I know that’s right 👏🏽 first time seeing one of their videos and I’m hooked 🤍
@kat20253 жыл бұрын
Im so glad Denzel feels comfortable saying hes not hyper sexual but respects others wants/needs.
@yourmotherhatesyou6413 жыл бұрын
Yeh. The two can co-exist.
@bt3376 Жыл бұрын
T
@lucgrillet59723 жыл бұрын
this podcast is THE moment. these two are everything, they always have been and they always will be .
@genesisaguilar53383 жыл бұрын
period
@bunnywitvh23 жыл бұрын
purr
@PureeTauruss3 жыл бұрын
I understand the feeling COMPLETELY about not craving sex. It’s not that the chemistry and love and attraction isn’t there, it’s just I have no over coming need to have a sexual release. Sex isn’t going to calm me down or put me in my place when I’m ‘acting up’ because I am who I am.
@yamen4493 жыл бұрын
Are you asexual?
@dirtyyrat3 жыл бұрын
@@yamen449 I mean not every person who doesn't crave sex is asexual
@amarijackson92703 жыл бұрын
@@dirtyyrat asexual is a spectrum like anything else so why wouldn’t it encompass this?
@289rory3 жыл бұрын
@@yamen449 Probably one of those people who crave the mental, sensual side of the relationship, rather than hopping to bed. I love to connect, sex is the last thing on my mind when I'm around someone I like.
@milodavis13 жыл бұрын
Yeah same. If i don’t feel anything for you or trust you, I’m not into the sex. I can go months without sex and not think about it
@mira39033 жыл бұрын
do y’all see rickys cheekbones 😩😩
@reshoketswe.3 жыл бұрын
Their sitting right.😫
@spooked37193 жыл бұрын
He looks like he got work done? Is that the case? Not hating everyone could do what they want w their body
@carriesims93253 жыл бұрын
Did he get his face done again????
@aliyahdobbs32253 жыл бұрын
@@spooked3719 I was literally thinking the same shit!!!! I was looking at rickey and wondering if he got a nose job??? i still think he's poppin though :)
@missincognito26663 жыл бұрын
@@aliyahdobbs3225 I thought it was Botox it’s definitely something different about his face
@Barbez12313 жыл бұрын
I already heard the podcast but I just want to see y’all faces talking about it😭
@fionabera10673 жыл бұрын
FOR REEEEAL 😩 came on here as soon as I got the notif 😖
@langstonfantroy68363 жыл бұрын
Girl me and u both
@arianaacosta48453 жыл бұрын
Lol literally me!
@ramoneray15313 жыл бұрын
lol, I think that’s all of us 😭
@kunt12343 жыл бұрын
Me too😭😭
@dejey11933 жыл бұрын
Ok but why Rickey everywhere but his channel ✋🏾😭
@Sobe_Niqueee3 жыл бұрын
Right he hasn’t posted in a year lol
@xauceamani3 жыл бұрын
Right! Avoiding it like a person at a store distancing themselves from a person who's coughing 😭😂
@kokolostuhoh3 жыл бұрын
.... drugs?
@aloeleaf3 жыл бұрын
@@kokolostuhoh hes not on drugs i dont think, hes been really busy with modeling so maybe thats it
@IveyLawrence3 жыл бұрын
Rightttt
@Sam3ve3 жыл бұрын
can you make a “we said what we said” channel? (where y’all post the podcast videos)
@monica0718603 жыл бұрын
Yassss!!! I have such a hard time listening to things without a video attached to it
@krystalm89873 жыл бұрын
YESSSS. THIS PLEASE
@shanellestewart13333 жыл бұрын
They really should!
@JHNTR3 жыл бұрын
monica bautista same !!
@kjanaye3 жыл бұрын
PLEASE
@gianna61593 жыл бұрын
ya'll should def consider doing an episode with bretmannnnnn!!!!! shi would go crazy
@327outkast3 жыл бұрын
YES YES YES
@_opoku_3 жыл бұрын
omg I’d dieeeee
@mya23173 жыл бұрын
Seriously
@alaynao84513 жыл бұрын
omfg yesss
@nicolovespanda3 жыл бұрын
spare me
@Itgmalii3 жыл бұрын
"And get approached, like the pretty bitch I am." THIS is BIGGGGG Capricorn energy!!! You gotta love us
@luciawalker34423 жыл бұрын
Lol I’m a Scorpio and I do this 🥺 I knew I liked Capricorn’s
@Itgmalii3 жыл бұрын
@@luciawalker3442 it’s crazy because almost all of my closest friends are Scorpios 😭😭😭 Y’all highkey lit
facts! I always say this, never had to shoot a shot in my life
@lanae11463 жыл бұрын
I’m Capricorn rising. Don’t know how that plays a part in my sign but yup lol
@babyjaybtc3 жыл бұрын
Rickey should get into narration for real, his voice is so amazing! I could listen all day
@SkyyLii3 жыл бұрын
Exactly 😩😩
@ayleentorres84583 жыл бұрын
Denzel is the epitome of earth sign energy
@amanijsway53183 жыл бұрын
I love my fellow earthlings 😌😂
@YEMTHEGEM3 жыл бұрын
Literally.
@rachellmcgrath11843 жыл бұрын
The relationship/sex thing is giving water sign (emotionally attached)
@user-si1vp5qi7g3 жыл бұрын
@@rachellmcgrath1184 as a water sign i can confirm
@anele.nsithole55933 жыл бұрын
@@rachellmcgrath1184 I can see that but it seems like it's a stability thing with Denzel and earth signs need that predictablity >>comfort.
@simmersage003 жыл бұрын
It’s Denzel’s face for me while Rickey talks about his kinks 😂😂
@Nkosazana-yt13 жыл бұрын
You can his quietly judging him 🤣💀
@alextroy92022 жыл бұрын
@@Nkosazana-yt1 this sentence doesn’t make sense
@Nkosazana-yt12 жыл бұрын
@@alextroy9202 yep , thanks grammar Queen 👑
@kikim.9153 жыл бұрын
omg pls upload the “are we even friends?” episode. had me on edge the whole time 😭
@elvisjoelle3 жыл бұрын
very much!
@Jasminesim183 жыл бұрын
that podcast was a lil too much 😭😭 they ain’t even reach an agreement 😂😭
@simthandilenkosi3 жыл бұрын
Same !! 😂
@elvisjoelle3 жыл бұрын
@@Jasminesim18 honestly. i was like, so we just gonna end this podcast with no end result? but i’m sure they spoke and accepted that they just show their love differently.
@Jasminesim183 жыл бұрын
@@elvisjoelle Yeah I feel like that was a podcast that needed to be talked about in private to really get into it and talk for as long as they needed to to reach a mutual understanding
@nazariab.57113 жыл бұрын
Rickey been saying that Denzel is attractive for yearssss and Denzel has been saying “that’s cute, but no” for yearsssss 😂 Ik they besties but ik if rickey had the chance, he would take it lmaooooo 💀
@brielleadair58573 жыл бұрын
Yesss🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Sungoddessz3 жыл бұрын
😭
@lenarey25393 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! When Ricky was describing what he wants in a relationship, it was spot on Denzel
@327outkast3 жыл бұрын
lmaooo ricky lowkey has a crush, but i remember when denzel pranked him and ricky was like "hell no" so 😂
@moongazer98913 жыл бұрын
@@327outkast wait wasn'it it the opposite? Rickey did a "i like you" prank on denzel
@beebs2343 жыл бұрын
“it’s giving *whispers* OPPRESSION” denzel😭😭
@itsurgirlcharlene3 жыл бұрын
I was cryin
@mylord93953 жыл бұрын
Gurl I was wheezing
@noface76793 жыл бұрын
LMAO When Denzel went into the "Spirits EVIL SPIRITS" thing. I can't believe i've never heard anything more relateable than that. I thought I was alone in that LOL.
@indiaavant92973 жыл бұрын
Nope...😂😂😂 burn it all...lol!...😂😂😂
@caribbae3 жыл бұрын
Ricky makes me wanna explore. I'm like Denzel, reserved & second guessing lmaoo. I was way to attentive lmaooo.😭😭😂 We need more! Love you guys💕💕
@00Indeedibly003 жыл бұрын
Me too girl! I tried to have a hoe phase once and ended up in a long term relationship. I'm 24 now bout to be 25 soooo
@caribbae3 жыл бұрын
@Hopeless in Nyc I will. Definitely will. I swear my overthinking ways saved me from doing a lot of dumb shit.
@caribbae3 жыл бұрын
@@00Indeedibly00 I've never had one. Was played in my last relationship & said fuck it. I'm 22. I've been single for over 3 years lmaooo. I don't trust these niggas,
@goziedi19153 жыл бұрын
rickey is giving us wattpad scenarios and im here for it
@nyarobinson54313 жыл бұрын
I’m like Denzel!! But once Denzel gets into it he’s gonna be wild🤣 he just has tons of self control and hasnt found his perfect lover yet
@Melb3213 жыл бұрын
same as me
@mondlipike3 жыл бұрын
I'm exactly like Denzel, but last year I tried to get into it because my friends said I'm uptight and then when I got into it they said I'm way too wild and must calm down. Now I'm back to being "Uptight" lol.
@mikeissick84793 жыл бұрын
Sex talks are everything tbh
@amysocool73 жыл бұрын
Yess I agree
@yamiasantana75313 жыл бұрын
The Capricorn and Aquarius energy together is my literal favorite omg you two are perfect together.
@fatimapulido13443 жыл бұрын
Who’s Aquarius?
@Ellemiss3 жыл бұрын
@@fatimapulido1344 rickey
@heavenleigh92873 жыл бұрын
The fact that Ricky is a Aquarias makes so much sense like he's free and fun!
@gerardpinckney96733 жыл бұрын
That’s that air sign lol
@adriangrant69543 жыл бұрын
We are the best
@bunnywitvh23 жыл бұрын
@@gerardpinckney9673 we’re the best elements ✨
@bunnywitvh23 жыл бұрын
@@adriangrant6954 as a libra, i love yall sm i wish i was a aquarius
@bbcakess3 жыл бұрын
“What’s this rag in the backseat?” 😂😂😭🚗
@douggiefresh75403 жыл бұрын
Yoooooo when I tell u I was deady ☠️😂 he said “hmmmm...” lmaoo
@jerz43823 жыл бұрын
lol what did he mean by that?
@theenlightenment3323 жыл бұрын
I don't mean to sound weird but with the hat and the hair Denzel looks kind of adorable
@rubyx96543 жыл бұрын
Yess
@Nicole-og6df3 жыл бұрын
That doesn't sound weird at all.
@rosekoroma85043 жыл бұрын
He’s always adorable
@t1234odd53 жыл бұрын
Thought the same
@lulunicole18183 жыл бұрын
Lol the kinky stuff is so fun. The smacking, choking, hair pulling, spankings.... it’s fun af. When my man and I first did it... i love it but I didn’t feel like he respected me afterwards. I almost felt dirty bc he just wanted to go about his business without speaking about it or even telling me he loved me or whatever . This is why aftercare is SO IMPORTANT. Just saying . If you really love the person and are planning to stay with them it’s a big deal
@kadeedee3 жыл бұрын
So how did it turn out for you? Did you tell him how you were feeling? Cuz that’s why I don’t really wanna get into that stuff but I crave it so bad but I just feel like they might not respect me after
@leanaleana42693 жыл бұрын
@@kadeedee make it about you too, making sure that yes you’re there to pleasure you but he’s also there to pleasure you, most of the times when they don’t respect you after is because they’ve dehumanized you...and they don’t deserve tou
@djfhfh Жыл бұрын
@@kadeedee I married that guy so if you trust them go for it
@latoshawilliams993 жыл бұрын
I definitely listened to this already but I have too see it this time with y’all faces !! I love the podcast convos !
@tabev123 жыл бұрын
Denzel it’s the African in you baby 😂
@peteadenuga3 жыл бұрын
exactly!!!
@chilehunny10263 жыл бұрын
Yep that’s what I said
@KioshiWarrior3 жыл бұрын
Not “what’s this rag back here” IM SCREAMINGGGG
@daniellejno-rose45593 жыл бұрын
It’s like watching my 2 personality having explicit convo. This gig is very much giving what it’s supposed to give 😂😩🥰
@AntagonistName2 жыл бұрын
And is I love it!
@_Von___3 жыл бұрын
This is what we all needed. PURRRR
@aliyahdobbs32253 жыл бұрын
i fucking love how open rickey is!!!!
@D33N93 жыл бұрын
Idk why you question denzel sexuality he just said male basketball player.Yall keep acting slow
@princessstannn60103 жыл бұрын
When I didn’t hear it?
@luvvvv1243 жыл бұрын
well i don't think he puts a label on it he said he had a 3sum with a girl
@Layan-zt3tf3 жыл бұрын
He says it at 10:15
@d5madeit3 жыл бұрын
@@luvvvv124 he said nba player lol
@jessicadaaa92973 жыл бұрын
Rickeys dramatic way of explaining things is me af LMAO 😂
@chanelsmyname3 жыл бұрын
“It was the fact that it was folded up for me” I’m in tears 😂
@Kvzuma3 жыл бұрын
I’m no prude but the whole sex party thing is probably jus a whole std rave
@marrkrrr99493 жыл бұрын
Ur not wrong babe, wheewww especially since there’s no way of seeing their health status STDs probably just thriving over there
@Kyle-tp6su3 жыл бұрын
💀😭
@darbyroberts693 жыл бұрын
i’m not into group sex, but if i did honey, best BELIEVE everyone (including myself) is getting checked for STDs beforehand.
@mojaslatt3 жыл бұрын
std rave-
@camholmez3 жыл бұрын
STD RAVE PLZZZ
@CherishArtist3 жыл бұрын
We NEEEEED the podcasts on KZbin bc audio AND VISUALS??? Sisssss it is everything 😩😂😂😂
@nishabeauty75463 жыл бұрын
i feel like denzel is such a private an hes scared to open up about the stuff hes done hes seems like those persons who love to play innocent an theyre there the most freakiest out of all of us an they've done more than we have he gives me that vibes
@mikugh3 жыл бұрын
this duo never fails to make me smile
@dreathemelanin83333 жыл бұрын
Missed y’all no lie and Ricky when yhu uploading on KZbin 😭😩
@Bwell433 жыл бұрын
Man these two togetherrrrrr 😭😭😭 “what’s this rag back here” I’m wheezing bih😂
@kadasiaduirden57173 жыл бұрын
My heart would truly be hurt if anything ever happens to either of them or their friendship 🥺🥺🥺
@keepingupwitnissyy3 жыл бұрын
Ricky is so funny, I can’t deal with him 😂😂 the chair moment kills me, the whole New York City 😂
@robynthebank9193 жыл бұрын
I've had that chair moment also, and Rickey is NOT lying. You get light headed when you get up bro 💀💀💀
@kyaniday5103 жыл бұрын
Y’all should really make a We Said What We Said channel and upload all this! Love seeing y’all facial expressions
@Royal_Chief_Architect3 жыл бұрын
I’m Denzel. Only when I’m in a relationship. I crave it sometimes but I dont do nun. I don’t want to love it the sex and all snd then it’s over. That’s a fn drag. I’ll be kinky af with MY boo. Not everybody’s. Girl ain’t trying to make a name.
@rochellechapman99403 жыл бұрын
Y’all need to start putting the podcast on KZbin I don’t use Spotify at all 😩
@jasminemani14313 жыл бұрын
Same😩
@joshminaj013 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@joshua27643 жыл бұрын
Yessssssa Besides yt has more recognition
@lolita9603 жыл бұрын
Right. And there’s something about being able to watch a podcast that just hits different
@bintimkitosi61873 жыл бұрын
Spotify pays more.
@ToughLuckHaze3 жыл бұрын
25 yr old Ricky- *i remember when i was 23* 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@FromSimone3 жыл бұрын
You're either the freak friend or the supportive tame friend
@djfhfh Жыл бұрын
I think I'm the freak 😭😭
@christasaing82173 жыл бұрын
I love how healthy this friendship is
@RoLee7053 жыл бұрын
Rickey is giving me Maxine Shaw Attorney at Law. And I...am.......living.
@torilareine81143 жыл бұрын
I cackleddd🤣
@juandoza983 жыл бұрын
I’m surprised Denzel isn’t getting a new car every time he hooks up with somebody like his bed sheets😂😂
@Sungoddessz3 жыл бұрын
Denzel is HILARIOUS 😅😂 he’s a conservative king. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom 👀
@douggiefresh75403 жыл бұрын
32:50-33:10 when Ricky says “hmmm what’s dis rag back here” I’m dead cryin 🤣😂🤣
@SameOlHim2 жыл бұрын
YES, my favorite part. 😂🤣
@Kmuniii3 жыл бұрын
Nobody: Rickey: I’m 25 now
@superbun65443 жыл бұрын
Ricky: “that time I hooked up with that French guy” Denzel: “which one?” Ricky: “The French one!” I’m deadddd🤣🤣
@julia_shmulia3 жыл бұрын
if macdoesit, rickey, denzel, and bretman were in a room together the world would explode in glitter & fabulousness
@Autumn_winds28283 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how people hook up with randoms, just the idea of std’s or something uncurable scares tf out of meeee
@correioanacabral3 жыл бұрын
Denzel is too much of a capricorn for this sex talk 😂
@Davyonnaalissa3 жыл бұрын
@Hopeless in Nyc nah
@Bee-oe1vi3 жыл бұрын
He must have a lot of it in his chart cause I’m all for it
@CaseyLamah3 жыл бұрын
They be shy about it... I have a Capi bestie and they be telling me all the teaaaa
@correioanacabral3 жыл бұрын
I always thought capricorns were the less freaky... unless there is some aries, scorpio etc. I dont know, Im a double virgo, im not freaky neither lol
@curtisnolin51953 жыл бұрын
The way I'm a Capricorn and I be on some demon shit😂😂😂
@lenarey25393 жыл бұрын
I’m dead. Denzel said he felt disrespected when someone spit on him lmaoooo
@lilybarta52663 жыл бұрын
People who want a “We said what we said” playlist with all the live podcast videos 💗
@juliannamurdocco29703 жыл бұрын
this whole video I was like damn Denzel gives me such Capricorn vibes AND I CHECK AND HE IS GIRL I KNOW A CAPRICORN WHEN I SEE ONE
@mixce89753 жыл бұрын
Period lol - Capricorn
@shai79193 жыл бұрын
facts- CAPRICORN
@shaylah44343 жыл бұрын
I love that Denzel is a cap, because I am one too and I feel like there aren't any super popular Capricorn personalities that people love or perceive as fun and I love that represents loud and proud
@bley44703 жыл бұрын
@@shaylah4434 this is so true
@raghad_11533 жыл бұрын
I’m a Capricorn and felt so connected with everything he said LMAOOOO
@lorenzoomccoy3 жыл бұрын
i binge listened to basically the entire channel on spotify and it GAVE WHAT I NEEDED IT TO GIVE.
@Jay-qf8ob3 жыл бұрын
Y’all complete each other like y’all friendship is beautiful
@Nkosazana-yt13 жыл бұрын
Ricky is wild 🤣💀 . I'm living for the chaotic energy
@AngelHxze3 жыл бұрын
This podcast is literally so soothing cause of y'all energy/voices. Luv that
@carleisaid83853 жыл бұрын
"What's this rag in the back?" 😭😭😭😭 I'm crying. can someone tell me if they're more episodes? I'll even pay lol
@marcusclyburn25463 жыл бұрын
I think this is the only video they posted from their podcast on Spotify.
@dirtyyrat3 жыл бұрын
You can find all the episodes on their Spotify
@carleisaid83853 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@sarahgould3 жыл бұрын
denzel giving the grayish sexuality that we need to hear!!
@tiaraw8723 жыл бұрын
When he said he throws away the sheets....🤣💀funny af
@Jariilove3 жыл бұрын
I’m convinced me and Denzel are the same person
@dianap4443 жыл бұрын
yall make me feel so safe here i love this
@kendallroberts53373 жыл бұрын
Ricky: “This the time I hooked up w this French guy”. Denzel: “which one?” Me: “there’s more then one”
@bean30293 жыл бұрын
Denzel: “Only on Spotify” Me: *Watching on KZbin* 😳
@RickMargiela3 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree denzel!! I don't crave it unless there's intimacy behind it!
@goldenboyglows26563 жыл бұрын
I died at 23:19 😂😂😂 “Left you in the streets...freezing cold “
@Norawarsame2 жыл бұрын
It kills me ey time
@samuelsmalls62883 жыл бұрын
"Rickey loves to get his cat licked" I HAD TO PAUSE THE VIDEO ANDD WHEEZEE
@curlykay7343 жыл бұрын
I get where Denzel was coming from when he said he can be celibate cause same here 🙋🏽♀️
@Quintinnharrington3 жыл бұрын
Officially becoming an influencer so that I can be friends w y’all. Such great and funny energy
@infatuated8183 жыл бұрын
“Ju..... just wash em babe, just wash em” 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@alexpina69683 жыл бұрын
we need more of this! love watching you and ricky just talk the friendship is so genuine
@kiaraa73533 жыл бұрын
Y’all could talk about anything and it’s entertaining ✨ it’s the dope personality for me ❤️
@logan67403 жыл бұрын
“what’s this rag back here?” 🤣🤣
@NicoleMamson3 жыл бұрын
I don’t really listen to podcasts but I’m obsessed with this on bc I can listen to these two talk for hourrrs 😂
@amuchen96093 жыл бұрын
Yes! You have to throw away the sheets! Get rid of whatever energy they were carrying. You do not want that energy in your home, Denzel! I wish I had done that more back in the day during my phase lol
@jessicakkh42493 жыл бұрын
I can’t with the RAG in the BACKSEAT😂🤣😂
@flizz923 жыл бұрын
Whahaha.. i love how uncomfortable Denzel gets when Rickey talks about his kinks 😂
@lilly5724 Жыл бұрын
I just be rewatching this video 😂🤦🏽♀️ stillllll
@lefxxwill77403 жыл бұрын
I want to be ricky omg! how is he sooo confident?!!
@Mh-xe1zh3 жыл бұрын
he know he look good 🤷🏾♀️
@garyjsimm3 жыл бұрын
I don’t find Ricky white washed at all. I find him afully immersed black man who likes white guys
@chennelmarcano58023 жыл бұрын
Not Denzel throwing the sheets away 😂
@ronwilliams95293 жыл бұрын
PSA: don’t use coconut oil as lube that shit ruins condoms 🥴
@karissaslife69503 жыл бұрын
Yess they break apart but if youre not using condoms its the best
@lakhedekeni3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy black excellence at its finest 😌👏🏾
@YEMTHEGEM3 жыл бұрын
“...Paris hilton” LMFAOOO RICKEYYYYYYY
@tandondaba34943 жыл бұрын
Denzel is a real capricorn- shout out! LLLOVED THIS!
@AlesaBeauty3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same Denzel about sex!!! It’s nothing I crave 😂 I’m good, other things excite me more like food
@taumafipouvi83063 жыл бұрын
"everytime I do something w somebody I throw away the sheets, yes I DO throw away the sheets I be like OOO SPIRITS EVIL EVIL SPIRITS" has me cryin rn 😂😂😂
@jayscott7783 жыл бұрын
The Capricorn in Denzel is strong in this one ! Love it !
@djames70543 жыл бұрын
Lmao Denzel you remind me so much of my gf who is also a Capricorn. Very private, very sultry and lucrative ESPECIALLY with sex. you are just protecting your energy and the special parts of you non-sexual and all because you are waiting for someone worth it to give it to. period! love that for you. love this podcast so much, love you both!
@caribbae3 жыл бұрын
18:21 - 18:35 I want something just like this 😭😭😂 That "Bitch" was felt.
@Gorgeousri_3 жыл бұрын
I felt everything !!!!
@robynthebank9193 жыл бұрын
I'm the 69th like 💀💀
@boominwithbooukey55703 жыл бұрын
I understand both sides I’m a virgin I’m scared to lose it bc I haven’t found anybody worthy enough to lose my virginity to. I honestly feel like when I do lose it I’m going to kick them out n throw away everything🥴😂 I need help
@Ahyawnah3 жыл бұрын
Girl same. I think I might block them 🥴😂
@rosieposie52413 жыл бұрын
I know everyone and their mother would be telling you this but keep it for as long as possible and only lose it to someone your super serious about, you regret it if it's with someone you don't care for or about.
@olaoluwakiitanoluwapelumi36513 жыл бұрын
Same girl
@djfhfh Жыл бұрын
@@rosieposie5241 yes this , I lost mines to someone who turned out to be cheating on me and met my husband 2 days after we broke up I wish I had of waited