Declutter & Pack Our Master Bedroom - Overcoming Anxiety in Chaos

[@MySemiSortedLife]

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[@itsabeyonceseance]

I recently stumbled upon your page and am really enjoying how you relatable you are. It is refreshing to see what it looks like to declutter/pack a real, lived-in house! Thank you for also having open dialogue about dealing with mental health issues during the moving process. Moving is stressful in the best of circumstances, so I can't imagine how much stress you are feeling right now with uncertainty about future housing and timelines! You look like you are doing a great job of trying to get stuff done while also giving yourself grace. Decision fatigue is so real and I think you did a great job of putting your challenging decisions aside and moving on to the next task. Rooting for you from the Pacific Northwest, USA!

[@rachalnocchi5600]

9 boxes!!! That is 9 more boxes done and dusted than you had before! You are doing it Mel, bit by bit. ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank-you.... I know you're right. x

[@LittleLinz]

I agree. Progress over perfection.

[@SammieOranges]

I spent some extra minutes last nite catching up. I dealt with this in 2022, family of 6 with 2 large dogs and cat, soon after losing my dad and brother and was homeless for a few days but a friend of a friend had a newly vacated property and it worked out. Still trying to save, get debt free and declutter. You are not alone Mel. 🧡

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Oh wow - that's an almost identical experience to us - I'm soooo sorry for your losses and that stess you had in the middle. I can only imagine. thank-you for sharing and giving me hope. I really appreciate that. I hope things are better for you now. x

[@annecoyle5811]

So sorry for your loss sweetheart,hopefully the future is a lot brighter for you and your family ❤

[@ayela562]

So much love and strength to you. Thank you for leaving that anxiety portion in. I can relate so much and I think you are probably helping more people than you know by sharing your vulnerability. I’m so glad I found your channel and I’m cheering you on.

[@healing_homestead43739]

I have anxiety too and it can get in the way so easily. I totally get it but you did a fantastic job getting stuff done! Thank you for motivating me

[@andeebee2530]

Hi, new sub here from Briz. We have had to move so many times and it is such a huge mission. Over the years, I have slowly managed to release more and more things and have found that the less we have, the less stress and anxiety I have. It is not an easy path as you so honestly shared with us. I’m here cheering you on. Remember that for every single thing you let go, you will never have to pack it, store it, clean it or organise it ever again.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Hi, new sub from Briz! Your comment means a lot to me. It's always encouraging to hear that my experiences resonate with others. I'm grateful for your support and I hope to continue sharing helpful tips and insights with you. Remember, you're not alone on this journey!

[@TheVideoGamesHistorian]

Thanks to you for giving me the motivation to start my bedroom declutter . I have got rid of six bags of books , some clothing and a bag of random stuff for the charity oh and stuff that was waiting to go , My paperwork is next then more clothing . It shows how your helping clutter hounds like me who hang on to crap until it piles up . Keep going your a star ,x

[@MySemiSortedLife]

That's amazing to hear! I'm so glad I could provide you with the motivation to declutter your bedroom. Keep up the great work and keep me updated on your progress!

[@Zia_Kristin]

I’m so glad that you includdd the footage of you struggling through! So vulnerable! It made me wish that I was there to hug you and help you! You are a strong mother doing what is best for herself and her family! Sending so much love and positivity! ❤️

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Your comment made my day! It's always a bit nerve-wracking to show the vulnerable side of myself, but your words of encouragement make it all worth it. Thank you for being part of my KZbin family!

[@davevivenzio7633]

❤️🙏 Mel, I have watching you since Jonah was a baby. You can do this! You are strong and resilient ! Believe in yourself. “ This too shall pass”.

[@samanthabaines3578]

Oh Mel, im so sorry that things are back up in the air with the new home xx

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks Sam... it will be ok - but yeah - it's driving me a little bit nutty.

[@Chrisplainjane]

I feel you! I suggest instead of focusing on letting go. Pack the things you want. Ignore the fact you are in limbo. Pack your house with the things you love & want. What is left - toss, donate whatever you need! I also suggest with your husbands pile grab a box from Bunnings like a plastic box let him live out of that instead of the floor space. It is coming along! You are doing great ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Haha - there is actually a tub under the pile. lol. I will sort it out for him when I sort the rest of the bedroom - he's on holidays from work right now so happy enough with it - but before he goes back I'll make sure his uniforms at least are tidier. Poor fella. lol. Also - great tip on how to flip the narrative on "decluttering". I really like that. Thinking about what I really want... not what I'm going without.

[@melinarappestad9192]

🎉 You are doing great Mel! Thank you so much for being raw and honest about mental health ❤ I live in Sweden with my hubby, dog and pet rabbits. I've been on a long journey of decluttering and I am finally where I wish to be. I found out that there is a constant struggeling with emotions, shopping and keeping up but it has been worth it. Thank you for keeping me inspired 🥰

[@caramoonlynn]

Yay! I'll do laundry during the Mel musical break.

[@dan8279]

Being in limbo is the worst feeling, absolutely awful for you 😔 You’re doing the only thing you can at the moment and that is focusing on your decluttering and packing. It’s upsetting watching you struggle but so relatable, the weight of everything at the moment must be really heavy. Well done on the 9 boxes 💪🏻🙌🏻

[@marshabrubaker185]

Been there, done that & survived. Cheering you on, Mel, and praying for best outcome for you & your family.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

You more than survived - you've persevered and ultimately thrived. You've been through sooo much and all the while cheered me on. I'm so grateful to you. x

[@marshabrubaker185]

@@MySemiSortedLife Thanks, Mel. Now that I am in a better place, I'm happy to cheer you on as you & your family go through this transitional period.

[@babsbybend]

Thank you for sharing. I cleaned and mopped my kitchen during this. Need to tackle the dining room table! But doing the desk next. Good luck with your move!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for sharing your progress! It's great to know that our video is helping you stay motivated. Keep up the good work!

[@sunee2day2]

Mel, I want to let you know you have done awesome! You are an inspiration. Much of what you are describing tells me I am not the only one to struggle. Thank you!!

[@sharonwengler3225]

Touching every item you own and having to make a decision on keep or go is exhausting! You should be proud of the pile of things you have been able to let go off!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank-you - I hadn't acknowledged that to be honest... I will try to be more self compassionate #goals.

[@karenturner7983]

❤️ Thanks for keeping it real. I suffer from panic attacks that have landed me in the emergency room. I heart goes out to you. Hang in there. Moving is tough, but you've got this dear friend. Lots of love from Ohio. I can't listen to the music that bounces from ear to ear. It makes me feel really sick.

[@thebubblystuffer]

Here watching. Vicky’s plans sent me. 😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Ooohhh - thanks so much. Vicky is simply wonderful - no doubt her subs are too. x

[@jenniferandpauljones6998]

We are moving in a few months too. I am so overwhelmed by all the decisions I have to make. I have a lot of anxiety too! Thank you for being authentic. It's incredibly encouraging to know that I’m not the only one. You are so brave for facing the hard and sharing it! You rock, Mel!

[@margaretsofocleous1999]

Mel after watching the whole video you did an amazing job getting 9 boxes packed and getting all that stuff sorted and decluttered. To see your bed cleared of everything was fantastic. I am so proud of you my friend. I really mean that .I would love to be able to give you a hand in packing. We live so far apart so I can't actually hug you in person but I hoped it helps to know you have people who love you. I genuinely think you and I would have been good friends if we'd lived closer because I know that when you can be great fun when you have time to relax. You are kind generous in spirit and caring and this is what I love about you. This crisis will pass. Be brave . Don't let it destroy you. Actually all the physical action of packing is going to help as you have a purpose. If you had nothing to do but sit and worry it would be much worse. As you pack keep telling yourself positive thoughts such as oh I really like this .I am definitely keeping this and label the box for example clothes I really like. Or give the box a star rating. At least when you move you will know where your liked things are. My favourite emojis are 🎉 and ❤. You are doing this Mel xxxxx Margaret in Cyprus

[@Joy-zp5lv]

I´m new to your channelland I´m so sorry that you are feeling so stressed. I was in that situation about 12 years ago as a single mom of 3. I found a job 200 km away from where I was but no apartment to move in. So I get how you are feeling. BUT I can ensure you: You will be ok! Love from Germany 💕

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your kind words and understanding! It's always comforting to know that others have been through similar situations and come out okay. Your support means a lot to me. Sending love from Australia!

[@heike3790]

Take a deep dive in taking care of you may god send you a home but you got this it is hard but soon you will see progress and give yourself grace praying for you and your family blessings from heike in germany

[@tracyc160]

Mel you are doing so great. You have come so far from when I first started watching. You are definitely one in a million. No matter how much your going through yourself,you try so hard to uplift someone else through whatever they are going through. Takes a special person to do that. Wishing you and your family nothing but the very best! I know you will do it! I don’t really have a favorite one but I’ll go with this…❤

[@kylieryan3523]

Thankyou so much for all the effort to bring us along on your journey. It must be very challenging to manage uploads with all that is going on. I am cheering you on! From Far North Queensland

[@GoingGreenMom]

Big hugs Mel! You are doing a great job!

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much!

[@theresahanson-rf4id]

I believe you are inspiring You said our declutter muscle will get stronger so I know as I start I may not be de cluttering all that I should but I’ll get there after practice

[@dianehager8240]

Good JOB! What you don't get decorated now you can do laster.

[@lisaschreiber2893]

sending you hugs and support during this frightful time ❤

[@TheJoyNinjaNZ]

🌈 so I'm binge watching your content - I feel that anxiety just watching you. I'm relatively new to binaural beats, but I do love them - shakti mat is also serving me well

[@rhondamartin1251]

Mel, you were just being real, and I thank you for that. I suffer from depression and anxiety. Don't feel you're alone we are here with you. Just take your time. Things will work out.❤😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks so much Rhonda - I'm sorry you live with anxiety and depression too. Huge hugs. x

[@rhondamartin1251]

@MySemiSortedLife Your so very welcome. Mel, when you are feeling anxiety or depression go outside to get some fresh air. Some easy listening music can help. Do some things that are relaxing that you like to do.

[@moniquef4737]

You’re doing so well Mel ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I couldn't do it without you. x

[@moniquef4737]

@@MySemiSortedLife always have your back ❤️❤️

[@susanbergh7764]

Its OK❤️,you are only real❤️,still sending love, healing and prayers🥰🥰 ❤️❤️💜💜

[@FrugalFunMum]

🤣 yes LOL is my favourite! Good job decluttering little at a time you will get there!

[@Dee-iw6up]

Dear Mel, keeping everything crossed the gentleman finds his rental. And you are doing a magnificent job. 💌💐

[@annecoyle5811]

Oh Mel.. I feel for you. We sold our house and moved into a tin,tiny home as we could no longer afford to stay where we were. It costs more to heat but we save on a lot of other amenities. At least being elders we don’t have children to think about,which is a blessing. Had to get rid of millions of stuff. But hey it helped me with my anxiety and depression and also my hoarding as I just didn’t have the space to house it all. So every thing that’s a worry has a good side also. You and your family are strong enough to handle this. Keep smiling sunshine ☀️. You can do this ❤x

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Oh I completely agree - it's all about perspective. I'm working on turning my catastrophising thoughts around and I know in the long run it will be great... I just have to get through this part.x

[@annecoyle5811]

@@MySemiSortedLife You can do this honey. ☀️🌞🦋x

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks so much. x

[@Boiandabike]

Have you looked into putting weather stripping around all your doors. It can lower your heating costs.

[@annecoyle5811]

@@Boiandabike Yes I’ve done that around the windows too Thanks

[@carolynharris8522]

I’m sorry you going through this .i just did this it’s hard but you are stronger than you think . You will be fine

[@PinguPango]

Mel!! I am so glad I found your channel again. I got unsubscribed somehow and I took a long break from watching KZbin and I missed you and your channel so much. I am so thankful you showed up in my recommended. You’re always so real, motivating and inspiring and I love joining along for your life’s adventure. Can’t wait to watch what I’ve missed and for many more future videos! ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

OMG, thank you so much for finding me again! KZbin can be so weird sometimes, but I'm glad you're back. Get ready for some epic catch-up sessions and lots of exciting videos in the future!

[@allyssaedwards1261]

Packing up life after being settled for so long is so hard. I had to do it in 2019. 16 years in the once house. It was our house that we first bought. We moved towns. Into a rental. That wasn’t anything like what we had. And so all our stuff lived in the shed. Then we had to move out as they wanted to sell. We were in the process of trying to purchase the house we are in. And so nicely the owners of this house let us rent it until the bank approvals came through. I was still so scared to unpack anything.

[@ClaireMooreSteel]

👍 for you but this is one of my faves 🤦‍♀️ because that is an accurate representation of my life. I just seem to have totally dappy days. Like saying hi to someone I thought I knew at work. I did not know him but gabbled away to fill the awkwardness!

[@maggytrafford3969]

Hello 👋 Mel! I felt sad seeing you like that and even had some tears . You kept it real and I respect you so much. Things always turn out in the end and I know you will get through this. Love always 🌷🌹🐶🐈

[@tashafmt5200]

Keep going, you got this! You definitely have a lot on your plate but use this time to let go of things you haven’t touched in years. You will feel lighter. 😊

[@margiebeeb2836]

You’ll get through this! Prayers for you❤😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I will. And thank-you! X

[@nataliesmith8827]

My fave emoji is 🤦🏻‍♀️ Well done Mel. Sorry this is all so overwhelmingly i just wanted to reach out and give you a big hug 🫂

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Yes! That's my fave emoji too - or at least its the one I find myself using the most. lol thanks for the hugs Nat - mean the world to me. x

[@ktm204]

Oh Mel! My heart feels for you ❤ I really hope you're able to find a suitable home soon, I can't even begin to imagine how you're feeling. I've been watching ever since Jonah was a toddler and have always admired your strength even when your anxiety is flaring. Sending all my love to you and your family right now ❤ xx

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Naw - thanks so much - to think Jonah will be 8 this year!? Not until October to be fair - he's barely 7 - but... jeepers time flies right? Thanks so much for your support. x

[@ktm204]

@MySemiSortedLife Time certainly does fly! Mine are 5 and 3 now! 🙈 I'm binge watching as much as I can in the hope that it helps! I forgot to add my favourite emoji in my comment- 🤷🏻‍♀️ I use this one a lot! Some more faves- ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿👀🥰🫣

[@MySemiSortedLife]

lol - the face palm one is used a lot in mine lol The binge watching does genuinely help - I can't even tell you how much that means to me. Thank-you.

[@ktm204]

@@MySemiSortedLife oh good! 🤗 I spent 2 hours the other day just watching whilst I tackled my massive ironing pile! 😬 x

[@MySemiSortedLife]

You must be well sick of me! hahah@@ktm204

[@clairevincent5263]

Love from France ❤ you're doing great

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your support all the way from France. It means a lot to me!

[@AprilShowers560]

Oh Mel, I shed a little tear whilst watching you struggle with a panic attack and horrible anxiety. I’m fortunate not to suffer anxiety but I know from close family members how debilitating it can be. I have to admit that I find your process of going through your clutter to be a little bit frustrating because I lean more towards minimalism and, rather than going through every single box and container and looking at every single item, I would just be inclined to throw the whole box out. If I don’t know what’s in it, I won’t miss it. But it takes all types of people to make this world turn and everyone needs to deal with things in their own way. You’re doing great, you are on your journey and you will arrive safely! Keep going, sweetie xxx

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I’m glad I didn’t do that to be honest. I found some really important things in there - My Nemo’s cremation certificate and foot print amongst it. As someone who is a “stacker” or “pile maker” I often mix unimportant with important. A habit I hope to break at some point.

[@AprilShowers560]

See….I wouldn’t keep the certificate. Nemo was a gorgeous cat. Your happy memories of him are contained in photos and videos and your head and heart. A cremation certificate is a sad memory. I lost my beautiful cat Beans last year, she was only 3 and it was so unfair. It broke my heart. Looking at evidence that she was cremated would not have helped with my grief at all. But as I said, everyone is different. What do you plan to do with the certificate?

[@MySemiSortedLife]

You're so right - it just didn't feel right to get rid of it - it had all the kids' names on it and says how loved he was by them - and it had his paw print on it.Keeping it is weird for sure... but... I did - so.... maybe next declutter.@@AprilShowers560

[@normataylor3124]

Mel so sorry about the house . Sending hugs and prayers and I'm playing my playlists every day hope it helps.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

It really truly does Norma!!!

[@chooleeng7761]

A gentle reminder. Remember to write ✍️ down what are the items in each box. Write ✍️ down. Number these boxes. To keep track all are boxes. Double Check are in order before moving to your new home. In your own handphone or write on a list.🧐 Is not easy. You are trying.🙂 Clothes and bigger items come first. Paperwork do last. Have to double check before you put away to throw. Get your children and hubby to help up. Good job👍

[@marioncerrone3456]

🌟🌟🌟 You are an amazing person Mel, give yourself grace to have a bad day, every day is a new start. Sending love and positivity to you and your family ❤❤❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Aw, you're making me blush! Thank you for the love and positivity. I'll try my best to give myself grace on those bad days, but no promises on resisting a good ice cream binge! 😄

[@Lanzafan1]

Hard to see you going through this Mel, can't believe the new house is no longer secure. I wish I could call round and lend a hand. Sending all my love and hugs 🤗🤗🤗

[@ellenstam-mulder3002]

you will come there step by step. i know where you are with your anxiety. i have it to now. but i am not moving now it is from other things. i hope that it will be gone when i am at school, and see the stuf in the books and so on. i hope that you have the anwsers very soon that you need. big hug Ellen

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks Ellen - I'm sure it will all be ok... I couldn't do it without your support though. x

[@ellenstam-mulder3002]

@@MySemiSortedLife you can do it without me you are strong

[@simple_life26]

Hi Mel, Rhonda from Michigan, USA. I'm praying and cheering you on . ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much, Rhonda! Your prayers and support mean the world to me. Sending love from across the pond!

[@kerrieford6110]

You got more done then you think😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks - in the thick of it it feels like very little and the more I do the more I still have left - but... hopefully progress is made.

[@saltandpepper9389]

I know what it’s like 😥 Hang in there, you can do it! Hugs ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your kind words and support! It means a lot to me. Hang in there too, and keep pushing forward. You've got this! Sending virtual hugs back to you!

[@katchathuff3287]

Progress...well done! 👍

[@lyzathompson9434]

Your doing so amazingly Mel. Keep on trucking. Do it your way! 🍷

[@marciapickens7444]

You did such a great job getting through your anxiety so you could keep working! My favorite 🤔

[@lisabee2314]

You did so well Mel, thanks for sharing such a private moment with us too. It might be hard right now but I believe you'll come out the other side ok ❤🙂

[@heathercreighton9613]

❤️just keep chugging along Mel. You will get there. You'll look back on all of this and be so proud of yourself once you're through the other side. My home is the messiest it's ever been, I'm also struggling, but in a different way. I'm going to pretend I'm moving...that's how much you've inspired me, so thanks for that. Take care, love from New Zealand 😊

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I think we're all battling some kind of storm - I'm sorry you're in the thick of it too. Right here with you cheering you on. Thanks so much for your support now apply the kindness and compassion you've shown me to yourself. You deserve that. Much love and hugs from your neighbour across the pond.

[@heathercreighton9613]

@@MySemiSortedLife Aw thanks, I got a bit teary just then. Onward and upward🤗

[@MySemiSortedLife]

We've got this!

[@TheVideoGamesHistorian]

Forgot its summer in Australia its freezing in the UK , Could you get a canopy and take all your stuff outside to de clutter that way you may get rid of more stuff as you wont want to take it back in ,lol . x

[@MySemiSortedLife]

lol - that's not a terrible idea! Will have to wait for a cooler day though - we've been average 37 degree celcius days (which for where I live is mega hot but not as hot as most places in my state).... but I just might do that....

[@lynneanthony168]

Oh Mel, I wish I could give you a hand, even just to make your lunch. You're doing a great job, remember, it's a process. Sending you massive hugs. x

[@juliesmith668]

Hi Sweetie, I'm so sorry this move is giving you so much anxiety, I am glad you have found ways to soothe those feelings, maybe you should play that music all the time while packing, it is great music. Thank you for sharing such a real moment, I too, suffer from anxiety but it's people who do it to me, and I seem to live in my head too often. Wish I could be there to help and support you. Sending you a big virtual hug your way. I hope you find out about the house soon, maybe once you know you have a permanent place to move to that will ease some of the stress. Will you be taking anytime off work for the move??? That may help also. Stay strong Mel, this time will pass.........😘

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Means the world to me that you're here supporting my journey - it helps more than you'll ever know. x I will take the week before we hand the keys back to this place off to ensure that the place is "clean enough"... and lets face it - I could get some great content out of it. lol May as well get some returns on this place. haha....

[@ThisHomeschoolingAdventure]

I'm watching while decluttering our storage closet.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Woot woot - you've got this. x

[@joycemarsh2743]

Still got my hopes up for you Mel and I’m keeping my fingers crossed ❤it will work out I’m sure ❤ Don’t worry about motivating us Mel we will motivate you ,you can do it we do what we have to when life happens and we get through it ❤️

[@margaretsofocleous1999]

Mel my heart goes out to you. 😢 I hate to see you going through so much pain. ❤ You will overcome this though. I thought the comment of packing the things you really want to keep first an excellent idea and keeping a small amount of clothes to get through these next few weeks . 🎉congratulations on what you have accomplished so far . The comment about packing ornaments was good too.❤❤❤❤❤

[@debobable]

❤ keep going Mel, you got this ❤

[@vicky_plans_budgets]

Thank you so very much for your shoutout hun, I keep it real just like you 💜🤗 Thank you for putting yourself out there for all of us, we all follow, watch and support you because we all can identify with you even if just a small part. I’ve always told you how much I love your realness. I know you will come through. Much love and support to you Mel 😘💜🤗

[@katietayler144]

I’ve been watching you both for years and here’s to the true blue Aussie mums 🥂 ❤

[@givemeaminute8566]

It will all work out ❤

[@mhaas5074]

wow you made so much progress!

[@Niniel-n1s]

You did good! It is what it is and that good. The thing i will say: don't do your paper now. Let it to the end or in the next house. Here why: paper is the hardest, longest and will take all of your energy. Focus on big categories and it will be easier for your decluter muscle. It is a very big task and usualy what you intend to do should take 1 to 2 years and you decide to do it in 3 week. Give yourself time to recover between your session because it's big job.

[@barbarap6851]

Thinking of you, Mel...❤ Totally understandable why you might have panic attacks right now. But you got back to it!! xo

[@harib088]

🦔 love the hedgehog emoji 😆

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Hahaha - I didn't even there was a hedghog emoji!! My new fave too. lol

[@rachelg785]

It always looks worse at this stage... so that means you are making good progress. You're getting there! 😁

[@MySemiSortedLife]

So true! Thanks Rach. x

[@katariinalazar4494]

☺💝👍 You did it great.

[@angid3953]

🎉 one of my most used emojis. Just keep on, keeping on. One foot one front of the other. The struggle is real my friend. Celebrate the little things…🎉 & ☮️

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I appreciate your support and encouragement! It means a lot to me. Sometimes it's easy to get caught up in the struggle, but it's important to remember to celebrate the small wins. Thank you for reminding me of that!

[@lesleyharris525]

Hi Mel, well done mate, hope you're feeling less stressed now, so I'm 2 days away from surgery and I'm a little bit scared to be honest, last year I nearly died in surgery and I have to go back 😢,but I can't live like this. I'm hoping that you will have good news soon and a happy new safe home to start the next chapter of life. We still have the chaos of moving to face, what do you reckon we could end up moving a few weeks post op 😂, but what will be will be, sending prayers and hugs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤, can you guess my favourite ❤

[@MR-rw3vc]

Another great job!😃🤗

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks again!

[@raymondmonaghan4112]

You poor thing hope you are feeling better soon just take one day at time all the best for your move love from Eugenie your friend xxx 🏡💤💔✨

[@bronwyn3568]

Yeah cold sores can be bad from stress and can flare up too, that doesn't help when already stressed and have anxiety, depression etc. I know what's it like ❤

[@LittleLinz]

Hi! Being in control of everything is a coping mechanism for my anxiety. When we were waiting to move and not knowing if/when it would happen, my anxiety was high. You seem to be going through the same. Perhaps try to focus on what u can control. Get a box ready. Go thru your home and pick a category of items rather than a box/a space to go through. In my case i started with ornaments and then photo frames. Go round the rooms in ur home wrapping them and boxing them up. This is an item u dont NEED day to day. And will give u a sense of accomplishment and that sense you’re in control. I then did scatter cushions, throws etc. i also made a box of the excess toiletries - i didnt seal this box though until the day we moved so for example i cud use the stuff in it once id finished or emptied a bottle of shampoo for instance. It means if u get a call saying u move tomorrow its already packed but ensures u can use it easily in the meantime if u need to. Xxx

[@TaniaKotej]

Well done!!💪💪💪

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks Tania - slow and steady. x

[@rw3mom849]

hugs

[@bronwyn3568]

One step at a time is all we can do. Something better than nothing.

[@SpongeAddict-gw6mo]

I went from three closets to half of a closet of clothes and I don’t miss a thing

[@teresaminick1169]

❤ not an emoji but here is a hug.

[@kerrieford6110]

You ad a lot to go through

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Yeah - I did really - so much more to go too..

[@Funtime39Richardd]

Love your cleaning vidd

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you!! 😊

[@janemercer4]

Keep going Mel it will all be worth it ❤️ my husband and I downsized a year ago and it was the hardest thing parting with stuff but I don’t miss it xxx

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! It's always reassuring to hear from someone who has gone through a similar experience and found it to be worth it in the end. I really appreciate your support!

[@extrememinimalism]

What about having an emotional attachment scale, to decide if something is worth keeping?

[@MySemiSortedLife]

This sounds sooo interesting. Is this something you do? Do you have an example? I did find a much larger box of "stuff" that will require that scale.

[@allyssaedwards1261]

Oh yeah. Almost three years later. We are still unpacking. I’m getting better at chucking

[@geraldinekerr8645]

I've suffered with panic attacks in the past ,they are awful .x

[@MySemiSortedLife]

They really are - wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy. Hugest hugs. x

[@lindabourketempleton4040]

Omg I could not handle the amount of clothes. I have just decluttered my wardrobe as I’m going into a motor home and I have 40 items of clothes counting my pjs and 10 sets of underwear and socks and six pairs of shoes including 2 pairs of slippers. I have been decluttering for approximately 7 years.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

I must admit that since I've started working outside of the home the amount of clothes I have has EXPLODED. Sometimes I work in an office and other times I am out in the "field" so to speak so I need more variety than ever. But I'm sure I don't need nearly as much as I have...... perhaps when I'm more settled in my mind and space I will be in a better headspace to clear more. Thanks so much for sharing your experience.

[@lindabourketempleton4040]

@@MySemiSortedLife so glad we have a uniform for work Maybe when you unpack you could make a uniform from your clothes like the minimal mom

[@moniquef4737]

Hopefully this private lease works out ❤

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thank you so much for your well wishes! I really appreciate your support.

[@moniquef4737]

@@MySemiSortedLife ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@angelamancinone7498]

👏🏻

[@MySemiSortedLife]

😍😘

[@lindabourketempleton4040]

You can do this it’s a process

[@MySemiSortedLife]

Thanks... slow but steady...

[@GoingGreenMom]

Binaural beats and self hypnosis tracks and sound bowls? I think they are called has helped me a ton with anxiety and panic over the years.

[@MySemiSortedLife]

It's so interesting how it helps huh?

[@GoingGreenMom]

@@MySemiSortedLife It is! It seems to go in waves for me. They help for awhile, then not or making it worse, then I switch to music, then later when anxiety is higher again it helps more again.

[@lfuentes4098]

Paperwork is the worst. I’m always afraid I’m going to toss something irreplaceable.

[@bronwyn3568]

My freezer froze so bad u couldn't close the door with drawers inside, luckily today's a bit cooler and I have to defrost it 😮😮😮