🤍 White Woman Has This To Say To Black Men - Must Watch

[@erikapayne9348]

Black women are not aggressive, we have to stand up for ourselves. We would love to let down our guard down but you disrespect us and you giving other races the right disrespect as well and we not have it! Thank to you the young lady in the beginning and called them on their BS!

[@observelearn2345]

Just go get someone rather white or black or whatever. Stop focusing on black men

[@MrJimaz]

For the woman that said we should speak up to some of these ignorant men. I will say I was a person who personally tried to do so, but it almost always ends with either a fist fight or someone threatening you. Or at the worst it leads to a death. Because some of these men were raised in a manor where they can't even control their emotions and take constructive criticism. So that leads people like me who want better for everyone and who have tried to check their behavior to put myself in jeopardy. It got so bad that it's honestly better to ignore and avoid them. But unfortunately due to THEIR behavior guys like me who don't act like them are lumped in because people are too lazy to research and learn what make most of us as men different from the actual problem. So unfortunately we all suffer without the problem being resolved. The best things I learned though is we all need to start by raising our future kids better. Because what we have here and now is complete garbage.

[@TURBO2GQ2]

Word I'm not about to correct the chads and tyrones these women are getting ran through by. They're silly individuals that caused their own personal problems. Marrying outside of America is the best bet so thats why I did it and never looked back.

[@pb4897]

But it's not even just in person though. You have bm bashing bw in social media and they're hardly checked. I've seen wm and ww come and defend us more than other bm do. And when other bw say anything, wtere told we are jealous. It's crazy!

[@hotties3v3n]

I see what you're saying. I think black men need to check this self hating black men as a group. It's harder to silence a group of men vs a small handle of men. Also l agree raising sons better helps.

[@Eseibio__]

@@pb4897 you watching to much social media

[@cherylparker9963]

Well said....bunch of in ur feeling emotional beings......

[@itsmyopinion8462]

That made me shed tears. The autism part hit home. My kids brother is autistic. I've experienced that illness. They are some of the most direct people around They don't sugarcoat $hit. It's nearly impossible. The only way is if their non verbal. That was a heartfelt post. She meant what she said.

[@Theehoneyb]

I believe she meant it as well.❤ I appreciate her bravery for being able to call out the bs. As well as complimenting us respectfully.

[@CarlaE305]

I know a black man who standard of beauty is Jennifer Aniston. And never dated a BW. Crazy!

[@nicholetaimi5331]

He must have money. White women look at black men for the bag. They believe it is because of their personality or bright outlook. No, son, it is your wallet. Also, when you walk out the front door in the morning, your boy is walking through your back door. He may prefer Jennifer Aniston, but if his money is low he will get Rosie O'Donnell. but with brothas like that as long as it is white he believes he's winning.

[@solomonyjudah4173]

Not Jennifer Aniston 😂 She is the most basic wht woman I’ve ever seen 🤦🏾‍♂️ No other nation of women can compare to our sisters 👸🏾 I’ve been married to a very beautiful sister for 16 years and she is the best mother, she is so sweet and kind but will eat you alive if you mess with her or her family lol she has a banging body not that that’s very important she could be any size and she smart as hell for real. She makes me appreciate all black women and respect them as my sisters. I am one of the brothers that will speak out because the loud minority is overshadowing the silent majority. We do and will be better ✊🏾🖤

[@vanessawhetstone4251]

That's lebron James ideal woman too

[@kellygoodman6167]

Jennifer Aniston is very plain

[@primejeggar9770]

It's not crazy, its just poor taste.

[@Darline_ox]

i agree with the last woman...they dont check their homeboys enough..they'll say "not all of us are like that" but when one apple goes bad and is in proximity of good apples, they all turn bad because of the one bad apple...if you dont want us to group all of y'all together, start checking your homies who make you look bad too

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Girl they all the same, ain't none different. They agree on the same bs, but run quiet when their being checked. They're pussy males with no backbone. I stopped dating them a long time ago, never been happier.

[@777macdude]

Vice versa

[@hotties3v3n]

We tlking about you seld hating bm right now

[@Darline_ox]

@@777macdude no its not vice versa because women hold each other accountable more than men. We can have a conversation with our friends but yall cant because "men don't listen" so go somewhere with that

[@777macdude]

@@Darline_ox women hold each other accountable?????🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 What???? I seen women encouraging women to get over on men on social media and in public when it's "knowingly"wrong but you talking about women hold each other accountable. Some women ALWAYS try to move the goalposts when proven wrong. Stop the 🧢

[@cutietae247]

Watch them get mad and say she’s pandering. She’s probably just tired of them sliding in her DMs to tell her how much better she is than BW. In my own inbox the first comments i get half the time are about my skin tone 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Israelite-iq1gd]

Yes, she is pandering. White women love to pretend they are an aligned with black women but have no evidence they actually are. And please stop pretending black men are delusional. Black men are tired of seeing black women act like they do in the video below. . . kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4C0qGOajZWZl9E

[@malikperry7359]

Are your dms set to private

[@sakhu8945]

Nah, shes trying to turn us against our men. Why she didnt call out white men for starting the stereotypes.

[@plantiron]

Her DMs? Lmfaooo, u do know she is self identified LGBT chick that talks about dating mostly blk women right. Y'all confused or something?

[@katsu2014]

@@plantiron u do realize that lgbtq dont mean ish if a n word tryna slide in somebody dms. Are u slow?

[@AnniceMichelle]

I believe her message because I know for a fact that high-functioning autistic people are very literal in their thinking. This young lady was being genuine and her message was heart felt.

[@lisankata677]

🧡🤌🏿 your final thoughts, as melanated women we should know how to take a compliment and keep it pushing

[@jamonburse8537]

BLACK WOMEN I STAND WITH YALL!!!!! I CALL RACCOONS OUT IN A MINUTE!!!!! PLZ DONT BELIEVE YOUR OPPRESSORS

[@Childfree334]

Black women's oppressors are black men, not ww.

[@tuesday225]

Black men are our oppressors.

[@chasitystoudermire1126]

She is telling the truth because if she is doing this for clout it wouldn't benefit her in anyway.

[@lovetemple3610]

She is genuine!

[@TheQuenisha1]

Yes, this lady is telling the absolute truth about most of the black men who are this way. Thank you lady for telling you the truth.

[@munix9351]

My best friend is white. Black men love on her, and she always makes them visit my family first.🤣🤣..once they meet us they never come back to her. Because we ask questions and make sure she is getting a BM who will honour and love her. Don't be paying on people.

[@elishebaxoxo]

Just like that Black man who was ended by a white IG model. She was Not docile at all. But we're not gonna talk about that.

[@petermorton301]

This is so sad black man still lacking in the knowledge and the truth about the black woman she is the mother of civilization that tells you all you need know about her the black woman is the beginning of all thing's great.

[@quay6003]

Not me Queens I have enough sense to stay away from yt women learned that at a young age. Nothing on this earth can compare to the black family and it’s so rear nowadays ✊🏾

[@vanessawhetstone4251]

🙄 anyway

[@mrs.reeves1006]

Stay away from those Canaanites, Zion ✊🏾

[@STAR_LIGHT.2213]

That white woman is right ✅️ pay attention to what majority of black men are doing ..hell even saying! Think about it 🤔

[@quay6003]

@@vanessawhetstone4251 don’t come on here bringing your negativity to my comment, I’m literally praising black women im no coon. Have a blessed day queen 🙏🏾

[@solomonyjudah4173]

@@mrs.reeves1006 💯 matter of fact stay away from all these nations except our own ✊🏾🖤

[@BigJimbo106]

Not all women are feminine. There a lot of masculine white women, Hispanic women and black women. I do find it interesting that she’s not calling out white men for constantly saying the same about black women.

[@mountaintop0925]

Well said Jeff...well said.

[@dcg31free]

BM love masculine WW. It's not a femininity issue. It's all about them being white! That's it that's all. BM need to be honest and stop the cap.

[@The_Quili]

💯💯💯

[@asiphejohnson6543]

@@dcg31free exactly.

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Some white men will say anything to up ww and discredit another woman whether it's true or not. Y'all fall into the bs and wonder why y'all still at the bottom till this day.

[@dayatraamber2422]

And thank you Queen for making these videos and lifting up Black women voices ❤

[@4abrownafrica420]

Stop worrying about what BM say about you and learn how to create a better culture!

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Blk women need to learn how to separate themselves from black men. Period!!!

[@mikeBigboo35]

🗣Question: How many white women have displayed their theories on why white men act the way they act towards each other? Let’s read the Willie Lynch concept of How to deal with black men and women!!! You’re going to find one thing surprising. Note: everyone you call a friend doesn’t mean they’ve your safety or well being at heart my black sisters 🤔

[@vanellesmith4598]

Facts. They need to do that!!!

[@kelanhall7414]

Bro yo ass mad af 🤣 Relax.

[@ct7853]

The sad part about your comment is that you think this is funny. You can’t be a real black person. No way in hell.

[@ct7853]

@@kelanhall7414that comment was meant for U

[@jeannieves6275]

I appreciate her honesty

[@Israelite-iq1gd]

What about when the white man says exactly what she said black men say about black women?Tons of white men say the same thing.

[@ladellallen3155]

Some people in our community are like flies. They will find some shit to be in, stop inviting everyone into our business.✌🏿

[@alisasanders3]

I hope no one jumps on that lady, she was right . Don't let trauma and your need to look for the bad to win out. That first lady's comment was on point.

[@LaBelleJouJou]

All women of this world are attractive and worthy. In fact all people are. Gods children are all amazing. The issue is a lack of discernment when it comes to media and all forms of entertainment. The brainwashing has always been real. Now I see some people saying she should stay of POC’s business. However I beg to differ. She has every right to make a video like this because highly melanated men gave her that right. She seems very genuine. She is also saying absolutely nothing wrong. Let’s say she wasn’t sincere. Who cares, even the Devil can give good advice and warnings if you pay attention.

[@leons26]

I don't like this concept that some dude on the internet says something and people putting it on all black men or women. Most black people are with each other...that's the real world.

[@khem127]

Thank you for this video. I liked her straightforwardness, and support for Black women.

[@rosalindmayers5321]

Black men should never put their women down in favor of white women no matter how ignorant some black women can be.

[@ibrahimgalledou6625]

So why you get triggered when bronny james take white woman in the prom

[@iapetusmiller9509]

​@@ibrahimgalledou6625that's such an immature thing to say. . You're the only one here worried about who a teenage boy takes to prom.

[@infestchristopher1457]

True, plus we as black men also need to change our image too. Because right now everybody is seeing us as evil walking p*****. It would have been different if you hold blackwomen accountable for their actions but no we're not doing that. Instead we're bashing blackwomen and group them all together and start comparing other groups of women to them. Blackmen if you want a woman to submit to you then you need to build the community, be around your children, quit betting on how much p**** you can get, work on your bank account, pick up a skill set, own a business, etc. If you do these things than guess what blackmen you'll have a leg to stand on. I would much rather be a 40 year virgin than to have about 30 baby mamas.

[@thinktankindi2664]

I truly see disrespect going both ways. Wish we would do better.

[@detroitman9309]

Social media and KZbin has really manipulated the minds and lives of brothers and sisters. Stay woke family B1

[@madagirl2026]

Facts!!!! Black women can take a compliment sometimes and it is heartbreaking. Like the TikTokers said we are putting these women in a catch 22 position! I agree. At work sometimes they complement me and I look at them sideways instead of just coming downAnd accepting it

[@cosima9586]

All the little black boys will say she hates herself and she is this and that much like when they tried to clown the Asian woman who told them that she don't want them either.

[@coachcleats13]

Shout out to the bonnet crew!!

[@DestinyUteh]

🤣🤣🤣

[@cheikhgueye1223]

People married who they want to that’s their choice but me as a African man living in the USA ,I love my black African American wife and i wish black men in the USA should marry their own kind no matter the drama every now and then I love black women to me they are the sexiest in the world !

[@Rue100]

This WHITE WOMEN was COMPLETELY CORRECT

[@carloscoleman5634]

Lol, take heed to what Malcolm X said about liberals. What's she either selling or wanting support of? One thing history tells us is, when she gets what she wants, she's done with you.

[@mountaintop0925]

Come on Sisters (and some of the Brothers also), why would you allow anybody come into our 'black business' and let them tell you how or what we should do in our relationships with each other. We may have some problems, however, it is nothing we cannot solve together with each other. When Mahatma Gandhi freed India from the forty-five trillion dollar ravishing of their country by the savage British, he said it's important that India is freed by Indians and the uncivilized British walked their silliness selves out of their country. Gandhi knew the importance of history and how it would impact the psyche of its people. We must understand the same. Rally with your men Sisters, against anyone whom attempt to argue other wise and men, rally with your women like wise. No exceptions because there is nothing we cannot do or solve...even this little problem. We are here...through centuries of attempting to turn away from each other and yet...WE ARE HERE...TOGETHER!!! Ladies and Gentlemen, study and learn...study and learn.

[@vanellesmith4598]

It's hard to admit for some. But we need a code so bad. Even though we may fight and have mad issues from the vestiges of unhealed trauma for slavery, we are still all that we have. We are Brotha's and Sistas. We call each other that for a reason, we just need to remember why.

[@miram2053]

The people who allowed her in are those whi berate one another for the world to see. Mostly, the men with podcasts in the manosphere sector. Some of the divestors.

[@vanessawhetstone4251]

She's not talking about black women she's talking about you nakers in your degenerate ways; you talking about how we let in black men are in her DMS we didn't do anything what are you talking about?

[@dearbrave4183]

@@vanellesmith4598 you are actually free to have the code you want with BM, you don't have to worry about other BW. Look at it this way, be happy that you have no competition and they are all yours. Show your loyalty and get your browny points. I sincerely hope your reward will be other than being a baby mama or being deleted. All the best!

[@dearbrave4183]

After reading your speech on unity, I have genuine questions. 1.Why are you addressing black women, the victims instead of addressing black men, the guilty? If you're a problem solver and care about your community, it would make sense for you to address those who destroy its peace. And even take this as an opportunity to prove your statement that there's nothing that can't be solved. 2. Why are you saying that BW allowed her? KZbin is a public platform. That woman doesn't need permission from anyone to post her content. And if there's anyone she mentioned to be in contact with from the black community it's black men, who are insulting BW in her DMs . So perhaps that unusual question should be addressed to BM, if anyone. You probably have good intentions, but where your loyalty lies is clear, you are not neutral enough to provide the unity you want. Study Ghandi again, see if he had preferences. Dodging the real problem won't get you anywhere.

[@bruce7021]

This sounds like Narcissist trades in some other dimension of the mine set of thinking. 🙌

[@dayatraamber2422]

Peace We have to acknowledge the generational trauma and conditioning of our people. There are no easy solutions however, learning and innerstanding what happened to us, what is happening now .. Can better shape how we navigate into the future.

[@vanellesmith4598]

I feel our business, no matter how toxic, is our business. It makes it difficult to be on code because so many of our people included other non-Black people in our business. This is why everything has been taken from us. From music to inventions, etc. We have felt, and still feel that we need Wp. We don't. We need each other. The post that this yt females did means nothing. Bw have been saying this and more for generations.

[@MarcusTheGreatIAmTheLastOne]

Agreed. Best comment I have read!

[@dearbrave4183]

@@MarcusTheGreatIAmTheLastOne If you didn't reject other races and other countries' support for BLM movement because it was black people's business, It's only fair that you can't use black people's business now as an excuse to reject criticism from other races either. Unless if other races can't be involved when it's not convenient for you. And I'm sure, you don't reject other races' financial help for the black community because it's black people's business. In fact, it's expected, like Umar says it so often. So which one is it? Other races can get involved or they can't? Anyways, in real life, people comment about everything irrespective of race. And people from the same race, this includes black people, don't have to agree with each other or make excuses for each other just because they are the same race. Also, for whatever it's worth, she mentioned black men not black people, I don't know why you chose to generalise.

[@MarcusTheGreatIAmTheLastOne]

@@dearbrave4183 lol. What? Not sure why you are directing this toward me but have fun.

[@dearbrave4183]

@@MarcusTheGreatIAmTheLastOne you agreed with the main comment and said it was the best you ever read, so I wondered what you had to say about selective patriotism. White people can be involved to support BLM , they can provide financial aid for community building like Umar likes to demand. Etc But they can't be involved when they criticise hateful message from BM about BW in their DMs? Because BM will suddenly make their bad behaviour black people's business hoping to gain BW sympathy, expecting to be saved by the same women whose reputation they are tarnishing. Make it make sense then maybe it could be fun.

[@thealchemist333]

BM made it her business, by sliding in her DM's and saying what they say to her. She has a right to speak. These days everything isn't "taken" from us, many BM give it away. Men like Kanye call themselves "giving WW the culture" and many BM have uplifted all other races and keep spewing untrue narratives pitting other races against their own women all for wyt validation. It is a waste of energy for BW to go in circles with toxic BM to resolve issues. They only listen when other races of women call them out, let's be real. The toxic men u speak about aren't listening to you nor do they care about you. All skin folk ain't kin folk and I can appreciate this lady's comment for keeping it real, since too many of our people aren't doing it

[@rosalindmayers5321]

She's still going to get bashed by those she's supporting.

[@juliushenagan5661]

Wow this is really great how they always flip the script and try to point the finger at the black man you know the same one same black man who called them Queen mothers black women which are builders of Nations and empires the goddess the queen oh isn't it white women we're always getting mad that black men call black women Queens I love how people love to just pick a few of the people who they like to look at constantly instead of the rest of us black men we're actually a majority who don't view black women in this way and I love love love me some dark skin black women black women in general of every shape and color I give true thanks to the image of the Divine goddess

[@drsoul3618]

Most sistas have no idea who they are.I don't even listen to sistas wearing weaves or str8 hair.And they wear fake nails,fake hair & fake eyes but talking about they want real guys.Its crazy how they say bm are the problem like all of us are responsible for other bm inequities.

[@marquishodges4591]

I have a question for that WW since she wants to speak for BW , like she is the voice for BW. Would you let BW speak for WW about WM. Especially in this era where I've seen more BW dating WM than BM dating WW. As a Hebrew in the works. How do you let the enemy speak for you. Like they is a people to trust. Stop it. And for that black lady that want to blame BM for there poor dating choices. Instead of blaming BM. How about stop fishing In that pond your at. There is plenty of great BM in the world that want to be with there own race. Especially in this Western society where the WW is off.

[@ct7853]

I would like every Black Female to understand this principle. It takes a male to raise a young boy, but this adult male, if he desired his young boy to grow into a man, then he must understand himself what it means to be a man. This is not a thing a woman can do because she is not a man. Look at the last 50 years, with all the single black females that had to raise these boys, and it isn’t just the single women. Some of these adult black males come from all walks of life, and family dynamics. The result of these males today who treat black ladies this way, come from (majority) single parent homes or homes that had a lot of trauma projected onto children of the home. This is the end result of the family dynamic for blacks, when u exclude God, and don’t tether yourself to a solid black male. The others have successfully divided, and broken us as a community and the struggle continues. Look at the way we drag each other down in social media and in public. It’s a 2 way street. So I get why this video is important but sisters also need to get themselves together because if you all continue to raise these young boys who then grow to be disrespectful hethens and defilers of women then it’s all you get, and deserve. As a mother you are fully capable of raising that boy into a young adult male, that is still respectful, and treats his women like garbage, I think u need to start at the choke point. No it isn’t easy it isn’t supposed to be. It takes work, time, patience, and a commitment to your child. Boys need love too. A lot of u think that boys are tough and u neglect him. Think life should be a bit harsher for him. When you fail to give this child love, the future communitys suffer. The mothers of yesterday and the absent deadbeat dads, have left a mess. We perpetuate this cycle. Deal with these boys today so tomorrow can be better for our Black Females n families. Your body your choice, your child your responsibility. Raise them well, and take responsibility for your shit! Period. We need to stop blaming each other. You always have a choice. Always

[@YoutubeTeasipper7856]

Also I am wondering are most mothers having conversatione with their son about black proud 1 and why he should love and be comfortable in his own skin and 2 do they talk to their sons about their preference and loving and protecting women who look like them. I feel like a lot of parents do not strategically raise their children to have strong principles. Are you in there azz about structure, decernment and how to make decision accordly. Are you teaching them about choosing friends wisely ( like what happen with the Shaquella Robinson story)? I see a lot of young kids who only seem to know how to follow others and have no strength for self and seem to put more time in developing low self esteem at earlier ages now or just spoiled and bad like the 10 year old who killed his mother. Also why are we raising our daughter to be stronger then the men. They both need strength, direction, and covering.

[@ttthelefthandedslayer2268]

If you just said what a male child needs to become a good man that can only be produced by men to teach them how to love. How can you eliminate the male species who have failed to be presents and teach their children? Y’all seem to have so much smoke for the only parent who stepped up and did the best they could, but yet you still blame the women and tell them to raise these men better. Dude … u just blamed sisters and gaslighted them, while indirectly not holding these generations of deadbeats accountable. You even tried to include Bm & bw at the end to pretend as though you’re calling both out on what needs to be fixed in this community. Your pathology is the reason why I continue to recruit sisters to move on to people who care more about their communities, instead of blaming everyone else for their failures. Sisters will stay in this cycle if they don’t learn the pathology of their counterparts. It’s time to divest

[@ct7853]

@@ttthelefthandedslayer2268 I am placing blame on both…what about fathers that want to be there but there’s always an obstacle, mainly the justice system and mothers that get in the way, because they’re bitter. Please do not proceed to tell me what I am doing as though I have an agenda bro. U are marking an assumption and have no proof of it. Please do not do that.

[@ct7853]

@@ttthelefthandedslayer2268 remember, this fact…people grow to have a passionate disgust for the circumstances or “peoples” that directly hurt them, like women with rape and abuse. They tend to flinch or shy away or have a deeply rooted dislike for what reminds them of their pain. This goes both ways as young men tend to be angry aggressive or disrespectful. Think about what your saying before accusations start flying man really.

[@ttthelefthandedslayer2268]

@@ct7853 you’re a liar. Reread your own post. You got into details and blamed bw and held no real accountability for the generations of proud deadbeats

[@1lanereality]

Thanks god she said it about mn I been said that!

[@hotties3v3n]

7:47 Facts after facts!!

[@thomascuyler6262]

Is "Accountability" considered talking down to?

[@MonicaLAllen]

Well the white chic didn't tell any lies.

[@mountaintop0925]

...but the fixing of these problems must be through us. It won't take long.

[@isisbeck2374]

Awww she's right.

[@solomoon3083]

Sailor moon is life. And I agree with her. And especially the first 2 black women.

[@1lanereality]

Yes the men don’t call me out

[@miram2053]

Sad that we scream from the mountain top our disdain for one another, (mostly toward BW from my observation because I STILL see BW praising BM in front if the world and occasional BM who defend BW honor against the many other BM who berate them) yet get offended when other people choose to insert themselves by calling out the behavior. We're the only people who do this...especially so publically. White supremacy and the trauma that ensued is at the helm. But when will we take accountability for the choices we make in the present? Many are feeding right into their mission. But will want the very people they berate to be at the forefront of every movement that honors their life once they are hashtagged. Pick a struggle folks.

[@malikperry7359]

I would like a study done on all the black men that only date non BW

[@timbradford1673]

BW been throwing BM Under the bus for 50 plus years, so stop the 🧢

[@empressmoon5589]

@@timbradford1673 and how has she been doing that, examples please, at least 50 years worth. Cause I'm fifty and I don't remember none of that.

[@Eseibio__]

Too much social media

[@mrs.reeves1006]

Speaking on our community for clicks is so cringe. 🙄

[@dearbrave4183]

There's nothing cringe about sharing her experience. What is cringe is you not wanting her to share it because it involves black men and making it an entire community issue, when it's not.

[@mrs.reeves1006]

@@dearbrave4183 what we don't need is white validation. Who we don't need is the seed of the very people who furthered our affliction. What we NEED is ...2 Chronicles 7:14.

[@dearbrave4183]

@@mrs.reeves1006 Black men are deleting black women every 4hrs. 70% of black girls are graped by black men before they reach 18. More than half of black women in relationships with black men are not married but left as single mothers. I can go on and on. The real enemy of the black community , black women, black girls is BM and that's obvious around you. You don't have to dig in chronicles. Finally, abuse of BW is the world's problem. I am glad this white woman is talking about it. Abusers and their enablers love to hide behind fake patriotism to silence their victims. Because if they are not exposed they can keep hurting but once they are exposed then they can be held accountable. If it hurts you that BM are exposed for their hatred towards BW, go comfort them. But what you won't do is silence others from speaking the truth you want to cover up. Yes it's human validation, woman validation and white validation for other humans, women who happened to be black and it's very much welcomed! And don't to say "we", when she specifically said BM are the ones hating on BW in her DMs. She didn't say the black community is hating BW in her DM. This is not a community problem, this is a BM problem. Unless if you are saying "we", because you do the same

[@mrs.reeves1006]

@@dearbrave4183 is that why white mothers tell their lost white children to seek out a black man for help if they get lost because white men are more prone to being pedos?

[@dearbrave4183]

@@mrs.reeves1006 I don't know what white mothers tell their white children nor am I discussing white children. My concern is the damage BM are doing to the black community and running behind the skirts of Black women in their communities who are the enablers of their pathology so they can sing patriotic love to save them. The patriotic love they don't call for when their daughters are being graped by these BM or when their sisters, cousins or even female neighbours are being kld by them. The patriotic love that these BM and their enablers sing is only when BM are called out publicly. Then, it becomes a community problem to protect and hush the evil. If I loved evil men , I would be happy other women are running away from them and warning about them, because then I would know I have them for myself. This is why I don't understand why you're upset. Support them all by yourself. You can be the Queen baby mama ✨

[@arnoldanobah3367]

Just like some of the black men making women single mothers/Sisters Some have to also take some kind of accountability also.

[@terrancedesouza6130]

people are being played😂

[@worldsbestbraider]

well well

[@AlcHeMiSt55]

i'am Black and I never heard any Black man that I know say they prefer WW. Thats not true all BM want BW and even when we fight we still want BW okay. maybe we will find BW in other cultures and different lands but still BW none the less.. BUT NEVER WHITE WOMEN.... we have receipts...

[@arnoldanobah3367]

I'm Sorry Ladies,but this isn't true.I have never put Sisters down in any form but growing up in London, all the sisters wanted gangsters and pookies.

[@Eseibio__]

Why is everyone hating on black men?

[@evilblacks-bx4fz]

They ain't us white men are the most hated because of the Jewish brainwashing and Jewish media

[@malikperry7359]

It's amazing that people can just sit here and say nobody want us BM cause let's be honest the good black Men are taken for granted. So I'm going to tell my son I been over seas and I never felt safe. Every time a woman say something about foreign woman looking for a green card I say what about the men who move to where the woman is. BW stop worrying about what Men are doing if you don't care

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Y'all don't have a good bone in y'alls bodies. Been singing the same song for decades. It's getting tired

[@malikperry7359]

My wife asked me if our son brought home a girl not black how would I feel I said and I said what if he brought home a ugly girl how would she feel she said why does that matter I said cause ugliness is who a person is not what they look like.

[@corinthianmonk107]

She is lying I'm going to always stick up for black women she quoting somebody else shit she not real

[@toniemorrison4263]

Why do we respond to these people? Please stop especially bw. Please learn to be unbothered. I don't care who ww date....😁😆😅🤣

[@thecommentor6870]

Bit too late for that, but I'm going to formally address this. I'm tired of people thinking they can talk about what we should or shouldn't do. I can send videos of non-black men basically saying similar things about Black women, and they will respond by calling me a hater. There's a White Canadian guy called Sandman on KZbin that has made plenty of videos about how he doesn't like Black women, and yet they will still try getting with White men after the humiliation. Hell, there was a video of a Black woman telling a white dude that she thinks he looks great because he was white, and he responded by telling her she was ugly. You can look all of these things up if you don't believe me. Context is very important in the overall message, and this KZbinr Destiny Uteh is disingenuous because she has made videos before promoting IR relationships between Black women and White men. She thinks in her mind that she's qualified to gatekeep Black men from dating out when she wants that for Black women, and her way of doing it is through sharing videos of White women basically cosigning the sisterhood message, which is the irony in itself. How can you on the one hand pretend to be a pro-Black, then on the other hand promote IR dating? You really think all of these losers here on the comments saying "not ne I love my sisters" reflects the overall dynamics of the Black male population? Black men are going to do whatever is best for them, and that's without your approval. If I wanted to be disingenuous like this chick, I would start a fake pro-Black channel while preaching to Black men to date out and asking Black women to commit while showing them clips about other races of men talking bad about them as a manipulation tactic. I don't do it because I have integrity, something I can't say for you.

[@charlesakins8449]

First off, who ever this younglady was with the glasses on, kick rocks Sis!!! We don't want you either, so that makes all parties involved happy. Now for the "Real Sisters"! You know, as well as I, that many Sisters come with garbage, just like thr trifling brothers they love to bash. I find it so very inters that the vast majority of women, the " 304s" out here complain about and bash brothers, but complain about the same thing being said! That hypocrisy!!! For the "Real" African American Women, not the sellouts, no one is more beautiful. To the Sister saying we must call out our own brothers, are you checking the sisters? Only those following their own advice are able to make this point. If you are calling out women who are wrong, then you have my respect. Also, don't speak with disrespect if you don't want to be disrespected. Respect, love, adoration, are all mutual! They must be! I think African Women are the most beautiful in the world, but your issues are real, just as your issues with us are! Keep it 💯!!!

[@kennethrenquist9414]

"the most masc. presenting black lesbian is feminine"... oh okay

[@DrRhilTV]

I’m gonna react to this video ….. I have some interesting views on this ………:

[@bkbornshahid774]

Well, WW are speaking from what they see and know about how BWs present to WM and white people in general. We have been deemed as less than all other men on Earth by BWs... this was the province of the KKK before the 1960s. There's BM who suffer from the same racial inferiority complex that are endemic to the other side, it's extremely rare. But the upside is the BM who venerate WW similar to how BWs worship WM should take any and all corrections to their perceptions in this matter. The primary goal is to perceive and navigate the social reality with Truth, intelligence and integrity. No brothers should be dealing with any female or men that has a diminished estimation of our worth, no exceptions. It's been a long night, but it's evident to me that our hell is coming to an end. Our opps believe it's our genocide up ahead, but some of us see a different future altogether. But, it's coming to an end is "agreed" as the future of the BM.

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Is it a lie though, aren't y'all at the bottom of society? You can look at the American hierarchy and it'll prove my point. Bw bring it up when y'all starts y'alls bs talk on the intrnet embarrassing every black person on this earth. Blk women and children aren't safe with y'all. I still encourage every black woman I can to date out. Black men are a waste. 🗑

[@bkbornshahid774]

@Asiphe Johnson doesn't matter what I think about who is the bottom of society, that's not my burden - only the social understanding of how to navigate that perception. WM are currently tops on the Earth and have robbed every nation of people, killed them in the 100s of millions, and has maintained the military power to protect their ability to do wickedness to others with impunity. So it's a bit larger than massas plantation. Our circumstantial lower status isn't even something that should impact a BM's inherent worth. We are most definitely not inferior species of men. They gained an advantage, and have and will do anything to preserve that advantage... so worship your gods as the conditions on the ground support. But we are not the children of no other race of men and cannot be erased and or reproduced by any other race of men. We were First and will be the Last. Their time to rule the nations is setting, and that's the future that was known for 1000s of years. It was foreseen we would be oppressed by our enemies for 400 years, but then that nation and people will be judged and sentenced accordingly. So, this is the WM heaven and all his BWs should be making the most of his/their power - actually only the less than 1%, bc the basic WM isn't outperforming the basic BM on any level other than white worship.

[@asiphejohnson6543]

@@bkbornshahid774 you can say whatever you want. Y'alls actions prove to be white male worship as well. Demeaning y'alls own blackness and BW, while trying to obtain whiteness through the WW's womb to be closer to white men. Everyone is aware of y'alls tactics and mentality... White men will continue to rule this planet, because no one proves as a worthy opponent to remove him from leadership, but y'all worship him and his whiteness instead. Look at Africa today. All African resources are controlled by foreign men with WM having the biggest share. Black women have no reason to stay with self hating black men. I'm glad more of us are marrying out especially African women.

[@bkbornshahid774]

@Asiphe Johnson well there's agreement that BM are undesirable and detrimental to BWs from yall perspective, and many of us agree at least about the incompatibility part. BM seeking to get our needs met away from the women who hold us in contempt is intelligent and not an evil act. But the lie that BWs are "our women" is part of the slander. We are our own demographic, and we are our race. I'm out.

[@khem127]

She was discussing BM's penchant for talking down BW to her, which, as a BW I've seen and am disgusted about. BM are doing this and You choose to gaslight BW rather than to be honest.

[@robbyclaypool7188]

Not all are like that. 😇

[@mountaintop0925]

Robby, 'not all', is not our concern. History has shown plenty examples of small groups causing major and extreme harm throughout the world. The vast majority of these small minority groups that cause such devastation on such a scale are usually 'Caucasian'; like no other people we've ever seen. Thus, the greater question presents itself: "What in the world drives this behavior?" I can see, that it is fundamental. A philosophy of thinking about how to think that is base and generally without much regard. I relate this to what they do as oppose to what they say...their history is there for all to examine. Therefore, it seemingly comes down to 'trust' and that, my friend, given the history, can be difficult for the majority of people on earth to extend...even toward this tiktoker.

[@galacticnine]

I don't trust it.

[@jeffreylatson9650]

They sound very bitter and masculine to me ,what man wants to be in a relationship with someone like that🤔

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Do Karen's not sound crazy and bitter when they go around harassing innocent people? There are plenty non-black men who love black women that some of us are currently dating. We don't want y'all

[@jeffreylatson9650]

@@asiphejohnson6543 shit that’s good at least my sons is not going to grow up not knowing what roll he has to play 🤔

[@jeffreylatson9650]

@@asiphejohnson6543 y’all rather be fiminate for a white man but not a black man wow now a days the white man don’t want y’all oh my bad they just want y’all to reproduce their generation instead of ur own generation,that sounds like someone is being used to me

[@babytt8487]

@@jeffreylatson9650 You can't even spell dude shutup

[@justicerighteousness3105]

This wht woman says nothing about euro imperialism's effect on blk men and blk women. And the really ironic thing is that with so many blk women raising blk men. There isn't much cohesion of thought between blk males and blk females. Why is that? Could it be that most blk mothers are not seriously trying to teach their sons anything. Not ever their own ideas. This may be due to some incompetence on her part. Or subconscious bias.

[@nahjacutler]

Where are the fathers? Bw when can't do everything. We are not God

[@justicerighteousness3105]

Black women are not God and should not be expected to be. But the matter is do they really understand what their children are up against. Do they make any consistent systematic effort to present the real issues to their children in detail? The fathers should be in the home though often they are not. That means black women are in a very strategic position to help the next generation of black males and black females to grow to be stable individuals. Many black women can be very focused study and pay attention to details when it comes to schooling. And in trying to advance their careers. But they need that same commitment and detailed attention when it come to their children.

[@blackkatt777]

A large majority of abandoned bw who are left raising children alone, because the father suddenly forgot how to be a decent man and help raise his kids, do raise their sons to believe in himself by example. They've watched their mothers work and provide, cooking, cleaning, helping with schooling, put them in encouraging activities to feel self confident, be their best cheerleader and financial savior when they get stuck on money problems and bring them to God's house on Sundays...and the boys can still have those few influencers talking toxic things (around the way friends but especially male rappers) that they'd rather listen to because they want to fit in...so don't go blaming the bulk of that on mothers. Yes, there are mothers that fail their kids ( meaning both boys and girls), so they should be critiqued accordingly. Plenty of these men learned from other men how to gaslight and use bw for whatever they could use from them (money, shelter, their bodies) until they find a another woman, because they don't want to man up and be a responsible adult, but be catered to like they're still children. Doesn't mean she knowingly chose that, it just meant he was a good faker to get what he wanted when he wanted it. They treat their children like burdens when a lot of them were not raised that way. There are plenty with responsible fathers in their lives, but when young bloods want to be arrogant and stubborn and not listen to their elders, they end up dead beats and problematic to the community. I could never lump all bm in that category because my brother is a father who is the best one I know. I will always defend him because he acts like a responsible adult. It is annoying that men who would bash bw are more prevalent on social media, than there are mature and respectful bm who are checking those men. I've seen videos here and there of them checking those embarrassments to get it together. That is good to see, because all we get is hostility, humiliation, threats (both verbal and physical) and harassed. If more men spoke out against their poor behavior them maybe it would make a difference they'd listen to.

[@justicerighteousness3105]

Well said. Yes, it is a very complicated situation. And of course, black men and black women have personal choice and different personalities. But there are some religions that have a pretty good record of setting strait men women and children. The black community should except their part of the responsibility. While at the same time be aware of the external factors behind its struggle. For example, policies that push "guns and drugs" in the community. That promote "Mass Incarceration". The "School to Prison Pipeline". "Anti-Felon Policies" for prisoners when they do get out. "Mainstream Media" misrepresentation. "Redlining". "The Reduction of Factory Employment in America". "The Removal of Trade Learning in Public High Schools". "Eugenics". And "J Edger Hoover-ism". All this equals a critical state of war. And black boys and black girls need to be taught very systematically that's the kind of state there're in.

[@khem127]

No. she simply calls BM out about their disrespect towards BW, and some BM choose to pretend it's about BW being angry about BM dating WW, and other BM pretend that WW can't critcise BM, after they told her all that toxic mess about BW. And why are you blaming only Black mothers when many of the fathers don't stick around, or are you just a woman hater????

[@donstill6477]

Why do I feel that she's single.

[@Eseibio__]

Why are you worried about black men going over seas dating? What does that have to do with you? That's kind of being a hater

[@khem127]

Keep fooling yourself. You refuse to believe that we don't want yall. You insult us and pretend we're angry because youre leaving, or either yall can't read.

[@observelearn2345]

Why sooo much ficus on black men. Can't white and black women talk about other men and give us a break

[@liquidationkingla5706]

#PassportBros .... Since BM are not wanted by any American Woman I guess BM should seek companionship other places...

[@bkwcanton5615]

Yeah go elsewhere and burn your bridges there too. It won't take long for these other women to get wise to the behavior of the BM.

[@Stephanie-gx7bx]

Yup! ✌🏽

[@nahjacutler]

Please do! I tell every bm who tries to pursue me its best he pursues women of other races all the time because ain't no way I could put up with y'all. Just go!

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Y'all couldn't leave any sooner.

[@Eseibio__]

It's a billion people in this world. Let people date who they want too date.. people should worry about who they are dating instead of who everyone else is dating

[@khem127]

Not the issue. Black men putting BW's names in their mouth while they're dating WW.

[@corinthianmonk107]

She's not real people wacth her body movements she trying to sow division stop being so quick to agree with your enemy and my black women you have men that have been scared just like you have black women that have been scared check those women it's not a one way street

[@nahjacutler]

Ummm, she does have to create division. Y'all created it nobody else did. And you sound like the narcissistic abuser.

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Black women aren't y'alls women. We're a separate entity from y'all. Get that clear.

[@Mebby06]

She’s autistic I see these movements often with the kids I work with

[@asiphejohnson6543]

@@Mebby06 ,but she's rational enough to say such truth.

[@khem127]

Yes we both have been thru a lot, but BM don't get to take it out on us by calling us names and disrespecting us across the internet,. We are the last to date out of our race, we have always supported yall, but we are not gonna stay around for verbal and physical abuse.

[@bankrollace8737]

Non black people need to stop worrying about black people's problems. We never asked for outside opinions✌

[@brandonray4379]

I will say that I as a black man will not apologize for something that I am not doing. I think that those black men should apologize but not this one. I don't owe you anything.

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Who said you should apologize?

[@brandonray4379]

@@asiphejohnson6543 I said what I said

[@KingKing-ue7tg]

Go fix your own country before you come over here talking about foundation black Americans

[@JuiceKingzCEO]

Bw are forever obsessed with ww, get a life sistahs

[@bo11ow42]

asking a man to check another man is the role of a father their father 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

[@asiphejohnson6543]

Y'all go around creating dysfunctional homes all over the place. Please take y'alls passports and go make someone else a single baby mama.

[@bo11ow42]

@@asiphejohnson6543 yall? trolling is an art form and you lack the updated knowledge to do so good day female person!!

[@thomascuyler6262]

This sounds like how they got y'all with the Feminist card game🤣🤣🤣

[@hotties3v3n]

This ain't nothing to with feminism but self hating ninjas.

[@hillieduvalier]

AA disgracing themselves and black people globally ... embarrassing!

[@mhizummy2091]

Not only AA even African men too so embarrassing

[@hillieduvalier]

@@mhizummy2091 are they on social media airing out their dirty laundry in droves??

[@asiphejohnson6543]

@@hillieduvalier There has been a few cases of African men saying the same bs, but only when they get to the US. Calling black women ghetto, dark skin b-words, you name it... I distance myself from them.

[@hillieduvalier]

@@asiphejohnson6543 as well as you should.. but most african are dark-skinned aren't they? If they have so much self hate, you are wll within your rights to keep far!

[@asiphejohnson6543]

@@hillieduvalier yup, I don't want any contact with them. They claim WS is the reason why they're where they at, but turn around and worship the very same people they complain about while demeaning their own. Talk about a two faced liar.

[@negro_de_whatssap]

🤦🏿‍♂🤦🏿‍♂

[@tcaseyfba4518]

Strong and independent is not a complement and whiteness is Blk womens preferred man we date all types of women.. These same women talk greasy about Blk women to so im not bothered.. And most colorism and featurism comes from Black women these single mothers to be exact.. And to be honest colrism is a ugly women's argument I don't see attractive dark skin Blk women complaining about colorism let's be real..

[@killerkyu8286]

Same mudshark lol