Detransition: School Indoctrination, Bullying, Testosterone Damage, and Healing - Jade Martin

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Chloe Cole

Chloe Cole

Күн бұрын

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@vanesasenem
@vanesasenem Жыл бұрын
Chloe, you’re an amazing interviewer. You give people the grace to gather themselves when they aren’t able to find the right words. You don’t interject your own opinions. You don’t lead. Your questions are pointed and appropriate. Your balanced approach makes it easy to follow along. When you do share, you don’t do it in an overbearing manner. Keep going.
@NickyM_0
@NickyM_0 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@elsadapcher8346
@elsadapcher8346 Жыл бұрын
Only maybe don't start questions with 'but'. Great job !
@harmonygordon6901
@harmonygordon6901 Жыл бұрын
Chloe, you are EXCELLENT at interviewing. Huge respect for you.
@TheInformerAllyCurtis
@TheInformerAllyCurtis Жыл бұрын
Idea: The old religion and Greek figures are all controlling our bodies and are the voices. They are getting in our bodies to rape, murder and speak thoughts that are not our own. They have long term evil intentions and a very long past to cover up. The narcissism you see is the religious figures controlling from afar and entering the form. Schizophrenia is them. They give mental/physical diseases both through magic and through the medical community. Religion has been used against the human population and the fear of hell for a long term purpose of keeping us controllable. This is beyond full body/mind control they can do magic style. The old religious figures and Greek have put people in genders of bodies that are not their own with an evil purpose. This is why trans exist. And surgery is a basic human right. They are also responsible for detransitioners existing. They abuse on gender and sexuality and control in these areas to attempt to confuse and change souls from who they are. The old religious/Greek figures are arranging the marriages/relationships of the populace without consent. The psychic rapes are from old religious/Greek figures not a human person. It’s not kundalini as well. Twin flame is very dangerous. It’s a fate based system where everything is chosen for you on birth. That life is just planned and it actually is by the old religious/Greek figures to be honest. But truly if you think about extreme poverty and acid attacks you’d have to see life is not fated. It’s a mess. The universe couldn’t know you at 0. I would never try to take the idea of love or potential of love from someone. It's the idea it was created on birth your lover and it's very fate based. The world and you was done the day you were born. And it can be used against you the idea of a match up that is chosen in advance of you becoming you by the universe (but is the old religious figures). And that things are set in stone and you don’t choose your partner. It sets you up to not see abuse and to accept any treatment because they are the one. It’s so dangerous. You have a forever someone who will have to work to remain your forever just like you will but it’s not set in stone and no one knows who it is besides you. You just will have a lover. And it’s the religious and Greek figures trying to control people to get together. By forcing souls to be with one another without consent through manipulation and control. Trying to get in the idea that the universe knows your partner or yourself better than you. Trying to plant signs of something that is not. They do this with all sorts of topics. They are the one touching you and talking to you. Evil Cupids. Evil People. We all will win though. And people will know that control exists. Who is truly at fault. And love will be found. If you want it. And there is unlimited food/drink in heaven. I wish you all the best. 😅😮😢…😂❤🎉
@wingedinfinity6715
@wingedinfinity6715 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same. Great comment !
@Ariel-ck9he
@Ariel-ck9he Жыл бұрын
This girl was relentlessly bullied because people were jealous. She’s so beautiful- like head-turning beautiful- and she has a calm, graceful, gentle presence. People tore her down because they wanted to be like her. And it breaks my heart that she took any of their nonsense as truth.
@davidjones8043
@davidjones8043 Жыл бұрын
I agree. She's beyond gorgeous. That's so messed up
@youtube__handle
@youtube__handle Жыл бұрын
I know, right? And I can't take my eyes off of Chloe, too, since the moment I saw her ❤
@L3ttucePr3y
@L3ttucePr3y Жыл бұрын
Stop talking about their looks, even if it’s positive. That is what contributed to this in the first place.
@youtube__handle
@youtube__handle Жыл бұрын
@@L3ttucePr3y we can see positives everywhere, looks, character, etc. You can't deny that people want to be attractive, do you know anybody who doesn't want to be attractive? We aren't encouraging changing who you are and how you naturally look, we are endorsing it! We live in a physical world, our character and brain are also part of the physical. When we like someone, we like them whole... we can feel some connection with them.
@mizzhelloo
@mizzhelloo Жыл бұрын
@@L3ttucePr3yI don’t think they’re talking about their looks just to “talk about their looks”. When kids are jealous or feel insecure, some tend to bully their “pretty” or “handsome” classmates which is an important aspect to discuss. We shouldn’t run away from this.
@rittersebastian5695
@rittersebastian5695 Жыл бұрын
I am so stunned by this interview. As a father of a girl, who went through almost the same thing, it just brought me to tears to hear this poor disilusioned young woman talking about her pain and feelings. I was lucky enough to catch onto what was going on, so i prevented the worst. You ladies are soooo unbelievably brave. Thank you so very much. I wish nothing but the best for both of you going forward.
@Gypsygirl9
@Gypsygirl9 7 ай бұрын
@rittersebastin5695..I too see this as really sad. To me, a child born in the late 60s, we all went through this type of "bullying". Prime difference is our parents taught us to ignore that BS and not feed into it. My dad lways said "Sticks and stones may reak my bones but words will never harm me". Because we took that stance, we had a backbone and did not react in such an extreme way. This new way is scary because it is being indoctrinated as you mention by schools but..also many parents are also vested in this weak ideology. They do not take it upon themselves like you did, to just stop the BS. I do blame those parents for their lack of parenting skills. Which isba whole other discussion as to why they "choose" to opt out of actual parenting. Your daughter is blessed.
@tarstarkusz
@tarstarkusz 6 ай бұрын
This is one of the MANY prices we pay for cell phones that NOBODY wants to acknowledge. I was 12 in 1982. I couldn't go on my phone and have people tell me tales about how there is this new cure-all problem for social anxiety or self doubt. If you wanted a "community" you had to literally go outside to find it. There were no phonies faking it behind a screen name. No 30 year old men who think it funny to troll a group of tween girls by pretending to be one of them and encouraging this crap. There are MANY, MANY other costs that we simply refuse to discuss as a society. NOBODY needs a computer with them at all times.
@michaelfraser5723
@michaelfraser5723 4 ай бұрын
were you ever accused of bullying by the so called authorities, or by the girl herself ?
@rittersebastian5695
@rittersebastian5695 4 ай бұрын
@michaelfraser5723 yes. By one of the teachers. But he was put in his place by the old principal. Lucky me.
@lati_da
@lati_da Жыл бұрын
Love to all the people detransitioning. You are supported, deserving of love and happiness. It is criminal what the medical establishment has done to you,
@nuclearmantis666
@nuclearmantis666 Жыл бұрын
Every theme the gouvernement has to offer
@marydantu1102
@marydantu1102 Жыл бұрын
Dearest Chloe, I am a mother from Africa with precious grown children. Please know that I pray for you daily. I pray for strength, for courage and that you will remain steadfast in the truth. Please remind yourself that there are thousands like me, praying for you, especially when your God-given mission is challenging and difficult. Truth will always triumph, no matter how hard it is knocked or how long the battle is. Be blessed sweet girl ✝️❤️
@andrewheakes244
@andrewheakes244 5 ай бұрын
God Bless You!
@Classic_Rock_Chick
@Classic_Rock_Chick 2 ай бұрын
Such loving words and I couldn’t agree with you more! ✝️
@berserkerbard
@berserkerbard Жыл бұрын
The evils of our sex obsessed culture are affecting the young and vulnerable the most. I’m so sorry for what you both went through, thank you for doing this interview and speaking out for those like you who are lost, confused and in pain x
@pancakegamer335
@pancakegamer335 Жыл бұрын
👏 true
@iraqiimmigrant2908
@iraqiimmigrant2908 Жыл бұрын
✝️
@user-sl7ym1zq3n
@user-sl7ym1zq3n Жыл бұрын
As a girl this is how I felt growing up in such a messed up society. Labeled a prude and slut at 13. Like what?
@user-sl7ym1zq3n
@user-sl7ym1zq3n Жыл бұрын
She’s so pretty….. idk why people can be so cruel? Idk. I guess that’s why I don’t like being online
@berserkerbard
@berserkerbard Жыл бұрын
@@user-sl7ym1zq3n that’s awful, I’m so sorry you went through that! I feel so blessed by my upbringing without being exposed to much of what young people are exposed to nowadays, despite it being on my doorstep. I’m pregnant with my first and I plan to raise my kid with full knowledge of their intrinsic dignity and right to be treated with respect and love no matter what wider society says. I wish you all the best in your future ❤️
@elliemitchell3078
@elliemitchell3078 Жыл бұрын
At the 32 minute, 50 second mark, when they're discussing the statement of people only 'detransitioning due to being in danger', I felt like crying. I, and countless others I have spoken to in support groups, detransitioned as we realised we had made a mistake. As a detransitioner, of four years, it honestly feels so difficult to find understanding around this topic and therefore, I am so glad it has been brought up in this interview. Thank you both for bringing your experiences to light. x
@intrusive-th0t
@intrusive-th0t 11 ай бұрын
There are also other reasons to detransition. For myself (FTMTF) I had severe bottom dysphoria that only got worse the further I got into my transition (because I looked and perceived myself more as a man with no penis)…. At a certain point I realized that there was no surgery in existence that would give me the genitals I wanted and that if I was going to have to learn to work with what I had. Well, once I decided that I would have to learn to accept and enjoy having a vagina I realized that I could apply the same mentality to accepting and getting enjoyment out of the other parts of my body that I hated and couldn’t change- my height, my hips, my feminine jawline, my fertility as a woman… from that point it became easier and easier to accept and even enjoy the physical traits that I could change (but didn’t have to). And now I even enjoy many stereotypical social aspects of femininity. I’m still a lesbian, that will never change, and I’m still a tomboy, but I no longer feel any desire to outright reject womanhood or femininity
@dragonmummy1
@dragonmummy1 4 ай бұрын
@magdalenaodnaglosnienia
@magdalenaodnaglosnienia 2 ай бұрын
This is just understanding that it was destroying own body and living a lie. Destroying social life and flattening the live in general. Like a vegetation.
@EmmaBailts
@EmmaBailts 2 ай бұрын
Sadly, that is because you are going against the pushed narrative. it's like a cult. the online world isn't about the wellbeing of the person but the more converted the better for them. you are a number they lost. And there are a lot of people who detransitioned but don't speak out because of this and the fear of the backlash of the ideology society
@Max-ht9hf
@Max-ht9hf Жыл бұрын
You know it's a "Cult" when you try to leave the "Cult" and the rest of the Cult turns on you for daring to leave. That's sadly the tragedy of many who de-trans. They get all this support when they trans, but... the moment they change their mind, they're now the devil. Stay stong!
@Suzette-gb7uj
@Suzette-gb7uj 5 ай бұрын
I was just thinking the same thing. The more I see, and hear these young people’s stories, I believe the truly radical trans community is nothing more than a cult. And it’s massive, sprawling, and very dangerous. What can we do to protect these innocent, vulnerable children? I feel that I have to figure out a means to help them.
@bcc7777
@bcc7777 21 күн бұрын
It's all inverted. Evil calls good evil.
@Disgruntled_Canadian
@Disgruntled_Canadian Жыл бұрын
Sue, sue, sue. These horrible “professionals “ won’t stop this until the law suites start rolling in and I can’t wait to sit back and watch them get sued into oblivion.
@littlefoxx333
@littlefoxx333 Жыл бұрын
I wish i was a lawyer right now, what a interesting time to be one
@Plantlady-bf6cq
@Plantlady-bf6cq 11 ай бұрын
I think you are right. Only being sued and losing money will make them rethink this.
@tarstarkusz
@tarstarkusz 6 ай бұрын
1) They won't get sued. At best their insurance companies will be sued. 2) The legal defense will be done (financed) by volunteers and 5013c organizations who advocate for this stuff. There are HUNDREDS and THOUSANDS of various legal aid societies.
@BobB-w4q
@BobB-w4q Жыл бұрын
I perceive a fairly consistent theme of young women feeling uncomfortable with puberty. Perhaps this is commonplace. If so, it just emphasizes the danger in a false diagnosis of gender dysphoria.
@radicalmoderate2730
@radicalmoderate2730 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a woman nor do I ever want to pretend to be one. But i'm wondering when did Puberty become bad thing. Now I'm and older man in my 50's but I spoke to some of my former JR High School Girl Friends and they're wondering the same thing. I mean boobs were coveted by girls back then.
@BobB-w4q
@BobB-w4q Жыл бұрын
@@radicalmoderate2730 I emphatically agree.
@arwenstrong2818
@arwenstrong2818 Жыл бұрын
As a girl, it's hard. Periods are painful, especially at first. You worry about leaking. Your moods fluctuate randomly. Your body is changing fast & suddenly boys won't stop staring at you and treating you different. There's pressure to conform to beauty standards you can't actually reach, but feel like you're expected to try. Theres's pressure to be sexually active to fit in and be desirable and loved. Add to that the way women are portrayed in porn and it's not surprising many young girls are just giving up because they feel like they can never be enough as a woman. To me, that's possibly the saddest part of Chloe's story.
@albin2232
@albin2232 Жыл бұрын
​@@arwenstrong2818I agree 👍
@BobB-w4q
@BobB-w4q Жыл бұрын
@@arwenstrong2818 I am just an old, retired widower but appreciate your statement. Looking back on life I can't help but feel there is so much wrong we do to one another. The pressure to fit in is immense. Please don't feel pressured to be sexually active if you do not wish to be. If you don't want to wear makeup please don't let anyone pressure you, or if you feel there are circumstances where you must just do the minimum that used to be called the "natural look" when I was younger. One thing I emphatically encourage is to avoid drugs entirely or drinking to excess. Thank you for replying and I hope you find peace.
@trevormichael4906
@trevormichael4906 Жыл бұрын
THIS is some bravery. Going against that crazy cult takes guts ladies. Keep telling your stories.
@greenstair
@greenstair Жыл бұрын
Chloe and Jade, I have landed here, by that wretched KZbin algorithm, from having watched your interview with Jordan Peterson. I'll not watch all of this, because as a 63 year old man, somehow it doesn't seem right to. However I do want to wish both of you all the very best. I'm a dad and, while I can see that you're both very capable and are obviously courageous, please do watch out for the KZbin fame / ego danger. Please stay grounded, stay honest, stay true. Big Dad type love to you both and thank you very much, from (I hope) a grandad to be, who appreciates you starting the fight for truth and honesty. Footnote, even as a 63 year old, it's simple truth to say that you're both lovely and beautiful and brave.
@virtuallyme2518
@virtuallyme2518 Жыл бұрын
@greenstair that was the MOST heartwarming comment I have EVER read on KZbin!! Bless your precious, kind heart.. If only the world was full of fathers and men like you…
@Suzette-gb7uj
@Suzette-gb7uj 5 ай бұрын
I very much appreciate you being protective of these two beautiful women. Their mission to tell their stories is to help others. They are selfless, and giving, and courageous. They are brave. I know you will make a wonderful grandfather.
@deecocoa
@deecocoa Жыл бұрын
Chloe you seem more and more comfortable and confident in yourself! Such a wonderful thing to see. Despite all the trauma you have been through, you have a bright future ahead.
@rlb983
@rlb983 Жыл бұрын
You're a fantastic interviewer. You have a gentle way of guiding people through telling their stories at their own pace.
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Жыл бұрын
My wish is that in the process of suing Kaiser-Permanente, Chloe can obtain the rate of detransition in their female patients. You are giving the world truth and honesty.
@emmy-kz1pj
@emmy-kz1pj Жыл бұрын
Good point. One thing that will need to be put into consideration also is that some will take some years before they detransition. It sounds like a difficult process in itself to socially admit making a mistake, losing the social trans network of friends and then accept the damage that has been done to their bodies. So glad to see these women come out the other side with bright futures
@tubester4567
@tubester4567 Жыл бұрын
A real study just came out and they said 30% detransition within 4 years. They followed a bunch of trans kids that were on hormones (at least), at an official gender clinic, and 30% stopped hormones and detransitioned within 4 years. I suspect the numbers are even higher with more time.
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Жыл бұрын
Great! Citations are really worth it if you have names, institutions and dates. The other side constantly quotes bad science and low quality studies, so our data has to be water tight. I hope a detransitioner gets together a survey and collects good responses, as I did with trans widows, YT channel, Trans Widow Ute Heggen Also, Denmark has come forward about their change of policy and that now only 6% of kids with dysphoria get "affirmation." @@tubester4567
@EllaAndrophobia
@EllaAndrophobia Жыл бұрын
I forced myself to stop playing with dolls, too. I never realized how sad that made me. I loved pretending to be a mommy.
@LauraAnn1980
@LauraAnn1980 Жыл бұрын
Me too. And a teacher. And a pediatrician. I think I was still playing with dolls well into 7th grade because I had no friends to play with.
@gwjsbm
@gwjsbm Жыл бұрын
You can always play the Sims!
@sharonstevebrooks985
@sharonstevebrooks985 Жыл бұрын
I got myself an adults dolls house at the age of 62! I love every minute of creating and making things and it brings me great joy
@tiggzr9744
@tiggzr9744 Жыл бұрын
I didn't stop playing dolls till I was 16 to play with my younger cousins.
@desertrose0601
@desertrose0601 Жыл бұрын
My best friend liked playing with dolls well into middle school. At the time I thought it was weird but I never said so and continued playing Barbies with her. I’m so glad now that I did. It’s perfectly okay to play with dolls, even when a little “too old”. It’s our way of acting out what we want from life… friends, boyfriends, children, a home and family, etc. Now as an adult I still love playing games like The Sims. It’s just a natural inclination women have to want to role play family life like that.
@AnitaCupcake
@AnitaCupcake Жыл бұрын
Very powerful episode. As an educator, I learned that staying silent is not always the best option. Plenty to think about…. Thank you both.
@rpink8531
@rpink8531 Жыл бұрын
‏‪14:44‬‏ ‏‪ You guys blow me away. The guts to put yourself out there to literally save lives- at such a high cost to your own- it's heroic. We stand by you Chloe & Jade. All my respect!
@rebeccalecomte3770
@rebeccalecomte3770 Жыл бұрын
I am a 66 year old woman. I was all tomboy till 11 years old and quite unhappy with my parents definition of a nice/good young lady. I am glad I didn't have to deal with the gender dysphoria choice. I grew into myself, did what I needed to respect my parents... and chose my career direction. Those seven years of adjusting to my post puberty self were so valuable; living inside my parents guidance before I launched. I have loved being a women, a wife, a Momma, now a Grandma all while being a grown up rough n tumble 'feminine' tomboy. My heart aches for the angst of today's youth; you're beautiful both inside and out. My good friend's eldest son is now her only daughter; it was a profound journey. Live, love, forgive, and move forward as best you can!! ~Many Many Blessings❣️
@theophilus46
@theophilus46 Жыл бұрын
Chloe's testimony before congressional committee was succinct and powerful. She will be among the many who speak out loud and clear with reason to bring truth to so many who have been lied to at every level. This interview shows her kind strength to discuss the subject that will take her to many places to be a voice (amen)
@anneecagleakaringrock7679
@anneecagleakaringrock7679 Жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to both of you beautiful brave women. Jade your story about approaching and going through puberty is so familiar. Children should be taught to be proud of and embrace the changes they go through puberty and not let the negatively from others influence them. We all felt awkward in puberty. You were clearly groomed by misguided people who’s need for validation has them preying on the vulnerable and confused. You are an extremely beautiful young woman, Jade. Thank you both for sharing your stories so that this madness inflicted on children and adolescents may end.
@greenhomestead6305
@greenhomestead6305 Жыл бұрын
But now the schools are also encouraging kids to detest their natural body and halt puberty with pills.
@tinyiko2311
@tinyiko2311 Жыл бұрын
I must say the school system also failed her, I was lucky enough to be in a primary school were they not only taught us about but also provided us with pads from third grade and explained that some start early others start late but it is normal and don't compete with others just take it slow. I'm actually heartbroken for her it just sounds like the internet strangers groomed her into it.
@anikadelabajo759
@anikadelabajo759 Жыл бұрын
Jade has such a feminine and delicate look. And such a calm and beautiful energy. Truly like a princess, makes me wanna hug and protect her as the most precious human being. Thanks for being so courageous and strong and speaking out ladies! You’re doing an important job. I wish you all your dreams coming true and you finding peace within yourselves ❤
@blerfblarfson
@blerfblarfson Жыл бұрын
Jade, thank you for speaking out. It was hard enough to make some peace with yourself, I'm sure, but to share your story is going above and beyond - you don't have to do this, but you know someone out there needs to hear it. Chloe, you are just continually crushing it with these interviews and speeches. All my love to you ladies. ❤
@pinklady7184
@pinklady7184 Жыл бұрын
There are many adults in schools bullying kids into transitioning and some kids who reject gender affirming care are being called "bigots" or "transphobic."
@boj353boy
@boj353boy Жыл бұрын
things that didn't happened: adults in schools bullying kids into transitioning... Get fuc*ed with your lies.
@sdauggie
@sdauggie Жыл бұрын
Jade, Chloe, you are two princesses making all the difference in this world. Speaking the truth with honesty but boldness is what this generation needs. Good for you!!! It is so true, there is still so much to live for!!!
@xyenyas
@xyenyas Жыл бұрын
I follow Jade on Twitter and it makes me so sad how many anonymous accounts go after her for just existing. U have a lot of empathy for her, she reminds me a lot of myself & what I went through as a child. Love you both. ❤
@Nico-c3c
@Nico-c3c 11 ай бұрын
This is a lovely example of one autistic woman interviewing another about the struggle they face living in our disgusting and distorted world.
@kerrymeadows
@kerrymeadows Жыл бұрын
Hard to believe such a sweet beautiful girl could have been bullied for anything. Makes me afraid for my grandchildren. So sad that she felt that it was her only recourse. These are both beautiful,brave women.
@jqnliz
@jqnliz Жыл бұрын
You two are beautiful and brave. Thank you for all that you are doing, Chloe to stand up for children! You are so gracious and kind in your interviews. Thank you for what you shared, Jade! It breaks my heart that people bullied you. You are a beautiful woman, and besides that you are made in God’s image and deserve to be loved simply for who you are. Your kind and tender heart is obvious in this video and I thank you for sharing your story in order to help others. Bravo to both of you.
@alwaysamber4960
@alwaysamber4960 Жыл бұрын
Chloe, we saw you on a major primetime TV show called "spotlight" in Australia. Thank you so much for bravely sharing your story with the world; it matters so much!!!
@Mel.H_
@Mel.H_ Жыл бұрын
I saw that episode, too! More people need to watch it❤
@ruigen8046
@ruigen8046 Жыл бұрын
its rare to see an interview where questions are asked and the answers are listened to Really enjoyed this.
@alisongladden1331
@alisongladden1331 Жыл бұрын
You both are beautiful souls ❤ a lot of girls -if not all - go through body issues so young and this transgender idea is getting them before they have a chance to work through it.. your videos will help these girls to see they don’t have to change everything on the outside to find their true selves on the inside, It will naturally happen. Thanks for all you do
@rpink8531
@rpink8531 Жыл бұрын
‏‪57:08‬‏ Crying with you. You experienced the inhumane. I pray for you. And at the very least, you deserve to win a multi-million dollar lawsuit. Thank you for your courage. Thank you for being a voice. You are a true hero.
@michellehudson6865
@michellehudson6865 Жыл бұрын
Oh Chloe, watching you grow from strength to strength has been an inspiration. Thankyou ❤
@kayceelee5379
@kayceelee5379 Жыл бұрын
Incredible that as a young person, confused; and knew you wanted to be pregnant one day- yet the medical professionals didn't "pause" to investigate further before prescribing cross sex hormones. I had no idea this could even happen. Thank you for sharing your story.
@pathacker4963
@pathacker4963 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that raised all sorts of red flags for me also.
@riccardorolandi6263
@riccardorolandi6263 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that the super-sweet Jade came in touch with Chloe, a.k.a. The Bravest Woman Alive, I really hope that you can be true friends, stay in touch and support each other. You make every single dad around soo proud of you. Please go on helping others, that also is a nice way to drive your attention away from your wounded body, wich leads to faster mental/emotional healing. All the best to you both. Love and respect. A big hug!
@claudialertora5418
@claudialertora5418 Жыл бұрын
Hello from Spain. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I imagine it isn't easy to expose yourselves like this. Big hug!
@kimwiser445
@kimwiser445 Жыл бұрын
I hated middle school years with my children. It was sad to see the other kids that they grew up with and even my children start acting like they think they are supposed to act not who they are. Middle school kids are so worried about being the one picked on that they will join in with the bullying.
@Unicornsandufos
@Unicornsandufos Жыл бұрын
Yes everyone got bullied and bullied other people too. Its normal behavior. Kids can be mean period!
@crocodilegrundee4514
@crocodilegrundee4514 Жыл бұрын
You both are beautiful young ladies, and courageous for what you are doing. Thank you for all you do.
@crocodilegrundee4514
@crocodilegrundee4514 Жыл бұрын
@@rachelforshee6014 Amen, they are beautiful souls, and doing a very important thing.
@danaethompson167
@danaethompson167 Жыл бұрын
I'm learning so much from these interviews. Thank you. I wonder if you might get together with a few female detransitioners and make some public service announcement type videos targeting young girls who start puberty early, are experiencing bullying, are struggling with the sexual expectations and/or female stereotypes. I wonder if it might help them to know they are not alone in their struggles. It might help combat the only solution they are being offered online right now. I'm not sure these young girls will be looking for detransitioners. Instead they are probably looking for information about their discomfort.
@aalliaandreadis5109
@aalliaandreadis5109 Жыл бұрын
Chloe you're beautiful inside and out. You still look so feminine despite what these demons tried to do to you. You are doing a wonderful service to your generation, warrior princess ❤
@dianee8010
@dianee8010 Жыл бұрын
Chloe, you and Jade are both beautiful and amazing young people. Thank you for sharing your stories because more young people need to know about the possible dangers of transitioning. It is huge decision to transition and not one that should be taken lightly. I do believe that there are many trans people that made the decision to transition who are happy with their choice. However, I really think a person needs to be an adult before they begin the physical process of transitioning. The decision to share your de-transitioning stories shows how courageous you both are. Thank you again!
@teria7703
@teria7703 Жыл бұрын
5:28 Thank you both for returning to the course of the beauty of being "woman". You both have great courage to share your hurt and path to healing. Being a tomboy when I was a young girl was no big deal and I played softball until I was 42yrs old. Not once was there an issue about my broad shoulders and 5'8 height because there was a time when a tough old bird was a fine virtue. It is tragic that there is so much pressure on young girls today to be something specific instead of just live and let live. You both are in my prayers. Stay strong and beautiful as "born woman" no matter what your voice sounds like (I had a deep voice all through my 20's) - stay lovely and humble 🎉
@angelaegan7511
@angelaegan7511 Жыл бұрын
Chloe will go far, she's an exceptional person. ❤
@dianeleone1634
@dianeleone1634 Жыл бұрын
Turning point for both of these women .... The Internet... In hindsight... How cruel.. God bless Chloe and Jade. Great interview💙💜💚
@MrSheepishLion
@MrSheepishLion Жыл бұрын
One thing that needs said over and over is that no bullying is about the thing the bully is making fun of. It's never about you. It is always about the bully and their issues.
@Gil2727
@Gil2727 Жыл бұрын
Life Lesson: They are not doing it TO you, they are JUST doing it... and you are there...
@frusia123
@frusia123 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I think "being on display" comes with being a girl. It goes away, kind of, as we age, and by then many women find it difficult to come to terms with, because all of a sudden they feel "invisible". But when we're young people seem to pay a lot of attention to our looks, I don't think they realise how deeply uncomfortable they make girls feel.
@BombshellElf
@BombshellElf Жыл бұрын
It's hard being a woman
@frusia123
@frusia123 Жыл бұрын
@@BombshellElf I agree, but it's hard being a man too, just in a different way. Young men feel this enormous pressure to prove themselves, or to be "successful", and the ideals of success they're being sold, are just as unrealistic as the ideals of beauty that are being sold to women and girls.
@pathacker4963
@pathacker4963 Жыл бұрын
Great insight.
@AsurmenHandOfAsur
@AsurmenHandOfAsur 6 ай бұрын
Beauty usually equals less emotional baggage and fertility which men desire in a partner.
@slowzhu
@slowzhu Жыл бұрын
So many times, I watch these young girls going through a difficult period of life and thinking, what can I do as a woman comfortable with being myself. I feel the healthy and confident female images are missing from these girls’ lives.
@UrbanomicInteriors
@UrbanomicInteriors Жыл бұрын
Absolutely agree - having healthy role models is important and something that is largely missing from our culture.
@youtube__handle
@youtube__handle Жыл бұрын
Very much so
@voices_vary
@voices_vary 10 ай бұрын
Chloe can grow into a great interviewer. She shows great maturity and a good sense of connection with her interviewees. There may be a great career ahead for her--and on expanded topics!
@OM-or3im
@OM-or3im Жыл бұрын
Can’t imagine being in their parents’ shoes. Both of these women are amazing young ladies and i wish them both only the very best.
@Leann68
@Leann68 Жыл бұрын
You’re a truly amazing young woman.. you’ll be so happy as you grow.. don’t let anyone give you a hard time.. you’ve proven how strong you’re.
@tandysaysyoucandoanything6758
@tandysaysyoucandoanything6758 Жыл бұрын
Chloe thank you for standing up to this craziness ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
@tombombadill22
@tombombadill22 Жыл бұрын
What a sad story ..... I hope you realise Jade that, like everyone, you CAN play, until the day you die, with dolls, and trucks, and planes, and trains, and toys etc etc. and whatever :-) And there are people out there just like you....
@RoughStoneRollingLapidary
@RoughStoneRollingLapidary 2 ай бұрын
I follow her and love her. I identify a lot with the early puberty and relentless bullying but I was a different generation than her. I didn't have all that stuff when I was a kid. No internet, Tumblr, etc. What I cannot understand though, at least now, how anyone can pick her apart. She is stunning! Like, gorgeous! I kept watching super scrutinizing trying to see if I could see a physical flae and I yet to have. She is so beautiful. Inside and out. Her only flaw I can see is that she was gullible as a child. But even that she has recognized and grown out of. So, basically, she's perfect. And I hope she reads this. She deserves everything good life has to offer!
@winsomewife7112
@winsomewife7112 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother never stopped playing with dolls. She was born in 2011. As an adult she learned to MAKE dolls with real ceramics she made herself, and sewed the clothes and painted the faces & hands she made. She sold some too, very good home based business while raising kids and beyond. I have one of them, and another old lady's ceramic doll from her collection. I like our kids' old dolls too that they don't play with anymore. I also love my baby goats and other farm animals, especially now that our youngest child of 4 is 17 1/2. You don't have to stop playing with dolls. And when you have kids, either homeschool or co-op or private Christian school that is very very very careful to prevent and stop bullying.
@AsurmenHandOfAsur
@AsurmenHandOfAsur 6 ай бұрын
Don't you mean 1911?
@FronteirWolf
@FronteirWolf 2 ай бұрын
Can you be a grandmother at age 13? I didn't think that was possible.
@UrbanomicInteriors
@UrbanomicInteriors Жыл бұрын
This is so important. Thank you for your willingness to have these conversations for others to get insight. I have known this intuitively but since I am not trans, or detrans, or young, people just think I’m hateful for raising the alarms about the trans trend. Thank you for your strength, perseverance, vulnerability and for just being you. You are worthy of love just as you are, and I am amazed by your wisdom and courage. Keep going. Keep shining. Also, Chloe - your insight is astounding, and it’s evident that you’ve had an incredible, proper, skilled, therapist to help you untangle the complex factors surrounding your transition/detransition. Please continue to pass it on. You are a gift.
@TruthAboveAll08
@TruthAboveAll08 Жыл бұрын
Two truly lovely young ladies. I'm so sorry that you suffered the most awful experience growing more common in our world today. God bless you both, and help you find your way to a better future.
@albin2232
@albin2232 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, beautiful Chloe and beautiful Jade. ❤ These interviews are golden.
@draperone371
@draperone371 Жыл бұрын
You young ladies are true warriors Strong, beautifull, and so very brave God bless you keep strong. If you save just one you are a sucess. You are my hero's
@quentinquentin6752
@quentinquentin6752 Жыл бұрын
Chloe you really have a gift for interviewing. Your empathy and openness, your questions are simply excellent and keep the entire conversation fluid and never repetitive. You really have a gift!! Thank you for doing everything you are doing to shine a much needed light into this frankly troubling world.
@jonno777
@jonno777 11 ай бұрын
What a beautiful respectful interview between 2 very strong people. Thank you both 🙏🙌
@JMandMore
@JMandMore Жыл бұрын
I want cry so much. It's moments like this that I feel a strong support system is what everyone needs from time to time. Close friends and family can go along way.
@lisaloo715
@lisaloo715 Жыл бұрын
Jade, you are so beautiful and well spoken. So glad you are standing up to all the bullying and manipulation. You are also wise to protect yourself and your business. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for speaking up! It's part of your healing.
@Taylor-bee
@Taylor-bee Жыл бұрын
Sharing these personal and vulnerable experiences is by far the most powerful testimony in this movement. Thank you both SO much for speaking. Your bravery is truly inspiring. ♥️
@marya9039
@marya9039 Жыл бұрын
This is a beautiful interview Chloe, with 2 beautiful, brave women.
@Jenwinter85
@Jenwinter85 Жыл бұрын
The message I've been hearing from most if not all detransitioners is the young children and teens using the internet. Instagram, Facebook, tiktok etc. Are influencing these impressionable young minds that being trans is the answer to their personal feelings of not fitting in or socially excepted. Parents need to talk to their children be involved and know how they are feeling. Plus these kids should not have social media and should be closely monitored.
@boxermom9
@boxermom9 5 ай бұрын
Starting in middle school, kids are on the Internet every day. It is impossible to monitor everything. You can check their KZbin and browser history. Also, BoredPanda, Reddit and Tumblr are very open about LGBQT+ issues. You don't even need an account to see stuff on there. BoredPanda makes it almost impossible to delete an account with them.
@Basedbrulee
@Basedbrulee Жыл бұрын
We hear you. I’m so sorry you guys went through this. You guys are So brave and beautiful ❤️ You inspire me and probably so many others to speak up against what’s happening!!
@IMTHISBABY
@IMTHISBABY Жыл бұрын
Don't believe the lie that everyone is making fun of your appearance. I used to do that and took me years to figure out that no one is paying attention to me outside of themselves. I've learned to have self-confidence. Let's love ourselves where we're at. Who cares about the opinions of everyone who is not friends or family ❤
@monachericevollbracht7604
@monachericevollbracht7604 Жыл бұрын
You both are gorgeous ladies , thank you for sharing your stories that will help many women that have struggled with these same issues growing up.
@chriskdayton
@chriskdayton Жыл бұрын
Thank you again for a great interview. You are both Beautiful young women. I admire your strength and courage. Praying many young women will watch and hear your stories and get hope for their futures. God Bless you both.
@mistermizzle420
@mistermizzle420 Жыл бұрын
You're really good at this chloe. More content like this is what we need
@DelSimmons
@DelSimmons 4 ай бұрын
You are both lovely young ladies and I applaud your courage for speaking out in public about your experiences. We need to make sure that people hear the other side of this nefarious ideology and make sure kids understand the real harm that comes from transition. Thank you both for your courage. I appreciate you both. ❤
@AmandaCadorna
@AmandaCadorna Жыл бұрын
We love you Chloe and Jade! This isn't easy to talk about but, so very necessary to save our kids. Being bullied will make it more difficult to speak out for fear of continued bullying. It takes a strong individual to do that. I've never seen such a rabid bullying group than the Trans community. It's truly disgusting. Godspeed to you both ❤
@nancycameron9760
@nancycameron9760 Жыл бұрын
Lovely strong young women. So inspiring. So sorry that these awful things happened to you. Live your beautiful life now.
@caraalex7880
@caraalex7880 Жыл бұрын
So charming, candid and genuine. A wonderful interview! 💜💜 From Canada
@NYCBigBull
@NYCBigBull Жыл бұрын
Hi Chloe, Im 59 and I think what you have done to protect kids is inspiring and beautiful... happy to subscribe.
@PBJ979
@PBJ979 Жыл бұрын
This is such a good video....... these two young women have suffered so much. Both are absolutely beautiful inside and out! Wish I could give both of them hugs. I am so incredibly proud of their poise, intelligence, honesty........ as a mother my heart breaks thinking about what they went through and are still going through.
@Christinasawick
@Christinasawick Жыл бұрын
I watched your interview on Newsmax. I tried to search you on Instagram, but your profile is not coming up. I also typed in Chloe to get a link to your interview on pragerU ... NO luck. I looked at your messages, and it's been 6 weeks since anyone commented on your Edify post. YOUR CENSORSHIP IS HARD CORE!!!!! You are a true WARRIOR!!!! It must be so difficult for you to continue to share your story and to open communication and alternatives to these life changing mutilations being imposed on young children. Your message is soooo important, and you continue to be opposed at every turn, but you are a light of hope at this moment because your story is valued and embraced. Thank you for sharing. You are a beautiful soul!!!! 🥰🙌🙏💛
@Jane-Doe.1126
@Jane-Doe.1126 Жыл бұрын
Both of you are beautiful and very brave. Don't let anyone tell you different.
@TXGranny2
@TXGranny2 Жыл бұрын
Kids can be very cruel. Bullying is terrible, I went thru it back in 70s and 80s all during school but never once did I think, I would be happier as a boy. I looked at it as "I will never see these kids again after I graduate". Once out of school a whole new world opens. I think children nowadays need to be constantly told this and also talk to their parents about bullying. You two are so brave for telling your stories ❤️
@pathacker4963
@pathacker4963 Жыл бұрын
Good point.
@nicoleackerman205
@nicoleackerman205 Жыл бұрын
I talked to my parents about bullying and they care but there was nothing they could do about it. Those I never thought I wanted to be a boy most of them were mean to me the idea never crossed my mind. It really messed up my whole life I really do not trust anybody. All the bullies won because only evil people win in this world.
@catherinelittlebear9863
@catherinelittlebear9863 Жыл бұрын
We love you, Chloe! You’re the best!
@dantespimp
@dantespimp 11 ай бұрын
To me: you two are the true faces of brave and empowered individuals; you're sharing your voices and personal experiences in a time where we need to hear it the most. Jade, know that you stand out beautifully. That was why the bullies in your childhood picked on you back then, and that is why the bullies today pick on you now. The more you shine, the more these disgruntled folks will want to bury your light. Continue shining. Your light will help someone else lost in similar darkness find their way forward.
@hansaugustsson7288
@hansaugustsson7288 Жыл бұрын
Chloe and Jade: Thank you! You are great. I wish you the very best in life.
@hkhenry01
@hkhenry01 11 ай бұрын
this was fantastic, you asked all the right questions to give us the true perspective of a detransitioner and their experience. Deep, clear, and you showed great empathy Chloe
@Dilldough.
@Dilldough. Жыл бұрын
It’s insane to be bullied by the ones who claim to be bullied the most. That community is filled with hypocrisy. In the end I genuinely wish them the best.
@myultimatemixedtape
@myultimatemixedtape Жыл бұрын
New subscriber here! Much Love to you Chloe from Australia. I love your work and what you are doing! Parents here are worried sick about their kids and voices like yours are bringing the truth to light and are so powerful and inspiring - you rock!!!
@callie.envoyage
@callie.envoyage Жыл бұрын
Wow Chloe.. you have such a special gift. Thank you for using it so well for the greater good. Proud of you both.
@abbydarling7973
@abbydarling7973 Жыл бұрын
Chloe, you are so intelligent, compassionate and a wonderful person. Please continue to get your voice out there so others will learn from your journey. Children and young adults need to hear your story.
@LauraAnn1980
@LauraAnn1980 Жыл бұрын
I am so so so glad that I was a child/preteen in the 80's/early 90's when there was no internet. I was extremely bullied and had no friends. I was the oldest of 6, all the rest boys and I didn't like being treated differently even though I was very girly and liked girly stuff. I developed early too and got made fun of for wearing a bra and then accused of stuffing my bra because I had bigger breasts than a lot of other girls. I was uncomfortable in my body, I didn't like being me. I wanted to be someone else. I even dyed my hair in 10th grade and tried to make a new "character" for myself that people wouldn't like. The people I was friends with were all neurodiverse. We know a lot of neurodiverse kids fall into this. I can totally see myself in both your stories. Thank God thete was no internet. Instead I joined theatre and could be someone else on stage.
@pathacker4963
@pathacker4963 Жыл бұрын
Neurodiverse? Please explain.
@gavin1834
@gavin1834 Жыл бұрын
Hey girls hope you are both doing well and thanks for letting us listen into your conversation, I feel like we owe you an apology as a society we have let you down we have not acted like adults and have failed you and many others, we as grown ups should of talked you through your difficulties and made sure you got the therapy you needed to get to the bottom of why you were feeling like you did and why you thought this was the answer, we have stopped doing the right thing by our young people as doing the right thing is often hard and can make you unpopular in the short to medium term, we should of as a society guided you through this no matter how difficult rather than giving you what you think you wanted or needed, we know how hard it can be transitioning from a child to an adult and the fear that often will accompany this period, we know your brain is still developing and you really can't grasp the long term consequences of such a major decision, as going through puberty has a massive effect on brain development so you don't have the cognitive abilities to make such a life altering decision all you know is you feel terrible and this could be the answer, we have failed to even be honest with you as It's impossible to change sex you will always be what you were born on a genetic level and everything else is just dressing up, as an adult you can make a choice to go through with a transition and there is a small group of people who it is the right choice for and as an adult it's up to them but as a child you shouldn't of been able to take those decisions, I hope nothing I've said is offensive or upsets you as as an adult I think you are both amazing people doing something truly brave, I'm trying to say that you deserved better from us and we let you down we didn't protect you from yourself or us and we can never do anything to make that upto you, I'm sorry and I hope you have the best life possible, thanks again for letting us listen to your experience, keep talking as we need more of this. All the best for your future, love and support from South Wales
@danielmahoney1546
@danielmahoney1546 Жыл бұрын
God bless you both, Chloe and Jade. Your voices are very much needed. Ryan has a channel now where she calls herself Supervillain Salty. Another powerful voice that very much needs heard. This is the first time I've seen you on the other side of the interview, Chloe. You're doing great!
@MissLeighS
@MissLeighS Жыл бұрын
Amazing interview - thank you Chloe for brining these stories to light! They are so needed. You are a wonderful interviewer.
@izzieluv
@izzieluv Жыл бұрын
I wanna say I kind of understand missing your period! I had a very different experience, but when I got an IUD my periods became super irregular. I was always worried it was messing up my fertility. I felt like my period let me know my body was healthy and functioning properly.
@BetaLantean
@BetaLantean Жыл бұрын
This resonated with me too! I went through a period of anorexia and didnt have a period for two years. I had so much anxiety and depression thinking my body was broken and I would never have children.
@Kattydid19
@Kattydid19 11 ай бұрын
The sad part is, that’s a valid fear, if the IUD contains hormones. If it doesn’t, there’s the risk of some other, rather side effects. Witnessed a close friend dealing with complications from a Paragard(?) and I was concerned for her health and safety until she was finally able to get it out. (She passed out at least once, maybe twice; and had to go to the ER, among other things.)
@abigailgade4945
@abigailgade4945 Жыл бұрын
The best thing in life you can do is find your identity in your creator ❤ ! Chloe you did awesome. You both did.
@bonniekellyromeo9073
@bonniekellyromeo9073 Жыл бұрын
I hate bullies. The damage they do is many times, life lasting
@emmabbyreborns341
@emmabbyreborns341 Жыл бұрын
No matter what you did, you never stopped being a girl. You deserve to return to womanhood. You deserve the life that was meant to be.
@janszoke
@janszoke Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your courage to get your message out! My heart aches for your generation. I pray that truth will prevail! ❤
@elonr1018
@elonr1018 Жыл бұрын
I love the way Chloe dresses
@georgevera606
@georgevera606 2 ай бұрын
Im sorry for what you went through! I can't imagine what confusion you were put through. But it's takes a beautiful soul to find the courage to speak out when you don't know what will happen. I think you are beautiful inside and out. Thank you for opening up
@andreagrasselli1169
@andreagrasselli1169 Жыл бұрын
Great interview, thank you very much to both of you!
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