself in the mountains and never for a second feel lonely. Don't conflate the two.
@emmabunch-benson5361
@emmabunch-benson5361 4 жыл бұрын
preach
@FryedPidgey
@FryedPidgey 4 жыл бұрын
Nero Archangel Thank you for pointing that out. People really can’t understand that being alone isn’t a bad thing.
@vinsokukan1879
@vinsokukan1879 4 жыл бұрын
Bingo!!!!!
@Oddness
@Oddness 4 жыл бұрын
100% agree. There is something to be said about people being social animals though. These are the exceptions that proves the rule. For most of us, human interaction is as much a need as eating or sleeping. Some people just 'eat' less. Is a hermit in the mountains an example of a normal _healthy_ human being? I'm not convinced. It's like a lion living outside of a family unit. It's not normal.
@vinsokukan1879
@vinsokukan1879 4 жыл бұрын
@@Oddness or a wolf that has the skills & prefers to hunt alone. It just depends you haven't met every human on this planet to determine their reason as to why they prefer to BE ALONE. In order to explore that line of thought you'll have to get into the extrovert/introvert argument. How do introverts meet people as oppose to how extroverts meet people(*which we can usually speculate how). It depends. Preferences go as far as specific smells. Smells can affect attraction. Symmetry affects attraction. These are just some of the reasons why Jubilee really honed in on this one. Some people are naturally born with the "look". Some have game tons of it. I know a guy who looks like Captain Cave man but can probably charm your wife or girl to sleep with him. Why??? Because he is a man's man. This makes him attractive. It just depends. NOW (what I see at least) is that we've gotten into this overtly HOT OR NOT title shitshow which is pushing the narrative of "YOU MUST HAVE THIS...OR HAVE THAT IN ORDER TO COMPETE". This allowed preferences to become even more of YOU GOT IT OR YOU DON'T SITUATION. Soooo now you are left to say either you want to participate in something like that or try your hand elsewhere. People go overseas & get a better chance at lust or a partner.
@RayGallardo
@RayGallardo 4 жыл бұрын
The African American women and Asian men statistic isn't a new thing. On or Offline.
@ceepinit100
@ceepinit100 4 жыл бұрын
Yep, they're at the bottom of dating totem poll. The lighter skin black girl is also objectively more attractive than Kendra🤷‍♂️.
@ayowser01
@ayowser01 4 жыл бұрын
And the funny thing is, they don't usually mix either. Black females don't typically find asian men attractive and vis versa.
@liaminwales
@liaminwales 4 жыл бұрын
where is the love for the Asian man? they never get the media love!
@matty9460
@matty9460 4 жыл бұрын
@@ayowser01 if they did neither of them would end up at the bottom because they'd match with each other
@barryand601
@barryand601 4 жыл бұрын
Ray Gallardo Which I don’t really get since I find black women really attractive and usually extremely down to earth. I’m not into men, but I do find Asian men to be extremely chill and fun to hang out with.🤷‍♂️
@Logitekz
@Logitekz 3 жыл бұрын
"Black women and Asian men are the least preferred on dating apps..." As an Asian man, "Yep."
@b1gblock848
@b1gblock848 3 жыл бұрын
@Jack Neet why are black women?
@24k-u6o
@24k-u6o 3 жыл бұрын
@Jack Neet you sound racist mate.
@lionessstarseed6812
@lionessstarseed6812 3 жыл бұрын
Comment of irony and hope!! Let this be a spark for Asian men and Black women perhaps opening up to love with each other more lol, that’ll help crush the stats lol 💖 I’m Caribbean+Afro-Latina (caramel skin, so aesthetically I look black) and my man’s Punjabi. Met on a dating app and we’re years-in strong. I don’t have a type but surprisingly was approached mostly by South Asian men which I never expected. My hubby and I are obsessed with each other in the sweetest ways, he’s an incredible man...So we beat the statistic!! It happens and I vouch for how amazingly attractive, sexy and adoring Asian men are toward their significant others, I came to understand how a desire to be in a beautiful, committed relationship is more so a part of the culture and prioritized, and they take it seriously. He’s appreciative that I’m a reciprocating strong Black woman by his side. It’s been great.
@LilMiinxx
@LilMiinxx 3 жыл бұрын
I've dated more Asian men than any other race. Also I see so many Asian men with so many different race women. I don't know if this statistic is still accurate. I think it really depends on how attractive people are rather than race.
@angeliqueyoung9249
@angeliqueyoung9249 3 жыл бұрын
I find asian people in general to be some of the most beautiful looking people and as a caucasion woman I prefer to keep my blemishes and freckles away from such flawless looking men.
@yeetlol1762
@yeetlol1762 4 жыл бұрын
My father said something fantastic I think about a lot; “a man should never be the same man he was a decade ago”
@jonathanreyes3443
@jonathanreyes3443 4 жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom
@Wabi-sabi8551
@Wabi-sabi8551 4 жыл бұрын
Replace 'man' with 'human being'.
@yeetlol1762
@yeetlol1762 4 жыл бұрын
Wabi-sabi8551 of course, just using his words
@TnD_BigJax
@TnD_BigJax 4 жыл бұрын
Fax yo.
@lvrrylxrd232
@lvrrylxrd232 4 жыл бұрын
a decade is a long time man
@MrMossMan7272
@MrMossMan7272 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of times when someone speaks slowly it’s because they are a recovered stutterer. One of the first tricks you are taught are to slow down and think about your words. I wouldn’t be shocked if that dude was a stutterer.
@MrMossMan7272
@MrMossMan7272 4 жыл бұрын
Jhai La personally I stop talking when I stutter think it out for a second then try again on the sentence. I never actually went to speech therapy because my stutter is very mild. But stopping works for me.
@itallturnstodust1216
@itallturnstodust1216 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a stutterer
@MsDragonbal776
@MsDragonbal776 4 жыл бұрын
@@MrMossMan7272 stutterer here. Anymore strategies dude?
@MrMossMan7272
@MrMossMan7272 4 жыл бұрын
MsDragonbal776 haven’t actually tried it because I don’t speak any other languages but apparently saying the word you’re stuck on in another language helps.
@sephandremanticore5438
@sephandremanticore5438 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be very articulate as a kid. I would talk fast and I would speak clearly. But after of associating with people who would stumble over their words or had a difficult time with the English language (my granma and ma mostly) I later ended up having more trouble, mispronouncing things, misarranging sentences, stopping dead in my tracks because I lost a "single word" and struggled to complete because that word is temporarily lost in the nexus of my mental dictionary, and then are times when I just "uh..." or mindlessly repeat a word until I can get back to it. I've also heard people stutter a LOT even as they're speaking slowly and mindfully. Sometimes, the vocalization part of our brain just fogs up.
@BklynConan
@BklynConan 4 жыл бұрын
Choice Paralysis is a real thing and anyone who owns a Netflix account can probably confirm lol
@QwentyJ
@QwentyJ 4 жыл бұрын
Or a steam account lol
@projectatom5349
@projectatom5349 4 жыл бұрын
@@QwentyJ bro I own like one game, I don't have that problem
@johndavis9321
@johndavis9321 4 жыл бұрын
That’s a fact
@ShanteRoxxane
@ShanteRoxxane 4 жыл бұрын
Omg for me there’s “nothing” on Netflix. It’s just strange. Edit: I used quotes because it feels like nothing to me.
@isabelangang249
@isabelangang249 4 жыл бұрын
ShanteRoxxane stranger thing watch that
@The-Real-JD
@The-Real-JD 3 жыл бұрын
"Misery and miserable people tend to be loud"... Well that explains Twitter
@nubustong5811
@nubustong5811 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@felix-antoinechalifoux6907
@felix-antoinechalifoux6907 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of the Internet really. Just compare how long good user reviews are on like Google vs bad ones. The bad ones are always longer
@kendradamm1428
@kendradamm1428 3 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣
@cyanideinmycereal1077
@cyanideinmycereal1077 3 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@miraikuriyama4178
@miraikuriyama4178 4 жыл бұрын
"This guy is the most assertive low-energy person I have ever seen." Do you mean: Kakashi Hatake?
@1995yuda
@1995yuda 4 жыл бұрын
damn son!!
@RJWM1999
@RJWM1999 4 жыл бұрын
He's the guy 💪💪
@churchhide
@churchhide 4 жыл бұрын
W
@Pacbandit13
@Pacbandit13 4 жыл бұрын
We got DBZ and Naruto 🤣🤣
@inhle1688
@inhle1688 4 жыл бұрын
no wonder i’m so attracted to him💀
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 4 жыл бұрын
He called me a Dragon Ball Z character I'm weak Lmaoo I appreciate this reaction though. Hit the Like if you think I look like Goku. Follow me on IG @Mr.NoDaysOffpercy
@ayileenenga9670
@ayileenenga9670 4 жыл бұрын
ahahahaha its is Yoouuuuu. everyone love DBZ. the best anime ever
@pelosuelto70
@pelosuelto70 4 жыл бұрын
Holy shit lmao
@aydeepeperoni6018
@aydeepeperoni6018 4 жыл бұрын
Best cosplay I've seen this year 10/10
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 4 жыл бұрын
@@aydeepeperoni6018 you know how I do 😭
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 4 жыл бұрын
@@ayileenenga9670 lmaoo dont tell anyone
@eli30013
@eli30013 4 жыл бұрын
If I had a nickel every time someone said “there’s someone out there for everyone “ Glad y’all said that! 👏🏾
@D_Snutz
@D_Snutz 4 жыл бұрын
..I'm sure there is someone out there for everyone, most people just wouldn't settle for that person even if they did happen to meet them...an average American in a large city, active social life, a couple of kids that go to school and plays sports, etc. will meet approximately 470 people in their lifetime (outside of family). The chance of actually meeting your "soulmate" is very slim...
@emzkoe3904
@emzkoe3904 4 жыл бұрын
Lol. Right? The universe promises someone for everyone, but it never specifes the quality of that person.
@denzel9455
@denzel9455 4 жыл бұрын
But it's never what they want that's why they are alone.
@deviousj5868
@deviousj5868 4 жыл бұрын
That is the biggest load of shit anyone can say. When someone says that you have my permission to laugh.
@deviousj5868
@deviousj5868 4 жыл бұрын
@@D_Snutz That actually makes sense
@nal004
@nal004 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like there’s a lot of body language, chemistry, mystery, implication etc. that u feel when u talk to someone in person but it simply doesn’t translate over tinder
@magssmith9111
@magssmith9111 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@izabella7174
@izabella7174 3 жыл бұрын
It does when you decide to meet them
@alexare6655
@alexare6655 2 жыл бұрын
No shit so meet them in person after talking online you stupid bitch.
@Jamminyea
@Jamminyea 2 жыл бұрын
When im really wanting to get dates I can kill it in person. Leave a solid impression, give off fun/flirty vibes and all that. Online it’s just lame and seems like too much work.
@RylieCollins
@RylieCollins 4 жыл бұрын
Is it weird that I’ve never actually had a type? I mean yeah I’m attracted to funny and nice people but physically my type changes a lot. There’s so many different attractive physical characteristics people can have and only being attracted to one type of person just limits you on possibly finding the love of your life 🤷🏻‍♀️
@antfactory1
@antfactory1 4 жыл бұрын
Camille Collins exactly, every day I have a new type of guy. For black guys I have a type, for white guys i have a type, or mixed guys, for Asians, Indians, and a bunch of other races, and it changes almost all the time cause people are beautiful lol.
@snoochieboochies2011
@snoochieboochies2011 4 жыл бұрын
No, but I want to maintain that I have a type so I can reject people that are objectively unattractive without hurting their feelings.
@misterharryman
@misterharryman 4 жыл бұрын
That's the spirit
@johnfisher1006
@johnfisher1006 4 жыл бұрын
I think type exists because some women can't help who they are attracted to
@nal004
@nal004 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed keep an open mind! I’ll sleep w literally anybody !
@anon7596
@anon7596 4 жыл бұрын
There is someone for everyone. But your someone could be in Russia lol
@mirisu5639
@mirisu5639 4 жыл бұрын
My someone was in Syria and then in Russia before he came here and met me, so yeah 😂
@fadlicuy2922
@fadlicuy2922 4 жыл бұрын
or not born yet...
@babelove45
@babelove45 4 жыл бұрын
@@fadlicuy2922 👀💀😂
@TacticalEntropy
@TacticalEntropy 4 жыл бұрын
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@fadlicuy2922
@fadlicuy2922 4 жыл бұрын
@Manga Is you can have 20 years old wife or gf when you're 40, and being a christian or atheist or devil worshiper, and it's okay. what's with these being muslim thing??
@sierraalexander1830
@sierraalexander1830 4 жыл бұрын
I live in a small town, and it seems like everyone has slept with everyone at this point so I always try to date online outside of my town!! But it’s hard to find genuine people, so I’m leaving it up to god now
@deanwhaley1466
@deanwhaley1466 4 жыл бұрын
I’m ugly so I kind of just given up on dating apps all together. So sis we in the same fucking boat.
@CoreofShane
@CoreofShane 4 жыл бұрын
Oddly feel the same way but im in a big city. Well, guess it only takes one right? Odds are stacked against us but, that’s life. Good luck
@jeremiahchacha9668
@jeremiahchacha9668 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t live in a small town but I’m in the same boat... it is hard finding genuine people. I hope you find what you’re looking for.
@nahnanananananana2914
@nahnanananananana2914 4 жыл бұрын
Move to a city with more dating and job opportunities.
@barryand601
@barryand601 4 жыл бұрын
Sierra Alexander Can’t relate but I really hope you find a genuine person. Good that you are looking for that rather than someone for sex. 👍
@indianspartan76
@indianspartan76 3 жыл бұрын
20:05 I disagree. Here's why: I met 2 out of my 3 best friends by chatting up a stranger. I prefer in person approaches. That being said: the number of people that look at me like I'm crazy when I talk to them in public, has increased in correlation to the rise of online dating
@chrissyb7916
@chrissyb7916 3 жыл бұрын
When I go to concerts (often by myself) more often then not I end up chatting with a stranger. They start a conversation or I do. I know people who became besties at Comicon. I think at events it's natural people will talk to strangers as they already know they have something in common. Or lines - TSA, bathrooms because you can always gripe about how long it it.
@LadyCoyKoi
@LadyCoyKoi 3 жыл бұрын
@@chrissyb7916 I go to conventions and Medieval Festivals just to be connected with like minded folks. Events truly make it easier than dating apps, at least for me.
@JaydenLyleHylton
@JaydenLyleHylton 4 жыл бұрын
"Some of y'all gon be alone forever" Hurts to hear the truth. But at the same time maybe there's a beauty to learning how to live alone.
@educationalporpoises9592
@educationalporpoises9592 4 жыл бұрын
People like that have to recenter their purpose in life. My aunt wanted to get married, never did. She developed friendships and centered her life around her career as a special ed teacher, and her students were like her children. She was pretty much renowned within her district. It's sad, but clinging to what's long gone is gonna keep it sadder. Fortunately I don't think I'm in that situation, lol
@hakatapawa7115
@hakatapawa7115 4 жыл бұрын
Nah don't tell that to yourself. Everybody needs love, that's how we are
@grantog123
@grantog123 4 жыл бұрын
@@hakatapawa7115 Needing love and getting love are two different things. Just being grateful for what you do have is all you can do.
@nettyspeaks
@nettyspeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Theres freedom in solidarity. I swear its peaceful.
@anitaknight3915
@anitaknight3915 3 жыл бұрын
@@grantog123 great perspective!! The attitude of gratitude is everything. It's important to appreciate what you do have!
@miguelangelthomas5154
@miguelangelthomas5154 4 жыл бұрын
will you look at that, eh? Jubilee making actually good content. The Apocalypse must be right around the corner.
@anthonyt425
@anthonyt425 4 жыл бұрын
Around the corner? It's here already!
@enjolireyes643
@enjolireyes643 4 жыл бұрын
Well, July is right around the corner. I agree. We need another mini-Apocalypse to add to the never ending year of crazy. This video could very well be the herald of what is yet to come.
@Iffmeister
@Iffmeister 4 жыл бұрын
@ungratefulmetalpansy they basically bring people of all worldviews on to have interesting conversations. The cringe videos are generally dating related, the rest tend to be pretty good
@kanyemadmid
@kanyemadmid 3 жыл бұрын
this aged well
@cristina92lena
@cristina92lena 4 жыл бұрын
"sometimes your type is the reason why you're alone" Preach looking at me dead in the eye when I'm trying to hide
@ionelstoica7082
@ionelstoica7082 4 жыл бұрын
you are not alone, sister
@cervixcrusader85
@cervixcrusader85 4 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure most people who have trouble finding a date/partner has this issue (myself included) :/
@ionelstoica7082
@ionelstoica7082 4 жыл бұрын
@@cervixcrusader85 i wholeheartedly agree, it was just a nod to a fellow romanian amongst these comments.
@cristina92lena
@cristina92lena 4 жыл бұрын
@@ionelstoica7082 I kindly nod back
@JAHIDxJD
@JAHIDxJD 4 жыл бұрын
Just get a Kpop husbando
@Am-ju6bt
@Am-ju6bt 3 жыл бұрын
It’s interesting how good people swipe right on people that looks good in their photo. Some people are super photogenic but in real life aren’t that good looking. Others might not be photogenic but look really good in real life
@quanzy121
@quanzy121 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh I look terrible in real life and photos 🙃😳
@nweeezy
@nweeezy 3 жыл бұрын
your comment is severely underrated
@rationalthought9979
@rationalthought9979 3 жыл бұрын
Sure, but what else are you going to go by? All you can go by, appearance wise, is their photos, until you meet them. Unless you want to take the time to read their profile, which still doesn't tell you all that much.
@bloodhooded
@bloodhooded 3 жыл бұрын
@@rationalthought9979 yep, should we meet every single person IRL to make sure they look the same as on their profile or better lol
@bbbbbbb51
@bbbbbbb51 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't used a dating app in years, but I used it almost polar opposite to most people. Pics are nice, but if the profile is trash, boring, or vain? I'm out.
@AbaNPreach
@AbaNPreach 4 жыл бұрын
Dropping another video tonight! Be sure to like and comment for dem Algorythmz
@joejoeson891
@joejoeson891 4 жыл бұрын
love yall
@MrBlitz-kr2wo
@MrBlitz-kr2wo 4 жыл бұрын
Which of you two wrote this🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Mm-zl8ks
@Mm-zl8ks 4 жыл бұрын
@@MrBlitz-kr2wo probably aba
@harry31619
@harry31619 4 жыл бұрын
First Im ugly so no point in real life or not theres no point no woman will look at me once let alone twice
@lazyj2821
@lazyj2821 4 жыл бұрын
You guys should look into this kzbin.info/www/bejne/pabKfplte9V3hpo
@chumisntfum1614
@chumisntfum1614 4 жыл бұрын
I think there is someone out there for everyone, but that doesn't mean you'll ever meet
@uglyogre63
@uglyogre63 4 жыл бұрын
Damn..true
@sechabatheletsane9784
@sechabatheletsane9784 4 жыл бұрын
Wow😂😂
@dinasilva9263
@dinasilva9263 4 жыл бұрын
Oh damn...😲
@TheNeoVariable
@TheNeoVariable 4 жыл бұрын
There's honestly too many people for there not to at least have 5 people for you.
@Rnfjaydee
@Rnfjaydee 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@sierraalexander1830
@sierraalexander1830 4 жыл бұрын
Also, I broke my ankle a few weeks ago and KZbin was keeping my mind busy, it got boring until I found your channel and I managed to watch all your videos, even “dear mother” from seven years ago, you guys are awesome!! 👏🏼
@cole4236
@cole4236 4 жыл бұрын
@Jesse Gutierrez You're an idiot. They're liking a positive review from a viewer and thats it. Stop reaching and projecting your own simp insecurities!
@dinasilva9263
@dinasilva9263 4 жыл бұрын
I found out about them because KZbin recommendations and i really appreciate their vídeos💯
@justanotherisekaiprotagoni7293
@justanotherisekaiprotagoni7293 4 жыл бұрын
Lol u the small town girl ?
@masterpain7742
@masterpain7742 4 жыл бұрын
Dang no wonder u haven't found a relationship yet
@nitashajohnson4767
@nitashajohnson4767 3 жыл бұрын
I live in Iowa and I am black. So I chose to never really date on apps. I have made a profile, I'm average looking and I have a lot of personality so I get enough interaction in my personal opinion. I even met a guy that was quality but it didn't work out. But because I live in Iowa which is literally 98% white I've chosen to 1. Meet people in person 2. Open up my options(not limiting it to just Black men) 3. Connect seriously with people with similar interests as me. I am currently engaged to my partner at 31 years old expecting our first child after 2 years together. We met in person. As a black woman I really don't think that online dating is for me. I am able to connect with people better in person and I understand that isn't the case for everyone. But for me because of statistics I honestly was turned off by the prospect. I didn't have the worst results but I just didn't want to put myself on a place where I feel unwelcomed.
@anitaknight3915
@anitaknight3915 3 жыл бұрын
That's awesome and very wise. Thank you for sharing! I'd rather meet people in person as well. God bless you on your future bundle of joy and union.
@thepovdweller
@thepovdweller 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome! Congratulations, I wish you a safe delivery☺️!
@marcusmaksym7804
@marcusmaksym7804 3 жыл бұрын
congrats
@24k-u6o
@24k-u6o 3 жыл бұрын
I’m from Iowa and a BW, I feel like it depends on where u live in Iowa, like if your from a small town in the middle of nowhere vs Des Moines
@laredouter4792
@laredouter4792 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations girl! 🥰
@latt.qcd9221
@latt.qcd9221 4 жыл бұрын
"Online dating", as a whole, isn't just for hookups. Tinder, however, is primarily for hookups.
@uglyogre63
@uglyogre63 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone>I'm JuST LoOKiNg FoR FRieNdS
@marcusblue1985
@marcusblue1985 4 жыл бұрын
Oh naw, tinder turned into 3 -4 kids, I’m not looking for games and hook ups
@Rnfjaydee
@Rnfjaydee 4 жыл бұрын
MarcusBlue i think the reason why people say tinder is for hookups cause a decent majority is 18-24 year olds which is just horny college kids but definitely can find some keepers.
@TiffanyRay
@TiffanyRay 4 жыл бұрын
Tinder is for people who wanna hit it and quit it
@thenwordpolice6982
@thenwordpolice6982 4 жыл бұрын
Reverse Ben Shapiro is cool. Sometimes you gotta speak slowly for people so they don’t jump to conclusions.
@legoatjames2277
@legoatjames2277 4 жыл бұрын
Derrell Davis ...
@HiddenOcelot
@HiddenOcelot 4 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, reverse Ben Shapiro
@UnitedPacci
@UnitedPacci 4 жыл бұрын
@@HiddenOcelot I call him Shapiro Ben
@stinkerpops
@stinkerpops 4 жыл бұрын
He might just have social anxiety. I have social anxiety and whenever I got called on in class I would speak and act like that. He might be nervous about what people would think of him and want the conversation to be over.
@nightfighter7452
@nightfighter7452 4 жыл бұрын
@@stinkerpops or he just speaks slow
@hungaryrat5089
@hungaryrat5089 4 жыл бұрын
The guy in the yellow sweater almost always resonates with me, he is 10x smarter then he realizes. He formulates his sentences so god damn compact. I love it. Excuse me for my terrible English.
@deripfina
@deripfina 3 жыл бұрын
It’s always the people who say they have terrible English that have great English LOL
@-taemiso-292
@-taemiso-292 3 жыл бұрын
@@deripfina i've noticed this as well.
@sedftnio
@sedftnio 3 жыл бұрын
@@deripfina I think people whose English is not their first language try harder.
@nightfighter7452
@nightfighter7452 3 жыл бұрын
@@deripfina very humble
@nodiggity8746
@nodiggity8746 3 жыл бұрын
@@sedftnio true. When I first started learning English I was hyper-aware of mistakes, then once I became pretty much bilingual I stopped caring lol
@MrCurbinator
@MrCurbinator 3 жыл бұрын
I put on my bio that I had no patience for messaging back and forth. Any discussion would be for the purposes of organizing a date, and we would be going dutch, no questions. 1st girl that agreed to those parameters was actually pretty cool. Glad I remembered to get her an anniversary gift today.
@davidp4270
@davidp4270 3 жыл бұрын
I hope this is legit
@MrCurbinator
@MrCurbinator 3 жыл бұрын
@@davidp4270 it is.
@joshuagregoire9504
@joshuagregoire9504 3 жыл бұрын
@@MrCurbinator W my guy
@idk-ye7ur
@idk-ye7ur 3 жыл бұрын
I'm late, but wish you good luck!
@dreadfairy6963
@dreadfairy6963 3 жыл бұрын
That's great! I love that and wish more men would be this direct! So many men have nothing in their bio and hmmm and Hah around, playing games and wasting my time. I even have it in my bios not to waste my time if you arent looking to meet up in real life and STILL my time gets wasted and wasted...
@EatMyShortsOmar
@EatMyShortsOmar 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks aba for continuously letting me know I’m ugly
@AbaNPreach
@AbaNPreach 4 жыл бұрын
Np.
@KxngTsuGamingOGkxng
@KxngTsuGamingOGkxng 4 жыл бұрын
Not alone bro 😔
@immapunchu5313
@immapunchu5313 4 жыл бұрын
🤣 but I'm glad they did. I'm kinda bored with the 'you go girl! You so pretty omg!' But then I'm the unwanted one 🤣 kinda refreshing someone is being real.
@BigBallsLover6969
@BigBallsLover6969 4 жыл бұрын
Kingly Omar keep your head up king 👑
@davidrhoden7868
@davidrhoden7868 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao. There's only rich people and ugly people. xD
@leilahdeb
@leilahdeb 4 жыл бұрын
The difference about picking someone based on looks on dating apps is people get to choose the version of themselves they would like to show (specific poses, lighting that make them look the most attractive). Vs in person there’s no filter, the you people see is the real life you do there’s probably also lower standards for beauty. Online all you see is the best versions of people so the standard for attractive is higher
@shaq8830
@shaq8830 4 жыл бұрын
Very very good point!
@Dan_Therapist
@Dan_Therapist 4 жыл бұрын
i know a female is overweight when she just takes shoulder width selfies
@QuanBrown27
@QuanBrown27 3 жыл бұрын
- True 🤷‍♂️👍!
@nweeezy
@nweeezy 3 жыл бұрын
@DJHart facts.... _if_ they even have a personality at all
@Wakka144
@Wakka144 3 жыл бұрын
Online dating seems more fake to me which is one reason I never bothered with it. You are seeing a scripted and edited version of everything about them, from their pictures to their carefully worded profiles. It seems like it could be a narcissist’s playground to gain victims for supply.
@xicer1
@xicer1 4 жыл бұрын
Talking slow is one thing. But this dude had to stop and think about his own age 🤣😂🤣😂
@DSan-kl2yc
@DSan-kl2yc 4 жыл бұрын
Can't say it hasn't happened to me.
@mirawenya
@mirawenya 4 жыл бұрын
I do that every time someone asks my age... I don’t really keep track and have to do the math.
@Zango25
@Zango25 4 жыл бұрын
I do it sometimes as well. I tend to keep to myself on most days. Getting a sudden call out from someone I know still throws me off guard.
@guy-claudenkana4526
@guy-claudenkana4526 4 жыл бұрын
@@Zango25 relatable 💯
@rinrinsparkles1986
@rinrinsparkles1986 4 жыл бұрын
Well it be like that sometimes 😅
@GhostlyGhille
@GhostlyGhille 3 жыл бұрын
Jubilee dude was a perfect example of when the weed hits.
@riseofazrael
@riseofazrael 3 жыл бұрын
Homeboy definitely smokes that gud gud
@crystalgomez9428
@crystalgomez9428 3 жыл бұрын
@ghostlyghille dude your hella cute!
@toomanyrads3827
@toomanyrads3827 4 жыл бұрын
“That’s not micro, that’s mega” my thoughts exactly.
@ion7016
@ion7016 4 жыл бұрын
The correct word is macro
@hangukhiphop
@hangukhiphop 4 жыл бұрын
@@ion7016 it's more of a continuum micro < macro < mega it all comes from greek o(micro)n o(mega)
@missNCW
@missNCW 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah that is weird af
@HashNtheBox
@HashNtheBox 4 жыл бұрын
@@missNCW english is a broken language dont question it.
@Followthebuzzards689
@Followthebuzzards689 4 жыл бұрын
@Hana Ayo Alemayehu No they haven't lol.
@NeonGhostCat
@NeonGhostCat 4 жыл бұрын
"if you're ugly, don't bother." But they think we're all ugly.
@20thcentury_toy
@20thcentury_toy 4 жыл бұрын
The game was rigged from the start
@20thcentury_toy
@20thcentury_toy 4 жыл бұрын
@@Gloriacx52 why not?
@narutokilla196
@narutokilla196 4 жыл бұрын
@ria rel 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️
@patrickwillis13
@patrickwillis13 4 жыл бұрын
You not looking if that is the case
@immikeurnot
@immikeurnot 4 жыл бұрын
@@Gloriacx52 It's true. Two studies have shown that women consider a man who's an 8 to be "average" while men rated 5 women average.
@minahtheweirdo
@minahtheweirdo 4 жыл бұрын
Light skin and dark skin women live totally different life experiences and its sad.
@Ramboo339
@Ramboo339 4 жыл бұрын
Strange, when the people i know show me their DMs its mostly to tons of Black women
@64-b64
@64-b64 3 жыл бұрын
Its sad that nobody fucking asked
@jiminluvr8535
@jiminluvr8535 3 жыл бұрын
@@Ramboo339 black women come in different shades
@jiminluvr8535
@jiminluvr8535 3 жыл бұрын
@@64-b64 I did :)
@Jojo_D_Northstar
@Jojo_D_Northstar 3 жыл бұрын
It’s men that suffer not women. God the solipsism of women
@CreamerOfTheDairySquad
@CreamerOfTheDairySquad 3 жыл бұрын
Met my wife on plenty of fish. She lived in the next town over, wasnt far but id never had gone there otherwise never would have met her without it. Weve been married nearly 5 years and our daughter is nearly 4 and we have a son on the way and are very happy together
@sinbalak3730
@sinbalak3730 2 жыл бұрын
how old were you when you found her?
@sagekevin6473
@sagekevin6473 4 жыл бұрын
"I see you came with your little research or whatever "🤣🤣🤣
@dflips4
@dflips4 4 жыл бұрын
Right that one killed me
@Trashboat_96
@Trashboat_96 4 жыл бұрын
Did they do an episode of those 2 people?
@SMOK3SCR3EN
@SMOK3SCR3EN 4 жыл бұрын
Cant find someone IRL Created a ok cupid account, 8 months later never been matched. Feels awesome
@Rnfjaydee
@Rnfjaydee 4 жыл бұрын
Get tinder!
@TheNitroG1
@TheNitroG1 4 жыл бұрын
No worries man that just means you aren't 6'4" with a 6 figure job and a full head of hair...welcome to the 90%
@moonknight4053
@moonknight4053 4 жыл бұрын
Hope u find someone that fits you’re personalalitt bruh!! It’s hard, but I’m sure you’ll find someone. If it makes u feel good I’m an ugly cunt and I’ve gotta girl; peace brotha!!
@jettsetgirl
@jettsetgirl 4 жыл бұрын
@Rybo Stain front & back?It's so Funny When I was younger I was like ewww hairy chest, till I met my husband and he usually buzzed it - until he didn't and I was like ohhhh mama likes...I was in my 30s then....How do woman respond to the back hair??
@JK-mp1mg
@JK-mp1mg 4 жыл бұрын
Hit the gym. Focus on yourself. Don't look for gratification from others. Worst thing that happens is you enjoy your life. Don't expect someone else to fix you.
@Bl2EAKIN
@Bl2EAKIN 4 жыл бұрын
I see the top pinned comment is from a girl saying that sex is all men are looking for on those apps. The thing is, and this also applies to real life, men DON'T want just sex, unless sex is all that you have to offer.
@joelalvarez5322
@joelalvarez5322 4 жыл бұрын
Rip Patrice
@Spider-Too-Too
@Spider-Too-Too 4 жыл бұрын
all men want is some intimated cuddling
@shooklizard9039
@shooklizard9039 4 жыл бұрын
Some boys just want sex thou and some girls just want sex as well and dating app is easy to find sex there
@shooklizard9039
@shooklizard9039 4 жыл бұрын
@@Spider-Too-Too 😂
@harz632
@harz632 4 жыл бұрын
True, if you have nothing to offer but sex then men will only come to you when they want sex but not when they want to do other stuff but most single women won't understand that because they themselves never tried anything what a man wants with a man beyond sex. I'd love to spend time with women that have the same interests.
@weekendnomad5038
@weekendnomad5038 3 жыл бұрын
Once you start getting ghosted and learn how to cut ppl off when they annoy you w no emotion it kinda turns you toxic lol
@moonknight4053
@moonknight4053 3 жыл бұрын
That good or bad?
@cookiegirl891
@cookiegirl891 2 жыл бұрын
Lol facts !
@jeepersmcgee3466
@jeepersmcgee3466 2 жыл бұрын
@@moonknight4053 in what context is "toxic" a good characteristic?
@keviniwuagwu2453
@keviniwuagwu2453 4 жыл бұрын
Preach looked at me in my eyes, and told me I will be alone forever...big sad.
@user-marco789
@user-marco789 4 жыл бұрын
Ok
@FazeParticles
@FazeParticles 4 жыл бұрын
appreciate his honesty at least.
@olyviermonteau4300
@olyviermonteau4300 4 жыл бұрын
*HE'S MAD, HE'S MAD..! BIG SAD!1*
@Jamfar777
@Jamfar777 4 жыл бұрын
That's tough buddy
@28219_
@28219_ 4 ай бұрын
but was he right?
@taiwooluwatoba3874
@taiwooluwatoba3874 4 жыл бұрын
"Brittney, Holistic healer and yoga instructor" ...unemployed, you're unemployed Brittney
@ettazak
@ettazak 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the genuine laugh!
@jennygump5835
@jennygump5835 4 жыл бұрын
🤣
@TerryHesticles
@TerryHesticles 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao for real tho
@Dan_Therapist
@Dan_Therapist 4 жыл бұрын
my exact thoughts 😂😂😂😂
@786valerie
@786valerie 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@itstimeforlife
@itstimeforlife 4 жыл бұрын
"This guy is the most assertive, low energy person" 😅
@shooklizard9039
@shooklizard9039 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@tankbxy7609
@tankbxy7609 4 жыл бұрын
"you're pretty for a black girl." damn... somebody down bad. i'm praying for you, g.
@MixManiac120
@MixManiac120 3 жыл бұрын
Just shows how racism is still prevalent...and dont ever forget it
@thomassmith4579
@thomassmith4579 3 жыл бұрын
@@MixManiac120 Not really. Just a preference. Some of my homies told white girls there cute for a white girl cuz white really isn't their preference
@MixManiac120
@MixManiac120 3 жыл бұрын
@@thomassmith4579 Its mentioning race...its racist bro. Also, preference isn't the same as generalization- which is prejudice. Noone wants to hear about someone's preferences.
@thomassmith4579
@thomassmith4579 3 жыл бұрын
@@MixManiac120 i guess. I just don't really see the problem but thats just me.
@MixManiac120
@MixManiac120 3 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanmorris2283 The point is nobody gives a fuck about your preference when you're making a backhanded compliment dumbass. When you mention race...automatically it becomes racist. It would be better to keep your mouth shut, and not say stupid shit like that. If you dont get it- give up stupid ass. Black women and women of ALL race' come in different shapes...sizes.....and colors. Youre a liar if you say youre not attracted to ANY black women. That's fucking dumb. To single out one woman as if she represents ALL black women is racist. That's the definition of racism. Categorizing an entire race based on one entity. You are what's wrong with the world.
@DashXero
@DashXero 4 жыл бұрын
"When I was, like, seventeen, I would write letters to my future husband..." *Goku-lookin guy looks at her like she's crazy.* That face says it all.
@shrapnel77
@shrapnel77 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, women like that are truly frightening to me. STAY AWAY.
@UnfamiliarIntimacy
@UnfamiliarIntimacy 4 жыл бұрын
I don't see how that's weird tbh. Maybe I've just been overexposed to seeing weird stuff on the net but I genuinely cannot see how daydreaming about your future husband is weird.
@missNCW
@missNCW 4 жыл бұрын
@@shrapnel77 although she was a kid, not a woman
@missNCW
@missNCW 4 жыл бұрын
Ok I get it now, she's Christian. I've seen a lot of religious women do this and religious men tend to appreciate it.
@FordyTheConeSmoker
@FordyTheConeSmoker 4 жыл бұрын
I met my wife online; was dating for 4 years and have been married for 1. Online gave me more confidence and allowed us too learn about each other’s personalities before meeting up in person
@Onibyron
@Onibyron 4 жыл бұрын
That is interesting. Glad you have a successful connection.
@eznosnopes5276
@eznosnopes5276 4 жыл бұрын
When I hear someone describe a woman as "wholesome" it sounds like a polite way of saying they don't think you are particularly attractive.
@asdfghj13579fly
@asdfghj13579fly 4 жыл бұрын
I thought it means she doesn’t seem like she’ll put out
@ajh.4131
@ajh.4131 4 жыл бұрын
I think they say that about women who won’t put out right away.
@Rnfjaydee
@Rnfjaydee 4 жыл бұрын
ungratefulmetalpansy fax lol.
@ok-wv4og
@ok-wv4og 4 жыл бұрын
asdfghj13579fly Taylor yes.. it doesn't seem like they put out.. because they're unattractive.. ig 🤔
@HiddenOcelot
@HiddenOcelot 4 жыл бұрын
@@asdfghj13579fly I think you're right. That seems like the thing tbh.
@ryanstarz708
@ryanstarz708 3 жыл бұрын
Both of y'all assessment was dead on. Having too many options can be overwhelming for people with anxiety like myself. Social media does make it easier for women to approach men, because it does not happen to me in person👽
@sanyatesGRIA
@sanyatesGRIA 4 жыл бұрын
Yo they violated the first dude putting his head on Goku’s body 😭😭😭
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 4 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo I take it all in stride. My hair is my signature
@sanyatesGRIA
@sanyatesGRIA 4 жыл бұрын
Mr.NoDaysOff lol true nuff respect
@theprinceoffreshair1164
@theprinceoffreshair1164 4 жыл бұрын
@@sanyatesGRIA I appreciate it bro
@arriibacon531
@arriibacon531 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😭😭
@taurnguard
@taurnguard 4 жыл бұрын
I would like to see a dating app where, if the person's standards are too high, the app replies "Get over yourself. You ain't all that."
@taurnguard
@taurnguard 4 жыл бұрын
@Average Mo Only for people with that much ego.
@Rnfjaydee
@Rnfjaydee 4 жыл бұрын
Average Mo that would be interesting going to university for computer science and business wish me luck lmao
@Rnfjaydee
@Rnfjaydee 4 жыл бұрын
Average Mo thanks man much appreciated!!
@deluulujee
@deluulujee 4 жыл бұрын
Wait, doesn't Tinder actually rank you and after a while match you accordingly how hot other people think you are? Or when you get swiped right a lot, you're shown more and vice versa? And then you "can" pay to be more visible.
@taurnguard
@taurnguard 4 жыл бұрын
@@deluulujee I don't use Tinder because I'm not a ho, so I don't know. : )
@neomonk5668
@neomonk5668 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be a hopeful/hopeless romantic, then I found my inner peace. That’s why I’m single...and very happy about it.
@neomonk5668
@neomonk5668 4 жыл бұрын
Jj J because I enjoy this channel. They are insightful and funny. And at a certain level I like to see the train wreck that is modern America. Plus I had 20 minutes to kill.
@Texastee73
@Texastee73 4 жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with being single. At least you don’t have to deal with foolishness.
@NoName-sp5dp
@NoName-sp5dp 4 жыл бұрын
@Elkjaer Delemos if you have to tell everyone you're a player, you're probably not a player.
@neomonk5668
@neomonk5668 4 жыл бұрын
Latonya Hewitt other than your own. ;) Peace
@XHitsugaX
@XHitsugaX 4 жыл бұрын
@Jj J maybe hes subbed to the channel and watches the videos.
@reinux
@reinux 2 жыл бұрын
Biggest reason online dating is so necessary right now is because neighborhoods aren't designed for healthy spontaneous interaction. You get in your car, go to your destination, meet transactional people to do transactional things, go home, and never brush shoulders with anyone else.
@Bthe312
@Bthe312 Жыл бұрын
💯
@mrarrow958
@mrarrow958 4 жыл бұрын
I think dating apps are all about looks, validation and attention. It’s almost impossible to find someone who can like you for who you really are. That’s why even when a lot of guys end up getting matches, it’s almost impossible to hold a conversation with the other person because they actually don’t really like you, they just want the attention and to validate that they can get whatever guys they want... it’s all about ego basically.
@Cahluvca
@Cahluvca 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@theenchilada1525
@theenchilada1525 4 жыл бұрын
Dating is initially about looks and validation. Online dating make it more accessible for the dopamine high.
@TheWutangclan1995
@TheWutangclan1995 4 жыл бұрын
With all of the dating apps that exist. I’ve heard more dick appointment stories than date appointments. At the end of the day they’re all designed for hooking up. We are all social creatures and are designed to procreate and recreate not finding true love.
@Shanoa1302
@Shanoa1302 4 жыл бұрын
Not true we‘re made to make deep emotional connections. We have some of the most emotional komplex systems there is. Yes we‘re not made for monogamy. But not for hookups only
@maccthemoderate2496
@maccthemoderate2496 4 жыл бұрын
Not to mention women can't hold a conversation at all, its so much work just to get down to the meat and gravy of... we just fucking or what
@rickwaldo7
@rickwaldo7 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of my past relationships I have met through college, concerts lines in Seattle, and tattoo shops. Being in a place where you already have something in common makes it easier to approach somebody in conversation. Funny enough when I moved away from Seattle and gave dating apps a try. It took about 2 years of time wasted before I found my Wife. One thing I do remember is dating in person was generally finding out what you have in common with someone and online dating was more about focusing on things you don’t have in common and hyper focuses you on dealbreakers because before you matched, you looked at hundreds of candidates before them
@wrongrabbit
@wrongrabbit 4 жыл бұрын
I never understood the idea of "discrimination" in dating. People have preferences and they find you attractive or not. Sure, sometimes you may become attracted to someone by getting to know them even if you weren't interested initially, but that doesn't mean that everyone is entitled to a chance at seduction. edit: I mean discrimination in a negative way. Discriminating in and of itself isn't generally a bad thing, but it is often inferred colloquially as negative, hence the quotation marks.
@lore00star
@lore00star 4 жыл бұрын
People like to be victims in 2020... poor them
@ghostofmisao.
@ghostofmisao. 4 жыл бұрын
If you think all members of a certain race are disgusting and all members of another race are all more attractive, and you chose to ONLY date one race then it is discrimination, based on race. Same goes for religion or ethnicity.
@tmselection9321
@tmselection9321 4 жыл бұрын
@@ghostofmisao. you poor incel
@jenniferjuliana10
@jenniferjuliana10 4 жыл бұрын
I stop when you said you don't understand the discrimination (and used quotes which is stupid) in dating. It exists, it happens.
@ghostofmisao.
@ghostofmisao. 4 жыл бұрын
@@tmselection9321 I am not an incel? How is anything that I said related to being an incel?
@Elliot_97
@Elliot_97 3 жыл бұрын
Learning how to approach women in real life is a huge learning experience for men that builds confidence and courage. Bypassing it via dating apps might get you a girlfriend but you miss out on the personal growth that comes with doing it the hard way.
@_internetnoah
@_internetnoah 4 жыл бұрын
3 in the morning, good stuff guys 😂😂
@kevingreat875
@kevingreat875 4 жыл бұрын
Sameeeeeee
@moeee429
@moeee429 4 жыл бұрын
yesss lol
@thetrueanimefreak6679
@thetrueanimefreak6679 4 жыл бұрын
Fr man
@user-kg2nm9dw2f
@user-kg2nm9dw2f 4 жыл бұрын
eastern time zone gang
@emzkoe3904
@emzkoe3904 4 жыл бұрын
It'll probably end up deleted and reuploaded. That seems to happen a lot when they post early.
@mwemachitafu4348
@mwemachitafu4348 4 жыл бұрын
6:29 I thought he said "O'Reiley" as in auto parts. 😂😂😂😂😂
@misshisokapaints109
@misshisokapaints109 4 жыл бұрын
"Sometimes your type is the reason why you're alone" YES PREACH I see so many guys complaining about girls wanting really attractive guys and saying no-one wants them. But they're not attractive inside OR outside. You might have a repulsive personality. Be realistic. I've definately experienced rejection, actually quite a lot for a girl tbh. I'm not everyone's type, my personality isn't for everyone and not everyone is for me. Don't idolize women or completely disrespect them. We're humans and some of us are cool and some of us suck. And it's not the person who rejects you's fault they don't like you. It's your problem, because YOU are the one who wants something from THEM. If I held a grudge against everyone who rejected me, I'd be a bitter ass person. Ho
@ExeErdna
@ExeErdna 4 жыл бұрын
Both men and women when they get rejected and or betrayed in a relationship some become REALLY bitter. Even with improvements, they get pissed the moment it is recognized. Like a hypothetical "I got out of debt and I still get curved" It's really hard for some people to change, I simply walked away from the game because the effort wasn't worth the results I was never happy.
@FryedPidgey
@FryedPidgey 4 жыл бұрын
Miss Hisoka Paints I agree with you to a point. I think it’s more complicated than it’s just a you problem. Some people with the worst luck in dating have great personalities but that doesn’t guarantee you’ll secure someone. Sometimes it is the person who rejects you’s fault. They might not be able to appreciate something good when they see it or have their own issues that they project onto you.
@ange6950
@ange6950 4 жыл бұрын
red dead Most people don’t have skin cancer or dwarfism. Most people are average and 75% of people are average or above average. Yet, there are SO many bitter men in this comment section that are bitching about their dating life. And sorry to say but I can tell why they are having issues strictly based on their messages. You can’t disrespect women and then think they are going to want to be with you. It makes no sense. And all those guys believing the “red pill” will just attract low self-esteem women, because no decent women will put up with that kind of treatment.
@ange6950
@ange6950 4 жыл бұрын
red dead If most women didn’t find most men attractive, the human race wouldn’t survive.
@misshisokapaints109
@misshisokapaints109 4 жыл бұрын
@@ExeErdna I'm sad to hear that. I get bitter for like a few weeks then I get over it. It's that person not everyone on earth. Keep trying if that's what you want. But if it isn't and you're fine with giving up, okay cool🤷🏾‍♀️
@TurlyYours
@TurlyYours 3 жыл бұрын
She is telling the truth! I was raised by a single parent and we have those talks about what happened that led her to being a single parent. At first her and my father were married and divorced shortly after. I ask both of them because it took two to start and it took two to finish. My mom had it rough, as all single parents do. She fussed at me, she took out some anger on me but she never trash talked my dad. As a teen and young adult I asked my mom often "why?" and told her I will never be a single parent. I dont want kids. Its hard, I'm grown and still call my mom and ask how to do certain things! So I can only imagine having a kid for LIFE! You're a parent for life! It takes a very strong person to be a single parent. There were times she cried, she didn't know I heard her. I saw how she had to sacrifice what she wanted to do for the better of her children. She did a great job in showing me how strong one person can be but she also never denied that it can be easier with two parents. So for me and my uterus we won't be having any babies anytime soon.
@1994rhysw
@1994rhysw 4 жыл бұрын
I've just recently deleted online dating as I've found it so frustrating to be constantly talking to timewasters, a lot of women are on there for you to stroke their ego's, anyone thinking of online dating, give it a try, but never pay for it, maybe you'll have more luck than I did, but beware, there are alot of women who will want to use you
@Cahluvca
@Cahluvca 4 жыл бұрын
Timewaster are in huge numbers
@jft2nd
@jft2nd 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly man they just want to make themselves feel good they don't expect to meet their soul mates on there.
@DJUniMekaju
@DJUniMekaju 4 жыл бұрын
And a lot of guys are on there cuz they want you to stroke their heads. 😂
@1994rhysw
@1994rhysw 4 жыл бұрын
@@DJUniMekaju 😂😂😂
@aqmohra4
@aqmohra4 4 жыл бұрын
"I want a six foot tall guy with a six figure salary and minimum six inch pen1s but I'm only a 5/10 myself" - literally every woman on tinder
@BIGHEN95
@BIGHEN95 4 жыл бұрын
Girls be having 2 or 3 kids and have the highest standards but the prettier girl I match with got lower standards and be chill af
@Johan87577
@Johan87577 4 жыл бұрын
Hard nope on all these ladies from me
@Johan87577
@Johan87577 4 жыл бұрын
And I’m 6 foot and make a good living. I don’t want to date someone who only want my money and height 😂
@michaelangst6078
@michaelangst6078 4 жыл бұрын
not true, but I have had to accept only being in open relationships with good looking women. To expect a hot woman these days to be faithful to you, unless you're basically having the relationship be a business transaction, is becoming a fairy tale if you're meeting them through a dating app.
@olyviermonteau4300
@olyviermonteau4300 4 жыл бұрын
@@michaelangst6078 it mostly is true.
@bashwill236
@bashwill236 4 жыл бұрын
“Some times your type is the reason why your alone “ wooosh “rann dil “ 🇭🇹 lol
@yvetischo
@yvetischo 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I felt that
@fredaamour4121
@fredaamour4121 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 bien sûre.
@treffle17
@treffle17 4 жыл бұрын
I scrolled down just to find this comment 🤣
@pretzelcrungelchappiput3027
@pretzelcrungelchappiput3027 4 жыл бұрын
@@username113 exactly i don't why people always associate with personality or traits with a certain gender or race.
@missjenliz
@missjenliz 3 жыл бұрын
I read somewhere once that the reason the grocery store Trader Joes (USA) is so successful was from the idea of the paradox of choice. The company uses primarily their own brand with limited options of each item and that's what makes them so successful. The buyer is less overwhelmed with the amount of choice provided. It's one of the most crowded groceries in my area so I believe it lol
@jrbionic404
@jrbionic404 4 жыл бұрын
The Long Boarder seems to give everything a lot of thought and has perfect points on the subjects everytime. Great call Aba and Preach on how he takes his time to speak clearly and not stumble.
@rowni
@rowni 4 жыл бұрын
Of course jubilee is gonna be nicer in the editing with their own. Plus they most likely all know each other.
@blacklanner5795
@blacklanner5795 4 жыл бұрын
To the other guys: The perfect woman for you DOES exist but, I married her first.
@johnnyrayh5858
@johnnyrayh5858 4 жыл бұрын
Black Lanner I hope you get some after you show her this lol
@truebut3243
@truebut3243 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao that means she cheating on you
@SunshyneA
@SunshyneA 4 жыл бұрын
Awwww you gone get some.😂😂
@CashCatMoney
@CashCatMoney 4 жыл бұрын
Oooh someone wants to have a good day!
@inkheart01
@inkheart01 4 жыл бұрын
lol
@faismasterx
@faismasterx 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are forgetting someone: the ones who are born.... "genetically unfortunate." They're going to die alone too, but through no fault of their own.
@notursavior1861
@notursavior1861 3 жыл бұрын
not only that, but those unfortunate souls will be socially awkward. People generally have a natural disdain for them. For example, an ugly can say hi to a random pretty girl, and she can be like "eww, creep!" A simple "hi". Maaaaaaaaaaannn..... not even a "hi," how about just a smile??
@UnknownNev
@UnknownNev 3 жыл бұрын
Described me perfectly. Genetically unfortunate! 😂
@AghomiXfit
@AghomiXfit 3 жыл бұрын
@@UnknownNev how tall are you
@UnknownNev
@UnknownNev 3 жыл бұрын
@@AghomiXfit 5’11” but butt ass ugly
@AghomiXfit
@AghomiXfit 3 жыл бұрын
@@UnknownNev what’s your insta
@Jade_Almond
@Jade_Almond 4 жыл бұрын
"There's some of y'all that are going to stay lonely forever" damn I felt that and it's true. Not everyone will find a partner and I really hate when people that there is.
@YOURFAVORITEDOOMGUY
@YOURFAVORITEDOOMGUY 4 жыл бұрын
The issue with me if you have high standards for yourself and bio is gucci with me you'll get a like from me But I see through your pictures it's not like your bio nothing adding up I'll pass
@Jade_Almond
@Jade_Almond 4 жыл бұрын
Q Lock what do you mean by that? I've never heard that before or ever.
@Jade_Almond
@Jade_Almond 4 жыл бұрын
Q Lock It's not about being lazy I asked a simple question, because you mentioned something and I expected you to answer it without the attitude but yet I'm the lazy one. So I'll make the assumption that this "80/20 rule" isn't a thing since you can't provide an explanation on it.
@Jade_Almond
@Jade_Almond 4 жыл бұрын
afrodamus ah okay I see. Thank you for being kind enough to provide an answer to the question asked and giving insight to the matter. I appreciate that.
@Jade_Almond
@Jade_Almond 4 жыл бұрын
afrodamus need more people like you in the world. You stay safe out here good friend. 🤙🏾🤙🏾
@yourstrulyeuphoria5130
@yourstrulyeuphoria5130 4 жыл бұрын
Around 16 minutes preach attacked me personally and I actually needed to be told off like that, oof.
@manjitkapri1816
@manjitkapri1816 4 жыл бұрын
Well it's simpler to fix it than you think. Be open-minded, less shallow, question your decisions and try to become a better person.
@truestdude
@truestdude 4 жыл бұрын
@@manjitkapri1816 👍💯
@HiddenOcelot
@HiddenOcelot 4 жыл бұрын
@@manjitkapri1816 I've done my best to do that, but I can't really get rid of liking cute things. I think the girl I have now is adorable u wu, but she also wants to live her life her way, and I love it. You don't need to get rid of being shallow, but learn to love people for who they are.
@borussiagermania7428
@borussiagermania7428 4 жыл бұрын
HiddenOcelot I bet she controls you
@HiddenOcelot
@HiddenOcelot 4 жыл бұрын
@@borussiagermania7428 I make sure I'm looking out for my best interests, I still chase my dreams, j still play games and keep my mental health well, I still do what I want to do. We support each other.
@matmacquarrie8566
@matmacquarrie8566 4 жыл бұрын
15:40 - "No. I don't think there's someone for everyone. Some of you - are gonna stay lonely, forever" Delivered while wearing a tshirt with "Positive Mind" on it 😂 I love this channel
@blkbrdmntrvimes6438
@blkbrdmntrvimes6438 4 жыл бұрын
You have to admit it was said pretty damn positively
@vickyoli
@vickyoli 3 жыл бұрын
I was in Chile, my husband a syrian man living in NY. We have been together 7 years, 4 married :) Online does connect your best friend/partner that probably is hidden somewhere in the world.
@franciscolaurean8550
@franciscolaurean8550 4 жыл бұрын
I wonder if that stoner dude talks normaly if he drinks 5 cups of coffee
@Blessed4infinity
@Blessed4infinity 4 жыл бұрын
He would be dead
@miac2382
@miac2382 4 жыл бұрын
lol
@miac2382
@miac2382 4 жыл бұрын
I thought he was going to fall asleep
@honeylemon2372
@honeylemon2372 4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂
@honeylemon2372
@honeylemon2372 4 жыл бұрын
Mia C 🤣
@thisakwardguy
@thisakwardguy 4 жыл бұрын
That one person that dislikes the video: “I was in this.”
@knowledgeiskey1319
@knowledgeiskey1319 4 жыл бұрын
when i want someone to make up their mind on where to eat i say *"GuEsS wHeRe We ArE gOiNg tO EaT tOnIgHt!?"* _and we go to their first guess._
@Chely0321
@Chely0321 3 жыл бұрын
That question was asked to me and I just responded “where?”
@knowledgeiskey1319
@knowledgeiskey1319 3 жыл бұрын
@@Chely0321 u say, "noo,,, u have to guess! Im not gonna tell you hehe"
@Oll_704
@Oll_704 3 жыл бұрын
@@knowledgeiskey1319 petty 🤣
@knowledgeiskey1319
@knowledgeiskey1319 3 жыл бұрын
@@Oll_704 u read it wrong
@vegetin01
@vegetin01 3 жыл бұрын
I read this somewhere a long time ago and it works like magic. I’ve even told her I was doing it at some point and it still works.
@brittanycasto6829
@brittanycasto6829 4 жыл бұрын
As someone with severe social anxiety I find it easier to be myself online than in real life...
@jackreidasaboboras3654
@jackreidasaboboras3654 3 жыл бұрын
Your little baby is beautiful!!! She seems to be very sweet too.
@latt.qcd9221
@latt.qcd9221 4 жыл бұрын
Ironic that she brings up the OkCupid study on race, but then conveniently forgets to mention that OkCupid also put out a study on preferences and found that women rated 80% of men as less than average.
@Helterskelta
@Helterskelta 4 жыл бұрын
that's pretty much the checkmate in regards to online dating for men. Women with an inflated self-worth. Unless you are a top 10% guy, good luck..
@itstriplem2069
@itstriplem2069 4 жыл бұрын
90/10 and 80/20 rule
@ApesAmongUs
@ApesAmongUs 4 жыл бұрын
Don't forget that men rated women on a nearly perfect bell curve. They even felt the need to explain that they had not normalized the male ratings.
@UnitedPacci
@UnitedPacci 4 жыл бұрын
They like to bring one statistic that fits their narrative. They do not talk about the entire story. Women saying they struggle online dating I'm not even going to take serious.
@yugfus
@yugfus 4 жыл бұрын
She didn't mention that because she was talking about race. Why would she talk about women rating most men as below average when she's talking about racism?
@Destiny-lt3eo
@Destiny-lt3eo 4 жыл бұрын
I met my fiancé online ☺️ been dating for 3 years getting married in August
@Mysteryofmines
@Mysteryofmines 4 жыл бұрын
Good for y’all sweet heart ❤️
@mack6up
@mack6up 4 жыл бұрын
White guy?
@Destiny-lt3eo
@Destiny-lt3eo 4 жыл бұрын
Mack Giles he's black
@justdoit.86yearsago
@justdoit.86yearsago 4 жыл бұрын
Which app did you use?
@Destiny-lt3eo
@Destiny-lt3eo 4 жыл бұрын
Justine POF
@macktheripper7454
@macktheripper7454 4 жыл бұрын
She’s a holistic healer. Break out the crystals and chanting guys
@bangarang3810
@bangarang3810 4 жыл бұрын
Time to wash the stones
@doms.6701
@doms.6701 4 жыл бұрын
@@chicoandthem4n holistic healers are similar to homeopaths. Both are based on bunk science
@jazzbelly3589
@jazzbelly3589 4 жыл бұрын
@@doms.6701 herbal medicine is not bunk science... believing crystals/rocks have mystical powers is definitely bunk science.
@aronramirez9352
@aronramirez9352 4 жыл бұрын
That's the same thing as a Jedi
@aj3706
@aj3706 4 жыл бұрын
@@chicoandthem4n We aren't taught to be delusional so am happy that I didn't turn out to be someone like you. You and Karen would make a great team.
@anna820x6
@anna820x6 3 жыл бұрын
As a pretty attractive female, I have to say to the statement "online dating makes it harder to commit to one person" that it depends on the person. I have had 2 relationships, one previous and one I m currently in both long distance and both I've met through the internet. Even though I have many options and there were many dudes hitting on me, I could choose and stay faithful. I just feel like online dating enables the behavior of people who already have trouble committing in the first place because it makes it easier.
@sh00kah
@sh00kah Жыл бұрын
Perfectly put.
@ates423
@ates423 4 жыл бұрын
I’m really happy that my first ever relationship happened through the natural events of life rather than using the online world. I don’t know what my life would’ve been like otherwise
@abundance1232
@abundance1232 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that you have to bleep out “sex” is mad WILD!!🤨
@samlsd9711
@samlsd9711 4 жыл бұрын
KZbin is becoming Saudi Arabia now 🤣😭😂🤣😭😂
@drgarad
@drgarad 4 жыл бұрын
@@samlsd9711 which is a good thing.
@Percido
@Percido 4 жыл бұрын
KURULUS OSMAN English Subtitles Kappa
@gj9157
@gj9157 4 жыл бұрын
@@drgarad ok BOOMER
@TheJbh147
@TheJbh147 4 жыл бұрын
@@drgarad censorship is an objectively bad thing because of the power dynamic and the subsequent oppression of the subjective "bad" content
@jrbionic404
@jrbionic404 4 жыл бұрын
I hope this makes someone feel better: I am a light skin black man with long dreads and I'm like big muscles type ripped and called a "pretty boy" at times and now a model. I have trouble getting matches too. Side note I'm also well educated. Dating apps are fun but still kinda blah for most men I think and probably women too, I wouldn't know their perceptions of their experience. I know we as men are used to significantly less matches and responses than they are. 🤷🏽‍♂️ Hope this helps someone feel better about their lack of matches too. 💛 Edit: I used to be obese at risk of diabetes. I was only hoping to convey that you're not alone whoever you are and dating apps are hit or miss regardless coming from my experience. I described how I look now to give perspective. I posted 4 recent videos on my KZbin so you can politely assess how I look if you'd like. Some of you think I was lying. 😊 Thanks to those who understood I meant this post to be a positive one. 💛
@justdoit.86yearsago
@justdoit.86yearsago 4 жыл бұрын
So are you single?
@Texastee73
@Texastee73 4 жыл бұрын
This is a sad, but shallow fact: Money can make anyone attractive.
@jrbionic404
@jrbionic404 4 жыл бұрын
@afrodamus Exactly what you said basically. Thank you for understanding I meant well.
@MyChannel-ul3tm
@MyChannel-ul3tm 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, you’d prob have a better shot on a black dating site bc the women are all looking for a black man. I know that all my friends who use the apps where you could filter race only put white and hispanic and so black, asian and middle eastern men don’t even show up.
@jrbionic404
@jrbionic404 4 жыл бұрын
@@MyChannel-ul3tm Never thought of that before. 🤔 Thank you for the idea.
@behabtwa
@behabtwa 4 жыл бұрын
i recently started a profile on a dating app. ITS EXHAUSTING!
4 жыл бұрын
Do you get a lot of "wyd" messages
@MRJDXTRA
@MRJDXTRA 4 жыл бұрын
"Dating/life is hard" "Do not pray for an easier life, pray to be a stronger man/woman
@theenchilada1525
@theenchilada1525 4 жыл бұрын
Dont even pray. Be a better man/woman.
@MRJDXTRA
@MRJDXTRA 4 жыл бұрын
@@theenchilada1525 to each their own
@toade1583
@toade1583 4 жыл бұрын
@@theenchilada1525 You can pray, but you also have to work towards it too, they go hand in hand.
@MRJDXTRA
@MRJDXTRA 3 жыл бұрын
@King why do you want a easier life
@MRJDXTRA
@MRJDXTRA 3 жыл бұрын
@King nothings wrong with a chilled life. The quote essentially is saying don't ask for struggles to get easier but ask for strength to conquer them. Plus i would say i hope you find fulfilment in your pursuit of computer science.
@amillercma
@amillercma 4 жыл бұрын
To hear Aba say he's always seen himself as unattractive is mind boggling to me, in my opinion he's a very attractive man. His personality is great and he can dance which makes him even more attractive, over all, in my honest opinion, he is extremely sexy.
@rogerx1258
@rogerx1258 4 жыл бұрын
He is simply talking about his physical appearance. He is about a 6 I would say. He doesn´t need someone to defend and support him on that front when he himself just sees it as just being real.
@SuperGorak
@SuperGorak 4 жыл бұрын
I am a hetero dude and I thought that the way he carries himself must be super fucking alluring
@chelsfromyoutube
@chelsfromyoutube 3 жыл бұрын
I think just going on looks, he's attractive, too. And remember that if it weren't a pandemic, he might look better bc maybe he'd be getting haircuts and a shapeup. Idk, but...he said in HIS opinion. But we all know he knows others feel differently bc they're all up in his dms.
@shaunyjimenez9637
@shaunyjimenez9637 3 жыл бұрын
I strongly agree, thing is he isn't the above average man
@MothGirl007
@MothGirl007 3 жыл бұрын
That really surprised me - I think he's very attractive.
@11Ash11
@11Ash11 4 жыл бұрын
"Sometimes your type is the reason you're alone" (mic drop Preach)
@11Ash11
@11Ash11 4 жыл бұрын
🖤🤔us ladies need to lead by example... right? 🙂 Show you gentlemen how we prefer to be treated. If we want ya'll to be self-aware...we need to show you how... by being accountable ourselves & not just telling you how you aren't "good enough"... Or do you disagree? 😘🖤
@11Ash11
@11Ash11 4 жыл бұрын
@Josip love it. Yes 🖤😘🖤
@11Ash11
@11Ash11 4 жыл бұрын
@Josip exactly. And bitterness doesn't give either sex the right to act like a used-up douche bag. You use people, you get used. You attract what you display. 🖤😉🖤 Don't want a gold digger (male or female) ? Stop acting shallow af. 💋😎
@11Ash11
@11Ash11 4 жыл бұрын
@Josip I don't have that problem. All my exes have been varied and I usually leave them better than I found them... Build up the ones I love. 😉 I love men and I have found that as I evolve and grow, so do the types of men that approach me. That's why I said... Like attracts like... If your type isn't changing... That's on you and your self-growth. Yeah, some sick sharks will circle pray that isn't suitable for them... But that should not be the majority of the ones you encounter. If all you're getting are sick sharks... You need to take a moment to self-reflect & adjust yourself before getting back out there. If you don't... It's on you. You know what I mean? I think that's fair to say for men and women. If, ladies & gentlemen, you are attracting a particular shitty type... And you don't like it... The change must come from within. Change your own shit first. Just sayn... We all are part of the problem here ... Not one sex over the other. 🖤😘🖤
@11Ash11
@11Ash11 4 жыл бұрын
@afrodamus some people take kindness as weakness. I've been on the receiving end of it myself more than once... So I feel your pain. But if it turns folks like us cold.... Those shallow feckin arse holes win. We just have to get better at spotting them and showing them the door faster... And get better at allowing healthier folks in when they do come knocking... You know that sort of way? I think men are equally guilty of setting expectations just a bit too unrealistic as well... Most folks these days are seeming a bit guilty of wanting more for doing less. 🖤
@gregkiepal7682
@gregkiepal7682 3 жыл бұрын
"some times your type is the reason your alone" 15:50, damn that was straight up a truth nuke!
@justdonny5201
@justdonny5201 4 жыл бұрын
The black guy has the closest type of hair The mc of cowboy bebop has
@kfrank9455
@kfrank9455 4 жыл бұрын
Mugen
@amilcarballantyne
@amilcarballantyne 4 жыл бұрын
@@kfrank9455 that's samurai champloo, he's talking about Spike
@warlord0331
@warlord0331 4 жыл бұрын
@@kfrank9455 bruh 🤦🏾‍♂️ smh
@sadesemolu
@sadesemolu 4 жыл бұрын
I'm really trying to figure out how to get my hair to look like that.
@prod.kidmizu
@prod.kidmizu 4 жыл бұрын
@@sadesemolu I have locs and I think he has a fade, with his locs twisted together. Then pushed up from the back.
@Disgruntled_Canadian
@Disgruntled_Canadian 4 жыл бұрын
I met my husband on “plenty of fish” 15 years ago. We’re now married with two children.
@desmondgraham650
@desmondgraham650 4 жыл бұрын
Stop bragging, lol
@Disgruntled_Canadian
@Disgruntled_Canadian 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I don’t know what those apps are like, but in the old days it was a little different I guess. I honestly didn’t take it seriously at first but then I ended up liking him....and now here we are 😂 I never had luck with meeting people at clubs/bars. Those guys always came across as drunk and sleazy. I had relationships from school (first husband didn’t end up working out), then meeting people at work always got awkward when co workers would find, or things ended. So I figured why not give online a try! It does work for some people. We also have friends who met on eharmony and are married with a child.
@shooklizard9039
@shooklizard9039 4 жыл бұрын
Thats the app I am on the men there are soo sweet honestly good quality compared to other dating apps
@shooklizard9039
@shooklizard9039 4 жыл бұрын
@@Disgruntled_Canadian thats actually so cute and gives me hope..wish you and your husband all the best xx
@aj6365
@aj6365 4 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize how old Iam till now lol 15 years ago I was 20 , still single no kids
@foosdontcry
@foosdontcry 4 жыл бұрын
"for shy people that are attractive" that's me gang gang
@davidp4270
@davidp4270 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah that used to be me then one day it just clicked an I stopped getting in my own way
@spiritkin5159
@spiritkin5159 3 жыл бұрын
ngl that’s me too & hearing that was like a lil slap in the face to just stop getting in my own way
@genty-c01
@genty-c01 3 жыл бұрын
the shy and unattractive continue their lives in solitude
@lizzieallen1927
@lizzieallen1927 3 жыл бұрын
That choice thing was actually done in a study where they had two groups of people choose ice cream from only vanilla chocolate and strawberry and the other group choose from a line up and the first group ended up being more content with their choice and the group that had a lot of options had a higher chance of feeling dissatisfied with their choice
@urgandma
@urgandma 4 жыл бұрын
This is a long winded video that basically boils down to "do it if you're hot, struggle if you're not."
@Ash_Wen-li
@Ash_Wen-li 4 жыл бұрын
@Inebriatd It doesn't mean you'll be automatically successful if you're attractive. But if you're average looking then your chances are much much lower.
@aaronhunter9337
@aaronhunter9337 4 жыл бұрын
Yep, you're right
@RevolutionCPT
@RevolutionCPT 4 жыл бұрын
@Inebriatd Dating is the gambling that we all deal with. If you have more resources, you can play the game longer and have opportunity for success. For regular casino gambling, that would be your own money, house money, and a line of credit. For dating, for men those resources are your physical appearance, your status, your job, your humor, and your future prospects. Likewise for women, since the only thing man can 'obtain' is physical appearance or sex, those women who don't have those resources have a harder time. Short version of this... ok, you're hot. That just gets you into the game. What are you doing to win?
@Ash_Wen-li
@Ash_Wen-li 4 жыл бұрын
@Inebriatd I disagree completely. But in this topic I was strictly referring to online dating just to be clear
@conradkorbol
@conradkorbol 4 жыл бұрын
Inebriatd you must not be as attractive as you think you are lol.
@minimumwagesink5956
@minimumwagesink5956 4 жыл бұрын
Photos are everything with online dating. Used to almost have a hobby of helping guys upgrade their profiles. And by photos, I don't mean you have to be "hot". Pay attention to lighting, smile, dress in a way that flatters you. People are attracted to different things and types, but most appreciate some level of effort.
@Ambitiousgirl22
@Ambitiousgirl22 4 жыл бұрын
Bingo..I hate bathroom pics..pictures where they may appear unkempt..just no care in the world. Thanks for helping them.
@minimumwagesink5956
@minimumwagesink5956 4 жыл бұрын
@BASIL!!!!! The pumpin' Seagull I wouldn't recommend manipulating the photos beyond good lighting and a flattering expression/angle. The truth will come out once they meet you.
@datstovey
@datstovey 3 жыл бұрын
You actually have to be hot on dating sites, men have a harder time finding a woman, women don't even have to try and get countless options
@minimumwagesink5956
@minimumwagesink5956 3 жыл бұрын
@@datstovey I think there's a social expectation for men to be the ones pursuing, so yes women tend to get a lot more messages than men do. But also on average women put more effort into their photos. However, women consider different things "hot". I'm turned off by ab pics, tattoos and really tall guys, but love geek references and a clean shaven face. Other girls love the things that turn me off, and are turned off by things I like. So best to just present yourself as well as you can.
@datstovey
@datstovey 3 жыл бұрын
@@minimumwagesink5956 even when I present myself the best way that I can, I still don't get any responses from women, I read an article about online dating apps, an average looking man will have to send 110 messages to get 1 reply back, a lot of women have unrealistic expectations on dating apps
@mr.synrayne2339
@mr.synrayne2339 4 жыл бұрын
I think having so many options and flicking through so many can be tiring. I find it easier to meet people while out & about. These apps work for some and not the majority as well.
@DSan-kl2yc
@DSan-kl2yc 4 жыл бұрын
I've never tried them but I've heard people say that. And I think people using it like that are just wrong. Even tinder or OkCupid said it abetter to focus it down to four people. I think people need to be on mission. And not trying to meet everyone.
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