One year without washing & combing hair!

Extremely matted hair. One year without combing and washing hair! 3 days to detangle hair. Her hair is completely matted together.
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[@krystalsmith5218]

People dont understand depression and mental illness. We can throw a hat on and put on a smiling face but be dying on the inside. May God bless her and and all those that are suffering in silence.

[@erickacolden692]

Yes, I just touched on that. My heart is so heavy my neighbors are good friends. We met through my youngest daughter and my neighbors granddaughter. Thursday morning my daughter went on Facebook and found out her my neighbors grandson ( brother of the lil girl friends with my daughter) Took his own life, he was in 12th grade. I was sure it was him, but i had and text from neighbor to call. I ran over and I just held my friend, im sorry to get heavy. Put u appear to understand depression and it is a muthafu****

[@SebastianBlackwell94]

Yea, I start lacking on my hygiene when my mental health is shit(I have schizophrenia, depression, etc). I was lacking with it for 2wks,but I took a nice long shower yesterday and holy shit I felt soooooooo relived. And im going to the shop to get my hair retwisted cause I'm tired of looking bummy 🤣

[@adriennelopez5936]

Yesss 💯 correct

[@JayDivfame]

Amen

[@erickacolden692]

@@SebastianBlackwell94 yes 😊👏🏿god. My hair needs to be loved on. I too took a long bathe with Mr. Teals and watched 📺 on my phone. I feel a lot better too. Im not sleeping the best yet, but im praying for all of you and plz do the same for me god bless good nite. Ill check in on our group 👌❤💪🏿🙏🏿

[@ShannOliver]

Not only did this stylist spend 3 full days working on her hair, it looks like she spent 3 full days TALKING with her client. I'd bet this client is unaccustomed to that, and I'm so happy she's received some of the attention and care she deserves.

[@Sweetsrananglobione]

Well said sister😊👍🏽👏🏾

[@rivkacampbell677]

Shann I feel she talk today and tomorrow and next day 🙏🏾😇💙❤️✌🏽💫

[@acat9978]

That can be almost considered "torture". When you are used to not talk and have someone talking 24h over 3 days can be very exhausting

[@melissaclark7734]

New to the channel, Did it really take her 3 days? Did she have her leave and come back for 3 days? Great Love & Patience this woman has for this client💖💖

[@ShannOliver]

@@acat9978 Yeah I get that. I feel like good stylists are super attuned to if people want to talk or not. I'm pretty introverted and 99% of the time they pick up on it and we both get to enjoy silence. Hopefully this client had a great experience either way! 😊

[@RoseRedRoseWhite]

The moment I heard one year, no brushing no washing, I immediately had to come here to tell her it happens to the best of us with depression. No shame. you survived that year, still here with us, that's a celebration. It might just be a really unconventional one🖤🌻

[@mapleext]

Well said!

[@American-Jello]

Beautifully stated. ❤️

[@taezaj123]

Aman Amen...❤❤❤

[@zeamaria1]

I saw your comment today, and it had me in tears. nice said!🖤

[@amandabrooks9244]

Girl, you ain't no hairdresser, you a miracle worker! Her hair looks GORGEOUS! You got some serious talent.

[@NBnNC]

And serious patience 😳

[@chiedzamutiro3182]

On behalf of everyone who has struggled with personal hygiene due to mental illness thank you for helping and not judging. You saved her not just her hair.

[@babydidyoueat]

I agree 😖😭♥️

[@leighdavis7813]

AMEN Sister ❣️🙏🏾❤️

[@Maria_maria412]

Amen!!! ❤️❤️ been there done that

[@dimplezpgh]

Agreed!

[@laineyerin5801]

Truth

[@treasuresofglory9615]

Depression is an evil beast, but she made it through. Her hair is gorgeous.

[@crimson636]

It may have not been depression

[@myrthasmascary4086]

She beautiful. Yes depression is a killer

[@suet.r.4815]

It is! -I struggle with it, too. You can't let it win.

[@9290SC]

She could have been homeless. Not everything is mental illness

[@md-ge7dg]

@@9290SC and not everything has to do with being homeless. let’s use common sense, she wasn’t homeless. it was depression, if you would listen to the video.

[@Kalilovee1]

I’ve never seen such a patient non-judgmental hair stylist. You are amazing

[@BusyHands-dd2bx]

She sure is ❤️❤️

[@KatinakittykatPatterson]

YESSSSS HONEY! Where is your shop located? Cause I DEFINITELY CAN USE YOUR SERVICES AND HELP! 😏 😉 😅😂AND PPL JUST DON'T GET IT AND UNLESS YOU'VE HAD MAJOR OR CLINICAL DEPRESSION....OOOO CHILD.. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR MOM&MOSTLY DADDY'S COMBINED FOR ME 2H HAIR AND YESSSSS I TOOK THE HAIR CODE TEST 3 TIMES😅😂😅😂 AND THANK GOD BECAUSE OF MY DEPRESSION, IT'S HARD TO BELIEVE THAT I BARELY CAN GET OUT OF MY BED TO TAKE CARE OF MYSELF 😢😢AND MY SICKLE CELL DISEASE PAIN IN TOP OF EVERYTHING ELSE... IT'S NO LAUGHING MATTER. BUT I THANK YOU FOR BEING SO KIND, AND RESPECTFUL OF YOUR CLIENT AND FOR SHARING THIS PRODUCT. I DEFINITELY WILL BE GETTING SOME. GOD BLESS YOU, ALL OF US. AND PLEASE PROTECT YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AND ITS AS STRONG AS THE SICKLE CELL PAIN CRISIS. Y'ALL TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES AND THERE IS NO SHAME IN GETTING HELP FOR YOUR MIND QUEENS! CAUSE, I KNOW THAT IF YOUR MIND AIN'T RIGHT, THEN THE REST OF YOU AIN'T GOING TO BE EITHER 😢❤ SO PLEASE DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU "JUST CALL JESUS- YES HE WORKS AND HE GIVES US FREE WILL AND HOPEFULLY YOU HAVE COMMON SENSE-TO GO FIND THE THINGS YOU NEED AND BE PROACTIVE ABOUT WHAT YOU NEED TO DO FOR YOUR LIFE, OK?

[@DaijaMonroe]

A non-judgmental stylist is so hard to come by.

[@s.g.445]

Bless you. I had my first major depressive episode the summer between 7th-8th grade. I sat in the dark the entire summer and every part of me suffered. The judgement I felt going to the shop to get it detangled was painful for anyone, let alone a kid. I have severe depression and have times still where I have to spend a few hours detangling and just putting myself back together. It’s painful, and so many times I see women saying “just suck it up” or “the last thing I’d let go is my hygiene”. No one knows until they go thru it and that’s all there is to it. You didn’t ask for all of that but I needed to share. You are a blessing for taking the time to help someone reach a step towards healing. Wishing both of you nothing but the best.

[@jakjak5400]

❤🙏🏽

[@toadacrosstheroad]

Exactly. Your perspective completely changes when you're the one stuck there. I didn't expect to be unable to care for myself either, and I felt ashamed. Not just because others felt they needed to share their input, but because I had so little empathy for others who struggled until I was there. Destigmatization is so important for the well-being of everyone, especially health wise. It all seems so different until it's your normal, and only then do you understand it.

[@alylu-to-esutej]

I feel you. My first depressive episode was around that time. Going through it that young is so cruel when you don't have the tools or context to deal with it

[@sayjay26]

Its one day at a time, we all can hit a wall, I tell everyone each day you wake up is a new day to start over again. Peace Blessings and Love ✌🙏💜

[@DemeterTelphousia-Erinyes]

I want to wish you the best for your mental health ❤

[@tanyaparker776]

When you said, I spent three days detangling her hair, three days speaking Life into her... That Part!!!!

[@love518salon]

🥰

[@Brandithaboss_]

You ministered to her... that’s beautiful ❤️

[@Lavonlloyd4689]

That part!! 🙌

[@rosesibanda5842]

Hadassa are you in Dallas?

[@love518salon]

@@rosesibanda5842 I’m located in Miami, Florida

[@georgiakelly9604]

I had a client come in with bad depression. Her hair was all matted, some falling out. I spent 4 hours untangling her hair as gently as I could. That Christmas I got a random gift at my work and I realized it was from that girl. She thanked me for making her feel so beautiful again. I had no idea how much this meant to her but I'm glad I was trained right and made this girl's life a little less stressful.

[@thedigitaljide]

I'm not crying 😭

[@kerianal9456]

That’s awesome ✨❤️

[@ItsDcruz]

❤️

[@sadaf186]

💗💗

[@frankiemcbean.]

I’m not crying...your crying-

[@ladylove34]

Ok this is definitely a trauma response. I went through trauma i never couldve imagined this year, and i instantly stopped eating, sleeping, everything. My stomach never growled, and i felt nothing, dropping tens of lbs in weeks, even though I'm an athlete. It is HORRIBLE what trauma does, but I'm so glad shes recovering. ❤

[@christaoo4347]

You’re not alone. We are strong tho and we bounce back

[@RealityCheck1980]

Depression is no joke! I’m so happy you were able to save her hair. I’m so happy you were kind to her and that she was brave enough to let someone help her.

[@slothhh4842]

Did anyone randomly have this recommended but loves watching it

[@thecorruptedcat989]

Yes I was like why but it's well needed

[@cinnamonroso]

It’s 2am and I bored so why not😆

[@jazsol]

Literally just now

[@vielepic]

yup.

[@georgiadyer665]

Yes!

[@saye3902]

This isn’t about the hair, it’s the fact that you didn’t give up on her. That’s what she’ll take away from this-that during her hard times, someone stayed by her side and didn’t give up on making her feel beautiful. She’s putting out new vibrations with that hair that’ll change her life for the better!! Get it girl

[@susanniah9343]

Yes

[@tamara7301]

Yess

[@saye3902]

@WoahIDidntDoIt K your level of emotional intelligence is low af but cool do you

[@Augustbeauty69]

@WoahIDidntDoIt K it's not about the hair. It's about the journey.

[@radkillz3692]

@WoahIDidntDoIt K bruh Mental health Put your few braincells together and use them

[@casmartin790]

I'm so glad she didn't cut her hair off and that she found the strength to go out and be vulnerable in order to be get the help she needed. She looks wonderful and I was so happy for her and the stylist at the end. Great video ❤

[@stacyb1341]

Is it just me or is her hair incredibly healthy and full considering she hasn't combed, washed or conditioned in a year? Her hair seems to be in better condition than those who are getting weekly treatments. This is what should be called "good hair". Kudos to you for being able to do this for 3 days. I can barely get through 3 hours when I'm getting crochet braids done

[@katlegosako9278]

I was just thinking of the same thing😊her hair looks amazing. More healthier

[@maximusstorm1215]

So you'd be happy & complacenct with hair just like this?

[@stacyb1341]

@maximusstorm1215 I don't see why not. I'm not sure you understand how strong her hair has to be to withstand what it withstood and look like that in the end.

[@HssnsidndjdndBdndndjndk-yn4vh]

Black hair thrives when it's left alone. (I'm not saying go a year obviously) The women who always get their har done 2x a month and stay putting their hands in their hair and using heat and chemicals, that what breaks off your hair. If you just leave black hair alone it'll thrive. I wash my hair once a month and rice water rinse three times a week and I use coconut oil and blue magic twice a week...and do a twist out or braids to the back and leave my head alone.

[@InBrad]

because the uploaded exaggerated in the title for views. and only fooling the weak minded

[@geelllee]

Damn she went through all of that effort, respected her clients privacy and didn't judge her one bit, can we have more stylists like this Im tired of being anxious going to the hair dresser and feeling like Im going to get roasted for split ends 😂

[@Alyssaj1236]

Right!

[@Jboog742]

I totally agree!

[@sweetathegreat]

Yeah just because they want to sell some shampoo they roast my hair so much... Instead of gaining confidence after a hair cut I come out crying😥

[@geelllee]

@@sweetathegreat you would think that they would know making someone feel insecure and uncomfortable after going to their salon would make clients less likely to return and yet-

[@m.f.m1006]

Totally. This happens even with the dentist. Always judging.

[@Antoinettegreen88]

As a clinical therapist, this makes me happy. I’ve also felt like there should be a fusion between the mental health and cosmetology professions. Beauty salons and barbershops are wonderful healing spaces...I hope she continues to have peace and stability.

[@tessc541]

Good point!! How does a person REACH another with bad hygiene during those heavy depression days?

[@siginotmylastname3969]

A non profit called open barbers does stuff like this in London. They run clothes swaps, do protests, just coffee and tea for any time if you go in, there's a therapist I think who works with them? It's an lgbt+ hairdressers, there's a specialist for black hair and another for colouring, and they also do home visits for disabled people who can't get there, and a sliding scale with the lowest price slots given out to poor clients... I just had to comment but there should be more places doing that!

[@erickacolden692]

Yes I worked for CMH IN MICHIGAN, SOME WOMEN IN THE EARLY ON PROGRAM JUST NEEDED THAT AND RESPITE😊💪🏿❤ AGREE EBONY

[@samanthafriend1177]

It’s wild for me see your comment cause I want to university to become a psychologist, I’m not one but I also went for cosmetology and feel that getting our hair done is a form of therapy. From the personal conversations with your stylist to the elevation in self worth everyone gets from a fresh hair due. It’s awesome to see and this has my wheels turning! This video is awesome and inspirational. Thanks for sharing 🥰

[@meeka2225]

I couldn’t agree more. The amount of conversations I’ve had with my clients and advice I’ve given you’d think I would have a PHD by now.

[@Lilithd3mon]

I love what you did for her. Depression hits hard to some people. You gave her something she needed and the dentangling the hair is like detangling all the bad stuff we need out of our lives. You are amazing. ❤

[@ambert666]

Why didn't you use detangling conditioner

[@Lilithd3mon]

@@ambert666 me? What do you mean?

[@indiarodgers3739]

My daughter caught nits when she was younger and I ended up catching it. The nit lotion ended up tangling and matting my hair immediately. It was like the girls in this video. I went to the hairdressers in tears and said whatever you do don’t cut it off as I had been growing it for years. The hairdresser without my knowledge took a razor blade to my hair and cut off the entire thing. I couldn’t even get it into a hair band. I said what did you do, she laughed. My hair went from my mid back to short, short. My hair still hasn’t regained its original length a decade later. It’s great to see a hairdresser that takes care. I also really appreciated your compassion and sensitivity towards this young lady. Support is what she needs and you gave it to her.

[@robtooley4002]

I'm so sorry that happened to you. It just shows how special this hairdresser is.

[@jessicaandreajovelmojica193]

Can we appreciate the beautiful masks that protect her identity? They could've been made of a carton box, but no, they had flowers and beads :)

[@user-wu4wp8xn4t]

:)

[@elpidak6554]

its the little details :)

[@echomcclellan7079]

So beautiful! I love it! I think it adds to this process of helping people feel better and beautiful and cared for.

[@audreygreen8697]

It nice :)

[@niafaith]

she could’ve been the hospital alone, homless or depressed. please don’t be mean guys

[@RoxiiYolii]

Sometimes we have to be reminded... And when I say we, I mean me... So thank you for reminding me 🥰🥰🥰

[@sookie8483]

me

[@yvettepowell7178]

You and her are beautiful people made my day your words your work and her being so brave GOD bless you

[@niafaith]

@@yvettepowell7178 thank you queen bless you

[@niafaith]

@@RoxiiYolii we arent perfect!

[@bonniereynolds9354]

My daughter went through this because of depression due to trauma. She finally let someone work on her hair and now it's down past her butt and gorgeous! And this young lady is no different, she is GORGEOUS! And you truly are an angel for doing this💕💕💕

[@hayat3428]

I love everything about this video - the empathy, patience, concern for client's privacy, and even the cute mask. I've never been to a salon and I wonder if they charge based on hair type or per hour. If so, three days of such labor intensive work must cost a lot, but totally worth it.

[@Llupe9021]

You're not only a stylist, you are a healer.

[@simplyytaeee1401]

FR

[@chefsizzle8138]

True shit. I always feel amazing when my girl do my 2 strand twist. The whole process is therapeutic

[@maryhopexyra]

redo of healer

[@alishanaicker6035]

Amen bïțćh

[@jokerssmiles5159]

True tho-

[@sapphicfairie]

When I relapsed into really bad depression, my hair has matted like this too, but my grandma sat with me for hours to help me untangle it.

[@TorTheWeirdo]

That’s love

[@tynellesharratt463]

Naaaw - Grandma 😍 Look after yourself beauty, and that lovely Gran of yours x

[@patriciaroysdon9540]

❤

[@emalinu]

my mother cut pretty much all of it off

[@auraholly]

A Grandma’s love 🥰 so sweet!

[@DarkRubes]

I just went through this myself after not doing anything with my hair for 2 years. It was so matted and tangled that I cut it off and started over; she and I have the same hair type so I know the struggle that was making it through the detangling process. My hair locked itself and started the dreading process on its own. It was ultimately easier to start over. I so resonated with this lady because it was a lot of pouring going on for years that took its toll for me. I lost a lot and struggled with doing “triage”: If I could just get through this disaster … and then another thing would pop up, and then another and another and another. This went on for like 5 years. And when it was finally over, the family I thought I had to support me weren’t there, and made it a point to dismiss the pain and loss I went through. I had my now-husband and that’s it. So self care took a backseat. That’s how mine got to 2 years. I would consistently do self-care and then fall off. I just consistently started again and I’m determined to stay on it and keep doing what I know I can do for myself. I told my husband that you fell out of the same angel division that he did because I know God sent you to work miracles and heal those of us in need. Please keep working your healing power on the rest of us. We need kindness and compassion and more folks like you.❤️

[@gigiheights4195]

❤

[@oshinofalakoju5749]

THIS IS AMAZING!! I love how willing you were to detangle instead of jumping straight to a haircut!!! Sooo many stylists would not have the patience you did for a THREE DAY PROCESS!!! Girl I am smiling so hard at this video. Amazing, AMAZING job. Wow.

[@newnana9070]

Clinical depression will do you in. During my worst stage, I cut mine off. When you’re dealing with depression, your hair isn’t important. Your mental health is paramount. I am glad she better!! God keep her in his hands.

[@missamericanpie1]

THIS IS NOT DEPRESSION!!! STOP BLAMING IT ON DEPRESSION.

[@We_Are_All_Vultures]

♥️

[@We_Are_All_Vultures]

@@missamericanpie1 it is exactly *CLINICAL* depression. We are not talking about feeling a bit depressed every now and then we're talking about damn clinical depression. Why are you speaking on something obviously have no idea about?

[@Hannahsx]

@@missamericanpie1 it is 💀

[@mayalyynn6580]

I just cut mine for the same reason! I noticed that it was no longer a priority and I hated doing it. I feel SO much better since I cut it!!

[@rissa_x]

good thing she found you because any other stylist would’ve just cut it off you took care of her for three days that’s amazing

[@angelica.86]

When you love what you do....the passion shows and the work quality is outstanding. She is very lucky to had found you. I pray to God she keeps finding strength and will. We have to take care of ourselves to care for others.. can't pour from an empty cup. Great job! Beautiful work!

[@yinkabb]

Wow and her hair was so long

[@furiosa1203]

Nah, my sister had this issue and got her hair fixed by a good salon. Most places are good and kind.

[@mandigrace6329]

@@furiosa1203 not here where I am. My son's hair is maybe 1/10 as tangled as hers and I get sent home every time if I don't have it mostly detangled. Where are you located because I need some help! 😭 He's a typical boy but with a lot of hair and he doesn't like braids, twists, or ponytails. Nor does he want it cut. So that means a lot of lint and randomness from tumbling and rolling around on the ground. He has a beautiful fro when it's detangled and moisturized but it never stays that way for long.

[@furiosa1203]

@@mandigrace6329 Hm, It depends. I live in Ontario Canada, so I never had a bad experience with a hair salon before. I would try a salon that works on POC hair though. They are probably the best. Or try a salon that might be a bit more higher end, as those places can be really good too. I try asking on a facebook group in your area if you can. That's the best way to get good recommendations.

[@LewyK]

I cannot imagine how freeing that must have felt for her. What a strong lady for being able to come in and ask for help. Beautiful hair!! So happy she didn't have to cut it off.

[@nattydreadlocks6173]

I cannot imagine allowing my hair to get to this state… but watching your love and care for this woman was absolutely humbling… only God knows what this woman is going through to cause this. What an amazing spirit and gift to love and empower someone in this way. This was beyond humbling to watch… your right… we have no idea what people go through…🌷

[@healingv1sion]

I stopped washing my hair for a whole year after my mom passed. Depression is a bitch I feel for this woman

[@xristinarose2409]

I m sorry to hear 😔 are you doing better now?

[@Cutay7BOOTAY]

I completely understand. My momma passed away on July 2, 2018 and my daddy passed on September 10 2018. It was totally unexpected. I was devastated and my afro suffered. I had to cut it all off.

[@shirleysimmons734]

I did the same thing when my son passed, my only child. I thought I would die to, when I did my hair my therapist and office people were so happy, you would have thought I hit the lottery. But having the strength to care for yourself again is a break thru at getting better. I'm so sorry for your lost, you lost your Queen, be strong and I feel you.

[@ms.valdez5633]

@@shirleysimmons734 these stories are breaking my heart. I hope you doing well.

[@saron4445]

@@Cutay7BOOTAY I’m so sorry for you loss ❤️ I hope you doing better 🤞🏾🤞🏾

[@SimplySatisfiedSarah]

Depression is real. And your self care suffers. She’s brave for asking for help instead of just shaving her head. I hope Life turns around for her 🙌

[@RonLarhz]

I'm living with pdd I just shave off whenever it became too long n oily. My hair is falling off almost like cancer patient,lol... But I just don't have the energy to be consistent. Feels like a chore even it's simple thing like taking a pill or applying cream.

[@larasouzaguerrer3677]

@@RonLarhz hey babe I hope the things get better and you find what you need I'll pray for you I hope you get better I know you will get better You are enough And you are strong I love u

[@Acidfunkish]

I feel this. I've had a few really bad times in my life in which my skincare and haircare really, really suffered. I did end up having to get my hair all chopped off, because I just couldn't care for it, properly. 😔 Not a fun time. I'm sorry for anyone else going through something similar. It can get better, and it likely will. Do whatever you need to do. Don't let anyone shame you for it.

[@ezzyalvarez7206]

Depressed or not the most I can go without washing my hair is 2 days after that I need too wash it! Feels all oily n nasty....especially in the summer I was my hair everyday...too not Wash hair for a year!!! Wow thas crazy....😬

[@gb917]

@@ezzyalvarez7206 Your depression is probably not that severe.

[@maescreativespace444]

She has BEAUTIFUL HAIR! Thank you for unlocking her from depression. I bet she felt beautiful

[@ZoeyDelPinto]

Her hair is gorgeous! As someone who has also had mental health/adult life struggles, it is so amazing that you create a safe space for people. Losing her hair could’ve have been one more stressor on top of everything else, and you gave her that piece of herself back ❤

[@WickedSk8rGrl]

I love how she's like no judgement and protects her clients identity. This is a beautiful channel. Her hair ended up gorgeous! I hope she feels better (:

[@platypi8185]

ayeee 100th likee but also yes i agree privacy is everything in situations like this 💜

[@mjdirksen4004]

You are an angel. Grateful there are people like you out there. 🥳 😘

[@Melissa-dn5kd]

U did awesome

[@sxxsxsaveanimals991]

YESSSS

[@I_cReAtE_and_YoU_hAtE]

Imagine the girls courage she had to have in order to walk in and get this done. 😊

[@thislittlethingcalledlifea8586]

I know right?! Battling inner demons is no joke and she rose above it. I’m so happy for her and I’m just a stranger on the internet! 😊💕

[@sunshinesolace3540]

@UCFDJak6tUl7TGvNbGri3JcA There are many reasons why people may unable to properly care for themselves. A big reason is battling mental illnesses like depression. It's honestly none of our business and we shouldn't judge.

[@JB-vr1qe]

Courage or stupidity ?

[@nevaswitchupp]

@@JB-vr1qe why is it stupid to get your hair washed?

[@feventekle5533]

@@JB-vr1qe don't judge people with out knowing the reason.

[@AgirlsNoOne]

You are amazing for creating a safe space for her! There was a point in my life where I was too depressed to take care of myself and once I lifted myself out of that depression, I was too afraid to go to a salon for help. It really warms my heart to see caring people like you exist! ❤

[@vbblogs8162]

Her hair is AMAZING!! With everything her hair has been through, LOOK AT WHAT’S LEFT!! Some us could only wish for that much hair!! I wish her all the best!

[@163368]

I was homeless for 2 years, and I was lucky to get a shower once a week to wash my body, hair and wigs. It was A LOT of wash ups instead. 🙄 People didn't even know I was homeless until after I got on my feet; it became my testimony at that point 🙂 I can relate because of what I have been through. God bless you and her... 🙏🏾

[@dollsNcats]

Your amazing !!!! You fought hard girl ! Im so glad you made it and your ok 🥰

[@163368]

@@dollsNcats Thank you so much queen 👑🙏🏾

[@kathyo166]

Well done Delisia!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Keep looking after yourself. Sending you sincere kind thoughts and hopeful future blessings. X🤗

[@163368]

@@kathyo166 Thank you so much. 🙏🏾 Your kind words are definitely appreciated 🤗

[@michellebamtyles]

Jesus loves you and cares for you Please reach out to Him

[@misslady5466]

Thank you for taking the time to do her hair and not just cutting it all off 👸🏾

[@love518salon]

She really wanted to save her and I really wanted to help her! 🥰

[@brittneyhicks600]

Amen this was AMAZING. Her hair was beautiful when you were done and she still retained alot of length

[@Maria-ju3kf]

Wow, you are the best stylist on you tube. You did such a wonderful job. I would be honored if you do my hair one day. What state are you located in?

[@desmariewilliams8216]

Damn !!!!

[@santricemcpherson7809]

Yes

[@Niafytb]

This is definitely a big victory. I love how kind you and protective you are over this women. What you did for her and her hair is amazing we need more people like you in the world!

[@nicolehatcher7679]

This is amazing. I suffer with mental health and depression. It is amazing there are people who don't judge and willing to help those in need because of inability to maintain there personal care when struggling emotionally.

[@pookiehoney]

What you did for her was more than fixing her hair. You helped fix her heart. Sometimes you just need a reminder that you are worthy to take care of yourself.

[@asmrsleep3079]

Beautifully said. We need more people like the hairdresser. ❤️

[@timchrysler1202]

You DID SO MUCH more than her hair; you gave her the self respect she had lost along the road of life. May you both be blessed.

[@ekuaasabeamintah1183]

Amen! great comment from a good place

[@messaraahmed1303]

Amen.

[@user-zb3dw8rg8r]

Amen

[@user-hj5io2wt3d]

Amen

[@evelynenyokabi6369]

😂

[@mikki3740]

I watched your video while prepping for my own much-dreaded detangling session of my almost one-month neglected, mid-back length, VERY matted, tangled hair, and I loved the positive inspo! I am also tall with intense shrinkage just like her! 🙂 Yep you never know what life is going to bring right around the corner and depending on the severity the hair just doesn't become a priority. I'm so inspired! And can I just say her hair is beautiful even when its matted. Its so thick! There's nothing quite like our texture! Ok I put the Creed 3 soundtrack on, I got my combs and product ready, I'm going in!

[@deagles2]

I was a cna, i came into work one day to shower a lady who was bed bound with ALS, she was my first black patient ive ever showered. I was horrified when she told me her head was so itchy and if i could was it more for her. I spent two hours detangaling her hair and massaging her head. I know shes bedbound, but patients need dignity and careing for their needs is important to providing them dignity. Poor thing really enjoied the extra attention. This hairstyalist really is a miracle worker!

[@angelabatts8677]

I had some bad luck at 19 I was homeless and I was try trying to figure out what to do and I had nobody to turn to and honestly my hair was the last thing that I was worried about I was worried about eating where I’m going to sleep ,how am I going to make money when nobody wants to hire me, I was at my lowest of the low and honestly I lost my faith and everything , but thankfully somebody finally hired me and I’ve been climbing to the top since then. people don’t realize how hard life truly is

[@pinky12345pinkie]

Wow. I’m sorry you had to experience that. I hope you continue to be great!

[@mjndiaye]

Over here rooting for you. I hope you are as proud of yourself as we your internet fam is of you. Keep rising!

[@thewordsmith5440]

You couldnt get on welfare and section 8 or do you have to have kids to get on welfare? I'm not judging or codemning its a real question btw. I always wonder how not one family member will help out a homeless relative.

[@pinky12345pinkie]

@@thewordsmith5440 yeah I wondered how it works too. I’m not sure the government really helps out like that.

[@TheSub2rainen]

@@thewordsmith5440 There isn’t much help for a person without kids. Just SNAP (food stamps) and general relief, which is a loan that will be attached to your income 100% until paid off. I stopped after 3 months for that reason. If she had been working, then unemployment benefits are 26 weeks, although there were years of extensions around 2007-09. It can be a very low level compared to salary, however, and often not enough for rent.

[@kitakeet7]

Black hair can be a handful to take care of and not everyone has hours to detangle and twist. Please be kind to this lady as it is not always so simple. I'm so glad the stylist was able to assist her in getting back to basics.

[@geelllee]

the comment section has surprised me, the majority has been overwhelmingly positive and supportive, like faith in humanity has been restored at least for five minutes

[@PopMami]

It really can be that easy but we have been tricked by people pushing products that we need a whole wash day to do our hair.

[@sullivann]

Cant you just say hair??

[@PopMami]

@@sullivann No.

[@platinumpepe8626]

@@sullivann iTs SPecIAl.

[@kit0w0]

Bless her heart🥺 she looks so beautiful, and the end that being her real hair!! So valuable, so glad she kept it

[@ebok98]

Thank God she has the courage to move forward. God bless her and you for your attention and care for her. You’re a blessing.

[@omarabrody5469]

The fact that she came into your salon means she wants to take care of herself, which shows she's starting to get better. It couldn't have been easy to do that. I hope she continues to get better. Wishing her all the best. I hope you know how much it must have meant for her to have someone like you, help her, without judging.

[@halamadrid6733]

She had a whole year to take care of herself

[@omarabrody5469]

@@halamadrid6733 depression, mental illness and many other factors (such as having a complicated life where your priorities have to be towards others) can make someone neglect oneself. What matters is that she's back to caring for herself now.

[@halamadrid6733]

@@omarabrody5469 I re read your main comment. I see what you mean that Now she's trying to take care of herself

[@PrisTvv]

Yea

[@katehalasz5069]

@@omarabrody5469 As someone who has gone through something similar, thanks.

[@RowanWarren78]

I have clinical depression, and I totally get this. I have gone ten days without bathing during a very bad episode. I mostly slept.

[@D.hazard]

Ten days is ok but how can your hair go 1 year without water it's like she even shielded it from the rain to

[@walkingintruthknowledge7418]

@@D.hazard that's not how black hair works and it's clear u dont know that

[@kaylariggs5188]

Girl I understand you so much you don't even know!!

[@fiercenunbothered]

Amen. Showering, eating, leaving the bed, and self care can be very difficult for me during a bad episode. Some people may not understand if they haven’t been there

[@forkscr3w]

@@D.hazard so you just ignored the judge free disclaimer right.

[@kerensa7349]

The only thing that made me feel better for a while was washing my hair but running a comb through it made me want to cry. I love your videos. You're helping so many people.

[@user-ln6ov8vo3j]

You did that!!!! I’m so happy for her loving on herself through self care! That can be so hard when you are experiencing struggle. Go girl go! 👏🏾👏🏾

[@chaddyormillo1164]

Maybe this woman is gone through depression and finally able to overcome it and starting to take care of herself.

[@WendyRamrattan]

Probably it's the rastafarian culture I'm from the Caribbean

[@Bigglizzyk]

What is your picture bro Lol ..

[@chaddyormillo1164]

@@WendyRamrattan carribean is such a wonderful place we have our own carribean like place and paradise here in the Philippines its called Boracay Islland is also influenced bay rasta culture where you will see people along the white sand beaches wearing their locks as well 😊

[@kayda-leemclean7802]

@@chaddyormillo1164 exactly and ir ain't looking like that

[@AJENKINS1920]

@@WendyRamrattan no they wash there hair 😡

[@audr1as554]

For anyone wondering this is why I don’t sleep at night. These random videos are so entertaining!!

[@KevinPerez-zs4qj]

I love this kind of vids too 😂

[@bjalexhasstoppedstreaming508]

Ikrrrrrr

[@user-bo7oc7fz4w]

fr

[@sejiparaiso871]

Exactly. I got you bro.

[@andreariitano6497]

3 a.m. here

[@geniaguirand4142]

All I can say is I get it. Praise God for people like you who pour love into people who need it. Especially as you mentioned “the strong friend”. We cry in hiding but smile in public.

[@luke184lisa]

I give the clients serious KOODOS for having the courage to actually walk into the salon! She has to have been embarrassed. I don’t think she will ever do this again.

[@y-mefarm4249]

Years ago I got very ill. I was bed ridden for about 6 months. I had long jet straight hair but over the 6 months it became matted. My appearance put me in such a deep depression. I lost too much weight, I looked like a vampire and my once long beautiful hair was a knotted disaster. I wanted to just stay in my house and never leave. My friend talked me into going to a salon to get my hair cut off and styled. I went to a salon I never been to, figured nobody knew me and they would laugh at me, refuse me and boot me out, the first one kinda did! Said they couldn't help me because my mats were to close to my scalp. Seen them smirking and whispering. I wanted to just die! My friend forced me to go to another as they took walk ins too, so I walked in and told the lady in the front, what I wanted and why it was the way it was. I was in tears. An older woman who must of been listening came up from the back looked at me and said.. no need to cut off your gorgeous hair, not sure what she seen but it was far from gorgeous. And she took me by the hand and took me back to her station then to the sink. She worked magic in that sink, used several products, some of this, wait, put some of that, wait. With in about 45 mins, she was putting a comb thru my hair. I didn't even feel any pulling. She talked to me like she knew me my whole life, talked to me like a human being, made it seem my wreck of a head of hair was something she seen a lot and was no biggie. I went in embarrassed but after a few mins she had me feeling better and hopeful. After she was done cutting and styling, my hair was longer then I remembered, super shiney and gorgeous (just like she said!), the person in the mirror was a woman I forgot existed. I cried and she cried with me. God may have healed my sickness, but he sent me to an angel to heal my soul. Price was $9.99 plus tip.. she got a 100 dollar bill. If I had more I would of given it. A few months later I went back to that salon to get a trim, I asked for the Angel who worked that miracle for me, but she retired a couple weeks before. I just watched another angel working a miracle and I can guarantee the woman hiding behind the mask was in tears with a huge smile on her face,. God bless all the stylists who use their talents, other then just use it as a job.. that can work miracles, to not only fix hair but restore confidence and fix souls. I will never forget Miss Teesha who worked at Cuts and More.. in Cleveland Ohio.. in 1998. Salon is no longer there. My guess she would be in her 80s now. ❤️

[@hustlemedia8315]

What a story! Glad you had that experience good and bad made you the best version of yourself and better to come. You speak truth, now that’s something I RESPECT from my soul. Painted such vivid pictures through energy alone, Mam God bless you and your future. Wherever Miss Teesha at, bless her to!💯 brings me actual genuine happiness to know people like yourself beating the STRUGGLE and making it out of a hellhole. You deserve it, live life with 100% confidence in yourself. That’s goes to all who see this.

[@radiancehall7905]

❤️❤️

[@digitallocations1423]

❤❤❤

[@garfieldswillyyt584]

Reddit level comment

[@bainezdas7297]

🥰🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤❤❤.

[@myadajanku]

“I spent 3 days pouring life into her” one of my best parts

[@brownstyle371]

Those words made me tear up!! That was powerful. Speaks volumes

[@bajanred]

Yesssssss

[@sofiaahmad1926]

Good job

[@morningfruit9102]

Yessss!

[@shebron7265]

Bless you sis💜

[@KeyaHamm]

I have never met a person in any industry with the patience and dedication to do what you just showed. A little matting and most people are like cut it or shave it. You are a blessing to your clients.

[@LadyLopoLuv143]

This was just so moving and motivating! I appreciate and respect the care that you had for this client and most of all, the respect you had for her as well. It’s hard to find people who understand and know how to work with all individuals. Keep up the amazing service!!!

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

Depression is real, and people must understand that it takes time to want to do your hair or even take a bath. She has such beautiful hair, and she is strong. Love the mask, and you are such an amazing hair dresser. God, bless you!!!!

[@separateifyoucantrelate.]

Showers and baths are actually therapeutic.

[@anice1987]

It definitely is real! I am a 1-2 shower a day person, however lately since I haven't worked for awhile when I fall into my deep depression (I know it's gross) I don't at times get clean for up to 3 days. I literally have to say Ashley! Go take a damn bath and take control of my hygiene health. I feel for her.

[@graphix8553]

@@separateifyoucantrelate. I agree but that person might not know that. And even if they do they still have to WANT to be healed.

[@emazakay]

@@anice1987 I have been doing that lately,I found a job tho,I have started getting back in a good mood, people don't understand it's hard to do simple stuff 😩

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

I sooo agree, one doesn't even want to live, yet along comb their hair or take a bath

[@PurpleHonee]

I love how you give your clients a means of protecting their identity that represents something beautiful and hopeful. You are amazing.

[@pendita66]

I didn't understand the hopefulness in it

[@tiffanyadeeyinwo1990]

Um I think you are going about this a bit tooo deeply

[@RideRedRacer]

Beautiful? That's disgusting

[@mr.ricochet8603]

@Kaitlyn Kenyon not sure we can consider your translation true without the authors confirmation

[@mr.ricochet8603]

Covering someone's face during a haircut is beautiful and hopeful? What do you do when someone survives a big surgery? Buy them a house?

[@laniakeas92]

People don't care about their bodies because of reasonable stuff. Depression can be a very severe factor in this. Thank your for giving her hair a love she deserves. ❤

[@KettlebellB]

Doing God’s work. There is a special place in heaven for those that give of themselves to those with mental illness & meet them with empathy rather than judgement or dismissiveness. Thank you for sharing💙

[@bread4199]

I like how they hid her identity from everyone so she would feel comfortable and i liked how they told everyone how to act in the comments. The person must be very grateful for this.

[@l-3832]

@@gaize1017 well everyone seems to be so..

[@ClassicFairlane]

This really resonated with me. I did this for a girlfriend a few years ago. She was in a very dark place and hadn’t combed her hair in over 2 years. Her hair was very long and she kept it covered in scarves & wraps. Her hair was literally a cinderblock. She was very embarrassed and ashamed, and the few people that knew about it laughed at her & told her to cut it. She was actually resigned to just shaving it all off, but I refused to let her give up & tackled it for 3 days and we came out on the other side. WHEEEEW!!!! Words can’t describe my love for her....thankfully, she’s in a MUCH better place now. Today, her hair touches her butt & she is THRIVING!!! True story. Edited to add: Many THANKS for all the likes & comments. She & I have never, ever talked about that weekend, there's absolutely no need. I was very thankful to be able to help her & will gladly do it again. Helping her helped ME too.

[@user-qk7lh4wl6e]

Amen!! Right on to you sometimes people need that extra push in life and you were that for her so right on for being someone’s angel. I know you didn’t do it for anything but may god bring your great karma back fast amen 🙏

[@Meaghie]

Ur a good friend

[@mysteryelysian]

You are a beautiful person. May God continue to Bless you. Shalom!

[@lusciouzlippz2306]

Thts wat im talkin abt! God bless u💙💙

[@khloe38]

what a great friend

[@reneebrathwaite5434]

Much Kudos to you for representing your clients and others who may be struggling. We all stand up and commend you!

[@andreahancock34]

On behalf of us who suffer from mental illness thank you for taking the time and patience to help one of us. You don’t realize the impact it has on us to take care of ourselves when we in our mind.

[@Hijinx44]

I literally just spent 3 days chiseling through my own hair and I'm still not done! People don't understand the toll mental illness takes on upkeep and hygiene!! Sending her lots of love!!!

[@debbiedullabaun5928]

Bless you for your determination 🤗

[@GooniesGirl]

Real talk 💯

[@bobbie-jenehenderson7824]

Or physical illness too… I have an autoimmune and autonomic disorder which both make me super susceptible to getting sick. I’ve been battling an ongoing bout of illness since October. It’s just a simple cold so anyone else would be fine but for me I get bronchitis and secondary infections every freaking time and end up laid out in bed with a fever and zero energy to eat let alone wash my face and brush my hair. 😢

[@jilliandominguez4915]

Aunt Jacky knot on my watch detangler + creme honey detangler with water and mix. Use detangling brush. Those 3 days can be turned into HALF a day. Hmu!

[@aubriellemorgan]

Especially when you have that this 4C hair that requires so much work!

[@amandaharders7794]

This woman... my heart breaks for her. This her crown and she likely hasn't had this kind of love in a long while. Reason doesn't matter, I just wanna hug her.

[@florarose1626]

😍😍😍😍

[@lupez3325]

This is so nice

[@avocadolover1070]

Same 😔 hope she's doing better now :) 💓

[@natasja1977]

😍😍😍

[@sekhelt]

Came back 2 years later to watch this incredible video again. You're a lifesaver, her hair is shining and I'm sure she has a big smile behind that mask

[@prettybrown8231]

YOU DID THAT🙌🏽👏🏽🙏🏽💖✨✨ I went through this when I was in 5th grade. I wore a ponytail in my head for MONTHS. I just continuously brushed the back and front, which made my hair knot up right in the middle. My mom was so upset😫😫 And I have curly hair. She cut the middle out while crying. But at the time, I didn’t know why she was so upset and emotional about cutting it out lol 😂

[@Kelsthompson89]

I bet she felt like a whole new women. I would have been crying.

[@peggyhammontree783]

Praise God for your faithfulness to help others with your special gifts

[@nabranestwistypuzzler7019]

*woman

[@gotsunshine100]

Today I’m convinced hairdressers are life’s healers. Not all of course but this lady definitely is.

[@1MsSquirrel]

No judgement because there but for the grace of God Goeth I!! I've walked in her shoes before due to depression but I didn't have someone as wonderful as you and I had to shave my head. What a blessing you are and I love your holistic approach!! Keep it up because you are making a real difference in people's lives. You are appreciated!🙏🏽🕊❤

[@sylvias1546]

Wow, I am so happy for her! This must have felt amazing in the end and I really applaud her willingness to come in and have this reset. Full respect to you for reminding everyone not to judge. 😊

[@oliviabarker3863]

I’ve had such severe depression that I wasn’t showering, brushing hair, changing clothes. It is hard and to see someone put the work in to take care of you because you’re worth it and you need help means so much. I hope this woman had a renewed feeling and a sense of relief after your beautiful work!

[@aw1npang]

I hope you’re doing okay now!

[@morningfruit9102]

Blessings, love and light to you. I hope you are better and overcoming.

[@natashadaniels2562]

Been there a few times myself. It is an on going thing. Sometimes you don't even know why

[@sashagabor76]

Omg yes. When brushing your teeth takes too much energy, things like showering and brushing your hair seem absolutely insurmountable. Both of these women are amazing. ❤️

[@hanjesse31]

Do you have family members living with you?

[@Unicorns8myPoo]

I’m a white guy in Canada; no clue why this was in my feed, but goddamn 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. That’s some quality work

[@ekuaasabeamintah1183]

im so happy for her

[@ritakapia7140]

😂👍🏿

[@Navaura]

You are awesome for watching this.

[@ekuaasabeamintah1183]

@@Navaura tnk you lov..same to u dear

[@tracyhowe5698]

I'm a white lady from Canada and what a transformation! So happy for her..and great work to you! You're an angel with great dance moves!!

[@KZ-np8fz]

As someone whose hair tangles easily.... your patience and compassion is amazing. My arms get tired just brushing out my own hair. I have to split my hair one side, sometimes one quarter of my head at a time... usually takes an hour or less depending on how I had my hair that day.

[@Artyshell53]

GOD BLESS YOU DOING THIS and for moderating the comments. 53 yrs old, 3 yrs ago i went from nearly waist length to shoulder length hair. due to depression i just put it in a bun and left it, i struggled for 9 hours (alone) before the scissors came out. i wish there had been someone so compassionate to help.. kudos beautiful soul❤

[@marisatran8821]

After I lost my mom at 22 (almost 9 years ago), I stopped taking care of myself. I lost so much weight and stopped doing my hair. Grief and depression can inhibit someone from performing normal, daily tasks. It wasn’t until I met my husband (a few months later), that I felt able to take care of myself. Sending everyone love

[@alurvva7521]

I’m sorry to hear that! Thankfully I still have my mom. I KNOW your mom is looking down on you right now! All love and support 🤗💕

[@naomic8605]

my condolences, thank you for sharing your story beautiful

[@tamara7301]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending love and hugs

[@qaxarx312]

I'm sorry for your loss , take care of yourself 💓💓🥰

[@itsalexilixyt740]

I’m so sorry for your loss but I’m glad your better now!

[@SlendyMane]

For me... It was my mom. I didn't wash my hair or myself. I stopped cleaning my house, just everything was a mess. It was ultimate depression. My mom was literally my other half. Losing her made me just not care about anything. I felt suicidal, depressed, just gave up. Watching this, I never said "how on earth did she get that way" because it was like looking at myself all over again.

[@nkirukalazz-onyenobi36]

🙏🏾

[@fadzosadiki4364]

Ummm wasn't aware of this does this mean I'm also depressed because I just want sit and do nothing not even brushing my teeth or bath 🤔🤔

[@whooah]

My thoughts are with you, friend. I'm sure your mom is so, so SO PROUD OF YOU!!

[@LK-sy3kl]

@@fadzosadiki4364 some people don’t care about hygiene so could be that but if you were doing those things regularly before and all of a sudden you can’t bring yourself to do it then most likely you are having some kind of depressive episode.

[@MyiaLaShaun]

How did you get through the it. I still have my mom and i get scared of losing her .

[@michelley963]

I'm honestly so glad she wasn't the "just shave it off" people,this is proof that things can change with the slightest bit if help and hope.If you need it,get help

[@Amanda-rv8to]

You treated her with respect and as a person of value...kudos to you!

[@ravee9853]

This is what my hair looks like when I go through extreme depression.....i thought I was the only one. Thank you for not making mean remarks about her. Cause i could imagine that being me.

[@natashamassie6268]

Me too gurl, her hair is very beautiful too

[@tape8036]

I eventually just got my hair cut really short so when I go through a depressive episode it wont really mess up my hair, and I can take care of it easily when I'm ready to.

[@FreeSpiritMom]

You are not alone, Raven 💖

[@amethystsugar7411]

Me too, when I was a loose natural. I went 6 months a few times, myself

[@lisasmith8007]

Same here❤

[@enesitsme]

The worst part of depression is having people around you telling you to simply cheer up, take care of yourself, like you can turn that switch. People like you are willing to help and that's it, that's everything the world needs. Congratulations for being such a lovely person! I wish you all the best.

[@heatherward5053]

Sometimes we don't realize what's wrong. I thought I was just sick. It was a year of rock bottom before I realized what it was. We need to reach out to each other with encouragement and positivity, not more negativity. We got that on our own. I love this!!!

[@applefarm6126]

She should take care of herself, hopefully it got better

[@crayolaclouds2696]

@@applefarm6126 you completely missed the point of the comment. Depression not only drains energy and makes someone feel tired all the time, it also makes that person believe they shouldn't tale care of themselves because it doesn't matter. It's a terrible place where nothing matters and only pain and exhaustion exists. When depression hits, it's damn near impossible to take care of yourself.

[@applefarm6126]

@@crayolaclouds2696 like I said, I can imagine it’s bad, but taking care of yourself is crucial. Hope she got better

[@oaek]

@@applefarm6126 trust me when I say this, when you are truly depressed you really feel like you don't deserve any self care. even though you KNOW you should. sometimes it's even a big step to get a shower.

[@jujununya9182]

Glad she's coming out of whatever she's going through! He hair looks great!

[@TaylorJohnson-ur8ek]

Just want to say thank you for pouring life into her and to your channel and the people who learn and watch you!

[@jazcaddell2443]

My hair hasn't gotten this bad but when my depression gets bad I've gone more than a few months. I love how you didn't demean her about it.

[@LovelyTrueRed]

I've been there too.

[@GodzHarleyGirlStudio]

Same here. Hold your heads up peepz! Hugz, Tree

[@florivalentina3400]

Me too but for a week or two.

[@lexussteele3913]

Dude I thought u was the only one

[@SunshineLee2012]

I went through at least 10 years not caring about myself and the world. I wanted to die everyday, every second. I didn't care about my body and didn't car about brushing either. Depression is a serial killer who shows up and only comes after you. Now, I am on a weight loss journey and taking better care of my self. My prayers go out to you for being a light to her. No judgement from me.

[@ShanteRoxxane]

God bless you! ❤️💛💚

[@onikamaraj5335]

Can you give me advice on how to get out of my depression and comfort zone, and get up out of my mental illness and start exercising and caring about my hygiene?

[@gugushabangu4097]

@@onikamaraj5335 Take it easy. Don't make rash decisions. PRAY. Buy a plant and care for it and learn about it. Listen to a song and sing lyrics whole heartedly. See a therapist or someone within that profession. If it's intense like mine is, get medicated and sometimes admitted in hospital. It sometimes comes in waves cause when you think you feel better, you feel worse again, forgive yourself. Talk to a friend, you would be surprised how many people are going through the same without knowing it. I explained depression to my mom and she said, "Well, at least you know what it is called and how to treat it. All I remember was crying all the time and being angry at everything and everyone" Her depression affected me HEAVILY. If you feeling congested or overwhelmed, stop everything, leave it as is and do something else. You can do it tomorrow or later if you want. It took me 3 years to be somewhat sane. Don't overcommit. If all you did was brush your teeth, then so be it. Don't make rash decisions. Cry if you want, it helps. Even if sometimes it means watching a sad movie because you want to cry. Remember it's a phase and sometimes it's a phase that lasts longer than you wish. You can live through it and you can smile again. Just believe in yourself and in God who created you.

[@worshipchild6745]

Prayers on your behalf so glad you’re doing better

[@SunshineLee2012]

@@onikamaraj5335 I can do a video for you. I can't text it all, because it was multiple steps. I will tag you to it.

[@lindseyrsmith2194]

Currently working on my hair (elbow length, 1b, extremely porous because it was toward the end of the process of being lightened (from a level 3ish) to be colored pale lavender) that ended up sticking 6 inches into the air from the top of my head in a matted y shaped horn. Long covid, Multiple Sclerosis, and depression started this hell in June of 2022. None of the salons or stylists in my area are willing to take on a challenge like this.

[@allisonkennington3425]

Thank you so much for doing this. There are a million reasons (disability, depression, PTSD, other mental illness, domestic abuse, homelessness etc.) that a person can end up neglecting hair care through no fault of their own. By doing this and posting it (and I'm so glad your client was brave and gracious enough to let you post, so she deserves a huge thanks as well), you're showing both people in these positions and other stylists not to give up on hair in this condition. Forcing someone to shave their hair can be dehumanizing and after any situation that leads to someone's hair being in that condition, that's the last thing they need. This is so uplifting. I'm sharing it with my stylist and I hope everyone else who watches it does the same!

[@missemilyjane]

As someone with depression, the way you talk about her and being so respectful warms my heart. I wish there were more people like you in this world

[@JCamille3308]

I appreciate the care that you took with her hair and her generally as a person. Her hair turned out beautifully!

[@love518salon]

Thank you 🥰

[@dorothybohanon5396]

You did a great job on her hair

[@queensheem3337]

@@love518salon love your video

[@christsservant5472]

Yes. Her hair came out so beautiful!

[@bgknowable]

I just read what other sisters said. I am still at home alone(covid), but thanks for letting me know that I am not stupid crazy. As I texted this, I feel that our Mistress of Hair just not listened to me... Thank you, Goddess.

[@hellooutthere8956]

You are a very kind and loving person. I so glad i experienced you kindness. You are the epitome of "judge not lest thou be judged" i hope i remember your teaching.

[@neolaenglishjohnson1421]

Boy you beautician deserves awards. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ I’m sure we all are some deal with mental illness. I’m glad she’s taking back control of her life.