She has NOT combed her hair since LAST SUMMER! (3 HOURS to DETANGLE) 😩

I met this beautiful woman outside of Whole Foods and she told me that she needed immediate help with her hair!
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[@DeeperThanHairTv]

Please remain positive and have compassion for peoples circumstances! 💜🙏🏾 Love yall!

[@mimii_chuu]

ily too! 💞

[@amegriffin3]

Respect to you for your approach. Beautiful process taking true *care* of her & her hair.

[@mrssanfl]

Thank God for you and for her courage.

[@atmac8459]

@@mrssanfl right!

[@aidaruiz2547]

Any help for hair loss pls help

[@sweetytweety0011]

Been there. When you’re depressed, EVERYTHING is a task. Even getting out of bed. So imagine what a task detangling hair is.

[@monith9496]

De tangling hair is already a chore if you have thick, long hair. My brother needs to be careful and brush his hair regularly since he has the PERFECT hair type for dreads and locks.

[@rustyt2293]

I have frizzy/curly hair that’s down to my waist and I didn’t brush if for six months once...

[@kaedollar]

@@monith9496 i have long and REALLYYYYY thick hair so if i don’t brush it at least 3 times a day it’s a knotted mess and such a pain to get de tangled.

[@ki8743]

I haven't even brushed my teeth, like it hard, idk if this sounds weird.

[@420.rose_]

Ikr my mom had to buy a lot of stuff to detsngle my hair like it took almost a 2 weeks to do it she had to cut my hair I think I didn't brush my hair for like 2 years gosh and didn't take baths or brush teeth it was bad for me.

[@SasaSasa-wy9wu]

Wen u depressed the weight is a heavy burden, everything feels like a chore. The easiest thing to neglect is yourself.

[@justchilling704]

You present a good point.

[@denisehood7568]

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[@lakishachilds8161]

So true

[@cosmiccoachingandsolpsychi4553]

Yes.

[@luciagianquitto4010]

It happened to me many times

[@zparkplug2788]

when i was 12 i was homeless living in a truck w my dad and little brother and had no comb or even shampoo for almost a month. when i was sent to foster care (a white family who didnt know how to maintain black hair) they took me to a hairdresser who made fun of me the whole time she was cutting the big dreadlock out of my hair. it was a horrible experience, im glad theres ppl like you who dont judge and make someone feel bad for their hair, bc as you said you never know what someone is dealing w in their life

[@soukainatips3204]

Awww 🥺 am so sorry I hope everything is going well with you

[@JulieTPF]

Hi, I hope your foster mother defended you.. I am a white lady and when I was 15 or 16 my cousin fostered some Nigerian children and I loved them to bits. Every chance I had I would always go and see them. I missed them terribly when they went back home to their parents but I knew they were happy to go back with their Mum and Dad. I feel very sorry for you how you felt. I hope you are happy now always remember you are a good person and I am sure you bring sunshine into someone's life every single day xx

[@Oakleaf700]

That must have been so traumatic for you all...Homelessness is no fun. Hope you are all more settled and happier now, but early trauma leaves marks on the Soul.

[@Nahnie-jb8wo]

This blessed my spirit. Thise are the things we forget about.

[@keelhe893]

@matt dingo that would be amazing but very few blacks adopt or foster children so I am just glad these children are taken to a home somewhere because most black families are leaving these kids to graduate out of an orphanage & rather gossip about them than help

[@bcaye]

Years ago I worked at a physical rehab hospital. A little 8 year old girl that had been in a bad car accident had long hair and after a month in the hospital it was one big rat's nest on the back of her head. Her aunt spent about 6 hours and a couple of bottles of detangling spray to get it out and her niece immediately started to engage in therapy better and just overall improved. All of the staff gave the aunt compliments and some of us chipped in for her to have a spa day.

[@talisarobinson8157]

🥹🥹🫶🏾

[@BlackBerri83]

This happened to me a few years ago. I was clinically depressed and literally didn’t wash or comb my hair for MONTHS. When you’re in that dark of a space your hair is the last thing on your mind. When I finally washed and conditioned my hair, I was a new woman! No judgement here, peace of mind and wellness to her 💕

[@mnels5214]

I hope you are feeling a lot better now! You're not alone.

[@Lunit30]

Sending you love and light ✨❤️

[@arianalashayslader]

Amen, you be blessed now ma'am, God is going to replace that mourning for joy in the morning. Beauty for Ashes❤

[@GreenUptowner]

❤️

[@elmyra.jackson]

God bless you dear!!💙💙

[@shandrawitherspoon3590]

You know what this is called? Being a trauma informed hair stylist. The compassion and patience you showed is consistent with trauma informed therapist. You should add that to your marketing and highlight it. Your expertise is not only servicing people who may live with depression, but also survivors of abuse too. So happy to see this!

[@kathylovesmk]

This is a great comment/compliment! I agree 💖

[@chiccachannel]

I agree, there are many reasons that might induce you NOT to do certain things as combing your hair. I have a severe arthritis problem and I can gurantee sometimes it's so painful that I struggle to do the most elementary things. Don't take health for granted!

[@mickefy682]

You’re so right; this woman is amazing!!!

[@LaurenSClark]

Thank you very much for recognizing this!

[@wibblewobble489]

She's trauma AWARE not trauma informed. Trauma informed = knows and uses the various psychological treatment modalities relevant to trauma in treatment of various mental illnesses. How to go about treating the illness with trauma present, how (ie what framework) to use to treat it, how to prevent abreactions, maintain safety for client and therapist etc.

[@josie3762]

My friend had depression for years, with no support system at home. Her hair also got completely entangled at one point. So she went to hair stylist and she criticized her badly and also chopped her hair short. Then she lost her father...and then few months later she took her own life. Please, please don't judge.

[@lavonnealexander6936]

Omg 😔! I am so sorry , people are so mean.

[@Radhuya]

This makes me wanna cry... It's horribly hard to read this

[@josie3762]

I am sorry if I made anyone sad, I just wanted to share so people don't judge so quickly. Truth is hard...and truth is that with no support we cannot survive. Some people can't get comfort from their family...so they depend on us as collective to at least not be hateful. Little kindness can indeed save lives. I remember all she had in last months was sharing stuff online, bacause she couldn't get outside...negative energy is hard on anyone...but can you imagine what it does to someone already on the edge. Please friends...be kind, even when others aren't...try to be brave and spread love.

[@ShericeeJ]

Wow that’s so heartbreaking !! 💔🙏🏾

[@RebbecaOdom]

I am so sorry.

[@annac9534]

My sister has depression and once let her hair get pretty close to this. I sat there with her all night and used my fingers to detangle her entire head. We sat, watched movies, talked… this could happen to anyone. And you’re right, kindness and compassion goes such a long way.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

What a lovely sister you are.

[@funmiamosu4135]

Thank you for showing her love. You may never know the extent to which she appreciates you. My sister stood by me, too, and I was able to recover well.

[@mrsprecious31]

She will never forget the love you showed her!

[@asamantha1991]

Such a Long way. My parents and sister didn't know what to do with my hair growing up, so often it looked messy and terrible...as an adult I am trying so hard to support my son with his hair but he has autism and other diagnosis that you wouldn't know by just looking at him, and those have been such an obstacle when it comes to his hair. Passing judgment doesn't help anyone.

[@rebasmirnov7507]

It's very pleasant to see compassionate and hard worker like you

[@BalletomaneM]

I left my abusive ex-husband and one of his forms of abuse was complete control of my appearance. When I left him, I did nothing about my appearance, including showering, brushing my hair, anything, for several months. Eventually my friend convinced me to find a stylist to help and as she was helping me for 3 hours, I cried like a baby. It was one of the most healing experiences of my life and I will forever be grateful to my stylist who also became my friend that day. Thank you for helping this gorgeous woman and showing how much compassion you give.

[@micheleparker8123]

This is what I need for myself. I've been beaten down and neglected for so long and I need serious help with my hair.

[@bargainbeauty7529]

Aww... 😭😥

[@adowaselassie9530]

❤️❤️❤️

[@2manyscars]

@@micheleparker8123 if i was a stylist and near you i'd completely help you, i hope you feel better soon love

[@tyyoon7893]

pop off queen live life the way you wanna just know you have my 1000% support although i may not know you i understand you from this story

[@Rigiroony]

You know what's funny? I'm a white girl with 2b hair. When I wasa kid I just never brushed it. My mother was single and working so she never noticed the giant knot that formed up against my scalp. Went to the hairstylist and they immediately chopped my hair off. I was devastated. You're over here untangling 4a,b,and c hair like it's no issue. You're awesome.

[@komfykoala6083]

I have 2a/2b hair and I once got a round brush stuck in there and we considered cutting it off but I spent several minutes trying to pull my hair out of it. I'm happy it never had to happen again.

[@mombythec]

I'm white, I don't know what kind of curls mine are, but I don't brush them dry ever. I just spray them with water and plump them up. They start to lock on day 4-7 of not washing. Normally I wash my hair more often, but I've been having tons of health issues and I don't always have the strength. It hasn't been cut in 2 years, I'm a single moms and never want to spend the money on myself. I've never had my hair lock itself before....sometimes it's tempting to just let it do it, but at this length it would be too heavy for me I think.

[@sbrinicole0]

a hairstylist should be patient with their clients, your hairstylist should have never chopped your hair if you didn’t want that. i hope you didn’t go back

[@heathervee555]

@@mombythec girl, as a person who has had dreads twice, AND i'm a hairstylist, i wouldn't recommend it. people think dreads are going to be easy and not take any work, but it's actually the opposite. if you want your dreads to look nice, and not grow anything funky inside of them, (i knooow, rite?) they actually need LOTS of attention. also yes, they will be heavy asf. im sorry to hear about your health stuff..i have fibromyalgia and lots of issues with my hips and legs due to a genetic thing and being on my feet all day for many years doing hair. I totally understand. A wide tooth comb and a good detangler are your best friends. the main thing to know about curls is moisture. they need it, and lots of it... keep that in mind and it's a good place to start. Hang in there!!- xo

[@mombythec]

@@heathervee555 thank you :) I have fibro too and we still don't know what else, if only doctors would take as much time as this hairdresser! I actually got a gift certificate for mothers day yay!!! So I will get to go get all these dead ends off soon and then it won't be so hard to get through like it is now.

[@EddVCR]

I got misty-eyed when you said, “She’s going to be fine, she’s going to be just fine.” Thank you for being understanding to those suffering in silence. People like you make this world a better place.

[@b_ad_a.7263]

:O 700 likes with no comments?! Time to s✨h✨i✨n✨e hun 😌💅

[@taleekyles80]

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[@dragondawn420]

@xWithEyesLikeSunsets I did cry, and I cried again posting a comment.

[@kiki6944]

As someone who has a chronic illness and suffers from depression I love this, and you!! I struggle keeping up with my hair because of the pain and joint issues. I was embarrassed and my niece offered to do it for me, it's nice that she had you! ❤️

[@SHANELL032007]

As a Lupus patient I totally understand! Thick hair and joint pain in the fingers is a struggle!

[@Momlovesu21]

We love you❤

[@DaniHMcV]

I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome so I know exactly how you feel. Everything feels like it’s a marathon. It’s never a weakness to ask for help. I’m glad you have your niece to help you.

[@ayimaniisunshine]

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[@zebraescape]

​@@DaniHMcVHey, I have hEDS too. I'm currently in the throes of a severe depression. I haven't been able to wash my hair in over two months. I finally managed to clean my room today, which aggravated my back and neck pain. I plan to detangle my hair and wash it tomorrow. I hope you're doing much better.

[@TrueSugar]

As someone who struggles with self care during depression this gives me hope.

[@MindRegulatorMusic]

Me too. This is the video I needed.

[@kelliehu8749]

Thank you for sharing, people don't even think about the full impact depression can have on someone's life. The sheer weight of living with mental illness.

[@deirdredraginoff3760]

Me too.

[@CiCiButterfly13]

Blessings to you 🌷🙏🏽😊

[@I_am_enigma53]

I'm in a depressed state right now. I wash my hair but rarely comb it. Just don't have the energy. I have my good days and bad days.

[@masseiy]

You really changed her life. I’m sure she was scared and worried about sensing judgement from you. Thank you for helping her.

[@kaylynb]

yep!

[@newjerseylove1373]

Kee is an ANGEL on earth!!!

[@ParisSantiago]

Wow “Thank YOU for helping HER.” 💛✨

[@denisehood7568]

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[@FineandDandy104]

I honesty don't think after watching Ke's videos anyone could think she'd judge them 💜

[@ladywillow2961]

After my husband passed away last Dec. I didn't shower, brush my teeth, comb my hair or change my clothes. I just washed our bedding after 6 months. I'm just now up to showering daily. Depression will cause you to completely give up. 😔😢😓😔😔💔

[@TrangPakbaby]

I’m a young widow who lost my hubby 10 urs ago. It’s a pain I thought I’d never get over but you just take it one day at a time and create “a new normal” for your life. Sorry for ur loss (hugs) ❤️

[@belindarocky961]

Sending 💕..I hope you have a support system during this painful time.

[@JHL751]

God loves you so so much, he will comfort you

[@amberlytownsend2856]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll be praying for you in these tough times. You can do this you’re a strong person :)

[@jayfab4689]

❤❤❤

[@annmurphy3843]

The fact that you were drawn to it and not intimidated confirms that this is your calling. Keep up the great work and showing compassion the way you do.

[@dieteh]

The courage it takes to visit a salon after having personal issues that your hair suffered, the compassion a stylist shows to get your hair looking 🔥, that shows so much. Glad the client is feeling good because she’s looking good too. Bless you.

[@deez596]

She is. This video is everything.

[@adrianna5378]

Yeah. I feel like most hair stylist are kind of mean. They judge you. I have yet to find a good stylist.

[@LG-kx8xl]

You're so right! It's like being overweight & going to a gym where you don't know how to use the equipment with people judging & staring.

[@dieteh]

@@LG-kx8xl Exactly! I don’t judge. I have no clue what someone is going through. I just hope they get through it safely.

[@brendakabanda2181]

@@adrianna5378 they are some of the meanest service providers out there.

[@cryscross06]

She was so okay with you just cutting it off to not inconvenience you, and putting herself second, BUT you did not allow that; for that I applaud you. Sometimes we forget about our selves that we expect others to do the same. I feel like most wouldve gone the easy route. You have the heart, and patience of an angel

[@favoritelove620]

Wow this spoke to me, made me cry. We need to remember to care about ourselves as we care about others. Thank you.

[@chrism9294]

It’s the patience for me because I can use a little more in some situations. I know I don’t have nearly enough patience for my hair as both these ladies have.

[@Ktcsr17]

That’s such a wise observation ❤️

[@starduststudios5671]

Yahuah sent His Son Yahusha to die for you! DO NOT take the mark of the beast devil vaccine

[@yoyobeam1269]

The "Hair Angel"... your compassion for each of your client shines through...

[@svby]

Yo, but real talk. This woman is strong af. Imagine going through this and still finding the courage to reach out to someone to do your hair after you’ve neglected it for so long.. That’s women’s magic. I wish her the utmost best 💜

[@KerrieBerrie]

Right and she had such a beautiful attitude despite it all. She's gorgeous!

[@Petrichor134]

That woman must’ve felt so much better. Depression messes with you more than most people think. To all the commenters saying this is not a big deal, it’s the small things like hygiene that make you feel like yourself again. The hair dresser/stylist did a great job. Thank you

[@angeljones965]

I have depression and neglect things like hair a lot, not for this long, but several days mostly. It feels sooooo nice to just get that sorted out, to the point that it changes my outlook on the day, and many people don't understand that

[@KT-pw1cq]

Exactly I have to force myself to do basic things like shower, brush teeth, and eating.. basic stuff like that is mentally exhausting when you’re depressed.. however my body is incredibly sensitive so I have to stay on top of those things

[@brendacoley1383]

What a wonderful job and I know you are a Christian.

[@angeljones965]

@@KT-pw1cq I know that I am a random person on the internet, but I also have to force myself to do this stuff, I also have depression. I've found it to be quite helpful, though a bit embassing at first, to make yourself a daily checklist or chart of essential things you have to do each day, along with some self care activities. I have one with like, showering, getting dressed, having breakfast, brushing my teeth and doing my hair, that stuff along with like going outside and reading a book. And at the end of the week, or however long you choose, get youself a reward, like a nice dinner from your favorite restaurant, or whatever you want to reward yourself for doing good. It's really helped me take care of myself more and I hope that it might help you too, or anyone reading this.

[@KT-pw1cq]

@@angeljones965 thank you. You have such a kind soul 💕 continue to be you

[@abbigailglen]

Every video you share proves over and over that it's always been deeper than hair for you.

[@t.t.taylor5302]

What she said ♥️

[@angelfire6421]

Well said.

[@prettylittlemissy]

Ver, very well said.

[@nonnie8388]

AMEN, we LOVE and have so much RESPECT for you!♥️☮️🙏🏻

[@Dee038]

Facts!!

[@saephon3988]

This video broke my heart and then mended it. I'm a white-ass man with fine, thinning hair - but I know what it's like to stop taking care of yourself due to depression and trauma. It becomes very difficult to treat yourself well when it feels like the world doesn't - day in and out, you're receiving negative reinforcement that you don't deserve nice things. The really inspiring thing about this story is that she actually approached you for help. It is so, so courageous to ask for help sometimes - everybody needs it, but speaking up is damn hard. Really glad you were able to make this happen for her and I hope she's doing well today.

[@glambyportia3100]

❤❤❤

[@jdstep97]

Hugs from a black woman in the southern US. I hope you're feeling better.

[@tamishannaful]

I have bipolar disorder. Depression manifests differently for everyone and every time. The happiest person you see may be the one struggling the most. As a stylist, I’ve sat for hours to help detangle someone’s hair because I may never know what they’re feeling, but I can understand. Hair isn’t always just hair. Not everyone has a support system so please do not judge. Love and light to you for your patience and understanding with this beautiful woman.

[@pArtyiNfo4aLL]

I'm one of those people for whom hair is not "just hair". I'm always glad to see someone else that understands that sentiment.

[@fruitypie3219]

I totally agree with you. And you do a wonderful job. I suffer mental health issues and depression and I don't wash my hair weeks at a time just put it a ponytail and it's difficult to look after yourself at times. Thank you for caring ❤️❤️love from England

[@Phoenix-Rising4]

Bless your heart ma'am ❤you get it. Im.sure thar person was so happy to just have you around. Sending you love

[@dreamscott4270]

I don't know you but I felt some kind of way after reading your comment. I went through depression for many years, but today I am not bothered with it. Hang in there you will get through it. Peace & Love I will remember you in my prayers

[@user-om7qz6nv6y]

Thank You for sharing. When I began reading the comments I was wondering if Bipolar Disorder would be mentioned. Too emotional to watch these videos but I appreciate the uploads and compassion. Sometimes I feel that I will be forever judged and misunderstood.

[@ameliarose47]

It's definitely a vicious cycle. Get depressed, let yourself go, get depressed because you've let yourself go, want it fixed but are too upset to fix it/don't think it can be fixed, put it off, and the cycle repeats and repeats. So happy for her now and that she can walk around confidently strutting her stuff again!

[@beautyinspired303]

Nailed it💯

[@kereneedie9644]

This makes me so happy!!

[@CrankyBarista]

The worst vicious cycle out there. My husband was severely abused as a child and has battled depression for 35 years. He just bought a bicycle and is now getting out of the house, getting in shape and socializing. I'm so happy to see him come back to life. ❤💗💖

[@dianegibson2260]

Yes its swings and round abouts and you just can't get off

[@zee_lolaj7382]

Me with my weight🤦🏿‍♀️ Fixing it now though. One day at a time

[@ifynweke4953]

We are in a pandemic! This past year has been hard on everyone, and has impacted all of us differently. Sending love and light to everyone!

[@ddeast8877]

Well said.

[@omioelevation7705]

Sending it right back to you sis!

[@Itsmyrap]

This 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@claindastuart6790]

True💗

[@arminenersisyan3085]

And we have been through a war in my country in addition to pandemic this year. I am a white woman with straight fair hair. And I watch her for the kindness I find here. ❤

[@mterrell604]

I love that she said "if you aren't equipped for this, put them in somebody's hands who is." We need to think like this about a whole lot of things. She drops gems 💎 in these videos, besides good hair care.

[@mmmiekskuh]

Agreed!! I love her way of thinking and the way she approaches people and problems. Anyone could learn from her. Especially in times like these.

[@aliciadarling5983]

Facts!!!!

[@taz9234]

Love for humanity has not died. Everyone making a positive comment is proving that now. Blessings all and continue to elude compassion and passion for life.

[@kuroon7553]

As a person who has suffered with crippling depression for over 15 years now... I literally cried with this video. Thank you for being so kind and lovely. I don't know why YT recommend this video to me, but I'm so glad it did. Lots of love 💜

[@JadaLynnOfChrist]

Oh my goodness!! Crippling depression for over 15 years!!? How are you alive?

[@DarlingNikki2]

@@JadaLynnOfChrist Let me tell you, sometimes you don't have the will to live but you don't have the will to die, either and that's a dark place. Depression is a real monster because it comes and goes in waves but many times we don't know each other's struggles because we are taught as a people and society not to show such 'weakness'. I've dealt with depression for more than 15 years and believe me, there have been times where but for the Grace of God go I...

[@suzettejohnson187]

Stay strong Nina..

[@TorriaYAH222]

Peace and blessings to you Nina!

[@kuroon7553]

@@JadaLynnOfChrist someone wants me to be. Tried 3 times no to, and failed all 3. Guess I just have to be here and try to fight it even though is really hard

[@kamakhtar3861]

When your severely depressed as easy as it seems but taking a brush to brush your hair is the hardest thing to do .

[@kizuya5120]

Even just taking care of yourself- I’m happy she helped her out though

[@yukiruikuta6500]

Yeah I know how it feels.

[@sunhopii8534]

@Randy Candelario did you just smh people diagnosed with mental illness or am I just dumb

[@9syched]

thank you! the fact that some people dont understand and judge.. is kinda disappointing.

[@jazminegarcia1915]

@@sunhopii8534 don’t think they meant it that way

[@deeannm8456]

“A little more kindness and a lot less judgment” are words to live by!

[@pinklobelia2389]

I like how you bring up mental health issues as a reason why someone may not be able to maintain their hair.

[@swannfoulard9167]

One time when I was younger, I went to get my hair done. At that time my mom was in the hospital so I had no one to help me do my hair so I went with matted hair. The hairstylist yelled at me in front of everybody telling me I have to detangle my hair myself before she start working on it. I was so shocked and sad I just did it. I love your videos and seeing the way you treat your client and educate people. You making sure nobody gets treated like I was and I’m all for it ❤️

[@jujubeesmama]

Sorry that happened to you. 😞

[@Mini-rt8bm]

Smh!

[@DrSimpleBeauty]

People are ignorant. I hope you can forgive her and I hope your mom is better.

[@DeeperThanHairTv]

I'm so sorry that happened to you!

[@naturalnikki8675]

Sorry that happened to you! Hope that u are doing well

[@WiseAilbhean]

My mom is in hospital right now, so when i visited I brought the hair grease and comb to tame the hair and her mood elevated. Our old hairdresser used to tell us grooming takes the mind away from the crap we gotta put up with, and it makes you instantly feel a lot better.

[@fateamaorfatima7613]

I hope ur mom gets well soon

[@WiseAilbhean]

@@fateamaorfatima7613 Blessings to you and thank you so much❣️

[@virginiawilliams648]

Hope mom gets better real soon! Keep taking care of mom & God will take care of you !

[@overthebridge6531]

Best wishes too your mom❤️

[@judethaddeus9856]

That’s a damn lie! If that were true, all of us with depression would just go to the beauty parlour or spa when we were having an « episode » and be cured... that thought stems from the idiotic trope that if a woman just gets her hair done she’ll feel so much better about EVERYTHING

[@user-pt1cz4ot1e]

My hair has been far worse in my most depressed moments. Took me and a friend 3 days to detangle it once, several hours each day. I’m so glad I finally got to a good place to get it healthy and well managed. You did such a great job. She has gorgeous hair and should get to show it off when she wants. 💜

[@neutron_blast1330]

My hair was like this 😔 I didn't brush it for 8 months plus. I had severe depression after being pregnant. My evil foster carer said it was nasty, dirty, horrible and looked like a nest 😔 she wouldn't even come near me. My hair is sorted now, it took a friend an hour to sort. It takes a good person not to judge someome... your a good person 💕

[@allfalldown6812]

@Honeyy same🙄🙄🙄

[@morgzondrugs4017]

I used to have a foster carer who made fun of my hair and she refused to buy hair products for me and when I moved house it took so many hours to detangle.

[@mull_kind1178]

@Audrey Gardner just mind your business when someone is sharing their story... you didn't have anything useful to add so just be respectful

[@sorou]

@Audrey Gardner imagine being named audrey and trying to go this hard in the yt comments lmao

[@supastarchocolate3624]

@Audrey Gardner Something Wrong?

[@jackiecout1]

Last year was the las time I went to a beauty salon. I lost her due to stress and my hair was short and thin. I went for a treatment and the girl was almost making fun of me. She was not interested in making me feel comfortable. She was talking to the other girls in the salon and not putting any effort on what she was doing. All the clients waiting were looking at me on a very contemptuous way. I just wanted to leave that place soon. She did a bad job drying my hair then I said to my mom I would never go to a hair salon again. I would like to be able to go to your salon. You look like a very nice lady who will make me feel comfortable and beauty.

[@polylife101]

That’s sad I’m so sorry

[@friedchicken892]

thats terrible🥺

[@jennyrose9454]

That's not nice or professional. Hope next one they respect you .

[@user-gx5hf2fn9j]

Very unprofessional smh I’m so sorry you had to endure that.

[@akiyoshidai]

I would have told her a word or two, ha! Same happened to me a couple of times in different salons. That's why I havent found my hairstylist yet...I highly value good customer service.

[@jackiewilson8772]

I'm white with 2A hair, and damn if I don't have freaking knots in the back daily! I brush it daily but still, it happens. You black ladies are angels with the patience of saints, sitting there and slowly detangling. It's an artform!

[@brindageorge701]

It's extremely tiring, and what makes it more frustrating is that we deny it! 😢

[@sweetestgirl7742]

That's why we just wear the wigs lol

[@girlanonymous]

@@sweetestgirl7742right?? 😂

[@angelac.2384]

​@sweetestgirl7742 😂

[@Alleged_Entertainment]

I know this video is a year old, and you probably won’t see this but this is the video I started watching that got me to get up, shower, and brush my hair after about 2 weeks. My depression is crippling me. But your commentary on this video was just pure kindness. I wish I could be a client.

[@satiirix]

I don’t know who you are, but I’m so glad that you were able to get up and find the motivation, because sometimes when things get out of control it feels like you can’t gain back control, but just remember that lost things are still yours even when you can’t find it, sometimes you just gotta look for it

[@SusieQ156]

You are not alone my dear - l understand- everyday is a battle with depression, l only just yesterday saturated my hair with water and conditioner and rinsed - shampoo and conditioner again - went to comb it out , it was full of knots , l neglected my hair for two months - as it’s winter have been covering it with a scarf and hat when l leave the house- it took me hours - still have a section left - but will tackle this later on today . I hope you are feeling better in spirits- bless you ❤

[@Nuriyya91]

You did amazing! Sometimes it just needs a kind comment to bring us motivation to change things. You are awesome for fighting. You're not alone sis 🖤🫂

[@DeeperThanHairTv]

Sending you love and blessings 💜💕

[@darlenebell3420]

Where are you located?

[@oliviapratt975]

I never expected to find it so therapeutic to see someone caring for another person's hair. But it is! Everyone deserves kindness and care like this.

[@toyamwarr]

People who have never dealt with depression have no idea how uplifting getting ones hair done an be. I know that when I’m depressed, I don’t want anyone going into my personal space.

[@nikkivp82]

I completely understand what your saying. For me I even struggle to go into a store to pick up basic necessities when my depression is at its worst.

[@Jessmoniquethomas]

This same thing happen to my family members, when she was a baby girl. Probably 3 years old, her mom struggled with mental illness and caring for her became overwhelming. One day she came over and i saw the state of her hair. We sat down with snacks, Disney movies, juice boxes, and love. I combed every single loc out and, washed and braided her hair into a beautiful little girl style with beads. It was like she was an all new baby. So happy, confident, and proud of herself. This sort of tender love and care really changes lives!

[@LH-mn3cc]

Thank you for not judging this woman. As someone who struggles with depression and can neglect some aspects of my self care for months at a time I really appreciate that.

[@bitterspice5525]

Thank you for sharing that. I suffer from depression too. Self-care can be difficult when it’s bad.

[@carriewilliams6256]

I agree. We all have issues. This lady is awesome.

[@radiancehall7905]

I suffer from depression as well thanks for sharing and stay encouraged ❤️

[@marieperez1737]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@gforcewindswinds291]

Her hair as absolutely beautiful.

[@pepperyuu1680]

Ppl really underestimate just how powerful seemingly ‘little’ things like hair or skin or whatever can be when it comes to dealing and healing with mental illness

[@cniknik9863]

I know right. When you're depressed you don't have the energy to take basic care of yourself sometimes. Causing you to feel even worse in a vicious cycle.

[@unethicallyvoid2888]

@@violetta2964 thats exactly what you should do. Alot of people just tell them it's bugly or it can't been fixed. But instead they need to support and help that person be susceptible positivity and glow.

[@denisehood7568]

5kzbin.info/www/bejne/eae7n4aBgbpsgJo

[@MindRegulatorMusic]

If "DEEPER Than Hair" was about just ONE video, this is it. You ministered to her. And to me. May the Lord give it all back to you, running over! 💝

[@thisnaturalgirlislocd]

Amen!

[@nerissa4767]

I agree 100%!

[@renable7258]

In Jesus name!

[@user-mo4vy5fm8m]

*****Only those who have gone through the abyss of depression know what it means to take care of themselves again!!! Congratulations on the initiative of treating your customers with so much affection 🥰🇧🇷🥰🇧🇷🥰🇧🇷🥰🇧🇷🥰🇧🇷

[@MulitSeeker]

Girl not only are you SUPER TALENTED but your Soul is so caring and sensitivity toward people.

[@debrawashington1158]

We have the same name. Lol

[@Oakleaf700]

Superb transformation. You are a gifted hairdresser with love in your fingertips.

[@paulamoore2228]

When I say your the best I love it I been so deep in depression I couldn’t even get up and bath at times I loss a child a brother and my mom got dementia at the same time I was stuck in a very dark and still get like that from time to time thank you for caring god bless you

[@deb8911]

Whew this video has broken me down. I tried to hold it together but it reminds me of the time I went to go visit my grandmother who had been diagnosed with cancer. That lady could do some hair. She had done my hair my whole life. But she got too sick to care for her own hair. I remember having to detangle her hair because she was just putting her wig on. It was something to finally be able to help her with her hair after she spent years taking care of mine. Patience, kindness, and love is what this takes.

[@Tinesha7]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lfk6370]

What a situation to go through ❤️ So much love and care

[@doll9763]

❤️❤️

[@GreenUptowner]

❤️

[@rosiebottom3870]

You made me tear up ❤

[@mikaelav8964]

depression as a black curly haired woman is very tough in terms of daily appearance

[@chompster3028]

whewww say that again

[@julie7375]

Yes our hair craves lots of TLC, time love and care.

[@riellerodriguez1126]

right it’s unnecessarily hard :/

[@sofiafaisal227]

If ur reading this ur beautiful just the way u are :}}

[@tarotlondon]

Your comment really hit home, especially after watching this video and seeing the amount of care that is needed. Love and light to you hun x

[@coopermena6750]

I am surprised that there are so many questions about why after your explanation at the beginning. Additionally, this past year as been traumatic for a lot of people. Isolation, sickness, loss of love ones, racial unrest, police brutality, etc. Anyway, what a blessing that there are people like you with compassion, care and skills!

[@atmac8459]

Right! Shows where they AREN’T as spiritual beings

[@danaglass1265]

That was a beautiful comment. 💗

[@MidnightAngelTears]

When depression takes hold and you stop caring you stop caring about everything including about yourself

[@thankyoujesus3184]

Lies it’s called free from dreads no combing brushing just washing with shampoo.

[@cyanidecinnamonroll7628]

@@thankyoujesus3184 ?

[@lgis07]

@@thankyoujesus3184 nah, it’s called depression

[@thankyoujesus3184]

Creative Stuff lol yup all the the people with free form dreads including the rastas are depressed.

[@donico777]

@@thankyoujesus3184 uhm ya you do need Jesus

[@virtualkitten485]

I feel that..I remember my cousin asked me to come over because she was to anxious to come outside... though nothing of it went over there and just saw her hair turns out she stopped brushing her hair. She told me how she just randomly realized what damage she had done to her hair by not brushing it and I told her we can go to a salon... we went to one near her and they said they can cut it off but it’s not “save-able” so we just did it at her house it took a very long time but I told her we didn’t need to shave it off.. so thank you for being one of those people that takes the time to do things like this..

[@caliguryl]

That wanna be stylist was looking for an easy way out

[@martycallmer6384]

your kindness is commendable. to help your cousin in that situation was going way far above the call of duty. it was love

[@boogieoogie1727]

@@caliguryl yup. That stylist is lazy. She needs to find another career

[@katholeenloveit8923]

Shame on that stylist.

[@catrachaV4]

It happened to me because I was in my second pregnancy, but before birth of my son, I did comb the hair but I didn't put on a treatment to soft the hair. But time my son born, my hair is bad again. 4 month later my sister in law had to cut it top of damage areas. I was happy is short. Now 3 yrs later, I wash my hair but I don't have time to comb out or do treatment it because the tube pipes get full of hair then my husband get mad..

[@bibistaufi2653]

You give love to the people with their problems!! How adorable!!!

[@St.antoni]

Depression, stress, money, stress about money etc . There’s so many things that can cause us to fall behind on taking care of ourselves. You just never know what the person next to you is going through. Thank you for teaching us patience and kindness 🩷

[@DB-fx5oo]

After having twins, I showed up to a stylist looking like this five years ago. She wasn’t afraid, and she was patient. Now my hair is to my waist. She showed me how it was to be patient with my hair. I was breastfeeding twins while also raising my 3 and 4 year olds as a SAHM. When I say I was at my wits end, I mean it. Anyway, that stylist helped me in my darkest hour, and I am so thankful for her.

[@DB-fx5oo]

@A Virgo thank you! Same to you 😊

[@trevacunningham6017]

@A Virgo my sister had twins and another kid and another kid but its her boyfriend kid so thats 4 in all

[@lakiyaalston8187]

I was in the same situation after having my twins 3 years ago. My hair was almost tail bone length. I got so frustrated with it and just cut it shoulder length. My stylist was so mad at me. She said I should have called her and she would have detangled it for me.

[@trollaccount5112]

I’m a twin my moms hair was falling out until we found a good hairdresser they made her hair healthy again

[@beelove4111]

I watched this video about two hours ago. Afterwards I committed myself to not leaving the shower until my hair was detangled. When the water went cold, I turned it off and kept going. I'm now sitting here with two bantu knots, fully detangled with a deep conditioner and bag on. Thanks sis🤗

[@nevadaite]

good job!!

[@nandernvein6426]

Well done!!

[@beelove4111]

Thanks for all the good energy. I thought I should share what happened to my hair. I have been natural for 25 years. When the pandemic started I decided to grow it long. My mistake was Using Garnier Fructis in the green bottle. (I usually use natural products ) At first it worked well. One day I got in the shower and it was breaking badly. I got scared to comb it so I put it in a bun and left it up too long. Then it turned into a tangled mess. I have been working with it since my post, but now my hair feels like straw so I I'm just going to cut it off.

[@nevadaite]

@@beelove4111 thank you for the update, I'm really sorry you've got to cut it but in the long run it'll work out better without it !!

[@beelove4111]

@@nevadaite I think you're right. Thank you 🥰

[@gloriagivens344]

Very beautifully done. Her hair looks lovely.

[@maggiewinnike7309]

You're such a kind person to help this women without being judgmental or shaming her for this. The world needs more kind people like you.

[@yansatoussaint2266]

This stylist is just like Jesus who doesn't ask you why you're on the dung heap but through His grace and mercy lifts you out of it.

[@dysphoricnick798]

Damn. As a Hispanic guy I don’t ever watch videos like this but it was recommended to me by KZbin and I decided to check it out. I’ve struggled with chronic depression for six years now and the mindset you approached this client with was such a pleasant surprise, I watched the full video through and learned a lot. You’ve gained a supporter and admirer for sure, thank you for being such a compassionate person.

[@lilacnoir8776]

We all learn a lot with this great hair stylist and woman.

[@MarilynRoseYT]

💜💜 You're not alone in your struggles, I'm glad the universe sent you to this video

[@Kiapooh]

Dysphoric Nick.... praying for you! You're not alone. I'm glad you found some peace while watching this video. Praying that Jesus sends an overwhelming abundance of loving ppl into your life that'll constantly shine His light into your life! God bless you always 💕

[@phenomenaldee8171]

Praying for you! This video was definitely way deeper than hair!! God Bless!

[@lunatronlina]

You aren’t alone 😊

[@69purposecoarse]

This is not about her hair, it’s about her as a person. Thank you for your kindness and loving patience.

[@netty5571]

I know about this life. This lady did my hair right before closing. I was depressed that I didn’t even realize what I was going through until she put me in her chair. She said baby we about to close but I couldn’t let you leave cause you need talking to baby. She helped me with conversation and a beautiful cut. I thank her I found the courage to leave and I’m doing better.

[@minky5466]

THATS SO SWEET AWW 🥰

[@suegoulding1341]

Thanks for making this lady so happy and giving her back her confidence!

[@ObeyDaqSwaqq]

My ex boyfriends mom had a sew in that was in her head for like 9 mos. I noticed her hair when I first met her and then 8 mos later it was the same way and I was wondering why. I went to cosmetology school, however, at that time I was working with the elderly and disabled in the health care industry so I noticed her behaviors were strange. I kept telling him his mom has Alzheimer’s and her behavior is abnormal and used her hair as an example. I explained the dangers of having her hair in that style because of mold and bacteria. I finally convinced him to ask his father if I could do her hair and he let me. When I took the sew in out due to how long it had been in her hair, the entire crown of her head was skin bald when I removed the tracks. It took me two full days to take out the tracks, net, braids, detangle, shampoo, condition, deep condition, trim the ends and do two plaits. Even though she wasn’t all the way there mentally, she felt so good afterwards and she thanked me. I gave her husband some hair oil and grease and told him to use that throughout her hair daily because she had a lot of scalp dandruff and psoriasis. That was about two years ago and she now has locs and they take her to the salon to get them done. The crown of her head did grow back. It is very important not to assume things about someone just because of their hair, often times there are things going on. Alzheimer’s and depression are great examples.

[@lunoxyajpw2679]

Beautiful story, you did great!! People like you have the understanding and not judge, I see it as a special gift you are truly a hero 👏

[@ektadubey8803]

I thought and thought and thought, but wasn't able to come up with the exact words to appreciate you. So, instead of that I would like to entertain you with some smileys. 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@Ikeoluwa.O.T3]

Wow So kind

[@namemiddle]

depression is a hell i wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. i’ve gone weeks without combing and it takes an hour to detangle but makes you feel so good after 🙂

[@whyparkjiminnotridejimin]

Why is it that hard to comb your hair? I have deep depression but still comb my hair and wash myself.🤔

[@jaywaffle7913]

@@whyparkjiminnotridejimin everybody is different

[@bb-ds2bo]

@@whyparkjiminnotridejimin you don’t look like you have deep depression that badly then.

[@evelinapushkash6827]

@@whyparkjiminnotridejimin if you are in a deep depression you should have a bit more sympathy towards those who struggle worse with it

[@OO-fm3sw]

@@whyparkjiminnotridejimin So you're just going to keep boasting about how depression hasn't hindered your hygiene on every other comment? I'd say u clearly have other issues aside from depression. I tried to be nice but now it's just getting on my nerves how insensitive you are. People who know, KNOW. Then there's you 🥺

[@AmandaYoungss]

" I would NEVER resort to cutting it off... There is ALWAYS a way through this!"

[@shouldacomewithawarninh4974]

Amen 🙏🏼

[@michaelmullin3585]

LICE!

[@casswashwash1070]

@@michaelmullin3585 She dont got lice. Lice isnt common in the black community because of the products we put in our hair

[@nemithescientist]

@@michaelmullin3585 Black ppl don't get lice like that because of the products we use

[@Kyprioth071]

@@casswashwash1070 Sure, but black people can still get lice. The real reason it doesn't happen as often is because it's difficult for eggs to reach the roots. Not to mention, lice prefer clean hair. It's a myth that someone with lice definitely has dirty hair.

[@janinerussell8504]

Thank you for being a blessing to your client. I hope whatever situation led to the neglect of her hair is better now.

[@AC-hi4ni]

I'm 100% certain there is no other hairdresser that would have taken the time to give this woman the respect and confidence back by doing what you did to keep her hair. You have a big heart and you did something this woman will never forget!

[@loo194]

Just speaking from my own experience as someone who struggles with severe depression and struggle to even put in clothes some day, I so appreciate this hairdresser. My mum booked an appointment for me to get my hair curled for my 8th grade graduation. She left to go run some errands, and the women doing my hair kept commenting on how many knots I had and how split my ends were, saying how I needed all sort of things done and that I needed to stop damaging it. I was a confused 13 year old who had and still does have virgin hair, never dyed even though people think I did since its red. But she was just giving me bad vibes. she was really pulling at the back to brush it out, and I said "ow" out loud. I think she actually was offended that SHE yanked my hair too hard, cause all of the sudden she stopped yanking and started curling. I didnt think much of it, figured she got all of the knots out. She finished up, my mum came back and paid her. Went to my graduation, looked good, forgot about how rude the hairdresser was. About 3 days later I go to put my hair up in a bun I notice I have a whole chunk of my hair cut super short right at the base where the knots where. I freaked out, my mum freaked out and immediately called her, she denied it and said that I did it when I most certainly did not. Long story short we had a big dispute with that woman and she ended up giving us the money back at least, but it took 3 years for it to grow out to match the rest of my hair, could not put my hair up at all for the 1st year because it looked like a weird reverse mullet. But it genuinely makes me feel so happy for this woman to get this kind of help, and the hairdresser wouldn't even dream of cutting her hair out. Props to her for being awesome!

[@katechallenge6429]

@@loo194 wow that's along sentence I don't think anyone red it

[@shakoorali7232]

@@katechallenge6429 rude but true

[@elliotmydude]

@@loo194 im so sorry that happened to you that's awful

[@loo194]

@@katechallenge6429 it's spelled "read" honey

[@jtchilla3519]

My mom says this video is like watching a sermon at church. There's so much love and compassion there. She's a nurse.

[@shouldacomewithawarninh4974]

Facts, I feel great 😊

[@blackcatlady2172]

That's a beautiful sentiment indeed! 💛💛

[@NYCBajan]

I am someone who usually dislikes hair dressers because they belittle you sometimes. You are so patient and kind. Man when you are really depressed, you do not care about anything but the place you are stuck in. 2020 had been rough on people. Bless you

[@kilvy8136]

You can hear the patience, understading and nuturing tone to her voice even as she ecplains steps and bits of life.❤

[@raebearalvarez7162]

I am bipolar and when in a depressive mood, showering is extremely hard so I totally understand. Thank you for not just shaving her head. You're awesome

[@just_shaeee]

❤️❤️❤️

[@nathalieconnor5803]

You have bipolar. You are more than your disorder!

[@_blessie_]

I’m right there with you

[@TheYardLover]

Why am I crying after seeing this? The power of compassion and patience is on full display here. And what a beautiful client. May God give her the wings to soar with a renewed spirit after this graceful restoration. And may Kee receive the Presidential Medal of Freedom for her meritorious contributions. It’s truly deeper than hair.

[@Tkimba2]

Maybe you're on your period

[@Tkimba2]

@@arlenecabreraaa no but crying over a youtube hair combing video does

[@DreaInspired]

This really was a message about being patient and extending grace that we all needed to hear.

[@thisnaturalgirlislocd]

Thank you for pointing that out!! Absolutely truth!

[@sugarandspice2136]

I know someone who ended up with almost 3 hand fulls of hair (natural) after she washed & detangled it after not tending to it for over 3 months. It was due to breakage, stress, anxiety, PTSD, and depression. She's dealing with lots and lots of loss so I appreciate your compassion and kind demeanor ❤

[@FreckledFoxx]

I honestly feel like you are a health care practitioner. Your attitude towards people and the way you use your skills is fantastic. I'm sure there is no telling how much good you did for this woman - body, mind, and soul.

[@myLORDishesedtome]

I believe that you're also born again. Remarkable!

[@teedy1boy]

I so concure . She performs miracle with her hands.

[@behindcloseddoorsministries]

Amen to that, her hair turned out so beautifully! 😍 I wish I lived near her because I would definitely go to her salon and straight to her for my hair care. I do my own hair because people always cut it off instead of trimming it in the past. This has happened to me enough times in my life where I’ve lost trust in people, so I do my best at home but I feel like I just need a person like her and I would be in good hands. I’m now on anticoagulants and my hair is falling out tremendously (it’s rare but can happen) and locking up also fir some reason, and nothing is working for me that I’ve tried from conditioners to oil.

[@JDurham124]

Sometimes, people just do what they can. She came to the right person. Her trust for both her hair and her mental health was well-placed.

[@SonyaLCH]

When my husband took his life, I didn't take the best care of my natural hair. I didn't go without combing it at all. I just didn't stick to a healthy natural hair routine. I never cared about keeping length, so I ended up doing another big chop. All this to say, yes, you never know what people are going through.

[@sonyabenradja1986]

1.Im so sorry for that happening. I really hope he rests in peace. 💞💕💖 2. It's cool how we have the same first name :) 3. Best the luck for you on your life, once again sorry for your loss.

[@carma3619]

Im sorry for your loss, i hope you can recover

[@Avayya]

hey there.. i’m so sorry that that happened to you. that is such a tragedy, i hope his body and soul can rest in peace, he is looking right down on you and smiling 💜

[@creativequeen8371]

❤

[@sassyqueen9739]

I’m so sorry for ur loss

[@ellenekman8557]

Soooo sorry for this lady. I suffer from depression myself and the smallest task seems monumental. God bless her and God bless you for giving her the most beautiful and uplifting gorgeous hair. AND your a verrrry sweet lady.

[@believensee8621]

I acknowledge this woman (Gina) for being unstoppable. I love that she said "you can't tell me no." This woman was ready to come out the darkness.

[@JoeCola]

THIS!!!

[@aliciadarling5983]

Loved that!💕

[@tricie79]

I avoided this vid last week. i hadnt washed my hair since november. the depression. i have micro locs. the build up was getting heavy. i finally washed my hair last night and i really do feel like a new woman. i still need another wash because of the buildup but its a start. im so happy that this woman found you and that you have love and patience.

[@kababyummy3765]

I feel you. I also get months where I can’t get myself to wash or comb or take care of myself at all. It’s getting better but it’s still very damaged and thanks to this pandemic there’s no chance to get out there and fix my mess :/ but I’m happy you’re treating your hair. Try your best and stay strong, it’ll get better :)

[@sniperdoodle2402]

@@kababyummy3765 I don't comb my hair too often but that's only because I'm too lazy

[@katedepaula9235]

I'm so happy for you!I really hope you will live a great life because you really deserve it!Go girl ❤️

[@sniperdoodle2402]

@@kababyummy3765 I’m actually gonna go comb/wash my hair now cause i just watched a bunch of morning routines and I’m bored ;-;

[@gbarbecue2399]

Congratulations on taking the baby steps to feeling better.

[@Viele_Katzen]

I don't know this client's history, but as someone that struggled with depression for years it warms my heart to see how you took care of your client's hair and soul by putting in more effort that other people might. All the best to you and her!

[@maude.]

@Skyler Massey it’s probably because of the mask so you can’t tell her emotions really

[@maude.]

and yeah i feel for her, i have depression that last for a short time and i don’t really brush my hair when it happens

[@MrScandinavio]

The love and care you show your clients and viewers is truly inspirational. X

[@justbyron1536]

I am a retired, male school teacher, who is addicted to your amazing hair videos a few months ago---so much that I called my sister in NC, letting her know that I felt I could straighten her hair out. She struggles with type 4(?) hair, doesn't want chemicals, nor an exorbitant hair bill. Fast forward, I visited her home during Christmas and made a difference in her hair situation. We also bonded more, and I look forward to doing her hair again, soon. So I thank you for your take on the "inner-person" and the victory experienced when hair issues can be improved. God bless you!

[@alaskaasalways4569]

💜💜

[@narutonacho1176]

This is beautiful, what a lovely thing to do for your sister. You are not only a teacher (which in and of itself is an incredible profession) but an undercover hairstylist too! It would be a lovely bonding experience. I hope you have more opportunities to do your sisters hair.

[@prettydisabled9060]

That's awesome! 🌻♥️

[@ea7535]

This is one of the most beautiful comments I've read on KZbin. Maybe it's because I love my brother so much and I know what it means for a sister to receive that kind of love. You are such a sweet man. 🧡

[@roslynballard727]

@@narutonacho1176 no

[@juls41056]

Coming from someone that has suffered from depression it's so hard sometimes to do even the most basic things. It's hard for a lot of ppl to understand but it's real.

[@bargainbeauty7529]

I'm one of'em! I'm sure I've went too long w/out cleansing my & showering 🚿. It's such ah challenge being imperfect! When, we wanna do right... We, do wrong! 😳😲😭

[@marysalvi242]

@Julian Greene your so right, I've have had anxiety since childhood along with probably depression though never thought I was, anyway I've had a few therapists and one she was wonderful and one thing she'd say was, well I think your doing okay (never feeling I was progressing) you come in here and taking care of yourself, 'your nails are always looking good" ; ) now, over oh past few years, I'd put on polish and would look at the polish chipping off etc and I could feel how they looked tacky though I'd find myself not bothering to take care of them. These days in a bit of a rut, so I don't polish my nails. That's an improvement because as much as I love my nails with color, I know right now is not the right time. Oh, I never ever stop wearing my red lipstick, yup, even with the mask. (actually when we could take our masks off). I hope your doing well, and don't forget at least for me, sometimes I just have to take things in moments, a day at a time can feel overwhelming. ~ sending love, light and peace to you ~ ☮ 💖💖

[@sherriemurrah9945]

You know it. My sister had it. My family and I didn't understand it. Then I went through it and PTSD. Don't judge people just offer them help they are ashamed of themselves for not doing anything but don't understand why either. They need love and understanding. Look it up maybe you will understand .

[@AshleyashAshey]

Thank you to the woman for being vulnerable with you and letting us watch the process. It takes strength and those of you coming from a judgemental place should look inward first.

[@lisasingh5816]

Much love 🤗

[@oakleydavis1202]

seeing her smile in the end was so healing!!

[@luckyducki51]

It really is deeper than hair 💯. The patience, understanding, compassion and saying no to cutting it off was it for me. Ma'am you literally restored this woman's inner self. You're such a blessing and I agree, I'm glad she was in your chair. Anybody else would've been like ok I agree let's cut it. No.. It's deeper than hair. God bless you ❤️

[@natyshatemple7476]

💯

[@ayonnazglam9050]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@spiritwalker341]

💕💖💕🕊

[@19GENESE13]

Stress, depression, and "lack" will make certain things fall by the wayside. No judging here. Just be glad that your life's circumstances haven't drowned you.

[@syds8752]

That’s immediately what I thought when I saw the title.

[@quitecontrary23]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@doll9763]

🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@stephieruud]

Girl, THERAPY, that's what you did. Her hair looks amazing and I love how much confidence care and kindness can have.

[@candicejh8247]

*Hairapy. That’s what I’ve always called it.

[@Justcallmestyles]

When my depression was at its worst, I could go weeks without washing me hair. It just took so much energy, all I wanted to do was to lay in bed. I have severe OCD as well and it became a vicious cycle of I needing to shower and feeling horrible/becoming obsessive over the fact that I wasn't clean but not having the energy to do anything about it and it made it so much worse. No one knew that tho, they assumed I was lazy. You don't know what someone is going through. Please be kind, they are already going through hell, they don't need someone making it worse.

[@katholeenloveit8923]

I know how you feel and I really hope you're feeling better.

[@tricie79]

Hope youre feeling better. If not, hugs for better days

[@lanietalk]

A lot of my ocd is in showering, brushing teeth, and washing dishes (my routines) so it takes way too long sometimes. The rituals get worse and more complicated depending on how many bad things are happening in my life

[@Justcallmestyles]

@@katholeenloveit8923 thank you!

[@Justcallmestyles]

@@tricie79 thank you! I'm slowly getting there 🙂

[@TaprootPoem13]

see? this is what we need MORE of in this world. people being able to go to one another for help and not be made to feel bad about it. this is exactly what a professional should act like

[@Mmm1884]

This is probably my third or fourth time watching this video. She looks so youthful and radiant! Great job as usual!

[@tylerj6182]

She thought she was going to be walking out grey and bald, you’re a hero

[@myrthasmascary4086]

I like her gray

[@myrthasmascary4086]

Stunning work it

[@MIMH32]

Lol right! This was excellent

[@hallegrace3175]

as someone who’s had to go through a situation very similar to this due to depression, i’m so thankful people like you exist. a non-judgements hairdresser helps us out more than you know.

[@honeyeditz7397]

Don’t try to make this about you for attention. No one asked about you.

[@emanimarie4505]

@@honeyeditz7397 dang... I care. Everyone in the comments are sharing their story sooo..

[@hallegrace3175]

@@honeyeditz7397 woah buddy, i was just relating to the other people in this comment section who have gone through similar experiences. no need to be so rude ;)

[@alisaben1]

I love how you turn situations into truly teachable moments. Your kindness is unrivaled. #cheers

[@Onepieceistheworstfuckinganime]

That’s right

[@cynthiastauffer8012]

Absolutely gorgeous! I watched this video 2 years later. I hope and pray she is doing great. I have been/am still there going through depression. I have a dr apt 6/12...it does seem like our hair suffers too when we are going through a mental health crisis. I am so happy you fixed her hair ❤

[@alee7322]

Sometimes people go through stuff. I went through family members dying from 2007- 2016, back to back. Not to mention breaking my back at work and needing surgery and a spinal stimulator. People ask me how I’m still sane. She’s here for help, poor baby. I’m glad you helped her.

[@angryraisin]

You’re so very strong for all that you went through. I hope you heal from everything and flourish wonderfully

[@alee7322]

@@angryraisin Thank you

[@tessamilano5697]

Girllllllllll... fellow hair stylist here for 22 years and i take my hat off to you! No one knows the patience, time, sweat, tears, and HEART we put into doing hair!! I hope that after seeing this video more ppl understand our passion-- not only for hair but also for making our clients feel"whole " again.

[@Lola1912]

A lot of stylists really don't care. They just do whatever. We need more stylists like you and her around 😭

[@oooni]

We know & appreciate y’all! 💖

[@nicolebartlein1854]

I bet you have strong arms!

[@hikeeba44]

As someone with clinical depression, I deeply appreciate your love and patience. I know she did. And she looks beautiful. I have periods of neglect, too.

[@artofhobo]

As someone who suffer from depression and know others who suffer, thank you for caring and being sympathetic