Modern men are NOT worthy of girlfriends (but it's not your fault)

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[@generallukeproductions]

I’m 4 minutes in and Denmo is talking about throwing spears at mammoths with squirrel fur covering your balls. This is gonna be a banger

[@chadvagbuster6580]

Man I'm 6'6 and I still get pissed when I hear girls say they don't date guys under 6 foot

[@byron9630]

Wow , how common is this ?

[@perryism7370]

Same here

[@chadvagbuster6580]

@@byron9630 You never hear it in real life it's only on the internet

[@russellwestbrookyellingatw9381]

Same 6'3 tho, 6'6 damn.

[@milanpospisil8024]

Im happy that I lived in different era and in different country. Girls here are attracted to height, but its not only variable. I had not problem with having women in my life. Im nearly 6 foot, but under. Im trying to have good shape body and good salary. Im trying to be personaly interesting. But in USA, I will maybe be screwed...

[@wolfbones666]

65% of young men are dodging a bullet and the rest of society sees it as some sort of problem 😂

[@GregoryBoysHomestead]

Exactly..... *NEVER* Get Married !!! 😅

[@charliedallachie3539]

Because they’re jealous sometimes. Ever have a girl or guy friend jokingly say “man luckily you’re single”

[@Clintsessentials]

💯

[@shoot_the_glass5654]

I'm not dodging a bullet, I'm dodging an entire armoury.

[@Denmosocial]

bro you can have your cake and eat it too. just date high quality women, by becoming high value.. simple

[@Okami971]

You had me until you started talking about texting rules. Like obviously don’t text bomb someone unless you already have a good rapport with them, but if some chick is going to stop talking to me because the timing of my texts is ‘wrong’ then she wasn’t worth my time in the first place.

[@charliedallachie3539]

Exactly… I’ve learned to try and make the majority of your conversation in person or at least on the phone though. Texting is good for quick short messages but not long ones… body language and voice tone is important.

[@mistergarrett8175]

It's so crazy all of the mind games and shit you have to play in order to get a woman, like having to act like you arent really interested in someone you are, not texting or calling when you want to so she doesnt know how interested you are. I mean wtf is up with all of the acting.

[@boufns8]

You liked the part when he told you earn less money than women because you are stupid?

[@surefirebeast0599]

@@mistergarrett8175 Playing hard to get is a red flag. It's a game and you don't want to build a foundation upon games. Unless there's mutual attraction with mutual respect don't bother with her. Just be yourself and that's the best you could ever offer because YOU are worthy of the best.

[@energysurgefitness1738]

If they dont rock with you like that then they'll do all of that. You think if drake texted the same person he would have to jump threw hoops 😅 hell no because they know that may be their only chance. ​@mistergarrett8175

[@64x83]

Mr Denmo never fails to make a 20 minute video an hour long

[@Denmosocial]

lmaoooo I could turn a sticky note into an encyclopedia

[@knightsaysneep8204]

I know. I'm bored and leaving.

[@MassMultiplayer]

im getting good at it too lol and funny people want (or seem to) watch way more my 20-40 minute video than 1-5 ones lol

[@rfarrr2817]

​@@DenmosocialI don't have an hour to sit through this. Could you try making more concise content

[@BrixerVision]

I’ll just be honest. I’m single at 24. Been single my entire life. I’m just terrible with women. Never had a girlfriend ever. Would like one, one day but I always get ghosted

[@Denmosocial]

sounds like you have lots of room for improvement

[@BrixerVision]

@@Denmosocial yes. A lot. Don’t really know where or how to start. But yes. 100%. Your right

[@andycastillo6285]

@@BrixerVisionworkout until you have a low body fat and a six pack. I’ve never been single when I have those traits.

[@toneylowery1166]

Right if you were just "little bit" better, women would like you. Now you know how these snake oil salesmen stay in business. Convincing people like you, you need to work hard for people who hate you. Sorry, simp, life's not fair.

[@taras3702]

The women who ghosted you were disrespectful and worthy of you to begin with. They showed you their lack of character early on, imagine what they would be capable of doing to you if you were involved with any of them. If in the future any of them approach you once you solve your problems, do not give them a second chance. Do not let any woman reject you a second time. They had their chance, there's other women out there who may be worthy of your time and effort.

[@georgecisneros5281]

“Society cares about you.” Next sentence: “The majority of young men are not treated well by Society.” Umm…ookaay.🤔

[@chief8559]

I understand it tho, gotta have brain

[@equinoxb8711]

Denmo needs to mature a bit more, he's still an idealist.

[@LegoSwordViedos]

Society cares as much as a slave master doesn't want the slave to get sick or kill themselves. because if they do... well less profit. Women are just more compliant slaves to their CEO's and have all taken the coolaid that serving your husband and family is bad and beneath them and oppressive, while doing the same thing for a faceless sole less CEO so he can afford hookers on some tropical island and a 3rd yacht. But they are more FREE! serving the company bottom line, driving down everyone's wage. Which the amount of money both men and women need to survive is one thing, to have kids astronomical, but to woo another partner or be seen as even potential is just ridiculous. Men its a lot and women its something, but plenty of men will take care of broke women with nothing. I only know of like maybe 3-5 examples total, of women who take care of a man.

[@funcompilator1202]

society cares about anyone in term of functioning, nothing more

[@shinoku250_gaming]

​@@funcompilator1202that's more or less what he meant too, "Society cares for you to function properly, but it doesn't really care about your emotions" sorta deal.

[@jopeteus]

Got rejected 1500 times before I found a girlfriend. Took about 8 years

[@Clintsessentials]

Sounds about right.

[@MarylandGuy-ey3st]

Juice ain’t worth the squeeze

[@someguycalledcerberus9805]

You counted? 😨

[@kadencarr1914]

In perso? Online? Bars? Where?

[@jopeteus]

@@kadencarr1914 Every way you can possibly think of

[@Aqueox]

I'm 24, almost 25, never had a girlfriend. It used to eat me up, I'll admit it. For a long time, until about 21, I would have loved nothing more than to have a girlfriend. Now? I don't feel anything. For the longest time, I wanted to feel nothing. Guys, that feeling, or really the lack of, is terrifying. Once it's there, it doesn't go away. I got used to being alone, I gladly killed whatever mentally tried to get me to care, and now I can't feel anything. I don't remember what "liking a girl" feels like. Hell, I don't remember what having a friend is like. The last time I tried for a girlfriend was when I was 18 and even then I was already halfway checked out. Maybe it's because I've never actually had that sort of attachment. Never had a girlfriend or anything even close. Girls have liked me, found me attractive, whatever, but I only went for the good ones. Always kept control of myself just as God intended... Seems women forgot the rules. But either way, I must have just lost the ability to really attach. It's like a muscle. You don't use it, you lose it. So here I am. Almost 25, no friends, no girlfriend, just what family I've got and the only thing going for me is my job. Maybe that corvette in the future will fill the void, right? 😂 It can't divorce me at least.

[@steepdeej]

Long journey my friend

[@j.davila4523]

Get some friends atleast, don’t worry so much about women, don’t base your self worth on women…but for the love of god find a tribe

[@kevincasey4792]

yer regular. don't believe in Jesus the true God like every other normal regular American. STAY Regular lol. then take the mark of the beast if ya don't die of fear when the rapture happens lmfao

[@byron9630]

What’s ur height , looks , etc? What kinda of career / hobbies you have ?

[@steepdeej]

@@byron9630 crucial question. Trick is to have some kind of thing going on in your life. Kind of a game. That’s what works in my city anyways

[@Denmosocial]

This video is gonna rub a lot of guys the wrong way at first, but once they watch until the end they will realize I am speaking 100% facts

[@tuwumuch]

it is, but it do be a sad reality 😅

[@V0NRH1NE]

I think you're wrong (I haven't watched the video yet so its possible you clarify this in there somewhere.) Edit: don't read this I only watched a quarter. I was taking notes and it got to be too much and I decided to stop. because it's not just "Hot" women that are unattainable for most men. Its just women in General. We're living in a world where most women, who are 4s, to use the widely accepted and used 1-10 scale, think they are 10s so they don't even need to actually be hot to be unattainable...they just need to think they are. And obviously what is "hot" is different for everyone. As far as looks go, I like chubby girls with big butts, but I have friends who like pencil thin girls that are flat as a pancake. Obviously there are a few things that most people agree on (facial symmetry, well groomed, hygienic, etc.) but my overall point is that most modern women think so highly of themselves, and are often so promiscuous, that men don't even need to be looking for a top tier girl to come up empty handed. My standards have dropped all the way to essentially "don't be a town bicycle, be kind to me, and be a 4 or above because I'm at least a 5 at best a 7." And I still can't find any. Most don't even make it past that first requirement lol. But like I said, I'll give it a watch and edit my comment to correct myself if you address that.

[@Denmosocial]

@@V0NRH1NE not gonna read this until you watch the video homie

[@josephromansexton2279]

Your right about men today issue with me is that I want women to talk to me first because i don’t wanna be rejected it sucks am 23 i got a ton of girl friends I can’t seem to get them to want me I wanna get attractive women to date me under my own rules

[@Hammerhead137]

​@@Denmosocial It women's fault. They're the ones who choose the men. Secondly, it's 93% of men, not 65% percent, and giving women credit.

[@Xokken333]

I led myself 28m into a horribly toxic manipulative relationship with a very attractive chaotic 31f for 3 years. Drugs, sex, money, cheating, lying, fighting, love, hate. After everything, I isolated myself, lost my confidence, social circle, my finances, social skills. Here I am now, I let myself get dragged down. Talking to a few girls, traumatized headed back to work.

[@michaellamont2605]

I left women for crypto

[@jaynikk758]

You've got this brother, hit the gym and find fulfilling hobbies that you enjoy and love

[@PhantomFilmmaker-jd9ho]

Pretty similar for me. And I bet you cared for her and tried to take care of her too. They WONT let you take care of them. It is disgusting!

[@michaellamont2605]

@@PhantomFilmmaker-jd9ho women all seem like they're set to self destruction. It's like Rinse Repeat. Where are these mythical women that are sane and decent?

[@Xokken333]

@@jaynikk758 7 days in a row me and my roommate have worked out. Went to Excision yesterday night with a random woman I met. On that self improvement journey now.

[@Dragon501dm]

I'm 31 and my life is coming together. Put in the work as you said years ago and now it's paying off. You're hilarious man love your style.

[@nicolasdupuis114]

How IS it coming together ? What did you do ?

[@someguycalledcerberus9805]

Seconding nicolas's question and asking HOW exactly is your life coming together? I've never had a problem getting a job, moving out, talking to people or doing whatever. The one and only thing I've never been able to do is get a girlfriend. Everything else was a cakewalk.

[@Dragon501dm]

In my early 20s I joined the military. After serving 5 years I used the benefits I earned to further my education. Now I'm in a well paying job being able to afford a career change as a pilot. Debt free in my own time frame. Throughout that time, women were a priority for me. I tried hard but failed often. But as I worked more on myself and focused less on them, I started to have more success when I DID make them a priority. I had stories to tell, value as a person, and was overall a better investment. All that said, once I put in the work for myself I became someone that people wanted to date. Basically what Denmo said.

[@Dragon501dm]

​@@someguycalledcerberus9805If all you say is true, maybe you have to look at the overall process concerning your love life. How often do you interact with women? Do you make it an event? Do you regularly meet new people? I have a friend around my age that is like you, successful except women, but he never approaches, never goes out, and works in a male dominated industry. Makes sense to me why he can't meet and find a girl. I'm sure if he went out and met new girls on the regular his charm would shine through and he'd be in a relationship. I don't know your specific situation but hopefully that helps.

[@someguycalledcerberus9805]

@@Dragon501dm Yeah, that's the problem! I don't meet new people. But how _do_ you keep meeting new people? Work mostly prevents me from getting picking up a hobby, but imagine I make it work. Imagine I pick up, say martial arts. Now I meet like 10 people in the martial art class. My social circle expands by 10, sure. But now it's static again. I just don't see the way to keep meeting new attractive single women. Except for constantly cold approach, which I've never actually seen work to be honest.

[@theturkishprince]

Love the rant!!!!! So on point - and still you manage to be hilarious while genuinely pissed.

[@Denmosocial]

gotta keep you all entertained to learn

[@toastyfellow1]

I'm 25. I have 5-6 yrs of plumbing experience. The money is here but wages right now are very stagnant. Here in a decade, the cost of a plumber is going to skyrocket because all the old guys are going to retire. And no gen z kids are joining in the effort. Money's here but it won't make you rich in 2-5 years. Sorry denmo you're wrong about that one.

[@yoshiramar1992]

why would i go to school to be a plumber just to be poor. if i pay money to go to school to be a plumber im doing that with my time 40 hrs a week it needs to give me enough money buy a regular 2-3 bedroom house for my stay at home wife and 2 kids. i will not work for anything less than basic i will not work harder than my grandparents with out compensation. why should gen z work any job that requires school. That doesnt pay enough to have a house and stay at home wife or husband? Everyone needs a place to live and everyone forgot that when it comes to pay

[@DavidW-ux2gc]

It's not just the top 10% of vvomen getting all of the attention and having too high demands, the vast majority do now due to having access to dating apps and social media giving them countless options. Men's standards are too low if anything.

[@GengoSenmon]

Exactly. He made many great points all throughout the video, but this was the one he was so wrong about. He implied that men only care about the 9s and 10s and refused to date below that. What he fails to realize is that the female 4s and 5s are so delusional now that they have the exact same expectations and Looks standards as the female 9s and 10s.

[@boomknight1015]

7:10 I've been single for 8 years. 2 years is rookie numbers

[@arrow2380]

22 years of my life* aka my entire life

[@miawmiiaw]

So, I'm a woman, 19 years old. I'm in to self development stuff. Most of the fun online time I spend, either watching my trusted women creators or learning something new about hair and makeup. Today is an unusual day. It's a holiday in my country 🇧🇷. I wanted to figure out how men that value self development are approaching stuff and... there are some things going on. Now, I watched the whole video, and all the time, I was reconsidering if I would write a comment. I don't believe that as a woman I should go out my way and try to teach guys anything because you can figure it all with some effort, it just seams that most don't want to listen to women. Watching gurus all the time won't do any good if you can't hear a woman's perspective. If you agree with what I have to say, that nice. If you don't, okay, go on and live your life. At the end of the day, I'm not actually affected by it. If all you guys want to is having a stablished relation with a woman only for the confort and convenience of it. Okay, everything he said is right. That's it, you're doing great. But I have some stuff to say if there's anyone actually looking for love, being loved, and building a cozy home... ...do you guys even like women? Don't get me wrong, I see that the whole premise of the video was to understand why you can't get the "10% most attractive, rich and narcissistic" women and to figure it out how to catch a nice average girlfriend. There's this joke going on with self development women oriented channels: some guys don't actually like women, they love their bros and want to impress the boys with the status. Which... honestly, this type of content almost makes me believe that all men are like this. If even the self development dudes are thinking like this... what is happening? Right in the beginning, I see some lack of transparency on the data. "Women are over earning men?" You can't just say that the studies are wrong and false and try to blur the lines of what was said by the research and you. The thing is: if men and women with the same education apply for the same job, most of the time men are more likely to get better responses which means either a better opportunity at a promotion or even the salary itself. When they have the same education, even the same amount of experiences... men are favored. What maybe the creator was trying to say is that for women, it is easier to get an entry-level type of job. Receptionists, cashiers, etc. That is true. He metions the average earning of women nowadays and stuff. Okay, that's nice as well. But let's say things as they actually are. I couldn't help but get an ick hearing: "Modern woman working it's all about corporations profit and not about the family." Okay, the sky is blue! Big news, you guys!! The grass is green also! Can you believe in this? Shocking, right? But leaving this zestyness aside: we have always been working. Always. Maybe in ancient Greece we couldn't participate in society or whatever... but first: the world doesn't solely revolve around the West. The world isn't made of a single society. Even in the USA in WW2, women were in charge of "men's" jobs because of the war. When things got better, women got PUSHED out of their jobs to work at home. That's what Trad Wifes are about: they WORK for the family. It's unpaid labor. It's not a job because it's unpaid. We can't afford to be trad wifes anymore. We need to work outside either because men can't provide enough (which matches with his argument that men are broke. We all are honestly) or because of the main factor: being dependent on men is dangerous. I grew up watching so many cases of abuse that the wife couldn't get out because she didn't have the money to do so. My mom is one of these victims. We NEED to work at corporations and SURE they don't give a shit about families. They never did! We work because it's a need. It's better to work outside and arrive home to do more labor: taking care of the house, nurturing the kids AND the husband. Instead of having the possibility of being trapped in an abusive situation. So if you "don't necessarily disagree" with women getting rights and working. Please start to completely agree. If not having complete control of someone's life bothers you, are you actually a good person? Moving on, if dating were all about gender roles: women = pretty, men = rich. Then... okay, most of his arguments are valid and realistic: the porn industry made it's ways to soft porn everyday posts, women have irrealistic standards towards their partners income, men pick on minor defects in the female body, hot baddies don't give a shit about guys in their DMs because they can do better, rich dudes don't give a fuck about average looking girls. That's it. It is fucked up for everyone. If I could give you guys some advice: gurus that tell you how to live life step-by-step are as bad as the school counselor advices (yeah, I saw this video as well). There are some good things being said, specially for people that are changing mindsets now. Do your stuff, work with what you like, go out, develop social skills and make good connections with other people, get your bag, maintain your body fit. Thats all you need: a healthy lifestyle. By living everyday life without these weird nonsense of: do this, then that and this and you will get a girl, you will live happier. This midset can potentially make you think that you need to do more to be deserving of love. "Maybe after this I will be worthy of this chick." I mean, people will not love you if you are a unpleasant person, sure. But you are deserving of love even if you are not up there. You don't need to have the top 10% to love. You don't need to be constantly seeking the best of you to get the best of the other top 30-40% to love either. I think that the main thing we can all get from him is that relationships are transactional. All of them are. It just doesn't mean that that's all they should be. Stay healthy, do what you love, do something that will bring you money, develop your skills to be who you want to be. The right women will be just there for you. Love her, treat her good. I hope you all find love soon. ❤️

[@moonscore77]

PREACHHH

[@sarthak8441]

Woman wtf

[@AL-wo4hw]

Everything you said is soo true!! People are deserving of love no mather what. It is wrong to work hard for just the love and acceptance of others. Love always starts from oneself, and that it the most important kind of love. It is imposible to measure someone's "worth" , humans are too complex AND they can change any time any second, forever. I really hope more young people like you realize that.

[@mechplech7357]

You are the female version of an incel that writes how woman should be enslaved on online forums. You just hate men instead of women. You think Iam lying? You can still get laid only because most guys are losers and cant get anyone better than misandric women and also because women are gatekeepers of sex and have it that mutch easier(cant deny that, I got irrefutable data). Dont think of yourself anything better than a person with incel mindset.

[@The_Non-One]

Wow, that was a big read, but I figured that you had something you thought worth saying, so I read it, and I do agree with what you said. I clicked on this video for the lols, I get amusement from these “man” gurus. But I’m 23, and haven’t really had a stable relationship with a girl. Kinda dabbled in it. Last girl I took on a date was crazy mentally. I would love to have a woman to share my life with, but I’ve learned that it takes a great deal of effort from both sides to have a nice relationship, and I don’t think I’m mature enough for that. Plus, I’m very laid back and like being genuine. One girl got mad at me because I took her literally at her word, and she later said that she really didn’t mean that. I just don’t need that kind of nonsense, I work hard all day. Life isn’t easy, and a good woman is no doubt out there, but I’m starting to think it just isn’t worth it. I’ll just go out on trips alone, read books, watch my movies, love my pets and play my games alone. A couple of years ago I was tore up at the idea of being alone, but I’m starting to be at peace with that.

[@mathius_dragoon532]

There were a lot of valid points made in this video, but the biggest thing that I take issue with is the number of approaches thing. I can't name one single thing in my life where I would accept a 99.99% failure rate- why would dating be any different? The boilerplate answer of "It's worth it" doesn't hold water because that implies that getting into a relationship is literally thousands of times more satisfying than anything else in my life. Even if I accept the premise that thousands of approaches are necessary and eventually find a woman, there is no possible way she could live up to the level of hype that would have been built up in all that time.

[@coolkid3915]

im on full monk mode but this guy's just funny af i gotta sub lmaoo

[@eiwhaz-tina6528]

Woman here. Liked your vid, but i only have one complain. Why is every men advice about not playing videogames? That shit's literally the best of the world outside of traveling. Im a girl, i love gaming. I want a man that i can play with and watch play elden ring too.

[@riomio7852]

Read Esther Vilar and Dr. Eric Bernes books, both great psychology books.

[@soichirohonda267]

If you want to loose your time and money BC time is money (and your life in long term) on that useless BS, go on!

[@eiwhaz-tina6528]

@@soichirohonda267 u really are too into the sigma male mindset aren't you

[@eiwhaz-tina6528]

@@riomio7852 I will read them eventually, but I'm still sure that no answer can really convince me that videogames are bad. Addiction it's not an argument because everything has the potential to be addictive. U can just regulate yourself and not play 8 hours a day. Maybe 1hr a day on vacations and on the weekends during the active year

[@someguycalledcerberus9805]

Because this way they're deliberately setting a requirement most guys won't meet. So they can keep blaming them for not "putting in the work."

[@lumtaroc]

Great video. Thanks for yelling to talk to the girls i needed that. Hardest thing is talking to beautiful women. Especially when they don't make eye contact.

[@Churlz]

Denmo, love the video! Dealing with heartbreak right now, but what you're saying is hella true lol. Guys, listen to this man.

[@Dash800]

Honestly have to say watching your videos made me improve my outlook on things a lot more. Thanks!

[@thelifewithnate]

It's interesting because if you look at the dating app statistics, it could be like barely 1-2 matches for a regular man, and 70,000 for a woman even if that is overexaggerated. Being 65% unattainable for men makes sense, however, it makes for a sad reality. Keep trying my men out there! If you're wanting to be single, grand! But for those who want a different path, keep trying.

[@jordanprice9285]

How can you keep trying when all you get is no over and over and over again no matter WHAT you try, where you go or what you do? Then what? How the hell are you supposed to keep going when the odds are so stacked against you like that? Nah bro, you got it. You can have them bro. We gone just pack it up and find something else in life to worry about.

[@kiimbles]

its really tough for guys out there! fellas.. if you can... talk to one of your girl friends or find a girl who can audit your dating profile. Have them honestly tell you the strengths/weaknesses about your person (appearance, personality.. what you can or can't change). I used to do it for some friends and they've had success in finding dates :) it takes a woman to know what women are looking for on profiles... ask your friend, your sister, someone online... just find someone and have them give it to you real!

[@tailgunner2]

Do you have any idea how expensive chasing women is? Read the book "The Book of Numbers" geez, no wonder men stay single.

[@vaderkurt7848]

​@@jordanprice9285 dating overseas?

[@boufns8]

School is meant for boys and men, but it was redesigned to fit girls in the seventies. This was done officially and anybody who doesn’t mention it in this discussion is just a tool.

[@1qplayer626]

Great video man. Keep pushing for the truth and you will bring this entire generation Salvation.

[@contracthit9839]

He is a dating coach con artist

[@Inckrisz]

I think this is my first comment I've ever wrote. I'm 21 and sometimes thought negative about women because of youtube shorts n shits but not that incel type shit because I really want to have a family in the future but you gave me good things to think about and to take more action. So thank you for this!

[@Hello-jn5pu]

I have a question is it true that false accusations are so common in US?

[@dstmessenger5803]

@@Hello-jn5puit’s very common if you deal with a lot of women or a certain type of woman

[@Hello-jn5pu]

@dstmessenger5803 what is that type of women and what about a man who has so many clients for example a doctor or a dentist should he be always concerned a bout this?

[@Shikami85]

@@Hello-jn5puyeah he should be concerned. The higher the status of a man, the more dangerous it is for him. The “Me Too Movement” has been weaponized in different ways.

[@Hello-jn5pu]

@Shikami85 What is the way to prevent false accusations and protect the reputation and not to go to jail? And what about Canada and EU are all like US?

[@ibrahimshaban1941]

Thank you Denmo for all the these information

[@turmalinofdreams2778]

Please don't be that hard on video games, you can be fit, do exercises, earn money, have social skills AND play video games :)

[@bethemooseef6647]

5:17 lmao bro there’s parents who wish they had an abortion just with 3 kids 🤣

[@draganpetev4677]

Dude, I love the 'take care of society' attitude, I applaud it, I respect it and more power to you!!! That being said, nobody really invested in you... Society, your parents, relatives, friends... All of them either wanted to feel or be perceived as a good parent/relative/friend or in the case of society they needed you to serve them... Now, I'm not against your message because it makes sure that there are enough gullible men to run and service everything out of their own lack of understanding what this life really is and what people truly are... 'Biology of moral systems' is a great book for any of you, heroes, who has doubts on whether or not they are being actually exploited... So, as I said, more power to you, but me here, my simple self feel indebted only to the people in my life who actually try to give more than they take! I don't care about society because it doesn't care about me and I'm only a few months away from fully realizing my long planned great personal success thanks to my knowledge of how people actually work...

[@jonathand.4088]

This vid got me to start working out today. Thanks man

[@daorientalgamer6610]

Hi, I lost 107 lbs in 11 months and put on muscle, if you need help let me know. Good luck

[@coolguycoolguy7267]

I’ve only cold approached 5 women in my life

[@Denmosocial]

so then approach more

[@coolguycoolguy7267]

Ok

[@AgeofCraccadilliaassent]

First 1000 is just a warm up bro

[@someguycalledcerberus9805]

As an incel, I always thought other men know something I don't. Well I went out with a few guys who have always had relationships. And I had to realise they don't know how to approach women either. They have no idea either. No men can cold approach. I'm now convinced it's a myth. Never have anyone managed to demonstrate it working to me.

[@alexbenoit7918]

I love your videos man but this by far is one of the best! A lot of guys need to hear this, I needed to hear this.❤

[@skyking6989]

At 37 I've accepted I'm not going to find a woman worth a damm. I'm done. I've accepted it and I'm at peace. I'd love to find a companion but I'm not holding my breath

[@Denmosocial]

sounds like cope bro

[@byron9630]

Bro, if u just buy the social influencer course for $129, you’ll be just like denmo

[@TheArtOfRevolution]

Any advice for acceptance? 39 here.

[@rafiq479]

Your a smart man. Just join the FreeAgentLifestyle brotha

[@Firefighter-zc5hu]

Get an A.I sexbot

[@C1AN98]

Hi Denmo, Thanks for the advice man. I knew about this already but it's good to be reminded when I lose my way.

[@brielcantor]

To be in the top 1% of my country, it's necessary to earn about US$68k/year. This money is the US average. Crazy thing.

[@byron9630]

Higher cost of living

[@damenschlebusch3692]

Love you and these videos bro👊

[@whatever1747]

Some amazing good rants. Like the message. These videos help, got me up off the couch, and in the gym first thing in the morning. Thank you

[@Denmosocial]

do it for hard working men like you cheers

[@masontope]

Love the rants. Also the random time checking and cussing because you're talking so much 😆 I started doing cold approach last summer and am still learning. Maybe 200-300 approaches. It's way better than dating apps though.

[@AgeofCraccadilliaassent]

First 1000 is just a warm up bro

[@Virtusstrong]

You’re the best teacher Mr.Denmo🙏🏾

[@TheTurbonisse]

Great video Denmo! Yea this is The formula for sure

[@TDiamond777]

Amount of cold approaches i've done: 2 Jack Denmo: 2000

[@AgeofCraccadilliaassent]

First 1000 is just a warm up bro

[@KetsuSenShi]

I've done ~10 cold approaches so far, it was hard but I did it. It was a good experience to make, even though I wasn't fully satisfied with who I was and didn't meet my own standards for myself. So I am currently in the process of becoming who I want to be, and when I am there, I know that I already had the guts to cold approach before.

[@tactusxii]

W Venmo, Don't want a girlfriend until I master my hyper splits

[@sugarsenpai8432]

Thanks my brother, this video made me think about reconsidering some toxic ideas I have.

[@naderz4064]

I used to hate living in the middle of nowhere michigan lol, almost all we have here is real girls lol, I'm as ugly as it gets I'm a meat department manager in a grocery store, my wife was an easy 7 "a 10 to me" but I'm a little autistic and love patterns and know objectively "7". I got her because I just kept getting no's until yes's happened, and immediately would write off the declines, I'm 37, 15 years into marriage with 3 kids and luckily my daughter looks just like her beautiful mother

[@PhsychoSomatic]

Bro where them real girls What you mean real girls? Everything here in the city is just garbage. Loads and piles of endless garbage. No wife material at all just garbage

[@GTTheSignifier]

I have totally enjoyed your class. 💯

[@paperroutedash]

Well said Denmo! Video starts great already

[@thelifewithnate]

Man's been pumping out stellar content as of recently with those hour long masterclasses! Crazy cool!

[@empemitheos]

8's might actually be top 2%, but why would you wife a narcissist

[@idk1ng608]

Thank you for this gem

[@Denmosocial]

gotchu brother

[@Aubatron]

Bro asking his fans to name their kids Denmo had me dying.

[@MAR2TV]

Guys just Imagine going out with that ant from the drawing board,, keep working!! 🙏😎

[@walidechchafnajebendourou3369]

This video saved my lineage, thanks Denmo!

[@jonnyrocket4666]

love the rant! very hilarious! rewind it a few times lol

[@actorneno]

Hey Denmo, I am a guy living in Germany and I randomly find your videos, and I need to say you are sooo amazing and inspiring person for every young male person cause you are absolutely right in every f*cking point. And sometimes I can see that you get emotional cause you really wanna help these young men. Really you are amazing. I subscribed your channel and I am going to support you constantly, really nice lessons again. Thank you so much!

[@Denmosocial]

i do it for comments like this thank you bro

[@mf_rpk4438]

I feel bad for the man that not only gives this guy views of videos that are just insulting the viewer, but chooses to give him money for a course also

[@konrad3]

Thanks for your step by step guide! It's easier for me if I know what to do. (Some things are obvious but you don't realize it until you hear it)

[@BasedChadman]

As far as the hard work goes: I've been trying to get my foot in the door with all these trades, but they're flooded, and I never really hear back from anyone. I'm doing an electrical "apprenticeship" making only 14 an hour in a small company full of nepotism and terrible structure, so I'm stuck doing grunt labor most of the time instead of learning. How do you find more opportunities? Move to another state?

[@dale116dot7]

I was very shy. Not so good with cold approach, but getting to know people (through music and other hobbies) was a key, exactly like you said at 39:00. I met my current GF when my ex-wife’s bandmate set us up.

[@RocketmanFPS43VR]

Hey, just thought that I'd say you helped me change my view on things. Hell, I haven't even done any warm approaches because of how much of a dumb, unsocialized fuck I've been. So yeah, thanks again.

[@FailBucketFilms]

As an engaged man, I can see how this video would have related to me a lot when I was single. I think it would have helped too. Thankfully I found my own way and grew into myself. A lot of guys just need to make some low risk (or even high risk) mistakes to learn some life lessons and improve themselves. Most men are too safe and sheltered today, but too prideful to admit it. I don't blame them cause I was there.

[@mroeplz]

I love this man because he looked around and answered I’m going to make more good men.

[@xooxbox]

Good word. I’d love a video on your perspective on dating overseas / passport bros.

[@forestcityexoticsco.307]

You're a chosen one, Denmo

[@xantonify]

Were in the supermarket today. This woman checked me out, ~40's something. She told her husband to go in the pharmacy with the kid to get their stuff then come looking for her in the mall. She walked in front of me kinda slowly then when i turned she was walking towards me from my back. I know she waited for me to "hit her up" Such depressing life. Her husband and little girl seemed collected and calm and i don't know them. His wife is just exploring her options without caring a shit about breaking a family. Feels useless and loss of hope of situations like this.

[@kobedurant7707]

Thanks denmo

[@itaekumba33]

Denmo spittin hot fyah 🔥

[@mediatorofsouls8695]

Enlightened. And subscribed. Denmo I realise that I'm bogged down in my own Sh*t. Man up and get my sh*t together right? Done. I'll make it happen...or else I'm getting nowhere...

[@johngarza424]

Man you have bad ass content keep it up

[@TimMacintosh]

Denmo, I am loving these whiteboard videos

[@rastrisfrustreslosgomez544]

Thank You for the disclaimer

[@rohanvyas9325]

Jack’s a great inspiration to many

[@coolguycoolguy7267]

Best professor ever!

[@umangmehta9155]

Hey bro your advice is spot on. It takes 2-5 years of hard work to invest in yourself. I was working as a fire fighter paramedic and picked up as much OT as I could, and made 150 k a year. I bought a house and new car.

[@nikhilirkal1813]

@ Denmo, what if you are already actively doing what you suggest in terms of self improvement. But you're still struggling to get into a relationship?

[@nathan_something]

You know, you actually **had** me, like... I was paying attention, I was finding what you were saying to be true, once I started really contemplating it with this specific context - I didn't realize that before. So this was a good perspective. **But** - because of the blatantly disrespectful manner you started treating your audience, I guess myself being one of them, even though I wasn't really making the same mistakes as you were pointing out - I was still stuck with the same end result. So I listened carefully to see what you had to say. But then you took that for granted, apparently, because you just ended up continuously calling them "dumb fucks". Not everyone acts ignorantly, some of us are just uneducated, it's different. But you lost me and that especially sucks because I **wanted** to stick around to hear you. Why did you have to ruin it with insults? Also, for what it's worth, I think you're fairly funny. But insulting people for their beliefs... they are only beliefs because of experiences. That's what those people believe because that's what they experienced. They're not stupid because of it. They just weren't given proper mentorship, no guidance so they gave up, but you calling them stupid is literally adding insult to injury. Maybe give them a little more benefit of the doubt. I know not everyone is so reasonable out there, and I'm sure that there are those that will never get this stuff through their heads, but calling them ignorant either way couldn't possibly help anyone. Anyway... still, if you see this and you actually read it through to the end, then I'm at least grateful you cared enough to. And I hope you have a nice day.

[@Blue_Machine]

Not all of those unnoticed women are worth the effort though. Some of them will have bad personality, be single mothers, etc. So why should a guy that is a 5-7 end up with a 4 or less just because he is rejected by 5-8? Men have to know their worth and be single if that is the best option. Men might be picky, but women are even more picky and that is the main problem.

[@Bandz4feetpix]

57:31 I'm definitely lazy and coping but I'm also addicted to doing so. Ive got so many excuses and so many crutches to be this way that idk if I'll ever abandon my incompetence. The only times my peace is interrupted are when I'm having a shit day at work or I'm thinking about whats missing from my life. Since I only care when I think about it, it's ez enough to 'solve' the problem. Inaction comes out as the right answer everytime since Im not forced to decide or contemplate.

[@wildgameohio9798]

Great video.

[@drakedoeseverything9977]

This video is truly a public service. I was overcomplicating when it was all so simple. Wish I saw it 6 years sooner honestly. They don't really teach this stuff in public school unfortunately.

[@Arejen03]

I found myself in exactly this position like avarage woman wanting chads, im avarage but i just focus on insta models, tiktok cuties i dont even notice avarage woman who could be a good woman. Social media just create delusion

[@bro918]

the thing is, those average women dont want you back either

[@byron9630]

@@bro918from ur experience ?

[@annajoy2306]

@@bro918 the problem is social media destroys people for both men and women. the good ones men or women are maybe attracted to the wrong ones. or the good ones they not in dating apps and not looking for love. i would not recomd dating apps, or even focusing on dating. join something were you can make friends with people, meet people with similar intrests or values.

[@annajoy2306]

@@bro918 the right people dont care what race you are. some people are like me attracted to all races. you guys need just to put energy on the right ones.

[@bro918]

@annajoy2306 if you ask me, I think the govt should ban all dating apps along with tik tok

[@skylinez4793]

Your communication skills is S tier.

[@MegaAvalonn]

Denmo left out the part that it takes time to build yourself up as he describes - perhaps a decade or two. By the time you're done building yourself up, and I can attest to that with two completely paid off properties in one of the most expensive cities in the world, you're older. You're older and a lot of people are already paired up. You're not exactly dating young women because many get the "icky" feeling dating someone that much older even if you're attractive. You can try socializing with more modest/average looking women, but most friend zone you into perpetuity and always try to set you up with one of her girlfriends who is a single mom. Imagine, working your ass off, acquiring wealth, health, experience, skills, assets, etc. and all you have to show for it are proposals from single moms. That's me, and I advise young men to avoid being me. Come up with something else, the "build yourself up to something worthy" is so yesteryear. You just become an ATM for single moms.

[@rishi1910]

Hey Denmo i always knew i was not worthy of girl friend 🤣🤣

[@radfoo72]

Need an intro pickup line to break the ice? Try this- "Hey there! Big Daddy Denmo said I should ask for your number, so here I am!"😆

[@kumaarSahab420]

I’m taking notes Denmo I’m taking notes Will update you 🗿

[@telezma7878]

This title immediately made me think Denmo is going black pill.

[@Denmosocial]

I'm the opposite

[@Colt19]

@@Denmosocialwhite pill

[@telezma7878]

I agree, I'm not watching black pill anymore since I discovered your channel 3 months ago, this is actually helpful! 💪 @@Denmosocial

[@Don-ds3dy]

It is quite literally unnatural for men and women to be alone like they are today. We spent almost a million years living in small communities and family units huddled around the fire at night telling stories and cuddling, etc, and one or two decades of post modernism isn't going to change what we need as humans. We need to come home to someone who loves you.

[@arrow2380]

That's not the reality. You don't get everything you want in life. Just accept it and move on

[@render9550]

sup Denmo, not really anything to say about the video, just great like always, and, I've finally got my first date! Yeah, that girl I said I talked, we've been texting and now we have a date to this Saturday, just gotta thank you man.

[@Denmosocial]

hell yeah bro proud of you. send me an email

[@Avpt166]

men do care about standard normal women as the top ones are way to high maintenance for most men too keep up with lol

[@martinmoreno32]

Can we have a 5'7 5/10 normal indian guy approaching videos please?

[@bestchannel4587]

It's over for you

[@nikhilirkal1813]

@martinmoreno32 - why Indian?

[@martinmoreno32]

@@nikhilirkal1813 why not? its the most rejected ethnicity

[@cranewhitehead150]

I don't think modern women are the worst. I am just getting back into the dating game after 10+ years of being a single dad. I began researching how to date in this generation. Honestly, I wasn't very good at dating when I was younger. I have enjoyed watching your videos. I took your advice last night and went to a club for the first time in over 19 years. I had 2 goals. Talk to 5 people. Give my number to 1 hot lady. I fully expected to fail miserably because going to the club was stressful enough. To my surprise. I met a group of people and talked to them all night. The hottest lady in the group and I sat at another table talking alone. I gave her my number, and she immediately texted me so I could have hers. I'll definitely be watching more of your videos to include this one.

[@hrureyryythf]

12:17 "people that have money don't go on youtube comments section" Man, i'm a literal millionaire who can name one of our apartment blocks after a girl and i'm here and on other manosphere areas of the internet. Yes, i'm still single. I face constant rejection from the girls i want. Yeah, i've got a whole horde of average looking women lining up top marry me. However, i subscribe to ACTUAL gender equality and the redpill and refuse to let arrogant/delusional average looking unpleasant women to marry up that much. It's mandatory for the girl to be in the top 1-2% in looks before i'll even consider her. No, i'm not ugly, otherwise, 18 year old girls wouldn't be approaching me at bars and nightclubs, some even tell me i'm beautiful (i know i'm not). Yes, three prime ministers graduated from my high school. Yes, a bunch of my friends are now high-flying lawyers or doctors. Yes, they are all pretty much married to average looking women or are still single like me. Therefore, it''s not just me. I wouldn't argue that men's standards are too high. I think it has something to do with the rise of female independence in society. Women are now in a position to value looks a lot more in a partner. Status is still important, but you need a lot of it to make up for being average looking. My high flying average looking lawyer friends won't be getting beautiful women anytime soon. I've obviously never told them this fact. To add insult to injury, society keeps shaming men if they don't decide to overachieve. What do men get as a reward when they overachieve like my average looking high flying lawyer friends? They are offered average looking women because they are independent now and want the good looking guys or super high status guys. That's is the light at the end of their proverbial tunnel. This is a bit like the college student debt scam in america. You are promised a well paying dream job after college just to end up at a minimum wage job at mcdonalds. Also, women are far more hypergamous than women. Men have much lower standards. Therefore, women are the bigger problem. Yes, i've watched the videos on Denmo cold approaching girls. These are average looking girls i ignore at bars and nightclubs. Yes, i do cold approach girls, i just do rarely because i'm aiming for the top 1-2%. No, i'm not lying. Here is my instagram: @william.australia.taiwan

[@jbone9900]

Can an average guy get a million dollars.

[@Epelisz]

If that's really you in the IG the only way you would get a top 1% woman in looks would be by her being attracted to your money initially instead of you. But regardless this whole money money money shit like sure if I was a girl I wouldn't want to be with some loser by any means, but also the reality is that most people will always be roughly average whether it be looks, money or "personality". If everyone overachieved then nobody overachieves, an endless cycle. But hey let's keep telling that anyone can become anything, especially through a course. Imo the biggest reason for all this is technology and most particularly social media with access to everything giving nearly everyone the illusion of wanting more than what would roughly be their equal. I'm curious though, would you say these 18-year-old average looking girls who approach you know you are rich?

[@hrureyryythf]

@@EpeliszNah, i don't tell random strangers at bars and clubs i'm rich straight off the bat even if they're girls. Also, if you look at the photos i posted, i don't dress in a suit like i'm rich.

[@user-gz4ve8mw9l]

@@EpeliszWhich means she doesn't care about him, only the money. Why would anyone want a partner who cares about materialism instead of them? Not to mention those top 1-2% looks will fade with the passage of time inevitably. Not to mention very messed up, so women have to just exist? While men need to provide a ton of resources? That means the women only care about the money not you.

[@StopMarxism]

I believe you, thank you, I'm the little guy your defending but even we are not stupid enough to fall for this stuff bro . women are screwed

[@DavidWilliams-yh6pq]

The human world of status runs on scarcity, the idea that something should be rare. To stand out on applications, people nowadays almost have to already know someone on the inside to obtain employment

[@mosescortez9193]

You're too late, man have walked away. 😌

[@StopMarxism]

He dnt get it lol

[@Lorens4444]

I understand that this video is dedicated to the US audience. When you're talking about women making 60-80k a year, does it mean the average income? Can I use the average income in my county as a reference?

[@lookatmyzombies9377]

Look up average income overall. Then average income men vs women to get the idea

[@Lightning.Bolt.Strikes]

The only reason i hate dating at all is because i have never dated , i'll be honest. Even including that i'm "attractive" for someone - no one would date or love me , cause i'm so quiet that sometimes so it's just scare people , but i don't wanna to.

[@akosdovics]

i just realizrd i found the right man at the right time to get my "dating metal healt" to the right way. :D

[@ShivaShaktification]

Legalize prostitution in America today