Destiny Calls Out JustPearlyThings On Her Own Show🏆😭😏

[@destiny]

FULL DEBATE ►kzbin.info/www/bejne/pZ_XYnubeLyDoM0

[@tdackjordan5873]

Out of heterosexual and gay couples, lesbian couples are the highest initiators of divorce than in heterosexual couples woman are the most initiators of divorce while gay men couples are the least

[@rtmordecai1]

Chores aren’t chores and it is so dramatically obvious that JustPearly doesn’t know what real relationships look like any more than Flash and Fret.

[@eduardoreal1056]

Pearl is the same person who wants to remove a women's right to vote or have contraceptives. When I heard that I was WTF is wrong with this girl.

[@productioninquiry8937]

You need to do short videos with angry relationship advice. 😡😡😡

[@Wake13]

U looked like u were constipated for a lot of that debate… try looking up the word humility mr… destiny…? U really go by the name destiny? Hahaha! That’s so sad!! I just found out who u are and it’s very hard to take u seriously… I mean clearly ur smart n articulate with obvious skills… but every time u talk u start with an ad hominem attack… very childish. That’s why you lost… nice hair

[@joshapples88]

Kids call them “chores” . Adults call them responsibilities

[@danielsalas6254]

W

[@kanamenoname210]

And responsibilities are divided amongst adults.

[@Ozhaawashko]

Thank you, omg. It’s not chores at all. It’s literally just cleaning so that you can have your next meal. Like what the actual fuck 💀

[@lojyc-dev]

Absolutely right... This man is just an idiot

[@terryriley6410]

"Chores" is 6 times shorter.

[@15walkingaway]

I've had a divorce and can confirm: They are not fun.

[@A_Swarm_of_Waspcrabs]

I have NOT had a divorce, but can also confirm chores are not fun.

[@caesars.3261]

Is marriage worth it or na

[@hecatedraws]

​@@caesars.3261it depends I guess

[@robertreed9818]

​@@hecatedraws Marriage is worth the time and work that you put into it. Superficially speaking, marriage in and of itself may not be very different from cohabitation. There are a few legal rights that get conferred to the spouse upon signing the marriage certificate, but I imagine that this could be fixed with a little legal documentation transferring those rights to an unmarried partner.

[@viceanterra3]

@@caesars.3261 Issa gamble. But the risk can be heavily mitigated if you *and* your spouses communication and conflict resolution skills are top tier.

[@bryan.conrad]

every adult human should be able to cook and clean. Failure to do so isn't masculine, it's childish.

[@dblock20]

exactly

[@mihailmilev9909]

The emote makes me feel like I'm in a chat

[@theprofesionalist7927]

Okay, but if I'm out working all day then I'm going to be too tired to do chores! XD

[@mihailmilev9909]

Weird uncanny-ness

[@TheDonUrbas]

@@theprofesionalist7927 lazy*

[@ineedhoez]

You're not getting a divorce over dishes. You're getting a divorce because you have an imbalance in your relationship. You're getting a divorce because you've articulated a problem to your partner and they've offered No assistance in helping you solve it. If we are supposed to be in a partnership, then we need to do whatever is required to make sure that we fix whatever problems have been solved. If my partner chooses to stop participating in our relationship by abandoning me with all of the child rearing and domestic duties, then my partner has terminated the relationship. The reality is that men don't want to do housework. What's missed in this conversation is that they keep talking about 1950 traditional gender roles but those women had maids and spent less time with their kids. Even Jordan Peterson talks about the need to address the domestic responsibilities. He says that is the real work of being in a long term relationship with someone. It is the day to day mundane. The lack of appreciation and support destroys relationships. Every day. You feel unsupported and unloved.

[@Rundvelt]

How does Destiny's recent divorce and the reasons behind it mesh with your novel?

[@silversalmon9909]

​@@Rundveltit'd fit perfectly? Mel wanted more quality time. Destiny did not want to provide it. Imbalance in the relationship. Perfect. Good try kid 😢

[@TurtleChad1]

Pearl uses her ignorance as a cop out as soon as someone proves her wrong, and then she holds such strong positions without any actual information.

[@admiralbright7308]

wait... is this the same turtle? What happened to the "destiny here to balance out the masculinity" jokes?

[@nfrankiksa4596]

So she uses her ignorance every 5 minutes then?

[@DoggyP00]

@@admiralbright7308 Maybe you don't understand how jokes work?

[@Hubris1998]

"uses"? you mean "displays"?

[@sammyismuff]

@@Hubris1998 based grammar king

[@derikgodeaux]

It’s super easy to stay married. Just be like Destiny and let another dude smash your lady.

[@brandonjacobs5454]

Ooft

[@bijoubijoux5185]

lmao

[@ch9osx96]

Lmfao

[@kami_1789]

At least he doesn't get cheated on. In fact he's the one that goes out scoring most of the time, because his wife needs to find someone that's an 8 or above to even consider smashing.

[@asdfxyz_randomname2133]

@@kami_1789 Dude... that blue hair guy is probably like a 4/10, so his wife is probably out smashing half the town, if that's the criteria.

[@1ogkilla]

Those chores are called duties when you’re a responsible adult. Duties that need to be done regardless of how you feel.

[@clearifythat3470]

Stop acting like grown men don’t wash their own clothes plus if that man is a construction worker paying the bills and feeding the family I see no reason why he can’t have his wife wash his clothes it’s called common respect for the one you love and to understand what they do most women and men like this blue haired feminist puss puss need to realize that

[@dustybuster]

OK so do them and stop waiting for someone else to do them for you.

[@LouellaCarnie]

@@breezy533 Ok how come being a maid is actually a paid job explain that ?

[@jaycwise]

​@@LouellaCarnie having a maid is a luxury. Chores should be done with a light heart, cause it means you can take care of what you have.

[@dewwwd3431]

Just hire a maid you brokie

[@SwimSweetie100]

For once, I agree with the blue hair person in this situation. People don’t get divorced over ‘chores’, they get divorced over a lack of support and teamwork etc

[@alexbacklin727]

initiated by women yes. the blue haired "man" is a moron. watch the full interview and you will se that the blue one edited this hard

[@henrybilsland1035]

If it helps, he dyed it for charity

[@nathaniel0908]

Yes that means doing stuff separately in the house and together, if only one does it you get annoyed maybe angry that leads to fights you see that because one of the two doesn't do it, if the men in usa is the one that works what does the woman do?

[@tonyg19k]

That may be the old way of thinking and logic.. Today, women don't want to do anything.. They're with a man making 50k a year and think they should have a nanny,maid, and drive a new BMW..

[@henrybilsland1035]

@@tonyg19k you say that but the evidence doesn’t really back that up. 61% of US households both spouses are working

[@frasermarino3403]

A child would call them chores an adult would call them responsibilities lol.

[@minzahhh1]

Best response to this well done

[@manolgeorgiev9664]

Yeah, well spot on.

[@204rego]

Hahahaha truth

[@cbonez2909]

Thank you. Holy moly a logical and adult answer!!

[@seancollins3827]

Yes but this is just nit picking destiny is an idiot

[@zelebigztv8887]

Everyone should do chores in a relationship. It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman. It’s common sense.

[@aceportgasd.584]

When are man does his manly duties, its his duties, when a woman does her womanly duties, its chores and misogynistic looool. Step 1 for happy marriage, don’t marry a masculine boss babe.

[@momomtony]

"Everyone should do chores in a relationship"... did you watch the video about the stay at home mom, who complained that her husband doesn't do basic chores like putting his clothes in the dryer, but at the same time admits that he is so busy at work that he can't even answer his phone? SHE IS STAY AT HOME MOM! SHE DOESNT WORK, HER WORK IS TO KEEP THE HOUSE IN CHECK AND THE MANS WORK IS TO MAKE SURE THERE IS A HOUSE TO KEEP IN CHECK!

[@zelebigztv8887]

@@momomtony by your own logic, if you haven’t got a girlfriend and live by yourself surely you have to do some chores right? Or even cooking for yourself. It’s common sense. You don’t want to live in a pigsty. So being that said, doing chores is an necessity. I get if she’s a stay at home woman. You can’t use that as an excuse to not clean up after yourself. It’s just pure ignorance. Does that seem reasonable If i unintentionally mess up the floor and tell my babe to clean the floor because she’s a stay at home wife and mom? 🤨 Before you say cleaning up after yourself isn’t the same as chores. It definitely is.

[@zelebigztv8887]

@@aceportgasd.584 when has chores being categorised to be a feminine thing. You’ll realise chores is going to be daily routine even if your working. It’s a part of discipline. Even fathers who are masculine tell their sons to do chores. Doing chores is part of the blueprint of being independent. Even in a interdependent relationship both sides still do chores.

[@momomtony]

@@zelebigztv8887 it doesn't. I work hard enough to afford a whole family (wife and kids) that means that if im alone, i have enough money to get a cleaning lady and eat outside. i can spend my money on someone else doing my chores for me if im by myself. So, if im married and my wife stays home all day long and doesn't work, the bare minimum i would expect from her is to do "chores", or the better term that should be used is her "responsibilities" as a stay at home wife. now, dont get me wrong. i would never force my wife to be a "stay at home wife", that will always be her choice, she can also choose to go out and work. But my choice will always be to be able to work hard enough to allow her to have that option. So, if she choose to work and i will work too, i will make sure we can afford a cleaning lady. I dont want to work hard and get home to do chores, that's not my lifestyle. im smart enough and work hard enough to afford my lifestyle, so im not going to change it. Now, if i spill something on the floor, i wouldn't be a piece of shit and tell my wife to come clean it, i will do it myself. But if we eat dinner, i will help her pick up the stuff of the table, but it's her duty to do the dishes and clean the table afterwards!

[@matthewsilva8617]

“You’re a child!” Yelled the blue haired adult man.

[@Jessicaro]

because she is. she is literally a child. if you do not realize that chores are a big deal in a relationship you never had a real one.

[@babaXIII]

@@Jessicaro The blue haired manchild yelling and insulting is, in fact, the child in this situation. Maybe, if instead of interrupting her, he actually let her finish her argument, we'd get more than a dumbass clip of him interrupting and making a fool of himself. She can't be the child here, because she never even got a chance to speak her fucking argument.

[@Jessicaro]

@Lee Blackburn maybe you should watch the whole podcast and realize he was right. and no women do not end marriages over nothing. cheating is not nothing. abuse is not nothing. abusing alcohol or drugs is not nothing even not doing the chores while you both work full time is not nothing. those are the top reasons for divorce. so i do not get where you gotten the idea from that wo divorce for nothing because no one just divorces for nothing.

[@KHETTIUS]

@@Jessicaro i can guarentee chores aren't the issue in your relationships, you are.

[@Jessicaro]

@@KHETTIUS and i can guarantee you if your wife works full time and you work full time and she has to do all the chores alone. you will be divorced within tops two years. there is no such thing as she is at fault. how can you even try to put the blame on the woman when you as a man can not even handle your business seeing as she works. meaning you are not a traditional man so why do you expect her to be a traditional wo? and than you have the audacity to expect her to come home after having worked 8 tot 10 hours and still do the chores housewives do without helping her? how does that work in your mind? no chores definitely are the root of the problems for a lot of married couples i can promise you that.

[@Wurstfinger-rl1zi]

Destiny: Articulates his points, gives examples and comparisons, refers to actual statements and studies, etc. Red pill bots: hE a CuCk

[@dLzzzgaming]

his point was really good. But he is a literal cuck, isn't he?

[@andersongomez636]

Good sophist not really better than those redpills... being a degenerate isn't good long-term.

[@joshcarlson6575]

He is a cuck, a very smart articulated one

[@jasontater]

Yeah, take his advice on relationships, 3 months later where is he at? Oh, his wife left him for another dude. Looks like doing chores didn’t help much did it?

[@dLzzzgaming]

This aged amazingly well

[@LisetteOlds]

20 years in a relationship, I can attest that mole Hills turn into mountains if left unattended.

[@follding948]

😂😂😂

[@princessmimithepug6719]

So true, she actually thinks women are divorcing men over chores when In actuality it probably started with them asking for help and never getting it, so they got on with it and then other things happened that he didn't help with or rectify like going to help with the kids on weekends and everything kinda spirals when nothing is said or done. If the woman is communicating but getting nothing back what is meant to happen after years of asking for help, this girl doesn't have a clue

[@ILUVJTN1]

She literally doesn't even reflect she knows she has to pander to disenfranchised young men and she just decides im gunna say whatever will justify the men's crapy decision and validate their resentment atleast she prioritises her bottom line, but once this red pill wave is over she's gunna be to old for all the things she claims are important

[@smoothsexy7801]

i hope you are not suffering and u guys are working thru it and having conversations? hopefully this is just to affirm and not a cry for help. wish u and your person the best

[@Glover6011]

Haha and who makes them into mountains?

[@th_xieri]

If the man cannot financially support the household by himself, he cannot expect the woman to take care of the household by herself.

[@jehoshualewis2525]

facts. and if a woman can't take care of the household by herself then the man shouldn't have to protect her, or pay on dates, or carry the heavy bags, or change the tires, or give her his coat when it's cold, or the umbrella when it's raining, or hold the door as she enters, or, or, or. now shut your d u m b azz up

[@catdadfitness]

A man can just pay for a maid. Since that would be the same thing besides not having sex with the maid.

[@user-sj7nj1tj4r]

yes... and whats your point? you stated the obvious, but are you taking a stand or is that it?

[@odizza1688]

Lady that's called common sense. But let's be clear, all jobs are not the same. A woman sitting at a desk from 9-5 is not the same as a man working a construction job. Its important both people are reasonable with their expectations.

[@turnerburner922]

Valid

[@Jeskers18]

If you are sharing a household together then you are both responsibly for the upkeep. Sure it's never going to be fully equally split but it's just so nice when someone pitches in without having to be nagged.

[@beatnik6806]

Yeah it's crazy to me. Me both have our things we do. She is not chopping wood and bring firewood in and warm the house. She is not fixing or taking in and installing a new toilet, washingmachine or dishwasher when the old broke. She didn't change new door or sofa when we needed a new one. She didn't make new floor for us, she didn't change new tires on her or my car or changed the oil or head lamps. She didn't bring new tv in and old out, she didn't pick up the new fridge from the store and install it in our house. I did all that. I also shovel the snow, cut the grass, CUT THE TREES, CHOP THE TREES and make firewood out of them. She doesn't go to work and pay for all of our bills and food. I do. She cleans, she cooks, she respects me, she gives me peace and I respect and love her back. THAT'S ENOUGH FOR ME IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK IN YOUR ALL OPINIONS?

[@arefallout]

But why doesnt the sams apply for finances?

[@shiningpecan6978]

@@arefallout you didn't watch the podcast. It was about a relationship with both partners working, except the men don't help with any household chores. So both the man and woman work, and the men just relax at home.

[@syniahare8630]

I'm a firm believer in clean up after yourself so if the wife is a at home wife yes she needs to do all these things except cleaning your mess like if you just ate clean your dish I never understood why my parents made it a chore giving extra work when you could all do your own dish it still makes no since. Also if we are also talking about kids don't know if we are then yes it is to much to ask cause personally I think kids are alot more to handle then work so for you wife to be at home with the kids all day everyday and you to come home and not pitch in cause you want a "break" is selfish same with her yall have to make something to work where each of yall can get a designated break and not only a one-sided break.

[@Danielle.91]

@@arefallout it is mostly. Majority of men are NOT sole providers.

[@ahunter3858]

It’s never about the “chores” it’s about the mutual respect for one another’s time. When there’s an in-balance in the distribution of ALL the aspects of what is necessary to keep home running, it translates to one person valuing their free time above the other persons.

[@cheyennejackson512]

That is literally the best way I've ever heard that explained

[@eviebernal2913]

She is either recently married or not married but she has no idea what marriage is about. She needs to go and find out statistical value from divorce lawyers and figure out the real reasons why people get divorced. There’s a ton of statistics already, and the fact that she ONLY has a personal opinion about chores it’s just unreal.

[@AnarquiaCookbook]

Women expect men to work 40+ hours a week and be the housekeeper.

[@idontwantaname3233]

​@@AnarquiaCookbook No, women expect to come home from work and share the household responsibilities with their partner.

[@AnarquiaCookbook]

@@idontwantaname3233 then why are men still expect to be the breadwinner and also evenly split all household chores? I'm still expected to keep the lights on, keep food in the house, get the rent paid, etc AND cook, clean, landscape, fix things, paint, etc. Male expectations are far higher than the expectations put on women.

[@JasperDc90]

this man is so educated in marriage that he lets his wife sleeps around ANDDDDDD he still do the chores. what a MAN.

[@AngelRuiz-xq2ie]

Y’all always seem to leave out the part where he sleeps with other women too. Ya know, an open marriage?

[@theobservarator6424]

@Angel Ruiz Because they can't argue his point so this makes them feel better. Why isn't pearl married with 5 kids making sandwiches in the kitchen? That is supposed to be her dream.

[@PurpleJell-O]

​@@AngelRuiz-xq2ie No he doesn't lol. No women is beating down his door begging for sex. This dude only gets sex when his wife can't get a hold of Tyrone. No women drips when they see a blue haired feminist man. This dude is the very definition of low testosterone

[@StpMakinMeChangMyNam]

​@@AngelRuiz-xq2ie it doesn't matter how many women you sleep with. If your wife bangs other dudes you're still a cuck.

[@mistachorazy6929]

@@AngelRuiz-xq2ie so mental illness

[@bvcrimson]

I just want a woman that’s honest and doesn’t cheat

[@doubleoyimmy1572]

For real

[@iTranquillo]

Be careful what you wish for

[@Austin-rh1on]

goodluck

[@nl1575]

Loads out there

[@Griffex]

Then you shouldn’t listen to Destiny, how does neither and yet he’s trying to give relationship advice

[@Elimbi1]

Pearls immaturity regarding long term relationships is really showing.

[@tootrue7599]

Why so many black men love her!!!!

[@rorisang8602]

​@@tootrue7599 that's messed up. Don't lump every black men together please.

[@marketables]

@@tootrue7599 There are plenty of amazing black husbands/fathers out there they just don’t get the spotlight

[@nadermanna]

@@Leeches- not really just knows how intersexual dynamics work, but maybe if you stop meat riding destiny then you’ll figure out what she’s talking about

[@Jim-pq9pm]

Apparently it's "mature" to think destroying your family is a reasonable thing to do because a marriage gets difficult.

[@Great_Scot]

He is able to articulate the breakdown of relationships so well. It’s just ludicrous that wealthy Pearl, who has a maid, judges women on things that she herself won’t do.

[@domagojgalekovic8507]

it makes money off of the red pill crowd.

[@andrewcurrie7544]

😂😂😂

[@RedEyedDRAG00N]

Theres a reason why the divorce rate is so high these days and women in there 40s are alone. A relationship requires upkeep, it requires persistence on both ends. Yet its always the women that wants to end it all on a whim. This is why eastern women stealing all the western men. But hey natural selection is a thing. These women and their genes will be weeded out accordingly. 🤷‍♂️

[@fabian2006]

A man who's wife openly sleeps with other men is giving relationship advice....and ppl take it lollolo

[@triple3m594]

He completely missed the argument, pearl talks about how women divorce men over silly things like chores, and then destiny comes to counter it with what men find attractive in women, as if the topic was men divorcing women… yet it wasn’t…

[@shinmalestat9272]

What Pearly and Destiny are both not saying is that communication is the main issue.

[@johnking2740]

Actually, 4 issues - Communication, Trust, Respect and Loyalty. Love is an emotion that has the ability to grow.

[@raviolijesus6181]

Communication yes..which clearly destiny never learned how to properly do because all he ever does is yell and talk really fast to get his sentence out like an autistic child and that’s why his marriage failed..because he’s not a mature person and he doesn’t deserve a good healthy relationship.

[@MrWolfy08]

Communication? Have you never shared a house? As much as you communicate, there are people who insist on not doing their part or doing it halfway.

[@bumgop]

​@@MrWolfy08 then there was a lack of communication leading up to the marriage. If you marry someone without knowing if youre going to be ok living with them for the rest of your life, then youre marrying them prematurely. Communicate with your partner before you ask them to marry you. Ask them if theyre ok with taking on a bigger list of chores. If they refuse, dont marry them.

[@johnking2740]

@@MrWolfy08 , that leads to lacking in trust, respect and loyalty. If people do not communicate with each other then they are either hiding something or do not have any intention of fixing things that are broken - ie relationships. Ask any couple that has been married for decades, they will say that communication is key, without it there is no marriage.

[@Farniro]

Destiny talking FACTS on this one. JPT really did show her ignorance with how she engaged with this topic holy shit.

[@marylandsworld3428]

Never been married ppl talking to someone who has n is married in all these manosphere podcast

[@oamih]

@@marylandsworld3428i actually enjoy a lot of things that the red pill guys have to say (when it’s reasonable) but what i don’t like is how much they preach about intelligence and how important it is for a man but when a man like destiny doesn’t fit their description of an “alpha” , his whole ideology is thrown out the window and disregarded .

[@blainewillson5075]

I mean... That's debatable. She doesn't communicate her thoughts quite as clearly but she is far from dumb. Men want women who do chores BECAUSE men want to provide for them, in return be supported.

[@Paper4150]

Simping for the blue haired LGBTQ+ fanatic. Common L

[@oamih]

@@Paper4150 bro you’ve been on youtube for 14 years i guarantee you’re in your late twenties commenting shit like “common L🗿” when will you grow up .

[@apple-eg5xl]

it’s not just about chores. it’s when you see that your partner doesn’t even have the basic capacities of taking care of themselves and you have to essentially baby them, you slowly start to lose attraction for them. they become another dependency on you that you must take care of, and you become unable to see them in a romantic light

[@donaldvanvliet9039]

Depends on whether you agreed on the roles or not. If a man goes out to work to earn money and the woman stays home to do the chores, it’s a clear situation where both depend on each other. If one of the two doesn’t contribute anything, then there is a problem. You do have to want to see what the other contributes though,

[@suoerman42]

You just restated what destiny said lol.

[@BrotherAlpha]

Exactly. You don't see them as a spouse, but you see them as a child and your are their parent.

[@Daniela-pr7rz]

@@donaldvanvliet9039 if you cannot afford payed help you are failing to provide. The woman is your queen to you being a king, not your slave. Her job is providing you a family so you get substance and relevance to your life, not slave away for you.

[@donaldvanvliet9039]

@@Daniela-pr7rz lol you’re not a queen, and i’m not a king. Grow up. Life is hard enough without partners who want what they can’t have. Doing daily chores is not slavery, you just insulted both all slaves and all the women in your familylines who did housework. How wonderful.

[@kiraPh1234k]

I like how Pearl's reason for everything is "huhuhuhuhuhuhuhu"

[@subotnai1]

I read that last part in her voice lol

[@travist2339]

“Look it”

[@desasnarse]

it sounds like you are a reasonable person who has listened to her instead of clips of her talking that are chopped up to make her look dumber.

[@kiraPh1234k]

@@desasnarse It sounds like you like sarcasm, and yet, despite your rhetoric, I have listened (very unfortunately) to hours of this woman speaking on her own channel as well as others for entire discussions and debates. I guess you could argue she cuts her own content to make herself look dumber but that seems like a silly hill to die on.

[@SHAhzAD9981]

I love how destiny spits straight up facts and the only thing the red pill community can say is shit about destiny’s blue hair (that he dyed for charity) or him having a open relationship.

[@TheEndingAbyss]

I remember Destiny said something a few years back. He knows he did he job well when the response from the other community isn’t criticism of what he said, but attacks on him.

[@adamyooz]

@@TheEndingAbyss All the comments are “ha ur wife fucks other guys and your hair is blue.” I’d consider that a win if I were him. If he were getting comments that were long winded rebuttals then maybe he didn’t make his arguments strongly enough, but when it’s all personal attacks, it’s because they have nothing else.

[@jophaps1156]

True

[@axirial]

i mean having an open relationship is only for beta males

[@djmattid]

Why everytime I'm reading arguments against destiny I haven't read a single one about his hair but yet this same comment appears.

[@sandhan1t1zer]

Pearly tries to portray herself as a thoughtful woman who cares about men but after seeing her debate, she’s just kinda dumb. It feels like I’m listening to a child speak

[@Teddy-se8qb]

desitny portrays himself as a man but he allows his wife to get fucked by other men.

[@MelissaSVice]

she also doesn't care about men when she offers no level of deeper insight or solutions to the overall situation. She just rides the wave and you can tell she's a fraud. Pearly does NOT care about men. Literally offers ZERO real perspective. Just wanted to be "one of the boys" by being a pick-me lol.

[@Rudy92284]

Yep. That's most "red pill" people. They're just pandering to rubes for that easy money.

[@sanchini5689]

She's a grifter. Her rich dad bankrolled her lil platform cause it was easy money.

[@Teddy-se8qb]

@@sanchini5689 its nice to have a daddy around huh?

[@JamDodger-tn7mm]

“Many men still think of marriage, housework, and childcare as woman’s work. They see themselves as helpers in these areas but they don’t think of themselves as equally responsible for them. They think of themselves as a subordinate and their wives as the leaders in these areas and they wait for instructions but otherwise figure no news is good news. The problem is that women have taken on a lot of men’s work over the last few generations but not enough men are taking on the work that was traditionally done by women. This is making many women feel overwhelmed and resentful. Many women end up deciding that it would be easier to be alone because a husband is just a bunch of extra work. I am talking about housework and childcare but also emotional and relationship work.” ~ Sara Kooper

[@pwnchmonkey1]

Men have a natural instinct and societal structure oth dictate these things. Men shouldn't be taking on the roles of women. We are different. But throughout history Men have been the hunters and women were the gatherers. I accept my role as a man to provide and hold my value. Now I'm not saying I don't help but yes the house is my girls. I work and pay for it and she takes care of it. I help when I can but it's not my role. The problem is we tell women they're so valuable that they think they're above these things and now they don't want to do anything productive. So if I work full time pay all the bills and make sure there's food to cook that they can't cook it? This isn't a man problem this is an inflating women's ego problem. I'm not working full time and doing all the work in the house. If my gf was just a piece I wouldn't be with her because there's no value and I can get support from friends. Partners who do their role tend to be happier. Statistics show in fact that the happiest women in America are housewives. So do with it what you will but the guy in the video is a simp. What kind of man let's his girl fuck other dudes. It's obvious he gets run over in every facet of his life by his girl so why would I EVER listen to what that clown has to say

[@jhalakmalhotra2029]

Well I am an Indian.When your women were in the kitchen our women were fighting wars writing Hindu scriptures administering the kingdom.They served their countries fought against Muslim invaders the British@@pwnchmonkey1

[@jhalakmalhotra2029]

Our women work provide for their family .They do both.@@pwnchmonkey1

[@jhalakmalhotra2029]

Even men have chores like fixin cars bulbs mowing lawns .If the woman has to do her role and the man cannot even do his like making sure car is given for fixing and she has to tell him to do his part then how will it survive.@@pwnchmonkey1

[@BabalonNuit]

@@pwnchmonkey1 The problem is men thinking they are "above" such "lowly" things as "housework". Just see a man's lip curl with contempt when they say "women's work". And women picked up on that: now they too look on housework with contempt because it has been regarded as contemptible by MEN for so long. So yeah: if men think they are "above" housework, then why should women be content to be "looked down upon" for doing 'contemptible" work? Having a man around just means MORE housework. It's no wonder more and more women are opting for "life with cats", instead of "life with contempt".

[@krombopulos_michael]

Destiny gives a detailed explanation of how its not about chores themselves the kinds of bigger problems and conflicts they can lead to in a relationship over the long term Pearl: "lol breaking up over chores is just dumb tho"

[@Jim-pq9pm]

It is. A divorce is not a good thing, it's horrible, destroys a family. You've made commitments, you have children, and you throw it away because it's become difficult. You are the immature ones.

[@Catokawaii]

@@Jim-pq9pm You literally just did the thing. IT'S NOT THE CHORES. Small things build up overtime, chores become arguments, and turn into loss of attraction into no sex into isolation and a destruction of the relationship.

[@Akkatlah]

​@@Jim-pq9pmit's not about the chores. The chores are just a reflexion of something not working at a deeper level in the marriage.

[@Akkatlah]

​@@curtishancock432and why a woman wouldn't be happy?

[@JWill6969]

​​@@Jim-pq9pm First off, No one said divorce is a good thing, that's a strawman argument. Second you can get divorced without having children. Third most divorces don't happen because things are "difficult", they happen due to unfaithfulness, or abuse. Your immature for thinking no one should get divorced and should just tough it out. I knew someone who had that opinion, she's dead because her husband killed her.

[@free_waygo888]

damn, destiny has been getting a lot of advice from the guys his girl brings home lol

[@teamojesusss]

LMAO

[@theobservarator6424]

In a happy marriage while he fucks other woman is bad now? Is pearl even in a relationship?

[@free_waygo888]

@@theobservarator6424 yeah buddy I bet he pulls like that lmao

[@theobservarator6424]

@free_waygo I'm just stating facts. Why is pearl single if her dream life is married with children while making her husband a sandwich?

[@teamojesusss]

@@theobservarator6424 There's not a lot of traditionalist men nowadays. So it makes sense.

[@rydechaotica]

I think i just fell in love with a random stranger with blue hair. Dude fucking nailed her to the wall with truth. 🤣

[@ns88ster]

Do you think you wanna divorce him?

[@wolfskymoons]

Only thing getting nailed here is his wife by another man..

[@rydechaotica]

@@wolfskymoons Any other legitimate critiques of the man's logic or just lame shots at lifestyle choices that having nothing to do with you?

[@wolfskymoons]

@@rydechaotica I'm happy that you agree that my last comment was a legitimate critique.. :) As far as OTHER legitimate critiques.. this guy starts off by calling names, "you're a child", that sets it up as a loss from the get-go.. he then goes on to ask if Pearl thinks divorce is fun.. actually for some women it IS fun.. they get X, Y, and Z without having to do anything.. and in some situations they even get a basic income every month just for being alive.. so yea, divorce IS fun for some women.. yes, housework is chores.. but as i tell my wife and kids, if we all just pick up after ourselves, there is little to no "chores" that need to be done.. a few things here and a few things there.. and yes, it would be absurd to get a divorce over those chores.. if i'm working 40+ hrs a week to support my household and my wife has the option to stay at home because of the amount of money i bring in.. and she chooses to stay at home.. well, honey, it's not all just fun and games.. can't sit there and watch netflix all day.. your job as a housewife is to keep the the house clean and organized.. while you don't directly get paid by an employer, you benefit and have direct access to the money i make that goes into OUR bank account.. now, if that woman wants to get divorced over "chores".. yes, that's absolutely absurd.. and yes, women do that.. usually "western" women.. that is why many men now a days marry foreign women.. my job is X, your job is Y.. this is the agreement we go into upon marriage.. (of course with so many variables, this is just one or two scenarios)

[@CorporalASH]

​@@wolfskymoonsthat whole essay literally for nothing. Its like you literally admit to the point destiny is making and then fall back on a different conclusion. Literally admiting that a womans responsiblities might be to take care of the house while the man goes out to work everyday. They arent just "chores", they are RESPONSIBILITIES that both partners need to engage in. And if they arent being met then a divorce is absolutely understandable.

[@LousyNine]

The perfect woman is one that’s got your back, and won’t abandon you. If she enjoys the same things you do as well, she’s an absolute keeper. As for chores, when a couple get a home, it is up to both of them to take care of it, and as for cooking, hell, I can’t cook for shit, but if it made my wife happy, and she also put in effort for the same, I would cook as well. Loyalty is most important, and that goes both ways.

[@eli-kave]

100% Loyalty is like the bedrock And when your partner takes interest in your interests and actively encourages you to do your best….. whoo wee we got a real prize

[@LousyNine]

@@Justin-gv3lp Speaking as a man with a woman that also has a job. As long as the man and woman put in equal work, whether that be at home or at work, its the most stable a relationship can get. If she doesn't work, yes, household work is her job, but if she does work, it is a split responsibility. Assuming shit without asking is why the people in comments sections are so retarded.

[@lukarancini1630]

@@Justin-gv3lp That is exactly what getting along means? No one is debating that, but some if us men think we are entitled to our girlfriends/wives just because we work and they don’t. You are not.

[@brendynmills1477]

This is the right way to see things

[@brendynmills1477]

This is the right way

[@alvaradoac21]

She’s right. It is stupid to divorce over chores. But it’s a two way street. If you’re not even the breadwinner, or providing enough to make up for not doing chores, then wanting a woman to do it for you is lazy, and you’re clearly the problem.

[@RottenCheese]

The man has to be valuable enough to get with the woman in the first place. If you chose your partner loosely and then later regret the choice, whose fault is it.

[@CupcakeDeity]

It's like you didn't hear a single thing he said. People don't divorce over choose. The chores are just the first step that add up until you're resentful of the person for not having the basic fucking decency to help you. Can't depend on them to do the little things, then you sure as he'll can't depend on them for big things.

[@alvaradoac21]

@@RottenCheese If a woman chooses a lazy man, then regrets it enough to divorce, I wouldn't blame her. If anything, the lazy man deserves to take an L, given the laziness. If the man is truly of value, he will either be kind enough to help with chores, or to acknowledge the issue and find a way to remedy the issue with another act of kindness or acknowledgement of monetary distribution.

[@alvaradoac21]

@@CupcakeDeity Again, chores are the root cause. BUT, if the partner not doing the chores is also paying the bills, taking you on vacation, listening to your problems, and taking care of you emotionally... complaining about chores is a waste of time.

[@RottenCheese]

​@@alvaradoac21 So no accountability on the women at all? That means it is okay to make the same mistake over and over again and the women is never responsible? If I know a landmine will kill me if I step on it, I still step on it and die, whose fault is it?

[@carlik3974]

It’s not just “chores,” it’s about having a partner you know is going to be a PARTNER. If you vocalize on many occasions “Hey I can’t do this alone I need your help.” And your partner is not giving anything then that love is selfish and you are left to rely on yourself rather then sharing the responsibilities equally with your spouse.

[@KoDrHo]

Then don’t marry that person in the first place. It’s easy to spot these things before getting into that lifelong covenant if you’re actually paying attention to your partner.

[@itsonlyagame4033]

@@KoDrHo Yeah you must be 50 years old, who has been through the marriage thing multiple times except for that you sound like an 18 year old basement dweller with that mature take.

[@DameOfDiamonds]

​@@KoDrHo it's not easy unless you actually live with him before marriage

[@supersaiyangodsupersaiyanm7886]

​@@KoDrHo good luck

[@adlc6543]

There’s roles in a relationship how do you expect a good man to be the protecter and provide financial stability and to the women and their kids and get home and have him do chores? You only want an equal relationship when it benefits you

[@tembodiaz]

I have literally been in that relationship. It was awful. Pearl has never been in a real relationship, she’s never been married, and she doesn’t have children. Girl, stop.

[@Diana-fg2vy]

I actually agree with Mr blue haired dude . Resentment piles up and whatever breaks the horses back won't always be that big heavy drama

[@mr.reptar]

Well his wife’s back is being broken by some horses big heavy drama.

[@McKae00]

Yall dont communicate and then get angry when someone doesnt understand what you want

[@grass5496]

That doesn't mean some people don't divorce for no reason still

[@benjaminandrews956]

That doesn't just happen though. That only happens if you're terrible at communicating and problem solving you let those little things pile up and destroy your marriage which is like the woman said stupid

[@rh7474]

Divorcing someone because they don't do chores is stupid no matter how you spin it. Destiny is right that small things can snow ball into bigger issues but even he is missing the real issue which is that their is probably a general lack of communication if this is what's pushing you to divorce your spouse. Which is something that can be fixed if both people are trying.

[@duanejrc]

I’m willing to wager Pearl has never had a long term relationship

[@Teddy-se8qb]

im willin gto wager destiny never had a faithful girlfriend who was submissive to him. hes to used to being cucked and doesnt know what its like to have a real woman.

[@zachariemelanson485]

Ad hominem, very sophisticated

[@duanejrc]

@@Teddy-se8qb I’m sure you’ve got lots of experience with real women though.

[@SMDH.2204]

​@Zacharie Melanson It ain't an attack, it was a speculative statement.

[@plutotech]

​@@zachariemelanson485 so she has been in a relationship?

[@haleysmith6208]

"You're actually a child"😂😂😂 FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT

[@perksofasimplelife6621]

I think she is naive and sheltered..

[@haleysmith6208]

@@perksofasimplelife6621 she admits it too!

[@loud6037]

I'm really relating to how frustrated Destiny is getting with her. 🤣

[@haleysmith6208]

@@loud6037 I feel like she does it on purpose😂 the more wild shit she says the more views she gets

[@fnordiumendures138]

Ya'll missing the forest for the trees. Destiny is arguing like mad; he knows he has lean in, to bring logic, passion and coherent thought. Pearl can just lean back and go: "Yeah, but I feel like..." He HAS to prove himself, to perform, and she don't, if she don't feel like it. Why, it's like a marriage...

[@eddiebernays514]

people confuse the early relationship love with the love you have in a marriage.

[@glittermafia5759]

This man is 100% correct. I recently broke it off with my fiance because it's not just about "chores" it's about the fact that we both worked and he would make the house an absolute disaster by the time I came home, fully expecting me to clean everything when I just worked a 12 hour day. It's about respecting your partners physical and mental health. I used to cry in my car before I walked in my house because I knew what was waiting for me. It's clear to me this girl has never been in a relationship.

[@thetruthofboxing]

It not chores, it clear you haven’t even been in a real relationship. It called responsibility not chores

[@Ramen7810]

@@thetruthofboxing are you stupid? Who cares what you call them chores responsibility. It’s all the same. Chores are a responsibility.

[@quoya2811]

​​@@thetruthofboxing The moral of the story, he expected those responsibilities to be only her duty. Thus leaving him. Vice versa hardworking man coming home after hard days work to take care home responsibilities alone would make him wanna leave too 🥴

[@IAmFirstborne]

Yeah, the smurf wasn't correct. You are conflating the man child you decided to f@ck, with a real man. A real man wouldn't need, nor want you working at a job. Instead, he would expect you to be home safe and sound, helping him build a life for you both. If you had an issue with that, you wouldn't be his woman. You miss, were simply f@cking a man child. Don't get it twisted.

[@sup9441]

Sending you good vibes. You deserves a guy that recognizes and respects your efforts.

[@acason4]

“I think women divorce for NO REASON all the time”… 🤦🏼‍♂️ Clearly she’s never lived in a household that experienced divorce or knows anyone who’s been through a divorce. I don’t know of a single person (woman or man) that just arbitrarily decides to get divorced. It’s one of the most difficult, troubling & damaging life experiences to both men & women on a multitude of different levels. Another fine example of Pearl showcasing how absolutely delusional she is!

[@cptasscheeks8669]

Her point is that women often divorce for reasons that are not just/worthy of breaking such a sacred bond, such as chores.

[@hunterlurvey698]

​@cptasscheeks8669 and as destiny points out, women don't divorce men because of chores, chores are usually the start of a lot of issues. If you have to repeatedly tell your partner to help out around the house, that's going to cause problems. It devolves into bigger issues that eventually lead to divorce

[@acason4]

@@cptasscheeks8669 That wasn’t her point & relationships just aren’t that simplistic. Anyone that’s lived with/been married or dated someone for years already knows that. Pearl lives in FANTASYLAND!

[@cptasscheeks8669]

@acason4 that was the obvious first or second principle of what she is arguing, apply some charity and stop being so pretentious. I've been in a relationship for 7 years and my woman would probably agree with desTINY. I do some chores to keep her happy but but complaining about them from either side is petty, she sometimes doesn't do her share and I don't shit my pants over it

[@cptasscheeks8669]

@hunterlurvey698 yes true, and I appreciate the good faith argument, but her point is that a chores based dispute devolvinh into the other more meaningful ones should not happen.

[@demongurrl13]

Pearl has to be single, right? Like she's so clueless about relationships and all she can do is parrot other people's red pill take on them.

[@ProxiProtogen]

She is infact single lol

[@Solitaire427]

I feel like that’s all she does on just about every subject. She parrots other peoples red pill thoughts I don’t feel like any thought that she has is her own thought. It’s all copied from something she heard from another red piller.

[@lonebanana6753]

She may also be grifting by agreeing with Red Pill talking points for her own show

[@Chiller-pc1dv]

Man, I'm single and I understand relationships better than her braindead self.

[@TravelBug189]

I think she’s 27 and definitely single. Doesn’t she have a wife school podcast? I watched the first episode and the girl admits she can’t even dress herself properly. She mostly wears her mom’s dresses. She doesn’t know how to cook and overspends on food delivery each month (her own words) I don’t know how she’s some type of red pill expert when she’s pushing 30, no bf, never married, no kids, can’t cook, can’t style herself, orders in all the time. Doesn’t sound like a good wife

[@johntwigg3714]

Finally someone responds to her with logic and she’s lost.

[@a-atheist]

Hes wrong on multiple levels. Divorce is ABSOLUTELY fun for the tons of women who say it is for alimony. Starter husbands is a thing. Red pillers value feminine fit and friendly, this idea that its the only thing is a lie. They want a woman to do "just chores" but thats by FAR less important. Why? Because high value men can hire a maid. Destiny is actually A CHILD.

[@Rundvelt]

Man, Destiny's new situation sort of proves Pearl right no?

[@pablinkz]

Wise man once said, never take relationship advice from an adult with blue hair who let's his wife have sex with other men.

[@somerandomguy9156]

amen 🤣

[@m.a.a.d9275]

A wise man once said: When an argument is presented, you're a little bitch and admit defeat if you use ad hominem

[@pablinkz]

@@m.a.a.d9275 where was the lie?

[@bawanki1179]

They both have sex with other people your acting like hes a total cuck

[@sheenamims379]

How you know she cheated? Was you there?

[@jonnysmith8338]

Pearl said the reasons are dumb for divorce, not it's fun. Women have not been committing to the highs and lows of marriage and relationships, only the highs, and she said as much, but you conflate this with the idea that divorce is fun. She didn't say it's fun, she said yes examples of why it happens. You failed, Destiny. This is why no one can take you seriously. You can't even address the scenario you brought up honestly.

[@shamaYahu8635]

Thank you and 3 others for noticing that. I knew that he was jumping the gun somewhere but I just couldn't point it out.

[@alldayballin01]

It's embarrassing. He dives into the rabbit hole listing irrelevant issues. He missed her direct point while displaying a lack of humility. This rant was loaded and ready before he entered the room. Wonder how his wife is doin? 🤔

[@Metyourmatch]

The top two reasons for divorce are lack of commitment and infidelity

[@Jessicaro]

she literally said women divorce just to divorce. and chores are most certainly not a dumb reason for divorce. if you both work and you come home as a wo and than your husband still expects you to do everything around the house while he sits down and drinks a beer. yeah that will breed resentment and trust me not sexy about that. because that will dry up your sex life in no time. so he is most definitely right and only a child will deny this. only a person who never had a long time committed relationship living under the same room will say chores are not a problem.

[@briber67]

​@jessica rose Pearl's point was that anyone leaving a marriage because they are not happy wasn't in the marriage for the right reasons to begin with. Marriage is about responsibility. Marriage is about sacrifice. Marriage is about family. If you put everything at risk to pursue something as ephemeral as happiness, you are a fool and deserve neither happiness nor stability.

[@elenmelon18]

The break down of communication is the worst thing for a relationship.

[@SweetNaeva24]

Exactly

[@MrNickW123]

​@M I A seems like neither do

[@summmerly]

It’s not over chores Pearl. It STARTS with chores bc contributes to. Making a mess of the house is something everyone contributes to. but when it comes down to taking care of, said mess, if one of the partners doesn’t wanna do it, I can create anger, and then anger turns into resentment, and then resentment turned on the hate. It’s not just chores. It’s the things that come after.

[@sammyismuff]

Pearl should be honored that Destiny demonstrated his strong, rational male brain.

[@sceptre3316]

Rational*female brain

[@nfrankiksa4596]

Amen

[@wtfimcrying]

Based

[@wtfimcrying]

@@sceptre3316 cope

[@sammyismuff]

@@wtfimcrying I think he was doing the destiny is a girls name meme

[@anastasiahoughton7509]

The man is right, regardless of what goes on in his own life. That woman really says some stupid thoughtless shit

[@matthewpickering8851]

Can you give an example of the stupid shit she says???? All I see is someone saying don't be a fucking hoe, respect your husband, do some cleaning, and don't divorce because you're lazy or just want money.

[@tobibenjamin6097]

He really isn’t right, the argument started because they claimed that only 25% of men do chores( which isn’t true) in two income households. the problem is that just because u contribute as much( which women don’t really) does mean u work as long in hour, which makes things way more complicated than chores; so she is right chores is actually a bad reason to divorce when there is so many alternatives to solve around the issue without even compromising. it’s literally an argument of sentiment

[@anastasiahoughton7509]

@@tobibenjamin6097 well lookup how many men divorced by women do the chores in a percentage. Generally maybe u got suttin but regardless of perfectages and stuff: IF a woman says chores are the trigger for her wanting to divorce, refer to what he said in the video, because THAT'S why chores CAN destroy a marriage and ISNT a "stupid" reason. Chores was an example of a reason Pearl decided was stupid to her which is a totally plain and ignorant way for her to view a woman's reasons for going through a whole ass divorce. Of course surely it could be worked through, but if it isn't worked through soon enough, the attraction, love and respect is dead. And all that usually happens way after the initial problem (chores, unfiar treatment) starts so they both need to communicate or listen depending on who is or isn't doing the chores. Not attacking men BTW, I think chores could be a valid reason for a man to eventually want a divorce.

[@tobibenjamin6097]

@anastasiahoughton7509 I don't think most men will divorce their wives because of chores. the opposite for men doesnt cause divorce. men are still more likely to pay bills buy more expensive gift despite women earning just as much, (71%) of America Adults say it is very important for a man to be able to support a family financially to be a good husband only 31% say the same for women. despite women earnings. Do you know that the divorce rate among couples who share the chores equally are 50 percent higher than among those where the wife does the majority of the work? And the more chores the man does the higer the rate of divorce in fact husbands who don't help with house chores are more likely to earn more It's way more complicated than men don't do chores relying on people's reasoning for divorce is bad because they usually blame their partner

[@anastasiahoughton7509]

@@tobibenjamin6097 all that might be true, but all I'm saying is that the man in the video is right; it's not stupid to have a divorce over chores. I never said anything against men AT ALL. Chill. It's other people's lives and divorces, I don't particularly care as long as people are happy. I don't care about men doing equal chores or women doing equal work. Couples should decide that amongst themselves. But in the end, if chores is what causes a divorce, its pretty short sighted and gross to say its because the women are stupid. Just not true is it

[@annaloremipsum]

It not just "the chores". It's a sign of disrespect, when your partner does not contribute at home, especially when both partners have full time jobs. How can a woman in her mid 20s (who was in relationships before) not understand that?

[@Iwontreadyourreply]

And what about the women that don’t work? That stay home because they don’t need to work/have kids to take care of? When the man is out supporting the family paying all the bills. Yeah, do the fucking dishes and quit complaining.

[@annaloremipsum]

@@Iwontreadyourreply in today's society that is usually not the case. Most family have two breadwinners. Have you ever been in a relationship before? How would you react if you came home from work and told your partner how hard your day was and how much you hate your job and all she had to say would be "stop complaining, you better keep working or I'm out". That's not a foundation of a good partnership. You would want someone who listens to you, understands your struggles and helps you to overcome obstacles. But if you do not appreciate the work the other person puts into, you don't respect them. If you promise to pick out the trash that evening, but you don't do it, your partner feels like you don't take them seriously and loses trust in you.

[@AngryVet44]

She’s paid well nor to understand and push the manosphere’s propaganda

[@Joshua-eo5hr]

What's the point of having a woman if she works and doesn't clean the house? I might as well get with a gay man at least he'll clean and cook.

[@annaloremipsum]

@@Joshua-eo5hr you're right. If you got married for that reason you might be better off with a cleaning lady. Do you really think that men marry because they see their wife as a maid? Sorry to break your bubble, but that's not the case for 99% of marriages.

[@louisbaker4362]

"that didn't age quite so well". Jon Tron.

[@romnesia7729]

PickMeThings is running out of time on her schtick

[@TheMFStudios]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@yom8058]

😆🤣😆🤣😂

[@ARTDEVGRU247]

Facts 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 😂😂

[@PapaZannie]

Pearl really does have a child’s brain though

[@Wallychans]

And the blue haired kid who bought his wife isn’t...? Funny how y’all see this in Pearl, but are blind to likes of Hasan and Vausch.

[@PapaZannie]

@@Wallychans you must not have seen her trying to explain one of her “thoughts”

[@chucklefuck]

Well, she is a woman.

[@Илия́Фримен]

First time I saw her I did a double take, then I heard her speak and was like “ well, that’s mighty progressive of the redpill community to select someone so SPECIAL to represent them!”

[@Yomel123]

I think she was sheltered

[@vinnygarthewaite7065]

Thank God the blue haired girl is standing up for women's rights

[@theewildrose]

Let's see how manly you are. Cmon Stallone. Make a vid

[@phooo0]

​@Rose K it's so good to see a man like you standing up to these msygnostic men!

[@_k__601]

All the simps roasting destiny

[@franciscolima1762]

Prove his argument wrong, the hair colour is irrelevant.

[@TheTyrial86]

​@Francisco Lima I'll go... the idea of divorcing someone because they don't clean enough, or do enough things around the home is stupid. Because the red flags are present before you married the person. Women can never take any responsibility in the breakdown of a relationship, but it is ALWAYS a masculine role that is demonized. What we are seeing is a blurred line of what roles a couple fills towards each other and the erosion of the failure of those expectations. What this is, is Women trying to be like men. Have careers, and then a family, and them work less hours in said career vs the man, and then exp3 the man to come home and do said chores when he (most likely) works more hours, and has a more dangerous job... It is women, failing to communicate what they desire, and the failure of women to understand what a man actually does at work... Not saying there aren't lazy people. It's just that women need to stop being viewed as the victims when this is perfect example of hypergamy...

[@mischievousgamer8747]

He's right. Most households require both people working to pay the bills. But women still end up doing more domestic chores in the house, leading to resentment over time.

[@kennythebeliever]

The context of this conversation was when the husband is the breadwinner.. watch the full video.

[@Dawid0912]

They spend more time doing work, not like they are doing more work. OR they have higher standards thats why they spend more time doing work. Many of women say they spend 2h using washing mashine while in reality its 15min task, but women add time they "watch" things done to them, so they can sometimes have "work" 25h/day

[@mrs.w8193]

Exactly why most divorces are initiated by women.

[@mrs.w8193]

@@kennythebeliever there’s probably higher divorce rates when a husband is a breadwinner. The woman becomes a seed slave and housewife and nanny. Yeah very sexy. Then wonder why most divorces are initiated by women. Once women were able to divorce, they started imitating and divorcing in droves

[@daniellemacdonald4046]

That’s where communication comes in. My man understands the pressure on me to do it all so he steps up to the plate and helps keep the house. We both work full time and share responsibilities well. But it wasn’t always like it you really need to talk and be open without arguing and just explain how you feel and how they could help out

[@Frank7489]

I get the sense that Pearl doesn’t have conviction in the things she’s saying, she’s either parroting what she’s heard before or saying what she thinks will be viewed well by certain people. Like she’s gonna finish talking with Destiny and go to her red pill overlord and be like, “didn’t I do good?”

[@cringemaxxing28]

bingo

[@Deathtallica666]

100%

[@ugabutler]

100% incorrect, my guy. But people will believe what they want

[@amiedakorson4403]

Amen!

[@TangentFuture41]

Nah it's a religious influence strategy. Boils down to "you have to have faith". Kind of thing

[@DavidAF311]

Marriage is until DEATH do us apart. People don’t realize how intense that is

[@Posyidon]

Words dnt hold the same value nowadays….

[@tucci06]

@@Posyidon Yeah people got smarter.

[@91659]

Only Christian marriage

[@aisnow5788]

​@@91659 It's in other religions, too. My husband and I are atheist though, so we don't have to consider those vows.

[@sydneexxceasy9063]

​@tucci06 no women found ways to make endless money hence alimony and child support. Marriage isn't even worth getting into

[@phillippiscopo270]

If your marriage breaks down because you cannot resolve and work through a small issue like doing chores. There is an issue.

[@BabalonNuit]

It's not a "small" issue when the woman is expected to do everything ON TOP OF working outside the home (doing HIS job!) and HE thinks HIS day is over at 5 and so is entitled to sit and play vidiot games while the kids are ignored and the laundry piles up and dinner needs to be cooked. Men thinking they "deserve" to be treated like "kings" when they are in fact lazy jerks who regard "women's work" with contempt. If you have such disdain for the things women do, then you don't deserve a woman, period.

[@ShinYaYeFoWa]

Imagine being in a relationship and not communicating about how you feel and rather hide it for years until you just divorce them for it. Sure is something.

[@ngoni_2931]

You think these things are never brought up? Like boom, from nowhere - divorce lol

[@ShinYaYeFoWa]

@@ngoni_2931 oh ya because by probably cheated on you already because of it 3 months ago.

[@gamefreak0413]

At this point we need an extensive and comprehensive break down of Pearl’s dating history because I’m starting to think she has never been in a relationship.

[@dwezzy28]

He has somehow boned 7 men

[@sparingpickle4918]

As opposed the bi sexual guy who lets his wife sleep with other men. You are beyond saving. God can’t fix stupid 😂😂🤡🤡

[@abtwopoint0]

She's all cap. Always the expert

[@imperialdra-mon5907]

Nah i think u are still a child that does not get what you need in a relationship wich is communication

[@throwaway5926]

Gotta love it when a man wants to dig into a woman’s past to discredit her. Didn’t feminists and their beta, cuck enablers say doing this is toxic and misogynistic? 🤣🤣

[@butimarealist007]

Pearl is gonna stop inviting Destiny on lol 😆 😂 😅 He makes too much sense for this show 😂

[@Teddy-se8qb]

yes. because a man with a females name who watches his wife get doggy styled by strangers makes too much sense.

[@maxkepler9088]

You are slow lol

[@qqy]

@@maxkepler9088 great argument.

[@errant3]

Sense? the "guy" is stuck in protect women no matter what scenario... he's "married" to a girl that goes and f other daily. What does he know about love and break ups??

[@alilaguchouri2644]

To do point he let his girlfriend sleep with other men all the time and he speaking about love

[@begonethoughts4733]

Destiny's wife is very content with her relationship because she has multiple men doing Destiny's chores.

[@tonanbora4388]

Least he has a girl.... kekw Or several.... KEKW Keep seething and coping little boy.

[@lucianaromulus1408]

And whats sad is he wiped the floor with Pearl. This whole Manosphere movement was a grift from the beginning, its FEMINISM. Mens Rights was the movement that would have helped men...and money makers saw an opportunity and steam rolled over it. Destiny is a hore, monogamy is the only way....but Pearl is WORSE.

[@a-atheist]

​@@tonanbora4388Hes wrong on multiple levels. Divorce is ABSOLUTELY fun for the tons of women who say it is for alimony. Starter husbands is a thing. Red pillers value feminine fit and friendly, this idea that its the only thing is a lie. They want a woman to do "just chores" but thats by FAR less important. Why? Because high value men can hire a maid. Destiny is actually A CHILD.

[@a-atheist]

​​​@@tonanbora4388Lestiny doesnt have melina. Her banging other dudes makes him a cuck. KEKW! Any self respecting man would dump her. Keep coping, boy. KEKW!

[@tonanbora4388]

@@a-atheist So are "starter wives", so what's your point? Neither of these things are common practices, unless you have statistics too prove this? Otherwise you're purely speaking out of your ass, which would fit the RP community half the time. Women don't divorce for fun kid, if we go with your 80% divorce rate caused by women, and pair it with the fact that 60% of divorces are cited for infidelity... it tells a vaaastly differant story. lol Kind of tells us men are not commiting too women the vast majority of time, sleeping around like the dogs they are. 👀 In addition, the average income for men in the US, is actually 38k, with alimoney only being 40% of the income, you do the math boy. What's 40% of 30k, and tell me if thats even a liveable income lol. Come on, I know you can get that singular braincell too work out this simple problem. Are you a High Value man? No? Then stfu about high value man , and keep coping lol You're not one, and never will be one, not as long as you subsribe too the Red Pill. True HVM don't just make money, they are loyal too both their friends, and the women they want too become their wife. A HVM is not someone who has sex with 50 girls a month, or a guy who has kids with a dozen women, we call those, fk boys. A HVM knows restraint kiddo, keep this in mind. A HVM did not become HV by giving into impulses and losing restraint. So if you want too be a fk boy, and your only goal in a relationship is the bed.... all I can say is get help, because no HVW is going too want that. No self respecting, feminin girl is going too want her man sleeping around, if she's going too drop her entire life for you, you need too show yourself as trust worthy... and since 60% of men invovled in divorces sleep around, i'd say you arn't. lol

[@LingKahaa]

Listening to simp destiny giving relationship advice is like pouring water down my fuel tank...

[@itsmantras]

He didnt say anything wrong tho?

[@fistofram5526]

@@itsmantras Except he kinda did, so he's mad at men who want chores to be done, expecting women to do it... when they want it so in the first place, as a reason to marry? Im assuming that if the woman doesn't work, yeah, it's perfectly acceptable.

[@valentinasanchez4902]

​@@fistofram5526 then hire a house keeper. Too broke? Do it your self.

[@fistofram5526]

@@valentinasanchez4902 And I do, but people here are refuting points she's not making lmao

[@Jessicaro]

he doesn't give relationship advice he is literally telling you what is going on in the real world and only a child couldn't understand this.

[@YPPMoblie]

It’s not chores… It’s raising a family, and yes… That shit is work!!!

[@richardl1557]

Women’s work

[@MaddyTheKid11]

@@richardl1557 thats why i stay single

[@jpisback]

So it's only chores if the man or the kids have to do it?

[@cosmicdonkey919]

@@jpisback yes, over history its never been considered chores for women, they’re duties, just like it is a man’s duty to provide and protect

[@tbonegdk2938]

@@MaddyTheKid11 not by choice

[@RRR-yb8br]

A perfect wife is a woman who respect and love the man she married and also stays loyal

[@vincentwilkes1955]

Destiny's girl sleeps with other dudes and he's happy for her

[@thatsreallyamoon]

@@vincentwilkes1955 Bruh, did you leave out the part where they both sleep with other people xd I dont ever wanna do an open relationship, but literally NOTHING wrong with their set up. Aside from that, what is WRONG with what he said in this clip? Do answer.

[@ripewatermelonlol]

And the most important thing is that there shouldn’t be any power dynamic. A man should love and respect his wife just as much as she respects him

[@ac6019]

​@@thatsreallyamoon bold of u to assume Destiny himself gets any 💀

[@thatsreallyamoon]

@@ac6019 but he literally says if his wife hooks up with someone, he hooks up at the same time. They tell each other and plan stuff for the same time when one of them wants to hook up with someone. But you wouldn't know that since you want to find any reason to avoid actually talking about the point made in the video.

[@hershmergersh6733]

"I want a man who earns a lot of money. I want a man who can buy me things. I want a man who can fix things around the house" sounds an awful lot like chores

[@melaninrunsthroughmyveins9393]

These days women are doing all these things including fixing things around the house with the man there

[@factsnolies7650]

@@melaninrunsthroughmyveins9393 mmmmh nope.never seen it. They either call someone or don’t do it at all lol 😂

[@factsnolies7650]

@@melaninrunsthroughmyveins9393 stop the cap

[@melaninrunsthroughmyveins9393]

No sir/ma'am! That's what men do and they don't care who clean it either(in my generalizing voice)

[@melaninrunsthroughmyveins9393]

@@factsnolies7650 Well I have!? Different strokes for Different folks!

[@kjcenteno5734]

This didn't age well because his wife just divorced him for a dumb reason lol

[@lemonhead9628]

It's crazy that i started seeing his shorts after that happened, I saw one video, explaining what happened about that, but tech is always watching, but yeah i mean i didn't really expect a open relationship to last long term, there will always be favorites.

[@huntermarquette3484]

I mean she wanted to divorce him because they didn’t see each other that often and had literally been living in different countries for the last 6 months and he had cheated on her. And he wanted to divorce her because he felt she had been lying to others about him among other things. Seem like fine reasons.

[@PatrickLenihan-zp8xi]

​@@huntermarquette3484Why were they living in separate countries for 6 months? That's crazy.

[@huntermarquette3484]

@@PatrickLenihan-zp8xi her US green card got revoked I think

[@Jake-bt3fc]

@@huntermarquette3484 The reason they broke up is because once she got her greencard back her new boyfriend threatened to kill himself if she went back. She was planning on keeping them both but one gave her an ultimatum.

[@justindwarika2523]

If Destiny has this mentality, he shouldn't get married. Yes, marriage is work. If you don't want to do it, don't get married. Marriage requires vows and it's sad how people so easily fold on their vows after any hardship.

[@jalisazari9387]

He is already married. So he's talking from experience.

[@hugon6717]

I heard his girl does only fans. They're married too?! Wtf lol

[@completelyegolesscoalition5558]

He a hypocrite. If he paid 100% of the bills and comes home to a dirty house everyday, he's saying he wouldn't be mad about that at all? 😅😅 riigghhhhtttt. Pearls dad is a millionaire she's speaking on top percent men.

[@ICHIMANExTKND]

Exactly..

[@ICHIMANExTKND]

@@jalisazari9387 he’s Talking From His Lack Of Experience..

[@PeanutFairy]

The red pill has gone so far off that the blue hair lib makes more sense

[@Teddy-se8qb]

yes makes so much sense. watch your wife get bangbanged. great advice for the youth.

[@Anirudhji2001]

Literally the internet is just filled with chronically online weirdos and it just swings from left to right drastically because only the loud and obnoxious get a turn to speak.

[@vanessaroper3028]

Good point

[@jazzyj7834]

It's so bizarre that of all people, this fkin guy actually made a sound point. Love is a cooperative endeavor and yes, little things do snowball. But it's still dumb. Communication is the key.

[@bdw7254]

Yeah, communication is key but these ppl aren’t saying a husband should listen to his wife

[@seancates8349]

I'm glad you made this point so I dont have to but they are both correct. if you are married and getting a divorce over chores and not being able to distribute the work evenly. why did you get married in the first place if the first problem that comes up cant be solved together and leads to a divorce

[@jordanwilliams7631]

@@seancates8349 it’s not even whether people are right for each other, in potential anyone could be right for anyone but it’s about people who aren’t ready to face reality and what it takes to live a productive life and not just being in a state of nothingness letting time pass you by. If a marriage breaks down from someone not doing the dishes, that person who can’t share the distribution of work is a true idiot and doesn’t deserve happiness

[@testingagain6525]

It's because he's projecting, he been the person he's explaining, that's why his wife does what she's does

[@influentialnobody8960]

You do know his wife sleeps with the whole bar of men?

[@_lilyda]

I'm so happy someone finally calls her out!!! All the other podcasters are enabling her because she tells what they want to hear.

[@a-atheist]

Hes wrong on multiple levels. Divorce is ABSOLUTELY fun for the tons of women who say it is for alimony. Starter husbands is a thing. Red pillers value feminine fit and friendly, this idea that its the only thing is a lie. They want a woman to do "just chores" but thats by FAR less important. Why? Because high value men can hire a maid. Destiny is actually A CHILD.

[@ninaluv948]

Never take relationship advice from someone who as never been in a long-term relationship 💯

[@Get-mad-over-9000]

Despite his inexperience he isn't wrong about it. What creates big things are these little things that you pile up. You don't just put a building you pile it up systematically. And I f the things that you pile up at inadequate or defective then chances are the building that you two made is gonna crumble. Same with marriage, even though he is true, pearl also is true divorce through not having choirs is stupid. They both are true just at a different time, meaning the dude is right on the before scenario while pearl is also right at the after scenario in the phase of divorce.

[@indecisive_pigeon]

Good point, just missing a bit. Never take advice from a person who has never been in a long-term relationship or has never been around people in a long-term relationship. U can give advice on things you haven't participated in so long as you have extensive experience closely observing it. You just have to know that there are limits to what advice u can give. What he is giving here is actually very accurate and has many studies backing it. You can give that kind of advice without being in a long-term relationship. Also side note, there r multiple kinds of long-term relationships and they all take work, and have struggles.

[@simonhenning3012]

@@Get-mad-over-9000 he is wrong though because in a long teem relationship, you’re going to have to communicate. And with that communication, things won’t pile up, they’ll get dealt with. If you don’t have good communication and can’t express yourself at any moment, you are not in a good relationship, or there’s something you have to deal with personally.

[@MrWolfy08]

Regarding this topic, it is not about relationships between couples, but about the basic responsibilities of an adult who shares space with other people.

[@MrWolfy08]

@@simonhenning3012 Communication involves two parties, it is only effective if one of those involved speaks and the other party is willing to listen. There are people that no matter how much you communicate, the other person for whatever reason continues to behave the same way.

[@kesi6159]

That's why the red pill men like her so much. Because she has the mind of a child, agrees with them and rates women's looks all the time

[@harry4rrtiiurrr]

And you blue pill idiots love to watch a few second clip and believe it's the whole story. Watch the whole podcast her point is hardly just "divorce over chores is stupid"

[@HollyGolightly078]

What about her looks? ☠️

[@kesi6159]

@@HollyGolightly078 they gaslight themselves saying "her intelligence and amazing personality" (factual wrong misogynistic talking points and pick me girl characteristics) make her a 10 automatically. Yet somehow she's still not married so it's up for debate how serious they are when they say that 💀💀💀💀

[@abtwopoint0]

As a man I will say; pearl is full of shit. I'm not subbed yet I get her shorts constantly. She is, in her mind, the expert on everything regarding males, marriage and dating. I disagree with her on just about everything she says and I'm honestly dumbfounded on how she has such a big audience. I think she made 1 short and guys agree with it and she managed to get almost a million subs on just a simple short. Whenever I hear a winded statement from her it astonishes me she has an audience at all.

[@abtwopoint0]

​@HollyGolightly078 shes not hot sorry to tell you

[@RnsmdAmbassador]

He literally is making her point. Relationships are work. We make sacrifices for our partners. Divorcing someone because they didn’t clean the bathroom is stupid and childish.

[@bawanki1179]

Nope, you're still not getting it. Are you deliberately stupid or?

[@YouYou-sm8tf]

You missed the point. Nobody is divorcing over "chores" but it add more negativity towards couple. Just like people don't divorce over sexless nights....but if it go beyond what the other party expected. It sure will be a reason at some point.

[@poinked]

@@YouYou-sm8tf the same way people marry just for money, one can and have divorce over stupid reasons…like maybe finding someone else who has more money. Do you really think that many women will not leave their husband in a heartbeat, if someone better comes along. Grow up.

[@RnsmdAmbassador]

@@YouYou-sm8tf I’m not missing the point. The obvious point of her argument in this clip is that people divorce over trivial things. Because they let trivial things cause strife instead of just talking to their partner. And if you don’t believe that people have gotten divorced for those things you might be living under a rock. People get divorced over the most insane things because they just don’t want to put in the work and have open discussions with the partners. Destiny’s response to her literally covers the idea that a relationship is work. Her point was 100% legit and destiny trying to sound smart starting freaking out while just proving her point for her.

[@luisenriquesousa2795]

@@YouYou-sm8tf fair but then the solution is not divorce, it is to do the chores and be intimate with your partner and go that extra mile, that’s where Pearl’s point goes right over this guy’s head

[@CityGamer1337]

This aged like milk

[@MamaHuntress_]

I cant believe people are in the comments arguing about the chore thing. It's not just chores. Like blue dude said, everything starts to pile up, 1 thing becomes 2, then 2 becomes 4. A relationship is constant work, compromise, sacrifice, communication, and understanding. Most women have a job, no matter the level. Most men have a job, no matter the level. If you distribute chores between each other and one of you isn't pulling their weight, you get annoyed. You tell them you're annoyed, and they say you nag. 1 person is unhappy because the other person won't do their chore, and it's left on them. The other person is unhappy because they work and come home, and they get their partner nagging them to do things they don't want to/forgot to do. Then it becomes one partner is lazy, and the other partner is telling their friends that all the other does is nag. It went from the need for a chore to be done to both partners being constantly upset with the other. Whn you start not liking a person, everything they do becomes irritating. They start breathing to hard, them walking into the room ruins your mood, them asking where the batteries are made you want to leave the house for the rest of the day. Then, because every day seems so much worse than it used to be, that's when divorce and breakups start to sound good. You have to address problems and work to solve them. If chore A is a problem for you, you can have one of my chores, and I'll take chore A. Or if you don't want to swap a chore, you need to start doing the chore you already have. Change the time you have to do the chore. Set up a reward for doing the chore that you give yourself. All that to say, it's not the chores that cause divorces/breakups, it's it's everything that comes after it.

[@majorkrizpy9939]

literally everyone making fun of destiny agrees with you. its the fact that most modern day women are very very hard to have open communication with. An often times (if their ideologies align with destiny) (ALOT OF WOMEN THESE DAYS) TEND to be uncooperative (if not just toxic) , so the very Thing hes preaching as the Answer is made harder by the consequences of his own ideology, EVEN IF HE DOESN'T REALIZE IT. NOR IF THAT WAS THE INTENDED EFFECT. when pushing those ideologies...... What he said on the individual is right. But ngl. its hard to take it seriously when hes complains about the Effects his own beliefs has created.

[@TheTyrial86]

It's called hypergamy, and women attempting to be men. To honest, the vast majority of working women, work less hours, and work less dangerous jobs on a very high margin of percentages. Women working in a job, is them trying to be like men. There is another story to a marriage and the vast majority of women divorce because they FIND reasons through hypergamy to find flaws of their spouse and become unhappy. Destiny doesn't understand anything the manosphere. If you pay attention, hypergamy explains what causes the break down of communication in this scenario. Truth is, women want a man, not a house wife, but won't take up the role themselves and be submissive. So hypergamy comes along, and makes the woman resent the man, because she views him as being inferior.

[@benjaminjordan2330]

Wow how petty can you be? Chores are actually a problem for adults? Lol no It's not the chores that are the problem. The probkem is that most people are selfish and completely lack self awareness. They cannot imagine their partners point of view to save their life. They are so unaware of their emotional state that they transfer all of their unrelated problems onto their partner and call it "chores" My wife and I are both very understanding and we constantly evaluate our behavior towards one another. We trust that feedback from the other is coming from a place of love and trust. We put each other over stupid petty things like chores. I mean wow that's idiotic. Worldview altering stupidity. I have got to go take a breather.

[@jpisback]

​@@benjaminjordan2330 no, plenty of relationships start with things like chores. Could be he's always working and never home except to sleep. Then she feels like she's the sole reason the house doesn't fall apart, so she's not happy, so she ends up trying to do something like go out and find herself in a position where someone actually pays her attention, so she gives in. Cheats, divorce. Or she goes off, he goes off, arguments ensue, they don't communicate or show affection, animosity builds, fighting continues, divorce. The small shit like chores Do actually lead to shit like divorce. My parents split the first marriage because he wanted to hang out with friends all the time after work while she was at home all the time.

[@MamaHuntress_]

@Benjamin Jordan ...it sounds like you agree with me, but you don't know you agree with me?? I basically said that not communicating a problem, the example being chores, creates a disconnect in the relationship that spirals into bigger things because the simple issue wasn't addressed. Then you said the key is communication, which is basically what I said?? You sound surprised that there are adults who don't have it all together at all times. I'm not saying that 1 person not taking out the trash 1 night is what starts the spiral. It's not doing your part for a prolonged period of time. One partner can tell the other their feelings and issues surrounding the problem all they want, but they can't make the other person do anything. It's on the other person to decide how they want to handle the issue, and sometimes their way of dealing with it is not dealing with it at all. I've very glad to hear that you and your spouse have found ways to effectively communicate and have a system that works for you. That's how it's supposed to be. But many things can be an issue, and many things can be the cause of an issue. Most of these problems can be solved through effective communication, but some people haven't found their system, are generally bad at communicating, or don't know that their actions are the problem so they can't fix it because the other person didn't communicate that. It could even be that that person has heard that their actions are causing an issue but just don't care enough to fix it, or they have been told their actions are causing an issue but genuinely don't see how their actions are causing an issue.

[@pcwildcat]

Destiny out here educating a generation on how to be decent fucking human being.

[@finice1142]

@Ag Perry if that person gives better advice than anyone in the redpill community maybe you have to look inwards to see the issue.

[@Teddy-se8qb]

@Ag Perry its beyond mind blowing. how anyone can take a man serious with a womans name who watches his wife get fucked. please any young men out there. do no listen to this guy.

[@EmperorDxD]

​@Ag Perry Ihe doesn't really premoted that lifestyle he said it hard and he thinks people shouldn't do it unless you are like him

[@greygorygaming]

​@@finice1142 Anyone in the redpill gives better advice on relationships than bluehair over here.

[@fadwen88]

​@@finice1142 Except he doesnt, and the fact that you think that speaks volumes. He talks about a simple relationship, not a FAMILY SITUATION. Breaking up a family over chores IS stupid. Period. He fails to make that connection, and so do you.

[@Astrussy]

I love that he uses the music THEY always use when they’re “owning” someone random who can’t make a good argument

[@PillTruth]

Divorce is stupid in general you shouldn’t marry somebody you don’t know to the core and know you could spend the rest of your life with

[@taia-b8f]

You guys seem to not understand that Pearl exists to cater to a specific audience. She’s not delusional, she’s just saying what they wanna hear. It’s called being a grifter. And she’s been making BANK off of it!

[@melissagreye8445]

I wonder how much money she has made over the past year.

[@Jennthegreen]

​@@melissagreye8445she is wasting it buying clothing and alcohol.

[@melissagreye8445]

@@Jennthegreen lol You are probably right

[@errant3]

Unlike destiny that can only speak truth somehow without substantiate it

[@Kawasaki10rr]

And Destiny exists to cater to a certain audience, mainly the betas and cucks

[@CherieButler]

That odd looking woman is just trolling. She is being deliberately obtuse.

[@Sanxioned1]

That's the best case scenario. Worst case she actually is this stupid and her followers equally so.

[@krombopulos_michael]

She literally listened to nothing he said that addressed what she said and just repeated herself again

[@ahall9839]

@@krombopulos_michael huhuhu literally huhuhhuh 😂😂 huhuhuuhu literally

[@CherieButler]

@@GeeeEmmm Everything is subjective eh?!

[@madpuppet666]

she might be grifting, but that's pretty much how she always is. if she's trolling, then she's never NOT trolling.

[@S3ven4]

Pearl ironically had to be one of the biggest pea brains on that show and that’s saying something

[@kage3587]

Many traditionally minded men are wanting women to do the "chores" (house responsibilities) because they usually want to be the sole-bread winner so that their wife only has to deal with the home and the kids. I want those things to be done, but understand that it's a considerable task to do that on top of working an 8-hour shift, which is why I want a wife to take care of it for me while im doing the harder work (no amount of house work in my home would be justified as an 8-hour work shift, as it takes 2.5-3 hours tops to clean everything and to prep a nice warm meal leaving 5-5.5 hours of relative free time or time to be spent with child when we have one). So yes, traditionally minded men want a woman to do "the chores" while staying at home since we are working at a job for 8-hours to provide a nice life for our family. Imagine if you could have your life paid for by taking care of the house you live in and preparing food for the bread winner, how is that a raw or bad deal in any way? What is the problem with that?

[@eduardoreal1056]

Destiny is right. Marriage is partnership between a man and a woman. It takes both to work together for a long term relationship. Pearl is a child.

[@ThisDique]

His marriage is so successful he has other men service his wife. That's amazing, what an accomplishment.

[@tartantulakid666]

The visceral reaction from Destiny is great. The guy who can't even enforce a monogamous relationship can't talk about relationships. Your wife wants every other man except you.

[@hamster4618]

At least he is in a relationship. Wasn’t Pearl against divorce?

[@MrFreonize]

​@@hamster4618 destiny is what most people would describe as a simp with no boundaries in his relationship

[@QTwinky]

Didn't they quite literally talk about how they both plan always being with different people at the same time. It's not like it's a one-sided open relationship.

[@hamster4618]

@@MrFreonize most people? Or Tate-ish fans?

[@miidashian1037]

Destiny=Beta

[@Miixx-yi6rk]

Its not about "chores". Its about showing care and affection through cooking a meal for her man who provided for example. If I get a cooked meal from a woman ill never in my life think "wow, shes doing chores. Good job.". Ill think "wow. She takes care of me and respects me. This is beautifull"

[@quxnjay]

The problem is women aren't getting these feelings reciprocated...

[@tisbutascratch2045]

​@@quxnjay Exactly. And women today have to work just like men do, yet statistically, only 30% of men claim to do house work and child care at the same levels as their wives. Women are overworked and are expected to be superheroes that come home after 10 hour shift to clean the whole house, make dinner and take care of the children while men still by and large come home, sit on the couch and expect everything to be done for them. Men need to pick up their game and start chipping in just as much as women. Long gone are the days when life was easy enough to have a stay at home wife do everything for you. Today, women have equal responsabilities to men and this needs to be reflected in the home as well.

[@TanyaJackson-no2rs]

why cant you share the chores? why does a woman have to cook and clean the house when she works as well? Take some responsibility you big man baby.

[@Hi98765]

​@Tis'ButAScratch you say "women" I say women who allow themselves to be treated unfairly.

[@F-18Super]

@@quxnjay Bills get paid, dates are paid for, and essentially a free body guard etc etc

[@lehdedici8540]

After hearing her talk a few times you can tell she's very much a child and should not be giving relationship advice at all.

[@redrocket8062]

"till death do us part" it's a powerful statement that shouldn't be uttered lightly. If that isn't how you feel don't say it.

[@Furionic696]

Till you didn't do the dishes do us part lmaooo

[@joshmason1460]

“Takes care of the house” means a lot more than doing the damn dishes!!

[@randypoole9491]

Unfortunately paying all the bills doesn't mean anything.

[@Crabilene]

​@@randypoole9491 Very few men and the sole providers of a family anymore.

[@ZELLCORE1]

Yea, mowing the lawn, changing the car tires, general maintenance and repairs around the home.

[@ZELLCORE1]

@@Crabilene They could be if she didn't need to live lavishly & keep up with the Kardashians. Not the goyim fault that the economy was rigged to enslave women into the workforce whilst being brainwashed that it's somehow empowering.

[@Harvest133]

Most tasks are either fully automated or semi automated. This ain't 1900 anymore. The "woe is me all this housework" trope doesn't work. And child care also isn't as drastic as dramatized either. Once they get to school age they're out of the house for eight hours. And then they grow up and move out. The strange this is when life was harder men and women were happier and complained a lot less, but now that life is easier everyone, especially women, complain more and are miserable

[@shanegrayson7068]

Imagine taking relationship advice from someone in an open marriage. lmfao.

[@yupimawesome]

You are unable to articulate a rebuttal so you resort to logical fallacies. Your intelligence, or lack there of, is showing. Have you lived with someone in a long term relationship?

[@Jessicaro]

you guys do it all the time. from guys like sneako.

[@gowashhands]

Gotta agree with destiny on this one

[@mw6346]

If you've asked for help a million times, then it isn't about chores anymore. It's about your partner not caring about your needs and feelings. It is about ignoring communication. Those ARE valid reasons to end a relationship.

[@shihoblade]

A relstionship, not a damn marriage. Dont make a vow "until death does us part" and then part because of something so simple. Bad communication, different pruorities, And feeling underappreciated comes with like 90% of partnerships romantic or not. If THATS game changing for you then stay single.

[@Dawid0912]

Problem is that its husband house too, so why the only way of living is wife way? If men love to drive spotless car and spend 5h/week to make it look shiny - he can expect that women would spend 2h/week to help him, she she doesnt care about it?

[@Blub2cool]

@@shihoblade it’s not simple though. it’s stressful and it’s unfair to ask your partner to deal with stress for the rest of their life (ultimately speeding up their death) just because you don’t want to wash dishes or fold clothes

[@Blub2cool]

@@Dawid0912 because you love the car, not your wife. if it’s your house and you share that house, then why would you not care about it being clean

[@Dawid0912]

@@Blub2cool My wife would make my car clean, but my standards is to have car spotless, the same is with women standards in home and it have easiest joke even before internet: men must put down toilet seat - why? Its more her house than his? My point is: women standards is not THE standards, just like women way of raising child is not the only right way, yet some women tend to say how they have trump card when it comes to raising child, beacuse she is THE mother, while he is JUST a father.

[@Blackman12D]

The man said it piles up, and yet her point is still beyond valid.. a divorce over chores is dumb. If your relationship starts to dwindle because over time you’re cheesed about chores and you let it fester into other shit. Y’all ain’t like each other in the first place….

[@kittykaitcandykillet8160]

you've got to keep in mind the amount of men and women marrying each other for stupid reasons and decide over the little things to leave. he's right. shot adds up, but by that time it's not about "chores" it's about the resentment and lack of wanting to continue with that person.

[@valentinasanchez4902]

So if the burden of chores keeps building up, it will fester and you don't like each other, then the result is divorce, like Destiny said. Sounds like you agree with Destiny.

[@Jessicaro]

what you mean if your wife is sitting at home and you work and you come home and she hasn't cooked, cleaned or did the dishes you would feel some type of way. the fact you think chorus aren't a problem is ridiculous.

[@indecisive_pigeon]

You are correct. If it is literally just chores and there were no underlying problems then yeah you didn't really like each other to start with. And yeah that is a really dumb reason to get divorced. But women -in large as she seems to imply constantly- are not getting divorced for stupid reasons. And the reason usually isn't as simple as chores. There are studies and statistics on this topic too.

[@shaun5047]

I’m a fan of both Destiny and Pearl, both debates have been really entertaining. However he was wiping the floor with her. She kinda exposed how little she knows about real relationships with the chores topic. Everyone said if your lover or even your roommate trashes your place and never helps with the chores, it’s not a big deal. That it’s the woman’s fault if they get a divorce over chores. Lol Anyone that has have roommates and or a serious relationship will tell you that situation described is going come off super disrespectful. Pearl couldn’t comprehend that the guy is at fault for not helping. Both people work, there’s no excuse for the guy not to help.

[@123sleepygamer]

How are you a fan of a woman who when she gets pushed on any opinion she gives her answer is: "Heheh well I dunno das just my opinion. I have no clueeeeeee" feigning ignorance the very second she gets confronted on any point she gives.

[@shaun5047]

@@123sleepygamer because I judge her as a whole not just moments. She has a lot to learn and I’m sure destiny exposing her weaknesses will make her better

[@ivan0oze886]

She's a grifter with a simp following, she's pumping over 24 vids a day through 7 different channels pumping the same garbage

[@rafiqtsm1451]

Even if the women stays home with the kids we can’t just come home and check out by sitting our axes down to play video games for hours or watch tv. She needs a break too. We get lunch breaks. We can take breaks at work not mandated as we all do. We can take days off. Wives need that too. Women are not mules. I know we like to socially try to brain wash them for our benefit so we can work them to the bone for our families but this mess is fuqed up mindset to have for someone we claim to love. If she wasn’t there we would have to clean up after ourselves. Getting married doesn’t mean we completely stop doing that. I got a friend who literally just drops his ish off all around the house damn near ever day instead of neatly putting it away. Making more work for her to do. I got another friend who tosses his clothes in front of the laundry basket!!! Why!!? How many guys still piss all over the toilet and don’t clean up after themselves? How many of us make a sandwich daily and leave crumbs damn near every time? Heck I have to admit that even I know when my Dad’s been in the kitchen almost every damn time. He never cleans up after himself. When my Mom said something he literally said it’s a bunch of women in the house so why do I need to worry about it? This comping from a man who was raised by a single mom because by grandpa died young from cancer. He knew she raised him working hard to provide and he still got married and tried to turn my Mom into a mule. This ish is disrespectful and we keep trying to force women to tolerate blatant disrespect and then shame them if they walk out.

[@madpuppet666]

she constantly interviews all these ghetto women that seem like they are on drugs at the time or just painfully uneducated or stupid. I've never even met women as dumb as the ones she finds.

[@shreyagoestohell]

People trolling the guy in the comments for an open marriage are the same ones that claim cheating by men in a relationship is high value

[@hiph0p0p0tamus9]

I love when a single woman explains relationships to a married man lol.

[@offspectrum5737]

The only way Destiny is able to keep a woman happy is by letting them fuck other men..

[@hiph0p0p0tamus9]

@@offspectrum5737 you're using information he offers as a gotcha insult and commenting on another couple's sex life... lmao you are so sad. Does it it hurt when you think about how Destiny is happily married and has more casual sex than you do?

[@offspectrum5737]

I’m not on your little debate team weirdo. Take it back to your discord.

[@hiph0p0p0tamus9]

@@offspectrum5737 nah you're the cool person replying to KZbin comments lol.

[@offspectrum5737]

@@hiph0p0p0tamus9 seethe. Stop thinking about me and go back to writing fan fics about your e-celebs sex life.

[@genesisjordan2440]

My ex never wanted to clean, but expected me to come home and clean after a 19 hour shift. Side note: i would always clean on my day off, but working two jobs meant i had 1 day to clean a 4 bedroom, 2 bathroom house without help. I finally gave up on the relationship when i realize no matter how much i begged i would never been seen as his partner and just his maid.

[@samnur6957]

There has to be more too it than cleaning. Was it cleaning just a piece of the problem?

[@prettyprincess8187]

​@@samnur6957 did you watch the video? He literally breaks down what happens

[@genesisjordan2440]

@Conquest he worked eight hours

[@genesisjordan2440]

@@samnur6957 there were definitely more problems than just cleaning, but cleaning was a huge part.

[@samnur6957]

@genesisjordan2440 what were the other reasons, if you don't mind me ask?

[@ianwest1624]

I can confirm little things pile up that’s what normally breaks up couples. Destiny has more life experience than her by far

[@LifeofWiks]

You dont need life experience to know what breaks up couples. People in this day and age base a lot of their actions on emotions and THAT was the core of her argument. Real ride or die couples dont let those “little things” build up, they either address it or accept it as part of the relationship.

[@JamDodger-tn7mm]

If they’re working, why would you put that stress on your partner, like don’t be selfish, help out. I’ll be piss if I’m doing 100% of the cores, missing out on my day off and then getting told that I shouldn’t worry about it? Naaahhh Plus it’s always the person not cleaning that make the most mess, it would rub me the wrong way. Have you ever had housemates?

[@boros9685]

I was that guy that didn't do any chores...he is absolutely right lol

[@N1XHL]

It wouldn’t be chores if you ‘wife’ truly loved you. She would be bending over backwards to do these things for you, while you do the same by bringing the money home.