Deep Conversation Starters That Get Her to Open Up Part 1

Lynn shows you the best deep conversation starters that get her to upen up!
Here's what helps if you want deeper emotional conversations with women.
#short #shorts #howto
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[@mrcheezle3910]

This is literally small talk that she’s suggesting. If she’s into you it won’t matter if you use small talk .

[@Luigi-xg7hx]

Technique is part of the game bro, no matter if shes into you, you also need this part or else, she could turn off if you are boring.

[@chuckiemeister]

Yes you are right not only are those items she mentioned small talk it's just nonsense. 🙄

[@lightyagami1125]

Effort matters

[@stepanlomoz5436]

fax

[@Inglorious_EONs]

Brooo... I was about to say the same😂😂😂... ~ Even, I can come up with more interesting ideas 10x better than her. - Like what if the world was a fantasy(because I'm too much into fiction)world, while she likes horror 😅 - Even asking about dreams (not life goals, that's also another point)... Or talking about bizarre dreams that you had in your sleep.

[@MrGreen-nl3yv]

I know guys that have done these and they're all in the friend zone.

[@23Jpro]

Facts 😂😂😂

[@JhonnyStone100]

haha 😂😂😂 never take a women’s advice for anything

[@stephenndungu2268]

Moral lesson: Never take advice from women😂😂😂💯

[@warrioreon11]

Either because they're losers, or they have no idea on Earth how to sexualize those topics.

[@adamumidalajiri]

Why would you ask were she would like to travel like you gonna pay😅

[@mobetta1862]

Sounds like a job interview

[@RonnieMyers777]

Job interview that youre expected to pay for

[@calvarado1520]

Those type of questions might work for a traditional woman but not for today’s modern women……you ask that bs to today’s woman and she will say “see ya simp”. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@king-jq8qs]

😂

[@sbj97]

​@@calvarado1520Facts 😅

[@bigl6988]

Don’t ask fish how to caut the fish ask to fishermen 😂

[@orbustudio]

"...Sell me this pen..."

[@elliottexile6139]

Yes Yes Yes Same Here @CharlieSweeny !?

[@lorenzoerrigo520]

“You want me to sell this fvking pen? Alr, first of all could you write a name on this piece of paper? “I don’t have a pen” exactly…”

[@gamermixy.t3664]

Hello sir , buy this pen , it causes good fortune, just for 20$, it's a very useful pen , you can write with it , you can draw with it, you can use it as a secret weapon no one will know murder weapon , ✍🏻

[@JonJones1776]

@@lorenzoerrigo520😂

[@senshai1267]

Me : if you could travel …. Her : sorry , I have a boyfriend. 💀💀

[@tarun9542]

If you could travel with your boyfriend....

[@childofyah5763]

@@tarun9542I don’t travel

[@tarun9542]

@@childofyah5763 If your boyfriend could travel...xD

[@taisou108]

I wouldn't be here with you

[@silxbeats]

Me: no problem....I guess it will be a poly relationship thrn...

[@wavydavybeats]

if she's into you, she'll talk about anything with you

[@sagambakong5017]

this is the fact

[@RinkyRoo2021]

dude this sounds like a corporate retreat ice breaker 🤣

[@user-xz1wy4to4o]

some shit teachers use to do in like 7th grade on the first day of school then they would make you stand up and read that shit

[@upgrade1015]

Truth . Very mid

[@dunichtich100]

Four of them are actually pretty cliche. The only one I would use is: "If you could only accomplish one thing in life, what would it be?

[@ParisTheLocArtist]

Omg might as well ask her what her job is and how much she makes 😂

[@AkameGaKill194]

try to do what I always do pinky try to take over the world!!! The pinky and the brain the pinky brain!!!

[@sthomas7211]

​@ParisTheLocArtist So your answer is, marry a man that has money

[@SinhaShambhawi]

I agree, as an introvert who loves deep and intellectual talks and really a pro in them. Never dare to use such questions, except this one.

[@delaslight]

I would never answer such stupid questions. Actually i have refused to enter in such a discussion.

[@jimmyjames5786]

True

[@lauramifsud373]

Thats right i agree with u

[@drew8305]

Painful. Talking about the weather is almost better. If you could be any animal, what would you be? If you could be any colour, what would you be? .......I would rather open my wrist with a dull spoon. Find out where she stands politically If she has such low self esteem and is a MAGA c**t; run

[@KrishnaYadav-xz3fj]

She is giving childish advice.

[@warrioreon11]

Y'all are internet trolls, nobody (worth getting laid) is taking y'all's opinions

[@mevsol2447]

The only conversation starter anyone needs: "My seed, your eggs. If yes, let's stop wasting time. If no, let's stop wasting time. " Done.

[@explodifier6021]

Hell no

[@zbrscantbuckle1461]

The rizzler

[@starboxrock9133]

Smooth

[@blue_smoke204]

😂😂nice

[@KrishnaYadav-xz3fj]

Ha ha. ..... 😁😂 LOL

[@whiskeyhangover1438]

Question 1: How much did you pay for your lip enhancement surgery. Question 2: do you regret it?

[@shila9430]

lmao 😂

[@dayana6347]

😂😂

[@loluvent5957]

😂😂

[@eversunnyguy]

Nice tips to enhance conversation. However these questions should be done in a context....not in an interview mode.

[@asap9224]

If you are a man taking dating advice from a woman is the same as placing the fox as head of security over the chicken coop, good luck with that...

[@swagdonor2357]

Of course nobody likes small talk but that is required in order to get basic information from the person. Who the hell is going to walk up to a person they’ve never met and say “what’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?” Like WTF?? I wish I could time travel back to 2012 when it wasn’t a turn off to ask a girl her fucking name.

[@jimmyjames5786]

So true I applause 👏 you.

[@swagdonor2357]

@@jimmyjames5786 subscribe dawg I need some motivation to get my channel on the feed 👍

[@dinmorsaa]

Erm.. she said dating advice not how to talk to a random stranger advice?

[@swagdonor2357]

@@dinmorsaa dating requires talking to strangers nah?

[@elliottexile6139]

​@@swagdonor2357 Hey Heyyy What You Mean Nah ?

[@sammccurdy2412]

I always start with, “How many kids do you want?”. Works everytime.

[@luistor4510]

man I would run the other way if somebody start asking me those questions

[@ibrabazzara8765]

The process is so simple, she likes, she gives you a sign, approach and close her. You like her, approach her and ask her, she accepts move forward, she rejects, proceed to the next you find attractive.

[@enriqueheredia5794]

I find these questions quite formal like a job interview.

[@ashvathrde9706]

Everyone knows that the elite conversation starter is "How often do you think about the Roman Empire?"

[@ibrabazzara8765]

You don’t need all this crap! Just approach and talk and it’s done. Can’t get it why these content creators keep trying to complicate the situation, and selling the audience the pickup lines courses, etc. just be natural and talk to one who you like, it’s that simple.

[@AkameGaKill194]

tried this , got called a creep. lol hahahaa

[@PrashantMilan]

Bruh, If I will be myself I will go to jail

[@sravansaidynamic1296]

​@@AkameGaKill194😂😂 LoL

[@sbj97]

Exactly!!! This is why social media creates a false reality

[@x-man5056]

I use a version of #4 with good results. "tell me the most exciting/scary/weird/surreal, thing that you witnessed or were a part of". I have a few whoppers in my back pocket to get it rolling. This generates enthusiasm and adrenaline, the conversation almost always takes on a life of it's own.

[@AkameGaKill194]

If she's into scooby doo and ninja turtles she's marriage material.

[@dewdrop3009]

Nope nope nope... Ive learned the hard way... Nope

[@god2060]

These are literally textbook interview questions what are you talking about

[@CraigCatapano]

She lost me with the lip botox

[@elgar6743]

LOL !!

[@verb0ze]

Lol thought the same. I couldn't focus on what she was saying, my mind kept wondering, "who punched you in the mouth?!?”

[@Michael_RareZebra]

It's hard to make small talk with fake lips.

[@JhonnyStone100]

😂😂😂

[@hazzyharuna1407]

@@Michael_RareZebra 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@fernandolavado]

If I need an extra thought to make anyone open up to me, that tells me I don't need to do it at all.

[@fernandolavado]

@@ParisTheLocArtist talk for yourself, im sorrounded by amazing people in my life and I never had to work hard to give them a good time. Either we vibe or we dont, I value real people and not a fan of scripts.

[@stedshep]

She pulled this off of a reader's digest 🤣

[@aramafshari3815]

Bro made this list with chatgpt forsure💀

[@MicroStoryTime]

For all guys watching, take advuce from a man not a woman. You ask the fisherman how to get fish, never the fish itself.

[@MohammedRaouf.]

To be honest you are a wise man my friend

[@paradoxicallogic147]

"Hi Lisa, Im glad you could make it here" "Hi, yea its nice to meet you to! It was close though because of traffic" *Hugs* "So, do you believe it is possible that the discrete physical matter that make up our brains could ever create a unified a consciousness as we experience it; that "inner light" as they say?" Or do you believe this discussion of fundamental mind is one that belongs itself to the realm of the immaterial; the soul?" And the date continues on from there. Good luck!

[@sbj97]

Thank you

[@munishkumar4102]

Me asking her this same thing again and again😭

[@thomaswood1158]

Don’t forget the greatest question of all time…if you could be an animal, which animal would you choose? And why? For an added bonus, list some examples like an ant because of their teamwork and cooperation…ya know kind of like an INTERVIEW

[@locoindio]

a fun one is, "let's you and i form our own country. you're the queen. i'm the king. we need to make a bunch of laws, pick out a flag, a national mascot, write a national anthem, etc. what's the first law you would want to be passed?"

[@taisou108]

Nope, thumbs down.

[@sbj97]

👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿

[@winfredosakonor2390]

😂😂 the whole thing sounded like an interview to me

[@Igneous773]

Someone asked me those questions the other day, though I didn’t tell her, but there’s nothing deep about those questions.

[@elliottexile6139]

How About @Kimberlite Reverse It Those ?!

[@sbj97]

Exactly. This is something a kindergarten would probably ask 😅

[@likkeaaaabawss]

my answer as an introvert to these questions is its non of your business

[@_Triangularity]

Don’t ever take advice from a woman on dating

[@aleh3841]

Big facts, when you go fishing you don't ask the fish how to fish, you ask the Fisherman

[@sultan_alaeddin_keykubat__]

​@@aleh3841u based it bro 😂

[@sbj97]

This comment right here is the Greatest advice any man could take

[@josemurillo7857]

These school questions 🤣🤣

[@loktaroghar]

Doesn’t matter. You need the physical attributes that she likes to get a response back. It’s the way the world works now

[@dreamlessdreamer]

if someone asked me such a doctored question I would close up so quickly because I know it didnt come naturally to them

[@uncletrashero]

"You are going to be stranded on an island, and you can only bring 3- " "men. 3 men. i bring 3 well hung men." "and what time shall i schedule the flight?"

[@taannmann]

these first day of school ahh questions💀💀

[@ArnoldSchwarz_enigger]

Ok but how do I get her to shut up?

[@marty7887]

Just don't talk to her

[@gabrieliuss8432]

funny 😁

[@tarun9542]

Fornicathe

[@jonathannewman4639]

If you’re woman is complaining about any problem that doesn’t involve you then ignore her

[@mindfulnessorganix1588]

The second last question the best

[@leaveitorsinkit242]

I tried this at Starbucks. You know what the girl said? “I just want my coffee.”

[@preeti_07us]

These are deep conversation starters? Omg then I have been only having deep conversations! And i thought I was lacking something, so I came looking here on YT 😅

[@RonnieMyers777]

Enjoy the one word answers because there's 50 other dudes in her inbox

[@AkameGaKill194]

She probably has them all in a group named "sausage party" XD

[@warrioreon11]

Judging from your profile pic, that's a fitting reply for you

[@RonnieMyers777]

@@warrioreon11 my PFP is a fictional character

[@warrioreon11]

@@RonnieMyers777 never stated it to be real

[@DheerajThakur-kp2cr]

Me littely a lol person 😂

[@Chandra355]

These questions sound just like i’m on a interview.

[@FlyingGreenTea]

Where is part 2? Waiting for top 2 questions.

[@toocool5668]

Thanks

[@vonericsparks9517]

I’ll get her to open up alright

[@dhanrajmohan701]

Great information.

[@gabesen1451]

open my wallet...works everytime

[@princeoludareakintola5758]

You can't be just meeting someone for the first time and start asking "deep questions" you have to start with small talks, be free, have no expectations, make her laugh, develop rapport...then, later you can start asking deep questions!

[@raytoop3704]

That painting on the wall is very interesting

[@Arandu17463]

If you can travel anywhere in time what period will you choose and why?

[@NotSparx11]

My crush would just reply with "idk, wbu"

[@Lofistudy688]

Want to win over your crush? Easy! Step one: be yourself. Step two: panic and overthink every interaction. Step three: realize they're just a human too.

[@jammin6816]

One time I went to a sandwich shop and sat down to eat. I noticed next to me was a very attractive girl and somehow we started talking to each other like we had known each other all our lives. We really enjoyed our conversation, laughing and joking, and it was amazing until we eventually learned that we were both happily married. The conversation died down after that but we still traded phone numbers. I tossed it for obvious reasons and she probably did too. Very enjoyable but strange experience. It’s especially strange because I almost never start conversations with pretty women.

[@tommybotts]

Did her phone number start with 976?

[@bulllea]

it happened to me , too . in a bus . it was a strange experience , indeed .

[@cat_jo]

it didnt work she said "idk"

[@cloak7317]

Thank you, I’m really nervous tho

[@paaruxd9679]

Attention and validation is the currency to women

[@Theattractiveman]

Hey man thanks for the comment. If you feel like there is anything you're struggling with in your dating life, we would love to help you out! Here is a link to schedule a free 15 minute coaching session with one of our instructors: datingcoachcall.com/free

[@JIMMYBUSHIDO]

She would probably say I need to go to the toilet by the second 😏

[@marcleroux3426]

open what up?🤣

[@jonathannewman4639]

To be honest with you I feel like these questions are good questions for an icebreaker game in a group environment. But the one question about accomplishments seems like a good question for a woman to open up to you.

[@hugogeraldmackle7526]

As deep as a puddle

[@abdulmalikumar5838]

I see some negative comments. Offcourse you won't just ask these out of the blue to a stranger you just met. It depends on the context and your relationship with the person, and should be in the middle of a conversation.

[@zerocapacitance1]

Excellent

[@gamerboyredyt]

Instructions unclear now I'm in prison for asking a 9yt about her personal life

[@Lesslikely5]

If you travel anywhere in time to anywhere in the world what time period would you pick and where would you go ?

[@mynameisjeff2428]

It’s so lame 😒

[@sbj97]

Facts

[@Kishiro_09]

She'll probably just say "Idk"

[@E3N8013]

If she's into you or she's have vibes then small talks won't even come up that's the simple answer cause no matter what if she's not interested you'll only sweat it.

[@natanbrew5071]

They were all interview questions

[@Bruhne]

So deep!

[@pocketsofbattlerap1160]

Flow. Make SURE she’s engaging because if not walk away. No need to force anything.

[@KhanivoreQniba]

These are such silly questions. Ask her about her day, problems, offer solutions and ask if she’s ok. Done.

[@sbj97]

Done

[@RichardTaylor-pr1mz]

Wow!! Those eye brows thO

[@p.r.shredder8718]

The best way to get a woman to open up is to be an actual man. Although, being an actual man is really hard and anything these days that is really hard is really rare.

[@joserios6270]

What do you mean be an actual man?

[@sbj97]

What?

[@anasqader3851]

You think Women get attracted to you just because you have a penis?

[@p.r.shredder8718]

@@joserios6270 you know it when you encounter it.

[@p.r.shredder8718]

@@anasqader3851 no. Although I do have a very healthy, stiff, long and thick penis. I'm referring to all of the other behaviors that convince women to play with my penis instead of other penises.

[@Kirbythediver]

These sound like interview questions lol

[@blackraven7452]

Sounds like she will be standing on a beauty pageant contest if I approach like that.

[@user-hr4lm8ef9k]

Asked a baddie one of these questions she replied " idk "

[@marvelrivera1194]

Nice one

[@petertornabeni602]

Forget it. Leave her behind.

[@Theattractiveman]

Hey man thanks for the comment. If you feel like there is anything you're struggling with in your dating life, we would love to help you out! Here is a link to schedule a free 15 minute coaching session with one of our instructors: datingcoachcall.com/free

[@elliottexile6139]

Hey What @PeterTornabeni Mean Leave Her Behind ?

[@memetic_theory]

Good ideas

[@kuntuyultuyul1082]

Don't ask to the fish, ask to the fisherman

[@cephasmachado2113]

I swear i would get bored even anyone asked me these stupid questions

[@pops444_]

NOOOOO... 🤣 Do not ask these questions

[@demongo2007]

She considers these "deep"...? There's no way to ask these silly questions that won't be coming way out of left field. They are so awkward.

[@schwendyantoine5226]

Actually don’t mind the mask Think abt how that same seemingly basic question could actually get her to feel emotional on the long run

[@gracec1665]

What would be an example of a "deep" question that you would ask?

[@ali101love]

@@gracec1665 I was expecting something, anything, more philosophical... And frankly more simple and approachable while still maybe being a little challenging. Like "How do you personally define 'love'" or "What's something small that makes you feel alive?"

[@gracec1665]

@@ali101love Wow! The" how do you define love?" Is a really good one! I believe many people have no clue what that is. Their answer would be very telling of their maturity level and self aware. Good job!

[@Oovyh]

You’re supposed to do the ping pong game with her

[@ROCKOCTANE]

I usually wait for her to ask, what do, code word for how much money I make. Then I pretend to be interested in her ideals and BS.

[@mzmotors675LT]

I knew when she said that first question that it's dun out .

[@rsna3374]

Just ask about the weather 😌

[@Theattractiveman]

Hey man thanks for the comment. If you feel like there is anything you're struggling with in your dating life, we would love to help you out! Here is a link to schedule a free 15 minute coaching session with one of our instructors: datingcoachcall.com/free

[@elliottexile6139]

Oh How So Please Do Tell @PeterSsuna ?!

[@spacelyf6837]

Ur question are for job interview 😂

[@Zoey-tp1ni]

Sounds like my news lady

[@pecerra]

Ouuuuu I really like tha last one tho 😮

[@chadelles2586]

Hey fellas, let me translate this for you: On the surface these are a bunch of what if's... So what women mean by deep conversations has nothing to do with being intellectually deep, the wording is incorrect, but women do that all the time. What they want is you to make her emotional and then hopefully she associates those feelings with you. Make sense now?

[@AkameGaKill194]

Also don't forget to ask her what her favourite anime is!

[@A.I.-]

Rubbish questions. Here are better ones: 1) Do you believe in equality? 2) Are men and women equal? 3) What's your body count? These 3 questions alone will help you find the right person and stop wasting time, energy and money on the wrong person.